Misadventures in Atlanta

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone! Let’s keep the discussion as grown up as possible today, hmk?

Have a great day!

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 8:39 AM | Link to this

People and including me tend to express what they are seeking through pure communication…non verbal and verbal…The 2 min barrier is important also with cues…Intentions are the it is up to one to keep it or keep moving if it does not fit their scheme…

By Angie

May 8, 2008 8:41 AM | Link to this

happy mother’s day!!! to me and all the moms on the blog. keep up the good work!

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

This is a No Brainer….Women are definitely more of the teaser’s. I don’t think men necessarily hide their want to get in the puddy. I think of it sort of like a Bull & Matador….Men enjoy the chase & let’s fess up ladies…we enjoy the tease. We use our physical attributes, style of dress, flirty personality, etc as our cape to entice the beast…oops i meant guy. If the play lasts too long the bull/guy becomes disinterested or either gets distracted by something else. (yes i probably ate too late last night lol) But initially a little teasing goes on from both sides, a mental play of checkers or chess…whichever your pleasure.

Today’s breakfast is a trough of creamed corn and grilled flour tortillas leftover from Cinco de Mayo…to drink we have plenty of half-drunken bottles of water….(blog is going green) lol

By Angie

May 8, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

we don’t tease men! i don’t know what slim is talkin’ bout.

fellas, i’m wearing my mini jean skirt today for easy access. lol.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 9:08 AM | Link to this

Good morning!!! The temptation of giving in to the representative has gotten a lot of people in trouble (both men and women). How many people would you have actually been intimate if you had waited to meet the ‘real’ person and not the one you became infatuated with? I’m sure the list would shrink dramatically.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

Good one today Wise! Hello everyone. As you know this is the part of the month when I sponsor breakfast because my temp has foodstamps. BRB with a feast!

By Angie

May 8, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

kp you got mail!

By QC

May 8, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

Morning everyone! Have a pleasant day and ENJOY LIFE :)

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

Slim now crossing and uncrossing her legs like Sharon Stone in Fatal Attraction…but not wearing a seductive white dress….actually wearing a skort with granny panties and bikini-area side burns

Angie LMAO..girl go put some panties on.

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

hey, wise…waving…

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 8, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

Mawnin Errbody! Is today Friday??

Wow SlimOne, you said exactly what I was gonna say!! LOL Thanks for putting that out for me! I’ll pass on the blog breakfast. Mo now headed to Blogsville Starbucks

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

Breakfast consists of *fried fish, grits, fried chicken, turkey bacon, turkey sausage, toast, english muffins, bagels, cream cheese, assortment of omlets made to order, hashbrowns, various juices, fuji water, fresh fruit, (save me some pineapples) cherrios for a healthy heart and oatmeal. Pepsi’s for my girls! Forehead kisses to the guys & girls. BRB enjoy!

By abc

May 8, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

Women are obviously the bigger teases, even if they pass Tell The Truth 101. Presenting a facade of what they consider to be model behavior is what women do for a living. It’s how they resolve conflict, by avoiding it in the first place, by keeping secrets and telling lies.

I mean, come on — what do you suppose even gives rise to the topic?

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

Dayuum, I forgot the gravy brb

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

KP A fellow co-worker wanted me to ask you this: who gets more pddy Preachers or Pimps? and why?

Mo no problem. You sure you don’t wanna cremed corn tortilla?

By QC

May 8, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

Enjoy this website of great music

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By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

abc, way to stir it up nice and early this morning! Can’t wait to see the responses.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

OMG WiseD this is a fabulous topic. I have said it 1000 times they show you all the exciting parts of a movie to draw you in and sometimes those in the preview are the only exciting parts. I will address a mixture of two things here.

I totally agree about the teaser. Good qualities are paraded to entice the spectator. Now who is to fault when the actual model in its entirety turns out to be a dud? The teaser or the teased.

(If you know Steven Seagal sucks as an actor in the last umpteen movies that he made, you best believe just because DMX is co-starring will not change his performance. He will still suck.) But that’s not what we are talking about. Not really but yeah it is. There is a certain type of woman and a certain type of man. You can spot them a mile away. Don’t keep falling for the same (type of) tricks (eye-catching charades).

Wouldn’t it be nice if daters could read the reviews of potential dates? LOL

On a different note: During our dating days Mason once expressed a concern with disdain to me because of a past experience. I told him don’t make me pay for that, hate yourself. He fell for what caught his eye at that time and that was totally his fault. Before coming out of pocket to purchase that ticket consider the fact that there is more than meets the eye.

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville.

Slim you are so right. It’s a game and someone usually gets gored. LOL I’ve chased many capes only to find I was running head first into a wall. I can show you the lumps on my head if you’d like.

Men are for the most part not smart enough to tease. We’re like a football team that keeps trying to run it straight up the middle. No finesse, just brute strength. Personally I dont have the mental capacity to set up a tease situation. The dudes that can do it are called players.

Kym/Similac A New Earth is starting out real light. Is this going to get a little more serious or should I put on a tye-died t-short and fire up a joint?

By DreamsMaterialize

May 8, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

Morning I don’t think our “representative” necessarily reflects the best part of us. It reflects the best part of us that is TANGIBLE when meeting us; clothes, cologne, swag, etc. I can only speak for myself, but my best parts aren’t in my “preview”. You have to see the whole movie to get the best of me.

By M.

May 8, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

@Wise

This links to my post from yesterday when I mentioned how some girls have lately been doing the disappearing act, you go out, then you never hear from them again. Why do some women do that? My friend made the point that they may be dating someone else also, that made them mad, and a new guy will boost their ego and confidence. I guess in that right you can say that the women are tease’s but also guys lead girls on when they know there is no real future beyond tonight…So in retrospect we both are guilty.

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 8, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

SlimOne Oh no thanks chica! I had my fill of Cinco de Mayo for the week. I’ll just drink my starbucks and have a bagel w/cream cheese and some fruit from 6’1.

who gets more pddy Preachers or Pimps? and why? I would like to know the answer to that as well

By Foot2Azz

May 8, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

In my early to mid twenties I enjoyed the thrill of the chase … it was cool using my wits to conquer what I was attracted to. But I got older the more mundane the chase got because I had more responsibilities than chasing azz 24/7. As a result, a tease became a complete turn off. Don’t get me wrong a woman shouldn’t be easy (eventhough easy women are appreciated), but mixed signals kill me.

To keep things simple for myself I rationalize that a woman who plays hard to get for a long time probably doesn’t want to get caught (at least by me). Also I know women will make certain men they claim to be interested in work harder than others for the most ridiculous reasons. I’ve gotten better at spotting this trait women have so I won’t play myself into doing some dumb shyt, while some broke cat is knockin’ the dust off dat azz and laughin cause he’s not puttin in real work to get it.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Lol @ 6’1’ thanks for the chow. Ask sis if i can get some of them. My shorty like Pringles, gatta-aid, hot cheetos, starcrunch, fruit rollups and all fresh fruit…

50 for 200 whas up? j/k

Hey Blog!

Is it their fault for being manipulative or does the responsibility rest on your own shoulders for falling for it?

It’s my own fault. All i had to do was go to the cologne counter and smell all the mens fragrances. There is nothing named Pheromone or Heaven @ the men fragrance counter. this tells yall that i am WEAK when it comes to a good smelling man!

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

Truth Come and let mama push those whittle lumps back into yo head. lol But you’re right too about men being like a football team that keeps driving up the middle. Good analogy. Btw, you missed a spear still stuck in your back. I’ll wait till Ared get in here to grab that for ya!

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

yeah…once dated this guy that by any definition would be a great catch…attractive, sexy, great job, lots of fun to be with…

the first time we were intimate…it lasted all of two minutes…

being queen of second chances…we tried it again the next night…same thing…

he has been forever amongst me and my friends as Hump-Hump-Come…

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Mornin room

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Preachers get more puddy. They fugg the whole congregation week in and week out. A pimp gets to knockoff 3-5 used up sponges. That one was easy.

Foot2AZZ besides having the coolest name in blogsville, you’re right. If I have to chase it I’ll pass. Keep my number and when you want to bring it by you know where I am. LOL

By QC

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee-me-me, Angie, Ared, IslandG, kinderB, Mo

Happy Mothers Day to all the Mothers

By BriteEyez

May 8, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everybody!

How can you spot the “tease” and how do you handle them?

I have been told more times than I recall that I am a tease. I would have to say that I disagree because in my mind, a tease is someone who will offer you something they have no intention on delivering.

However, I wil admit that I am a very touchy, feely person and if I find a man attractive I will allow him into my personal space and make alot of eye contact during conversation. What can I say, I love men!! The look of them, the smell of them, the charm, wit and personalities that they can have and I don’t mind letting them know that I am taking it all in. However, I am always clear when some of these conversations or flirtations turn to the thought or expectation that I am wanting sex. If that is my interest I will state that if not I will also say that so there is not any question.

The down side to that is I have some friends that I get together with every couple of months or so. If there happens to be a guy around that does not know me and expresses interest my male friends will quickly tell him, “Man, don’t waste your time, she ain’t gonna do NOTHING but talk shyt!!” LOL

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

Hola! Hmmm some plot twists can be good & some not so good. I guess how deceived you feel partially depends on your own personality type. Do you love when a story unfolds in a totally different way than you expected or are you ready to demand your ticket $$ back at the first unpredictable occurrence. Of course it’s necessary to factor in what kinda carrot’s been dangled and not delivered.

