Good dates have pleasantries. Great dates have chemistry. You generally want a great date who you are drawn to – not just physically. The problem is that finding people you connect with and have chemistry with can be rare. So rare that you start to forget how it feels to even have great chemistry with someone.

I know some friends who won’t even take the number of a dude unless he gives them that feeling. You know that you feeling when you spot someone hot and when they speak you get mesmerized? Yes. It doesn’t happen that often!

How much chemistry do you need to date someone? Is it unrealistic to expect this to happen with a lot of people? Do you dump someone if there is little chemistry?

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