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Wednesday, October 8, 2008
No time for nice
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Yesterday, we talked about women taking the initiative to approach or ask a guy out. There were some pretty strong opinions for both sides of the argument. One thing that would certainly make it easier is when women actually seem approachable. The nice girls who are smiling and seem happy attract men but for how long?
We hear all the time that nice guys finish last, but does this ring true for women? It’s interesting how when I am nice to guys, they take my kindness for weakness. Then I have to show the feisty side when I am challenged. When this happens, why does this often turn the guy on more?
I don’t like acting like a witch, but I always find it interesting how I learn a lot about a guy when I do. Does the not so nice side seem to appeal more than the nice?
Do you think that when you date someone new, you go through a phase where you are seeing what kind of boundaries the person has?
Is it true that nice girls finish last? How do men interpret a nice girl’s behavior? Do they test her to see how nice she really is?
Ladies, do you find that being nice on the dating scene works best for you? Do you think being harsh with men is a defense tool to protect yourself? When do you use this tool? Does it work for you?
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