Misadventures in Atlanta Blog is on the Move!
Attention Readers! We have moved! The Misadventures in Atlanta Blog can be found here. The new technology will improve our blog and commenting experience. Update your bookmarks and RSS feeds!
AJC.com > Living > Blog > Archives > 2008 > October > 22 > Entry
DEL.ICIO.USI Favor Intensity
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
In Esquire’s November 2008 issue, Halle Berry is named Sexiest Woman on the Planet
Photo Credit: Esquire
Congratulations Halle! As if her red hot pictures aren’t enough to send tongues wagging, Berry was very candid about her bedroom action in this quote (paraphrasing):
“You know that stuff they say about a woman being responsible for her own O’s? That’s all true. And in my case, that makes me responsible for pretty good O’s these days. Much better O’s than when I was twenty-two. And I wouldn’t let a man control that. Not anymore. Now I’d invite him to participate. I’ll tell you this: I’ve learned my tricks. I know what I like. I do not wait around. I initiate. And I’m not all about frequency. I favor intensity”
Wow! clutching my pearls I’ve have always heard that once a woman hits her 40s, things can get better. She certainly makes a good case for this, no?
Guys, do you enjoy a woman who initiates in bed? Is there a preference that you have? Do you think it’s on you to serve up the O’s?
Ladies, what do you think about who control’s the O’s for a woman?
If you are dating someone new, how do you handle expressing to your mate that something needs improving? You know how we all have those “fragile egos”, can we really handle feedback on our skills?
Please follow my lead, keeping the dialogue clean. Filter yourselves, people!
Happy Hump Day!
Permalink | Comments (262) | Post your comment | Categories: Let's talk about sex
Services »
Comments
By Dan
October 22, 2008 8:41 AM | Link to this
I like a confident woman…
Inviting me to join? call work, you ain’t gone be in tomorrow… Sexiest thing ever.
My thing is a woman that is in tune with herself, her needs, her desires, her O’s and takes responsibility for them?…..
Yeah, she can get it
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 8:43 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All
Diva You really mean that….Keep it clean….wow…That is not going to be possible. You know what type of ppl or rather MEN you are dealing with.
But Let me grab my popcorn now…I’ll play the cut…for a while.
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this
OF course I mean it, it is possible to talk about sex without getting raunchy, we can make it creative challenge, so to speak LOL
By Foots
October 22, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this
Ladies, what do you think about who control’s the O’s for a woman?
I’d like for both parties to take part in bringing each other to climax. Everyone knows by now that there are VERY few women who can achieve an O by intercourse alone, but that percentage increases significantly if she is “in the saddle”. (is that clean enough?) But if he gives action “south of the border” and uses his hands to the best of his ability, multiple O’s are not uncommon.
Point blank, I already know exactly what I have to do to get off. He already knows exactly what he has to do to get off. So if I’m with him and I want an O, I know what position to assume or what to ask for.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this
Ladies, what do you think about who control’s the O’s for a woman?
I agree with Halle. I think while sex is about mutual satisfaction..there is nothing wrong with a woman showing you how to please her. I never thought of that as being over the top, or aggressive. More like, I am in tune with my body, so here let me show you how to name that tune, stroke the right places, and in turn I want him to show me how to stroke the right notes so that we can make beautiful music together.
By Cemeeli
October 22, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this
Halle looks good. That ageless look she has on that picture works. What is she a size 2?
Good Morning!
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this
Good morning my fine blog brothas and sistas. LOL
Guys have always responded well when I initiate. Always. It happens most often when I’m in a committed relationship and comfortable.
Yes, I agree a woman is responsible for “getting hers.”
In terms of expression dissatisfaction with someone new, it’s rather N/A. If things are clicking out of the bedroom, they are clicking inside. If things are not clicking outside of the bedroom, nothing is going down inside anyway.
By abc
October 22, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this
With sex the specific topic, ‘keeping it clean’ is a reference to verbiage only, not content, I presume.
Halle Berry won the sexiest title as old actors win lifetime achievement awards at the Oscars. It’s an honorarium, granted before she grays. There are plenty of younger starlets that out-sexy Halle Berry, no contest. Her comments are typically lowbrow, tawdry. What a piece of work.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this
Oh yeah and I am not sure what Halle means by tricks( I never liked saying I know tricks) Tricks are for kids and circus performers..If “said” trick is perform more than once and is used on multiple occassions. It is no longer a trick..it is a skill.
By Chink
October 22, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this
Morning!
Ladies, what do you think about who control’s the O’s for a woman?
Never had a problem with getting O’s even with bad partners..lol. I think I am very sensitive. But honestly if he is there I expect him to handle it more than anything I like to be submissive in that aspect…when I do take charge it doesnt give me the same intensity! At the same time I am taking charge of his O’s so it is mutual.
Hey Melo Life is good can it be better of course! But I have much to be thankful for. A man would be great but “any” man would be not. But thanks for the shout out.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this
And that’s what I’m talking about there Foots.
If she knows, or can instruct me, on what her “sensitive” points are and how to “manipulate” those areas, it saves a lot of time and wasted energy for both of us.
Pleasure is a process. It begins well before “joining”. “Joining” should be the release of what was begun prior…
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this
this is why halle stay killing you chicks…lol…love it
@abc…you sound giegh with that post….tawdy, low brow…..lol…dude you a piece of work
on who controls the O….i think sex will be better when men allow or encourage women to talk and share more on there sexual habits…wants and desires…nothing wrong with it…i love a women that can talk to me about what she likes etc etc…hell i love to talk about sex…i like to think about what i am going to do before i do it….almost like i have a constant porn movie going off in my head….everyday….blow what type of men are we?
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone! I love to initiate. It’s a definite turn on for the man. We both can help each other reach the big “O”, but I can do it on my own if need be. As one matures, there are so many levels of sexual gratification without penetration. No, I’m not talking about masturbation. Sexual intensity can take place in the bedroom as well as out. The mental sexual arousal of a person that lasts once the deed is over is beautiful!
By I don't know how to OOOOOOO
October 22, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this
@ Foots…explain this “saddle motion” I have not had a Good O….But have had the man in the boat. Please help….input is needed. Step by step please…
By Chink
October 22, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this
Dan
Is it selfish of me to want you to find my points? Granted if its been long relationship yeah we probably will come the point to try new things…but in the beginning I want you to treat this like a New Found City and investigate all areas….lol. No boundaries ..unlimitless…well sort of but you catch my drift?
If I am giving directions I aint coming back. In the same token if you aint putting on your inspector gadget coat and putting in some work I aint coming back. That was me back then…sometimes you only have 1 time to make a good impression…lol
By I don't know how to OOOOOOO
October 22, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this
@ Foots…explain this “in the saddle motion” I have not had a Good O….But have had the man in the boat. Please help….input is needed. Step by step please…
By M.
October 22, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this
@The Truth
Thanks for your response and everyone else who responded yesterday.
I think its cool if we are losing the game and she has to take over to make things go well. Is that clean?
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this
this is why halle stay killing you chicks…lol…love it
Rell, how so?
She is a beautiful woman, but nothing about her threatens me.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this
Leggs Yep sex is most def mental. I can create a scene or re-live a experience that can bring about sexual gratification without ever being touch.
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this
@ared…..now you know i was not refering to you…but since you thought i was…YOU ARE THE ISH…THE ONE….YOU ARE A1….YOU ARE THE SUN THE MOON THE STARS…MOUNTAINS..STREAMS….AND BABY WIPES….UMMMMM….YOU ARE A THE SENSATION I GET FROM BITING INTO A YORK PEPPERMINT PATTIE….YOU ARE THE BEE KNEES….YOU ARE THAT I JUST HAD A GOOD ISH FEELING….LOL….
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this
It’s all give and take. No one wants a selfish lover however you should not place the burden of experiencing pleasure fully on your mate.
There are days we like to get there together. There are days we pleasure each other. And there are days when you have to have/give that maintenance service even when you don’t feel up to it.
While I can get there myself it is not only fun but also creates a physical intimate bond when we share the experience.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this
Lets see: Guys have always responded well didnt like the plural there.. percentage increases significantly if she is “in the saddle” ahh..lemme have a sme cold water!! Halle Berry won the sexiest title Halle is just good to admireon a cover or sme.Sexwise,she aint shyyt,coy,unable and her lyfe proves it.Maybe that gay man has sme tricks,who knows.
