Sunday Conversation with Jerry Wilson

Man, dog ministry brightens lives of nursing home residents
Willie Hill, a veteran of the Korean War and resident of Scepter nursing facility, get a visit from Jerry Wilson and his labradoodle, Rascal. CONTRIBUTED

Willie Hill, a veteran of the Korean War and resident of Scepter nursing facility, get a visit from Jerry Wilson and his labradoodle, Rascal. CONTRIBUTED

After deciding to spend retirement putting his faith into action, Jerry Wilson sought out a partner — a four-legged, tail-wagging one. For almost four and a half years, Wilson and his chocolate labradoodle, Rascal, have visited residents of Scepter Health & Rehabilitation of Snellville. What began as a way to brighten the days of older and sick people has ended up enriching the lives of a man and his dog (who gets rewarded with plenty of scratches and treats). “It’s hard to describe,” Wilson says. “When we first started going, I was the guy on the other end of the leash. Eventually, the residents learned my name and now they have a love for me as well. And I love them.”

Q: How did you and Rascal get started going to Scepter?

A: I worked in the finance department of DeKalb County school system for 34 years. When I retired, I felt it was time to help others. Originally, I thought about just visiting nursing homes myself. My wife, Jan, said, "You love dogs and you love old people, too." I prayed about it and decided to make visiting with a dog my ministry. I truly fell in love with the people at Scepter.

Q: Have you always had a dog?

A: No. I always loved dogs but thought a dog was an inconvenience that tied you down. Since Rascal, as long as I can take care of a dog, I will have one.

Q: How did you end up with Rascal?

A: I did a lot of research and found that labradoodles were perfect for this kind of thing. I wanted a puppy but couldn't find one here. I talked to a breeder in Texas and told her what I wanted to do and she said, "I have the dog for you."

Q: How often do you and Rascal visit with residents?

A: We go at least twice a week and spend at least two-to-three hours. At first, I planned on seeing just a few residents but others started asking if they could see Rascal. Every two months, Rascal throws the residents a party with cake and ice cream and pizza and Coke. We have a ball and the residents eat it up, literally.

Q: You must have a good relationship with the Scepter staff?

A: Yes and they call Rascal their mascot.

Q: Does Rascal enjoy going?

A: When we are in the car and make the turn to go to Scepter, Rascal will start jumping up and smiling. He can't wait to get there. The residents have a special way of rubbing him. He loves to be scratched up under his harness.

Q: I bet he likes those treats?

A: Oh yeah. I have to break them up in small pieces.

Q: What do you think it is about a dog that the residents relate to?

A: Unconditional love. There are no questions asked with a dog. There is nothing false or phony about a dog's love. The residents talk to Rascal and pet him and start reminiscing about their dogs. I think he brings the past to them.

Q: Do the people with memory problems relate to Rascal?

A: Yes and they remember him and look forward to him coming.

Q: So all and all, how would you say your ministry has gone?

A: The strong bond and triangle of love, friendship and respect between the residents and Rascal and me is unreal.