Misadventures in Atlanta

By jRock

May 17, 2005 08:15 AM | Link to this

goodmorning folks.. no comment on today’s topic. Guess I’ll be lurking today.

By Cee

May 17, 2005 08:25 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

Hello jRock. On topic, my sister and her husband got married within 6 weeks of meeting. They say it was love at first sight. They’ve been happily married for 16 years. I guess when you know it’s right why wait? love shouldn’t be hard.

By Ignatius

May 17, 2005 08:44 AM | Link to this

Why didn’t the featured personal run LAST week before all the proms?

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 08:59 AM | Link to this

Morning all.

I don’t know of any ‘quickie’ marriages. My example couple have been married for over 9 years. She helps me to keep it all in perspective. They have their fair share of problems, but the way they handle their problems is amazing to me.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 09:03 AM | Link to this

morning! somewhat on subject, I am a HUGE fan of Kenny, as Jael can tell (thanks for tryin on the tickets)
on their 4 month, whirlwind, you have to keep in mind, that their life is a little different than us normal folks. Also, they both had long engagements/relationships and never made the final committment. Yes, I think its possible to fall quick, hard and forever. However, for them due to their lifestyle is may or may not work. off to do work…

By Carrington

May 17, 2005 09:11 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Bloggers & Bloggetts!

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 09:13 AM | Link to this

Call me cynical, but those two relationship mentioned here have yet to demonstrate any longevity. I think we all could probably find someone to marry, sometimes find more than one. (well, not at the same time…chuckle)

@IG - he did not post last week since he needed to wait for the prom to have the right pic….the others showed him with a sniper’s rifle, not exactly going to win the ladies that way. but on THAT thought, loved Enemy at the Gates.

Mom emailed about the recent Bush/Putin pic with the 1956 antique Volga. She thought it based on Volvo. I had to bring up the Battle of Stalingrad.

Good Morning ALL.

By BlackIce

May 17, 2005 09:19 AM | Link to this

Morning folks

Love takes time, IMHO

By jRock

May 17, 2005 09:27 AM | Link to this

Hey Ms Cee.. from 6 weeks to 16 years, that’s a “right” thing in a relationship..

By AJC1975

May 17, 2005 09:28 AM | Link to this

There’s no way you can no someone enough to marry them in 4 months time…that’s just BS!!! It’s called really hot sex and a large schlong that causes people to rush to the alter sooo soon…shall I say Pam Anderson and Tommy Lee!!! You don’t have to marry them to partake in their carnal delights…

By Jael

May 17, 2005 09:36 AM | Link to this

Good morning all

Tray, I immediately thought about you while reading today’s topic. ï?Å  I think we can think ourselves out of many things, love being one of them. My sister and her husband of 15 years, met and dated for less than 6 months- I’m still amazed…As Ryan would ask, “how they do that?” for them I think they just knew it was right and remained dedicated to each other.

I need energy today!!!

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 09:36 AM | Link to this

Good Morning, everyone.

Great topic, Mia……..”do we think ourselves out of love?”……..good question also…..I think we do or better yet, I think we can. While a lifelong decision such as marriage should be well thought out and not made in haste, if we wait too long we can sometimes convince ourselves of whatever, thus explains my man’s sound decision to get married and the reason he wanted to hurry up and do it before he changed his mind…..I had to laugh but now that I sit here and think about today’s entry, it has definitely brought up some things that I may need to reconsider. I will be interested to read the rest of the comments and get various points of views on this subject.

By furious.styles

May 17, 2005 09:39 AM | Link to this

i can think of several marriages where they took a long time to finally get married, and none lasted more than 4 years…

now when i look at my parents, aunts and uncles, and others in my life in that age range, they married after a courtship process, but it was not extremely long..and they are all still together.

i say when it is right it is right. let you and your spouse to be decide on how much time is long enough.

By Cee

May 17, 2005 09:39 AM | Link to this

lol @ large schlong!

By Tray

May 17, 2005 09:43 AM | Link to this

I like that, “think we can think ourselves out of many things”

ain’t that the truth! ^5 to ya on it!

By convincedsince77

May 17, 2005 09:43 AM | Link to this

I think we over think love. I agree w/ Cee it shouldn’t be so hard. I don’t see why a marrige would last ne longer bc you have know someone for 4yrs vs 4 months. If it’s meant to be it will.

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 09:47 AM | Link to this

Wow, that was a very touching story…….it brought tears to my eyes. I’m glad she has finally found happiness and stability for her and her girls. Good Luck to Leanne and Jason.

By Carrington

May 17, 2005 09:48 AM | Link to this

Me -I don’t think I can marry someone after just meeting them. For me….I know it will be at least a year before marriage is even seriously going thru my mind. I said seriously….

I think many of the quick marriages have many problems, but they jusy decide to stay together to keep from looking like damn fools….

By Jael

May 17, 2005 09:51 AM | Link to this

Miss Ivy are you emotional today? Wedding jitters? Nawlllll course not!

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 09:52 AM | Link to this

Jael, sending energy your way. Be blessed! Hope your day gets better.

By Caroline

May 17, 2005 09:54 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. My first post here…been in lurkerville for ages, but needed to comment here. I love this blog!!! My parents were engaged 6 weeks after they met and married 6 months later. If my father hadn’t been in the Air Force and been sent to some training in Alaska for those 6 months, they would have been married sooner. And my mother was a sinlge mom. They’ve been married over 35 years.

I have a younger sister who got engaged to a man I introduced her to within 2 months and married 8 months later. They’ve been married for almost 8 years with a 3 year-old and another on the way. It happens.

I can’t say I would do it, but I never say never. Some people just know…

By AJC1975

May 17, 2005 09:59 AM | Link to this

Yeah a large schlong helps to keep them together as well…its the glue that binds the marriage sort of speak…hehehe

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 10:02 AM | Link to this

your post is giving opposing views here. In one breath you say that we have become to cynical and overanalytical of love and the time it takes us to commit nowadays vs our grandparents who, it is assumed, only had courtships which lasted a few months. The implication or rather the inference I make there is that the shorter courtships are better. Then at the end you say “there is no timeline when it comes to love” with that being said I think its clear. Some people can find love in 4 months and others will take 4 years. Whatever works

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 10:02 AM | Link to this

Mia, you must have been a fly on the wall cuz I was having this conversation w/ my man last night regarding commitment and the legality of it all and with his mom on Sunday. Is commitment determined by a piece of paper? Isn’t commitment just a word, while technically it should be a state of mind? If your word is good, shouldn’t I believe you when you say that you are committed to me and you show me on a daily basis and you’re consistent and you say you will do what it takes to make our relationship work? Shouldn’t you believe me? Hmmmmmmmmmm…….Mia, you really got me thinking hard, maybe this is just the push I need to get the ball rolling.

