Misadventures in Atlanta

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 8:14 AM | Link to this

if i’m casually dating someone, i would not vacation with them. the longest date with someone i’m dating will be a day and a evening. if i decided to vacation for a whole weekend with him, i will most definitely pay half.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 8:29 AM | Link to this

off topic since this is a dating blog, let me tell you guys about my date saturday. we ended up going to benihana’s in downtown atl. afterwards i treated ds to cafe intermezzo, which is one of my favorite spots. then instead of going to the boring movies, we caught a game of pool near my home. it’s always nice to see him. had so much fun!

By banana

May 27, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

Good morning…GUYS-is it a big thing for you to introduce the girl u been seeing too your parents….Does that mean you are serious about that relationship? Just curious to know what exactly does that mean too u guys..Thanks

By Cherry

May 27, 2008 8:50 AM | Link to this

Im taking my first vacation with my SO this week…He says he will pay for all the accomodations…He;s awesome..

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

banana if you meet the parents, you’re IN!!! ;-)

yes, he’s serious about the relationship.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

“Feeling Beautiful” - If you like Intermezzo, definitely check out Apres Diem (off Monroe Ave). Its similar style to Intermezzo, but they have a house DJ spinning with candles, couches, desserts as an International Coffee House.

I’m a guy and with you…movies are not cool Dates. Its just a distraction from eachother. Always better to do something spontaneous or interactive.

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 27, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

Hey Everbody!! I’m baaaaaaack

I hope everyone had a great weekend. Mine didnt start out to well but ended up great.

Lady J and Kinderbabe I know ya’ll are lurkin…I am so jealous right now! :0) Lady J I was asleep by 9pm Sunday night! LOL!

On topic: in my last relationship, we were horiible vacationers! Always had an argument! I’ll be taking notes on this one for the future.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 9:00 AM | Link to this

ATL thanks honey! i’ll have to try and squeeze that in. four more days.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this

Yeah I took a girl I started dating last year to my condo in Destin for vacation. I wasn’t Expecting her to go half and half since I invited her for the trip, but if she was offering to pay for some groceries or money for gasoline…something like that is really considerate. Its not about the money but more principle. From a Guy’s point of view, little things like this really get recognized

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this

Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had a good and restful holiday.

The last actual vacay I’ve taken with someone I was seeing was back in college and he was my boyfriend. He had come into some money and therefore paid for everything.

After college, I had a string of LDRs so the vacation was usually one of us flying to see each other.

The current man of the hour have discussed vacationing together this summer, but I neither of us want to broach the topic of expenses. I think we’re gonna pull back on that type of talk until we are more established. We did a lot of “couple” type things this weekend, but stumbled over that issue when asked what we were to each other from other people. Just proved to me that we need to not jump the gun on these things.

By Rell

May 27, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this

whats up loved ones

relly rell had a nice lil break…all i can say is my body is pleading for change…lol….

By SlimDiva

May 27, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

I agree with ATL. It’s the principle that matters the most.

When I’m vacationing with my mate I ALWAYS offer to contribute to traveling expenses including accommodations and meals. He always decline my offer, but he appreciates the fact that I offer to assist.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. Ok, I have another MIA that I’ll post a little later (but it wasn’t my date)!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 27, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

Good morning. As with all situations, good judgement must be used when making a decision to vacation with someone. All groundrules regarding the vacation should be discussed in advance in order to avoid an issue while you are away. Vacations should not be the norm for two people unless they are in some form of serious relationship. Otherwise, the vacation can be misinterpreted and mislead someone’s feelings (both men and women). It’s always good for both to contribute financially even if the man agrees to take care of the expenses!

By Lady J

May 27, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo!!! I left right behind you the sun didn’t catch me home!!! LOL Glad you came out!:) Happy Tuesday!!! I have had great experiences road tripping with SO…When we get to that point we are very cool and feel each other and can tolerate each other outside the city…It is cool…J

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

I’ve done alot of travelling with ex’s and if it’s woman that knows how to travel it can be fun. Not all women travel well. I can never remember money being an issue. It was more just going to go.

I’ve had a few exes ask me to vacation with them over the years, mostly because there wasn’t another viable candidate, but haven’t taken them up on it. It’s to much to spend a few days with a chick you’re not feeling like that.

Banana because you meet the parents means absolutely nothing to most guys. Especially if their local. You mean something to a guy when he utters these words “you mean something”. LOL Don’t look for signs, watch the road. The road is the truth.

Intermezzo is a real cool spot. Try going at night and sit out back with the candles. Real cool.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Good Morning all

Wow…GREAT topic. I just experienced this situation on my last trip. I can vacation with a GROUP of ppl and be cool it does not matter…Now 1 on 1 is completely differnt.

It’s to much to spend a few days with a chick you’re not feeling like that

Why did I have to experience this to know? I will never ever do that again even in a group setting. You have to have some type of connection to do the long distance thing. Vacation with a SO…oh yeah I have had a great time doing that…I love it! Surprise I did not end up with twins when I came back. lol!!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

because you meet the parents means absolutely nothing to most guys. You mean something to a guy when he utters these words “you mean something”.

Truth - Great advice!

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

the truth i have to disagree with you. the dude can tell those words to her, and her, and her, and her. but ACTION will always be the one to tell the truth. words mean nada to me. if he’s dating five women, then all of a sudden he takes one home … he just announced the winner to the fam.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

And what if he takes all 5 home?

Words do need to be backed up by action, but I agree to not read into things that may not be there.

By Kym

May 27, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

I am just going to lurk on this one. I am with Truth I have vacationed with a few guys and money was not the issue, it was a serious relationship so it was not about his or mine just our vacation money so sometimes he paid sometimes I paid.

All of the things about what messages does this or that send..I dont know I cant remember being that deep about this stuff. I guess I was more concern with do you really love me like you say you do..if so then all this other stuff will fall into place..done.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Hey In Here!

Mo i’m hatin’ on LJ and kindermama also. I could be doing alot of other thangs @ the crib right now!

Bella, I would vacation w/ someone i’m serious about, but by the time we even get to the point of considering that we’d already establish a whole lot. Said person would be my main squezze to sleep in the same room, period. Part 2 (Now the real question is???)

And how do you split vacation expenses with someone you’re seeing? I pay for the room/condo, he pays for airfare/rental, food/entertainment is either as in same as a date.

Last time i checked both he and i have bills/responsibilities back at home that are awaiting our arrival expected one person.

brb

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

Beautiful reach down and feel your nuts. Not there? I thought so. You’re imposing your beliefs on guys. If I was hanging with you for awhile and my family was bbqing I’d invite you over for some food. That doesn’t mean you’re in, you were just there. Slow down, put in some work and time will tell where that thing goes. Everyone’s looking for that one sign that “I’m the one”. It’s not just one sign, it’s the entire body of work.

By Lady J

May 27, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

yall I moved into another classroom and it is so complete and I am just sitting here chilling for real….

Ok who goes on vacation and isn’t prepared to split everything…This is a given for me for real…I wasn’t married long enoough to go on a all pd vacation from a husband…lol…Hell we even split the honeymoon I think or it was pd out the joint account…anyway stuff is too high to not contribute to something just to make it a more stress free trip…

By JoyMonique74

May 27, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

In my opinion, split the vacation expenses down the middle. I’ve taken a weekend road trip to Florida with a couple of EX’s and the norm was to establish who was paying for what before we debarked. Now, If I’m invited to travel and spend a weekend out of town, I’ve paid for my airline fee and my friend paid for all other expenses, like dining, hotel, or if needed, a car rental. I’ve offered and have paid for extras like going to a comedy club or concert…..it’s really about principle. Just be willing to do your part, when something needs to be paid. Enjoy the vacation and the company your with and just handle your business before hand.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

Again I’m with Feeling Beautiful on this one!

If I bring a girl to meet my Parents…its veryyyy Important. My parents are European so maybe a different culture, I don’t know, but its a very BIG deal.

On the follow up on my trip to Destin when I took this girl I was recently dating, this Bothered me & want your opinions…so we hit this nightclub and as we are leaving after partying, in her skirt with heels…hits her leg on the corner of an end table. Cuts it Open…bleeding etc. So we go to the CVS at 3am to get Butterfly stitches and some other things to help her leg. I paid for the whole thing. It bothered me the fact she didn’t Offer. Her injury, I paid for the night, then paying for her recovery?? It was one of those Principle things again. Just remember at that moment it kind of bothered me. Am I wrong for thinking that?

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

…sorry gang…correction;

Both he and i have bills/responsibilities back at home that are awaiting our arrival all expenses shouldn’t be expected for one person.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

the truth let’s agree to disagree. and slow your roll! it’s my opinion and i’m stickin’ to it!!!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Truth I am with you on that one. But I have been riding the fence…it may look like or seem like you are in. But if I do not agree to it or mention it….Don’t assume. Until I give that formal introduction, and WE decide to make it official. But honestly I DO not bring anyone around my fam….unless I am serious. I don’t feel like everyone should reach my intimate circle. I think very highly of my family and don’t bring just any fool around them. So no…if you make it home…We are a couple.

But I did not get to answer..yeah I do not have a problem splitting it down the middle…Not at all. I would not expect it a fully sponsored trip, but it would be nice. I proud myself in being a Team Player..You get more as a team then a selfish individual. Dates..yeah you pay. Vacationing together….I can pitch in…it’s only fair. Unless you make significantly much more than me…then that is another story.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

Blow Me - Good point about that formal introduction. Banana, what is he planning to introduce you as?

It doesn’t really matter what any of us think on this topic, it matters what the guy you are thinking thinks. LOL. So just be mindful of that.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

The Truth just checked…yup, both my nuts are there! Haha

I agree with you on this, people do stress “the chosen one” when it doesn’t have to be. But, to meet family is not like going to meet friends. Its more extensive. Again, could be my European Culture. If we met up at a Braves game with my family, no problem, if I invited the girl to my family’s house for dinner, big deal. Thats the Difference

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

On money: If a chick has it and likes you she will spend it on you. If not she will expect you to pay for everything while ordering from the “expensive” side of the menu.

My thing is why travel with someone where money is even an issue. We both want to go. We know it costs money so what’s the problem? I’ve just never had to process that whole who has money thing. It would kill my high if I did.

By SeanJohnson3000

May 27, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…not a real time limit on taking a vacation with someone….being that its SUPPOSE to be just that..a vacation..stress free…loose environment..and it sets the tone to hang out together and experience and explore things together…now if yall cant get along on a vacation someting is wrong..because its simple…try new eateries for breakfast lunch and dinner…explore the city..beach or where ever together while drinking..have sx at nite and in the morning..whats more fun than that blueprint?

