Duluth.Talk

By Jeff

August 22, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this

I’ll bet there wasn’t anyone on the other end. People often yap into their phone so people will think they have friends.

By 4ever real

August 22, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

I am wondering what did the cell phone have to do with anything? It is apparent phone or not the lady was just a bit on the ditzy side. However, it really isn’t worth getting that upset about. A small wrinkle in the huge fabric of life.

By Edward

August 22, 2007 8:51 AM | Link to this

I have my own way of dealing with this and I have had to use it several times and I actually enjoy the looks and results I get. If someone is holding up progress, such as in line because they’re so pitifull co-dependant they can’t go three minutes without a cell phone fix, I tell them, ” Would you get out of line here and stop treating this line like it’s a phone booth.” I’ve had a few harsh words passed back and forth from this but I never back down. Most of the times the person working there is happy that I did it. I don’t think people realize just how stupid and insecure people look when they yak on a cell phone all day long. Long gone are the days where there is even a little bit of prestige of owning a cell phone. These days every third world illegal person in the states has one, get some therapy for you insecuity and co-dependecy and just hang up.

By Adam

August 22, 2007 8:51 AM | Link to this

I understand that some people still like to right checks (I’m not one of them), but common courtesy is to start writing out the check while the cashier is ringing up your purchases. That way you only have to write in the total when check-out is complete. Same holds true for those paying with debit/credit cards. Swipe your card, enter your pin and be ready when the cashier has scanned all your items. I think the thing that gets me the most, however, are the folks who dig through their pockets for change. If you want to get rid of your change, go to the bank. Most Publix’s have one in the front of the store, USE IT!

By Mike

August 22, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

You are far more polite than me. She would have heard about it real quick. The store is responsible too. Publix is a nice place but they should have signs that say no cell phones in line. No “law” is needed. Just a little etiquette. As for the checkbook, that is a whole nother situation.

By One

August 22, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

I agree that cell phone use aids in some of the rudest interactions ever. But what I don’t understand is why people are so unnerved by it, when we have the travesty that is in the White House ruining our nation. If you want to get riled up over something, get riled up over Bush and his ridiculous antics!!!! IMPEACH BUSH!!!!

By JJ

August 22, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

I personally think cell phones should be banned in public places. People who talk on them in the grocery store, retaurants, etc. are the most rude and obnoxious people. They seem to think they are the only ones in the store. I can’t tell you how many times I have tried to get around some rude person on their phone standing with a buggy, right smack in the middle of the aisle.

As a matter of fact, I was at Walmart in Suwanee last night, and there was a lady with two kids. She was talking very loud on her cell phone, while her kids were knocking stuff off the shelves, playing with the toys all over the floor, and she just stood there talking on the phone, like her kids were at a playground.

I leave my phone in the car when I shop. If I am on the phone when I arrive at the store, I will not get out of my car until my conversation is finished. I think its very rude.

If I had been behind that lady at Publix, I would have said something to her.

By not me

August 22, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

For that very reason, I leave my phone in the car or on vibrate anytime I enter a public place. I’m not multi-tasked enough to talk on the phone & write a check and certainly don’t like my meals interupted with my phone ringing. I just wish more people were like me :)

By RCH

August 22, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

Like Edward,there are times when you have to put your foot down. Especially with those who cannot comprehend check out lanes with 15 items or less. One or two items over is no big deal but 50, thats another story. Twice in the past I simply told the offender that they had to many items, used the divider and pushed their items back and put my items in front of theirs. They gave me a strange look, but that was all. The cashier smiled all the way. If more individuals stood up for what is right we wouldn’t have these problems.

By Shoot 'em

August 22, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this

Express lanes are supposed to be cash only. That in and of itself is grounds for execution.

