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With all this talk about emotional cheating last week, I started wondering how important we think the emotional aspect of a relationship is. For example, one blogger last week wrote:
If there are actions following the thought, then the behavioral implementation of those thoughts is cheating. If the thoughts never yield any action, then you haven’t cheated.
There’s something to be said for this argument. But I present the following: If I show up in a bank and am fiddling with something in my coat pocket, am searched by a security guard who finds a gun, a demand note for money, rope, duct tape and other items I would need to secure victims, I’m guilty as crap. I haven’t actually robbed the bank yet. But I was clearly going to. Just my being in the bank with those thoughts and some minor groundwork constitutes some sort of intended action.
Now, if I was at home thinking about robbing a bank, but going nowhere near the institution, there’s no way I’d be arrested, because I’m away from the premises. It’s one thing to think the occasional passing thought about someone other than your SO, but it’s another to be spending lots of time (in the presence) of that person with those thoughts.
But enough about the cheating. How emotionally driven are we when it comes to relationships?
When you begin relationships, are you usually beginning with a base of the physical, the emotional or the spiritual? Have you invested in someone emotionally or spiritually for a long time first before getting something started, or do you start with attraction and invest emotionally later? If you have done both, which method had yielded better results for you?
Can you maintain a physical relationship with someone if you’ve been emotionally disengaged for an extended period of time?
If our emotions are subject to the wind (as was suggested last week), then how good of an indicator are they for when we’re really in love? Can we bank on emotions driving our decisions if they’re subject to change?
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By QC
April 15, 2008 8:16 AM | Link to this
Morning
Have a great day all!
By SlimOne
April 15, 2008 8:25 AM | Link to this
Morning
By pisces 08
April 15, 2008 8:28 AM | Link to this
Morning All….
ARed, Sexy, and BE you got mail!
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 8:29 AM | Link to this
I would say most relationship start with physical attraction. And from there getting to know the individual builds the emotional and/or spiritual bond. After all of that is in place the relationship if it is going to work has to be controlled by logical thinking.
My emotions, my passion, ignites me but my common sense governs me. Haven’t always been that way but I have grown. Or rather am growing.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 8:34 AM | Link to this
Morning, everyone. :-)
“When you begin relationships, are you usually beginning with a base of the physical, the emotional or the spiritual?”
I normally take the “inside-out” approach in that I’m more focused on finding out what truly makes a woman the person she is. So, I guess you could say I place more emphasis on the spiritual, while allowing the emotional and physcial to take its natural course over time. I’m a firm believer that a relationship built on the “inside-out” approach is more likely (not guaranteed) to be more substantive and lasting than one not built that way. But, that’s just me.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 8:35 AM | Link to this
Good mernting everyone!!!!!
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this
dave why are you so passionate about the welfare of children, when you, yourself do not wish to have any?
I don’t know many black fathers who are that passionate about their own kid, LOL
Mama hey bay…
and Bre’ sup
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 8:50 AM | Link to this
Darrell Why did I know that you were going to say that?
By SlimOne
April 15, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this
Different types of ‘Ships
So on and so forth…Personally, I like to establish some sort of friendship with that person, get to know them first w/o acting on my natural lust-filled physical urges. That way if we do get down with the get down, we can at least still be friends…which at times works out pretty well because you’ve both now gotten that physical tension out of the way of a real friendship.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 8:56 AM | Link to this
6’1 Hey, at least I’m consistent. Besides, just think how boring this conversation would be if we ALL had the same approach to this topic. LOL!
By Angie (formally known as Beautiful)
April 15, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this
bloggin’ from the Valley. wake up desibaby! lol. 6’1 lollipop is hot girl!
When you begin relationships, are you usually beginning with a base of the physical, the emotional or the spiritual?
I will never start with the physical again. Im going to put myself through h3ll and get to know the spiritual side of the person first. I believe thats where the respect we were talking about begins. If he doesnt stick around, then there you go!