This topic reminds me of something on your page, KP, which had me wondering if from the male perspective a challenge = a tease. Or is a challenge the next level or two up from being eazy skeezy?

6’1 She got any homegirls in the biz??? Slim Not the bikini-area side burns! he he he

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

someone said needed reposting. never thought i had to ‘cold stamp’ my own.

The purpose of a blog in it’s fludicity is commentary,…and the habitual nature ease a stressfilled/light day. Why in da hellz are some so touchy & interested with what folks are/aren’t doing.

subliminal This is why my guy/man/hubby whateva would occupy me off a blog.

Truth…i’m only @ chptr 5 or sumthin.

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

oh…by the way…the above was my example of the payoff that never came…

(play on words)…LMAO…i SLAY me….

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

LOL SexyCool. See in an instance like that, so many of us are guilty of assuming the greatness of the performance to come based on how it is packaged. We can only blame ourselves.

LMAO You saw a boring movie twice…on purpose.

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

raqi…that was more like a commercial…lol…

By anonymousella

May 8, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

*Did they somehow convince you that there would be some payoff that never came? *

Um yeah. He said “I want to go to school.” Later that became “I want a good job.” He did neither.

He kept saying “I know I have potential, if you just stick with me a little bit longer …” Maaaaan, if you can’t show some progress in two years, when are you going to start? I don’t mean results mind you. I mean I need to see that you’re on the path to where you want to be.

Now that’s my fault for being young and stupid. But he was manipulative in other ways, though I don’t think he realized he was doing it.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

SlimOne, interesting question from your co-worker. I would say it depends on how you define preacher. If you define preacher as someone who self-proclaims a ‘calling’ from God and uses that to influence people, then probably preachers. If you define preacher as someone who has been ‘chosen’ by God to bring forth His Word, then probably pimps get more luv than preachers. Hope this helps!

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. I guess we all put our “representative” first when meeting someone. Some disguise themselves better than others. Me, what you see is what you get. I shoot straight from hip from day one!

Let’s stay on topic because it’s a good one, but to piggyback on yesterday’s topic on classes for women and why I think there’s more a need for men, check this out. Leaving the liquor store last night this guy approached me (he sells incense and oils) saying he’s been watching me for a months and wanted to meet me. He tells me his name and I give mine. He then says “I’m really appreciating your body. I’m not looking for a relationship but I would love to have sex with you.” Not showing any shock value on my face I say “How old are you (42). Then I say, so you felt this would be the best way to approach me? Thanks for your honesty but I’m not interested. I drove home SMH! Yes, some of you need classes!!!!

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Good morning all. I’m over San Diego. I’m over drinking. I did like making a few dollars from my co-workers for my sexy moves tho. LOL

I am a reformed tease. Done in my 20s. I see now that it wasn’t fair, but at the time I knew guys were after one thing (or at least one thing upfront). You weren’t trying to get to know me, so f—- you. As Truth says, someone’s gotta lose and it wont be me! LOL I wasn’t out to get anything but drinks or attention, so they didn’t really lose much, at least money wise.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Yes woman are the biggest teasers.

But it’s not always teasing. Well I guess it is. Heck I still use the tactic to get a few favors done even with my husband. But the difference there is there are no promises made or implied. If the recipient assumes that’s on him. However The Man knows that just because I sit on his lap or press my cheek against his and give him a sweet little peck to get him to pull himself away from the game and do something for me does not imply that there is the possibility of sex later. I just know how to get to him and he knows that.

Now when a guy spots a lady in a social setting and makes eye contact and he offers to buy her a drink, her accepting does not make her a tease. It is his fault if he assumed something would come from it.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Hey QC thanks for the Moms Day shot out. You have impeccable blog manners. <—-that was for Blue

By QC

May 8, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Morning Teresa, how are you 2day?

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

Truth It was a 2-part question….now answer Why that is.

Britelite a tease is someone who will offer you something they have no intention on delivering. Not necessarily….a tease can also just be a person prolonging the enticing part before they give it to you…Sort of get you to salivate so long that you become dehydrated…then by the time she give it to you, your azz done passed out from thirst. LOL

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

Good morning all!!

Wise you picked a great topic girl. I am always talking about the representative. For some reason he likes to come out when you first meet and hang around for about 3 months. Then all of a sudden he does a complete 180 and leaving you to think that this must be his eveil twin brother that their parents kept locked in the basement and he somehow escaped. I am who I am, and how I am from the start. It takes too much energy to BS somebody. Now I may get a little nicer as time goes on if you show me that you are not a jackhole! But that is the only change you will see in me. Now I do admit I have a mean streak…but that is only if you give me reason to. My mean streak has gave way to the woman who will just cut you off and ignore the crap out of you. I will NOT constantly argue with you. I will simply bid you adieu! You have to pay attention to warning signs…red flags. If his stories don;t pan out…run! He’s a liar. If he stands you up once…run…he doesn’t respect your time and he is used to doing it. Other laides have allowed him to get away with it. (I find that guys with a lot of money tend to do that..and some broke ones too LOL).

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

Similac chapter 5? WTF??? I just started chapter 2. This thing is starting off real slow. Please tell me it’s going to speed up. I was going to read this morning but decided to watch the water in my sink dry up. I have 2 weeks. I may need the audio version. Oprah owes me a refund.

Slim that was a spear? A dude in pursuit mood is fully capable of taking spears, wrenches, minor gunshot wounds, pots/pans to the head, or scratches. LOL BTW, those aren’t sideburns, thats a soulman fro complete with a pick. I’ll braid that if you need me to. LOL

Does that Shake at the Lake look cool or what? Which of you chicks goes for that kind of thing?

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

MEN ARE A TEASE!

By Sybil

May 8, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Now SexyLeggs - how are you going to come in here talking about not changing the topic and in the same breath immediately change the topic?

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

Morning All

I have to get some coffee first before I get all into this topic, but I do want to say thanks to 6’1’ and Slim for the breakfast (although I’m not trying to eat leftovers from Cinco de Mayo). If there’s guacamole on any of those tortillas, I’m not having it….reminds me of baby poop.

KP….I know- abc trying to get something started with that whole thing about women and lies. I have a box full of cymbalta, Zoloft, and Prozac for all the depressed men that have been lied too.

Truth Morning sweetie

Hey QC and Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas on the blog.

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

@Raqi..Now when a guy spots a lady in a social setting and makes eye contact and he offers to buy her a drink, her accepting does not make her a tease. It is his fault if he assumed something would come from it. That goes for dinner too!!! Great Post!!!

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Good morning IslandGirl. You said good morning to me yesterday and I missed it. So I’d like to make up for that today. :-)

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Party PPL

*Hey lets set up a fund for the BABY seal in San Diego, He’s so cute!! He is adorable. *

Teresa What’s good Girlie!

Staceye Now I may get a little nicer as time goes on if you show me that you are not a jackhole

So true! I can be as sweet as brown sugar…I am loyal to a fault. Unless you test me!

6’1 I am gonna need that food stamp hook up too. I am having a huge bbq for a friend of mines at the end of the mth. How many kids do they have? Girl I know you know someone who does CABLE? wink wink.

By anonymousella

May 8, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

*Did they somehow convince you that there would be some payoff that never came? *

Um yeah. He said “I want to go to school.” Later that became “I want a good job.” He did neither.

He kept saying “I know I have potential, if you just stick with me a little bit longer …” Maaaaan, if you can’t show some progress in two years, when are you going to start? I don’t mean results mind you. I mean I need to see that you’re on the path to where you want to be.

Now that’s my fault for being young and stupid. But he was manipulative in other ways, though I don’t think he realized he was doing it.

By abc

May 8, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

Oh, Puh-leeeze! I’m not even depressed! Now yall are just plain kidding yourselves. Every single one of you chicks have lied like a plaid rug to men and everyone else, you conduct most of your lives by putting up a front, and men know it. Tell it to the boys it works on, really.

It’s not as if men actually care about all that anyway, we just take it in stride.

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Ared that is fine sweetheart. I know you over there in Cali. I don’t know how you’re doing it…being up so early and blogging. Don’t hurt nobody while in Cali.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Presenting a facade of what they consider to be model behavior is what women do for a living. It’s how they resolve conflict, by avoiding it in the first place, by keeping secrets and telling lies.

I’ve said this before, but abc knows the WACKEST women. I’m amazed he’s even open to being married (again….and again, lol)

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

abc Answer this…men don’t lie??? Ever??? To get sex??? Never???

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

I just started chapter 2. You’re not pass the flower, then!

Come on Truth aren’t you at the crib mostly? I’m a M-F 9-5ish workin’ chic and get in more reading during wday evenings than anytime. We gotta get you on board. You might need to get the audio and share. Do you bruh.

Stac Wow, alot of your 10:12 sounds familiar. okay

IslandG u got any patties? I feel the ethnic food crave for today’s lunch.

