Misadventures in Atlanta

By Potpourraqi

January 16, 2009 8:55 AM | Link to this

As a woman who is only 1/4 black, however who is also an avid advocate for black love, I hope that the Obamas revive this society’s faith in happy successful black marriages. And I too hope that the existence of Barry Obama as chief open the minds of many to explore interracial relationships. I personally promote interracial because it is the source of my existence.

In all my days I have never been told, at least to my face that ‘you ain’t even black’ until I stumbled onto this site. Hell what counts as being black? Is it the color of your skin? Heck there are 54 shades and combinations of black skin just in the metropolitan Atlanta. So who is to say who is and/or who is not? Is it the way you talk? Walk? Think??? I think therefore I am??? Hmm?

I am because I say I am. Period. Now shut up about it. I love everybody. All races. Never had an issue with dating any man of any nationality. Heck I feared being married to a military veteran. But never a man of a different race.

Yall do know I am just rambling on right? But what you are reading are my true sentiments.

50% Hispanic, 25% Black Euro, 25% White Euro = Raqi and her three siblings. The Hispanic Black combination blessed me with my beautiful skin tone. 25%/25% Euro mix blessed me with my chic sense of style and also my 5’6” frame. (Not really but my grandmother and mother were some well put together women and they both were considered taller than the average American woman in their time) 50% Hispanic provided me with the hint of foreign accent that I don’t recognize myself but others do. My spiciness, determination and mental mechanics come from my father. My elegance and sharp tongueness are a blessing from my mother.

And I could go on but I wont…I just love everybody. So yes date, mate and exhilarate your mind.

Go Obama.

By az

January 16, 2009 8:58 AM | Link to this

I am a white guy and I have, am, and should continue to date outside my race. But, not because we will soon have a president that is half white and half black. I do it because it is what I want to do. I don’t care if the president is bi, tri, or uni racial. I do it because I want to.

I guess my point is people are gonna do what they’re gonna do. But, it just might help with people that are undecided or whatever.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 9:01 AM | Link to this

Good morning. Personally, I hope these young men look to Obama as a role mode (if they don’t already have one) on how to treat a woman, how to carry themselves and more importantly how to dress. Enuf w/the sagging pants.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 9:06 AM | Link to this

Good morning. Personally, I hope these young men look to Obama as a role mode (if they don’t already have one) on how to treat a woman, how to carry themselves and more importantly how to dress. Enuf w/the sagging pants.

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 9:14 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday everyone. This week did move by quickly.

I do see the Obamas as role models. Folks would argue that Cliff and Claire aren’t real, so I love the example Barack and Michelle set. Barack Obama is totally the type of guy I’d be attracted to while the rest of the ladies were off trying to snag a “bad boy”

Would I date outside my race? Sure. I don’t go actively looking outside, but if the ideal opportunity presented himself, I’d be a fool to throw it away just because he’s not black.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 9:14 AM | Link to this

hope these young men look to Obama as a role mode

Leggs it is a shame if only that will make the young men and women too, want to do better, but I guess we have to take what we can get. The thing about the Obamas is we really don’t know the inner workings of their relationship. Michelle can stand before the nation and proclaim the undying love of Barry and her marriage and the black angels will sing. But sadly the average Jane Doe (me and the like) can proclaim the same and get heckled and side eyed by many. If Mr. Barak Obama had never become president elect would his relationship with his wife and family matter. To most, no. He would be, just like he was before being senator and before November 2008, a common black man married to a common black woman trying to make this thing work.

I wish them all the best. More of us need to step up and have that love that we “hear” that they share.

Now for all that say that they don’t know of a happily marriage black couple, there you go…The President of The United States of America. Copy him.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 9:16 AM | Link to this

‘Cause you best believe that they didn’t all of sudden become “happily” marriage when he decided to run for president.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 9:25 AM | Link to this

I am sorry but I really am hard pressed to see what the hell Obama becoming president has anything to do with black or white marriages. So to answer the question..no I have not thought about Obama and black marriages. Frankly, I am more concern with what the hell happen to the first 350 billion dollars..where was the oversight promised and why are we releasing the other 350 billion and for what? I personally feel our country is in the shape it is in because people are more concern with the RockStar status of our elected officials and less about what they were actually hired(it is a job by the way and right now there are many of American with out jobs)to do. So frankly I could care less if Obama was red with pink polka dots. It is time to go to work.

Now as a child of the south I really do believe alot of the sterotypes about mixed race kids because I have seen it in action. White and Light is alright..Dark or Black get back and we still have our own paper bag test today. We don’t like to say so but we do. And before our progressive Northern or Western Americans start telling us of how great racial relations are up and out there need I remind you of the ethinic sterotypes that exist out West and Up North.

We may have come along way baby but we still have a long way to go.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 9:27 AM | Link to this

No, they didn’t all of a sudden become “happily” marriage. I sense they were already that way!

By Foots

January 16, 2009 9:29 AM | Link to this

Since Barack Obama is the product of an interracial couple, do you think more single people would be willing to explore it?

Nah, I don’t know about that. His dad only saw him a couple of times his whole life. Obama was the product of interracial sex, but not couple. I hope that part of it doesn’t catch on. Woo the girl, get her pregnant, run…oh wait…folks are already doing that. LOL!

Personally, a bolt of electricity ran through me on the night of the election when I saw Barack and Michelle on stage together with their children. I love the picture of a strong, beautiful black family. I’m sure they have their problems like everyone else, but to continue to build a family and strive for such heights is quite lovely to behold.

Have you ever dated someone who was biracial? Did they change your perspective?

Yes, he was Black-Puerto Rican. I didn’t see much difference, it was just like dating an all-black dude.

I did go out with a white man a few times. He was the type that only dated black women though, so he had plenty of experience dating interracially. Me, not so much. Frankly, there was nothing wrong with him, he was a really good catch. But we didn’t have a natural flow, plus I think that I couldn’t get the image of the black family out of my mind to really concentrate on him. I would have loved for him to have stayed my friend, but when I told him that I didn’t think it would work out, he basically told me to kick rocks.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 16, 2009 9:30 AM | Link to this

Morning Most people in this country are mixed up somehow. Can’t say I’ve ever dated outside my race, but I’ve dated lots of ethinically diffrent black women: puerto rican, cuban, cape verdean, honduran, trinidad, kenyan, ethiopian, nigerian.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 9:32 AM | Link to this

No, they didn’t all of a sudden become “happily” marriage. I sense they were already that way!

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 9:34 AM | Link to this

Barak is a product of his parents. Both of them. We are all products for our parents. It is something that they did or did not do that paved the foundation whereupon we stand. Whether present or absentee it plays a role in our being. Barry obviously is well put together as a man. I haven’t yet read too much about his childhood, but whatever it may have been got him to where he is now. His mother and grandmother did a good job. His father not being there could be seen as a positive as he has turned out to be. Sometimes a person not being in our lives can be just as beneficial as the one who is.

By Rell - i love brazillian women

January 16, 2009 9:34 AM | Link to this

@raqi….word…military vet…do explain?…but dayum if thats not some self promo i dont know what is…lol…good breakdown on who you…i holla’d on 1/4 black..some folks…lol

will the obama black marriage make it cool….NOPE…its already cool in other parts of the country…its just here in the pressure cooker know as the A where everyone feels entitled to something better…lol…black marriage is cool and i did not need obama to show me that…

By Rell - i love brazillian women

January 16, 2009 9:40 AM | Link to this

@foots

* saw Barack and Michelle on stage together with their children. I love the picture of a strong, beautiful black family. I’m sure they have their problems like everyone else, but to continue to build a family and strive for such heights is quite lovely to behold.*

I HATE when i hear this from the “divaS” out there like this is impossible or something…thing is chelle is smart enough to know what battles to fight and whats important..its not her way but our way…more black women should follow that example…there relationship is not impossible to have or achieve most of us black men and yes women stand in our way….its bul l s hit really…learn to resolve conflict, stop withholding on your duties….emotional maturity is key…more folks should get it….again we making a big deal over something real simple a choice…period dot

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 9:48 AM | Link to this

Rell I stressed that on purpose because I am a black woman. My DNA breakdown may only read 25% but heck I am black. Any amount of black makes you black. Especially when it is in your mother.

And the military thing?? When I was younger one of the kids that I played with in the neighborhood had a grandfather that was shell shocked. To us he was the crazy old man because of the stories that we heard about how he acted. He used to think people were after him and he would wake up in the middle thinking he was still in the war. When I would go to their house he would be sitting in a dark room and you could hear him talking. Scared me. Every since then I have feared getting with one. Never gave one a chance or known one personally outside of him. So I still have that little fear inside.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 9:48 AM | Link to this

emotional maturity is key. Nothing else needs to stated when dating!

By Foots

January 16, 2009 9:49 AM | Link to this

Rell I didn’t make a big deal out of it or say that it was impossible. Those were your words. I said that I thought it was beautiful. So why does that bring hate from you?

I didn’t give props to either one of them individually. But you seem to single out black women as the ones who make or break the relationship, and you’re very passionate about it. Are you speaking from your personal experience, as in, have you always had a black woman who did you and the relationship a disservice?

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 9:52 AM | Link to this

I didn’t make a big deal out of it or say that it was impossible. Those were your words. I said that I thought it was beautiful. So why does that bring hate from you?

Foots, I was over here scratching my head at his response. Had to go back and re-read like I missed something. LOL

Rell, overreact much? LOL

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 9:53 AM | Link to this

emotional maturity is key. Nothing else needs to stated when dating!

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 9:54 AM | Link to this

Rell I have to agree with you. I have always said it was possible. But you know what, if seeing Barry and Michelle in the limelight make more people believe, then I say bring it on.

And yeah Michelle and Barry are having to do the same things that all of us that are making it work do, choosing to do it.

By Cemeeli

January 16, 2009 9:58 AM | Link to this

…freezin’ morning ppl…

I love the Obamas!…and everything they represent! Their strength, endurance, hope…and most of all, LOVE!

But like Barack says…CHANGE!?…”Change” comes from self first.

Biracial dating is a non-issue for me…been there.

While we already know a LOT about Barack with the media/books, ect. Michelle’s bio is as strong as she showes herself to be on stage…The sister is a BAD sistah!

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 9:59 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

Headed to DC next week. Today has certainly prepped me for the cold!

I’ve never dated anyone that was first generation bi-racial - if that makes sense. Never dated outside my race. That’s not to say I wouldn’t do it, just never have. I’m not actively looking to date outside my race, but if I vibed with someone that doesn’t have parents that look like mine, I wouldn’t use that against them.

Personally, I’m excited about Michelle Obama changing the image of Black Women overseas. I haven’t traveled overseas since the Obamas came on the scene tough, but I could already see a difference when communicating with some co-workers in other countries during the campaign. I think people in other countries are more excited about this moment than here in the US.

By kinderbabe

January 16, 2009 10:02 AM | Link to this

please not,”Barry”….please, NO…lol. i had to come out of lurksville for that one.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 10:03 AM | Link to this

But you seem to single out black women as the ones who make or break the relationship,

Foots you hear a lot of that among black men. And the ones that I have spoken and inquired about personally were all guilty of the same offense, expecting the woman to look the other way and put up with whatever they felt the could put before her. And it was always what she wouldn’t do for him.

I have asked a few of them, do you make it possible for these women to live to your standards? Are you being realistic in the standards you are expecting of them? Are you living right in the relationship? Are you aware that women are not secondhand citizens in your world of misconceptions? Those are some of the questions I have asked them.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 10:03 AM | Link to this

Have you ever dated someone who was biracial? Nope,but i hope to bang a white chic one day be4 i kick the bucket.

I wldnt and will not contemplate interracial marriage.I luv black on black.Like Rell said the other day,black guys always seem to settle for the chaff.I have yet to see a black dude with a white,hot chic that wld make the white guys really jealous. As for Obama/Michelle hopefully inspiring other blacks to get married, i sure hope and pray it does coz black pudsy has become much more common than oxygen.Its time black folks re-evaluated their loose ways so we can do away with these b*tard kids,crime and reduce the jail popn.Its all related and its a shame.I also pray that Obama’s presidency is spared of the drama and corruption that follows other high profile black leaders like Kwame and Bill Campbell,to name a few.If he comes out unscathed, i think that will go a long way in ensuring that there is equity,fairness and rationality in the way america chooses its reps,going forward, and not necessarily race.America must lead in that regard.

