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Running out of time but not determination
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Editor’s Note: Columnist Diane Glass was diagnosed with Stage 4 bile duct cancer on July 6. She lost her fight against cancer early Monday, July 30, with family members at her side.
While in hospice care, Diane finished this column with the help of her sister, Janet Glass Dekle. Woman to Woman will resume with Shaunti Feldhahn and a guest columnist in three weeks.
A 42-year-old single female, in a promising relationship, is getting ready to adopt a baby from China after just landing a big promotion at work. Suddenly she is stricken with a rare form of cancer usually affecting men in their 70’s. It sounds like Greek tragedy, or perhaps something too over the top to even believe, but certainly something you wouldn’t wish on your worst enemy. I can’t tell you if it unfolds like a play, if it sounds that way, since it takes so much energy out of me being sick, but the drama in my life these days feels that way. I can tell you that watching your family and friends come to your bedside is probably one of the most beautiful, heart-wrenching parts of your life, even in a hospital bed. And while I’d love to stay and make up a new ending, I’m afraid weakness overcomes no matter how hard I try. I feel like the ending lacks proper drama, no sudden train crash or a fatal fall down the stairs. Just less clarity. In writing my column I’m overwhelmed by passion, drive and a determination to figure out where things will go from here. While I don’t know how many columns I have left, this one I needed to finish. DIANE MARIE GLASS
By JANET GLASS DEKLE
Most of you know my little sister, Diane Glass, to be a woman of intelligence and strongly felt opinions. She received her Master’s Degree from Harvard, no easy feat. But to me, she remains my little sister.
Many of her friends feel that way about her too. You just want to take her under your wing and protect her, but from an early age she had a distinct independent streak. From the moment she picked up a half-eaten sandwich off the sidewalk and took a bite out of it while on a family vacation in Galveston, Tex., I knew I’d have to keep an eye on her and help her out sometimes. Like now.
She had ups and downs in her personal as well as professional life, but recently things had been going well. She had a great job, a great boyfriend and she was getting ready to adopt a baby as a single mother. She exercised regularly, ate organically healthy and didn’t drink a lot.
That’s why her illness came as such a shock. Bile duct cancer is a relatively rare cancer that grows undetected until it’s nearly too late. As with everything in Diane’s life, she was ready to stand her ground and fight. But cancer doesn’t fight fair. Around every corner there was a Catch-22 situation, taking away the options for surgery and chemotherapy.
Diane would not want anyone to feel sorry for her. In fact, while I stayed with her during her 3- week stint at the hospital, she kept apologizing to me, and to others, for having cancer. That was my little sister, always wanting to please people.
The medication that relieved her pain also left her unable to think clearly. Stuck in a hospital bed, Diane worried about finishing her columns. She didn’t want to let readers down. She didn’t want to let herself down. She was so concerned about “Woman to Woman” that I found her sometimes, in the midst of medication-induced dreams, with arms outstretched, typing and drinking coffee.
That’s the reason I am writing for her today, because she couldn’t. But she let me know what to say.
If she could write it, she would want everyone to know that she was a woman who stood behind the facts and believed knowledge was power. She would want every little girl, especially her niece, Ava, to know that she could be anything she wanted to be, and that being strong didn’t make you any less of a woman. That standing by your beliefs was the only way to live your life and that it was ok to make mistakes if you could indeed learn from them. And she would want every young girl to know that you can’t make yourself whole with someone else, you need to be happy with yourself first, then you can really enjoy life.
Some people run out of life, some people waste the one they’re given, others don’t even know they have one to live. My sister had a lot more life to live. She just ran out of time.
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By Stacy Williams
July 29, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this
Diane, I am so sad to hear about your illness. I’ve been a 7-day AJC subscriber for 16 years, and I always read “Woman to Woman.” (By the way, you were always right!) Please know that you have a slew of caring fans out here who are praying for you.
By Zaida Poole
July 29, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
I just read your colum for the very first time and was brought to tears. I have only been in ATL for one yr(a transplant from Ca.) and had never really paid much attention to this part of the papper, that is until today. I am also living with several illnesses myself AIDS being one of them. I am often vert medicated and my mind is very confused at times also. You are such a brave angel and I hope to have your courage when my time comes. Janet any child would have been proud to call you mommy. I have six grand children ages 4 months to 9yrs so if you ever feel like you just want to hold and cuddle a child you can borrow one of mine (: I guess I’ve said enough and you need your rest(plus I don’t want to bore you to sleep (:
GOD BLESS you Janet and know that you have another admirer in McDonough Ga.
By Eric Jefferson
July 29, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this
This is terrible to hear. I’ve enjoyed Diane’s writing for many years and admire her tremendously. That’s even more the case now.
Your readers’ thoughts, and hearts, are with you, Diane.
By Austin Rhodes
July 29, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this
I am deeply saddened to hear of Diane’s condition. As a conservative she has infuriated me at times, but always challenged me to think and consider the alternatives. God bless this talented woman, I hope she gets the miracle she deserves.
By John
July 29, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
Hi Readers,
This is John, the “great boyfriend.” As the column says, this whole experience has been surreal. Two months ago Diane and I were planning an August vacation and now it is unlikely she will live that long.
Today, thanks to medications, Diane is home and in relative comfort. She sleeps a lot and increasingly the time she is awake she is not very coherent. I must say that her sister Janet and mother Pat have been champions for Diane. I cringe at the thought of Diane going through this ordeal without their 24/7 vigil around her. In addition to them, the rest of her family and close friends have rallied around her, doing whatever they can to make Diane’s last days better and to support Janet and Pat. It has been a touching display of compassion all around.
I want you all to know that this column was Diane’s passion. She loved her job and co-workers at the AJC but it was the column that she would work on nights and weekends. I know many of you will miss her, as I certainly will, but please know that she misses you too.
Even though she and Shaunti clearly disagreed on many things, I was always impressed with the level of professionalism between the two of them. I never heard Diane say a bad word about her. I don’t know if AJC will be able to reproduce another foil as talented against which Shaunti can spar but I hope that this column, Diane’s baby, will continue on educating and entertaining its readers.
I wish you all well and would ask that you say a quick prayer for my dear Diane.
Kind regards,
John.
By Liz M.
July 29, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
I’m a recent transplant to the Atlanta area and have enjoyed your columns. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I’m so sorry.