By Angie

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

It’s not as if men actually care about all that anyway, we just take it in stride.

this is the reason why i’m upfront with what i want and who i want. i believe men can see right thru you.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Island Girl - I never fully got on pacific time, so I haven’t been able to sleep past 7 this whole week! LOL

And I’m LMAO at your 10:20 about the depressed men.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Where is Demi at? I went to platinum 21 last night! I like it, I like it ALOT!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Now I have heard because a woman wears certain clothing..she is a tease. I disagree. Maybe that is her style. It has nothing to do with a man. I amdit I like fitted clothing…however, I am not going to wera a mu-mu to keep attention away. Even when I wear things that are not fitted (such as a maxi dress or empire waist dress) I get teh same attention. So unless I look like the granny section’s Kmart clearance rack threw up on me…I’m a tease? The funny thing is ..I hate to be stared at. If I am performing…bt all means. But just minding my business at say…a mall. Don’t stare and talk. It’s rude. I was with a girlfriend of mine at a mall a few weeks ago and I had on a tangerine halter dress that was not tight nor showing a lot of cleavage and it was riduculous how much I was stared at. It upset me so bad I wanted to leave. My girls said they were staring at my booty…like that is supposed to make me feel better.LOL I am far from a tease. I think men read what the want to read.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Raqi - I mean really. Doesn’t EVERYONE lie at one time or another? Doesn’t automatically make you a liar anymore than having a drink from time to time make you an alcoholic. And it certainly doesn’t mean women were “raised” this way or “do it for a living.” Goodness.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

I really would like to have lunch with abc!

Alpha do you like ethnic foods?

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

Sybil, sorry, just wanted to piggyback on yesterday’s discussion.

*Truth, thanks for the laugh w/this..but decided to watch the water in my sink dry up*. WHEW!

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

Cee I have some ready for lunch. On the menu with be oxtail, stew chicken, mutton, fresh fish of the day in butter sauce, beef, chicken, and cod fish pattie, rice and beans, fried plantains, kallao, fungi, mac and cheese, and mixed veges.

I don’t know how in the hellz I get all this cooking done by noon.lol

By abc

May 8, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

Sure, men lie too. Not nearly as often or as well as women, but men lie. It’s not an established way of life for men like it is for women. Women have a difficult time even recognizing that it’s what they do.

I suppose men (or woman) would lie for sex, but honestly, I can’t remember a time I ever did. If a man wants simply to get laid, it’s not that difficult to find an accommodating woman.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

BLOW Girl actually I do! He is a cutie too if that is what you like! I got to get his number.

By Page1908

May 8, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this

Of course both men and women are teases at some point or another. The issue here, in my opinion, seems to be more semantics than anything. I agree with whomever said that men LIE to get sex. Women may “tease” to get whatever. It’s the same thing.

By SeanJohnson3000

May 8, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

@ Sxycool…..on the flip side of your post….and speaking of teasing…i have had more than a few females buss in few strokes by hitting the “little man” in the boat across the head with the hillshire and “tracing” and teasing the entrance….and when i finally enter its the flips side of what you encounter…only difference is they go for more than one round..

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

Blow/Teresa what time do y’all stop serving breakfast? This stuff slim brought in is borderline illegal.

Lady J/Raqi Now when a guy spots a lady in a social setting and makes eye contact and he offers to buy her a drink, her accepting does not make her a tease. It is his fault if he assumed something would come from it. Guys still do that wack stuff? Someones not getting their email updates.

IG soft kiss on the lips for you lady. You pick.

Slim a preacher mind fuggs folks where a pimp just gets puddy.

KB If you define preacher as someone who has been ‘chosen’ by God to bring forth His Word, So let me get this right, god is up there choosing folks he feels is cool passing on his messages? God is saying “Roger down at Wal-Mart is the guy…” Come the fugg on. All of them are self-proclaimed. God, with all of his intellingence and knowledge, wouldn’t want to have shyt to do with any of them, from the pope on down. Slim this is a good example of a mind fugging.

6’1 and eating it is that a strip club?

ABC maybe you should share the nature of the lie that hurt you. Then we could all understand. Other than that IG has some meds that may be able to help you. LOL

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

IslandG…you my kind of chic!

oxtails, plaintains, rice and beans, veggies…wow i’m having palpatations…k…you’re kin folk.

6’1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man) if this traffic over here doesn’t slow down. this morning was unusual…

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

abc Since the folks think you are depressed answering this may perk you up.

So if my husband puts a move on me and I am not feeling him, however I get out of the shower, put on one of my usual boy shorts and tank sets, climb into bed and there just so happen to be a set of perky nipps imprints pressed into my tank that gets his attention…does it make me a tease because I should have worn something less clingy???

LOL, just kidding. I have never thought you are depressed or anything. But I thought you might get a kick out of answering that question. Go ahead and laugh. You know you want to.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

SJ3000 Unless you had a vibrator installed on the tip of the hilshire…You have to do more than tap it against the little man. It’s funny how guys think it takes so little effort to make women OG. Some women never do…When you locate the G holla at me.

6”1 Yeah you can have em…Just let him put in my cable. I wonder if he can get a box with that. It needs to be Comcast though. Platinum 21 is D-boy spot. You like D-boys huh?

By Foot2Azz

May 8, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Preciate that Truth, that’s kind of funny coming from you because I think we have polar opposite personalities, but you do speak the truth a lot in blogsville … we just have different methods. Respect.

Although I have problems with women being coy and cute I think it is equally ridiculous to ask them to do a complete 180. I had one female friend break it down to me, that if she wasn’t slightly flirtatious then she would deny the essence of her feminity. It made sense to me. Ultimately, I think it takes a strong mind to withstand feminine wylds, and to make a woman to be 100 percent straight up with you and her intentions.

By Angie

May 8, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

pisces08 can i sing to you?

singing

i know that you been waitin’ for it i’m waitin’ too in my imagination i be all up on you i know you got that fever for me hundred and two and boy i know i feel the same my temperature’s through the roof

touch my body

By BriteEyez

May 8, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

SlimOne Not necessarily….a tease can also just be a person prolonging the enticing part before they give it to you…Sort of get you to salivate so long that you become dehydrated…then by the time she give it to you, your azz done passed out from thirst.

I like to call that foreplay!

By Page1908

May 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

LOL SJ. Based on SexyCool’s scenario from earlier, I am surprised you (or any of the other blog dudes) said perhaps dude only lasted 3 mins is because he wasn’t turned on by her or attracted to her. It seems as though its commonplace, even with this topic, to blame a scenario such as hers on the woman.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Au contraire, Sir alphabet, men do lie as often as women, maybe not as well but definitely as often.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

ABC maybe you should share the nature of the lie that hurt you. Then we could all understand.

Truth - Great approach and way to boil all this down. abc won’t answer, or he’ll deflect, but maybe he’ll stop yappin about that nonsense. LOL

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Truth that game is soo tired but it is dudes and ladies who still playing it out bc someone is allowing it…lol

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

IG you’re making my mouth water. All that’s missing is some curry goat to go with the rice and beans.

By abc

May 8, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Truth, now come on. There wasn’t a ‘lie that hurt me’. The turnip truck hasn’t even been around here for years, it’s a long time since I fell off of it.

You’re going to tell me that you don’t realize that the women you know don’t front and lie to you at will, for whatever reason seems important (or unimportant) to them at the time? If you don’t realize it, it’s only testimony to the effectiveness and skill they possess.

Raqi, TMI! Ha. For me, if the girl isn’t feeling it, neither am I. Takes all the fun out of it.

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

…You’re going to tell me that you don’t realize that the women you know don’t front and lie to you at will, for whatever reason….WHAT!

for whatever reason this part rests solely with you men!!!!

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

Truth “Roger down at Wal-Mart is the guy…” Come the fugg on Man! You are a slap fool..and my breakfast is legal…might be a couple days late but legal nonetheless.

Brite I feel ya! lol

IG I’m having peas-n-rice at my Birthday BBQ….lol

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

Sexy goat aka mutton (its on the menu)…I”ll make it curry for you ma. Every ting ire.

Foot2Azz I agree with your friend. I think it is a feminine quality of women to be a little flirtatious. Men are flirts too. Some women take it up a notch and use that quality to tease men. I don’t see anything wrong with that as long as you’re not being deceptive. I think it is important to let someone know what you’re intentions are. If you’re obviously attracted to a guy and would like to get his attention by being flirtatious…then that is your method of approach. Men are predators and women are prey. Sometimes the prey needs a little help getting the attention.

Truth I will take it on the lips today…lol

By SeanJohnson3000

May 8, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

@ Page…actually it could be just the opposite..the P coulda been just THAT good but of course it was the first time..and first encounters can be like that…but the fact dude didnt get off the mat for round two is bad on his part…the first lap or round is a warm up..once that first one is out the way…its a wrap…men can do kegals too…for D control….

@ Blown….understand what you are saying…but i am not a rookie…and your right some women never have them…and thats on her not in tune with her own body and a man isnt the blame for that….and far as the G is concerned…although each female is “built” different…its normally located about a inch and half to two inches from the entrance on the upper wall…..i would draw you a map so you can give to your dude and send dvd instructions…

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Page/Sexycool There’s no excuse for any dude to last 3 mins unless he just got released from a 20 year bid at the state joint. Even if he is that excited he should be able to “keep it up” and go another round. When I was young and inexperienced I’d get off early but wouldn’t get soft. Give me a sec to let the sensitivity go down and we’ll be off again. Now I have control and make sure you get off first because when I do it’s over. ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ LMAO

ABC everyone lies or tells mistruths. My thing is why get hung up about it? Chicks cheat, lie, steal, and do the exact same things that men do. When I look back at my relationships I don’t remember the lies as much as I remember the fun we had or the things we did. Did things happen to hurt me? Yes. The thing is pain is expected so I include that in the equation. My mom hurt me when she said she’d buy me a bike and couldn’t but I don’t hold that against her. You speak alot about religion, isn’t forgiveness a part of that? Forgive that chick for whatever she did and move on.

