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DEL.ICIO.USDoes Inner Beauty Count?
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
I think that it’s a misconception that inner beauty does not matter on the dating scene. Of course, we all have our preferences on looks and types. We certainly have our shallow moments from time to time.
Just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, such is the case for inner beauty. This basically means that what may be attractive to one person could be unattractive to another. A person’s inner beauty can actually enhance their appearance to you. Have you ever dated someone who became more and more sexy to you as you got to know them?
What do you think about the concept of inner beauty? Do you think it matters as much as the other things?
I know many women that say they want to be desired, but they also want to be appreciated for their other attributes. What do women usually expect from men to show this appreciation?
Guys, what is your perspective on inner beauty?
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By Michelle-www.Atlantasfinest.com
February 12, 2009 8:24 AM | Link to this
Interesting Topic LMAO!! A person can’t become sexy over time. It is either they are sexy or not. I DO believe a person can become more attractive over time if they aren’t easy to look at, especially if the convo is interesting and they make you laugh. If they have a sh*t load of paper, that can make you interested in their inner beauty REAL QUICK too..
www.atlantasfinest.com
By SlimOne aka Co-parent
February 12, 2009 8:51 AM | Link to this
Morning All
Now I get it. Women we have pegged men all wrong all this time. When they are eager to get into your panties and explore you from the inside out, all they are trying to do is find your Inner Booty…oops I meant Inner Beauty…thats all ladies.
Slim pauses for a thinking spell while rubbing chin
So with that said, I guess the only way to reciprocate that is to probe their inner reck-tum to find the inner booty…oops I meant inner beauty right?
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 9:04 AM | Link to this
Slim So with that said, I guess the only way to reciprocate that is to probe their inner reck-tum to find the inner booty…oops I meant inner beauty right?
Do that and you you’ll get one of two results, a f* on your hands, or a bloody nose. Betta know who you fuggin’ wit’.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 9:05 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
Yes inner beauty counts..but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Off-Topic Truth/PoppaG I swear I thought about both of you when I read this article…
Recession/Condoms
By SlimOne aka Co-parent
February 12, 2009 9:06 AM | Link to this
Blue I’m not interested in folks inner booty. Looking at it from the outside is just fine with me. Matter of fact, are those Bugle Boy Jeans you’re wearing?
By lurker
February 12, 2009 9:10 AM | Link to this
Have you ever dated someone who became more and more sexy to you as you got to know them?
Yep. Someone I wasn’t initially attracted to ended up getting under my skin (in a good way). He was persistant and kept asking, inviting wooing, which in turn was impressive. As we meshed more and more I started feeling an attraction and then begin to think….hmmmm, he’s actually pretty easy on the eyes. Don’t know how I missed it initially. So, yeah I can say I have.
By Atltwen
February 12, 2009 9:13 AM | Link to this
Inner beauty is vital to a longer term successful relationship, without question. It’s what one “sees” when no longer looking outwardly, e.g., after being intimate someone for me.
What I can see is temporary and less important (literary & figuratively speaking) than what I can’t see, which is lasting and more important.
However, as a male, I must admit, I’ve struggled with this one!
It always seems the most attractive women are not so beautiful “underneath” and not so attractive women are wonderful women. Seriously, I want both and it has been difficult for me to find!
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 9:14 AM | Link to this
Slim How are they going to asterisk (<=== check out that verb tense Cee LOL) my use of the word f@g.
Michelle * If they have a sht load of paper, that can make you interested in their inner beauty REAL QUICK too..
I can see that you have some h0-ish tendencies, but at least you are honest.
By AmazonRed
February 12, 2009 9:16 AM | Link to this
Morning everyone.
I don’t think it’s a misconception that inner beauty doesn’t count. We’ve all preached on here about people who have outer beauty and no substance.
I do expect to be appreciated for more than outer beauty. I’ve found that I’m more receptive to compliments on the inner than the outer. If a guy tells me I’m “sexy” I’m kind of bland with the thanks. On compliments on who I am, I’m much more responsive and appreciative. Outer beauty fades.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 9:16 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone.
No doubt inner beauty should compliment one’s outer beauty. They go hand in hand. Now, if inner beauty is all that’s there and my eyes begin to hurt when in your company, it would be very hard for me to continually recognize the inner beauty (lol).
By SlimOne aka Co-parent
February 12, 2009 9:19 AM | Link to this
Blue Guess you didnt know who you were fuggin wit. Can’t mess with the ajc. LOL!
By MELO
February 12, 2009 9:20 AM | Link to this
The phrase Beauty is in the eye of the beholder inherently assumes inner beauty.There are only few of us who are either handsome or pretty/beautiful.The rest of the folks,men and women are just okay or average to the eye! So we go by inner beauty. The term beauty is in the eye… was actually coined to gloss over the structural defincies some of you have in the beauty area,so people can concentrate on inner beauty to justify their choices. Consider this:80% of women would proly say Denzel is handsome,and maybe 50% would say the same about Idriss Elber altho they wld still choose Idriss if given the chance.That 50% on Idriss is going on inner beauty,and not intrinsic beauty or handsomeness. I prefer to go with inner beauty coz the pretty and beautiful women are actually more expensive and will hit ur wallet,their egos are fragile and they place value on vane stuff most of the time.Consider Halle,for example.I would not even sleep with her if i had an opportunity! So i go with inner beauty,meaning, what else do i find valuable in this chic:her booty(1),manners,height,complexion,education,manners-2,communication skills,relationship with her daddy etc.That profile i get based on the above etc will constitute the inner beauty about her.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 9:21 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone.
No doubt inner beauty should compliment one’s outer beauty. They go hand in hand. Now, if inner beauty is all that’s there and my eyes begin to hurt when in your company, it would be very hard for me to continually recognize the inner beauty (lol).
By Hibiscus is my name today
February 12, 2009 9:23 AM | Link to this
Inner beauty is what’s important and makes you a good person. However it takes getting to know a person before you can view what’s beautiful inside. The problem with society today is some can’t see pass the exterior to even get to know what is deep within. A good kind person makes for a much better partner in the longterm. And to really be honest also in the short term.
My husband is a pretty good looking guy to me. But I did not choose him because of that. Fortunately our long lived friendship made that possible. I fell for whitebread because he was gorgeous. He turned out to be a beautiful liar. And cheat. The Nature Guy was also nice to look at but his blahism just kinda…
I am an experiencer of a person getting sexier over time. I find it funny sometimes as to what enhances that sexieness of him in me. Once he was sitting on the floor playing with mega blocks with our grandson and I was walking thru and just found him to be super sexy at that very moment. Like I wanted to procreate with him at the sight of him sincerely interacting in fatherly way with a child. So sexy.
And there are the obvious sexiness enhancers, kind deeds helping out friends, manly manual labor, losing sleep taking care of his sick parent, waking up at 2am in the morning while in the hospital and he is right there less that 2ft. away. I could name more but I won’t.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 9:24 AM | Link to this
lurker* *I started feeling an attraction and then begin to think….hmmmm, he’s actually pretty easy on the eyes. Don’t know how I missed it initially. So, yeah I can say I have.
Just don’t take him a case of herpes and expect no recourse. He might get real fuggin’ ugly and want to hold you accountable.
atltwen Seriously, I want both and it has been difficult for me to find!
You sound like a young dude. Once you hit 30 or have hit 30, you realize that a chick that’s an 7.5/8 on the outside and a dime on the inside, is a keeper.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 9:28 AM | Link to this
….sons says Valentine is overated where he get that from?
“You’ve stolen my HEART, but if you wanna play with the package in came in you can”. ~Cee
“If you were gas in my butt I would never fart for fear of losing you, cause you are the sht!!!” ~ My Beloved
Don’t steal it.
Guys - I had a bad soar throat last night when I got home from work and I didn’t cook or watch t.v., music. I just lay there misreble with this soar throat. I asked the man-chile to bring me some medicine out of the bathroom cabinet. He goes and bring be back some Jr. Strength Ibuprofen. I was so ugh feeling I asked him to give me whatever he had so I took a 5 of those melt-a-ways tablets (2 more than the instructions said for a 9-12 year old). Don’t yall know those things worked? I feel brand new today.
If thangs get real tight during this recession and we cain’t afford adult medicine. I’ll just make sure to keep the $3-$4 children’s medicine in mind. YEP! I keep more of that on deck anyway.
Don’t have the playa…hate the game.
Oh yea. Good Morning!
By Le Siren
February 12, 2009 9:28 AM | Link to this
MELO
I prefer to go with inner beauty coz the pretty and beautiful women are actually more expensive and will hit ur wallet,their egos are fragile and they place value on vane stuff most of the time.
I’m calling a foul on this one! You just stereotyped an entire group of women and I can tell you that your statement is not true for all! Besides, there are plenty of “average” chicks that hit a man’s wallet too, more in fact because there are more average-looking women than beautiful ones!
By lurker
February 12, 2009 9:29 AM | Link to this
Raqi I am an experiencer of a person getting sexier over time
Yep, can dig that
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 9:29 AM | Link to this
Slim you’ve got mail.
Blue What’s the procedure when you have a gun to your head?
By MELO
February 12, 2009 9:31 AM | Link to this
My husband is a pretty good looking guy to me this is inner beauty and
My husband is a pretty good looking guy this wld be fact…
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 9:31 AM | Link to this
Corr: Don’t hate the playa hate the game.
By az
February 12, 2009 9:31 AM | Link to this
inner beauty matters but doesn’t really come into play until after you see the outer beauty falls into the acceptable range
By SlimOne aka Co-parent
February 12, 2009 9:33 AM | Link to this
Question in regards to Le Siren’s comment: Men do you feel more comfortable spending money on an average looking chick than you do the chicks considered dime piece beauties?
By The Truth
February 12, 2009 9:34 AM | Link to this
After the initial attraction its the inner beauty that seals the deal. Its what ultimately gets one discounted or upgraded.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 9:35 AM | Link to this
BlueK, I backed out w/o refreshing and still dbl posting. Any other suggestions?
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 9:39 AM | Link to this
LMAO @ Slim Guess you didnt know who you were fuggin wit. Can’t mess with the ajc. LOL!
Corner Man: That dayum Slim’s got a nice jab there champ.
Blue: Yeah I know… didn’t even see it coming.
Corner Man: Well look, you just stay on the bike for the next round or two… stick-n-move…
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 9:39 AM | Link to this
Unfortunately, for most ppl physical appearance is the first and foremost attribute that someone assesses about another person…and in most cases it is almost exclusive in significance…I base this on experience as well as on what I have listened to other ppl say about the physical appearance of someone else…sad, but true.
The emphasis that is put on how attractive a person disportionately overrides the other attributes that convey the essence of an individual…and it can work both ways as there is bias about attractive and unattractive appearance.
Perhaps, experience, maturity and such make ppl more aware, attuned or open to being able to put less emphasis on someone’s physical attractiveness as a main focus of attraction…being able to appreciate attributes of character, personality, intelligence and integrity may then become more valuable as an assessment tool.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 9:40 AM | Link to this
BlueK, I backed out w/o refreshing and still dbl posting. Any other suggestions?
By Atltwen
February 12, 2009 9:42 AM | Link to this
Blue_Kolla, young dude? No, not at all, I’m 30.
I’ve spent so much time over the years developing my myself, inwardly and outwardly - I aspire to be a great combination of both. And I want the same out of female.
By the way, 7.5/8, that’s very attractive female, most guy’s have never seriously dated women that attractive based on my scale.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 9:46 AM | Link to this
Cee What’s the procedure when you have a gun to your head?
Other than the gun, what else is going on in this scenario of yours?
Leggs I don’t know what to tell you on that one then, or… maybe use Firefox for your browser.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 9:46 AM | Link to this
You just stereotyped an entire group of women TRUE but its safe,screening method
and I can tell you that your statement is not true for all! True,but true about most…
If u are beautiful personally and have lots of inner beauty about u,u blessed.Most beautiful pretties females I have come across smell themselves way too much,act that way in dating and realize their mistakes way too late to get any meaningful redemption as far as dating is concerned.Halle had to do a complete cross over and now she has to content with a man with a small dyckk,all becoz she failed to appreciate the most important qualities in a man,early on.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 9:47 AM | Link to this
@ARED
I agree with your earlier post about being less than enthralled with compliments about my physical appearance…I have much more appreciation for a compliment when someone comments on some other attribute…like my sense of humor, or my creativity or my ability to carry on a good conversation…things that more realistically correlate to who I am as a person…not how I look.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 9:51 AM | Link to this
Morning Folks!
melo I don’t know what females you’ve been talking to, but Idris’ outer fineness surpasses Denzel in my book.
Inner beauty is VERY important to me and I definitely believe that a person gets sexier over time. Sexy to me isn’t in the looks but in things that a man may say or do.
off-topic Hawaii was great. The Pro Bowl game was good but it sucks that the NFL got rid of the skills challenge. PoppaG, I knew they were moving it before I went. From what I’ve heard the players don’t like that decision (neither do I) but that stadium in Hawaii needs a MAJOR upgrade. All in all I had a great time though. We even stayed in the same hotel as some Falcons players. Some were nicer than others.
By SlimOne aka Co-parent
February 12, 2009 9:54 AM | Link to this
Cee No you got mail. hehehehe, yeah I already responded. What’s the procedure when you have a gun to your head? LMAO! Funny thing is I visualized this in my head with the voice of Samuel Jackson but in the body of Officer Hooks from Police Academy. “Freeze dirtbag!”
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 12, 2009 9:55 AM | Link to this
Good Morning ALL
Mkaryl I agree with your 9:39..on point.
Phyiscal attraction can upset your character o meter. I am working on getting a balance between the two.
Once it’s all said and done. That’s truly who you are dealing with. THE CHARACTER…the looks definitely fades.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 9:55 AM | Link to this
@Melo
Your comment about physically attractive women supports the two-way bias that I am talking about…again it all boils down to how a person percieves another’s physical attractiveness…it is almost always assumed that because a woman is physically good looking that she is high maintenance and self-centered…and this is not always true…nor do I think that Halle is a fair example of that type of woman…she actually made the statement that she felt that way too much emphasis was placed on her physical appearance, and while she did not choose how she looks…she did choose who she is.
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 9:57 AM | Link to this
Morning Don’t think anyone will deny wanting to be with someone who is a solid individual. Question is how much inner beauty are you willing to sacrifice for the outer beauty? For example, have you given the fly chick a pass on something that would get the average chick quickly dismissed?
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 9:59 AM | Link to this
Tazz I scanned the crowd looking for a lady with a Falcons jersey and a lai on. I was so jealous. The weather looked wonderful. Andy R. Looked like a blue walrus in that shirt.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 10:02 AM | Link to this
For example, have you given the fly chick a pass on something that would get the average chick quickly dismissed? This probably occurs more than most would admit to.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 10:04 AM | Link to this
I do not think that there is a mutually exclusive categorization of being physically attractive and also being a very solid person from within…what I think circumvents these co-existing attributes to be overlooked as mutually abiding is the perception of ppl by others based on physical appearance…it is just as wrong to assume that a physically attractive appearance makes someone shallow and vain.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 10:06 AM | Link to this
atltwen By the way, 7.5/8, that’s very attractive female, most guy’s have never seriously dated women that attractive based on my scale.
I hear you bruh. There’s nothing wrong with having high standards, and everything wrong with having no orlow standards. Just don’t forget a key economic principle - Don’t price yourself out of business.
Mak Let me borrow this for a minute ===> I have much more appreciation for a compliment when someone comments on some other attribute…like my sense of humor, or my creativity or my ability to carry on a good conversation…things that more realistically correlate to who I am as a person…not how I look.
Ladies please let your intangibles speak for you, and not your phat azz (your jeans are so tight that I can tell that you ain’t even wearing a thong), or your soft milky t!tties (‘cause your bra is too tight and you’ve got your blouse open down to the 3rd button), or the h0 stamp on your back (reminds of that tatoo I saw on Kandee Lixx)…
Anyway, point is, if that’s all a dude sees, then that’s all you gon’ get.
