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DEL.ICIO.USLet’s hear it for the boy! (Or girl!)
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Me. Me. Me. Or, in blog world, You. You. You. It recently occurred to me as I pondered blog options that most topics (and for good reason) are about the self. What we want, what we think of ourselves, what we deem appropriate, etc.
Not today! Well, sort of. Maybe because I’m feeling really thankful that my SO is a patient gem — taking care of me when I’m super sick, bringing me dinner when I’m buried with class assignments, putting up with me when I’m stressing about the world — today’s blog is about giving praise to our others.
I know, I know. Not all of us are currently in relationships, but surely we each have a quality we appreciated in partners of the past that we hope to find in the future. What about the girl whose calming voice made everything better? The fellow who always knew just the right thing to say? The SO who stuck with you in your darkest hour?
Whether you’re recalling with a smile a relationship of yesteryear, or currently in one, what do you appreciate most about your SO? What did they teach you that sticks with you today?
Happy Friday!
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By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 8:31 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday I had a job where I used to work really late to finish projects. Dated a girl who would cook and bring me a plate. I knew that sometimes she would prefer I be spending that time with her, but she understood that I was driven, and she supported that.
By OOO-OOP!!
February 6, 2009 8:56 AM | Link to this
What I love most about my man is that he makes me laugh. We have so much fun together and can laugh about almost anything. He keeps me grounded and supports me even when I falter. He is the greatest!!
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 9:01 AM | Link to this
They start of good…cool…then end horribly…lol
By DasV
February 6, 2009 9:03 AM | Link to this
Dreams that was so sweet of her. she one of those ppl you now suppose to forget now you at the top.
keepITreal from yesterday i didnt say that texting would get a child a scholarship or any of the other accomplishments you named. my point is that texting is a small step in ensuring that your child doesnt end up technologically illiterate.
it has its place and shouldnt be written off so decisively as you done.
off topic some more wow. read the blog from yesterday. wow (again)…. and lots of laughter. yall crazy
By Atltwen
February 6, 2009 9:07 AM | Link to this
This goes out to my former, one and only “friend with benefits”.
I had emergency surgery to save one of the “family jewels” back in early ‘07; I couldn’t walk for almost a week post-op. She called me several times a day to check in on me, came by in morning before work and after work, either made dinner for me or went out and bought it for me, ran my errands for me, brought me chocolate and wrote me a letter, etc. She was simply fantastic! She did more for me than my own mom.
After demonstrating she was worthy of being more than just a f/w benefits, she told me I needed to make her the #1 woman in my life and admit to our friends and family she was my girlfriend or she was out. I couldn’t make a decision so she split.
However, her concern, care, and love, is near the top of any act of kindness by individual for me.
Still, I love her for it! ((Kiss)))
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 9:13 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday all, I’m so excited for this weekend.
My past loves have all been really funny dudes who always keep me laughing. And they always kept me fed, cuz I love to eat without cooking it myself! lol
Have a great day folks. Let’s finish the week strong! lol
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 9:26 AM | Link to this
DasV I’m not at the top, but I’m making a run for it. I didn’t forget her. There were other reasons we didn’t continue on, but I did appreciate that about her.
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 9:39 AM | Link to this
Is it safe to come in the spot this morning?
ATL I’m with you, the thoughtful things some chicks do can make you rethink being an azzhole.
I dated a chick after getting divorced that would grocery shop for me, pick up laundry, cook like a mf’er. She would do damn near anything for you. She wasn’t the flashiest chick in the world but she was solid as they come.
Last gf was the best too. Great cook, fire booty, fun as hell to be around. We went to a braves game and had so much fun we barely watched the game. We were just acting out and laughing. She was a good chick. Some cat will be lucky to get her.
Actually the fellas should give kudos to womankind period because as much as they can be headaches it sure is nice having them around. I’ve always been comforted by women whether it was my mother/sisters/gfs/ex wife. I enjoy that softness they bring to the world. Yeah, we can talk ish all we like but I loves me some women.
As my dating sabbatical comes to an end I look forward to meeting some cool chick overseas, giving her 2-3 very memorable years of traveling, good sex (or at least the best I can give her lol) fun and excitement then leaving right before she starts in on the marriage bs. LOL
This morning lets raise a cup to all the ladies that make life so much better.
Special Note: Still though you have to keep them in check. Warm fuzzies doesn’t mean you let her run roughshod over your program. Heel, woman heel.
Rell lmao.
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 9:51 AM | Link to this
until he met the stripper that he left me for…there was nothing my ex-husband wouldn’t do for me…i’m laughing as i type this…
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 9:53 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone!
DreamsM, I would be that type of chick. I’ve done that. Understanding prevails when one is striving to do better.
For me, laughter is tantamount. It eases so much stress in life. In past relationships, I greatly appreciated the one who managed his time wisely and didn’t waste mine.
Rell, smile…not all end horribly (lol).
I have question for you guys later.
By Keep It Real!
February 6, 2009 9:53 AM | Link to this
To DasV:
We straight!
On topic all the women I have love have been fantastic. I co-sign with truth I would like to raise a toast to all the ladies!
We could not have enjoyed this life with-out you!
By DasV
February 6, 2009 9:55 AM | Link to this
SexyCool im laughin (and cryin) wit you too…. life is fun-ny
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 9:58 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone!
DreamsM, I would be that type of chick. I’ve done that. Understanding prevails when one is striving to do better.
For me, laughter is tantamount. It eases so much stress in life. In past relationships, I greatly appreciated the one who managed his time wisely and didn’t waste mine.
Rell, smile…not all end horribly (lol).
I have question for you guys later.
By Blanca
February 6, 2009 10:02 AM | Link to this
The Truth Actually the fellas should give kudos to womankind period because as much as they can be headaches it sure is nice having them around. That is the nicest thing I’ve ever “read” you “write!”
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 10:10 AM | Link to this
Leggs I’m feeling hungry. Think you could come through with some breakfast? ;-)
SexyCool You crazy. lol
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 6, 2009 10:12 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
Lurking today..not really feeling this topic.
By DasV
February 6, 2009 10:14 AM | Link to this
Leggs you get the award for the quickest response to the mindless survey i sent out.
anyone want it… gimme yo email addy.
keepITreal aint we tho? (straight that is) especially wit you cosigning the praise of womankind :)
By kimmie
February 6, 2009 10:15 AM | Link to this
Morning & Happy Friday Blog Fam
I appreciate my SO’s calm, cool and collected demeanor. Never really seen him get rattled about anything. Love his dry sense of humor and his kindness. And yeah, he’s hot!
Most past BF’s have had a good sense of humor - I’ve always had to have that! But I look forward, very seldom look back when it comes to exes.
Hey Truth! - Luv ya!!
By MELO
February 6, 2009 10:19 AM | Link to this
Atltwen so u lost one testicle and that chic thoght she found an opening and wanted to tame u??? Good for u,u let her go!!!.She was going to ride u roughshod to eternity…lol
Jamoca plz send me a pic,takpat78@gmail.com.U been doing a good job!! Due to ur valuable photo evaluation jobs with Dan and Angie,i recommend u for the photo editor position thats open with the blog.My recommendations will be final!
Dreams ur not married nor attached,right? U are on the right spot.Dont sleep on these females and what u perceive is usually correct.Coyness and shyness is not allowed.This is a dating blog so what do u expect,monastry and church behavior?? Forget that.Mix and mingle buddy,its an open secret here who banged who!!! lol And u know Staceye was talking of shaving her chacha yesterday,why u think she mentioned that??,if not for u guys to take notice.Open ur eyes.Oh maybe it takes a married guy with yrs of bang experience to notice!! Im blessed,aint i!!
On topic: The only girl i can talk about is Queen.She is my rock.She cooks eve day,cleans the house and teaches the girls all the home stuff that they should know as they grow up.She does the shopping for them,and for the house.All i do is run frmrs market errands for her when she asks.She pays all the bills and juggles the family finances.Its a stressful job.All i do with money is handle the investments aspect.The spending,its on her.All the bill collectors calls,she screens them and talks them a good game! The stuff that needs fixing in the house and esp in the kitchen,she is the one to notice first,most times.And shes got the hook up with service magic,in case we need a plumber or some tech to fix something in the house. She takes the kids to church saturdays or sundays and ensures they are in sabath or sunday school.Melo just makes sure everybody is awake on time to take their baths.I dont mix soccer with church!! When there is a game of british soccer on tele on a weekend morning,nothing else matters!! What can i say about queen,she does it all.She is up at 5.00 am ev e day and usually,after a good romp with me the previous nite.I am usually up, lazy and late at around 6 am or later,strutting my stuff!! So this homage,thanx to u Blanca, will be to Queen, as we prepare for Valentines. P.S. I think i will take her to magic city or strokkers,just to help her a lil with her shakkes and for some fun and sit back!
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 10:19 AM | Link to this
LOL…Thanks DasV, I rec’d. an interesting one yesterday. I may pass it along.
DreamsM if only you asked before massa tied me to my chair. Next time. I make some mean salmon crouqettes (sp?) and homefries.