Off topic…have yall checked out bucky from flav o love and beauty school sx tape?…thats like the 4th chick from flavs show..

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

ATL - It’s not just you or European culture. Meeting the fam is still a big deal…to most people. But not all. I think what’s just as important during the meeting is how you are introduced and/or who the family understands you to be.

That’s where the words and actions collide.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

ATL, I thoroughly understand the “principle” concept. If I should vacation with a SO, I most definitely would offer to pay for a few things. I’ve never felt a man should pay for everything. We women need to treat the men out on an all expense paid date too.

Yes, she should have offered to pay for her own bandages. If she had to go to the hospital pretty sure it would have been her insurance card not yours!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

we just had a fire drill i should’ve drove off in my car an came back after lunch

…i forgot this is “that” week?…

Kym did you attend the Atlanta Dream?…i spoke w/someone @ the poolparty that went to that game on Friday…they said it was a blast even though they lost. Said the first half they were good.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

SJ3000 try new eateries for breakfast lunch and dinner…explore the city..beach or where ever together while drinking..have sx at nite and in the morning* Exactly…sounds like fun to me…Umm did you forget the Xrated and Ciroc in there too. Can not forgot about the main ingredients! lmao!

Truth On money: If a chick has it and likes you she will spend it on you. If not she will expect you to pay for everything while ordering from the “expensive” side of the menu That is not true. The intial phase he should pay. I will not compromise…later on I will not have no problem chipping in..First thing first show me how big ya balls are when you forking the tab.

My thing is why travel with someone where money is even an issue

Exactly! Only selfish individual would make this into a problem. A team player would be filling the coolers with beers and sammiches…as soon as va….came out of his lips. I am down…Give me enough time to put my days in and I will be gone quicker than a FART in the wind!! lmao!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 27, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this

^5 SexyLeggs and AmazonRed

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this

Truth did you finish the book?

By ATL

May 27, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

Amazon and SexyLeggs - Agree with Both, Thanks!

I’ll tell you what though, its hard for a guy to even address the topic with a girl without coming across sounding cheap or tacky. I’m not the type to split hair’s on a bill or whatever. Its on the girl to step up and offer at least. I’m not looking for a gold-digger or a sugar-momma … just someone considerate thats down for a great time!

Sean Johnson Those Flav girls are so nasty Bro. Who would want to see these girls in Porn!?

By Foots

May 27, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

ATL Do you really like this girl?? Your girl was hurt, in pain, and bleeding. You’re actually worried about the cost of her bandages from CVS?

on topic If I’m traveling with a new SO, I think it’s fine to take a short trip, maybe a day trip to start off. Then a Vegas weekend or something. I wouldn’t take a big, long romantic trip unless we had been together for a while and knew what to expect from each other on vacation. People act differently on vacation, and I’d rather find out just how different on a short trip than end up out in the middle of the ocean somewhere for a week with somebody who can’t stop calling Earl like a mutha while he’s gripping the toilet.

By For Real

May 27, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!

So let me see if I have this right, women have to reach down my pants and feel my nutts in order to tell if they are the “ONE”!!

Ladies please form a line to here.

ZIPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!

On Topic: I ain’t vacationing with no one that doesn’t have any money. PERIOD!!! Stay your broke azz at home. If we are just friends before we leave on vacation, we will be friends while we are on vacation and we will be friends when we get back from vacation.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

Atl what “european culture” are you speaking of? The lines have really been blurred in recent years. If I was getting to know a chick I would have no problems with letting her meet my fam, if the situation presented itself. It’s just not that big a thing.

SJ nice vid. Not really fire but she’ll do. LOL

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

one thing i won’t be doing while traveling this weekend … coffee. i’ve been to the ladies room three times already. dang

By Foots

May 27, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Amazon Meeting the fam is still a big deal…to most people. But not all. I think what’s just as important during the meeting is how you are introduced and/or who the family understands you to be.

That’s true. I don’t ever stage this big “AND NOW I INTRODUCE NEW SO” event to my family. It’s always been in a relaxed environment, more like we all just happen to be here. My new SO met my mom this Friday, because I had to take my dog over so she could keep him for me and the man just happened to already be with me. I wasn’t going to tell him to stay at my house while I took care of the dog, so he came with me. He stayed outside to get the crate out of the car while I went inside and told her that there was somebody with me. It was completely informal.

Because I rarely bring people around them, for my family, it is more of a sign that I trust the guy, not that he is the One.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

I’ll tell you what though, its hard for a guy to even address the topic with a girl without coming across sounding cheap or tacky.

ATL - Another good point. The man of the hour was peppering me with questions about an island destination vacay he was planning. He was being very indirect about the whole thing, I figured I wasn’t invited and was just doing the consultant thing (I had been there before, he hadnt). Later on that night, I asked him if he had booked the trip and he said he hadn’t because he didn’t want to roll solo. LOL. I didn’t want to assume he was including me and he never directly told me he was.

I’d be totally willing to pay my share, but he doesn’t know that. Can’t really bring it up until it’s brought up again. I’d meet him halfway next time.

By Rell

May 27, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

@SJ3K…so shay has a sex tape…i will have to find that when i get home…lol

By kinderbabe

May 27, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

hey mo and cemeeli:) you’re right i am lurking just a little…lol. i’m really busy cleaning up my room and closing out my records. i did mostly cleaning today and am reserving tomorrow for paper work. after that, i’m free!

on topic: i have tried the travel thing before w/someone i’m dating and haven’t been successful yet. the usual scenerio is that he backed out of the trip at the last minute. unfortunately, two of those times was at my expense.:( i have resolved to not make any more out of town plans. i’ll let the guy take care of it…or make it a solo trip.

By Kym

May 27, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

Cee Yes I did and attend the game and they were right it was a blast.(they are 0-3 now) but this is their first year so..hey what can you say. But I will be going back…at 10.00 bucks for a ticket the price is right and the ladies of the WNBA play hard.

Cheryl Ford plays really hard(rough) didn’t know she was Karl Malone’s daughter

By For Real

May 27, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

Blow There is a difference between paying and chipping in. Would you ever pay? What you equating a man’s willingness to spend to his ballz?

ATL That’s funny as hellz. She’s worth a trip to your condo in another state but the bandaid thing just crossed the line huh? What’s next btw baby my invited us to dinner at there house but you are going to have to bring the meat and the liquor.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Do you really like this girl?? Your girl was hurt, in pain, and bleeding. You’re actually worried about the cost of her bandages from CVS?

Foots - LMAO. I feel you. If it were me I would have offered to pay him back for the stuff, only because some folks (me included) are funny about money.

Meeting the family is a big deal for me simply because they live 3000 miles away. And because they are nosy. Anyone I bring around will be interogated, literally.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Foots- Think you missed the point

Of course I cared about her & took care of her after the injury. The CVS thing & trip to hospital wasn’t about the Money. Its just the acknowledgement or principle of the action.

If I require stitches, I’m not expecting my girl to cover me on my injury. If she does…I would make it up to her or really express my gratitude under circumstances. Thats All.

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

Have you ever run into trouble in paradise while road-tripping with someone? And how do you split vacation expenses with someone you’re seeing?

One vacation I took with an SO years ago, we split everything down the middle. There wasn’t a discussion about it. I found our cruise, told him how much he had to pay (we both had the invoice) and we booked our own flights. Not a problem. We just couldn’t get along while we were there. We were on the verge of breaking up but wasn’t quite ready to do so yet. It wasn’t a great trip and by the fourth day, I don’t even think we were speaking.

About two years ago, a friend of mine invited me to Chicago, where he was attending a conference. The room was covered and he was able to expense our meals. Though he told me that he was going to pay for my flight, he never gave me the money and I never asked for it, it was only like $180. The experience itself was worth more than that: it was my first time there, we saw the lighting of downtown for Christmas with a big parade, and there was a light snow falling. I had a wonderful time that weekend.

By SeanJohnson3000

May 27, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

@ Blow….i see you wanna take your club dranks on vacation with you..lol..i stick to the cognac..and heineken..gotta stay true to my roots..

@ Truth..you can tell she did that clip a minute ago…she prolly on top of her game now…her 15 minutes of fame is about to have restart button pushed

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

Foots Yes…I would pay. But I have been taught the old school way. That the MEN pay. I will pay eventually…don’t get me wrong. But the preliminary dating should be on the MEN. Ok I have cooked a dinner before…and I will tip. Once the relationship is establish then I would pay that is not a problem.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

Similac I finished the audio version. I liked it alot. Did you finish it yet?

People ask me why I train my dogs in so many scenarios. The reason is I like to see how they’ll react in the real world. Same thing with a woman. If I’m doing something I want to see how she’ll handle it. Whatever comes down the pike I want to see what she’s made of. Alot of folks just can’t function and I want to know that as soon as possible. My .02

Blow I’m usually down for a road trip myself. I love a chick that can pack a cooler, put on something comfy and hit the road. You don’t really know someone til you get them off their homecourt. LOL

By For Real

May 27, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

Meeting Ared’s parents…..

Ared’s Dad: Heyyyyy Pee-pot! Who the hellz is that?

Ared: Ummm now behave Daddy.

ADad: Dis my house i ack anyway i want.

Ared’s Mom: Ahhh now hush up Jr. and zip yo pants up. Come in Peanut and introduce me to yo new friend.

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this

What it do bloggers I have been extended an offer to vacation with someone in Jamaica. They will pay for all accomodations once I arrive. But the ticket is a BYTCH and I don’t feel like I should have to pay for it. I am willing to pay half however, what are your thoughts?

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

Amazon Meeting the family is a big deal for me simply because they live 3000 miles away.

Yeah, I can understand that. My mom lives four minutes away and my sister and her family live less than 10 minutes away. We all go to the same church too. So if the guy spends any time at all with me, sooner or later, he’s bound to run into my people.

But if we lived that far apart, then yes, anyone I bring “home” would have to be extremely special.

For Real She’s worth a trip to your condo in another state but the bandaid thing just crossed the line huh?

I’m with you. She’d probably be disillusioned to say the least that her knight in shining armor had his mouth poked out about the first aid supplies. I can just see her limping, bleeding and crying in pain, while reaching for her debit card and trying to punch in the PIN. LOL!

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

May 27, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

My ex and I loved to take short trips and money was never an issue. We always took turn funding the trips, although there was a time or two that me did try to out do me and went all out with an all inclusive luxury 5 star hotel stay, since our usual stays were at a bed and breakfast.

Touching a bit on the off topic Meeting the parents can send off a signal that “I’m the one” but if he’s used to bringing women home to meet mama then I’ll take it with a grain of salt and take it for what it is just meeting mama. I would ask to see if this is something that is routine and by his answer I’ll act accourdingly….and if by chance I’m not ready to meet the parents I’ll decline the invitation. It does goes both ways.

