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DEL.ICIO.USA Cobb County cop dies, 21 years later
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Note: Former Cobb County police officer Freddie Norman died this weekend, 21 years after an encounter with a drunk driver. Below is a sketch, from 1998, of what life handed him:
Freddie Norman was a cop a few years back, and he knows not to trust a reporter with a quote. He typed his answer with the index finger of his right hand. Slowly.
“My….”
Ten years ago, he was Officer Norman-to-the-Rescue with blue lights flashing, a 24-year-old bundle of muscle and energy wrapped in a Cobb County uniform, on his way to a domestic call.
That particular Sunday night was cool but dry, and early leaves rustled with a yellow-green promise of an April rain. He was rolling down Pat Mell Road, through the Sandtown Road intersection, when a drunk 16-year-old ran a red light and plowed into the driver’s door of the patrol car.
“…..wife annnnn….” Backspace. “My wife and all…”
Freddie was comatose, or nearly so, when they brought him home to Austell seven months later. Nothing moved but the little finger of his right hand and a toe. His eyes were mostly empty and stared unfocused at a point down and to the side.
Billie Galbreath wasn’t sure what, if anything, was happening in her son’s head. But a doctor had told her that comatose people don’t have a sense of humor. So one day she cut out strips of paper, wrote some simple commands, and put them in Freddie’s line of sight.
Wiggle your pinkie. The pinkie moved, which meant he could read.
Wiggle your toe. He did.
Pick your boogers. The right corner of Freddie’s mouth stretched. “We wondered if that was his smile, ” his mother said. She’d found her son in a bit of inelegant humor.
“….three my children…..”
His injury was to the brain stem —- which meant not an absence of feeling, but a lack of muscle control. Freddie Norman was facing life as a Corvette mounted on cinderblocks. The V-8 was running, the radio thumped with rock ‘n’ roll, but there was nowhere to go, and no way to get there.
Still, time will move on. And over 10 years, Freddie Norman has achieved the outline of a normal life. He was a married man with two young kids when it happened. He and his wife quietly divorced. Freddie remarried in 1994, and now has three kids: Kim is 15, an age that has set him worrying just like any other father. Christi is 13. Hope is almost 2. She’s lovely, but her diapers do stink.
“….are also…” Another backspace. “….are always….”
Since Ronald Reagan was president, Freddie Norman has graduated from an alphabet board to a Pentium chip. His laptop is nearly e-mail ready. A wiggle of his pinkie has come to mean “yes.” And “no” is a rubbing of the right thumb and forefinger. It’s the same motion you make to signify the world’s smallest phonograph playing “My Heart Bleeds for You.”
“…..in..” Backspace. “…..on….”
The wheelchair ramp is weathered and worn at his mother’s small house, where Freddie lives. It’s a blue-collar neighborhood off Thornton Road, the kind of place where self-pity doesn’t sell. Too many people here have seen too many hard knocks.
The house was alive this day with the routine sound of chores. The dryer rasped, the washer answered. “The Maury Povich Show” blared a Mother’s Day program with a tap-dancing granny.
Billie Galbreath said the county has done well by her son. Worker’s comp paid for an addition to the house for Freddie, and two nurses come each day to keep his body toned. Her husband’s stroke six years ago has complicated life. He’s in the room next to Freddie, and Mrs. Galbreath, 59, now knows nearly enough medicine to start her own practice. That’s not whining —- just a fact.
Some weeks ago, Mrs. Galbreath stood with her son when the county made Freddie Norman the first recipient of its Blue Star award for officers injured in the line of duty. It’s a lovely medal of gold and royal blue ribbon.
“…..my minnnn….” Backspace. “…..my mind.”
“My wife and all three my children are always on my mind.”
Before I left, I asked Freddie if he’d ever heard from the young man who’d sent him down this path. A letter? A phone call? Freddie, who will turn 35 next month, replied with the world’s smallest phonograph, playing “My Heart Bleeds for You.”
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By Chris Broe
February 15, 2009 6:31 PM | Link to this
Thoughts and Prayers for the family of Freddie Norman.
Bookman today wonders aloud why certain movies would be considered “conservative favorites”, yet fails to list the criteria from which conservatives might derive a list of favorite movies. Now that would have been revealing and fun, and worth the exhaustive effort it takes to find his blog.
By Ross
February 16, 2009 5:22 AM | Link to this
What happened to the kid? There were two lives ruined that night. Did the officer have his siren on and lights going? All too often it’s the police who fly through intersections with only their lights on and without regard to traffic. I’ve seen police on countless occasions do things that are downright dangerous. A police car is still just a car and affords no more protection than yours does.