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this
Morning All
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
February 6, 2009 10:23 AM | Link to this
TGIF!! I am so ready for the weekend, I have been busy as heck this week!
Let’s see if I can break this down:
High school sweet: learned that being friends and THEN dating was great! We had so much fun together, by the time we started dating it was almost like nothing changed. Then college hit….
College Sweet: learned that it was okay to express my feelings, be completely open.
Ex-hubby: lawd we made a handsome kid! LOL!
Mawnin err’body!
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 10:25 AM | Link to this
LOL…Thanks DasV, I rec’d. an interesting one yesterday. I may pass it along.
DreamsM if only you asked before massa tied me to my chair. Next time. I make some mean salmon crouqettes (sp?) and homefries.
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 10:29 AM | Link to this
@truth…you right
let me toast to my peoples..wet-wet, darkskin white girl, shelby, Po, Ja..and to the rest of the ladies i chop it up with daily!!!!
@leggs…they do all end bad…let me see in my life i have only had three real relationships..the rest i just flucked…period…i was so bad my roomate timed me and he said i would get them end and out my house within 30 minutes…did not have time for the emotional ish…just serve me and leave…that was me…and did not care if you liked it or not…but i digress….yep first love..ended because i moved down her…second relationship ended because of an STD…not on my part..and the third i married and er umm…yeah…holla atcha bwoi in june…lol
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 10:34 AM | Link to this
So sorry it didn’t work out Rell. How long were your married? Are you leaving the divorce bitter? That’s such a wasted emotion. I understand there will be downtime (emotionally), but don’t stay there for long. You may believe in what others have said that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone. HMMM! Anyway, walk tall!
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 6, 2009 10:37 AM | Link to this
Truth What is a good home search website for the atlanta area other than ajc?
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 10:40 AM | Link to this
So sorry it didn’t work out Rell. How long were your married? Are you leaving the divorce bitter? That’s such a wasted emotion. I understand there will be downtime (emotionally), but don’t stay there for long. You may believe in what others have said that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone. HMMM! Anyway, walk tall!
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 10:44 AM | Link to this
and the third i married and er umm…yeah…holla atcha bwoi in june…lol
Rell, I’m sorry to hear that. Thanks for being real enough to share with the blog, not easy.
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 10:48 AM | Link to this
NOT BITTER…LOL….
and there is nothing to get over really…just had to wake up….dats all.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 10:49 AM | Link to this
Hey Mo! How are you. I’ve heard you buys are really, really working hard over there.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this
Hey Mo! How are you. I’ve heard you buys are really, really working hard over there.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 11:00 AM | Link to this
…hello…happy friday.
My “regulating” Mikado has proven to me that his findings about some things are waaayyyy better than mine. I am grateful that he has been holding me up STRONG, the last several months through some very difficult times. I, appreciate his patience with me, and his ability to be a steadfast in the relationship.
Hellz everything about that ne gro turns me on…
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 11:02 AM | Link to this
Kym
Try www.atlantamls.com
Sad day for HBCUs. CAU cancelled classes today, and will be laying off people.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 11:02 AM | Link to this
melo, that was a touching tribute to your wife! But it really comes across that you’re dead weight. You need to step it up a little man!
Your wife sounds like she works as hard as my mom did. But at least she didn’t have to work outside the home at the time either.
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
February 6, 2009 11:04 AM | Link to this
Hey Leggs! Yeah they are keeping us busy in spurts, feast or famine! But its all good. I wont complain too tough b/c there are some that wish they simply had a job right now.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this
Gotcha Rell, some refuse to wake up and remain stagnated. I too had to wake up.
Mo, meant you “guys” not “buys”. My spelling has been horrendous lately.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 11:09 AM | Link to this
Ared,im only talking about her and not myself.Maybe she wld have talked about me if she were here.On another topic day, i may talk about what i do but i didnt think its appropriate,given the topic. Im sure and i hope she has her reasons for appreciating me. Besides, u know,i usually slant/spice these stories a lil so we have sme to talk about…
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 11:10 AM | Link to this
Gotcha Rell, some refuse to wake up and remain stagnated. I too had to wake up.
Mo, meant you “guys” not “buys”. My spelling has been horrendous lately.
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 11:12 AM | Link to this
kym try MLS.com. Did you get that invite? You’re not authorized to sit out today.
Rell you shuttin it down? My only advice is get a good attorney. This fugging legal system isn’t looking out for you. They’ll leave you living in a box if they could. And cut off all financial ties. Chicks always go for the cash. End joint credit cards, bank accounts. The descent into the abyss is usually pretty bumpy. Prepare for the worst and still you’ll realize you weren’t prepared.
If, however, she’s agreeable you can do the paperwork yourself and file it at the courthouse for little of nothing.
Finally, all physical items can be had again. Don’t fight for them. Peace of mind is the goal.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 6, 2009 11:14 AM | Link to this
PoppaG Thank you.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 11:14 AM | Link to this
melo, you talked about yourself plenty. All you do is run errands (when she asks), handle the investments, turn a blind eye to things that need fixing, watch soccer, ask for sex and wake up and hour after she does.
By Kym-no aka just Kym
February 6, 2009 11:16 AM | Link to this
Truth I got the invite. I have been buried under schoolwork mine and the boys so I will look at it tonight.
I am sitting out cause I am not really interested I will wait until the topic turns.
By Blow Me
February 6, 2009 11:18 AM | Link to this
ARED
that was a touching tribute to your wife! But it really comes across that you’re dead weight. You need to step it up a little man!
lmao!! Yeah I am with you too Ared he is sounding like a BIG headache and a bonifide lazy slacker! NO THANKS! I need you more than just laying on the couch scratching ya balls and expecting me to tap dance for ya…! I am good!
Good Morning all! Lets chill out today!
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this
Ared pump your breaks. He was just paying tribute. He does alot more than he mentioned, I hope. Whats key is apparently she’s happy, because she’s still there.
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this
@truth….lol….dude thats been done..and note
i have been divorcing for the last two years….wifey is a paralegal for a divorce lawyer…lol..so she knows how to get it done quick and painless….aiight…i have the papers on my jump drive now she sent to me in sept 2007…so yeah, it will be quick…but thanks for your input
By MELO
February 6, 2009 11:26 AM | Link to this
AmazonRed,yeah proly plenty but not plenty enough(my mistake,if u say so) coz i wasnt gonna be the main attraction! I will let u chics beat me up today,like u do angie.Im sure shes sore from yesterday and wont take another beating!
By MELO
February 6, 2009 11:29 AM | Link to this
Truth,thanx homie!!!,because she’s still there,what more can i say….. A day ago, as we approached 5.00 am she tched and strokked my belly and said,* I luv u baby*! Maybe she knows why.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this
Whats key is apparently she’s happy, because she’s still there.
Truth, that’s not an accurate gauge of happiness, and you know it. Though I’m not saying she isn’t happy.
Nothing wrong with engaging in discussion about something someone typed on the board.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 11:30 AM | Link to this
Blow, I tried to give a big blog hug last night, but the time clock wasn’t my friend.
Here’s the scenario and questions: If you think it’s juvenile, just do the usual and ignore.
I got a conference call last night from a male friend (51) who wanted my honest opinion (wrong word to use w/me) on a situation a young man (20) he’s mentoring in taxation (both are on the phone) was experiencing. The 20 year old took a young lady (21) out for lunch yesterday. During that lunch, the young lady downed 3 regular size magaritas. The young man was somewhat shocked that she drank so much at lunchtime but didn’t say anything. He calls my older friend instead to get his take on the drinking. This fool tells him she was drinking so much as her way of telling him he could have his way w/her. I said HOLD UP, WAIT. WHAT THE F……DID YOU JUST SAY? I was appalled beyond belief. I asked him if he really believed what he just said. He said yeah, why else would she be drinking so much if she didn’t want him to make advances toward her. I couldn’t believe my ears. I asked the young man if he felt this way too. He said no, he thought she was nervous. I agreed somewhat. Then asked if she had to go back to class or back to work. Said she had to go back to work…Wow! I told him I doubt she wanted him to take advantage of her, but more importantly, she may have a drinking problem if she’s downing 3 full size margaritas and going back to work. This is an “at will” state and perhaps she doesn’t care about her job. Anyway, to make a long story short, my older friend is an idiot and the young man had more sense. Question, (1) why would you think a woman would drink that much at lunch on her first date with someone she’s clearly smitten with, and (2) do you think the consumption of drinks is your signal to pounce? Yeah, yeah, yeah, know feed women lots of liquor to get to the drawers, but this wasn’t the case.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 11:32 AM | Link to this
melo, there will be no “beating up” of you today, unless that is the way you want to take it. If the melo household is good, it is what it is. I was just commenting onto how it comes across.
Foots, where have you been? Check in if you are lurking. I was hoping to see you at the pole party yesterday.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this
Blow, I tried to give a big blog hug last night, but the time clock wasn’t my friend.
Here’s the scenario and questions: If you think it’s juvenile, just do the usual and ignore.
