MOMania

By MA

November 4, 2008 7:01 AM | Link to this

7 and 5 year olds maybe, if, well behaved. 19 month old - NEVER!!!! It will not be fun for you or other people in line. I have seen it in person and I actually left one year because I could not stand hearing the mother trying to appease her children whining and crying. I had already waited 2 hours. I went back to work and then went back at 6:30 and only had to wait about 20 minutes!! I voted early this year. Went the first day of early voting and it took me about 3 minutes from start to finish!! Good luck!!

By Kristin

November 4, 2008 7:22 AM | Link to this

Heck no, leave the kids with their dad and vote unemcumbered.

The kids will remember little from the experience and will learn more from what you teach at home.

Why burden yourself with 3 kiddoes on what is likely to be a painstaking event?

By new mom

November 4, 2008 7:26 AM | Link to this

I decided to go solo to vote early last week—I asked my mom to come sit at our house while our 13 mth old napped. It took me two hours, and by the time I got home she was just waking up.

I took her with me to vote in the primaries, but there was practically no wait. And I plan to take her with me in the future, but certainly not when she’s still so little and there’s a long wait involved. The other people in line will appreciate that too, I think….

I think that by the next presidential election, she will be old enough (5, oh my gosh) to wait with me, and start to understand the importance of voting. And learn that waiting in a long line is hardly anything worth complaining about, compared to those who gave their lives so that we have this privilege.

And until that time, IF there’s no line, I’ll have her in tow!

By motherjanegoose

November 4, 2008 7:39 AM | Link to this

I am with MA…especially with what I have heard about the crowds. But I agree with you Theresa on the time slot. Since I work in schools I am off today and plan to head over around 9:00. This is a tight race and there is no sense in making it miserable for those who are giving up hours to do their civic duty …with fussy children who are there WAY too long, I am not taking my 16 year old although she has been with me most times before. Another thought…you do not want to make your older children resent the long day they suffered through when they could have been outside enjoying the beautiful weather.

Perhaps someone could bring them to you just when you are actually ready to vote.

Finally my age old rule…if everyone did what I am doing…would that work…if 50 voters each had 3 kids in a 4 hour line HHHMMMM. Just my 2 cents.

News flash…my husband just called and got in line at 5:30 with 50 ahead of him….he just voted and said there around about 1500 folks in line at our poll.

By ebaby

November 4, 2008 7:46 AM | Link to this

I remember sitting in the car with my older siblings when my mom went to vote in the 84 election. That was just as educational as the next time that I went in with here. Simply telling your young kids that you are making a special trip somewhere to vote is good enough. No need to have them associate bad memories of standing in line with voting.

It is probably more educational for a teenager that is just a few years or months away from being able to vote.

By Jeff

November 4, 2008 7:54 AM | Link to this

I’m going to go with a minimum age of somewhere in the 12-14 range. Even at 14, it means they will see you vote in a Presidential cycle at least once before doing it themselves. Given the staggering of the Senate cycles, it also means they will see you vote in at least one Senate race before doing it themselves.

And at 12-14, they should be old enough to not cause problems waiting in line.

By jct

November 4, 2008 7:59 AM | Link to this

Good morning all,

Theresa, I think that your intent and heart are in the right place but today is not the day where you want to be in line with 3 small children. There are two many unknown factors such as length of line and more importantly time of wait that effect all people in line.

Voting should be a positive experience. If you are in line for longer than 45 minutes, this will not be a positive experience for your children, you and others in line.

I think it is very important for children to see democracy at work. But I also think in an election with record turn out that teaching that lesson from home is more important than bringing the child to the polls.

By Get a Grip

November 4, 2008 8:00 AM | Link to this

I agree with all of the above. Only take them if it makes “sense”. If they are not old enough to remember, then it doesn’t make sense and the only “experience” will be yours and those around you.

By deidre_NC

November 4, 2008 8:01 AM | Link to this

voting in my area is done at the school-so my 16 yo will be going with me. i think the first election she was interested in was 2000-she was 8. wow 8 years ago…i wouldnt take any kid that didnt understand what was happening. i think it will be an intrusion on other people in line-and it wont be a great experience for you or the kids. if your kids have listened to you and your husband talk of the election at home then thats enough of a lesson at their ages. its a firey election. there may be things said that you may not want your kids to hear at their ages. i think even my 16 yo will be bored in a long (2 hr) line-even tho she is all about voting. i have to say tho that my line wont be so long cause of where i vote. i live in a very small community and even if everyone who votes in this district came at teh same time the line wouldnt be 2 hours lol.

By jct

November 4, 2008 8:09 AM | Link to this

My 17 yo wants to go with his friends to wait in line with them. We have requested that he not go because he does not have the attention to wait in a line for two hours. We asked him if he wanted to early vote with us but he stated he did not want to go then.

It is my personal opinion that on a day like today that people who are not voting should stay out of the way.

An aside, I just spoke with a co-worker who lives in Gwinnett. She arrived in line to vote at 5:30 a.m. this morning. There were 50 people in line when she got there. She voted at 8:00 a.m. this morning. There were only 4, yes 4 machines at her precinct.

By smh

November 4, 2008 8:10 AM | Link to this

Hubby and I both decided to vote early. As I began to hear about anticipated lines, the thought of taking my two girls ages 6 and 10 was not so appealing. The 10y/o is would have tolerated the wait quite easily but not the 6 y/o. We instead discussed the election at great length here at home. I volunteered at their school’s mock election. We also helped our 10 y/o research both candidates for a school project. Each child has made their decision, thankfully it agrees with my husband and I LOL. I may drive them by the polls so they can see the significance of the lines, if any, and we’ll take it from there.

By Mr. Nice Guy

November 4, 2008 8:16 AM | Link to this

I say, yes - take all the kids. Good for you! Teach them the importance of voting as well as seeing the turn out. Do it!

By sandy

November 4, 2008 8:18 AM | Link to this

You should have voted early, near the beginning of the early voting, if you wanted to take the kids. Do not take them today!!! BUT, you better VOTE and not use this as an excuse not to vote. Also, in my day, my Parents could take us anywhere and tell us to be quiet and we would be quiet. But, we were used to discipline. And they did not have to hit us, either. We were just taught to behave and to be polite and not act like whiny fools. When we saw other kids acting like that, we couldn’t believe it! Try it with the 7 and 5 year old if you Dare…you will be the unusual Parent in your circle if you just stop letting them act in whatever way they want to act and telling yourself it is just normal. Now, the 19 month old…you can’t do anything about them but love them, they don’t know how to behave yet :) But the older two??? They can’t be quiet for 2 hours? You have failed!!!!

By TeacherMommy

November 4, 2008 8:28 AM | Link to this

I early voted while the kids were in preschool. The voting machines were new and I knew that I wanted the opportunity to figure out how to work the machine properly without having to worry that my preschool children were running into other booths. I did have a friend who took her almost two year old and in a moment she had almost unplugged the voting machine! In my case it was best to leave the children at home! Yeah for early voting…it took me 5 mintues from start to finish.

By motherjanegoose

November 4, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this

Sandy is making a valid point…..many children today cannot behave for long periods of time because the parameters ( sp?) have not been set.

This is why my husband is appalled at the way children act in restaurants now. When ours were little they were NEVER allowed to get up, throw food on the floor, run around…extended crying, whining etc.

We took them out immediately and had a stern talk. Yes, they did misbehave but we did NOT tolerate it for the sake of respecting others who were out for a nice dinner.