By Etna Bordon
July 29, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
You are in my thoughts and in prayers
By Kay Flowers Johnson
July 29, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
Dearest Janet and family, All this time I had no idea that the columnist I enjoyed reading was the sister of my friend and former co-worker (you!). I have Diane, you, your Mom and all of your family members in my prayers. May He give you all peace and comfort. Your friend, Kay
By Kay
July 29, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
Dearest Janet and family, All this time I had no idea that the columnist I enjoyed reading was the sister of my friend and former co-worker (you!). I have Diane, you, your Mom and all of your family members in my prayers. May He give you all peace and comfort. Your friend, Kay
By LPR
July 29, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this
Woman to Woman has been one of my favorite features of the paper for many years. When I was in college, I shared the articles with many of my women’s studies professors (and classes). As I lean more to the left politically, Diane’s columns always intrigued me and educated me. The article written today was a beautiful tribute to her, and I hope she knows how many admirers she has out there pulling for her. Diane - you are in my thoughts and prayers, and I wish the rest of your days to be filled with love, peace, comfort. Yours will be an immense loss for the Atlanta community.
By Joanne
July 29, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this
Words cannot describe how moved I am by your column this morning. Wow! You truly get it. As a close friend of Janet’s, I have watched family and friends rise to the occasion over the last month. Today’s column was truly the icing on the cake. The events of the last month have restored my faith in the power of the human spirit! God speed!
By David Martin
July 29, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this
I would just like to add my voice to the growing chorus of admirers who have just heard this distressing news this morning. I have always looked forward to the column and have always found it to be not only well written but generally astonishingly well-reasoned as well. Thanks Dianne, for being so entertaining and thought provoking over the years. My thoughts and prayers are with you and those who love you.
By Barb
July 29, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Dear Diane, You were my early morning buddy as I read the paper. I too am a 42 year old woman and have much in common with you. You were my public voice for me. I respect Shaunti as well. I always looked forward to you two “duking it out” in the paper. I was flabbergasted when I read your column today. You are in my thoughts. —-A Florida Fan
By Leslie
July 29, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this
http://www.odemagazine.com/doc/36/vaccineagainstcancer
I am so in hopes of a miracle for your disease. Cancer is such a horrible diagnosis. My mother died of breast cancer at the age of 41 when I was only 18. I still miss her terribly. I read the article in ODE magazine a little while ago(see URL). I believe there is hope in alternative medicines that traditional medicines can’t provide. It would be wonderful if that could happen for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers, healing energy is being sent your way.
By Nora DePalma
July 29, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
Thank you, Diane, for teaching us through your column that we can disagree on emotional issues without the name-calling and the meanness. You and Shaunti have been my first read on Sundays for years. Thank you John, “the great boyfriend,” and Janet for sharing your terrible pain in honor to continue Diane’s work, especially sharing her wishes for her niece Ava and all girls. Prayers and Godspeed to all of you.
By Chilao
July 29, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
And here I thought W2W had gone to heaven and back in a mule-drawn wagon filled with field crops(my version of h3ll and back in a hand-basket) last Wednesay mid-day when I was watching the Assateague ponies swim ashore on Chincoteague. I had no idea things were this dire.
One has to wonder about our increased cancer rates. Public health people I know have assured me that it is indeed an increased cancer-rate, and not merely better detection methods. Personally, I think our increased exposure to the many electrical fields are a big factor. I have heard of many people in my line of work, IT, on CRTs, developing brain tumours, at least those who had been on older-style terminals. It is something that concerns my own health potentially.
On a more positive note, a friend’s wife has had colon cancer, off and on, for at least four years, and continues to seem to improve. And she has been vegetarian and healthy-life-choices for years(which destroys some of my own theories about cancer-causes). Needless to say, they/she live one-day-at-a-time.
And I certainly feel for Diane, her family, and her ‘great boyfriend’. On that dire news, (b/f) I had to cancel my move-to-Atlanta plans. okay, only joking. LOL
Yeah, Diane Glass will NOT be able to be replaced, here at ajc.
By Paula
July 29, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
Diane, her Mom, her sister, her boyfriend, and all other friends and family members are in my thoughts and prayers. You know, I’ve never really read the column, but I see it every week. Now, after reading about Diane’s health challenge, I’m going back thru my papers and reading every one I can put my hands on. I admire her passion! She walked in her destiny. I’m praying for her comfort, and peace knowing that so many others enjoyed her work. She’s prepared a legacy for Ava. Be blessed!
By Jeenee
July 29, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this
Dear Diane, Janet, John, and extended family: I have always enjoyed the opposing viewpoints of the Woman to Woman column. Although I tend to be extremely conservative, Diane, you made me stretch to understand the more liberal viewpoint. I am deeply distressed to hear of your illness. I am so happy for you to have such a support system of family and friends to be with you and comfort you at this time. Please know that your passion for writing has touched and influenced many of us to look at both sides of an issue. May the next leg of your life journey be one of peace and extreme happiness. My prayers are with all of you today and forever. With love and extreme admiration, Jeenee
By Shell Ramirez
July 29, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
5 years ago my older sister started her battle with Breast Cancer. She is currently losing. The article was so true to me as a sister/sister article. I am so proud of Janet Glass Dekle and her strength. It is sometimes harder to watch. I wish I was physically closer to my sister who is currently living in Argentina, but I talk to her often. Thank you again to both of you for writing this article. It is helpful for other women.
By Barker
July 29, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
Thank you for this column. My feelings and prayers are with you, your family, and your friends. Please know that your coloumn has meant a lot to me over the years.
By Dave
July 29, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this
Diane, Janet and family:
Please know that you are in my thoughts during this time. I’ve so enjoyed Diane’s columns, and always look forward to them in the paper and online. You have all of my hopes
By Amy
July 29, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this
As a friend of John’s for nearly 10 years, I know that Diane must be a wonderful person. Though I have not met her, I offer my thoughts and prayers in hopes that she, her family, and her friends find peace and comfort. Cancer is a horrible illness that no one should have to endure. My husband was a fan of Diane’s column and will miss her writings, as will many others. And I’m sure that everyone that knows Diane “in real life” values every moment with her now. God bless.
By Tom
July 29, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this
Diane,
I always considered “Woman to Woman” a must read every Sunday. The wit, perspective and intelligence that each of you brought forth into your arguments made me pause and rethink my own opinions. Plus, the columns were always a fun read.
I pray for peace for you, your family and friends. May God bless.
By norma brown
July 29, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this
Janet and family… I pray that you will be strengthen through this time of challenges. I understand about sickness and I thank you for you courage to speak out when you yourself in your situation think of others , I thank god for you and you are pricessless…………..god the glory.
By Jeanne
July 29, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this
Diane, my prayers are with you and your family. In last week’s column you wrote that science demands proof (implying that you require proof before believing in anything) and yet you wrote that you are comfortable with mystery. Science has often been wrong, and there is much more for it to discover. That’s part of what makes life so exciting and beautiful.
You are about to enter into one of life’s greatest mysteries, death. But it need not be so mysterious. God said, “If you seek me you will find me, if you seek for me with all your heart.”
You obviously have a passion for truth, and I pray that you will find it before you die. Jesus said, “I am the Way and the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”
If you were in a burning building and I knew it and didn’t warn you, it would be unforgivable of me. In love, I’m telling you: It really does matter what you do about Jesus before you die. He loved you enough to die for every failure, every angry thought, every wrong action you’ve ever had or done. He waits in heaven to welcome you home—to wipe every tear from your eyes and to relieve you of all pain and sorrow—if you will only let Him.
