Misadventures in Atlanta

By Wise Diva

May 8, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone! Let’s keep the discussion as grown up as possible today, hmk?

Have a great day!

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 8:39 AM | Link to this

People and including me tend to express what they are seeking through pure communication…non verbal and verbal…The 2 min barrier is important also with cues…Intentions are the it is up to one to keep it or keep moving if it does not fit their scheme…

By Angie

May 8, 2008 8:41 AM | Link to this

happy mother’s day!!! to me and all the moms on the blog. keep up the good work!

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

This is a No Brainer….Women are definitely more of the teaser’s. I don’t think men necessarily hide their want to get in the puddy. I think of it sort of like a Bull & Matador….Men enjoy the chase & let’s fess up ladies…we enjoy the tease. We use our physical attributes, style of dress, flirty personality, etc as our cape to entice the beast…oops i meant guy. If the play lasts too long the bull/guy becomes disinterested or either gets distracted by something else. (yes i probably ate too late last night lol) But initially a little teasing goes on from both sides, a mental play of checkers or chess…whichever your pleasure.

Today’s breakfast is a trough of creamed corn and grilled flour tortillas leftover from Cinco de Mayo…to drink we have plenty of half-drunken bottles of water….(blog is going green) lol

By Angie

May 8, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

we don’t tease men! i don’t know what slim is talkin’ bout.

fellas, i’m wearing my mini jean skirt today for easy access. lol.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 9:08 AM | Link to this

Good morning!!! The temptation of giving in to the representative has gotten a lot of people in trouble (both men and women). How many people would you have actually been intimate if you had waited to meet the ‘real’ person and not the one you became infatuated with? I’m sure the list would shrink dramatically.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

Good one today Wise! Hello everyone. As you know this is the part of the month when I sponsor breakfast because my temp has foodstamps. BRB with a feast!

By Angie

May 8, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

kp you got mail!

By QC

May 8, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

Morning everyone! Have a pleasant day and ENJOY LIFE :)

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

Slim now crossing and uncrossing her legs like Sharon Stone in Fatal Attraction…but not wearing a seductive white dress….actually wearing a skort with granny panties and bikini-area side burns

Angie LMAO..girl go put some panties on.

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

hey, wise…waving…

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 8, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

Mawnin Errbody! Is today Friday??

Wow SlimOne, you said exactly what I was gonna say!! LOL Thanks for putting that out for me! I’ll pass on the blog breakfast. Mo now headed to Blogsville Starbucks

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this

Breakfast consists of *fried fish, grits, fried chicken, turkey bacon, turkey sausage, toast, english muffins, bagels, cream cheese, assortment of omlets made to order, hashbrowns, various juices, fuji water, fresh fruit, (save me some pineapples) cherrios for a healthy heart and oatmeal. Pepsi’s for my girls! Forehead kisses to the guys & girls. BRB enjoy!

By abc

May 8, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

Women are obviously the bigger teases, even if they pass Tell The Truth 101. Presenting a facade of what they consider to be model behavior is what women do for a living. It’s how they resolve conflict, by avoiding it in the first place, by keeping secrets and telling lies.

I mean, come on — what do you suppose even gives rise to the topic?

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

Dayuum, I forgot the gravy brb

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

KP A fellow co-worker wanted me to ask you this: who gets more pddy Preachers or Pimps? and why?

Mo no problem. You sure you don’t wanna cremed corn tortilla?

By QC

May 8, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this

Enjoy this website of great music

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By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

abc, way to stir it up nice and early this morning! Can’t wait to see the responses.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

OMG WiseD this is a fabulous topic. I have said it 1000 times they show you all the exciting parts of a movie to draw you in and sometimes those in the preview are the only exciting parts. I will address a mixture of two things here.

I totally agree about the teaser. Good qualities are paraded to entice the spectator. Now who is to fault when the actual model in its entirety turns out to be a dud? The teaser or the teased.

