Misadventures in Atlanta

By Blanca

July 25, 2008 8:03 AM | Link to this

Morning everyone!

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 8:06 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All…glad to see blog open on time

By Utopia

July 25, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

For some reason, and not knocking others, I cannot bring myself to that. Just too many wackos and seems like a last resort type effort. I rather enjoy meeting and greeting folks the old fashion way. A smile in passing, sparked conversation while waiting in line or using a common interest as a means to jumpstart a convo. Just my thoughts though.

By Utopia

July 25, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

Oh, Good morning…where are my manners?

By QC

July 25, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

TGIF…Morning Bloggers

Have a great day/weekend everyone

www.blackthen.com August news letter is available online

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 9:01 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone.

I’ve never been to a dating site! I can’t knock what I’ve never tried, but I’m like Utopia. Up close and personal.

By M'Karyl

July 25, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this

Good day all…I have never done the online dating thing…never did personal ads either…mainly because in almost all cases whenever I have met someone that I was attracted to it happened in a spontaneous, unanticipated occurrence…bam! oh, hello…uh, who are you???…so I guess that being the custom to which I favor then I do not think that I would be very open to online engagements and encounters…the click factor would be missing…but hey, I have heard of some situations working out and others that did not…to each his/her own.

By Rell

July 25, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

not to get off topic..but V103 should have had some of us on the air this morning…it was a mess..folks dont hear themselves when they talk

on topic…online dating…why not…..new day…you need new tools..

By SueinDouglasville

July 25, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

Hi all, Long time reader and lurker - first post! I am very passionate about this! I am 45 years old, married now thanks to my computer! I participated in online dating for about two years- however that was 9 years ago!I was never married and tired of the choices I had made. I was a single mom who didnt have time to go to bars or places to meet men. I could chat at 2 am in my PJs! I dated several weirdos and several who were deceitful. I mainly chatted in a chat room. They really didnt have the online services like they have now. I finally started chatting with a guy who lived two miles away. We have been together for the past 9 years - 1 year dating, lived together for 6 years and married the last three. We couldn’t be any happier. Always on the same page, great passion and he is a great dad to my now 16 yr old daughter! HE IS 10 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME. That is the best part! He keeps me young and pulls me away from work when I need to relax! I teach elementary school and three of my colleagues are online dating. Lots of dates but nothing amazing. One chats with them for a long, long tine before she meets them. She is in it just for sex and they all seem to be fine with that. The other two are looking for a partner but havent found one yet. In our profession, it is VERY hard to meet available men, so this is a great outlet! I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT TO ALL. But please be careful. We have a system set up. I am a dating buddy - in that they text me the address, phone number, etc..for all dates and updates throughout the night via text. Rule is that if I dont get a “Im home” text by 6am - we come and get them. So far that hasn’t happened. Meet in public places! And always bring your own car! I have left several times in the middle of dinner! Good luck all….there is someone out there!

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

Glad you’re happy SueinDouglasville. I know of only one person that dated and married their online partner. A good friend of mine does the online dating and she’s met some pretty decent people. I also love the “dating buddy” concept.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this

Good morning all! It’s friday, I made it!!! LOL

One thing about online dating is that you can be a picky as you want. List your dream criteria and if they person doesn’t match most of it, you can throw em back into the dating pool!

I did a free trial at eharmony and all of my matches were under 5’8. They don’t factor any type of physical on that site so I suspect it might high a higher troll ratio. LOL. I do value character above all else, but also know physical attraction is important!

I’ve tried match and I enjoyed it. Being picky worked for me and I had some really great convos with most of my matches that got to that point. I just get skittish when the whole “meeting” part has to happen.

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

For Online Dating To me it seems so hit or miss. I’ve never done it. My assumption…you’re meeting lots of desperados on these sites.

I have facebook & myspace. My contacts are people that I know. I don’t send friend requests to all hot girls I can look up. A friend of mine had a photo with a cute girl. I contacted her saying I knew her friend etc etc. If we ever run into eachother or whatever. She reached me back saying definitely to stay in touch. I don’t know much about this girl, but seems really fun and very cute. Who knows, this may be my first online connection possibly? We’ll see where this ends up. Again, random online contacts I don’t put a lot of faith in.

The fact that we both have this common friend that we know…does help weed out the psycho factor a bit!

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Welcome Sue.

I wouldn’t online date on any social networking site like MySpace. It’s free. LOL. At least with online dating site you are admitting you are looking for a date and willing to pay for that priviledge. Just seems like one more small layer of seriousness or something. LOL

By Rell

July 25, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

why do you get skittish red?…i mean after all the free attention he has given he should at least get a meet and greet

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

Morning everyone!

Hey QC how are ya? sis i need you to leave a comment every so often, k. :)

I’ve never did the online thing. Have one friend that married just last summer to someone she happened upon matching up with from school. They connected or shall say reconnected online and now are doing the Dang Thang.

Where is that Sunshine and Pepper chic?

By abc

July 25, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

A female friend of mine convinced me to try online personals. I went on 10 or 12 first dates, made 2nd dates with a couple of them. I found that they misrepresented themselves quite a lot, and were prone to becoming quite upset when I didn’t ask them out for subsequent dates, as they thought the first dates went so well. I guess in spite of my dim view of what first dates are all about, I showed them a pretty good time anyway.

I felt pretty bad for a lot of them. They seemed in need of being saved somehow — financially, emotionally, etc. It may have been demographic, as they were all in their mid to late 30’s or early 40’s and had children. I might not have given the online experience enough of a chance, but at the time I thought that was enough. It was kind of like setting up your own blind dates.

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

At least with Myspace or Facebook, you meet people who are friends with your friends. May have similar Unversity in common, same area, age, interests, etc. These programs at least you can ping someone you find interesting through someone and see what happens.

Match and Spark or these sites its just blind chance. Bet there are some really funny stories from meeting people from these sites too!

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

i mean after all the free attention he has given he should at least get a meet and greet

Rell - Your thought process is really weird.

By SAMIAM

July 25, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

i handle thangs pretty good on my own… don’t need no help from da ‘net in that area. smilin’ and poppin’ my colla lol.

By Rell

July 25, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

@ared….really wierd….and thats coming from you…LMAO…..chick you are strange never meet a bird like you

@abc I felt pretty bad for a lot of them. They seemed in need of being saved somehow — financially, emotionally, etc.

^^true

By SAMIAM

July 25, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

Rell

mayne, maybe she got som’tin to hide. lol

innanet dating allows for too many games to be played. you claim to have a “Coke” bottle shape, but in person you closer to a “2 Liter.” lol

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

chick you are strange never meet a bird like you

Good, just means I’m doing something right in life.

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Anyone meet someone from one of these online sites in person then they look way different than their picture!? That would be Crazy

By AmaazonRed

July 25, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

*innanet dating allows for too many games to be played. you claim to have a “Coke” bottle shape, but in person you closer to a “2 Liter.” lol

Sam, Nah. I’m my instance I’m just very cautious as a single female who lives alone. I take very little unnecessary risks and yes, online there is a lot of game playing and misrepresentation. I havent reached a comfort level with online dating. And I meet enough folks in real life anyway.

By Rell

July 25, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

@sam….naw dawg word on the street is ared is a dime…she is supposly model fine and we not talking tip drill here…feel me…..lol

@atlguy…yep i have meet several women on line that turned out to be straight funny…..too many horror stories to even go into…but i must say back when black planet first started out i had a thing of meeting chicks at the top of the week and sexin them by the end of the week….i was hot…meet them at dugans for a quick drank..things pop off and they would be slurpin and burbin on the way back down e ponce….

@ared…i am sure you are living your life hun,…..

By i'm swiss

July 25, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

I must be the luckiest mofo on the planet, b/c I tried online dating & had a great experience. Went out on several first dates (no horror stories), a couple of those led to 2nd, 3rd or more… and within 3 months met the girl I’m now engaged to.

It made sense for me for a variety of reasons — I hate clubs; I work in software development, so meeting women at work isn’t much of an option. Really about the best opportunity I would have to meet girls in day-to-day life would be playing in mixed-doubles tennis leagues… but even then, I’m so competitive that unless the girl was on my team, she’d probably hate me after I whooped that azz. LOL

Like anything else, it all comes down to how genuinely people approach it. Of course some people are going to misrepresent themselves online, but then again — people do that in person (clubs/bars/etc) all the time, too.

One thing I do know is that if not for online dating, I would never have crossed paths with my fiance, so that makes it OK in my book. It really can be a good way to meet people who are outside your normal social circle — which can be a good thing sometimes.