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 10:05 AM | Link to this

Raqi

My DNA breakdown may only read 25% but heck I am black. Any amount of black makes you black. Especially when it is in your mother.

I have to respectfully, but passionately disagree with this statement. The continuation in the belief of the “one drop rule” in 2009 is ridiculous! This rule stems directly from slavery as a method to keep as many people under the yolk of slavery as possible. In today’s society, it is totally unnecessary and disrespectful to only acknowledge one’s black ancestry while downplaying any other. While you may identify culturally with the black race, the fact remains that you are multiracial and should claim to be so.

By Rell - i love brazillian women

January 16, 2009 10:07 AM | Link to this

@raqi..i am prior service and diagnosed with PTSD when i got out…so i feel where you coming from….and i hate this thing sometimes because folks think i am angry…i thought your post was light hearted and funny….love it

@foots/ared…er

So why does that bring hate from you?

there is no hate…..lol…and yes i stressed black women…so what…again i must be either blind or crazy….because i see things a lil different when i out just doing mundane things like standing in line at kroger and i see a BLACK WOMEN dressing down her man in line like he is a child….and there is no disservice to me…i am no VICTIM..whatever was done to me i let it…i chose it….

By kinderbabe

January 16, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this

hey tazzee i read your post the other day about jones. i wasn’t in the old bldg or the transitional bldg but i’ve heard lots about it.:) you’re right, it is a small world. hope you’re having a good day. i can’t WAIT for this long wknd. we need it!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this

Melo Last I checked Obama was a b*tard according to the definition.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 10:09 AM | Link to this

LeSiren go back and read my first post. I am black because I say that I am.

Now what’s on my birth certificate and what is running thru my veins…well I ain’t got nothing to do with that. But I’m black.

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 10:14 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog Fam & Happy Friday!

Bottom line, Barack & Michelle & their family set a beautiful example for the entire nation, whatever the ethnicity. Yes, I’ve heard a few black boys & men say they look to him as an example of what to strive for & will consider pulling up their pants. It’s cool to be smart now - that’s the IN thing, according to some popular mags I’ve read. From what a lot of teacher, social workers and folks in the legal system I know tell me, we need ALL the help we can get. No it’s not a shame that they look to Barack as an example now! I saw this video online of these white school kids, middle school in Philly, that saw Barack getting out of his limo a few days after the election. They went buck wild and were reaching through the school fence to shake his hand. I saw the excitement of those beautiful black kids from ATL at Ron Clark Academy when they found out they get to perform at some inaugural events. Clean, well-spoken kids. No they were not freaking over some rapper or athlete, but the Prez of the US! If he has a positive effect on just 10 kids it will be well worth it!

I don’t know what effect it will have on marriage and dating. Wise I did hear about another study that was taken that said through 2007 there has been an UPSWING of black kids raised in 2-parent homes. The study did take into account couples that live together but not married though.

I’ve tried to date outside my race. I have nothing against it and if things had not worked out with my SO, I was definitely about to explore it again, to widen my options. I’m just really attracted to black american men! I have a point of reference to them. I love black american men - their look, their swag, their presence, their spirit. Whatever their shade, style - they are just beautiful to me.

Amred - Never liked the bad boys. Some were cool to look at & be friends with, but that’s all. Always went for the nerdier types - mine were cute & intelligent! That’s what I’ve got now! At least I’m consistent!LOL

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 10:15 AM | Link to this

LeSiren I agree with you. All of that one drop makes you black is just held over from slavery. But because other races are less accepting people identify as black because well hell we take everyone. But let there come a revolution..me thinks the black numbers will start trickling down.

By Michelle

January 16, 2009 10:15 AM | Link to this

Obama has swag!! I love it! He will have panties being thrown @ him on Tuesday :)

I am a mixture of races but that doesn’t make me at all! I am who I am.. I am currently dating a white man and I LOVE the way he treats me!

I hope Obama is a role model for the lost black men out there that don’t know how to treat & value a woman(not w*******)!

Happy Friday!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 10:18 AM | Link to this

Yes he is,thankfully,he knew better,followed the lead of his grandparents and married.I guess coz they are the ones who really raised him,the mom was AWOL,most times.Majority of bast*rd kids now wld rather sell drugs,pimp and hoe like their mums than be productive,law abiding citizens.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:21 AM | Link to this

Kym…, Obama calls himself a “mutt”.

*Michelle, that would be tasteless and disrespectful if someone does that on Tuesday! Hey, stupid is as stupid does!

By DasV

January 16, 2009 10:23 AM | Link to this

good frigid morning good ppl

leSiren great history point, but someone identifying themselves as ‘black’ has nothing to do with them discounting their other heritages. black culture is so strong it usually trumps the other ethnicities…. i have a good friend who has blogged on this and makes a reasonable point: he calls himself ‘black’ bec it puts ppl on notice on how to deal with him… ppl are less likely to assume the wrong thing and plow forward with their agenda. by saying he’s black ppl do as they ought to with everyone and proceed cautiously, feelin him out and respecting his boundaries. JAT

By Stormy

January 16, 2009 10:24 AM | Link to this

Morning Er’Body

Still thinking on the topic……

By Bible Thumper

January 16, 2009 10:24 AM | Link to this

While I love Obama and feels he a stand up citizen, the direction taken my our country, his representation of being a man of honor and the most recent turn of events, Obama is a man and human like you and I. Same weaknesses, failures, aspirations, dreams, ups and downs. That’s the problem today. We set people on a pinnacle when that’s nonexistence when it comes to human beings. The first time he slips, we’re all going to be disppointed. Why? He’s humam. Why would I look to him when our struggle is the same? Guess it depends on what you believe the struggle pertains.

Jesus Christ - perfect example. Flaw free.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:26 AM | Link to this

Kym…, Obama calls himself a “mutt”.

*Michelle, that would be tasteless and disrespectful if someone does that on Tuesday! Hey, stupid is as stupid does!

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 10:27 AM | Link to this

Raqi

I am black because I say that I am.

Ok, well we could all say that we are a myriad of things, but that doesn’t mean that we are. For instance, my ethnic background is black (father) and native american, irish, french creole (mother). How much sense would it make for me to just pick one of those races and say “I’m Irish because I say I am”? People would look at me sideways because obviously there is much more to me than that! In your case, I’m sure that it is obvious by your appearance that you are mixed, so why are you denying it?

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:27 AM | Link to this

Majority of bastrd kids now wld rather sell drugs,pimp and hoe like their mums than be productive,law abiding citizens.* WTH are you saying. What an idiotic statement to make. Melo, go in the corner with nosed pressed against the wall and stay there for 45 mins! Sheesh! I’m timing you. GO!

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 10:29 AM | Link to this

Sister Cee - Got a big weekend planned. Testing for the gold belt senior on Sat & then SO is taking me and about 10 close friends and family to this Brazillian steakhouse to celebrate my birthday! On Sun we have our belt ceremony and banquet. Monday we all have off and will chill & do dinner. Tuesday I will be glued to one of SO’s big screens to watch what I know will give me goosebumps - the inauguration! Aretha is going to sing too - I am beyond excited! My buddy in Cali is going to watch it on a big screen that’s being set up in this park near the beach. She is packing a lunch for her daughter & hubby.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 10:32 AM | Link to this

Leggs, i stand by that.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:32 AM | Link to this

Majority of bastrd kids now wld rather sell drugs,pimp and hoe like their mums than be productive,law abiding citizens.* WTH are you saying. What an idiotic statement to make. Melo, go in the corner with nosed pressed against the wall and stay there for 45 mins! Sheesh! I’m timing you. GO!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:39 AM | Link to this

Go in the corner…no computer there. Stop posting!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 10:42 AM | Link to this

Melo Well if all btard kids(there are other races of btard kids but I think you want to say black) are selling dope then I guess all Africans drive taxis, smell like funky butt cheeks, never heard of soap, have a bunch of kids, and are as black as the tar on rooftops.

See I can play the sterotype game too.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 10:42 AM | Link to this

ROTFLMBO This is first time in my 40+ years that I have every known anyone to be ridiculed for claiming black instead of any other “drop” of nationality that runs thru their veins.

Growing up I heard a lot of kids claim to be mixed or have Indian in their blood in an attempt to not be fully black. This one girl claimed to be mixed because her great mother’s mother was half white. LOL

I say that I am black and I get chastised. A new day has surely dawned.

Look I know the make up of my being. I know what is on my birth certificate, my license and what I have to put on any legal binding document.

But I tell you that I am black. So let me be black. My parents never gave me any grief over it. Especially my dad and he is full hispanic. If he accepts that I embrace my blackness…

Now Go Obama.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 16, 2009 10:43 AM | Link to this

MELO Just because that statistically is the case for children without fathers, it doesn’t mean that what they would “rather” be doing. We need to stop blaming children. It’s never the child’s fault, only the community of adults who dropped the ball and allowed them to navigate life without proper direction.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:44 AM | Link to this

Go in the corner…no computer there. Stop posting!

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 10:44 AM | Link to this

Melo - That was incredibly ugly to stereotype like that.

I’ve always HATED that term, bast—- anyway! It’s a horrible, outdated label. Heck, I bet half the folks out there today were conceived before their parents married. What difference does it make if Barack was???

By MELO

January 16, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this

Majority of bastrd kids waz my statement and thats what i meant to say,black or white.I didnt say ALL.If the shoe fits,wear it!!

By abc

January 16, 2009 10:45 AM | Link to this

Any belief that Obama’s presence in the White House is going to have any specific or pronounced influence upon the African American cultural malaise is akin to having a financial plan of living check to check, charging up the card and hoping that Obama will somehow take care of you.

Melo isn’t very far afield in his appraisal, roughly stated as it may be.

By anonymousella

January 16, 2009 10:50 AM | Link to this

well if you want to get serious about it le siren, raqi is legally black. she didn’t just say so. the u.s. gubment did.

will barack and michelle change black relationships? i don’t think so. those who were inclined to get shackled will still do so. those who aren’t won’t. still it’s nice to see.

now, if by “dated” you mean “had fun while naked” then yes, i have dated someone biracial. but he had a black cultural orientation, so it wasn’t all that different. i could just run my fingers through his hair without getting ‘em stuck.

i don’t date interracially though. i think that’s due more to opportunity than interest. since i left NY, it’s been harder to find non-black men of color to date …not that looked all that hard (i would only date a foreign white guy. not an american one.).

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 10:50 AM | Link to this

Melo Majority..All same difference. But like I said I can play this game for aslong and as hateful as you like. Matter of fact for now on I shall call you “That African.” Now we can make this as deep as you like.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this

I take that back…No go Obama.

Please do tell, what is so wrong or bad about being black? Why should I not say that I am a black woman? Would being something else take me further in life?

Okay I am partly hispanic and european. Now what changes about my life and the experiences that I have had.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this

Melo isn’t very far afield in his appraisal, roughly stated as it may be.

thanx abc,and i aint about to sugar coat.I am well informed on it coz im an avid reader.Its uncomfortable to some but those are the facts.I dont know the circumstances of the ones adversely affected by my statetement but it waznt about them per se.But like i said,if the shoe fits ur situ,then so be it. Ba**rd is,from my shakespearan readings,a british term from the victorian age. I chose it for its shock value.My choice,luv it.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this

Using the word “majority” is akin to saying “most”, and just is not the case. I raise my hand and say I’m a b******* child and perhaps quite a few on this blog. The majority, more than likely, did not strive to be dope dealers or hoes!

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 10:53 AM | Link to this

Raqi

I’m sorry if you feel like you’re being ridiculed. When I refer to the belief in “one droppism” I’m not talking about people whose great, great grandmother was native american and everyone since then has been black. I’m speaking for people with backgrounds similar to ours being forced by american society to only claim to be one race! I’m very proud of my black heritage, but I’m equally as proud to claim ALL of my other blood as well and I refuse to be categorized by people who are uncomfortable with that.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 10:54 AM | Link to this

That african is not offensive to me,its factual!!