(If you know Steven Seagal sucks as an actor in the last umpteen movies that he made, you best believe just because DMX is co-starring will not change his performance. He will still suck.) But that’s not what we are talking about. Not really but yeah it is. There is a certain type of woman and a certain type of man. You can spot them a mile away. Don’t keep falling for the same (type of) tricks (eye-catching charades).

Wouldn’t it be nice if daters could read the reviews of potential dates? LOL

On a different note: During our dating days Mason once expressed a concern with disdain to me because of a past experience. I told him don’t make me pay for that, hate yourself. He fell for what caught his eye at that time and that was totally his fault. Before coming out of pocket to purchase that ticket consider the fact that there is more than meets the eye.

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville.

Slim you are so right. It’s a game and someone usually gets gored. LOL I’ve chased many capes only to find I was running head first into a wall. I can show you the lumps on my head if you’d like.

Men are for the most part not smart enough to tease. We’re like a football team that keeps trying to run it straight up the middle. No finesse, just brute strength. Personally I dont have the mental capacity to set up a tease situation. The dudes that can do it are called players.

Kym/Similac A New Earth is starting out real light. Is this going to get a little more serious or should I put on a tye-died t-short and fire up a joint?

By DreamsMaterialize

May 8, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

Morning I don’t think our “representative” necessarily reflects the best part of us. It reflects the best part of us that is TANGIBLE when meeting us; clothes, cologne, swag, etc. I can only speak for myself, but my best parts aren’t in my “preview”. You have to see the whole movie to get the best of me.

By M.

May 8, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

@Wise

This links to my post from yesterday when I mentioned how some girls have lately been doing the disappearing act, you go out, then you never hear from them again. Why do some women do that? My friend made the point that they may be dating someone else also, that made them mad, and a new guy will boost their ego and confidence. I guess in that right you can say that the women are tease’s but also guys lead girls on when they know there is no real future beyond tonight…So in retrospect we both are guilty.

By Mo (aka Moeisha)

May 8, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this

SlimOne Oh no thanks chica! I had my fill of Cinco de Mayo for the week. I’ll just drink my starbucks and have a bagel w/cream cheese and some fruit from 6’1.

who gets more pddy Preachers or Pimps? and why? I would like to know the answer to that as well

By Foot2Azz

May 8, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

In my early to mid twenties I enjoyed the thrill of the chase … it was cool using my wits to conquer what I was attracted to. But I got older the more mundane the chase got because I had more responsibilities than chasing azz 24/7. As a result, a tease became a complete turn off. Don’t get me wrong a woman shouldn’t be easy (eventhough easy women are appreciated), but mixed signals kill me.

To keep things simple for myself I rationalize that a woman who plays hard to get for a long time probably doesn’t want to get caught (at least by me). Also I know women will make certain men they claim to be interested in work harder than others for the most ridiculous reasons. I’ve gotten better at spotting this trait women have so I won’t play myself into doing some dumb shyt, while some broke cat is knockin’ the dust off dat azz and laughin cause he’s not puttin in real work to get it.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Lol @ 6’1’ thanks for the chow. Ask sis if i can get some of them. My shorty like Pringles, gatta-aid, hot cheetos, starcrunch, fruit rollups and all fresh fruit…

50 for 200 whas up? j/k

Hey Blog!

Is it their fault for being manipulative or does the responsibility rest on your own shoulders for falling for it?

It’s my own fault. All i had to do was go to the cologne counter and smell all the mens fragrances. There is nothing named Pheromone or Heaven @ the men fragrance counter. this tells yall that i am WEAK when it comes to a good smelling man!

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

Truth Come and let mama push those whittle lumps back into yo head. lol But you’re right too about men being like a football team that keeps driving up the middle. Good analogy. Btw, you missed a spear still stuck in your back. I’ll wait till Ared get in here to grab that for ya!

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

yeah…once dated this guy that by any definition would be a great catch…attractive, sexy, great job, lots of fun to be with…

the first time we were intimate…it lasted all of two minutes…

being queen of second chances…we tried it again the next night…same thing…

he has been forever amongst me and my friends as Hump-Hump-Come…

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Mornin room

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Preachers get more puddy. They fugg the whole congregation week in and week out. A pimp gets to knockoff 3-5 used up sponges. That one was easy.