I got a conference call last night from a male friend (51) who wanted my honest opinion (wrong word to use w/me) on a situation a young man (20) he’s mentoring in taxation (both are on the phone) was experiencing. The 20 year old took a young lady (21) out for lunch yesterday. During that lunch, the young lady downed 3 regular size magaritas. The young man was somewhat shocked that she drank so much at lunchtime but didn’t say anything. He calls my older friend instead to get his take on the drinking. This fool tells him she was drinking so much as her way of telling him he could have his way w/her. I said HOLD UP, WAIT. WHAT THE F……DID YOU JUST SAY? I was appalled beyond belief. I asked him if he really believed what he just said. He said yeah, why else would she be drinking so much if she didn’t want him to make advances toward her. I couldn’t believe my ears. I asked the young man if he felt this way too. He said no, he thought she was nervous. I agreed somewhat. Then asked if she had to go back to class or back to work. Said she had to go back to work…Wow! I told him I doubt she wanted him to take advantage of her, but more importantly, she may have a drinking problem if she’s downing 3 full size margaritas and going back to work. This is an “at will” state and perhaps she doesn’t care about her job. Anyway, to make a long story short, my older friend is an idiot and the young man had more sense. Question, (1) why would you think a woman would drink that much at lunch on her first date with someone she’s clearly smitten with, and (2) do you think the consumption of drinks is your signal to pounce? Yeah, yeah, yeah, know feed women lots of liquor to get to the drawers, but this wasn’t the case.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 11:39 AM | Link to this
Leggs, ur male friend is lucky,he is not in the cooler himself with that attitude.The kid(girl) has a drinking problem and she may be a slut too tho.
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 11:40 AM | Link to this
Ared my sister in law, though she’s married to a piece of shyt dude (my brother), gets great enjoyment out of doing things for the family. If she didn’t feel needed like that she’d be miserable. Some people are motivated by that sense of feeling needed.
They take great pride in providing for their families. Is the work load 50/50? No. But it usually never is.
Blow due to a recent ban by AJC of posts by chicks under 4’11” I’m going to request that you stop the madness. Your little submissive azz cant wait to have a family to take care of. Don’t make me report you.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 11:46 AM | Link to this
Leggs, I don’t think she was nervous or easy. I think she was just greedy and probably doesn’t get many offers to be taken out on dates. LOL
Truth, I don’t disagree with you. There are a 1001 scenarios we can toss around. I said what I needed to say tho.
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this
Blow
My cousin’s government name is Kenneth. He went into the military right out of high school.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this
4’11”? Blow Me, are you a small fry? lol
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 6, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this
Truth CORRECT..LOL * Your little submissive azz cant wait to have a family to take care of.*
But Truth I dont’ want to be the man too!! I want to be the wife and mother. I ain’t takin out no trash or cuttin no grass! I ain’t gonna do it! I wear the skirts and he wears the pants! And by the way I am not 4”11….5’8
By WTF??
February 6, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this
Leggs I need for you to STOP the phuck’n double posting!!! If you don’t see it immediately, give it a minute….it’s show up….GEEZ….LOL
By For Real
February 6, 2009 11:52 AM | Link to this
Rell Sorry to hear that but Truth is right PEACE OF MIND is a MUST!
This song goes out to all the ladies that were For Realled the song does not apply to any of yall in my past and it doesn’t apply to any of yall now but you know what I mean and if you don’t and you decide I mean something else refer back to the first thing i said on our first date:
If I ever held a hand, it was only because I’d never held your hand that was part of the plan I had to get it right if I was to be your man And if I ever kissed your lips
I needed time to cross the others off my list (Off my list) A higher high to the trip (Trip) I wanted you to go, that was my wish, yes it was
(Ooh my) Friend, lover, sister, mother, wife Air, food, water, love of my life
If I ever shared a bed, it was only, ‘cuz I wanted to live up to what the people said Oh, yes (What they say, what they say, what they say What they say, what they say)
Now, I’m livin’ instead Everyday just to say You’re the only one who’s in my head (The only one, the only one) Oh yes, you are
And if I ever made you cry All I have to do is think about it and I just wanna die (I just wanna die, I just wanna break down And die, die, die, die)
How I’d ever make it by without you, baby (I don’t know, without you, baby) I don’t know, I hope I never have to try, yeah (No, please don’t ever leave me) Oh, listen to me
(Ooh my) Friend, lover, sister, mother/wife (My sweet, sweet friend, lover, sister, mother/wife) Air, food, water, love of my life
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 11:53 AM | Link to this
i couldn’t imagine drinking margaritas at lunch…much less on a thursday afternoon when i have to go back to work…
now…catch me about 6p this evening…i’ll be at the TGO Friday’s on Camp Creek downing my required two appletini’s…
By MELO
February 6, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this
I ain’t takin out no trash or cuttin no grass! I ain’t gonna do it! I wear the skirts and he wears the pants! ,queen dont do that either…so is that a miss?? Throw another wild one…..
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 11:56 AM | Link to this
Ok let me try this again…it ate my post!!!
My “Sweetie” is all I wanted and needed. He takes great of himself, me and the children. He makes us his first priority. I feel very secure, safe and loved. He looks beyond my faults and sees my heart. He makes me better. He is the leader of our pack. LOL
Last night we met for dinner after work….I got there b4 he did, so I parked and waited for him. He arrived but did not see me. So I sat in my car and watched him. He got out of the car, put on his suit jacket, scanned the parking lot, closed the door and walked to the resturant. His walk, his posture, his confidence….made me melt. I was thinking, “Wow, That’s ALL MINE and he is soo FINE!!”
I love to watch him sleep, too. Anyway….Everyday, I make it my business do something for him that will make him smile, something that will make his day better, something to let him know how much I love, respect and appreciate him.
After 15 years of marriage, I would still choose him.
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 11:58 AM | Link to this
@LEGGS…LOL
That chick would had to pay for those drinks…lol…three at lunch all that would signal to me is that she likes to have fun….that would be all….your homie is just a dirty old man…again he should have turned that lunch date into an after work date at a nearby bar..then he could have shown her his O face after those three drinks…all that shows is that he was too eager to try and date this chick…if he would have asked more question he would have seen she like to drank…so we hit the bar for some wangs and tini’s then to the house for a t** tay bath and head…lol
By Sassy Me
February 6, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this
Hmmmm…I’ve been in relationships that ended badly b/c the guy cheated however my last one ended amicably….sometimes I wonder if it’s truly over then other times I know it is. It sounds cliche but he and I were very good long distance friends first until he moved back to the “A”. The one thing that I can say about him was that he showed me real love by taking tht time to learn me and understanding me ‘cause I can be some work at times. I had trust issues that he recognized and he helped me to see that not all men are bad and that love does still exist.
He helped me to restore my fiath in relationships and I know that that’s the reason why out of all of my exes he is the only one that I’m still friends with.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this
That’s beautiful Stormy!
By OOO-OOP!!
February 6, 2009 12:05 PM | Link to this
Does anyone know when India.Arie’s latest is slated to drop?
By For Real
February 6, 2009 12:05 PM | Link to this
Shawty Blow Who takes the trash out now?
For Real now imagining Blow in nothing but a McDonnald’s aprin and hat working the fries on a step stool.
Sexycool I’ll be there 6 too. Hit me up for_real730@yahoo.com
Leggs You can’t call ole girls actions one way or the other for sure but people get likkard up for a reason old dude could be right and young dude cool be naive.
Stormy You should let him read what you wrote.
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 12:05 PM | Link to this
Blow aka the Midget Mud Wrestler * I ain’t takin out no trash or cuttin no grass!* so what you’re saying is you want a traditional marriage? That means you’ll be preparing 3 squares and keeping the house clean and grocery shopping and laying out some mean skull to boot. I didn’t think you wanted “that much” of a traditional marriage. Btw, I saw you out one night and your azz is 4’11”, after a few strong drinks. you still using those booster chairs?
For Real die die die. LMAO
Poppa they should close those those “overpriced for a sub par education” schools down. Harvard prices with Atlanta Area Tech curriculum. LOL
Rell one of you doesn’t want to get out of it. Which one?
By Sassy Me
February 6, 2009 12:07 PM | Link to this
Ooops…I misspelled faith…my bad y’all.
By For Real
February 6, 2009 12:12 PM | Link to this
Sassy I’ve been in relationships that ended badly b/c the guy cheated - Technically in order for a relationship to end badly both parties must suffer. See quadratic equation below.
(Him + azz) + (You - azz) = relationship end bad for You
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this
After 15 years of marriage, I would still choose him
THATS THE WHOLE POINT..meaning that is what any relationship/marriage is about two folks that choice each other..period dot!!…
thats good to hear stormy
By MELO
February 6, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this
Stormy,i aint feeling that!! lol Other than that big mansion with an elavator,what does he do,tangibly, that u appreciate?? Maybe i will get my clues from ur man….lol
By kinderbabe
February 6, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this
i appreciate my SO for being nurturing and caring. i love that i can go to him when i’ve had a bad day and be coddled a little.:)
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this
Sad day for HBCUs. CAU cancelled classes today, and will be laying off people.