By QC - leaving @ 11:30am
April 15, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this
Hey Alvin/Demi/Cape Crusader
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this
Angie “Im going to put myself through h3ll and get to know the spiritual side of the person first. I believe thats where the respect we were talking about begins.”
^5!
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 9:09 AM | Link to this
Darrell (www.blackthen.com) thats why u always miss out on the nice chics.U will do well on Dr Phil show Good morning guys!!
By QC - leaving @ 11:30am
April 15, 2008 9:10 AM | Link to this
Great point Angie i totally agree!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this
Melo Leave Darrell aloooone, he is only human
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this
QC Heeeeeey sweetie, my birtday weekend was pretty “Mature”…very very very, supra boring like. LOL
6’1, hush!!!
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this
The Melo It’s really funny how every time I chime in on a subject liket this it never takes long for somebody to come out and tell me what I’m gonna “miss out” on. Amazing. LOL!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this
Melo Leave Darrell aloooone, he is only human
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this
Morning Ya’ll I always believe things happen according to people’s individual circumstances. With that said, I think a successful relationship can result from either a physical, an emotional, or a spiritual attraction. Some optimal (for you) combination of the three have to be present for a successful relationship, but like combinatorics order doesn’t count.
By Demi
April 15, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this
Darrell that cause you remind us of Carlton Banks at times.
Darrell is now firing paint balls at Demi to remind demi, he is So hood!!
By QC - leaving @ 11:30am
April 15, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this
Happy Belated Birthday Demi
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this
Demi “Darrell is now firing paint balls at Demi to remind demi, he is So hood!!”
Yeah, they’re the new G-Unit paint balls I picked up over at Greenbriar Mall yesterday.
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this
Darrell I always enjoy reading your comments however I don’t care what kind of turn, twist or spin we put on it there has to be an initial attraction factor. No one looks at a person at first glance and says wow they have a beautiful personality. There is no way of knowing someones personality or spirituality without uttering a word to them.
Be it the expression on their face, the sway in their walk, or the flutter of their eyes it is something physical 9.99999 times out of 10 that gets your attention. After then you decide if you want to get to know the person rather beyond the model.
By QC - leaving @ 11:30am
April 15, 2008 9:48 AM | Link to this
Carlton Banks Demi? Oh now that’s a no, no lmao!
By Demi
April 15, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this
Darrell LOL, is that mall still open??
QC thank!
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this
Demi did you just have a birthday?
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone. I can honestly say that I don’t always go with the physical right off the bat. Mental stimulation can be extremely captivating to garner an emotional connection. Now, when there’s both, viola! I’d rather get to know you. There are times when the physical attraction is quite apparent until you learn more about the person.
Happy Birthday Demi/Alvin
By Mo (also known as Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this
Morning errbody! :0)
Demi you are silly for the Carlton Banks comment!! LMAO!
DreamsMaterialize I agree with your post.
SlimOne you made me want to go back over my own ‘ships with your post! Nice way to analyze though
BRB need to get some work done first
By Demi
April 15, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this
QC I just wanted to put smiles on everyones faces. Spent last night messing with satin oil base paint. so you know I am in a foul mood.
It looks great, smells like hell.
*And I had nightmares about painting my wall with that same paint
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this
Good morning all. pisces, mail call back at ya.
I require all three. In meeting folks in the real world, you are going to be physically attracted first, at least initially. Now I’ll strike a convo up with most anyone, but I won’t naturally think it’s anything more than convo unless you try to holla. If I didn’t find you knee shakingly attractive, but you’ve given me some mental stimulation, we can definitely get to know each other better.
I’ve dated guys who bring looks and not much else to the table, as well as guys who could carry a conversation and not much else and I realize I need a good balance of all three. The actual ratio will vary.
Raqi - I agree with your 9:36.
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this
Darrell I always enjoy reading your comments however i like the way u rubbed him gently before criticising him.He is so unreal,so made up,reminds me of….anyway.So u tell me ur dyck never flinches when u see a smashing chic?