Foot2AZZ besides having the coolest name in blogsville, you’re right. If I have to chase it I’ll pass. Keep my number and when you want to bring it by you know where I am. LOL

By QC

May 8, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee-me-me, Angie, Ared, IslandG, kinderB, Mo

Happy Mothers Day to all the Mothers

By BriteEyez

May 8, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everybody!

How can you spot the “tease” and how do you handle them?

I have been told more times than I recall that I am a tease. I would have to say that I disagree because in my mind, a tease is someone who will offer you something they have no intention on delivering.

However, I wil admit that I am a very touchy, feely person and if I find a man attractive I will allow him into my personal space and make alot of eye contact during conversation. What can I say, I love men!! The look of them, the smell of them, the charm, wit and personalities that they can have and I don’t mind letting them know that I am taking it all in. However, I am always clear when some of these conversations or flirtations turn to the thought or expectation that I am wanting sex. If that is my interest I will state that if not I will also say that so there is not any question.

The down side to that is I have some friends that I get together with every couple of months or so. If there happens to be a guy around that does not know me and expresses interest my male friends will quickly tell him, “Man, don’t waste your time, she ain’t gonna do NOTHING but talk shyt!!” LOL

By mytwocents

May 8, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

Hola! Hmmm some plot twists can be good & some not so good. I guess how deceived you feel partially depends on your own personality type. Do you love when a story unfolds in a totally different way than you expected or are you ready to demand your ticket $$ back at the first unpredictable occurrence. Of course it’s necessary to factor in what kinda carrot’s been dangled and not delivered.

This topic reminds me of something on your page, KP, which had me wondering if from the male perspective a challenge = a tease. Or is a challenge the next level or two up from being eazy skeezy?

6’1 She got any homegirls in the biz??? Slim Not the bikini-area side burns! he he he

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

someone said needed reposting. never thought i had to ‘cold stamp’ my own.

The purpose of a blog in it’s fludicity is commentary,…and the habitual nature ease a stressfilled/light day. Why in da hellz are some so touchy & interested with what folks are/aren’t doing.

subliminal This is why my guy/man/hubby whateva would occupy me off a blog.

Truth…i’m only @ chptr 5 or sumthin.

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

oh…by the way…the above was my example of the payoff that never came…

(play on words)…LMAO…i SLAY me….

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

LOL SexyCool. See in an instance like that, so many of us are guilty of assuming the greatness of the performance to come based on how it is packaged. We can only blame ourselves.

LMAO You saw a boring movie twice…on purpose.

By SexyCool

May 8, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

raqi…that was more like a commercial…lol…

By anonymousella

May 8, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

*Did they somehow convince you that there would be some payoff that never came? *

Um yeah. He said “I want to go to school.” Later that became “I want a good job.” He did neither.

He kept saying “I know I have potential, if you just stick with me a little bit longer …” Maaaaan, if you can’t show some progress in two years, when are you going to start? I don’t mean results mind you. I mean I need to see that you’re on the path to where you want to be.

Now that’s my fault for being young and stupid. But he was manipulative in other ways, though I don’t think he realized he was doing it.

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

SlimOne, interesting question from your co-worker. I would say it depends on how you define preacher. If you define preacher as someone who self-proclaims a ‘calling’ from God and uses that to influence people, then probably preachers. If you define preacher as someone who has been ‘chosen’ by God to bring forth His Word, then probably pimps get more luv than preachers. Hope this helps!

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. I guess we all put our “representative” first when meeting someone. Some disguise themselves better than others. Me, what you see is what you get. I shoot straight from hip from day one!

Let’s stay on topic because it’s a good one, but to piggyback on yesterday’s topic on classes for women and why I think there’s more a need for men, check this out. Leaving the liquor store last night this guy approached me (he sells incense and oils) saying he’s been watching me for a months and wanted to meet me. He tells me his name and I give mine. He then says “I’m really appreciating your body. I’m not looking for a relationship but I would love to have sex with you.” Not showing any shock value on my face I say “How old are you (42). Then I say, so you felt this would be the best way to approach me? Thanks for your honesty but I’m not interested. I drove home SMH! Yes, some of you need classes!!!!

