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Friday, July 18, 2008
The Fast & the Frisky
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Sometimes I wonder if guys (I date) understand the concept of finesse. If they could only grasp the idea that a woman who wants a relationship doesn’t want to be rushed into anything she isn’t ready for.
Two weeks after meeting Knight Ryder and after 2 dates, he invites me to his place. I had already told him that I am not in to the house dating thing at this point. I preferred to get some face time in, and see how things unfolded. In other words, I am not comfortable being at your crib yet. That didn’t go over too well.
Then he sends me a text message referring to my lovely lips and how they would make a lollipop happy. Ok, I am NO prude, at all, but this was a huge turn off. We weren’t in the dirty text message stage. Not in my opinion. I wondered what was he thinking? Why the rush to take it there when we weren’t even clear we were all that compatible? Ok, I wasn’t sure we were, clearly he had figured out that my lips were compatible to, well never mind what he thought about my lips!
Guys, do you ever think about the timing of making your move? If you are interested in someone, do you try to make the dirty talk appropriate for how things are going? Have you ever dated a woman who was sexually aggressive? Did she come on strong with the frisky behavior? Was it a turn-off or turn-on?
Ladies, how do you handle the men who are too fast and frisky for your taste? Do you ignore it? Do you ask the guy to fall back a little bit until you feel ready to reciprocate?
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