Sometimes the proof comes after we choose to believe. May God grant you faith, joy and peace, both now and in eternity.
By Rebecca
July 29, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this
God bless you, Diane and family.
By Katie Wilson
July 29, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
I have this disease also.Please do not give up only God knows if you will live or die. No one gave me much of a chance , but I am still fighting after two years. Please try to eat and you will get stronger . I don’t know you, but I love you and hope for the best .
By Anne-Caroline Brown
July 29, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this
I was so touched by your story today. I have read your column many, many times and I always enjoy reading it.
My prayers go out to you and to your family, to your boyfriend, to your co-columnist and finally to the little girl you were in the process of adopting from China.
Although I did not know you, I feel a strong kinship to you from reading the bio your sister wrote about you.
We are about the same age, single, independent and at a time in life when things are starting to come together.
You have accomplished a lot in your life and I can tell that your family is very, very proud of you.
Your display of courage is inspiring to me and I will never forget your story as long as I live.
God will take care of you, this I know is true.
By Bobbie Sims
July 29, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this
Dear Diane, Thanks so much for sharing. I have a very dear friend who was stricken with a rare form of kidney disease in March and she is currently being treated at Primacy Skilled Nursing Facility in Memphis, Tennessee. I can relate to the restlessness and the sleeping from pain medication and when she is awake she is not coherent. It’s really tough for me seeing her suffer through this and also being so far away. I try to spend as much time with her as I possibly can. When you get a minute, I want you to read the 23rd Psalms and I will pray for peace and healing for you. On a positive note, my friend’s name is Alma and her first grandchild was born a couple of days ago in Washington, DC. Please pray that she will live long enough to see her granddaugher, Alayna. God Bless you!
By Judith Williams
July 29, 2007 5:56 PM | Link to this
Dear Diane, I have always respected your intelligence and your point of view, though I didn’t always agree with your position. In 30 years of reading the AJC, this is the first time I’ve cried because of an article. I pray that God will bless you and comfort you.
By Nina
July 29, 2007 6:03 PM | Link to this
I was saddened to read of Diane’s illness. It was always a pleasure to read her viewpoint about topics because she seemed to grasp the reality of the times in which we live. We can’t always understand why terminal illness strikes those who have so much life and knowledge to offer the world. But this column is a gentle reminder to embrace every one of life’s moments and to focus on the good and God in everyone. Be blessed Diane and know that you are admired for your courage and strength to never falter on how you see you the world.
By kimberly
July 29, 2007 6:11 PM | Link to this
Jesus. I am SO sorry! I will miss your voice here, and remember your courage, both before and after this dreadful illness struck. Bless you!
By Myron Hoskins
July 29, 2007 6:11 PM | Link to this
Diane you are in my prayers. I’ve enjoyed reading your articles for the past few years and words cannot express my wishes for a miracle. Please continue to stay strong.
By Rob
July 30, 2007 8:07 AM | Link to this
Rest in Peace, you have forever touched our minds and heart. We will miss you!!!!
By Louise R, Wright
July 30, 2007 8:13 AM | Link to this
Dear Diane and your sister,Janet,
I am just one of millions of admirers for you and your column. You will be missed but I know that you are about to embark on the trip of your life.
Godspeed, Louise
By Jeff
July 30, 2007 8:25 AM | Link to this
I can’t say that I agreed with Diane’s positions very much - it happened, but VERY rarely. Indeed, I started reading this column more to see what Shaunti had to say about the various topics.
That said, however, Diane was generally a great opponent to debate, and she typically was the epitome of class. The world truly has lost one of its better people with her loss.
I can only hope that she found THE answer to life’s most important question.
By jack
July 30, 2007 8:25 AM | Link to this
The world is a lesser place today. The loss of such a kind soul can never be truly replaced.
By me again
July 30, 2007 8:34 AM | Link to this
Wow…I simply cannot believe it. As a reader of w2w, I’m truly saddened. As a poster stated above, I LOVED the way Diane made you THINK, especially when you didn’t agree with her. I’m completely overwhelmed, I cannot believe she is gone. :(
My prayers truly go out to her friends and family. God bless, Diane!
By Craig also
July 30, 2007 8:35 AM | Link to this
May God bless your family and boyfriend Diane.
By Brian Curtis
July 30, 2007 8:36 AM | Link to this
Wow. Sorry to hear about what happened to Diane. She’ll be missed.
By John Hess
July 30, 2007 8:41 AM | Link to this
Dear Readers,
I am very sad to inform you that Diane Glass passed away at approximately 3:15 this morning. Thank you for all the kind and supportive words you have all written.
John
By Brian
July 30, 2007 8:41 AM | Link to this
My prayers to the family. I did not always agree with you, but I admire and respect the passion and logic you had! I am sorry for the loss.
By SA
July 30, 2007 8:46 AM | Link to this
I am so sorry to hear of Diane’s death. I have been so sad since reading of her condition yesterday. I enjoyed her column and point of view. May she rest in peace.
By geraldine
July 30, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this
I was sending a prayer up for you doing the night, i’ve read you article, but today the lord has called you to heaven , so rest in peace diane.
By catlady
July 30, 2007 9:01 AM | Link to this
Maybe Dianne can “argue her point” in Heaven. God bless all who suffer from this devastating illness, and their families and friends.
By John Hess
July 30, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this
Dear Readers,
I should also mention that I set up a website for donations to the American Cancer Society in Diane’s honor. All donations are tax free and many employers will match your contributions. Please remember that no amount is too small.
http://register.charityrunner.org/site/TR?px=1301085&pg=personal&fr_id=1060
John.
By Lyrazel
July 30, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this
Life is short people. Enjoy it.
Diane, enjoy transcendence from the physical to the spiritual.
By Mary
July 30, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this
Wishing Diane’s family & friends peace and God’s comfort. Diane is free from pain and smiling on you with love. Mary
By Chilao
July 30, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this
Wow, so much for my hope this could go on for years. RIP, Diane.
By Debbie Mahler
July 30, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this
My sincere condolences. She always brightened my mornings and I’m sure many others’- God Bless
By Sabrina
July 30, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this
Some of the things that we blog about everyday, should make us “all” realize, just how short life can be. I will truly miss Diane, because I knew that she truly cared about others. I hope that Shaunti and her guest columnist will dedicate sometime to blog about some of the things that Diane stood for.
By annemarie
July 30, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this
i am just so sad
By Dana
July 30, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this
I am so saddened to read this today. Peace be with you.
By RectilinearPropagation
July 30, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this
My deepest sympathies to Glass’ friends and family.
By John Horrocks
July 30, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this
Thank you, Diane, for what you’ve given us. Your courage is inspiring and you are very much in our thoughts. We are sorry.