* I think I am very sensitive* good,where??..* expect him to handle it more* my kind of woman.I luv shy women who come out blasting when in the privacy of the bedrm!!
I dont think MLL will post today but wld luv to hear her perspectives. Lurking and learning today.This aint my type of topic..lol Cee and mytwo wld luv to hear ur shout outs too.Lets hear the angles and degrees u like to get at……. Guys, do you enjoy a woman who initiates in bed?…Present!
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this
Morning folks.
While we can always manage to excite ourselves, the thrill is knowing what to do to get your mate off.
For guys, once again, it’s a simple formula. She goes first then you. After we’re through a nap is usually in order.
I would not want to date a woman that I knew I couldn’t get off. I mean, what are we really doing?
When I was engaged to my ex-wife I was sleeping with a chick that told me she couldn’t and hadn’t ever had an o. For one year it was my goal in life to get that chick off. It never happened. I always wondered what she got out of sex. I couldn’t have done it. It was frustrating to me and I was getting off.
On the flip side, when a woman KNOWS that she’s going to get satisfied when you get together it’s a beautiful thing. Those late night phone calls because she knows daddy is on the job. Priceless.
I’m laying bets that at some point Melo will come in talking about his python. Any takers?
And Halle isn’t thte sexiest woman in the world. The chick I’m seeing at any given time is. Enough already.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this
Beautiful, glad to hear you’re still doing the computer time, and I definitely understand about the chord. You have to stay 2 steps ahead. I’ve now placed my computer back in the living room where we usually stay until bedtime. She’s not on it nearly as much. Mission accomplished!
Back to regularly scheduled heated topic~~~~~
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this
now you know i was not refering to you…but since you thought i was…
Um Rell, I didn’t think you were refering to me. At least not specifically.
My question was simple, how does Halle “stay killing [us] chicks?”
I didn’t realize the question was a difficult one. shrugs
By MELO
October 22, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this
a experience that can bring about sexual gratification without ever being touch plz school me if u dnt mind coz im losing u.I doubt that, mentally, i cld ever accept not tching u but getting gratified all the same.Well, ill concede this,the ist time i got a blw job, i never tched her,she wrked my thang good!! Went to sleep and snowed till nerning,soon after.But do u have other experiences in ur playbook other than that???
By Dan
October 22, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this
@Chink
Hypothetically speaking….
Given the right circumstances and the environment in which the act takes place…
Know that I like to take my time and survey the land…
There are common points of interest on every woman (naturally) and specific points for each woman.
My passion is for finding the right pressure,
the softness of touch,
even if only a breathe of air,
will arouse the tempest.
My only request, is that if you know where some of your ez (erotic zones) are….
Let me find the rest.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this
Lets see: Guys have always responded well didnt like the plural there.
LOL. melo, it is what it is.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this
I was sleeping with a chick that told me she couldn’t and hadn’t ever had an o. For one year it was my goal in life to get that chick off. It never happened. I always wondered what she got out of sex.
Truth, it’s rare for you to find a woman who has had an O every single time she’s had sex. And you can still have enjoyable sex without one. It’s just better with one. LOL
Just like we are responsible for “getting ours” we can also make sure we don’t get it. Some women mentally block that type of pleasure. They are saving it for someone special.
And then some simply are unable to, but it’s usually a mental problem tied to reasons stated in the above paragraph.
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
Rell….The men on this BLOG are really in general are SEX driven. Most men are.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
The blog is warm enough now.Lets have females post real raunchy stuff,not this kids play,high school stuff u on right now.Lets see wtchu wrking with ladies.Its ur only informercial to make an impression.
By 3 Stacks
October 22, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…regarding the topic…I think we are responsible for our own O’s but at the same time both parties are there to help and enhance the O. imo…baring any equipment or technical difficulties it starts with communication…every person is different and gets off on their on thing..IF you verbally tell me and or physically guide me it will be very beneficial to both of us
By Kym
October 22, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this
Melo Okay that was my line you bolded..so were you asking me a question? I am with whoever said it last week. I swear I have to read your post thrice before I figure out what you are saying.
Mental stimulation may not work for you. But everythang aint for everybody. I just know that sexual satisfaction does not have to always involve touching me. There is a fellow I dated who all he had to do was call me on the phone and say good morning and walls would sweat. Because there a memory planted there.
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this
@ared….you must be sloooww
halle has no illusion about who she is…most of you do….especially you…
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this
Melo, I doubt any female blogger will do an informercial for you. You’re already warped. You don’t need any pointers from us.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this
halle has no illusion about who she is…most of you do….especially you…
Rell, so you know Halle Berry now? LOL. That woman is like 42, I’d hope she’d know who she is by now.
Thanks for the clarification though, I figure that comment you was not filled with anything of substance. Turns out I was right.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this
Kym cmon sweetie, dont be coy with me.I know i can do sweet nothings with my babes on the phone.Thats also mental stimulation,right??But i was of the impression that if i came to your house or u to mine,there are other plays u could do that can get me excited,without me having to touch you. Give it to me girl….lol
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this
WD - Please follow my lead, keeping the dialogue clean. Filter yourselves, people! Happy Hump Day!
Reaching O’s and keeping it clean on Hump day tickled me. Yes, I too am warped!
By Foots
October 22, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
I don’t know Foots…explain this “saddle motion”
Um, “Ride Em Cowboy”….”Mechanical Bull”….”Rock Da Boat”…. I’m not really sure how to explain that. Once you’re on it, your body tells you what to do naturally. His reaction tells you what to do generally. Your sensation tells you what to do specifically. So I don’t know what to tell you.
Why don’t you just listen to Salt-N-Pepa’s Push It? That should help.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this
Leggs,no,not for me but for anybody since this is a dating thing.Smebody might get excited and the 2 initiate contact based on whats said.Thats all i meant. Blow waiting on u too..ur name is so suggestive..do u wrk ur mouf good like that??
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this
LOL @ Leggs
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this
Smebody might get excited and the 2 initiate contact based on whats said.Thats all i meant.
*blank stare *
By Foots
October 22, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this
Amazon it’s rare for you to find a woman who has had an O every single time she’s had sex.
Men still find this strange for some reason. Unless the foreplay is right, it just ain’t happening from the stick and move. Anatomically, women just aren’t built that way.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this
I don’t know Foots…explain this “saddle motion ahh So I don’t know what to tell you u girls are so selfish,u wont give other girls ur bedrm secrets 4 fear of being outcompeted,cant blame u tho….I don’t know how to OOOOOOO i volunteer to come show u the saddle motion,ist visit is free…..lemme knw.ok see Leggs, a volunteer opportunity has arisen!!
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this
@foots…..we get it…but that does not stop us from trying….i dont even think about if she does or not…..if she not opening her mouth then thats her problem…..
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this
Foots, I was gonna say “impossible” but I figured since I don’t ask other women these things I’d leave the door open with “rare.” LOL
By I don't know how to OOOOOOO
October 22, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this
@ Foots, thank you. But do you think it is “natural”. I have a hard time with the “saddle position” …And don’t even talk about reverse cowgirl…that’s even harder! ugh! Any tips on reverse COW GIRL ladies?
Reverse cowgirl seems like it’s alot of work and alot of experience is needed to pull this off.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this
u girls are so selfish,u wont give other girls ur bedrm secrets 4 fear of being outcompeted,cant blame u tho
melo, I don’t see it that way at all. I think Foots tried her best to explain under the rules to “keep it clean.” Some things you can’t teach over text tho!
Good job Foots!
By Kym
October 22, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this
For techincal assistance there are always books, mags, and videos. Adam and Eve even have instructional videos.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this
@OOOO
The saddle position and reverse cowgirl are effective (as are most other positions)….
If you remember that sex is not just genetalia…
But every part of body can be used to stimulate during the act
I’m talking bout toes, tongues, elbows, knuckles, whatever….
I wish I would limit a “session” simply to the appeasement of one organ, and exclude every other inch…
What chall be doing…?
