“I’ve often thought of it as I watched her,” said Gail Sheehy, referring to the close congruence between Streep’s film roles and the generational crises Sheehy has described in her pop psychology hit “Passages” and later books.
Wells, in a phone interview, said Streep was understandably cautious about taking a role that has much to say, and not in a pleasant way, about aging parents and their relationships with children.
“I’m going to have to live in this character for a significant period of time; is that a place I really want to go?” Wells said, describing Streep’s initial concerns.
Streep’s roles have captured the personal and family dramas of many people who came of age in the late ‘60s and early ‘70s. When Streep was 30, the Vietnam-era ingénue she played in “The Deer Hunter” gave way to the troubled feminist, Joanna Kramer, in “Kramer vs. Kramer.” In that role, from 1979, Streep left her family in search of fulfillment, then returned to fight for custody of her son.
“It was exactly what so many women fired up by the women’s movement were feeling,” Sheehy noted of Streep’s performance, which also matched what her much-read book had labeled “Catch-30,” a predictable collision with the complications of adulthood. The film earned Streep a second Oscar nomination, and her first win, as best actress in a supporting role. (Three years later, she won her first best actress award for “Sophie’s Choice.”)
Later, Streep was roused to action on behalf of a social cause in “Silkwood,” sought adventure in “Out of Africa,” and, as the writer Nora Ephron’s thinly veiled alter ego, Rachel Samstat, in “Heartburn,” saw her romantic illusions shattered, at the age of 36, by a philandering husband.
The early 40s brought implosion in “Postcards From the Edge.” But love bloomed again at 46 in “The Bridges of Madison County” (and then again in “It’s Complicated,” from 2009, and yet again, in “Hope Springs,” three years later).
“The Devil Wears Prada,” shot in 2005, was about a professional crisis. It found Streep, at the age of 56, as the seemingly heartless fashion editor Miranda Priestly, fighting to save a threatened career. In “The Iron Lady,” as Margaret Thatcher, she then peered bravely ahead into dotage, and won a third Oscar, as best actress, in 2012.
Streep declined a request to discuss the arc of her career. But Laurence Mark, a producer of “Julie & Julia,” in which a 60-ish Streep played the cook and author Julia Child, said of her characters: “She never makes choices because it’s going to sell tickets, or just for the money. She makes choices because she’s just genuinely attracted to the role.”
In “Julie & Julia,” Streep had her mentor moment, inspiring an understudy played by Amy Adams.
Now comes Violet Weston, and a final passage Streep’s fans may or may not want to share.
On her good days, Violet wears a bad wig, on her bad days, she doesn’t bother. Never mind the cancer, she smokes. A lot. Gathered in rural Oklahoma for their father’s funeral, her daughters — played by Roberts, Juliette Lewis and Julianne Nicholson — try to wean her off the pills, but no one can stop her from speaking her brutally unfiltered mind.
“I’m just truth telling,” Streep’s Violet says in an online trailer. “Some people are antagonized by the truth.”