By Queen Carmen

May 17, 2005 10:02 AM | Link to this

Morning Blogmates i had a great birthday weekend MsK i got your message an old friend of mine suprised me and took me to Florida so i was’nt here for the OSS i hope you had a great time. Now i have a co-worker who married a man she’d only known for 2 weeks* they’ve been married for **4 years now so i do believe you can fall in love with someone in a short period of time, marry them, trust in God and live happily ever after…it can happen and it may even happen to those who say they don’t believe in it…you never know :) have a great day all, i’ll check in later

By Ignatius

May 17, 2005 10:08 AM | Link to this

@Das Enemy At The Gates was a great movie! I liked it much better than Saving Private Ryan. I still get the willies over the stabbing scene in that movie.

On topic, I think celebs have a harder go at it than most due to being constantly under the spotlight. But factor in the time they are away from one another and if absence truly does make the heart grow fonder, I guess it could work. So many Hollywood marriages go by the wayside so quickly, but the ones who stay together, you hardly hear of those. It seems the ones who remove themselves from Cali or NYC are the ones who do best. Mel Gibson as a case in point. So maybe Kenny and Renee’s island will insulate them from the outside pressures.

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 10:11 AM | Link to this

Jael, not emotional, just sentimental…..I love stories like that. I cry each week when I watch Extreme Home Makeover. I cry/tear-up at commercials or when I see accidents where someone’s hurt or if I see kids crying from pain. Reading her story and her struggles made me feel for her, especially the part about not having a winter coat for her daughter and she had to wrap her up in a blanket to go to school. Girl, it just makes me feel so blessed because I don’t have a lot of money and the Lord knows sometimes this single parent thing gets so hard but we are blessed (me and my daughter)and we have not ever had to do without and we have plenty of clothing and food and electricity and water and a nice place to live and rest. It’s indescribable so I’m just thankful for it all.

By Imperfectamythst

May 17, 2005 10:12 AM | Link to this

Just wanted to say “mernin” yawl.

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 10:13 AM | Link to this

Ivy, you ok sweetie?

By Imperfectamythst

May 17, 2005 10:14 AM | Link to this

The weather here is so bleaky & overcast.I’m sitting here filing my nails.It’s like tweedle dee tweedle dum.

By CrazySexyCool

May 17, 2005 10:14 AM | Link to this

it doesn’t matter how long it takes to fall in love…what matters is a couple’s ability to admit that the reality of building a relationship is much, much different than the fairy tales and love stories we weould like to beliver…it about their willingness to work through ALL of the issues that life throws at them with no thoughts of turning their backs on the relationship or giving up or throwing in the towel…

what it all comes down to is…how bad do you want it? how many times are you willing to compromise…to forgive…to accept…to conform…to modify expectations…where is your line in the sand?…and are you willing to sometimes re-draw the line?…

and the final equalizer - does each of you want it as bad as the other? because if you are not both EQUALLY committed to the relationship - it becomes a losing battle…

i haven’t said this is a while…so…i will say it again…it takes forever to build a relationship that lasts forever…

By Mia

May 17, 2005 10:15 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All!

Aggwit - not two different thoughts but two connected thoughts. Do we think ourselves out of love because we think there is some right time or amount of time before we are supposed to get engaged and get married?

By MzB

May 17, 2005 10:18 AM | Link to this

Two of my best friends are HAPPILY married their relationships are opposites. T met C they moved into together after 4 months got engaged 4 months later and were married that summer. They have been together almost 6 years no serious issues and are just as cute and in love today as when they met. My other best friend dated her hubby lifetimes ago but kept blowin him off to date a bunch of knuckle heads. Almost a decade later she finally took his interest seriously they rapidly went from casual dating to serious LTR had a baby bought a house and then FINALLY got married. It has only been about a year but they are very very happy.

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 10:19 AM | Link to this

Yeah, girl. I’m fine.

Great point, CSC!

By MzB

May 17, 2005 10:24 AM | Link to this

@ MIA I do think often people overthink the “timing” in some cases it may take a few years to TRULY know the person you are with is “the one” some fall in love faster, get to know each other faster etc. I know I have been guilty of overthinking “I can’t be in love w/ him I haven’t known him long” etc.

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 10:29 AM | Link to this

Greetings AJC1975, Caroline & Mz B.

I maybe naive but I always thought that being together, or deciding to marry should feel like the most natural, logical thing in the world to do, regardless of the length of time. If you feel that you know the person enough to the point where being without them seems unnatural, then you just know being with them is right. The thing is, you can be cautious, analytical all you want, but if you are convincing yourself that you should be with someone, then perhaps its not the right time for YOU to progress to a deeper commitment. Never decide to be with someone out of desperation or fear of being alone. If you can not be content on your own then you will not be content married.

Oh and Kenny is HOT, so I can understand how she could get caught up and swept away!

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 10:31 AM | Link to this

‘how bad do you want it?’ never a truer question…

Unless the person you are dating is a con-artist, I think most of the truly important stuff can be gleaned in the first 6 months. After that, its the little things that cause us to ‘think ourselves out of love’ that start to surface.

By CrazySexyCool

May 17, 2005 10:33 AM | Link to this

oh…and speaking of keeny and rene…i think he’s had a thing for her for A WHILE…he did write that song for her…you had me at hello way back when jerry macguire came out…

By MsK

May 17, 2005 10:33 AM | Link to this

Morning fam!

I do believe it is possible to find your mate quickly, at first sight even. But I think such occasions are very rare. I do agree that people can overthink things when deciding to be with someone. If you have to give it that much thought then its probably not meant to be.

@QC- glad you had a good suprise birthday weekend. OSS was good- but hotter than he!!.

By Jael

May 17, 2005 10:33 AM | Link to this

Thanks Ivy, I need some energy. Whew! I was beginning to think that you were exercising your woman’s initiation to change your mind regarding marriage… I’m honestly feeling you sweetie- we are blessed sometimes more than we deserve. I gather you used a box of kleenex watching the “Notebook”

Caroline, interesting family… do you take notes or ask for clarity?