By STORM WARNING

August 22, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

HEY ONE,

JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE A LIB AND YOU ARE FACED WITH THE SAD REALITY OF HAVING TO SUPPORT THE LIKES OF HILARY AND OBAMA BEEN SMOKING, DOESN’T GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO USE THIS FORUM TO POST YOUR SHADY POLITICAL VIEWS. AND FOR THE RECORD….THIS COUNTRY TRIED TO IMPEACH YA BOY CLINTON FOR LYING TO AND CHEATING THE GOOD PEOPLE OF THIS COUNTRY AND IT DOESN’T WORK. THE DEMS ARE RUINING THIS GREAT LAND OF OURS…WE WILL SOON BE SLAVES TO A THIRD WORLD COUNTRY THANKS TO YOU GUYS…AND THE TRICKLE DOWN EFFECT HAS LEAD THE REVOLUTION ALL THE WAY TO THE CHECKOUT LINE IN PUBLIX!!! FOCUS ON THE TOPIC AT HAND UNLESS YOUR A.D.D. HAS IMPAIRED YOUR ABILITY TO THINK CLEARLY.

GO CANES!!!!!!!

By cara

August 22, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

Personally, I would of shoved that cell phone right up one of her nostrils. It really ticks me off when peopleare so rude and inconsiderate. Yes, they’re are many important things going on in the world to worry about but when it’s 5:30pm and I’ve spent 9 hours working my tail off. I don’t want to wait a minute while you fumble around on the phone and write out checks. I’ve got some place to be. HOME!!! She would have been royally cussed out and possibly given an elbow to the throat.

By Liberal Drive-by

August 22, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

This may be sexist but it’s always women who do this. You never see men exhibiting this kind of behavior in a grocery store. I do cringe when I’m behind another man he pulls out a checkbook. What type of man still carries a checkbook? Cash or debit card. Writing a check in line is so effeminate.

By One

August 22, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

storm warning, I could tell by your font that whatever you’re saying is pure ignorance, therefore I didn’t bother to read it!!! IMPEACH BUSH!!!!!!

By EW

August 22, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

There is small diner by my house and the first thing you see when you enter is a sign thats says No Cell Phones unless you are dialing 9-1-1. Below the sign is a bogus number for the ACLU. I laugh each time I see it, it is a classic! I was behind your typical North Fulton housewife not long ago at a Target store and she was going on and on about the banal details of her life on her cute littl phone. What a snoozer. After a minute of two I jokingly asked her if she’d speed up the conversation and get to the sex part, because unless you’re talking sex, no one wants to hear it. I have never had anyone give me the look that woman gave me, but she never said a word. It was a priceless moment. Try it sometimes.

By jess_me

August 22, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

I’ve got another for you> I’m in church and during the minister’s sermon I hear phones ring 3 times. What’s with that?

By Becky

August 22, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

I always end my call before I get to the register..The few times that I do write a ck. like someone else said, I have everything written out except the total. With my debit card, I have it in my hand when I’m given the total..I have no problem saying something about people using their cell phone at the register..Also, as someone else said, don’t even get me started on people that don’t make thier children mind while in the store..I have twin grandbabies (5yo) & everytime that we see other kids out in public acting up, I tell them, that is not the way you act in public, so far, I have not had any problems with them acting up..

By Mike

August 22, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

To ONE and all: We are becoming a totally insecure nation incapable of being independent. Too many of us have to be tethered to a cell phone all day/night long, oblivious to those around us. Probably the sames one who are constantly tethered to their government waiting for a hand out. It’s a sign of how vulnerable we have become and terrorists have noticed and will take advantage of it. BUSH and CO. have made mistakes but he is trying to do us right.

By def

August 22, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Firts of all, Bush is NOT responsible for rude people on cell phones. Second, I have fixed this problem by picking up my items and walking in front of the cell phone abuser. After I encounter the look of suprise from them, I explain that while they are not in a hurry, the rest of us are.

By Atlanta Pearl Girl

August 22, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

Considering I’m super impatient…. I always do the ‘huge suffering exhale’ to let them know I’m waiting behind them….THEN…if that doesn’t work….. snorting & foot tapping louding comes next…..then if THAT doesn’t work…. I have gotten to the point where I’m going to EXPLODE…. I will say loudly ‘excuse me…the cashiers waiting!’. And then I smile sweetly.

By Alexis

August 22, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

I don’t believe it is rude to speak on your phone while in a public place. How is that any more rude than talking to another live person while in public? Either way you are having a two party conversation in a public venue and subjecting random people to listen to it. So unless you propose everyone shops in silence then get off of your whiney soapbox regarding cell phones in public. It is silly.