By Foots
October 22, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this
Rell if she not opening her mouth then thats her problem
I agree with you. How else could he know what gets the job done for me unless I tell him? He could explore the vast Motherland all night if he wanted to, but we don’t have that kind of time. We gotta get up to go to work in the morning. Look, bruh, here it is, you do this, I’ll do that, GOOD NIGHT! LOL!
Part of it is variety too. Although certain things may feel good, they don’t get you to that point. But I still want to do those things. In my relationship, we know exactly what to do to get the most extreme reaction from each other. We don’t do those things every time and we both understand why. For the same reason why I don’t eat crab legs everyday, though they are my favorite food. It would lose its “specialness” and get boring if I had it everyday.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this
Melo..have you ever heard Jill Scott’s song Crown Royal? That song creates a memory for me. That’s what I meant by sex can be mental.
Your hands on my hips pull me right back to you, I catch that thrust give it right back to you..your in so deep I’m breathing for you..
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this
Melo Please….don’t even.
lmao @ I don’t know OOOOOOOOOOOO…Funny knee….
I need a refill on this popcorn!
By Foots
October 22, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this
Kym For techincal assistance there are always books, mags, and videos.
There ya go!! That’s clean enough for everybody! LOL
I don’t know Here’s a tip that is great for just about any situation: Work out and get stronger.
And a tip that works for your specific situation: Be a little theatrical with it. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, watch a “video” to see how the women move. They are doing something for the camera, so they are extra with it. Move like that and see if it don’t make a difference for you AND him.
By Bit-O-Hunny
October 22, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this
I picked the perfect day to check in on you guys. In my younger days, I expected the guy to know how to work my body over. As I’ve matured and experience different types and levels of lovers, I know that I play a crucial role in achieving my orgasm. My rule is simple, I should come at least as often as he does, which is every.single.time
By Chink
October 22, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this
I dont know about anybody else but having a O is tiring for me…sometimes I can be a 2 minute sister..lol
Hey they do it to us all the time!
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this
Dan, this is exactly my point…I’m talking bout toes, tongues, elbows, knuckles, whatever…. You can reach sexual gratification w/out penetration. Hell, even his kneecap can bring about an “O” if used properly!
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this
Dan your list left out the most important part, the brain. If you aren’t wired for each other you’re just hunching in the air.
Foots I disagree on you having to tell me. I could find out alot about you before we even hit the bed. By the time we hit the mattress I’m just fine tuning my observations and putting desire to logic. It’s not that difficult if you’re observant. I’m alot of things but a selfish lover I’m not. I’d rather spend the time to learn you up front because while things may morph you pretty much are what you’re going to be. Like carpenters say, measure twice and cut once. LOL And finding those special little kinks is all the fun.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this
I don’t see it that way at all jus playbign ared,u knw. I luv a woman that moans loudly!! Silent enjoyment p** me off!!When a woman is moaning and granting,saying ughs and ohs,it gets my juices flowing. I had this 40sme lady i lied to one time when she asked me,who u live with, i said with a roommate.She seemed dissappointed and said, i prefer when u live alone coz im noisy!! With queen,we arent as noisy as we want at home coz of the kids but when we go on retreat smewhere,the helpers are alwayz looking at us in the mornings with strange stares.I understand that.I have a tendency to bang my feet and head against the walls.And queen has this loud unique wail she does.Its hilarious to imagine how dyck and pudsy get so excited when they rub each other in a special way.
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this
Kym you grab my braids..arch my back high for you…. YES! girl that is my s**….I zone out when I hear that song!
Foots Girl I did not know you had it like that….Gone and school em girl!
But yall making it sound so frequent and easy to do…I dont think it is. That O takes some time and work…A G….o..that is. Not a “man in the boat” one…..
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this
Dan your list left out the most important part, the brain. If you aren’t wired for each other you’re just hunching in the air.
Amen Truth, heck your entire 11:24 was on point.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this
@Truth
I did not leave out anything.
There’s a difference between sport fugging and making love.
In sport fugging, I don’t need her brain…at all. (Physical reaction)
As for making love….that starts and ends in the mind. (Emotional connection).
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this
I have a tendency to bang my feet and head against the walls.
melo, I have really amused myself with the visual of this.
P.S. Stop lying to people. LOL
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this
Dan, bet you get more mindless “sport fugging” than anything else. To find someone to use simply as a depository is crude. Hell to even term it as “sport fugging” is crude! SMDH!
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
October 22, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this
I find this topic funny. I agree with Halle about controlling my own “O”! I have never had one via “pole in hole” style. I only get them by oral manipulation of the man in the boat or a silver bullet! Since I control the silver bullet..I prefer it over a man any day! I can put it away when I am done. I do not have to talk to it, deal with its BS, listen to it speak or lie…and I know its not diseased! LOL I am guranteed an “O”…now what guy can deliver that? LOL Sounds like a win/win sitauation to me!
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this
Dan I assume any woman I sleep with once I’m going to sleep with twice. With that in mind I put in the same amount of work whether its sport or other. I’m older now so it doesn’t take me that long to read the signs that pop up. If I want a nut I can do that without a chick. When I’m with a woman I want her mind because everything else follows. Unless its a prostitute, which I don’t do that, we’re going to get to know each at some level. Like I said, when it comes to sex I’m all in so I have to know what I’m getting into. Sometimes the best decision I ever made was to pass.
That’s how alot of guys get caught up. They get fixated on her body when they should concentrate on her mind. Slay the head and the body will fall. LOL
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this
Since I control the silver bullet..I prefer it over a man any day!
Staceye, whoa.
Leggs, LMAO. Get it said girlfriend. smh
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this
Truth can get it.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this
Truth, my post was eaten, but I definitely agreed w/your 11:24.
WD, feed the machine some oil or whatever it is it eats. Some insightful posts are being thrown in its belly never to be seen.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this
P.S. Stop lying to people. LOL Ive heard there are pple who draw blood or do other not so common things etc when doing the act.I find that harder to believe than what i said.When my body has electricity in it,it responds by jerking,huffing and puffing.Mentally,queen and i let go,we let it rip.I can understand single females not doing that coz there is a danger when u break up,the guy(more often than not) spreads/reveals ur bedroom history and antics to other folks,jus to disparage u. We dont have that issue hanging over our heads.
By Foots
October 22, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this
Truth I’m all for exploration, but I’m also for show and tell. Telling doesn’t have to be “Okay, you touch me right there and it makes me feel this way”. Telling is as simple as him listening for my breath catch if he touches my left nostril. If he’s paying attention, he knows that he found something, but I already knew that my left nostril was my spot. I just told him through my reaction rather than through my words. Just an example. Telling isn’t always about using words.
But that can take a while. Some sessions call for that. Some call for knowing exactly what to do and how to do it.
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this
Staceye I think we are related…seriously!! lmao!!
have never had one via “pole in hole” style. I only get them by oral manipulation of the man in the boat or a silver bullet!
Girl that is my best bud…the silver bullet…1 min flat I am out of there. lol!
By Dan
October 22, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this
@Leggs
Actually, it’s been on a decreasing scale, with an inverse relationship to age.
Younger, yep. Best believe that I was at it, and didn’t need to know more than a name. I’m cute, can’t help it.
As I’ve matured, the sport is no longer in the chase that’s easier now than ever, so the thrill is gone.
I’ve racked my numbers, satisfied my fantasies, so I’m good.
@Truth
I never needed to sleep with a woman more than once (caveat: when I was younger), I was in it for the chase. And I tried new stuff with each different chick.
Of course, a repeat performance was guaranteed, but my mindset then was: why?
I wanted the newer model, the next thing, etc.
Now, that desire for her, her and her, is no longer there.
That’s why my lady friend can trust that I don’t stray, regardless of distance. I’ve had my fill.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this
@Leggs
Actually, it’s been on a decreasing scale, with an inverse relationship to age.
Younger, yep. Best believe that I was at it, and didn’t need to know more than a name. I’m cute, can’t help it.
As I’ve matured, the sport is no longer in the chase that’s easier now than ever, so the thrill is gone.
I’ve racked my numbers, satisfied my fantasies, so I’m good.
@Truth
I never needed to sleep with a woman more than once (caveat: when I was younger), I was in it for the chase. And I tried new stuff with each different chick.
Of course, a repeat performance was guaranteed, but my mindset then was: why?
I wanted the newer model, the next thing, etc.