By For Real

May 8, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

For Real enters the blog slowly pulling his zipper up and down for the ladies. OUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Oh, it is on the menu. Went right over my head. Yay, I’m getting a special dish made for me. Thx! Every ting jus fin!

By Unknown

May 8, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

Now I have control and make sure you get off first because when I do it’s over.

The Truth

Have you ever been with someone who has a problem with cumming? If yes, what did you do?

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

Truth We might have to sign you up as our Resident Get-Over-It Therapist…ALL in favor say AYE!

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Three steps; tease/taunt/lie. Some or all of us have done ^^^ this. Again, why are we debating if women or men do it more? It’s a “pretense/front” to manipulate. 2C where are you? Haven’t every species/beast/animal partook manipulation.

abc you disregard well. I like.

LadyJ Game is tiiied…not tired. :)

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Slim I know you will have a great birthday party.

Real you’re a fool. That’s what you get for playing with that zipper. Was it you on the evening news getting arrested for indecent exposure at the adult movie theatre?? lol

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

So we are talking about BANGIN today?

SJ3000 Interesting…what book are you gettin your info?

Truth Let’s be honest..You are a 5 min man. OH yeah I saw your lil vid. I kind of figured you were short. Don’t worry Blow loves short guys too. What are those hideous dogs of yours? Those are worst then pits!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

The Truth, we will never see eye to eye because you are not open to believe my perspective. That’s okay! God chooses vessels and some choose themselves. The true preachers stay the course in the midst of attack and adversity. They don’t focus on $$$ and sincerely believe in the well-being and eternality of others. I am not here to condemn anyone and will continue my crusade to restore the family structure as intended.

All, it is the nature of a woman to be flirtatious. Flirting brings attention and most women definitely love attention :). Flirting is also a way to feed into ones self-esteem which is healthy in moderation. However, those who flirt excessively typically have some sort of self-esteem issue and need confirmation and attention of others to feel good. Don’t get it twisted…there are some men who fit into this overly flirtatious category too!

By Page1908

May 8, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

*SJ LOL ok then.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Truth although that was a generalized example, yes you men still do that. It is stated on here daily. Maybe different setting, different approach but the same objective.

LOL abc. Yeah. But I just wanted to get a laugh out of you. I guess a “Ha” will do.

Now let me see what I can tease my way into…

By QC

May 8, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

you’re welcome Cee-me-me

Wonder where BK is, hmmm

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

…what a minute…abc are you telling me that you never have to utilize your persuasive powers??? Or rather choose not to…Never??? You just let it go every time??? Every time???

I am one for wanting to be desired…but there are those days. Never??? I know you don’t want to answer this…but please do. Please. :-)

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

CeeCee you funny honey…:)

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Sir Alphabet, Raqi is in rare form today, I see. waving

Hey Ms. Sexy cool! I see you have spiced things up already, LOL, I don’t blame you, though

By Honey

May 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

who got kicked off next top model last night

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

LOL. If the topic is moving to sex, I guess “Coming” Attractions is still an appropriate blog title for today. LOL

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Lets talk about Bangin!!!!

By BriteEyez

May 8, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

Foot2Azz if she wasn’t slightly flirtatious then she would deny the essence of her feminity.

This is exactly how I feel. As a woman it is my nature to be attracted to men and being flirtatious with them is just as natural. It really just comes, with very little effort or forethought if the attraction is there. But it does not always necessarily mean sex is desired then or ever.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

LadyJ you do realize you have graduated this blog?

Now, that chile mytwosense we gotta get her some curative courses.

Page where are you? teasing me and all…

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

that ain’t happening today Teresa, LOL, you can go to those NSFW sites for that

By Jamocamecrazy

May 8, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Hello, Everyone!!! Just poppin’ in for a moment!

WiseD: Great topic as usual!!!

On Topic:

Is it their fault for being manipulative or does the responsibility rest on your own shoulders for falling for it?

Before giving my opinion on that particular question, Yes….most def women are the biggest teasers and for some of them…this is learned at an early age, depending on what they were exposed to at home, they probably learned early on how to manipulate not only men, but people in general in order to get whatever they were after, especially when it comes to money…

Speaking of money…with some of the young girls today, they are more in tune with using their “underdeveloped” womanly ASSets, in order to entice and exhilarate a man into giving her that “good green.” And to go even deeper with that, some of these young girls were ‘turned on” at a young age (use ya head on that one)…so any attention, even if its negative and degrading (to them) is better than no attention at all, along with the perks of getting a mere lousy dollar$ for their cheap efforts.

However, it is imperative at some point that we ALL wisen up…NO ONE can do to you no more that YOU ALLOWED.

Men and women have lied at some time or another for their own personal gains or reasons, its simply that some make careers out of it, by becoming habitual LIARS. And for those that currently hold that status, just make sure he/she has had all their shots…lol!

By abc

May 8, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

This is getting repetitive. Okay then, but this is the last I’ll say about it. I’m sorry I brought it up, it’s obvious you all don’t care to face the facts in this regard.

What are some lies I’ve been told? All kinds of lies about the children, including that they couldn’t bear children, anything under the sun as far as child disciplinary stuff is concerned, they’ll lie about. They lie to each other about how great or awful their kids are. They want to be the kids friend, they’re afraid the kid will abandon them in their old age.

They lie about money, hide funds when possible. Why hide the money? They just do it, and figure out why later, it’s not hard for them to rationalize. I couldn’t believe how much more money I had after I split the finances.

They lie about where they go, what they do, who they see, whether there’s anything to hide or not, whether you’d care or not.

Women lie about (or hide) things they’ve done in the past, either to appear as if they have expertise they don’t have, or to appear as if they have no experience of things they figure you’ll prefer them to be innocent about, whether you even have an opinion about whatever the subject is.

On and on and on… women lie because that’s what they’ve been taught to do since they were quite young. They lie because to them, that’s the way to avoid and resolve conflict, and they see themselves as the ones who have to maintain the peace. Their mothers told them “don’t tell Daddy about it, he’ll just get upset” — whether he really would or not. Lie to Daddy to get their way, to gain advantage, even though he’d probably just give them their way if they’d only ask him. In the same way, women decide for themselves what a man’s character is, based on their own imaginations and not on the man’s actions. Men are what they say they are, not what women think they are. It all gets projected onto men into the woman’s adulthood, and onto their husbands in turn.

It’s not as if women can really help it. I don’t hold grudges, and don’t lack forgiveness for being lied to repeatedly, forever, by at least a score of women. I’m a romantic, I love women in general, and especially one in particular. But that’s not to say that I don’t realize and recognize what it is.

Now, go ahead and be insulting, deny it’s so, whatever. It simply demonstrates the truth of what I’m talking about. As to the topic, that’s why women will always try to present themselves as something they are not, and why their ‘previews of coming attractions’ can have so little to do with the actual ‘movie’.

Oh, except for you chicks, of course. There are exceptions to everything.

By wed

May 8, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this

@ABC-did u answer my post yesterday as why your wedding was called off..who called it off. Do u even like her.

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

although I take a hit (Cuz I’m a girl!) on some of abc comments, I think there is some validity to what he is saying. I am going to carefully read his words so I can be sure not to be THAT girl, that he describes. I don’t think I am, but sometimes people aren’t that self-aware to recognize certain things.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Hey WiseD. I am so loving this topic. Truth be told there is a tease in all of us. Whether we want to admit it or not abc. LOL You just have to know how to use it. Never promise or imply anything.

See I just got the guy who makes it his business to come by my office everyday to bring me something back for lunch. Although I am paying for my own meal, he is willing to make the trip. Knowing that he more than likely would not mind I asked him. Does that make me a tease??? Nope just a woman.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva ToO late….It’s still good as ARED said Coming Attractions…lol! Good ONE!

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

you disregard well. I like Stuck. Thinkin: I knew she ain’t really want lunch. I bet it was code for brunch… That’s it, she tryna trick me into wanting to want to lunch so I can buy her behind dinner. @#$!@!

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

LOL

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Teresa the last time my grandson was at the house he kept getting out of bed coming to my room and bangin’ on the door. I told him if he don’t keep his behind in that bed I am going bang his bottom. You cool now???

By Angie

May 8, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

Honey the light skinned chick who look like a man. she was talkin’ trash last nite about how she gon win blah blah blah and tyra gave her the boot! i think the thick chick will get it. reason - because tyra needs to give a thick chick a title to even out the categories.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this

Men and women have lied at some time or another for their own personal gains or reasons, its simply that some make careers out of it, by becoming habitual LIARS.

Jamacianmecrazy the latter part of your 11:56 is the jest of it.

…just so happens i’m going to go have jambalaya-lunch…

By Tazzee

May 8, 2008 12:14 PM | Link to this

Morning folks!

