Misadventures in Atlanta

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 8:39 AM | Link to this

Morning I’m a really laid back guy. It takes a WHOLE lot to push me to the limit. On the flip side, I’ve seen chicks completely lose it in a moment’s notice. I’ll usually throw up the deuces at that point. How was everyone’s weekend?

By MissQC

February 9, 2009 8:55 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers It takes a helluva lot to get upset and p** me off to where i can’t take it anymore. I’ve never been known to have a temper…I’m the nicest, sweetest person you’ll ever meet in your life Have a great day everyone

www.blackthen.com

By Page1908

February 9, 2009 9:12 AM | Link to this

I don’t have a temper, I am pretty soft-spoken. I also don’t like when people yell or raise their voice at me. I guess I am just sensitive in that way.

The Grammy’s were actually pretty good. I have two aunts who sing back up for Neil Diamond and their performance was great. I hope everything works out for Chris Brown and Rihanna.

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 9, 2009 9:12 AM | Link to this

Morning folks, it’s promising to be a great day outside!!

Off Topic: Are the Grammy’s getting worse and worse every year or what?

On Topic: If a guy goes spaz on me he can expect to get it back and in a much bigger dose. It’s just so uncalled for and it would reveal to me alot about his character. I’ve never, ever had that to happen, so clearly I don’t antagonize that type of behavior. It would be more than clear that he has some issues and would need to kick rocks.

Domestic abuse is ABSOLUTELY NOT cool under any circumstances. You should be able to control yourself better even if you can’t do anything about the situation.

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 9:18 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

Hello all!

Yeah I got a text saying that Rihanna gave Chris Brown an STD. Not sure how true that is…lol

By NY2GA, Inc.

February 9, 2009 9:23 AM | Link to this

Do you have a temper? Yes, I do.

If so, how does that impact your dating? Do you warn the people you are seeing about it?

No, it doesn’t impact my dating. If asked, I do tell folks that I have a temper that you don’t want to see. But, you really have to push me to the breaking point in order to see Ms. Hyde. I also offer them a verbal warning. I’ll even count to 10 before I turn colors and break out of my clothes.

By Storm

February 9, 2009 9:23 AM | Link to this

*Bit-O-Hunny * First you say…..”If a guy goes spaz on me he can expect to get it back and in a much bigger dose. It’s just so uncalled for and it would reveal to me alot about his character.”

then, you said “Domestic abuse is ABSOLUTELY NOT cool under any circumstances. You should be able to control yourself better even if you can’t do anything about the situation.”

You can’t have it both ways. If you return the “spaz” you are as guilty as the person who “spazed” on you. You are talking out of both sides of your mouth.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 9:24 AM | Link to this

Bit Today is supposed to be in the 70’s. Perfect day to meet someone new. Man, I’m looking forward to going out to lunch today. lol

By MELO

February 9, 2009 9:27 AM | Link to this

If u get herpes from said person as we hear Chris may have,losing ur cool is more than warranted! Its justified.There is nothing as dangerous as suppressing human feelings because the day that anger explodes due to inadequate space inside,the consequences may be too ghastly to contemplate.I dont mind u losing ur cool.It shows u are human.What u do after u lose ur cool is whats more important.

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 9, 2009 9:32 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Okay first off I could care less about Chris Brown, but I would like to ask how do you know its Rihanna, last report I read the victim was not identified..because of domestic violence laws.

I don’t have a temper but my threshold for bs is pretty low. And I notice and was told recently I have a habit of tuning people out or being dismissive. It is nothing personal but time is valuable and I don’t really want to spend precious amounts of it wading through crap. I am going to call this “power” my bs filter. Anywhoo..It takes alot to push me high and to the left..but when I do go there normally all contact is dropped. Now if I am stressed out I try to vent it out as much as possible so that I can get the stress monkey off of my back. Normally I do that with friends and family but even that I am limiting and learning to channel that energy somewhere else. No one wants to be a garbage can for other’s trash.

By abc

February 9, 2009 9:33 AM | Link to this

There is no excuse for an assault, whether or not the chick gave him a dose of whatever. He could be more discriminating about where he puts it.

Chicks that have acted out in extreme ways on me in the past have gotten dumped. I don’t have a lot of patience for that kind of attitude. They come on with the headstrong, fierce independence as an excuse to be a beeyotch. Some even dare to hit, knowing full well I’d not fight back — any man that strikes a woman is not a man. Period.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 9:34 AM | Link to this

http://www.eqi.org/eabuse1.htm

There is a vast difference between a personality that is prone to highly negative behaviors in a relationship as a regular pattern of emotional expression vs. a highly stressed moment of loosing it under such duress…as with all things, communicative interaction is key to understanding where anyone is at any given point in time.

I posted the above link because the subject of emotional abuse was posted as a facebook note and it encouraged a wide variety of dialogue from many different ppl…I thought that is might be of interest along with today’s topic because it really can be enlightening to understand how this form of abuse behaves and when it is present…something to think about.

By The Truth

February 9, 2009 9:35 AM | Link to this

I have a temper and I tell any chick I deal with that I do. If she tries me this tells me either she doesn’t believe me, she thinks she’s exempt or she thinks her nuts are bigger than mine. The last two are false assumptions.

I MUST have the soft hearted type woman that would rather laugh and talk than argue, like last gf. It costs to much to date a chick with alot of lip.

By MELO

February 9, 2009 9:41 AM | Link to this

Chicks that have acted out in extreme ways on me in the past have gotten dumped

dumping them is not adequate reward! If somebody strikes u,strike them back and harder as a deterrent.They wont need to resort to that after that ish is settled.A man gotta make a stand and defend themselves.But striking a woman 1st wld be deplorable.I wld not do it.

By M.

February 9, 2009 9:42 AM | Link to this

I am definately a humble and laid back person. I prefer not to raise my voice or argue and I expect the same in return. So I have no temper. We are all adults, so we can discuss things in a orderly fashion. The thing that is unfortunate is that guys usually get the bad rap for the domestic violence, but there are some women out here that take on the role of the abusers also.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 9:45 AM | Link to this

Good morning. I have a temper, but it takes a lot to bring it full boil. I have a low tolerance for BS, but I try to remain drama free. I’m not the type of person to make scenes in public.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 9:50 AM | Link to this

Good morning. I have a temper, but it takes a lot to bring it full boil. I have a low tolerance for BS, but I try to remain drama free. I’m not the type of person to make scenes in public.

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 9:53 AM | Link to this

Good morning, all

Unfortunately, I am not surprised about this at all. Everybody has the basic human fight or flight response to stress. The human body does not like stress and generally will do what is necessary (either fight or leave the situation) to relieve itself of the stress. Being in the legal world, I get daily reminders that there is a dark side in everyone.

Kym

The last few articles have named Rihanna in them, including E online. I questioned the identity thing, too. Now, I have about 5 million copies of the E online article in my box. It was the same article that was read on the Steve Harvey show today. You know journalist don’t care about the law or respecting an alleged victim or suspect until you ask them to reveal their sources. Then, they are quick to throw out first amendment rights and others.

On topic

I have a horrible temper. As a football player, it was useful. Football is a violent sport.

As far as the real world, I have one iron clad rule that applied to everyone including my wife. That rule is as follows: If you have an issue, don’t come screaming and yelling to me. Most of the females before the wife, violated that rule multiple times. The wife has only done it once in over 10 years. I never hit any female, but I calmly get my keys, my hat, and got to stepping. Even with the wife, I left and went bowling at the alley in the Monroe Drive area.

Then we talked afterwards. It is better that I leave than chop her in the throat.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 10:08 AM | Link to this

I know that I have a temper that once riled it not a nice piece of work…hence, then nickname Tasmanian Devil…lol…but it is a slow burning fuse…I will make all necessary attempts to verbally communicate my concerns with as much rational articulation as possible… and if I have been quite transparent with another person about whatever issue could cause me to snap into a behavioral malfunction, then I expect a mutually abiding nondisrespect concerning those areas…as I would allow to be given as well to another person…but I have learned that if all of my attempts to address any of these areas is dismissed, challenged, coerced…then see ya…no need to feed from the that well of potential aggravation…in the end, what I have also learned in life is how it is my responsibility to define and then maintain the boundaries that push, cross or impose upon that certain threshold that could rile my anger.

By Sugar

February 9, 2009 10:08 AM | Link to this

Having a temper is fine; loosing your temper is fine. However, you lay ONE hand on me, and that will be the LAST time you see me!!!!!! I have numerous family members in law enforcement, so you best be careful with this lady.

I will not tolerate it at all. I don’t deserve it, and no one should hit another person, animal, etc. at all. There is absolutely NO reason to hit another person, NONE, ZIP, NIL, NADA. There are other ways to deal with your anger or whatever.

If you feel the need to hit someone, hit yourself.

By laceitup

February 9, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this

Good morning, Truth somehow I just knew you were going to say that LOL

As for losing my cool, I’ve lost it before and I’ll prolly lose it again. I had to take anger management class to learn to get a grip and not take it there even when I’m provoked. Nowadays I walk away even when the bs gets thick evaluate the situation and take a different reasonable approach.

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 10:11 AM | Link to this

Morning!

