What would you do if you got an amazing job offer in another city/country at the same time your relationship became exclusive? One of our readers had to face a decision: stay and give the new relationship a chance of survival or take the career opportunity?

I think if I had to decide this when I was younger, I would probably have picked the relationship.  Now that I’m older and Uh wiser, I would really try have both! I just don’t know if either would end, so I want to give it a real try and hope it would be manageable.  What do you think?  Would you have a hard time deciding between a dream job and your dream girl/guy?

Do you believe our life choices should factor in love?

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