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Monday, November 28, 2005
No Apple Mugs, Please
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Some parents say shopping for their child’s teacher is the most stressful part of the holidays. What to buy? How much to spend? No one wants to appear they are trying to buy their child a good grade, but parents often want to show some appreciation.
Seeking some input on how to navigate these choppy waters, I asked a few friends who are teachers. I realize teachers have different views on this topic, but these are my friends’ general tips:
Do show your appreciation by being involved in your child’s education and supporting the school throughout the year.
Do consider a card with a message from you and/or your child. Include your child’s photo.
Do check with the principal to see if your school or district has a policy on teacher gifts.
Don’t compete with other parents. Instead consider pooling money and buying something the class can enjoy.
Don’t rule out gift cards.
Don’t give knick-knacks such as apple-themed earrings, mugs, pencil cases, calendars etc.
Proceed with caution on these popular gifts: Ornaments. Not all teachers do the Christmas tree thing at home, and veteran teachers often have more ornaments than they can use. However, a teacher who is a new homeowner may appreciate an ornament.
Food. Teachers struggle to maintain a healthy weight during the holidays just like their nonteacher counterparts. Consider food gifts that have a long shelf life, like jam.
Clothes and jewelry. Teachers are humans, too, and they have their own style.
All right teachers, tell us about your favorite gifts. Parents, what are you giving your child’s teacher?