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Good morning all. I’m over San Diego. I’m over drinking. I did like making a few dollars from my co-workers for my sexy moves tho. LOL

I am a reformed tease. Done in my 20s. I see now that it wasn’t fair, but at the time I knew guys were after one thing (or at least one thing upfront). You weren’t trying to get to know me, so f—- you. As Truth says, someone’s gotta lose and it wont be me! LOL I wasn’t out to get anything but drinks or attention, so they didn’t really lose much, at least money wise.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Yes woman are the biggest teasers.

But it’s not always teasing. Well I guess it is. Heck I still use the tactic to get a few favors done even with my husband. But the difference there is there are no promises made or implied. If the recipient assumes that’s on him. However The Man knows that just because I sit on his lap or press my cheek against his and give him a sweet little peck to get him to pull himself away from the game and do something for me does not imply that there is the possibility of sex later. I just know how to get to him and he knows that.

Now when a guy spots a lady in a social setting and makes eye contact and he offers to buy her a drink, her accepting does not make her a tease. It is his fault if he assumed something would come from it.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Hey QC thanks for the Moms Day shot out. You have impeccable blog manners. <—-that was for Blue

By QC

May 8, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Morning Teresa, how are you 2day?

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

Truth It was a 2-part question….now answer Why that is.

Britelite a tease is someone who will offer you something they have no intention on delivering. Not necessarily….a tease can also just be a person prolonging the enticing part before they give it to you…Sort of get you to salivate so long that you become dehydrated…then by the time she give it to you, your azz done passed out from thirst. LOL

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

Good morning all!!

Wise you picked a great topic girl. I am always talking about the representative. For some reason he likes to come out when you first meet and hang around for about 3 months. Then all of a sudden he does a complete 180 and leaving you to think that this must be his eveil twin brother that their parents kept locked in the basement and he somehow escaped. I am who I am, and how I am from the start. It takes too much energy to BS somebody. Now I may get a little nicer as time goes on if you show me that you are not a jackhole! But that is the only change you will see in me. Now I do admit I have a mean streak…but that is only if you give me reason to. My mean streak has gave way to the woman who will just cut you off and ignore the crap out of you. I will NOT constantly argue with you. I will simply bid you adieu! You have to pay attention to warning signs…red flags. If his stories don;t pan out…run! He’s a liar. If he stands you up once…run…he doesn’t respect your time and he is used to doing it. Other laides have allowed him to get away with it. (I find that guys with a lot of money tend to do that..and some broke ones too LOL).

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

Similac chapter 5? WTF??? I just started chapter 2. This thing is starting off real slow. Please tell me it’s going to speed up. I was going to read this morning but decided to watch the water in my sink dry up. I have 2 weeks. I may need the audio version. Oprah owes me a refund.

Slim that was a spear? A dude in pursuit mood is fully capable of taking spears, wrenches, minor gunshot wounds, pots/pans to the head, or scratches. LOL BTW, those aren’t sideburns, thats a soulman fro complete with a pick. I’ll braid that if you need me to. LOL

Does that Shake at the Lake look cool or what? Which of you chicks goes for that kind of thing?

By Teresa

May 8, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

MEN ARE A TEASE!

By Sybil

May 8, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Now SexyLeggs - how are you going to come in here talking about not changing the topic and in the same breath immediately change the topic?

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 10:20 AM | Link to this

Morning All

I have to get some coffee first before I get all into this topic, but I do want to say thanks to 6’1’ and Slim for the breakfast (although I’m not trying to eat leftovers from Cinco de Mayo). If there’s guacamole on any of those tortillas, I’m not having it….reminds me of baby poop.

KP….I know- abc trying to get something started with that whole thing about women and lies. I have a box full of cymbalta, Zoloft, and Prozac for all the depressed men that have been lied too.