By tom dekkers

August 22, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

this person was just very lucky the lady did get off her cell so fast, most of the time they stay on that phone no matter what, it is sad that we cannot do without a cell phone just to do some shopping or any other person to person transaction.

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

I think it is great that we all can be so incredibly rude and impatient in this country and get away with it. The U.S. rocks!

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Alexis, I think they are just annoyed that they can’t hear the other side of the conversation.

By Putemallonanisland

August 22, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Again, on Sunday it happens. I’m at the “Urban” WalMart off Howell Mill. It’s freakin’ packed in there. It’s like the end of the world packed. I’m trying to negotiate the aisles. I’m trying to exit an aisle when Shaquanda, Cheekita, and two dudes come half’a*******ing into the aisle…in the middle of the aisle. The girl pushing the cart was on her cell talking to Pookey and just stopped in the aisle blocking everyone. She turned to yell at one of the guys and stood there. I said “EXCUSE ME!!!”. She moved her fata$$ and cart half an inch. I squeezed by and just shook my head in disgust. As I passed the rest of her gang, one girl said “un-uh-what’s he shakin’ his head at?”. My wife said “you”. I had to grab her as these girls would have squished her or she would have drowned in grease.
No wonder these people never get anywhere in the world and others must support them. No manners and no worries except for themselves. Wally world doesn’t save me enough money to put up with the ignorance and stupdity of its natives (that’s another rant). Most of the time it’s cell phones that are causing the ignorance.
Just a thought for you guys out there: you’re not a baller, a rapper, a tycoon, an actress, or anything related to powerful or rich. You’re all posers. Get off the phone as we do not want to hear your conversations. If you’re that powerful, have your assistant make the calls or tell Pookey you’ll call him back.

By STORM WARNING

August 22, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

ONE actually knows what font means… WOW!!! ps.. he’s still in line waiting for someone to get off their cell phone… pss… he’s still a lib, so he can’t shoot them, all he can do is impeach the hell out of them….

lay off the crack ONE!!!

By Sarah

August 22, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

Alexis, you just don’t get it , do you? Just so long as your ignorant ghetto rear end doesn’t impede me from any of my daily routines while you chat with your airhead friends because you’re too stupid and/or shallow to buy a book, or too insecure to be alone with your thought(less) mind. Again..one more time: People who talk on the phone the most, read the least. Read the article in most of papers today how reading has declined and how in 2006 less than one in four people read a book. Alexis, I bet the last book your read started with..” See spot run, run spot run…”

By Kelley

August 22, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

has anyone ever heard of a debit/credit card? it is so much quicker…recall the gas station commercial (?) when everything comes to a screeching halt because the guy pulls out cash to pay. anyway, who writes checks anymore these days???

By annoying

August 22, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

She will eventually suffer because of her lack of personal management skills. But right now she is imposing her personal habits on you, which is unacceptable. We all know the store mgmt can’t do anything or else they will be sued by those irritating folks we all love to hate who know how to dish it out but can’t take it, so it’s up to us to be proactive: Tap her on the shoulder and say, “S’cuse me but you’re holding up the line. Please hang up and get the show on the road so we can do the same.” I’ve also seen shoppers who are able to successfully be on the phone and go through the line at the same time. These folks are focused and in touch with reality. Cell phones are here to stay; some people just need to learn proper etiquette.

By dd

August 22, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

Hey Putemallonanisland ! I must of been stuck behind them in the parking lot cause I couldnt get out of the place either. Had to lay on the horn to get them moving. I am thinking “were did all these people come from”. This is the “nice” area of Atlanta!!

By DJ

August 22, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

I agree with Adam. I actually fill out the check in the car. Clearly by that time you know where you’re going, what date it is, and how to execute a signature…

Also, carry a pen attached to the checkbook.

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

Sarah, I find it interesting that you can relate cell phone use to a decline in reading. This is especially humorous considering the newest thing with cell phones is the capability to download a book to your cell phone. Apparently there is a demand for this or it wouldn’t have happened which means cell phone users must read.