Haven’t read all the comments but I have to say that men are great at the tease also. It seems that most are focusing on the sex tease…men hold the trophy for the marriage tease. I call it the carrot game - they string that carrot out there whenever it seems like the woman is getting a little antsy in the relationship.

My friend and I were talking about this the other day. Comments like ‘I was think of doing xyz to my house, but perhaps I should wait until we buy a house together’ or a guy is buying a house and promises to let the woman decorate because it will be hers when they get married anyway. I could go on and on with the ‘carrots’ I’ve heard over the years. ‘Do you think our baby would have your smile?’ ‘When we get pregnant would you want your mother to come live with us for a while?’

The reason why those statements are carrots is because they usually come when the woman is getting frustrated with where the relationship is going and thinking of getting out. Then the carrot is thrown out there and she thinks, ‘hmm, maybe he is thinking of proposing’ and hangs in there for another 3 months…

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Unknown misdirection. Take sex off the table. If a chick is focused on her performance it’s not good. Don’t focus on booty. Let’s cook a meal together, watch a good movie, have fun, just enjoy each other. Also, a great technique is to lay with a woman a few times and don’t do anything. Hold her and let her soul rest in your arms. Just let her get comfortable with you. Then work it in slowly and over time. If it’s a chick you plan on spending time with the few days you lose will be more than made up for when you’re presented with a ready, willing, and able partner. Also, if a woman wasn’t experiencing O’s I’d concentrate more on massages, bubble baths, spend time enjoying her in a non sexual way. Basically build up her drive. I think alot of dudes don’t take time to learn their woman and take care of her needs. A veteran dude should be able to spend at least an hour with a nude chick without touching (maybe just brushing against) her private parts. The reward is a woman will do “ANYTHING” for a guy that takes care of her needs.

Blow I’m 5’11 sparky. Hey, we need a decoy so our dogs can take a live bite. Are you available tonight at 6pm? My dogs are presa canarios (from the canary islands) They’re not pits. BTw, if you come this way pack a lunch. I don’t do 5 mins.

KB you’re assuming that the black family, or the family period, was ever in some state of togetherness. We are selfish b******* looking for happiness in whatever way we find appealing. The utopia your bible sells us has never been possible on this earth and never will. The real happiness is to find yourself amongst the madness. It’s not a bad thing, it just is what it is. The effort you put into “saving the family structure” should be redirected to saving your own azz. The world doesn’t want to be saved. (And i’m not saying that in a mean way) Maybe the structure you’re trying to save is in need of saving beacuse it wasn’t the correct structure from the beginning. HMMMMM

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

abc Sure, men lie too. Not nearly as often or as well as women, but men lie. It’s not an established way of life for men like it is for women that is the biggest crock of BS I have ever heard! LOL Men lie so much it’s like taking a breath. They are just not smart enough to keep up the lie and so they get caught!

IG & Cemeeli oxtails, plaintains, rice and beansmmmm..you guys got a sista hungry as hell right now! Yum!

Honey they got rid of my girl Dominique. I am bored now. I do not like the others. Fatima needs a cheeseburger! Anya is kind fo funny looking. I liked Whiteny..but her personality sucks. She has a nice body though.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this

Now, go ahead and be insulting, deny it’s so, whatever. It simply demonstrates the truth of what I’m talking about.

Please, in the warped corners of your own mind. I figured abc was on some bull, after his 11:58 it was confirmed.

Did he just describe SOME women? Sure! And those women are despicable for that ish. But to cast that blanket over the entire gender is complete and utter foolishness. The facts? Maybe YOUR facts. I’ve never been advised to “keep something from daddy” mainly because they kept me out of grown folks business. I’ve always operated that the truth is more powerful than lies and plenty of women feel the same way. Doesn’t mean the truth never hurts.

abc is fine to feel the way he feels about certain women, but to continue to paint us all with the same brush just proves he’s the one that needs some therapy or something on this matter. Blech.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

You know the biggest and funniest lie coming from a man? That confused look. Like…huh? What you talkin’ about?

By Angie

May 8, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

truth your comment to unknown … what are you doin’ about 7ish?

i’m wavin’ myself ova here

By Honey

May 8, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

Thanks Angie, that was the infamous Dominique she did look like a Man and did’nt know what to do with her hair, Whitney is the thick one.

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Tazzee cosign…nice to see a different dynamic on the topic…Can’t wait to see the men folks tackle you down on this. lol

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

Truthy cute name,lol 6’1 and eating it is that a strip club? YEP!

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

What’s up, Truth. Can’t figure out, when you say take a bite, is that really give a bite like once you sicc ‘em on a potential attacker? And are you saying a command to stop the rescue mission or will doggie only stop once limb is dangling from teeth? I have a concerned curiosity bout it all.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

AmazonR I do believe he meant helping a child lie to benefit the child, not a child being in grown folks business.

On that he is correct. I can remember a few times my mother saying let me handle it therefore prompting the child to not tell the father.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Then work it in slowly and over time = Tease her.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this

rotflomb mytwo woman yous a fool wit it!

Dang, Stac Fatima needs a cheeseburger!

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 12:32 PM | Link to this

Truth Unfortunately I cosign your 12:15pm..If you know all of this way are you not married? or at the least have a girl? Back to being Blow….You consider what 5”11 as being tall? Come again shorty..You are barely making it! You need a decoy? Kidding me. I thought you were good enough? I dont’ blame the dog for attacking you with that corroded stench of yours…You are very lucky to be alive. lol!

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

Tazzee You ain’t never lied. Men are the masters of telling her what she wants to hear just to keep her stringing along.

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

Thanks ceecee along with experience this blog truly helps me even on the wakiest day with all the loons as Diva refers to them…That was funny as all get up yesterday! Sorry my bad!LMAOFF!!!

By Tazzee

May 8, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

I must admit there is some truth to abc’s gripe about women. I, for one was taught by a man to withhold certain information. By nature, I don’t like to lie - I will tell a man that I’m not going to answer a certain question but I don’t like lying.

But men are VERY unforgiving so when a guy I’m seeing asks me if the guys flirt with me at the gym - I duck and dodge the question with responses like ‘baby, I only have eyes for you’ Past experience (and advice from men) has taught me that if I respond truthfully to that question - every time I go to the gym I’m going to get asked about the guy that flirted with me.

Similarly - if a guy I’m dating meets a guy I used to date and I divulge that we may have had a sexual relationship in the past, I get questions like ‘was he good?’ and other stuff. I’ve even gotten questions like ‘does he kiss better than me?’ And these aren’t guys that have low self-esteem either.

So yes, I will avoid answering certain questions rather than deal with the headache that comes when I do. But I won’t tell a flat out lie about something.

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

Thank you Tazzee! I was thinking the exact same thing in ways men tease women.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this

Blow Guilty!

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

Tazzee….i loooovvveee the ‘carrot’ analogy.

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Tatas take a bite means just that. There is a stop command. All my dogs commands are in german so YOU can’t stop him.

Pas Auf=Watch him/Alert

Packen=Bite(Self explanatory

Ous=let go/stop biting (sometimes this one doesn’t work so well, lmao)

Blow I never said my height is my strong point. I’m 5’11, taller than every woman I’ve dated so I’m tall enough. What you can’t see in the picture is the brilliant mind. It’s what you’ve been missing in your life. A man that can simply out think you. As I said i’ve been married and it’s no end all be all. What you should know is I could go back and marry the last 5 women I dated and some women that have known me for 10+ years so my charchter must be somewhat intact. (And I’m not joking) About having a girl, I don’t date when I can’t be what i was born to be, a producer. My business is in a recession and this isn’t a good time to start a new relationship. I can’t expect a woman to do her job when I can’t do mine. And those same women will be there when I get back on, and I will get back on.

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this

abc No one can fault you for your opinion on this matter, but you state it as a fact and that is what I have a problem with. No gender is more opt to lying. Men lie just as much as women do! I’ve heard some people say that men lie more, but women lie better. It is a fact that “people” lie. It is a fact that “people” are taught to lie. It is a fact that “both” men and women lie to get what they want, but I have yet to believe that women lie more than men.

Your truth is based on your personal experience with your past and present relationships. It really is not fair to say all women have preconceived thoughts to be deceptive to men in general. That is simply not true. There are many of us that can attest to being deceived by the opposite sex.

It is all about what morals are important to the individual and what is worth lying about. Consider this question: Are you saying that men have better morals than women? I say it depends on an individual. The reality is in considering the type of women you tend to have relationships with. jmo

By Angie

May 8, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

men lie more, but women lie better

both asked the same question, where were you?:

guy - huh? what? why you trippin’?

gal - shoppin’!

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

Truth Ahh, like in an actual dog fight, takin’ a bite and mainitaining. I was thinking more of them as being trained to attack humans who mean master harm. Auf wiedersen!

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

Ous=let go/stop biting (sometimes this one doesn’t work so well, lmao)

wth

Truth so that beast/giant could most def prolly sever shar pei?

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Unknown The Truth, Have you ever been with someone who has a problem with cumming? If yes, what did you do? you see what he does because we are an unofficial tag team and he Call me so I can make it juicy for ya

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this

Truth Great Answer…I am glad you left out your usual malarky. Thanks. Ok so 5”11 is not really short for a guy. You just made it. But nonetheless great post. I knew you were like a big baby puppy. Wanting to be HUGGED. Come here Truthy heres a hug. Also, I do not want a man who I can out think. He would be useless in my life. But he does need to listen and respect my opinion. Unlike you! Also those women should be by your side. Whether or not if the going gets tough. That’s a part of life. That’s one thing in life you can not prevent is TRIALS.