Now, that desire for her, her and her, is no longer there.
That’s why my lady friend can trust that I don’t stray, regardless of distance. I’ve had my fill.
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
October 22, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this
Ared I only like things I control! LOL
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this
melo, I meant the part where you said you lied to that 40 year old woman about having a roommate.
Stop lying to people!
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this
LMAO….this is funny
i have never ever been with a women that did not first make up in her mind what she was going to do with me….i never had to say anything because she would let me know in certain terms or gestures if i as doing it right or totally wrong….i have also never been with a women that did not start it…..i have all the back in forth funny because women want it just like men….sometimes they want it quick and hard…other times slow and easy…but above all esle women want trust in the men they share bodies with….
By Binford2K8
October 22, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this
Staceye You sound like a bitter man! Sure you ain’t tickling yer prostate with said silver bullet? ;p
I’ve only been with a few girls that verbalized what it took to get them to the Promised Land - and it’s so much hotter when they do. Hey, you can maybe find a new crack in the code …but at least you have Old Faithfuil if nothing else. Shoot, I’d damn pull out a power drill if it helps you get to happy town - but don’t damn say NOTHING when it comes to your own pleasure!
For whatever reason, many women cheat themselves sexually. Whether it be they don’t know their bodies or their head shuts down the ability to orgasm. Damn shame I say.
I always want to please my woman first. But I am proud to be a man: simple and uncomplicated. Damn world could be falling down around me, I could be on fire, woman could be ugly and missing appendages saying the most vile stuff EVER, and yet, the path to happy town is always easy to find!
Advantage: MEN
ps… Wednesday is a damn day!
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this
Staceye, I stumbled across a blog the other day from a girl who calls herself “Black Mamba”
The black mamba is the largest venomous snake in Africa. (2nd largest venomous snake in the world).
Is that what you are now???
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this
Good recovery Dan. Age sometimes bring maturity.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this
Dan Your post has me thinking of that Gym Class Hero song Cookie Jar
I like girls, and they like me they look so good in their satin jeans,said you can be my one and only, I want to be faithly but I can’t keep my hands out the cookie jar.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this
Shoot, I’d damn pull out a power drill if it helps you get to happy town
LMAO!
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this
Foots thanks for the clarification. I understand and agree. Thats what I was talking about. Learning by observing. So what do you like to do with that left nostril? Nevermind. LOL
By Foots
October 22, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this
Rell sometimes they want it quick and hard…other times slow and easy…
That made me think of that day on the blog when I said I was going to tell my SO to “don’t do it you love me, do it like you just like me a lot”. Well, I went over there after work for a pit stop. I left with injuries, a migraine and a patch of hair missing. Now I know that I can’t say stuff like that to him. I’m surprised nobody called the police. Hell, I’m thinking that I probably should have. LMAO!!!
By MELO
October 22, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this
hey Mamba, have u serioulsy considered donating ur organs when u die?? The scientist may be able to research and find out (for future generations sake),why phine wmen like urself get in the game,get upset and burn out and end up lesbian or worse.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this
sorry that should be..
I like girls, and they like me they look so good in their satin jeans,said you can be my one and only, I want to be faithful but I can’t keep my hands out the cookie jar.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this
Newsflash, the man who killed his wife and twin boys was attacked in court by family members. One family member escorted out by police and all proceedings stopped!
By Dan
October 22, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this
@Kym
Oh no.
Not the Kid. I never once in my life lied about my intentions regarding sex.
That ain’t how the game gets played. And learned that lesson out the gate.
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this
Sometimes you just have sex and sometimes you make love. Same act, different mindset.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this
Thanks for the laugh and the visual. That is PRECISELY what I’m talking about. Sometimes, it’s good to throw “love” out the window and simply get raw all the while still respecting your partner.
Dan, that’s what was missing in your “sport fugging” post!
By Kym
October 22, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this
Leggs He got the death sentence.
By Beautiful
October 22, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this
eighty comments already! y’all some horny lil devils. lol.
go halle! i’ve supported you from day one. keep up the good work. your haters are your supporters! they just don’t want to admit it. :-) and by the way … your hot!
O’s … looking forward to my next one. it’s gonna be a doozy! lol. i have always controlled mine. will only bust it at the right time. will tease him with it. he loved it!
hi bloggers!
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this
Now I know that I can’t say stuff like that to him. I’m surprised nobody called the police. Hell, I’m thinking that I probably should have. LMAO!!!
LOL. Go Foots. Yeah, when I do push that “button” it’s when I know that we don’t have to be anywhere for a very long while! And it does help if I know the neighbors are gone. LOL
By Kym
October 22, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this
Dan Dont go all deep on me your words in the post triggered that song in my head.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this
remind me this afternoon so i can tell u hw remote/virtual sexx wrks in africa.For men,this can be so much fun.
By M.
October 22, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this
@The Truth
Good posts.
@Blog
Everyone is on point today…Im just taking notes…
By Binford2K8
October 22, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this
Beautiful Why in the HELL would you control it? Honestly, that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I want every O to be so intense that it looks to her I got taser-ed or flopping all around like a fish that jumped it’s bowl.
“Tease him” with it. Whatever works for ya. I’d rather blow like a run over fire hydrant. I don’t care what a woman thinks in that regard.
Call the cops, I don’t give a damn ;p
By Beautiful
October 22, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this
binford i see that you didn’t get the point to my post. i refuse to explain what i meant. not doing that anymore.
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this
Foots Well, I went over there after work for a pit stop. I left with injuries, a migraine and a patch of hair missing
Damn girl…He was a wild a* beast for real! What were yall doing!! Patch of hair missing..I like it rough…but damn that’s too rough I would have had to fight his a*!
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this
Sometimes you just have sex and sometimes you make love. Same act, different mindset - Donna Reed. <== I wholeheartedly agree with this
By MELO
October 22, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this
Why in the HELL would you control it? i think i understand what sme of these females go thru Binford.They get smbody to give them the fixx but he is not the model that she has in her head.So they supress all enjoyment.They will have sexx more as a chore.Its ridiculous. Thats why u see them opting for bullets and such.But some men do that too when they go thru a drought.Imagine masturbation,its just a release. I’d never heard men openly talk about masturbation like they do on this blog until i came to america! I wld nevr do it unless i were in prison maybe!!
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this
Blow Me, too funny. I took it figuratively, not literally. From good old hard core sexing to fighting. I’m cracking up.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this
Foots/Blow
Damn girl…He was a wild a beast for real! What were yall doing!! Patch of hair missing..I like it rough…but damn that’s too rough I would have had to fight his a!
It happens. I know that I have ended up with three braids in my hands during a session.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this
Leggs I can lead to the reverse. Wrestling on the bed like you are five years old and pillowing fighting that can lead to the wall sweating.
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this
@foots…..next time you need to come up with a safe word if he starts getting to wild….like ice cream daymit….i said ice cream….lol…..we all need safe words or taps when the poo see starts to feel like that killer…..i love the poo see where the women has control over the kegel muscles…feels like a lil hand in there just squeezing will you pushing…..WHAT!!!
By Foots
October 22, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this
Blow I didn’t I had the energy to fight. He took all my energy and got up to cook dinner. I was comatose for about 35-45 minutes. When I regained consciousness, we ate and had a nice discussion about some business ideas we were throwing around, like nothing ever happened.
He gave me what I asked for. I just know not to ask for that again.
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this
Melo if you were in prison you’d be getting someone else off. LOL
Last gf I think spent alot of time mind fugging me. She’d call telling me she’s throbbing or something and mentally I chalked that up as another round. She didn’t have to do as much physically because she always kept that thread open mentally. Plus it was very physical and I needed more time to rest and recover. I’m getting older so I had to finesse her more. LOL She never said no though and was always ready. 1:00 am, 2 or 3. Just touch that thing and it was on. LOL The thing I’ll always remember about her, besides 2 years of mindblowing sex, is how she could climb in bed and just get right into a perfect spot. she was like your favorite jeans, she fit perfectly.
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Poppa G. so true, oh and I think it’s smart to get a “safe word” established, just in case things go awry, LOL
By Hot Mamma
October 22, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this
What’s Poppin’ Folk?
I told you’ll bout Big Jimmy, he keeps me content. I gotta bust one at least everyday to keep my sanity.