CSC, may I borrow that line- wonderfully written

By Tray

May 17, 2005 10:40 AM | Link to this

wise thank you for sharing the same pov on Kenny as me! knew you were a great woman!

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 10:43 AM | Link to this

Hey MsK! Thanks for the pictures. I usually don’t like the OSS’s at the hotels and other small spots because it can be hot as hell like you said. My favorite spots are Earthlink Live and one time they had it at the Puritan Foundry.

By ObliviousOne

May 17, 2005 10:44 AM | Link to this

I think its a matter of what works for certain people. But I don’t think it takes YEARS for someone to make up their mind about being with someone, either you do or you don’t and if you don’t, then don’t waste your time or theirs. I’ve come across a few people lately who have become engaged or married after relatively brief courtships. I think it does come a point in time where you just know. You can plan all day long how long its going to take for you to think about marriage but when that right person comes along I don’t think that would even be a factor. In saying that I don’t intend to waste anymore of my time with knuckleheads just to have someone. Dating is a formality of ulitmately finding that one person—not psuedo relationships leading to nowhere.

By divine1

May 17, 2005 10:46 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone,

I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend and from what I have read the Dugan’s outing was a sucess. :) My Relay for Life Team won 1st place for Campsite Decoration. We had an Island theme going on — it was FAB. My team members worked it out, taking 2 hour time slots on the the track. *Tazzee worked it out from 9:30 to 11:30, girlfriend was doing the dang thing. I did complete my nonstop 8 mile walk (32 times around the track)from 2:45 - 5:30 a.m. All in all, it was a great time had by everyone involved.

@BlackIce - It was wonderful meeting you. You are such a great beauty inside and out. Thanks Tazzee for my surprise.

On topic - My aunt and uncle met at a party and got married 3 months later. They will celebrate their 36th anniversary this year. Their relationship has had it’s ups and downs, but there was nothing that was too much of a challenge for them to get through. He loves to tell people how she tried to pursue him at the party but he would have none of it. After all, he’s was a man. LOL. He decided when he would make his approach and ended up falling before he could get to her. She came to his rescue and they have been inseparable ever since. I love listening to the stories of their short courtship and the day they decided the only way things could get better was to marry one another. They are both retired now and travel around the world together and love being in each other’s company. If there were ever a marriage I would love to model mine after it would be theirs.

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 10:47 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Tray, thanks!…honey I recognize hotness, please believe it. Woo woo!

I think we could all think of great examples of relationships that appear to be wonderful, however, I have learned that you never really know what is going on in a marriage. It could shock some of us if we knew what those “great couples” had to endure to stay together.

By MsK

May 17, 2005 10:52 AM | Link to this

Tazz Gurl, you don’t know hot! I spent most of the time in the hallway cause the room with dancing was hot like fire. And it was slightly funky. I wanted to dance way more than I did, but it kept me outta there. No more hotels for me. I’ll wait til its at Earthlink again. I won’t even tell you what it did to my hair.

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 11:06 AM | Link to this

lauryn hill at the vibe music fest? She my boo and all but umm dont she need a song that is less than 5 years old in order to be performing? nahhhhh who am I kidding, im ready to go plunk down the dough stack right now.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 11:07 AM | Link to this

on the short courtship to committment, I think it really depends on the couple. some folks will just know and can get married and last forever, others, will date or have that long engagement and then just take the next step. On ones like that, do they just do it because its expected? Has there been a study on long vs short courtships to life long committment. is there a norm that produces the best results. well of course not, just like every house is not 2.5 kids with a picket fence. I think I lost my train of thought so let me get back to ya, maybe

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 11:16 AM | Link to this

You make sense to me Tray. Nothing is definitive on what works for other people and what doesn’t work. I just think love defies logic, reasoning, and anything tangible. .oh hell, who are we kidding, it’s a crapshoot! The best you can do is know yourself well, pray, and hope that it works out in the end. LOL

By MissUnderstood

May 17, 2005 11:29 AM | Link to this

Good Morning fam, 2day will be another lurk day for me. On said topic, I know a lot of people don’t believe this, but you know from the moment you meet aperson whether or not you want to deal with them. Whether it’s marriage or not. You have an instinct, but fear, will keep you from followinf through with it. It’s okay to be afraid, but don’t let fear keep you from missing out on something that could be the best thing that has ever happened to you. So what if you get hurt. That’s a part of life. If it don’t kill you it will make you stronger.

By KIR

May 17, 2005 11:30 AM | Link to this

Aggwit I just found out yesterday! I was looking at that money they wanted for the vibe fest like they were crazy until I heard my girl was gonna be there…with the band! I might have to come up off of that money too!

By anonymousella

May 17, 2005 11:34 AM | Link to this

i definitely think it’s possible to love someone immediately. i just look at my own life. most of my friendships and significant romantic relationships were sparked in a day. now, eventually these folks proved they were indeed worthy of my love and loyalty.

now with sweetie, it took a little bit longer than usual. but we’re still moving kind of fast. three months into things and we’re already talking about living together when my lease is up in November.

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 11:43 AM | Link to this

Did they say which day she’s (Lauryn Hill)going to be there? As of yesterday they didn’t have the actual date listed.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 11:44 AM | Link to this

well its getting close to that dreaded decision making time. What’s for lunch??? it must be good and cheap, this chic is broke!

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 11:47 AM | Link to this

You do the doggone thing anonymousella. I have to agree with you and MissUnderstood - I will admit that the last two guys I dated, I could have married. And I could be happily married while dealing with the little issues that broke us up - but like CSC earlier, I had to sit back and ask myself, how bad do I want it?

In the end, I realized that I didn’t want it bad enough to work for it.

I also have to agree with WiseDiva, anytime you have to convince yourself to be with someone - they aren’t to be with.

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 11:49 AM | Link to this

Ivy - she’s headlining Saturday night with a live band. I am so excited I decided to go to the VibeFest!

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 11:49 AM | Link to this

that’s so great anon! awww, you gonna be having your first Christmas together, all snuggled up! Sweet!