By The Truth
February 12, 2009 10:07 AM | Link to this
Fellas: Is it just me or is this valentines day advertising sickening? That dam pajamagram commercial is ridiculous. “These pajamas are a sure way to get her clothes off”. Hell, if I have to buy her pajamas to get her naked we’re through anyway. Then the commercial about the little expensive azz stuffed bear. What bs. Boycott vday.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 10:07 AM | Link to this
For example, have you given the fly chick a pass on something that would get the average chick quickly dismissed? This probably occurs more than most would admit to.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 10:07 AM | Link to this
Other than the gun, what else is going on in this scenario of yours?
Your “only begotten” the cops, 10 mil and don’t forget the 12 gauge shawty. Follow me…lol.
Nah Blue, I’m in a different mood today.
Tazzee Is not that the censored version of the trip. Holla at me and give me the uncensored version later. Hey sis! waving
Slim My most FAVORITE male actor is Samuel Jackson.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this
M’Karyl I agree that we,society have biases with regards to pple/women and their physical attributes.As it relates to beautiful women,dont forget that we have been with them since kindergarten,thru elementary school,high school and college.By the time we are adults,we are accustomed to how a lot of pretty/beautiful chics are relating to us as guys and who they are choosing etc.Our opinions have matured,u might say.So any negative bias a pretty chic gets is proly well earned. Tazzee,on Idriss,u are with the 50%.WE are in agreement..lol Hope u had a good time..Any phine men that u eyed over there or new digits that came ur way???….
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 10:10 AM | Link to this
Leggs Alot of times, how much you let someone get away with if a function of how much you’re feeling them.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 10:11 AM | Link to this
@BK
Well, I have learned that you can be covered from top to bottom…not muslim style mind you…just maybe a long skirt, a blazer and a blouse…and some men will still put the emphasis on what your arse looks like..lol…and still talk to you like you slinging it for a free run-through…go figure.
By SlimOne aka Co-parent
February 12, 2009 10:13 AM | Link to this
Cee Have you seen Lakeview Terrace? I saw that last week and it made me appreciate Samuel as an actor even more. That role was sick!
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 10:16 AM | Link to this
Morning Gang
Sister Cee - Glad you’re feeling better! Hate sore throats!!
Melo - What’s this with you and Halle? You’ve spoken of your distaste for her quite a bit before. Did you try to get with her and she turned you down or something?!LOL!! Anyway, she’s got herself an Armani model that seems to adore her and a beautiful baby, so I think she’s doing okay, even if she never gets to sleep with The Melo!LOL!! Just messin witcha!!
Dreams - You know I can admit I have let some stuff slide that goodlooking dudes did that I would have never let a average dude get away with. I’ve matured from that though.
I once briefly dated a guy that looked like a taller version of Tyson Beckford. He was a symphony of fineness! But he is the biggest a— I know. I literally cannot stand him. I know of a few others that are model material, but they are horrible inside.
There must be a healthy balance of inner and outer beauty for me to be attracted. And yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Things I hone in on and find attractive some people would never notice. That’s why I think everyone has something about them that is attractive. Everyone has something to offer.
By Le Siren
February 12, 2009 10:17 AM | Link to this
MELO
now she has to content with a man with a small dyckk,all becoz she failed to appreciate the most important qualities in a man,early on.
There you go stereotyping again! You don’t know if that man has a small dyck! You’re just hating because Halle got herself a beautiful man who happens to be white:)
By AmazonRed
February 12, 2009 10:17 AM | Link to this
Do that and you you’ll get one of two results, a f on your hands, or a bloody nose. Betta know who you fuggin’ wit’*
BK, you’re such a thug. lol
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 10:18 AM | Link to this
Outer attraction is what draws, inner beauty is the keeper. That’s if you are serious about a relationship and are pass being shallow. ‘Cause you know we all have had our shallow days.
The thing about inner and outer beauty and actually having a relationship with someone, you are conscious of the outer beauty at all times. Like when sitting across from him at breakfast or dinner I am thinking to myself ‘wow that’s a good looking man right there’. Occasionally but not the majority of the time. We are a couple and we are together and that’s just the norm of our life. He can say something that will stir my inner self more than just looking at him. That what he says is a part of his inner beauty.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 10:19 AM | Link to this
Truth
Here is something to keep your V-Day rant going.
Cheatin hearts
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this
@truth…i am with you on that…i hate it and whats worse is that i was at the bus stop this morning getting lil one on the bus…and all the lil females at the bus stop where giving the boys grief for not having valentine stuff to give at school…lol…but yeah middle fanga to that lil chubby b*******!!!!
inner beauty are the womens intangibles…this is what keeps a 6 or 7 competing with a 10…and note just because you may have dated a bunch of dimes does not mean you have good beyotch management skills
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 10:22 AM | Link to this
@Melo
That is probably true to some degree…but not everyone has spent their entire life being perceived as physically attractive…and so, when a stereotype is applied to someone based upon the perception of their appearance today, then a very egregious assumption may very well be made about how that individual perceives self from within as a person…not an appearance.
And too, the fault of shallowness based on physical appearance is often placed as a burden on the shoulders of physically attractive* ppl through no desire, will or fault of their own…my uncle once said that pretty babies have no problem gettng attention, but ugly babies do…sad but true…some ppl are conditioned from a very young age to believe that their physical appearance makes them more special and desirable…they are conditioned to respond to how ppl perceive the way they look…and it becomes apart of the overall internalized value of self-perception…so that by a certain age the value of their looks is what they learn to value about themselves.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 10:24 AM | Link to this
Judge Judy wrote a book that I like. It’s called Beauty Fades, Dumb is Forever!
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 10:25 AM | Link to this
Leggs Alot of times, how much you let someone get away with if a function of how much you’re feeling them. To go further, also how much you hope to feel them!
By Michelle-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com
February 12, 2009 10:25 AM | Link to this
Blue Far from a h*e.. Best believe that! You must be that hard to look at mofo I was referring to.. I just state the FACTS!!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 10:26 AM | Link to this
@Truth
Roland Martin wrote an editorial about the less than needed hype of V-Day…and I could not agree with him more…a load of shyte…but then, I do not recognize any of the calendar holidays anyway…personally, I do not need a calendar to tell me when to give/recieve a gift, feel special or do something good for someone…sheesh…I got a heart for that.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 10:27 AM | Link to this
Ared* *you’re such a thug.
Nope, nothing thuggish about me. No saggin’ pants, 8 gold chains, big 22” rimzos, don’t smoke weed, and couldn’t even tell you what an 8-ball sells for; but I do come from a blue collar upbringing, and certain things aren’t to be played with.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 10:27 AM | Link to this
Slim Nah, i havn’t seen “Laview Terrace” yet. But i’m stoked about seeing it soon…might be in the near plans.
kimmie Thanks gurl, I do feel alot better! Jr. Strength Ibuprofen works!
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:30 AM | Link to this
Truth, im so broke,so for Vday, i have a plan.Its going to serve me well for 2 reasons. Im gonna wake up early Sunday and make Queen and the fam breakfast.The whole package of scrambled & boiled eggs,bacon,beef sausage,tea or coffee and maybe pancakes.Actually,i will make a secret pact with my 10 yr old dghter coz she likes to cook.She will do the pan cakes for me. When we get done,i am gonna wake them up to enjoy.
That will be my valentine gig but also ensure we dont have to go to church.At least i wont have to give an excuse for staying.We staying put,but for that perfomance, I may get favors upstairs round about noon time…u knaw what i mean…Its my come out day too next week Tuesday and shes doing cheese cake,old school satrday and has promised to consider taking me to strokkers early on or after old school..Shes sporting short/hot pants and high heels on the 21st.The strokkers chic are gonna be hitting on her big time!Any females that wanna be in our group,lemme know…
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 10:30 AM | Link to this
Leggs Alot of times, how much you let someone get away with if a function of how much you’re feeling them. To go further, also how much you hope to feel them!
By The Truth
February 12, 2009 10:32 AM | Link to this
MK in a good relationship you should be taking vday off because the majority of your days are good and you need a break. Vday isn’t rooted in anything except advertising. SMH
Alot of folks have pressure to perform on this bunk holiday.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 10:32 AM | Link to this
Kym we really lucked out on this trip. We bought the game tickets knowing we were on the NFC side, but when we got there our seats were in the nice shaded area. We randomly picked a hotel only to find that Falcons were staying there. It was great. Then on the flight back I got a chance to witness the dark chocolatey goodness that is Ronnie Brown. That man looks like someone just took a nice batch of dark chocolate, whipped it up until it was perfectly smooth and then molded him. Now THAT is some outer beauty.
Cemeeli I’m going to send you the pictures and our documentary once we get everything downloaded.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:33 AM | Link to this
Le Siren/Kimmie i knw u both right smewhat,Halle just happens to be my fav punch bag…
By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
February 12, 2009 10:35 AM | Link to this
I absolutely believe that “Inner beauty” is part of the “beauty package”. I do not care if a woman is absolutely stunning and I would let the networks broadcast it live taking her right in the middle of the street, I will detach ASAP if I discover she is a shallow, discourteous, Barbie doll. One can only spend a certain amount of time in the “throws of passion”, but one still has to put up with that person the rest of the time.
This will sound remarkably petty and stupid, but I have a simple acid test that automatically will disqualify a lady, no matter how good looking. If I am at a department store, and I see a lady who, after emptying her buggy, does not make the effort to take the buggy over to the buggy rack, then that tells me right there that she has no consideration for others probably in all facets of her life. I will not tolerate a lack of common courtesy. That is MY choice.
Sounds stupid, but those are the types of cues I look for.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 10:37 AM | Link to this
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:39 AM | Link to this
My bad,its Satrday..!!!!
By lurker
February 12, 2009 10:41 AM | Link to this
BK Just don’t take him a case of herpes and expect no recourse. He might get real fuggin’ ugly and want to hold you accountable
Got to have the herps in ord to spread so this would not appy to me. Bottom line though abstinence would be the sure fire way to not pass anything. I dig my heels on this one. It’s on you individually in being responsible for your health. While it’s a foul move to pass an STD it your fault if you get it. I never depend on some dude to ensure my health.
Truth After the initial attraction its the inner beauty that seals the deal. Its what ultimately gets one discounted or upgraded.
Cosign - 2 for 2 in the last 2 days
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 10:42 AM | Link to this
Tazz Ronnie B is a cutie..But Larry Fitzgerald can wear a pair of football pants, and speak in complete sentences. That does it for me. What does dude’s bum look like in football pants and finishing a interview without saying uh uh.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this
By AmazonRed
February 12, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this
Nope, nothing thuggish about me.
BK, you described the thugs uniform, and I’m not talking about what you wear. We’re not talking about outer today, but inner. And your inner sounds real thuggish with all that bish and azz whuppin you speak about. lol
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 10:44 AM | Link to this
Michelle * You must be that hard to look at mofo I was referring to.. I just state the FACTS!!*
The only way that I’m hard to look at is if you’re walking around with one of them red-tipped, white sticks.
And you’re right, you state facts and the inference gained from your own statements is that a healthy supply of cash makes it a lot easier for you to look at a dude who otherwise you might not find attractive.
Now I wasn’t exactly calling you a h0, as much as stating how your comments sounded; but since hit dogs holla, all I’m gon’ do is tell you, “H0 si’dine.”
By Michelle-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com
February 12, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this
RELL I am going to spank you for the last sentence in your 10:21 comment LMAO**
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this
mel0 LOL, I was sitting here reading your plan thinking ‘what is he going to do Saturday?’ thanks for the laugh today.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 10:47 AM | Link to this
Randy Okay me thinks you are a bit of a exhibitionist. Now for as long as you have been on the blog..you mention sex in the open alot. I could be wrong but..errr..
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 10:48 AM | Link to this
Truth It is sickening man. Earlier this week I heard an ad on the radio encouraging dudes to get a PAYDAY loan so they won’t be in the doghouse for v-day. Encouraging debt for the POSSIBILITY of affection…go figure.
By fee
February 12, 2009 10:48 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone!
Inner Beauty… MMMMM… Yes there is such a thing, if you are the kind of person that takes the time to get to know the person and allow yourself to get pass the outer deficiencies. Inner beauty, (heart, mind, motivations, things you cannot see outwardly.)
I have found, never look at a person that is not attractive too long, because you just might get hooked and find something cute about them.
to me “Sexy” is an attitude not a look.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 10:49 AM | Link to this
Auntie K That Tupac and K. Cole “Cardz Right” is a nice lil thump, aint it? We gotta teach neice about the 2Pac.
Tazzee okay cool. btw- Too bad Dunn was not your neightbor too huh? But you got so se chocolate latte anyway.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:50 AM | Link to this
Men do you feel more comfortable spending money on an average looking chick than you do the chicks considered dime piece beauties? I dont feel comfortable spending money on either but i will gladly spend money on a chic if that aligns with my objectives/pay off.More often than not, a dime piece will want her nails,hair etc done to maintain her perch and may want u to finance it.That may perpetuate the perception we have about them BUT if im game to it,cool,as long as i know, i can get smething out of it. More often than not, a woman with more substance will not want financing from you.And the average chic usually falls into that category.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 10:52 AM | Link to this
Melo The breakfast sounds wonderful. You can’t just dangle such a menu in my face and not offer an invitation!LOL!!
You think you slick, don’tcha, trying to get out of church!!!LOL!!!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this
@Truth
Here is the link on his V-Day commentary…and the church says amen…and I like the way he represents the male perspective…
http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/02/11/martin.valentine/index.html?iref=newssearch]
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 10:55 AM | Link to this
LMAO…Slim you are a true fool!
Blue I can see where Michelle is coming from about the paper statement. Come now people such as Diddy, Jay-Z, etc…if they did not have money and power…they would not get the amount of women they get. Let’s face it…they are NOT attractive. But money can make you find something about them attractive…not to mention they can afford to up the anty with great dental work,wardrobe, car, crib, etc. Now I myself could never be a gold digger. If I have to even think about kissing somebody I do not find attractive, I barf a bit in my mouth! EWW, gross..I know! I am not sleeping with your money, I am sleeping with your ugly azz! So Staceye sho’ would suck as a Gold Digger! LOL
Melo you judge a woman on her relationship with her dad? What if her dad is a total d1ck?
Cemeeli girl I will buy children’s liquid motrin or tylenol wiht my throat is sore….it works better because it tastes good so I will actually take it and it thick and helps to coat the throat (guys get your mind out of the gutter)! LOL
M’Karyl you are right. I have had dudes tell me that they think I am high maintenance and I woudl cost them a lot of money within the first meeting of me. I asked why,and they said because I was attractive. At first I took offense to it. But then I said well since I keep my hair and nails done and I work out and make sure my clothes and shoes are on point I guess I am…to myself because I do not expect a man to maintain me. I do a pretty good job myself. I have been paying for it this long..why stop now? I also have to let them know I do it for me…not for the attention of men. I do it because it makes me feel good. Well, I have learned that you can be covered from top to bottom…not muslim style mind you…just maybe a long skirt, a blazer and a blouse…and some men will still put the emphasis on what your arse looks like..* Now that is the truth! People say if you don’t want guys looking at your body wear lose clothes…well it does not help. Not to mention..depending on your body type, lose clothing can make you look fat! No way buddy…do ever want to do that!
Slim I saw that movie in the theater…Sam Jackson did his thing. I love him as a actor. He made me hate him….so as a actor he did his job!
On topic physical attractiveness is number one for me…if I am not attracted to you…we could never be more than friends. I can NOT sleep with somebody I feel no physical attraction to. Now he can’t be an idiot, a cheapskate, mean, a liar, a cheater or a deadbeat either. But he must be cute. I know I love tall men. I tried giving the short dude a chance. I found myself not being attracted to him. It felt funny and had the wandering eye when we were out. Every attractive tall guy was appealing to me. I have found there are not enough tall attractive men here. If ther are cute in the face they are usually midgets! And the tall ones look like mudducks! LOL Not all the time….but quite frequently. I think it’s heavens way of punishing me! LOL (j/k)
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:55 AM | Link to this
Cee lake view Terrace is good,we watched it at home.You will luv his(Sam Jackson) acting and hate his azz behavior in the movie.Nice!