I still haven’t found a thing…
pg What happened?
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 12:19 PM | Link to this
OOO-OOP
Tuesday the 10th. india
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 12:20 PM | Link to this
ARed
Girl…I took a minute for us to get where we are in our relationship. I think the first two years were H E L L. The meshing of two lives, getting past unrealistic ideals of marriage, learning each other, seeing past flaws, not going to bed angry, even if it took all night, etc…it was rough. Now we just fit together.
For Real
Maybe I will.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 12:21 PM | Link to this
Sexycool I’ll be there 6 too. Hit me up for_real730@yahoo.com
u been here longer than Dreams, so i thoght u were gonna give him a chance* For Real*.But anywho, i think he got the gist of it.This is an urban serengeti,u gotta play real fast and be a quick blood-hound to draw blood.
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 12:21 PM | Link to this
Kinder i love that i can go to him when i’ve had a bad day and be coddled a little.:) You could of always come to me to be fondled. Oh, you said coddled, my bad.
Stormy if I had feeling I’d be touched.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 12:22 PM | Link to this
@ kinderteach…you gets a coddled session? i’m sure at the end of the day/week after all you do with the kiddies he can see “drained” written all over your face.
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 12:30 PM | Link to this
Melo
What elevator? LOL Anyway….I appreciate he lets me be me. He loves me for being me. I appreciate he choose me. I appreciate how accepts my flaws, shortcomings, slip ups, etc. I appreciate him being my “soft place to land.” I could go on and on.
Rell
I’m sorry to hear about your marriage. If you gave it all you had….then walk away with a clean heart and hands.
Truth
You got feeling…they just buried deep and covered with iron. LOL
By Blow Me
February 6, 2009 12:33 PM | Link to this
Truth You really have these ppl…They believe anything you say! amazing!! lol!
That means you’ll be preparing 3 squares and keeping the house clean and grocery shopping and laying out some mean skull to boot. I didn’t think you wanted “that much” of a traditional marriage
Yup oh yeah don’t forget his bathwater ran and nice& warm with his fuzzy slippers ready…He’s the KING. I go all in and HARD! If he is giving his all like I need. He will NOT one problem and NO mouth from me! I am ALL in!
Ared No I am not. I am tall 5”8
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 12:35 PM | Link to this
good reading…
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 6, 2009 12:37 PM | Link to this
POPPA GRANDE I think you might be a bit older than me..I am 28…and a Kenneth..not really ringing a bell just yet. Seems like I would know him at least..since I do have a older brother.
By kinderbae
February 6, 2009 12:41 PM | Link to this
truth you’re a mess!! lol mind all in the gutter. how have you been? glad that it’s warming up outside?
cemeeli yeah girl…i’m sure it shows all over my face. the kids are no joke! he can always tell when something’s wrong and will just open his arms to me and let me lay.:) it’s definitely a comfort. how have you been? how’s your little man? is he enjoying school this year?
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 12:42 PM | Link to this
help…what movie is this line of dialogue from?
why every night i got to fight to prove my love?
By MELO
February 6, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this
I appreciate how accepts my flaws, shortcomings, slip ups, etc he got it eventually, after those first two years that were H E L L.And went one notch up by getting u that silicon breastess!! U seem to luv this man,i see that. I got an afternoon qstion for u.After 2.00 pm.
By Sassy Me
February 6, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this
Sassy I’ve been in relationships that ended badly b/c the guy cheated - Technically in order for a relationship to end badly both parties must suffer. See quadratic equation below.
(Him + azz) + (You - azz) = relationship end bad for You
@For Real
Yes I did say that it was amicable but I left some things out…let me back track. We started to grow apart and for a while neither one of us wanted to be the first to say good-bye And for a time we both suffered. However I realized that just b/c we were in love that didn’t mean it would/could work. And since you wanted to be technical…that’s not the/a real quadratic equation but good try…I see your point.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 12:46 PM | Link to this
Blow, cool. Another vertically blessed sista.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 12:46 PM | Link to this
Stormy - Thanks for even sharing the ‘not so goods’ about relationships. Sometimes the petty squabbles and the things that turn each other off, if you real grown about it, it can still bring back a great return.
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 12:50 PM | Link to this
oh…wait…wasn’t it The Five Heartbeats?
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 6, 2009 12:51 PM | Link to this
Sexycool Umm, Why did I get married?
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 12:52 PM | Link to this
Cee
The local news, I think Fox 5, reported that classes were cancelled today. The news didn’t say why.
I heard from a friend over there that restructuring was going on and some layoffs when pending.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this
Keep doing the coddling…keeps ya mind right.
Kinderteach I am tired like a racehorse today for real. One of my best team members last day is next Friday…she was off yesterday and I am trying to reconfigure some things before the last day. She is going home to be an “stay at home”…
Lil Cee is doing well…I pulled teeth to find out who is his Valentine and I am leaving early on the strength to see who this girl Najae’ is. He got all smiles when he finally told me her name and look she’s older.
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 1:01 PM | Link to this
Cee
The CAU layoff is on the front page of the AJC.com now.
100 jobs cut.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this
pg - okay lay offs mean budget cuts. so if professors are involved in those cuts, the students are getting short change..
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this
Sad news about Clark-Atlanta. My sister and cousin both went there. CAU costs $25,000 a year. UC Berkeley cost me $14,000.
Both of them have stated if they had to do it over again, they would have chosen another school. I think cuz they have been crushed by student loan debt!
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 1:06 PM | Link to this
Cee
It takes time, patience, honesty, maturity, selflessness, forgiveness, etc to make it work.
He does get on my nerves from time to time and I sure he feels the same about me and my “ugly ways” at times. But we get through it. We’ve found the longer we are together the “flare ups” happen less frequently. LOL
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 6, 2009 1:07 PM | Link to this
Atltwen So what was the problem? Why couldn’t she be your girl? She showed you that she was kind…you were already getting the goods! Let me guess…if she treated you like sh*t then you would have wanted her huh? I swear….men! no pleasing them!
Melo So what about my chocha shaving??? LOL
Rell Dude….I’m sorry about your divorce. Although you seem to be ok with it. So much support man! You going to Strokers? LOL
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 1:09 PM | Link to this
Cee
There are professor cuts as well. The school is combining some classes. That tells me that professors are getting cut and the classes are being put together.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 1:15 PM | Link to this
Thanks Stormy you guys have a solid relationship…:)
btw - 15years!!! Girl - Congratulations! You are up there with my sister.
By Beautiful
February 6, 2009 1:20 PM | Link to this
What did they teach you that sticks with you today?
to just be happy! ;-)
phelps … shakin’ my head. i swear. i made my son read the article last night. i’ve decided to bring to his attention all of the mistakes athletes make and how your life can change behind bad choices. why didn’t i think of this before. he wants to be a cop, but the same lesson applies.
i watched 10 mins of balwin hills. double dating. do people still do that? a get together at the house is more my style.
oh and jazzy if you’re out there, i got you mixed up with someone else. i was thinking you were lady j. sorry.
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this
You going to Strokers? LOL
went last week and seen the chick from the “bad girls club” leslie….and bwoi…she had the prettiest t** tays i have ever seen..EVER…but her A town dancing skills get an A++…I HAVE NEVER ever seen a chick stand straight lift one leg and maintain balance..place said leg behind her head…wow….and up close she is gorgous…but i could see the larceny in her eyes when she spoke so i passed on a lap dance…i was cool just peeping her on stage…and i did not know who she was a female in our lil group peeped her out…
By Beautiful
February 6, 2009 1:36 PM | Link to this
melo you got mail!
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 1:38 PM | Link to this
if she treated you like sht then you would have wanted her huh?*
Staceye i hollered roth. When the buck-it comes out from us they act like it’s what they wanted all along.
It bes like that.
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 6, 2009 1:39 PM | Link to this
BOOTIFUL Get together @ the house means EAZY AZZCESS…house on way on down the line!
By Beautiful
February 6, 2009 1:39 PM | Link to this
sexyc you got mail!
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 1:44 PM | Link to this
Beautiful
What part of Cali do you live? I lived in San Jose after college. I was working for a small computer firm in the valley at the time.
I actually loved the area, spent a lot of time in San Fran, Pebble Beach, Sunnyvale and even Reno….but it’s so expensive. Luckily, when I was working there they paid for my apartment ($1500) for a studio, ridiculous!!!!
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 1:49 PM | Link to this
Melo I get your post, but where did that come from? Besides, you didn’t know I was hittin’ e’erything movin on the blog? JUST KIDDING LADIES! Let me stop, cuz apparently blog rumors spread like wildfire.
By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S
February 6, 2009 1:52 PM | Link to this
@ BEAUTIFUL- COMING BACK FOR SOME MORE? WHERE IS JAMOCA? LETS GET IT STARTED.
TOO BAD IT’S WISE DIVO’S WEEK NEXT WEEK. I SWEAR SHE IS A MAN!
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 1:54 PM | Link to this
Dreams
You should know how he rolls by now (LOL)…..He just throws stuff out there to see what sticks. He’s too funny!!!!