I don’t have a temper problem, all that fussin and fightin, without a good return, aint worth a “hill-o-beans”. I just don’t get the point in being barbaric with folks. Forget the DRAMA, just let ‘em kick rocks…

By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut

February 9, 2009 10:12 AM | Link to this

Thought for the Day - No one expects more from me than I expect from myself. ~ Michael Jordan

That being said…Miss Sophia said that the fight was about him accusing her of giving him herpes…and a couple of weeks back YBF.com was showing pictures of her with a suspect bump on her lip….

and actually on topic…i’ve a had ex try to kill me…it was not a pretty scene…because of that night…i know that i have angels watching over me….GOD IS REAL…

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 10:12 AM | Link to this

no, I know, I stated that he was arrested for assaulting a female, then I said accused when referring to Rhianna, i.e. media reports, and speculation.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 10:18 AM | Link to this

@PG

Yepper…that is the best way to deal…I am not the get in your face screaming drama queen…if I have an ish, then I will present it in a proper, nondefensive context…if the response is inadequate…I get my things and I leave…and if it is my space, then I give them their things and tell them to leave…I do not like to argue, as I see arguing as a control issue…who has control and such…and that does not resolve the issues at hand…I believe in peace by any means necessary…peace of presence, peace of silence or peace of absence…lol…whatever it takes as long as it is PEACE!!!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 10:20 AM | Link to this

@WD

I saw several media reports that stated it was Rhianna too…still do not know all of the details…ain’t putting no food on my table…lol

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 10:20 AM | Link to this

Hey M’Karyl…the kid has a temper and I don’t know how/what gets him to those pressure points (I’ve only seen it come to full fruition once)…When you mentioned, that when someone dismiss/challenges you to a ill-mannered behavior, it reminded me of the time the kid punch a lil boy in the eye at school and he found no fowl nor harm in doing it. Once he pleaded is case/reason for doing it he looks at you as if “yea I did it”.

By kimmie

February 9, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog Gang Hope everyone had a good weekend. It certainly was beautiful.

I have a half sister who is about 14 years older than me. She had a boyfriend/baby daddy that abused her the entire 20 years they “dated”. He even hit her in the mouth a few days after she gave birth. Dad told him he was not welcome in our home. Growing up seeing that I vowed never to allow someone to treat me that way.

My first serious boyfriend used to see just how far he could push me with the psychological abuse. I was young green and easy-going and put up with far more than I should have. One day he decided to try getting physical. Thats when he got a side of me he did not bank on. We were in a hotel room arguing about something. He grabbed my upper arm and jerked me hard. I went balistic. He had to push me off of him because I was hitting him for all I was worth. I then sat down, took a deep breath and picked up one of my shoes and went at it again on him. He looked genuinely surprised and scared of me and told me I was a crazy b——! But he never laid a hand on me again.

I am an extremely calm person, in fact I think I hold my emotions in a little to much. I am working on speaking up better and getting out my feelings. But I don’t go around picking fights and hitting on people. I don’t provoke dudes. I’ve cussed a few out pretty good but that was after they had pushed me to that point. I am certainly not an angel or perfect and I’m sure I may have made a few mad, in fact I know I have. Never did anything to the point where they should have felt they had to hit me. Abuse of any kind will not be tolerated. If you’ve got a temper, you need to control it around me & mine or you will not be welcome in our presense.

By laceitup

February 9, 2009 10:23 AM | Link to this

I watch the show Snapped and it shows that anyone of us are liable to “snap” at any given moment.

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 10:25 AM | Link to this

MK

My boyz and I have one yearly resolution. To stay out of jail. So far so good. Arguing isn’t helpful towards that goal.

I learned a long time ago that it takes two to have an argument. I don’t have to participate.

By Anna mae aka Tina Turner

February 9, 2009 10:26 AM | Link to this

Good morning IKE

eat da cake anna mae

I don’t have a temper but I’ve had my head knocked in a few times by my late departed husband, Ike Turner.

By laceitup

February 9, 2009 10:26 AM | Link to this

Dad told him he was not welcome in our home. but was he welcome to his his dughter? @ Kimmie please tell me your dad did not condone this man hitting his daughter?

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 9, 2009 10:33 AM | Link to this

Storm to clarify, someone beating the shyt out of you versus someone nutting up are too completely different things. If you can’t see nor understand that, your bad.

By MELO

February 9, 2009 10:35 AM | Link to this

She had a boyfriend/baby daddy that abused her the entire 20 years they “dated” Iam not going to be the first to change the subject.LOL..but dating for 20 years??

By kimmie

February 9, 2009 10:36 AM | Link to this

laceitup - No, in fact he had to be kept from killing him. She could not bring him over to the house, but he could not stop her from seeing her once she moved out. And she had met him in college, where she stayed on campus. She got her own place soon after graduating.

My dad was a kind, gentle man, but you did not want to encounter his wrath.

By Bit-O-Hunny

February 9, 2009 10:37 AM | Link to this

Dreams I think I may walk down to Centennial park and have lunch. It’ll just be hard coming back to work.

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 9, 2009 10:38 AM | Link to this

kimmie Sad about your sister..but I know women who have stayed in abusive relationships like that and all you really can do is shake your head. Its that graveyard love..and frankly its stronger than anything I have seen. I have had friends who have called when they had the tar beat out of them and when you mention breaking up they get mad and want to fight you. The idea of leaving is something that they are not ready to deal with at the time and no amount of begging, hand-holding will help. Heck we have all seen the show cops where the po-po is dragging off Billy Ray after he just whipped Lola’s tail and she is fighting the po-po’s screaming “Don’t take my man.”

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 10:39 AM | Link to this

Melo I am with you on that! 20 years of dating…after year 4 I am outtie 5000…Thats alot of time to waste.

By laceitup

February 9, 2009 10:39 AM | Link to this

Melo maybe they were trying to make the guinness book of world records.

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 10:41 AM | Link to this

do i have a temper? only when it’s warranted. that last time i had one was when i had to tell the boys three times to do something an hour ago.

in a relationship … i can’t remember.

i’ve had tons of disagreements with folks, but those were soft spoken. i’m referring to my real life.

laceitup we’re human. when it’s my turn to snap, it will be for a good reason. trust me. i won’t mind sitting behind bars protecting mines.

morning wise, stormy, cee!

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this

yea, 20 yrs is a long time.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this

@PG

Right on brutha mayne…it is so true, it takes 2 ppl to argue…now, as long as my back is not forced against a wall…and I have several directional options to move in, then I am gone…stick a fork in it…lol.

@Cee

Well, ppl have predisposed patterns of tempermental behavior…the development of them are greatly influenced by the type of environments and experiences within those environments…this is why I have learned to articulate my boundaries with regard to issue that could engage me in a behavior malfunction…that is my first defense to control a potential conflict of interest…next, I will establish physical boundaries if disengagement, etc…there is a series of things that I will do to eliminate the aggravation…but if all else fails…lol…Taz is loose like a crazy goose…truly.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this

No More Abuse Ok, Monday is already the day with the highest suicide rate. So, can we not talk about abuse today, especially with it being so beautiful outside. Good weather is like a natural aphrodisiac. So no more beating today, unless it’s the good kind. lol

By The Truth

February 9, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this

For those that say no person should be struck you need to get your head out your azz. There are plenty of times that nothing less than a severe azz wupping is in order.

ABC if you let a chick hit you you are the true definition of a puzzy. Thats the stupidest shyt I’ve ever heard. Sometimes being highminded is just plain cowardly.

Here’s the rule. When in a hostile enviroment either leave or react with hostility. Thing is if a chick makes you swallow your nuts dont come back because she is going to wear your azz out daily for being a punk.

By kimmie

February 9, 2009 10:46 AM | Link to this

Kym - Yes, you SO get it! That is exactly what I’m talking about! And once someone is grown and out of the house, it really is not much a parent, or anyone can do.

Melo - Read Kym’s 10:38. That’s what I’m talking about. We’re not talking rational thinking here. There was nothing nobody could tell my sister. And you talking educated, pretty(my sister does not have to wear a stitch of makeup to this day!). The self-esteem talks and training from the family seemed lost on her though. Luckily she got it together and my niece is a beautiful smart blessing out of it, but 20 years GONE!

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 10:47 AM | Link to this

and when you mention breaking up they get mad and want to fight you

my older sis calls me to complain about her man, but when i give a resolution … she’s on his side. wth!

By MELO

February 9, 2009 10:58 AM | Link to this

Kimmie,i gotcha.Aint that sad?

By ATLborn

February 9, 2009 10:59 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

Sup Wise! Good topic.

I hope Chris Brown didn’t whup up on Rihanna or any other chick cuz not only do I believe hitting a woman is wrong but it probably would ruin his career. Being that he’s marketed as a teen idol to young girls. That goes down the toilet if he’s beat a chick down.

I don’t believe in hitting a woman. Any real man should be able to defend himself from the average chick trying to hit him. Now if you dating a much above average chick, that’s taller, bigger and stronger than you and she’s dropping b’s on u then yeah I can see a dude laying hands on her to defend himself. Or if any chick got a knife or some other dangerous weapon and is coming at you then you gotta do what you gotta do to defend yourself.

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 11:08 AM | Link to this

good morning america is going to talk about that fool with 14 kids (her mom is speaking) and chris brown. gonna be good!

By Rell - whop dat trick

February 9, 2009 11:09 AM | Link to this

i dont believe chris hit that chick..the media can run with some stories…and herpes..come on…sounds too good to be true

i am like 50 cent i need that on tape…lol

and i am not hitting a chick..but i will choke her till her tongue rolls

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 11:10 AM | Link to this

The issues of violent behaviors can go both ways…there are just as many ppl who will engage in behaviors to intentionally push a person’s buttons to anger as well…I have experienced this with ppl too…some ppl will go out of his/her way to make another person angry…and then when the situation has escalated to the point of behavior malfunctions as a recourse, then the person want to say “All I said was…All I did was…and then they just got angry”…I can not and will not deal with ppl of that ilk…including family…my dislike for that type of behavior allows for a zero tolerance of it…instigate your own arse whuppin or cursin…and then act as if you did nothing wrong…hey-ale to the naw!!!

