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DEL.ICIO.USBitter Breakup Playlist
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
I hate to be the bearer of bad dating news, but it needs to be said: Statistically speaking, many of us are going to dump or be dumped in the coming weeks. It is primarily because of the holiday trifecta that is rough on relationships (and “situation-ships”): Christmas, New Year’s Eve, and Valentine’s day.
That’s right, some single people feel the need to get rid of the shaky, expiration-dating relationships in order to avoid awkward gift exchanges, tense road trips, boring family dinners, or mediocre sex. It’s a tacky thing, I know! Sadly, there is nothing you can do to stop it. The best thing to do is to be prepared.
Music has a way of capturing emotions that people go through in relationships. The good, the bad, and the bi-polar, it’s all been written in a love song. You should get your breakup kits ready, starting with the best bitter breakup playlist you can create.
If you could compile a playlist of songs about breakups, what would you choose? Do you have a song that reminds you of a time when you were going through a break-up?
The Bitter Breakup Playlist is only good for 48 hrs, no need to wallow in self pity! What songs would you put on your Getting My Groove Back Playlist?
How do you get your groove back after a break up? Since we are on the topic of breakups, what is the nicest way to end things? Why is it that men tend not want to discuss the breakup? Why do we look back on a relationship so negatively when it ends, forgetting all the good things that actually happened too?
Happy Friday!
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By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this
I get back into the groove by grounding my self with books. Music is cool but books help me better. When I do listen to music during this period of life I like to listen to Yanni, Gotan Project or any classical and ambient music. This is brain-relaxing music for me. No words just sounds or words I can’t understand. lol Wallowing in self pity is a waste of time. I rather throw my self a party or travel with my girls. After exhaling I bury my self in work reflect on what went wrong and what I actually want in a relationship as well as reflect of what I am willing to bring to the table and what I am not. After all this I am ready to hit the social scene again.
There is no nice way to end things because someone feelings is always going to get hurt. The best way in my opinion is to have a face to face sit day and talk (Not argue) talk it out.— Realistically my break-ups end up with dishes thrown, curse words and me not answering the phone anymore ( EVER) LOL… But a honest sit down would have alleviated the rage and anger that went from a slow simmer to a wild fire….. I EXHALE LOL
I don’t look back on relationships or the past. I let the past be the past and prepare to embrace some new stuff. Call it cold but whatever.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this
G’ morning.
From the bottom up:
Break-ups are usually viewed so negatively because a person’s foul deed or deception actions outweigh any good they may done prior to doing wrong. What caused the breakup is the freshest event on your mind. And then the time invested can’t be regained and you just feel so used and all that other bad stuff.
IMO men don’t discuss breakups because they don’t like to admit that they have been hurt or bamboozled.
The best way to breakup is just be truthful. It hurts the other person but it is best. Just say I don’t love you no more or you just don’t do it for me anymore and then be prepared to walk looking over your shoulder and sleeping with one eye open for the next 6 months.
Groove Back: “Get You Groove On” Paula Abdul
(Unmentioned) Transition Phase: “Single” Natasha Bedingfield
Break-Up Reminder: “Unbreak My Heart”, “Didn’t We Almost Have It All” and “Take A Bow”
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this
@RAQI Break-ups are usually viewed so negatively because a person’s foul deed or deception actions outweigh any good they may done prior to doing wrong. What caused the breakup is the freshest event on your mind. And then the time invested can’t be regained and you just feel so used and all that other bad stuff.
CO-SIGN
By MLL
November 21, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this
If I was younger it would be I bust the windows out your car LOL
My playlist would included:
Not Gone Cry
Bye Bye Baby Go Bye
Irreplaceable
Roses
what is the nicest way to end things? There are no nice way to end things, just be firm and to the point.
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this
[yawn…] swiss slowly waking from a b-day night out with swiss miss…
As the token whiteboy on the blog, this topic is right up my ally because — as my fiance can attest — my people specialize in depressing music. ;-)
So many to choose from. For the passive-aggressive, there’s Your Ex-Lover is Dead and One More Night by Stars, the latter of which is a great little tune about break-up s3x.
Or, if you’re feeling a little more indignant, there’s Song for the Dumped by Ben Folds Five (“Give me my money back! Give me my money back, you b!tch!”).
Of course, Cowboy Junkies have several to choose from, ranging from the defiantly determined to move on: Sun Comes Up, It’s Tuesday Morning, to the longingly sappy: To Love is to Bury or Chris Isaak’s The End of Everything.
But my personal favorites are a brooding REM tune that pretty much perfectly says, “WTF???” in music: Country Feedback, and the master of dark music, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds’ People Ain’t No Good.
D@mn… I really do have some depressing sh!t in my collection. LOL
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this
what these benchs want - DMX
kill the bench - sasha
benchs aint shish - snoop dogg
another - biggie
a week ago - Jay z
song cry - jay z
friend or foe - eightball/mjg
dont make - eightball/mjg
murder -ugk
aint that a bench -ugk
victory - puffy
getting my groove back
drop it likes it hot - snoop
i left it wet for you -ugk
pregnant puddy - ugk
aint no fun if the homies - snoop
space age pimpin - ball/jg
sho nuff - tela
let me see it - ugk
pimp in my own ryhm - ball/jg
i just wanna love you - jay z
all i need - jay z
99 problems - jay z
thats all for now…lol
By M'Karyl
November 21, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this
Well, there is always Whitesnake’s “Here I Go Again”…the Eagle’s “Already Gone”…Al Greene’s “For the Good Times”…I will be listening to the same type of music this year…as I do not mourn being single…so bring on the hoiday cheer and standards…Kenny Loggin’s “Come Celebrate Me Home”…Nat King Cole, Mahalia Jackson…oh the subject, uh yeah, **Break Up Play List”…I do not have one of those…but like Elton John’s “Sad Songs” states…they do say so much
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this
My break up song right now is: I’ll Bust the Windows Out Yo Car by Jazmine Sullivan
Be listening to it for 3 weeks ova and ova.
I ain’t ova it yet, Trifling Azz Bas tard
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this
@RELL — If you want to laugh your a$$ off, check out Ben Fold’s cover of B!tches Ain’t Sh!t. There’s nothing funnier than hearing those lyrics done as a piano ballad. LOL
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this
@swiss…heard it…and your right..lol
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday everyone! I’m sleeepy!
In addition to the holiday trifecta, my birthday comes into the mix, between Thanksgiving and Christmas.
My breakups have always been in November. Two just happened to be on Nov 14. But yes, all of them happened before Thanksgiving.
I wonder if one of my exes is about to dump his girl, he’s been sending me text messages.
In any case, my break up songs always include Brian McKnight. And anytime I hear a certain BM song, there is probably an ex associated with it.
By M.
November 21, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this
@RELL
Dang! What kind of women have you been dealing with! That is a funny list!
My favorite breakup songs lately from a couple of years ago were Shake It Off Remix-Mariah Carey f/ Jay-Z and Young Jeezy, Since You’ve Been Gone-Kelly Clarkson, and Beach Chair by Jay-Z.
My way of getting things back on track is similar to SHELBY SHEA’s method. I just try to catch up on all the stuff that she distracted me from. I try to read, volunteer more, stay busy, and work out and just make myself better and ready for the next situation.
I also do what I want. I know it sounds lame but just thing of all the stuff she used to hate that you did, hanging out with your friends, doing things that took attention from her. This is the best time to travel, hang out with your friends, get drunk, explore the scene and just have fun.
Which leaves me wondering, what do you do when they want to come back? I think the door is closed then usually…
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this
Good Morning,
I am at work, so no study.
Rell
I can honestly say that I know just about everyone of those songs, especially that 8ball & MJG.
Although it is a breakup song, I listen to 8ball & MJG this morning….Armed Robbery.
Wise Diva
I’ll throw this one out there:
http://www.cduniverse.com/lyrics.asp?id=3049083&pid=1102295
I’ve attended a few of her concerts, and she performs amazingly. She plays different instruments for different songs, etc. It was kinda like a Prince concert.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this
I’m Swiss What about Better Things to Do by Terri Clark? That’s a good one.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this
I love LeAnn Rhimes - Breathe (?) and anything by Anita Baker.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday everyone! I’m sleeepy! lets talk about why u are, ared(think i knw) coz we cant list songs all day long,can we?
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this
lets talk about why u are, ared(think i knw)
melo, I wish. I had a neighbor who decided to throw a party at 3 in the morning.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this
OMG. I don’t know any of those songs Rell
By NY2GA, Inc.
November 21, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this
Ahhh, bitter break up songs. One of my faves is Get Gone by Ideal.
I think you better leave (leave) me (alone) get your bags (yea) get the Hell on (get gone) because love ain’t here no more
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 21, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this
Morning All and TGIF!!
Getting Groove Back/Break up:
Me, Myself & I - Beyonce
Break up:
Gotta Go, Gotta Leave - Vivian Green
What happened - Algebra
You’ve Changed - Keyshia Cole
Hard Core - (the whole cd) Lil Kim
I’ve Been a Fool - Miles Jaye (sp)
Anything Billie Holiday or the Waiting to Exhale soundtrack
As if We Never Met - Chante Moore
Getting Groove Back:
Anything by OutKast, Tribe Called Quest, Biggie or Tupac
Bad Girl - Usher
Anything by Mint Condition
Some good ole Go-Go/Down South Bass music
Just what I could think of but I know there are plenty more songs, I’ll add them as the day goes on.