By DasV
April 15, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this
good morning good ppl
darrell i for one love your consistentency!…. tho i do take issue wit it every-now-n-then :)
on topic
i agree with raqi initially its always a physical thing. something about them intrigued you enough to want to get to know them on a more personal level. i attempt to gauge the mental capacity of a person above anything else. if you dont have the intelluct, it doesnt matter what you believe religously, and it stands to reason that emotionally you arent likely to be adept outside the basics. in the intial conversation, i am looking to gauge your ability to converse on a real…. a meaningful level. if your cursory comments/observations lack thought, depth or mor-n-portant wit, i have to keep it moving. cause boredom is my kryptonite.
theMELO we need to make it happen this week if possible.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this
Good Morning IN here!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this
Carlton Banks is a good one.
I was just doing the “Carlton dance” last night. LOL
By Demi
April 15, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this
Raqi yes sista, I am an Aries as well, much love to you!!!. mines is 4/13
Hey Mo/Sexy
She has toned down her makeup today, I still wouldn’t hit it…No no no nooooooooooo!!
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this
Thanks, Raqi. I enjoy reading you as well. :-)
I have to say that I generally consider myself a fairly good communicator, but when it comes to this topic, people seem to always misinterpret what I’m saying.
I’ve never said that physical attraction isn’t important, but people seem to quick to respond as if that’s what I did say. What I have consistently stated is not that physical attraction isn’t important, but that it isn’t as important as making that spiritual and emotional connection with someone. I seem to have to keep reiterating that point for some reason.
Someone asked me on this very blog a few weeks ago if I’d ever dated a woman who, generally speaking, wouldn’t necessarily be considered “attractive”. My response was “Yes, I have. In fact, I married her.” Of course, physical attraction has its place. I’ve never debated that nor would I. We are wired to take that into consideration in choosing a mate. That said, however, the fact is that as it relates to me, I’m not going to “disqualify” someone simply because I’m not physically attracted to her; especially if that someone is the person God has ordained me to be with. “And just how would you know that?”, you might ask. Well, I’d know it in my heart, that’s how, because the heart will sometimes help you see things your eyes have blinded you to.
Again, being physically attracted to someone is important but, as for me, it’s not a deal-breaker. There are deeper things to consider.
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this
DasV got u!,shoot me sme lines,im busy but wl get back atcha…
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this
Top of the sneezy morning to ya!!!
Demi I did not know it was your b-day…now I owe you a dance! LOL
On topic If I once loved you and lost that love….I can not continue a physical relationship with you. I for some reason feel repulsed at the thought of sex with you. Now if I meet a guy who is totally hot and I am just looking for lust factor and a booty buddy..then of course. Since I never had feelings for you there is no love lost or gained!
By abc
April 15, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this
Thinking back over 30 years, what first attracted me to the girl was that fine azz. What keeps me with her now is a deep emotional and spiritual connection. We are joined at the soul. That azz is still fine, though.
By Demi
April 15, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this
DasV wow, you don’t seem like a easy person to bore, LOL.
Demi is now making plan to take DasV on a long drive to grandma’s house…in MIA, FL…to say a quick hi and then onto South bea’s nud bea
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
The Melo “So u tell me ur dyck never flinches when u see a smashing chic?”
Like a divining rod when it finds water, but all that proves is that the plumbing works. What the hell does “dyck flinching” have to do with knowing in your heart that “she” is “the one”? smdh!
By Angie (formally known as Beautiful)
April 15, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this
omg! abc made a funny. lol.
what’s up staceye?
brb.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 10:19 AM | Link to this
LOL @ abc
Darrell - Maybe people are misinterpreting what you are saying because of the way you are saying. Just a thought.
By Mo (also known as Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this
Hey Cemeeli, how’s it going chica!
Demi you will notice that her make-up will look the same way at 5 o’clock as it does now. She reapplies throughout the day. And I know you likes her look!! LOL :0)
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this
Morning people.