So ok, Let me get this straight you are a SOUND, friendly character now? Since when? LMAO!

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

OMG, no you didn’t 6’1. I’m hollering over here!

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

I asked my lunch runner and companion why do men lie. He humorously said first of all to get sex. Then he said truthfully 1) Because they can. 2) Some are insecure and 3) Because they have something to hide.

He also said a man already knows when he is going to lie to the woman and has prepared a mental dialogue to do so. They approach with a lie on the tip of their tongue.

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this

You guys are seriously campaigning for an early blog closing, I ain’t sayin, I’m just saying, umm yeah

By abc

May 8, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

Story previously posted regarding women and lying.

That’s all I have to say on the subject.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva I think Bella punished us a enough last week. She did not open it til 4:00. So I think that was good enough. OH yeah it was Ared fault I forgot…lol Hey ARED Besides this is relieving stress and pressure from work. Haven’t you noticed Truth doesn’t nearly grind his teeth like he normally does? Let’s be real, we have be WAYYYYYYYYYYY more off the chain than this. It’s pretty mild. Where do you see the need of closing it? Because I don’t. Well hell you cant ask me..I would probably never see a reason! Any hoo CARRY ON!

Oh ok I see the sex deal..so you want them to use…substite words then..huh. Like cupcake, puddy, hilshire and OG…Okay guys let’s clean up the filthy language..You heard the lady..Clean up your flithy minds!!

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this

Men rehearse their lies and women can lie on the fly?

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

..I’m just saying, umm yeah. Sounds like my daugther! Trying to knock that umm yeah out of her vocabulary!!

By SeanJohnson3000

May 8, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

@ Truth…just getting back from lunch…and your 12:15 post holds ALOT of weight…dudes need to take note…this is the blue print to get females to open up that are….bi….have been through somethng seckually traumatic…very attractive and tired of men hounding them or have problems experiencing O’s due to lack of intimacy provided by men in the past….and you’re right…once they open up…they OPEN up

By Angie

May 8, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

this is what i live by:

Top 5 Tips for Singles

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

it’s always a slippery slop Blow, I’ve been doing this for a long time, so I can spot it early on, LOL

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

abc while true, the only point you are proving is men and women lie for different reasons. Either way both are acts of deception.

What is the difference in a man lying to get in a woman’s bed and a woman lying to get a little of him left in the tank? They both are hideous and disgraceful acts. However the man gets a notch and a high-five while the woman gets tagged as an evil bytch.

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this

Tatas they are trained to do that to. That clip you saw I gave no commands. The decoy just grabbed me and he fired up. We do ATM (money tellers) scenario’s, carjack scenario’s, home invasion scenarios’s and anything else that may come up. The object is to teach the dog when to attack, and more importantly, when not to.

IG nice reply. Most people are mad at themselves for falling for whatever the infraction was. in reality the only way to learn someone is lying is to experience it. I just think he’s a smart dude that could be focusing on other things besides some chick that fibbed 4 years ago. My .02

Blow this burden is MINE to carry. It’s an opportunity for me to learn another lesson, it’s not for you. I look at it as a blessing. To think I was in such a position to be able to fall off is exciting. Alot of people never get “on”. I created a great plan in my mind and made it come true. Now I must create another one and do the same. Really, they didn’t enjoy the benefits so they shouldn’t pay the cost. They’re exactly where they should be, my friends. On being friendly, I was never mean. I simply say what I think then it’s over for me. Some don’t confront the situation and spend forever dealing with it, letting it grow. I sleep well EVERY night. Just a different strategy. And I may not listen or respect your opinion based on whatever relationship we have set up.

The Truth is now getting 6’1 tattoed on his bicep. LOL Tag team for life baby. LOL

Similac thats not even a fair fight. Are you trying to get rid of your shar pei? LOL My dog likes to fight so if you resist he gets more fired up. Really the best thing you can do is stop moving, if thats possible.

Teresa Men rehearse their lies and women can lie on the fly? Seems like you nailed this one. LOL

Wise don’t shut us down. LOL Just block Blow.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Preach Angie!

By Angie

May 8, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

“If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything.” Mark Twain

By abc

May 8, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

Really, Raqi, I’m not talking about it anymore. Besides, you still think I lie about anything? Do you think Truth does, Darrell, or For Real? Well, okay, For Real does nothing but lie, the boy lies like a shipwreck at the bottom of the ocean. Demi, now he doesn’t lie… don’t believe anything that Alvin says though. Don’t take it with a grain of salt, take it with a salt lick.

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Mr. Alphabet taking hits on the MLB. wooooow.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

Angie are you the Yvonne??

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Truth I am not doing nothing. Why would she block me? I am mild today. I’m not wildin out. Stop hating on me. I get sick of that..No wait, I love for you to hate on me!!

By Angie

May 8, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

Raqi nope. just stealin’ her stuff and loving it!

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

and for the record, I truly don’t think Bella was punishing anybody last week. She doesn’t seem like the spiteful type to me - And I have to say, I definitely would be that spiteful, LOL

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

abc I never said you were lying. I am just debating the issue at hand. Sorry dude.

You are the only man that actual has presented a POV on the subject. But yeah…sorry.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

Oh Angie I was a bit puzzled because I know that your past posts did not sound anything like her work. Just curious.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Truth if’n goliath, killa, cysco…wus his name is that fearowchious <—- ForReal com’wit it! then you right, shar pei is doomed.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

KP are you not familiar with Yvonne Chase being that your spot sort of resembles her stuff. Sorta, kinda.

By abc

May 8, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

That was meant to be humorous, no apology is necessary, Raqi.

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

and can I get someone to email a link for KP’s blog, I don’t know why something weird pops up when i click on the link that was posted on here. wise.diva@gmail.com

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Truth can you send that clip to sharmynk@bellsouth.net so I can see it?

abc thanks for the reminder that I have to purchase a salt lick (LOL)

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

I am always telling yall something about me…here’s the latest. Earlier today my friends Denise and Marissa came by my office to pick up something and while standing at the copier Denise called me a narcissistic bytch so I in return called her a drunken hag. One of my co-workers stopped and looked back and said “huh”. Marissa told her “well I always say at least they know how one feels about the other”. We are friends to the end.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

Raqi Yeah I was thinking the same thing. Is that Angie? I like the new one better.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Raqi, I am familiar with Yvonne Chase and have been a guest on her show a couple of times. She and I used to communicate fairly regularly. I have a link to her site on my blog page.

By Angie

May 8, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

raqi her name is Y. Ezine who appears on his blog. maybe you’re thinking of someone else.

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Sexy I’m trying to send it but the link is in “5 Signs He’s not Interested” at 412pm.

Blow relax little one. I was just joking with you. Besides, Wise wouldn’t block you, would you?

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

The Truth is now getting 6’1 tattoed on his bicep. LOL Tag team for life baby. LOL Ahhh sweetie, you wouldn’t be the first one Smooches

By GUESS WHO

May 8, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Truth Did you figure out who Co will was?

By Angie

May 8, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

kp must be her married name. yes?

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

got the link, thanks guys! :)

Truth, I can’t make any no block promises, LOL I don’t fight, I don’t argue, I just hit that ..never mind, that won’t rhyme right.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

KP Oh okay. So you did recognize that was her writing. Cool.

So you are a man of the cloth…Look here elaborate on this…(abc women have been deceitful since the beginning of time)…

Samson was a mighty man…Samson loved Delilah…Delilah used her womanness (<—- huh?) to get next to Samson in order to find the source of his strength…Now why in the hell…sorry…I mean heck do men expect anything different from us now? LOL

2Can where you at???

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs here it is again.

http://www.youtube.com/v/iq6TZffedlk&hl=en

Guess yes I know.

6’1 and eatin it now are you gonna get The Truth tatted on your arm? Crickets

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

Raqi I am cracking up at your Sampson and Delilah post! LOL But wasn’t Sampson a womanizer?

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Truthy Believe it or not I already have The Truth tattooed on me!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

The Truth, our structure is currently jacked-up because folks began doing what was right in their own eyes. If folks would abide to structure, then we wouldn’t have to ‘suffer’ many of the things we experience today. I will continue to preach the relationship restoration message I currently preach. I want to protect my sisters from falling for the same games I used to exploit women at The Ohio State Univ, during my Kappa fraternity rendevous and via my athletic roadtrips.

It’s guys like me (from my former life) that have long-term impact on the lives, emotions, self-esteem and relationships of today’s women. Which is why many of them cannot identify quality men when the are presented. They fall for the ‘tease’ that many of us men are able to sell them :)

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

Angie let me help you out. Her name is Yvonne Chase. and here

By Angie

May 8, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

whatever!

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

WHOA! Confession is good for the soul. Somebody needs to see this twice!

It’s guys like me (from my former life) that have long-term impact on the lives, emotions, self-esteem and relationships of today’s women. Which is why many of them cannot identify quality men when the are presented. They fall for the ‘tease’ that many of us men are able to sell them

By Angie

May 8, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

raqi i prefer that we don’t communicate anymore. please past my posts when they appear.