By QC

July 25, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee-me-me i’m good girl how are you? I’ve been busy and lurking a little here & there :)

By SAMIAM

July 25, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Red Hot

just sayin’

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Do your thang, Sue! Sounds like you guys are still in heavy flirtation. Yum. Wondering- do you have kids & will you tell them you met online? I have two recently engaged friends who fell in love online & have told very few the real meeting story. And they hope the scripted ones endure forever…

Usually a woman of my word, finally fulfilled a 3-4 yr old pact to try it. Yeah, shoulda kept stalling, just felt so unnatural. Plus I’m too colorful a character to translate well enough in such a flat medium.

Sneak out a lil early today y’all…

By Bit-O-Hunny

July 25, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

Let’s settle this misnomer shall we, speaking only for myself here, just because you use online date sites does not exclude you from dating in a more traditional fashion. I’ve used them both and they have both worked for me.

As for my success rate with online dating. Hmmm, have I met any weirdo’s, YES. Have I met same said weirdo’s in common places like LA Fitness, Publix and Chevron, YES. Anyway you look at it, ultimately you’re dealing with people. If s/he’s deceitful, then thats just who they are. A liar in person is no different from a liar on the net.

If you post a picture of yourself as 6’4”, athletic, and bald and when we agree to meet in person, you’re 5’8”, average with a receding hairline, you’re a p****** liar dude, period.

To my point, you are responsible for doing your due diligence to weed out the crazys as best you can. I meet men at social events all the time who drum themselves up to be waay more “achieved” than they actually are. I consider this misrepresenting oneself.

At the end of the day, do you, what works for you. For me, its 2008 and I’m not limited in thought or process so if the internet works fantastic. I also don’t really care what other people think of how I met my SO. I think that keeps people off the net b/c they don’t want to have to answer when asked, “How’d you meet?”

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 25, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Good morning Good People, do what you have to do to make it happen whether it be online, a personal ad or the good ol’ fashion way by chance or thru a 3rd party. I’ve utilize online dating and at first I was a little skeptical with posting myself (photo and profile)all out there in a room of strangers. The outcome was okay although there were no connections since most was out for the booty, I meet some really nice guys a few I still chat with from time to time. There was one guy that stood out the most, we corresponded via email for a month, we had some really interesting converstions, and a few things in common. He invited me to a bbq one weekend, I only had a head shot of him so I didn’t know what he really looked like just based on his picture he was nice looking, well truth be told he was a TROLL, the guy had sores and scabies on his hands and legs, he reaked of 5 day old liquor,he was disquisting. I tried to maintain from barfing while he offered me a plate of food and drinks. I left that bbq so fast like I was being chased by a skunk. That episode made me shut down my account and went back to doing things the ol’ fashion way. I can’t say I’ll never use onling again I just won’t for the time being. Fellas, women aren’t the only ones who use old pics to get attention online men do it too LOL, men lie about their height pumping themselves taller than they really are….if you’re 5’4 don’t say you’re 5’9 that is a LIE

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

swiss so cool to hear you story. But i seen a lil you’re off the chain w/ whuppin’ up on the court. silly

twosunshines is it two or ten or all whatevers today? I vote for whatevers.

QC I was downtown the other day, why does it seem hotter there than anywhere else?

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Bit Honey there is a Stigma about saying you both met on the Net. But, that might be changing. I’m 26 working a lot, travelling, etc. Although, I’ve never ventured to meet a girl from an online site…I have to say, its way easier to contact people with a hectic schedule. I usually just meet girls through parties or whatever. I’ve met so many girls that are just not my type at bars. I’m the first to say I’m really picky though.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

It seems like the online dating experience can be anything from one extreme to the next…I still think that there is too much unknown space for me…and I do believe that many ppl hype themselves up online in terms of their personalities and physical descriptions…but this is a new day and a new way of experiencing life…the future is now…but being a tale end baby boomer, I like the fact that I can choose to utilize old school or new school means and methods…it should be interesting in about anothr 10 years to see how much more prevalent the online scene is for making matches…

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 25, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

I agree Bit O Honey when I’m dating I keep all options open but when I on a date my focus on the date.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

naw dawg word on the street is ared is a dime…she is supposly model fine

LOL. What a reputation to live up to.

No one told you all that Rell.

SAM, I have met people from the computer before. So it’s not to say that I don’t. I did meet one person from match and it went well. I just wasn’t juiced to keep meeting person after person which is kind of the point. Like I said, the comfort level wasn’t there yet.

By Banana Head

July 25, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

I can personally say that online dating does work. I met an incredible, caring, and funny guy right here on this very blog! We’re all still people hiding behind these privacy screens. As long as you’re honest and open to new things, it very well could work.

By Bit-O-Hunny

July 25, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

ATL Guy you’re exactly correct. There is a negative stigma, mainly tagged desperation, that comes with saying that you met your guy/girl via the net. I wish people would admit that thats more of the issue than the net itself. We do a lot of things, more private and personal things via the net than post our pictures and profile and no one takes issue with that.

I guess you just have to get to a point where your happiness means more than what someone else could possibly have to say about it. If your girl was on the other end of cyberspace would you hesitate to connect with her?

In other words, f*** people, they always got something to say. Most of which are miserable in their own lives anyway. I know more people are curious about internet dating than will ever admit it. There are probably people on this blog with enigma accounts just to send out feelers. People are so funny.

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Other way around Have you ladies gone on an Internet Date to have the guy not be feelin you? Its like car accidents are Always the other person’s fault. But, with dating, did you find that maybe you were living up to your online page for your date???

By SAMIAM

July 25, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

Lady Red

gotcha!!

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

I too have met some nice people from this blog, but BananaHead are you 2 dating? If so, ^5!

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

@Cemeeli

The artificial heat generated from the asphalt and the tall buildings makes it feel hotter in downtown ATL, just like it feels colder in the winter…concrete jungle…and this all creates an urban heat island in the center of the city…

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

Off Topic

Did anyone watch the second part of the CNN “Black in America” series last night with the emphasis on Black men?????

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

m’karyl Lol i was trying not to look like that i was mad because it was sooo hot, but my face as like :+?. Yea, your right about that concrete holding the temps. When i was using Marta to commute the winter was brutal! I miss using Marta

By LisaK

July 25, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

Anyone meet someone from one of these online sites in person then they look way different than their picture!? That would be Crazy

I’ve tried internet “dating”, and that is the most common issue I’ve heard expressed—many people use photos that were taken when they were 10 years younger or 50 pounds lighter.

For various reasons, I decided it’s just not where it’s at for me; more power to those who choose that route.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

@Cemeeli

I miss using Marta…um, momentary loss of mind, I assume…lol… there are a lot of things that I miss about the ATL, and yes MARTA is a slight bit more efficient and expedient compared to the HRT here…but if I did not have to use MARTA, then I would not miss it…lol…man, I could use a TGIF on P’Tree with a pitcher of ritas or jitos…ppl watching and chillin’

By lurker

July 25, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

Banana Head A’ight, so who are you dating from this blog. Give it up.

By SAMIAM

July 25, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

m’karyl

Black in America yeah, i caught it…somewhat better than i expected. but still nothing new, stuff we already know.

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

Lil Mermama Hmm let’s go with whateva, so… aintgotnocents shall step in. Confucius say be wary of those who are too thirsty. Even with 2L on display, some wanna sip before knowing the flava…

By Rell

July 25, 2008 11:35 AM | Link to this

@ared how do you know what i heard…its my story and i am sticking to it..i heard you were a knock out period dot

@banannahead….dating someone from the blog…bout time we hear a good love connection from this forum…congrats and blessings love

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

m’karyl I saw some of it. What did you think of it?

By apple

July 25, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

HEllo, I have a OFF Topic question sorry. My SO & I have been together about a year now, he’s trying to start his own business, well he asks me have I been saving my money & Im wondering why he ask, He says he needs $10,000 & was wondering how much could I come up with. I personally think this is inapproprate, first we are not married & also he knows I dont have it going on like that, he’s had to donate to me a few times. AM I wrong in thinking this was inappropraite? Just want some feedback.

By MsM

July 25, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Hell, I met one in the streets, a few weeks later he was asking to move-in (WTF)… I can help you with your kids, pay “A” bill, blah, blah, blah. Honey, I don’t need you to help raise my kids, or pay a bill for that matter… hell I’m 45, take care of me and my kids and I’m not desperate by any means. Met MrM two years ago on-line, no drama, hardworking responsible man. He does because he wants to, not because I need. I love him!

By Atl Lady

July 25, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Other than my blog family here. I’ve never done the online dating thing. A couple of people I know did it without any good results. Both did however end up marrying someone, but the old fashioned way. One we’ll call ‘Vicki’ was introduced to her future husband by a mutual friend. The second we’ll call ‘Betty Boop’, met her husband at a gas station after they both had been on dates with other people that night. ‘Vickie’ was the type that got emotionally attached easily via online through chat rooms. I really couldn’t understand it since they never actually went on dates.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

@Sam

yeah, true dat…but I think that it is more about what the outside other gets from it…there are still a beaucoup of folks who have not clue to the world outside of their own experiental identity, who the other is and why…marginalized voices gettng some play and sound…

By Binford2K

July 25, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Binford is on eHarmony and has had a positive experience.