DUI is the biggest sham played in our society. Every day there must be hundreds of thousands of drunk drivers out there. Getting caught is a crap shoot that most people roll 7 on but a few come up snake eyes. Roadblocks and draconian laws do nothing to avert this sort of tragedy. There could be interlock devices on all cars that would prevent them from starting if alcohol fumes were present on the driver side. Easy and effective. No more crap shoot. It will never happen because the income stream from DUI is too much to pass up, and these sensational stories, while sad, just add to the list of sham reasons for keeping the existing structure in place.
-drl
By Ross
February 16, 2009 5:34 AM | Link to this
What happened to the kid? There were two lives ruined that night. Did the officer have his siren on and lights going? All too often it’s the police who fly through intersections with only their lights on and without regard to traffic. I’ve seen police on countless occasions do things that are downright dangerous. A police car is still just a car and affords no more protection than yours does.
DUI is the biggest sham played in our society. Every day there must be hundreds of thousands of drunk drivers out there. Getting caught is a crap shoot that most people roll 7 on but a few come up snake eyes. Roadblocks and draconian laws do nothing to avert this sort of tragedy. There could be interlock devices on all cars that would prevent them from starting if alcohol fumes were present on the driver side. Easy and effective. No more crap shoot. It will never happen because the income stream from DUI is too much to pass up, and these sensational stories, while sad, just add to the list of sham reasons for keeping the existing structure in place.
-drl
By ces
February 16, 2009 6:23 AM | Link to this
drl: You are obviously a liberal *hole. What part of “RAN A RED LIGHT” did you not understand.It’s people like you with their ignorant, everything is a conspirousy opinions that make me sick.
By Heather
February 16, 2009 10:48 AM | Link to this
DRL-
I am Fred’s Niece. Before posting ignorant comments, you should go back and fully read the article. “when a drunk 16-year-old RAN a red light and plowed into the driver’s door of the patrol car”
Fred was responding to a call when the drunk kid RAN through a red light and hit his car. How were two lives ruined? My Uncle Fred was an AMAZING person, who was doing his job. He was not in the wrong. Any punishment that the boy received he totally deserved for the decision that he made that night, which sadly caused my uncle to suffer for the rest of his life.
I wish that there were more ways in effect to catch drunk drivers so that noone else would ever have to go through what our family has.
Also, did you even think to take into consideration that members of our family would see your comments? What we need in a time like this, is not ridiculous hateful comments. It is already hard enough without having people make disrespectful comments. So next time, please think about other’s feelings before making such comments.
-Fred’s Niece.
By Heather
February 16, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this
DRL-
I am Fred’s Niece. Before posting ignorant comments, you should go back and fully read the article. “when a drunk 16-year-old RAN a red light and plowed into the driver’s door of the patrol car”
Fred was responding to a call when the drunk kid RAN through a red light and hit his car. How were two lives ruined? My Uncle Fred was an AMAZING person, who was doing his job. He was not in the wrong. Any punishment that the boy received he totally deserved for the decision that he made that night, which sadly caused my uncle to suffer for the rest of his life.
I wish that there were more ways in effect to catch drunk drivers so that noone else would ever have to go through what our family has.
Also, did you even think to take into consideration that members of our family would see your comments? What we need in a time like this, is not ridiculous hateful comments. It is already hard enough without having people make disrespectful comments. So next time, please think about other’s feelings before making such comments.
-Fred’s Niece.
By Heather
February 16, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this
DRL-
I am Fred’s Niece. Before posting ignorant comments, you should go back and fully read the article. “when a drunk 16-year-old RAN a red light and plowed into the driver’s door of the patrol car”
Fred was responding to a call when the drunk kid RAN through a red light and hit his car. How were two lives ruined? My Uncle Fred was an AMAZING person, who was doing his job. He was not in the wrong. Any punishment that the boy received he totally deserved for the decision that he made that night, which sadly caused my uncle to suffer for the rest of his life.
I wish that there were more ways in effect to catch drunk drivers so that noone else would ever have to go through what our family has.
Also, did you even think to take into consideration that members of our family would see your comments? What we need in a time like this, is not ridiculous hateful comments. It is already hard enough without having people make disrespectful comments. So next time, please think about other’s feelings before making such comments.
-Fred’s Niece.
By Keith Norman
February 16, 2009 11:08 AM | Link to this
My name is Keith Norman. I am one of Fred’s brothers. First, As others have said.read(and think”) before you make comments. Second, I would like to thank everyone for their thoughts and kind words. Third, our family has not even thought about the individual who caused this accident 21 years ago. Until other people brought it up We are focusing on lifting each other up and getting through this very difficult time. I know people may mean well, but drudging up blame at this time is not what we need. I would appreciate nothing but encouraging words being posted today and in the days to come, because our focus will be on supporting each other and on thinking about the great memories we have of Fred. Fred’s wife Faith, his mom Billie, his 3 daughters Kim, Christi, and Hope as well as his brothers, other family, and friends will all miss him greatly. Fred was very proud of all 3 of his daughters.