By The Truth

February 9, 2009 11:13 AM | Link to this

Kimmie your sister sounds like alot of chicks that wont be with a dude unless he tears that azz up. Had a neighbor like that growing up. She knew if she said certain things to that dude he’d go off. sure nuff she said them about once a month and he would beat that chick mercilessly. Next month same thing. My mom and I watched it happen time and again. Moms told me some women just need that reminder.

Dreams the weather was nice all weekend. I may take head downtown myself.

ABC I had to reread your post again to make sure I wasn’t being to harsh. I wasnt. That is repulsive. Don’t go to jail, you’re gonna get passed around like old linen.

Humans have a natural desire to protect themselves. What the fugg are you?

A morning joke to lighten the mood.

A little old Jewish man is walking down the street one afternoon when he sees a woman with perfect breasts.

He says to her, ‘Hey miss, would you let me bite your breasts for $100?’ ‘Are you nuts?!!!’ she replies, and keeps walking away. He turns around, runs around the block and gets to the corner before she does.

‘Would you let me bite your breasts for $1,000 dollars?’ he asks again.

‘Listen you; I’m not that kind of woman! Got it?’

So the little old Jewish man runs around the next block and faces her again:

‘Would you let me bite your breasts just once for $10,000 dollars?’

She thinks about it for a while and says, ‘Hmmm, $10,000 dollars; Ok, just once, but not here. Let’s go to that dark alley over there.’

So they go into the alley, where she takes off her blouse to reveal the most perfect breasts in the world. As soon as he sees them, he grabs them and starts caressing them, fondling them slowly, kissing them, licking them, burying his face in them, but not biting them.

The woman finally gets annoyed and asks, ‘Well? Are you gonna bite them or not?’

‘Nah’, says the little old Jewish man… ‘Costs too much…’

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 11:14 AM | Link to this

Angie

The octuplet’s mother was on the Today this morning and I must say that she is an order of fries short of a Happy Meal.

She is living in one of her mother’s houses. Her mothers supports the previous six kids.

She paid for the embryos from disability check, and she is not working.

She claims that since she was an only child, she always felt a part of her was missing. Therefore, she wanted a huge family….

By MELO

February 9, 2009 11:19 AM | Link to this

Rell, i kinda think Chris was a lil brazen,dating that chic.If u are going to date funtassia or Rihanna,expect to get some bonus luving coz those chics dont really look right. And did uall see Sherryl crow on the red cpet.I thoght she showed a lot of mileadge,and not musically. What of Eric Bennet??Now thats my dawg.He was looking fly and popped in with 2 honies on his 2 sides.If my imagination serves me right,as it usually does,I knw he represented well,back at the hotel suite..Halle must have gotten moist.. Jimmmy Jam is the maaaan too.

By kimmie

February 9, 2009 11:25 AM | Link to this

M’karyl- Concerning your 11:10 - I agree. No need to provoke someone, that mess is not cute.

Truth - I would not say she needs someone to beat her, though I have known of women like that. Some think the dude does not love them if they don’t hit them, go figure! I don’t know about the provoking in her case, though even with that you need to walk away if someone sets you off that bad. I do know that dude is an older guy who was divorced, according to his ex wife he abused her too.

By laceitup

February 9, 2009 11:25 AM | Link to this

PG Angie I’m following that story and it baffles me how a single mother of 6 children would want to willingly bring in another child less more 8 into a situation where there is no husband, ample income, mental and emotional stability and the conditions of the house is filthy.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 11:28 AM | Link to this

@PG

Yo, that chick ain’t wrap too tight…real loose of rational reasoning and common sense…some real void issues there…but it is the children that I feel sorry for having been conceived and then born into that situation…that is a list of 14 potentially, and highly probable, societal concerns about ready to happen…macadamia, hazelnut, brazilian, cashew…anyway you call it…that chick is nuts.

By i'm swiss

February 9, 2009 11:28 AM | Link to this

“She claims that since she was an only child, she always felt a part of her was missing. Therefore, she wanted a huge family….”

@PG — I’m assuming the missing part was her d@mn brain. What a loser. All in favor of a hysterectomy for this nut-case, say ‘aye.’

By Stormy

February 9, 2009 11:32 AM | Link to this

Morning All

I consider myself to be calm and laid back. I don’t like drama, controversy, BS or craziness. I don’t argue, scream or yell. If you come at me with drama/craziness/yelling/screaming, etc….you gets the blank stare.

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 11:34 AM | Link to this

hello poppabear!

ppl don’t know it, but if i was triflin’ i could do the same as her.

i have a mother who will do anything for me. anything. if i didn’t want to work or feed my boys, she would. i can pimp her out of ALL HER MONEY if i wanted to.

i believe that because she is that way and i’m a caring person, i can’t stoop that low. my boys try her and take advantage of her every chance they get. when i find out … i betta not find out!

that mother is just done. like someone said above, stick a fork in it. mothers today do too much in my opinion. my boys are aware of what is expected of them at certain ages. no exceptions, no excuses. i’m not supporting you. you can call mom for advice. use it as you see fit.

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this

I really haven’t been following the story, but she was on the Today show (and the cameras went to the hospital and showed the babies). When asked how she would take care of the kids, she answer “the best that I can”. That was it.

MK

I imagine that society will have to pick up the medical bills. Two weeks (& counting) of hospital stay for eight babies. Specialized care at that. I guess that California has some kind of medicare for kids like Georgia’s Peachcare.

By laceitup

February 9, 2009 11:39 AM | Link to this

i’m a swiss you can clearly see there are some mental issues going on with her.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 9, 2009 11:47 AM | Link to this

Now I know I have a serious temper and I have worked through the years to control it and I have. But I have never hit a guy I was with. I one try with me when I was 16..and I do not think he can make babies today and I think he still has a phobia of pencils. There is NO EXCUSE for a man to put his hands on a woman and vice versa. But more so…a man that hits a woman is a punk.However…if that woman is hitting him and he has not touched her…knock her azz out just like a dude. If she is bucking on you then she had better have means to back it up! But for a man to just hit a woman because he feels it is ok or justified without the threat of physical harm to himself is a dude who shoudl be put in jail with Lifers who will make a b*tch out of him!

Now these dumb chicks who stay with a man who beats them deserves it. You are a grown woman and you make your own decisions. the first tiem it happens, I sympathize….as long as you leave him. But if you go back he knows he can do it againa dn will do so. So don’t expect sympathy for me. But I can’t stand the wimpy ones who claim, “oh but I love him”! Wake up dumb azz…he DOES NOT love you if he hurts you. It’s ok to love him but have some self respect and pride enough to love yourself more and leave that loser! That is just as bad as taking back a dude who cheats on you and then wonders why he continues to do so. Hello dummy…he knows what you will allow him to do know. So when you find out you got an STD blame yourself for staying wiith a man you know has no problem wiht cheating on you! No sympathy for the weak…in mind, body or spirit!

Blow Me You are a a M.I.A fan too? I have loved her since like 2005. I belly dance or Bhangra dance to a lot of her music. dShe is just now geting her props because Jim Jones & T.I sampled her song Paper Planes.

By i'm swiss

February 9, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this

That story (the breeder, the bottomless puzzy, whatever you want to call her) just pizzes me off to no end. I feel really sorry for the kids, but that mother is clearly a sociopath. That is quite possibly the most selfish thing I’ve ever heard of in my life.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 11:53 AM | Link to this

@PG

No doubt that the cost for the NICU will be forwarded on to the state…I read that she had just completed a BA in Early and Adolescent Development in 2K6 and that she was working towards her Master’s at the time that she decided to conceive…it seems that her remaining embryos were at the limit where they needed to be used or destroyed…she did not want to destroy them, so she decided to use in vitro again with this last batch of embryos…and as chance would have it, all of them took…she had the option, as was recommended by her doctor and her mother, to abort some of the embryo/fetuses…but she refused to do so…insisting on carrying all of the fertilizd eggs to term…and what also is not sitting well with me is how the doctor who performed the procedure is not being held under high scrutiny for questionable violation of ethical practices…WTF…it is not the physician’s job nor responsibility to dictate what a otherwise physically heathly and able woman should do with her body…the accountability for the decisions are not incumbent on the health care professional who provided the services for in vitro…and whatever issues of risk became evident, it seemed to be addressed when it was highly recommended that she abort some of the fertilized eggs…and she choose not to do so.

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 11:53 AM | Link to this

Now these dumb chicks who stay with a man who beats them deserves it.

stac i don’t feel sorry for them. i refuse!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this

@i’m swiss

Yes indeed, her actions are purely selfish and without concern for the consequences to the well-being of the children…ME!!ME!!!ME!!!

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this

Suisse

I totally agree that it is most selfish thing that I’ve ever heard of in my life.

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this

Staceye I do like her ole prego butt lol. I was actually meaning M.I.A as in this blog. lmao!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 12:03 PM | Link to this

Oops…I meant to type “now being” instead of “not”

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 12:06 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl Thank you for sharing that link

By ATLborn

February 9, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

That chick with the 8 octupulets is a certifiable nut! Already have six kids, no job nor prospects for one, no apparent desire to get one, no husband/boyfriend to help in supporting and rearing the kids and she’s freeloading off of her momma.

U can bet the state is going have to take care of her and those kids. He’ll they’ll probably have to give her at least 2 grand a month in foodstamps alone with that team she has. They state oughta require her to get monthly mental evaluations.
I’m not for a socialist state but the gub need to be able to step in and order procedures for nuts like her not to be able to have any more kids.

By abc

February 9, 2009 12:09 PM | Link to this

Maybe my last post was removed or something? No problem… but, AJC, how about doing something about this crap code you call blogs, and overall server performance? This gets ridiculous!