I’ve dated a few girls I have met on there. For the most part, they have the same problem finding people because of their work and schedules that I do.

The only problem sometimes is that people expect a “wow” factor when they meet in person. When you have been talking to someone for a month and have been conversing for a while, it takes away from the initial meeting.

Binford cranks up the TOTO in hopes of a good weekend.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Rell, because I know who I’ve met on here and they don’t go around talking that kind of stuff.

But hey, who am I to argue? LOL

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

You guys been dating for a year! Are you living together? More importantly, will you have ownership in this business? How do you feel about drawing up a promissory note? Wait, you said you don’t have it like that so don’t worry. If your gut tells you this is inappropriate, then it is. Whatever you do, do not co-sign. I know I shouldn’t tell you what to do, but do not co-sign!

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

@SlimOne

I thought that the angle of comparision/contrast not only between the two brothers from Little Rock, but also between two actual brother brothers was right on…it allowed for an analysis of nature vs. nuture, as well as individual accountability for choices…and too, it did not escape my notice that the two brothers who faired well were, of course, of a lighter complexion…not that this was a negative reflection on either of them…the same influence impacted the choices my father(the light skinned brother) who went to college and retired Deputy Chief of Police vs his brother(the darker skinned brother) who did 10 years for armed robbery in his youth…all in all, I really appreciated how the men were presented and how they presented themselves…

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

some wanna sip before knowing the flava… :)

aintgotno.butreallygot needed now that the video vixen is not on the inside. Made the call to check that.

Really a good call: be wary of those who are too thirsty.

Stuck. thinkin’. Baby girl ain’t thirstin’ afta no one, and no whatevers. Lol, is it that prettiful life?

…channeling Badu’s “Master Teacher” and Arie’s “The Truth”. …it’s a blessing to share his company.

By Raqi

July 25, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

Apple if he has had to help you out why would he be asking you for money? Is he really asking you to repay him what he gave you in so many words? IMO It doesn’t make any sense.

And unless you are going to be an equal partner in the business you should not be giving someone you have only dated a year that kind of money. Even if you could afford it. And secondly you should not be giving someone you are just dating that kind of money without a legal repayment agreement signed by both of you.

By SAMIAM

July 25, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

RELL aka CODE-CRACKA’

By apple

July 25, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

@RAQI No he’s not asking 4 me to pay him back, he hasnt given me that much, plus I have done things 4 him also, I didnt give him money but I do treat him well. Im not sure what/how he was expecting, I was just shock he would go there.

By Atl Lady

July 25, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Apple The answer is yes!! Unless he comes to you like he would any other investor and lays it out on the line that this is what I’m doing with the money blah blah blah. Don’t give him a dime. Ask him who else is putting up money. If he doesn’t say momma and nem or anyone else close to him, then you know definitely. But I wouldn’t do it on just because he was crazy enough to ask in the first place.

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

If Steve Harvey read this blog, he’ll pin you up against the wall SAMIAM for giving his name to someone else (LOL).

Apple, you got 2 saying the same thing!!!

By Bit-O-Hunny

July 25, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Regarding Being Black in America do you feel anything was gained from this program? If so, what?

By Raqi

July 25, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Apple Financially is makes no sense. Logically the whole thing makes no sense. Emotionally the whole thing makes no damn sense.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

@Apple

Uh-huh, they be right about it…otherwise we gonna see you on one of them judge shows talking about your bizness…and him denying it and saying it was all a misunderstanding and such…imagine that…of course, there are expceptions but I wouldn’t wna to be the guinea pig to find that out…

By Rell

July 25, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

so iam a wrong ared….

By Jamoca

July 25, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Hello everybody….and Happy Friday!

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

You got that right m’karyl!

Apple, you need help w/anything else (lol)

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

applehead My SO & I have been together about a year now, he’s trying to start his own business, well he asks me have I been saving my money… He says he needs $10,000 & was wondering how much could I come up with. I personally think this is inapproprate, first we are not married & also he knows I dont have it going on like that, he’s had to donate to me a few times. AM I wrong in thinking this was inappropraite?

Tell that dude to beat it and that the relationship is off. Make sure to be very clear about how he doesn’t deserve a broad like you - one that he can donate to on a few occasions, and whom when called upon for a little asssistance, can only manage to deliver a gas face. B!tchiz…

On Topic: On-line dating is just another rod in the fishing well. Even though you’re sure to pull up more throwbacks than keepers, you’ve got to keep that hook baited and ready for the set.

By Blanca

July 25, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Banana Head You met someone on this blog? I want details!

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this

Rell - Yup. I’m a troll. :-)

By NY2GA

July 25, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Apple

Follow your gut-

Also, be prepared for the possible guilt trip that your man may give you about how “you don’t believe in him or his dream” since you didn’t help pony up the 10G’s. How would you address that if it was said?

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

He says he needs $10,000 & was wondering how much could I come up with.

Selective reading chicks That means that he already has some bread but ain’t all the way to the 10 grand, not that he needs the whole 10 grand. Daggg…

A female ain’t got a problem asking a dude for sh!t, but as soon as he needs something, now it’s contracts, notes, sideways looks, d!ck ain’t that good, blah blah…

Personally I don’t ask a chick to give, loan, let me hold, a dayum thang, ‘cause I ain’t gon’ hear one word about what you did for me.

Yoll are killin’ me on here. LOL

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

Off topic —-> Prof whose “last lecture” became a sensation dies at age 47. This man had style and grace.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

NY2GA Also, be prepared for the possible guilt trip that your man may give you about how “you don’t believe in him or his dream” since you didn’t help pony up the 10G’s. How would you address that if it was said?

Yeah and also throw away that preplanned speech about how you were the solid woman who supported and believed in your man from the beginning, when his business wasn’t sh!t.

By Jamoca

July 25, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

@The Tigra:

…now you know I see you over there standing next to the well and everythang…but ummm don’t chu’ thank servin’ up the “wah-wah” in the ladle, will not quench “the thirsteh cotton-moufs”…. so here, take this bucket or just take em’ to the water(ing)ho’le…LOL!!!

@ Cee:

…would you happen to still have that flashlight on you, sis?

Hey, Blue!

By Atl Lady

July 25, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Blue KollaI didn’t think you could selectively read anything. lololol IMO If she could come up with the entire $10K, he’ll take the entire $10k. Otherwise, he would’ve said ‘I need $10K, but I have $3500.’

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Jamo/Cee/QC/Blog What up yoll… Excuse my manners… I was over here working the phones trying to drum up 10 grand. LOL

By Deeva4Life

July 25, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla so let’s flip the coin…let’s say you’ve been with a female for about a year (not married) and she has a business that she’s trying to get off the ground and she needs $10K and wants to know how much of it you can contribute, what would your response be? Just asking

And for the record, personally I don’t ask a dude to give, loan, let me hold, a dayum thang, ‘cause I ain’t gon’ hear one word about what you did for me…we’re in the same boat.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

@ Blue Kolla Well, I would not ask any man for that kind of money without some well established understanding…I have a friend of mine here in the VA that not only afforded me a reasonable place to live in his house (I do pay rent), but he also loaned my a grand to get some things on the table that I needed to have for my own small business…anyhoo, we signed a contract agreement on how much I am to repay him by the month on the loan and what would happen if I defaulted on the agreement…I would not take the money any other way…no, he does not need me to repay the loan, nor to pay him the rent…but I like holding on to my own and keeping it real…I appreciate the faith he invested in me…and our respect and trust for each other as ppl has grown…he knows that my integrity is absolute and that my word is my bond…that is a beautiful thing.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

AtlLady I didn’t think you could selectively read anything. lololol IMO If she could come up with the entire $10K, he’ll take the entire $10k. Otherwise, he would’ve said ‘I need $10K, but I have $3500.’

Hayo naah…

Situation: He’s been dealing with this chick for ONE year; he’s had to donate to her cause on more than one occasion; he asked her if she’s been saving.

Deduction: He knows, or is at least pretty dayum sure that, this broad ain’t… got… no… 10 grand.

By NY2GA

July 25, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

Well Apple, I hope that your man’s reaction is better than Blue Kolla’s. lol.

Good luck.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

lunch was boring but I got free lunch…so hay…

Hello Peacock* and feathers…good 2 know the fla weather is not as Texas. Even though last week n’ S. Fla that 96 felt like 126…the sand was a beaut.

Blue what’s real sweetie? you gotta get better on them manners

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

July 25, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon Blog Fam!