By SeanJohnson3000

May 27, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

@ Blow…But I have been taught the old school way. That the MEN pay…as a 20 something year old female….all jokes aside….what do YOU bring to the table?

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

ATL I would make it up to her or really express my gratitude under circumstances.

Are you saying that she has not said “Thank you” for taking care of her? Your original post had nothing to do with gratitude, nor did you say that you took her to the hospital. You said CVS at 3AM and you were salty because she didn’t offer to pay. Now which is it?

By Kym

May 27, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

My theory on meeting the parents..

Meeting my family will not determine if we are a couple..we will determine if we are a couple. Meeting my family normally means you are there to eat, chill and enjoy the atmosphere. If anyone in my family starts asking you about your intentions.. then they will have hell to tell the captain. My relatives know me, I keep myself to myself and I don’t do nosy. Question like that will get you vague answers that you will not be able to read..or smart azz ones like oh we just have sex.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

boh bite ya lip gurl and buy the ticket if you can afford it and if you really want to go. lol.

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

Blow Was your 11:07 directed at me?

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

Cheryl Ford plays really hard(rough) didn’t know she was Karl Malone’s daughter.

Kym I was recently made to know that over the w/e. I see the resemblance now too.

kindermama you playin’. don’t let me give my address out on the blog. you are welcome to help…well, uhm “do” any cleaning and shreading of paperwork at Cee’s spot. That lil boy’s room need a few femme touches to it if you like. :)

On topic: when you make it a solo trip and you mention to man you are going on a trip for a quick get-away for self…how in the conversation it became “our” trip? A friend just had this issue and she asked me what to do?…i told her please tell old boi you have your own agenda and needed to get away w/o him. They are a lil serious and he just insisted on going. i wish i had her problem Lol…they ended up meeting eachother their anyway. hmmmm

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

SJ3000 Cognac was my only drink of choice for a while. But I can not drink it anymore… After I had a bad episode in 2005 New Year’s Eve. Lets just say if that video or pics ever got out..I would be THOROUGHLY embarrassed. After that I was not able to drink Hennessy any more. I can only do VODKA…I hate gin, whiskey and BRANDY….I can do tequila too….I have a new found respect for 1800….I am lovin it.

Truth & Sj3000 So we exchanging PORN on here now…wow!

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

May 27, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

Bit-O-Honey I’d say if you were invited then all expense should be paid by the invitee. An invitation is an invitation whether it be dinner/movies/trips…..

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

For Real - LMAO!!! Unfortunately it’s even worse than that.

ATL - To our defense you did not mention this first aid thing actually included the hospital! All you said was CVS at first.

But she had an accident, it wasn’t like she split her leg open on purpose!

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Bit-o-Honey But the ticket is a BYTCH and I don’t feel like I should have to pay for it.

You know what? Once you figure out why you feel you shouldn’t have to pay for the ticket, you’ll have your answer about whether you should go. If you saw this trip as just a fun time with someone whose company you enjoy, would you be as worried about the ticket price, especially if all other accommodations are taken care of?

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

For Real lmao at Ared’s family.

Bit O Horny if you don’t have the loot for the ticket you probably shouldn’t go. There are more expenses once you get there, even though he’ll cover the major ones.

Travelling on a budget is a the worst. LOL

Foots would you date a man that didn’t go to church?

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

Truth well when i thought i was going to read/finish, did not happen? You’re done…hmph…don’t share.

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Truth would you date a man that didn’t go to church?

I would not date a man who did not have his own personal relationship with God. I would rather for him to attend a community of believers, which can be described as a church, but he doesn’t have to be “religious”, because that’s different. Knowing what you know and knowing who you believe in, and seeking out others who believe also and can support you in your belief, is important to me and my present family and will be important to my future family.

By For Real

May 27, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

BOH If you where invited with the stipulation that you have to pay for your own ticket, why are you confused and why do you think she has to pay for your flight when she clearly said YOU HAVE TO BUY YO OWN DAYUMMM TICKET TO GET HERE If you ain’t got the money stay home.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

FOOTS Nope….Sorry girlie..It was for FOR REAL. FOR REAL Check 11:07

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

I went on a vacation to Jamaica with someone I was seeing many moons ago. He called at the last minute (on a Thursday) and asked if I wanted to go to Jamaica for the weekened. I was overjoyed (28 and dumb). My boss gave me Friday off. Had a great time before I got really sick from the food. He didn’t want to do anything outside the hotel room w/me so I ventured out on my own. Only to realize on our way back home that I was used as a “mule.” Thank goodness we didn’t get caught. I made up cuss words that day!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

I’d say if you were invited then all expense should be paid by the invitee. An invitation is an invitation whether it be dinner/movies/trips

I’m torn on this one. Because vacations are expensive. And I wouldn’t want to not be considered just because there is an expectation that the invitee should pay. It’s clear that part of the financial obligation is eased if BOH was to go.

BOH - I look at it this way: The ticket is expensive, but you are saving in the long run because you don’t have to worry about accomodations. I guess maybe you could ask what you’re supposed to do for the ticket? I’d personally suck it up and pay for it because it’s a great opportunity since the room is paid.

By Sunshine

May 27, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Bit-o-Honey

Don’t ever go anywhere with someone who claims that they will “foot the entire bill” unless YOU have enough money to pay for everything if something goes wrong. It’d be terrible to be stuck in some foreign land with no money! Same thing goes for eating at a restaurant…if you don’t have the money in your account to cover it, don’t go!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Travelling on a budget is a the worst.

Truth take 2 9year old boys to Disney World, stay @ their resort 4 days, tell the boys they are gonna get “treated” for making Honor Roll. Then, tell a chic if she should have set the budget thingy? n all i got back was a Disney tote that i finally used this w/e.

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

For travels I’d prob expect to take turns swiping or whatever.

ATL Were they CVS brand band-aids? Cuz that’s reasonable. Now if she went for the Johnson & Johnson, definitely drop her.

BOH Tix are pricey as bleep right now, but so are accommodations in Jamaica esp in season. Sounds like fun if you can swing it. And yay, more skymiles…

By MLL(mammalongleggs)

May 27, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

BOH I meant all expenses should be paid by the invitor….please excuse the typo…

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - OMG!!!!

By Ptah180

May 27, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

As a man I can’t ever remember a time when I introduced my my family to a girl that I was simply screwing or even “kinda” liked.

Men generally introduce women that they are really into.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

Here’s the Guy Point of View Get Ready Ladies…

I’m going to have the Fellas agree with me on this one. The ladies are getting Jaded with being wine’d / dine’d / and taken on all expense paid trips. Correct me if I’m wrong, but its at the point now where its almost expected the guy pay’s for everything. I don’t mind paying, thats straight…but its the appreciation. Too often its like expected with no consideration. Its when you meet the girls that might offer (so I would deny) or at least be appreciative. Those are the Keepers. Unfortunately guy’s must be cautious of the girls that will use.

For Real it was an accident and I did cover her minor trip to the hospital, but if she wrecked her car, am I paying for that too!? Where is the line drawn on Accountability? At the time though, it’s her well being which is vital. Money is Money, whatever

By Foots

May 27, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs WOW!!! I’m glad you didn’t get caught either. That’s an angle I didn’t even think of when traveling with somebody.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

speaking of vacay…

Stac when you get in, pls do share South Beach info…weather, Saw Grass Mills (i’m sure you took a peek) all the other goods.

mytwomipples/cents/hooks (jst let me know which) How was your w/e chica?

By ATL

May 27, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

mytwocents it was the hospital trip, but yeah you’re funny

At least I didn’t tell her to walk it off! Haha!

By For Real

May 27, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

Blow But I have been taught the old school way. That the MEN pay. Then why all the I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T rhetoric? That seems to go against your teaching. And sense it was old school teaching where you also taught Pay the cost to be the boss? On and I like it when you say my two times. Now sing it for me four times.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

ATL good thinking…

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Similac when I went to Disney I thought it was a great vacation. I parked my car and didn’t start it for 4 days. We stayed on the grounds and the only thing we had to pay for was food, which was hella expensive. I think I paid 500 bucks for passes to all the parks plus the room. Wasn’t to bad but the rooms could of been bigger. I love those smoked turkey legs. HMMMMM

Sexy can you transport a kilo I have stashed? I’ve been looking for a good mule. LOL

I think if it’s even an issue you probably shouldn’t go. Apparently something isn’t right.

Blow I want you to take me out to dinner. All expenses are on you. And I want you to open my door for me too. I’m going to break you from your old school training. LOL

Atl you never mentioned what your “european background” was.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

Foots, I was LIVID!! No other way to look at it but plain disrepect for me as a person, for my life. Everytime I go to the airport and hear the attendant ask “has anyone placed anything in your bag that you’re not aware of” I think of that incident. Secondly, I think what a dumb thing to say. If I’m unaware how would I know someone placed something in my bag.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

Truth You think so. I was pondering that idea. So you think ppl are their true selves when they are not on their turf. Interesting…Something to think about. Road Trips all the way….I love to travel. But take it from me go with someone who can relax….seriously. Thats the WORST! I am a fool…I love to entertain and get the party crackin!! I like to have fun and I like to make sure everyone else does too! Relax let your hair down and be yourself!

SJ3000 At this point in my life there are 2 things you can do…and I am REALLY strict about this because I have taken the short so that is why I have learned what to take and what not to. Here they are- Either…You make me better/enhance me or You make me happy. I will not add anyone to my life that can not bring $hit to the table but a hard dyck and and washed up dreams! I am FIRST. Not to be selfish but I have put myself on the back burn for someone else. I will not be short changed because I know who I am and what I can do. More importantly I am definitely a team player and LOYAL to a fault. I will not play any games. Once you are in my circle you are taken care of…I am about reaching new heights and becoming a better person. If you are there to tear me down or come through with selfish intentions. You can kick ROCKS. I am seeking a FRIEND FIRST.. a lover secondary. I give you what you give me. I am not about to sell myself to you..the proof is in the pudding. STOP trying to change the game…Men have been taking women out for CENTURIES!! It’s like you want the role of being a man but you don’t want to do what it takes. And secondly you still have not got the GAME!! Paying for dates does not equal=hella money. We have gone over this a MILLION phuckin times on here. You still do not get it. Damn the movies and the dinner. Come up with something different…that is not expensive if you truly don’t have it. I have noticed you get real salty when chicks start talkin about MONEY. You need to fix that!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

• don’t mind paying, thats straight…but its the appreciation. Too often its like expected with no consideration.*

I really don’t believe y’all are getting NO appreciation out there. But this blog has surprised me before. Fellas are women really ungrateful nowadays?