Additionally, activities that are associated with decline in reading include portable digital devices (i.e. cell phones, PDAs, etc.) AND TV watching, video games, and Internet Use.

I read as much as possible and I use my cell phone in public. I must be an anomaly. Nope. Just educated and had a parent that valued reading and education.

By Lex Luthor

August 22, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

One proving to us that your IQ is at the same level as your name.

The person described in this blog would be pathetic even without the cell phone. As the poster One has proven: You can’t cure stupid.

By Lex Luthor

August 22, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

Storm,

Actually One doesn’t know what a font is. We are all using the same font on this blog. You used a CASE. A different CASE not a different font. One must be an IQ.

By SharonH

August 22, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

What an ignorant, self-absorbed selfish waste of DNA. And who still writes checks? That in and of itself is beyond stupid. Unless you are over the age of 90 and you are just too lame to learn new “technology” then there is no excuse for writing checks when ATM and check cards are so readily available. I probably would have started screaming at her when she put up her finger to the cashier. How dare she think her time is so much more important than anyone else’s?

By ron

August 22, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

Alexis,it isn’t your fault that you don’t know enough to limit your phone conversations to the people that want to hear it.I lay the blame on your parents.They just didn’t have time to teach you anything like courtesy.Don’t worry about it.Just bumble on through life like you’re doing.

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

I find it interesting that people can call Alexis rude and consider her uncouth b/c of the cell phone use in public. All the while, you all are being rude and uncouth online. I guess b/c you are annonymous it is ok. When did using a cell phone in public make a person stupid? My millionaire bosses do it. Considering they are millionaires, I am thinking they can’t be too stupid.

Not use checks? Why? That extra minute really matters that much? Why not just insert a chip into your arm. That way you can scan it just like you do your groceries and it will be even faster than ATM b/c you don’t need to sign anything or enter a PIN.

By Bruce Wilcox

August 22, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Carts can be used for more than just holding items, a steady nudge on the phoney in front of you will give them a hint. If it doesn’t work, a little harder, but steady nudge, gives them a choice of trying to keep their balance or end the call. A few rules, it is safer to make sure that the person in front of you is smaller, the second nudge should not exceed 15 M.P.H. it borders on simple assult.

One I am am full agreement with you, Mike I believe that Bushco is trying to do the right thing, but so was General Custer. Ron Paul, nice guy that doesn’t have a pray, like Dennis on the other side. Neither have to please the big money donors and are free to say what they feel, wish they all could be so honest.

By jazzy

August 22, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

And once again everything turns into a race card…Lord help us…

By Hotlanta

August 22, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

I have yet to hear a cellphone converation when someone says I want to tranfet 1M to my account. What about those people who go to the public restrooms and continue to talk on the cellphone, especially in the department stores. I thought it was the voice of God when I first heard the conversation. Then I paused and said, NASTY, NASTY, NASTY!!!!

By Unclefast

August 22, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

I love the signs some of the stores have on Saint Simon’s Island. “We will be happy to assist you when you finish your cell phone conversation. Please step aside so we may assist another customer.”

By ajcisobvious

August 22, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

No blog for the:

• guilty Barbie Bandit
• Towns County Sherrif who hid a weapon used in a crime

AJC - be less obvious about what type criminal-related stories get blogs.

Hmph.

By GaLiberal

August 22, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

Just another example of a self-centered self-righteous Republican. These people think they own the world and the world can just wait on them. It’s reinforced all the time when you have a president that refuses to respect Congress and demands to have everything his way. I’ll bet this inconsiderate person has a Hummer or similar gas-guzzling carbon-spewing SUV with troop ribbons and GW ‘04 stickers.

By Al

August 22, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

I agree with the opinion stated in a previous post: It’s just as unacceptable to be rude on an internet forum as it is to be rude anywhere else. These blogs should be an interesting exchange of ideas and information, and at times they are just that…but one has to sift through A LOT of ignorant posts to find anything useful. But here I go contradicting myself again…if I want useful and interesting information, then why the heck and I sitting here reading a blog about check-out line etiquette?!?