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this
Kym don’t forget that Fitzgerald has the best smile in the NFL - his parents paid good money for that grill and it makes up for Whisenhunt’s yuck mouth- the first time I saw his teeth I thought ‘why didn’t someone tell him he had mustard on his teeth before that interview?’
By fee
February 12, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this
Wow Melo,
what happened to just wanting to do something nice for someone. Why do we spend so much time on doing something for someone just to get something in return. What happend to the old fashion, Just because. I find when you do something from the heart it is more gratifying than doing it with expecanting to get something back…
average… God said what ever he makes is beatifully and wonderfully made. how do we demote each other to average?
By MELO
February 12, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this
Anybody have a recipe on how to boil an egg???
By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)
February 12, 2009 10:56 AM | Link to this
Kym
Oops, busted. Actually I am very shy, well maybe just a little shy, okay maybe not too shy, or maybe not shy at all. Not a “beachwalker” but not generally not that shy either. Hmmm, I guess I need to think a bit before I include anymore metaphors, real or imagined.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 11:04 AM | Link to this
how do we demote each other to average? average as in outer beauty…get it???
what happened to just wanting to do something nice for someone when was the last time u donated to charity?????? and did u remember to include that for the tax deduction in ur filing??? See….. The concept of smething for nothing is not prevalent in capitalist america….
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this
Ared And your inner sounds real thuggish with all that bish and azz whuppin you speak about. lol
Again, nope. I don’t believe in getting fisticuff-physical with a female, but if I put my trust in her and she repaid me with a case of nonreturnable herpes, HIV, or the like, then yes I may very well snap and kick the shyt outta that azz.
I guess because I came up in a time where whatever you did, you were held accountable. If you messed up at school or in the house, there was going to be an azz whoopin’, punishment, something. If you did something foul outside, there was 90% chance that there was gon’ be a fight about it.
But believe me, our society is going through a correction. The rules are changing. When economic health is not well, acceptance diminishes as well.
Look at the new Stand Your Ground and Concealed Carry laws. And now that people are losing their jobs all over the place, there is going to be a lot of sympathy coming from the jury box and the judges bench towards a person who is being wronged by some knucklehead.
It’s all history. Ask anybody that was around from the 30’s to the 80’s. Azzkickin’ was a way of life in America b/c times were hard.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this
@Staceye
I can feel you on the self-maintenance tip…I love to dress with a fabulous sense of style and panache…and it is something that I have done for myself since I have been on my own…there is not one item that I wear that has been purchased for me by a man…and my sense of style relfects how I like to see myself…not how I want some man to see me…but I never found any of that to be an issue until I moved to the ATL…suddenly, it seemed that my entire appearance and how I carried as well as conveyed myself seemed to be percieved as a motive to attract men or due to the contributions of some man…yeah, hte dead ones on paper…lol..got me spoiled rotten…mine, mine, mine…not someone else’s…cause then they have the control over what I have, what I do and how I look…NOT!!!!
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 11:06 AM | Link to this
Cee - I give Lakeview a thumbs up! We went to see in when it was in the theatre. Yes, Sam is a trip.
Funny, this biracial couple just moved across from SO in his cul-de-sac. They remind us a little of the couple from the movie. Me & SO had to laugh cause we thought of the movie & Sam Jackson when they moved in.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this
Tazzee I like Hines’s smile too. But yeah Larry has a good one. Now I don’t look to deep at teeth when I am watching the game..I am listening to excuses, and watching bum run up and down and some of them even have a bit of a jiggle. Best pants in all of the NFL are those Black ones the Ravens have, and the gray ones of the Giants.
Randy Not trying to bust you..just made a observation. Some people like to watch or be watched or whateva..We all have our walk.
I am bored as all get out…lets see what trouble I can get into.
By ATLborn
February 12, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this
Morning folks!
Nothing much to add on this topic, I agree with most of the other fellas. Physical beauty is the initial attraction, inner beauty is what upgrades a lady and is what will keep a dude around.
One thing I’ve noticed with some very physically attractive women that are not that aren’t that attractive on the inside is over time as their physical beauty fades their inner beauty tends to grow. I call it “when the azz goes, the bad attitude goes with it”.
By Le Siren
February 12, 2009 11:08 AM | Link to this
Inner beauty is most definitely an important quality for a man to have in my opinion, however, outer beauty also holds a good deal of weight. It’s not about being shallow, it’s simply biological. Scientists have done entire studies that basically tell us why we are attracted to certain people. “Beauty” has alot to do with facial symmetry in both men and women along with a strong, masculine body type for men and a feminine, curvy body type for women. We don’t appreciate these attributes just for the hell of it. These things subconsciously signal that a potential mate has good genes and will be a good provider (men) or mother (women).
By AmazonRed
February 12, 2009 11:08 AM | Link to this
then yes I may very well snap and kick the shyt outta that azz.
BK, yeah, I’m sticking with my thug assessment. LOL
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 11:10 AM | Link to this
Staceye Yea that children’s medicine does taste like candy, to me. I would have never thought it would work…it did though.
Melo I might get to see that “Fairview Terrace” movie. If i add a lil finesse with the Admiral.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:11 AM | Link to this
The funnies V-day commerical to me is the one for ProFlowers (1 doz w/vase and chocolate). On 104.1 and V-103, they’re advertised for $39.00. On 102.5, you can get them for $29.99 with a full 5-days of freshness (lol).
Lakeview Terrace was an ok movie. Samuel Jackson was drunk w/power and jealousy.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 11:14 AM | Link to this
Dreams Earlier this week I heard an ad on the radio encouraging dudes to get a PAYDAY loan so they won�t be in the doghouse for v-day. Encouraging debt for the POSSIBILITY of affection�go figure.
Say it ain’t so Joe. But check it, if you on the low, just ain’t got it, and can’t tell your woman for fear of her trippin’, then you need to trade her in for a new and improved model… and go find a pair of nutz.
Staceye So Staceye sho� would suck as a Gold Digger! LOL
That’s just it; most gold diggers do a lot of sucking, d* sucking. That’s part of the smoke-and-mirrors section of their program. LOL
*…you know I couldn’t pass that one up. LOL)
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:15 AM | Link to this
ARed, it’s Lakeview Terrace (lol).
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 11:15 AM | Link to this
Speaking of HIV..
I thought this was a pretty wild story..got to love lawsuits.Damn I missed Damages.
Lawsuit against Alomar
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:16 AM | Link to this
The funnies V-day commerical to me is the one for ProFlowers (1 doz w/vase and chocolate). On 104.1 and V-103, they’re advertised for $39.00. On 102.5, you can get them for $29.99 with a full 5-days of freshness (lol).
Lakeview Terrace was an ok movie. Samuel Jackson was drunk w/power and jealousy.
By ATLborn
February 12, 2009 11:18 AM | Link to this
Welcome back Tazzee! Glad you enjoyed ur trip.
I think it stinks too that they’re moving the pro bowl to the city the SuperBowl will be held each year. It’s gon be alright the years its in Miami, PHX. But its gonna suck awfully when the SB is held in Kansas City and NYC when they’re the host cities after their awarded the SB for building new stadiums. Imagine, the probowl and SB may be played in snow. Players won’t care with the SB but the probowl prolly won’t have any superstars showing up to play in it.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 11:20 AM | Link to this
The only way that I’m hard to look at is if you’re walking around with one of them red-tipped, white sticks.
This ^^^ was sick! Crack me up.
By fee
February 12, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this
To Melo.
I do see. and to me no one is average. Everyone is a gift from God whether another see it or not. You can only see people through the eyes in which you see yourself.
Charity, I give to charity each week, and I do not claim offering, tithes, or charitable gifts on my taxes. Thank You!
I learned the concept. What you give out will return back to you in many different ways. When you finally learn the concept of why you are and why you were created. all this other foolishness will subsides.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this
@leggs
maybe I should just concentrate on marketing my cretive skills for V-day…lol…get’em hook, line and sucker…I mean sinker…lol…with made to order specialities that reflect the personal touch of consideration…lol.
I remember one year when I was contracting with KPMG-Shared Services…there were these 2 sisters who were manless and on the husband hunt…ironically, they both received these huge V-day baskets from some interested other…all of the women in the department were just oohing and aahing over the baskets and exhibiting bits of ridiculous envy over the treats…when I walked by, someone ask me what I thought about the baskets…I said “nothing..absolutely nothing”…I was hip to the game…them bishes sent them dayuuum baskets to themselves…lol…even Ray Charles could see that.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this
Off Topic question/comment to the Blog
There is a lady that sits near me. She’s a great friend & coworker. But I hate going to lunch with her because it never fails - she ALWAYS gets in a dispute with the waitstaff/manager/etc about SOMETHING! Of course if the service or food is really bad and you’re spending your money you should bring it to someones attention. But dang, its always something with her and she has a bad attitude. This didn’t have enough seasoning on it, this is not hot enough, this tea is not sweet enough, I mean even if we go thru McDonalds drive thru she has an issue! I sometimes worry that the waitstaff might take it out on my food too, when I’m with her since she’s so mean when she complains. And right now I hear her yelling at someone on the phone about one of her bills. Something is always wrong and she always in a dispute with her creditors, the bank, her dentist & dr, you name it!
I avoid going to lunch with her most of the time because its just stressful.
Yall know folks like that?
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 11:23 AM | Link to this
Leggs/ARed Mr. L, i know you meant me, with my no spellin behind!!! Lol…i meant “Lakeview”. I gotta get better….really.
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 11:24 AM | Link to this
@leggs…whats funny is that all these roses go on sale sunday thru next sunday…..they will be reduced…lol….suckas
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 11:25 AM | Link to this
@leggs…whats funny is that all these roses go on sale sunday thru next sunday…..they will be reduced…lol….suckas
staceye….i like your outer beauty….
By MELO
February 12, 2009 11:27 AM | Link to this
“Beauty” has alot to do….. and a feminine, curvy body type for women. We don’t appreciate these attributes just for the hell of it I can see ur azz is tight,Les and u proly have a fab personality to go with it.No need for u to really justify it other than that its how u came out and hw u were raised.Now send me the pic.I wanna see it!!.takpat78@gmail
Melo you judge a woman on her relationship with her dad? What if her dad is a total d1ck? Is there a man in ur life,any man not just a dad..uncle,granny,church minister,boss,mentor..etc that has influended or influences u and guides u,u bounce ideas off smewhat?? If not,find one.Its healthy.Chics who have good relationships with solid dads,mentors etc make very good wives.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:28 AM | Link to this
M’karyl, hadn’t even gotten to the bottom when I told myself they bought the baskets for themselves. There’s probably a few in every office that will do that. I don’t mind living vicariously through others on certain things, but buying myself flowers to front at work as though a man bought them for me is ridiculous at best.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 11:29 AM | Link to this
Kym I am bored as all get out…lets see what trouble I can get into.
Shouldn’t be too hard. LOL
Cee I wasn’t joking those that are handicapped. I was just telling Michelle that if she couldn’t see me, then it would be b/c she’d be blind, and not horrified.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 11:29 AM | Link to this
@Kimmie
Uh…her name wouldn’t happen to be Monica Renee Brown…would it…lol
By ATLborn
February 12, 2009 11:29 AM | Link to this
LOL @ BlueK
Hadn’t thought of that but you’re right. Juries and judges, law enforcement too, are more sympathetic to ppl that are victims or would be victims of fools in hardtimes and azz whippins are generally more acceptable.
Look at those two cases in the A last week…the lady that stabbed the guy in the chest,that broke in to her home, killing him. Police didn’t even take the whole day to look in to that one before ruling it self defense and closing the case.
And the guy that was shot by an attacker, then fought with him taking the gun then shooting and killing him. The police ruled that justifiable even though they said the guy knew his attacker. Usually that calls for an indepth investigation but not in this case. They ruled it justifiable and then called it a day.
By For Real
February 12, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this
For Real: Can we talk?
Chick: Yes baby, let me finish putting this vanilla bean lotion on these dark FloJo like legs.
For Real: Ummmm, I mean ummmm dayumm, okay.
Chick: There I’m done what do you want to talk about suggabutt.
For Real: Well ummmm, I don’t think
Chick: Turn around and look into my big brown eyes and make my soft and wet lips part exposing my perfect white teeth.
For Real: Oh my dayum!!! Ummm I want to talk about your inner beauty.
Chick: Sure Summer Bonnie, do you mind if I put this sexy cream bra on my firm and perky C-cups with areolas like Wise?
For Real passes the f/k out due lack of blood flow to the brain.
Ladies it’s your outter beauty that will have a dude cross 6 lanes of traffic to get to you but it’s your inner beauty that causes a dude to fugg up traffic by driving 7 miles per hour while praying to baby Jesus that you are:
dead
or sick
or that you left
or constipated
or at least sleep
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this
Melo you are forever asking someone for a damn pic..What are you doing making fake passports or something? Selling them?
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:33 AM | Link to this
M’karyl, hadn’t even gotten to the bottom when I told myself they bought the baskets for themselves. There’s probably a few in every office that will do that. I don’t mind living vicariously through others on certain things, but buying myself flowers to front at work as though a man bought them for me is ridiculous at best.
By The Truth
February 12, 2009 11:34 AM | Link to this
Whoever said you give an attractive mate a pass on some ish is incorrect. Don’t give a pass on jack. Set your standard and enforce it. Women love to know the boundaries. Dont deprive them of what they love. LOL
The most pyhsically attractive woman I’ve ever dated was not that hot. She submitted and was bi-sexual(a favorite trait) but she just didnt have that umph in her.
I dont want a 10 but I need 7-8’s across the board with a 10 in the sack. I need that fire.
Ok, is anyone else shaking their head over these herpe/std cases hitting the news? Honestly, I’m leaving and was planning on doing a six pack but I’m scared. All the fugg I need is herpes or worse. I think im “Scared Straight”.
The sexual revolution is officailly over.
Kimmie tell her her petty azz ways are killing the vibe. One of my boys used to do that and I told him “man, we’re out here chillin for a few hours, what’s the rush?”. He relaxed and learned to enjoy the minute.
Rell lmao. The roses are discounted before they even die.
Kym I read that. WTF is going on out here?
By MELO
February 12, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this
them bishes sent them dayuuum baskets to themselves…lol…even Ray Charles could see that LAWD have MERCY…….
Everyone is a gift from God yeah,yeah..yeah…i did not say we are perfect by the way.We are all subjective,imperfect etc,u included. Now get off that high horse….
By MELO
February 12, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this
If i add a lil finesse with the Admiral i need a transaltion on this,miss it.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this
@leggs
I know this to be true..and it is ridiculous…in fact, one of the chicks commented on the fact that I did not receive anything from my then involved interest, Mark…to which I replied…”I do not live where I work, so if someone wants to send me something then it needs to be sent to where I live…otherwise, it might wind up in the trash because I ain’t lugging no extra shyte home on MARTA buses and trains”…lol…their looks in response were priceless examples of pure stupidity in a facial expression…lmoa thinking about it now.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:38 AM | Link to this
Rell, ladies, I’m not trying to be funny, but what really is the hype about getting flowers on V-day only to throw in the garbage 5 days later. Sure some may keep one of the dried up flowers as a keepsake. Don’t you think there’s better ways of expressing your love for someone without something that has to wind up in the garbage a few days later. Just asking????
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 11:38 AM | Link to this
Mannn, where is my boi Demi Dawg at?! Bruh, kin I git’a song?
Kimmie You’re right, unless you want some hawk on your whopper, you better stop going to lunch with that chick.
By For Real
February 12, 2009 11:39 AM | Link to this
Truth Have you ever seen one commerical for Vday where the chick is giving the dude a gift. Oh and I want to change every Kiss begins with K to every Kick begins with K.
By fee
February 12, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this
Melo…calm down. Im not on a high horse. just sharing my view point hun bun… accept my rose, I mean my carnation, I mean my daisy from the front yard as a peace offering… (smile).. you average Joe..(smile)
By ATLborn
February 12, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this
Kimmie - sounds like ur girl is just a miserable person. And not too bright I might add…u don’t argue with folks serving or preparing your food before you receive the food. U will get “the special” if u act an azz with folks working in a restaurant.