By Tazzee

May 8, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Raqi and Angie thanks for giving me a laugh this afternoon, LOL!

By 2CPTG©

May 8, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

Hey, Cee, and Raqi…..’sup?

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

Raqi, I agree with abc from a biblical standpoint. We don’t have to go to Samson for an example…let’s just take Eve as an example. She allowed herself to be encouraged to do wrong and gladly deceived Adam into going along with her :). This isn’t a Bible study so I don’t want to go any deeper than that.

By Poppa Grande

May 8, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

Staceye What are you doing blogging…H&M opened today at North Point Mall. I thought that you would be first in line…lol

As for the lying…everyone lies occasionally to get what they want. Men lie to get a piece or to keep the peace. Just being real…On yeah, women lie as well. We all do. No one should be on their high horse about that.

As far as the representative goes.. I was taught as a kid that you only get one chance to make a first impression. Therefore, it only stands to reason that most people try to put their best foot forward in order to make a deisirable impression.

SexyL Don’t throw all men under the bus because the dude at the liquor store came at you incorrectly. What do you expect to find outside the liquor store? Men of character visit bottle shoppes. Drunks hang out at liquor/package stores. j/k

But really, people in general need to work on their communication skills with the opposite sex. Terrence Howard was on Jimmy Kimmel promoting Ironman the other night, and he spoke about having his son (teenager) join him on dates so that the son would know how to handle himself on a date. The things that he was teaching him were things like breaking the ice, breaking awkward silence, etc.

On the same tip, if women didn’t respond to “Hey, Shawty, what yo’ name is?” there would be less of it spoken. However, some women do respond to it and it does not make any incentive for the lazy brothers to improve their conversation skills.

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

KP Can we also agrue that Adam failed to protect Eve?

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

Truth Why do you have these HUGE montrous dogs? How many do you have? You think you gonna be able to date a woman with those beast around? Bad enough she has to deal with you. But those are beast! I would not dare come around you home…I am scared of dogs.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

mytwo somebody?

so you cold stamp n too?…nah you just might be ‘branding’…

leaving in 10…gotta put on the dug-out gear.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

PG Are you serious! Whoa Staceye we definitely need to be in that joint.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

Womanizer or not the fact is she used what she had and he liked to get what she wanted. Even his first wife used tears to get next to him.

Delilah told him “how can you say you love me…” sounds familiar doesn’t it. LOL

I admitted to this very thing in one of my earlier posts. I know how to get next to my husband to get what I want. It is the way of women. I don’t know why we think this is something new we have discovered. Or even why we try to say it is not a part of us. It is. It is who we are and have been since the beginning.

abc I bet you are sho nuff thumping your chest right about now.

Rachel sat on a pillow that hid her father’s idol and faked her flow to keep him from finding it because she wanted it for herself.

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Poppe Grand Thanks for the tip about H&M. I saw the mention in the news, but I did not realize the opening was this week. I love to shop there on every trip to NY.

KP Forgive the typos. I can’t spell and I don’t stop to use spell check (bad blog etiquette…I know)

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Angie what did I do? I was just trying to help you out. Seriously. But oh well.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

2C llllate.…just sayin’.

man, i puled a t.e.d (told her everything she desired) in order to get what I want!

see that’s ^ a great example for today’s discussion.

Cee been takin’ her Ginseng…good @ remeberin’

see ^ mytwo i’m good for sumthin’.

By 2CPTG©

May 8, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

Oh, Raqi, I see what you wanted…….wrong analogy! You would use Samson; Why didn’t you use ‘Ol Solomon? Samson, as you correctly stated, was weak minded, and fell for the okey doke….Now Slick Dyck Solomon wasn’t hearin that shyt!….see, Queen of Sheba, who came bearing gifts, and what nots (ala, a choosin fee!), She had heard rumors and stories about Solomon’s pimp skills, and wanted to see for herself, firsthand……..and what did ‘Ol Solomon do? knock her off, and sent her on about her merry way! While keeping said gifts and whatnots!

And left a seed in the name of Menelik, in whose descendants’ possession, the ark of the covenant supposedly resides……..

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

IslandGirl, we can argue that Adam failed to protect Eve. However, most theologians will suggest that it was all in God’s plan to show our inability to do what’s right in our own power. I subscribe to the theory that Adam was mesmerized by her coca cola shape and allowed intimacy to cloud his judgment :).

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

Cee Oopsie, thought I was on duty cuz you already skipped out… And look how I just got sucked in —>

KP I am no longer proud of you. I am now denouncing you hahhahaaaa! It’s cool tho, since it’s not like Adam or any man after was equipped with his own sense of reason or will power, right. We’ll be the fall girls till the end of time.

By Angie

May 8, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

raqi you have not showed me one ounce of respect since i’ve started blogging on MIA. i don’t have room in my life for negative ppl.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

KP Eve did not deceive Adam!!! The truth is she was standing there naked holding that fruit and no man can resist what a naked woman has to offer. Now say I am wrong.

But that’s a subject for another day. LOL

Sorry Rev. KP. You hang around here long enough you will know how to take me.

2Can I just wanted to see what you had to say on my Samson example. How are you doing today?

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Raqi We all have to ability to be deceptive, period.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

see reatailers think they slick w/ Grand Openings right at breakout/spring…um hmm.

forget that, i’m going this w/e.

Thanks Grande.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

Tazzee now you know I try to stand clear of the calling people out jabs…most of the time. I was truly trying to give her some info. That’s all. I promise.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

King Solomon!

2C whateva…me loves the chronicles/book & his adulterious father Kind David <——all that. there needed be a movie!

speaks volumes.

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

PoppaG, his approach hasn’t deterred me from others. I amazed myself by keeping my “WTF did you just say look” hidden. I definitely agree with …if women didn’t respond to “Hey, Shawty, what yo’ name is?” there would be less of it spoken.

Angie, Raqi didn’t mean any harm.

By Kara

May 8, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

Dear Angie, the Coalition of Drama Queens called, you are the latest charter member. Congrats

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

KP* I agree….we all have an inability to do what’s right in our own power**.

That why this whole debate about who lies more than the other is a crack of bull. We all have the ability to be deceptive. It is up to each individual to choose to do right. Liars are liars, thieves are thieves, and pedophiles are spawned from the devil.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

And 2Can comes in back my comments on you deceitful men. Solomon told Queen “Don’t ask me for anything and I won’t ask you anything.” Oh boy had his kitchen staff over salt her food. She asked for water and left with a nation ins her womb.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

KP Wow…your 3:32 is so on point! Women are taught as a child to dream of her woedding and having a family, nuture, blah blah. But men are taught to be “the Man” by getting as much booty as possible from as many girls/women as possible. You were considered a pun if you were not a lying scheming panty chaser. If you had to tell a gurl you loved her to get the panties off…so be it. Then disappear like a magician. Next chick…same game. All these women who have been hurt by these so called “men” are the liars and cheats that are ones that men compalin about today. But hey…yur fellow brother made them that way. Hey I tell you, my experiences hadve led to to not believe one word from a man’s lips. I do not trust them as far as I can spit..and I am a lady so that is not very far. These men end up having daughters and if they are any type of father, they are around to see their daughters get hurt by the same game they played on somebody else’s daughter..and yet they are ready to shoot this dude fro doing to their daughter what did to anohter man’s. How HYPOCRITCAL is that?

Hey Poppa That opening was today? Well when is the one at Atlantic Station? LOL

As far as the representative goes.. I was taught as a kid that you only get one chance to make a first impression. Therefore, it only stands to reason that most people try to put their best foot forward in order to make a deisirable impression But there is good impression…and then there is just plain ole fake. And for the most part…I have met the latter of that! Don’t floss in a car that is not yours. Do not spend money that you do not really have to spend. Be real…be you.

IG Can we also agrue that Adam failed to protect Eve? IG…lol I know, where was here when the snake was talking to Eve..who by the way I sure was male!

6’1 I can see you beating down all the lil’ chicks to get up in there! Just stompin’ on ‘em. And Staceye will be right behind you co-signing when you do a Debo…“my shirt fool after you push them down to the ground and snatch the shirt from their hands! LOL

By Tazzee

May 8, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

Raqi that’s what’s funny. I don’t think you were intentionally being catty but it could be interpreted that way, that’s why I had to laugh at Angie’s response.

By 2CPTG©

May 8, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

sup, Raqi, I’m doing well, and yourself?

Ummm, when you siad this, “The truth is she was standing there naked holding that fruit and no man can resist what a naked woman has to offer. Now say I am wrong.”……yeah, you wrong! See my above post concerning that; that simply illustrates how, when a man does succumb to the wiles of women, what the ultimate result will be, his demise! But, his love for his firstborn, ultimately caves in, and he rescues him…….However, it should also serve as a note to fellas, to stop falling for somma y’all bullshyt, and be a man, and let ya damn nutz hang!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

Raqi, Thanks for the Playboy Magazine illustration of Adam and Eve.

By Poppa Grande

May 8, 2008 4:18 PM | Link to this

Cee They want your stimilus check so they have to open up now.

The Atlantic Station one is taking longer because it will be the SE US headquarters. I think that it will be open by Memorial Day (end of this month.)

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Thanks but I can speak for myself.

I don’t know what she is talking about not respecting her. I think I may have asked her one question the entire time I have seen her on here. Maybe that is what she is speaking of…me not commenting on her posts. If she would like me to then I will try and make the effort to do so going forth from here.