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 12:10 PM | Link to this

Suisse

All in favor of a hysterectomy for this nut-case, say ‘aye.’

Well, the damage is done.

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 9, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

Poppa and Swiss Apparently the daddy for all 14 is this one guy. He is the sperm donor for all the children. I don’t think she is a sociopath..under the correct defintion but I do think she has some issues. The doctor can not be held to malpractice(defense lawyer side kicking in) he did nothing wrong. He provided her with proper medical advice and she did not take it.-You are not mandated to take your doctor’s advice. As long as that doctor CYA his own azz(paper trail)then everyone needs to fall back off of him or her. Look all this is hindsight. The babies are here..she will get WIC for formula, a show on Discovery(like the Duggers) and no matter what G-Mama says she is going to help her with the babies. Now the state can do one of two things. Take the kids and pay. Or let her keep the kids and pay. Either way..what’s done is done.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 12:18 PM | Link to this

@WD

You are welcome…it was shared with via FB…and I found it worth passing along…I believe, and have for some time, that this is one of the most under-recognized and often overlooked forms of abuse…since it is a verbal/psychological/emotion form and it does not leave any physical indications, many ppl do not recognize it as a valid and veritable form of abuse…and more often than not it is what can actually be the predecessor to the physical forms of abuse as well…and while most physical abuse happens within families or couple relationships…this type can occur in almost any type of relationship exchange…friends, acquaintances, co-workers, etc.

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 12:25 PM | Link to this

Kym

Hence my 12:10. Just because the damage is done doesn’t mean that it wasn’t selfish act.

I don’t think that the doctor should (or could) be held liable as long as he/she documented that the risks were communicated.

She may get a TV show or she may not. Say what you will about the Duggers, but they are not a one parent household. As much as I dislike reality TV, there isn’t alot of one parent household things shown on it. Reality shows promote a lot of craziness, but for some reason, one parent households aren’t one of them. I don’t care if it parent swap or whatever, you usually see two parents in the picture somehow.

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 12:27 PM | Link to this

abc, there will be changes in the coming weeks, that hopefully will improve things!

on another housekeeping note, we definitely want to continue our blog community growing. However, we really need to watch the language, offensive attacks, and name-calling. I am ALL for disagreements and debates, but I urge us to keep it civil. I know I have addressed this before, and we have seen it improve, but there are a few that continue take things too far. Consider this the final and friendly warning. We don’t like banning people!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 9, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this

Blow Me LOL leave it to me to go the total opposite way of normal thinking! LOL

By derbygirl84

February 9, 2009 12:46 PM | Link to this

Regarding the topic, the guy I’ve been seeing for two years nutted up on me this past weekend at a very nice Buckhead resturant. My inner voice told me he was probably like this, but did I listen??? NOOOOO I have not spoken to him since and considered the relationship over. Luckily, I have a plan B (that’s from being older and wiser) and will not skip a beat in the dating game!!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 12:55 PM | Link to this

@WD

this is another link that was posted yesterday as well…about narcisstic personality disorder…the type of personality that is prone to emotionally abusive behaviors

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissisticpersonalitydisorder

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

wd if certain ppl would skip my posts … problem solved. why would a blogger take the time to read me if i irritate them so? hmmm

By VOA

February 9, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

I was recently a victim of domestic abuse for the second time. The first time, I was soooo in love with him, that he apologized for it, and I took him back, this time, I was over him, and he was in love, it was like we switched places, and because I wouldn’t have sex with him, he got very upset and physically harmed me. I was sooo terrified because I had never seen him this angry in the 3 1/2 yrs that I dated him on and off. He has really scarred me for life and I will never go back to him. If you are in an abusive relationship please get out of it, it’s not worth it, and he or she can’t possibly love you if they have to put their hands on you.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 1:00 PM | Link to this

and i am not hitting a chick..but i will choke her till her tongue rolls

or eyes roll back one…

M.I.A.

Third world democracy Yeah, I got more records than the K.G.B. So, uh, no funny businesssss….

Some some some some I murder Some I some I let goooo Some some some some I murder Some I some I let gooooo

Is a wild girl, been jamming her since 2007…just found her lyrics to post.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:01 PM | Link to this

Well, showing out in public and humiliating me is a one time only event…lol…and the fork is out and in use…if a person wants to disrespect him/herself with outrageous displays of behavior malfunctions…then so be it…but not on my watch…good move derbygirl…that is one advantage to the maturity process…knowledge is truly power.

By VOA

February 9, 2009 1:01 PM | Link to this

I was recently a victim of domestic abuse for the second time. The first time, I was soooo in love with him, that he apologized for it, and I took him back, this time, I was over him, and he was in love, it was like we switched places, and because I wouldn’t have sex with him, he got very upset and physically harmed me. I was sooo terrified because I had never seen him this angry in the 3 1/2 yrs that I dated him on and off. He has really scarred me for life and I will never go back to him. If you are in an abusive relationship please get out of it, it’s not worth it, and he or she can’t possibly love you if they have to put their hands on you.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this

There are a lot of folks on here with a temper…no wonder these folks are single, LOL

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:11 PM | Link to this

Hey Demi

xoxoxoxooxox

By Demi

February 9, 2009 1:15 PM | Link to this

VOA you’ve gotten counseling since then…right?

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:19 PM | Link to this

Off Topic:

dang..the ATL is getting like the wild, wild west…2 more potential crime vics have ended the life of the perp without hesitation…that makes 3 in less than a month…awrighty.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 1:20 PM | Link to this

I don’t argue, scream or yell. If you come at me with drama/craziness/yelling/screaming, etc….you gets the blank stare.

With a .45 in the right hand and left pimp hand rise high in the air, now coming down at the speed of light…SMACK…Demi is now checking to see if Stormy still has a pulse*

By Demi

February 9, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this

I’m following that story and it baffles me how a single mother of 6 children would want to willingly bring in another child less more 8 into a situation where there is no husband, ample income, mental and emotional stability and the conditions of the house is filthy.

Maynnnne, I am just glad the BISH ain’t black…can you imagine the media backlash on black mothers?!?!?!

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this

Gulp, gulp, gulp…coming up for air.

I know for some it’s hard to turn the other cheek and simply walk away. However, this is much better than catching a case. No man, nor woman, should put their hands on the other. EVER. I read what you said Sir Truth, and I’m free to differ.

By Noneofwhatyouhear

February 9, 2009 1:26 PM | Link to this

I’ve read some of these blogs…have you bloggers that’s spreading rumors ever heard the wise saying of Believe NONE of what you hear and half of what you see? Well in this case…..that is what everyone should do…none of you were there and you don’t know why he beat her the way he did. Also a person that gets herpes NEVER get rid of them…they come and go and when they are active yes another person can get it…if that was the case and if she did give that to him that does not mean that - while dating him - that she slept with someone else. So stop spreading rumors!!!

By Randyt (aka Been there, Done that, Got a Closet FULL of t-shirts)

February 9, 2009 1:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye AKA Black Mamba

11:47 100% on the money.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 1:29 PM | Link to this

Gulp, gulp, gulp…coming up for air.

I know for some it’s hard to turn the other cheek and simply walk away. However, this is much better than catching a case. No man, nor woman, should put their hands on the other. EVER. I read what you said Sir Truth, and I’m free to differ.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 1:29 PM | Link to this

Staceye if that woman is hitting him and he has not touched her…knock her azz out just like a dude. Funny sh_t. You know alot of women push WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY past the limits, saying and doing stuff that would get them straight knocked out if they were a dude. Chill wit the pencils though girl. Ouch!!! lol

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 1:29 PM | Link to this

any V day plans? i was invited to a single ladies night out saturday. now i have a plan B. it’s nice to have options. and why do i think i’ll have more fun with the ladies?

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:30 PM | Link to this

@Leggs

Bet you right…gotta know when to hold’em, know when to fold’em, know when to walk away, know when to run…applies to more than just the rules of gambling…ya’ know…truly…I ain’t sitting on the train tracks waiting for the train to come and the accident to happen…I know at some point, a train is coming.

By Noneofwhatyouhear

February 9, 2009 1:30 PM | Link to this

A Man does NOT have a right to ever beat up a Woman!!! Real Men DON’T hit Women period!!! Chris Brown need to get some much needed help! Not only him, but other Men that have this problem!!

By Demi

February 9, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl how are you sista?

By Sassy Me

February 9, 2009 1:34 PM | Link to this

@VOA Kudos to you for getting out of that abusive situation…but please forgive me for asking…why did you stay? I grew up watcing my parents fight when I was too young to intervene and then once I was older I sometimes stood between them to stop a fight from happening. Eventually my parents divorced and all the while my mother continually instilled in me two mantras: 1. You must always go to school and 2. Don’t depend on a man for your needs you must be self sufficient. She also led by example by going back to school herself just before and continuing after her divorce.

With that being said I made it a point to be independent and put myself through college. But I once found myself in a relationship with someone who wanted to control me and my every move and I wasn’t having it. One day he put his hands on me and we were in my apartment moving furniture all around that biotch…cause I thought I had lost my everlasting mind. Needless to say I broke up with him and I couldn’t have been happier.

I must also admit that there have been times that I wanted to pimp slap my ex(before he was my ex of course) and I had to catch myself. Honestly, I know I have violent tendencies but have done well keeping it under wraps but sometimes my hand itches hell-a-bad and I feel like asking for some baby powder. Keep me near the cross Lawd.

By MELO

February 9, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this

the language, offensive attacks, and name-calling so some of these self proclaimed do-gooders and no lose my cool, are in fact, name callers and * sly-uncouth mouthers* on the blog? Thats a double standard Diva, I say BAN THEM

we need language that enhances the mood of the daters and encourages them to want to explore each other and date& mingle rather than making daters drift from each other. I hope the new changes will allow emoticons to be displayed on the blog DIVA so aspiring daters can send messages of affection!