By DasV

January 16, 2009 10:57 AM | Link to this

Raqi im chuckling to myself to….. you know what you get when you mix all the colors in the rainbow together… yep! black LOL

By Cemeeli

January 16, 2009 10:57 AM | Link to this

kimmie Happy 21st again Brithday! :) Enjoy your Brazilian Steakhouse dinner, good job Ginseng! Then, Sunday make sure you be the blackbelt champion and represent us all now! hahaha

…in someways i do not want to deal with the coldtemps for this DC trip. But, i keep reminding myself, that there will be only ONE chance for me to view and be in the midst of the celebrations of The First African American President sworn in. I’m so ecstatic! the experience for my kid at the Inaugural & the CO Ball Even is what’s best of all!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 10:58 AM | Link to this

Using the word “majority” is akin to saying “most”, and just is not the case. I raise my hand and say I’m a b******* child and perhaps quite a few on this blog. The majority, more than likely, did not strive to be dope dealers or hoes!

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 10:59 AM | Link to this

I am well informed on it coz im an avid reader

melo - LOL. You sound like Sarah Palin.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 11:01 AM | Link to this

Kym

I am sorry but I really am hard pressed to see what the hell Obama becoming president has anything to do with black or white marriages.

Well, I have. To some extent, they are a high profile example that the Heathcliff and Claire do exist. I remember back in the day, people called the Cosby show unrealistic. Two professional successful black people coming together to procreate AND raise a family together. There was much debate back in the day that it wasn’t realistic at all.

Unfortunately, I see very few shows on network TV that even showcase family life anymore, let alone black families. Us Po’ Negroes (UPN) tried with show like All of Us, Everybody Hate Chris, Half & Half. However, ABC, CBS, NBC, & Fox family life is disappearing in general.

As far as the 350 billion goes, it is a valid concern. If you are so concerned, call AND write your US Rep and do the same to Isakson & Chambliss. If you do nothing, you don’t really have any right to complain. I already have John Lewis’s office and the other two.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:01 AM | Link to this

I was thinking calling you “That African” would be a compliment!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 11:03 AM | Link to this

Amazing That African quoting Shakespere..like the British are his family. What a crock..wonder why he didn’t move his family there? Could because they could care less if he quoted the Merchant of Venice on a pogo stick. Africans think they somebody. Okay Zooboomafoo.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 11:03 AM | Link to this

i hate that chic ared..

By Angie

January 16, 2009 11:04 AM | Link to this

wise we’re going to a formal inaugural gathering tues night. it should be a lot of fun.

the obama’s are my role models. i bought my first book about the president-elect about two weeks ago at walmart. he has me curious. this statement ——> if all i had to worry about is insults, i’m good! has made my new year brighter. i’m looking forward to learning more about both of them. i’m very excited actually.

on topic i have no desire to date a white man. BUT if one steps to me and lights my fire … who knows.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this

anonymousella Thank you. And if it wasn’t so we would not be singing the praises of our new Black President. He would be our new Bi-racial president. Or half white half black president.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 11:05 AM | Link to this

One more thing…if Michelle was one to push that “independent womanIf ” thing, they might not be where they are today.

She supported that them in the beginning. After all, community organizers don’t make a lot of money. However, she made good money at her law firm.

She supported his vision and helped to make it “their” vision.

By Stormy

January 16, 2009 11:06 AM | Link to this

Melo I’m surprised at you….

Rell So much hate/angry soooo early on this cold days….where’s the warm cozy feelings. LOL

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this

Sister Cee - I forgot that you were going to DC! May God be with you and your son the entire journey. You are going to the event of a lifetime. Take it all in, even through the chilliness!! Take lots of pictures!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:07 AM | Link to this

I was thinking calling you “That African” would be a compliment!

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 11:08 AM | Link to this

Morning folks.

Never has there been a topic where so many thoughts rushed me at once, both pro and con. Where do I start?

While dating outside my race is an option, it’s not the option I’ll take. At the end of the day the unspoken bond you have with a sista is just to strong to not have. I say this knowing that the first 2 women I dated, and lost my virginity to, were white. Also, I have dated/slept with others since but for me its just not the same.

This weekend I was at the high museum seeing the terra cotta display and noticed the bruhs with caucasion women. It wasn’t that they had married the woman but they seemed to forget who they were. One cat was so far gone if you closed your eyes and listened to him he would have been Mr. Cleaver. Just not my thang. I STILL have friends that talk about wanting a caucasion woman for their reputed skills and submissiveness but I say that if you have the required strength ANY sista will submit just the same. And a sista’s sensual skills take a back seat to noone, if handled correctly.

While Barack has raised the bar on whats posssible the floor remains set at whats probable.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 11:09 AM | Link to this

Melo I’m surprised at you,give me a factual reason why u are,Stormy?

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 11:11 AM | Link to this

Raqi

Please do tell, what is so wrong or bad about being black?

Absolutely nothing! I NEVER said that there was. My point was that it is disrespectful to yourself and your family to not fully embrace your entire racial makeup.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:13 AM | Link to this

ARed, to come think about, you nailed it w/the Sarah Palin comment.

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 11:13 AM | Link to this

anonymousella

What exactly makes one “legally” black?

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 11:16 AM | Link to this

Brother Truth - Good post.(smile)

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:17 AM | Link to this

LOL…Good read Truth, no brow beating, no cussing, no chokeholds…great post!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:18 AM | Link to this

ARed, to come think about, you nailed it w/the Sarah Palin comment.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 11:20 AM | Link to this

PoppaG Oh trust me I make my opinion known…and I am well aware of how to contact Rep Lewis and our two senators. I just fed up with hype damn the dumb shyt..get your tails to work.

By Foots

January 16, 2009 11:21 AM | Link to this

Rell because i see things a lil different when i out just doing mundane things like standing in line at kroger and i see a BLACK WOMEN dressing down her man in line like he is a child

But that’s you seeing something happen in Kroger. Until you know specific details about their home life, then you can’t speak to the dynamic of the couple. What if he had just called her a bytch before you came around the corner? Would that change your opinion to say that now, the black man is the cause of the demise of relationships if you saw him mistreat her? You never know, that may just be the dynamic of their relationship, and they tore each other’s clothes off when they got home.

Everybody can give examples of how one sex did the other sex wrong. But that’s not the point. It’s well known that men will sometimes put the blame on the women when things don’t work out and not take any personal responsibility for the outcome (think how Adam was so quick to blame Eve) and it’s just as well known that women will do the same. We all know of no-count men AND no-count women. But my question was, in your PERSONAL experience (not overhearing something while you’re out and about), have you always had a black woman who did you and the relationship a disservice? Your passion has to come from somewhere or from some type of mistreatment in your past for you to have such a negative view of black women. We know why Staceye feels the way she does about men, from her personal experience. But you can feel so passionately about something you’ve never experienced, just overheard in Kroger?

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

LOL…Good read Truth, no brow beating, no cussing, no chokeholds…great post!

By Rell - i love brazillian women

January 16, 2009 11:22 AM | Link to this

@PG..i agree with you 11:05…but i bet you dont get hate like i do..the bobbleheads will just say yes to you…but we saying the same thing

@truth

equired strength ANY sista will submit just the same.

i agree..but some of them and there mouth will have you in dekalb county lockup

@stormy…i am not mad…just because i am not goose stepping to the bs tune of sista’s….lol…you cant call black women or oprah to the floor…thats against the rules…lol

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 11:29 AM | Link to this

Leggs, I always enjoy reading your comments, our ray of sunshine, is what you are :)

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 11:29 AM | Link to this

@PG..i agree with you 11:05…but i bet you dont get hate like i do..the bobbleheads will just say yes to you…but we saying the same thing

Rell maybe because PG doesn’t go around using the word “bobbleheads” on people who disagree with him.

PG leads by example, his actions back up his words. You throw tantrums like a 4 year old.

By Stormy

January 16, 2009 11:31 AM | Link to this

Melo

First of all, the terms “bast*” is not a good term that we (Americans) use to refer to chidren. When we use that word it is usually in the process of cuzzing your azz out.

Moreover, yes there are people who did not grow up with fathers because wedlock or infidility (s/p) but you can’t say or allude to because of their family situation they are or will become thugs and drug dealers.

Yah know, their are plenty of folk who come from two parent homes who are thugs/drug dealers too. Heck, their are PK’s who are pimps and the like.

So you are totally off base with that statement.

That’s like saying all Africans come to America to enslave American women and put them in a heiram (s/p).

By MELO

January 16, 2009 11:33 AM | Link to this

yes there are people who did not grow up with fathers because wedlock or infidility (s/p) but you can’t say or allude to because of their family situation they are or will become thugs and drug dealers

but thing is,i never said that.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 11:35 AM | Link to this

Kym

I just fed up with hype damn the dumb shyt..get your tails to work.

First, he didn’t make the hype. Media did that. He could have said “yes, we can all day”, but if no one listened it wouldn’t matter. He is trying to lower expectations.

Second, this is a transition period. Things wouldn’t move any quicker if McCain won. There are things that have to be done before work can be done. Obama’s people have to be confirmed and Bush’s people have to leave. There is only one president at a time. It is just that Bush has worn out his welcome and people are trying to turn the page as soon as possible. Even the elephant people are ready for him to go. They like smaller government involvement in our lives, but under Bush, government actually grew in size.

As far as the promised oversight, lame duck Congress and Presidency has no accountability.

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 11:36 AM | Link to this

The fact that Obama has to be every AA childs role model is a problem. Role models should be someone you can actually see work, read father. Not some figure you see once a month. Because in our culture fathers are as rare as 100 carat diamonds we adopt anyone as a role model. Athletes, singers, actors. It’s a shame really because we put people on a pedestal and don’t know ish about them.

On Obama’s childhood: You won’t find much on it but alot of things didn’t add up. He went to the finest schools and got the best exposure possible for a kid that wasn’t wealthy. Your not getting to the white house coming out of SouthWest Dekalb HS, its just not happening. His education was paid for and directed by folks that knew what he was and who he was. That paper he wrote about being the president wasn’t a fluke, someone had talked with him. Someone told him of his royal bloodline at an early age.

This isn’t what you think it is.

Kym I open the paper this morning to see we have bailed out bank Of America and the markets rallied. Why? A larger percentage of our taxes will now go toward the payment of this debt and the coming inflation. The average mans wealth, whatever that may be, is being syphoned off and the markets rejoice. Wow, we really need more education about this monetary system.

By Cemeeli

January 16, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this

kimmie I can jack can’t I? Tried 2 post. Happy Birthday! geesh

Thanks for the well wishes. I intend to inhaul every blessed moment.

leggs how much do you weigh today? ;)

By Rell - i love brazillian women

January 16, 2009 11:37 AM | Link to this

Your passion has to come from somewhere or from some type of mistreatment in your past for you to have such a negative view of black women.

ok you win!!!…..for the record..i dont have negative views on black women at all…but you win..so whatever your assumption is on me..then you are right…ok

@ared….lol…not in 2009 my black queen…ok…you win too….lol….i throw tantrums…tee hee….you keep me laughing out loud…my black queen you dont nea’n….lol

By Foots

January 16, 2009 11:39 AM | Link to this

Rell @PG..i agree with you 11:05…but i bet you dont get hate like i do..the bobbleheads will just say yes to you…but we saying the same thing

Poppa spoke of Michelle’s virtues specifically. He did not attempt to tear down all other black women in the process of making a positive statement about her. There are MANY like her that have supported their families and kept the home life intact while their men chased dreams of a bigger and better life for the family. It’s a credit to the strength and supportive qualities of black women. I don’t think you see that.

It’s terrible that the examples of the black women you see are less than shining, but like you said, you chose your situations.

By i'm swiss

January 16, 2009 11:40 AM | Link to this

I’ve always been all for interracial dating — I’ve pretty much done the world tour (or at least tried to). Whether Obama being of mixed heritage will make people more apt to date outside their race, I don’t know, but I hope it at least makes people more accepting of it.

On a selfish note, I couldn’t be happier about Obama’s background — not only that he comes from black/white parents, but also that his father was an immigrant. Suits soon-to-be swiss miss & I to a T, and since we hope to have kids, he’s a perfect role model for our kids. So far he’s upheld that mantle quite honorably; I hope it continues.

By NY2GA, Inc.

January 16, 2009 11:41 AM | Link to this

No, I never dated anyone biracial.

I don’t think that his presidency will have much impact on dating and relationships. Those that are of the mindset to seek out meaningful relationships will. Those who want to be with multiple folks will keep right on trickin’ and pimpin’. Business as usual.

And with so many women constantly talking about how handsome he is, his swagger, throwing draws and saying how he could get it, he may end up being another Bill Clinton. Remember, Bill loved his wife too. sigh.

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 11:41 AM | Link to this

kimmie Happy Birthday - I hope you have a great weekend!