By DasV
February 6, 2009 1:55 PM | Link to this
im touched at the 15 years….has it been that long or just felt like it?? LOL Storm just messin… i knowed it aint be easy, but you still there. thats something.
theTruth i see you borderline having feelings ….i need a bill paid.
SexyCool* you do be finding some good sites online….
melo kudos on your snaps for queen. prince zulu better yet??
bluK you around? im ready for some online chess playin…. especially since watchmovies.net gone the way of many others wit this wicked economy…. tho it may have been the whole il-legality of it. :)
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 1:58 PM | Link to this
For instance….All is said was, there is nothing wrong with breast implants…so now he thinks I have implants. I might have them or I might not….it’s really no one’s business…but he just assumes that I do…so I let him think what he wants. LOL
By church lady
February 6, 2009 2:00 PM | Link to this
@ BEAUTIFUL- COMING BACK FOR SOME MORE I know right. I was thinking the same thing. Resiliency at it’s finest. Gone Beautiful witcho bouncing back self.
aaaaaaah glory
By SlimOne aka auntie
February 6, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this
Rell Sorry to hear bout your news. Are you happy of the end of the road to your marriage?
By kinderbae
February 6, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this
cemeeli how cute is that! a valentine, huh? that is adorable. i remember those days when giving out valentine’s cards at school was a big deal. my kids are little so they’re not really into it that much. the fifth graders are a little different though…hormones are raging by then. lol
By MELO
February 6, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this
Dreams got that from late yester yester.
Beautiful,girl u mail me…well talk and romance then….hehehe
Dasv,thanx for asking,prince is bouncing,dropped him off this merning.But i had to endure going on fours to wipe his dudu mess in the bathrm on tuesday.Hope i get credits for that from ared and **Blow thanx sweetie!!
Mayne this sangweji(sandwich( is slammin’….
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this
@WTF??, I have no control over the double posting. I hit the post button one time, log out and reopen. If you truly can’t stand it, please report it to AJC.
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this
beautiful…no mail…
cscfromajc@yahoo.com
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 2:08 PM | Link to this
…i don’t realy watch t.v. …but….
Will i miss cable if i got rid of it? prolly couldn’t see the channels if i don’t have it. The cable companies set us up…we get locked/sucked in and cain’t get out. Dang…
I hate cable bills…
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this
Das V
Like I said previously….the first 2 years were the looonnngeessttt!!! The rest have been going by fast….July 26th will be 16 years. WOW!!!! And we both turned 40 last year, so we still young and we STILL LOOK GOOD!!!!
My parents were married for 38 years and my paternal grandparents have been married almost 70 years….they are in their late 80’s.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this
Thanks Stormy you guys have a solid relationship…..ah.ah!!
hw u knw dat Cee?
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 2:12 PM | Link to this
the fifth graders are a little different though…hormones are raging by then
kinderteach…yea, he will be 10 in a few (4th grd) and the girl Najae’ is a 5th grader. He told me i meet her at the Art Auction but i’on remember. im’a see her today.
Wait, kindergarteners want their V-day party, i’m sure. I remember bring in cupcakes and stuff back then.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 2:12 PM | Link to this
melo, you want credit for taking care of the kid you created? ;-) lol
By Beautiful
February 6, 2009 2:13 PM | Link to this
should i remind the trolls that this is a blog. lol. yesterday is yesterday.
my childhood friend is opening up her restaurant by the bay this w/e. it should be exciting!
hi stormy! i live in the valley (modesto/stockton area).
sexyc sorry, i thought i had your addy.
have a good one. waving
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:13 PM | Link to this
@WTF??, I have no control over the double posting. I hit the post button one time, log out and reopen. If you truly can’t stand it, please report it to AJC.
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 2:14 PM | Link to this
@STORMY
your whole 2:09 post why going fwd i will check family history like a dayum CSI case
By Keep It Real!
February 6, 2009 2:18 PM | Link to this
Well Now!
The incredible Black Mamba has blogged and my heart takes another beats a little faster!
Hello Black Mamba!
Stacey you have mentioned Strokers yesterday and today!
Should we have our first date at La Strokers?
By kinderbabe
February 6, 2009 2:18 PM | Link to this
cemeeli yes, we will have a party. any occasion is good for cupcakes.:) my class just loves cupcakes too. for our holiday party in december, they ate almost 3 dozen cupcakes (a class of 14) and 3 large pizzas…not including the countless cookies, drinks and chips they ate. so i’m sure they will be super excited to have cupcakes next week…lol
By MELO
February 6, 2009 2:18 PM | Link to this
SexxyCl, what does v2009 UnCut mean?? If it means what i think it does,girl u going gangster with it in 2009 and the guys dont get it…lol…
Rell, i will say congrats on ur liberation.I been there,done that.This is my second,actually.I have disclosed that be4.U know now(like lil wayne said) If it had happened in these parts, i wld still be single and in massive rotation. Embrace and Enjoy it!! Other than those financials which may take a hit,i will say this,if it dont fit,acquit..Hw u looking at staceye now.If u dont make a move,ur fault!!
Stormy they look good on u…..
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 2:19 PM | Link to this
Melo i have you and Queen as a great example. :)
Did the Prince Zulu get sent off to school okay today?
By MELO
February 6, 2009 2:22 PM | Link to this
ared, u tough!
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 2:23 PM | Link to this
Rell
You are right…my husband’s family history is similiar to mine. To me, that was important, family structure/history.
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 2:24 PM | Link to this
melo…that’s it exactly…2009 - i come straight, no chaser…gloves off…all of ‘dat…anybody don’t like it can kick rocks…
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 6, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this
LEGGS-Who is messing with you? Send them my way! Don’t mess wit Leggs Yall are really gonna make me go OFF! LOL
By Miss QC
February 6, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this
Just stopping by to say hello…not feeling this friday topic…Hopefully everyone’s having a great day…enjoy your weekend!
By Blow Me a.k.a M.I.A ADDICT
February 6, 2009 2:26 PM | Link to this
LEGGS-Who is messing with you? Send them my way! Don’t mess wit Leggs Yall are really gonna make me go OFF! LOL
ARED COSIGN 2:12…Melo just get off your lazy azz just a bit.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 2:29 PM | Link to this
kinderteach i know where the school is…i may use my lunch n drive over to celebrate with your class’s V-day party. I need to pick up my other Ga. Aqua info. in that area before next friday anyway.
My son of course does not want me all up in his V-day party (i dunno, he might). And my 5year old neice’s school is waaay on the eastside…she’s is so much better at telling me about parties and events at her school than lil cee, but i have yet to go visit with her class. I need to get out there before the school year is out.
By SexyCool - v2009 UnCut
February 6, 2009 2:32 PM | Link to this
QC…you don’t comment on most topics anyway…
By MELO
February 6, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this
I havent disclosed meant to say
yeah,prince zulu was good today.He was contagious coz of strap throat and fever so had to stay away from other kids.I got his bug too but killed it quick with a vitamin.And thanx to u Cee.Like stormy and big bolla we butted heads big time early on.Queen was trying to come at me with that burgie nonsense versus my country and urban smarts.She is in her place now.King gotta play king,u know.Thats hw we do,zulu style. But she is an asset as wify.I dont know if i deserve her coz i can be messed up big time.No kidding!But i think i got a spell on her or maybe she likes them Bad boys!! Dnt know which is which.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this
going fwd i will check family history like a dayum CSI case
Rell, so this means you’re willing to marry again? That’s good. I thought you were gonna join Truths “Never Marry Again and Live a Drama Free Life” team. lol
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 2:34 PM | Link to this
Auntie K Wait until that cute lil butterfly call you Auntie for the first time and it rings in your ear…Gurl, i have found myself picking up my niece (at 5 years old) and just holding that berry while talkin with her.
she just smiles…AND talks - a LOT! but Auntie loves it.
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 2:36 PM | Link to this
Stormy yeah I know. Melo is a funny dude. So what is this I hear about breast implants? It’s no one else’s business, so you can just whisper it in my ear. lol
Melo Oh from yesterday. I was just sayin I didn’t know about all the extra blog goings on. Maybe ur right…need to mix it up more.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:39 PM | Link to this
It’s all good Blow. Others are doing the same thing. Unfortunately, I’ve been consistent w/mine for the past 2 weeks. Oh well.
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 2:41 PM | Link to this
He was contagious coz of strap throat and fever so had to stay away from other kids.I got his bug too but killed it quick with a vitamin.
I had that twice…ooo LAWD that strep is a MESS!! I’m glad he is over it…you could have gotten him the penicillin shot and he be done with Strep in less than 24 hours.
Queen was trying to come at me with that burgie nonsense versus my country and urban smarts. she is an asset as wify.I dont know if i deserve her coz i can be messed up big time.No kidding!But i think i got a spell on her or maybe she likes them Bad boys!! Dnt know which is which.
Melo
Whatever works you two are together and got some substance in there to show it. She is for YOU! ..and you for her.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this
It’s all good Blow. Others are doing the same thing. Unfortunately, I’ve been consistent w/mine for the past 2 weeks. Oh well.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:45 PM | Link to this
Good News Everyone, Lil Leggs made the high school track team…WOO HOO!