I was at Costco yesterday and followed a mama of a 4 year old who was pitching a FIT (for at least 4 aisles )because her mom would night buy her something in the Christmas aisle.

Everyone was looking at her and rolling their eyes at each other. THAT would not have happened when mine were 4.

If you are in line today and they have a melt down ( which they will if it is 4 hours) are you prepared to step out, take them home and start all over…

I smell a rat that mr. nice guy has already voted….LOL!

By Ayn Rand was Right

November 4, 2008 8:48 AM | Link to this

Think of the kids. Do you really want their impressions (which at this age is all they will take away) of voting to be negative and boring. By the time you get to the booth, you will want to vote as quickly as possible and get the heck out! They will want this after, say 5.32 minutes of line. :-)

By HB

November 4, 2008 8:48 AM | Link to this

I think it’s very important to take young children to the polls. Those early memories matter so much in laying a foundation for them and helping them to learn what’s important. Leave the baby at home (she won’t remember, but take her 4 years from now) so that you can better focus on the older two and talk to them about why your willing to wait in line. Get them excited about the process! I think around 5 is a good age to start. For entertainment, pick up a kid’s book about voting or politcs to read while you wait — I personally enjoy House Mouse, Senate Mouse.

By sandy

November 4, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

PS: Theresa, I should have taken the time to add something kind to my post above: I love your Blog and think you’re a Great Mom! Just too soft :) Keep on keeping on…and sorry I did not bother to add kind words along with my original scolding. How rude of me!

By HB

November 4, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

I think it’s very important to take young children to the polls. Those early memories matter so much in laying a foundation for them and helping them to learn what’s important. Leave the baby at home (she won’t remember, but take her 4 years from now) so that you can better focus on the older two and talk to them about why your willing to wait in line. Get them excited about the process! I think around 5 is a good age to start. For entertainment, pick up a kid’s book about voting or politcs to read while you wait — I personally enjoy House Mouse, Senate Mouse.

By Stan

November 4, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Eh..Take them if you want. I got to my polling place at about 7:15 AM and was done by 7:45ish. The line moved quickly and was almost gone completly by the time I left.

That said I live in Jackson county so I didn’t expect too much of a line anyway.

I do agree that your kiddos are probably too young to get anything at all out of the process.

By A&Z Mom

November 4, 2008 9:11 AM | Link to this

I was going to take my kids with me to vote also, they are 3 & 4. But I decided to go alone since they would probably not be happy waiting in a long line.

I got up early and went to vote while my husband was still home. I only live 5 minutes from the voting place, I was in line at 6:15am, once the polls opened at 7am, it took 45 minutes to wait in line, about a minute to do the ID check in and then just waiting my time to vote. I was out by 8am. My husband called about 8:15 and there was a good bunch of people in front of him, but at least he was close to the entrance.

I’ll take my kids with me in 4 years when we all have more patience.

By b

November 4, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this

I would not take them at this age but if you can get 3 of the peach stickers bring them home. I was in line at 6:00 am with about 30 people ahead of me. I was done by 7:25 am, but my husband got in line at 7:45 and he just emailed me that he has at least another hour to go. I would wait until they are at least 10-12 before having them stand in a line for 2 to 3 hours to watch you vote.

By K

November 4, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

Don’t do it. You’ll be kicking yourself in the a* later.

By K

November 4, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

Don’t do it. You’ll be kicking yourself in the a* later.

By Numbers Guy

November 4, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

I’d take the 5 and 7 YO’s but not the 19 MO. That’s just asking for trouble.

I went at 7:30 this AM and was done by 8:30 at my precinct in Cobb. If I’d arrived at the time I left, I could’ve been done in 20 minutes. There was a line, but it kept moving. By 8:30, it was minimal.

By Jessica

November 4, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

I took my 19 month old this morning here in Dekalb County and had no problem at all. We waited for 1 hour and 15 minutes and he did fine. I will always take my children with me to something as important as this. My mom did it with all of us when we were little. My husband went with me which made it easier.

By Shannon, M.Div.

November 4, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

When I was young, my mother took me with her to vote. I have not missed an election. I vaguely remember one presidential election—1984, maybe?—where there was a multi-hour line. Mom did not tell me for whom she voted, despite my best attempts to wheedle it out of her. I’m definitely more politically active than either of my parents now, but it started then when I was intrigued by all these people willing to wait a long time just to get in a little booth and press some buttons. At the time, they had a little sample ballot for kids that showed how voting worked—I don’t remember it very well, but I remember being excited that I got to “vote” too.

By mom2two

November 4, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

We took the 8 year old, but waited until the 4 year old was already at preschool. The line took only 30 minutes and he saw many of his friends also waiting. All in all, it was a fairly enjoyable experience. I think your plan of voting during “retiree time” is spot on. Good luck!

By Adrienne

November 4, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

I took my 6 month old with me and after waiting in line for 20 min someone that had just voted told me that Ga allows those with a 6 month and younger child and those over the age of 75 to skip to the front of the line. I felt bad about doing it but it was 50 degrees outside and we still had over an hour and a half of waiting to go.

About the subject in question, leave the infant at home with your husband and let the two of them have time together. Take the other 2 with you. My brother and I went with my mom growing up and by the time we were able to vote it was second nature to us.

By Sugar

November 4, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

I just finished voting. I stood in line for a just little over 2 hours.

This is the first year I have NOT taken the kids. They wanted to sleep this a.m., since school was closed. My oldest has been working very hard, so she decided not to go with me this time.

There were several little ones at the polls this morning, and I noticed that NO ONE of them had any problems. They were all so well behaved and quiet. I stood in line with some great people, and made new friends.

I’m glad I waited until today to vote. I am wearing my sticker with PRIDE.

By LM

November 4, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

My daughters school is not out today. So while she caught the bus to school, I drove to the polling location, got there at 6.39 and waited in line about 30 people. I do have a complaint about waiting in line, the two gentleman in front of me and the gentleman behind me all thought that smoking in line was okay because we were outside. I am hyper sensitive and tried to step as far away from them as possible, I didn’t say anyting to them, but felt my eyes burning and watering. Polls opened at 7 and I was back in the car at 7:16, and on the road to work. I’d have voted early but they opened at 8 and closed at 5, I work 1 1/2 hours from home and could never make it in time without being late or leaving work early.

By lisa

November 4, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Back in the 2004 kerry/bush election, our family - Mom, Dad, 6 year old + 5 year old - waiting 3 hours outside to vote.

Our kids were great! We let them play with the other kids in line and it was fine.

By Elizabeth

November 4, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

It is ABSOLUTELY worth the effort. My parents took us to vote in every election from the time we turned two. One election was too cold and wet for us to be in the weather so my Mom went early in the day to vote and she stayed in the car with us at the precinct that evening when Dad voted. I knew they voted even when their votes were cancelling each other out! They talked about issues at the dinner table, civilly and with respect for each other’s opinion. From my earliest memory Election Day was a Big Deal!! I always understood that voting was a responsibility and, after I was older, that my vote came at the cost of the lives of others. Someone else buried a brother, father, grandfather, mom, sister, daughter so I could vote.

Consequently, I vote, my brother and his wife vote, my 24 year old daughter votes, and my grandchildren, when they appear, will vote.

My daughter always voted with me and my brother’s children vote with him. If they don’t learn it from you where on earth are they supposed to learn it?

By danish

November 4, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

I was hesitant to go vote because I had noone to watch my rambunctious 2.5 yr old. Drove past the school, the lines werent too long, stood in line for an hour and some change, he was rambunctious but not obnoxious. Then found out I was at the wrong school. So, I got my vote in, thank goodness. All that worry for nothing. I dont think we annoyed anyone too much waiting in line.

