Still in love: Lessons from 65 years of marriage
Glenn and Betty Madison met in April 1957 — she was 15 years old, he was 18 — and the connection was instant. Just three days later, they began dating. From that day on, the lovebirds have been inseparable.
Now in their 80s, the McDonough couple recently celebrated 65 years of marriage and reflect on the values that keep their love strong.
It all started with a simple invitation. Glenn and his friends were asked to meet some girls, and the teens didn’t hesitate. Adventurous and hopeful, they drove 40 miles from South Bend, Indiana, to Benton Harbor, Michigan — a trip that would change Glenn’s life forever.
The moment he laid eyes on Betty, Glenn was smitten. “She looked like an angel from Heaven, and I liked what I saw!”
Noting Glenn’s distinct walk, Betty described him as “hip” and quietly admitted, “I liked him right away.”
Glenn added, “I had swagger.”
A high school sophomore and the daughter of a strict deacon, Betty wasn’t officially allowed to date. But Glenn was persistent. A handsome vocalist and percussionist, he often visited the church Betty’s family attended, hoping to impress her father, Mr. Yarbrough. Though discreet, their budding romance was no secret to her parents or the pastor.
“I kept making that 40-mile trip to Michigan so regularly, it was almost like I lived there,” Glenn said.
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Distance widens yet love grows
Three months into the relationship, Glenn enlisted in the military and was stationed at Naval Station Mayport in Florida. Betty remained in Michigan. Despite tours of duty to faraway places such as Italy, Greece and France, their love blossomed over handwritten letters.
“They used to call me the mailman because I got so many letters,” Glenn shared.
After four years of courtship, Glenn asked Mr. Yarbrough for Betty’s hand in marriage. Initially reluctant, her father gave his blessing — with one condition: if Glenn ever changed his mind about being with Betty, he was to bring her home.
The thought never entered Glenn’s mind. On Jan. 4, 1961, the Madisons became husband and wife, beginning the life they had long envisioned.
In time, Glenn earned his father-in-law’s respect and the love between both families grew strong. Mr. Yarbrough would later tell Glenn, “I really like you and I like the way you treat my daughter.”
To this day, he still treats Betty like a queen.
Building a life
The Madisons lived in several places before settling in Inglewood, California, where they spent 39 years building their life together. The foundation of their marriage was shaped by their faith, mutual respect, and unconditional love.
Betty became a stay-at-home mother to their five children. Glenn worked full-time as a carpenter while also pursuing music. He sang professionally on weekends with groups including the Platters, Delcos and Penguins, played percussion for more than 20 recording artists and once performed at Madison Square Garden.
Though many weekends were spent apart, they relied on faith and trust to sustain them.
Moving to the South
A love of classic cars helped steer them to Georgia. Glenn found a 1957 Cadillac Eldorado online and traveled south with cash in hand. Although he had agreed on a price, the owner sold the car to someone else.
At the time, the couple was visiting friends in Fayetteville and fell in love with the area. Retired, they hired a real estate agent. In 2004, they purchased a lakeside home with a pontoon in McDonough.
Reflecting on the missed car deal, Glenn said, “I’m a firm believer that if something’s not for you, there’s a Plan B. Instead of buying a car, we bought a home that we love.”
They quickly became part of the community. Glenn started a quintet and they joined Tabernacle of Praise Church International.
Creating lasting love
Like any couple, the Madisons have faced challenges. But they credit their endurance to faith and commitment.
“We are not perfect, we make mistakes,” said Betty. “But God makes the difference. It is how we have stayed married for 65 years.”
“One thing our kids can say is they’ve never seen or heard us argue once,” Glenn shared. “If 80% of the relationship is on the up and up, forget about the 20%.”
Disagreements, they say, are inevitable. What matters is how couples respond. Their advice: walk away respectfully or change the subject when tempers rise, don’t carry conflict into the next day, don’t revisit old arguments, and avoid words you may regret.
Today, the affection between them is unmistakable. Physically and socially active, the Madisons still enjoy going on dates, sharing meals with friends, attending concerts and monthly visits to senior center across Henry County.
After six decades together, their love is not just enduring. It’s inspiring.