Truth Morning sweetie

Hey QC and Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas on the blog.

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

@Raqi..Now when a guy spots a lady in a social setting and makes eye contact and he offers to buy her a drink, her accepting does not make her a tease. It is his fault if he assumed something would come from it. That goes for dinner too!!! Great Post!!!

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Good morning IslandGirl. You said good morning to me yesterday and I missed it. So I’d like to make up for that today. :-)

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Party PPL

*Hey lets set up a fund for the BABY seal in San Diego, He’s so cute!! He is adorable. *

Teresa What’s good Girlie!

Staceye Now I may get a little nicer as time goes on if you show me that you are not a jackhole

So true! I can be as sweet as brown sugar…I am loyal to a fault. Unless you test me!

6’1 I am gonna need that food stamp hook up too. I am having a huge bbq for a friend of mines at the end of the mth. How many kids do they have? Girl I know you know someone who does CABLE? wink wink.

By anonymousella

May 8, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

*Did they somehow convince you that there would be some payoff that never came? *

Um yeah. He said “I want to go to school.” Later that became “I want a good job.” He did neither.

He kept saying “I know I have potential, if you just stick with me a little bit longer …” Maaaaan, if you can’t show some progress in two years, when are you going to start? I don’t mean results mind you. I mean I need to see that you’re on the path to where you want to be.

Now that’s my fault for being young and stupid. But he was manipulative in other ways, though I don’t think he realized he was doing it.

By abc

May 8, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

Oh, Puh-leeeze! I’m not even depressed! Now yall are just plain kidding yourselves. Every single one of you chicks have lied like a plaid rug to men and everyone else, you conduct most of your lives by putting up a front, and men know it. Tell it to the boys it works on, really.

It’s not as if men actually care about all that anyway, we just take it in stride.

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Ared that is fine sweetheart. I know you over there in Cali. I don’t know how you’re doing it…being up so early and blogging. Don’t hurt nobody while in Cali.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Presenting a facade of what they consider to be model behavior is what women do for a living. It’s how they resolve conflict, by avoiding it in the first place, by keeping secrets and telling lies.

I’ve said this before, but abc knows the WACKEST women. I’m amazed he’s even open to being married (again….and again, lol)

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

abc Answer this…men don’t lie??? Ever??? To get sex??? Never???

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

I just started chapter 2. You’re not pass the flower, then!

Come on Truth aren’t you at the crib mostly? I’m a M-F 9-5ish workin’ chic and get in more reading during wday evenings than anytime. We gotta get you on board. You might need to get the audio and share. Do you bruh.

Stac Wow, alot of your 10:12 sounds familiar. okay

IslandG u got any patties? I feel the ethnic food crave for today’s lunch.

By Angie

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

It’s not as if men actually care about all that anyway, we just take it in stride.

this is the reason why i’m upfront with what i want and who i want. i believe men can see right thru you.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Island Girl - I never fully got on pacific time, so I haven’t been able to sleep past 7 this whole week! LOL

And I’m LMAO at your 10:20 about the depressed men.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Where is Demi at? I went to platinum 21 last night! I like it, I like it ALOT!

By Staceye AKA Black Mamba

May 8, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Now I have heard because a woman wears certain clothing..she is a tease. I disagree. Maybe that is her style. It has nothing to do with a man. I amdit I like fitted clothing…however, I am not going to wera a mu-mu to keep attention away. Even when I wear things that are not fitted (such as a maxi dress or empire waist dress) I get teh same attention. So unless I look like the granny section’s Kmart clearance rack threw up on me…I’m a tease? The funny thing is ..I hate to be stared at. If I am performing…bt all means. But just minding my business at say…a mall. Don’t stare and talk. It’s rude. I was with a girlfriend of mine at a mall a few weeks ago and I had on a tangerine halter dress that was not tight nor showing a lot of cleavage and it was riduculous how much I was stared at. It upset me so bad I wanted to leave. My girls said they were staring at my booty…like that is supposed to make me feel better.LOL I am far from a tease. I think men read what the want to read.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Raqi - I mean really. Doesn’t EVERYONE lie at one time or another? Doesn’t automatically make you a liar anymore than having a drink from time to time make you an alcoholic. And it certainly doesn’t mean women were “raised” this way or “do it for a living.” Goodness.