I know a lotta folks that work or have worked in restaurants and have heard plenty of hook up stories.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:43 AM | Link to this
Rell, ladies, I’m not trying to be funny, but what really is the hype about getting flowers on V-day only to throw in the garbage 5 days later. Sure some may keep one of the dried up flowers as a keepsake. Don’t you think there’s better ways of expressing your love for someone without something that has to wind up in the garbage a few days later. Just asking????
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 11:45 AM | Link to this
@Truth
Scared straight and such is it…true dat…too much stuff out there that don’t even have names yet, but got symptoms…shyte…uh-huh.
Read the article yesterday about the chick with the ballplayer ex and his AIDs status…dayummm…heinous, heinous to know and not tell the person…wrong, just wrong.
Off Topic
Now Miss I Breed Babies in Batches ahs a website up soliciting donations…WTF…saw her interview with Anne Curry on Dateline the other night…san all of her articulated rationale for her decisions…she still has a dim light in her window.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 11:46 AM | Link to this
What are you doing making fake passports or something? Selling them? Nope,but trust me,im gonna one of them altho i dont know when but i need to have a good selection to choose from.And there will be mutual attaraction ofcourse! Hello….Do i get props,at least for my honesty alone??
By fee
February 12, 2009 11:46 AM | Link to this
Rell… I totally agree with you on that standpoint. Me speaking as a woman, save that money to make sure you have enough to pay the bills next month… No J/K… All these holidays are so commercialized to hit the pockets.
I think Vday should be for both, women change it around on year and show him how much u luv him, and ask him what he want to do or have. let it be about him.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 11:47 AM | Link to this
ATLborn Hey! I’ve heard that the Pro Bowl is going to be in the SB city on a rotational basis. Probably to avoid those cold cities. But when its on a rotational basis, are they going to have it the week after the SB? Who knows? I think they are just doing this to get Hawaii to build an adequate stadium - either that or they didn’t think that through.
kimmie I know folks like that and I don’t go out to eat with them. I do have one friend that I love dearly that’s like that and she knows how I feel about it. When we go out to eat I let her pick and let her know I’m not in the mood for her antics - she’s usually mild-mannered when we go out.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this
fee,u wld wanna be in my pants too,if only u hadnt disclosed way too much about ur church leanings.U want a bet on that…?
By question
February 12, 2009 11:50 AM | Link to this
does anyone know the name of the restaurant downtown that replaced planet hollywood? can’t think of the name.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 11:52 AM | Link to this
Tazzee PoppaG was sharing that ProBowl new location going forth yesturday, with you. bu you were mia
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:52 AM | Link to this
fee, now, you’re onto something with that “Trading Places”, and to think Usher has a song to commemorate that day for the man!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 11:54 AM | Link to this
@Leggs
Flowers are nice to receive…any time when the sentiments that they convey are genuinely meant and mutually received…otherwise, it is hogwash…I once had a guy spend approx. $50 on some long stem red roses as a means of conveying his attraction to me as well as his intended affection…both of which I told him in an earlier conversations was not something I could, would or intended to reciprocate…so upon receiving them I had no real sense of pleasure…and the sad part is that he was struggling to put himself through school…first generation from rural poverty to get into college…a nice person, not of my interest…I would have preferred that he spent that money on something more substantial towards his educational expenses…interestingly enough, the most beautiful and appreciated rose I ever received, and still remember, is the one that Rogelio made for me out of an oragami style gold cigarette pack wrap…lol…he hand formed the flower from the paper and gave it to me to remember him and that night…funny, it was the only flower he could afford at the time…wow, was he 18 months of a fun adventure from that night forward.
By fee
February 12, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this
RELL fee,u wld wanna be in my pants too,if only u hadnt disclosed way too much about ur church leanings.U want a bet on that…? Your funny. and Spicy in the mouth, I can dig it. Im not sensitive.
Send me a pic, and I will tell you if thats true. or whether I would want you to cover your head up with a shirt… smile…
My church leanings or my up bringing?
By The Truth
February 12, 2009 11:56 AM | Link to this
For those that wondered where that TARP maoney went. Take a peek. This is from Fortune Magazine. Folks we’re screwed and they didnt even take us out for ameal.
Meanwhile, the government’s first effort at righting the financial problems - the Bush administration’s Troubled Asset Relief Program, which pledged some $350 billion to banks and other big companies starting in October - has been criticized as a giveaway to well-connected financial interests.
They’re taking money out of your pocket and giving it to their fiends, and you have to pay the bill.
For Real man, at this point I’d be happy with a chick making me breakfast and telling me how much she loves my awesome lovemaking. (All she has to do is read from the cue cards I’ve prepared for her) Really, this thing is not that serious. What you got planned for your harem?
By Demi (not Jamoca...they made me do it)
February 12, 2009 11:56 AM | Link to this
Hey Blue …mayne, you already know what it is
Is u ‘gon ball up like a bish, Or is u ‘gon stand up like a man?
U know what I want u to do? Tell dat ho e Si Dine!!!!
Ho e pay attention, play yo position� young Maceo taking nothin from these bishes
Ho e Si’Dine!
Tell them sucka iggaz, sit they a* down…musty in da club while they jumpin all around. Boncin all around while they muggin up and down�if they get some then they maybe settle down. Can’t get a ho e, now he wanna fight�try to holla at ho es, u ain’t got ya game tight�Breath stank, u stank, body look nasty�Guess what I told him when that lame walked pass me
HO E Si’Dine! HO E Si’Dine! (A!!!..)
HO E Si’Dine! HO E Si’Dine! (A!!!..)
HO E Si’Dine! HO E Si’Dine! (A!!!..)
HO E Si’Dine! HO E Si’Dine! (A!!!..)
ROFLMAO! …I swear, those two fools made me do it. They said they’d post a pic of what I really look like on the blog if I didn’t. Plus, Blue gave me a $5 dollar bill, three packs of scooby snacks and some penny candy… now waiting to see who gets called to the principal’s office first ;-D
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 11:57 AM | Link to this
fee, now, you’re onto something with that “Trading Places”, and to think Usher has a song to commemorate that day for the man!
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 11:58 AM | Link to this
ATL Mayne, folks have got it twisted, but this is still azz-kickin’ America, and the whole world knows it. Things have just gotten easier in the last 20 years because the average person is able to acquire a lot more shyt. But we’re on our way back to yesterday.
By fee
February 12, 2009 11:58 AM | Link to this
I know right Leggs. When you are not selfish you open up to other options and dont fall into what society tries to dictate.
I believe just as a woman wants to feel needed, wanted, loved, cherished, appreciated, a man does too.
And you dont have to be a desparate female just because you go beyond what someone calls normal interest mode.
By Le Siren
February 12, 2009 12:01 PM | Link to this
MELO
Nope,but trust me,im gonna one of them altho i dont know when but i need to have a good selection to choose from.And there will be mutual attaraction ofcourse! Hello�.Do i get props,at least for my honesty alone??
Now I have to quote Miss Sophia from the Color Purple and forcefully say “Hell Naw”!
By ATLborn
February 12, 2009 12:01 PM | Link to this
Tazzee - Okay that would be good then, so long as the rotational years skip those cold weather cities.
I dunno if they are doing that to get Hawaii to build a new stadium. The NFL has caught flack from announcers and fans for years for having the crappiest All Star game. Which seems as if it can’t be avoided, u definitely can’t have it during the middle of the season cuz no teams would allow their players to play and risk even the smallest injury. Folks have cried for years it needs to be played the week before the SB so it can be a part of SB week in the host city.
I don’t care as much for the week before the SB cuz then you won’t have the stars from the SB teams playing in the game. U can have a boatload of stars missing the game cuz of that.
By fee
February 12, 2009 12:01 PM | Link to this
Demi
I must admit although some of your words are choicy, your talented. It was a funny read, and I could really see the person you talking bout.. good peice of writing.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 12:03 PM | Link to this
Don’t get me wrong, flowers are lovely, but all this running around to get these roses on V-day just because it’s V-day is funny to watch. Congrats to all that receive some lovely roses this weekend.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 12:07 PM | Link to this
Melo Whateva you say Gangstalicious..whateva you say.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this
Don’t get me wrong, flowers are lovely, but all this running around to get these roses on V-day just because it’s V-day is funny to watch. Congrats to all that receive some lovely roses this weekend.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this
Send me a pic, and I will tell you if thats true It is true! but i aint sending u one yet unless…. Hmmm..hmmmmm, fee my only problem with p****** church ladies is this:they often capitulate coz they are mostly weak hearted(it takes one weak one to get robbed 10% like that whilst eyes are wide open) and come sunday,u are telling ur pastor about u and me,making this deal a threesome.I dont deal like that.I am sleek and undercover.U and me is proly good company,Three is a crowd!
By AmazonRed
February 12, 2009 12:09 PM | Link to this
It always seems the most attractive women are not so beautiful “underneath” and not so attractive women are wonderful women.
Atltwen, that’s a fair and accurate assesment. Beautiful women don’t have to be pretty on the inside, because they’ll get what they want simply for their beauty. Not to say this is true for all women, but it’s a fact that the beautiful people simply don’t have to work as hard.
If you want both, find the girl that was the ugly duckling growing up. She’ll have a good attitude, but be physically appealing on the outside.
By The Truth
February 12, 2009 12:12 PM | Link to this
My Special Valentines Song For Staceye
Usher’s Trading Places
Now we gonna do this thing a lil different tonight U gonna come over and pick me up in your ride U gon knock and then u gon wait Ooo u gon take me on a date U gonna open my door and ima reach over and open yours Gon pay for dinner take me to see a movie And whisper in my ear I bet you really wanna do me Girl now take me home and get up in Benz Pour me up a shot and force me to the bed
Chorus I’m always on the top tonight I’m on the bottom Coz we trading places When I cant take no more, tell me you ain’t stopping Coz we trading places Now put it on me baby till I say Oooo weee And tell me to shut up before the neighbors hear me This is how it feels when you do it like me We trading places Gon get it, get it get it, get it get it, Gon get it, get it get it, get it get it, Gon get it, get it get it, get it get it, We trading places
Verse 2 I’ll be waking u up to a cup of Folgers Pancakes and eggs I owe ya breakfast in bed, oh baby And your orange juice sitting on the coaster Toast on the side baby strawberry and grape jelly You finished let me get that drink, Pull the curtain from the window Time to get up baby let me make this bed up Today we going shopping blow 30 on me Make it 60, spend it like u really love me Skip dinner and we gon rent a movie You order chinese food right before u do me You coming on strong baby let me wash me hands She said hurry up then get your a* to bed
Chorus You get on top tonight I’m on the bottom Coz we trading places When I cant take no more, tell me you ain’t stopping Coz we trading places Now put it on me baby till I say Oooo weee And tell me to shut up before the neighbors hear me This is how it feels when you do it like me We trading places Gon get it, get it get it, get it get it, Gon get it, get it get it, get it get it, Gon get it, get it get it, get it get it, We trading places
Bridge (yeah) Wash the car (yeah) I’m gonna walk the dog (yeah) Take out the trash (yeah) With nothing but your t-shirt on (yeah) I’m gonna press your shirt (yeah) I’m gonna wrinkle mines up (yeah) In the kitchen girl we crazy we don’t give a f**k Where you want me? ohhh ohhh Ohh ohhh uuuu babyyy Give it to me babyyy ohhhh ohhhhh ohhhh ohhhhhhh ooo-uuuu babyy Babyyy yeaaa oooo-uuu ohhhhhhh ohhhhhh ohhhhhhh uuuuu-uuuu
Chorus You get on top tonight I’m on the bottom Coz we trading places When I cant take no more, you say you aint stopping Coz we trading places Now we gon do this thing a lil different tonight Trading places
Be gentle with me baby.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 12:12 PM | Link to this
@Demi
Don’t you be misbehavin’…lol…oh, I forgot, then you could not post…lol
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this
Hey everybody…
On Topic …yes, of course I’m a lot more interested in who the man really is, without all the extra personal affects. I’m also moreso interested in how well he takes care of himself, versus how he dresses, what type of job he has and the year/make/model of his ride.
I’ve often found that I tend to ignore the “beautiful people” so to speak…but usually this happens if I begin to realize, that they want YOU to notice. They get enough airplay as it is.
But on the other hand, I don’t know which one gets under my skin more…the physically attractive folks who campaign too hard or the not so physically attractive folks who campaign too hard.
I think the common denominator is that these types just campaign too hard, period.
For there is nothing wrong with wanting to look our very best. But from what I’ve observed, they’re “spotlight(s)” tend to shine brighter, when they combine their physical qualities (whether they are blessed with an abundance or very little) with a sensible portion of some good ‘ol humble pie.
It is only then, that I find myself coming back for seconds and wanting to LEARN more about the individual.
By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:19 PM | Link to this
Melo.. what in da’ world did you just say. (scratching my blonde and black hair) smile…. Im not weak in no sense of the word. Im not being robbed because I tithe, you get robbed everytime you go to the gas station! You get robbed when you pay all that money for a vehicle that cost a fraction of what you bought it for. HA! and I am not a church lady! I am a woman that attends church. If you really Knew me, you would beg me for forgiveness. And I have a rule that you tell all but to God only. man cant judge me!
By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:23 PM | Link to this
OOHHH I never heard that song by Usher “trading places” and I love it. Shoot I would do it for the “right man”!
FEE got binoculars looking for a V-date
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 12:23 PM | Link to this
@Jamoca
Yeah…either campaign can get old and be draining…truly.
I am more prone to be interested in a person who conveys a sense of self-actualized comfortableness about himself, has great conversational skills to articulate his thoughts and feelings, can throw in some good humor…simple and significant things that convey volumes about how life in middle-aged has evolved in mature, mellowed, grounded person…but he still gotta cook as well as me, love to style and enjoy hopping out to socialize…otherwise he will still get left alone…lol…oh yeah, still need to wear a decent shoe size too…I am a nut….somebody make some peanutbutter…lol
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 12:23 PM | Link to this
ATL part of the reason the NFL has the crappiest all-star game is they’ve taken all the fun out. The only events I could find on NFL.com was a party the night before ($200 pp), the tailgate ($200pp) and the game. We had to look at a Hawaii newspaper to find out about the other activities and they weren’t great either. As a matter of fact, when I mentioned them to one of the Falcons at the hotel, he didn’t even know the events were going on. Maybe they’ll bring back the skills challenges next year because I would have liked to see the fastest man, alumni game, etc.
On V-day - perhaps I’m the minority, but I like the day. When I’m in a relationship I like sending stuff to my man’s job. I like getting dressed up to go out for a nice dinner. And yes, I believe in doing that stuff year round. I also enjoy giving gifts on Christmas day and having/attending a bigger party on Super Bowl Sunday than I would on a normal football Sunday.
I enjoy the hype!
By MELO
February 12, 2009 12:24 PM | Link to this
Le Siren forget Kym’s cut blocking..just follow ur gutt…
By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:26 PM | Link to this
Jamoca… I like your perception on the above… funny… I 2nd the shoe size… Lawd I need to do some work… 2nd time being on here, and its taking over my life… HA!
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 12:28 PM | Link to this
kimmie i’m sorry that is happening to you. yea avoid her complainin’ behind. i know for a FACT that when food is taken back to the kitchen to be fixed because of some bs from a customer, it comes back out more phucked up but in a pretty way if you know what i mean. she sounds loud and ghetto. i have personally eliminated that from my circle.
hey blog fam! i swear this blog is like crack.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this
Nope,but trust me,im gonna…..one of them altho …hmfmf… ajc,tell me what that statement above by me, means?? Right,it dont mean jerk, nothing coz u distorted it out of ur politcal correctness. Now if ur gonna ph%%%%ck with me, im taking my traffic with me elsewhere. Wake up ur sheeiiiiit!!!…
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 12:36 PM | Link to this
Truth Usher is okay but he is no Will Downing..
