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Tag, even running, “unsafe” at school
This is another one of those school stories that’s just flat hard to believe. First, I heard about the story (excerpt below) by Rob McDonald at the Spokesman-Review in Spokane, Wash, that tells of a school that banned kids from playing tag. I shook my head and clipped the story for a possible blog discussion.
Then I started asking people I knew in education if this was a real trend. I was told many schools have banned tag, along with games like dogeball, hopscotch, four square or even, believe it or not, RUNNING!
I asked me first grade daughter and she confirmed that any form of “chasing” each other is strictly banned during recess at her school.
As McDonald notes in his story, schools are desperate to avoid “student-to-student contact.” They worry it will lead to conflict, fights and — the greatest fear for schools — parent complaints or lawsuits. Hurling a dodgeball at another kid, some believe, is an injury waiting to happen. A kid can be tagged too roughly, leading to a fight. Four square and hopscotch can lead to arguments and, potentially, fights.
And running — my God, a kid could fall and hurt themselves!
What do you think of rules that forbid kids from doing what comes naturally — running, chasing each other around, playing games and trying to win?
Here’s an exceprt from Rob’s story (I had trouble getting a link. The Spokesman-Review website is difficult to navigate.)
Tag, you’re it. No, you’re out. But not completely out.
Adams Elementary School in Spokane drew national attention earlier this month for telling parents and children that tag as they know it was no longer acceptable at recess.
“Due to the increase in student injury, fighting, and bullying reports, tag is an activity that will not be played during free play recess time,” Adams Principal Mary Perrizo-Weber wrote in a note to parents.
Tag moved from the free-for-all recess time to a P.E. class that uses Nerf balls to avoid student-to-student contact.
Perrizo-Weber’s decision made it on a local news channel, and the story evolved into one of those quirky tales that ran on TV stations around the country. “A principal bans tag,” is how it was billed.
“My sister called from Minnesota to tell me she saw me on TV,” Perrizo-Weber said. “It wasn’t a big deal in this community at all. … I’ve gotten some pretty nasty e-mails from around the country.”
Members of her family teasingly said they were buying her a shirt that said, “You’re it.”
What got lost in the story, Perrizo-Weber said, was how second- and third-graders were not feeling safe at recess when a pack of other students would run over, smack someone and yell, “You’re it.” She found 6-year-olds with zipper marks on their necks from having their hoods grabbed during tag.
Spokane Public Schools Superintendent Brian Benzel said, “We know that we (as a district) are often the target for torts and claims.”
Benzel said the solution Perrizo-Weber used at Adams was “elegant.”
“Recess in itself is one of the places where we have to be very careful,” he said. “Kids can get injured.”
It’s not like the ’50s.
“The world has gotten more complicated,” Benzel said. “It isn’t the informal world of the ’50s and ’60s. It’s the legalized world of 2006.”
Adams Elementary isn’t alone. Over the years, other Spokane elementaries have put restrictions on tag – though it went largely unnoticed in the outside community.
Madison Elementary has also asked students not to play tag as a free-for-all. Instead, they play what the school calls “circle tag,” which is played around yellow circles painted on the playground. The player who is “it” cannot leave the circle while trying to tag players outside the circle.
“It’s not so much that tag is a problem, but when you play it in a large area in the playground with 100 kids,” it can become one, said Madison Principal Brent Perdue.
It’s not just tag. Perdue’s school created rules for games such as four square, wall ball and hopscotch, because most playground conflicts came from arguments over how the games are played.
Mary Seeman, principal of Spokane’s Franklin Elementary, allows tag and even snowball-throwing, as long as rules are followed.
Tag can only be played with rip-away ribbon belts traditionally used for flag football. Snowballs can only be thrown at easels set up at the edge of the playground. Students used to throw snowballs at a plywood clown, but “we need to have a new one made,” Seeman said. “We cannot find the doggone clown.”
Karen Cowan, Spokane Public Schools coordinator of K-12 health and fitness, laments the changes. She has little authority over principals’ decisions to safeguard their playgrounds.
“Do we want children to do free running on the playground at recess? I would. I want them to run and play and laugh and be excited about movement,” Cowan said. “I think having a lot of restrictions is sending a very mixed message to kids.”
Being active comes with the occasional accident, Cowan said.
“I think it’s unfortunate we can’t allow kids to move. It’s a different day and age.”
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Dayton Daily News education reporter Scott Elliott writes about schools, kids, teaching and learning.