While the physical attracts, the spiritual and intellectual is the glue. There’s nothing like seeing a chick and after talking with her saying to yourself ” thats a bad girl”. Brains and great convo with a shared spirit do the trick. My .02
Darrell stick to your guns my friend. You have introduced a new thought process. First they will fight it. Then accept it. Then embrace it. Victory goes to the strongest.
Good morning ladies. I hope you have a great one.
IG are you back yet beautiful?
Staceye I saw that Monk guy. He was way to jittery for me to watch.
Angie are you in Cali for good?
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this
What’s up Angie girl?
By mytwocents
April 15, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this
but like combinatorics order doesnt count. Yes, yes, Dreams. The parallels are mind boggling, indeed! Now looking up the ‘c’ word to justify - uhh solidify agreement w/ point…
Missed ya, Cemeeli! =)
By Demi
April 15, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this
abc…Truth is that you?
Demi is now searching an upscale jazzy restaurant for the real abc
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this
Amazon I understand what you’re saying, but dag, I don’t know how to say it any clearer than I already have - and just did again. I mean, heck, I write an entire newsletter every month and I can’t post a few coherent sentences on a blog? Come on! LOL!
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this
Mo how are you this morning? Thanks for the agreement…nice to know that at least one other person on the planet finds some value in what I say. lol I shouldn’t be so sarcastic though…after all today’s topic actually used my blog quote as a spring board. Thanks Bella!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this
Darrell - Maybe your newsletter is full of gibberish too. LOL J/K. ;-)
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this
ABC I was just going to give you props for your consistency in posting. Nevermind. LOL I still appreciate your posts though.
By Kym
April 15, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
When you begin relationships, are you usually beginning with a base of the physical, the emotional or the spiritual? Physical…see first..talk later
Have you invested in someone emotionally or spiritually for a long time first before getting something started, or do you start with attraction and invest emotionally later?
*Attraction is physical first, the more I know you and I mean really know you then the more willing I am to emotionally invest in the relationship with you. Time is not a factor..a long time for some is a short time for others. *
Can you maintain a physical relationship with someone if youve been emotionally disengaged for an extended period of time?
I am assuming this is the whole sex without emotional investment and yes I can..and have. Sex is the physical act. It doesnt require emotional feelings to have sex..but to have really great sex..and not just the animal lust then you need emotionally attachment to achieve that. **
By SlimOne
April 15, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this
abc Have you been hitting the Patron this morning? Wow, never seen you post like that. Will the real abc please stand up?
Slim hitting Demi in back of head as he pours alphabet soup over his body impersonating abc
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this
B I am just like everybody else, wondering have you left the A for good. Dayuum shawty, you just going to up and leave me like dat?
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this
Amazon “Darrell - Maybe your newsletter is full of gibberish too.”
Then that should make it even easier for you to understand.
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this
Truth I like Monk..he is funny! LOL
By Demi
April 15, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this
Angie hey babe and have fun!!!
light blub
Haaaa Hah!!!
Mo so that’s why her make-up looks so horrible by 12noon.
and my girl Anita’s hair looks a hot mess. I guess she wanted us all to know…she has a man now, LOL
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this
Darrell - Don’t quit your day job.
By Demi
April 15, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this
6’1 you bout to get gangsta with Angie**??
Cool, I’ll man the cameras…Slim, you can joint us too!!
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this
Ared just threw a hard right to Darrell’s chin. Darrell ducked and came up with a wicked uppercut. KO LOL
Staceye I can’t deal with people that fidget like that. He was making me nervous. LOL
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this
Amazon “Darrell - Dont quit your day job.”
Wow! That was original. LOL!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this
Darrell - Didn’t want to overwhelm those brain cells of yours. LOL!
By abc
April 15, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this
Just sayin… beautiful as she is, it’s the emotional and spiritual connection that keeps us together. Lord knows there are plenty of obstacles.
By DasV
April 15, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this
working on 3hrs of sleep…. pls excuse the flagrant mis-spellings in previous post
Cape-sta i do bore easily despite what you think. but trust. if i get in the car and agree to drive to florida to see nana wit you, then you past the point of me finding you too dull to hang out wit. i sized you up on our first trip round da corner to mickie Ds.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this
Amazon You’re trying too hard now. Really.