I would say that a quick fix would be to place “No Cell Phone” signs (showing the red circle/slash over a picture of a cellphone) at each checkout line, but those who are self-absorbed will likely ignore them just as much as the do the “15 Items or Less” signs.

By charlie

August 22, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

Please ban cell phones in public…especially on the highways. These are the most overused and abused item in our culture. People always say I need my cell phone for emergencies and the like. However, in actuality cell phones are probably used 2% of the time for true emergencies and the remainder for passing the time while sitting in traffic. The same person holding up the line at the supermarket is the same person doing 50 MPH in the fast lane on I-75 talking on their cell phone. It really goes back to one central issue. People today think they are the only ones who matter and have no respect for anyone else. It’s all about RESPECT people. Stop being selfish and think WWJD!

By charlie

August 22, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this

Please ban cell phones in public…especially on the highways. These are the most overused and abused item in our culture. People always say I need my cell phone for emergencies and the like. However, in actuality cell phones are probably used 2% of the time for true emergencies and the remainder for passing the time while sitting in traffic. The same person holding up the line at the supermarket is the same person doing 50 MPH in the fast lane on I-75 talking on their cell phone. It really goes back to one central issue. People today think they are the only ones who matter and have no respect for anyone else. It’s all about RESPECT people. Stop being selfish and think WWJD!

By Adam

August 22, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

DJ, Now you are REALLY asking for advanced planning. You want people to keep a pen attached to their checkbook. Wow. That would almost be logical.

By don

August 22, 2007 1:46 PM | Link to this

I seldom use my cell phone in public but yesterday it was very necessary that I did and there was a woman standing next to me and she turns around, looks strangely at me, holds up a book that she was reading as if to let me know not to talk on the phone while she’s reading. After my 15 second conversation I wanted to take her book (it was not a Bible)and smack her on the head. Normally, I’m an outspoken person but I just let it go - that time.

By j

August 22, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

some of us are multitaskers. of course we are also the ones that actually use our debt cards and are usuallly paid before the cashir finishes.

as to the people whom the cell impairs their ability to do other things…i.e check out lines, driving, or ordering take out….they should have their phones removed. esp. the soccer mom’s in traffic doing their daily gossip gab.

By James

August 22, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

I don’t know if I even believe this story. Anyone could make up a story about worst case scenario in a grocery line. At least, I hope there is no one that dumb!!!

By Chesser

August 22, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

How about calling to order a pizza from the fabulous Pizza Hut. After being put on hold for more than 15 minutes, an associate from Pizza Hut asked what I wanted to order. I asked if they had any specials on large pan pizza. The associate explained that yes there was a coupon I could use for $10 off if I purchased 2 pizzas and my total would be $19.95 plus tax. I ordered 2 pizzas after the associate assured me my order was taken. After 20 minutes my order was done - but wait - Pizza Hut was out of large pizzas. OK - so I asked how about medium pizzas. He assured me they had medium pizzas and that they could fill my order - but no coupons could be used - and - my order for 3 medium pizzas would come to $45 - plus the tax. 30 minutes has passed - No thank you!

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

I don’t think that this is an issue of using a cell phone in public but instead an issue of manners.

Complaints- Too loud, don’t want to hear their conversation—-This could be true of anyone having a conversation, as stated earlier on other posts. In public, everyone should use their “inside voice” not just cell phone users.

Take too long at register—-Again, it is something anyone could do (i.e. check writing mentioned earlier). People should be prepared to make the line go swiftly, again, whether on a phone or not.

Standing in the middle of the aisle and not making room for others to pass—-Seriously, I have seen more people do this without a cell phone than with one. Everyone should be polite enough to move, even if you really, really need to scan every can of paint for the right one, it only takes a moment to step aside.

That being said, it wouldn’t hurt for others to be patient. I admit the holding up the finger in the original post was pretty bad. On the other hand, in a situation like Don’s, it seemed a little obnoxious of the woman to be so “offended”.

By Ex-Checker

August 22, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

I am a former Publix cashier, and I have encountered all types of behaviour at the checkout line, from phones to sick, screaming babies to check writers. You just have to smile and put up a good front. Publix management, and all store management cannot do anything about cell phone use. Remember, The Customer is Always Right. I just wish people would be a bit more polite and just think about other people.