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this

LeSiren Oh. Okay. I had taken of my earrings and shoes waiting for you to say there was. LOL

I would never disrespect any part of my make-up. I love every ounce of it. My friends all know who I am. I freely talk about it amongst them. But I chose to be what I say I am. You cannot take that away from me now. I raised myself being a black woman. That’s what I love. That’s what I embrace.

If you think I am screwed up what about my kids. My first husband had a white grandmother so my oldest had a white greatgrandmother, my youngest son has an Italian white father. The one I am carrying now has a tan father with “good” hair. LOL What I hodgepodge of a mess.

But I like it, I love it, I want some more of it…

By Angie

January 16, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this

rell how is 2C doing? tell him i said hello. thanks.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 11:42 AM | Link to this

PoppaG I know all of that. I am all for the week of parties and balls and eating food on the American tax payers daime. (We are the ones footing the damn bill.) But when the last drop of wine has left the bottles. Someone had better come with the goods and be ready to show us the money. I was reading how BOA(Bank of America) is getting 20b and another 100billion because they could not absorb Merrill Lynch as well as they thought. All this bailout money but no loans are being made, and things are still jacked up..yes I know progress takes time. But look don’t keep asking the American taxpayer for cash..p** on our heads and telling us its raining. What did you do with the last pot of money we gave you?

By MELO

January 16, 2009 11:44 AM | Link to this

Obama’s people have to be confirmed and Bush’s people have to leave I luved it last nite when Chris Mathews said,Bush is looking like the rich guy leaving town now.Even till his last prez address,he was still selling his progrmme,2 cow boy boots and a hat!! LMAOF

By Rell - i love brazillian women

January 16, 2009 11:48 AM | Link to this

He did not attempt to tear down all other black women in the process of making a positive statement about her.

Really…then you might want to re-read…here let me help you

One more thing…if Michelle was one to push that “independent womanIf ” thing, they might not be where they are today.

if thats not speaking to the BS alot of black women today are saying i dont what is…ummm they have songs about these…independent women…so yeah that a lil slick..but you dont see it because you feel he has love and respect and i dont…lol….so challenging you is wrong but i am suppose to sit and accept the BS you kick about black men???….lol….aiight love you win..

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this

Awww, thank you Wise Diva.

Cemeeli…the scale here at work (like the one in the doctor’s ofc.) says 122. I rather take these calibrated old school scales than the digital. So, I’m sticking to 122 (LOL).

By For Real

January 16, 2009 11:49 AM | Link to this

I think the Obamas will have impact on all marriages. The one thing no one can deny is that P.E Obama loves his family. If you don’t see that then you are one pent-up sad mitty ficky!!!

On race: It is imposible for a person to live a life that is all inclusive of their various DNA makeup. Especially when you that person must live in a culture that requires everyone to ID themselves. If you think you can without going insane then pass me the spliff because I want what you smoking. It must be my Indian side huh???

On the Independent thing: I still don’t understand why women think the deserve a cookie for taking care of themselves like adults are suppose to do. I hope the women who are holding this independent thing up like a badge of honor do pay attention to Michelle Obama. She is a good example of being all you can be without losing her feminism and self respect for a title on a song. Once again…. ADULTS ARE SUPPOSE TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES!!! YOU AIN’T DOING NOTHING SPECIAL!!!

By abc

January 16, 2009 11:50 AM | Link to this

There is still no specifically defined oversight and accountability for the TARP funds. Congress acted irresponsibly in releasing the money without it, and Obama falls short of expectations in requesting it not only before he’s President, but without sufficient planning in that regard. So far, business as usual. We’ll all see what it looks like 100 days after Jan. 20.

Hopefully they’ll all show more foresight and responsibility with the $850+ billion ‘package’ that’s coming up.

‘Throwing money at the problem’ is a cliche that everyone knows won’t work, but Washington and Wall Street keep doing it.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 11:51 AM | Link to this

Those who want to be with multiple folks will keep right on trickin’ and pimpin’ u right, but boy,that wld be a shame!!!

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 11:54 AM | Link to this

Raqi

LOL! You guys make up the “new” american family! We’re all headed towards being “beige” anyway:) It’s only a matter of time. You do you:)

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 11:54 AM | Link to this

Awww, thank you Wise Diva.

Cemeeli…the scale here at work (like the one in the doctor’s ofc.) says 122. I rather take these calibrated old school scales than the digital. So, I’m sticking to 122 (LOL).

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this

Thanks Taz & Cee!

By Stormy

January 16, 2009 11:55 AM | Link to this

Melo

U’S A LIE!!!!!

Majority of bast*rd kids now wld rather sell drugs,pimp and hoe like their mums than be productive,law abiding citizens.

Then what does this up here mean?

By abc

January 16, 2009 11:57 AM | Link to this

As for Bush’s farewell address… that cowboy is all hat and no cow, I think his administration proved that beyond anyone’s doubt.

By Angie

January 16, 2009 11:58 AM | Link to this

I think the Obamas will have impact on all marriages. The one thing no one can deny is that P.E Obama loves his family. If you don’t see that then you are one pent-up sad mitty ficky!!!

i see it, i can’t help but see it. all i can say is that if they let me down, i’m going to be very disappointed and done at the same time. all i ask is that he do his best and he keep his promises.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 11:59 AM | Link to this

Today January 16 2009 I Kym fully and totally agreed with abc..hell has officially frozen over

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:00 PM | Link to this

Raqi,got a qstion 4 u.

By lurker

January 16, 2009 12:01 PM | Link to this

Truth Now that was a good post…hats, sirens and balloons to you.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 12:02 PM | Link to this

* The average mans wealth, whatever that may be, is being syphoned off and the markets rejoice. Wow, we really need more education about this monetary system*

No, most of the people involved the market know the system. However, they like to know that someone is trying to help them. Bank of America bought up a lot of that bad debt in return for this money. I am not a fan of BOA, but a deal is a deal.

The markets rejoiced because many traders believe that this will keep BOA from going down. Citi isn’t looking very good right now. If Citicorp and BOA both faulter things wouldn’t be good.

If things aren’t good, then the Wall Street banker has to go home and tell his s/o. The s/o then doesn’t want to do the forbidden dance tonight. So, the markets are up because the bankers can go home and tell their s/o that someone is working on fixing their situation…and then ask for a lil bit of the good stuff. It gets back to azz….

That foregoing economic analysis was influenced by Billy Ray Valentine of Duke & Duke Securities

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:03 PM | Link to this

Oh snap, I’m all late. I asked yesterday what you were doing for your b-day but not once wishing you happy b-day.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MS. KIMMIE, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

Thank you Leggs! - I missed you yesterday, I had a lot of meetings that afternoon. Should be a lot of fun this weekend(see my 10:29)!

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

Go ahead melo.

Happy Birthday Kimmie

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

Go ahead melo.

Happy Birthday Kimmie

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

Stormy, u read it literally but i meant it connotatively.I dont blame u,most of those guilty have a tendency to read it and shift into defense gear mode,reading that rather than its connotative interpretaion. What i mean really is,most kids in those households dont have the blessing of 2 parents to guide them away from bad stuff.Thats not to say a one parent household cant raise a good kid,it makes their job much harder.And the majority of bad and jailed kids are coming outa single parent homes. Does that make it more palatable to u??

By Foots

January 16, 2009 12:08 PM | Link to this

Rell .so challenging you is wrong but i am suppose to sit and accept the BS you kick about black men???….

What BS do I kick about black men? I know the BS you kick about black women, but what have I said?

They have songs written by men who sing about how much they love independent women, so it’s strange that you’d mention that to promote your point.

For Real I don’t see why black men keeping giving women cookies for being independent either. I am writing a blog about that, and why it seems that black men are now writing and singing so many songs praising independence in women. I’ll send it to you when I’m done.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:09 PM | Link to this

Oh snap, I’m all late. I asked yesterday what you were doing for your b-day but not once wishing you happy b-day.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MS. KIMMIE, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 12:09 PM | Link to this

Well, what do you know. My boss just used “bobblehead” in our meeting. LOL.

By Angie

January 16, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

truth why is everything a conspiracy to you?

By For Real

January 16, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

PG/Truth I still say at least two of the major financial institution need to fail before our economy gets back on track. The banks has successfully duped America into believing that it cannot survive without them. BS!! This whole credit thing ain’t nothing but made up finances by wealthy people whose only job is to make interest on their money without any risk of losing their money.

For Real now slapping the ish outta Kym. There 3 realities in life taxes, dealth and Kym not agreeing with abc. You fuggin with the 5th relm KYM!!!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 12:11 PM | Link to this

Happy B-Day kimmie

PoppaG I swear I could hear Eddie Murphy’s voice saying that last bit of your post. LMAO!!!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

Raqi,hwz ur apetite??

By Stormy

January 16, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

Melo

Perhaps it’s your creative misuse of the written english lanuage that stumps most people. Perhaps you should……errrr, neva mind.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

Kym

* I know all of that. I am all for the week of parties and balls and eating food on the American tax payers daime. (We are the ones footing the damn bill.) But when the last drop of wine has left the bottles. *

Not entirely true. The winning candidate has to do fundraising to pay for some of the inaugural activities.

Here is Georgia Sam Nunn and Arthur Blank were the biggers givers and fundraisers for the Inauguration week activities. So, some things are tax payer funded and others are secured through private donations.

On another note Isn’t it ironic that two people who couldn’t have any more different political opinions could come together and make a huge successful business like Home Depot.

Bernie Marcus is as conservative as they come. Arthur Blank is almost the exact opposite.

I think it shows that you need both to make the world go ‘round.

By Foots

January 16, 2009 12:13 PM | Link to this

For Real It is imposible for a person to live a life that is all inclusive of their various DNA makeup. Especially when you that person must live in a culture that requires everyone to ID themselves.

I agree with this, or else I’m going to have to start claiming that Indian in my grandmother. LOL!

It is interesting though, that for centuries, many white people considered bi-racial children as black, but now that Barack is the Man, they would like to acknowledge the fact that he is half-white. Is that a testament to how far this country has come?

Poppa That foregoing economic analysis was influenced by Billy Ray Valentine of Duke & Duke Securities

So how you feel about pork belly futures? LOL!

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 12:14 PM | Link to this

Well, if the paradigm of African American family life as portrayed by the Huxtables was unrealistic, then I guess I grew up in Neverland.

The existence of middle and upper-middle class African Americans is not new, but very much unknown…I suggest that ppl read “Aristocrats of Color”…it covers the history of AA’s from 1876 to 1930 who were contributors to the establishment and standards of AA’s class structure…and while sistergirl Michelle Obama will indeed increase the awareness of sophisticated and well-educated women of color to those who are unfamiliar with that fact…she is following in the footsteps of women like Phoeba A. Bass, the wife of Sen. Hiram Revels,the first AA to be elected to the US Senate…her social soirees were known for their unprecedented style and class…even by DC political standards…she was much envied for her ability to showcase the highest integrity and the true essence of African American women’s high moral rectitude and intelligence.

By KoolAid House

January 16, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this

Ask your sister to send for your auntie, Kimmie. I would love to watch the inauguration on a big screen tv in the park in the SUN! While I’m sitting around the fire place Tuesday morning watching the inauguration from home, I’ll have that vision in my head.

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this

Thanks Raqi & Kym!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this

Foots Could you send it to me too? I would like to read your thoughts.

By For Real

January 16, 2009 12:16 PM | Link to this

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KIMMIE!!!! P.S. there is cake waiting for you in the back seat of your car.

Foots I don’t see why black men keeping giving women cookies for being independent either. I know right they fuggin it up for everybody. But look at the dudes that are writing these songs. You would want them to be your man? Send me your blog when it’s finished.

Ared got a bobblehead?

By DasV

January 16, 2009 12:17 PM | Link to this

foots you blog too? send it my way please ma’am… interesting topic…. dasvenus@gmail.com. Thanks!

theTruth whats gotten into you?? snap out of it! or make this new dig permanent… women hate most inconsistency.

forReal was lookin for you at 8? what happen?? :) only thing that the Obamas are gone change is you will hear: ‘nikka, you aint the president’… and ‘what?! you think yous the president or something, nikka?… and thats between man and soon-to-be ex-wife.

and when they meet to sign divorce paperwork, things will stall cause Obamaleesha or Obamalita or Baracka or Kabama’s name is misspelled and they have to re-print that page.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:18 PM | Link to this

The one I am carrying now has a tan father with “good” hair. LOL What I hodgepodge of a mess and tell Mase im coming over tonite to pitch the different national flags high by ur driveway.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:20 PM | Link to this

Sorry, forgot to change my moniker (KoolAid House) back from another site I was on about cold weather.