Haven’t found a guy that’s as accurate and quick as Jimmy yet. I don’t go for a lot of fumbling/ laziness or sloppiness. Jimmy lets me control the flow and degree. So guys just can’t compete.
Melo
Did you say Mamba is a carpet muncher? YUCK!!!!
By Kym
October 22, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this
Lets try this again. It can lead to the reverse. Wrestling on the bed like you are five years old and pillow fighting can lead to the wall sweating.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this
Ok, everyone, this topic should not die. It’s too interesting to not have continuous posting. To spice things up, where was one of the craziest places you reached an “O” outside the bedroom?
By Binford2K8
October 22, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this
“I’m thinking about taking that new chick from Logistics. If things go well I might be showing her my O-face. You know: Oh. Oh.”
It’s all about the O-face!
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this
Ok, everyone, this topic should not die. It’s too interesting to not have continuous posting
Leggs, no blogging bout it, be about it!
Skyrockets in flight, afternoon delight!
LOL
By Foots
October 22, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this
Rell next time you need to come up with a safe word if he starts getting too wild…
We actually did establish one early on when I first learned how “enthusiastic” he could be. I had to tell him that this is NOT Cirque du Soleil, I’m not trained in all that stuff. But that day, I basically gave him permission to turn it out.
By Chink
October 22, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this
*if you were in prison you’d be getting someone else off. * Hilarious!!
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
October 22, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this
Afternoon All! WHEW! I see ya’ll got it jumpin in here! I am speed reading and commenting all at once!
Kym totally agreeing with your 1:28 and Truth your 11:47.
Ya’ll keep it coming in here, it’s getting heavy
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this
Leggs I would liked to have had one last night in the hospital parking deck but you know…sign
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this
We have to blog about it, it’s today’s topic (LOL).
Like the concept of “safe words.”
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this
sign??? Danggit…siiiggghhh. (sigh)
I need love.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this
Oh and forgive me Terry Bradshaw(Football God-Amen-Amen) but watching men in tight pants score touchdowns or that sound that the helmet make when a lineman gets a awesome hit on someone. Pause the game. Hit Tivo. Cause we are going to have to miss a few minutes.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this
do we have a blog doctor wise?? i see a lot of ladies are hyperventilating already,see MO and BLOW above…if anyone here goes into cardiac arrest,ur employer and urself may be in deep legal trouble. M i see u,ladies lets have respect for others in the office..no bullets are allowed in the cubicles..the carpet is getting dark spots/spoiled all over coz of ur actions…
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this
Rell like ice cream daymit….i said ice cream….lol….. You are too stupid for this…lmao!
Ok this brings me to another point or rather question. I assumed that most women know how to use their kegel muscles?
Fellas, have you been with someone who did not know how to use them?
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
October 22, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this
Leggs To spice things up, where was one of the craziest places you reached an “O” outside the bedroom? When I was younger, my ex-boyfriend’s driveway…on top of the car! Mo is now so ashamed!! LOL!
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this
WD
LOL @ Poppa G. so true, oh and I think it’s smart to get a “safe word” established, just in case things go awry, LOL
We have one…lol. But, She weighs about a buck and a quarter, so I worry about throwing her into the ceiling sometimes. Throw in the fact that she spent most of her childhood in gymnastics, she likes to try out some crazy things. The word had to be established…sometimes for my sake….lol
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this
Foots Girl I am over here laughing
IS ANYONE LISTENING TO FOOTS…SHE IS OFF THE CHAIN TODAY!! LMAO”
He took all my energy and got up to cook dinner. I was comatose for about 35-45 minutes. When I regained consciousness,
Omgosh…I ain’t gonna hate. You doing the damn thing…Sounds like all in fun! I need to get loose. You are bring a whole new meaning to BEASTLY FUGGING….LMAO!
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this
Donna
I would liked to have had one last night in the hospital parking deck but you know
You and Mase still trying to get one in the public or something?…lol
Leggs
I think that I may have mentioned this one….
On the balconey of one of the midtown condos, while people in the nearby office building watched from their office windows.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this
Leggs I refuse to answer..I am still on probation for that “incident”—-j/k
By MLL
October 22, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this
I’m in control of my O’s…It’s always good when we get it at the same time……I’ve only experienced having a female ejaculation once though…..squirt…squirt…
By Foots
October 22, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this
Leggs Dugout of a community baseball field. Only thing was, we didn’t know there was going to be a game that day. Maybe those kids have forgotten all about that by now.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this
i remember this cute,brown long legged chic i used to knock off in the car,just be4 i came to the states.She was generous with her stuff,open to parking lot/car sessions and very sweet. So whenever i wanted it,i wld pick her from her job in the city,go to her suburb and right there by her nearest shoping center,we wld get entangled.WE usually did this around 7/8 pm when it was getting dark but there was always a sizeable number of pple still walking and going to the grocery stores.That is what made it exciting coz it seemed we were doing it, right there in full view of the crowd but also mindful and fearful of being caught!! All i needed was for her to lift her skirt a little,get her to tilt her car seat backwards and, remove her pants to knee length,enough to allow 14 to slide in there..The chic had a deep hole,goodness!! The steam from our breathing would cloud the car,making it hard for eavesdropper passerbyes to really get a handle of what was going on inside the car.But im sure the car motions indicated to them that smething tender,nice and luving wld be happening inside. I have always been an edgy person and a woman who likes to explore always ranks way above the coy and timid ones.
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this
To spice things up, where was one of the craziest places you reached an “O” outside the bedroom
me and mw got a crazy idea one day while at a local laundry mat….no one was there or so we thought..so we are in the bathroom doing us and a mexican cats open the door and just about ish himself…lol…i said dayum dude close the door i will be finish in a minute…..LMAO
we have killed most strip club parking lots..lol……movie theater…..her office….my car….285….85….lol…i will stop there
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this
Foots
Maybe those kids have forgotten all about that by now.
Contributing to the delinquency of minors…lol
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
Poppa Public…private…heck it don’t matter. For the past few weeks he has spent the majority of his nights sleeping in a chair beside his father’s hospital bed. The very few times that he did come home he was so glad to be able to lay down, all he did was sleep. sigh
But it’s all good. Our 3rd anniversary is next Wednesday and he promise to have dinner with me. Maybe he will have the energy to throw this bytc…girl a bone.
By Hot Mamma
October 22, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
In a reggae club…in a dark corner. Still makes me weak in the knees to think about it. WHOAAAAA!!!
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this
Truth You are stupid..
Melo 14…what? I know not inches…That’s a water hose…Too big. You handing out hysterectomy instead of O’s! lmao!
I thought I would never say it..But that is WAYYYYYYYY too much!
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this
I’m am literally hollering over here.
I’ve had a few, but this one is outstanding. On my deck buck nekkid in the snow. For someone who doesn’t like cold, I had a blast that night (stays in my mind like Truth’s friend’s encounter w/the pineapples. Lasting impressions! Had another pulled to the side of 285.
Yes, I remember that PoppaG. Since voyerism is interesting to a point, I would have been glued to the window.
My
By Foots
October 22, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this
Poppa We tried discussing “safe phrases” too, but they were too funny to work. By the time we got to “I can’t believe it’s not butter”, “I’m RICH, Bytch!”, and “You tole Harpo to beat me!”, we were on the floor.
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this
cracking up @ You tole Harpo to beat me, LOL!
By MELO
October 22, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this
That’s a water hose…Too big
if i ever decide to have a tatoo,it will be right here above and to the left of my pubes,above my groin and below the navel.It wil read mandingo,so u see the sign and get fawarned when i strut stiffy 14 around and u deciding to lay wit me.
By This just in
October 22, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this
I hate to break in and change the subject, but, the genius lady down there in momania just informed us that the most dangerous part of car surfing is falling off of the car. Yea, pass this on, so that we might all car surf safely, thanks genius lady and thanks AJC!
By M.
October 22, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this
@ Binford2K8
LOL Office Space….
@Melo
You are hilarious….
By M.
October 22, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this
@ Binford2K8
LOL Office Space….
@Melo
You are hilarious….lol
By M.
October 22, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this
@ Binford2K8
LOL Office Space….
@Melo
You are hilarious….lol
By Kym
October 22, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this
Foots Well there is You Win , Hercules, Hercules, and Peanut Butter Jelly Time!!