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 1:37 PM | Link to this

Noneofwhatyouhear

it really doesn’t matter anymore if she has them or not. the media has spoken!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:38 PM | Link to this

@Demi

Be doing okay…thinking about coming back to the ATL in the early Spring…depends…I am in this wide open space of potential opportunity…much uncertainty…lots of faith and hope…no doubt and a certain reconciled peace within myself…lol..that be good!!1

By MELO

February 9, 2009 1:41 PM | Link to this

xoxoxoxooxox

is that on the mouf M’Karyl??,other wise Diva may have to ban that kiss too?? No coded messages…Now how do u spell a not so innocent kiss,not on the mouf??

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:42 PM | Link to this

LOL @Sassy

There are so many responses here today that make me reiterate… please read the link I posted earlier about emotional abuse and even the one about narcisstic personality disorder…knowledge is power, liberation and sanity…it is what we know that guides us to the light…and what we do not know that keeps us lost in the darkness.

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 1:43 PM | Link to this

not sure about the emoticons, Melo. That would be both cute and annoying, all at once. ha!

Thanks for sharing your story with us VOX!

Sassy Me, great mantra, I was taught a lot of the same things as well :)

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

@melo

dere you be going again agitating some mess…lol…oxoxoxo to you too.

By Jamoca

February 9, 2009 1:48 PM | Link to this

On Topic

Hmmmm…of course, with each situation being different, they were not all handled the exact same way. It all depends on who this person is in my life and what they represent, to include the circumstances.

Initially, I will try to keep my composure and maintain a pretty calm demeanor…for as long as I possibly can, but if I feel threatened in any way that has the potential to cause bodily harm, I WILL DEFEND MYSELF…and without calling the authorities (as one particular scenario comes to mind). And no, I do not go around challenging and/or provoking folks in order to get shyt started…and this also goes for public outburst aka showin’ out.

Any disagreements, arguments, etc…will stay between me and THE MAN, although, I am really not for confrontations.

On another note, some people, depending on the dicussion, scenario, etc…are just a bit more tender hearted than others. And unfortunately, some may not be aware of one’s emotions being put into the mix, until it all hits the fan. However, I’ve experienced one case scenario in particular that shocked the heyal outta me; especially being that the individual came across totally different, while in a whole “nother “ environment.

Now this is definitely something that I have a low tolerance for….folks who put on. So being that I was totally caught off guard, as I saw no reason to have them up….HEYAL YEAH!…this type of behavior disgusts me. All I ask is that one maintains the same level of consistency. That way, I know what to expect, therefore…it’s all on me. Mind you, this was a friendship based relationship. So being there was a lot that had been divulged on both ends, not to mention having a lot in common, again, I was extremely baffled.

Therefore,when the convo began to transform itself into useless banter, voices being raised, subliminal, snide comments…without being adult enough to plainly say…or my favorite: Bringing it to the Wood whereas, I’m pulling teeth trying to get to the bottom of the situation at hand, yes, this scenario has FULL POTENTIAL to swing to the left…and everything will be laid out on the table… and I mean everything.

So while I have shown the ability to pull out of any situation, just as quick as I found myself in one, if this person has shown me there not adult enough to contribute to finding a resolution with our differences, without going back and forth…Then it’s pretty much a wrap, and there is nothing left to be said; and unfortunately, we’ve reached the point of no return. Game over.

By Noneofwhatyouhear

February 9, 2009 1:51 PM | Link to this

Beautiful only FOOLS believe EVERYTHING they read! Please stop being foolish!

By Jamoca

February 9, 2009 1:55 PM | Link to this

WD As I’ve already and repeatedly stated, I’m not one to put on…whether in cyberspace or in person. While I can understand where you are coming from, does not necessarily mean that I agree. Especially since you are selective with whom you “chastise” in here. I have noticed moments where you obviously decided to turn a blind eye to other veterans and/or newcomers outlandish posts. But hey, like the saying goes…” it’s your party, and you can cry if you want to”.

I for one believe there is a difference in polite disagreement versus forcing your own opinions on someone. To receive a response regarding a blogger’s post, does not necessarily mean the message was taken personal…at least to those who don’t bring their feelings into it. Therefore, anything posted in here should not be taken personally, but since words on a screen lack tone, it’s no surprise that one would.

And IMO, there is nothing wrong with choosing to go against the grain, instead of hopping on the bandwagon with the masses. Being that this happens to be an open forum, there are sure to be moments when someone will choose to keep their opinions to themselves, while on other days, they may feel and/or compelled to share them. After all, MIA would not be much of a “hotspot” to gather while at work (for many), if it were not for the opinions, ideas and other countless banter, thus keeping you in the business. Just sayin, however, I meant it…

Last I heard, this is not the kind of place that you’d want to bring your feelings into. However, I realize that I was not the first, and I’m certain that I will not be the last.

Nevertheless, I do appreciate your friendly and final reminder. And with that, (Again), allow me to be the first to send you my IP address… I insist. This is definitely not a problem. What is your email?…or rather, since you have mine, a test email would suffice and save your IT crew a great deal of time.

By MELO

February 9, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this

And the latest news says usher is caught up in complications,trying to upgrade the meeka,hardly a year after making a mistake!! Lots of remorse here…watch this space…

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 9, 2009 1:59 PM | Link to this

Thank you Randy!

Dreams well if ole dude didn’t try to go Ike Turner on my then he would not have caught a #2 to the jewels! LOL You want to “test me”…that requires 2 #2 pencils….so he is lucky he only got one! Well that and a kick whiel he was down so I could get away! LOL

By Beautiful

February 9, 2009 1:59 PM | Link to this

Noneofwhatyouhear

err’day … do i have to spell everything out for y’all. i don’t believe everything i read. Rihanna doesn’t have a std until she tells me herself. as far as fans go, they believe she does because of the media.

now take that back!

By Sassy Me

February 9, 2009 2:00 PM | Link to this

@M’Karyl What you said was deep, real talk. I truly think my father suffers from this(narcissistic personality disorder) and it’s weird that my mom and I have said this for yers now. I also think he suffered emotional abuse from his mother and in turn he translocated those jacked up issues onto his wife and children…dude is a real jacked up piece of work. And @VOA please accept my apologies for mistyping your initials.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this

Face it…many of us, myself included, have gotten carried away on this blog…sometimes ppl instigate the ishes and some ppl are goaded into responding…but in all honesty, it is not the disagreement of positions and opinions that are a problem…it is when we have to get too personal with someone else and how we reference, respond and relate to what is posted…we all need to sit back, take a deep breath and ask how we are either with the mix to most constructively interact on the MIA or if we are just destructively aiding the negativity…if WD has issued a nonspecific warning, then let it be duly noted and properly taken as a pre-banning advisory…we are all adults…at least chronologically…lol

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 2:06 PM | Link to this

Fair enough, FYI..it is never my intention to be selective. Many days I don’t get the opportunity, I have been in meetings a lot, lately.

I also agree with you on debating. I don’t want to make the blog a head nodding convention, that would be DULL. The great thing about the comments is that it is diverse, and come from different perspectives.

At the same time, I don’t want things to get progressively worse in how we interact. I try to not jump on every little thing, but it’s a slippery slope some days.

I think the sniper comments (people who never contribute, yet like to shoot verbal bullets at those that do) as well as the unnecessary roughness from the regular blog cast ALL have a tendency to go too far.

At the end of the day, all I want is for us to be adult about it. I have argued and debated with people on here before too, so I know how heated it can get. So, going forward, I hope the MIA blog can continue to be a place where people enjoy the dialogue, and I will be be more responsive when things start coming undone. Thank you!

By Sassy Me

February 9, 2009 2:13 PM | Link to this

@Melo And the latest news says usher is caught up in complications,trying to upgrade the meeka….

LOL!! You dead wrong for that BUT you’re right on the money with what you said. You made her sound like an old Buick 225 that needed a paint job or something. Did he really have to fly down there with a neurosurgeon and all?(per V103/Ms.Sophia) I always thought that she was a mistake as well but hell who knows…maybe she has that thayow or that ooowweeee.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 2:14 PM | Link to this

WiseDiva, you got mail.

By Sassy Me

February 9, 2009 2:16 PM | Link to this

@Melo And the latest news says usher is caught up in complications,trying to upgrade the meeka….

LOL!! You dead wrong for that BUT you’re right on the money with what you said. You made her sound like an old Buick 225 that needed a paint job or something. Did he really have to fly down there with a neurosurgeon and all?(per V103/Ms.Sophia) I always thought that she was a mistake as well but hell who knows…maybe she has that thayow or that ooowweeee.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 2:19 PM | Link to this

WiseDiva, you got mail.

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 2:22 PM | Link to this

Wow this thing is getting serious on here. Like really. lol Everyone just relax! Real Talk..its nothing to think on. I hope NO ONE goes home and says “Dang what Amazonred said about me really is true I am a loser!” I mean really I think no one on here takes things personal to that extreme. If not we really are DEALING with KIDS! LOL!

By MELO

February 9, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this

I will b adult about it too Wise but if anybody attacks me personally, i have a secret weapon.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva I would like to thank you for over looking half of the BS I’ve put out over the years. One day I will show up on this Bish making sense, speaking in tongues and wearing holy robes with old men underwear on…forget that last visual

Ladies, Demi is really an Angel…======= see halo

By sd

February 9, 2009 2:28 PM | Link to this

I read the article about Chris Brown and the thing that jumps out is, he is only 19 years old. 19 years old with tons of money and thousands of people telling him how great he is all the time. You can bet he is going to make a lot of lousy decisions.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 2:29 PM | Link to this

Staceye I ain’t mad atcha. Gotta do what you gotta do. You had to show him that latina heat…someone shoulda told him. lol

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 2:31 PM | Link to this

DreamsM…You know alot of women push WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY past the limits,. You are absolutely right. I grew up watching women (including my own mother) asking to get their lights knocked out. I vowed never to be like them. I learned many valuable lessons watching these women. One was never tell a man to kiss your a$$! Back in the day, fighting words w/o even a thought.