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 11:55 AM | Link to this

Tray, do you have a Publix nearby? I like their deli selections, and it is rather cheap. Then there is always Krystal’s if you don’t mind potential heartburn. LOL

By KIR

May 17, 2005 11:56 AM | Link to this

Tazzee are you going on both days or just Sat.?

By Tray

May 17, 2005 12:00 PM | Link to this

@Wise, the nearest Publix is Cartersville (bout 22 miles away), won’t happen, taking short lunches this week to leave early Friday. As for krystal, don’t eat gut-busters. I have a frozen weight watcher meal, just not feelin it, but its here and already paid for.

By divine1

May 17, 2005 12:04 PM | Link to this

@anon - Too sweet. It sounds like you guys are enjoying yourselves.

By Ignatius

May 17, 2005 12:06 PM | Link to this

OK, since we’re veering into the realm of “the Thunderbolt” (from The Godfather, The obsession Michael had when he first saw his future sicilian bride), have you ever met someone who just absolutely took your breath away? What about them made them do it? Are we attracted instantly to people for aesthetic reasons or does it go deeper than that? Did you have the courage to speak to them or was just letting your eyes lock for a second satisfying snough? Would you marry someone like that? In my mind, it would be like playing the lottery but that’s just MHO.

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 12:07 PM | Link to this

2 regular bean burritos at Taco Bell. I do a burrito supreme and a regular bean burrito(when I do not make a much healthier lunch). less than $3.00

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 12:09 PM | Link to this

of course TWO snickers out of the machine is about $1.00/1.20

By Jael

May 17, 2005 12:09 PM | Link to this

Anon… Life is grand when the balance is there- timing, commitment, desire or will… happy for you! Of course I always read your words and smile.

Tazzee do you feel that you’ve meet a man that could have been the one and the timing or some variable of life wasn’t in line to see it through?

Who’s heading Midtown Music Fest?

By Queen Carmen

May 17, 2005 12:15 PM | Link to this

I was thinking of taking my sister to the Music Fest…fish sounds good for lunch

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 12:18 PM | Link to this

Afternoon All.

There is no set length of time you should know someone before you get married. It all depends on where people are in their lives when they meet.

You may meet your eventual spouse in high school/college but you might not have necessarily known it then. You may be ready to settle down and meet the man/woman of your dreams, but he/she isn’t ready for commitment. You may meet the love of your life and know right away that he/she is the one.

My mom and dad met in February and married in August the same year and have been together 34 years. A friend of mine met her husband in November and married a year later. A friend’s cousin met her marine husband in April last year and just recently married. I met my fiancee in February last year and am now engaged.

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 12:21 PM | Link to this

Taz, divine, Cee, KIR, Ignatius, Wise, CSC, Ivy, MissU, MsK - I just sent a funny email to you from my work addy.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 12:21 PM | Link to this

dang, Das your machine is a WHOLE lot cheaper, try $1.25/ea in my neck of the woods. on the Taco 7ELL, I got food poisoning from the one up here, won’t go back. besides in small town USA, you check the health dept ranking before you eat, and if its below 80(which a few have been) you stay away.

By KIR

May 17, 2005 12:22 PM | Link to this

For old school hip hop headz…Music Midtown is blazing some hip hop pioneers on Sunday: MC Lyte, Whodini, Biz Markie, Slick Rick, Doug E Fresh. My main reason for trying to go to Music Midtown would be to see Common!

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 12:26 PM | Link to this

KIR - Girl that would be the only day I’d want to be at Music Midtown. That show is going to be tight as h3ll. How the h3ll did tghey jump from $45 to $75 in one year?? I’m not paying that much for one day.

By Jael

May 17, 2005 12:30 PM | Link to this

Thanks KIR, I’m standing besides you checking out Common!!

By divine1

May 17, 2005 12:32 PM | Link to this

@ Ignatius - Yes, there have been a few people that took my breath away, but there has only been one that I felt a inexplicable connection with and that was the weirdest feeling. It’s such a weird feeling - you feel like this person has been with you for a lifetime even though you just met and you don’t want to lose them again. Would I marry someone that I felt that strong a connection with? Yes (only if he’s a Scrabble fanatic like myself -j/k). If I felt there was a strong enough foundation built, yes I would marry that person.

By Sybil

May 17, 2005 12:32 PM | Link to this

Carmen - it seems as if you always find a reason NOT to come to blog functions? Are you hiding from us?

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 12:33 PM | Link to this

KIR , do you like Common’s new joint?

And somebody PLEASE let me know if you hear about Maxwell’s next album release, (I know, I know.. I have to ask!)

Ms.AP I can’t open the file for some reason. I will try at home. Is that the woman from Jay Leno?

By Ignatius

May 17, 2005 12:35 PM | Link to this

@D1 - You’re making me blush…LOL

By divine1

May 17, 2005 12:36 PM | Link to this

@KIR - Hey lady. Now you have my ears open. WHAT???? I just missed buying MM tickets at a discounted rate through my company. Had I known about that line-up I may have actually gone down there to pick some up. Oh well.

@*MsAP - Hey Ma. Send it to my work addy, if you still have it.

By Str8

May 17, 2005 12:38 PM | Link to this

Wassup blog squad… almost back.

Well, I am with I am with you Mia…Maybe we’re doing it wrong. See, when you marry in a short time, you still have time to know your mate IN the marriage. your more like to tolerate their weakness the same way you do while dating plus people don’t have an incentive to do things just to please you (they’ll keep things real form early on), thus ain’t no time you’ll say, “you were this way when dating, now you’ve changed”

just my 2 cents on a day everything is kinda blonde for me.

By divine1

May 17, 2005 12:38 PM | Link to this

@Ignatius — SHHHHHH!!!!! Nobody has to know….

By Ignatius

May 17, 2005 12:42 PM | Link to this

@MsAP, you’ve got mail.

By Str8

May 17, 2005 12:46 PM | Link to this

And yes… We can think ourselves in or out of love…

Ever seen people think they in love when they obviously are not (infatuation/desparation)…

Ever seen someone think they hate someone yet in reality they love them and just don’t want to accept it. (hard headedness/ego)

By KIR

May 17, 2005 12:50 PM | Link to this

MsAP I couldn’t open the file either. Come on, I wanna laugh!

Jael Ain’t he beautiful?!

Wise Are you talking about Go? I haven’t heard the whole thing yet.