By Satoria Lynn
April 15, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this
Hello Bloggers,
Im going to be honest. I want a man who is attractive. When I see an attractive guy, whatever was on my mind isnt important anymore. That all goes away if what comes out of his mouth is ghetto and his swagger is wack as hell.
Have a chilly day!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this
Darrell - As if. Get over it then.
By dave
April 15, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this
If not for emotions… the “feelings” we get from them… the little tiny signals…those that make us human…
For what would we be?
I’m one that follows my emotions… First emotions (not just looks, signals, nor wants nor needs…)…
are EVERYTHING…
to be intune…inside… matters most…
trusting your heart… to me… is what matters… as even false signals show up…
your heart never really lies… if you’re truly, truly “in tune” with it…
not about a “physical” 1st glance or attraction… it’s about: HONESTY WITHIN…
hmmm…
just me… -the idiot! (what do I know)?…
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this
Amazon “As if.”
Another Valley Girl flashback, huh? LOL!
By BennyB
April 15, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
I was a high school junior the first time I had an emotional connection with a woman; she was tall with long legs and long hair. She has an angel face, snake eyes and an inviting behind. She was easy, she did not know that water was a compound, did not know what she wanted to study in college and did not have any ambition or any enthusiasm besides getting boys attention. This girl was neither religious nor spiritual, she did not know how to cook anything except in microwave, she did not read any book except those signed by Eric Jerome Dickey or Zane, she did not know how to eat using a knife and a folk, she was always broke and she hated the idea of having children (familiar!!). I could not find a single reason to love this girl besides her body and look but still wanted to be with her. When I finally got the balls to drop her azz, I learned my first lesson that my conscious mind and my subconscious mind are not always in total agreement.
If you have trained your mind to respond to looks by making your TV and pop culture magazines your main reference then your first impression is physical. If you have trained your mind to ignore the physical and look for the inner mind, you are one in millions. The physical does not impress me much, I know from experience that inside a beautiful body may be hidden an insecure secret sluts who seek nothing expect domination services.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this
Darrell - Duh. I am a valley girl. flips hair
Dave - Your post makes sense to me. Are you new here? If so, welcome!
By QC - leaving @ 11:30am
April 15, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this
DasV, i know how you feel trying to work on less than 6 hrs of sleep
20oz coke always works for me
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this
Dave / BennyB
Good posts, both. ^5!
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this
Michael Baisden’s show yesterday had men calling in to speak to their SOs with this first sentence: Honey/Baby I love you but….
ALL the men were respectful and honest. Anywhere from getting back to being feminie, to cooking more, to walking in the park, to listening and stop hearing waiting for your time to speak overriding what I just said. Pretty good show.
Also, I let you guys know that I went to two 50th b-day parties this past Saturday. WTF is going on w/folk. I had on a very nice black dress only to find myself at a nice house full of biker dudes…OMG! Worked w/what I had and had a good time.
By dave
April 15, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this
Kym: Have you invested in someone emotionally or spiritually for a long time first before getting something started, or do you start with attraction and invest emotionally later?
Sometimes it goes backwards…and then you see them for the “person” they are…and THAT makes them physically attractive to you…in your heart and dreams… know what i mean?
Me? i always follow my “first” instict… in EVERYTHING i do…without question.
I’m a musician by trade, career, and most of all by nature…we tend to do that…follow our hearts and try and let the brain play “catch up” with us…always improvising…always… -d
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
April 15, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs They weren’t Hell’s Angels, were they? LOL!
By QC - leaving @ 11:30am
April 15, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this
Enjoy the rest of your day bloggers!
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this
Sexyleggs I think you were at a mid life crisis party! LOL
Dave we tend to do thatfollow our hearts and try and let the brain play catch up with usalways improvisingalwaysI too am a musician and I have been the way you speak of, being led by my heart, especially when it came to romance. I found that it only got me hurt and stomped on. So now I do the total opposite but instead I make sure my heart never catches my up! LOL
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this
Great post BennyB.