By Betheroo

November 4, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

By all means take your children rather than not vote! I saw several parents with children at my polling place today and they were not annoying at all - especially compared to the folks who just couldn’t disconnect themselves from their cellphones.

By Jake

November 4, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

Kids are so overrated!

By a muffin

November 4, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

I took my three children to vote with me today. I didn’t really have a choice since my husband was at work and I don’t have a babysitter. We stood in line and chatted with the woman in front of us. We only waited an hour so it wasn’t too bad. The other kids I saw there were all well behaved. I don’t really see what the problem is with taking your kids. It is something that you have to do and kids need to learn that standing in line happens in life. Rarely in life do we get to jump to the front of the line.

By JeremiahWright

November 4, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

I’m taking my almost 5yo daughter today. I jokingly asked her who she’s voting for and she said “McCain”. Looks like the brainwashing worked on her. Wish the rest of the voters would wake up.

By Twanda Green

November 4, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

I took my kids (7 & 11) to vote with me during early voting. It took us 2 hours & 45 mins. Everyone commented on how well behave and patience they were. They were happy to be a part of history in the making. I let them press the button for the president. I have always taken my kids to vote with me and will continue to. Some things in life is worth the wait, and voting is one of them. I will never forget the great Civil Rights Movement and neither will my kids.

By Aoril

November 4, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

I would rather see kids then parents not get to vote. A lot of people dont have a daycare and are stay at home moms with nobody to watch the little darlings.

By VoiceOfReason

November 4, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

Yep, my hubby and I took our 2 and a half year old. Yep, you read that right, 2 AND A HALF YEAR OLD. She had her oatmeal before we came, her teddy was with us, and we had a stash of halloween candy just in case she was loosing focus. Worked out great. Took us almost 3 hours. Everyone in line was happy to see her and she enjoyed all the attention she got. I even told her what buttons to push for me. We’ll do it again.

P.S. - Judge all you want on the candy, people in line kept tellin me how well behaved she was. Besides, this was a special occasion.

By Michelle

November 4, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

I have a 2 and 4 year old, I could not imagine taking them to the poles with a 1 hour wait, therefore a 3 hour wait is out of the question. No matter how much activities and snacks I pack for them, they would be extremely inpatient. But these are my kids. Some kids tend to have more patience.

By Jessalyn

November 4, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

I took my three children ages 6, 4, and 3, for the same reasons. I was fortunately that the entire process took less than 30 minutes. One poll worker was a little unfriendly about my children being there, but another one was extremely helpful. I was very appreciative.

By TakeTheKids

November 4, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

TAke the kids with you. My daughter is 4 and I have taken her with me to vote in almost every election since she was born. She remembers it. I was going to drop her off this morning at her Nana’s house and then go vote, but she said Mommy, I want to vote first. So, she waited in line with me for an hour, relatively well-behaved. She was excited to vote, or just be there. I hope she carries this enthusiasm throughout her life!

By I'm With Them!

November 4, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

I took mine today (all 4 of them) and expected to wait a long time. Fortunately, we walked right in (NO wait at ALL) and voted! I am sooooo happy, they are happy and all is well. I know it could have been a VERY long wait, but it would have been worth the experience. It was important for me to take them to the polls and I am glad that I did.

By TakeTheKids

November 4, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

TAke the kids with you. My daughter is 4 and I have taken her with me to vote in almost every election since she was born. She remembers it. I was going to drop her off this morning at her Nana’s house and then go vote, but she said Mommy, I want to vote first. So, she waited in line with me for an hour, relatively well-behaved. She was excited to vote, or just be there. I hope she carries this enthusiasm throughout her life!

By Jae

November 4, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

I say if u feel ur kids will ‘work with u’ then take them by all means! I voted this morning in Paulding Co… and I took my 5 month old along, BUT it was after she’d had breakfast, so she was content in her stroller with her blanket. She actually slept thru most of it. I’m glad it only took an hour. She woke up when I put her in the car :o)

By MariettaMom

November 4, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Three kids under six, and you didn’t vote by mail? Can I ask why not?

By Kristie

November 4, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this

We took 3 of our 4 boys with us at about 9:30 this morning, and it was great. In and out in under 30 minutes in Tucker.

By FCM

November 4, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

I was in line shortly after 6AM this morning and was in the car at 8AM to go to work.

I have taken my two (a bit older than yours)in the past. This time I was fortunate enought to have someone watching them. My eldest was all about why even though it was a work day for me (and the caretaker) she was out of school and why she had to spend the night out so I could get up early.

First thing she asked me when I spoke to her was: Did you vote?

Leave the kids home. Tonight point out the early results—the ones after 9 are probably on too late for a school night.

Point out what the AP is projecting (wink) and let them have some fun with it. I got a poster with the School House Rock election special video…so I am going to let the kids track with that…even if they have to figure it out over the next few days.

By FCM

November 4, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

I was in line shortly after 6AM this morning and was in the car at 8AM to go to work.

I have taken my two (a bit older than yours)in the past. This time I was fortunate enought to have someone watching them. My eldest was all about why even though it was a work day for me (and the caretaker) she was out of school and why she had to spend the night out so I could get up early.

First thing she asked me when I spoke to her was: Did you vote?

Leave the kids home. Tonight point out the early results—the ones after 9 are probably on too late for a school night.

Point out what the AP is projecting (wink) and let them have some fun with it. I got a poster with the School House Rock election special video…so I am going to let the kids track with that…even if they have to figure it out over the next few days.

By Sarah

November 4, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

I can’t believe that you would even consider taking the children with you to vote. They would be miserable, you would be miserable and the people in line with you would be miserable. Think of others, please!

By Diane

November 4, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

I had no one to watch my 3 & 5 year olds this morning so I came prepared with toys & snacks in my purse just in case of a long wait. Luckily, we walked right in with no line at all!! This was in Towne Lake around 10:15am.

They said the lines had been long earlier in the morning. If you’re flexible, go mid-morning or early afternoon to miss the times when employees have to vote.

By Ruth C

November 4, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

I had no choice but to bring my 2 1/2 year old to vote with me this morning, we tried our best to be on good behavior but a 2 hour wait is a bit long. However, I think it an important moment that hopefully my child will remember for the rest of her life. Children need to be a the polls, how else are we going to raise good voters if we don’t set the example ourselves?

By Brown-Eyed Girl!

November 4, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

I took my 5 and 2 yr old with me this morning here in Louisville, KY. I really didn’t have any other option. My polling place is about 30 minutes from my childcare and my job. Fortunately when I got there, my husband was there already in line and a few really nice people let me get in front of them. My oldest entertained himself with an old blackberry phone that my husband gave him. He took pictures of the people and of himself and us. My 2 year old wanted to run around so we had to hold him back and forth to keep him contained. All in all, it took an hour and fifteen minutes. Though I know they won’t really remember it, I can tell them that they were there when mommy and daddy voted in this historic election.

By Maria

November 4, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

I took my kids with me this morning.They are 6,4,and 18months. They were good. We waited 2 hours. My boys tossed a football outside and played with a yo yo. My daughter hung out in the stroller. The only issue I had was when we got to the voting booth and a volunteer made my 4 year old cry. If you are going to volunteer you need to learn some manners and use a polite tone of voice. If you are not a people person don’t volunteer at the polls.