Somewhat on-topic - What is the measure of success for online dating? The comments about online dating success seem to stop at 2nd or 3rd dates, a phase of good sex, etc. Should that be considered our standard for a successful online dating experience? Online dating is big business for the site owners, but many people still seem to experience a lack of fulfillment when the dust settles.

Online dating is a good tool for those who are shy and need an environment to meet people. Online dating allows you to query a lot of individuals very quickly, but you still have to deal with the ‘real’ person. If a person has issues, then a perfectly written online profile will not protect them from those issues being exposed :).

Has anyone had any safety issues from their online dating experience?

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

Deeva so let’s flip the coin…let’s say you’ve been with a female for about a year (not married) and she has a business that she’s trying to get off the ground and she needs $10K and wants to know how much of it you can contribute, what would your response be? Just asking

Aight well let me just tell you then. If we’re living like we’re in it to win it (meaning I’ve already considered wifing this chick up) and trying to build for us, and the cash is flowing from me to her when she’s in need, then when I’m in need, especially for something that’s going to benefit us, then she better be passing over that money sack.

And to answer your question, she’s going to get whatever I can stand, if I’m satisfied with the business plan and the outlook. I’m not about to just throw some bread out on just any old flim-flam.

Ain’t like I’m blowing the 10 grand on some new bike or something.

M’Karyl Nice recovery with that 12:59. Your particular situation was, shall we say, a tad bit different from the original poster’s, with the main point being that she was willing to accept his charitable donation. See where I am on this one?

By lurker

July 25, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

Apple Seriously?! Surely you jest. Girl (assuming), you gotta be kidding me. You just want to rev up today’s posting because it’s slow.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

NY2GA I hope that your man’s reaction is better than Blue Kolla’s. lol.

And I hope that when dude saw that gas face on ol’ girl, that he didn’t think that is was just from that Chinese food that she had that day.

Ain’t nothing Cee… yeah I know, but I did apologize. ;)

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this

KP What is the measure of success for online dating?

Man under 35: Draws.

Man over 35: Great personality… and Draws.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

@Blue Kolla

I feel ya on it all…I was just stating regardless of who is lending or borrowing that it should all be done with some sort of written agreement of intentions…period…if ole’ dude wants to borrow some dough from the chick, then he should put it down on paper to keep it concrete…and still, one year does not always mean a lifetime committment…hey-ale, I am the queen of see ya’ and even I can kick it with someone for 2 years befroe I split…lol…nothing but love for you Blue…OXOXOOXOXOOX

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

BK, sorry, but I wouldn’t ask anybody for that kind of money. Nothing wrong with asking to sign a promissory note when in a relationship for only a year. Some of you guys can be tricky, sneaky and downright devious. This is what I heard on the street and on Judge Mathis! Yes, some woman can/are the same too!

By Rell

July 25, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

What is the measure of success for online dating?

getting that fiya head in the parking lot after some starbucks….lol…..or if she breaking bread off to you….can follow task and chores you give her…..lol….what esle could i say here…lol

By Blanca

July 25, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla OK I feel incredibly naive and/or uncultured, but what does “Draws” mean? (I have an idea but fear I’m totally offbase!)

Bracing for the response…

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

Lol @ lurker?

Jamoca not wearing the flashlight nor do i think i’ll need. I mean you know…

Blue get that wild mess of your lips/fingertips, today. selective readin’ chicks 1) If’n she has doubts we know she probably won’t be given it. 2) In the interim she’s questioning b/c she just wanted to know if this has been done before with success/return profit to the giver.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this

Somewhat on-topic - What is the measure of success for online dating?

KP - Not winding up chopped to pieces in someone’s freezer works for me! LOL. It’s like shopping for a car via net. You are countin on a lot of honesty from the other person. And it’s a lot more likely you’d wind up with a lemon!

As for real success, it depends on what you’re looking for. If you are looking to get back into the dating world and this puts you back out there, that’s success.

If you only look at things as success or failure, then yes, you’ve failed in all relationships until you are married, but you can still have a good relationship that didn’t end in marriage that you wouldn’t call a failure, per se.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

Aw Blanca, how cute are you? If you keep in context, you probably have it all figured out.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

Leggs Some of you guys can be tricky, sneaky and downright devious. This is what I heard on the street and on Judge Mathis! Yes, some woman can/are the same too!

And with that, you’ve said a mouthful. Have some coke to wash that down.

OK I feel incredibly naive and/or uncultured, but what does “Draws” mean?

Frequent sexual relations Blanca.

Ared Not winding up chopped to pieces in someone’s freezer works for me! LOL.

Pretty low standards ha? LOL Whole lot of things short of the chop-up that would make a date unsuccessful in my book.

Cee get that wild mess of your lips/fingertips, today. selective readin’ chicks

English can be as colorful a language as the artist speaking it. :)

By lurker

July 25, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

Apple be sure to go on Judge Judy once you passed your honey the money if you can’t recover but not Judge Mathis. As sure as the sky is blue, he’ll switch sides at the drop of a dime. He’s swayed too easily to be a judge and oftentimes gets his own feelings involved. A man/woman he presiding over is as shady as heck but attempts to redeem their character or change his mind, all they have to say is something like I’m a recovering crackhead but in back in school, he/she get’s a pass everytime. With him you never know. You can be winning before the commercial break, come back the verdict is going the other way. As long as you have something legally drawn or can convince it was a loan not a gift, you’ll get it back with her presiding. You get a lecture and a good slap on the backside for being old enough to know better, but retribution in the end.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

Not winding up chopped to pieces in someone’s freezer works for me!

See…and that can happen without internet dating…remember John Wayne Gacy and Jeffrey Dalmer (sp?)…uh-huh…not to mention the number of ppl who have met their demise or some other tragic end from an online encounter…the unknowns seem to outweigh the knowns…at least with an encounter face to face my intuitives can kick in…

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Blue Lol, did it on purpose. LOl…you took it. hehehehe.

You figure it out!

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Blanca

Draws = correctly spelled Drawers—> aka underwear, panties, boxers, boxer briefs, tighty whities, or a slang term for sex…”Man, I met this girl online and she said she was gonna let me hit dem draws dawg!”.

Rell I don’t even know why i even entertained your measure of success in online dating…getting fiya head in a parking lot is not exactly what i consider dating. BUT….I digress.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

The freezer thing was a joke, people.

But yeah, BK, never low standards, but low expectations.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

lurker but not Judge Mathis. As sure as the sky is blue, he’ll switch sides at the drop of a dime. He’s swayed too easily to be a judge and oftentimes gets his own feelings involved.

You ain’t bullshYttin’! Just like Spike Lee - supposed to be directin’, but wanting to be the star. Blah…

By melo

July 25, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

lurker i was just wondering what kind of a brain u have..to be spending time watching those kind of shows and knowing intimately about what goes on there.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

getting fiya head in a parking lot is not exactly what i consider dating. BUT….I digress

LMAO @ SlimOne. You can’t help but chuckle and shake your head.

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

Have any of you had a first date and couldn’t figure out if it was good or not!? I mean, everything went standard, had a nice time, but too early to tell if there are real sparks??

Sort of that pivotal moment where you’re like 2nd date or not…loose ends still out there feeling.

By Rell

July 25, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

What is the measure of success for online dating?

getting that fiya head in the parking lot after some starbucks….lol…..or if she breaking bread off to you….can follow task and chores you give her…..lol….what esle could i say here…lol

By melo

July 25, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

Aw Blanca, how cute are you? as in……? is she innocent really or maybe she is a just a recent vietnamese immigrant?

By MsM

July 25, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

While he knew what I looked like (posted pic), I met him sight unseen. MrM’s phone personality drew me, all I could do between the asking and the meeting was pray he was somewhat physically attractive. Turned out he’s very attractive, beautiful straight white teeth, engaging smile, and well groomed.

Question… Why do some women date only “white collar” (whatever!), some how they believe this makes them better men?

MrM is blue collar, financially stable, intelligent, in-tune with what’s going on around the planet, and extremely well liked/respected, and last but not least keeps it all very real/honest.

By melo

July 25, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this

fiya head, Slim….fiya is?

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this

Have any of you had a first date and couldn’t figure out if it was good or not!? I mean, everything went standard, had a nice time, but too early to tell if there are real sparks??