After Tonight I’ll be the only one you’re thinking of After Tonight I bet you’ll never be the same, love After me loving you, after you loving me After tonight, after tonight
I can satisfy your every single need, love Do everything your heart and mind’s been thinking of Listen to every single word you have to say I wanna know about you in every way
Baby, my mission tonight is to satisfy you And, baby we gon’ take this love and make it do whtat it do. Cause after tonight I’m gonna show you how to make love After tonight I’be the only one you’re thinking of After tonight I bet you’ll never be the same, love After me loving you, after you loving me After tonight, after tonight
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 12:37 PM | Link to this
Jamo You’re doing good and I have to congratulate you. You’re fili- busters are now mili- busters. LOL
I’m off to lunch. Raqi, I’ll be sure to get you some Lunchtime Observations. LOL Cee, meet me in the park.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 12:37 PM | Link to this
And I have a rule that you tell all but to God only so u knw what to do then Fee!! U different than most church chics i know.U gotta a lil gangsta in u….u got blonde and black hair for real…..?? I like that..
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 12, 2009 12:40 PM | Link to this
If I could see you from the inside out, would your smiles be like standing with my face to the sun?
Or would the icicles around your heart leave me in danger of dodging falling daggers?
If I could see you from the inside out, would the music of your soul lull me into serenity’s scene?
Or would the screams from the pain in your past cause my ears to bleed?
If I could see you from the inside out, would I find goodness and light and flowers and sunshine?
Or would I run from the carnage and the stench of you dying on the inside?
If I could see you from the inside out, would we rave unto the joy fantastic?
Or timidly step around the landmines of your instability?
If I could see you from the inside out, would I find the support of a solid foundation?
Or would I slide around on the slippery slopes of your uncertainties and insecurities?
If only I could see you from the inside out.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 12:44 PM | Link to this
Good afternoon…
Kym
I am not surprised. Shoot, we (the wife and I) have spent more time in “home entertainment”. With Hulu, we can watch most of what we like anytime, anywhere. (I spent the morning watching the last two episodes of “Lie To Me” on there.) So, when we are home together we entertain ourselves. We have tried the KY line of experience enhancers (ie the cooling and warming vials) and other things.
So condoms increase doesn’t surprise.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this
U different than most church chics i know.U gotta a lil gangsta in u….u got blonde and black hair for real…..?? I like that..
Perfect example of honeyfuggling right there.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 12:46 PM | Link to this
Truth, i know u on track with ur middle east gig but wanted to suggest smething closer to home.Check the skilled wrker list that Canada has put out. http://www.cic.gc.ca
By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:48 PM | Link to this
MELO yes I do have two colors blonde and black in my hair. thats the truth… The difference is I have taken the time out to study God in his truest form and not study the “church” mans building. I am not religeous, I relate to God’s law, and put them in their right perspectives. Yes I do attend church on sunday, serve in my ministry, at the same time remain to be no ones judge but my own. **Im glad you finally like something about me Melo.””
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February 12, 2009 12:49 PM | Link to this
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By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:50 PM | Link to this
KYM what does this mean? Perfect example of honeyfuggling right there.?
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 12:50 PM | Link to this
i was explaining my pov on v day to a friend yesterday. forget about all the commercials … every holiday has them and i don’t knock anyone for trying to make some money. valentines day is for the couples who have busy lives: working, school, kids, the house. it’s just a reminder to slow down to think about your partner in crime and acknowledge the love that you two share.
fellas, it doesn’t have to cost a dime. use your imagination. don’t forget about her this saturday!
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 12:54 PM | Link to this
M’karyl LOL. Yep, that’s right. And crazy dude, says hello and demanded I post that song…it went well tho.
And ummm, may I ask what that peanut butta is for? Oh lawduhmercy.. LMAO. And brutha man’s shoes size can be deceptive too! Hahahaaa!! I remember dating this guy awhile back…he was African, well then again, he was Tunisian…so that explained a lot. heheheh… Beautiful thick black hair, olive skin, big hands, feet, shoes, and very tall! But unfortunately, all that was there, were kibbles and bits, and bits, and bits!!!…couldn’t do it! Told buddy to let me see his ID, passport, somethin!!!…had to dbl check is DOB. lmao. Lemme stop…but no joke.
However, he was still a nice guy and I loved his heavy accent, although I hardly understood a thing back then…but we’re still cool. But he seems a lot more Americanized, quite naturally.
Fee Yep, you’ll definitely loose tract of time in this camp. lol
By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:55 PM | Link to this
Beatiful… I can dig your thought, I never looked at it that way… Wow. and they say blog rooms do not educate.. mmmm..
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 12:58 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
If you didn’t know, Hawaii actually pays the NFL to have the probowl there. The agreement has ended. So, the NFL is really holding this event over the state government for more money. A new stadium would probably be preferred as well, but the NFL is only there one week out of the year. What would the stadium be used for the other 51 weeks. The University of Hawaii doesn’t sell out the current stadium.
So, during this economy, the NFL is playing the squeeze game with the state for more money. Las Vegas is interested in holding it. However, I don’t see that happening anytime soon.
By FEE
February 12, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this
Jamoca you got me crackin up over here!!! you got people wondering whats going on… you bout to have me blow my cover…..
You think since men differ in some aspects, they need a seperate ID for that when dating… LOL…..
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 1:02 PM | Link to this
Ahhh…Blue….you perv! LOL But I know I set myself for that one…just walked riiiiight on in!
staceye….i like your outer beauty…. Oh thank you Rell! LOL
Melo I have my step-dad for that. But he came along later in life. I was a teen. I also had my maternal grand-pa (may his rest in peace now)!
Oh Truthie….thanks for the serenade….I think! LOL
M’Karyl you putting people on blast! Giving out a girl’s government name all willy nilly! LOL
Yes I heard that crazy bcth with the 14 kids is soliciting donations. I hope nobody gives her sht! She had them…now go to work and take care of them. I’m tired of my tax dollars going to baby makers who are to lazy to get a real job!
By Le Siren
February 12, 2009 1:02 PM | Link to this
Jamoca
Beautiful thick black hair, olive skin, big hands, feet, shoes, and very tall! But unfortunately, all that was there, were kibbles and bits, and bits, and bits!!!…
Now THAT is just awful! A beautiful man with a small package is like a Versace dress with Payless shoes…it’s just wrong! LOL
By Henry
February 12, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this
The fact is that we do live in a very superficial, shallow-sexually minded society; just look at every ad through the media: it’s all sexual (sensual is a whole different matter) and focused only on the external. Young and middle aged men and women (not to mention teens)feel they have to compete with all this when they are compared with that “hot chick” or “hunk” on TV or in the magazine cover and ads within that look nothing like them. Both TV and radio are not helping to boost self-esteem either. These poor people are feeling totally left out, outcast and unappreciated for who they really are in the inside, versus the external. Sad to say, because these matters become issues that have also contributed to destroyed relationships and countless marriages that have not focused on the person they claim to have loved, and then begin to go after a fantasy or something else to satisfy their stupid, immature desires, instead of appreceating what and who they already have. This proves once again how demoralized our society has become.
By KJ
February 12, 2009 1:05 PM | Link to this
Most men don’t give 2 sh!ts about inner beauty, which is why most hot women are insufferable b!tches.
They know they can get away with it, as these men will put up with anything to “be seen” with such a woman.
Unfortunate, but true.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:07 PM | Link to this
Kym
You can watch the episodes of Damages on hulu.com anytime that you miss them.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:08 PM | Link to this
Kym
You can watch the episodes of Damages on hulu.com anytime that you miss them.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this
Ben & Jerry created the “Yes Pecan!” ice cream flavor for Obama.
For George W. they asked for suggestions from the public. Here are some of their favorite responses:
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 1:10 PM | Link to this
fee i see you’re new here. lol. lemme help you out. don’t co-sign any of my posts if you want to build rapport. j/k but not really.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 1:10 PM | Link to this
PoppaG So Goodell’s comments about the safety of the stadium was just a smoke screen? I think I read that Hawaii pays the NFL about $4 million - which is a VERY small fraction of what they make. I still think they need a new stadium. The sound system was horrible, the seats and stairs were pretty rusty. But I’d still go back.
It’ll be interesting to see how it plays out in Miami next year.
By LorDemi (PDA bootleg bloggin)
February 12, 2009 1:13 PM | Link to this
Yeaaaaaah Bishes!!!!!
NOTE: This post is not directed at any one…Can a PDA blogger get banded?
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 1:18 PM | Link to this
@Jamoca
LOL…well the shoe size rule is an upot 85% good fit rule…but size 11 and over…it is 100%…lol…oh, and the peanut butter…cause I’m nuts…lol
@Staceye
Honey chile…e’erbody in the know got the seasoned ATL ho-phonic hef’s name…lol…she is to be avoided at all cost…literally and figuratively.
@Le Siren
Like to Versace with Payless shoes…to dayuuuum funny…got a new line to throw out with the trash…lol
By LorDemi (PDA bootleg bloggin)
February 12, 2009 1:18 PM | Link to this
Yeaaaaaah Bishes!!!!!
NOTE: This post is not directed at any one…Can a PDA blogger get banded?
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
I wouldn’t say that it is a total smoke screen, but I don’t think that it is at the top of the list.
NFL is looking for more money. especially since probowl is more like a paid vacation. NFL may be spending more than 4 million since travel costs, food, etc. have gone up dramatically in recent years. Economy is hurting the league, just like every other sport.
Hawaii is hesitant about committing big buck into a stadium right now. So, we’ll see.
Free agency will be interesting. I’m hearing the Falcons are looking a Titans defensive tackle Albert Haynesworth. (He is the guy that step on a Dallas Players face a couple of years ago). He is pretty good though. I think that Tampa Wants him, too. Falcons are probably looking at D-Line and tight end. DE Jamaal Anderson might be out of the door, too. Abe needs help.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 1:27 PM | Link to this
Thanks to all for your comments/suggestions I think next time she asks I am going to just tell her what’s up, in a nice way of course. Because to think about it, she certainly does not hold her tongue when she has to tell me something!
Beautiful - You see our girl Carla is doing the dang thing on Top Chef now! She won the last challenge and is in the final 4! Good for her! Even ole Jacques Pepin liked her food(I don’t care much for him).
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:27 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
And Keith Brooking is probably playing elsewhere as well.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 1:28 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl post that 1.09 pm Ben & Jerry ice cream list about Bush on ajc’s Thinking Right blog.But u’ll get a good Rihanna-type beat down!
Lunch observations:Ladies,Qstion? when a lady is sporting a multi-color eye liner/shadow(dnt knw which is which) of bright white/red/maroon all across her 2 eyes,is that a ghetto stamp or a style/fashion stamp? I say ghetto stamp…i see u agree..
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 1:28 PM | Link to this
Kym …I missed. What is “honeyfuggle”?
If i add a lil finesse with the Admiral i need a transaltion on this,miss it.
Melo That ^^^ meant….example: You know when your Queen ask you for something all sweet like with dexterity? Then you spin it and as “Daddy”, oblige to what she wants? Well, that’s what I meant by “finessing the admiral”.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this
On topic
With me, outer beauty only got you so far.
Unfortunately, I found that (as Kanye says) some of the prettiest people do some of the ugliest things.
By LorDemi (PDA bootleg bloggin)
February 12, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this
hey Jamoca the only I can’t do is post lyric with this ish…AT&T 3G is pretty fast and I even have spell check as I go. I got a good laugh read all the past posts. My supavisa is gonna be p!ss with my a$$ tomorrow…dayum, there goes my battery life with bish.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this
Kimmee/Beautiful
I almost had to give the wife the “people’s elbow” last night because she came into the room and just change the channel to that Top Chef show. Nevermind that I was watching a darn good UNC/Duke basketball game on the plasma. She saw my displeasure and turned it back. She watched that show in the office.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 1:37 PM | Link to this
Blue “In the Park” is a song…you like to hear it? Here it go…
nah Imma mess you & everybody up with that one.
PoppaG Hey. How’s that Spa Sydell giftcard holding up? Does it need a sitter?
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 1:39 PM | Link to this
@melo
That’s too funny…interestinly enough…my Agnes Scott buddy posted it in a note on Facebook…lol…and she is a Southern white female…so it must not be a political, racial or cultural POV…but a right thinking POV…lol…and I ain’t in the mood for those racist posters on that blog today…lol
As far as the eyeliner/shadow…I always look at how well it is blended…when it is just slapped on and such…ooooogli it is…lol…it is how it is worn…of course, there are some styles that are based on regional cultures (and yes that includes the hood)…and they tend to be more prevalent in those areas and amongst group representing those areas…lol…but badly applied make up is just badly applied make up no matter who you are or where you come from.
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 1:39 PM | Link to this
it’s just wrong! LOL
LeSiren Yeah, but it was the way mother- nature intended. :-P
You should have seen my face, as I thought, man, with a few more of these and some dipping sauce, I could have made a small serving of cocktail weenies. LOL
But honestly, that was not the reason that we decided to stop dating. Some people are just better off being your friend /associate. But whenever we run into each other, we laugh about that moment and his response to my facial expressions…(which I could not hide). He had such a thick accent though, sounded beautiful and so demanding (French Arabic). hehehe…
LOL @ M’karyl and Demi!!! …I see you made it.
You’re doing good and I have to congratulate you. You’re fili- busters are now mili- busters. LOL
Well I had a good teacher… so just hush up Blue!! By the way, I’m gonna need that upgrade in writing for my records, as well. LOL
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:43 PM | Link to this
Cee
Hey. How’s that Spa Sydell giftcard holding up?
I guess that it is holding up okay. They are good for a year from date of purchase. She has had it since mid October. I saw it in the guest room over the past weekend.
They are huge…not the size of a giftcard. They look more like certificates for perfect attendance than gift certificates.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 1:44 PM | Link to this
PG - Ask your wife what she thinks about the sister, Carla, that is on there. She started out very weak, but is pulling up the rear!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 1:44 PM | Link to this
@Jamoca
Oh no…not c**tail weenies…lmao…uh-huh.
By LorDemi (PDA bootleg bloggin)
February 12, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this
PG when you look at a lot of these reality shows, its full of some of the most beautiful people in the world. some of the ish they’re doing is very saddening. A lot of young people are watch those shows thinking that is a proper way to act…WOW!
M’Keal ummmmmm…hit me up demigod33@yahoo…
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 1:48 PM | Link to this
PSA
For anyone looking for a good eats cheap date for Valentine’s Day…lol
http://www.ajc.com/business/content/business/stories/2009/02/11/steaknshake15cents.html?cxntlid=thbz_hm
By LorDemi (PDA bootleg bloggin)
February 12, 2009 1:48 PM | Link to this
PG when you look at a lot of these reality shows, its full of some of the most beautiful people in the world. some of the ish they’re doing is very saddening. A lot of young people are watch those shows thinking that is a proper way to act…WOW!
M’Keal ummmmmm…hit me up demigod33@yahoo…
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 1:51 PM | Link to this
I am accepting resumes and applications for a surrogate mother.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:51 PM | Link to this
LorDemi
I have friends that write for reality shows. So, I guess that there are just plots that are made to make the show interesting. I watch very few reality shows. As a matter of fact , Parental Control on MTV may be the only one that I watch.
However, I’ve seen some of the more physically attractive people take the lead of Naomi Campbell and act a straight mess.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl,its proly my bias then but oof!!!wheew,i cannot stand loud make up,perfume,face polish..yeah i said polish nor loud nail polish.I like my woman to have all that in sensual subtle ways.Ooooh, i cannot stand that cheap perfume that comes out loud and dangs the whole air and smells like baby powder, not even the expensive perfume if its loud.Sensual sublime is how i prefer.Is it my olfactory lobs or what? My dept lady assistant leans on me in the break room and says,baby,u smelling good Now,dont do that often,that will get ur puerto rican azz whooped by melo,watch it!! Now im getting a head ache thinking of that loud perfume! And ladies,if ur fake nails are as long or longer than a Jackal’s toes,like the Jackals i see on discovery channel,ughhhh,dont touch my food!!!
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this
PoppaG I wouldn’t mind getting Haynesworth, I don’t condone stepping on anyone’s face but it was a Cowboy…j/k. Peppers would be a good addition too. I can’t stand him as a Panther but I would love him as a Falcon. Poor Jamaal - I hate to see him out the door, but he’s not producing and Brooking…I’m still mad about that 3rd and 16 play.