By Active Duty Mom

November 4, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

I’m with Marietta Mom on this one. At the polling place that I went to, it was posted that no children under the age of 12 were to be allowed in. I agree with this, as there are certain places that should be “adults only”. Regarding the poster who suggested that children waiting in line at the polls with their parents could all play together, I disagree. The place where adults are choosing the next Commander-in-Chief and leader of the free world and would like to be able to concentrate while doing so is one of these places that should be “adults only”. Unfortunately, the rule of no children under age 12 must not have been on the sample ballot that came in the mail, as there were several small children there. suggested
One child behind me in line who looked about 9 or 10 years old was playing a hand-held electronic game, that was quite annoying and I politely asked him to please shut it off. Miraculously, he actually did!
Teresa, I would recommend considering what motherjanegoose suggests—i.e., if you bring you and your 3 kids to the polls Theresa, how much longer would the poll lines be if everyone else did this?

By Laura

November 4, 2008 1:13 PM | Link to this

Take your kids to vote, but you should have opted for early voting. I remember going with my parents as a 6 year old to vote in the 1976 Presidential Election. It instilled a sense of patriotism in me. I have always taken my son with me to vote and will continue to do so, but I do take advantage of the early voting option.

By Active Duty Mom

November 4, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

I’m with Marietta Mom on this one. At the polling place that I went to, it was posted that no children under the age of 12 were to be allowed in. I agree with this, as there are certain places that should be “adults only”. Regarding the poster who suggested that children waiting in line at the polls with their parents could all play together, I disagree. The place where adults are choosing the next Commander-in-Chief and leader of the free world and would like to be able to concentrate while doing so is one of these places that should be “adults only”. Unfortunately, the rule of no children under age 12 must not have been on the sample ballot that came in the mail, as there were several small children there. suggested
One child behind me in line who looked about 9 or 10 years old was playing a hand-held electronic game, that was quite annoying and I politely asked him to please shut it off. Miraculously, he actually did!
Teresa, I would recommend considering what motherjanegoose suggests—i.e., if you bring yourself and your 3 kids to the polls Theresa, how much longer would the poll lines be if everyone else did this?

By LP

November 4, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this

I took my 15 month old with me to vote and we stood in line for 2 hrs. Although she will never remember, she was a part of her Mom making history and nobody can take that away. We had no issues in the line…so good luck and my 5 yr old had a mock election at school and I don’t think he will ever forget it…don’t put too much past children. They are ages smarter than what we used to be.

By K

November 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

I’m totally with Sarah. Unless they’re of pre-teens or older, leave them at home. Or have an “election” at home where the kids vote. You really a toddler or pre-schooler is going to remember this “historic” occasion? Puh-leeze. Take the kids on to daycare….quit trying to soothe your guilt.

By Beth

November 4, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

I voted today with an 8 year old and a 10 month old. Piece of cake. I didn’t have to wait long and the staff was wonderful and helpful. By all means, take your kids to vote.

By Tamara

November 4, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

I took my 16 mth with me to vote early because my 18 yr old was voting for the first time also so there was no babysitter. I was a bite concerned with the long lines myself I thought for sure I would have to leave and comeback on election day because it would just be to much for her to handle but to my surprise the wait was only 1hr 15 min!!! that was good and I let her walk around and people were being very friendly with her and other children helped keep her occupied it was not until we got to the polling booth did she decide she was ready to go home and the crying started… so go ahead the kids will be fine other children will be there also so they will have playmates : o )

By Leigh

November 4, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Sometimes your head is so far up your a* I don’t know how you even manage to type out this ridiculous drivel. Could you possibly be more self-centered than to plan WAY IN ADVANCE to bring 3 possibly infectious children to stand in line with other adults for a time period that is likely to be from 2-5 hours and there will not even be a place for them to sit down? Note to you - your kids will not learn anything from this experience except to grow up and model your ignorant and rude behavior toward others. I never actually saw my parents vote, but I assumed that they voted if that’s where they said they were going. Try that.

By mayretter local

November 4, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

just over 15min wait at Kincaid elementary school in e.cobb - no problem!

By R

November 4, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this

It’s funny reading some of these comments. I’m a single mom, and my son is two. I didn’t even think twice about whether or not he would be in line with me…it’s just given. So, we woke up early (in line by 6:30am), packed nutri-grain bars, dry cereal and boxed juice, 3 books and his favorite toy trains and headed out to the polls. When we arrived, I was disappointed that the flight of stairs ahead of me blocked my ability to take his stroller, but we didn’t need it. He used the yellow-caution tape that divided our lines as train tracks for his toy cabooses, and I read two books to him during our 1 1/2 hour wait. He was great!Now, what is frustrating is that Chuck E. Cheese won’t have a single tv on CNN tonight. Anyone know of any kid friendly places where my son can run around in circle and I can watch the campaign results with other adults/parents?

By r

November 4, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

It’s funny reading some of these comments. I’m a single mom, and my son is two. I didn’t even think twice about whether or not he would be in line with me…it’s just given. So, we woke up early (in line by 6:30am), packed nutri-grain bars, dry cereal and boxed juice, 3 books and his favorite toy trains and headed out to the polls. When we arrived, I was disappointed that the flight of stairs ahead of me blocked my ability to take his stroller, but we didn’t need it. He used the yellow-caution tape that divided our lines as train tracks for his toy cabooses, and I read two books to him during our 1 1/2 hour wait. He was great!Now, what is frustrating is that Chuck E. Cheese won’t have a single tv on CNN tonight. Anyone know of any kid friendly places where my son can run around in circle and I can watch the campaign results with other adults/parents?

By Sugar

November 4, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this

Leigh Geez, could you possibly be any nastier?

By deidre_NC

November 4, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

ok—to clarify i wouldnt take sick or coming down with something kids to vote—or anywhere else i didnt have to. i would take them sick or not sick if it was the only way i could vote. i didnt think the post was about whether vote or not vote-just whether to take the kids along.

By Active Duty Mom

November 4, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

PS. In re-reading your original post, you mentioned that you had spent 2 hours in the pediatrician’s office yesterday. If one or more of your children are sick, they should definitely stay home with your husband and you vote solo! Waiting in line will only make them feel more miserable.

By lj

November 4, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Absolutely LEAVE THE KIDS AT HOME! This is no time for a civic’s lesson as the polls are already too crowded. I voted early. Lady in front of my brought 3 kids - 2 of whom looked quite old enough to have been in school that day. She spent more time chasing after the darn kids than she did paying attention to voting. She was still there and playing with the kids when I finished up and left. Bringing kids today to slow down the process is unfair to others who are waiting in line to vote. Be responsible.

By Jessica

November 4, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

I can’t believe some of you didn’t do an absentee ballot. You all have computers so you don’t have a good excuse.

By Maggie

November 4, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

Of course I took my 5 yr old daughter with me. She went 4 yrs ago, why would this election be any different!!! She has the learn the importance of voting….oh yeah!!! We didn’t have a wait!!!:)

By Leigh

November 4, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

Sure, but I was too busy today to really put any effort into it. I’ll try harder next time.

By Maggie

November 4, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this

Of course I took my 5 yr old daughter with me. She went 4 yrs ago, why would this election be any different!!! She has the learn the importance of voting….oh yeah!!! We didn’t have a wait!!!:)

By Goodgrief

November 4, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

I can’t believe that any of you think that a small child or even a middle schooler is really interested in the election. No matter how ‘mature’ you think your child is, he/she is still a child. If they are showing interest, it is because you are paying more attention to them. They want your attention. Give it to them in other ways. Don’t drag them to the voting sites!