ARed, give us the sentence your boss used “bobblehead” in!

By KoolAid House

January 16, 2009 12:21 PM | Link to this

Ask your sister to send for your auntie, Kimmie. I would love to watch the inauguration on a big screen tv in the park in the SUN! While I’m sitting around the fire place Tuesday morning watching the inauguration from home, I’ll have that vision in my head.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:22 PM | Link to this

Perhaps you should……errrr, neva mind i luv a woman that folds(as in submits) to the man..its sexxxy!(im creatively saying it too).Ur concession STORMY is appreciated…LOL

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 12:22 PM | Link to this

ABC not only is there no oversight on the TARP funds but on the Federal Reserve that created that bogus money. All federal agencies have some sort of oversight whether it be the FBI, CIA, NSA or any of the other alphabet organizations, except the Federal Reserve. They are accountable to absoutely no one in any shape or form. They say they need this to wage a war on inflation and have all barrels locked and cocked yet they’re the ones that create the money that causes inflation in the first place.

Rell what you’re referrring to is women that know the legal system backs them up hence they can say what they like without backlash. Still you have 2 options: A) walk away from that chick never to call her again and let her sort out her own miserable existence over the next 20 lonely years or B) go to her azz like you would a cat that tried to take your nuts in the exact same way. I think because so many of us have chosen A we now have a hoard of women that actually think they can say whatever they like. Growing up I saw too many chicks get slapped when a dude said hi and she acted like he was a piece of ish. And I’m talking straight jap slapped. It only happened once then those chicks got in touch with their inner nice woman. LOL

Our kids suffer from the same problem. nobody to check them until it turns into a federal case and 20 to life. We’re coming up short as a people.

Poppa I hope he enjoys that loving tonight because the wallop thats coming down the road is going to break all but the very strongest. The forbidden dance is going to be the last thing on anyones mind. All this throwing around money isn’t fixing the problem, which is you by the way. You need to go out and spend, spend, spend because you’re the only fuel for this engine. Consumers account for 2/3 of our economy so if you dont spend the government cant tax it and on and on. Do your part and call Mrs. PG and tell her the shopping spree starts tonight because its the patriotic thing to do. LOL

Btw, another great movie is Taken with Liam Nielsen. It was out a few months ago but it is good.

Ladies, I’m downloading little Miss Sunshine as we speak. I may be changing my name to gramps soon if what you say is true. We’ll see.

Thanks for that good info Das. smooches.

Happy BDAY Kimmie. Can I get a birthday booty rub? I promise not to grind.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:26 PM | Link to this

Sorry, forgot to change my moniker (KoolAid House) back from another site I was on about cold weather.

ARed, give us the sentence your boss used “bobblehead” in!

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 12:26 PM | Link to this

ARed, give us the sentence your boss used “bobblehead” in!

Leggs, I know right? I’ve never heard it used into a sentence before today. And now I heard it twice. Kind of like the day of the “aminus” LOL.

We are working on a presentation and he wanted me to be prepared for some follow up questions. He said “most likely, they’ll sit there like bobbleheads, but we should be prepared just in case.” LOL!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 12:27 PM | Link to this

M’K I think that is all great..but what kills me with black folks..is that we are all ready to embrace change..to a point. There is this book “Our kind of people” that touches on the class system in the black community. There are still small factions where (no matter how much cash a person has) can not go. Old money negros do not mind taking cash for foundations from new money negros but err your kids can’t join certain organizations, or hang out together..nothing personal but you are not our kind of people.

By Angie

January 16, 2009 12:27 PM | Link to this

happy birthday kimmie! i sung to you yesterday. forgive me gurl. you know i can’t hold a note. lol.

some hair advice i would like to share. if you burn easily, use a relaxer with butter in it. and if you have static in your hair, try spraying static guard in it. i tried it just this past week and it really works. spray it on your brush, comb, and jackets too.

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 12:27 PM | Link to this

As far is interracial mixtures go…my bloodlines carry the DNA of the West African, the Indigenous American, the Scoth-Irish…and hey-ale given that I speak Spanish fluently and love to get it wholesale…probably a Hispanic Jew gene as well…lol…my mother’s generation is the last of a genetic group from the Southeast known as triracial isolates…a very common genetic combination in the south from about the mid-18th Century until the very early 20th Century…and I am Black…imagine that.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:27 PM | Link to this

Ok, it’s a done deal….Truth is bipolar!

By Foots

January 16, 2009 12:28 PM | Link to this

For Real/Kym/Das Venus DANG!! Now I’m going to have to ACTUALLY write the thing. LOL!! I’ll send it to you and you can proof it. I’m new to sharing public thoughts, other than this blog.

For Real what’s your email address again?

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 12:29 PM | Link to this

Angie its not a conspiracy when they’ve been doing it to us for eons. Get your head out of those Harlequin Romance novels and you’ll find out whats really going on in this country and world.

For Real This whole credit thing ain’t nothing but made up finances by wealthy people whose only job is to make interest on their money without any risk of losing their money. 100% cosign. Thing is when its over they’re alot richer and we’re starting over, again. We cannot win under these circumstances because they control the purse strings.

By For Real

January 16, 2009 12:32 PM | Link to this

Das I’m sorry bunny. WiseD was feeling all down in the dumps last night. So stop by there to play her favorite game and lift up her spirits. Can I reschedule?

By Angie

January 16, 2009 12:32 PM | Link to this

foots can you e-mail to me also? angeliquegeorgia@yahoo.com

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:32 PM | Link to this

ARed, no you didn’t bouce back to that day when that word was used. I’m hollering over here! Girl you are a hot mess and you know it! Too dang funny!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:33 PM | Link to this

Ok, it’s a done deal….Truth is bipolar!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:34 PM | Link to this

I’m still laughing at you!!!

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 12:36 PM | Link to this

@Kym

Yes, that fact of class distinction does exist…in fact, even in the book I referenced the majority of AA’s were referred to as the undifferentiated masses…totally a perjorative term…and in the ATL the caste system was based upon whether an AA was an Auburn Avenue Negro or a Dectur Street Negro…unfortunately, there may never be a mutual acceptance amongst our ppl across the chasm of class divide…internalized racism has rendered the effort at best futile and pervasive…but we can still attempt to reach out to one person at a time and learn the who of a person and not the what…otherwise, there is no hope for change within static interaction.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:37 PM | Link to this

ARed, no you didn’t bouce back to that day when that word was used. I’m hollering over here! Girl you are a hot mess and you know it! Too dang funny!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:39 PM | Link to this

I’m still laughing at you!!!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:40 PM | Link to this

UUGGHH, I’m tired of these dbl postings. Certain points don’t need to be stated twice!

By Angie

January 16, 2009 12:40 PM | Link to this

truth you waste too much time looking for things that are out of your control. try just controlling what’s in your reach. you’ll be much happier.

and stop with the smart azz macho comments already!

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 12:41 PM | Link to this

For Real - I just got the cake out of the car & almost finished it off. Preciate it!LOL

Truth - I would let you this one time, but problem is you never keep your promises!LOL

Thanks Angie! Don’t worry, I can’t sing either! Still been watching Top Chef? I’m about sick of it, to tell you the truth.

Concerning Inauguration Costs - I’ve seen on a couple of blogs folks byching about how much it’s costing. Why does Barack need to have a Walmart inauguation? Why can’t he have just as much fanfare as all the past prez? And some nut on another blog said Michelle does not need a white house social secretary and why can’t she plan a F’ing party? Why shouldn’t she have an assistant just like all the past First Ladies? Get the highest office in the world & some folk still want you to come thru the back door!

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 12:42 PM | Link to this

melo it’s fine. Would you like the other half of my turkey on wheat with light mayo, mustard, provolone and lettuce? Today tomatoes are gross so I threw those out.

I also have a caramel brownie that I doubt I will eat. You can have it.

By For Real

January 16, 2009 12:42 PM | Link to this

Foots for_real730@yahoo.com and I will keep in mind that you are sensitive about your ish.

Truth The wealthy people has also duped America into thinking it’s about Black and White. They have used that one for centuries to destract American while they steal the money out of your savings. Kinda like this:

For Real: Hey Ared can I borrow $20.

Ared: $20!!!!! Oh hell naw!!!!

For Real: Awww come Ared I need it.

Ared: What do you need fou?!?!

For Real: Beer and some sandwiches

Ared: WTF!!! Mitty Ficky I ain’t given you ish.

For Real: Zippppppppppp!!!!

Ared: OH MY!!!

For Real now reaching into Ared purse to get $50.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this

UUGGHH, I’m tired of these dbl postings. Certain points don’t need to be stated twice!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this

Why does Barack need to have a Walmart inauguation? Happy birthday Walmart, i mean *Kimmie..LOL

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 12:45 PM | Link to this

@Kimmie

lol…yepper…scrutinizing how they will spend monies…like the amount that they have to remodel the Whitehouse…and how it will be done…how much her dress will cost…so much attention is being given to how these ppl will spend funds…like they was ghetto before coming to the Whitehouse and now they is being upgraded…shyte.

By For Real

January 16, 2009 12:46 PM | Link to this

kimmie I just got the cake out of the car & almost finished it off. You don’t finish eating Black Cake until I say you are done.

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 12:46 PM | Link to this

Foots don’t forget about me when you send that email ;-)

And don’t worry about someone proofreading it - unless you’re planning to get it published. That’s the thing I love about writing - I just put it out there. I’ll re-read it because I’m anal like that - but I don’t care about grammar and all that other stuff - most times it’s just a brain dump.

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 12:47 PM | Link to this

Girl you are a hot mess and you know it! Too dang funny!

Leggs, I do know it. It was just so funny to me because I saw it used correctly not even 24 hours later. Someone up there has a real sense of humor!

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 12:54 PM | Link to this

For Real - Well da— then! I do likes a man that takes control tho!LOL!

Melo - Thanks! Walmart- I know, crazy right?!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:55 PM | Link to this

For Real/Truth, i have send u guys an article,*how the financial crisis was built into the system *Its talking about how the federal reserve was created,by whom and why.Check it out.Might help u out coping with this thing and ways to come out on top. im charging only 1 basis points of all ur assets as fee.Its payable once ur assets have appreciated to an acceptable level,read the fine print!!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 12:57 PM | Link to this

Truth,cant get ur email..

By Foots

January 16, 2009 12:59 PM | Link to this

kimmie HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 1:01 PM | Link to this

Raqi the brownie will mess up my cholestorel and make me pee endlessly.Im feeling that turkey on wheat u eating,tho,next time,cut it in half and share.

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 1:04 PM | Link to this

Angie everyhting you dont know about is out of your control, like men for you. The key in life is to learn as much as you can about everything. When you stop learning you die. our elected officials count on ignorant people like you that’ll vote someone in office and then let them run roughshod over you without a peep.

You think the apex of your life is when you become someones wife yet because your ignorant your not an asset but a liability, hence the reason your solo at this moment. A major problem with people nowadays is they keep doing the same old ish even though there’s new and better ways of doing it, if you just took the time to learn.

BTw, on my sad days I’m happier than your miserable azz. The things in life I want I either have or can get. You cant get the one thing you need in life to be whole. A man to validate your tired azz.

For Real thats the distractionary politics. Keep em looking at everything but the problem and you can get away with anything. First it was the cold war, then the war on crime, then the war on terrorism, always the racial war. Thing is the folks that profit from all of this don’t care if you’re black or white but only if you’re mega rich like they are.

I’m going to try this the next time I get in a relationship. When the chick starts tripping I’ll say “hold on” and go outside and break her car window. Then come in and tell her what happened and console her. distractions are a mf’er. LOL

Leggs you’re the one that jumped on that earlier comment I made. When I say strength I mean all the gears from A to Z. That may mean tearing that chicks azz out the frame. You ladies just want a wagon to jump on so anything anyone says that supports your cause you latch on too.

Melo atlred01@yahoo.com

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 1:08 PM | Link to this

Happy birthday kimmie! - hope your day is special :)

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 1:11 PM | Link to this

Foots - Thanks fellow alum! Woof, woof!!

By Blow Me

January 16, 2009 1:12 PM | Link to this

Howdy Guys!!

Your not getting to the white house coming out of SouthWest Dekalb HS, its just not happening.

