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6 signs you are healing emotionally

Healing isn’t always obvious, but small changes in how you think and feel can be meaningful.
Finding time for activities you enjoy and connecting with others can be an important part of emotional well-being. (Victor Moriyama/The New York Times)
Finding time for activities you enjoy and connecting with others can be an important part of emotional well-being. (Victor Moriyama/The New York Times)
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By Barton Goldsmith – for the AJC
Updated Sept 29, 2026

If you’ve been dealing with depression or anxiety for a while, it can be difficult to recognize when things are starting to change. Healing doesn’t always happen all at once. Sometimes, it shows up in small shifts in how you feel, think and respond to everyday life.

You find yourself singing along with the car radio. Maybe you catch yourself belting out a favorite song on the freeway or pretending you’re Pink or Adam Lambert. Those spontaneous moments of enjoyment can be easy to overlook, but they may signal that you’re reconnecting with activities that bring you pleasure. Notice them and take them in.

You’re willing to face things that once scared you. Maybe you’re driving somewhere you once avoided, asking for a raise or promotion, considering a new job or standing up to someone who used to intimidate you. Taking on challenges that once felt overwhelming can be a sign that your confidence is returning.

You’re craving a change of scenery. You may suddenly want to move, remodel your home or simply rearrange the furniture. Sometimes, our surroundings become associated with difficult periods in our lives, so changing them can create a sense of renewal. You may find that a fresh perspective is all you need.

You are able to take your disappointments in stride. An incident that once might have upset you or caused you to go into a tailspin no longer feels quite so overwhelming. You may still be disappointed, but you’re able to acknowledge the feeling, put it in perspective and move forward. That resilience can be a sign that you’re making emotional progress.

You understand that bad days are temporary. When you’ve struggled with depression or anxiety, a difficult day can feel like a warning that you’re slipping backward. But as you heal, you may become better at seeing setbacks for what they are: difficult moments that don’t define your overall progress.

You’re experiencing more moments of peace. Maybe you’re waking up with less anxiety, falling asleep more easily or simply noticing more moments when your mind feels calm. These changes can be easy to overlook, but they can be encouraging signs that you’re moving in the right direction.


Barton Goldsmith, Ph.D., is an award-winning psychotherapist and humanitarian. He is also a columnist, the author of eight booksa a nd a blogger for PsychologyToday.com with nearly 35 million readers. He is available for in-person and video consults worldwide, reach him at Barton@BartonGoldsmith.com.