By Satoria Lynn
February 6, 2009 2:47 PM | Link to this
Hello to some!
Most of the ladies on this site are embarrassing. Catty and acting so high school.
What I like best about my SO? Dude being there for me, good times and bad.
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 2:49 PM | Link to this
Sup ya’ll…
As for the topic, one of the greatest and most life changing of past relationship comes to mind.
He brought out of me what was already there. Some of the toughest of my life’s lessons were involved with this individual.
While a few of my folks sit back and wonder in amazement at my being able to carry on, without bitterness, resentment and malice…as well as maintaining my sanity and my own level of what brings Jamoca her piece of mind… I simply see those experiences as training, preparation so to speak.
In retrospect, by occasionally remembering the moments that were shared and the lesson(s) being taught, the good times were absolutely phenomenal, but the bad times…those were just priceless.
True, I know what it like to go hard and love someone so deep, whereas the communication being exchanged was unspoken, yet thoroughly understood.
And when it all comes to an end, somehow, you’re not left with the feeling of life “cheatin’ ya none,” because you gave it all you had, but reserved enough self love to carry on.
All that to say, he unknowingly brought out of me the fear, once kept in the back of mind that I could never go on such a journey with another individual. But to simply go harder and love even deeper than before. And to live in the NOW, not WHAT WAS.
It “checks” me every time.
By DJ
February 6, 2009 2:49 PM | Link to this
I have the most supportive woman a man could ever have. She’s always honest with her feelings about the decisions I make. As a man with ambitions, I have failed. When I feel down and out, she hugs me and tell me things are going to be okay, I’ve got your back. So, I asked her to marry me. CAN’T BEAT HER!! Love you Lakisha!!!
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:50 PM | Link to this
Good News Everyone, Lil Leggs made the high school track team…WOO HOO!
By MELO
February 6, 2009 2:50 PM | Link to this
Rell,one more advice:if u snatch Ared u may butt heads initially coz u 2 are very spirited and very talkative and mental but the sexx will be mind-blowing,off da chain piece of atrition and azz slapping coz of the intensity u 2 possess. But u got time homie to survey this field and make ur move.Good luck!
By Wise Diva
February 6, 2009 2:55 PM | Link to this
I’m a man? Clearly, I stay on your mind. I am going to send you an hater application, what is your email address, oh wait, I already have it
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this
Rell, be kind to yourself and don’t act a fool (which you probably won’t). For me, driving home and knowing his car was not parked in the driveway brought immediate joy to my soul! No kidding.
By Nice Like Dat
February 6, 2009 3:01 PM | Link to this
My wife and I found each other and what sets her apart is her openess. She likes to try things and does not hide her sensuality. She likes chicks and loves that I love it too. Every man’s fantasy!! And she’s mine all mine!!
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 3:01 PM | Link to this
Hw u looking at staceye now.If u dont make a move,ur fault!!
hell NO…i like my life player…LMAO..staceye would kill me…this i know
Rell,one more advice:if u snatch Ared u may butt heads initially coz u 2 are very spirited and very talkative and mental but the sexx will be mind-blowing,off da chain piece of atrition and azz slapping coz of the intensity u 2 possess. But u got time homie to survey this field and make ur move.Good luck!
HELL NO….she would kill me too…this i know..lol
on the remarry thing…RED this is what i have found out…its not marriage but the people in it…i just have to show all that i have learned on the next one….when there is another one…in the meantime i dont think about the past…i cut it…and move on..this is my way…and for all that are curious the “marriage” been ova for some time…but the show is coming to a close and the credits are rolling….feel me….
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 3:01 PM | Link to this
Rell, be kind to yourself and don’t act a fool (which you probably won’t). For me, driving home and knowing his car was not parked in the driveway brought immediate joy to my soul! No kidding.
By lurker
February 6, 2009 3:02 PM | Link to this
Satoria Lynn Most of the ladies on this site are embarrassing. Catty and acting so high school. Stating that is different how?
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this
Damn, today turned out to be pretty nice, and this weekend is supposed to be even nicer. what’s everyone got planned this weekend?
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:03 PM | Link to this
melo, I’m a prude in the sack. Yeah, that’s it! And I won’t cook either. :-)
LMAO @ WiseDiva.
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 3:08 PM | Link to this
Leggs Congrats on Lil Leggums making the team.
Melo When you get a spell, check that inbox, if you will. I went ONLY by the material provided to me…and without solicitation.
Happy Birthday, Ms. Tatas aka Fellow Whole A$$ Chick!! Sure wish I was there to partake in the festivities…JR cocktails and all. Live it up, Ma’ma. :-)
By lurker
February 6, 2009 3:09 PM | Link to this
Rell and for all that are curious the “marriage” been ova for some time now This has been obvious for some time now…at least in your posts its been showing. Heck I thought you’ve always stepped out on her (from the tone of your post that is)
By kinderbabe
February 6, 2009 3:09 PM | Link to this
cemeeli sure, stop by! we’ll get started around 1:30.:) have a great weekend. i’m outta here!
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:10 PM | Link to this
and for all that are curious the “marriage” been ova for some time…but the show is coming to a close and the credits are rolling….feel me…
Yeah Rell, I think most of us on the board could tell. The part that got me was you kept telling the singles “I’m where you want to be” and we’re like…”Errr” (scooby doo voice). lol
Either way, still sucks and I’m sorry to see another (black) union ending. But we know you’ll be alright!
What made you want to finally share this with us today?
By MELO
February 6, 2009 3:12 PM | Link to this
Ared,u knw queen didnt knw hw to cook until she met me!Thats the power of a man when u meet the one.Same is true about us and women.Some boys dont know hw to wash themsleves properly as men untill they meet a deserving woman and then learn to spruce up! When the time comes,u become abled like lazarus in the bible.The dyckk has a funny,weird and scandangalous communication style!
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 3:12 PM | Link to this
I will be shopping and packing for our Ski Trip this weekend. We have never been skiing….so this should be interesting!!!! We may not have a clue about what we are doing….but we gon look like pro’s with all of our gear. LOL
By MELO
February 6, 2009 3:14 PM | Link to this
jamoca,i hit u back, long back..why u announcing our hook up…
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 3:15 PM | Link to this
@ Dreams - i see right out the window and over the city but cain’t get the “nice day” in my head. I know it there jus gotta get out of here to feel n touch.
w/e jaunts..Ah, every Saturday morning until March has been Jr. NBA for me. this w/e i get my all gold metallic ole school Chuck Taylors i’m wearing for my gf’s 30th 80’s party. (The store called me this week saying they arrived.) i am excited about them lil shoes…and they only cost me 1/3 of what i would have paid somewhere else.
By Teresa
February 6, 2009 3:15 PM | Link to this
My fiance is an incredibly special person. He recently opened a restaurant. Between the restaurant and my full-time job, we have NO time together! He knows I am not a morning person & will make a special effort a few times a week to bring my favorite QT coffee. This little gesture means the world to me and screams I love you.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:17 PM | Link to this
Ared,u knw queen didnt knw hw to cook until she met me!Thats the power of a man when u meet the one.
melo, my mother has been married for 31 years and cooked almost everyday when I was coming up. She didn’t learn to cook until she got married (and was 29 at that)
She told me, “you’ll learn when you marry.” I do cook now, but I can whip up quick meals for me, because I know what I like and don’t eat a lot.
When I get married, it will all change because I plan to feed my family and do it right, just like mom did.
But it also helps I tend to date guys who know how to cook too. My dad never did.
By trysh_mc
February 6, 2009 3:21 PM | Link to this
I just want to say that I love my fiance for his patience, determination and understanding. He knows the true meaning of “show and prove” and does so on a daily basis.
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 6, 2009 3:21 PM | Link to this
rell Bad Girls club..it’s funny. I met her when I auditioned for that show. I made it through to the final round and decided it was not for me. She is real nice.
Hello Keep it real! LOL
DJ did she say yes?
Rell LOL why do you think I’d kill you?
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 3:22 PM | Link to this
Melo
You NEVER cease to amaze me!!! Almost EVERY convo. leads to sex, body parts and the like.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:22 PM | Link to this
Stormy Enjoy skiing! I ski and snowboard. I haven’t been since I’ve been here in GA, but my friend belongs to the Snow Seekers and told me about some trips.
Leggs, congrats to your kid. I can’t believe she’s in HS…
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 3:23 PM | Link to this
at least in your posts its been showing.
REALLY..folks can tell how someone personality just from blog post..fa real…well if thats the case i will never tell what i think of some of you ladies from these posts….lol…smh
@red
what made me share today….why is the sky blue…no reason i just did….plus when i was stating you are where i want to be…meaning that everyone that gets into a LTR wants it to end at the altar…thats what i meant..plus i dont have all the answers i learn stuff everyday..specially things i could have done different…but thats the thing i deal with me…so half the time when i am posting you getting the evil side to me…the things i cant say to the world in person…if i said half the sh it on my mind they would lock me away in the nut house…real talk…in real life i am waaaaaaaaaaaaay laid back…you would be like this is not rell…just ask those that have meet me…..but i digress.