Divine Hey girl! Congratulations on your walk! And if I had known you could get discount tickets I would have been hitting up your e-mail address! LOL

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 12:52 PM | Link to this

now wait just one minute! what are you up to Divine!? if anyone gets to have a blog affair with Ignatius it should be me! LOL..what’s going on between you two..j/k

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 12:52 PM | Link to this

Wise - yeah that’s the fruit cake lady from jay leno. she is hilarious!

Ig - If you sent it to my hotmail, I’ll check it at home.

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 12:54 PM | Link to this

STR8 - I work with a woman who met this guy on a previous job, she was supposed to initiate change, he was resistive, were at each others’ throats most of the time.

They have now been married at least 10 years.

and look at those two on Meet the Press, Caraville(sp) and Mary M. talk about a match made in h3ll, but seems to work for THEM.

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 12:56 PM | Link to this

Sorry u can’t see the file. It gave me a good laugh this morning.

Have y’all seen the clip of Baby Beyonce who was a finalist on America’s Funniest Home Videos? Lil mama was doing her thang!

By Jael

May 17, 2005 12:57 PM | Link to this

KIR- YES He is! but dang MsAP that a leap in prices, especially given the Vibe fest will be the same weekend!

I was thinking Vibe Fest, Friday night 4 sho! Sat nite, I’ll pass but now they have the LBoogie!

By Cee

May 17, 2005 01:01 PM | Link to this

thanks MsAp for the laugh! Wouldn’t you love to have her for a grandma?!

By CSC

May 17, 2005 01:02 PM | Link to this

this is the link from jay leno’s website…there are about 7 different fruitcake lady clips…

http://www.nbc.com/nbc/TheTonightShowwithJayLeno/fruitcakelady/fruitcakeladypage2.shtml

By KIR

May 17, 2005 01:02 PM | Link to this

MsAP Little Beyonce was hilarious! Too funny!

@Ig’s question: I have met some guys that took my breath away. Sad to say most of the time I wasn’t bold enough to say anything and just looked at them or engaged in small talk but never took it further. I have also met guys that I felt a special connection with, like we were supposed to be in each other’s lives for a reason, which at the time I assumed was a relationship but that turned out to not be the case. Has anybody ever felt like that and where does that feeling come from?

By divine1

May 17, 2005 01:05 PM | Link to this

@Wise Diva - A girl can dream can’t she???? LOL. I think if I could take certain qualities of our blog brothers I could possibly have the makings of the perfect man. ‘cept I don’t know which one I would have the correct measurements for what I need. LOL.

@KIR — Thanks, young lady. I almost bonked but I made a promise and had to stick with it.

By Ignatius

May 17, 2005 01:11 PM | Link to this

@Wise, D1, you know I love you both! XOX

@KIR - I always just considered it a gift from God, one of those special moments like an unexpected present you get. Sometimes, brief little encounters like that sure can make life beautiful.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 01:14 PM | Link to this

Hey got my Star War tickets for Friday 4:30 in the Town Center area, any one else???

By questions

May 17, 2005 01:16 PM | Link to this

what’s the purpose of marriage anyway?

By jRock

May 17, 2005 01:26 PM | Link to this

dayum.. still catching up, but ^5 to CSC’s 10:14 post you all that and a bag chips. ;-)

Back to catching up..

By divine1

May 17, 2005 01:26 PM | Link to this

@Ignatius - You know the feeling is mutual. XOOXOXOXOXO

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 01:33 PM | Link to this

@ KIR - good question? could it be the alcohol? or mayhaps chemical imbalance in the brain? LOL

@Ig - luv ya back! I had to give you guys a hard time…it was too easy.

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 01:36 PM | Link to this

how in the hell brian nichols gonna plead not guilty? he should ask for a mistrial right now based on poor legal counsel

By MsK

May 17, 2005 01:47 PM | Link to this

@Tray- I’ll be at the 415 showing on Thursday. Gotta remember to carry my “movie purse” that day for snacks!

@MsAP- got the email chica, thanks!

By questions

May 17, 2005 01:58 PM | Link to this

if marriage is all that, why is the divorce rate so high?

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 02:01 PM | Link to this

Brian Nichols looks just like his mother……that’s amazing. It’s very disheartening to see how much his parents are suffering. I can’t believe he plead not guilty, this just worsens everything for all the grieving families involved in this.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 02:02 PM | Link to this

can’t go on Thursday, dang thing called a final presentation for a class

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 02:02 PM | Link to this

I wanna go see Episode III with somebody….anyone want to go on Sunday??

By Carrington

May 17, 2005 02:02 PM | Link to this

what up gang?

…been hung up in here with this new phone system. Let me see what you guys are talking about….

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 02:03 PM | Link to this

Agg, I was thinking…where is the rest of the plea?..guilty by reason of mental defect or insanity…something! I know his defense isn’t gonna be “wuddn’t me” is it!?

By MsK

May 17, 2005 02:05 PM | Link to this

Here’s a question-

If he isn’t AggWit, then who exactly is Questions?

By CSC

May 17, 2005 02:05 PM | Link to this

MissK…i’ve got a movie purse too…winking

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 02:05 PM | Link to this

Ms AP..I think I could go on Sunday, what theater are you closest to?

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 02:14 PM | Link to this

Wise - I live in the Dec so Stonecrest in the closest, but I am willing to go to North Dekalb or Regal Cinemas off of 85.

By questions

May 17, 2005 02:15 PM | Link to this

why do you assume male?

By CSC

May 17, 2005 02:16 PM | Link to this

my favorite movie snacks are ike and mike’s…hot tamales and meximelts from taco bell…i will buy soft drinks and nachos from the theater…but not much else…i’m not a big popcorn eater…

By Mia

May 17, 2005 02:17 PM | Link to this

If you are trying to see Star Wars this weekend I suggest buying your tickets in advance if they are not already sold out. Y’all know I’m going to the very first show…12:01am.

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 02:18 PM | Link to this

I am cool with all of those. I am in downtown dec. I am leaning towards Stonecrest because I can shop a lil bit too. Can you email me your phone#. I thought I had it but I changed phones since then.

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 02:20 PM | Link to this

Back from a good, long lunch…

KIR, I’m going both nights. Its not my type of concert, but some friends and I are getting a suite at the dome. So I’m going more for the fellowship than anything.