Why do we look back on a relationship so negatively when it ends, forgetting all the good things that actually happened too? Because what is fresh is all the bad, everything leading to the breakup. Once you have a moment to reflect truthfully you realize there were reasons why you were there in the first place, i.e the good stuff
Rell lemme have that Space Age Pimpin homie! Classic!!
By Shattered Heart
November 21, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this
Closure we, being women are the most that want it. When do get a guy to stop long enough to talk about it and it’s done…why does it hurt sooo bad? Finality. Resolute. Done. Over.
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this
Also, I don’t ever remember breaking up with someone at this time of the year. I always thought that was backwards.
Most of my breakups (whether initiated by me or not) have been in the Spring and Summer. That’s when females have their goodies are out for display for all to see.
Breaking up in the winter seemed dumb. It is good to have someone when it gets cold. We usually talk about gifts before we get to that point, and if they are appropriate.
If we just met, it might not be appropriate to give more than a card
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this
@M Which leaves me wondering, what do you do when they want to come back? I think the door is closed then usually…
Whats broken can never be fully repaired with out the sight of the past wounds. When a glass that sits so shiny and seeminly well put together break you have two options.
1) Throw it away and let the past be the past
2) Try to patch it up but the unslightly cracks and wholes will strike a nerver now and then when the liquid leak out.
By The Truth
November 21, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this
35 is a football score, not a temperature. Brrrrrr
On topic: Break ups hurt most when you’ve stopped looking. You get comfortable and start letting things slide then before you know it WAM.
The song that most reminds me of my biggest breakup, my divorce, is Stacy Lattisaw’s/Jonny Gills “Where Do We Go From Here”. My ex kept asking me for solutions but really I had none. I was in unchartered territory. Affairs of the heart are not my specialty. LOL Even now hearing that song reminds me of that process.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNvkpynP27o
How do you get your groove back after a break up?: I understand now that you should never let you’re groove go. Keep doing the things you’ve enjoyed, even if it causes conflicts. Anybody that cares for you should want you to be happy doing what you enjoy.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this
Sorry,Hot Mamma,that boy’s dyznickk was good,hah?? Hola at ur boy,its cold out there!!lol Why do chics cry over a relationship the most.It should never be about you feeling so used Raqi,but why not feel like u used him as well? I never used to cry over spilt milk.I would simply get another girl.Simple.
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this
@rell I am surprised you don’t have “WHOOP THAT TRICK on that playlist….. LOL
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this
Hey In Here!
Steeler Nations Chic what is up with the power game in the snow? The Steeler’s play like it was 82 degrees out there.
Mo I like Algebra too. I’m diggin’ that playlist.
On topic: I don’t have a particular “breakup song”, but I can attest to Rihanna’s “Take a Bow”. Lol, that’s why when I hear it I have an internal laughter party b/c I’ve lived that story.
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this
Breaking up in the winter seemed dumb. It is good to have someone when it gets cold.
PG, I mean, that makes the most sense. But it just works the opposite with me. Breaking up as winter comes, and beating the guys off w/ a stick in the summer.
Maybe I break up in the winter cuz guys go for the girls with more to hold onto then. LOL!
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 10:19 AM | Link to this
PG I need yo legal expertise: Mr.X and I borke up. I packed up all his zhyte and dropped it off at the Goodwill. Can he do anything legally?
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this
35 is a football score, not a temperature. Brrrrrr
Truth I know. When I was getting dressed this morning I was thinking if I wasn’t going to already be off on Monday I would call in sick today. Unfortunately I will be in Virginia where it will be cold and raining.
By Leme Cidemcheeks
November 21, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this
Gotta say I get a message from Brian McKnight…Woulda, Shoulda, Coulda….
‘den I fixes it wit; Ice T’s cover of 99 Problems (and a witch ain’t one)
By Angie
November 21, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this
How do you get your groove back after a break up?
by getting under somebody else.
Why do we look back on a relationship so negatively when it ends, forgetting all the good things that actually happened too?
i have never done this. i love and cherish all of the memories i have with him.
MLL, did you read my last post from yesterday?
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this
Truth I’m with you it is cold out there! Whew!!!
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this
@Raqi — I had never heard that one. Despite my whiteness, I’ve never been much of a country fan — well, except for some Johnny Cash. I’d be excommunicated from Caucasia if I didn’t like Johnny Cash. ;-)
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this
Angie, you’re funny. That’s not the right way to get your groove back. Too funny, not really!
i’m swiss wouldn’t “ostracized” be a better fit than being “excommunicated” (LOL)?
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this
Anytime I fix my mouth to complain about the cold, I have to remind myself that I moved here from the New England area. Now that’s some cold!
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this
@pg…all those song help me say fluck that beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeench…feel me…like you say fluck me so it fluck you back…really offline i am laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaid back and chill and i dont even fluck with folks like that..so when someone is trying to hurt me i flip and i stay mad for days sometimes weeks..i dont manage my anger well because i dont get angry often..so when i do i am like the red hulk….fa real…i scare myself sometimes
@M…i deal with women like you and everyone…you are no different and have it in you to hurt a man when he is down….
@Shells…..you know i was thinking about that…lol
By Angie
November 21, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this
leme not Ice T’s … Jazzy!
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this
@Leggs — True. Or really, “banished” in the context I used. But hey, my brain’s not fully awake & I’m pretty sure I lost a few brain cells last night, so I’m lucky I can even find the little “Post” button. ;-)
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this
Ashlee Simpson just named her son Bronx Mowgli Wentz. I guess stupid kid names are still in this season.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this
wait … Jay Z.
By MLL
November 21, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this
I guess it would help if I listed the artists for my playlist:
No Gone Cry-Mary J
Irreplaceagle-Beyonce
Bye Bye Baby Good Bye-undetermined
Roses-Mary J
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this
Melo It’s cold, but not that COLD. “K”
By mqew
November 21, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday!!!
Going through break up - When a Woman’s Fed Up … ya boi the Rra
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this
If we just met, it might not be appropriate to give more than a card
PoppaG I love sending cards to my romantic interest, it makes such a cute gesture.
I remember when i found out i was pregnant i told mom & dude (he knew before we got the results anyway) & we were at a resturant, i told them that i was gonna send them a card to tell them instead. They both told me black folks don’t do that!…they just some haters
By Foots
November 21, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this
Good morning. Good breakup songs? “One Last Cry” - Brian McKnight, “Can’t Get Over You” - Maze, “The Boss” - Diana Ross (makes me think of Staceye everytime I hear it), “After The Love Is Gone” - EWF. Usually though, right after a breakup, I need complete quiet. No music, no TV, just me and a book.
How do you get your groove back after a break up?
Well, I read a lot, fast to read books like anything by James Patterson or slow, involved books like Dean Koontz. I eat my favorite foods, I go to my favorite places. I even drive my favorite stretch of road sometimes. I love the overpass on 85 near all those access roads, the rhythm of going over the cracks is soothing, and it reminds me of my favorite summer here during my internship. I eat cotton candy and dance in the mirror while listening to my favorite “get right” songs when I’m in the music mood again: “She’s a Bad Mama Jama”, “Encore”, “Groove Me”, “Watch Me Do My Thing”, “Get Up, Get Down, Get Funky, Get Loose” and “Candy”. Oh, and for after the breakup when I’m feeling better, there’s “Chemical Reaction” by Chaz.
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this
Hot Momma
It depends….did you give him an opportunity to get his stuff?
Even business are required to hold onto invitees things long enough for the rightful owner to get them.
For example, Dry cleaners have to hold onto your clothes for 30 days before they can sell it. (Most have signs behind the counter that say this.)
Also, storage places have to do the same thing, except they post an ad in the paper instead of just having a sign behind the counter.
If you just pack it up and send it away without giving him notice and ample time to get it, he may just have a claim against you for something like trespass to chattels (which is a small claims court issue).
By kimmie
November 21, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
Morning Blog Fam! Happy Friday!
Borderline Feels like I’m going to lose my mind You just keep on push-ing my love Over the borderline
I’m just trying to understand I’ve given all I can But you got the best of me
Borderline by Madonna is what I sang in my head after my last ugly breakup 3 years ago. That dude tried to drive me crazy!
I like up-tempo music when I’m going through a breakup. And nothing talking about how great love is! In fact, most of the time I avoid music around that time if I can help it. I listen to talk radio and watch comedy on tv. Just focus on something else until the hurt starts to ease.
Amred - You know, thinking back, a lot of my breakups have happened in November too! Just a coincidence I guess!
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
Swiss It’s a pretty cool song. She talks about all the inane stuff she would rather do than cry over her ex-lover (i.e. Wash her car in the rain…)
My favorite stanza is:
Check the air in my tires,
Straighten my stereo wires,
Count the stars in the sky or just get on with my life,
I don’t need to waste my time crying over you,
I got better things to do
She is one of my favorite country singers.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
hi swiss…where you been? Lol @ the residence “white boy”. U thupid!
By MLL
November 21, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this
Angie refresh my memory…give me a call
By mqew
November 21, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this
Getting the Groove back
Ima go with Otha Fish by Pharcyde
that is my cut
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this
you’re funny. That’s not the right way to get your groove back. Too funny, not really!