By Nora
July 30, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this
To Diane’s Family - A soul that touches the lives of others never dies but lives on in the hearts of all they touched forever. She was well loved and will be sorely missed.
By Donna Lott
July 30, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
My condolences on the passing of Diane. I found it remarkable that she wanted to finish one last column for us while she could. She was truly dedicated and as a fan I am truly appreciative. May the memories of Diane keep you through your grief and know that you will see her once again. John, be glad that you had her to love for the time you did. There are some out there who never get that opportunity. God Bless.
By The72John
July 30, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this
I am so shocked - did anyone have any idea that Diane was so ill? She will be missed.
By Angela
July 30, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this
Diane, may you rest in peace. My heartfelt condolences and prayers are with the Glass family at this sad time.
By Flo
July 30, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
Yesterday’s column was a blow, then the news this morning that Diane has passed was a terrible shock. She was one of my favorite columnists, and the same age as I am.
My condolences to her loved ones. For my part, I will try to keep her inspiration burning brightly in my own life and pass it on to my daughters. Peace be with you.
By Mark Scott
July 30, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
I had the opportunity to work with Diane a few times in my career and always enjoyed it. She was a true professional and will be missed. Best wishes to her family and friends.
By Archie
July 30, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this
I am shocked and saddened by Diane’s death and I will miss her writing. I am at a loss for words but I do wish her surviving relatives well.
By Harold
July 30, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
I didn’t agree with Diane very often but always respected her opinions as being very well thought out. To her family and friends, my deepest sympathies. The world needs more people who challenge thought and Diane was wonderful at that.
By Marla
July 30, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this
Dear Janet & family- I’m so heartbroken for you. I had no idea that you were going through this ordeal. I’m so sorry. Diane was truly an original, so bright and so passionate. I’m so sorry for your loss. With love
By Ruth Conner
July 30, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this
I never knew Diane Glass until today, it sounds as though I missed a lot. Family of Ms. Glass we know how you feel, our daughter ran out of time at eighteen, and our son at 32 yrs., from incurable diseases, too. Our sympathy to all.
By War Eagle
July 30, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
I feel so bad about Diane and bless her family and friends. I am in a battle with Lymphoma and its difficult on everyone. She left so quick brings saddest to all.
By Becky
July 30, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
To Diane’s family & friends, may God’s loving arms embrace you & take care of you.. To the baby that she didn’t get to adopt, I hope that you are going to someone just as wonderful..
By Helen Angelopoulos
July 30, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
This is incredibly sad news. I have loved reading your column for the past year. You have made me reflect on many occasions on a number of issues……This is real power, the power to create an atmosphere of introspection, reflection and ultimate change. You have inspired many……..your strong spirit will live on…….helen from Montreal
By dave
July 30, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this
Sad….My Sincere condolences to her friends and family. She was a true voice of “reason” here on the AJC. One that will be sorely missed. Rest in Peace…..
By Lily Toad
July 30, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this
Dear Diane,
I’ll miss your liberal view point. I always enjoyed reading you and Shaunti. As a liberal I usually agreed with you, but sometimes I thought Shaunti expressed her opinions well, also, which indicates how successful the columns are.
John, Janet, and Pat,
Know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Your beloved Diane will be missed.
By Margo
July 30, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
I am sitting here stunned as I have been out of town this summer and had no idea any of this was happening. I am heartbroken, saddened and speechless. My heart reaches out to Diane in heaven and her family and friends left devastated here on earth. John, Janet and Mom - what a blessing to have loved ones like you, surrounding Diane with love up until the end. I can’t begin to imagine your pain and agony, the shock of what has happened. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers in the coming hours, days and months. You will not be forgotten. Time may pass, but Diane’s legacy will be passed on. May God’s love uplift those she left behind. I am so very sorry.
By Margo
July 30, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
I am sitting here stunned as I have been out of town this summer and had no idea any of this was happening. I am heartbroken, saddened and speechless. My heart reaches out to Diane in heaven and her family and friends left devastated here on earth. John, Janet and Mom - what a blessing to have loved ones like you, surrounding Diane with love up until the end. I can’t begin to imagine your pain and agony, the shock of what has happened. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers in the coming hours, days and months. You will not be forgotten. Time may pass, but Diane’s legacy will be passed on. May God’s love uplift those she left behind. I am so very sorry.
By Mara
July 30, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
how very sad! I, like so many of her fans, was unaware that she was ill. She will indeed be missed.
my condolences to her family and friends.
By kimberly
July 30, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
Jesus. I’m so sorry. Queuing up Clapton’s version of Swing Low Sweet Chariot…
By Georgia Moore
July 30, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this
Diane,
I wish I could of had the opportunity to have met you. You clearly meant some much to so many people!
May the memory of your life live on comforting those who care for you and love you so much.
By Claire
July 30, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this
I have always enjoyed the Woman to Woman column. I didn’t always agree with Diane’s statements, but she did make me think and always keep an open mind. It feels as if I have lost a personal friend and I’ve never met Diane. This last column shows unbelieveable strength and character. To the family: Many, many others share in your grief over such a tremendous loss.
By Becky
July 30, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this
Diane’s family & friends, may God’s loving arms embrace you & take care of you at this sad time in your life. I hope that the child that Diane was to adopt will be placed with someone just as wonderful as Diane was.
By David
July 30, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
My thoughts to the Glass family this morning. Diane was one of only two writers for the AJC I have written an email to. She was a fantastic mind and I will miss her point of view in the future. Rest in peace friend.
By Gloria Nelson
July 30, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
Dear Janet and Family, I sit here crying as I have just learned your beloved sister and daughter has passed into Heaven so early in her life. I am so so sorry. We do know she is now at peace, and in a much more beautiful place - God’s Kingdom. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this most sad and difficult time. I recently had a dear friend pass into Heaven also from cancer - the disease, excuse me, sucks. I will pray for the repose of Diane’s soul and I will ask God to give you the strength and comfort you need at this time. I am so so sorry. God bless. Love and prayers, Gloria Nelson, Roswell
By B
July 30, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this
It insists that those of us who cannot accept a single belief when interpreting the mysteries in life, miss the beauty of taking that giant leap. I’d argue that literalists are the ones missing out. They miss out on the wonder of accepting mutiple truths that make our lives so unique. Because someone who can embrace mystery and science is someone who thinks independently, someone who is more tolerant, someone who is open, someone who feels comfortable with real mystery.
At the time, I thought Diane’s rebuttal to the question of Bible literalism was extremely beautiful. Knowing now that she was sick when she wrote it makes it even more poignant—and courageous. She remained true to her beliefs to the end.
Dying sucks. We’re all going to miss you, Diane.
By Captain Freedom
July 30, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
The Captain doffs his cap in memory of the fine columnist Ms. Glass. Well played, to the very end.