SassyMe, I’ve endured a lot, but I too strived to become an independent woman not really needing to lean on a man. I had to first learn how to lean on myself.

By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut

February 9, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this

good reading…

By Demi

February 9, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this

I will b adult about it too Wise but if anybody attacks me personally, i have a secret weapon.

laughing dryly HA HA HA HA HA…you are soooooo funny dawg!!

By Jamoca

February 9, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this

I mean really I think no one on here takes things personal to that extreme. If not we really are DEALING with KIDS!

Interesting point there…

M’karyl

This recent scenario in some ways, are similar to your stance with that ATL dude, whom you ref’d to as O’fay. Which at times became personal and racists…okay, so you as well as some of us went left at one time or another. But that does not take away from what was contributed on a postive note.

However, it’s put on front street when a particular blogger goes into “left field”. IMO, Oh girl was no more/less out of line then I was. But hey, that’s my opinion.

There are times when some of us contribute in a positive manner towards the discussion and there WILL be other moments when things shift left. No one person is more/less accountible for their actions than the next.

As far as I’m concerned, it’s done.

However, I see that it has somewhat inspired today’s topic (which I am not surprised). So, the resurrection has begun, but not on my account.

WD Agreed. And for the most part, regardless of the rough blog days, it seems folks pretty much still enjoy this spot… you see they keep showing up, taking roll call, etc.. so apparently that’s not effecting the daily post count. So how about that email?

Otherwise, I’m totally through with this discussion on here… since Friday.

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this

Melo

I have to agree with ya on the Usher thing as well. If he has to fly down there, he must do it. “Cause you never know. Hopefully, it isn’t that bad.

Kanye’s mom had complications from plastic surgery and ulitmately she didn’t make it.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this

DreamsM…You know alot of women push WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY past the limits,. You are absolutely right. I grew up watching women (including my own mother) asking to get their lights knocked out. I vowed never to be like them. I learned many valuable lessons watching these women. One was never tell a man to kiss your a$$! Back in the day, fighting words w/o even a thought.

SassyMe, I’ve endured a lot, but I too strived to become an independent woman not really needing to lean on a man. I had to first learn how to lean on myself.

By MELO

February 9, 2009 2:39 PM | Link to this

sd,never mind his money,if he got a lil boobo on his pee wee,the emotional damage is the same as it wld be on poor church mouse,me.That boobo,if it is the cause of this,its a lyfe sentence.At 19!!Imagine wearing a condom for the rest of ur lyfe and neva ever to enjoy the honie jar,real,juicy and raw..!! Imagine that…

By Kym-no aka just Kym

February 9, 2009 2:44 PM | Link to this

I love how banning that gets tossed around here but on the other blogs(political) anything goes and the same folks keep the party going there too. But yeah its your world…you know how to find me to banned me if you feel the need. But I’ll be damn if I am going to change up my blog personality because someone has their thong in a bunch or got their feelings hurt. Here are a few phrases to borrow when needed ..

1.Grow a pair 2.Get thicker skin 3.Shake it off 4.He/She gonna cry in the car 5.Pull your boxers, panties, and or thong up. If neither then go back to phrase one. 6.In time it wont matter anymore anyway.

By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut

February 9, 2009 2:46 PM | Link to this

melo…you asked me about UnCut last week…this is a blog post that i did specifically addressing that…

however…as a rule…here in this forum…i prefer to not engage in the skirmishes…no need to prove that i possess an extensive vocabulary, maintain a catalogue of cutting insults, that i type and spell well or that i can have the highest word/post count of any other bloggers…

fortunately…i have this whole other life going on…

By Demi

February 9, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this

Jamoca you need a hug and a manly tap on the a$$…

HUG*

Demi is now whipping the sweat off Jamoca’s bow and taping bass knuckles in both hands

Light tap on the A$$

Girl, tell them folks how dem flo-da folks be!!!

Jamoca is now beating Demi with his bass knuckles…

By Jamoca

February 9, 2009 2:49 PM | Link to this

I love how banning that gets tossed around here but on the other blogs(political) anything goes and the same folks keep the party going there too. But yeah its your world…you know how to find me to banned me if you feel the need. But I’ll be damn if I am going to change up my blog personality because someone has their thong in a bunch or got their feelings hurt. Here are a few phrases to borrow when needed ..

1.Grow a pair 2.Get thicker skin 3.Shake it off 4.He/She gonna cry in the car 5.Pull your boxers, panties, and or thong up. If neither then go back to phrase one. 6.In time it wont matter anymore anyway.

SPLLLAAAATTT!!!! Right on a monkey’s a$$. I agree!!

By Demi

February 9, 2009 2:53 PM | Link to this

I am sitting here looking at Rihanna photos…man hood isn’t rising at all to her photos

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 2:54 PM | Link to this

Kym *I love how banning that gets tossed around here but on the other blogs(political) anything goes and the same folks keep the party going there too. *

I was thinking the same thing. This blog is civil on it’s WORST days. I have heard and still do hear so many racial terms and slurs on all the other ajc blogs. But yet those the obvious offensive ones ALWAYS get over look. But one good spat with Bootiful last week and we are out of control. lol!

Not only that the technology system at AJC sucks and the cash cow…advertising dpt had the oldest operating system that suppose generates millions of dollars, but they saved all the technology for the blogs…lol Yeah I believe that. Ajc is about to fold…Online is going to be the only option!

By Jamoca

February 9, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

And what’s up Dem Suga…??

I’ll pass on that hug, but those brass knuckles may come in handy…quick! ;-)

By MELO

February 9, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

SexxyC,u knw i caught that..lol..mail call

By 1980's Bobby Brown (not Demi)

February 9, 2009 2:58 PM | Link to this

1.Grow a pair 2.Get thicker skin 3.Shake it off 4.He/She gonna cry in the car 5.Pull your boxers, panties, and or thong up. If neither then go back to phrase one. 6.In time it wont matter anymore anyway.

Yeahhhhhh Bis..(er)..Boiieeee!!!!!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this

@Jamoca

I just think that we are all being asked to engage in a less caustic, vitrolic and hostile exchange on this blog…for the sake of keeping the blog up and running…some days we can get way over the top out of control here…I believe that WD is attempting to let ppl know that some more stringent rules are coming into play and whether she wants to do so or not, any infringement of them will mean that ppl will be immediately banned without exception…so it is a fair warning that if we wish to continue participating in the venue,then we must also recognize our ouwn behaviors and govern ourselves accordingly…and I include myself in that fair warning…I do not need her to spell my name out as one who needs to check herself as well…I already now this.

By Lil Scrappy (not Demi)

February 9, 2009 3:10 PM | Link to this

Jamoca I got you boo, checkit…

Hey shawty it’s on goddaymit it’s on keep poppin in my face and get popped in the dome learn to rush muthaf/kas it’s gonna hurt if a ‘igga fall that’s when shyt get’s worse the problem with you ‘iggas is you just talk to much man swang on a ‘igga and f/k his a$$ up and you can walk on by with your nuts in a tuck i’ll be oblige if you really won’t get crunk in the A we don’t play them games we just stack and slang and load up them things gettin buck if you wanna and catch a flow keep yo pretty a$$ gull beat your a* and take your h0

You can get crunk in the club roll wit your hood get stomped in the club or you could get buck in the club ‘igga we don’t give a f/k but you don’t want no problem (problem) wroof but you don’t want no problem (problem) wroof but you don’t want no problem with me

LOL

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 3:12 PM | Link to this

Mkaryl Gettin banned from here is not the worst thing. I doubt if AJC is trying to shell out anymore dough that place is about to fold. Take it from an ex employee and my mom who has retired from there..They are handing out MASSIVE layoffs..They have land off entire floors..and given out tons of severance packages…They have other financial issues to worry about besides..This M.I.A. blog and us going back and forth with Bootiful. Just for a second go and browse any another blog and I betcha they get ALOT more ruthless than us. lol. This is funny!

By jraw

February 9, 2009 3:12 PM | Link to this

On topic, My wife went off this weekend and it was hilarious to me. First, she started with the I am sick and tired of picking up behind you and your kids (like they aren’t her kids as well) and that went on for about an hour. So I ask her if it was that time of the month and she went off again. I thought it was funny, so I started laughing histerically and she was steaming. Then my youngest son did the #2 in the bathroom downstairs and my wife went in the bathroom shortly after(she had been upstairs taking out her weave or something) and the next thing I know she comes running out the bathroom with her sticking up looking crazy as h3ll saying who left this s%%t stain in the toliet. I am done. That s%%t will stay there forever as far as I am concerned. Man, I haven’t laugh that hard in a long time, the look on her face was priceless. I told her to fix her hair ASAP and I take care of the stain. LOL!

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 3:15 PM | Link to this

This blog is civil on it’s WORST days. I have heard and still do hear so many racial terms and slurs on all the other ajc blogs. <= ok , yeah, valid point. Keep in mind, I have invested a solid 3 plus years on the forum, admittedly, I am protective of the “integrity” here, mainly because it was, I believe the first blog featured on the website. So, there is a bit of us trying to set the tone, so to speak.