By so many different folks in the world

August 22, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

It’s clear from reading these really interesting posts that there are soooo many different kinds of people in the world. It’s our challenge to at least try to be tolerant if we can’t always understand each other. Some people are organized and get the check ready way before going thru the line; others are able to multitask by efficiently talking and paying at the same time. Then there are those who seem to be blissfully ignorant there are others in the world besides themselves. They rush out into the aisle almost running you down with their cart. I guess those are the same ones who cut in front of you in traffic. Who can explain it; after all, God created us all.

By Becky

August 22, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

I’m in agreement with most people that it’s just lack of manners that makes people talk on their phones while attempting to pay for things..don, I know what you mean, my sister is in the ICU & on that floor, there are signs up that say NO CELL PHONES, NOT EVEN ON VIBRATE..Well the rest of my family (yes there are oodles of us) were talking & the lady sistting next to us using her phone had the nerve to ask us to be quiet..Needless to say, I just gave her that look & pointed to the sign..

By Jane

August 22, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

Okay, cell phones were invented to be utilized for convenince sake. This way we are no longer tied to the house if we wish to make a call. I find my cell very useful in keeping in touch with my children, parents and friends. I call when I know it is convenient for the person I am calling. As for the person in the store—patience is a virtue. If you have none left on any given day—move to another line. It’s just a phone call and no skin off your nose so to speak. As for who writes checks—I do; I also use the debit/credit cards and occassionally I utilize plain old CASH. How I choose to pay for my purchases should be (and is) my choice. As long as I am paying my bills and structuring my finances—no one can determine how I will choose to pay for something. Some things I track so that I can determine if there is a way to reduce costs; some not so much(these are fairly fixed anyway)— Life is for living. Gripping takes way to much energy out of me and causes no happiness—meaning it is massively nonproductive.

By STORM WARNING

August 22, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

I wanted to say again just how much these cell phones are ruining….. WAIT, I have to take this call….ONE MOMENT PLEASE!!!!!!

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

Thanks, Storm. You just brightened my day.

By LB

August 22, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

I agree that the cell phones are only a symptom of the rude person’s syndrome. Cell phones are an outlet for these chronic rude people to be rude. The large hoards of people who walk in groups slowly, people who block aisles with carts, people at Kroger demanding to borrow your Kroger plus card when you don’t even know them and being rammed in the heels with a buggy in the check out line are habits from people who need counceling. They have superiority complexes that cause other innocent people to retort. I would say, however, the absolute most offensive thing that happened to me at Publix is their prices. A loaf of bread is more than two bucks, puleeeeeeeeez. I went down just one aisle and the prices made me put my cart back and leave.

By va. lady

August 22, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

This shopper was rude and thoughtless to the cashier and to the other patrons who were waiting in line. We are all human and unfortunately engage in activities that serve us but hinder others. Too often, we consider ourselves to be the only worthy, living being in the world and that everything must orbit around us. With respect to cell phones, why have we evolved into a society where we must be reached by a phone 24/7 and every call must be handled NOW?

By Amos

August 22, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

People talking on their cell phones while trying to transact business makes me want to barf. They NEVER pay attention. My gooodness if you are conducting business….please do that. Why talk so loud too? If I could only twitch my nose like AUNT CLARA in BEWITCHED I would zap them into next week.

By GetOverIt

August 22, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

That is the world we have created. One where the important things aren’t important anymore. Everyone use to be keeping up with the Joneses, now we are just trying to keep our heads above water. If you are not willing to go all out, all the time, there is someone who will and can have your job. I know this isn’t true of everyone but it is a part of our culture. I would love to say everyone needs to stop and smell the roses, but I am not that optimistic. This is probably why people get so upset about cell phones, crying children, etc., etc., etc. These things get on others last nerve b/c these individuals are frayed down to the last nerve.

It is interesting how the posts are now turning to compromise. Admitting the behavior is annoying but not quite as bad as it may initially seem. Maybe there is hope for us yet.