Dave, your 11:24 is exactly what I said at 9:23. ^5
No Hell’s Angels. Big dudes who seemed like they could eat me whole. There were a few obvious vultures in the group but overall stayed respectful. The other 50th party most had on jeans. I was told at least 8x that night I was “prissy.”
By DasV
April 15, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this
QC had that already… getting ready to see if this boost i got will do anything more. i am soooooo sleepy. yawn not thinking straight or nothing. now looking around for a sofa to sprawl out on
dave of DMB, is that you?? LOL. would love to hear crash right about now seriously, what genre of music you play?? and i have to give you kudos on admitting you are an emotional person….. or that emotions play a large part in what you do, how you live.
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
Sexy the real shame is that those dudes let their women drop off to the point they had to call and ask for something she apparently gave them initially. Set a standard and enforce it. Period. If old girl drops off let her know about the infraction and move forward. If it happens again start remedial training. Third strike gets her benched for good.
This is why these married dudes get to the point where their wives won’t even sleep with them. They allow her to drop off. Next thing he’s looking outside for things he should be getting at home. The thing is if the dude drops off she chastizes him right away and without remorse. The chicks are ballsyer than the dudes.
By Angie (formally known as Beautiful)
April 15, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
dressed, looking cute, ready for a couple of interviews today! last minute decision to come home. CA is beautiful!!! will be here for about a month or so.
when y’all comin’ to visit? lol.
demi, what am I gonna do wit yo azz? Beautiful now kicks demi in da nuts, now come here and give me a hug you.
i told myself not to get jealous, but it never fails. :( i need an attorney. whatever right!
By dave
April 15, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
AMAZON RED,
yups…i’m NOT new to GA…been here on and off for the past few years…a NY’r by birth…(yet I have to say..i’m put off by the north/south thing s i believe we ALL share this planet)….but anyway…I’m new here…and i’m so glad i “found” this place…as ALL of you are so very cool…
I only hope i can ADD more than i p** people off…i’m pretty strong with my beliefs of this world we spin upon… not in judging others… but just the very things that make up this planet we all reside upon… I don’t believe in, nor wish we had borders…be it states or countries…I think most of all…we are ALL human…and that is what matters most… borders never help…they only hinder…same with skin color and gender…
In the end…we ALL have the same wishes, wants, needs, and feelings…
If anything…that’s what I think…not that anyone would care what i do….(think that is)… ;-)
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this
Now you’re reading my mind Staceye cuz that thought did enter. A bunch of old, hard looking men w/quite a few raunchy looking women. Heck, one male dancer got off the dance floor and grabbed a chair and pulled it back on the floor and his partner proceeded to give a short lived lap dance. All I did was SMH. (Not in the middle of people dancing around you.) Hell, no wonder most thought of me as being “prissy”.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this
mytwocents what’s the deal? I’m here on the “multitask” island. *It’s tax week and we’re having a bank audit this week. So my emails are HUMMING. Wish i could blink and be back at the resort in Fla.
MoBettaDreams hey. …waving…
Hi QC, are you hiding Blue?
Lol @ Darrell & Ared…what’s wrong with you two today? If either of you don’t have enough to do then i can definitely hook you up today! Either of you have an accounting/billing bkgrnd?
Bankerbird <—- is that name code for aquantied with audits? hmmmm…
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this
I definitely agree w/you Truth. I’m a firm believer in what attracted you to me albeit physical, size, mental, I’m staying on my game to keep you interested. Don’t want “The CleanUp Woman” visiting my house. Oh yeah, they played this at the biker’s party and they went wild on the floor. Seeing is the only way to believe me. It was an interesting night.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this
only hope i can ADD more than i p* people offim pretty strong with my beliefs of this world we spin upon*
Dave, that was my initial objective when I came here too. Hopefully, it will work out for you here. LOL
You’re in good company being from NY, we have Staceye and SexyLeggs repping the big apple too.