Man of the hour and I spend at least 10 minutes thanking each other at the end of every outing. LOL But he knows I appreciate him and I feel he appreicate’s me. That’s basic!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

BIT OF HONEY You have got to be out of your mind…I would buy my ticket with no problems….Just tell me the time to show up. I would be there with bells on!!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

Did anyone attend Badu Friday night?

mytwo ^^ is that you?

not that i’m changing subject or anything…lol.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

STOP trying to change the game…Men have been taking women out for CENTURIES!! It’s like you want the role of being a man but you don’t want to do what it takes.

LMAO Blow. Go head and get it said, girlfriend.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Amazon You might be surprised!

I know a girl who’s been in Music videos etc…really attractive. So when she goes out, its expected, guys are throwing drinks her way. So she has this idea thats the way it is or how it should be. Its like waking up to the beach everyday, it gets less special because it becomes ordinary. Same goes for guys doing nice gestures for the Hunnies. Expectation tends to weigh more than Appreciation these days more often than not.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

You think it’s basic ARed, but I know many who are very unappreciative. I appreciate EVERYTHING that comes my way and I voice my appreciation. Men, you guys have a hard job out there pleasing the woman because of their ulterior motives, but we too have a hard job in terms of trying to dissect your ulterior moves and not trying to misrepresent ourselves. It’s a no win situation on some fronts…give it up too soon, not soon enough, cussing, unladylike behavior (different eyes sees different things) just to name a few!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

You have got to be out of your mind…I would buy my ticket with no problems….Just tell me the time to show up. I would be there with bells on!

Blow, you are KILLING me today. I’m with you. Because I LOVE to travel, I want to be a part of any trip folks are going on! Especially is someone is offering to take care of a big chunk of it!

But you gotta remember that not everyone likes to, or are good travelers. I’m reminded of that everytime I’m in the security line at Hartsfield Jackson!

By Rell

May 27, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

@ATL…men are expected to pay…so having said that…it is nice when a women will invest into her interest and treat him out or take him on a trip…nothing wrong with that….but the funny thing is….when relationships become money focus then it is no longer a loving relationship…more like a business relationship….everyone has a part to play in courting…..back in the day..women would cook a meal for there interest….thats where the cliche comes from..a way to a man heart is thru his stomach…dont eat he spaghetti…..that type of stuff..i say it should be EXPECTED that women should be more proactive in who she dates and her enjoyment in the process…take ish off cruise control and you will be happy

and for men…you have to set limits on your wallet just meeting the ladies….wining and dining does not equal a lasting union…..say no to trickin

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

So when she goes out, its expected, guys are throwing drinks her way

ATL - Those are randoms tho. They don’t count. LOL.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

Super Truth

Pls stop w/the Bam~Bam from The Flinstones turkey legs!!! I made the boys share one, and i got my own ended up giving mine to my kid Too much meat, but good stuff!

I parked my car and didn’t start it for 4 days.

That’s ^^^ the only thing i did w/o spendind $$$. Except when i treated them to seafood/dinner, the monorails stop running and i drove to the restaurants. But all 4 parks we bust’d the train/bus to each Disney venue. And yea the resort/park food is waaaaay overpriced. When i got my 3rd $5 water i was like guys we gotta share. Parkhoppers and food alone was a Mint!!! oh…told them next time they gonna have to make the headmaster/dean’s list to get that kind of trip.

And now i remember anything, ANYTHING @ WD with the name resort/plantation/springs is gonna be a grip. We had a ball! …another “big girl pill” i had to take with that trip.

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

Beautiful I dunno girl, that ticket is almost $500….WITH THE PRICE OF GAS!! (as said in the voice of Simply Cookie from the Pimpin Pimpin Tour w/Katt Williams)

MLL I feel ALL expenses should be paid b/c he invited me to his country.

Foots You raise a great point and that is the reason I’m torn on this issue. I want to go, but not sure what “all-inclusive” really means. I will certainly ask though.

Truth I never intended to travel w/no money. I’ve never done that. I’m always prepared with funds to accomodate what I’m doing, in this case he offered to sponsor. So I’m like, then sponsor.

Real “HE” invited me to Jamaica and said that once I got there he’d take care of all accomodations. My thing is, ok, get me there first. Actually accomodations are a non-issue b/c I have a family friend there. Its just the principle of the matter.

mytwocents Money is not an issue for him, which is why I feel that if he really wants me there, he’ll make it happen. It should not be on me.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

Amazon You might be surprised!

I know a girl who’s been in Music videos etc…really attractive. So when she goes out, its expected, guys are throwing drinks her way. So she has this idea thats the way it is or how it should be. Its like waking up to the beach everyday, it gets less special because it becomes ordinary. Same goes for guys doing nice gestures for the Hunnies. Expectation tends to weigh more than Appreciation these days more often than not.

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this

ATL Hey, I gotta ask the probing questions…You seem generous, tho, hope she wasn’t taking advantage. Too bad you couldn’t just slap some salve (ewww) on there and play Dr. @ the condo.

Hula Girl It was pure entertainment, thx. Partly cuz Hooks had to intervene on non-hetero lover’s spat so she’ll be gone for awhile. My luau was lotsa fun, any smoothie spiking at yours? And the surprise party was…fabulous? PS Let’s leave mytwomipps outta this.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Truth, made myself a big Sunday dinner and thought of you. Everything was delicious but my mac/cheese was slamming. Are you still improving on your cooking skills?

Sorry, please find another mule. I’m no longer in that line of work!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

Truth Are you fluckin at the end of the night? lmao!!

For REAL I see you follow my teachings…But please I must ask you to quote me correctly…The old school also taught me to take care of ME and not depend on a MAN for every crumb and dollar. It taught me to develop character and to survive with or without a man. In the same breath..I feel like the man should be the leader…Which I have NEVER debated…so go and get my quotes and line them up. It’s the same thing. I’ll wait. Pay the cost to be the boss…CONFIRMS what I just said…thanks for bring that quote back. LOL! I am not sitting up here saying pay my bills, my rent , car note and GIVE me pocket change. So don’t drag this out. Its simple take your lady friend out…..be it dinner, movie, lunch…and you treat her. It’s been this way since the end of time….What I am doing is NOTHING different. So what’s the griping for? So since you don’t agree or it’s not “right”. What would be the correct way? There are roles a MAN has and roles a WOMAN has….I can not tinkle standing up and I am fully aware. Sometimes it is what it is…But I will listen to your opinion on how this thing should go.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

Ared alot of fellas feel unappreciated because they didn’t think through the dating process. Ask yourself “why am I taking this woman out”? Is it to enjoy her company, for company, for booty? In situations one or two it’s a win/win situation. For three you should get a hooker. Dating/funding someone else’s meals all willy nilly is stupid and costs alot of money.

Also there are many alternatives to eating out. Try cooking. The game is lame.

If you really want to get broke quick take a chick to a concert and then a nice meal, $200 easy. How the hell did concert tickets get so expensive? I’ll just get the cd.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

I dunno girl, that ticket is almost $500

:-/ Are you kidding me?

Bit O Honey - Do you travel? Outside the states? Girl, $500 to Jamaica is a great price. The taxes alone are $500 usually. LOL

By ATL

May 27, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

So REAL Question Is…

Which woman in this room will take me on an expense paid trip!?

Any Takers!? Haha

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

BOH don’t feel bad. personally, i wouldn’t go. :-( now if he gave me some time to fit it in my budget … shyyyyyyyt, i’m there!

By For Real

May 27, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Wait a minute what did I miss Sexylegg was with a mule??!?!?!?!

Do we have photo verification??!?!?

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Here’s my Saturday recap: A MIA (Concert). Went to see Lina, Noel Gordin and Dwele this past Saturday @ Center Stage. Ticket says concert is @ 6:00. I arrive at 5:00. First in line. They opened the doors at 6:00 only to have us remain in the lobby until the doors to the seating area open @ 8:00. OMG! There was a buffet that opened at 6:45, along with a slew of vendors. 102.5 was playing music and DJ Si-Man Baby came and made some announcements. The music got truly crunked and most attendees started dancing. Well, after Mary J’s Fine, Fine, Fine went off this dude approached me saying “I’m trying to get my wife in the act of swinging. She doesn’t want to but I think you would make a great candidate.” WTF! I remembered the lady he was with because they were about the 7-8th person in line. I decided right then and there not to make a scene because I don’t like public outbursts. I went to his wife and told her what he had asked of me and she was appalled. She slapped him and I walked away. Guess I ruined their evening…oh well! Doors finally opened at 8:00 and the concert started at 9:25. What a crock! Lina was off the chain. Dwele was the last to perform and he might have been on the stage 20 mins. He has sexy down pat! Noel Gordin has a good voice and style. I didn’t like the way he sang “The River.” He botched up his own song! I’m so so so so glad I didn’t pay for those tickets.

Staceye, while watching Lina all I saw was you. Her style is much like yours. She’s a deep sister!

Raheem DeVaughn/Chrisette Michelle in concert @ The Tabernacle on June 20th. Go to livenation.com for ticket info.

Sorry for the long post!

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this

mytwocents now that’s what i’m talkin’ bout! leave me in the car, go grab some gauze, bandages, a white coat, gloves, etc… . take me back to the hotel room. the doctor is in literally.

j/k, lol.

By Rell

May 27, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

@ATL

I know a girl who’s been in Music videos etc…really attractive

what half way decent chick is not a MODEL/VIDEO VIXEN now-a-days….i would not take that chick serious at all…come on mayne if she not on the dyck to jaw program….we just cool….the way to get those type is thru attention and direction…i beat if you talk crazy to her she would like that….deep down inside she tired of the beta males trying to pay her way.

By For Real

May 27, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

BOH I still don’t see where she told you that she will pay for the flight. Just because she has the money, that doesn’t change the offer to you. If you don’t have the money stay home. It’s her money not yours. If she choose to spend some on you, you should be grateful, not stick your hand out for more. Hellz how does she look I got 500.

By ATL

May 27, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

my2cents Appreciate You!

It was a cool trip regardless, she wasn’t the Using Type, we broke up 5 months ago and she told me the past weekend she’s having hard time moving on. Her feelings were genuine.

Being drunk at a nightclub, these things happen, not going to ruin a trip over

By SeanJohnson3000

May 27, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

@Blown…i have been checking your post closely for a minute and its clear that you are in a vulnerable point in your life..hence the going out of town with Carlton..but all i am saying is if you or any other female come to the bbq or take a trip or date and all you are bringing is yourself in booty shorts sandals and a mediocre weave ..you will get treated as such….real men pay attention to things and the small things count with us also…so if we go out..OFFER to pay….thats it…and 9/10 the man will decline the offer but u will be put in a better catergory for it….and for the record…i get salty when women …especially black women bring up money in the dating equations..because we live in the in “aint” tricking if ya got it era…and that turns females in the whres..not hes..its a difference.and dudes into tricks…so the next time a man come at you treating you just like a piece of azz…remember how you presented yourself on the money tip…ya boy aint trying to get all maya angelou on you..but either have me respect your for whats under that mickie d’s visor and velvet ultra than how big your azz is..take your pick

By For Real

May 27, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

Wait, wait, wait, Sexleggs was swing with a mule!!! Why is no one calling me???