Sort of that pivotal moment where you’re like 2nd date or not…loose ends still out there feeling.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

@AmazonRed

We knew it was a joke…but it is a very eerie and real thing to think about…we can laugh at the absurdity…but by the Grace, we will never be in that place…so, yes we can make jest of it all…XOOXOXOXOO

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Bit O Honey, SAM regarding Black in America, my point exactly!!! why watch this smut? we learned nada last night. white ppl will always be curious about us … always. it’s like blacks are in a cage at the zoo. we’re fascinating to them and they wanna learn more. watch something that makes you laugh, instead of something that pysses you off! tv should be for entertainment purposes only, imo.

jazzy your last comment yesterday was fun-knee as heyal! lmao. where you at? lol.

typically women ain’t tripping for no reason..so stop saying we crazy…like we get there all by ourselves..puhlease…

hi QC!

banana you’re a liar. you ain’t dating nobody from here. if so, both of you would of made this wonderful announcement by now. one of y’all MUST be cheatin’. troll alert!

Blanca how did your blind date go?

By lurker

July 25, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

Melo the same kind of brain as you. Go back on historically on yaself. Got it? I can only find one subject matter with you. You broaden your first then I’ll do mine. K pumpkin?

By apple

July 25, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

Thanks Ladies

& BK-what he has help me with doesnt compare to what he’s asking, plus I have done for him also, maybe not giving him money but I have purchase a few things for him for helping me out, So whatever. & I’m be that B_ thank you very much. Im not investing anything with some man I dont even see my self with for the long term, & for some man who is not my husband, Nig please

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this

So seemingly selfish chicas make BK lose his composure… But only for a spell.

Feathers Let’s keep quiet bout what Tigra really doin on that wall… Let him bring me water…water for my …

Nemo You on ruler duty this afternoon… Good. This talk of draws will surely mischief make.

By melo

July 25, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

MrM is blue collar, financially stable, intelligent, in-tune with what’s going on around the planet, and extremely well liked/respected, and last but not least keeps it all very real/honest this perception of him and the accompanying delusion in female head is what results in u ending up in the frezeer. sk urself why this so nice man has had problems thus far to find a mate using the regular medium(asuming he is an adult man of about 31+/-) And after hw long did u make all those conclusions….hw do u knw really?

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this

Question… Why do some women date only “white collar” (whatever!), some how they believe this makes them better men?

MsM, I think many women feel they have more in common with white collar workers. I’ve always worked in that industry, and that’s how I meet people. I worked at a stadium where there were both white and blue collar workers. While I don’t date on the job, I would have dated either one. I did find that the blue collar workers made inappropriate comments and sexual advances. Not always overt, but sometimes so.

My “play cousin” is an environmental engineer making six figures. She married a UPS driver. He’s a really sweet guy too. I guess it doesn’t hurt that he looks like Boris Kodjoe though. LOL

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

MsM MrM is blue collar, financially stable, intelligent, in-tune with what’s going on around the planet, and extremely well liked/respected, and last but not least keeps it all very real/honest.

Thanks for the introduction… LOL

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this

Slim You are stoopid. LMAO

Ared never low standards, but low expectations.

I know that was a joke, but that ^^^ is sad.

By Atl Lady

July 25, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla You’re the laugh I needed today with your crazy self!!!! lololololol.

Atl Guy I’ve had those feelings only to realize that I should not have gone out with him again. We were better friends and dating took something away from the friendship. It got awkward for a little while.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

if so, both of you would of made this wonderful announcement by now.

Angie, not everyone feels the need to broadcast intimate details of their lives on this blog. “Wonderful announcement.” LOL. You need to get you a date, girly!

But I agree that person is a troll. If you claim to be a regular but can’t post under your “regular” name, we don’t care! LOL

By Bit-O-Hunny

July 25, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

I really miss The Truth and would love to read his comments about this ridiculous CNN special Being Black in America.

By melo

July 25, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

Im not investing anything with some man I dont even see my self with for the long term, & for some man who is not my husband, Nig please look who is talking…suddenly u see the light…

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

BK - If you say so. Low expectations only mean to not think of a date more than it is. You got girls getting dates thinking they are on a date with their husband. I don’t put anything on a pedastal that hasn’t earned the right. Dating is not the end all to be all for me. It’s dinner and a conversation and if it leads to more, great. But I’m not going to put unnecessary pressure on the situation just because a man sprung for PF Changs. Big deal.

By melo

July 25, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

Nemo has ur head twisted, maybe dykk whipped? Tell me u made an honest mistke…..hw u this aftrn…feel like jazz at sambuca tnite?

By melo

July 25, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

lurker watch u doing…feel like us meeting?

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

Melo, I chuckled at her post too. The curvature of her backbone straighened up rather quickly. ^5 Apple

Yeah, I miss Truth and my nephew. Are they vacationing together??? JK

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

ARed you silly! i don’t NEED a date … i need air. i WANT a date. anyhoo … dating someone shouldn’t be a secret. shyt, show his azz off to the world. this blog needs a serious relationship, marriage, and a baby to come outta here after all these years. we are here for a reason, not to blog everyday for nothing. most everyone on here is good dating material.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

mytwo Nemo is going nuts without her baby pup. So i’m all over the place…slapping wrists. forget about it!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

July 25, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

BK, man you are hilarious!

ARed, I’m glad you haven’t ended-up in someone’s freezer, but something tells me that you wouldn’t go down without a tussle.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

this blog needs a serious relationship, marriage, and a baby to come outta here after all these years. we are here for a reason, not to blog everyday for nothing.

See, BK, this is a prime example of someone putting way too much on it! LOL.

Angie, this is a discussion board, not a dating site! We don’t need all of that you’re talking about either. LOL

By melo

July 25, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

this blog needs a serious relationship, marriage, so u dissing Raqi seriously?..i dnt knw they swing…….

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

melo FIYA = slang term for FIRE… aka ‘da bomb’, dat good good, dat ‘make-you-wanna-go-home-&-slap-yo-mama Good. As in Rells example, “getting that fiya head in the parking lot after some starbucks”

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

ARed, I’m glad you haven’t ended-up in someone’s freezer, but something tells me that you wouldn’t go down without a tussle.

KP - LMAO! You got a for real laugh out of me today. Yeah, you are probably right about that.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

Ared not everyone feels the need to broadcast intimate details of their lives on this blog.

Hold up… stand on this box and say that again.

*If you say so. Low expectations only mean to not think of a date more than it is … But I’m not going to put unnecessary pressure on the situation just because a man sprung for PF Changs. Big deal.

Part 1… check. Part 2… You ain’t even getting to Changs if I don’t think that we would have a good time at Subway.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

Ared See, BK, this is a prime example of someone putting way too much on it! LOL.

You are killin’ me. I can actually see and hear you talking around and over old girl. What’d I tell you about that arrogance? LOL

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

You ain’t even getting to Changs if I don’t think that we would have a good time at Subway.

BK - Well, that’s why I don’t date guys with your attitude.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

You are killin’ me. I can actually see and hear you talking around and over old girl. What’d I tell you about that arrogance? LOL

That on you then. It’s all laughs over here. Maybe you should get that condition checked out. ;-)

By melo

July 25, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

BK and ARED u 2 have sexxual tension going on 4 along time.If only u can see beyond ur fake/contrived blog stand-offish attitudes,things cld really pop off tween u 2……and we can see the fruits of what Beautiful is talking about.U just have to keep it harsh harsh..low low,coz this blog is just like in real lyfe,many haters too on here…u knw hw u females do when another is getting theirs…..lemme knw if i can provide u with safe sanctuary 4 that 1st ice breaker…..

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

wth?…Blue n’ A won’t yall get a room, just let me come by the next morning to have that free continental breakfast with yall. j/p

melo who is Nemo? stuck ,reading Who is he talking to? Not this Nemo?

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

I keep hearing about this education from the Black in America special on CNN

When are they going to do a White in America special!? I want to learn too!

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

melo, ared give me a break. raqi has nothing to do with what i just posted. and this is a dating site whether y’all like it or not. many, from what i’ve read, have been on dates and met on here. what else ya got!

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

ooppsie…melo now we are not gonna get put in the corner for the call out!

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

u knw hw u females do when another is getting theirs…..

Blanca this should be a topic, cus melo is speaking the truth.

but again banana is grown and knows who her REAL friends are and know who to keep away from her man.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

melo - How can you have sexual tension with text on a screen?

In any case, thanks but no thanks.

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

@ATL Guy

When are they going to do a White in America special!? I want to learn too!

Get real…that is such a dumb response, truly

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

and this is a dating site whether y’all like it or not. many, from what i’ve read, have been on dates and met on here. what else ya got!

LOL Okay Angie. I guess all I can say is “godspeed” to those who chose to go that route.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

melo like my brother say…Dayum sho’. Lol @ you thinkin’ in my concious. how da hayo did that happen?

Tigre…Intervention!!!!

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli/Melo has the same thought at the same time.

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

How can you have sexual tension with text on a screen? i understand ur contrived ignorance…too many females looking and they wl be quick to check ur moves if u make a stutter move…i’ll let sexxyL handle this…….

By Rell

July 25, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

@blue…you went here with the PF CHANG comment to ared…lol….that is her standard player you have to open that wallet to date her…lol….