By Le Siren
February 12, 2009 1:53 PM | Link to this
Jamoca
But whenever we run into each other, we laugh about that moment and his response to my facial expressions…(which I could not hide).
Wait, you mean to tell me that he saw how displeased you were with his goods and he can laugh about that now? Seems like he would have been extremely embarrassed about that little situation! LOL
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this
MK
Waffle House has a V-Day special as well. They did it last year and it was a big time success. So, they will do it again. There is an article about it on the AJC site.
I am feeling to lazy to find it, though. Sorry.
We’ve done IHOP for V-Day a couple of times. There isn’t a wait like everywhere else, and my wife loves breakfast food anyway.
By Blow Me
February 12, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this
Good Afternoon ALL
What’s crackin guys..?
By FEE
February 12, 2009 1:57 PM | Link to this
Melo where’s my PIC at…
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 2:00 PM | Link to this
@melo
I am feeling you on that over the top, way too much make up, perfume and such…these things are meant to be an enhancement that acentuates the natural…not create it or mask it…lol…but tell that to some ppl…and that is too funny about the jackal nails…lol
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 2:01 PM | Link to this
PG Waffle House sounds pretty good. Since I will miss my best friends V-Day wedding I can at least have one of my favorite foods. Our present plans are to stay home and do nothing. I guess we could go out for waffles for breakfast. Or he could go and bring one back for me.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 2:01 PM | Link to this
It was the word of the day on Tuesday I believe.
Honeyfuggle is a real word and it means to sweet talk or flatter.
Today’s word is Twitterpatted. It is a real word and comes from the movie Bambi.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this
PoppaG…big…small..SS giftcards will never be too big for the gigantic purse i carry.
Ya’ll should do a his/her set. The enjoyment. you have prolly
By LorDemi
February 12, 2009 2:05 PM | Link to this
Mayne..y’all ladies need to leave them unbless dudes along….Demi and Slim are currently hard at work to produce the most realist and adjustable wang…the product, coded Wang X, will be on the market soon.
Help is on the way fellas!!!!
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this
Okay. I like the “word of the day” concept. Brings my Scrabble game up. So keep that up.
“honeyfuggle” <—- using that.
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this
For anyone looking for a good eats cheap date for Valentine’s Day…lol you can pay me to come over and cook. the good eats happen after the meal though. (insert devilish laugh here) lol
FEE better be careful about them pics. the UBPP (Undercover Blog Picture Police) are lurking. Melo read her her Blog Miranda rights “…any pictures you show CAN and WILL be used against you in the blog court of law…”
By MELO
February 12, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this
Tazzee/PG the falcons always get these veterans/fee agents at a premium and they perfome mediocre/discount level,get hurt often etc.U dnt think they might need a zulu warrior/witch-doctor to help rid them of their curse!
FEE my add is takpat78@gmail.com.The ears/eyes on this blog beat all the satelite technologies ever discovered and manufactured by USA,China or Russia,i dont opine 2 on 2 that way.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 2:11 PM | Link to this
@PG
I kinda posted that as a joke…I do not care what a ppl recognize and what a ppl do to celebrate it…if the quality of interaction is absent…thne it is all useless…ya’ know…but I think that you got that covered very well…I truly feel for the ppl, especially men, who are under the gun to produce the one special moment in a 24 hour period for the sake of someone else’s shallow emotional gratification…smh…way too much potential drama…and as has been said before…if the only time that I feel special to someone is based on what he does for me on Valentine’s Day…then there are more pressing ishes causing me problems…like needing to get a life with perspective…lol
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 2:11 PM | Link to this
Cee
She got me a Gift certificate to a sports themed spa that was in SE Atlanta (Grant Park-ish). It had more of boxing theme to it.
Well, the treatments were ok, but really wasn’t my cup of tea.
I’ve played ball and we got trainers and massages regularly especially if you have a muscle strain or something like that. So, for me, I’ll have that connection for a while that massages and injury. It just doesn’t seem right for me if I’m not hurt.
By FEE
February 12, 2009 2:13 PM | Link to this
Well my peoples…Im about to be out. Im going home and making me some french toast with pecans on top for dinner…. and my favorite Ms. Butterworth!
Until next time… Peace and blessings
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 2:15 PM | Link to this
Jamocha Kibbles and bits…OMG! LMAO…wow! I have been there girl.It’s just not right…like seedless watermelons!
KJ I co-sign your post 100%…sad but true!
melo the eye shadow depends on home she pulls it off, her eye shape and color and what she is wearing. How come when a Black woman does something, its ghetto..but if a nother chick of any other ethnicity does it…its her own style? I mean I don’t care what other think of me. I wear what I want and how I want…that is my own personal style. Sometimes I like bright colors and I will express it with eye make up or even my hair styles. I have clip in colored hair pieces to add a colored streak such as red, purple or fushia. Again…it depends on my mood and what I am wearing…oh an wear I am going. Its all the personalities I have I guess!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 2:19 PM | Link to this
The ears/eyes on this blog beat all the satelite technologies ever discovered and manufactured by USA,China or Russia,
Oh no…not the blog radar…lol
@Dreams*
Yep…can cook the good meal me-self…how about Salmon in a soy, fresh ginger, pineapple juice marinade topped with julienne red peppers and scallions, baked in parchment paper and served with coconut ginger seasoned jasmine rice and fresh chili garlic sitr-fried spinach, a bottle of chilled chardonnay and some chocolate mousse puffs in raspberry coulee for dessert…lol…oh yeah.
By LorDemi (PDA bootleg bloggin)
February 12, 2009 2:20 PM | Link to this
speaking of the Devil
Heeeeeeeey Blow
lol…just messing with ya
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 2:20 PM | Link to this
especially if you have a muscle strain or something like that.
PoppaG What do you recommend when Epsom Salt soak, heat pad, play-play massage homedics machine, don’t work?!
My calf is giving me fits.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 2:21 PM | Link to this
melo that was under the old regime. One our free agents this year made the Pro Bowl. I’m sure we’ll get someone good on defense this year.
but you’re right about the past - for every John Abraham, we’ve had a Peerless Price and Ed Hartwell…
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 2:23 PM | Link to this
MK
I knew that you were joking. I saw the appropriate lol.
I just saw that it was Steak N Shake (at least the link had Steak N Shake in it b/c I didn’t click the link.) Well, I just wanted to throw out the Waffle House thing too.
We will probably be home because the Mrs has a school project due on Monday. We will go out afterwards. We have tix to Cirque du Soleil later in the month.
Melo
I am not a Falcon fan, but I generally agree with you. However, I think that Arthur Blank finally got it right with the new GM and new coach. They are football people and not big names. In the past, it seems that they would just go after big names (C. Bennett, Eric Dickerson, Darryl. Talley. etc) but they would be just past their prime.
They spent big bucks on Michael Turner and he held up pretty well. The football people realized that MT didn’t have much wear and tear sitting being Ladanian Tomlinson in SD. So, it was a better risk than some of their other risks.
I think that Atlanta may be poised to get that infamous back to back winning season thing off their back this year. They only have to win 9 to accomplish that.
By Michelle-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com
February 12, 2009 2:23 PM | Link to this
I get muscle spasms when the orgasm is OFF THE HOOK!!
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 2:26 PM | Link to this
Truly amazing.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 2:26 PM | Link to this
DreamsMaterialize next time big bro is in middle of coversate with a lady,u hush!!! Why bring up miranda when lady is getting stuff for me from her bag??? Next time *Truth,Rell,For Real and I * go hunting,u stay home and take care of the ladies and help them with the laundry…untill u wise up!
Staceye, i didnt bring up the lady’s ethno..but YES she was black,but i wld call her on it if she were of orange,vanilla or any other race and she likes it loud.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this
It appears Michelle is Twitterpatted.
I wonder if people realize that they sound like they are Dooking(this was yesterday’s word of the day) when they have sex.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 2:35 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
I am not so certain that Peerless was the problem. You guys were just about ready to get rid of Mike Jenkins and Roddy White until the QB changed. Roddy started show signs of life after Vick was gone.
I personally think that Vick was the problem. I don’t have a Vick hate issue. I loved watching him play, but I can see how that unpredictability can affect a receiver in the passing game. When the ball isn’t where it is supposed to be when it supposed to be there that can cause problems for everybody from the linemen, who can’t see behind them and end up getting holding penalties when the play changes direction behind them to receivers who have to cut off routes to become blockers.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 2:35 PM | Link to this
PG
All good bro…some folks might have thought I was serious…lol…so I just threw in the after the fact disclaimer to avoid any blog harassment…lol…I saw where you posted the other day about having those tix…I have only seen the shows on tv…but it is always impressive and it should be a good time…enjoy.
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 2:35 PM | Link to this
Melo People who dare to be different from what boring ordinanry people “normal”, takes guts and creativity. I for one do not like to look like everyone else. Sometimes I will rock 2 pigtails jsut because I am in a playful mood. I can ad flowers or whatever I want to make it fun. Or I can go Goth and wear fishnets with crystal skulls with a black mini dress, etc. It is my perogative to wear what suits me and make me happy. If somebody wants to wear a moo-moo…that is them. Now granted I am in total agreement with just because its made in your size doesn’t mean you should wear it. I do not want to go blind seeing a size 18 woman in short shorts and heels! LOL
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 2:41 PM | Link to this
Cee
Naproxen Sodium (Alleve) is pretty good for aches and muscle issues. I always like them better than ibuprofen.
After that, rest and heat pad can’t hurt it either. If it presists, see a doctor.
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this
You think since men differ in some aspects, they need a seperate ID for that when dating… LOL…..
Fee No, it wasn’t really that, I just wanted to be sure that I would not wake up in handcuffs and shackles on my feet. LOL
Oh no…not ctail weenies…lmao…uh-huh. Yes ma’am…thinkin’ Hilshire Farm *NO BEEF! hahahaaaa… * Seems like he would have been extremely embarrassed about that little situation! LOL
LeSiren Of course, he was…but I’m drawn to people with great sense of humor, and he definitely has that. But he was mumbling some jibberish around his house right after that “incident”…couldn’t understand a dayum thang, but oh, I could imagine. It was like watching him cuss out folks using his native tongue, even though they did not understand. And I loved his impersonations of Black Americans when it came to our music, lingo and whatnot.
So it was not so terrible….now if it were so quiet, that one could hear a rat, pyssin’ on cotton, then in his case, I probably would have gotten kicked out. LMAO
It’s just not right…like seedless watermelons! Heyyyy, wait a minute, Staceye I love seedless watermelons and yellow ones too! LOL
Mrs. Hibiscus aka Raqi Doesn’t the surrogate mom carry the unborn child? LOL You know we’re not going to go through all of that work, just to give it away for someone else to enjoy. My cousin just called me two nights ago to tell me that they’re having a boy. I say to you, you can keep the hope alive, but this one has been blog-preordained to be a “she”. LOL Btw, Any news yet? I have to admit, I’m kind of anxious to know.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this
eye shadow depends on home what did u mean here?
for one do not like to look like everyone else i can take that..now u know my desk number..i will want u to call me every weekday morning and chat me up for about 3 minutes to get my day started.I might actually have a modelling or visual basic qstion to ask u just so we diguise our interaction..now lets get on it.. Or I can go Goth and wear fishnets with crystal skulls with a black mini dress i told u about the Feb 21st romp at Strokkers for my birth.Its starts at 2.00 am and we booiking a VIP table.Ur invite is in the mail,bring at least 2 other bi-females…dress code enforced.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this
PoppaG I would agree with you if Peerless was able to produce after he left the Falcons - he didn’t. I never thought he was horrible, just that he wasn’t #1 WR material and drafting him for that role was a mistake.
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 2:48 PM | Link to this
ITS FLUCKING NICE OUTSIDE
….Listening to that old school….felt good….that kid and play - Rollin!!!!
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 2:52 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
What did he have to work with in Buffalo? A garbage QB there. He produced with Drew Bledsoe as his QB in Buffalo prior to the ATL.
Now, I agree that he wasn’t #1 material but he could catch prior to and after his stint in Atlanta. He couldn’t catch a cold here.
By the way, he still says ” I hate y’all”.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 2:52 PM | Link to this
Tazzee, if i say i wanna meet u,i will have a good excuse.Ur football knowledge is fierce!!I want to be ur student.
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 2:52 PM | Link to this
staceye thats the cutest thing about you - your melodramatic side…and plus you dont take yourself seriously like most folks….next time you rock the pigtails take a picture…..lol
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 2:52 PM | Link to this
Rell - Meant to tell you your earlier comment about giving the lil chubby valentine baby the middle finger was funny!LOL!!
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 2:55 PM | Link to this
No Jamoca we don’t know yet. We tried to see Monday but he would not cooperate by moving his leg and showing us his peepee.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
Peerless wasn’t drafted by ATL. He was drafted by Buffalo. He came to Atlanta in a trade that left ATL w/o a first rounder the next year. It is the perfect example of what I was talking about. Arthur Blank was involved and wanted to make a big splash instead of making a sound football decision.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this
Dooking – I don’t even know about that. Kym I got it on that other one.
PG Okay I may have to wait it out. I really don’t like taking more medicine if I don’t absolutely HAVE to.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl, this one is for you. A friend of mine just emailed me a photo of the red roses her boyfriend sent her. With modern technology, walking by one’s desk to see the flowers is no longer enuf. Picture phones allow all your friends in different locations to cyberwalk by your desk. I had to laugh!
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:02 PM | Link to this
When [s]he moves its leg…
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl, this one is for you. A friend of mine just emailed me a photo of the red roses her boyfriend sent her. With modern technology, walking by one’s desk to see the flowers is no longer enuf. Picture phones allow all your friends in different locations to cyberwalk by your desk. I had to laugh!
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this
Melo It’s not you FEE should be worried about. The blog women are the ones using pics against people. BTW I’m like a crocodile, I hunt on my own, no need for a pack. lol
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 3:06 PM | Link to this
@leggs
What a hoot…the pro’s and con’s of technology…are we sure that she did not send them to herself…lol..j/k
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this
When [s]he moves its leg…
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 3:07 PM | Link to this
Cee
I am serious about going to see a doctor it doesn’t get any better or actually hurts worse.
You may want to give it some rest. My dad complained about his calf for a while (nearly a month of pain) and end up having small tears in his achilles. Luckily he went to the doctor before it totally ruptured. He had to wear a boot.
If it is just sore, give it some rest.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 3:08 PM | Link to this
Btw…M’karyl that explanation you shared about unconditional love, was great! I could agree with you more. It has me all in the cupid mood…but you know I’m cwasi with mine. PoppaG when you started the death correlation yesturday, I was all bah-humbug. But I got the jest of it.
By Been There Done That
February 12, 2009 3:09 PM | Link to this
Does inner beauty matter. Only if you want more than a superficial sexual relationship over time. I have seen some beautiful women who suddenly became not so attractive when they opened their mouth to talk or showed their lack of character and class in how they related to others.
On the other hand I have found women that I had to give a second look and longer when I found out how warm, affectionate, and compassionate they are.
An ugly soul can make a physically beautiful look ugly in a heartbeat. Conversely, a plain looking woman can become a beautiful woman to accompany when her inner beauty shines through.
My experience is that extremely good looking women are used to the attention and the perks that come with it. They have an aire of entitlement to that type of behavior from men and that is a turnoff. Often they are attracted to the men that ignor them, if they are not to insecure to risk rejection.
I see most women these days as people and treat them as such. If I do not like them as a person then I do not make an effort to know them as a woman.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:15 PM | Link to this
She even took a picture of the card that accompanied the flowers from a flower shop in Washington (where he lives) Yes, maintaining a long distance relationship.
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 3:15 PM | Link to this
PoppaG we were talking about free-agent mistakes…so you know what I meant! LOL
Anyway I still stand by him as an example because that entire decision was jacked; he wasn’t a #1 before he got here and wasn’t when he left. He produced in Buffalo because there was another threat on the other side of the field but our FO somehow decided he could be a #1 here.
I’m glad that we finally have a management team that realizes you need other pieces in place for a star to perform.
And yes - we’re looking at Back-to-Back this season. That’s going to be my mantra for the upcoming season B2B and I’m not talking about business…
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 3:16 PM | Link to this
Dooking is the sound ferrets make when they are happy.