Leggs, why not? With time, you’re gonna move on eventually. And one great way to realize how good you have it is to find someone to get under whose better (not just sexually) than the last guy. LOL
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this
Melo Aunther thang, the stickin’ was excellent but the lickin’ was superb.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this
mqew I bow to you and “When a Woman’s Fed Up”…you’re on it!!
u finally finished that shower…
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
Gotta say I get a message from Brian McKnight…Woulda, Shoulda, Coulda….
One of my personal faves. I think I’m going to cue up his CD right now.
By MLL
November 21, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
Okay I’m thru…my fingers just not workiing right this morning…:(
Yall be good and have a wonderful weekend.
By Foots
November 21, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
melo I would simply get another girl.Simple.
It would be simple for me if I dated men that were just cookie-cutter versions of each other. But each person that I get involved with to the point that it would hurt to break up, each one had something unique that I loved having in my life. Each man was an individual and as such, brought very specific things to my life. When a person is special to you, and you break up, you feel the loss of whatever it was that made them special to you.
Now, if I just saw dudes as just dizniks with legs, then yeah, it would be simple to just replace one with another, cause every dude has one.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
I love this one here: I Just Wanna Be Mad (check this out)
For now you might as well forget it
Don’t run your fingers through my hair
Yeah that’s right I’m being stubborn
No I don’t want to go back upstairs
I’m going to leave for work
Without a goodbye kiss
But as I’m driving off
Just remember this
I’ll never leave, I’ll never stray
My love for you will never change
But I ain’t ready to make up or get around to that
I think I’m right I think your wrong
I’ll probably give in before long
Please don’t make me smile
I just want to be mad for awhile
By Foots
November 21, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this
melo And let me add, dudes that ended up being just time-filler, it may have been two or three weeks before I even noticed I hadn’t talked to them. So, with those, I had NO problems moving on.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this
…so I’m lucky I can even find the little “Post” button. ;-) I feel ya!
“Me” by Tamia!
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this
Rell
I know exactly what you are saying. That’s why I said that I know all of them. There has to be ways to channel that negative energy and sometimes a good song can do just that in a short amount of time.
Cee
I learned really early that many females like cards.
My wife gets those homemade looking one from Costco and Michaels
By Brunson
November 21, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this
goodmorning good people, holiday breakups…hmm..can’t say that i’ve ever been the cause of or involved in one. i must say that i detest that jasmine sullivan song. they play it to death on the radio.
amazonred saggitarius in the house! my b’day is december 9th.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this
leggs that is MY way. and there is NO WRONG WAY to get ya groove back. whateva tickles your fancy! :-)
MLL have a good one gurlie!
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this
@hot mamma…why did you go that route….take all his stuff to good will…thats cold right there….what happen that you had to act out like that
By mqew
November 21, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this
Hey Ceemee Ev1 has had alot of good songs, but I LOVE that Rianna song…. that one hit home as well.
yeah it was a long shower LOL
Whas poppin?
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this
Hi, Cemeeli. Been busy lately — mostly trying to keep my start-up from going under while looking for other gigs just in case. Is it January 20 yet?
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this
@RELL
You know I love some Jigga! If I listen to this during break up I would most likely listen to these songs.
Hovi Baby Can I Live Regrets Streets is Watchin Lucky ME Wishing on a Star Sweet American Dreaming Excume Me miss Theres been a Murder 99 Probems Even son B sigle Since I am at it… Let me not forget my boy AZ—Probelms
But this music takes me mentally somewhere else … LOL ….
By Victoria's Secret
November 21, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this
Breakup Playlist hmmm…
Jill Scott - The way you love Me Tamia - Spend my Life with You Anita Baker - Sweet Love Jeniffer Hudson- You pulled me through Tony Terry - When i’m With you
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this
I was thinking right after a breakup. I can understand eventually.
Brunson, my b-day is December 9th as well…I’m sending evites out this afternoon.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this
hey cee! i’m having another thanksgiving alone single. :-( maybe next year.
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this
PG
Nawh, he aint get no notice. I just wanted his shtye off my property/otta my sight. He still asking bout his stuff. I told his azz, “I’on know what u talk bout.” I wish we would try to take me to court.
Rell You name it, his azz did it or tried to do it. Like R.Kelly say, “When a Women’s Fed Up.”
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:05 AM | Link to this
swiss im’a need for you to stop with the wann-b-a-hater on the Coutry music. Lol..What happens Jan. 20? <—-* will u b @ the inaugural.*
mqew we’re having a catered Thanksgiving Luncheon here at the office today. I’m so ready!
By Foots
November 21, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this
When I really need to break out of a breakout slump, I go to good old-fashioned Booty Shake from my teen years, that time of my life was amazing. Luke, 2 Live Crew, MC Shy D, DJ Smurf, Poison Clan, 69 Boyz, 95 South, Kilo, A-Town Players, City Boyz, Splack Pack (Scrub Da Ground can make anybody feel like they just won the lottery!).
And through listening to those, I learned that the line I got 99 problems, and a bytch ain’t one was from Table Dance (2 Live Crew).
By Brunson
November 21, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this
that’s cool leggs. i have no plans right now. i would just like to have a nice dinner with my lady and chill out. we’ve both been really busing getting ready for this move, putting houses on the market, etc.
i am more excited about thanksgiving than my b’day. i love to eat good, home cooked food. between my mom and lauren’s mom we’re going to need to hit 2-a-days in the gym the days following. it’s all good though, i love this time of year.
ps. any thoughts to what you’re gifting your significant other for christmas?
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this
PoppaG I bought 3 boxes of Christmas cards already. smh I need to lay off…I use stationary with my initials and all kinds of crap.
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this
Hot Momma
Nawh, he aint get no notice. I just wanted his shtye off my property/otta my sight. He still asking bout his stuff. I told his azz, “I’on know what u talk bout.” I wish we would try to take me to court.
Under that scenario, he does have a claim. At least, you didn’t sell it. Then he would have a clear conversion claim…he still might have one. If proven, would entitle him to ALL NEW stuff. If not paid, he can file a judgment against you called a Fi. Fa. (That would depend on how bad he wanted that stuff back.)
If you end up in Court, don’t lie. That is perjury and it leads to jail time. Trespass to chattels is a civil claim, and so is conversion.
By mqew
November 21, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this
Cee I’m tired from cheffing yesterday was up from 4am - to 3am
I would love to be able to have someone make me something!
I can’t wait til Thanksgiving in Chi-town
By anonymousella
November 21, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this
it’s too late for breakups. if you were doing the dumping, your last officially-sanctioned chance was october 31, 2008.
now you just look like like a jerk for dumping so close to the holidays. suck it up until january 12, 2009. you will have a really short, one-week period in which to dump your BF/GF without looking like you’re trying to get gone before valentine’s day.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this
Angie Gurl, i know you’re gonna be spending time with family. OR, you can come back to Ga. I’ll pick you up from Hartsfield, and you can go shopping with my family.
Many stores will be open this year on Thanksgiving Day! May shopper-holic friend told me lastnight.
By Foots
November 21, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this
Wise Statistically speaking, many of us are going to dump or be dumped in the coming weeks. It is primarily because of the holiday trifecta that is rough on relationships (and “situation-ships”): Christmas, New Year’s Eve, and Valentine’s day.
I think I’ve been lucky in that I’ve never been dumped during this time. But then again, I’ve been unlucky in that in for the past few years, I haven’t spent the holidays with the same person back to back. :-(
We already have New Year’s Eve plans, so hopefully, we’ll make it til then. :-)
By Brunson
November 21, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
cemeeli your christmas card game it tight like my moms. she uses a caligrapher to address and sign her cards. she’s over-the-top like that. i love her though, it’s her little personal tradition. she sends out like 250 christmas cards a year, at least. i’m like the postage on that is…..lol
so i have to ask, have you been christmas shopping all year long? my mom hits up the “after” sales and really cleans up. she’s already called lauren about the pre-thanksgiving day sale. i guess when you retire you just do whatever you like.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
Brunson (LOL). I don’t have a signifant other, so no planning in that area for me just yet. I’m treating me and my daughter to Legal Seafood for my b-day dinner.
I’m more excited about by my b-day than Thanksgiving. I’m thankful daily, but my child wants me to invite her father over for thanksgiving dinner cuz he told her he misses my cooking…sheesh!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
mqew You’re going home? cool Is lil Frankenstien excited to go, is he doing awright?
By Victoria's Secret
November 21, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this
What about when your best friend finds out the man she’s been seeing for the past 6 months was: TRAPPED IN THE CLOSET BY=> R KELLY OMG
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this
The season of Sagittarius starts tomorrow! Bow down!
Leggs, glad you are having a party. Your shindig last year is how I happened to meet my boy pisces, even though we didn’t meet you! LOL
By Sidney
November 21, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this
Hmm.. I listen to Mariah Carey’s CD and Mary J’s CD. Both will make you feel better. Yes…Bust the Windows out Your Car,by Jasmine is definitely one of the greatest LOL. I listen to this one to make me laugh:-).
By Brunson
November 21, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this
its so funny to listen to ryan cameron go crazy talking about saggitarius. i have yet to meet a boring sag. its just not in our wiring.
By DuShawn
November 21, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this
Get your groove back playlist: It Don’t Hurt Now, Teddy Pendergrass, Ho problems ain’t no Problems JT Money, Put Shyt Pass No Ho, Poisin Clan, Bytch that I Hate Poisin Clan.