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

PS Let’s leave mytwomipps outta this.

~okay

mytwohookssoooo you attended…thank ya slick hunh?

had to intervene on non-hetero lover’s spat so she’ll be gone for awhile

auh^^^ you better stop!

Mother Zion’s party was great…she embarress me (for real) telling the whole crowd about how “independant” i ‘act’ and all but she know, she know i better get better. :) huh?

Luau was hilarious we had “some” showing their fluff…i meant stuff…but chu know i was with the kiddies make’n them act a fool dancing in the pool I forgot to bring hula hoops :(.

If you care to know i found/made up a new blended drink; Pineapple juice, coconut milk, guava sorbet and vanilla soy….o-my-goodness, try it…however you do it and it’s gonna make you Zen for real. …and i don’t drink so the virgin version was getting raves…

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

Sexy I made some cube steak sunday with some onion/pepper steak marinade and added some 1800 silver tequila for taste and it was delicious. I added a salad with my favorite dressing and that just added to the meal. Still tho my side dish game is not on point. I just never have all the ingredients to make the different dishes. I’m working on it tho. Slow and easy. My drink game is on point tho. Mojitas, margaritas, daquiris, and everything in between. Meat and drink I have covered. Sides I’m busted. LOL

Blow Are you fluckin at the end of the night? lmao!! I’m not that kind of guy and I’m not easy. Ok, I am but lets pretend. LOL I’ll tell you what, you spring for dinner and you’ll be dessert.

similac yeah, those big bam bam drumsticks. I was fiending for those things. 1 of those is a meal. HMMMMM

By banana

May 27, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

TRUTH-They are not local…ARED-not sure but he’s told them about me already-but again not sure exactly how he put it..

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

ARed I travel outside of the country often, and I’ve done Jamaica for 5 days, at a nice all-inclusive resort, with r/t airfare on Air Jamaica for just a little more than $500 dollars. I am the Queen of sensible travels hunny.

Beautiful I have the money, I just could be doing other things with it.

Real I see you still don’t get it, but I appreciate that you tried.

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

Cee Baduizm~ Not in flesh, but in theory, mmhmmm some parts me. Most upset to have missed The Roots :(

You on that tainted Tea again, huh?

By Kym

May 27, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

I discovered that there is a AllStars cruise with some of my favorite jazz artists..Now this would be a nice trip to go with a SO who is into jazz too. Smooth Music cruise

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

I am the Queen of sensible travels hunny.

BOH - Clearly. LOL. So basically both your trips are gonna work out to about the same price, yet you don’t want to spend the money just cause you think someone else should pay because you were invited?

To each his own…

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

It’s white tea now, mytwo.

lol @ HulaGirl.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

dyck to jaw program, you guys are so dang creative with your phrases.

Ok, we will need to work on those sides. I’ll get some recipes to you.

ForReal you want to swing w/me and a mule (too funny)!

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

BOH gotcha! let me tell you what i would be doing with it … gas and food. lol. the perfect time to spring something like that on me is around refund tax time. lol.

hi rell and kp!

sexy, truth if you had a family member who always salted and burned the food every single time, how would you tell them w/o hurting their feeling that they suck. he is the boss of the grill and blah blah blah. my sis is a frickin’ wimp and won’t tell her boyfriend to hand the cooking tools over to someone else. i handed him a slab of ribs and told him that i wanted them golden brown and i think i hurt his feelings. his t-bone steak was so salty, i couldn’t eat it. i was pyssed! i have been biting my lip for two years. i can’t take it anymore. help.

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

For Real Whispering I need you to focus, hun… Remove visions of Sexy and Mule. Wait 2 secs. Replace w/ pic of DUDE named Marley extending invite to Honey. Still wanna book that flight?

Cee All but you were on that 1800 this wknd. Created a new concoction myself. Taco Bell has new Mango slushie thingy. Recipe: purchase one. Douse w/ 1800. Enjoy! Enabler I’ll try yours if you try mine ;)

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

Enabler I’ll try yours if you try mine ;)

Made me choke on my red potatos…lol…gonna get me some white tea friends…

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

Beautiful the real shame is you let it go 2 yrs before bring it up. The first time you should have told him about his salty food. LOL Now, just be blunt. Ask him if he’s trying to kill wyou withthat salty stuff and wait for his answer.

Where is Slimgina?

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

FBeautifulT just tell him! I don’t know how to sugar coat something so simple as this. Just tell him he’s been so nice to stand in front of this hot grill each and everytime that the time has come to let another family member cook. If it’s his grill, there’s nothing you can do.

By Rell

May 27, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

@ATL

I know a girl who’s been in Music videos etc…really attractive

what half way decent chick is not a MODEL/VIDEO VIXEN now-a-days….i would not take that chick serious at all…come on mayne if she not on the dyck to jaw program….we just cool….the way to get those type is thru attention and direction…i beat if you talk crazy to her she would like that….deep down inside she tired of the beta males trying to pay her way.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

feeling Beautiful today how about….Dude, this Shyt is Nasty as Hellz!!!

And then toss the food in the trash for added effect

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

Where is 2CPTG, uhm QC, greetings…folks are missin’.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

I’ve never seen this. A friend cooked collards yesterday. She simply tore ENTIRE leaf off from both sides and cooked it that way. Much like leafy spinach only leafy collards. I’ve never seen anything like it. They were delicious just too big.

By SlimOne aka Slimgina

May 27, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

Truthster I am here…barely but i’m here. Gotta run things by myself on my accounts this week so i’m in and out.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

lmao. Ask him if he’s trying to kill wyou withthat salty stuff i always try to beat him to the meat before it hits the grill. i always lose. lol.

sexy i wish it were simple. telling a man to step away from HIS grill is like taking his dck away from him. lol. seriously. i’ll figure something out. *i may just cook my own food and not try to eat his, dang. and tell him that i want to chill with him at the grill. it might work.

thanks!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Beautiful uhm…your money went into that groceries chica?

Demi lol @ “added affect” is saying: Bruh, this here is my meat and i’m not wanting to eat charcoal marinated ribs.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

Money is not an issue for him, which is why I feel that if he really wants me there, he’ll make it happen. It should not be on me.

BOH just say you aren’t into dude and call it a day…LOL.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

Well, can’t you season the food and just have him cook it??? Who uses salt anymore. I’ve told you guys Nature’s Seasoning and some paprika is all you’ll need. Once you know how much of the seasoning to use, the flavor of your food is fool proof!

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

demi hi babe! lmao. that’s mean. i can’t do that.

cee you better believe it. when we plan a big bbq, we both go to the store with our own list. he goes to kroger (he thinks walmart is ghetto) and i go to walmart. it’s like a race, for me anyways. i try to beat him back to the house so i can say PIMP, LET ME MARINATE THAT FOR YA! LMAO.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Fellas are women really ungrateful nowadays?

A.Red use less the women is feeling you from the jump. Yeah most can be ungrateful as Hellz…These days I rarely have that problem. If we ain’t clicking over the phone (even thought the initial sparks were there when we exchange numbers)…I just cut old girl loose from my mind.

Too many dudes are putting up with that mess from women.

Shyt aint cool at all

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

SJ3000 lmao @ Carlton..Funny guy. First off I was only speaking for the dates..Not BBQ or vacation…Scroll back up and read my post please. You seem to see what you want to see. BBQ…I always call to ask to see what to bring. That is just plain courteous and manners. I will pay half..But why are we debating who should pay for the date? As for your lil rap comment tricking if you got it statement..Rap is entertainment why would you take that serious? I did not say pay my rent..I am just sayin pay for the damn cheeseburger and my strawberry pina colada when we go out…WHY ARE WE DEBATING THIS? I never asked for a guy to take care of me…just sponsor the preliminary phase of the dates. Again what is the big damn deal!! OKAY let me hear you version on how this dating thing should go from dates 1 through 10?

By Foots

May 27, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs She simply tore ENTIRE leaf off from both sides and cooked it that way. Much like leafy spinach only leafy collards.

I cook them this way, but I cut them up when they are about 2/3 done. When you make multiple cuts before cooking, I think it leaches out some of the nutrients and flavor. At least that’s how my people told me. So I remove the leaf from the stem and after washing really good, put them in the pot whole. After about two hours, then I cut them up. Another hour to get all good and seasoned and they’re good to go.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

sexy i do season what i take over there, but he burns everything too. everything! all his food is black coming off the grill. my boys clown him everytime. uncle jay, why it gotta be black? lmao. omg.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

Demi BOH just say you aren’t into dude and call it a day really. It’s just harder when perks are involved.

foots I didn’t know you cook. I was about to break up with you over the church stuff but I can overlook that for a good meal. What’s your specialty?

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Ok, but you cut them up at some point. I stared at those greens for a long time b4 putting on my plate. I don’t use much stem. It messes w/my innards so I don’t put much in my greens.

FBeautifulT, every piece of meat the bbq I went to yesterday was charcoal black. My, my my. I had a burger and called it a day. How the hell do you ruin so much food. I mean if you broke of a piece of the chicken/rib/hotdog all you would get is ASH! Unbelieveable! Men, sometimes you have to recognize to just give up the meat prongs (or whatever they’re called that you pick up the mean with to turn over).

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Beautiful i’m with Leggs on this one. You gotta get in there (kitchen) and prep for ole boi (help out but DONT help). Make it a team/fam tradition and get sis involved let her mix something for you all. It can turn out better.

2 years and you still flossing ole charcoal? uh…no.

btw - where is Jamo? Sis if you sittin in on this, jerk was good.

By For Real

May 27, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Wait a minute, so BOH is not going to see a chick?????

And when did Beautiful contract Hypertension??

By Foots

May 27, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this

Truth Of course I cook! I’ every woman, remember? Collard greens and banana pudding are my specialties, but I can cook whatever is required.

We still have to break up though. When it comes time to bless the food and you look at me like “What chu lookin at me for?”, it would be over anyway. LOL!

By Foots

May 27, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I mean if you broke of a piece of the chicken/rib/hotdog all you would get is ASH!

LOL! Now that’s BURNT. That’s cancer causing BURNT.

