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Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Checkmate
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Dating, like a game of chess, sometimes requires strategy, finesse, and a touch of precision. You generally want to be clear about who to make a move on and when to make that move. When I have approached men, I have noticed that some are surprised, and some are genuinely flattered. I can’t remember a time when a guy was turned off , so I wonder why women don’t approach men more?
Is it upsetting the natural order of things to ask a guy out? When a woman does a “cold approach” on a man, does he believe she is acting out of desperation?
Guys, do you like being approached first? Can you recall a time when a woman asked you out and you were turned off? What is the smoothest approach a woman has done on you? IF you notice a really beautiful woman in Atlanta, which would you prefer: her approach you or vice versa? Which one brings the bigger thrill: chase or getting caught?
Ladies, what is your history with asking men out? Has it worked for you or backfired on you? Do you feel uncomfortable with the idea of being the initiator? If you have ever asked a guy out, what was the most creative or unique way you pulled it off?
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