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this
@Cemeeli — I’m still waiting on my invitation. In the meantime, I’ll just be hoping for a slightly more competent government. ;-) BTW… not hating on country music — I’m just more of the “Indie” persuasion.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this
Yeah I thought about that ARed, you coming to post that following Monday and making me think I got so drunk I couldn’t remember meeting you when you were talking to some other woman wondering why was acting all distant. That shyt was funny!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this
Brunson There used to be a calligrapher that i meet in the Mall. I can’t find that lady for nuthin! 250?!?! I’m not anywhere near your moms count. I send about 50 cards a year. But i love all kinds of envelope seals and stuff….
so i have to ask, have you been christmas shopping all year long?
Yes…lol my family wouldn’t get what they do get if i didn’t buy things all during the year. Sometimes i just give it to them whenever i see them.
Oh you’re talking about Black Friday shopping? Yea, there is a professional crew of friends that i have that make sure to hitup those electronic store/sales.
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this
PG
His azz already on probation for some b/s, he ain’t trynna get no more court dates. What can I say, he is a thug, shoulda known betta.
All’s Imma say is, who eva shops at the Goodwill near Avondale Estates got some good deals on Tims, Air Force 1’s, etc.
By MusingLee
November 21, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this
Who said something about Sags. That’s me.. YEP YEP…
When a chick breaks up with me I usually hear the ending theme song to “The Incredible Hulk” in my head..
Musing kicking rocks slowing down a dusty road with hitch hiking thumb raised
By Foots
November 21, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this
DuShawn Oh yeah, It Don’t Hurt Now is a good one. And when I think that the dude truly lost out, I listen to “The Whole Town’s Laughing at Me” from his POV. LOL
Leggs Where is your party going to be?
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this
i have yet to meet a boring sag. its just not in our wiring.
Brunson, exactly. Now, we might talk out the side of our necks. But at least it’s something interesting. LOL
Leggs, that night was just so classic. Now that I have met you I was SOOOOOO OFF! LOL
By Angie
November 21, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this
cee thanks! imma bury myself in my research pp and eat ALL the sweet potato pies! yes, all of them.
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this
so leggs…i guess ole rell not event out this time huh
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this
she sends out like 250 christmas cards a year
Brunson I don’t even like that many people. LOL
Cemeeli You keep bringing up shopping. LOL I am already gearing up for Black Friday. I told the husband get your truck gased up and your walking shoes on ‘cause we are gonna shop ‘til we drop.
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this
When a chick breaks up with me I usually hear the ending theme song to “The Incredible Hulk” in my head..
LMAO @ MusingLee. Hey Sag!
By Brunson
November 21, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this
i’m still amazed at how quickly this year has come and gone. we are at the cusp of 2009. it’s exciting b/c i have big plans for the coming year.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 11:44 AM | Link to this
raqi i hit macy’s and got me a bad azz pair of boots, 60% off!!!
cee and the funny part about this is that i don’t have to be. i’m being so man picky right now and i hate it. don’t want to lead someone on by going out on a date with them. and i don’t really like them like that.
guys any suggestions.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this
What up Musing?
Raqi I know who you are fellow shopper. I can see…
{{{{o}}}} {{{{o}}}
Lol…for real though. Walmart i hate them now are doing daily sales. My cuz copped a Toshiba Laptop for $288 last week. smh, her 3rd unit She keep’s me updated on $$$ with texting. Then i make a decision based on what i need/want.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this
i have to give it to the sags. your attitudes rock! everything is always all good to ya. i love reading that.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this
Raqi/Honney Bake Lovers…i smelt that ham comming in! ooohhhh I’m hatin’ cuase i don’t eat pork. It smells good!
By chakra7
November 21, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this
Seven whole days - Toni Braxton and not a word from you; seven whole days, and I’m just about thru - can’t take it, won’t take it, can’t take it no ‘mo, I’ve had about enough of you. I’ve gotta be on my own, yes, on my own.
Been so Long - Anita Baker I won’t be neglected, I won’t be denied, the pleasure of your kisses, the pleasure of your smile. I think you take for granted, I’ll always be here, just because I love you - doesn’t mean I won’t disappear
“House is not a home” - Luther Vandross A chair is just a chair, even when no one is sitting there… Now and then, I call your name and suddenly a face appears, but it’s just a crazee game, when it ends in tears. Love this song.
Beyonce’s “To the Left” and “Me, Myself and I”
Ex Factor - Lauren Hill And everytime I walk away, you hurt yourself to make me stay, this is crazy…this is crazy. I keep letting u back in…how can I explain myself…
“Ordinary People” - John Legend
Just a few that come to mind…Oh and…
Keep on walkin, I ain’t talkin’ to ya anymore - CeCe Penningston (can’t remember how to spell her name) I thought that what we had would never end, but it’s too late, my love won’t win. I thought that what we had was good, guess I just misunderstood. …
Monica’s Here we are face to face, with memories that can’t be erased, although we need each other, things have changed…it’s not the same. Sometimes, it makes me wonder, where would I be…if you hadn’t discovered what I did inside of me…(Chorus) Well, I never meant to cause you no pain; I just wonna go back to being the same. Well I, only want to make things right, before you walk out my life (ok, maybe this isn’t quite a break up song, but things on the brink)
Getting groove back, that one song by MJB, don’t know the name but…
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this
Rell, what are you saying in your 11:34 post (LOL)…What???
The blog ate my post AGAIN.
I know of NO boring Sagitarrians! Nor do I know of any “quiet” ones.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this
brunson what’s on your bucket list for 2009?
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this
Where have you been hiding chakra7? Hello!
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this
Leggs, I am a quiet Sagittarius.
ow, a bolt of lightning just hit me. LOL
By Brunson
November 21, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this
angie the older (more mature :) i get, the more cool saggitarians i run into. it has become something of a game now. when i can network or just vibe with some cool people i have to ask if they are sags and 9/10 they are. amazes me. i’m no astrologer but there is something to be said about the characteristic trait accuracy amongst most sags.
By MusingLee
November 21, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this
Hey Ceemeli what’s shak’in?!?!
By chakra7
November 21, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this
Hey Leggs just been readin’ the blog lately, and workin’ hard. Thanks for asking :)
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this
@leggs….i was saying…guess i am not going to be invited out this time…thats what i was saying
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli I was going to cancel Thanksgiving in my house considering the present circumstances, then I said well maybe I’ll do HB, but the marido insist that we will be back home by Tuesday evening and he will cook a turkey Wednesday night. I may still get a ham from them.
Oh and a cheesecake. snicker
By lurker
November 21, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this
Can someone tell me how to forward my house calls to my cell phone?
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this
Angie I heard that Macy’s had a good coat and boot sale last week.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this
brunson im the same way. if i’m interested in you, i will ask. i’m suppose to get with a taurus, leo or pisces. my vibe with them is refreshing. never met a sag man before. hmmm.
By why
November 21, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this
Thanks lurker
By Keep it real! From Ohio
November 21, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this
What’s up folks!
Well fellas we cannot dump the sista that gives the best gifts until after christmas! A golden rule!
Get you gifts and loving first!
I have not songs that remind me of a break-up since I try to move on and up!
Sag are some crazy calculating people! Watch our folks Sagittarius women will put a hurt on ya!
Happy holidays folks!
Is it me or does Rell and Melo always try set-up some online booty?
By Angie
November 21, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this
raqi we went tuesday night and the store was off the chain. bought underware for my boys and sheets for the beds. the prices were unbelievable.
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this
hey folks! I am having a horrible no good, work day, trying not to pass out in the floor, LOL. Woosah!
LOL @ Keep it Real Ohio, now why ya had to go and say that last line
Hey Brunson, I was thinking the same thing, 2008 went by quickly, I got a lot done but did not travel as much as I wanted. IN 2009, I am trying to get a trip to Hawaii and London booked, here’s hoping!
By For Real
November 21, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this
I never stay down more than a day when I breakup with someone but my last breakup had me down for a month I believe it’s because of Al Green’s song How Do You Mend A Broken Heart that song fugged me up good. I felt like somebody threw hot grits in my face. Dayummm why didn’t I duck.
Lyrics:
I can think of younger days when living for my life
Was everything a man could want to do
I could never see tomorrow, but I was never told about the sorrow
And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again
I can still feel the breeze that rustles through the trees
And misty memories of days gone by
We could never see tomorrow, no one said a word about the sorrow
And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining? What makes the world go round?
How can you mend this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again
For Real now looking for his crying towel and brown licka.
By JtJ
November 21, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this
Hi Guys & Gals!! I usually just lurk and crack up at the comments made by Leggs, Ared, Poppa, Melo, Dushawn et. al……..but since yall starting talking about SAGS, I had to give a shout out to all the sags out there!!!!! My B-Day is Nov.30, and I just love the excitement being in between the holidays. We are just adventurous, laid-back, spontaneous individuals. We can do and say some shyt that don’t make a lick of sense and still be ON IT, doggonit!!!
I had a guy break up with me on Thanksgiving Day, we had only been dating for about 3 months, but he thought my kids were going to be with me and he was not ready to meet them. I AIN’T that kind of mother, he would have NEVA met my kids (3) before 6-8 months of us dating. He panicked and didn’t even show up, when he called, I was like, fool, my kids are with my ex-husband this week, and all he could say was “oh”.
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this
Cee
My cuz copped a Toshiba Laptop for $288 last week.