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this
Donna
Congrats on the 3rd anniversary!
We will enjoy big number 10 next May in New York. There is a bed & breakfast in Brooklyn that we use when we go up there. It is close to the A - C train. It is owned by Monica Greenwood, former editor of Essence magazine…(They own B&B’s in Washington, DC; Cape May, NJ; and New Orleans, LA as well).
Our room had a jacuzzi in it.
Leggs
That wasn’t my only outside encounter. I’ve had a driveway session like Mo…and one in Grant Park. (But I was young then, and it didn’t take long… :(
As I told Cee yesterday, I don’t ever remember being embarrassed about anything.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this
I’ll add
As a young ‘in: back of the bus on the way back to school after the game.
Coach wondering why everybody standing up!
As an adult: Nothing better than a matinee of a crappy movie…
Gotta be right under the projector so the nosy b******* don’t get in ya bidness…
Or the quickie in the ATM while “refilling the machine”
By Dan
October 22, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this
I’ll add
As a young ‘in: back of the bus on the way back to school after the game.
Coach wondering why everybody standing up!
As an adult: Nothing better than a matinee of a crappy movie…
Gotta be right under the projector so the nosy b******* don’t get in ya bidness…
Or the quickie in the ATM while “refilling the machine”
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this
*blank stare *
By Kym
October 22, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this
Ohhhh try this one..Eat the cake Anna Mae!!! Naww that could lead to give me the cake Ike!! Give me the Cake!!
By Foots
October 22, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this
Kym Eat the cake Anna Mae!!
Girl!!!! You almost made me swallow my tongue on that one!! ROTFLMAO!!!
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this
Foots
Ours was a funny discussion as well.
We thought of a “color Purple”, too.
You shole is Ugly, it didn’t survive the cut…lol
Oddly enough, the first phrase that was decided upon came from the late Rudy Ray Moore(He died Sunday October 19, 2008)…(I’m not gonna say it, though)
By Kym
October 22, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
Melo 14 are you using the metric system or something?
By M.
October 22, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this
@Kym
Did you say metric system? LOLOLOL
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this
I don’t know many who are impressed with 14. And talking about it just comes across like you’re lacking. LOL
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
Dan
As an adult: Nothing better than a matinee of a crappy movie…
My best friend worked as an usher at a movie theater during our high school years. So, I got into a lot of free movies.
One time, I remember going into Home Alone on a Wednesday night (the smallest crowds of the week) and find not one but 2 couples having sex. One was in the back row and the other was in the front row. They were the only people in that house at the time. They didn’t pay me any bit of attention….lol
By Foots
October 22, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
Kym I just assumed that his decimal place needed to be moved one place to the left. We make typos on here all the time.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
Those who have had an outside encounter has done so on more than one occasion.
Was it Dolemite! (LOL). Whew!!
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this
are you using the metric system or something
remind me,ill answer that qstion towards closing time.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this
I remember going into Home Alone on a Wednesday night (the smallest crowds of the week) and find not one but 2 couples having sex
I should make a note to check the seats better when I go to the movies!
By Kym
October 22, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this
Foots LMAO>>>> Decimal places run amuck..LOL>> Girl I am about to put you in timeout. LMAO
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this
I just assumed that his decimal place needed to be moved one place to the left.
Foots, ouch.
But yeah, dudes who brag on their dyck (size, stroke, name, etc) are the worst.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this
Leggs
Was it Dolemite! (LOL). Whew!!
No…lol. It was the title of one of his comedy recordings.
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this
Thank you Poppa. Three down and 54 more to go.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this
PoppaG, I am slapping myself on the knee. I just googled his name and my hunch was correct. He’s the only person I knew of that died Sunday. Too funny.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this
Given the seating in the theaters, I take a towel with me.
So, while I can’t speak for anyone else….
It ain’t the seat you need to worry about, the cupholders be ruined.
@PG
I’m telling you…the movie doesn’t matter.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this
Aww phooey, so much hunch wasn’t correct…cool!
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this
*I should make a note to check the seats better when I go to the movies! *
If you only knew! I helped him clean in between shows from time to time and the stuff that we found ranged from disgusting (used condoms in the seats) to funny (dimebags and brass nuckles….who brings brass nuckles to the movies?).
We found a money clip containing 7 stacks one night. We turned it in and the owner came back for it. He gave up $1000 a piece for being honest. We were 17 year olds . $1000 was like a lot of money.
To give you a grasp of how long ago that was…a gallon of gas was 89 cents…lol
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this
ared thats no brag.Its my shoe size.Like u said early this morng,it is what it is
Now to answer ur qstion Kym since there is instigation twards me me and im boiling inside,the taste of the pudding is in the eating U too doubting kiaras,ninas,kianas,kimoras,shwarties
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this
thats no brag.Its my shoe size.
So you slid a size 14 Stacey Adam shoe up in there? Get out of here. Your story could have been just as complete w/out the 14 reference. Give me a break.
PG, thanks for the tips man! I’ll pay better attention indeed.
And $1000 is a lot of money to me now, don’t sleep. LOL
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this
In a movie stall at Insurrections behind Checkers. I was wearing linen and came out dripping sweat.
In a childs wooden game set in germany, while it was snowing.
In my car parked off Cambellton Rd.
On my buddies pool table, and he walked in. LOL
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this
Dan
I’m telling you…the movie doesn’t matter.
I was confirming your argument with a different precedent that I saw. They used freaking Home Alone !!
The theater did have the seats cleaned by the Stanley Steamer people periodically
Thinking of those days We used to play a game where would would change the names of mainstream movies into porno movie names
For example..Forrest Gump became Forrest Hump
Heat became..well, Heat..lol
By Foots
October 22, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this
Poppa $1000 is like a lot of money right NOW!
By Kym
October 22, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this
Melo Honey this is the blog..you can be 14.,1.4,.14 whateva floats your boat.
PoppaG 1000.00 is alot now heck.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this
So you slid a size 14 Stacey Adam shoe up in there
ARED,why u dissappoint me like that,u one of the more cerebral on the board!! He was named after the shoe size girl,get it!! Why i gotta drum it into ur head like that..spoonfeeding???
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
ask beautiful, ared,she knw 14’s origin and how the name came up and when,presumably.I hvn’t hit her, YET,in case u wondering……
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this
He was named after the shoe size girl,get it!!
melo, I got it. What you didn’t get was the sarcasm surrounding it. LOL
Dudes who name their equipment are uber lame. We didn’t need to know that. LOL
By Kym
October 22, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this
Oh lawd Peyton Place is on again..on the blog.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this
1000 is like a lot of money right NOW
lol…my point was that I was a teenager with no bills (lived with my parents..no utilities, either), I wasn’t married, heck I didn’t have a steady chick then. That money wasn’t spoken already spoken for, like it would be now.
Gas wouldn’t take much of it, either. Back then, $5.00 gave me more than 5 gallons.
I didn’t mean to imply that it wasn’t alot of money now…but it was alot given my stage of life at the time
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this
ask beautiful, ared,
hvn’t hit her, YET,in case u wondering……
I’m good over here, thanks! Just trying to keep my lunch down! I believe you! Uncle, uncleeeee!!!!
LOL
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this
and just like that, I am off movie theaters, LOL ick !
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this
Honey this is the blog..you can be 14.,1.4,.14 whateva floats your boat
blog??,u and i knw that,why do i detect juvenile envy and jealous in you.Its not that serious,is it??
* who name their equipment are uber lame* in real lyfe,maybe so but my 3.19 2nd paragrph can scrtch ur itch,jus in case…
By Dan
October 22, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this
@ARed
The naming of the Wang has emotional significance.
It could be done by the first woman you loved, or just a favorite name given by “one of the many”.
But it’s sentimental in nature…not necessarily raunchy.
By GAYMEN
October 22, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this
@ Truth…Movie stall booth in INSERECTIONS…..That’s were men meet with men for SEX!! FYI! SNICKER SNICKER!
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
but my 3.19 2nd paragrph can scrtch ur itch,jus in case…
melo, I’m good thanks. I’d like to keep my uterus in tact. LOL
Dan, I still feel it’s lame and reeks of insecurity.