@slimone…ummm i was joking you for one i thought would get the humor in it…guess you suffering from your monthy or pms..you have been unfunny these last couple of days

its friday folks lighten up

ared could you do me a solid and explain to me why blue attitude toward financing a date is not to your liking

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

M’Kary why are you so naive…I mean you don’t think I have social pressures or expecations as well?? For Real, we have issues too

By Atl Lady

July 25, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl You did exactly what he wanted you to do respond to his post. (He’s that other cousin the family don’t hardly talk about.)

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Leggs…dont’ remind me…

going to get a snack…this cain’t be.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli/Melo has the same thought at the same time.

So maybe they should rendezvous! LOL

M’Karyl if you opened Pandora’s box with your 2:55, I will hunt you down and beat ya! LOL

By test

July 25, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

test

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

Chill out…I ain’t got no shame in my game telling otay he is lame…who cares about that issue?!?!?!? And I am not naive dude…you be the too lame…so…shhhhh!!!!

By Blanca

July 25, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

u knw hw u females do when another is getting theirs…..

Is this to say women are jealous of eachother or that they try to get to the other woman’s man? Is this between friends or just female acquaintances? And really… I know plenty of men who would get with another’s girl if they had a chance. I can’t imagine doing something like that; not just because it seems wrong, but because I’m not into being someone’s sloppy seconds! ;)

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

Cee, two* is one brght up nemo,thght that waz a typo instead of me mwa,but she peeing right now and will check later to clarify….keep that bathrm door closed she in there….. Hw is demi doing….or is it Mo that wks with him…..both of u have tight tight stats…my infmant tld me……….

By test

July 25, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

test

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

@melo

Do yu really sense sexual tension…lol…sometimes you are too funny and real…maybe…the convos in here can get pretty heated…and ya’ know what that can lead to…oh well…makes you wonder who is on the otherside of this screen…size 14…ummm!??!?!? LOL

By MsM

July 25, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Melo: Not delusional. 45 & 51, married 20+, careers 25+ raised children. Neither of us had problems meeting others the “regular” way, we just happened to click with each other. It doesn’t matter where you meet, what matters it what happens afterwards. Both recognize the other early on, and we’re old enough to know BS when we hear it, see it and smell it, we don’t have to taste it! We’ve been together 2 years. Life is not absolute, but you get some pretty good indicators (or flags) along the way.

Amazon: I’m a 20+ year “white collar” professional. Believe me just because a man is “white collar” does not excluded them from being complete jacka** some have a sense of entitlement because we (some) women run after them like they’re “HOT COMMODITIES” I agree with you, and it applies to both sides.

Two weeks ago a “white collar” walked up behind me a took a bite for my behind, I felt his breath on my right butt cheek, how inappropriate is that.

For me the collar doesn’t matter, the person does… I asked the question because I have friends that are only turned on by “white collar” literally, will barely speak to others and I think they pass up some really decent men.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

ARed melo could not handle me.

Atl Lady :) you think in my pattern too huh. I know m’karyl was just sayin’.

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Hhahaaahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Cemeeli Lemme find out you are rocked to da core w/ realization meerkat don’ crept up in yo subconscious. Seekin solace in snacks! Told u don’t trust that membership package. But NO, you mixed it up w/ anutha futha delivery. And I thought he was gonna get a cussin’ before…

By Willie Dynamite

July 25, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

BK watch the Slant N Go

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Rell - Again, PF Changs is opening your wallet? A meal there would actually put a hurting on you?

But to answer your question, his attitude doesn’t work for me because he acts like PF Changes would have to be “earned.” I don’t operate that way. I eat at Subway, I also eat at the best restaurants in town. When we go out on MY dime (and yes, I’ve paid for dates at nice restaurants/activities) I’m not sitting up there wondering what you’ve earned in the time we’ve spent together. That’s such a juvenile way to behave. If you take the time to know the person you go out with BEFORE the date, then you don’t worry about whether he or she is worthy of Subway or better. And hey, if you made an error in judgement and someone is out just for a meal, what is the big deal that you dropped $50 on dinner. Big deal. Tighten the screening process then.

By Jamoca

July 25, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

@ Cee…

MyTwo, see how she bit down on that hook w/o the bait danglin’ off the tip…baybeh guh, everybody ain’t tryna bait you… Ms. Feathers needed that “handeh-dandeh” flashlight for her own personal use..’cause she’s now wonderin’ what da heyal she was thinkin’ about, when she let ‘em get away, but now I SEE!….

…and MyTwo, see how you just told on ya’ self w/ that one j/p…but ya’ know ole boy…he watchin’as you prancin’ ‘round that ole well….nah who da heyal is really thirsty?…LOL!!!…betta be water fo’ ya’ mind, just say it AIN’T SO!

LMAOfff!!!…@ Blue…see nah, what I told ya’?!

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

ATL Guy i mean really …

finally on topic. i dated online for about two years. had fun, but no prize obviously. won’t do it again for a long while. over it i guess. i’m back to the old fashioned way. but i have nothing bad to say about online dating. try it at least once. if you asked me which one should i try? i would say yahoo personals and match.com. when i get back into it imma try out e-harmony. i love their commercials. even though their fake, it makes me wonder.

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

takpat78@gmail.com i aint even saying none in public….

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

@ARed

So true…I spend my money that way I like to roll and if someone else feels that I need to earn the right to roll with them a certain way in order for them to spend it…well my dime spend fine on me my way…oh well.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

melo uh, you have an informant and you checkin’ Mo and myself, why? Tigre was telling me Nemo to get to the slappin’ wrists. She understands i’m everywhere b/c i’m somber w/o my chile.

Blanca if everyone is getting there’s i want ‘em too. That leaves me the last man standing…i’m okay with…as it says, “the last will be first”.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

ARed melo could not handle me.

Cemeeli - Heeeeeeey. Get it girl. LOL

LOL @ ATL Lady’s cousin comment.

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

You can have sexual tension with text on a screen. Racy emails that get you thinking “can’t wait till I get my claws on you.” You can get that tingly feeling by seeing their name come across your computer screen. Now, all that’s in my head is that dang song Computer Love!

By Rell

July 25, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

@ared…no it would not hurt my pocket..just wanted to get your view point

so your saying nothing in dating is earned…come on now you make dudes earn everything your time, number….etc….so yes you have to earn thing with men…women dont like when men make them step up and do more than play dress up an lay on there backs….your funny

you the main talking about a persons worth in realtion to you….again we can you are a shelfish person when it comes to dating…

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

Rello Rollo I did see humor in that. Maybe YOU’RE on YOUR monthly…But being the kind of friend I am…I do have some extra feminine wipes, pads, tampons, vagisil, anti-coochie itch cream, orajel (don’t ask), Dental dim and some medicated baby powder if you need to freshen your ballz up.

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Blanca you’re right on both. females are a trip!

a man is more attractive when he’s not available. kp why is that?

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

Simmer down M’kary…you cannot think that your race is the only one that needs a CNN special to learn for improvement. I think my race can look to improve too with some analysis. Am I off base here? This is not a challenge in any way…I’m throwing it out there because a few people now are bringing up this “Black in America” thing for whatever reason

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

I posted last week about how there are women who lost interest in a man only to have it returned when she realizes a friend is now interested.

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

size 14,i can handle anythang..i mean anaaythang……. MsM good for u and congrats.. * I know plenty of men who would get with another’s girl if they had a chance.* not me tho,but thats true,one of my boys once went behind my back to try to get my other wman(spare pudsy-ten yrs ago)she told me his moves tho.Once smbody i knw hits a wman,my sense of taste/smell for her changes…no interestwhatssoevr. m’karyl..yeah,a lot of times there isnt much seperating pple’s views on a subject,its just mental grandstanding…we need a get tgther to get sme of these singles to mix and mingle.. size 14 here it is…..!!

By m'karyl

July 25, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

Computer love…do do woop…LOL…had not thought abut that song in years…Peace out

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

sexy i wanted to say that, but didn’t want to hear it.

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

melo uh, you have an informant and you checkin’ Mo and myself, why? No,smbody just blubbed smthing..didnt even respond to signify interest/or non…kept it moving….

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 25, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Hello all…yes, yes…I am late as hell! I was actually working! LOL

MsM you got bit on the booty too? Well mine was in Savannah..and to his defense, it ws St. Patricks weekend on River St. and he was 3 sheets to the wind….his boy too. So I got double the booty bites! LOL But if you could feel his breath on your booty you either had on no clothes or his breathe was HOT (Halitosis Overloaded Trap)!

**

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

melo good lawd …u and that addy.