Jael, Personally, I don’t think there is ‘One’ person for me. I think when its all said and done - I’m presented with men from which to choose. I have dated two men where, if we would have had a short courtship and got married, I would not have bailed out by now. However, I’ve realized that when it comes time for the real work needed in a relationship - I start to ask myself, is this worth it? I’m not sure if I want to get married at all. Many have told me that’s just because I haven’t met the ‘One’, but I don’t think that’s the case. I am truly enjoying my single life - so as soon as a guy does something I don’t like, I start to think ‘why am I in this, I’m more content by myself’

A good friend of mine told me this weekend that I was a spoiled brat. I would agree that I am somewhat spoiled, but I reject the brat label…

By questions

May 17, 2005 02:21 PM | Link to this

I AM, THAT, I AM

By questions

May 17, 2005 02:29 PM | Link to this

why is there an imposter trying to be “me”?

just because you post the same email address, you still aren’t “me”.

By MsK

May 17, 2005 02:33 PM | Link to this

huh? @ questions

My fav movie snacks- popcorn and m&m’s. Yum. I take my own candy and a bottle of dasani cause that is what they sell at the theater. Don’t want to draw attention.

By CSC

May 17, 2005 02:33 PM | Link to this

it seems that someone is breaking cardinal rume number one of blogland… DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES ASSUME AN IDENTITY AND/OR EMAIL ADDY THAT BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE!!!

By Tray

May 17, 2005 02:34 PM | Link to this

@CSC- I have to have my junior mints! they are minty and refreshing ya know!

think I’ll stop at the big Tar-jay and get some before the big show

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 02:37 PM | Link to this

you doggone right you are spoiled! you ask your friend what is the alternative! Nothing wrong with expecting the best, when you ARE the best. I know I am spoiled, and brat is close to diva, so yea, I would take that too!

By CSC

May 17, 2005 02:38 PM | Link to this

that very infraction has been known to get another blogger’s access blocked…i’m sure the bloggers from way back remember tiffany daye…

By questions

May 17, 2005 02:41 PM | Link to this

MsK, because, this post, “why do you assume male?” did not come from me, but a wanna be….

on that note, another question, why not come up with an original, thought provoking, name of your own? Do you want to be me? Imitation is the best form of flattery, though!

By Mia

May 17, 2005 02:41 PM | Link to this

Don’t make me have to get mean on a Tuesday…come on now…BEHAVE…follow the rules.

By Tray

May 17, 2005 02:41 PM | Link to this

huh

By CSC

May 17, 2005 02:49 PM | Link to this

see…y’all gone make carolina blue show that jersey drive side of her…

By Jael

May 17, 2005 02:50 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, nothing like knowing yourself! I’ve develop similar feelings for the single life- After meeting and dating some interestingly great guys, but not willing to go thru the difficult or chaos of making it worth the effort, I concluded the single life has it’s rewards.

^5 Wise What’s so bad about being spoiled? Brat, yeah that’s not good but I admit to being spoiled and even spoiling myself! I figured most of it I deserve

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 02:52 PM | Link to this

yeah, we remember Ms daye. posting as WiseDiva.(trying to)

heh, I never buy anything at the cinema, food-wise, but they run those ads pre-show, showing those popables, and lo and behold I saw a special display at a Publix for them….Kinda neat, candy bars the size of chocolate-covered expresso beans. I got ThreeMusketeers and put them in a jar at home, next to the chocolate-covered expresso beans.

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 02:56 PM | Link to this

That’s the thing Jael, I wasn’t spoiled growing up and I just recently (in the past few years) realized that I don’t have to feel guilty about spoiling myself. Granted, I don’t expect a man to be able to spoil me at the same level I can spoil myself - he won’t know me as well as I know myself - but I do expect to be catered to some…

By questions

May 17, 2005 02:57 PM | Link to this

I thought she was posting as Carrington…….

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 03:00 PM | Link to this

I bring ice tea, wine coolers, water, whatever to the movies. My favorite candy is Hot Tamales and Sour Punch straws. But I love me some movie popcorn with the orage salt and usually get a large all for myself!

By divine1

May 17, 2005 03:01 PM | Link to this

What in the heck is going on here????

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 03:01 PM | Link to this

have yall ever woke up to some sex? loml be molesting me in my sleep and I sleep too hard to even realize it and because of the whole reticular system I am already ahem aroused and she takes advantage. I feel cheap. So the other night I CAUGHT her and she says to me I never minded before. So this has been going on for awhile. Dirty heiffer. So I told her to stop and she said, ‘but you like it’ and i said how do you know and she says “cause you always are smiling n stuff when i do it”

This ever happened to yall?

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 03:02 PM | Link to this

I hide my movie snacks inside an empty box of tampons in a big hobo bag. (LOL)

KIR - sorry, I was thinking that new Common CD had dropped already. Okayplayer website says May 24. I can’t wait! I was mad he only stayed on stage at JScott concert for what seemed a few minutes!

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 03:05 PM | Link to this

OVERSHARING ALERT - dang AGG WITT, put a disclaimer up before you go TMI on us.. i’m tellin LOML on you! LOL

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 03:06 PM | Link to this

@AggWitt - happen to me? YUP, best way to be woken up…chuckle (beats a dog barking or the door getting kicked in)

and you complaining? LOL

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 03:06 PM | Link to this

The one time I tried to sneak a coke into the movie theater - the can mysteriously leaked in my new coach bag. I say mysteriously because I could not find so much as a pin hole in that can…

I like movie popcorn with butter and a soda. Then I hope my movie mate gets a slushy so I can get a sip or two. I can’t drink the entire slushy (brain freeze) so I just need a taste.

LOL @ Wise putting the snacks in a tampon box.

By Ivy

May 17, 2005 03:06 PM | Link to this

Yep, AW. I do it all the time to my man and he loves it…….teheheehheheheheheeh! I took your advice from Saturday night, he was smiling really big when he woke up Sunday morning. Oh I meant, uhmmmmmmm, well, uhmmmm, yeah, it happens. hahahahahahah!

By Tray

May 17, 2005 03:07 PM | Link to this

its not spoiled, well loved is what I like to say!

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 03:07 PM | Link to this

I admit that I am spoiled by my parents, but I am NOT a spoiled brat. I am very appreciative of their unconditional love and support.

I think everyone deserves to be spoiled sometimes, whether by themselves or someone else. I plan on spoiling my man often!