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 3:24 PM | Link to this
Leggs
Congrats to Lil Leggs. “Run, Lil Leggs, Run” It may just lead to her taking care of her college education. Whether its academic or athletic, scholarships are a blessing. I loved not have any educational debt following undergrad.
On another note
I got a call from an old friend from my parents (formerly my) neighborhood. He saw me on MARTA a few weeks ago.
He told me that 5 years ago he quit his job at Goldman Sachs because he wanted to pursue his love of music. He claims that it was tough getting a break, and ended up living in a car for a few months 2006. Then he met someone and ended up with a deal on an independent label. Well, long story short, he got a call yesterday and will be an opening act for John Mayer. He is packing for Cali and the Grammys.
Pursing and seeing your goals through can bear fruit.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this
Stormy
You NEVER cease to amaze me!!! Almost EVERY convo. leads to sex, body parts and the like.
u must be on the wrong blog then.Go to the marrieds blog,smwhere.If u here,then u intent to cheat,like me.Right? So body parts,sexx etc are in play…..Hw long u think u will play this game undercover??Send me a pic…oh are u shy?? lol
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this
When I get married, it will all change because I plan to feed my family and do it right, just like mom did.
there goes that family history again..good look
@staceye…yea the chick is fine i could not keep my eyes off her..the whole night she was like do you wanna dance you just keep staring..i am like naw i am cool…lol…and then when she took the top off i was like dayum…but you got to know the mental is warped….on a side note you should have done the show…that would have been funnnnnn e
and you would kill me with all that loving you have locked in side…my heart not big enough to recieve all that you would try to give me….and it would kill me to hurt you in that way…….wink….same goes for ared…lol
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this
meaning that everyone that gets into a LTR wants it to end at the altar…
Rell I wouldn’t say that. I’d want it to end at the graveyard 50 years later.
Getting to the alter is not as hard as y’all try to make it seems. Like Truth always says, I can get married this weekend. I want more than that.
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 3:32 PM | Link to this
ARed
We are flying to Aspen, on Thrusday and will be there thru the w/e.
I’m just praying that I don’t bust my butt…but if I do, I’ll be looking cute with all of my color coordinating gear. LOL
I’m looking forward to it….should be fun.
By kimmie
February 6, 2009 3:33 PM | Link to this
Leggs - Congrats to your daughter! Athletics and other school organizations are great. Great exercise, keeps them busy and she may get a scholarship out of it!
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 3:37 PM | Link to this
end at the graveyard 50 years later.
i agree….i got you
By Cemeeli
February 6, 2009 3:38 PM | Link to this
Stormy You to will learn and laugh at each other together…while looking good doing it. Make sure you give him the complete snowbunny look when you get everything on.
PoppaG Congratulations to that friend. He truly endure with following his dreams.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:39 PM | Link to this
Dang Stormy, Aspen? LOL. If you’re gonna do it, do it right! You will bust your butt, I guarantee, but just get up again.
Keep the hands and feet warm and you’ll last all day.
Rell, still a yam splitter I see. Thank you so much for looking out for me and taking that “pass.” LOL
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 3:39 PM | Link to this
i hit u back, long back..why u announcing our hook up…
You’s a trip. Quit playin’ man…I assumed you were asking for Shimm’s, but why would I underestimated your reply or the fact that you already possess them, is beyond me. And speaking of your request, mayne, you must think I just fell off of the turnip truck, not that it would matter. Although, I actually welcome being underestimated myself.
I just refuse to believe that you are really “this way” in person, even though you crack me up at times…then there are times when I could just strangle you…at least, virtually. LOL
By MELO
February 6, 2009 3:42 PM | Link to this
red u got a good mother!
Congrats Leggs,ur genes are showing out!!
She likes chicks and loves that I love it too. Every man’s fantasy!! and why is this man convinced that, **And she’s mine all mine!! fighting other girls to claim ur girl is not a good look!!
Vent: I lost my iphone case this week and went to the apple store tday to replace it,cost, $29.99 for a simple leather case.Thats phuccked up robbery right there..
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 3:44 PM | Link to this
Melo
This blog keeps me entertained while at work…nothing more, nothing less.
Don’t try to place your warped sense of thinking/motives on me, those are yours so love them, own them.
Leggs
Congrats!!!! My son just started running on a Rec. league, track club.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this
Thanks Jamoca/ARed/PoppaG. She is too thrilled w/herself.
ARed, I too can’t believe she’s in h.s.
PoppaG, I’m hoping. I didn’t have any educational debt upon graduating either.
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
February 6, 2009 3:49 PM | Link to this
Poppa Kudos and good luck to your friend. I am pursuing mine…but I do not have the balls to quit what keeps a roof over my head and food in my mouth yet.
Rell Cue the violins! LOL Why don’t you just pull my hair? I mean…since your screwing me with that line you might as well pull my hair since that is what I like while being screwed. LOL
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 3:49 PM | Link to this
Thank you melo. And it’s clear you’ve got a family to be proud of.
I know so many people who have iphones have lost, broken or dropped them in the toilet! All that money…gone.
Meanwhile, my $80 phone is still going strong. lol
By Jessica
February 6, 2009 3:53 PM | Link to this
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. What I love about him and the relationship is that we are each other’s best friend and can talk about anything. Even with our hectic lives, we always have Sunday’s be “our day” or our “date night”.
By Leggs
February 6, 2009 3:53 PM | Link to this
Thanks Jamoca/ARed/PoppaG. She is too thrilled w/herself.
ARed, I too can’t believe she’s in h.s.
PoppaG, I’m hoping. I didn’t have any educational debt upon graduating either.
By Jessica
February 6, 2009 3:53 PM | Link to this
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. What I love about him and the relationship is that we are each other’s best friend and can talk about anything. Even with our hectic lives, we always have Sunday’s be “our day” or our “date night”.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 3:53 PM | Link to this
Enjoy ur stay in Aspen.I knew there was some thing hollywoodish about u Stormy when u were defending the silicon breastess but i clndt place my fingure on it.Now u come back with aspen,u complete it.I am wrking to get to ur status,hopefully one day.If u meet Jada and Will,tell them folks back here in ATL luv them.
By Boo
February 6, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this
Since I don’t have anyone special in my life right now, I will comment about why a “Boo” from my past was SO special. My heart felt safe with him. He was super intelligent — and good looking. We not only completed each other’s sentences, but we shared the same great sense of humor. When we were out together, many times we would suddently start laughing, and without saying a word to each other, we both knew we were laughing at the same thing. We could be silly with one another, and as long as my hand was in his and his in mine, it was as though we were the only two people on earth. We were like a matching pair of gloves—seriously. Because I know how special THAT feeling was—I’m not going to give up until I meet someone and have THAT feeling all over again. Hummm. It sure did feel good to have it like that! GRT
By Boo
February 6, 2009 3:56 PM | Link to this
Since I don’t have anyone special in my life right now, I will comment about why a “Boo” from my past was SO special. My heart felt safe with him. He was super intelligent — and good looking. We not only completed each other’s sentences, but we shared the same great sense of humor. When we were out together, many times we would suddently start laughing, and without saying a word to each other, we both knew we were laughing at the same thing. We could be silly with one another, and as long as my hand was in his and his in mine, it was as though we were the only two people on earth. We were like a matching pair of gloves—seriously. Because I know how special THAT feeling was—I’m not going to give up until I meet someone and have THAT feeling all over again. Hummm. It sure did feel good to have it like that! GRT
By Rell - !!!!!!!!
February 6, 2009 3:56 PM | Link to this
@staceye….pull your hair….i will dream about it..thanks for the visual
By DreamsMaterializ
February 6, 2009 3:56 PM | Link to this
Stormy, ARed You all are reminding me of this time a bunch of us met up in Gatlinburg for a ski weekend. They even nicknamed it Freezenic. Did everything under the sun that weekend, except ski. lol So, ARed here’s the deal. You hit me off with some of your ski moves, and I’ll put you on to a couple of my culinary recipes.
By Boo
February 6, 2009 3:56 PM | Link to this
Since I don’t have anyone special in my life right now, I will comment about why a “Boo” from my past was SO special. My heart felt safe with him. He was super intelligent — and good looking. We not only completed each other’s sentences, but we shared the same great sense of humor. When we were out together, many times we would suddently start laughing, and without saying a word to each other, we both knew we were laughing at the same thing. We could be silly with one another, and as long as my hand was in his and his in mine, it was as though we were the only two people on earth. We were like a matching pair of gloves—seriously. Because I know how special THAT feeling was—I’m not going to give up until I meet someone and have THAT feeling all over again. Hummm. It sure did feel good to have it like that! GRT
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 4:02 PM | Link to this
ARed here’s the deal. You hit me off with some of your ski moves, and I’ll put you on to a couple of my culinary recipes.
Dreams, it’s a deal. By the way…
Did everything under the sun that weekend, except ski. lol
You’se a freak! You’re posting kind of racy (generally speaking) today!