By jody
July 30, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
My deepest sypathies. What charity would Diane want people to support in her memory? I hope Diane left knowing that her final gift was to remind thousands more women to live for today and tomorrow, not “later,” to grab onto life and make it the best we can. Her tragic illness is a reminder to all to live lief to the fullest, and to take care of our friends who need our strength.
By Cruger
July 30, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this
Hello, nice site look this: Checking in to see if everybody.
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By Elizabeth Deschesne
July 30, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this
Janet, Pat, John and family.. I was saddened to get the email this morning regarding Diane’s passing. I’ve enjoyed her columns, but as you said she is free now.. so I worry about those who are still here. A big hug out to all of you and know that you did a really wonderful thng that not all families can do. Bless you all, Elizabeth
By Daniel Pruitt
July 30, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
Dear Janet and Family, I read Diane’s column in the Anderson Independent-Mail. Although I disagreed with much of the things she said, I appreciated the stand that she took and her skill at expressing herself, and especially her conviction. You are in our prayers. Daniel
By Ross
July 30, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
Why does this happen to good people?
I’m so sorry for her people.
-ross
By Jojo
July 30, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
I have been only one of Diane’s many admirers. She was the voice of reason in the column. I am ashamed and appalled that some would be cruel enough to criticize her views and try to “save” her during her last hours on earth. I’m thankful she wasn’t able to read those blogs; but to those who loved her and have read them, I will apologize for their callous remarks and add my sincere condolences to all of you. She was truly one of a kind, and I will miss her very much.
By larry
July 30, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family
By lozen
July 30, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
In the rising of the sun and in its going down, we remember Diane. In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer, we remember Diane. When we are weary and in need of strength, we remember Diane. So as long as we live, she too shall live, for she is now a part of so many of us, as we remember Diane.
By larry
July 30, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family
By Hubert
July 30, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
Hello, nice site look this: It’s fine.
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By B
July 30, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
Why does this happen to good people?
At my father’s funeral many years ago, the minister asked us to think of life as a tapestry being unfolded by God, which includes both light and dark threads. Because we are small compared to God, it’s hard to see the beauty and necessity of the dark threads, but the picture wouldn’t be complete without them.
By dr soul
July 30, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
Truly one of God’s angels, that we will struggle to understand the departure and not resolve while here; but, obviously needed in a larger role and with confidence that she could fill the order in every way…
The positive is that we were blessed by her strength of sharing and convictions…the negative is that some little child will never get the opportunity to share in this woman’s incredible and sustaining life…
To the family, “Thank you for sharing her with us”…
By Just Being Me
July 30, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
Oh dear… I had no idea she was ill. Although the rest of you “regulars” haven’t seen me in a while, I continue to read the column each week, and scan the board to see what the rest of you have to say.
This comes as such a shock. I just had no idea she was ill, I guess none of us did. It’s so devastating to succumb to cancer less than 30 days after the diagnosis.
I just don’t know what to say; I’m so sorry to hear of her passing. This column will never be the same without Diane.
~JBM
By ViewFromMidtown
July 30, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
The view from Midtown was overcast and gloomy this morning and now I know why. My deepest sympathies and condolences to John, Janet and the rest of Diane’s family and friends. She was a strong voice and shining light and will be sorely missed.
By DebbieDoRight
July 30, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
To the Glass Family: So sorry to hear of your loss. No words at this point can relieve your pain and suffering; but perhaps one simple phrase can:
Diane LIVED. Every minute, every day and she breathed life, wisdom, debate, truthfulness, fear, anger and LOVE into this column. She will be missed.
By Nancy
July 30, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
I don’t think any of my comments would come close to expressing a true understanding of “why” someone like Diane, who had so much to live for and was a genuine contribution to this world, would be given a condensed life. I do know that I wandered upon this article feeling confused and depressed about where my own life is right now and from her story, I found an appreciation for exactly where I am at this moment. I am still here…and I can build on the strength that I felt from Diane’s story and courage. God Bless her family and friends for sharing as her gifts are alive in me!
By Renee
July 30, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
Good Morning everyone. Sorry, I know I haven’t been on in here in quite some time. Hi Chilao, Net, JBM, Kimberly, and whomever else I forgot.
Condolences to the family of Diane Glass, her opinion was shared, and while not all agreed, it’s always been delivered honestly and eloquently. This forum will definitely not be the same.
By HELLINAHANDBASKET
July 30, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
To touch so many lives with such love and energy, to earn so much respect from others and live such a selfless and compassionate life will leave behind a legacy of the same in those of whom she met. Her body was taken by cancer but death is not the end, she lives on in our hearts, minds and beyond. Our prayers for the family are of peace and comfort at this most difficult time. LAB
By Publius
July 30, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this
The first word I had of Diane’s illness was the online headline this morning announcing her death. The shock was sufficient that I experienced a moment of denial, clicking on the link thinking “No, there has to be another Diane Glass …” Of course, in many senses of the phrase, there is no other Diane Glass. A couple of years ago, before the advent of posting in her column, Diane and I swapped several emails over a topic. Something I said sparked her journalist’s interest, and she suggested lunch or a drink so we could talk about it. Of course, lives are busy, and I never got to meet her. I will always consider this an object lesson in the doctrine of carpe diem.
The AJC blog cops would have a seizure if I typed what it was Diane manifestly had together, but no more genteel phrase really captures the way Diane engaged the world. Not as some esoteric or theoretical forum, but as an arena, in which we live, love, fight, laugh and cry. Today it is time for the latter, but I know Diane wants us to resume the first three as soon as we can bear it.
By Tiffany O'Quinn
July 30, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this
Sorry for your loss.
a friend of a friend.
By time for the truth
July 30, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
At sorrowful times like this politics and world views for the bereaved shrivel into pretty meaningless clutter. To be so utterly unexpectedly and so swiftly robbed of life so young is always heartbreaking. At least Ms Glass is at peace now and painfree. Leaving her obviously very close family and friends to mourn.
As a proudly secular right wing conservative - intolerant of obtuse dogmatic religious intolerance Ms Glass and I at least had a few big picture attitudes and perceptions in common. Ultimately everyone has to make their peace with their own notion of eschatology - however derived - and quietly shuffle off this mortal coil with whatever beyond the grave expectations they (if time allows) choose. All that is certain is the likely bleak uncertainty - whatever one asserts on Sundays, Friday lunchtimes or during Friday Night Lights in Temple. It may be cold comfort, but in an ideal world no one should tell anyone else what to believe. Nor should gullible, easily impressionable children be brainwashed at an early age by fearful superstitious parents perpetuating the familial cycle of indoctrination. Man made superstitious religious dogma, which is still all too often fanatically and unquestioningly promoted is something to be rigorously questioned, the economics of the collection plate and the collectively imposed tithe are equally cause for concern.
As Andy Sipowicz often used to say on NYPD Blue - keep a good thought for Diane and her family.
