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Monday, December 17, 2007
Does your man turn into Mr. Scrooge ?
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
So the holidays are in full swing and the men in our lives aren’t exactly as jolly as Ole’ Saint Nick. What do you do? Well ladies, you should keep in mind that holidays are a lot of work, expectations, and headaches for guys. After polling a few of my favorite guys, here are the main reasons men are often channeling Mr. Scrooge:
Shopping. It’s rare that you meet a guy who just adores shopping. It’s tolerable when you are buying for yourself but when you have to step to the dark side (read: pink and girly side) of the crowded stores, your eyes may start to glaze over!
Honey-Do List: From unwinding that big bundle of lights, to hauling in a tree from the truck, this time of year men are called upon to do a laundry list of things. When these things interrupt watching sports? Oh, not a happy camper!
Expectations: Let’s face it, some men feel pressure during the holidays: impress the family, be cordial to co-workers, devote quality time to the kids, and other obligatory social expectations that may exist (internal or external). Not to mention the challenge in buying the ideal gift.
Guys, we know you could add to this list (and feel free to do so!) but what are the things you actually enjoy about the holidays? How do you relax and unwind during the holiday madness and rush?
What do you think your family, friends, dates, or significant others could do to ease the pressures of this season for you?
Ladies, are you dating Mr. Scrooge? Have you ever dated someone who was extremely difficult during this time of year? How did you handle it? Did you give him his space? What are fun ways to hype the holiday season for the men in your lives?
(Wise Diva is half of the writing team for Misadventures in Atlanta, the ajc.com dating blog.)
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