Keith Norman
By Keith Norman
February 16, 2009 11:33 AM | Link to this
Dear “CES” You Whe I read comments from people like “ROSS”, it is when I realize that some people just do not get it. Nothing we say will help or change them. Law makers and police officers work everyday to help try and pevent things like this. The problem is that no law or effort on anyone individuals part can fix stupidity and selfishness that some people have. When some one chooses to get into a car and drive while intoxicated, they are truely the most selfish individual in the world at that time. We will miss Fred. Thank you for you response
By Linda Dean
February 16, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this
To all the Norman family I would like to say what an honor it has been for my family, Rickey Dean and the enitre Dean family, to know such great people. In the coming days, weeks, months you will remember Fred as the great man he was. The world lost a great man on Saturday, but the Lord received a great man on the same day. Our love, prayers and thoughts are with each of you at this time.
By Keith Norman
February 16, 2009 12:03 PM | Link to this
Linda, Thank you. It is good to hear from you. I know you know what loss is. Thank you for your kind words. Keith Norman
By Angel Lang
February 16, 2009 4:58 PM | Link to this
To the Norman family and friends may God be with you all during this trying time. Lean on him for your strength and know that God just added another beautiful flower to his garden. I don’t know you any of you, reading from Woodbridge Va.
By Ketih Dean
February 16, 2009 8:13 PM | Link to this
To the norman family, I know Fred will be missed by everyone, may god be with you, if there is anything you need dont hesitate to ask.
And to Ross, you must be the most un-educated, selfish peson alive.
By Ketih Dean
February 16, 2009 8:17 PM | Link to this
May the lord be with the norman family, if you guys need anything, just let us know
Dean family
By Andrew Davis
February 16, 2009 10:43 PM | Link to this
May the lord put blessings upon you and your family, Its hard losing a loved one. Thank you for your service to your community. God bless.
By Andrew Davis
February 16, 2009 10:44 PM | Link to this
May the lord put blessings upon you and your family, Its hard losing a loved one. Thank you for your service to your community. God bless.
By Heather Norman
February 17, 2009 12:38 AM | Link to this
Thank you everyone. The biggest thing we need right now, is just prayer. especially during the next several days.
Thank you Dean family for letting us know that you are praying for us. It means a lot to know that all of our extended family ( Like you guys!) and family friends are supporting us.
Thanks again, Heather Norman
By Heather Norman
February 17, 2009 12:45 AM | Link to this
Thank you everyone. The biggest thing we need right now, is just prayer. especially during the next several days.
Thank you Dean family for letting us know that you are praying for us. It means a lot to know that all of our extended family ( Like you guys!) and family friends are supporting us.
Thanks again, Heather Norman
By Heather Norman
February 17, 2009 12:46 AM | Link to this
Thank you everyone. The biggest thing we need right now, is just prayer. especially during the next several days.
Thank you Dean family for letting us know that you are praying for us. It means a lot to know that all of our extended family ( Like you guys!) and family friends are supporting us.
Thanks again, Heather Norman
By Terry and Joyce Vaughan
February 17, 2009 9:50 AM | Link to this
We awoke this morning to learn that Fred had passed away. Our heart sank when we learned the news. He was such a bright star. His family was always so uplifting and spiritual. We learned so much through their adversity and the strength that they had through it all. To Billie and Keith and Fred’s family, we want you to know that we love you and we are praying for your families.
By Kim Ford-Maner
February 17, 2009 11:12 PM | Link to this
I just want to let the whole family now that I a so sorry for your lost. I remember Fred before the accident and I remember when he came home from the hosiptal.
Sammie, Keith, Kevin and Lisa I know what it is like to lose a brother. Just remember all the little things Fred did when you were growing up. The things that made you laugh and the things that that made you sad. And remember he is in better place now. And he will always be watching over you.
He will be greatly missed, but never forgotten.
By Kim Ford-Maner
February 17, 2009 11:17 PM | Link to this
I just want to let the whole family now that I a so sorry for your lost. I remember Fred before the accident and I remember when he came home from the hosiptal.
Sammie, Keith, Kevin and Lisa I know what it is like to lose a brother. Just remember all the little things Fred did when you were growing up. The things that made you laugh and the things that that made you sad. And remember he is in better place now. And he will always be watching over you.
He will be greatly missed, but never forgotten.
By Myra and Tommy Costner
February 18, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this
To The Norman Family that we love very much. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all this week and we will continue to pray for you. God’s love and grace surrounds you and He will give you comfort and peace through this difficult time. Remember the good times that you shared with Fred and the great man that he was. Hold these memories close to your heart and share them often with one another. You will always love him and miss him.