By twinkeltoes
July 30, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
My sympathies to Diane’s relatives. I will miss her columns and comments as she was a right on womyn!!!
By Casey
July 30, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this
I will miss Diane’s viewpoints - which I usually shared. She was a woman you knew you could depend on.
I’m saddened to see that Shaunti Feldhahn hasn’t bothered to post a good-bye on here.
By RC
July 30, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
I am really sorry to hear this. Submitting a comment in response to some of her more kooky ideas used to be fun until the forum turned into a dog-eat-dog blog. But, her views on things still made me smile and shake my head. Must have been quite a someone to know in person
By Shaunti
July 30, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
I want to tell everyone thanks for their kind words for Diane and her family and friends. This has been a very hard month, and I want everyone to know that Diane handled this whole situation with an immense amount of grace and courage.
Please keep the family — and John Hess, her boyfriend — in her prayers. And support his charity run for the American Cancer Society:
http://register.charityrunner.org/site/TR?px=1301085&pg=personal&fr_id=1060
In response to some of your questions, the column will continue in a week or two. But I’m having a hard time envisioning it without my business partner and friend, who I already miss very, very much.
Many of you may not be aware that our column was syndicated in 45 papers nationwide, largely because Diane’s witty approach to the issues was a breath of fresh air. If you want to see the newspaper industry article about her passing (including links to previous articles about W2W), you can see it here: http://www.editorandpublisher.com/eandp/news/articledisplay.jsp?vnucontent_id=1003618222
Again, thanks everyone for your kind words. They are a bit of light in a very difficult day.
By Billy Slocumb
July 30, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
Diane will certainly be missed. It will be next to impossible for the AJC to find someone to fill her shoes… Someone willing to stand up against the religious bigotry that is rampant in Georgia. Someone that can do it so gracefully. I always made sure I read “Woman to Woman”, and I nearly always agreed 100% with Diane. I’m going to miss her voice of reason. My deepest sympathy to her friends and family. Sincerely, Billy Slocumb
By Saeko
July 30, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
Hello, nice site look this: It’s vonderful.
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By Shannon, M.Div.
July 30, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this
I cheered when I read Diane’s column, and I’m not surprised to know that she did a great deal of behind-the-scenes work at the AJC. I was shocked to log in and see this, and I weep for our communal loss as well as for her closer colleagues, friends, and family. God be with all affected.
By Shaunti fan
July 30, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this
Casey:
Shaunti just found out this morning as well. From what I hear, she IS, in fact, working on a good-bye type column that should appear at some point in the next couple of weeks.
By SUZANRHODES
July 30, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this
My deepest synpathy to all of Diane’s family and friends. She was a wonderful writer, she had wit, humor, depth and a sense of truth that ran very deep. She will be missed. My prayers are with you.
Suzanr
By SUZANRHODES
July 30, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this
My deepest sympathy to all of Diane’s family and friends. She was a wonderful writer, she had wit, humor, depth and a sense of truth that ran very deep. She will be missed. My prayers are with you.
Suzanr
By Clover
July 30, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this
I am thankful for Diane’s passion and ability to make us think. She helped us all - no matter what our views - to be a little stronger. She will be missed.
My love to John and Janet and to each of Diane’s friends and family members. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Clover
By Amy
July 30, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this
Our prayers and thoughts are with Janet, John, Shaunti and the rest of Diane’s family and friends. We are so sorry to hear that she lost her battle with this rare cancer this morning. We always looked forward to the Woman to Woman column and appreciated Diane’s and Shaunti’s varying viewpoints. Know that the women of Atlanta loved the column. Diane did a marvelous job and we are very sorry that she ran out of time. Peace and well wishes to her family and friends….
By athena bennett
July 30, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this
For Janet, You don’t know me, but I do know what you are going thru. I lost my sister to Cancer one year ago July 1. I know what it is like to watch your heart and soul deteriorate before your very eyes. Elaine was my older sister, I was the baby. I am so sorry for your loss. Diane sounded a lot like my sister. I hope they are up in heaven, chilling on cloud and reading some great books. Take care of yourself Athena Bennett
By Steve
July 30, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this
Diane and family,
I’ve appreciated your column; thanks! You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
By B
July 30, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this
Diane would not want anyone to feel sorry for her.
Actually, I was just starting to feel a little sorry for St. Pete—you know Diane surely gave him a good workover this AM. Give ‘em hell, Di! ; > }
I guess the truth is that none of us knows what’s in store beyond this lifetime, but it is comforting to believe that the soul lives on, in some capacity.
By Jesse's Girl
July 30, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this
Diane understood the subtle nuances of life…never slamming her fist down on a particular belief just because she was told to do so. She was the thinking woman’s woman. She could weave a tapestry of intellect and humor, that on more than one occasion, made me re-think and re-stitch my own mental fabric. She was the perfect combination of sassy and sentimental….of demanding and demure. I was always left with the distinct impression that I didn’t so much read her column as I did experience it. I often found myself sitting down with a good glass of wine with my husband to discuss Woman To Woman….making mental notes about points I may want to share with our daughters. With Diane’s going home, the world is a little less analytical, a little less theological, a little less funny, a little less quirky, a little less interesting, and lot more boring. We can all look at Diane and see how fantastically she lived life…..and she continues to. We’ll see you soon Diane.
By Stephanie James
July 30, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this
I might not have read the rest of the paper cover-to-cover, but Diane always inspired me and I ALWAYS read her column. She was a modern-day thinking woman’s hero - and it was so rare to see such a woman writing for a Southern newspaper. I made mental notes from each of her editorials, learning how to build a solid argument using her examples (often it’s easier to get angry and not build your case like she so eloquently did). It sounds selfish, but I truly felt she spoke for me! Where else in Atlanta do you hear a voice and think, “I not only completely agree with her but I just learned something - about humor, about tolerance, about intelligence - from her.” I wish I could have shared a drink with Diane. I’ll bet she was a lot of fun. She will be missed.
By Naftal
July 30, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this
Diane,
You were one of the coolest bosses a girl could have. I will miss ya round these parts. Wherever you are now, I hope you are laughing.
Peace and light to your family.
Naftal
By JB
July 30, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
Cruger, Hubert, Saeko -whoever you are - please stop posting unless you have something meaningful to say. Your gibberish is unnecessary at such a sad time.
By Caroline Johnson
July 30, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
I just got around to reading the Issue section this morning. Good Lord, what a mean and insidious thing to happen to such a young and vibrant woman. John, your post was so sweet. Janet, thanks for finishing Diane’s column for her. My thoughts are with all her family. I am just STUNNED and a bit angry. How can you cry for someone you’ve never met? Well, you can. So sad!
By josette
July 30, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
My sister also died from this “rare” cancer one year ago Feb. (Cholangiocarcinoma) She was 55. She suffered thru it for 2 and 1/2 years. I am so sorry for your loss.
