My friend once told me if I ever wondered if my man had something to hide, reach for his cellphone and watch his reaction. I actually never tried this little test but I am not one for snooping, anyway. It's too much work! I don't like when people go through my phone, tablet, or PC. It just seems like a violation. Leave my tech gadgets alone! I don't have anything to hide, I am just a private person. I think a lot of people are.

A reader of the blog wants to know if someone is too evasive, does that mean they have something to hide? Do you maintain a little mystery in the early stages of getting to know someone?

What would you do if the person you were dating reached for your phone or looked in your computer? Does it bother you when the person you are dating invades your personal information?

Have you ever snooped on someone’s phone? What compelled you to do it?

What happens to privacy when you get in a relationship? Is it wrong to expect to keep things to yourself?

About the Author

Keep Reading

Blooper celebrates the Atlanta Brave’s 5-0 win over the New York Mets during a MLB game Wednesday, June 18, 2025 at Truist Park. This year, the venue is a first-time host of the MLB All-Star game. (Daniel Varnado for the AJC)

Credit: Daniel Varnado for the AJC

Featured

Rebecca Ramage-Tuttle, assistant director of the Statewide Independent Living Council of Georgia, says the the DOE rule change is “a slippery slope” for civil rights. (Hyosub Shin/AJC)

Credit: HYOSUB SHIN / AJC