By AJC1975

May 17, 2005 03:08 PM | Link to this

AW,

Your girlfriend is having sex with you while you sleep? And you have a problem with that???Most men would like that…you should consider yourself lucky!!!

My question is why is she having sex with you in that state? Seems like she prefers to be in complete control of you and the situation,w/o your input! You should ask her why that’s is…

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 03:09 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ ADub! You know you like it!

By MsK

May 17, 2005 03:11 PM | Link to this

really AggWit! Having met LOYL before, I really did not need that visual!

But Yes I know what you are talking about.

By MsK

May 17, 2005 03:18 PM | Link to this

OK- 24 junkies

How off the hook was last nights episode!? My fav parts- Chloe getting smart with Tony, Heller boy’s confession, and Tony getting taken. I even was touched by the declaration of love by Michelle.

By Jael

May 17, 2005 03:18 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, I’m glad you came to that realization! I admit to being somewhat spoiled growing up- but hey aren’t baby girls supposed to be spoiled? You read to be a caring and thoughtful person living a rewarding life-such a life isn’t easy. I’m sure most of the sacrifices that you’ve endured just to be able to live such a life were made by you alone? I could be wrong. I don’t recall anyone staying up half or all nights studying for exams for me, missing party after party or worst dealing with a bunch of knuckled heads on the job, working long hours away from home for days on end… Just thinking about it, reminds me that I deserve to be spoiled!

Aggwitt, man what are you thinking about over there?

A tampon box Wisediva LOL just any old box won’t do huh?

By Wise Diva

May 17, 2005 03:18 PM | Link to this

I would wait for your azz to be sleep to get mine too if you were my man! You would drive me nuts talkin all the doggone time, arguing about nuthin, flexin your intelligent muscle..please! just shuddup and do me! LMAO!

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 03:19 PM | Link to this

Yeah, I can see some 16 y/o male attendant at the cinema, searching purses for contraband and STOPPING when he sees that big ole tampon box: “that’s okay, Ma’am, sorry about that”

By AJC1975

May 17, 2005 03:20 PM | Link to this

AW,

the next time she does it and you’re aware of it..you should call out some other woman’s name..or better yet some dude’s name…that would shock the hell out of her LOL

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 03:21 PM | Link to this

Since we’re all sharing…

My ex took advantage of me while I was asleep. He said he thought I was pretending to be asleep.

I also once had a dream that I was doing the do and actually had the Big O. I woke up and was like DAYUM!

By Jael

May 17, 2005 03:23 PM | Link to this

Brakes>>> AJC

By Sybil

May 17, 2005 03:24 PM | Link to this

Or get his large schlong cut off.

By Jael

May 17, 2005 03:32 PM | Link to this

MsAP are you trying to repeat that dream? often? LOL

By Miss Me

May 17, 2005 03:32 PM | Link to this

Hi all..been lurking, but had to comment on this one:

uhhhh, agg wit…don’t act like you don’t like being violated..So you sayin you don’t like it???

just don’t get hurt, check out this story.

[http://www.wsbtv.com/news/4497426/detail.html]

although you would have a good case since you be sleepin all hard (pun intended) and stuff :)

By AJC1975

May 17, 2005 03:34 PM | Link to this

WOW MsAP…i wish something like that would happen to me! Does that happen to you often? Dreaming yourself into a big O?

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 03:35 PM | Link to this

and tossed out a window…LOL

you know, too bad we did not ALL sit here and go ‘naw, NEVER happens to us, that’s some freaky stuff”. (on AggWitt’s post)

but we all just had to be TOO honest..chuckle

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 03:36 PM | Link to this

oh, ^5/s to Jael for the ‘who got me where I am today’ view.

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 03:38 PM | Link to this

AJC - I’m sure she does it all in fun. I would do the same thing to my man!

By Royal Chic

May 17, 2005 03:38 PM | Link to this

Nice topic Mia, but didn’t get to read it all??!!

Ms. AP-The cutie from Dugan’s is too young and it shows so we will be friends if anything at all……things are going well with the Piscean though:)

Tazzee-I guess I need to lurk more often to see when you guys are goin’ to do a blog night out……..sorry I missed it:( When is the next outing??!! We should do something at Centennial Park for the Hump Day experience??!!

What’s crackin’ Skegee

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 03:39 PM | Link to this

MsAP - that happened to me before and I was in the bed with my man at the time. I woke up and he was clear on the other side of the bed - for a second I thought he had done something, but he was knocked out.

By truly

May 17, 2005 03:49 PM | Link to this

MsAP - are you dreaming about your fantasy when you O arrives.

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 03:49 PM | Link to this

The Big O dream only happened once and hasn’t happened since. Man do I wish…

MissMe - I love puns and that was a good one. Did you ever watch the cartoon Beetlejuice? That joint was packed with puns!

Are you and Cee still going to 6 flags on Sun? I thought you could only get in one friend per pass.

By Jael

May 17, 2005 03:49 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, I hope your man was in the dream if not… you didn’t tell him did you?

By Queen Carmen

May 17, 2005 03:53 PM | Link to this

Ok i’m trying to catch up but it ain’t working for me…MsK as far as 24 now the “real president” (palmer) is he still in charge or what? cause last night they kept calling the other dude “president” what’s up with that?

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 03:55 PM | Link to this

big negative on calling out another dudes name, not sure why that would even cross someones mind.

I did ask her what she would do if she was doing that one night and I said the name of some hot brawd either in the news or from my past. She said after i stabbed you I would ask you what you were dreaming about.

Oh I dont think she prefers it that way, she says she tries to wake me up first but I sleep WAY deep. My REM is luke some Coma ish.

And hell yeah im complaining cause I aint getting no pleasure out of it. She getting her jollies on i wake up with a belly full of sex juice wondering what the hell happened n stuff. Oh yeah im complaining. having all that fun with me but without me. I would imagine its kinda like dude who was a red sox fan for like 27 years then had a coma last october. Yeah your team won, but damnit to hell if they aint do it without you.

By divine1

May 17, 2005 03:56 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee & MsAP - You ladies have quite the imagination. I’m hoping to have one of those dreams real soon. LOL.

@RC — I sent you the evite, missy. We were all looking for you to come. :(

By questions

May 17, 2005 03:58 PM | Link to this

if college isn’t all about sports, then why does the coaches make more than the presidents?