By Anonymous
July 30, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this
Sorry to see her go. We only get one life, and hers was cut way too short.
By By Jeanne
July 30, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this
Dear Janet & family I lost my “baby” sister also when she was age 42. Like Diane my sis was brilliant, dedicated to her career, and an innovator. But most importantly, she loved the Lord and she positively touched the lives of those around her. Be rest assured that God has said to Diane, “well done,my good and faithful servant”. Jeanne
By Curtis Rivers
July 30, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this
Thanks to Diane for her courageous columns and for those final comments in Sunday’s paper by her and her sister. My prayers are with her family.
By Rich Dundon
July 30, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this
Eloquence and intelligence were abound in all her opinions. You could tell she was a classy lady. As a male conservative she put balance and another perspective in my thought process. We will all be saddened by her passing. To her family I leave this message. Thornton Wilder said it and it cannot be improved upon, “there is the land of the living and the land of the dead and the bridge is love.” I find some comfort in the words.
By Michael
July 30, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
My mother, a journalist, died on November 18, 2006, of cancer. Opportunites to remember her through the passion of others is rare. When they come along, I sit and weep, and it helps.
I never read your column, but I can assuredly say thanks, Diane, for the lives you touched. My deepest sympathies to Jane, John, and the dear child who won’t know Diane as her mother.
Grieve hard, but live with more passion than ever when you’re done. She would like that. I guarantee it.
Michael-Atlanta
By chuck
July 30, 2007 5:07 PM | Link to this
Hello all. I believe I made my first post on this board back in the fall of 2003. I think I probably agreed with Diane way less than 1% of the time, but I did admire her ability to get my blood boiling. Even though she was seldom “right” I enjoyed pointing out the fallacies in her arguments. I will miss her point of view because it always helped me to hone mine.
That said, cancer is not a fun disease to suffer through. My Dad died just over 2 years ago from lung cancer after about an 8 month battle. My prayers are with her family and friends who I know must miss her deeply. I found and continue to find solace in the fact that my Father was a believer in Jesus Christ. I know that I will see him and my mother again one day. I hope that you have found that same hope. God Bless you.
Chuck
By Scalia
July 30, 2007 5:07 PM | Link to this
Wow…I had no idea that Diane was sick. I am truly going to miss her. I liked the times when she would use “hip” language to get her point across. She let her views be known, and never backed down.
Gonna miss you, Diane.
By Haroon
July 31, 2007 8:15 AM | Link to this
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. I will remember her for her quiet wit and humor.
By Tom Campbell
July 31, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this
I did not know Diane Glass, but I did read some of her columns. I do know her sister, Janet, from working with her many years ago. To Janet: You did the greatest thing you could for your sister by taking care of her and finishing her last column. That was the finest gift of all.
By Monica
July 31, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this
I’m so saddenend by Diane’s death. To her friends and family: may you feel the arms of God’s comfort wrapped around you. I will be praying for you. Whether we were liberal or conservative, Deist, monotheist, polytheist, or atheist, pro-life or pro-choice, Diane left a legacy for all of us. Woman to Woman will never be the same.
By Kendal
July 31, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
I’m so sorry to hear of Diane’s passing. I’ve always enjoyed reading her side of Woman to Woman and there was not once of her points of view I could disagree with. Of course I have to admit being Atheist there wasn’t much reason for me to agree with Shaunti. My thoughts go out to her family.
By Stage 2: Anger
July 31, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this
A voice of reason and compassion, one who studied and sought truth and understanding at every turn, is ripped from us, and her own life, so young. No explanation, no rationale, no sense can be made of it. Yet voices remain to feed us the opposite of everything she stood for and tried to accomplish. The good are struck down while the others build empires of wealth blinding us with fear, hate, and intolerance.
What does this tell us? What forces rule on Earth today? In whom shall we place our “faith,” and at what price?
As for me, I’ll follow the light that Diane followed. So go ahead and take your best shot.
By Jennifer Andone
July 31, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
Janet, I was so touched by Diane’s and your article. Your Northbrook family loves you and is praying for you and your family during these difficult days. Blessings, Jennie Andone
By Dave & Pat
July 31, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
Diane,
Reading Sunday’s newspaper early Monday morning, I could get no further than the front page of Section B. Shocked and deeply saddened, we purchased and sent you a card that afternoon only to learn, today, that you have already gone. We have lost a wonderful person.
We send our sincerest sympathies and love to your family and boyfriend, John Hess.
You are missed.
Dave and Pat
By Steve
July 31, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
I think over the years of reading Diane’s columns I actually agreed with her only once. I do not even remember what it was that I found myself nodding in agreement with her. I can only remember my own astonishment at that very fact.
Yesterday, I logged on the AJC website to be greeted by the news of Diane’s death. I had not known of her cancer diagnosis and knew nothing of her struggle. As I read the story of her death, I found myself again astonished at my reaction to Diane - I found myself crying at this sad news. How could the passing of someone with whom I passionately disagreed with on just about everything stir my emotions so powerfully? I am not sure I know the answer to that question either. Maybe it is because her writing connected with me even if more often than not it angered and/or frustrated me.
She will be missed.
My sympathies go out to Diane’s family and friends.
-Steve
By Virginia Low
July 31, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this
Thanks, Diane, for sharing your story, your courage, and your life in your final piece “Farewell—it’s time to go”. You will be missed by all of your readers. We are all sorry that you ran out of time in your life…..but you gave so much life to all of us. We thank you.
By Regan Smith
July 31, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this
I was astonished and deeply saddened to read of Diane’s death this morning in the Seattle Times. I loved reading Diane’s column, especially in response to Shaunti Feldhahn. I enjoyed Woman to Woman because Shaunti so resembles my mother, whereas my value system lies more with Diane. Diane’s thoughtul, compassionate and intelligent views gave me strength in my own conviction. She was like the older sister who gets your back when you’re not sure what to do or think about a situation. I will miss you Diane.
By Tom Taylor
July 31, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
Dear Diane Glass,
Your columns gave a much too brief glimpse of your intelligence and personality. I am lucky to have a 42-year-old wife, daughters, mother, sister, nieces and other women brimming with success and potential in my life. Your columns inspire me to support and treasure my time with these women.
Your columns were skeptical of organized religion, but it is a comfort to think of you off on your next adventure somewhere. If there is suddenly an updated Bible on store shelves or some other fresh bit of divine inspiration I will give you credit!
Best Regards, Tom Taylor www.RockAuto.com
By Lori
July 31, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this
In Tuesday’s Seattle Times, the news of Diane’s death in the regular Tuesday editorial spot is a complete shock. Had I the opportunity to write to Diane I would say, “Thank you for originating this column. Though my teenagers’ newspaper consumption consists mostly of sports and comics, your column alone was our weekly lesson in opinion and argument. I used it as a teaching mechanism on how to think, how to understand the structure of an argument and to hear opposing opinions, both to comprehend the “other side” and to see that argument can be constructive. Thank you.”
