If you both feel a strong attraction and the body language has naturally progressed to touching, that is organic. If only one of you starts putting their hands where it isn’t welcomed, that’s problematic. To make matters worse, the overly affectionate people don’t always see the cues when they are making someone uncomfortable. Oblivious AND a octopus is not a good combination!
Are you cool with being affectionate with someone on a first date or does it take you time to warm up to them?