By Michael

August 22, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Yesterday at Johnny Rocket’s during lunch I witnesses a lady using her cell phone while her three grade school girls were playing with the old-school straw dispensers — touching the tops of batches of straws with their hands. Hello, people use those straws and I’m sure they’d rather they not be contaminated by other’s germs or whatever else. Pay attention to your children people….you had them, teach them proper manners.

By willie lee

August 22, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

Always pick up a box of Trogans , put them in the offenders stuff behind the bar that separates your groceries. Let her explain them when she gets home.If you don’t use them slide them behind the tabloids. BE PREPARED. LOL

By Kat

August 22, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

I am surprised that you are blogging about being more courteous. What happened to writing about positive things? They don’t get enough replies? Are you always courteous and aware of the people around you?

By ajcisobvious

August 22, 2007 5:14 PM | Link to this

No blog for the SunTrust thug who stole money from an elderly lady?

Hmph!

By Jan

August 22, 2007 5:54 PM | Link to this

To Storm Warning: You are aware of the insecurities and general lack of education found among most liberals. A perfect example is One, utilizing a blog on inappropriate cell phone usage to rant about his useless political affiliations. These are the same brilliant minds that twice elected a perverted, laughing-stock to the highest office in the land. They are the same morons rushing to support the pervert’s “wife”. They forgot about the cell phone issue as soon as they could besmirch our president. What a shame, when our military personnel are so diligently fighting for our continued freedom, behind a president who has this country’s best interest at heart.

By Dark Brown

August 22, 2007 6:33 PM | Link to this

i always make it a point to end my cell phone conversation when i am ready to check out…

By Van

August 22, 2007 6:43 PM | Link to this

How do I get a column where all I have to do is pose an obvious an inflammatory question, write a few paragraphs, and then let a blog fill in the rest?

By bemused

August 22, 2007 7:01 PM | Link to this

Everything that can be said about thoughtless and inappropriate cell phone use has pretty much been covered here (except that I have observed that such behavior is not confined to any gender or socioeconomic group). I do have a question for Bill, though: how is this a “customer service tale of woe”? The woman’s actions had nothing to do with customer service, but rather with her own rudeness and self-absorption.

By Alecia

August 22, 2007 7:11 PM | Link to this

A few months ago my impatient 4 year old and I were behind a lady in line and she left the counter for a few minutes. Finally I asked the cashier what the hold up was. Evidentially the lady was 25 cents short and decided to go out to the car to dig for change. Anyway, I gave the cashier 25 cents so that I could purchase my things. After I paid, the lady walked back in the store, and mentioned to me that she was trying to avoid getting loose change and had the money on her to pay for the item in the first place. She only purchased 1 item. Why she couldn’t figure out how to pay for it before coming to the register is beyond me. This event aside, one thing I do not get is why the check writers never seem to realize that they will always be asked for ID. It is irritating when I am standing behind one of these people, when it is time to pay they start digging for the check book, then ask for a pen, and at the end the cashier has to ask for an ID, and they dig through their purse or wallet for the ID. How inconsiderate!!!!It would seem that after writing a few checks they would figure out the procedure.

By Bruce Wilcox

August 22, 2007 7:31 PM | Link to this

Jan an affair doesn’t cost us the lives of 3,700 of our soldiers. Come to think of it, the laughing-stock you refer too handled a war in the Balkans without losing one soldiers life. But thankfully the conservatives have the family first candidate running, Rudy, but conservatives like Rudy or Newt marry all their affairs.

By Cheyenne

August 22, 2007 7:42 PM | Link to this

I still like to write checks. But I always find my ID, pen, checkbook before I even get in line. Comments have been made about how fast I write, too, so I don’t feel a bit guilty. It’s all about consideration.

By European-American

August 22, 2007 9:55 PM | Link to this

A liberal named “Bruce”. Now what do you make of that?

By Bruce Wilcox

August 22, 2007 11:00 PM | Link to this

Ask a Rudy or Newt and what kind of name is European-American, ashamed of whatever your real name is? Jerk.

By AgentX

August 23, 2007 3:47 AM | Link to this

This is so insane. I agree with the posts about not using the blog for your political rant. People do not want to hear it. As for people using their cell phones, get over it, it’s gonna happen. I just think of my wife and my daughter, it’s really peaceful and it works. GET A LIFE PEOPLE…..TTFN (ta ta for now)

By chuck

August 23, 2007 7:25 AM | Link to this

And when the lady asks you for today’s date, tell her to look at the expiration date on her milk carton!