I can’t speak for the other moderators though, but I suspect if you were to contact them or use the comment removal request feature, you would get a response. Thanks for your feedback

By jraw

February 9, 2009 3:18 PM | Link to this

On topic, My wife went off this weekend and it was hilarious to me. First, she started with the I am sick and tired of picking up behind you and your kids (like they aren’t her kids as well) and that went on for about an hour. So I ask her if it was that time of the month and she went off again. I thought it was funny, so I started laughing histerically and she was steaming. Then my youngest son did the #2 in the bathroom downstairs and my wife went in the bathroom shortly after(she had been upstairs taking out her weave or something) and the next thing I know she comes running out the bathroom with her sticking up looking crazy as h3ll saying who left this s%%t stain in the toliet. I am done. That s%%t will stay there forever as far as I am concerned. Man, I haven’t laugh that hard in a long time, the look on her face was priceless. I told her to fix her hair ASAP and I take care of the stain. LOL!

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this

oh Mkaryl, thank you, reading your comments, I can see that you get what I’m saying exactly. Appreciate that!

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 3:19 PM | Link to this

Blow

Getting banned from this blog is not going to make or break anyone who comes here…for sure…my point one more time, it that we are being asked to check our over the top behaviors…period…all of us…not a bad thing…and it should be done…PSA is all…I am just articulated an acceptance and agreement with the WD post re: that subject…there is nothing wrong with articulating an emphatic understanding of a point…k

By jraw

February 9, 2009 3:20 PM | Link to this

On topic, My wife went off this weekend and it was hilarious to me. First, she started with the I am sick and tired of picking up behind you and your kids (like they aren’t her kids as well) and that went on for about an hour. So I ask her if it was that time of the month and she went off again. I thought it was funny, so I started laughing histerically and she was steaming. Then my youngest son did the #2 in the bathroom downstairs and my wife went in the bathroom shortly after(she had been upstairs taking out her weave or something) and the next thing I know she comes running out the bathroom with her sticking up looking crazy as h3ll saying who left this s%%t stain in the toliet. I am done. That s%%t will stay there forever as far as I am concerned. Man, I haven’t laugh that hard in a long time, the look on her face was priceless. I told her to fix her hair ASAP and I take care of the stain. LOL!

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this

BLOG The weather is too nice to be going back and forth about this. How about this. Make it a point to make a move on at least one person that you are/have been interested in. Strike out and go for what you know…report back.

By jraw

February 9, 2009 3:25 PM | Link to this

sorry! I hit the post button twice!

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 3:29 PM | Link to this

WD Ok I see where you coming from. I mean we have good days as well as bad. There is ALWAYS going to be days where there is a ALL OUT blog fight so to speak. But you are speaking of something that was squashed last week. I for one, take it with a grain of salt. We were on to the next things….We fight and the next day its like it never happened! It’s going to be a mad house every few days. You don’t have the power to control and curb thoughts. That is why we are here, whether you agree, like it or not. You can’t random pick and choose which commments you like and which ones you don’t. That would defeat the purpose! That’s the beautiful colors of this blog…..I love it. I wouldn’t change none of the characters! lol…..Truth being my favorite with a close running second of ARED & BOOTIFULLOL!

By MELO

February 9, 2009 3:29 PM | Link to this

Make it a point to make a move on at least one person that you are/have been interested in make it at least 2.That way u got adequate cover in case u get stood up.

By jraw

February 9, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

sorry! I hit the post button twice!

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 3:37 PM | Link to this

Mkaryl My thing is you can not control thoughts or comments to YOUR own liking. You have about 30 plus regualar ppl here on a daily, we are not ALL going to agree. Sometimes it will get nasty…but that is the WAY life is. If everyone understood and had INTERGRITY we would all be skipping a in big bed of roses and singing KUMBYA! LOL!

There would be no BLOG if that’s the case. lol!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 9, 2009 3:39 PM | Link to this

LMAO jraw..I got a visual of that…too funny!!!

Truth I saw Slumdog this weekend…excellent movie. I was jamming because I knew the whole soundtrack because I have dances to them…may favorite is the opening number. But I loved the movie. Didn’t even seem like 2.5 hours had passed.

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 3:43 PM | Link to this

@Blow

True dat…lol…but eachof us can be accountable for monitoring our own personal behaviors and post…and I think that is all that is being ask of us…not to change our individual preferences, POV’s or nature…just to be more civil in our exchange and articulation of them.

M’Karyl now giving Blow the mamma look…lol

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 3:46 PM | Link to this

OFF TOPIC

I am so proud of Jennifer Hudson for her performance at the Grammy’s last night…I did not watch it all…but I did see that…and the standing ovation that see received…and Jamie Foxx…amen sistah girl…I know that it was not easy…God Bless her…brought tears to my eyes…and my ASC girl in Sugarland, that was up too…but JH made me proud to be a part of a resilent, strong and proper sisterhood.

By Stormy

February 9, 2009 3:46 PM | Link to this

Dreams

I’m wit you…no drama today. LOL

By Raqi

February 9, 2009 3:48 PM | Link to this

WiseDiva I totally missed it. From the responses to your request I find that I totally misinterpreted you. I seriously thought you were referring to the comments like calling another blogger a “dumb arse spineless cu – nt” (i.e.) because they chose to handle situations the way they see fit. Or better yet feels it wrong or right do something a certain way.

I had no idea you were talking about just common exchanges of opinions and ideas. Boy was I wrong.

(And I think you see the humor here)

By Angie

February 9, 2009 3:48 PM | Link to this

that 2:22 is real talk!!!

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 3:49 PM | Link to this

Mkaryl I gotcha….

By lurker

February 9, 2009 3:50 PM | Link to this

Odd how things are now being regulated when since both Rell and Truth made their entrance, they’ve been calling folks bishes at any given “they got crossed” moment. No holding back, no skirting. They don’t like something a woman says, it’s straight to name calling and I believe bish at that. I have yet to see either one of them addressed and asked to tone it down a bit…esp Rell. We all know if you don’t agree with him it’s bish right off the bat. But now folks are being asked to simmer down. Incredible.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 9, 2009 3:51 PM | Link to this

Melo Always good to plan ahead. So, let’s revise that to at least 2. Man the sights outside the past few days have been real nice. Hope the weather holds up.

By Lil Scrappy (not Demi)

February 9, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize Dayumit you!!

Just waking up in the mornin gotta thank God I don’t know but today seems kinda odd No barkin from the dogs, no smog And momma cooked a breakfast with no hog I got my grub on, but didn’t pig out Finally got a call from a girl I wanna dig out Hooked it up for later as I hit the do’ Thinkin will I live, another twenty-fo’ I gotta go cause I got me a drop top And if I hit the switch, I can make the a$$ drop Had to stop, at a red light Lookin in my mirror and not a jacker in sight And everything is alright I got a beep from Kim, and she can do it all night Called up the homies and I’m askin y’all Which park, are y’all playin basketball? Get me on the court and I’m trouble Last week messed around and got a triple double Freakin brothers everyway like M.J. I can’t believe, today was a good day

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this

Wow, a lot to read. Some comments can be a lil extra..oh well.

sigh…

In light of mia blog, i enjoy dialogue somedays…somedays foolish jibber talk, cool. (yet still gets me through a long day here at work).

By Raqi

February 9, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this

And I actually assumed when those certain comments do not get addressed it is because the moderators are obviously tending to their other bill paying jobs. I didn’t think they just sat here and monitored this site and the comments all day long. But I may be wrong.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 3:59 PM | Link to this

Say I understand the best thing in the world Try my best to understand this baby girl I’m a G and I always will be And I’m a thug it out until the hood’s out, kill me Y’all kill me, I got it like I ain’t him That’s like baby brother act it like it ain’t slim Trap girl can’t deny that he ain’t slim Try to touch these girls but he ain’t him And I love my hood, watch me hit it up And they love what I do, watch me switch it up Yeah you trippin’, what you thinking? Must be drinking, what you drinking? CTE’s what I’m claiming I’m so hood I ain’t explaining I’m so hood I ain’t explaining Plug my album, I’m just playing The Recession, I’m just saying All that singing, what you saying? I’m just saying, why you playing? While I’m playing, hope you’re praying You probably miss your blessing, be back stressed Doing all that collumn, all that text You done bump your head, lost your mind Since you in my spotlight, baby, go and get shined Yeah!

By Chardonnay Nicole Thomas

February 9, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this

I have definitely been with guys who have a temper, and I have one too, but anger management helped me through that. I don’t put up with any bull from any one, and that is always known up front. I have no time for foolishness and stupidity. I have been in abusive relationships and it is never worth it staying with any man who puts his hands on you like that; he will eventually end up seriously injuring you or even worse, killing you. And besides, these days if I am involved with someone who even raises his voice at me, I am out the door—I deserve better than that, I feel. If Rhianna is smart, and I hope she is, she will not settle for someone like Chris Brown and will find her someone who is actually worth her time. They are both too young to be focusing on a relationship anyway; young people like myself should grow a little, live a little, examine ourselves and our lives repeatedly, and then maybe we can be a great asset to someone one day—they’re babies for God’s sake—focus on something else!!

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this

LURKER We all know if you don’t agree with him it’s bish right off the bat. But now folks are being asked to simmer down. Incredible I agree totally! That’s what’s funny its SELECT people that get called to the PODIUM…lol Politics…Boy I tell yeah. But I co sign all the way! If you are not with in like-able or blog wide liked….They are throwing a FLAG on the play….for real! lmao!

Truth Constantly is raggin on Blanca That gets over looked. That’s why its funny to me. Select ppl.

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 4:08 PM | Link to this

But you are speaking of something that was squashed last week

well, I actually intended to make a general reminder, pardon me, I just had the time to address it today. I wasn’t trying to bully by bringing up the ban thing, though.