The great love, honor and respect for Fred Norman and the entire Norman family that has been shown this week is truly amazing. As many continue to reach out in love and support and to share memories with you, may you continue to feel God’s love through them. Every kind word and touch from family and friends comes with a desire to help you in some way because you are truly loved by many. God Bless You. We love you. Myra and Tommy
By Myra and Tommy Costner
February 18, 2009 2:49 PM | Link to this
To The Norman Family that we love very much. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all this week and we will continue to pray for you. God’s love and grace surrounds you and He will give you comfort and peace through this difficult time. Remember the good times that you shared with Fred and the great man that he was. Hold these memories close to your heart and share them often with one another. You will always love him and miss him.
The great love, honor and respect for Fred Norman and the entire Norman family that has been shown this week is truly amazing. As many continue to reach out in love and support and to share memories with you, may you continue to feel God’s love through them. Every kind word and touch from family and friends comes with a desire to help you in some way because you are truly loved by many. God Bless You. We love you. Myra and Tommy
By Pamela Klemp
February 18, 2009 3:01 PM | Link to this
Our family’s prayers go out to the family of Police Officer Freddie Norman. May St. Michael hold you forever with his loving wings, you are one of his own. We, in the Law Enforcement and Former Law Enforcement understand that time does not take away from your “Line of Duty” death. You were sworn to Serve and Protect”. That is what you were enroute to do when answering your duty call that day. You are a “Fallen Hero”, one of our “Officer Down in the Line of Duty”. RIP as we give you “Full Dress Honors” because you GAVE ALL to us. Pamela Klemp and family
By Myra and Tommy Costner
February 18, 2009 5:11 PM | Link to this
To The Norman Family that we love very much. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all this week and we will continue to pray for you. God’s love and grace surrounds you and He will give you comfort and peace through this difficult time. Remember the good times that you shared with Fred and the great man that he was. Hold these memories close to your heart and share them often with one another. You will always love him and miss him.
The great love, honor and respect for Fred Norman and the entire Norman family that has been shown this week is truly amazing. As many continue to reach out in love and support and to share memories with you, may you continue to feel God’s love through them. Every kind word and touch from family and friends comes with a desire to help you in some way because you are truly loved by many. God Bless You. We love you. Myra and Tommy
By Mark
February 18, 2009 7:39 PM | Link to this
To the Norman family: I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Freddie was a friend of mine. I last saw him at a car show in Atlana.He was in a wheelchair then. Before that, the last time I’d seen him, he installed a new engine in my old Ford. He had just started with Cobb. He was a good mechanic.I’m sure you all remember his passion for cars. Freddie could do anything. I know we will see Freddie again. You will all be in my prayers forever.
Mark
By Sam Norman
February 20, 2009 8:44 PM | Link to this
My name is Sam Norman. I am Fred Norman’s brother. I would really like to thank everyone for their prayers and support over the past few days. Fred will be missed very much..but I know he is in a better place now. I would especially like to thank the Cobb County Police Department. Not only for the very impressive and touching show of love and support for a fallen officer, but for over twenty years the county as well as countless police officers…firefighters..ems personnel and many others have been very good to Fred and the family. Our family will always be grateful for all that everyone has done. We thank every one for the prayers and support. May God bless and protect each and every one of you. Samuel D Norman
By Sam Norman
February 20, 2009 9:03 PM | Link to this
I would also like to answer the question asked by “ROSS”. What happened to the kid was that he walked away from the accident with only a few scratches.I will not mention his name here and I think it best that no one else does either. From what I understand, the boy did about 6 months in a halfway house and his license was permanently revoked. I wouldn’t think that his life was hardly ruined. I have discussed this with some other family members and some of us would like to know if the kid ever made anything of his life. Hopefully if nothing else…….he learned something from that night. I can honestly say that I no longer feel any malice towards the kid. I feel that this accident was a tragic mistake made by a young kid, and as someone who made my share of mistakes as a kid………I have seen it in my heart to be forgiving.
By Bev Stearns
February 21, 2009 9:35 AM | Link to this
Quoting Sam “…..I can honestly say that I no longer feel any malice towards the kid. I feel that this accident was a tragic mistake made by a young kid, and as someone who made my share of mistakes as a kid………I have seen it in my heart to be forgiving……” That was a beautiful thing to say Sam, and I think all of us were raised that way and feel that way! (Grandma is in heaven smiling over you right now!) This is not about the MISTAKE the boy made, but rather about how Fred turned around a tragic event to make something worthwhile out of it. You ALL are in my thoughts and prayers, email me sometime… Keith has my email address. Love you! (Cousin) Bev
By unknown
February 22, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this
You may go to www.odmp.org and click on personalize and create a memorial for Fred Normam. This is the fallen officers page