“These weapons were made for war, to kill people,” the 70-year-old Vietnam Air Force veteran said recently.
Think about that because besides the incredible loss of life, Sammy Parker has been unable to think of little else since he heard the news. It’s why he’s grown weary of our country’s mass shootings and a Congress that refuses to do anything to curtail the loss of innocent lives.
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Parker was at home, working at his computer, when news broke about the shooting Feb. 14.
“Instantly, I was furious and thought, God, not again,” he said.
As the numbers of dead started to rise, he remembered Sandy Hook.
“That should’ve been our tipping point, but it was not,” Parker said. “All we got were thoughts of prayers, flags raised at half-staff and wringing of hands. We were horrified for a moment, then we went back to business as usual.’’
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The Parkland shooting was particularly difficult and jarring for Parker because, although he isn’t a parent, he has stepchildren, nieces and nephews and a gaggle of high school students for whom he is tutor and writing coach.
“It just struck home,” he said. “I have nurtured a vested interest in youth. I wasn’t cut out to be a parent, but, boy, I was cut out to be a teacher. I’ve become much more sensitive to kids, the way they think, the way they talk, the way they interact.”
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Parker, who grew up in Brevard in western North Carolina, came to the classroom in 1977, teaching first at Western Carolina University and then the University of Tennessee at Knoxville, after spending four years as a spy in the U.S. Air Force Security Services.
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In 1987, when his wife got an administrative job at Georgia Tech, the couple moved to Atlanta. Parker’s new job was providing professional development experiences for a private organization called The National Faculty, designing and implementing programs for seasoned teachers, university scholars and administrators.
He retired in 2010, the same year a neighbor tapped him to assist her company as an English tutor, improving writing skills and helping high school seniors write essays for college applications.
And so, in the days after the shooting, Parker couldn’t help mourning the loss of so many young lives and marveling at the survivors’ response to the tragedy.
“It wasn’t abstract anymore,” he said. “They had crawled through blood.”
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And Parker found himself feeling weary of screaming at the void.
“We’ve been dealing with this for far, far too long,” he said. “We can’t continue to do that.”
What would he like to see happen?
First and foremost, more gun control.
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Specifically, Parker said, he’d like to see people in power look at and analyze data from other countries to see what works and might translate, partly if not wholly, to our culture.
“Let’s look at the laws they have been enacted and what has worked that has helped bring down deaths by firearms,” he said. “Then I’d like to see us look at what would logically, realistically work in U.S.”
Parker doesn’t believe we can prevent “every single idiot out there” from getting his hands on a gun. He does believe, however, we can control and minimize those numbers.
“It won’t go to zero. That’s not the point, but we have to do something,” he said.
And it must start with the people at the top, those who have the power to effect change, our politicians.
“We don’t need any more thoughts and prayers,” Parker said. “We need them to do something tangible to end this horror. This can’t go on. It’s unacceptable for a civilized humane society to allow this level of carnage when things can be done to at least scale it back.”
Parker believed for a time that Sandy Hook would have moved the needle. Watching the students at Douglas High School in Florida the past few days, he saw a glimmer of hope return.
“Maybe they will be the match that finally lights the fire,” he said. “Maybe they will provide the critical mass, the tipping point needed to finally bring about real change.”
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