Beautiful Maybe that’s an angle to use: Overly charred foods have been known to contribute to cancer. Leave an FDA research paper near the grill and see if he takes the hint.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this

TRUTH The game is very lame…Make it simple..It’s expensive to men because they ARE not creative. When you think of date guys automatically assume…dinner and movie. Ok..but that is kind of played. Be creative…take her to aquarium, pottery class, football game. But SJ3000 & Truth since SJ3K..Keeps complaining about his money…My dream date and a unique one would be to go fishing (of course with the Xrated) and sit and talk. If a guy can pull that off for me that would be cool. Going fishing is not expensive and I am sure most guys would enjoy doing it. Dating does not have to break the bank…Hell GAS does not need any help…that alone will have broke down in the knees. That’s a lil piece of the game SJ3000. Although I must admit that could not work for every woman but that would be too sweet for me. You get what you want FISHING and I get what I want TALKING & Xrated..lol!

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

A.Red maybe if men stop leading with their wallet all the time and come with some real substance…Maybe that will meet up with real women, instead of salty Bishes.

While I don’t get a$$ like I use too, I am pretty use to dating quality women without coming out of pocket all the damn time, LOL.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

We still have to break up though. When it comes time to bless the food and you look at me like “What chu lookin at me for?”, it would be over anyway LMAO.

for real you silly boi!

foots my thing is lasagna. it’s pretty darn good.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

He said: Impossible for me to get Road Rage…Ahh, No Car - Strike 2

Go to pick you up. Wrinkled & disheveled enough to raise brow. Instinct says he may not work here, so much as reside here…Homeless Shelter Honey NO! NO! NO! - Strike 3 trillion.

mytwo not good,… not good.

Okay, Raqi/Darrell/TheMelo/6’1/Cool/abc/Binford2/Tazzee/IslandG/PoppaG/QDT you all need to be accounted for…we are a gang….

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

Demi/Truth Dude is cool, its just that…..oh, nevermind.

Rell You are so funny dude.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

Beautiful uhm…your money went into that groceries chica?

LOL. I mean, is it that hard? Either tell him or eat before you get there. It’s his grill, no one is forcing you to eat his nasty food.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

lol @ ARed (accounted for) thought you dipped.

I mean, is it that hard? Either tell him or eat before you get there. It’s his grill, no one is forcing you to eat his nasty food.

…you know!?!

By Kym

May 27, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Of course no one asked me but here is my opinion..

Date one-Meet and greet..Agreed on spot and payment is dutch.

Date two-Depends on who asked who out for second date…if male he pays..if female she pays. If he is so uncomfortable(lawd only knows why) then say ok dutch again

Date three-Repeat of date two with conditions..if he paid date two then she should offer to pay date three(not independant just courtesy.

Dates four through 10-Repeat of date 3 until someone says we are a couple and even then share the wealth..Hell gas is high, groceries are high,blah..just share the wealth and compromise to the current conditions. Cheaper dates, dinner and a movie at home etc.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this

Blow even better, a lot of these dude are dang near boring as hell…So the only thing they can do is show their wallet…Not to brag on myself, I’ll turn an outing to Mickey D into hella fun….just ask a few of my lesbian friends.

Truth you are so right about that.

CeeCee naw, you gotta be hood with some folks…Naw, M/Ker dis shyt nasti’a denna Bish!! Who in the F/K taught yo a$$ howda cook and don’t tell me dem N’ggas in F/K’n Cell block D??!! You just like yo daddy, big and slow, you big non-cooking a$$ dummie!!

Yeah, my family aren’t too nice if you burn food.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this

ared i wanna see you go to someone’s house and NOT EAT. that is rude. well, to me it is.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

ARed (accounted for) thought you dipped.

Cemeeli - I actually have to do work this week. My boss was on vacay and I totally messed around. Paying for it now.

In addition one of my teams got hot now I gotta go to NY at the end of the week. Killed my Sexy and the City party!

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

Footsy Wootsy We still have to break up though. Ok, now i’m devastated. I’m gonna need some time to recover. 1,2,3 Ok, I’m over it. When you inviting me over for dinner? LOL A chick that can cook can save a fella at least $300 bux a month. If she’s not cooking you have to spend alot more time eating out, and the gas alone will kill you.

Blow what is xrated? You talk about that alot. your right, a date is anything we do thats together. Doesn’t have to be dinner.

BOH he may be cool but like Demi said you’re not into him.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 27, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

LOL…i thought food was supposed to help bring people together and not cause folks to breakup! My lady friend and I tag teamed yesterday with me cooking chicken, steak, smoked sausage and hamburgers on the grill. She took care of the baked beans, mac n cheese and brownies a la mode. We invited some folks over and had a good time. Sorry The Truth…no alocoholic intake bruh!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

Demi I understand bruh. My family is not going to let you burn food!!! Them will shut the kitchen/garage/washer-dryer/kids play area…shut’n all that DOWN! …and find out who been in the kitchen/tryin to cook and make you go sit yo’ happy self down somewhere. Be “CODE ADAM” in the whole spot.

Kym

Hell gas is high, groceries are high,blah..just share the wealth.

…blaming that ^ one on Harpo or Tolle? lol

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

i wanna see you go to someone’s house and NOT EAT. that is rude. well, to me it is.

Hmm…well, Angie, talking about your brother in law behind his back is probably MORE rude. In addition, who is watching what you eat? Eat some sides or something then.

You make simple ish so complicated.

By Poppa Grande

May 27, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Beautiful i wanna see you go to someone’s house and NOT EAT. that is rude. well, to me it is

Somewhere you have to draw the line. I have gone to other people’s houses and not eaten. There was one time where I even told a girl that her place was just too nasty in which to eat.

Most of the time, if tactifully done, you can tell anyone anything.

There is nothing wrong about caring about others feelings, but somewhere down the line you have to look out for number 1 or no one else will.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

ARed what better place to be right now, than NYC? Please, go, enjoy and you can catch a SnC Party and a Girl’s Night Soriee’ anytime/all summer.

Work smart and get out of here.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

i thought food was supposed to help bring people together and not cause folks to breakup! My lady friend and I tag teamed yesterday with me cooking chicken, steak, smoked sausage and hamburgers on the grill. She took care of the baked beans, mac n cheese and brownies a la mode. We invited some folks over and had a good time.

Amen KP! Man of the hour and I did this as well. Well, neither of us wanted to cook, so he took care of the main dish and drank, and I took care of all the sides, snacks and non-alcoholic beverages. A good time was had by all with no drama.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

ared kiss my azz girlie! you make me so sick. skip my post pls.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

Somewhere you have to draw the line. I have gone to other people’s houses and not eaten. There was one time where I even told a girl that her place was just too nasty in which to eat.

Poppa Grande - Exactly! Come on now, a LOT of folks aren’t gonna eat if they don’t know you and your kitchen like that! LOL. Look at office potlucks. LOL

Though because I’m skinny, I can usually get away with not eating since no one expects me too.

Cemeeli - Girl…I wish I was going to NYC! No, I’ll be in NY, but no where near where Carrie and nem ran! LOL

But I did reschedule for Saturday. It’s just not the same as opening nite!

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

Using whole name cuz u in trouble Cemeeli, I reject that flashback! Fool snuck me w/ call yesterday. HUH?!?! Now placing blame on you.

Speakin of Bucky and Talkin XRated while drinkin XRated… Anyone read this other thread? Woman to Woman (Which I Quite possibly linked incorrectly. Not techno-saavy ;) But can we just calm down with censoring things!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

ared kiss my azz girlie! you make me so sick. skip my post pls

Angie - Make me.

Actually, I did skip it, because several posters gave you plenty of good advice, but you’re always full of excuses.

By Foots

May 27, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs You got any more popcorn and Fanta?? Amazon and Beautiful will be putting on the afternoon matinee… LOL!

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

ARed/Angie, let’s stay in neutral corners. Starting Wednesday we can jump down each other’s throat…MLBs clear those thoughts!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

Beautiful it doesn’t have to be an insulting to someone if you don’t eat their food. you have to be nice about it.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

BOH to be fair, if I was the one who brought the trip up, its on me. Now, had you been the one who brought the trip up in the first place, it’s on you to get here and on me to take care of things once you’ve arrive…common sense most folks seem to lack nowadays.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

ared you wanna go there w/me?

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

Beautiful ared kiss my azz girlie! you make me so sick. skip my post pls. LMAO classic Hold on you two, let me get my refreshments.

Kp liqour that chick up and meet the real woman. Don’t be afraid to spank her if that’s what she needs. BTW, if ol girl is kinky when you do get to that point will you leave her? Let’s say hair pulling or azz slapping. LMAO

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

Angie - Yawn. Huh? Go where with who? Get a life. Read Cemeeli’s 2:53 if you still haven’t figured it out.

By Foots

May 27, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs We think too much alike sometimes. LOL!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

Ared Dont get her started…pls. or betta yet please do…I am bored as hell!

By Poppa Grande

May 27, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

Blow When you think of date guys automatically assume…dinner and movie. Ok..but that is kind of played. Be creative…take her to aquarium, pottery class, football game

I have to give you some props on that dating tip. Some people tend to forget. There are tons of things to do. There is more to do than dinner and a movie. Even now, the wife and I don’t see many movies together. In eight years, its probably been less than ten.

On Topic After six months of dating, the wife and I took our first trip. It was to New Orleans for the Falcons/Saints game weekend. It was a blast. Actually, I paid for flight (Delta buddy passes), She paid for the rental car (Mustang Convertible), and we split the hotel 50/50. We took turns paying for meals. For example, Friday I paid for meals, Saturday, she sprung for Landry’s & Cafe Du Monde, and Sunday, I paid for breakfast at Mother’s and dinner at PF Chang in Metaire, LA.

Of Course, We worked it out before we left. Anything else such as grave yard tours or Harrah’s Casino was on the person who suggested it. (Although, I did pay for a thing or two that she suggested.)

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

ared how about i finish this since you started it!!! wait, you better call ya boi and let him know that you are about to make an azz outta you and him on this blog. and how you’re about to be exposed to blogsville as a real JUMPOFF! now you betta watch yo self! everyday your comments are directed towards me. i WAS (not anymore) being the grown lady by ignoring them. you wanna go there. GO! btw, there’s gonna be a lot of men who are not attracted to me because i’m celibate. i’m prepared for that and willing to let any good man go because i won’t give him the panties. hint, hint. who is he (a guy livin’ the FABULOUS SINGLE LIFE) gonna try and spend more time with? me or some JUMPOFF givin’ the puddy away? fellas, help her out! lol. ;-)

Beautiful waiting with a devilish grin on her face

what did ol’ boi say? lmao. don’t forget to get ya lies and stories straight before you two begin shootin’ from the hip.

i have popcorn, coke, gummy worms, starburst and juju bees for sales. lol. get it while the gettin’ good folks. the show will begin in 5 mins. hopefully today is the last day of this feud between me and her. jealous biatches, i tell ya.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this

lol @ A’s 2:38 makin’ it complicated. whew…

and

If you’ ain’t listen’n to me listen to Poppa or Cee!!! ha.

yall are a cwazi bunch!