Final thoughts: I hear all of your points, and I will drop it. It’s not the fun part of this, when I feel like a sub teacher or something.

Thanks everyone, we will let you guys know when we transition to the new set up!

By Demi

February 9, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this

lurker I believe I am the only dude who refer to women as bishes now and then…rell and truth are on some other ish in this bish

By Alvin

February 9, 2009 4:14 PM | Link to this

I have no time for foolishness and stupidity

I am like, that’s a bad girl…

I have been in abusive relationships and it is never worth it staying with any man who puts his hands on you like that; he will eventually end up seriously injuring you or even worse, killing you.

…and now I am like, “What is with these strong women and abusive relationship?”

I know I am not the only one who notice this trend.

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 4:17 PM | Link to this

I’ve it said before; “When your own truth is not relative to someone else’s, it’s contested”.

When ppl have disagreements it’s not up to the contesting individual to dictate how a person proceeds on how the other persons truth is, really. We all need to be care of that/ or don’t deal. The famous word in the book says…be careful for nothin…..

That’s pretty much how I do me….jus keep it movin’.

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 4:18 PM | Link to this

I’ve it said before; “When your own truth is not relative to someone else’s, it’s contested”.

When ppl have disagreements it’s not up to the contesting individual to dictate how a person proceeds on how the other persons truth is, really. We all need to be care of that/ or don’t deal. The famous word in the book says…be careful for nothin…..

That’s pretty much how I do me….jus keep it movin’.

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 4:18 PM | Link to this

I’ve it said before; “When your own truth is not relative to someone else’s, it’s contested”.

When ppl have disagreements it’s not up to the contesting individual to dictate how a person proceeds on how the other persons truth is, really. We all need to be care of that/ or don’t deal. The famous word in the book says…be careful for nothin…..

That’s pretty much how I do me….jus keep it movin’.

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 4:19 PM | Link to this

Lurker/Blow duly noted, but one thing that helped me last so long in the forum you can’t please everyone, hat tip to you for the feedback, appreciate it

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this

I’ve it said before; “When your own truth is not relative to someone else’s, it’s contested”.

When ppl have disagreements it’s not up to the contesting individual to dictate how a person proceeds on how the other persons truth is, really. We all need to be care of that/ or don’t deal. The famous word in the book says…be careful for nothin…..

That’s pretty much how I do me….jus keep it movin’.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 4:21 PM | Link to this

Thanks everyone, we will let you guys know when we transition to the new set up!

WD you gonna put up a strippa pole and pool table in this camp?

Ying Yang in this thang, (Ying Yang) Ying Yang in this thang, (Ying Yang) Ying Yang in this thang, (Ying Yang) Ying Yang in this thang, (Ying Yang)

Pop that puddy like you suppose to to Shack that a$$ like it - that’s for Lou Like 2 Pac all eyes on you Make a brotha horny like 2 Live Crew

Demi is now throwing Blog dollars into the air

By M'Karyl

February 9, 2009 4:28 PM | Link to this

@Demi

Fool…sit down and zip…lol sugah

OFF Topic:

Mom’s is having radical right breast removal surgery tomorrow afternoon…just found the malignancy about a week ago…even with diff’s…I never wish to see anyone suffer and struggle with life threatening issues…asking for universal and intercessory prayers that from the hand that guides the scaple to the body that receives the procedure to God’s ear…all may be well.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

That’s what’s funny its SELECT people that get called to the PODIUM

That’s not always the case…WD let’s me, Alvin, and Demigod33 get away with murder time to time.

I think she is praying for me…

By Demi

February 9, 2009 4:31 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl ummmmm…I will keep your mom in my prayers.

By Cemeeli

February 9, 2009 4:33 PM | Link to this

I’ve it said before; “When your own truth is not relative to someone else’s, it’s contested”.

When ppl have disagreements it’s not up to the contesting individual to dictate how a person proceeds on how the other person’s truth is, really. We all need to be careful of that/ or don’t deal. The famous word in the book says…be careful for nothin…..

That’s pretty much how I do me….jus keep it movin’.

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 4:37 PM | Link to this

wow, M’Karyl, sending her positive thoughts! I hope she has a speedy recovery.

I forgot to talk about when I lost my cool. After a dinner date, this guy had too much to drink, in my opinion. I asked him for the keys to his truck, he refused to hand them over. umm, lost my cool.

By Demi

February 9, 2009 4:40 PM | Link to this

Demi is now removing ENTER from Cemeeli’s keyboard

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

February 9, 2009 4:42 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl I am sorry about your mom. Is she getting both removed? My auntie only got one and said she felt lop-sided….so she had the other one done. Now she is about to get reconstructive doen on both and said she have nice hooters when she’s 90!

By Jamoca

February 9, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this

It’s amazing how some of us testify to not having any child-like tendencies about ourselves, but on the other hand we exhibit anything but. Deep sigh…

By assigning ourselves monikers, it enables us to address one another DIRECTLY. Be a grown up for once in this piece and quit actiin’ …by learning how to address someone specifically without the subliminals…how ‘08ish… Grown folks beatin’ ‘round the bush is quite laughable. You’d think we’d able to come through each other’s screens. smh

Staceye Speaking of **Slumdog’s soundtrack”” …I love it! Once I saw the movie, I was on it…I may have to go out and get that.

Raqi I’ll take it as one just being facetious. But in the same breath if one is familiar with how it goes here, you’d be within good reason to assume that the moderator doesn’t just sit back and watch each and every post as they pop up on the screen. Of course, they have other business to take care of besides just sitting here… watching.

However, I think the message is pretty clear with what some here are saying… it has occurred on soooo many occasions or was given the reply of *“Oh, dear..” Huh? But not to the point of banning for some. That is their/my point, I believe.

I do appreciate the heads up to all of us, regarding the new changes. ..for it is known that we are all accountable for what we put out here. But it’s not like we’re straight “gutta” in this piece everyday. ..mannn, we’re nowhere near what it used to be. However, I’m sure we will cross that bridge when we get there.

By abc

February 9, 2009 4:49 PM | Link to this

In point of fact, so-called ‘banning’ mechanisms are not effective for any but the neophyte; supposition that IP addresses can’t be disguised through the use of anonymous proxies and other ways is a misapprehension. Attempts to block someone will likely only result in an admin that will feel like they’re chasing their tail. An open and somewhat anonymous blog is what it is, and moderation is to be expected — but banning? Puh-leeze. Give it a try, I’ll be happy to demonstrate how to circumvent.

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 4:53 PM | Link to this

WiseDive, you still haven’t told us HOW you lost your cool (lol).

By Poppa Grande

February 9, 2009 4:55 PM | Link to this

MK

Prayers to your mom.

My mom went through surgery and chemotherapy in 2007. She didn’t have to deal with radiation.

As Randy says….Been there and I’ve got the T-Shirt to prove it!

By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT

February 9, 2009 4:56 PM | Link to this

abc lol fun KNEEE!!

By Leggs

February 9, 2009 4:58 PM | Link to this

WiseDive, you still haven’t told us HOW you lost your cool (lol).

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this

yes absolutely..abc, that’s soo not the point though. It’s not even a move we like to do, we shouldn’t have to do it, IMO. If you go through all those efforts to circumvent things…instead of keeping it above board though? just seems rather odd to me.

Leggs, I used some expletives (ok a lot, LOL) and had my finger set on 911 to report him. Nearly lost my parents to a drunk driver, I was not about to sit by and let him do that!

By Wise Diva

February 9, 2009 5:04 PM | Link to this

Have a great night everyone!

By JAYE

February 11, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this

TO EACH’S OWN WHEN REFERRING TO RELATIONSHIPS/COMMUNICATION AND MATTERS OF DEALING WITH UP&DOWNS IN A “TRUE” RELATIONSHIP- NOT ENOUGH SPACE FOR ME TO ELABORATE ON MY OPINION! (I HAVE A KNACK FOR WRITING,ENTERTAINMENT,& THEATRE!).. NOW TO MY MOTIVE:IM A 30YO TRUE FAN NOT GROUPIE OF CHRIS BROWN (JANET JACKSON, NEW EDITION,USHER,PATTI LABELLE,ERYKAH BADU,BEYONCE,JAY Z,TUPAC,TI,LIL WAYNE,GOODIE MOB,TLC,ENVOGUE, BROWNSTONE,JADE,UGK,8BALL & MJG,ETC). ANYWAYS, PEOPLE ARE NOT BEING FAIR TO THE CHRIS BROWN/RIHANNA SITUATIION BECAUSE THE TRUTH IS UNKNOWN! WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES; WE ARE ONLY HUMAN! NEGATIVE OPINIONS ARE BEING FORMED ABOUT MR. BROWN, AND WRIGLEYS MIGHT TAKE AWAY HIS ENDORSEMENT DEAL BEHIND THIS RELATIONSHIP/INCIDENT MISHAP. FROM THE BEGINNING, I HAVE THOUGHT THAT RIHANNA & CHRIS WERE TOO YOUNG TO BE INVOLVED IN SUCH A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, ESPECIALLY TO BE CONSIDERING MARRIAGE!… AND NO, READERS, I’M NOT A HATER , BUT LET’S TAKE IT BACK: {FROM MY PERSPECTIVE OF RIHANNA, STEMMING FROM AN PREVIOUS AWARDS SHOW WHICH SHE SIMULTANEOULSY HELD JAY Z’S HAND & WALKED IN TOW W/ AN UNCOMFORTABLE JIGGA ON STAGE TO ACCEPT HER AWARD; FROM THIS SITUATION SEEMS LIKE RIHANNA WAS TRYING TO STIR UP TROUBLE! ALSO LOOKED LIKE SOLANGE WANTED TO KICK OFF IN HER SHUT YO MOUTH! - LOL…}