This stood out to me. Honestly this is not fair to say…At this point you do not know what can happen. Had I ask you “would it be possible for a black president?”, I am sure %100 of this blog would have had said NO! Anything is possible with prayer and ambition. He has definitely proved this.

Funny that this is the topic today. I was having this exact same conversation with a friend of mines yesterday. My thoughts were OBAMA is an ideal well rounded and grounded person. He is extremely relatable on ANY level. He embodies everything ANY woman in her right mind is looking for. Smart, educated, sensitive, strong, it does not hurt he has a 4 pack and shoot B’s on his time off. lol! Great Guy…Michelle….LOOK they are just too damn PERFECT for AMERICA! I love em!!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 1:14 PM | Link to this

Truth The Ascent of Money(my new fav documentary) came on PBS. I taped it(do we say tape anymore?) I am going to re-watch it this evening because I know there are points I missed. Plus I want to do someone historical research on a few things he mentioned. Now tell me again about the other book I am suppose to get. I didn’t write it down and the bookstore here is closing soon. I was hoping they would have it.

By DasV

January 16, 2009 1:21 PM | Link to this

HAHAHAHAAAA I’m going to try this the next time I get in a relationship. When the chick starts tripping I’ll say “hold on” and go outside and break her car window. Then come in and tell her what happened and console her. distractions are a mf’er THAT IS FUN-NY!

you right on the guberment distracting the sheeple…. they dog-n-pony show minus the pony and no one even notices.

btw way, insert war on drugs right before the war on crime.

By Le Siren

January 16, 2009 1:22 PM | Link to this

Foots

It is interesting though, that for centuries, many white people considered bi-racial children as black, but now that Barack is the Man, they would like to acknowledge the fact that he is half-white. Is that a testament to how far this country has come?

That could be, but I think that white people acknowledge him being 1/2 white because it makes them feel much more comfortable. That makes him less of a “threat” in their eyes. Whatever you consider the man to be, the FACT is that he is half black and half white. Neither one cancels out the other!

By Angie

January 16, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this

truth i love you too babe! lol. and none of that was necessary. you feel better now? no one wants to admit it, but you’re the most bitter cat on this blog. i feel for you.

if cussing me out, calling me names makes you feel better … keep it comin’.

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S!

January 16, 2009 1:23 PM | Link to this

AMAZING!!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 1:24 PM | Link to this

Truth, I was giving you a compliment. I don’t state my “cause” on here. You have no idea what it is. In case you haven’t figured this out, I’m not not like a bunch of other women. The one constant you know about me is I don’t want to get married. I jump on the bandwagon of posts that I think are well written, comical, and can inform. BTW, I’m smart enough to discern what you meant by “strength.” You are a riot (and right now, I’m not being anywhere near funny)!!!!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 1:26 PM | Link to this

BTw, on my sad days I’m happier than your miserable azz boy i luv that line.I wanted to use that line early on this morning abuut me luving my authentic me more than some ish who hate their alphabate.. self.I didnt wanna rub it in…

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 1:28 PM | Link to this

Thanks Wise One!

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 1:29 PM | Link to this

Truth, I was giving you a compliment. I don’t state my “cause” on here. You have no idea what it is. In case you haven’t figured this out, I’m not not like a bunch of other women. The one constant you know about me is I don’t want to get married. I jump on the bandwagon of posts that I think are well written, comical, and can inform. BTW, I’m smart enough to discern what you meant by “strength.” You are a riot (and right now, I’m not being anywhere near funny)!!!!

By Cemeeli

January 16, 2009 1:30 PM | Link to this

I’ve seen on a couple of blogs folks byching about how much it’s costing. Why does Barack need to have a Walmart inauguation? Why can’t he have just as much fanfare as all the past prez?

kimmie sis, i have had more travel&expenses with other vacations/excursions than this Inaugural trip. And every time i called and asked inquiries about this or that event cost then gave the travel agent our installment $$$, i was more than willing. When she said A. is gonna costs me $$xzy, and B. is gonna cost me $$lmnop…i just let it fly. My bank act. is HOT right now. Live big Obama!!! Lol

When i get back will you, Leggs or Slim have a few gigs lined up for a side hustle so that i can save up?

Leggs We can go ahead and start that “Leggs WingSpot” now, don’t you think?

It is now 24 degrees…temp. finally moved up to the double digits…

By Cemeeli

January 16, 2009 1:32 PM | Link to this

Hi DasV. You come to visit for a spell, hunh?

By MELO

January 16, 2009 1:34 PM | Link to this

Because in our culture fathers are as rare as 100 carat diamonds we adopt anyone as a role model.

Your not getting to the white house coming out of SouthWest Dekalb HS u got some gems, im enjoying as i eat my lunch.Who are u reading right now,i really mean now??.Any author in particular??

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 1:35 PM | Link to this

Kym the book to get is “The Creature From Jekyll Island**. Yes it is the Jekyll Island on the coast of Georgia and the creature that was created was the federal reserve. As someone stated Jekyll Island was at one time the playground of the worlds rich and powerful. I promise you’ll learn more about american history then you ever will in college. It’s a long book but if you can make it to page 3 you’ll be hooked like a crackhead. LOL

Btw, I put a friend on A New Earth and she’s hooked like crack. I told her the story about the monk carrying the woman over the puddle and she though t that was so interesting.

Blow a public education won’t prepare you for the types of situations you’ll be faced with in that position. And as important you need to know people that know people and for that you have to be around people that have power and can get ish done. Pookie at SW Dekalb ain’t getting it done.

Angie as long as I’ve been reading your posts you’ve had one constant theme, to get a man. You may venture off for a brief second like your hair tips today but your whole world revolves around trapping some cat into staying with your azz, and that is by all definitions pathetic.

There’s a whole world to explore but you stay on a raod that to this point hasnt born you much fruit at all. I’d say pick a different path but you dont have the heart to do that.

A good book for you is “Who moved My Cheese” very simple so you wont have to think to much but it packs a great message.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

Truth

A good book for you is “Who moved My Cheese” very simple so you wont have to think to much but it packs a great message.

You never lied there. It is one of the most important books that I’ve read in my life.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

Truth

A good book for you is “Who moved My Cheese” very simple so you wont have to think to much but it packs a great message.

You never lied there. It is one of the most important books that I’ve read in my life.

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 1:46 PM | Link to this

Melo that is a GREAT read and summarizes alot of my recent readings. Thanks. Post that link so others can read it. I’m currently reading the book “The Case Against The Fed” and then the House of Morgan (JP) is next. I’ve got to figure out a way to side step the next big crash, which is coming. I lost my shirt on this one but it wont happen again. There is a way to safeguard yourself and I have to find it.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 1:47 PM | Link to this

Buy in bulks.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 1:50 PM | Link to this

Yes, it’s time. Was waiting for your go ahead. I’m working on the menu right now.

Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson, M.D. certainly packs a great message. It’s right here on the corner of my desk.

By Angie

January 16, 2009 1:55 PM | Link to this

truth this is a relationship blog! you stupid. lol. why do you read me that way? i have many goals. open your eyes bruh. i’m working on my bachelors as we speak.

i’m sadden that you have been reading me wrong all this time. i still love you though. lol.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 1:56 PM | Link to this

Yes, it’s time. Was waiting for your go ahead. I’m working on the menu right now.

Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson, M.D. certainly packs a great message. It’s right here on the corner of my desk.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 1:57 PM | Link to this

Truth How old is the book? The bookstore said they have not had it in years. Did you hear it on audio? I am searching audible right now.

Who moved my cheese is a great book You can either a be a Hem or a Haw, a Sniff or a Scurry. But the writing on the wall explains it all.

By Blow Me

January 16, 2009 1:58 PM | Link to this

Truth Yes and no. I mean the child intellect is not based on his school. That is a learned and sometimes a genetic trait. Although I agree…if I had a child they would not be attending..any ole hood school. Education would be priority and they would be in private or a very elite top notched…mixed make up of a public school. I agree with you are some senses. But a predominately black school is not the best thing to have a child go to PRE K-12…or even college. My first all black school was high school.But you need to have diversity and to be placed amongst a well mix pool of people. I saw the hood kids, the white kids gettin dropped off @ school in limos, going to see their huge mansions I am talkin about in the 80”s before the mortgage scandals…and then to Keisha house to eat a gubment cheese sammich. You have got to see it all.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this

Kym, the book was written in 1998. You can go to www.whomovedmycheese.com. You can all the Putnam Inside Sales Department at (800) 847-5515. For more information you can call (800) 851-9311. The phamplet in my book has a quote from USA Today—->*Insightful bite-sized advice.” So true, so true!!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 2:02 PM | Link to this

The Truth all these rich folks arent about to stop or discredit capitalism.Its what they know and what made them to be in their safeguarded positions so they will safeguard it and pass it on to their kids.Hence the financial bailouts to the corpations on Wall street.Like u correctly say,safeguarding urself is key.See hw Robert,in that piece mentions the same I just want to know how to avoid becoming its victim.I see no reason to be a mouse trying to stop a herd of elephants from fighting Knowledge is Power.In a way, im lucky in that my 1st economics professor at undergrad was smewhat of a socialist.While he allowed us to read and express our opinions on capitalism, he made a good case of comparing the 2 sysytms, pros and cons.This is my 2nd recession since moving into the states and the de merits of capitalism have haunted me twice now.But i now know and appreciate the frequency co ive lived thru it.Now i can put my other finance hat on and navigate the protection of what i own.I aint fighting the elephnts either.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 2:03 PM | Link to this

Kimmie

Have a happy birthday.

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 2:04 PM | Link to this

Ahh Truth, you’ve been reading her wrong all this time, but she’s so on target when assessing you. Funny.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 2:05 PM | Link to this

BTW folk, the book is 94 pages long filled with small yet valuable gems!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this

Leggs I have read Who moved my cheese. That’s Angie that needs that revelation. I was asking Truth about the Creature from Jekyll Island.

Who moved my Cheese has been on the best seller list for 10 plus years now.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this

http://www.informationliberation.com/?id=26224

Thats the link pple.

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this

Poppa the first book I ever read that kocked me off my feet was “Think and Grow Rich” by Napolean Hill. That was so powerful to know you could actually control what you think about and thus your outcome. I didn’t have to keep doing things then hoping they worked out in the end. I’ve read it maybe 5 times now. It’s still a great book. If melo posts that link read this piece by Robert Kiyosaki about this financial crisis and tell me what you think.

Kym try amazon.com. They have it. I believe its a few years old. Amazon had the best prices.

Angie the best gems I’ve gotten on this blog had nothing to do with dating. It was from people that had experiences or knowledge that could help me in other areas of my life. This has never been a dating blog but simply a medium to pass along folks thoughts and opinions on lifes challenges. Sure, the topics start with dating but the real meat and potatoes come later. Dating has never been a problem for me so in actuality I dont need the help. Whatever I was doing worked so at best I will tweak my progam and move forward. Whenever I’ve wanted a woman I could get one and no excuses were necessary.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 2:07 PM | Link to this

Kym, the book was written in 1998. You can go to www.whomovedmycheese.com. You can all the Putnam Inside Sales Department at (800) 847-5515. For more information you can call (800) 851-9311. The phamplet in my book has a quote from USA Today—->*Insightful bite-sized advice.” So true, so true!!

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S!

January 16, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this

WHO MOVED MY CHEESE REVIEW

THIS BOOK IS CRAP!!

This is the WORST business book I have ever read. The intent behind it is valid, but the content can be summed up in a few statements: Change will happen

If you don’t change, you will die (figuratively or literally)

Watch for signs of change, so you can be prepared to change, too

Change is good, and can lead to something better

There. Do you feel like paying me [good money] for that priceless knowledge?

This is a parable, which means they dressed up the real content by writing a goofy story about mice and little people, taking up more pages so they could justify the cost. Unfortunately, they could only drag the story out so far (how many times can you read, “and he kept walking and looking for more cheese”). The book was still only about 20 pages long, too short for a hardcover, so they added a second story to frame the parable itself. The second story is about a group at a reunion that talks about the book. Even THAT doesn’t add enough pages to justify printing it in hardcover, so they increased the print size to roughly what you see in books for 3 year olds.

The author, publisher and whoever else was involved in this moneymaking scheme obviously recognized that many people would see through their efforts. Their solution? Put in a statement saying, in effect, “If you think this book isn’t worthwhile, then you aren’t a talented, cutting edge business person like all the other who read the book are.”