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
Ared uber lame. LMAO
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this
WD
and just like that, I am off movie theaters, LOL ick !
Well, Wise, I recently read a study that stated that women’s purses were the nastiest things to touch.
The study tested the bottoms of women’s purses I don’t know why they do this but 85% of them tested positive for fecal matter. All of the money in them tested positive. The explanation given is that women put the purses on the floor in bathroom or on the sink counters and get the bacteria on the bottom of them
My point is that you can’t avoid germs or bacteria
But if you want to get rid of your money because of this, you can send it to my address of 555 Mockingbird Lane. j/k that is not my address - It is Herman Munster’s address
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this
come on. it was a joke. I don’t have 14….I wish I did. u still love me..
By Kym
October 22, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this
Melo Dear heart jealous of what? Dude trust me I am not sweating you or your entourage.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this
PG, you’re just full of useful info today. LMAO @ Hurmann Munster’s address.
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this
Gaydude it’s ok to go in with a woman on your arm. Stop trying to recruit. LOL
By Teresa
October 22, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this
The Blog is reallly funny today. BLOW where ya at? I’m still at home waiting for the plumber
By MELO
October 22, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this
3.52 waz fake MELO…..
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
I don’t have 14….I wish I did
I think we all figured as much. ;-)
By Beautiful
October 22, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this
haven’t had time to read all the posts
am i the only one who controls their O’s? no one has every said not yet, not yet! cause when they bust, 10% of the time that’s usually the end.
come on!
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this
3.52 waz fake MELO…..
Oh, it’s like Face Off now…
By Wise Diva
October 22, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this
stop stealing folks, identities, LOL that is so shady
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this
Speaking of movies Blue Ridge has a drive in theater that we plan to go to the next time we are there. I bet we can get away with a whole lot more there than a regular theater.
By Teresa
October 22, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this
@DAN check your email…your gonn have to holla at Blow for the second requst
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
it’s ok to go in with a woman on your arm.
I’ve seen plenty of women in Insurrection and Southern Nights (I was surprised to see so many in Southern Nights.
Mrs. PG got those stupid furry handcuffs from Insurrection. I’m not a big fan of those cuffs…lol
By RELL - selling attention time
October 22, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this
@gayman….naw you lame..i have split many a yams and left thoats warm in those booths…..but it takes a punk to come take a shot….ya sissy
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this
Donna
Speaking of movies Blue Ridge has a drive in theater that we plan to go to the next time we are there. I bet we can get away with a whole lot more there than a regular theater.
There is a drive-in on Moreland Ave in Atlanta. Starlight Drive-In is one of our favorite places in the ATL.
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this
Donna there’s a drive in right on Moreland. Just take your gun with you.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this
seems i set off sme males insecurities as well.I’ll just call him lil fingure then..
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this
Donna
Speaking of movies Blue Ridge has a drive in theater that we plan to go to the next time we are there. I bet we can get away with a whole lot more there than a regular theater.
There is a drive-in on Moreland Ave in Atlanta. Starlight Drive-In is one of our favorite places in the ATL. 2 movies for the price of one, and you can bring in your own food without having to hide it. Kids enter free…(we enter free)
By Chink
October 22, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this
Beautiful
I wouldnt call that control …wouldnt you have to kind of stop to do that?
For instance if he keeps on moving wouldnt you still get the O even though you try not to…wouldnt he have to slow it down or stop and do something else as to not increase that feeling?
By Kym
October 22, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this
Dang Raqi they beat me to it..I was going to tell you there is always Starlight but the younger folks go there so your bum could wind up on You Tube or something…like Truth said you might have to bring your pistol.
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this
Really Poppa & Truth? I didn’t know that. Would I really need a gun? Or is it a decent place to go?
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 4:18 PM | Link to this
Poppa I have three sets of real handcuffs and leg irons if you ever need them. I have the key too. Just saying.
Rell thanks for the support. I didn’t know I had to be gay to go Insurrections. I hope we didn’t hurt her feelings.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this
*melo, we knew it couldn’t be you. The grammar wasn’t the same. Only one person can butcher a post like melo. LOL
But my question is, why does your member have to have a name at all? You value your brain, your hands, your mouthpeice…but I bet you don’t name those.
It just comes across as insecurity. It shows that one doesn’t have much to offer the world other than sex. If you have more going for you, you don’t concern yourself with such foolishness.
By GAYMEN
October 22, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this
@ Rell, I know you remember me. We had tons of fun in that booth.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this
Donna Reed, yes, you will need a gun if you have one. It’s a drive-in movie theatre off MORELAND…enuf said!
By Donna Reed
October 22, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this
Kym thanks for the bit of info. I will not be going there. LOL
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this
Mrs. PG got those stupid furry handcuffs from Insurrection. I’m not a big fan of those cuffs…lol
PG, I just cuffs for halloween. No fur tho. They do seem uncomfortable…
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this
My hands are salty buttery fingers now!! This has been a great day! I have enjoyed all the sexual education..
From bald spots, to Melo admiting he’s lying on his member…I tell ya it’s been quite entertaining! lmao!
By Dan
October 22, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this
@ARed
Think of it like a nickname.
You don’t give it to yourself, it’s given to you.
And even in that, it’s only referred to by name by your partner.
It’s not that serious an issue.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this
Donna
East Atlanta is really much better than it used to be. It isn’t that bad. The houses are way overpriced. The area isn’t that bad. I think that you have to be careful whereever you go these days. Trouble can find you in da’hood but it can find you in Alpharetta, too.
The last time that we went to the Starlight, people were had their habachi grills on the ground and grilling before the movie.
By Foots
October 22, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this
Raqi I’ve been to Starlight once, it was cool. My friends and I did a Ghetto Buffet. It may have been 20-25 of us in total. I mean we brought tables, lawn chairs, everybody brought some food, candles, tablecloths, music. We had a ball. Did we even watch a movie?? Starlight Drive-In
Amazon Dudes who name their equipment are uber lame.
LMAO!! I JUST had that convo the other night. I asked dude if he named his, and he said that real men don’t do that, naming was for lames. I didn’t know. I didn’t know… LOL
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
October 22, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this
Blow Me One minute huh…now that is a true quickie! LOL
Binny I am 100% woman honey!
ARED tell her to stop biting off my name! LOL yes…I am venomous! LOL
Melo I’d like to die with the organs I cam with! LOL
Hot Mama Hellz no…I am not gay! LOL If I wanted to touch T&A I’d touch my own!
Blow me You handing out hysterectomy instead of O’s That is some loving he can keep! LOL I have had the tilted uterus before…it hurts like hell!
**
By me
October 22, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this
I never thought you needed a gun to go to the drive-in off Moreland. There are tons of cars there watching the movies, and I have always felt fine there. My only issues with it have been: always remember to bring cash because they don’t take credit cards AND if it’s a popular night come early because there will be a long line.
By MELO
October 22, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
But my question is, why does your member have to have a name at all?
it does not,unless u think i go by melo in real lyfe too.
By Kym
October 22, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
PoppaG Adam and Eve sell a set(wrist and ankle) that are like velcro and elastic. Cheaper than anything you will find at Starship and more durable.
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this
Dang Ared You went HARD…on MELLY MELO. But True story…no one wants a hysterectomy!!
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this
Ared Only one person can butcher a post like melo. Ok thats 2. ROFLMAO
Gay come on man/bytch, nobody wants to start a bashing match with you today. Mf’ers like you give f* a bad name.
Donna its right in the middle of the hood. Once you get inside its a little better. I had the piece ready with a round in the chamber. Really
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this
It’s not only given as a nickname by someone. Some of you guys name your own appendage!
By Tazzee
October 22, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this
Interesting convo today.
Raqi sorry to hear about your father-in-law.
Speaking of movies - this past weekend I was introduced to hot popcorn and plain M&Ms. It took all I had not to buy some M&Ms to go with my popsecret homestyle at home. I’ll reserve that treat for movie theater popcorn. Although after reading you guys, I’m not sure if I want to go to any…or perhaps I just need to make sure I always sit in the middle of the theater.
PoppaG I never set my purse on the floor or counter in the bathroom, but thanks for that bit of info. Shoot, if the stall doesn’t have a hook, I go to another one.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this
Leggs
Donna Reed, yes, you will need a gun if you have one. It’s a drive-in movie theatre off MORELAND…enuf said!