By Jodi

November 4, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this

I took my 3 year old and had snacks in my purse…the 2 hours went by fast for us. I believe parents should take their kids (not babies) to the polls.

By Laney

November 4, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

My husband and I took our 3 year old son to vote early last week, and it was well worth it. He’s gone to vote with me in several elections over the past year, and he thinks it’s great fun! He knows that when we go to our precinct, we’re going to “push buttons”. We think it’s an invaluable lesson for him to understand the importance of being a responsible citizen.

And, he loves the “I Voted” peach stickers!

By DM

November 4, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

Hmmmm… wonder if taking all these kids to the polls will produce adult voters who vote more often than once every 4 years?

By TaraKaye

November 4, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

If your kids are 7, 5 and 19 months old I’d say they’re too young for the long wait. However, I just voted and the entire thing took me less than 30 minutes. As this point, you’re already done voting, but had I been in your shoes I would’ve left the kids home. Next presidential election the older ones - at 9 and 11 - will be at a good age to come along. An 8 years from now your baby could join you. They’re old enough to wait patiently and old enough to learn a lot from the experience at that age. At their current ages, just telling them about the election and telling them where you’re going when you leave to vote would be enough in my opinion.

By Stacy

November 4, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

I took my 20 month old and my just turned 3 year old and we waited over an hour. They were good and I am committed to take them every time I vote. It is important to me and I want it to be important to them. There were a number of kids at our polling place and they provided some much needed entertainment.

By PJ

November 4, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

I love the photos of my children that I took next to the “practice” voting machine at each of their 1st elections - both in strollers at the time! I took my 2-year-old & 4-year-old today and we were in and out in 20 minutes. There is no reason not to take your kids - if we want to set the example for the type of adults we hope they become, they should see us vote.

By sandy

November 4, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

You people take snacks and drinks and toys???? Give me a break. No wonder your kids can’t behave. When they go for a job interview and have to wait a few minutes to be seen, will they pull out a snack cake to pass the time? Or a video game? What happens if they have to sit quietly somewhere for a little while and just THINK or READ to pass the time, or just be quiet and be good? I do not recall my Parents EVER bringing snacks, drinks, toys so that we would hopefully keep quiet. No wonder. No wonder. No wonder kids today are freaking fools. They have to be bribed to sit down and be quiet for an hour. Disgraceful.

By catlady

November 4, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

Start taking them in 2 years. Smaller lines, and they will understand more. don’t take the baby—not appropriate. Don’t make the long wait worse on the other voters!

By AJ

November 4, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

I think that every child is different. I personally took my three children with me to vote today. I have a 9 year old and 5 year old twins. We took books and I had back up games in my purse but did not have to use them. I have been explaining the importance of voting for the past few days and I spent the car ride to the polls reminding them how to act in public. They were very well behaved and spoke quietly with eachother when they did speak…in fact, all the children that we encountered at the polls were well behaved. I truly think that if you enter the situation un-stressed and relaxed your children will respond in the same manner. It was a pleasant experience and I encourage people to make the decision to take their children with them to vote based on how their children normally act in public.

By The Young Voter

November 4, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Yes,Theresa, Take your children to vote.My mom took me and my siblings to vote when we were little. We loved it it was one of our most favorite activities. They used to hand out fake ballots for children and allow them to punch the chad and ellect previous presidents. I felt so important thinking that I was voting like my parents and making a difference to our country. Ever since going with my mom to cast her ballots I couldn’t wait to vote and that desire increased my intrest in government and politics. I took A.P. Government in high school because I was so interested. My father also taught me to value the hard fought for freedom that America provides because he came from a communist country. Today because my mom had the forethought to include me in her political activities I cast my first vote for a presidential candidate. Thus I begin to make a difference in my community and the greatest country in the world through voting.

By catlady

November 4, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this

Think of the other voters and leave the little ones home till 2years from now.

By RB

November 4, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

Leave the kids at home! Whoever gave parents the idea that it was acceptable or proper to take their kids everywhere. Explain to your children what voting is and why it’s important. That should be enough until they’re old enough to vote.

By Nixon

November 4, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

I am SO sick of all the whinning here today, take your kids, leave your kids. I personally will NOT be guided by what anyone THINKS I should do.

Maybe the next general election some of you will choose to vote where children aren’t allowed.

Just remember this, you were once someone’s kid that others didn’t want to be around. Now you know why!!! You grew up to be obnoxious adults.

By The young voter

November 4, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

Yes,Theresa, Take your children to vote.My mom took me and my siblings to vote when we were little. We loved it it was one of our most favorite activities. They used to hand out fake ballots for children and allow them to punch the chad and ellect previous presidents. I felt so important thinking that I was voting like my parents and making a difference to our country. Ever since going with my mom to cast her ballots I couldn’t wait to vote and that desire increased my intrest in government and politics. I took A.P. Government in high school because I was so interested. My father also taught me to value the hard fought for freedom that America provides because he came from a communist country. Today because my mom had the forethought to include me in her political activities I cast my first vote for a presidential candidate. Thus I begin to make a difference in my community and the greatest country in the world through voting.

By B

November 4, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

I love how everyone is saying to leave the kids at home. That was not an option for me, so I took them. I would rather have a 4 year old and 8 month old with me than not vote at all. It was fine and voting only took 55 minutes in Johns Creek. Who cares if you are chasing after kids? All you do is stand in line and then take 60 seconds to vote. Do your homework and know how you are voting for ahead of time so you get through that part quickly. Some of you need to have some compassion to mothers with young children and no other option than to bring them along. Would you rather a vote to who you want elected not be counted?

By J

November 4, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

Hello Did anyone else miss the comments about the pediatrician’s office and the germs?? So you are now going to take the children out and spread those germs to other people? What about the elderly or other people with suppressed immune systems?? If you didn’t have a babysitter - that would be one thing. But you do - leave the disease carriers at home with hubby.

By Sugar

November 4, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

Be thankful we are ALLOWED to vote.

Be thankful we have the freedoms we have.

Be Thankful that WOMEN and BLACKS can vote.

Be thankful that we have a voice in choosing our next leader.

Quit whining about the kids in line, and think about what you have to be thankful for.

Enjoy the innocence of children.

Lighten up. It’s just a few hours out of your life.

All the time you waste being mean, nasty and hateful is time you cannot get back.

Enjoy the fact that you live in a free country and you have the CHOICE to bring your children to vote.

Enjoy that fact that you DON’T HAVE TO VOTE, but you do anyway.

By JATL

November 4, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

I took my 2 1/2 year old and my 3 week old this morning; stood in line for 2 1/2 hours and voted. No breakdowns or problems from the kids! The only problems were from adults who were breaking in line and almost caused a fist fight! I had no choice -I was going to early vote, but was put on bed rest and after having the baby, I knew I wouldn’t have to wait 4 hours (or pay to park) on election day like I would have down at the Pryor Street early voting location. I also do not trust absentee paper ballots, so I don’t use them! I took some books, my 2 year old’s “froggie” lovey and snacks for him, and he was great! There were other small kids there too, and all were fine. Sandy -you must be mentally impaired if you disparage parents for bringing snacks or toys for their kids to play with or eat when faced with long waits! When those children grow up, no, they shouldn’t have to have toys or goodies to behave, but at age 2, the whole concept of waiting around for 2 or 3 hours with nothing to do is a little broad for them, and they’re not old enough to read on their own yet. If doing that makes a child be quiet and pleasant -why on earth would you want parents to NOT do that? You sound like a treat to be around. I think I would be happier being around a screaming toddler than being around an adult like you who is so unpleasant.