Believe me, someone in your office (probably your boss) is waving this book around, exclaiming how wonderful it is and telling you to read it. ASK IF YOU CAN BORROW HIS COPY. Do not spend money on it yourself. You’re going to have to read it, unfortunately, because the herd has spoken and you can’t stray from the herd. I’ll bet the person who started the rumor that this was a good book is getting royalties. It’s the only explanation.

The one saving grace about this book is it’s a quick read. I finished it in 23 minutes. At least you can soon move on to something more worthwhile.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 2:09 PM | Link to this

One day somebody is going to forget.

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this

BTW folk, the book is 94 pages long filled with small yet valuable gems!

By DasV

January 16, 2009 2:10 PM | Link to this

angie can you put butter in your relaxer and get the same result?? LOL seriously… I burn really easy and so i use the kiddie ‘perm’ with sunflower oil. it does great!

foots LOL… you roped yourself wit putting that out there…. ROTFLOL at that!

ForReal that works for me… wit last night, im proly good till next Tuesday…. we can root the fo real, fo real HNIC together!

CeeMee hey gurl! yep… dropping in this afternoon…. laughin at ‘the return of theTruth’ feature playing on the big screen.

kym… heeheeee @either a hem or haw or sniff or scurry most proly need to start wit printable mazes before venturing out into ‘life’, though.

theTruth was that ‘the good earth’ and ‘i am cheese’??? LOL

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 2:15 PM | Link to this

I Hate Wow. I really enjoyed reading that comment. LOL But seriously.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 2:18 PM | Link to this

Yesterday,a company rep from our defined benefits and pension plan provider waz here to do business as usual.I went in the the room coz i wanted to increase my deductions and this other guy was in there chatting to the lady rep.He said he was being decimated portfolio wise and wanted to move his money.I was amazed at the mis-info that he got from the rep to let his money in there kaput.And to compound it,the guy hasnt even signed up for online access to his accounts,so whatever info he gets thru the mail,his portfolio is way off and worse. I advised the guy to come to my office when he gets time so we can chat and stregize,if he wants.I doubt he will take me on my offer coz he seems so in the dark on the issues and stuck on prudential,ing etc reps and not a jack from africa.I Just wish pple wld take time to read simple stuff and be educated about their money.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 2:19 PM | Link to this

Truth

I’ve read those Rich Dad Books as well as Think and Grow Rich. They are good. That is why I tend to focus me.

But “Who moved my cheese?” always return me to my basic foundation.

The last non-law school book that I read was “How Walmart is destroying American and the World”. It was good but not much that I didn’t already know.

By SexyCool - UnCut

January 16, 2009 2:22 PM | Link to this

coincidentally…i wasn’t going to comment on today’s subject…however…i see that the topic has turned to motivational litrature…i am so into that right now…but not only into reading…but into taking action…

to piggyback on what truth said earlier…i urge each of you to continue to enrich your mind at every opportunity…if you stop learning, you’ve stopped living…

i won’t make any recommendations of a specific author or method of motivation…i only encourage you to feed positivity into your mind…it will stir you to take actions that will bring GREAT reward!!!

By Angie

January 16, 2009 2:23 PM | Link to this

truth you’re speaking like i can’t get dizzle or marry in the next five minutes? lol. nicca please stop! and get over me steppin’ on your manhood last year. that’ll teach you to stay your azz outta ppl business.

kimmie i’m done with top chef and have moved on to damages. you should check it out!

venus i don’t know if it’ll work. i always burn in the same spot everytime. mizani butter blend works for me. my best friend uses the kiddie perm too.

By lurker

January 16, 2009 2:25 PM | Link to this

2:09 funny…

By Troll

January 16, 2009 2:31 PM | Link to this

AngieAngieAngie SMH po thang

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 2:32 PM | Link to this

http://www.racialicious.com/2009/01/09/more-musings-on-interracial-relationships/

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 2:35 PM | Link to this

Kym try this link.

http://www.amazon.com/CREATURE-JEKYLL-ISLAND-Federal-Reserve/dp/B00181HBR0/ref=sr11?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1232133206&sr=1-1

W******* apparently it was good because you retained the subject matter pretty good. Sometimes simplicity is the best way to convey a complex topic.

Blow Obama went to the best school in Hawai. The people he met are good people to know later in life. Thats my point. Like his time at Harvard he was meeting people that he can use to get things done, and vice versa. I don’t know everything but if I have old friends that do I can benefit from what they know. It’s a beautiful system.

Poppa its a 3 page summary of todays crisis. Only takes a moment.

Melo I’ve been thinking about putting the money I make in Kuwait into the yen. My thinking is they’ll recover faster because they can still produce products whereas we can’t. The thing is their economy uses fiat money too and eventually it will collapse, as all fiat economies have. Other than that what options are availiable? Real estate will probably never come back to previous levels, the stock market is supposed to reset at the 5000 level. What else can you do with money besides your mattress?

Angie great place for a 40 yr old broad to be where she can get some dizzle. you’re further gone than first suspected. I’m recommending surgery, a frontal lobotomy to start. we’ll take your hair too because someone can use that, its nice and you wont need it while drooling in a padded cell. Listen, we’re talking about some inspriational ish here so let me handle this and I’ll play with you again when I have a down moment.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 2:38 PM | Link to this

People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing - that’s why we recommend it daily. Zig Ziglar

By i'm swiss

January 16, 2009 2:41 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl — You know, I noticed the same phenomenon in D.C. (black women with white men) when I visited a friend there in ‘07. It stood out to me 1) because I’m in the same situation, and 2) because I had never seen that combination very often. Most black/white couples I had seen were usually the other way around (black man / white women). I was proud of my fellow whiteboys. ;-) LOL

By Foots

January 16, 2009 2:42 PM | Link to this

Le Siren That could be, but I think that white people acknowledge him being 1/2 white because it makes them feel much more comfortable. That makes him less of a “threat” in their eyes.

That I agree with. There aren’t too many Black men, half or otherwise that aren’t perceived as a threat in America. They are: Colin Powell, Will Smith and Wayne Brady. That’s it. End of list. They called Obama a terrorist, so he doesn’t even make the list.

By Angie

January 16, 2009 2:42 PM | Link to this

truth i asked a simple question and you went there! don’t allow ppl to hit that nerve so easily. oh, and you didn’t have to respond.

be good.

and with that, i’m out! have a good w/e every1!

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 2:44 PM | Link to this

You know what I said I was going to close the door on crazy but sometimes you have to address crazy before you close the door.

Angie I am tired of you. You come on the blog once a damn month..name dropping like you got the goods on everybody. If ever there was a nosy a* gossip it would be you. If ever anyone needed “Who Moved My Chesse” “To Blessed to be Stressed” and a few other books I could mention it would be you. I swear and be damn if you are not triffling.

I am starting to suspect that you left Atlanta because some of these blog dudes ran through you and you like to pop back on here all the time cause you trying to keep tabs and keep shyt going. I could be wrong..but it ain’t often.

Who in the hell as time to get up before day in the morning to blog? Hell I enjoy blogging as much as the next person..but damn that. And you say the weirdest shyt. Your baby daddy in San Quentin..why would you even advertise that? Hell we all got folks in the gray bar hotel but we not telling the world in a open forum..you one crazy azz.

Anyone on this blog who has the time or energy to regularly communicate with you outside of this blog is a damn fool.

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 2:51 PM | Link to this

oh dear..

By Cemeeli

January 16, 2009 2:52 PM | Link to this

Blog Ladies Hot Memo, just in:

Please join Camp Girlfriends as we salute our New First Lady by wearing pearls on Inaugural Day. No matter where you are you can participate in this salute. It’s simple- wear pearl. Little girls, big girls, all girls…let’s wear pearls! Contact your family and girlfriends and ask each one to ask everyone, to wear pearls on Tuesday January 20, 2009. To work, school, the Inauguration, the Balls, in front of the television. Girls wear your pearls. What a wonderful keepsake for us all to have pearls in recognition of Inaugural Day.

By Kool Aid House

January 16, 2009 2:52 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone.

Have a great weekend.

Still love your old cantankerous self, Truth. Not that you care since you’re still pining for Kimmee or is it Tazzee. Hell, it’s both. Bye!

By Atl Lady

January 16, 2009 2:54 PM | Link to this

Hello Blog Family!!! Longtime no see. I see a lot has changed and a lot has not. Cee Girl have a safe trip. Wish I could go with you!!

Truth I’m giving you a church hug even though I see your teeth are clinched. lol I appreciate the dialog with you PG, Melo, and others. I love being informed.

Kimmie Happy B-day!!! Your weekend sounds like a blast.

For Real You gone always be my cuz. I don’t care what nana and ‘nem say. :-)

By Foots

January 16, 2009 2:54 PM | Link to this

Blog Public Service Announcement Regarding Comment Posted on January 16, 2009 @ 2:44 PM

DAYUM!!!!!!

This has been a Blog Public Service Announcement…

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 2:55 PM | Link to this

oh dear.. LOL WiseDiva Yeah

So what is everyone doing for the weekend?

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

giggles Wow.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

money I make in Kuwait into the yen the dinar u mean..thats proly crap too coz those mullahs over there are accountable to nobody,not even their citizens coz there is no democracy,its a crazy monarch-like flawed system.Actually ur mattress,if u got good insuarance on ur property is good coz thats cash.And in this economy,cash is king.I saw some bank owned houses in dekalb cnty thru a site i suscribe to,going for $19,000/20 geez.Thats tantalizing and i cld buy that cash but then again,we aint seen the floor yet so those prices can go lower.U have no options if ure illiquid so cash is way to go. If u realy have an apetite for risk,try commodity broking in places Robert mentions in some third wrdls like zimbabwe etc.They dont have the basic goods like rice,sugar milk etc in ,most places.You buy from south africa and sell over there in US dollars.Ur risk is,ur money gets stolen and they falsify some ish about u as a hated american and imprison u,they change laws like left, right and center without warning and frequently,its damn expensive and ur security is never guaranteed. Ur consolation is when u die,they will find some genuine american dollars in ur pockets so ur siblings might get to share something…lol

By Reva

January 16, 2009 2:56 PM | Link to this

that is a cut and paste from amazon’s website. This attention person usually posts in all caps

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this

Heck, you know who Kool Aid House is by now.

Peace!

By Kool Aid House

January 16, 2009 2:57 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone.

Have a great weekend.

Still love your old cantankerous self, Truth. Not that you care since you’re still pining for Kimmee or is it Tazzee. Hell, it’s both. Bye!

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 2:58 PM | Link to this

Awrighty now…who let the dawgs out…I guess the library was open and the books got read…okay today…any more need to release today…lol.

I think I will stick to posting links to the New Demographic and citing some historical data…nuff said for me…lol

By Leggs

January 16, 2009 3:02 PM | Link to this

Heck, you know who Kool Aid House is by now.

Peace!

By MELO

January 16, 2009 3:08 PM | Link to this

Black Enterprise magazine is a fabulous read on financial matters.It comes every time with solid financial advice.I used that mag throughout my graduate yrs and i reccommend the magazine to anybody and evrybody who needs uncomplicated financial advice on the regular.

By For Real

January 16, 2009 3:13 PM | Link to this

For Real is slowly re-entering the blog stepping over the chalk outline. Thinking to himself… Dayummm!!!!

Heyyyyyyy! Atl Lady Don’t pay nana no mind she mad because I hid her teeth and then got drunk and i can’t for the life of me remember where I put them.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 3:16 PM | Link to this

Truth World Net Daily has the book for 19.99..only problem I am not trying to get on some monthly mailing list for their magazine. I start getting Whistleblower magazine next thing you know Homeland is park outside my house in a pizza van.

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 3:18 PM | Link to this

@Raqi

Trying to stay warm…cold as heck…lol…too bad my buddy ain’t coming up from Raleigh this weekend…shucks…oh well…lots of blankets and hot toddies…lol

By DasV

January 16, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

fingers snappin in air at the 244 post Kym (now thats the Kym i remember from back in the day!)

and ROTFLOL at WDiva’s oh dear that followed……..

dang, what you miss when you take a 45 min hiatus from the blog to actually work….. (still giggling)

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 3:30 PM | Link to this

Raqi

Saturday will be washing clothes, cleaning.

Sunday will be church and football.