By Canton Bob

August 23, 2007 7:33 AM | Link to this

To 4ever real, you are what is wrong with this self absorbed, selfish, and rude society we have become. Your attitude toward this rudeness tells me that you drive an SUV and run your hi-beam headlights at all times, talk on your cell phone while nearly causing wrecks on every highway, and then have the nerve to complain about others with “road-rage”. Well you are the main cause of it!

By victoria in Stone Mountain

August 23, 2007 8:39 AM | Link to this

Get rid of cell phones in PUBLIC!!!! Its annoying, rude, distracting and down right disrespectfull. I avoid lines when I see someone on a cell phone. There should be a LAW against it. Have you seen our interstates (especially I-285) with people in rush hour on their phones. Accidents/deaths waiting to happen!!!!

By delois

August 23, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

I don’t understand why people think that the rest of the civilized world wants to hear about their private/business lives when we are in line at a public business, at a restaurant, or, my personal favorite, in an elevator. People, I don’t care and you aren’t impressing me.

By Stan

August 23, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

AgentX did you miss the point of the first comment that mentioned politics, it basically raised the same point you did, there are far more important things going on to worry about. Since there are no rules on these blogs I would think politics still falls under Free Speech.

While you tell everyone to get a life, in CAPS no less, your comment came in 3:47 AM?

By crystal

August 24, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

I don’t remember the store (I think it was a Kroger in Buford) but I did see a sign that read “No cell phone usage in line.” I thought, “duh.”

By crystal

August 24, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

On the political side, I like to adhere to my friend’s (who is getting her Ph.D. in public administration) advice. Your day to day life is affected more by local politics versus what happens in the white house. Pay attention to what your mayors/city planners/commissioners are doing in your community. What are they doing for the schools, pulling in business based tax money, etc. If you got a problem with the white house, take care of that in ‘08. If you got any other problem, write your congressman not a blog.

By Stan

August 24, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

Wonderful advice, may be hard to explain to our soldiers and their famly’s or the world in general. That Ph.D. will come in handy every four years.

Maybe that is the problem, people are so wrapped up in their small little worlds they cannot grasp the big picture. We get tax breaks while 3,700 of our soldiers and untold thousands of Iraq’s have been killed. We go on vacation, like the Iraqi government, when our soldiers are dying in the streets of Bagdad. We get more upset about cell phone useage and Wal Marts being built than the incompetent way this entire war has been handled.

Oh well, nothing to see here, move along. See you in 08.

By crystal

August 25, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this

I don’t think the soldiers and their families have to be explained anything. They knew exactly what they were doing. As far as I can remember, the soldiers volunteered to do their jobs proudly. They took an oath to defend the constitution against all enemies foreign and domestic. No one is forcing them to join the military. If you want to fight for something for the soldiers, fight for higher pay, benefits and appreciation for doing something in valor.

I think plenty of people can look at both their little world and the big picture. That is why we have domestic relations and foreign relations. There are plenty of people who got us into this war and plenty of people who are mishandling the situation at various levels. I’m sure they would all appreciate your advice on how to exit Iraq in the most successful way.

By Lee

August 26, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

Cell phones used by another customer in line is an annoyance.

Phone use by the teenaged clerk who is more interested in talking to his/her friends is one of my pet peeves. Drives me nuts. I’ve quit patronizing more than one store because management couldn’t get their help to focus on customer service.

LOL to the poster who told the cell phone user to “get to the sex part, that’s all we care about anyway.”

By AgentX

August 26, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this

Stan…..I’m a soldier in South Korea who reads the AJC online. It may be morning there in USA, but it’s 1547 or 3:47 pm here in the ROK. As for having a life, well lets just say this, I have one and it’s all about defending your right to espouse your political views. I read the blogs, as do my fellow soldiers, for entertainment. Civillians are such a fickle crowd…..Hooah!!! it’s an Army thing

By Puddin

August 27, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

Hey Bill! We havin fun yet?