Walmart has had that laptop sale every Saturday this month. There weren’t many per store (like 10 or so) for that price. But they have had sales every Saturday morning in November at 8am.
Also, don’t get me started on Stationary….She has designed personalize stationary symbols made out of our Initials. Then, she went to Sam Flax and got notepads, blank card (greeting cards that you can write the message in yourself), and business cards all with that design.
She is a Staples addict. She has paper clip that look like feet, peace symbols, and music notes. Every type of post-it note that you can find, she has it. Football shape, heart shaped, and even found one that looks like a hand with the middle finger up.
By For Real
November 21, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this
One more and then I’m thru crying (holla, snot, slob, poot, cough repeat):
Simply Beautiful - Al Green
If I gave you my love,
I tell you what I’d do
I’d expect a whole lotta love outta you
You gotta be good to me
I’m gonna be good to you
There’s a whole lotta things you and I
Could do
Hey hey
Hey hey hey
Simply beautiful simply beautiful simply
Beautiful
Simply beautiful simply beautiful simply
Beauti..
Simply beautiful
Simply beautiful
Simply beautiful
Simply beautiful
What about the way you love me
And the way you squeeze me
Hey
Hey simply beautiful hey
And you get right down it
And the love is getting you through it
Simply beautiful
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this
Is it me or does Rell and Melo always try set-up some online booty?
middle fanga
By JtJ
November 21, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this
Oh, regarding the topic…… “Me,Myself, and I” was my joint after my divorce…….cause I had put too much into that relationship and realized that I had not done enough for me.
Another Sad Love Song & Un-Break My Heart…Tony Braxton
In My Mind…..Heather Headley The Thrill is Gone….BBKing
so many, let me think………………….
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this
Angie I want to get to Linens N Things to buy some sheets and towels before they go out of business. I may stop by Macy’s this evening to try to find a nice new suit and probably pick up some other stuff while there.
By JtJ
November 21, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this
Speaking of my divorce. toady would have been 10 yrs…….my ex texted me and asked if I knew what today is/was? I said yeah, Friday, November 21, 2008. lol
I don’t dewll on the past, just keep going forward……good day people!
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this
As I so eloquently stated, I know no quiet Sagittarians. Too funny ARed, because I was going to state all Sags I know are just like you! Hope that bolt got you straight across your kneecaps (lol).
Yes, I’m inviting everyone I like! What’s funny is out of everyone I speak to on this blog I only have 13 email addys!
By mqew
November 21, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this
Leggs I’ll beg for an invite. Iain’t shame… I’d bring something scrumptous (sp?) j/k bnr.
Ceemeemee Monster man will once again run literally the airport(s)
So wait…. what’s the Dec b day sign again? LOL
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this
My friend De says that she is going to have a baby in 2009 and told me to come join her that blessed experience. I have already been “blessed” twice. That’s enough to last me a lifetime.
I don’t have any immediate plans for 2009 but I do know being blessed with child ain’t even a possibility.
By Ray Charles Robinson
November 21, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this
Here’s a break up tune for ya…
(Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.) (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more.) What you say? (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.) (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more.)
Woah Woman, oh woman, don’t treat me so mean, You’re the meanest old woman that I’ve ever seen. I guess if you said so I’d have to pack my things and go. (That’s right)
(Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.) (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more.) What you say? (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.) (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more.)
Now baby, listen baby, don’t ya treat me this-a way Cause I’ll be back on my feet some day. (Don’t care if you do ‘cause it’s understood) (you ain’t got no money you just ain’t no good.) Well, I guess if you say so I’d have to pack my things and go. (That’s right)
(Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.) (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more.) What you say? (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more, no more, no more, no more.) (Hit the road Jack and don’t you come back no more.)
you must me joking? (don’t you come back no more.) what you trying to do to me? (don’t you come back no more.) I didn’t understand you (don’t you come back no more.) You can’t mean that (don’t you come back no more.) Oh, now baby, please (don’t you come back no more.) What you tryin’ to do to me? (don’t you come back no more.) Oh, don’t treat me like that (don’t you come back no more.)
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this
Yes, I’m inviting everyone I like!
Aw Leggs, then your list is already too long. LOL
By MusingLee
November 21, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this
I like to get into some ol’gansta ishh when I’m feeling down.
Walking out to lunch with “SuperMan Lover” playing in the background
By Angie
November 21, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this
cause I had put too much into that relationship and realized that I had not done enough for me.
i’m giving you a hug right now. same here!
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this
Welcome JtJ. Rock on fellow Sag.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this
JtJ, I would have texted back the exact same thing.
You can hit me up at sharmynk@bellsouth.net if you’re interested, and I’ll get your addys when I get in this evening and will forward the evite to you.
WiseDiva, girl, hang in there. Don’t let them get you down. Just keep thinking of the dbl shot of Maker’s Mark waiting for you at the end of the day! First dbl shot on me!
By For Real
November 21, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this
I’m going to lunch now but I have been inspired by JtJ’s post.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this
ARed, cuz everyone won’t come. Just kidding, I can’t invite EVERYONE I like. I don’t have the $$ to rent that much space!
By Angie
November 21, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this
Is there any element of your life that’s based on the assumption that you’d someday be married?
the signs that you’re waiting for your life to come find you aren’t always obvious, like living with your parents. It can be your savings strategy, your hobbies, your neighborhood, your hangouts, your eating habits, your choice of friends, your behavior on dates, your travel plans, your taste in clothing or music or art, your willingness even to buy art.
If you identify any part of your life that’s in limbo because you’re single, try knocking it back out again. Make the choices you’d make if this were it, your life, no one but you calling shots
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this
@Keep it real! From Ohio
I used to live there.
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this
thanks Leggs! Honey, I love ya like a play cuzn, LOL.
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this
Wise Diva
I am trying to get a trip to Hawaii and London booked, here’s hoping!
I know that it isn’t Hawaii or London, but Carnival Cruise Lines is having a huge sale today for their cruises. They have sent me e-mail like every single day.
** Low Rates & Free Upgrades end today - Book now!
3 to 4 day cruises start at 179 6 days cruises start at 339 7 day cruises start at 429
all are double occupancy rates**
Just FYI, if you like to travel.
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this
cuz everyone won’t come.
Leggs, true. But I have a good idea of who will. LOL
No worries, your girl has a bday of her own coming up. LOL
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this
wow, thanks Poppa G, I do Love love LOVE travel, cruises are nice, especially when you have the right person/people with you. Don’t know why I didn’t think of cruises, I’ve been on 2 before and had a great time.
off topic: I found this on a Tumblr blog and umm yeah, check it out
A MAN caught by police with his penis submerged in a pasta sauce jar was still pleasuring himself while resisting arrest, a court has been told.
Police drew their weapons after New South Wales man Keith Roy Weatherley, 46, led them on a brief, slow-speed car chase, the Newcastle Herald reports.
Weatherley attracted police attention while he was parked in a no-stopping zone near Nobby’s Beach on October 26, Newcastle Local Court was told yesterday. .
Police thought he might have a weapon because they saw him doing something with his hands in his lap, the Herald said.
Instead, they found him partially clothed with his genitals in a jar, a police statement said.
That’s when the pursuit began, the court was told.
When Weatherley was stopped, he refused to leave his car and four officers used batons and capsicum spray to get him out.
They found a 750mm jar around his “package” and said Weatherley attempted to continue “pleasuring himself in between bouts of wrestling”.
A search of his car uncovered pornography, a homemade sex aid, women’s stockings and a Jack Russell terrier.
Weatherley pleaded guilty to offensive behaviour, resisting police and disobeying a police direction.
He was convicted and fined $600.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this
the stickin’ was excellent but the lickin’ was superb…What can I say, he is a thug, shoulda known betta.
U making me jealous with that 1st line Hot.Can i get sme of that,u gave to the thugg??
Is it me or does Rell and Melo always try set-up some online booty? u got some sisters over there in Ohio who are frigid cold and wld luv to move over to warm GA?Holla at ur boy and give ur sisterS my contacts..takpat78@gmail.com
Foots, in reply to ur post to me, i think somebody remarked and i agree,that u date like a guy.So u arent bothered by too much fluck stuff,unlike other chics.U keeps it moving,like u like to say so u dont carry ur emotions on ur sleeves unlike most chics,thats my observation.And being an engineer too,thats kinda a manly thing too(from a traditional standpoint) so u kinda used to roughing things up.U need a strong man in ur camp,a sissy wont stand no chance with u,thats my take. ….hotmama, i cant get the image of that thugg’s licking of u off my brain right now!! Im looking at his big hands and fingers with dirt in the nails,holding ur thighs apart and he’s staring at ur dyzznick-hole intensely,strategising on the angle he wants to place his tongue……
By mqew
November 21, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this
For Real I used to roll up at 20yr old at my dorm BLASTING Simply Beautiful <———-that was my CUT!!!
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this
Hey, play cuzns are highly favored ppl. Yes indeedy!!
I know, I’ll never get my two favorite pitbulls in the same room together.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this
Leggs,u inviting pple for what?? JtJ get Leggs to invite u for whatever she’s planning,i will be there..do u like to swing??
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this
Who do you all think would make the perfect black James Bond? (It is about time we had one).
Considering JB is sexy, mystifying, composed and handsome my choices would be:
Denzel Washington, Will Smith, Djimon Hounsou and Wentworth Miller.