By MELO
February 6, 2009 4:07 PM | Link to this
Staceye, u kill me with that hair visual.What else u like done to u during the act??
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 4:09 PM | Link to this
Stormy go to a ski class the first morning and you’ll be up and at it that afternoon. I hit Breckenridge a few years back and its fun. And do the snowmobile tour. Too much fun.
Staceye I want to pull your hair.
Wise is not a man. Her areaola’s are way to nice to be a man.
Melo I didnt know this is your second. Brave dude.
Rell its not the people in the marriage that ruins them. Its the friggin ceremony. These chicks spend their whole life wanting to be someones wife and when they get the job realize they have no training for it. Stay single and swap mates every few years. It’s cheaper.
Ared you’re not a prude a bed. If nobody yet has pulled it out of you its in there. You’re a freak in the making. LOL
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 4:12 PM | Link to this
ARed it’s a deal Pinky swear? lol
You’se a freak! You’re posting kind of racy (generally speaking) today! Hey that ski trip was was in college, and I had a great time, not saying that my freaky ways have subsided. ;-) Right person, right moment and we’re all freaks.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 4:15 PM | Link to this
Truth, for the purposes of this blog, I’m a lame-o in the sack. I’m okay with everyone on the blog thinking that so I don’t have to be subjected to anymore fictional blog hook-ups.
:-D
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 4:16 PM | Link to this
Staceye
Kudos and good luck to your friend. I am pursuing mine…but I do not have the balls to quit what keeps a roof over my head and food in my mouth yet.
I’ve notice that females don’t go to that extreme. I know other guys that dropped everything and moved out to California to pursue acting careers. Two of them actually have succeeded. A couple of others are part of the sea of acting wannabees that is LA. One of the successful ones was a lead actor on a show called “Saved”. Recently, he was Platoon Commander Huggs in “Miracle at St. Anna”. His name is Omari. He went to UGA and played football for them.
The females at least work as writers for “reality shows”. The guys just focus on being front of the camera and nothing else.
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 4:17 PM | Link to this
Right person, right moment and we’re all freaks.
You can say/post that again!! LMAO.
By MELO
February 6, 2009 4:18 PM | Link to this
Melo I didnt know this is your second. Brave dude dont follow the african model coz we dnt exactly follow the GA laws.If she hits my bank here, i will tel her folks back home.Trust me,they will be sending cows back to my homies over there to square that.She may be rich here,but they will be poor over there.Im evaluating my contract this summer tho.If the chics have shortened the skirt dimensions further up to mid thigh range by summer, i may be reneging on my contract.My kids college accounts are fully funded so the kids are good.I may be joining u in singlehood,come summer.Pray for me bro!!
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this
AR
Is there some type of DST event this weekend downtown? I was just at the Mall at Peachtree Center and there were quite a few ladies in DST paraphernalia. I haven’t heard the Mrs. talk about anything.
Then again, it is February maybe its that Fashion Fare or whatever it is called.
By Stormy
February 6, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this
Truth
We thought about Breckenridge and Gatlinburg…but finally settle on Aspen. The final decision was between Aspen and Lake Tahoe. Aspen won.
I already got my Uggs in several colors to match my outfits.
Melo
Btw, saline is the way to go….not silicone, that’s so 80ish. LOL
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 4:22 PM | Link to this
I may be joining u in singlehood,come summer.Pray for me bro!!
LOL. Shut up melo. You are a hot mess. lol
By Muffintop
February 6, 2009 4:26 PM | Link to this
My husband - he’s funny, understands we are not connected at the hip, understands my needs & supports me, especially my need not to cook every night, he’s romantic & also he cleans the house (his choice).
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 4:28 PM | Link to this
Is there some type of DST event this weekend downtown?
PG, LMAO! Yes, it’s our metro area Founder’s Day this weekend. Of course, we were founded on January 13, 1913, but for scheduling reasons, we celebrate in late January/Early February.
There are parties and events going on as well this weekend too.
I had not had it on the forefront of my mind. I’m heading to Vegas this weekend. I need to get a good book for the plane ride, though I’ll probably just watch movies on the plane instead.
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 4:29 PM | Link to this
Jamoca It’s true. Some are out with it, and some conceal it until the right moment. Either way, we all get down with the get down when the circumstance is right.
PG, Staceye Yeah LA is a rough place to make it. When I lived out there, I met a girl (from ATL actually) who dropped everything and quit here electrical engineering job in ATL to pursue acting in LA. I don’t know how much real talent she had, but she definitely had the looks. She was there two years before she moved back to ATL. I heard she’s engaged now.
By ...true
February 6, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this
satoria you are correct in your observation. some of these bloggers act like high school teenagers. yesturday fiasco was just silly and dumb. my 7 yr old acts more mature than those silly broads.
By ...true
February 6, 2009 4:39 PM | Link to this
and jamoca hoodrat was the worst!
By MELO
February 6, 2009 4:43 PM | Link to this
I will on the grammy red carpet this sunday,no doubt.In my living room ofcourse.Oogling all the holy wood lovelies……
By Poppa Grande
February 6, 2009 4:46 PM | Link to this
AR
Thanks. I was beginning to wonder if DST moved regional or national conventions to Feb. I started having flashbacks to Deltafest 2002 aka National Convention here in Atl.
By jlslks
February 6, 2009 4:47 PM | Link to this
He’ll go to the store and buy products that men do not need, along with ice cream. He’ll snuggle in the morning and tells me every day that I am beautiful, even after 10 years and 2 kids. He keeps in shape and lets me control the remote. He chops wood for fires and folds laundry. He is the man of every woman’s dream, and I get to live and love him everyday.
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 4:50 PM | Link to this
Jamoca It’s true. Some are out with it, and some conceal it until the right moment. Either way, we all get down with the get down when the circumstance is right.
Yes, indeed…this is extremely TRUE. I could not agree with you more. Although, it’s funny…seems some who portray themselves as good girls (whatever that means), are supposedly the Realest though, let some of the menfolks tell it. hehehe
But to “touch up” a little bit on matters of concealing what already lies within us, it is my understanding that some find it terribly confusing because a lot of men come with that “I want a Lady in the light and a Freak in the dark” talk. So may be there lies the perception of concealing what’s really going on. Of course, there are those of us who simply choose not to take the bizness to the streets…and I’m not disputing in anyway that a lady should run hers with class.
IMO, we’re all adults here, “we like what we like” . Get with the right one, and you’ll find this to be revealed, effortlessly. That alls I’m sayin’
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 5:00 PM | Link to this
Jamocha Whatever you like, claim it unapologetically. Be confident about what you like, but be classy at the same time. I feel you. So, are you a good girl? lol
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this
It’s 10 til closing time….associates of MANgie you had all day long.
You really expect me to take that mess serious.
Bottomline: Low blow for Low blow…as for yesterday, the high road was not the option I chose.
As for myself, we can take it from one extreme to the next.
It’s funny, you choose to engage the daily fiasco yourselves. Gone somewhere with all that.
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 5:02 PM | Link to this
I started having flashbacks to Deltafest 2002 aka National Convention here in Atl.
PG, lol. Guys still come up to me and thank the Deltas for one of the best weeks they’d ever had. Even the GWCC asked if we wanted to come back. We shut the city down (in a good way). I didn’t even live here then!
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 5:04 PM | Link to this
Dreams I never said that. LMAO
By ...true
February 6, 2009 5:05 PM | Link to this
satoria you are correct in your observation. some of these bloggers act like high school teenagers. yesturday fiasco was just silly and dumb. my 7 yr old acts more mature than those silly broads.
By Jamoca
February 6, 2009 5:06 PM | Link to this
But I “put on” for no one.
Being off the market, doesn’t mean I don’t have spells aka other needs. LOL But I have a pretty good harness on em. ;-)
By AmazonRed
February 6, 2009 5:06 PM | Link to this
Why do people have to act all serious and mature on a blog? It’s a message board, not brain surgery.
I guess y’all think reality TV is real. lol
Folks need to lighten up.
Have a fabulous weekend blog fam!
By The Truth
February 6, 2009 5:08 PM | Link to this
Melo on the iphone case, hit ebay. Cases that I paid 30 bux for are on there for 10.
You’re not leaving. For you I recommend marriage. You’d have a case of triple gonorrhea, crabs, and a double dose of chlamydia before your first week out here. Its a minefield.
Rell* you still hit strip clubs? I thought that went out in the 90’s. Better check my updates.
Stormy dont overdress. Remember the top of the mountain is near the sun. It gets hot as hell. I’d hate for those implants to rupture. And when you fall it doesnt hurt in the snow. But watch out for the yellow snow.
By Chauvinist no more.
February 6, 2009 5:08 PM | Link to this
My wife can do so many things at one time: cellphone, blog, watch oprah, and wear the beard of bees. I love her so much.
By DreamsMaterialize
February 6, 2009 5:09 PM | Link to this
Jamocha I know, just testing. lol I see you’re not telling though.
It’s going to be warm this weekend. everyone take advantage of it.