“Raqi you are a narcissistic bytch.”

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

Believe it or not.

Woman has Man in it;

Mrs. has Mr . in it;

Female has Male in it;

She has He in it;

Madam has Adam in it;

No wonder men always want to be inside women!

Men were born between the legs of a woman, yet men spend all their life and time trying to go back between the legs of a woman….

Why?

BECAUSE THERE IS NO PLACE LIKE HOME!

Okay, Okay, it all makes sense now…

I never looked at it this way before:

By MsM

May 8, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

Have you or anyone you know received the STIMULUS yet?

By Thumper

May 8, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

KP

Eve didn’t deceive Adam. He was given the charge to not eat. Seems to me he should have checked his woman and told her to keep away. Instead, becoming the follower and not he lead and weak for the goodies allowed her to take the lead to both their demise. Now look at the mess we’re in? Men, weak for women by design.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye AKA Black Mamba, you need to exhale :) woooo saaaahhh

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

But 2Can you men are weak for the V-spot. Beersheba was on that roof taking a bath minding her own business. David the greatest King of all peeped that and lost his mind. Even God told him all you had to do was ask, I would have given her to you. But he, instead of inquiring with God, jump on it and caught you know what. Look at all that he did after that to try to fix things…just for a ride at the V-spot.

By Blue_Kolla

May 8, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

What up peeps…

Dating people is like watching the previews for a movie. The “coming attraction” is the preview, meant to entice you to buy a ticket. Unfortunately, we all know how movies can turn out. They can totally bore you, disappoint you, or even irritate you!

That’s because peeps roll into relationships the same as they roll into a movie, expecting to be wow and fluttered… instead of just enjoying the show… read, making someone else responsible for their happiness.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

Southeast Hdqtrs…interesting, sure they’ll have the biggest select.

Grande ….as always they ALL (oil co./retailers/ect.) doing the GET IN! all u gotta do is read

I’m still going! I do my share of getting back…pre-tax $$$.

i/we’ll never be slicker NEVER!

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

KP whose structure should we follow? Yours? The Kingdom? I think you have really overestimated your importance in the universe. Understand this, any chick that fell for your yoyo did so because she wanted something too. She wanted to get caught. If you did that much long term damage to any chick she is incredibly weak and will probably die from a common cold. I read your page and while I’m sure alot of women love hearing that message, it’s useless. Your singing to the choir. You’d do much more good by 1) Getting married and experiencing what you’re speaking of 2) Do it long enough to attain some level of expertise

I want to protect my sisters from falling for the same games I used to exploit women at The Ohio State Univ, during my Kappa fraternity rendevous and via my athletic roadtrips. What the fugg are you talking about? You want to protect women from you? Dude, women give away puddy. That’s what they do. Some take breaks but each one is looking for a nice place to unload that azz in exchange for male, or female, companionship. You can’t stop it, it’s way bigger than you. It’s human nature. There’s a reason men fit so well into women. While I recommend that some women take a break to re-establish some sort of mental balance the writing is on the wall. This thing is what it is. Women were put on this earth to give pleasure. Most are just angry because they can’t find anyone they feel worthy of that pleasure.

Blow my ex loved taking big boy out for walks. She had a Yorkie and they’d all play and have a great time. Sometimes when you see something that scares you, instead of turning around and running, walk right up to it and see how it loses its power. Come out and train with us and within 15 minutes you’d be holding my dog and sending him after the bad guy. You’d be hooked like crack. It’s fun and great exercise for the dogs. That chick holding my dog is an attorney. She’s about 5’4 and maybe 135 lbs. She has 2 big male dogs that are protection trained and she’s not scared of any of the dogs out there. Actually next weekend she’s going to a competition that few people can pass. Her dog is tight. There’s a whole world outside of your mind, experience it sometime. BTW, i have 2.

Angie you can’t take your ball and run every time someone doesn’t agree with you or fails to respond to your post.

Staceye lmao. Is that what we’re trying to do? Go home.

By 2CPTG©

May 8, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Raqi……I betcha cain’t answer this:

Ok, If you say Eve temped Adam with sexual overtures, then answer me this, how was she tempted???????

By Poppa Grande

May 8, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

KP Watch out messing with Staceye. She keeps a blade with her at all times, even under her tongue from time to time. You might get cut…lol

By 2CPTG©

May 8, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

Raqi….you cain’t keep saying all men…..cause then you’d have to enter JC into the equation…..just say WEAK men who fell for it! Cause we all ain’t trynna hear that shyt! Yeah, that sexy thang you got goin’ on may pique my interest, but I’ll be damned if it makes, or breaks me!!! Not me……

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 4:36 PM | Link to this

MsM, my girlfriend received hers this past weekend.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

Great way to close out a day…the debate of temptation.

i’m out…Ya’ll be easy…

Blue

chair spin

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

That’s easy…she went shopping. LOL Do you how many times I have left to buy a shirt and came back with shoes, pants, jacket, and accessories to match. It’s the way of the woman.

But yeah I was being funny about the naked woman comment. Not really…but yeah I was.

Now tell me…how was she tempted?

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

Hey..Eve did not put a gun to Adam’s dome and say, “break yo’ self fool…you’d better eat this apple!” LOL No he chosed to do so on his own free will. No mental strength to say no..why…HMMMM? LOL

By Blue_Kolla

May 8, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

I want to protect my sisters from falling for the same games I used to exploit women at The Ohio State Univ, during my Kappa fraternity rendevous and via my athletic roadtrips. What the fugg are you talking about?

I laugh when I hear dudes talkin’ stupid sh!t like this too. Kinda reminds me of that Michael Basden dude with his books, and most preachers on Sunday.

Women were put on this earth to give pleasure. Most are just angry because they can’t find anyone they feel worthy of that pleasure.

…now appling the raised Gold Seal Of Authenticity.

I’ve been on break for a minute but I don’t think that the women have changed that much where they’re going to be able to swallow that truth pill.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

Now on a serious note…2Can your 4:34 comment is something I heard my father tell my youngest brother so many times. And I have used it to teach my oldest son.

A true man is not the one who can get the most arse…but the one who is man enough to resist it. Priceless.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

The Truth, no one will ever accuse you of being an optimist!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Truth Women were put on this earth to give pleasure Bull shyt! As they do on the V8 cmommercials…I now thump you on your forehead for that dumb azz comment! LOL

Men were put on earth to work and fork over all the money when they are done! Soounds stupid????Ok..now that is how that comment of your sounded! LMAO

Blue as for the “Truth Pill”. We all have diarrhea now thanks to swallowing the that…so I guess that means it’s full of shyt! LMAO

By For Real

May 8, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam! What yall got on my 40?

KP I agree with Truth on that woman aspect. Why do churches or pastors cater more to women by always telling them they are the victims of men? You said you want to save women from men like you used to be. Then you say you want to save the family structure. But you never say you want to save men. Without men there is no family structure. Oh and the pimp and pastor question was totally legit and you didn’t answer the question but but you showed that they both use the same methods to control the weak minds of women.

Oh and women might not lie more than men but they sure like to be lied to more than men.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

helpmate: one who is a companion and helper.

I don’t see giver of pleasure no where in that definition.

Yall be good.

By Blue_Kolla

May 8, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Staceye Blue as for the “Truth Pill”. We all have diarrhea now thanks to swallowing the that…so I guess that means it’s full of shyt! LMAO

You know that was nasty right?! LOL

By For Real

May 8, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

So ladies why did the snake choose Eva instead of Adam? Adam had been in the garden of eden walking around fighting prostate cancer and naming ish for how long?

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Good night….this deserves repeating a 3rd time.

Don’t let your erection cloud your direction

Remain Watchful!

By Blue_Kolla

May 8, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

‘Ey Devil’s Friend… I mean Devil’s Advocate… I mean Raqi…

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

KP I’m eternally optimistic, that the day before and after I die women and men will still be doing what they’ve done sense day one, FUGGING. Through wars, famine and natural disasters men and women will fugg. No cat who knocked off 4 chicks from OSU is gonna stop that. Get a grip, you’re not that tight.

Staceye actually you’re right. Men do work to have a woman who will give him pleasure. Maybe you were joking but it’s the truth. That’s why men try to acquire things and women love men that do. I’m now palming that azz to insure my message penetrates that rough exterior. LOL

Bk and For Real glad i’m not the only one that see’s this shyt as a snowjob. This is unreal. The masses willline up to be mind fugged.

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

Blue I aim to please bruh! LOL

By For Real

May 8, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

Raqi Why do you think God said that it is not good for man to be alone? Adam couldn’t stop fighting cancer. That’s why Eve was created.

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 5:05 PM | Link to this

Well, it’s been QUITE an interesting discussion, as per usual, I had no idea how things would unfold, LOL. Gotta love it!

Have a great evening everyone!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 5:07 PM | Link to this

For Real, churches cater to women more than men because most men hate authority. There are some pastors who are able to successfully reach the minds of men. I preach healthy relationships, but most men aren’t currently open to that. If I can teach women, how to maintain themselves and command respect, then I’ll be able to reach men because they’ll want to know the key to reaching women. If I can convince women to participate in a 3,4,5 month sex blackout…I guarantee that I’ll get some attention.

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