By divine1

May 17, 2005 03:59 PM | Link to this

@AggWit — Never had it done to me before, but I have definitely done it to someone. That’s why I late night and mid-morning escapades so much. What a way to wake a man up.

By MsAP

May 17, 2005 04:00 PM | Link to this

divine - Pisceans are dreamers and I have a vivid imagination!

Anyhoo, I’m out folks. Yall have a great afternoon! PEACE.

By truly

May 17, 2005 04:00 PM | Link to this

MsAP - I told my lady what you said. She didn’t believe me. She said that she can only reach that point with me and when she double clicks her mouse….lol

By anonymousella

May 17, 2005 04:01 PM | Link to this

poppin back in all late and stuff @divine, jael and tazzee: thank you for the well wishes (and um, thank you again mia for the intro to sweetie).

@a-dub: shawty, we really didn’t need to know all that bout you and LOYL. But since you brought it up and asked the question …

my “ex” used to do that. used to irritate the h3ll out of me. i swear i will cuss a negro out for disturbin’ my sleep. lucky for me and lucky for sweetie, he doesn’t wake me up…. which means mo’ energy for the mornin’ time :-).

By divine1

May 17, 2005 04:05 PM | Link to this

@MsAP - Yeah, I know about you Pisceans. Had a relationship with one once, he was actually the best —- I ever had. ;)

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 04:07 PM | Link to this

Jael - yes he was in the dream, but I didn’t tell him about it. I felt it would be wrong - telling him of my experience from a dream, but we weren’t doing the do.

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 04:07 PM | Link to this

then why does the coaches make more than the presidents?

Better question is why DO the coaches make more than the TEACHERS and what college did you go to?

By questions

May 17, 2005 04:07 PM | Link to this

why do athletes, in particular, who have a lot of money, dislike to pay their child support? i.e., Ralph Sampson, Rae Carruth, Andre Rison, atty Willie Gary………….

By divine1

May 17, 2005 04:08 PM | Link to this

@anon - You’re welcome. Dang- Mia hooked y’all up. Now that’s cool. :)

By questions

May 17, 2005 04:11 PM | Link to this

colleges have presidents at the helm…..teachers teach secondary school, while professors teach in college….

By DasKrait2

May 17, 2005 04:13 PM | Link to this

because SPORTS is BIG BUSINESS and education is just that, education.

said sarcastically…..

By Tray

May 17, 2005 04:20 PM | Link to this

crap, the dang regional is poppin in. only an hour and I was free, geez oh petes!

By Jael

May 17, 2005 04:21 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, yeah that would have been a bit awkward - hmmm maybe he would have been flattered, getting you to the O with a mere dream of him! What an ego inflator!

That was awfully nice of Mia and apparently a good call too.

Divine, how are you lovely spirit? Congrads on the walk! I gather you’re getting your walk on?

Willie Gary? really? He can afford to buy a child or two

By aggressively witty

May 17, 2005 04:22 PM | Link to this

rae carruth cant pay child support cause he locked up aint he? This dude cant pay no support offa his commissary. “This court hereby orders you to pay 3 twinkies and 7 cigarettes for every 9 of each you get”

By Jael

May 17, 2005 04:25 PM | Link to this

I’m sorry ?, you wrote athlete, I immediately thought of the attorney!

By Queen Carmen

May 17, 2005 04:30 PM | Link to this

Have y’all seen the email of Mike Vick’s new house? it’s beautiful

By Skegee

May 17, 2005 04:30 PM | Link to this

Hey Royal Chic,,,I was wondering about the young’un too…he sure is fine though!

Ms. AP, I’m a Pisces as well…my imagination gets the best of me all the time!

Hi all…sorry, don’t have much to add to this convo…

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 04:30 PM | Link to this

LOL - pay child support off his commissary!

By divine1

May 17, 2005 04:30 PM | Link to this

@Jael - Hey lady. How are you doing? I’m fantastic. Thanks for the congrats on the walk. People are already asking me if I’m going to be a team captain next year. ;) You know I said yes. After all, it’s for such a good cause and so many of us are affected by it in some way. How is your mom? Call me when you get a chance.

By questions

May 17, 2005 04:37 PM | Link to this

you were correct, Jael, that’s why I stated, “atty” Willie Gary……

By Carrington

May 17, 2005 04:38 PM | Link to this

Been skimming through and I have to say -you guys have been all over the place today…

AggWitt you gotta love getting the goodie while asleep, but when you wake up -you seem really tired.

MsAP -I have had those dreams -they are called wet in a man’s world. I have not had them since I was a kid. I was all happy and bragging about it, Older cats was calling me 10…saying I must have been dreaming of Bo Derek in the old movie. Not sure if many of you remember that one….

Queen -Yes Pres Palmer is still running things, but it is not suppose to be known to the members of the cabinet. That is why they staged the little disagreement between Pres. Palmer and the Pres Biatchy to make it seem as if Palmer was not in charge.

I plan on meeting up with you guys this week -either Windown at Centennial or Karaoke….

MzB what up Sexy…..

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 04:40 PM | Link to this

divine1 - you know you can count on me for your team next year. I had a great time, and I might even follow through with recruiting more team members this time.

By Mia

May 17, 2005 04:41 PM | Link to this

Anon and her special someone truly deserve each other. Y’all just fit together like a jigsaw puzzle.

Now if I can just hook myself up…

By Queen Carmen

May 17, 2005 04:47 PM | Link to this

Good Night everyone

By divine1

May 17, 2005 04:48 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee - I was hoping you would say that. ;) Do you want to be co-captain next year.

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 04:48 PM | Link to this

anybody ever been to Chow Baby? I went there for lunch today and it was good. I gotta go back when my time isn’t limited.

Have a great evening all.

By Queen Carmen

May 17, 2005 04:48 PM | Link to this

Thanks Carrington

By Tazzee

May 17, 2005 04:52 PM | Link to this

I’ll pass on the co-captain designation - I just want to come and walk.

OK, I’m gone for real this time.

By Carrington

May 17, 2005 04:57 PM | Link to this

anybody down for some bowling this weekend…..

or does anyone know where the midnight bowling thing is held….

By divine1

May 17, 2005 04:57 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee - ‘kay. As long as I have you on my team. ;)

By Skegee

May 17, 2005 05:02 PM | Link to this

Carrington, I’d be willing to watch y’all bowl…I’m no good at it!