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

I really would like to have lunch with abc!

Alpha do you like ethnic foods?

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

Sybil, sorry, just wanted to piggyback on yesterday’s discussion.

*Truth, thanks for the laugh w/this..but decided to watch the water in my sink dry up*. WHEW!

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

Cee I have some ready for lunch. On the menu with be oxtail, stew chicken, mutton, fresh fish of the day in butter sauce, beef, chicken, and cod fish pattie, rice and beans, fried plantains, kallao, fungi, mac and cheese, and mixed veges.

I don’t know how in the hellz I get all this cooking done by noon.lol

By abc

May 8, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

Sure, men lie too. Not nearly as often or as well as women, but men lie. It’s not an established way of life for men like it is for women. Women have a difficult time even recognizing that it’s what they do.

I suppose men (or woman) would lie for sex, but honestly, I can’t remember a time I ever did. If a man wants simply to get laid, it’s not that difficult to find an accommodating woman.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man)

May 8, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

BLOW Girl actually I do! He is a cutie too if that is what you like! I got to get his number.

By Page1908

May 8, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this

Of course both men and women are teases at some point or another. The issue here, in my opinion, seems to be more semantics than anything. I agree with whomever said that men LIE to get sex. Women may “tease” to get whatever. It’s the same thing.

By SeanJohnson3000

May 8, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

@ Sxycool…..on the flip side of your post….and speaking of teasing…i have had more than a few females buss in few strokes by hitting the “little man” in the boat across the head with the hillshire and “tracing” and teasing the entrance….and when i finally enter its the flips side of what you encounter…only difference is they go for more than one round..

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

Blow/Teresa what time do y’all stop serving breakfast? This stuff slim brought in is borderline illegal.

Lady J/Raqi Now when a guy spots a lady in a social setting and makes eye contact and he offers to buy her a drink, her accepting does not make her a tease. It is his fault if he assumed something would come from it. Guys still do that wack stuff? Someones not getting their email updates.

IG soft kiss on the lips for you lady. You pick.

Slim a preacher mind fuggs folks where a pimp just gets puddy.

KB If you define preacher as someone who has been ‘chosen’ by God to bring forth His Word, So let me get this right, god is up there choosing folks he feels is cool passing on his messages? God is saying “Roger down at Wal-Mart is the guy…” Come the fugg on. All of them are self-proclaimed. God, with all of his intellingence and knowledge, wouldn’t want to have shyt to do with any of them, from the pope on down. Slim this is a good example of a mind fugging.

6’1 and eating it is that a strip club?

ABC maybe you should share the nature of the lie that hurt you. Then we could all understand. Other than that IG has some meds that may be able to help you. LOL

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

IslandG…you my kind of chic!

oxtails, plaintains, rice and beans, veggies…wow i’m having palpatations…k…you’re kin folk.

6’1 & Luvin it (Dayuumit Man) if this traffic over here doesn’t slow down. this morning was unusual…

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

abc Since the folks think you are depressed answering this may perk you up.

So if my husband puts a move on me and I am not feeling him, however I get out of the shower, put on one of my usual boy shorts and tank sets, climb into bed and there just so happen to be a set of perky nipps imprints pressed into my tank that gets his attention…does it make me a tease because I should have worn something less clingy???

LOL, just kidding. I have never thought you are depressed or anything. But I thought you might get a kick out of answering that question. Go ahead and laugh. You know you want to.

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

SJ3000 Unless you had a vibrator installed on the tip of the hilshire…You have to do more than tap it against the little man. It’s funny how guys think it takes so little effort to make women OG. Some women never do…When you locate the G holla at me.

6”1 Yeah you can have em…Just let him put in my cable. I wonder if he can get a box with that. It needs to be Comcast though. Platinum 21 is D-boy spot. You like D-boys huh?