Leggs why when you posted that “Computer Love” reminds me of this outfit i loved soooo when that song was out.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Rell

so your saying nothing in dating is earned…come on now you make dudes earn everything your time, number

No, I don’t actually. If I’m feeling you, you get it. If I’m not, you don’t. It’s really not much more to it than that.

women dont like when men make them step up and do more than play dress up an lay on there backs

I don’t know what the hell you are talking about with this.

you the main talking about a persons worth in realtion to you….again we can you are a shelfish person when it comes to dating…

Again, you don’t know what you’re talking about. Selfish? How? I take care of the guys I’m dating and they also take care of me. It’s called respect. That’s hardly selfish.

You’re off in left field bro. I don’t even know why I waste time trying to explain to folks to clueless to understand. My bad.

SexyLeggs - Anyone can write racy emails. The sexual part coinsides with knowing who they are and what they look like, at least for me. Other than that, just text on a screen.

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

sexy that is true. after i found out my ex cheated, i loved him more that day than any other. weird

By Blanca

July 25, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

SlimOne Come on, don’t make me get the soap for that language! I don’t do crass. For real.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

Jamo i see and say, don’t go on that. k, chica?

who knows the S n’G. hehehehe

By Rell

July 25, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

@slim…..touche….but no i am NEVER on mine like that…you guys entertain me trust i chuckle inside on the madness of it all…..but you still fine to me….never ever in my long legged life have i seen a slimmy that comes packaged like yourself!!

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

u and that addy well if u challenging me to a tat a tat,u got knw hw to get in tch? fair……?

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

a man is more attractive when he’s not available.

Only when being admired thru a triflin’ woman’s eyes.

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Of course, I was referring to someone you know.

Beautiful, no disrespect here, but stop posting like that. It makes you seem crazy. Just not the response most would have when they found out their SO cheated.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

a man is more attractive when he’s not available.

Only when being admired thru a triflin’ woman’s eyes.

mytwo - A-freakin-MEN! Thank you for saying this because it’s always taken the wrong way when I do. LOL

By mqew

July 25, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

What it do blog peeps :-)

So what’s going on in here, I know I’m a lil late?

Ared & Blue okkkaaay Ceemee & Melo thas a lotta hookin up on this blog for a friday ;-)

Beauty maybe you’ll get your wish after all ;-)

LOL @ Blanca chiding Slimone

i loved him more that day than any other. weird - Beutiful that don’t sound right chica….

Anyone has any plans for the weekend?

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

mytwo uhm, we will not be slapping more wrist.

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

mytwo ^5. a true true friend wouldn’t do that. i can’t see deanna and michelle fennin for my guy. that would be like my sis wanting my man. ewwww

By Rell

July 25, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

@ARED…you hardly have things figured out..but whatever you keep what your thoughts with your sour arse!!

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

Nodding head at SexyLeggs 3:43.

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

you thinkin’ in my concious. how da hayo did that happen? i was whispering in ur ear….that reminded me of that song by the yang yang twns..and imagining u doing ur booty thang and shake whilst on my beside….

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

DB’s Coach Willie D watch the Slant N Go

I see it…

Jamo LMAOfff!!!…@ Blue…see nah, what I told ya’?!

LOL Shaddup…

Rell ared could you do me a solid and explain to me why blue attitude toward financing a date is not to your liking

Dude it has nothing to do with financing, regardless of what she says. With a chick like Red, control is the Big Joker. Red’s used to sitting in the pilot’s seat and dudes coming on board just happy to flew them skies, even if it means taking the co-pilot seat.

But being the man’s man that I am, I pilot all birds, and I ain’t about to give up the stick to any unproven co-pilot, passenger, or stewardess; regardless of how she looks or how fine she is. Betta show me some’n…

By Bob Smith

July 25, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

Online dating is the best way to meet married women who want to cheat on their spouses as much as I do. But you have to use specialized sites.

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

mqew, sexy yes, it doesn’t sound right, but it’s true. i can’t even explain it to myself. and on the other hand, wanted him out of my life fast.

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

If I show two lil itty bittys, can I pilot…JK…just couldn’t resist!

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

you hardly have things figured out..but whatever you keep what your thoughts with your sour arse!!

Riight, cuz treating someone with respect is such a terrible thing. Not wasting my time with someone who keeps points on what I’ve earned is bad practice.

Hardly sour, just don’t have time for head cases like you. Keep it moving then.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

mytwo i see, i see. okay.

mqew it is what it is…lol. I roll w/ the best of ‘em.

how you?

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 25, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Bob Smith that would be craigslist.

By melo

July 25, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Red’s used to sitting in the pilot’s seat yeah, i feel its just blog persona and perception on blog dudes part…she is real luving,feather and a dove…to a luving strong man!! sweet grl…trust me….any woman that meets a man to get her sky highy will just check in line…….

By Rell

July 25, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

@BLUE..i picked that up long time ago…i just like to be entertained by academy award winning actresses…i love the movies…and the starlet know as ared gives it up daily with the BS…BUT she believes it so i guess it is ok….lol

but nice break down….and i am sure she shoots for the ones she can control with her looks..body..etc.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

With a chick like Red, control is the Big Joker. Red’s used to sitting in the pilot’s seat and dudes coming on board just happy to flew them skies, even if it

BK - buzzer sounds Wrong. I’ve never had a problem letting a man lead. I simply date real men where the concern isn’t on trivial matters like Subway over PF Changs. And it’s hardly a money thing.

But yeah, keep on posting like you know me SO well, cuz you still don’t. Cuz all you lead us to conclude is that you’re not over dating the chickenhead set.

By mqew

July 25, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

Let me say again yall no ole married peeps w/ toddler can’t get out and paint it red, so tryin to vicariously…

Anyone has any plans for the weekend?

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

July 25, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

I posted last week about how there are women who lost interest in a man only to have it returned when she realizes a friend is now interested. Sexyleggs it’s called reversal attraction. all of a sudden looks interesting thru the eyes of someone else.

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Blanca I’ll take Dove please…anything else just dries me out. lol

Rell I’m non-venemous so its all good in my book. On serious note, been dealing wit some thangs…anyway, thanks for the compliment.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

Leggs If I show two lil itty bittys, can I pilot…JK…just couldn’t resist!

No. But if you’re my co-pilot, I will let you sit on my lap in the pilot’s seat. But don’t fugg up with the stick… because I won’t waste time hitting my co-pilot eject button, and calling up a new recruit from the cabin.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

in the cut, in the cut reaching for dap.

Blue we cool right?

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

applehead what he has help me with doesnt compare to what he’s asking,…

Doesn’t compare how, in amount or importance?

Nig please

Aight, I guess I deserved that one. LOL

.02 So seemingly selfish chicas make BK lose his composure… But only for a spell.

…now flashing my “I’m Human-get off my back-Only GOD can judge me- ….cast the first stone-I don’t give a dayum- what da fugg eva-I’m off to lunch” card at my.02 LOL

For real though, I was trippin’.

Blanca Come on, don’t make me get the soap for that language! I don’t do crass. For real.

What about sailor?

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

This Rell and BK exchange is clearly the dumb leading the dumb. Are they really up here posting like they know somebody? LMAO.

But whatever helps soothe the fragile ego, I guess. shrugs LOL

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

Just curious Rell. If I’m correct, you’ve never met ARed, but you keep talking about her looks and her body. Have you seen a picture of her????

By Willie Dynamite

July 25, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

Hey Leggs, saw the shout out late yesterday. da man had his knee on my neck and I couldnt respond. How you doing today.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

melo get off that. no ying yang over here!

By mqew

July 25, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

Ceemee I’m good chica. Gettin used to not at an actual job location. I quit to start my own

Ared I mean really, what is it? Why do they pick so… on you I mean. You read a tad bit arrogant, but so what? Are they intimidated because men are usually arrogant? LOL I know you got something going this w/e spill it…

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs, things that make you go hmmm….LOL.

mqew - There are certain types of men who will always have a problem with headstrong women who know who they are. Women with standards are a huge thread to men who operate in shaady ways.

Yeah, I have a jam packed weekend.

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

LOL. I’ll leave the stick alone. You said Betta show me some’n Like what? Don’t want to go astray and read more into a statement like that when asked at a later date. Please school…

I’m good WillieD. Thanks for asking.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs, things that make you go hmmm….LOL.

mqew - There are certain types of men who will always have a problem with headstrong women who know who they are. Women with standards are a huge threat to men who operate in shaady ways.

Yeah, I have a jam packed weekend.

By ATL Guy

July 25, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

Does ARED look rough or something!? Rell said he hears she’s a model…then she denies it. Hmmmmm, everyone keeps questioning how she looks. Which, end of the spectrum is ARED!?

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

Ared And it’s hardly a money thing.

Ain’t that what I said?

This Rell and BK exchange is clearly the dumb leading the dumb.

…howwooooo….. howwoooo….