By Jamocamecrazy

May 27, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon, ALL!!!

….just recovering from a well spent 3 day wknd….had about as much rest as I did “play”. As I am still in somewhat of a daze as I walk through the office justa’ “skinnin’ and grinnin’ “ (like a dayum chess-cat)….

Sup Cee, MML…and how I could forget…the Oh, so debonair, Sir Truth(seaman)….you know I couldn’t resist that one!!! (thx “Slimgina”) LMAO!!!

@ Cee:

So good to hear you all enjoyed “the jerk”….I was wondering about that this wknd. Which base marinade did you all decide upon…or should I guess…the bourbon? LOL!!!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

aaaahhhhhh…kekekekeke….

Why o why did i decide to sit next to ARed on the Perch today? DANG IT!!!

mytwo i rememeber couple days about ole boi…i was just stuck…and hayo now i wasn’t thinkin’. Just stuck? Why was he even comming at my gurl twosense like that ANYWAY?

BTW when i’on wanna eat other folks dish i ask for a mint or something…just to keep it busy. Always keep some chips, trailmix and perishable snacks in the car if you forgot to eat before the gathering. You never know.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

Foots, Fanta Pineapple and the blog’s favorite….kettle corn! Scooch (sp?)over!

Had to laugh at you ARed w/Make Me!

By Foots

May 27, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

Truth SexyLeggs and I usually supply the popcorn and Fanta, but since Beautiful is selling concessions at her own show, I think I’m going to partake of her goodness. She has gummy worms.

Beautiful Are you also selling the $2 gas cards?? I went to For Real’s to get a couple last week, but he was selling them for $5 and something about that didn’t seem quite right. LOL

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Demi is now filling a kiddie pool with water’n’dirt for the soon to be cat fight…Meeeeeeeeow!!

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

Aw suki suki. Ok, forget about Wednesday, it’s on and popping! DING!

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

…is selling concessions at her own show, = funny as hell!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

YUMMY gummy worms…I will take a bag on those…oh be light on the butter on that popcorn….tryin to watch the salt.

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Yeah, Cee I was stuck too. Thinkin’. Why come -yes, why- I even entertain the thought…And I don’t usually endorse this form of entertainment but Ahem…

Beauty, ARed I got the jar of Vaseline and will gladly hold your earrings. Loser’s will be pawned, tho.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Jamo

So good to hear you all enjoyed “the jerk”….I was wondering about that this wknd. Which base marinade did you all decide upon…or should I guess…the bourbon?

It was GREAT! Between the ambrosia, fruit and grilled jerk folks didn’t wanna leave…i brought my dry rub (jerk) just in case he forgot how you said to marinade overnight.

The orange juice and dressing dip from mytwo was used on one batch. And they mentioned the other batch was “spiked”…surely your version.

Luau/pool party was a very nice gathering. I love entertaining kids (yall know this already). I found out 2 girls have a crush on the short boy (which he mentioned b4). NOW, i know exactly who they are. Truth on a black and other a white chic….hmmm.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 27, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Dang…this blog is better than MMA (mixed martial arts)…LOL.

Truth, no one has taken me to that level so I haven’t had to walk away yet. God must be protecting me :)

By kinderbabe

May 27, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

cemeeli you’re funny. changing me from kinderbabe to kindermama to merry maid…lol. i am done cleaning up after little kids, at least for the summer.:)

By Kym

May 27, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Another episode of As the Blog turns I see..alright who did the naked rumba with who..and who is the daddy, and who really did shoot J.R.?-Please no alleybat behavior today folks

By Rell

May 27, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

whatever is about to go down does not need to be aired out on this forum…i think the two ladies need to chop this up off blog!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

ARed said she ain’t thinking about none of our bunch and went to go pack. getting ready for trip.

oh…i meant to say always keep a non-perishable snack in the car.

By Kym

May 27, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

Cee No that was a Kym original thank you LMAO

Sexxy Are you a paralegal?

I think Beautiful and Amazon work together or something..cause some of these blog outbursts feel rigged..I may have to ask for my ticket money back on this ride.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

The Truth pre cuts slits into Ared/Angie’s blouses to facilitate easy tearing and removal. Photos and video for sale later.

footsy Wootsy gummy worms sounds way to much like a disease to me. I’ll go with some basic popcorn. LOL

LET’S GET READY TO RUMBLE

IN THE RED CORNER WE HAVE SKINNY MINI, THE 8TH WONDER OF THE WORLD WEARING COTTON BRIEFS, THE RED BARON OF BRAWL, ARED

IN THE BLUE CORNER WE HAVE BI BI BABY, THE GOING BACK TO CALI GIRL, ANGIE THE FIGHTING ANGEL

DING DING DING

Kp ask god to stop protecting you and get you’re wild thang on. LOL Yeah, you thought they had a jones for you in here. They’ll turn on anyone at the drop of a hat. It’s a shark tank. now grab a seat and hand me that popcorn. Watch the bra’s fly. LOL

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

Demi He did make the offer. He is interested in getting to know me and I him, we met in neutral territory and he went on and on about how beautyful Jamaica is. I told him I’d celebrated my 30th B’day in Ocho Rios, just in December and he said that I should let him really show me Jamaica. The islands, the culture, people, etc. So I’m like cool, it would be nice to see the uncommercialized side of Jamaica. Anyway, he said I want you to come to Jamaica and everything is on me. He clearly offered. Not to beat this into the ground anymore than it has been already, but I just don’t feel like I should be responsible for the plane ticket. Besides, I may end up “accomodating” myself anyway if this dude tries to flip on me. No, I don’t know him like that, but I have enough points and people of reference there if anything suspect or uncomfortable happened. I would not be stranded in any sense. I had to run it by you guys with today’s topic and all.

Ironically, I come out looking like I’m cheap, ungrateful, and broke. Which is quite hilarious.

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Demi He did make the offer. He is interested in getting to know me and I him, we met in neutral territory and he went on and on about how beautyful Jamaica is. I told him I’d celebrated my 30th B’day in Ocho Rios, just in December and he said that I should let him really show me Jamaica. The islands, the culture, people, etc. So I’m like cool, it would be nice to see the uncommercialized side of Jamaica. Anyway, he said I want you to come to Jamaica and everything is on me. He clearly offered. Not to beat this into the ground anymore than it has been already, but I just don’t feel like I should be responsible for the plane ticket. Besides, I may end up “accomodating” myself anyway if this dude tries to flip on me. No, I don’t know him like that, but I have enough points and people of reference there if anything suspect or uncomfortable happened. I would not be stranded in any sense. I had to run it by you guys with today’s topic and all.

Ironically, I come out looking like I’m cheap, ungrateful, and broke. Which is quite hilarious.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

said she ain’t thinking about none of our bunch and went to go pack. getting ready for trip.

Cemeeli - I mean really. I was doing work, not even concerned what lies Looney Tunes is making up.

I’m still just trying to figure out what she has to be jealous of? Cuz I don’t know anyone on the blog that wants to live her sad little life. LOL

Newsflash Angie. I have never been a jumpoff, lest of all over some internet blogging. So whatever story you think you know, was someone pulling your gullible leg. Keep falling for that okey doke. LOL

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

maybe it was the spirits the reason folks didn’ want to leave the party. Kids sleepy, wrinkle from pool water and i’m like yall been here 4+ hrs. HELLO!!!

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

ared ask him to tell you about him offering to drive me to California. ask him about him asking me to extend my stay in GA. hmmmm.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

BOH More so ungrateful than anything…If you dont’ know ole boy…you gonna travel out the country just to see how he is? That is a bit much don’t you think? Be safe girl…

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

Angie - Uh…good for you? Why would I care?

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

Kym You could be on to sumthin’. What if this is the grown up version of lonelygirl15 charade from you tube? And yes, I used the phrase grown up loosely.

BOH You’re right to look at from all angles. I’m thinkin’ I’d feel less beholden to him if I handled air. Not that you should feel that way, regardless, it’s just how I am. And even tho we know most men aren’t into tests or anything like that, kinda wonder if he’s waitin for you to mention making the arrangements to say oh, I plan to reimburse you… But nah, he wouldn’t be testing you to gauge interest level. Nope.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

I know good n’ well ARed and B not gonna’ fight over no rib sandwhich!!!

Lemme go get Mister on ya’ll.

Cee walking fast cause just got a wif of Beautiful and she smell like somebody else’s sauce…we gonna have to bkgrnd screen a lil closer on this bloggang initiation.

B you know better than to be eating other folks BBQ unless you’ve gotten a recipe from someone in our Section 8~Trillion…

By Kym

May 27, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Beautiful All fun aside you are looking like the crazy chick standing in the bushes. Let it, him and AmazonRed go. Good grief! You’re moving, he(insert suspect dude here) moving on, and so are the days of our lives.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

BOH you just worded your post the wrong way…but dude should have just said, “If you pay for your flight here, I will take care of everything else.” That along, would’ve made things a lot easier.

He just trying to gauge your interest in him, but went about it the wrong way. (Dude loss all chances at the money kitty, LOL)

I say go and have fun with yo cheap and ungrateful self…

BOH is now beating Demi ungracefully

I see bitties!!

Demi thought before passing the F/K out from the onslaught of blows.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

ared why would you CARE??? you planning trips and pool parties with him aren’t you? you’re waiting on a title of SO, aren’t you?

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

I know good n’ well ARed and B not gonna’ fight over no rib sandwhich!!!

Cemeeli - LMAO! I know I’m not. The only one chasing blog azz on here is Angie. I am quite capable of finding a date OFF line.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Bit O Horny alot of times guys will say things when they first meet you that just sounds good. Maybe after talking with you more he decided you’re good enough to stay over his flat, which is free, but not worth the price of a ticket. It’s a win/win for him. If you go he has a shot at some imported booty. If not he’ll go with the locals. Outside of a few meals he came out like roses. LOL (Btw, don’t take this personal. It’s all business.) You were shooting for an all expenses paid vacation and he was shooting for some low cost booty. Stale mate.

Ironically, I come out looking like I’m cheap, ungrateful, and broke. Which is quite hilarious. The Truth now choking on his coke.

By Kym

May 27, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

Alright you two do know that suspect number one is cracking the hell up at all of this?.

I hope this is not one of those church dudes that comes in here..cause he must have the deaconess board at the church on high alert all the time.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

why would you CARE??? you planning trips and pool parties with him aren’t you? you’re waiting on a title of SO, aren’t you?