By Foot2Azz

May 8, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Preciate that Truth, that’s kind of funny coming from you because I think we have polar opposite personalities, but you do speak the truth a lot in blogsville … we just have different methods. Respect.

Although I have problems with women being coy and cute I think it is equally ridiculous to ask them to do a complete 180. I had one female friend break it down to me, that if she wasn’t slightly flirtatious then she would deny the essence of her feminity. It made sense to me. Ultimately, I think it takes a strong mind to withstand feminine wylds, and to make a woman to be 100 percent straight up with you and her intentions.

By Angie

May 8, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

pisces08 can i sing to you?

singing

i know that you been waitin’ for it i’m waitin’ too in my imagination i be all up on you i know you got that fever for me hundred and two and boy i know i feel the same my temperature’s through the roof

touch my body

By BriteEyez

May 8, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

SlimOne Not necessarily….a tease can also just be a person prolonging the enticing part before they give it to you…Sort of get you to salivate so long that you become dehydrated…then by the time she give it to you, your azz done passed out from thirst.

I like to call that foreplay!

By Page1908

May 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

LOL SJ. Based on SexyCool’s scenario from earlier, I am surprised you (or any of the other blog dudes) said perhaps dude only lasted 3 mins is because he wasn’t turned on by her or attracted to her. It seems as though its commonplace, even with this topic, to blame a scenario such as hers on the woman.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Au contraire, Sir alphabet, men do lie as often as women, maybe not as well but definitely as often.

By AmazonRed

May 8, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

ABC maybe you should share the nature of the lie that hurt you. Then we could all understand.

Truth - Great approach and way to boil all this down. abc won’t answer, or he’ll deflect, but maybe he’ll stop yappin about that nonsense. LOL

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Truth that game is soo tired but it is dudes and ladies who still playing it out bc someone is allowing it…lol

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

IG you’re making my mouth water. All that’s missing is some curry goat to go with the rice and beans.

By abc

May 8, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Truth, now come on. There wasn’t a ‘lie that hurt me’. The turnip truck hasn’t even been around here for years, it’s a long time since I fell off of it.

You’re going to tell me that you don’t realize that the women you know don’t front and lie to you at will, for whatever reason seems important (or unimportant) to them at the time? If you don’t realize it, it’s only testimony to the effectiveness and skill they possess.

Raqi, TMI! Ha. For me, if the girl isn’t feeling it, neither am I. Takes all the fun out of it.

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

…You’re going to tell me that you don’t realize that the women you know don’t front and lie to you at will, for whatever reason….WHAT!

for whatever reason this part rests solely with you men!!!!

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

Truth “Roger down at Wal-Mart is the guy…” Come the fugg on Man! You are a slap fool..and my breakfast is legal…might be a couple days late but legal nonetheless.

Brite I feel ya! lol

IG I’m having peas-n-rice at my Birthday BBQ….lol

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

Sexy goat aka mutton (its on the menu)…I”ll make it curry for you ma. Every ting ire.

Foot2Azz I agree with your friend. I think it is a feminine quality of women to be a little flirtatious. Men are flirts too. Some women take it up a notch and use that quality to tease men. I don’t see anything wrong with that as long as you’re not being deceptive. I think it is important to let someone know what you’re intentions are. If you’re obviously attracted to a guy and would like to get his attention by being flirtatious…then that is your method of approach. Men are predators and women are prey. Sometimes the prey needs a little help getting the attention.

Truth I will take it on the lips today…lol

By SeanJohnson3000

May 8, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

@ Page…actually it could be just the opposite..the P coulda been just THAT good but of course it was the first time..and first encounters can be like that…but the fact dude didnt get off the mat for round two is bad on his part…the first lap or round is a warm up..once that first one is out the way…its a wrap…men can do kegals too…for D control….

