When I hear someone whine about things being too boring in their relationship, I suggest they go rob a bank with their partner. If excitement is what you seek in a romantic relationship, what does that really mean? When you reach a certain maturity level, you don’t want drama and too much excitement. You want peace and passion!
I think some people get into a healthy relationship and don’t know how to handle it. They start manufacturing issues and drama because they fear becoming “boring and dull” in a relationship. Have you ever met someone who constantly talk about wanting excitement?
I once met this woman who said that her relationship was boring but what she described sounded more like intimacy. Nothing wrong with mixing things up but how much excitement do you need in a relationship?