Blue: Yo WTF was that?!

Rell: Sh!t, I don’t know.

Blue: Man that janky sh!t sounded kinda like a hit dog.

Rell: But who’s out here hittin’ dogs though?!

Blue: I don’t know, but the mofo ain’t holla’n for nuttin’!

We’re all dialogueing but I see that you want to throw insults. :/ WTF is that about?

Cee we cool right?

Cool as a fan. Why would you ask that?

By Beautiful

July 25, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

good nite kids! we’re hitting a lot of sales this weekend. kohl’s is having another good one. i need some new … oh nevermind. bye.

By Rell

July 25, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

oooooooo sexyleggs right on que……now what do you think the answer to that is…..have i seen a pic of the amazing ared…nope…but what difference does it make..do you have some vested interest in our exchange?

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

ARed is very attractive. I’ve met her. Guess this might be better coming from a guy (LOL).

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

mqew Congrats on the new endeavor! heck yea, that’s awesome!…

Anyone has any plans for the weekend?

uh, my “at home man” is on vacay so i gets to chill and or party how i want without havin to pay his favorite babysitter. So okay the girls have been text’n and comfirming i get my butt out of the house. One of my girls that broke off her engagement has gotten back engaged and so this weekend is the bachelorette soiree’. We’re hittin her spot first then off to ‘the strip’. Tonight i’m hanging for a min w/ some co-workers…they’ve been surprised at me commitment as well. LOL…

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

ATL Guy - You can find my picture here: AmazonRed’s Pic

But I really don’t see how it matters. shrug

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

We’re all dialogueing but I see that you want to throw insults. :/ WTF is that about?

BK, so calling me arrogant and all that is a compliment?

Dumb indeed. LOL. Don’t dish it if you can’t take it, kiddo.

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

Too much free time. Maybe if I post it in parts it’ll slip by mods… Maybe the third time will be the charm for these sentiments…

Nemo If you had a thingy with which to whip, would your whippins be disclosed here? And if I’m somewhere gettin’ whipped up on, would my whippins be disclosed here? And u tired of seein what evbody refuse 2 use?

Him feelin’ abandoned. Forgivin’ mama made easier w/ a lil treat

Pt 1

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

No vested interest, just curious, or would nosey fit you better. Didn’t mean for anything to be “on que”. I’ve been curious for a while cuz you talk about her features. I’m backing the fyck up!!!!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 25, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

ARED LMAO…no you did not send ATL Guy a picture of Wanda! Girl you are crazy! LOL

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

Thanks SexyLeggs, you’re gonna never make me come from behind my keyboard anymore tho. LOL

By Prootwadl

July 25, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

SueinDouglasville, your story is too funny because it’s similar to mine in many ways.

I’m a 45-year-old guy who had met several women in person who I’d met online (had some good dates and made a few friends but nothing serious), and then I met someone online who changed my life. :-)

I was contacted by a girl on Yahoo Personals. We wrote back and forth for a couple of months and got along really well, decided to meet in person and SERIOUSLY clicked (our first date ended with an hour of kissing in my car!), and we’ve also been together for 9 years (a year or so just dating, living together for three years, and married for five years this upcoming September).

My wife is almost 12 years younger than me, though, so we went the other way (too bad for me! :-)).

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

Leggs You said Betta show me some’n Like what?

For starters ===> morality, responsibleness, self-control, intelligence, independence, trustworthiness…

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

ARED, I am hollering over here. Literally LOL. My boss just walked out his office.

By Rell

July 25, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

@sexyleggs…you had a chance to chop it up with me so you know i dont take this thing here serious….it was just a question not coming at you like that love

By Atl Lady

July 25, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Don’t you hurt yourself out there. I can picture you now with credit and debit cards smokin’ in your purse. Have a good one just the same.

Ya’ll have a good weekend. Peace, Love, and Soul!!!

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

Staceye - I didn’t send him a pic of Wanda. That’s me. But I have been told I look like “her” tho. Good thing I have a sparkling personality. :-D

By mqew

July 25, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

Cute pic Ared

Ceemee Can I send mine where yours is?

SexyL what about you any plans?

By melo

July 25, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

And if I’m somewhere gettin’ whipped up on, would my whippins be disclosed here? u not the type to holla at ur gifts to pple,just saying based on my observ..Is that a cry out loud ……?

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

Hey, part of my post is missing.

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

Blue Cool as a fan. Why would you ask that? I came from the hip earlier and wanted to make sure i didn’t offend my flks. some don’t take well to me…it’s all gravy. If i have to stop bloggin’ and snap on the Lilies blame it on my…

By Rell

July 25, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

“The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it is the same problem you had last year.”

By pisces 08

July 25, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

LOL!!! @ ARed… nice pic.

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

OK, I gotcha BK. You guys talk so much sex here that I thought that’s what you meant. I appreciate the clarification.

Nope, child in Nebraska and no plans. I’m going to force myself to do something this weekend. Not quite sure what.

By Jamoca

July 25, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

@ Cee….

“Shug”….we gon’ have to work on our communication a bit mo’ betta….now, let’s find YOUR lane,shall we?…LOL!…lawd only knows why you ridin’ mine?…(now reviewing my blog job description)…

…and Blue done told me to shadddup?!…I lubb it when I’m right!…LOL!!!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

July 25, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

Rell I am going to post something crazy on your page! Wait and see! LOL

GA Man & Beautiful recently got struck by the Comment Bandit. t’s been a minute since I dropped by Foots and Slim’s pages….hmmm! I’m thinkin’!* LOL

By SlimOne

July 25, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

ARed LMAOOOO, you so wrong for that pic. Yo So CWAAAAZY!

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

I don’t “chop it up” much here. I really try to keep it light.

That definitely can be one way to measure success.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

pisces 08 - “I’ll rock your world!”

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

mqew mine is having visit w. family flks. And gettin the chance to go waterparks, ATV jauntin’, basketball all day. If your lil guy was hanging’ I know lil Frankenstien would be like, where da hayo is my mamma? Duece to this! lol

mytwo whuppin’ can be good sometimes. so what? I’m not all good all the time.

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

Why is everyone laughing at my pic? Is it the lazy eye maybe?

By Cemeeli

July 25, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Jamoca yea, i’m cool with that. And don’t have no quarrels with staying in my lane. Really.

By M'Karyl

July 25, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

@ATL Guy

Just got back to my computer…first of all, you lack the intelligence to know what I think…typical of an otay…secondly, you do not know my major or my background, which blantantly contradicts your ignorance…in fact, if you checked out a blog post from the other day…my comments again contradict your ignorance…we of the non-white experience are not concerned with the collective voice of the self-imposed mainstream…I advocate for all marginalized voices and white folks ain’t one of them voices…nuff said.

By Myspace

July 25, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Stac

What is their myspace addr?

By Jamoca

July 25, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Everyone enjoy your weekend(s)…..night people(s)….

By mqew

July 25, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Ceemee Naw, he’d be ok. I can’t wait till he’s of age to be shipped off.

Ared I think it’s the lips LOL

SexL Yearn is off too? Man, must be nice. Pleeze Pleeze get out there ;-)

Yall have a good w/e.

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

I came from the hip earlier and wanted to make sure i didn’t offend my flks.

*Ceeeeeee… Ceeee… Cee. Sometimes I don’t believe you. You know way better than that. This is **Blue “The Real” Kolla. Now don’t insult me with this type of talk again. LOL

Ared I didn’t send him a pic of Wanda. That’s me.

Well, I ain’t seen it, but I hope it’s Wanda Sikes and not Wanda Smith.

Leggs You guys talk so much sex here that I thought that’s what you meant. I appreciate the clarification.

I talk about a lot of stuff but when have you really seen me getting graphical. But then again, that could be mistaken for some of that talking dirty while talking clean that I was talking about. Hahahahaha…

By melo

July 25, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

nice weekend everbdy…lemme mondy, knw who got laid this weekend…….

By mytwocents

July 25, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Mocha Jus’ sayin… sho ain’t back there holdin’ up the wall…gotta filter those water bearers. Iguana bout to swang that tail at some unsuspectin’… BK goin round flashin folks… watch out…

Pt3

Be good y’all

By Blue Kolla

July 25, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

Yoll have a good weekend. I’m out, like the lights in Ared’s crib. LMAO :P

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. Have a safe weekend.

Love at first sight is easy to understand; it’s when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.

Stay focused and keey your drinking glass with you at all times!!!!

By M'Karyl

July 25, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

@melo

I was thinking about writing a paly based on this blog…lol…may make for some good comedy and such…????? what yu think

By AmazonRed

July 25, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

BK - It’s neither one.

mqew - The lips you think? Girl, the mens can’t get enough of those! LOL

By SexyLeggs

July 25, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

It’s neither of those Wanda’s!