By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S!
November 21, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this
WHATEVER happen to the fight between TRUTH and ReLL?
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this
Where is Staceye? Leggs and I need the 3rd part of our Sagittarius trifecta.
LOL @ Leggs. ;-)
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this
mqew all the gytime this week just went to shreds…i’m stuffed! The carrot cake was scrumptious, turkey and grave, dressing, ‘tata souffle, grrenbean caserole…uuuggghhh…imma go ‘itis in a minute.
Raqi …considering the circumstances i would think you was gonna have Thanksgiving anyway. Hope all is going well.
PoppaG…shhh…don’t talk about office stores like that. It’s a gal’s weak spot. LOl…i’m thinking about making the office reimburse me for my supplies. I buy savvy lil office stuff all the time. The initials on your notes adds something to it. I have a gymbag i got from REI with my intials onit and now 2 women here have ordered them one.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this
What’s funny is out of everyone I speak to on this blog I only have 13 email addys! Leggs,ill help u screen some of these pple.They arent in ur add book coz some of them dont deserve to be.Make sure u get Dushawn’s add,we need pple who add sexcitememt to the party,not snobs and tights!!
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this
WiseDiva Couldn’t dude just go home or to a gas station bathroom or something? I mean…nevermind.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this
sexcitememt. i love it!
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 1:32 PM | Link to this
“A search of his car uncovered pornography, a homemade sex aid, women’s stockings and a Jack Russell terrier.”
That poor dog.
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this
Raqi, I am so confused, LOL, I don’t get it, must be awful to be a slave to your wang like that, goodness
AmazonRed, I met Brian’s mom last weekend, and I was with her when he serenaded her for her birthday on his morning radio show in LA, he had her in tears, thereby making me misty, it was the sweetest thing!
By JtJ
November 21, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this
@ Melo, uhn-uhn……nope….don’t swing at all….I am in a relationship now for the past 3 years…..wouldn’t do nothing to mess it up….the man simply adores me…….and my SAG alter-ego!
I would be honored to attend Leggs B-Day Bash,I need a break, I have been working hard towards my degree from Ashford Univ.
By mqew
November 21, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this
Awwwwwww dayyyyyuuuuuuuuuum Ceemee you did not have to go there. Sounds delish!
and that’s what the gym is for…I’ve lost 2lbs so far for next week
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this
Staceye is in Miami with her middle finga up to all of us here in the cold (LOL). Really, she is!
By RELL - Boats and Hoe$
November 21, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this
@melo…word…no tight wads at a party…never understood dullards at a party…..like right now i just had some thankgiving dinner stuff here at the JOBY and i am feeling reall randy right now…when i get full all i want are breast, legs, and thighs…..holla…..u you wit……a brother as the energy of a five year old right now….trouble time
@attention…..middle fanga….
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli the circumstances at this present time has us in VA tomorrow thru Tuesday evening. I didn’t think the marido would want to be bothered with all the scurrying around Wednesday trying to put things together at the last minute. But that’s what he wants to do. So be it.
But on a lighter note, I can’t wait for Black Friday.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 1:40 PM | Link to this
Melo, I don’t know any snobs or tights. That was funny. I’m having trouble w/music so I may just go w/AmbianceLounge instead of my place. Having made up my mind. That’s why I haven’t sent out the evites just yet. No matter where it will be ppl, lockdown 12/6. That goes for you too WD!
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this
LOL Wise I could see if dude had a passenger that was initiating and supplementing…yeah been there done that, but managed to hold out until…
But being a slave to your desire and you are all alone??? Heck just stop touching yourself.
And yeah poor dog.
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this
Who do you all think would make the perfect black James Bond? (It is about time we had one).
humm someone smooth, sexy, and on point. I would like to see Will Smith, Terrence Howard, Denzel, Tupac, Didn’t I hear somewhere that diddy wanted the part or something??????
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Rell, I love that comeback, short and to the point middle fanga I need that on a baby tee, ha!
question, what does it mean when a guy says he likes a “spinner”, I can use context clues, but umm, what do you guys think it means?
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this
Leggs, do you live anywhere near Riverdale?
Well, even if you don’t, my friend is doing the PR for a new spot opening tomorrow: The Quarters Cajun Bar and Grill. Their grand opening is tomorrow.
http://www.thequartersatl.com/
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this
In a 750mm jar of ragu. Oh my! I don’t get how he was still trying to get his jollies off in between bouts w/the police. Sheesh.
Don’t worry JtJ, there will be no swinging at my party. Sorry, folk…Melo likes to hear himself talk. His blog persona is NOTHING like what he is like in person. Well, maybe it is (hhmmm)!
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this
Melo
U go tooo far!!!
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this
NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!!!! NOT DIDDY! He annoys beyond measure (and I’m not easily annoyed). He makes me shudder!!!!
ARed, I’m in Ellenwood, off River Road (right behind Decatur). Only Georgia would have 159 counties back to back…a bunch of greedy folk wanting land rights!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this
Okay Raqi enjoy your trip. Travel safe! I’ might wanna go to Target and Office Depot for Blk Friday.
By Angie
November 21, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this
leggs i believe you. melo prolly a lil puddy tat and very sweet.
happy birthday to all the sags!
have a good w/e.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this
A spinner? Could it be someone who can pull off being a human plate spinner?
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this
I’m in Ellenwood, off River Road (right behind Decatur).
Leggs, I’m not even sure why I asked. If it’s not ITP, I don’t know where the heck it is. LOL
And I’m glad Staceye is somewhere better than here!
WiseDiva, I love me some Brian. But he stopped checkin for the sistas long ago. He’s into the asian experience. If you notice, he’ll put a sista in his video, but a lot of them are mixed with some sort of asian influence. LOL One of the sorors from my school (black and japanese) is in his “Anytime” video.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this
LOL Leggs. Diddy is so unsexy looking. He doesn’t have what it takes to play the part.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this
But being a slave to your desire and you are all alone??? Heck just stop touching yourself.…
see now….rotf…
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this
“question, what does it mean when a guy says he likes a “spinner”, I can use context clues, but umm, what do you guys think it means?”
@WD — Um, I had never actually heard this term before you mentioned it, but assuming it’s used in reference to woman, I’d guess that it probably would be a very petite girl that you could easily… um… spin around on the wang.
By SHELBY SHEA
November 21, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this
Jamie Foxx might not be a bad BOND
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this
Never heard of a “spinner”. Only thing that comes to mind is someone who can really move their hips doing the horizontal mambo.
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this
i’m swiss, cracking up ok, this makes sense considering the size of the woman was told this, wow, dudes are so entertaining
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this
Jamie Foxx??? Double ew.
By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S!
November 21, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this
@ RELL AND TRUTH…
DID YOU GUYS EVER MET UP TO BOX EACH OTHER OUT….
@ RELL D@mn you!!!
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this
LOL Cemeeli It ain’t like when you are trying to keep someone else’s hands off of you. When you are stroking your own delight, just stop.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this
Leggs I think spinning will be more perpendicular rather than horizontal. Just picture it.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this
mqew You’re a doll. Who did you cook for this time? Chef’ing @ 4 am in the morning?!?!?
Raqi I’m over you! Lol…i see you liking the Djimon Hounsou persuasion…
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this
Cry Unto Jesus by Third Day
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this
Yeah, when I was typing that I was thinking to myself someone may throw their hip out of action.
By i'm swiss
November 21, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this
“Leggs I think spinning will be more perpendicular rather than horizontal. Just picture it.”
@Raqi — Well, they’d be perpendicular to each other, but somebody would most likely be horizontal. Although, I will say — if it was the girl that was horizontal, that would most likely be more of a “rotisserie” situation than a “spinner.” LOL
By Richard Johnson
November 21, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this
The greatest breakup song of all time is “Informer,” by Snow.
By Page1908
November 21, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this
Ughhhhhhhh it’s still cold outside! Thank goodness I leave for San Diego today for 8 days! Flip flops, capris, and tank tops, here I come lol.
I’m not sure about breakup songs, but my fav are those by Babyface, Brian McKnight, New Edition, Blackstreet, Tony, Toni, Tone, and Jon B. OMG I love Jon B. lol.
PS- Leggs: Jon B. is NOT Jon Bon Jovi! lol
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this
hmmm sidelines Do you listen to The Fish?
Third Day & Switchfoot just had concert.
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli I am not usually attracted to the darker chocolates but Djimon is very suave and sexy. I have to give the man his due credits. Just like I have to do for Denzel. If you got it you got it.
By kimmie
November 21, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this
Raqi - I can definitely see Terrance Howard in the role because of his mesmerizing eyes & he can rock a tux! Denzel would be absolutely perfect. I’m not a Will Smith fan in sexy roles- I’m sorry I can’t get past the Fresh Prince. He just seems like a kid brother, not someone I would lust after. Diddy and Jamie are not handsome at all, so absolutely not. Remember that brother that was in Daddy’s Little Girls? He actually has a british accent. He could actually use the accent and rock that role. I am a Bond freak! Me & SO have some passes so we are going to see the new one this weekend. He also got some classics on blue-ray, including my favorite Live and Let Die.
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this
Cee
LOL..you like office stores too.
Sorry for taking a minute to return post, but there has been a shooting on the campus on Savannah State and the campus on lockdown.
I have family there. So I had to talk to them.