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this
My experience is that extremely good looking women are used to the attention and the perks that come with it. They have an aire of entitlement to that type of behavior from men and that is a turnoff. Often they are attracted to the men that ignor them, if they are not to insecure to risk rejection.
FALSE!!!!!….its the opposite…its the average chicks that act like this…lol
most pretty women or whatever you call these super heroes….ummm they usually looking for something normal and real and NOT based on there beauty….dudes just sit and stare without going to stick in there bid….like she cant say thanks but no thanks…..i just laugh….fear of rejection has never been a fear of mine…hell she missing out not me
By Wise Diva
February 12, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this
have I told ya’ll lately how much I luv you guys? Some of ya’ll might be certifiable, and I swear some days it seems like a few are blogging from Charter Hospital…but I heart ya’ll loons anyway LOL xoxo muah
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:20 PM | Link to this
She even took a picture of the card that accompanied the flowers from a flower shop in Washington (where he lives) Yes, maintaining a long distance relationship.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 3:21 PM | Link to this
Blog Question for the men, and ladies feel free to chime in.
If your lady has an accident, when you get the call, how many of your women will start off with, “Baby, I had an accident… blah blah and then go into whatever happened?
OR, how many are going to get, “Hey baby… yeah it’s me… you know the traffic was heavy, and I was in my lane, I had just hung with Jackie… blah blah blahhh…” followed by some more bullshyt, and somewhere down the line, finally get to the part about, “…and there was an accident, I’m alright, the car’s fugged up, …and come get me” ???
By Michelle-www.Atlantasfinest.yuku.com
February 12, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this
Awwww Diva!!!
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this
Melo, you asking ppl for all these pics…you’ve never sent me a pic of you. How abt it?
By Keep It Real!
February 12, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this
Afernoon Blog family!
Happy V-day to all the ladies on this crazy Blog!
On Topic: Inner Beauty is what keeps a relationship going because you have come to like and love that woman or man!
The outer booty/beauty of Stacey will keep going for a long time!
Our Government has continue the process of robbing the American public for the next 200 yrs.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 3:25 PM | Link to this
have I told ya’ll lately how much I luv you guys?
Wise are you dying? I mean what the hell? Okay is someone else on here dying? Please don’t start that lovefest in here..good grief.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 3:25 PM | Link to this
Ferret…I had a ferret long time ago…lil rodent :)…we called her Ferra, (I know simple.)…
…still can’t find Dooking.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 3:27 PM | Link to this
Diva luv you too.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 3:28 PM | Link to this
@Leggs
Then in her case, I will assume she wanted to share her joy with her friends…lol..which ain’t bad either…intention and motivation being cool…I took pix of my b-day flowers to share with some ppl, but only because the arrangement was so beautiful…lol…but old sister girl in the house where I was staying got all ‘tude of envy cause the arrangement was like over $100 bucks…which is a common thing for the friend to spend who sent them to me…but she has never received anything like that and she could not believe a man in another city who was only a “friend” thought so well of me…shyte…old boy by his own admission never spent more than $5 for any flowers that he gave to her…lol…just had to through that useless item in…and I hope that she enjoys the flowers and the sentiments that they convey.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:28 PM | Link to this
Melo, you asking ppl for all these pics…you’ve never sent me a pic of you. How abt it?
By MELO
February 12, 2009 3:29 PM | Link to this
Tazzee/PG where is Pearless* now? I liked him as a person,cool guy with beautiful wife and all.If the QB wasnt doggfighter,he cld have stayed here,he waznt that bad.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 3:29 PM | Link to this
Wise have I told ya’ll lately how much I luv you guys?
Don’t tell me you’ve had a NDE? Rolled over 5x in the ride and walked away unscathed? Almost get run over on Peachtree? Out of the blue, somebody showed you a random act of kindness that really pulled them buttocks out of the fire?
Either way, that was nice. LOL
By For Real
February 12, 2009 3:31 PM | Link to this
PG/Tazzee
Price most def wasn’t a No. 1 and Blank did want to make a splash but don’t put all the blame on Vick. How you gonna call a play for the QB to run 40 yards as fast as he can and then turn around and ask him to deliver a strike? And don’t get me started on why QB can’t take 3 step drop without getting sacked but I think the problem with the WR and Vick was trust and Vick didn’t go out of his way to build any.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 3:31 PM | Link to this
@Blue Kolla
Convo would go like this:
I have been in an accident…I am fine…the car is or is not fine…and I need you to pick me up…can you do that…then I would want a straight yes or no…because if it is a no, then I need to hang up the phone and call someone who can give me a yes…lol.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 3:31 PM | Link to this
Kym - I would like to meet you too! :) I know i prolly sit back and listen for the witty comments.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 3:32 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
I agreed that he wasn’t an #1, and was a mistake.
I gave the example of Roddy White and Mike Jenkins playing not producing well for Vick either. Finneran had periodic problems with drops, too. (He & Alge were about the only ones that could handle Vick’s passes)
Vick was the common denominator.
By i'm swiss
February 12, 2009 3:35 PM | Link to this
Too busy to really catch up, but got a couple minutes to kill, so…
LMAO @ “inner-booty.” Luckily for me, that’s one of swiss miss’ many fine qualities.
Totally off topic:
Looks like the Darwin Awards has a new nominee. I love it when stupidity thins the herd.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 3:35 PM | Link to this
Leggs,coz u prefer me in person…LOL
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 3:36 PM | Link to this
WiseDiva yeah I love you too.
Uh, can I borrow your uterus for the next 4-1/2 months?
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 3:37 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl Dang I changed my mind. I’m coming to your house to eat. How much you chargin’ for that? Mind if I switch the chardonnay for a nice spatlese? I like the german wines.
By For Real
February 12, 2009 3:38 PM | Link to this
Cee My calf is giving me fits. - Dang you didn’t have to put me on blast. I said I was sorry. I got a little carried away. Hell if the back of your knee didn’t sweat so much i would have realized I was too low.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this
look up ferret sounds. Are you doubting my words of the day?? You think I am over here just making up words?
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this
@Dreams
Sure, feel free to change the wine…but I likes to drank…so after you buy my bottle…make sure you get enough for you too…lol
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this
Blue, I would start out with “Baby, I’ve been in accident, but I’m ok. The car is __. I definitely wouldn’t start out with excuses.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this
Dayum ForReal you silly! Cain’t even get with you.
May i have another?
By Elijah make it Happen!
February 12, 2009 3:43 PM | Link to this
Wow!
This is a terrific blog! Their must be some comics in the house because this is some funny shyt!
Inner beauty who needs it! LOL I truly know about innner beauty because my love for my wife grows each day because of her inner beauty!
Regarding the Falcons: To many bad coaches and too many players caught up in the hype of M. Vick. Too many bad free agent signing!
Like the President Bush exiting the White House after robbing the American people I’m GONE!
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 3:43 PM | Link to this
For Real
It wasn’t all Vick’s fault, but he didn’t help himself out. Put a little touch on your passes.
He had no control over his height. He is short (5’11”) for a QB. Many linemen are over 6’ tall. Three step drops can be an issue if you can see over your linemen. Five step drop would have been better for him to see, but that means that the line would have to protect longer. As a result, he did a lot of bootlegs.
I’ve also heard that Vick didn’t do a lot of film study to read defenses. I’ve heard this from multiple sources all over. Part of what makes QBs good is recognizing formations and that comes from film study. Once you recognize formations then you can audible to better plays. On the other hand, Knapp didn’t let him audible much. So, it was a combination.
Greg Knapp is garbage as a playcaller. Seattle will love him…lol. He is the new OC for the Seahawks.
Melo
Peerless is retired. He lives here in Sugarloaf area like many football players do.
Yeah, Vick would still be the QB here if not for the dogfighting. No one wants that contract that he had. That contract is the only reason that he is still on the roster.
More time with the young receivers would have been helpful for both parties.
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this
Wise are you dying? I mean what the hell? Okay is someone else on here dying? Please don’t start that lovefest in here..good grief.
lmbao!
kimmie i really thought carla was going to get the boot a long time ago. she is getting better, but what took so long.
and i can tell by your last post that you really like your co-worker. yes pls talk to her, but don’t expect her to change overnight. good luck girlie!
poppabear she prolly thought that since you watch those games all the time you wouldn’t mind a lil bravo. ok, guess not
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this
Mak then I would want a straight yes or no…because if it is a no, then I need to hang up the phone and call someone who can give me a yes…lol.
I’m talking about established relationships here, not some random dude that’s just hitting it and can’t break away from his main, to come pick you up off of 285.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this
Good answer Melo, should have known better.
M’Karyl, she’s all aglow (lol). I can hear it in her voice.
WiseDiva, here’s a toast to you.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 3:48 PM | Link to this
Hibiscus - She don’t have no peepee!!LOL!! Seriously, long as baby is healthy, it’s all good!!
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 3:49 PM | Link to this
PoppaG Vick did what he was brought here to do, so like For Real said - we can’t blame him totally. That’s still on the management. Don’t get me started on the domino effect of boneheaded moves made around Vick. I NEVER thought they should have given him that huge contract because they didn’t have the $$$ to put the proper folks around him. We got rid of Reeves….yeah, I could go on and on. And why do you think Finneran and Alge could handle Vick’s passes but others couldn’t? There weren’t nearly as many drops during Vick’s first year as a starter. Was it the O-line, the playcalling, or Vick?
I think the common denominator in all of this was the front office and their boneheaded decisions.
By Cemeeli
February 12, 2009 3:50 PM | Link to this
nooo…Def Con, i’m not doubting your words. Bring it.
By Rell - $%&***!!!
February 12, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this
Vick was the common denominator
vick never had an offense geared for him…at 6 feet dude should have more shotgun sets like brett favre had in his slower years…like marino had..for some reason his coachs were hell bent on him under center….marino and favre set records out of the gun…another thing they gave him an offense that takes three years to learn…that does not work…look at jason campbell and jamarcus russell…give the dude plays he can run…look football is still football with all the tricks….you still cant stop the slant or dig route even if you know its coming….you cant stop the double post play ran to one side..safety either has to go high or low…during the vick years roddy white was not serious about football..he said so himself…he was not eating right or studying…so he is part to blame…its not all VICKS fault
and this whole dog thing…yea ok…SPCA still killing dogs…and lil ray and young nelson still fighting there pits they bought from jeb clampet…..fluckout of here
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 3:52 PM | Link to this
Good answer Melo, should have known better.
M’Karyl, she’s all aglow (lol). I can hear it in her voice.
WiseDiva, here’s a toast to you.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 3:54 PM | Link to this
Diva,the feeling is mutual!Whats so Diva about u anyway?If u posted ur lil pic by the side of ur blog name,there on the about wise diva page,that wld be wonderful.By the way,are u in on this Strokers thing..so many blog chics have confirmed their participation.Im told u rock some real hot,hot short pants and heels.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 12, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this
Cee you are on my list to meet. Some are on the list to mace.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this
@Blue Kolla
Me too…everybody is the same…if I need something and a person can not accommodate it, then fine…you can not expect someone to just drop everything at a dime…it can not always happen…regardless of the relationship…so, if I need to have a ride and it is not possible for him to be able to do it…then so be it…you have to work with what ppl can do…not what you want them to do…and sometimes that is the SO…let’s say that he was in the middle of an important meeting and he could not get away…then what…start acting like a co-dependent bish and through a tude…not let him handle his business and I will handle mine…and catch up with him later…grow up.
By Velonese
February 12, 2009 3:56 PM | Link to this
Balance between the two, inner and outer beauty. Self absorption makes me vomit, all these barbie dolls think they are owed something…. that’s way I don’t date american. Dating Amerikaner ist für die Hunde!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:03 PM | Link to this
@BK
FYI…here are some other examples for you to get the point…what if he is a firefighter in the middle of answering a call for a 3 alarm fire…or a doctor operating on a patient or delivering a baby…or a teacher in the middle of a class…then what???…what if the reason he can not come to your side immediately is that real life priorities make it impossible????…do you just sit by the side of the road and cry????
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 4:05 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl sounds like a plan. we can drink all night. guess I’ll roll through with an assortment of bottles.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 4:05 PM | Link to this
Velonese Genau, aber was fuer ein wahl haben wir?
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this
Jamocha you love of seedless fruit could be bad hoo-doo for attracting the Oscar Meyer weiners! LOL
Melo I think that was I typo. My bad! LOL
I am not bi nor gay so why would I come with 2 bi chicks?
Rell were you outside doing the kid & play right after you did the runnin’ man? LOL
Oh and I rocked my pigtails last night at my dance rehearsal with a colorful half top and bright earrings! But I will take a pic just for you next time! I love to have fun and I am so not a serious person. I mean I can focus and be serious when I need to be…but I love goofing off and doing things normal folks would not do! My “day after Thanksgiving day” routine for the past 10+ years is to wake up…blast Mariah Carey’s, “All I Want for Christmas” and dance liek a nut..I jump on my bed..I do silly dances, etc…it puts me in the Christmas spirit. Now tomorrow I can come to work as the Anti-Cupid. I am waiting to bust in cap in dat azz! I’m looking for a dude in a diaper! LOL
Some of ya’ll might be certifiable Oh Wise…so nice of you to mention me! LOL*
Keep it Real Now what does my booty have to do with this? It has done nothing to nobody!LOL
**
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this
No Jamoca we don’t know yet. We tried to see Monday but he would not cooperate by moving his leg and showing us his peepee.
LOL. Raqi that’s because “there is no bone-bone room!”” (said like Ray Gibson – Life)…. I mean there is no pee pee there to see. And little girls are taught at a young age to keep their legs closed, even for a sono. LMAO.
Kimmie I see you’re thinkin’ what I’ve been sayin’….
And Dreams you wrong, man. LOL I’m trying to behave, well…a little. snicka But nobody’s holding a person’s pic against them, but I think we can all agree, consistency is preferred. That’s all I was sayin’… just with more oil paint and watercolors. LOL
WD As a matter of fact, I was discharged from Charter earlier this morning, and I didn’t even miss one dose of my happy pills, but some are missing. You got any leads on who’s been in my stash? You’re kind of happy there ya’self. But all that to say, that was nice… you still mean tho’… j/p but n/r :-P
Blue Naaah…give anutha scenario, that’s not realistic. First thing out her mouth, is “Bay-bay, I’ve been in an accident or I got pulled ova,” talkin’ about: “I know ya’ waitin’ for me daddy, it won’t be long shawty, be patient, cuz I’m waitin’ for you, ridin’ dirty on 85, slow, takin’ it easy, I don’t want nothin’ to keep me from you.” I’m playing….
But really Blue come again, that’s a no brainer. And out of curiosity, where’s this going anyway?
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:08 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
I never blamed him totally.
The front office was not the common denominator. Blank bought the team after Vick was here. The Smith family got Reeves here. Vick’s first year was under the Reeves and the Smith family. Reeves wasn’t Blanks hire and eventually an owner is gonna want his own people.
He wasn’t the sole problem, but he was part of it. The QB touches the ball on every play. He got the glory went things went well, he gets the blame when things don’t. That comes with playing QB.
Alge and Vick came into the league (drafted in the same draft) together so that probably had knew a each other better. ( creating Chemistry) Finneran, too, was here longer and got to know Vick better (without the scrutiny & pressure that Peerless had).
I can’t fault him for taking that money. He couldn’t take what wasn’t offered.
The fact that Vick carried the team as much as he did speaks to his ability. You saw what he meant to that team when he broke is leg in 2004. But, he still had much to work on to be the dual threat QB that he really had potential to be. I hoped that he wouldn’t do like McNabb and stop running totally.
By lace
February 12, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this
Yall got it going on up in here today!
As for inner beauty it always out weight physical beauty all of the time for me. Now I’m not saying the a good looking man will not make me say whoa but when I get to know him 9 times out of 10 is attitude is not so beautiful he quickly become not so attractive to me.
