CANCER TALE: AN OCCASIONAL SERIES WRITTEN BY METRO ATLANTANS TOUCHED BY CANCER
Couple with cancer resolve to ‘live our lives in love’
For The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Cancer touched our lives in 1998. The day before I was to leave for a business trip, my husband, David, expressed his concern to me regarding his health. I instinctively knew that his symptoms could not wait long before seeing a doctor. The appointment was set for the week I would return home.
Thus began our “New Life” engulfed with doctor appointments, x-rays, scans, blood tests, surgeries, chemo and radiation therapies.
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Algia Tarrer and her husband, David.
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Six months into David’s treatment, I had my annual check-ups. Two days after a mammogram, I received a call to meet with a surgeon. I too was diagnosed with cancer. We spent that fall and winter with a surgery and both in treatments, he for chemo and myself for radiation. The fall of 1999 we received news from our oncologist that nothing more could be done for David. The prognosis: six months left to live.
The doctor suggested my husband might be a good candidate for a research program. By January 2000, we had entered a cancer research program at the National Cancer Institute in Bethesda, Md.
We continued in that program for four years, having three surgeries and a research drug. Then in January 2004, all treatment was referred back to our area doctors. It is now fall of 2008 and we are still fighting. I will complete my regimen of therapy in the spring of 2009. My husband is taking chemo again which will continue thru January 2009. His cancer started in the colon with metastases’ to the liver, lung, and now the tail bone.
This journey has been hard, but not without learning how our faith can prepare us for our future. It took us a few years before we also learned that we can control our emotions and what really counts in life. We learned how dear family and friends are in times of need.
And, most importantly we have learned not to fear death, but be prepared in spirit and live our lives in love. We do not wish a life be lived with cancer for anyone, yet we are so thankful for the experiences and knowledge gained by living life to its fullest with cancer.
At the end of this journey, we can say “David and Algia Tarrer lived to see, feel, and know why this disease touched our lives and why God has given us these years together.”



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