My heart is deeply saddened at your departure, Diane. Your gifts have challenged and enriched us. God’s abundant blessing and comfort to you and yours.
By Kathy Swoyer
July 31, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this
I bawled like a baby when I read, just now in the Seattle Times, of Diane’s illness and so very untimely and tragic death. First Molly Ivins, now Diane. What in the world is going on? Can’t a liberal woman publicly express her ideas without contracting a fatal disease? (No doubt Ann Coulter will live forever. Agghhh, what a frightening thought!)
Diane’s words were a breath of fresh air to me. I will miss her and forever mourn the loss of her wisdom and insight.
By Ashley
July 31, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this
My deepest sympathies to all Diane’s family and friends. The world has surely lost one of its best and brightest. I have been a loyal W2W reader since the column was begun, and I will miss Diane’s insights and sense of humor. Thank you for all you’ve given us Diane, and may you rest in peace.
By annette
July 31, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this
Dear Janet (for Diane);
I am so extremely sad about unexpected passing of exuberant Diane Glass. I am devoted republican and conservative, is crying today, that Diane is gone. I only knew her by the newspaper column, and many times I found myself agreeing with Diane and not with her opponent. I thought that would never happen that liberal ideas would ever appeal to me; then with Diane, it did. She is a great thinker, and a great writer, and a great woman. My deepest sympathy to her family.
By William Houston
July 31, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this
I will mourn with thousands of others at the passing of that beautiful woman and spirit. I never had seen Woman to Woman until I moved to Washington three years ago, but never missed after the first time. I GREATLY admired her deep thoughtfulness and her ability to sort the wheat from the chaff in each issue that was argued. She was both spirited and benign. Her honesty, pragmatism and humanism reminded me very much of my mother. I will miss her clarity, and the detection that she was a free, strong person as well as woman. My deepest sympathy to her family and friends.
By Stage 3: Bargaining
August 1, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
Please, if we give you Ann Coulter AND Michelle Malkin, can we have Diane back? Please?
By candide
August 1, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
Bile duct cancer also took my sister. From the time it is found it is only a short time til death. This cancer is one of the most deadly yet few know anythig about it.
By Bennett Oberfeld
August 1, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this
What a sad story to wake up to on Tuesday. I’ve always enjoyed the “battle” of words and wit each week between Diane and Shaunti. Being an independant who strays more to the left than right, I found myself siding more with Diane and supporting her “attacks” on Shaunti. Most, I learned from Diane how to create and set your arguement and best present your stance. Her wisdom and attitude will be greatly missed. My condolences to her family and friends.
By Beazy
August 1, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this
My deepest sympathy to Diane’s parents and boyfriend, and to her amazing sister Janet. Janet is the girl I would want in my corner and I know that she was Diane’s “wing” girl. My love to you from Columbus, Janetta.
By Elizabeth Rogers
August 1, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this
I am so sorry to hear of Diane’s death. How very unfair! Although most of us already know that life isn’t always fair, this is a huge reminder. I looked forward to reading Diane’s column every week. We agreed on almost everything even though we’re from very different generations (I’m 70). My thoughts are with her family and her “great guy”. It’s a fitting memorial to such an outstanding young woman that she will be missed by so many people who never even met her.
By Sue
August 1, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this
I am so sorry to hear about Diane’s illness and death. She had so much to live for. I enjoyed the Woman to Woman column and appreciated that Diane and Shaunti could argue their positions articulately, while being respectful of the other side. Her last column written with sister Janet was deeply moving. My deepest condolences to her family and everyone who was close to her. It has affected me deeply and I didn’t even know her! I can only imagine what you are doing through.
By missy
August 1, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this
My dad was diagnosed with Bile duct cancer in April 2007. My heart goes out to you and your family. you are in my prayers
By Mary
August 1, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this
I am in such terrible tears with the news. Diane’s column meant so much to me. I always clipped out her column and saved it, to read when I had a moment of quiet. Diane is so admired by me - her column was such a highlight of my life as a stay-at-home mom. I can’t think of anything more devastating right now and I’m surprised by the waterfalls of tears, because I never even met her. This world has lost a truly great person with her passing.
Diane has influenced my life greatly and I will always use her life as continuing inspiration to me.
I wish I could thank her. I wish I could tell her about her positive influence in my life. I am devastated and terribly saddened by this horrible news.
My condolences to her family and friends.
By Dick Glass
August 1, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this
Thanks to all who wrote such deeply felt sentiments to and about Diane. I know it made her Dad (and the rest of the family)proud.
By RS
August 2, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this
I know I haven’t posted in ages & haven’t even been reading the column lately, due to traveling, so imagine my shock when I logged onto AJC this morning & saw the terrible news. I had NO IDEA Diane was even sick. While I didn’t always agree with everything she espoused, she always expressed herself eloquently & she made you sit up & take notice. How horribly, horribly tragic & unfair!!! She’d have made such a great mom, too. My heartfelt condolences to John, Janet, Mrs. Glass & the rest of the family/friends network. Diane will be terribly, terriblt missed but Heaven is blessed by acquiring such a feisty angel. She was truly an original.
By Sandra
August 2, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
It is a tragedy that she was taken so young. She was a beautiful woman both in looks and in spirit. We will miss that pretty smiling face that greeted us in her column each week. Condolences to her family and friends.
By Jean C. Hill
August 2, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
To Diane’s Family,
On Sunday morning my sister who lost her husband on May 30, 2007 called me to tell me about Diane's column. Her husband who was 55 learned he had bile duct cancer on April 10, 2007. I can just imagine the ups and downs your family have had. My brother in law was a wonder person. He was full of life and energy. I feel the Diane was also a great person and a dear sister to you. Bile duct cancer is a raw cancer and I like most people have never heard about it. Remember the great times you had with your loved on. It is so sad that she had to suffer.Some one sent me a poem when my brother in law passed. It is quite long and I will share only a few verses with you. TO DIANE’S FAMILY
LIKE A PERFECT FLOWER THAT IS JUST BERYOND YOUR REACH GONE TO SOON
BORN TO AMUSE TO INSPIRE, TO DELIGHT HERE ONE DAY GONE ONE NIGHT
LIKE A SUNSET DYING WITH THE RISING OF THE MOON GONE TO SOON GONE TO SOON!
May God comfort and bless Diane’s Family
By Bruce
August 2, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this
When I first came to this blog I couldn’t imagine how someone could be so far off base as to believe the things Diane wrote. But as I read more and more I began to understand her better and realized that what she wrote came from her heart most of the time. As time passed I still didn’t agree with her much but I grew to respcet her opinions. She will be missed by many, including me.
I pray for her, her family and friends. May God’s love and peace surround you during your time of loss.