BK Baby I’ve been in an accident blah blah blah* straight to the point no need for any chasers. LOL
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this
Mak …yawn
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 4:10 PM | Link to this
Kimmie he had one going in. His father gave him one. What happened to it?
sniff Who stole my baby’s peepee? OMG somebody took the baby’s peepee. They took the baby’s peepee. waaaaaaa
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:11 PM | Link to this
@Dreams
Yeah, but remember that I am still in the VA…might be on the road back to the ATL…but not until long after V-Day…but we can do a rain check and have a celebratory dinner when I return…I do not need any special reason to celebrate or to drink…lol…and I love to cook delicious meals…and that salmon in parchment is one of my favorites…and it actually is good for most seafood…shrimp, scallops, talapia…well rounded seafood cooking method that aromatically infuses the flavor into the food.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:15 PM | Link to this
Rell
its not all VICKS fault
I never said that it was all his fault. I said that he didn’t help himself. As QB, he gets the glory when things went well, and he gets the blame when they don’t. It is a fact of football. Those that can’t handle that, don’t need to play QB. It is a pressure filled position because they touch the ball just about every play.
As far as the dog stuff, he had the money to buy land in Mexico. he could have done it down there. It was legal there. I’m not even judging his playing with that.
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 4:16 PM | Link to this
Hibiscus - Please don’t cry!! You just may have to take that hibiscus outta your hair and put it in hers, that’s all!LOL!!!
I love hibiscus flowers, by the way. I have a bush that grows pink ones in my yard. I think I am going to get another that produces red flowers this year.
Tell you what, if baby is a girl, plant a hibiscus in her honor!
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 4:19 PM | Link to this
PoppaG I think the front office was the common denominator during the sucky years. For some reason, I believe that Reeves would have done much better with Vick. I think Vick respected Reeves, but I don’t have the inside track that you do.
I blame Blank - I know his heart was in the right place but his decision making sucked. His team gave Vick that big contract, got rid of Reeves and brought in Mora. I think Rich McKay is a great person, but I don’t think he has what it takes to run an organization.
Oh and let the record show - I am not a big Vick fan, not at all, but I think too much blame was placed on him when the team imploded and everyone looked at Blank as the victim. Blank made that bed. But I think he learned his lesson so I forgive him.
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this
blue what happened to calling ppl who can really help, then hittin’ your bf up later to let him know what went down and that you’re ok?
i like to take care of business first
dreams neva’mind.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 4:21 PM | Link to this
Hibiscus, what is wrong w/you…did you take your prenatal vitamins this morning. There was never a peepee. Wake up….can you hear me now!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:21 PM | Link to this
BK
Like Jamoca said…that is a no brainer…and it should have been right up your brainless alley…truly…real life is real life…get to the point and then get to the resolution…to much waste of words and time does not get what is needed done.
@Jamoca
Even in the womb…lmao…sure you right…and especially if it is Raqi’s daughter to be…mama gonna make sure she is brought up right and already in the know…lol…no doubt.
@Raqi
One way or the other, it will be a beautiful baby to behold…just don’t buy the gender based pampers yet…lol
By i'm swiss
February 12, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this
“I have a bush that grows pink ones…”
@kimmie — Funny, I always thought you had a pink one that grew bush. ;-) (I know, I know, that was bad — but I couldn’t resist)
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this
sniff Who stole my baby’s peepee? OMG somebody took the baby’s peepee. They took the baby’s peepee. waaaaaaa
May be a dingo ate his peepee, now making it a she-she. LOL
Btw, is your pooch showing yet? I think it’s too cute whenever I see a person in their first/second trimester.
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:24 PM | Link to this
Vick did what he was brought here to do
No he didn’t. I see no Vince Lombardi trophies here.
If he was just brought to sell tickets, then that was the wrong reason to bring him in. It is not fair to the fans. It is one the reasons that I have a hard time rooting for the Falcons. They have seemed to lack commitment to winning. He may have been brought here to sell tickets. But there are no championships. For that kind of money, there should have at least been one parade down Peachtree.
I am a native and that is a problem with many of our sports teams. In 1991, we had a freaking parade for the Braves PARTICIPATING in a World Series. They did NOT win. Who gets a parade for losing? ATL. We settle for less.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 4:25 PM | Link to this
Melo I think that was I typo. My bad! LOL Staceye
Smething dont wash.Ur outer beauty and typos,thats a no-no for ur perfect look.It speaks of the angst inside u and thats what happens when u dont have ventilation of ur natural veins and outlets.They are clogged and no physical exercise can substitute the PENIS.U need the wet spots lick moistened,probed by the thrombosis and let sme vitamins spit in there to round ur hips.Thats why we all need natural healing and a man will do that for u. Thats why i dont like condoms.They are so jerked up and phuckked up.All these beautiful but angry ladies are getting laid but its the condoms fault for leaving them so gung ho and still searching coz no sperm means no stress relief! Lets keep hope alive folks but the Rihannas aint making the solution any reachable coz of their slutness and contagiousness.Get tested and then if clear,do it RAW,i urge u…
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 4:26 PM | Link to this
Hibiscus, what is wrong w/you…did you take your prenatal vitamins this morning. There was never a peepee. Wake up….can you hear me now!
By i'm swiss
February 12, 2009 4:28 PM | Link to this
Just saw the following headline on CNN.com:
“Nude photo of Madonna goes for $37,500”
Um… Shouldn’t the supply far outweigh the demand in this case?
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 4:29 PM | Link to this
Swiss - Spanking your hand! After I wrote it I had a feeling someone would go there!LOL!!
By Hibiscus
February 12, 2009 4:29 PM | Link to this
kimmie that would actually be a good idea. Hibiscus is the symbol of beauty. I used it today because of the topic. Since this child’s name just may be Elizabeth (his mother, rolling my eyes) Adalyn (my mother) planting an hibiscus tree for her in their honor is a cool idea. Thanks.
Elizabeth Adalyn XYZ.
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 4:29 PM | Link to this
you love of seedless fruit could be bad hoo-doo for attracting the Oscar Meyer weiners! LOL
Well Staceye all he told me was he’s got that fiya, and to holla at a igga if I want that Oscar Meyer! LMAO!!! just playin’ just playin’ but my impersonation of him is down pat! lol
Mkaryl Heck yeah, you know Raqi is already chastising her, in the belly and all, just in case. LOL
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this
swiss, I too thought….never mind (lol) that one was too easy and way better if a man said it. Thanks!
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 4:33 PM | Link to this
There was never a peepee.
Auntie Leggs please tell her again. LOL
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:34 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
I have the same feeling that Reeves may have done better. There definitely was difference in respect. If you look back to his interviews…He called Reeves “Coach Reeves”, but he called Mora.. “Jim”. You’d never hear any of Parcells players call him “Bill”. Jim Mora didn’t demand respect, and it showed on the field. They made critical mistakes at critical times. Then, ultimately, the team quit on Mora after the University of Washington fiasco.
However, it doesn’t give Vick a free pass. He is a grown man.
QBs are looked to as leaders. He was a something that neither Marino nor Montana were,which was a number 1 pick. So, he was gonna get the pressure of being looked at as a leader. With that comes glory and blame. Is it fair? Of course not.
But life isn’t fair.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:34 PM | Link to this
i’m swiss
I with you on the Madonna photo…but ya never know…some ppl still live in the day…whatever day that may be…lol…and some fool and his (or her) money may soon be parted for the flashback thrill of it all…lol
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 4:34 PM | Link to this
* Blue* Hören Sie auf, Deutsch zu sprechen, und sprechen Sie Englisch! LOL
Raqi I put the roots on ya….it’s a girl! LOL
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this
swiss, I too thought….never mind (lol) that one was too easy and way better if a man said it. Thanks!
By kimmie
February 12, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this
Hibiscus - Lovely!!
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this
Mak You made a little crack, so I made a little crack. Notice how I let it ride though? It really ain’t that crucial.
And I wasn’t saying that chicks make a bunch of excuses, but that they often times run you through the details long before they get to the main point of a topic.
So if you need me to loosen up that bra-strap so them breasts can breath to help you loosen up, let me know. I’ll even throw a few hot rocks on your back.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 4:37 PM | Link to this
Funny, I always thought you had a pink one that grew bush. ;-)
i had a rude comment but im gonna be on kimmie’s good side today…….
By i'm swiss
February 12, 2009 4:38 PM | Link to this
@kimmie — You realize that spankings will only encourage me, right? ;-) LOL
By Tazzee
February 12, 2009 4:38 PM | Link to this
that kind of money came after he was brought here (boneheaded decision). All I’m saying is that Vick was drafted because he was a playmaker - mainly with his legs. He did that - he made plays out of no plays.
And I think part of the reason he got that big contract was to sell tickets. I’m sure Blank wanted a Lombardi too, but it was a fan sell - ‘we got Vick for 10 years!’ Folks flocked to buy those cheap tickets, LOL.
Yes, it’s the wrong reason. Similar to the Hawks promoting the fact that they had famous folks at the games when the team sucked to sell tickets. I wanted to go to the games to see a decent product on the court - not to see Luda in the front row.
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 4:40 PM | Link to this
Beautiful sweetie, what you “nevermindin” about? come whisper it.
M’Karyl Naw celebrating and drinkin’ can be done for no reason at all. I’m with you on that. Your parchment recipe sounds really good. You could also bake the salmon on cedar wood…great flavor. Ok I’m gettin hungry now.
Jamoca what what what did I say? lol I’m just saying, I gotta make sure I ask Staceye for a good professional photographer before I release my image the blog. lol
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this
Raqi
You don’t worry about them. You are a female so you can handle girl. You have raised boys and you husband was one once so y’all got that covered as well.
Now, cut that baby talk. My dad just called me on my cell and told me that he dreamed (he works 3rd shift, so he is just waking up) that my wife had twin girls. I hung up on him.
Y’all bringing baby vibes around. Cut it out!!
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this
@BK
Oh that is way true…they do…which is why my response was a stright to the point one…details not needed…and when ppl (yes this means a lot, but not all women) need to emotionalize the situation to get to the issue…it waste too much time…what is the point and what needs to be done…the details can be discussed later…by the same token, I do not like when I have to provide unnecessary details to get to an answer…boo-hoo-hoo and blah-blah-blah…make you wanna tell somebody to shut up.
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 4:45 PM | Link to this
Staceye Du kannst mich, dein Fuhrer rufen oder Herr Internationale.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:46 PM | Link to this
Dreams
Oh cedarwood…that sound yumlish…what do you do…how do you buy cedarwood to cook with it???…it is like a block of wood or chips??…sounds like something new to try…I can just imagine the aromatic flavors infused into the salmon…oh well, let me go eat my pudding…lol
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 4:51 PM | Link to this
dreams i’m just being observant. that’s all.
ok, so i’m the only one with valentine day plans. that’s sad you guys
finally on topic my ex is not attractive at all, but once i got to know him, talk to him, sex him … he was the sexiest man i knew.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:51 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl now laughing at Poppa…and it may mean a real Poppa…lol
@PG
Now, don’t be gettin’ a skaired…lol
By Blue_Kolla
February 12, 2009 4:51 PM | Link to this
Mak Although you tried to get funky with it at first, I’m gon’ have to co-sign that 4:43 because that is EXACTLY the point that I was trying to make.
By MELO
February 12, 2009 4:55 PM | Link to this
ok, so i’m the only one with valentine day plans. that’s sad you guys NOPE,u need reading glasses…
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:55 PM | Link to this
Tazzee
Yes, its the wrong reason. Well, that is why I’ve had a hard time rooting for the local franchises. I don’t want to see them do poorly. However, they haven’t shown me a thing. I’m kinda like Kym in that regard.
If you win championships, surprise, selling tickets becomes so much easier. Ask Tampa how much easier it was to sell tickets after a championship.
The Hawks promoted other players because they didn’t have anything better to promote. That playoff guarantee didn’t work, either.
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this
Y’all bringing baby vibes around. Cut it out!!
Usually, one begins to worry when one of the old heads or someone close to you, tells you they dreamnt about fish. Then I’d worry.
Then again, nothing getting in there, so nothing’s coming out…whew!
Blue and Staceye while you two are going around chanting, ya’ll may wanna sprinkle some gooey dust, and wave the chicken feet over PoppaG’s way, we’ve got Raqi covered.
Dreams Just tell the blog you look like Urkel, and then turn around post a picture that upgrades you to Stephan. LOL Your inner beauty already sets you apart, so surprise ‘em with the outter beauty. They’ll be relieved and overjoyed. hahahaaa… but yeah, you thought you were slick with that one.
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone!
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache (Don’t know who said this, it wasn’t I). Meaning don’t get caught up with the outer beauty cuz it can quickly knock you on your arse.
Ladies, skip to your car today…you’re never too old to skip (LOL).
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 4:57 PM | Link to this
M’Karyl you can buy the wood for baking in stores. it’s a block. some pizza places use it for wood-fired flavor. The best thing is that the more you use it the more “seasoned” it becomes.
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:58 PM | Link to this
@BK
Duh…sugah…I knew that…lol…you just being you…lol
By Wise Diva
February 12, 2009 4:59 PM | Link to this
not dying and no near death experiences, can’t a gal show a softer side for a change! Geez, LOL @ Jamoca, I know I can be mean, you guys have to put up with me though! Good intentions, always, ok most of the time :)
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 4:59 PM | Link to this
Ciao peeps…ttyl
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 4:59 PM | Link to this
MK
I ain’t Skeered.
But he is the third person in three days to tell me that twin girl thing.
But I may have to get the trojans, just in case.
Let me counter-chant:
Beetlejuice Beetlejuice Beetlejuice Beetlejiuce
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 12, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this
Melo You are a perv! LOL
Blue Sie sind so scheublich! LOL
Poppa I am putting roots on your an the wife too…un bebe por ti! LOL
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this
Although you tried to get funky with it at first, I’m gon’ have to co-sign that 4:43 because that is EXACTLY the point that I was trying to make.
Blue But notice how (ironically) you, yourself went through all of the blah, blah, blah…instead clearly getting to the bottom of the reason for your question/scenario.
…you know I had to point that out. LOL messin’ witcha, but I meant it. ;-P
By Leggs
February 12, 2009 5:02 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone!
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache (Don’t know who said this, it wasn’t I). Meaning don’t get caught up with the outer beauty cuz it can quickly knock you on your arse.
Ladies, skip to your car today…you’re never too old to skip (LOL).
By M'Karyl
February 12, 2009 5:07 PM | Link to this
@PG
YOu may be riding them horse too late…lol…and it comes in 3’s
By DreamsMaterialize
February 12, 2009 5:10 PM | Link to this
Beautiful Ok, so what have you observed? And I do have plans, they just don’t include mention of v-day. lol enjoy yours though.
Jamocha Yeah now you tryna be slick. Tryna hype me up with the whole Erkel/Stephan sh_t. lol I feel where you’re coming from though. Set up real low expectations. ‘ppreciate the inner beauty comment though. you tryna game me? ;-)
By Poppa Grande
February 12, 2009 5:12 PM | Link to this
Staceye
I am rubber your glue whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you!!
NO queiro un bebe.!
By Jamoca
February 12, 2009 5:26 PM | Link to this
Not beetlejuice! lol
LOL @ Jamoca, I know I can be mean, you guys have to put up with me though! Good intentions, always, ok most of the time :)
WD, well you could be overthrown and we could all have a blog moderator impeachment in this piece. LOL … (now sounding like, WD)we don’t like banning people! Next, we’ll have you looking up ABC’s addy, just to give you pointers on how to circumvent… I’m so bad. ;-)
you tryna game me? ;-)
See Dreams ^^^ keyword: badddd guh’! Oh, heyal, just a happy balance, with a little bit of both. How’s that? And game? My response: Life is a game, play it…to win, of course. Now you might wanna deplane… LOL j/k
By Beautiful
February 12, 2009 5:32 PM | Link to this
sorry melo. i’ve been skippin’ posts all day.
By anonymousella
February 13, 2009 8:36 AM | Link to this
day late and $1 short … of course it counts. in fact, this is current situation. my sweetie is not someone i would have given a second look — physically speaking.
but he has inner beauty in spades. i respected and loved him before we crossed over from friends to, uh, “special friends.” but if he wasn’t who he is on the inside, i would not be with him right now.