By mqew
November 21, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this
Perpendicular, that’s the word I was searching for Raqi
WD What Raqi said…
I was at a new establishment that recently opened in Conyers. I was in the kitchen until the comedians came on… Chris Tucker’s brother, Dexter, is funny! He’s the host. learning new tricks of the trade.
SHOUT OUT TO CAMERON HALL Don’t want to go ITP to have fun… Don’t Sat night is Jazz night, last night was Comedy night. Leggs You might want to consider them… although I don’t know if people will travel to Conyers
By Page1908
November 21, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this
Kimmie The guy from Tyler Perry’s Daddy’s Little Girls was Idris Elba. Yeah, he would be good. He is quite nice in person also.
Cee I hung out at Ultimate the other night and it was nice! Have you been there?
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this
Raqi Yea, he’s got it…Kimora seen it too. Dijimon has his own set of rules for sexy…
PoppaG That’s my alma mater. Are you SERIOUS!!!
By Raqi
November 21, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this
IMO in order to be James Bond you have to have that look and strut that just make woman automatically gravitate to you.
Jamie Foxx and Diddy have a million dollar attractiveness, which to me is none. If they didn’t have money there would be nothing appealing about them to most women.
I was so disappointed that JF was cast in Miami Vice. They could have come up with someone more Philip Michael Thomasy.
kimmie Bad Boys II made Will Smith perfect for the Bond role.
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli Sometimes Like that station
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this
Page 1908, quick kick to the throat for you!! (ROFLMAO). You had to throw that one in there didn’t you. Enjoy San Diego. Bring me something. Hell, bring the heat back w/you.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this
PoppaG, thanks for that update and so glad you’re family is fine!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this
Page yes The Ultimate is a nice Friday night cool-out spot. Before it got to chilly, i would hook a table out side.
For Real Are you lurking?
PoppaG I’m calling my gf to check-up. She has a daughter that’s a freshman as SSU. OMG
By Poppa Grande
November 21, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
Cee
PoppaG That’s my alma mater. Are you SERIOUS!!!
It is on the front of the AJC now.
By kimmie
November 21, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this
Bad Boys II made Will Smith perfect for the Bond role.
Yeah *Raqi I know, lots of people see that in him and the idea about him playing Bond has been floating around. It’s just me, I just don’t find him sexy.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this
PoppaG The Swat team had supposingly surrounding a dorm….someone shot and wounded.
By YouCanHaveWhateverULike
November 21, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this
AL SHARPTON WILL BE THE MEN’S DAY SPEAKER @ TABERNACLE BAPTIST CHURCH 475 BOULEVARD, ON NOVEMBER 30TH @ 11AM
By Page1908
November 21, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this
Leggs LOL you know I had to throw that in there!! You best believe I will be having fun! I’m still sleepy from being up late last night at Fox Sports Grill watching my Phoenix Suns lose to my LA Lakers. I’m gonna sleep on the plane with my fuzzy Lakers blanket of course lol. Countdown to unlimited fish tacos, mexican candy, lobster burritos, beaches and of course fires! lol. I’m gonna go to LA, too. I’ll bring you back something lol.
By Demigod33
November 21, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this
Bitter Breakup Playlist must start off with:
I said bish, get the f/k out my face, get the f/k out my face, get the f/k out my face, (pimpin’ h0)
Let me tell ya’ll ‘iggas, what the ghetto in Memphis is full of,
GD vice lords, killas, drug dealers nothin but that hustlin goin on fo da scrilla we supply tha music for tha ‘iggas in the hood all the pimps and players thatl smoke the lightest bud the ones that rob ya have ya runnin out ur shoeswe all thru the town see our picture on the news f/k some kareoke cuz were talkin wit our slang everytime we in a group the wanna say we gangz we love a shytty ho that can make her booty shake aint lookin for no housewife im at the every lace we smile wit the gold teeth and walkin with a limp smokin on them newports bumpin like a pimp when all tha ladies see me they be sayin oh its him im at the red lobster and im eatn on tha shrimp im livin ghetto fabridin caddy with the dents aint messed up bout no carberator im always stayin lit
LOL…Naw I didn’t any thing pass the head line!!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this
Okay….
PoppaG That’s my baby…i loved my school. Just read the Savannah news.
By mqew
November 21, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this
Page you ain’t right. Wish I had fam in Cali…
fresh chilean sea bass mmmmmmm
I was at a new establishment that recently opened in Conyers. I was in the kitchen until the comedians came on… Chris Tucker’s brother, Dexter, is funny! He’s the host. learning new tricks of the trade. <———- Ceemee was in response to you.
Leggs what’s your email, I have to ask you somethin.
By MusingLee 007
November 21, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this
Denzel as James Bond…Really!?!?!?! Maybe if all he had to do was walk the whole movie.
Denzel: Stop right there I’m James Bond Dam’it.
Bad Dude: You’ll Never catch me Bond
Denzel: Ahh yea well you just try getting away.
(Bad Dude): Jumps through window onto awaiting speed boat.
Musing now cracking the hellz up at Denzel breaking a hip trying to jump through a window and stop a mug’fugg
By Demigod33
November 21, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this
MusingLee dude sup!!
By MusingLee 007
November 21, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this
Demi What’s up man..
Handing Demi a Martini shaken not stirred
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this
mqew okay gotcha.
Musing ur a cut-up.
DemiGod hello.
By Demigod33
November 21, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this
Don’t get me wrong, its no secret, everybody knows! Yeh we f***, bish so what. Thats as far as the party goes!
We’ll be friends, i’ll call you again. I’ll chase you around every bar you attened. Never know what kinda’ car i’ll be in , we’ll see how much you’ll be partyin’ then.
You don’t want that, neither do I. I don’t wana’ flip when a see you with guys. Too much pride between you and i. Not a jealous man but females lie! But a guess that’s just what sluts do, how could it ever be just us two? I’d never love you enough to trust you, we just met i just f/ked you.
I do know one thing though. Bishes they come they go.Saturday through Sunday, Monday, Monday through sunday. Yo!
Maybe i’ll love you oneday. Maybe we’ll someday grow. Till then just sit your drunk a* on that fkin runway h0!
Girl you just blew your chance better rethink up those plans!!
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this
The Ultimate is always packed, but I hear the food is not good. I live close by, haven’t tried it because of the mixed reviews.
There is a Tavern at JR Crickets that just opened up a couple weeks ago in the Camp Creek Marketplace across the street. They may give the Ultimate a run for their money. Both places have great specials, but the Tavern has that big Monday Night Football thing they advertise on the radio.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this
I have yours mqew. You got mail.
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this
Unfortunately I am in a…
Well, I don’t like,(hoho ohh) living under your spotlight, Just because you think I might(hoho), find somebody worthy. Well, I don’t like,(hoho) living under your spotlight, Maybe if you treat me right, you won’t have to worry.
Mood.
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this
MusingLee dude you know the Busted Civic was repo’ed a few months back…*Your a$$ up and out gotten married and stop making the $0.50 a month payments!!!
Cee how are you doing sis?
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this
or in a mood for some kiddy love, like…
It’s like I waited my whole life (oh) For this one night (one night) It’s gon be me you and the dance floor (dance floor) Cuz we only got one night (one night) Double your pleasure Double your fun (yeah) And dance forever ever ever Forever ever ever Forever ever ever Forever Forever ever ever Forever ever ever Forever ever ever Forever on the dance floor
By For Real
November 21, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
I say lets switch it up and let Huggie Bear have a shot at James Bond.
James “Huggie Bear” Bond: Hey sweetthang. I was brainstorming about a button shoe bozo. Are your boots laced?
Bond Girl: Like really, gag me with a spoon.
JHBB: Looka here snow white beating yo gums like dat ain’t good for a cindy by yoself. Collar the swing?
BG: Like are you robbing me?
On second thought… nevermind
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this
OM…just read a negative report on a b-day at AmbianceLounge this past Saturday. I was there and saw these people walk out but didn’t know why. They went back to Hairston’s for their party. OM!
Sure hope those with family/friends at Savannah State are all found safe!
By Hot Mamma
November 21, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this
PG
Thanks for your legal POV.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this
Hey gang…. i havnt been able to catch up: JtJ,when u go to SexxL party, go alone,no boyfriends allowed. a lil puddy tat and very sweet what dat mean Angie… WD is flashing blog men and spinning too…?? i miseed that..but it seems uncharacteristic,maybe its the cold weather… Sexxyl parties are always jumping,she got no time to waste.If u priviledged to get an invite,show up and be co-operative!Otherwise stay home.Whatever happens there,no confessions afterwards,u carry that to ur grave,thats our bond! Has Dushawn confirmed??..he be the master of ceremonies…
By For Real
November 21, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this
What up Demi and Musing.
Ared The food at the Ultimate is very good for a sports bar. I live near by and I always have a good time when I go. I haven’t checked out JR yet but it should relieve some of the crowds. At least I hope. I think the last time I was at the Ultimate, I saw Page. She was wearing a pink sweater dress with pink leggings with some flip flops, a sweat band and one of those little hats.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this
Demi you now Jennifer H. can sang! I said sang, lol. That new CD she had whoever wrote/recored her did not show her many pitched of singing skills. I’m kinda upset about that…
“Spotlight” is a nice jam.
By For Real
November 21, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this
Leggs I got a theme for your party.
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this
any ideas/suggestions on where i can get a thanksgiving meal that won’t cost the price of my first born? other than honeybaked and publix?