By Mom of Twins

November 4, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

My husband took our 12-year-old twins to the polls this morning. As African American boys, I’m extremely glad that my children had the chance to see their father vote for a black man for president. I’m also glad that the boys saw a female vice presidential candidate on the ballot.

By Leigh

November 4, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

I’m writing this quickly since I have decided after reading these posts that I might be coming down on the wrong side of this argument. So I’m going to go home before I hit the polls, pick up my terrier, and take him with me to vote. I know he’s been wondering lately about the direction of our country and I don’t want to miss the opportunity to let him actually see democracy in action. I know what you are saying – “he’s just a puppy” – but what he learns now will follow him through his entire adult canine life and I want him to start off on the right paw. Without this first-paw knowledge of our civic responsibilities, who knows what poor choices he may make in the future? To make this a great experience, I’ve packed snacks, dog treats, a few chew toys, large bowl of water, and something to fetch. I’m sure that others in line will not mind since he’s so well behaved. Everyone loves him, you know, and perhaps there will even be other pups there for him to play with. I’m off!

By JATL

November 4, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

And as far as the kids being germy and getting adult voters sick -neither of my kids are sick, but after being in that petri dish of a hot gym for 2 hours with PLENTY of hacking and snotty adults, I won’t be surprised at all if we get sick soon. I’m not even one of those people who think my kids belong everywhere -I hate seeing kids at the movies unless it’s a g-rated kid flick, at nice restaurants -and don’t even get me started about kids in bars, but voting is a PUBLIC event. Not everyone has access to childcare! My son’s school is closed today. There are lots of single parents and people who don’t have anyone to watch their kids for them. Be happy you get to vote and quit being so freaked out about germs or screaming kids -don’t you ever go to the grocery store or WalMart or Target? Plenty of germs and brats at those places anytime.

By Arf

November 4, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

Leigh, I am so glad someone else takes their baby to the polls. I took my 7 week old puppy and he was so good in line. I didn’t have to bring any snacks or toys, because I wanted him to know that when he becomes a full grown dog, he won’t have to rely on that stuff to pacify him. He needs to learn to entertain himself so as not to upset other dog owners.

I wanted to bring the cats, but you know how they are. They were taken aback that their names were not on the ballots for King and Queen. I told them they were king and queen at home, but not everyone appreciates that.

Bark, woof, yelp, pant, pant, pant.

ME OW!!!!

By Jose Sanchez

November 4, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

get real, kids that young have no idea of what is happening… Leave them at aunt t`s house to watch Barney.Everyone does not want to listen to your whinning children all day long

By Nikki

November 4, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

Of course take the kids to vote. Four years ago I waited in line in the cold and rain while I was 9 months pregnant. My daughter went back with me for the run off elections when she was only a few days old. She has gone with me every election since and I took my son with me for the primaries, local elections and run-offs earlier this year. My husband took our daughter who is almost 4 with him to vote today and she was so excited. She knew who she was going to “vote” for and is proud of the sticker that she received. I am so glad that I have not stood in line with some of the folks who left comments. Everyone that has been in line with me in the past were very sweet to us and commented that it was a great idea that my kids came with me. The ladies and gentlemen who work at the polling station are super nice to my little ones. I wish more people would take their kids with them. It does mean something to them- and if you are a smart parent you know that your kids are much smarter than we give them credit for!

By MsYvone

November 4, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

I took my 2 (almost 3) year old with me (and my husband) this morning. We had a sticker book, and a snack, and she did perfectly well the whole 2 hours. It helped that the elementary school we voted in had many visual distractions for her. I was a bit nervous about it, but we really didn’t have any other way to work fitting “voting” in.

By Candidate

November 4, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

My wife took our 12 and 16 years olds to vote . One pushed my name and the other cats the ballot.

By msyvone

November 4, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

I took my 2 (almost 3) year old with me (and my husband) this morning. We had a sticker book, and a snack, and she did perfectly well the whole 2 hours. It helped that the elementary school we voted in had many visual distractions for her. I was a bit nervous about it, but we really didn’t have any other way to work fitting “voting” in.

She saw her aunt Jodie in line after we voted and proudly announced that she had to be 18 to vote, and 16 to drive!

By Robert Watkins

November 4, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Absolutely! I waited in line last week for 2.5 hours, calling my wife to come with our 5 year-old daughter when I was near the end. Our daughter may not remember much of the experience on her own, but having participated in this election (my wife let her touch the screen for the presidential vote) will be something we will remind her of, and something she will be able to tell her children and grandchildren. In my opinion, this election is on the level of “Where were you when Kennedy was shot?” — and my daughter was on the scene for this one.

By karia

November 4, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

We just got back from voting, and there were no lines at all. The workers said that 2:30 is a really great time to come because people are either at work or picking their kids up from school (or home, waiting on the schoolbus). We homeschool, so yes, we took our kids along. They’re in first and fifth grades, so it was a good age range to take them. I wouldn’t have dared when they were younger! But today it was a neat learning experience.

By CONCERNED

November 4, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

I voted Republican because everyone can’t be on welfare. I’m not letting anyone redistribute my wealth - let people earn their own money. Partial Birth Abortion, as well as all abortion, is wrong. Obama is not Black or African-American; his father is an Arab and his mother is Caucasian-American. Obama has listed his religion as Muslim/Islam at least twice on school/public records. Do your research before you vote!! Every vote counts! Even if you don’t agree with me/the facts, vote anyway.

By Ed

November 4, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

I’d rather listen to a whiney kid, than a whiney adult.

By HLB

November 4, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

My husband and I went together with our 3.5 year old and 3 week old baby. The baby slept in the Bjorn the whole time and the 3 year old wanted to know what it smelled. We vote at a Senior Center and it smells almost as bad as a nursing home. He was good. We didn’t take anything for him to be entertained because he is capable of waiting and looking around just like us.

By Theresa

November 4, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

Hey J - Don’t worry about the kids’ germs — the oldest is on antibiotic and and the boy just has allergies. However, I do have a craptacular cold going on — should I not have voted? I didn’t sneeze or cough on anyone and didn’t share a pencil with anyone.

By Big K

November 4, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

I took my 22 month old with me to early vote. I made sure to download some of his favorite television shoes and music to the iPod and away we went. He put his headphones on, stood in line with me for twenty minutes and sang away. When we got to the room where the booths were he took a lap around the room but no one seemed to mind. The only issue I had was him wanting to use the touch screen whilie I was selecting candidates but all worked out well.

By Nola Mommy

November 4, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

I took my 19 month old daughter to vote with me today. It only took 5 minutes and all the Grandparents in line enjoyed her company. I think if parents take their kids with them to vote they know what they are doing. Not all children are as impatient as the adults that are judging them.

By motherjanegoose

November 4, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

Hi all…it took me almost 2 hours to vote 9:55-11:45. I just passed by our voting place and there are now less than 50 people in line…who would have thought this to be true? Guess I would fail strategic planning…LOL!

MARIA 1:07…please look in the mirror and say this 5 times…I will never complain about a volunteer unless I am willing to take the volunteer’s place…immediately.

I have no idea what that person said to make your 4 year old upset but remember…he/she is giving up an entire day with no pay to expedite the voting process…this is more than 99% of the rest of us are doing. It will be a LONG day for them and since they are volunteers the criteria is probably not to read a human resources manual. Just simple math and I would guess common sense and stamina. Probably most did not imagine that people would actually take their young children to vote and since many are senior citizens, they are from an era where children were seen and not heard.