Um…no. I’m not. So don’t you feel stupid?

You poor thing. I don’t need to date folks from this blog sweetheart.

How embarrassing for you.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

mytwocents most cats with money and tired of the game tend to do that…gauge a women’s interest in him…Hellz most cats tired of the game do that…A great way to weed out women who adds no value to your life.

By Rell

May 27, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

@Truth….finally i was going to say that this morning…but was not in the mood for the RELL UR AZZ stuff today….lol….folks be on some real live i need saving stuff….ladies when you in the club and a dude is trying to talk to you but you cant hear him…it is not from the loud music…but it is coming from his cape….i mean who can hear with a dayum cape going at mach 1 when you trying to have a convo…so ladies next time a guy comes up and tries to talk and you cant hear…remember to back away and never look back…..that will be a capt-sav-a…..lol….real dudes speak clearly and sometimes you get chose with your mouth closed..feel me

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

whatever trick … anyhoo.

By Demi <=== bored

May 27, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

Who else besides me, enjoy watching women bump kats?

now waiting for Melo to start shyt with B and A.Red

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this

So for you in blogland scratching their heads…let me fill you in since we’re closing in on 5…

Remember Angie had this blog crush? I thought it was a while ago, but she posted this on KP’s blog about him recently. (May 1 entry)

for example, there’s this one guy who lurks on the blog everyday who i adore so much. he has known for a long while now that i’m moving back home to CA in June. if for some reason he chooses me after leaving the fabulous single life he so much enjoys, lol, i’ll move to any place on earth to be with him.

So for some reason, this alley bat (thanks Kym) has gotten the idea that her crush and I are an item. Because in her world, the only available men in Atlanta are on this blog. LOL. She literally calls this guy up and asks if we are dating.

And now she wants to scratch my internet eyes out thinking we’re in some type of competition for some internet azz. LMAO!!!!!!

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

Demi what if she’s a lil low on funds. He want you to go. He feelin you and you him. He got it? Uhmmm…is it still trickin?

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

keep it comin’ JUMPOFF. you can’t hide now.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

Rell, I know you didn’t just post that. You have had many blog fights and now you’re banning one! That’s rich! Proof that experience can enlighten some.

Kym, no I’m not a paralegal, but I do have legal skills (just nothing certified behind a degree (other than my BA). I’ll try not to land anyone in jail (LOL).

All I could vision was two h.s. students fighting over some dude who may or may not even care!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

See how Angie just makes simple things complicated? She’s on here jumping bad on here because she erroneously got the impression that two bloggers are dating…and she happened to have a crush on one.

Even if it were true…if he wanted her, he’d be with her

Instead…crickets

All that huffin and puffing to dismiss it with a “whatever trick.” LMAO. How anti-climatic. The blog is very disappointed with the ending!

I guess the show’s over folks. But I think Angie has proved to be a few fries short of that Happy Meal. :-/

By Alvin

May 27, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed I am speechless…Alvin is sitting in front of his pc with his mouth open and shock as hell at the low-ness of the blog

I felt the whole take in air off that post…Oh no the Bish didn’t!!

By Jamocamecrazy

May 27, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

@ Cee:

“Kids sleepy, wrinkle from pool water and i’m like yall been here 4+ hrs. HELLO!!!…”

Ummm…… You didn’t happen to sneak any of the bourbon grilled portion to the kiddies? …sounds like it !!!, LOL! Tell the truth that was part of the plan:get their lil’ butts “tired” and all played-out, huh?!!! That will def do it.

…”maybe it was the spirits the reason folks didn’ want to leave the party…”

Somethin’ tells me some of em’ were prob suckin’ the “liquor juice” out da’ meat before chewing!!!! LMAO!!! Sounds like ya’ll really did it up in there!!!

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

Ok, game, set and match go to Ared. Angie, you’ve been officially busted. Petty dating quarles should not be aired out in blogsville. Makes you look real stupid. Isn’t this blog for adults?

Information: Strokers is free tonight for the cat lovers.

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

it’s 4:30. time to go home and feed the kids. until tomorrow. pls skip my post from now on. i’m too old for this stuff. lol.

good nite.

By SexyLeggs

May 27, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

No you didn’t ARed! Girl, you came out with both barrells swinging. Whew…Foots/Kym and all WLBs we need to set up a triage!!!! STAT!

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Alvin - What’s low really? All of this is public information. I posted last week about personal discretion and also about Angie falling into the Matrix.

Clearly, she’s into a guy who doesn’t want her. She’s in too deep. She’s so blind she doesn’t realize that she’s seeing things that aren’t there.

She needs a reality check, and since she somehow things I’m involved. I’m happy to give it to her.

I just hope she doesn’t harm herself or something.

By Bit-O-Honey

May 27, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

Blow what exactly should I be grateful for? I mean my time is valued as well. I’ve been to Jamaica, so it’s not like he’s putting me on….please elaborate.

DemiLOL..you’re sick.

Truth Bit-O-Horney is correct my friend. Ha! It could be a win-win for the both of us b/c dude is hella sexy. He didn’t have to front a trip to fugg, maybe I wanted to do that anyway……I’m just saying tho….LOL

By Kym

May 27, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

Sexxy I asked because I am thinking of joining the GA Association of Paralegals..and doing research right now..pros and cons of joining

Yep like I said earlier crazy chick in the bushes..

By feeling Beautiful today

May 27, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

of course you’re going to take her side. that’s ya gurl. duh.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

pls skip my post from now on. i’m too old for this stuff. lol

Yes you are.

So you skip my posts Smarticus, since you’re the one with the “problem.” I’ll post as I see fit.

Common sense ain’t that common I see.

By Alvin

May 27, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli if I was doing it for the p-dussy yes…but it’s all about your motive.

By Rell

May 27, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

@sexyleggs..do you miss me or something….do we need to meet for a drank….i am feeling alot of heat coming from that counch…..lol…

By mytwocents

May 27, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

Demi Yup. Different wording woulda helped. But also prob insult certain women. Catch 22. Dude can’t win for losin.

Cee DFACs now revoking your child care license.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

so yall really wasn’t spewing over a rib sandwhich!?!

By Alvin

May 27, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed but yo sexy a$$ actually went to another site to pull the info, that was what made it cold and funny as hell…All I can say is damn

By Kym

May 27, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

Truth Lawd tell me all this hub bub is not over you. Sweet Christmas who in the hell left the gates open? LMAO

By Poppa Grande

May 27, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

Kym I’ve been a paralegal for quite sometime. However, I didn’t join the Association. However, it seems to be good for connections. You never know. Even law firms have been slashing staff lately, so it might not be a bad idea to mingle with other folks.

I don’t know what dues if any or applicable.

Right now, I am not working as a paralegal. I am in law school.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Dang it was the bbq sauce wasn’t it?

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

so yall really wasn’t spewing over a rib sandwhich!?!

Cemeeli - LMAO! She was, I’m not.

By Alvin

May 27, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

mytwocents true true, but you know what…it keep most of us from becoming salty dudes. Sometimes it is better to put it out there and hope for the best.

By Kym

May 27, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

PoppaG Thanks so much for that information. I may give it a shot. Yearly dues are not to bad.

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

Bit O Horney like I said, it’s all just business. Sometimes things work out and sometimes not. Personally I wouldn’t travel to the islands to get some azz. $500 bucks for a shot of azz. I could rent 3 dancers and party all night for that. Good luck with that.

Angie I must say of all the brawls i’ve ever witnessed on this thing that was the weakest. You pulled out a double barrell loaded with confetti. SMDH

Kym naw, not me. Ared and I can only be around each other for 3 minutes before we start fighting. I just love her from a distance. Plus I get ill when I see white cotton briefs.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

Truth Lawd tell me all this hub bub is not over you. Sweet Christmas who in the hell left the gates open? LMAO

omg…Kym i am CRYING!!

mytwo tea….is gone.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

Kym - It’s not Truth. Remember she said he lurks on here mostly.

By the way, I don’t call ANYONE on this blog about anything that happens on this blog. I’m not in the Matrix.

I’ve just got to clear my good blog name. LOL

Alvin - Wasn’t like it was hard to find. LOL. His blog is advertised on here. Several bloggers went to read it. Only one dumb dumb wanted to post her life story like it was her diary.

Yeah, I guess I sound mean, but I can’t handle grown azz 40 year old women with kid gloves. Especially over stuff I’m not even involved in. Sorry.

By For Real

May 27, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

so let me see:

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

…guess someone’s background check did not come back negative…

…okay, okay ARed i’ll stop. I’m craking up at myself over here.

By AmazonRed

May 27, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - Can I leave the closing thoughts of the day? Cool.

AmazonRed’s words of wisdom: “If you are going to go to the mat over some internet “crush” (fatal attraction)…make sure he actually is your MAN!”

And with that, I bid you good night. :-)

By Alvin

May 27, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed LOL ok bey…

B where you at?

2can you don’t ever be in this Bish and folks be still talking about you, LOL

By Kym

May 27, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Truth and Amazon Well thank goodness for that..lawd I was about to revoke someone’s KYSTC Card(Keep your s*(&t together card) Well whoever you are Suspect Number One you are on alert. She will be in your bushes tonight…don’t say you were not warn.

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

ForReal i was protecting the kiddies, i promise…it was them drinking grown up’s fault. Ask the kiddies. No really it was very cool

Lol…yall are some bunch….

Be easy.

chair spin

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

ARED And now she wants to scratch my internet eyes out thinking we’re in some type of competition for some internet azz. LMAO!!!!!!

BLOW NOW PULLING OFF BELT AND WHIPPIN ARED

OMGOSH! I can not breathe..Help me..Please ARED stop it. I can not take anymore!! You are retarded girl…Too damn funny!! So funny..You got her quiet now!

Only one dumb dumb wanted to post her life story like it was her diary

lmaooooooooooooooooooooo

Truth Strokers free tonight..How about me and you go get some drinks….I’ll maybe think about molesting you later on in the night. But you have to leave those big puppies at home. But you can bring your BIG puppy….lol

By Foots

May 27, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

WHOO!!! Did I miss the finale or what??? Double barrels of confetti??? LOL!!!! Y’all made my day!

By The Truth

May 27, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

Kym it’s Pisces. ol boy must be kicking some wicked game. The MLB bows before you pisces. LOL

By Cemeeli

May 27, 2008 5:04 PM | Link to this

If he chooses me? wow

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 27, 2008 5:05 PM | Link to this

Now just because these are more directed to women about the men in their lives does not mean that SOME of these cannot apply to men about the women in their lives.

By Kym

May 27, 2008 5:08 PM | Link to this

Truth-Cee Tomorrow we will be more present so that we can rise above this gossip stuff. Okay?

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