All the time trynna stay warm.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 3:32 PM | Link to this

Mkaryl I know it is suppose just as cold as it has been today. I don’t plan to leave the house tomorrow for anything. I am going to meet with Isabel who is the mother of my friend Deni’s housekeeper. The hotel that she works for cut her back to 3 days and she is looking for 3 days to maintain the work week she has become accustomed to. I really don’t want anyone else cleaning my house but I want to help her out and I kinda sorta feel like I am going to need a little help as the months progress. Pregnant at 40… I will maybe try her out. Mase mentioned it in jest once but it may become reality. Also I may possibly keep her as a sitter and her working for me now will give me a chance to get to know her before that time comes.

Other than meeting with her I have no plans other than the normal chores around the house.

And call your friend and invite him. He may just surprise you and make the trip.

By Poppa Grande

January 16, 2009 3:34 PM | Link to this

Melo

Black Enterprise magazine is a fabulous read on financial matters.It comes every time with solid financial advice.

Something that we agree on..finally….lol.

I actually like their new website so much that it is my homepage.

By kimmie

January 16, 2009 3:35 PM | Link to this

Thanks Poppa! Atl Lady - Thanks, I think it will be quite fun!

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 3:37 PM | Link to this

I see ya’ll laughing at my Oh dear response, LOL!!

I know it isn’t often that I am rendered speechless on the blog, but I truly could not muster up a response :(

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 3:40 PM | Link to this

PG, I’ve subscribed to Black Enterprise for years and I don’t think I’ve ever been to their website. Good looking out.

By Atl Lady

January 16, 2009 3:40 PM | Link to this

WiseDiva I could see you clutching your pearls!! lol

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 3:40 PM | Link to this

Tazzee I will admit that one advantage of being single and childless is not having the laundry hamper that is never empty. I swear with the three of us it is two sets of clothing and dirty towels per person every day. Never an end in site.

By lurker

January 16, 2009 3:43 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva I didn’t see you chastising Kym either….although she’s dead on the money…giggle giggle I’ve been saying that since that nut started blogging but naaaw, I’m the old meanine for stating just how big of a nut that chick is. LOL I just daggone love it. Crazy is as crazy does or says in Bootiful’s case.

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 3:44 PM | Link to this

I know it isn’t often that I am rendered speechless on the blog, but I truly could not muster up a response :(

LOL WiseDiva, sometimes, there is just nothing more to say. (And I can always muster up an opinion especially on that topic.)

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 3:45 PM | Link to this

@Raqi

I think that is a excellent idea to allow this woman to come in and assist with household cleaning, etc…it is a win-win…and yes, preggers at 40 is not preggers in the 20’s…lol…for sure…and I could not imagine a more decent and respectful person to work for than yourself…and especially if you can help someone else too.

He is on the FD and they work a very interesting rotation…5 24 hour shifts over 7 days and then 6 days off…so he is at the end of his 6 day off rotation and will be back at work tomorrow or Sunday…oh well, there is always the next 6 day rotation coming up…lol…but he also works off-duty jobs on those days too…so we will see.

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this

I’m the old meanine for stating just how big of a nut that chick is. LOL

lurker, I think I hold that title cuz at least someone can have a “regular” screen name to blame.

That chick straight up lied on me tho on a blog, so at least my disdain is justified. LOL

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 3:47 PM | Link to this

@WD

Speechless=job security…lol…and a more refiend response of decency…lol.

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 3:51 PM | Link to this

Raqi I wash every 2 to 3 weeks. If it weren’t for workout clothes, I could probably go a full month since I wear suits to work most of the time.

By Raqi

January 16, 2009 3:55 PM | Link to this

Tazzee the problem in my house is with us wearing business attire and my son wearing school uniforms we all change into something more casual and comfortable when we get home. Hence the never empty hampers. LOL But wow every 2 to 3 weeks.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 3:59 PM | Link to this

Look my comments about Angie..were not meant to shut the blog down or be mean(well maybe a tad mean) frankly I get tired of that stuff every freaking few months or so. I try to be tactful but I can only take so much…so if made so folks uncomfortable I will apologize for that..but I am not taking back a damn thang I said.

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 4:00 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl that is the TRUTH, goodness, I’ve had to bite my tongue many times LOL!! woo sah

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 4:03 PM | Link to this

Raqi yeah, the benefit of being single - when I get home it’s a t-shirt (which doubles as pjs). Although I sorta enjoy washing clothes. Washing clothes and washing dishes are my two ‘favorite’ chores.

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 4:04 PM | Link to this

Tazz I wash every 2 to 3 weeks. That does not sound sexy.

Kym lmao at the pizza truck in the front yard. Ekhart Tolle would not be proud of us today. :( please get and read that book. It is amazing.

who is Koolaid?

MK sorry fireboy isn’t coming. If you need I’ll rent a firemans outfit and not bath and I’ll fill in for him. You can call me whatever you like but lets pick up at those hot convo’s you two had. What time should I be over?

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 4:05 PM | Link to this

I try to be tactful but I can only take so much…so if made so folks uncomfortable I will apologize for that..but I am not taking back a damn thang I said.

Kym can’t you recognize a blog standing ovation when you see one? lol

The only thing that’s shut down is our brains because it’s 4 pm on a Friday before a 3 (or 4) day weekend!

By lurker

January 16, 2009 4:10 PM | Link to this

ARed lurker, I think I hold that title cuz at least someone can have a “regular” screen name to blame.That chick straight up lied on me tho on a blog, so at least my disdain is justified.LOL

Lurker is my name/moniker. Just because it’s bland doesn’t mean I’m not connected. Of course there’s a slew of other folks that hide behind that to say something crass. LOL. Heck we’re all justified at being aggrevated with Bootiful Mainly because I’ve seen quite a few comments directed her way that seemd insightful but she chose to see otherwise, hence the aggrevation that comes next at being such a ninny….but not knowing it.

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 4:13 PM | Link to this

The Truth I guess I worded that wrong. I wash clothes every 2 to 3 weeks…

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 4:14 PM | Link to this

The only thing that’s shut down is our brains because it’s 4 pm on a Friday before a 3 (or 4) day weekend!

Amen to that. I’m mentally getting drunk right now. Pass the Mojitos, please!

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 4:15 PM | Link to this

lurker, it’s not bland. It’s just makes it impossible to tell which one it is. You must be Queen Bee lurker. lol

Loving the word “ninny” right now. I will be calling folks that all weekend. lol

By MELO

January 16, 2009 4:15 PM | Link to this

Washing clothes and washing dishes are my two ‘favorite’ chores keep that up!!!!!!!wearing a tee-shirt only and u bent over the sink doing kitchen chores is so damn sexxy.One of these days, ur going to tempt me to want to strengthen our friendship to some other’s detriment!!

By Foots

January 16, 2009 4:16 PM | Link to this

Good night all!

By lurker

January 16, 2009 4:16 PM | Link to this

Whoever it is that’s hanging out the a fireman, hope it’s not the one I met. Had to block his number one day after giving him my number. Was calling, texting and asking to come by all within a 24 hour period. Looser! A lot of crazy folks walking around that should be committed.

By Miss QC

January 16, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this

Have a safe, warm weekend everyone!

www.blackthen.com

By i'm swiss

January 16, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this

“Amen to that. I’m mentally getting drunk right now. Pass the Mojitos, please!”

I’m literally getting drunk right now. Been on a d@mn conference call since friggin’ 10am! Luckily I’m working from home… Drinking heavily is the only way I’ve made it through the day! LOL

By MELO

January 16, 2009 4:20 PM | Link to this

Truth i got that Creature From Jekyll Island book from amazon based on u,if turns out bad,u give me my refund!..lol

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 4:22 PM | Link to this

I’m still a little accustomed to being in CST - I keep thinking the blog is going to shut down at 4pm.

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 4:23 PM | Link to this

@WD

Well, I know I have put a seal on your lips a few times…much to even my surprise…if I were you, there are times that I would have been looking for my current addy to kick me in my…ya know…love sis…lol.

@Truth

Uh…no thanks…I will gratefully pass on your offer…it like substituting imitation crab in a real lump crabcake…lol…and like a Coke, I would rather have the real thing.

By lurker

January 16, 2009 4:24 PM | Link to this

Queen Bee Lurker yep, that would be me

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 4:25 PM | Link to this

@i’m swiss

Glad to know that I have had good cocktail company today…hate to think that I have been drinking alone…lol…but I did get a cheery pie baked, a tuna casserole made and I am finishing a teriyaki chicken stir fry with bamboo shoots, pineapple and carrots…cheers!!!!

By Who R U

January 16, 2009 4:25 PM | Link to this

Kym your 2:44 was so unnecessary. I mean, ok you may not agree with everything someone posts, but if they irritate you that bad, overlook their posts. Geesh! For this to be an adult blog some of you act really freakin childish.

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 4:28 PM | Link to this

I mean, ok you may not agree with everything someone posts, but if they irritate you that bad, overlook their posts.

Oh…the irony. lol

By The Truth

January 16, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

melo I’m so confident you’ll love that book Kym will give you double your money back if you don’t. Don’t worry, this will be the most educational book you’ve ever read. You’re going to learn exactly how this banking system works.

Mk you sure? I can get up on my fireman lingo and come in complaining about my long azz work week. Let me know, I’m here for you.

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 4:30 PM | Link to this

Truth No Eckart would not be proud. But I am practicing presence I didn’t say I had mastered it. I am going to order it..but from home..or school. You just better send some bail money or vouch for me. I wonder will I get my passport now

By i'm swiss

January 16, 2009 4:31 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl — Anytime you need drankin’ company, I’m good to go. My liver is battle-tested. ;-)

By Who R U

January 16, 2009 4:32 PM | Link to this

Oh…the irony. lol

Only the fact that YOU would respond.

By Wise Diva

January 16, 2009 4:33 PM | Link to this

Queen bee lurker, that’s a dope name

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 4:35 PM | Link to this

Only the fact that YOU would respond.

^ - Doesn’t know the definition of irony. LOL

By Kym didnt drink the Kool-Aid

January 16, 2009 4:36 PM | Link to this

Truth Don’t play around with my fiat money. The only thing I would give Melo is a chop to the throat.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 4:39 PM | Link to this

My liver is battle-tested. ;-) lol,im not hating,this will be ur last time be4 the marriage to score a quickie!! lol.I dont think ull fool her,talking about ur liver.She’s battle tested herself and a cougar at that.

By MELO

January 16, 2009 4:41 PM | Link to this

book Kym will give you double your money back if you don’t that wl wrk.I luv making Kym sweat and ughhhhh.lol

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 4:45 PM | Link to this

@Truth

You a mess…lmao…remember the scene in “My WIfe and Kids” when Damon (sp) came through the window in the firefighter uniform…oh yeah, I holla rescue me…lol!!

@i’m swiss

Hey-ale…that be any day of the week…if I come back to the ATL…need to do the rounds…I got bars in every quandrant of the city…and know evry Green’s location by intuitive GPS…gotta pour something…lol.

@Melo

What you wanna hang…byob.

By lurker

January 16, 2009 4:49 PM | Link to this

WD Queen bee lurker, that’s a dope name now you know that’s too easy. Someone will post underneath that moniker first thing next week and all crass stuff at that. LOL

By i'm swiss

January 16, 2009 4:52 PM | Link to this

melo — LOL A cougar, eh? Now I’m clutching my pearls… LOL

M’Karyl — Cheers!

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 4:54 PM | Link to this

BTW Melo

Cougar…naw…just like the age group that can keep it up…I mean keep up with me…lol

By M'Karyl

January 16, 2009 4:58 PM | Link to this

E’erbody ahve a safe and good weekend…stay warm…volunteer for MLK day…enjoy in the inauguration…this is about to be a big and exciting weekend and upcoming week.

By Tazzee

January 16, 2009 5:00 PM | Link to this

Have a good weekend everyone!

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S!

January 16, 2009 5:01 PM | Link to this

SO GLAD THIS IS THE END OF YOUR WEEK

WISE DIVO…TAKE THE TIME TO GET OVER YOURSELF!

By Angie

January 16, 2009 5:03 PM | Link to this

kym my ex WORKS at san quentin!

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 5:04 PM | Link to this

To everyone travelling, travel safe!

kimmie - Have a fantastic birthday!

By AmazonRed

January 16, 2009 5:04 PM | Link to this

To everyone travelling, travel safe!

kimmie - Have a fantastic birthday!

By Angie

January 16, 2009 5:10 PM | Link to this

dayum is right!