When I volunteer and people complain, I tell them…”well, since I am being paid less than 5 cents per hour to do this job…they do not ask for much in the way of experience or references…want to join me in volunteering…I will be happy to sign you up!” This shuts everyone up…hahaha!

Just my 2 cents.

I LOVE CHILDREN AND THEY ARE MY LIVELIHOOD but there are some places where they may not belong and many of today’s parents cannot understand this concept.

By Denkpaard

November 4, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

People who don’t have other choices should definitely bring their kids. But I can’t see the use in bringing the very little ones. My parents never took us with them to vote but knowing that people died for us Blacks to have this precious right was all we needed to know. I waited an hour to vote. I am hugely pregnant and glad I brought a seat because there was no special treatment offered.

By Ayonna

November 4, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this

I voted during the advance voting period. I took my 4 year old daughter with me. Thank goodness the wait was only 45 minutes. She talked the entire time. However, it was a great experience for both of us.

By Julie

November 4, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

i took my 2 yr. old and my 4 month old with me. It was a very pleasant experience. The polling place helped me get through quickly and the people in line were very friendly. If you think kids don’t belong then send your number as I will call you to babysit. Sometimes mothers don’t have any other option.

By faye

November 4, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

I took my son to vote with me - he is 18 and was voting for the first time! Exciting!

My parents never took me as a child, although I volunteered in high school before I could vote. I didn’t take my children when they were very little, but reinforced the idea that this was something special grown-ups do, just like my parents did for me. That made it exciting and mysterious and something I couldn’t wait to be old enough to do for real. I’m surprised that that thought doesn’t seem to exist anymore.

I try not to judge, and people need to do what’s right for them, but there are absentee ballots for a reason. Watching you fill out your ballot and mail it or drop it off is just as much a lesson, IMHO. It also gives you a chance to discuss things. I also like the idea of taking them to the “less popular” elections in non-presidential years - not only are the lines shorter, but I think it’s a valuable lesson to show that it’s important to vote in other elections where we’re not electing the president.

My wait was only about 20 minutes, and there were a few little ones there - well-behaved. What I’m confused about is that my precinct had a sign that very clearly stated that shildren should not be touching the ballot screens, and yet several posters today said they let their children do just that.

By KB

November 4, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

Why would you want to subject the others waiting in line to your kids getting antsy in line and throwing tantrums? Then what happens when you get in the voting booth? Do you think your children will have the attention span to focus on what you are doing? It will make absolutely no sense to them. Register them to vote when they turn 18 or go with them when they can first vote as adults. That is a memorable experience.

By KB

November 4, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

Why would you want to subject the others waiting in line to your kids getting antsy in line and throwing tantrums? Then what happens when you get in the voting booth? Do you think your children will have the attention span to focus on what you are doing? It will make absolutely no sense to them. Register them to vote when they turn 18 or go with them when they can first vote as adults. That is a memorable experience.

By motherjanegoose

November 4, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

I TOTALLY AGREE THAT IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE YOUR CHILDREN WITH YOU IN ORDER TO VOTE…THEN YOU MUST DO DO.

Julie…this is called networking …I have watched my neighbor’s kids many times in order for them to do things and they have watched mine in return.. If you have young children you need to figure this out so you can get things done solo sometimes.

I stood in line with a couple who had one three year old between them. There was a playground behind us and I suggested that one of them take him to play. The Dad took him and he was fine. He came back right before we got in …ready to get his sticker…hahaha!

He was just fine!

I know most of you mean well but my daughter today was asking me questions about the actual voting process today ( she is 16). I told her that she had been in the same building with me many times as a smaller child ( when the wait was less than 15 minutes…we have lived in the same place for 11 years) and she did not remember a thing about it. so much for making an impression…I remember her leaving with a peach sticker too! With the longer lines in this election, if you have another option than to take your kiddos…you may want to wait it out.

HOWEVER … THE WEATHER WAS PERFECT TODAY…IT COULD NOT HAVE BEEN BETTER!

By Tyrone

November 4, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

Shiii, whitey woman dont yoob beeb worry win atterney general Farakhan take yo chillin fo da lordy barraaak da messiah reeducation camps. Dey beeb worked hard so baraaak can gib da brudas and sistas a bigga welfare chex fo slabery and mo affirmativ axin so my cussin shorty can go to yell.Shii, and da whitey women dey beeb gittin da brudas seed so weeb can git rid of da whitey race.So dont fret da messiah isa cummin.

By new mom

November 4, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

When I was growing up, kids were NEVER allowed to be near the voting. Our elementary school cafeteria was always used as a voting location, so we would go through the lunch line as usual, then take our lunches back to our classroom and eat there. That was a treat, because it was out of the ordinary!

I always knew my mom was up there voting at some point during the day, my dad too, but not actually seeing them punch a ballot certainly hasn’t prevented me from keeping up with current events, researching issues, and caring about elections. That education was provided in our classrooms, and most importantly, at home. Learning about the sacrifices our men and women made over the years…Lives given so that we would have this precious freedom.

I haven’t changed my mind, even after reading today’s posts, that I won’t bring my child to the polls unless there is practically little to no wait, out of courtesy to other adults. No matter how adorable you think your child is, and what the other polite adults say to you, subjecting strangers to your little one for hours on end just isn’t very thoughtful. I have that same attitude when I’m out anywhere with our little 13 mth old—of course people say she’s so sweet, but I never want to press my luck with her.
And seriously, what child under the age of 4 or 5 will really remember being dragged with you to vote?

By Jesse's Girl

November 4, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

I just hope people are voting for the one they truly believe will do the best job for this country…not because of the color of his skin. When I voted….I heard almost every black person in line talking about how excited they were to vote for a black candidate. How about voting for him because you honestly believe he’s the best choice…period?! This mind-set really concerns me. His being a half-black man does not make him the best choice….it simply makes him a half-black man.

By catlady

November 4, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

After opining that Teresa should leave the kids home this time (the sick kid thing completely flew over my head) I have to admit my mother took me with her. Of course, the only time I remember a terrible line was in 1964, I think, when Lurleen Wallace was running for her husband’s governorship of Alabama. We waited 5 1/2 hours for my mom to vote against her. I was, however, a very timid, well-behaved child. My mother would brook no “cuteness” on my part for the benefit of others. Bring your kids to the off year elections, or to the run offs. Your child does not have to “participate in a historical election.”

I am surprised that there are so many well-behaved kids out there as attested to by the parents on this blog. I sure have not seen them when I am out and about. And parents, if you think the other voters think your precious is “cute” and “entertaining”, well, you MAY be self-deceived. Those smiles may be gritted teeth.

The woman with the experience of a short tempered poll worker, well, there might be a good reason for her short temper. People who bring a truck load of stuff to entertain their children, for example, and who thinjk their kids are cute and entertaining. People who bring sick kids “so they can learn how to vote”, etc.

Common sense is not too common anymore.

By DecaturMom

November 4, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

My Mom schlepped my three siblings and me with her to vote all the time back in the 1970s. It wasn’t particularly fun, I don’t recall any snacks and she didn’t try to formally teach us anything about it. To me, voting simply was something grown-ups needed to do, something that I would do when I was “big.”

Sometimes your example is all your child needs to learn a valuable lesson.

I’ve voted in almost every election held since I turned 18 more than 20 years ago. I’m not terribly political or patriotic … it’s just what we do as adults in our country!

