I have experienced Mr. Too Fast on a date. He will allude to a body part and make some suggestive comment. I straight up ask him, “You only want to hook up? Or can you manage to focus on something else?” I am not a prude but if you make an effort to go on a date, it should not be under any false pretense of getting to know someone.
Guys aren’t the only ones who do this, either. My friend Aaron said he went out with a woman who kept randomly bringing up sexual positions. It was odd and definitely not subtle, but it was a turn off for him. He didn’t know her at all, so why did she feel it was cool to discuss Karma Sutra with him?