@ Blown….understand what you are saying…but i am not a rookie…and your right some women never have them…and thats on her not in tune with her own body and a man isnt the blame for that….and far as the G is concerned…although each female is “built” different…its normally located about a inch and half to two inches from the entrance on the upper wall…..i would draw you a map so you can give to your dude and send dvd instructions…

By The Truth

May 8, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Page/Sexycool There’s no excuse for any dude to last 3 mins unless he just got released from a 20 year bid at the state joint. Even if he is that excited he should be able to “keep it up” and go another round. When I was young and inexperienced I’d get off early but wouldn’t get soft. Give me a sec to let the sensitivity go down and we’ll be off again. Now I have control and make sure you get off first because when I do it’s over. ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ LMAO

ABC everyone lies or tells mistruths. My thing is why get hung up about it? Chicks cheat, lie, steal, and do the exact same things that men do. When I look back at my relationships I don’t remember the lies as much as I remember the fun we had or the things we did. Did things happen to hurt me? Yes. The thing is pain is expected so I include that in the equation. My mom hurt me when she said she’d buy me a bike and couldn’t but I don’t hold that against her. You speak alot about religion, isn’t forgiveness a part of that? Forgive that chick for whatever she did and move on.

By For Real

May 8, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

For Real enters the blog slowly pulling his zipper up and down for the ladies. OUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

By SexyLeggs

May 8, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Oh, it is on the menu. Went right over my head. Yay, I’m getting a special dish made for me. Thx! Every ting jus fin!

By Unknown

May 8, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

Now I have control and make sure you get off first because when I do it’s over.

The Truth

Have you ever been with someone who has a problem with cumming? If yes, what did you do?

By SlimOne

May 8, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

Truth We might have to sign you up as our Resident Get-Over-It Therapist…ALL in favor say AYE!

By Cemeeli

May 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Three steps; tease/taunt/lie. Some or all of us have done ^^^ this. Again, why are we debating if women or men do it more? It’s a “pretense/front” to manipulate. 2C where are you? Haven’t every species/beast/animal partook manipulation.

abc you disregard well. I like.

LadyJ Game is tiiied…not tired. :)

By IslandGirl

May 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Slim I know you will have a great birthday party.

Real you’re a fool. That’s what you get for playing with that zipper. Was it you on the evening news getting arrested for indecent exposure at the adult movie theatre?? lol

By Blow Me a.k.a MOST HATED ON

May 8, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

So we are talking about BANGIN today?

SJ3000 Interesting…what book are you gettin your info?

Truth Let’s be honest..You are a 5 min man. OH yeah I saw your lil vid. I kind of figured you were short. Don’t worry Blow loves short guys too. What are those hideous dogs of yours? Those are worst then pits!

By KP (http://chatkafe.blogspot.com)

May 8, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

The Truth, we will never see eye to eye because you are not open to believe my perspective. That’s okay! God chooses vessels and some choose themselves. The true preachers stay the course in the midst of attack and adversity. They don’t focus on $$$ and sincerely believe in the well-being and eternality of others. I am not here to condemn anyone and will continue my crusade to restore the family structure as intended.

All, it is the nature of a woman to be flirtatious. Flirting brings attention and most women definitely love attention :). Flirting is also a way to feed into ones self-esteem which is healthy in moderation. However, those who flirt excessively typically have some sort of self-esteem issue and need confirmation and attention of others to feel good. Don’t get it twisted…there are some men who fit into this overly flirtatious category too!

By Page1908

May 8, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

*SJ LOL ok then.

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Truth although that was a generalized example, yes you men still do that. It is stated on here daily. Maybe different setting, different approach but the same objective.

LOL abc. Yeah. But I just wanted to get a laugh out of you. I guess a “Ha” will do.

Now let me see what I can tease my way into…

By QC

May 8, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

you’re welcome Cee-me-me

Wonder where BK is, hmmm

By Raqi

May 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

…what a minute…abc are you telling me that you never have to utilize your persuasive powers??? Or rather choose not to…Never??? You just let it go every time??? Every time???

I am one for wanting to be desired…but there are those days. Never??? I know you don’t want to answer this…but please do. Please. :-)

By Lady J

May 8, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

CeeCee you funny honey