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this
For Real I am still alive…barely
Musing feel like opening the Blog Bar for ole time sake…we only have the cheap stuff left, Wise Diva has been trippin’n’shyt…Talking about AJC’s budget cuts and what not.
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
For Real, didn’t know you were in the neighborhood. LOL @ your Page meeting. LOL
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this
@ Demi i chopped that last post up real bad.
Correction:
Jennifer H. can sang! I said sang, lol. That new CD she has. Whomever wrote/recorded her, did not show her many pitches of singing skills. I’m kinda upset about that…
By QC
November 21, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this
Hey Musing it’s so good to read you…how are you? Hey Demi Clause
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
Ok, ForReal, I play along…what’s your theme! Keep it clean!
By MusingLee
November 21, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
Demi What the heck..Open the bar, drinks all on me…Pour that good stuff for the blog ladies. Spare no expense!!!
Musing now sneaking out the back door cause the tab is too thick for his wallet
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 21, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
Hey Page1908! I am like *Leggs bring some warm waether back witcha!!
Hey LorDemi
MusingLee can you please pass ya girl a martini….its been that type of friday!
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this
Cee it was still a great CD. And think about it, Ms. “FineA$$” Hudson is still growing as an artist. I have a feeling her next album is going to be a deep one.
Yep, Demi likes his women on the thick butintherightplaces side.
but only gets the slimbutsexy wit its
By For Real
November 21, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this
Ared yeap I’m in the neighborhood. Let know the next time you are at one of those spots so I can meet you and squeeze by you 17 times.
Demi Busted Civic on 85 S APD was using it to stop speediers.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this
Leggs I got a theme for your party u got to run ur ideas by Du For Real
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this
Mo your company is trippin like Bishes!! I can’t even catch a break in this camp!!
Musing you so ghetto, LOL
*said while laying spike traps along the route toward the exit.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this
on the thick butintherightplaces side.
Demi don’t got there. We get sensitive…j/p. :)
I’m with you, Jennifer Hudson’s next CD will have a different type of meat.
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this
Let know the next time you are at one of those spots so I can meet you and squeeze by you 17 times.
LOL. Will do!
Apparently my girls and I are going to some hole in the wall spot on Fairburn Rd this weekend. One of the girls met her fiance there. We wanted to try an evening that didn’t require our trademark stilettos. LOL
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this
ummmm, can you folks take a break from breakups and getting something off popping long enough to answer a FOOD question?!
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
November 21, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this
Demi dont even get me started homie….its that time when the employer starts getting crazy….have to keep saying ‘Lawd I am grateful fo my job, Lawd Im grateful fo my job’
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this
It is too funny that Melo is telling women to not show up w/boyfriends, has assigned me an events coordinator, and is now telling ppl that all ideas must first run through DuShawn. I’m over here cracking up.
Like the wording…a different type of meat. YEP!
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this
For Real ain’t that some mess…Demi is now filing a civil complaint against APD…only to remember he has an outstanding warrant for his arrest for using stolen license plates to run red light while driving Busted Civic, throughout the metro Atlanta area.
By Sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this
By sidelines November 21, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this Cry Unto Jesus by Third Day
Wow…who the hellz are you impersonating such a horrible last minute thought up tag name??? Yeah, I said it because thats what it was…until I decide to change it, AND, not to mention your asking where to look for a Thanksgiving meal, when I can cook my arsh off!!
Afternoon bloggers, I happen to log on to be nosy and was like whose that???
Hey Demi…waving atcha!!!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this
lol sidelines check out your local soulfood reasturant. They will make a pan/dish or your choice. Or/and complete an entire Thanksgiving dinner for you.
What side of town are you on?
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this
…Lawd I am grateful fo my job, Lawd Im grateful fo my job’
Samethings need to be repeated.
QC can you order me one of those “Hancock” super hero suit?
I am high off Benadryl pills and suddenly feel the urge to fly
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this
sidelines…are you snapping about your question? Lol…are you from the south?
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this
Sidelines unless you have the patent on it honey, it’s open game. Oh I can cook now, just don’t feel like it. Why not let someone do it for me this go round?
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this
Sidelines hey lovely lady…ZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
I feel slow
By mqew
November 21, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this
sidelines I’m not sure what you need? Are you trying to get a home-made meal, on the street? HB is as cloese as you’re gonna get, don’t you think?
By MELO
November 21, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this
sidelines we cooking…u can come my place,no kids tho,its all adult(rated R)
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this
mqew, you got mail…tell whatcha think?
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this
Demi Heeeeey..oh my bad, I’m the imposter. I have what I need. Mary Macs. Thanks to you that helped.
Cemeeli I did get a bit snappy huh? My bad. It’s just that Thanksgiving is relatively close. If I don’t get an order placed quick enough, I’ll be forced to cook.
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this
…this is hilarious.
sidelines/Sidelines Whose side are you on?
mqew you can make a mini-meal for Cee and her crew. Im’a have someone in town and she is a good cook. But chic is gonna be partying so hard she won’t be up to preparing her specialty. I tell you them HATERS!!!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this
See, i told you soul southern cooking places would be your nitch.
sidelines
Mary’s Room spot is cool. Are you on the east? Mary’s is on/near Ponce.
By mqew
November 21, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this
LEGGS BLACK DON’T CRACK!!! LOL
sidelines and Sidelines…. funny
By MELO
November 21, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this
Cee and Ared, i feel like watching smethg exciting either on tv or at the movies today.Good movie with good storyline(not like the chinese kungfu,where 2 strngers meet and they already fighting?) so what u suggest?
feel like taking queen out,coz im plotting sme for tmorrw so i need plz her tday…. plz hurry, we bout to close…
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this
Sidelines…you can come eat a home cooked meal w/me and my daughter.
By Sassette aka Kym
November 21, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this
I know I am late but I have been in clean mode since before day this morning..
My breakup playlist
Enough Cryin-Mary J Blige
I’d Rather Go Blind-Etta James
Whatever I Am (You made me)-Nina Simone
Fairy Tales-Anita Baker
Slow Dancing in a Burning Room-John Mayer
The First Cut is the Deepest-Sheryl Crow
Hearts Get Broken All The Time-Luther Vandross
and I Hate U-Prince
I never thought that I could feel this way To fall in love was a table reserved for fools
Say you’re sorry if you wanna but it’s all in vain I’m out the door sweet baby, that’s right, we’re through
It’s so sad but I hate you like a day without sunshine It’s so bad but I hate you cuz you’re all that’s ever on my mind
Honey, I hate you - Now everyday would be a waste of time Cuz I hate U *
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this
sidelines Hey to you as well..but I returning the greeting to Sidelines.
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this
feel like taking queen out,coz im plotting sme for tmorrw so i need plz her tday
I’m no accomplice!
By Keep it real! From Ohio
November 21, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this
Are we still talking about Sagittarius!
They are the super freaks of the Zodiac signs! um,um, good!
I see Amazon is a Sag and she hangs out in my neighborhood I will be on the look-out!
Hello to Shelba? I hope you are not from Cinci! LOL
Cleveland, Ohio in the blog!
By sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli work downtown
Demi I knew that. It’s Friday and wound down time, but not the brain. I kid I kid. That was a crack at you.
MELO Not if your life depended on it. I would catch the cooties walking in your door no doubt.
By Sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this
Sidelines unless you have the patent on it honey, it’s open game. Oh I can cook now, just don’t feel like it. Why not let someone do it for me this go round?…
You know what your right, I don’t. But, your obviously bipolar with identity issues at best.
Everyone, have a blessed weekend. Good night all…
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this
melo what does she like? I hear the Quantam of Solace is good. w/J. Bond. You’re on the eastside of thangs…take her to dinner at Bugaboo Creek.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this
good weekend pples!
By mqew
November 21, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this
Ceemee I would love to..if you wouldn’t mind it being made Wed as I’m out Thurs Hit me up.
so you’re gonna have peeps coming in at 4am…. dang, I remember those days
By Sidelines
November 21, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this
Sidelines unless you have the patent on it honey, it’s open game. Oh I can cook now, just don’t feel like it. Why not let someone do it for me this go round?…
You know what your right, I don’t. But, your obviously bipolar with identity issues at best, who can’t cook.
Everyone, have a blessed weekend. Good night all…
By LorDemi
November 21, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
sidelines LOL…for give me…i am on Benadrly and bloggin
By Wise Diva
November 21, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
As always folks, it’s been soo entertaining. Hugs all around.
Have a great weekend
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
sidelines/Sidelines, all I see is the 2 of you talking in the mirror much like 3 Faces of Eve.
By Leggs
November 21, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone!
Take a chance, monnotony is the awful reward of the careful. (A.G. Buckham).
Have a great weekend. It’s going to be 60 degrees on Sunday.
You know what to do SO DO IT!!!! PEACE!
By AmazonRed
November 21, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this
I see Amazon is a Sag and she hangs out in my neighborhood I will be on the look-out!
LOL. Yeah, say hello if you see me in the streets. I only bite upon request. :-D
Good night everyone.
By MELO
November 21, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli,thanx , i knw u sleek.Good weekend to u and lil Cee!
By Cemeeli
November 21, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this
melo I coulda save you a beatin’ for trying to scheme The Queen. I’m actually on her side, so i hope she orders steak and lobster and don’t eat it!
:)
Ya’ll have a good one.