Have you been over there lately? There is a Lil Azio with a patio. Coffeehouses and such on Moreland now. The foreclosure market hit that area hard. Churches chicken shut down…..
I just think that everywhere is dangerous. As you post regularly, you must keep those eyes open.
The drive-in is near Mt. Nebo (Church).
Truth
I appreciate the offer…lol. But I got some real ones. The furry mess is just girly…lol
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this
It’s not that serious an issue.
Dan, who said it was? If some weirdo named your member (cuz really what real chick is doing that?), why are you telling the world what you call it? The next chick is not gonna care or be impressed that your p*nis has a name, no matter where it came from. Just makes you sound lame.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this
Much like naming a car!
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this
Which one is the fake Melo the one with 14 in….lmao!!! funny!
Poppa Grande That part of town is not East Atlanta…it’s east atlanta the closer you get to 20. But it is right down the street from Thomasville Heights..Hell it’s walking distance. So you KNOW it’s hood. It’s like cops and robbers over there. It is the best place to smoke tree and drink you some of the sweetest $hit and relax…But watch out for the JACK boys..that’s the only thing.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this
Ok, Church’s chicken is gone…the area is definitely safer. Thanks!
By MELO
October 22, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this
wise u eating my posts and realy doing ur job lately,thats 2 posts in 2 days..
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this
LMAO!! I JUST had that convo the other night. I asked dude if he named his, and he said that real men don’t do that, naming was for lames.
Foots, but I mean it is tho! Tell me how that’s “cool.” Tell me, would you be impressed by a guy who told you it did have a name? I think not. LOL
But melo, all things considered 14 is not that bad, as it supposed to be descriptive, I guess. LOL.
By Dan
October 22, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this
@ARed
The name changes with the woman if she so chooses.
That said, why would I care what you think about what I do?
Your opinion, your life.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this
It’s not only given as a nickname by someone. Some of you guys name your own appendage!
Leggs, folks wanna act brand new today. LOL.
I’on care where the name comes from. If you keep it going, off to Lame City. LOL
By Foots
October 22, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this
Kym Adam and Eve’s? Is that a brick and mortar store or is it online?
By Chink
October 22, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this
Isnt there a prison/jail of some sort around that area….for some reason I recall seing one down there..Moreland Ave
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this
You know when your sitting on the toilet and give that courtesy flush. That blast of air that hits your azz is powerful. Apparently if you weren’t sitting that blast would go out about six feet. The amount of bacteria in a toilet is high so your blasting fecal matter all over the room, and possibly on your toothbrush. LOL I just saww that on tv the other day.
By SexyCool
October 22, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this
intensity is a B-E-A-YOOTIFUL thing…
By MELO
October 22, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this
Blow u said nothing today.Just coy,why?? U dont seem it tho…
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this
PoppaG, you’re definitely right. Lord knows I’m not really that myopic in my thinking. Trouble is indeed everywhere. Hell, bet it’s even in my subdivision so I’ll take that snide remark back.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this
Blow
I know what it was…I know what it is now. The area has changed alot. Cops and robbers are everywhere. Just read the cop’s blog on the AJC. You can’t get jacked anywhere that you are caught slippin’.
Leggs
Ok, Church’s chicken is gone…the area is definitely safer. Thanks!
Okay, Church’s chicken isn’t the measure. But things have changed alot, even down there. Keep in mind I live by AUC. The changes on Eastside have gone faster than the one’s on the Westside of town. Shoot, there is a condo development now, where Capital Homes used to be. Atlanta Housing Authority is closing all of the projects, period. Bowen Homes is scheduled to be closed by summer-Westside
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this
That said, why would I care what you think about what I do?
Uh, who was talking about you? Maybe the hit dog hollered today.
But lets see…out of all the posts I’ve written today, that’s the one you wanted to get on your soapbox on. I don’t remember referencing you by name in any my posts today.
You do the math.
In any case,
Float, float on….
By MELO
October 22, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this
ared, im not even good with inches and feet.I grew up on the metric and hooked on that to this day.Have not adapted well to american sysetm. But i enjoyed the visual of u and kym and the other ladies,trying to figure out the size of 14. Telling.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this
Blow is not being coy. She already said she’s in the cut laugh her butt off!
By abc
October 22, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this
Now, I think Blue Ridge is a nice place and all, but I don’t think you should consider that you can go to a drive-in theater way up in redneck hillbilly-land and expect to get away with a lot more. Depending on what you plan on trying to get away with.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
2nd post you ate of mine. I’m not liking it. PoppaG, I was saying that you’re right, and I know better than to be so myopic in my thinking. Heck, danger can be right in my subdivision, so I certainly will take back my snide remark.
By The Truth
October 22, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
Chink I used to work at the federal Pen right down the street. All your potential mates locked away safe and sound. LOL
By M.
October 22, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this
@Poppa Grande
Funny you mentioned that about the purse. Its funny when you see “apparent upscale women” with their purses on the floor…
By MELO
October 22, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this
Good nite pple.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this
I was being funny about Church’s chicken w/out the LOL at the end!!!!
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this
Chink
The Federal Penn is on McDonough Road which ends into Moreland.
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this
Melo I have been commenting all day. What do you mean I am being coy? I have played the cut..I said that first thing this morning. Coy and BLOW does not fit in the same sentence…..lol.
By AmazonRed
October 22, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this
But i enjoyed the visual of u and kym and the other ladies,trying to figure out the size of 14. Telling.
melo Is it more telling that none of us believed it was 14 inches? There wasn’t much to figure out. LOL
By Kym
October 22, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this
Foots Its online..they sell all kinds of toys, gadgets, lotions and lubes.
By Poppa Grande
October 22, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this
Leggs
look @ your 4:46.
I don’t think that it was eaten this time….
By Foots
October 22, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this
Amazon Tell me, would you be impressed by a guy who told you it did have a name?
Impressed? No. But actually wouldn’t have bothered me if it did. I kinda thought that most guys had pet names for it, that’s why I asked him. But I don’t have a name for my equipment either, so it wasn’t too surprising.
I do have names for my cars though Leggs. Onyx and Snow White. My first car was Blueberry, but it was my sister’s car before mine, so she named it. LOL!!
By Blow Me
October 22, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this
Good nite guys see ya in the A.M.
By Leggs
October 22, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone.
Enjoyed reading all of you today.
When desiring to do something kinky, sometimes the shock value on the recipient’s face is worth it!!
Stay ALERT!
By MELO
October 22, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this
is 14 inches long??
By Staceye AKA Black Mamba
October 22, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this
Poppa Danger is everywhere. Two weeks ago someone was killed in my condo complex right on my parking deck in the garage. And I live in a pretty good neighborhood. I missed the whole thing by 20 minutes only because my boy made me have another drink. You just have to be very careful wherevere you are. This economy is making more crime!
By Chink
October 22, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this
Poppa Bowen Homes is scheduled to be closed by summer-Westside
Wow Really so what are they going to about low income families? Curious
Truth I think I will past on them…But thanks for looking out! lol
Just wanted Raqi to know what was around that area.
Wait melo don’t leave yet I got say my byes first… :)
By prefer not to say
October 28, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this
My perspective, as a guy:
I would think most guys nowadays, at least the ones you would want to date, want or at least admire a strong woman. The problem is, a lot of strong men and women also have negative personality traits related to their strength: inflexibilty of thinking, “my-way-or-no-way” personalities, unilateral decision making, argumentativeness, judgement, etc. Those traits can be obnoxious in anyone. Men, perhaps moreso than women, often hit the road when they see that in their partners, because that can lead to intense social, career, and family pressure, and that often isn’t an attractive prospect. It’s not comforting in a partner.
Now, a lot of women are strong, assertive, what have you, but not enough to be jerks. Sometimes, that doesn’t come across in communication to a lot of male partners. Sometimes, guys who say they value a strong woman think they do, but associate the positive aspects of strength of will too intrinsically with the negative.
That might’ve been what happened in your situation. Of course, to play devil’s advocate: Did you ask him it was a good thing or a bad thing, or did you just decide he meant it negatively? You apologized to him. I’m just saying — maybe you’re right in that assessment, but it’s also one you make for him. That’s unilateral.