Comments
By Ann
March 2, 2006 4:15 PM | Link to this
We are missing one other important lesson kids learn when they play tog- ether — problem solving and learning to get along. There needs to be adult supervision, but kids need to be allowed to work some things out on their own. At my son’s school, the teachers have three pages of rules for kickball. It reads like an olympic handbook! Watch a group of kids making up a game - they’ll spend half the time discussing, arguing, sometimes getting made to work out the rules. Adults should enforce no name calling and physically safe play, but kids need unstructured play they create themselves. We all had that and most of us survived to adulthood. Too much that is important to children gets taken away to respond to the small number of complaining, and, yes, sometimes crazy parents. AnnBy Lea
February 25, 2006 9:34 AM | Link to this
Yahoo Steph! You’re right. “Playing”, in all its myriad forms, can be extremely dangerous… It is a miracle I survived childhood! But bravo for realizing that kids will be kids, and life can be a bit painful!By Steph
February 24, 2006 4:11 PM | Link to this
When my son was in Kindergarten, he broke his nose in a game of tag. It was supervised tag in gym class. And it healed up nicely. I didn’t rush to find a lawyer. I didn’t call the principal to complain. I understand that playing tag comes with some risk of injury. But I believe the benefits far outweigh the risks. With the risk of childhood obesity, I hope my child gets to play hard at recess. The schools don’t seem to have a problem fattening up our kids by selling sugar-loaded juice and snacks at lunchtime but, exercise, there’s a big problem.By Mary
February 24, 2006 3:16 PM | Link to this
Rick, please explain the term “nanny state” - particularly as applies to this discussion in case you have a valid point some of us do not understand.By Lea
February 23, 2006 6:44 PM | Link to this
Vickie, where was supervision? That’s not tag. That’s assault. Have you spoken to the school and asked that they other boys’ parents be notified? Does this school have any policy for dealing with harassment? This doesn’t even mildly compare with the names I was called as a child - crybaby, nerd, bookworm… And I thought those were bad at the time!By Rick
February 23, 2006 6:25 PM | Link to this
The Nanny state is alive, well, and growing.By Vickie Bates
February 23, 2006 1:29 PM | Link to this
At first I was appalled at the thought of banning something innocent like playing tag at recess until my son came home yesterday and told me he wanted to change schools. My son goes to a small catholic ementary school in Fairborn. He said the kids in his third grade class all play tag at recess. It seems they use this time to call each other names and instead of “tagging” they will jump on a kids back if he is not paying attention. The names they are calling each other are very hurtful and not politically correct. They are called “fatboy”, “gay”, etc. My son has also come home with scrapes, scratches and torn clothing from the games of tag. If the kids do not participate, the other kids laugh at them and tell them they have “no friends.” I heard it last night when one of my sons “friends” told my son he played on the playground by himself because he had no friends. I asked my son why his friend said this and he replied, “because I did not want to play their mean game of tag today.” I am sorry to say I have changed my mind on these free-for-all games in unsupervised situations like recess. Bravo for the principal who saw a problem and reacted!!!By Lea
February 23, 2006 10:44 AM | Link to this
Mary, you have a good point about supervision. Interestingly, I attended a parochial school in the Southwest and we had NO supervision at all (at most, maybe one teacher on the whole playground). The worst thing that ever happened was when, while a teacher was supervising, I fell on the monkey bars and cracked my head open. The school called an ambulance and Mom met me at the hospital. Ten stitches and a lollipop later, I was tearstained but fine - and no one sued the school!By Mary
February 23, 2006 7:48 AM | Link to this
Lea, I grew up on a 300 acre farm and ran barefooted and wild with my brothers and sisters. We had a lot more than skinned knees. It is a wonder we survived some of our adventures. What children are allowed to do at home under parental supervision versus at school on the “playground” has entirely different legal and supervisory implications. Your child might not be just skinning his own knee. He might be skinning someone else’s.By Lea
February 22, 2006 3:51 PM | Link to this
This is exactly WHY we should allow tag at recess. “Team sports” as exercise can be a problem - but playing rarely is. As a child I skinned knees, yes, but I also used recess to swing by myself or even read a book. It is up to the child to respect their own limitations, not our school boards to tell them what they are.By Mary
February 22, 2006 11:54 AM | Link to this
What is missing from this discussion is how poorly supervised recesses are. Teachers want their breaks, too, so usually there will be a small number of teachers supervising hundreds of kids scurrying around on a large playground. I can understand the crackdown. Meanwhile, why haven’t health and fitness programs for children at schools advanced beyond dodge ball and group activities. Compare school day offerings to all the advances and expenses in offerings for afterschool. At one Senate hearing in Columbus about a year ago, I heard one state senator imply she would like to see the school fitness programs enhanced. I heard a parent or teacher at the same hearing defend fitness programs taken by high school students with college classes (through PSEO) as being a welcome choice in relation to what K-12 offers like dodge ball. I think the focus should be on developing individual fitness programs that create life long habits such as walking, dancing, yoga, Pilates, weight lifting,and exercise machines (if those are safe for children), etc. Some kids are not comfortable with the boisterous activities, and perhaps their health or medical conditions are adversely impacted by those types of activities. An interesting part of the “Eat right for your blood type” theories is that certain types of exercises are more appropriate by blood type. For example, blood types O’s need highly aerobic activities like running, while blood type A’s benefit more from relaxed yoga, walking, etc. I believe to each his or her own when it comes to exercise programs. Kids need to be taught to listen to their own body limitations in exercise. Some tragically drop dead from a push toward exercise as a team competition instead of individual health.By Mike Ullery
February 22, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this
While this latest “banned” activity should be hard to believe, it is not really given the state of today’s society. When are people going to learn that life is not without bumps and bruises and a little danger? Attorneys have led people to believe that if you get hurt, it must be someone else’s fault. And…even more importantly, you are undoubtedly entitled to financial compensation. Reform of this attitude MUST begin with predatory law firms being fined and possible disbarrment to those attorneys and judges who encourage and endorse frivelous lawsuits. Only then, can the pedulum begin to swing the other direction again, toward moderation, and the true fact that everyone is responsible for their own actions. Yes, you might get a few bumps and bruises on the playground…but, get over it. That’s life.By Lea
February 22, 2006 11:19 AM | Link to this
If this were my children’s school, I’d find a way for them to attend elsewhere. But then I have to say that this is, in all fairness, one of the consequences of a lawsuit-happy nation. Speaking in general, parents expect others to do the raising of their children - schools, day care, television, the X-Box… And then sue when their expectations are not met. As a child, I skinned my knees many times playing tag and other games, and got a Band-Aid. My children are allowed to be children, too. Tag IS allowed at my house!