By motherjanegoose

November 4, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

record short post for me:

AMEN catlady and newmom

what does “brook no cuteness” mean catlady? I am a yankee by birth and have no idea…sorry.

By lemur

November 4, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

If you look down on people taking their kids with them to vote you’re a piece of crap. Offer to baby sit or keep your mouth shut.

By new mom

November 4, 2008 5:34 PM | Link to this

Uggghhhh…As if we all haven’t heard enough entitlement rhetoric the past few months, now it’s “I’ll take my child wherever I want, and if you don’t offer to fulfil my parental duties for me, then shut up” Classy. Manners are a thing of the past. Respect for others is all but dead. I am so worried for our future…

By catlady

November 4, 2008 6:13 PM | Link to this

motherjanegoose:Brook no “cuteness”: put up with any cuteness. It is not a Southern term. Brook no dissent: put up with any dissent.

By Penguinmom

November 4, 2008 6:24 PM | Link to this

Our kids didn’t go with us this year but they have in the past. I just felt that 1.5 hours with 3 was too long. Off-year elections might be a better opportunity to actually have a ‘teachable’ moment. This year all they would learn is “Voting is a pain because it takes so long and is so boring.”

We went before the lunch crowd but I wish I had waited. When we left the line was at least 20-30 people shorter than when we entered. It was about 1.5 hours from start to finish.

I did spend time yesterday at lunch explaining the electoral college concept to my 12 and 8-year-old. Also discussed the 3 branches of government a little.

My only concern is that they’ll be upset if our guy doesn’t win. Kinda like how kids can get so wrapped up in their parent’s college team.

By lin

November 4, 2008 6:27 PM | Link to this

My 4 YO daughter and I stood in line for 2.5 hours this morning so that I could vote. She has been with me for every vote since she was born. We’ve managed rain, cold and lines before. The majority of the standing in line happened outside where there was a large, grassy area in front of the building. She ran laps around the trees for a long time, then practiced writing her letters and numbers in a little notepad from my purse. The rest of the time, she stood patiently in line without being loud or bothering anyone else. I did warn her before we left home that there would probably be a line, and we would have to wait patiently for our turn. I also told her I expected her to be a good listener and follow my instructions without whining or bothering others. I think it helped that she knew what to expect before we got there.

By Penguinmom

November 4, 2008 6:34 PM | Link to this

Amen Jesse’s Girl.
Too many people vote for emotional reasons and then live to regret it. They end up wondering how ‘their guy’ turned out so poorly.

I can’t imagine voting strictly based on race or sex. Hillary Clinton would have never gotten my vote even though we’re both women.

By I was a deprived child

November 4, 2008 6:40 PM | Link to this

My folks never took me with them when they voted. They didn’t even go with me when I registered to vote. As far as a “historic” election, what’s so historic about politicians running for office? Regardless of race/sex, they’re all still politicians.

By motherjanegoose

November 4, 2008 6:40 PM | Link to this

thanks catlady 6:13…I am always into linguistics and had no idea what that term meant…sorry if I assumed it was southern…sometimes terms used in ATL are and I was clueless.

I guess I am the only one who was in the dark about it…learned something new today…LOL!

newmom…I though you were brighter than this ( hahaha) respect for others IS all but dead…and we will learn more about this tomorrow if we all have to share the wealth….YIKES!

This should be a LONG night!

By SuwaneeMom

November 4, 2008 7:33 PM | Link to this

I waited until later in the afternoon and there was only a 10 minute wait at our local poll. When I was growing up in TN, both my parents worked at the polls and always took me with them when they voted. When I turned 18, my mom and I made a special trip to the voter registration office to get registered. I told my 7 year old daughter about all of that today as I pushed the “cast ballot” button at our local poll. Now she can’t wait to vote…

By fk

November 4, 2008 7:52 PM | Link to this

My husband and I went to vote at 4pm. Walked right in, no wait. When my son was younger, I always took him with me when I voted. I thought it was important.

By Miss me

November 5, 2008 6:13 AM | Link to this

I had a sister-in-law whose comment was that she would never go anywhere that her children weren’t welcome. That included my aunt’s funeral where they screamed and ran around the room. One of those children is now an unwed mother and the other a drug addict. I guess taking them everywhere worked? NOT! Some people are blind when it comes to their kids. Everyone doesn’t enjoy them. BTW - It took me less than 10 minutes to vote at 3:30 in Gwinnett County.

By Jesse's Girl

November 5, 2008 6:36 AM | Link to this

I will respect and pray for any president we have. Its a very difficult job. Regardless of who it is, he will need this nation’s support. But that support is needed even more abundantly if that president was elected in large part because of the color of his skin. I sincerely pray that Obama can make a difference and can usher in change. But for the millions of smart people who voted for a stupid reason like his bi-racial status….I fear that that change only stands today simply because its Wednesday.

By motherjanegoose

November 5, 2008 7:49 AM | Link to this

Jesse’s Girl…thanks and I am with you. I will be gracious and concede that Obama was the obvious winner. I too question why but I am also praying that he will make a difference for everyone and realize that it takes worker bees to make this country work. Not just those who want to lick the honey. FYI…anyone can be a success if you have grit and determination…it appears that Obama had this and I hope that those who voted for him will pull up their drawers and get to work too so that we can leave a healthy country for our children to live in.

Miss me….behavior begins at home…this is one big problem in our schools today as parents have not done their part and teachers cannot control 20 alone if Mama and Daddy cannot control 2 or 3. together. Have a sunny day everyone.

By motherjanegoose

November 5, 2008 8:17 AM | Link to this

this quote from Yahoo news this morning about voter turnout:

Well, I think I feel somehow strong and energized to stand here even without food and water,” said Alexandria, Va., resident Ahmed Bowling, facing a very long line. “What matters is to cast my vote.”

Well, if you brought your own food and water ( like I did) you would had some. I guess it is always up to someone else.

Also…the boy scouts sold drinks and snacks in our line and I admire those who put that together for them as they observed voting and how money can be earned….KUDOS!

By Jeff

November 5, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this

Eh, I have the benefit of being Libertarian:

1) I knew my guy wasn’t going to win from the get go.

2) I knew that the cause of Liberty would take a blow from the get go.

3) I knew that the REAL work begins RIGHT NOW to limit the damage of the next President, and I knew this BEFORE I knew who exactly that would be.

By new mom

November 5, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

I have heard many comparisons this morning of how the Obama family will be the ‘new camelot’ in the White House.

I ask you—have you ever heard Obama utter anything remotely like “Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”? I haven’t. I think Obama’s version is: “Ask not how you can work hard to better yourself, your family, and your community, but demand that the government help level the playing field and give you things you didn’t work for, from those who ‘have plenty’, to make everything fair”

By Chris

November 5, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

It looks like the problem is not with the children but with the parents who have never taken the time to teach their little devils to stand still and behave. I bet if you could have taken the television with you they would sit still for days. That is what they are doing at home. And don’t lie. You know it’s true.

By paula

November 5, 2008 5:09 PM | Link to this

I took my 4 and 5 year old girls to vote. We did have to wait in line for an hour and a half but luckily several other kids from the neighborhood were there and they all played together the entire time I was in line. When it actually came time to vote, I let them push the buttons and explained some of what was happening. I vote in EVERY election and usually do not have to wait in line. The pollsters know my kids and always ask about how they are doing. It is great and the girls have become very accustomed to the importance of going to cast our vote for every election. I was not going to get in line and they both wailed at the thought and said, “But Mom, we HAVE to VOTE!” It was great.