SexyLeggs - I tuned in to MB just when he was inviting the fellas to call in. I was curious to see how it was going to go down! We can talk about that later on.
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this
mytwocents you makin’ fun of me? lol
BTW, any BLOG attractions would be examples where the physical was NOT first…that is if anyone would admit to being attracted to another’s Blog Persona.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this
LOL Cemeeli, I have more than enough work to keep me occupied. But I’ll be glad to help if you want me to mix up some billing. LOL
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this
Darrell I understand clearly what you mean every time I read you comments. But you always leave out that there is something that draws you to the person to make you want to get to know them better.
Happy Birthday Demi.
By Blow Me a.k.a ROOKIE Cookie
April 15, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this
Good Afternoon all
Yeah Physical attractions is the intial attraction. But what will keep me there is mentally and spirtually. And more importantly MORALLY on the same path. But I am into mentally stimulation at this point in my life. Enough of the cuties with the stiff wood and nothing mentally or finanically to offer. Come to the table with more than hard wood in your hands.
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this
Dave Where in NY are you from? I am from Manhattan (The City as we call it)! How long have you been in ATL?
By Demi
April 15, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this
DasV I am far from boring…matter-of-fact, the fun starts the moment we run from Henry Co PD, LOL
Angie while I am unable to produce kids, I still enjoy the procreation process…demi is now hugging Angie ‘Doin the Butt’ style
SexyLeggs you when partying with gay dude…dayum you were bored as hell!!!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this
Blow - Great post (11:55). Especially on that moral part. Your character is more important than most anything else you can offer me.
By Demi
April 15, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this
Raqi….Thank!
By Demi
April 15, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this
DasV I am far from boring…matter-of-fact, the fun starts the moment we run from Henry Co PD, LOL
Angie while I am unable to produce kids, I still enjoy the procreation process…demi is now hugging Angie ‘Doin the Butt’ style
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this
Oh my -
Happy Birthday Demi!
ARed Lol…I can’t be “mixin up” ANYTHING in my dept. to many numbers/rebates/s-sheets! but thanks anyway.
Dreams…are you ASKING if anyone is seriously attracted to a blog persona? comin’ out of lurkers perch for this one
Mo …I gots that extra bag of kettle cooked Sea Salt n’ Vinegar chips from the trip. We ‘bout to enjoy them.
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this
DMaterialize, I’m attracted to a few here.
Demi, how did you derive I went w/a dude??? I went partying w/3 homegirls. One knew it was a party for bikers but decided not to tell us.
By SlimOne
April 15, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this
Off-topic vent Some of you may recall my welcome speech for my Granny’s 70th Surprise B-day party…Now my aunt is trying to make me do the welcome for the Family Reunion? Arrrggghh! See you do something half-way decent, tell a joke or two and they expect you to do it again. Sorry but lightning rarely strikes in the same place twice. Frankly, I’m not feeling inspired.
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this
that is if anyone would admit to being attracted to anothers Blog Persona.
Dreams You are so right! I’m attracted to 2CPTG, Truth, Darrell, and Rell’s words.
By Mo (also known as Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli now surely you knew when you mentioned those sea salt & vinegar chips that I would reappear!! LOL Pass me some please? I bought my own pepsi! :0)
DreamsMaterialize hey man, I gotcha back. They are working a sistah today!
Demi Ya girl with the new man…her hair always look a H.A.M (hot azz mess), just for GP. Dayum shame too. I hate for someone to always ask where you get your hair done knowing they are not about to go. And Ms Bowling Pin…her make up is like a mask for real!! :0)
By dave
April 15, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this
Staceye, I was born and raised on LI. I had many places in “the city” (and you KNOW that we..us NY’rs know there is only ONE city when we use the very word)….. My last place was a condo at 300 E.59th. 59th and 2nd ave…right next to the Queensboro bridge…I could see everyone coming and going to and from the city everyday…. still miss my NY…yet this place is “virgin”..(know what I mean)?…
I’ll ALWAYS be a NY’r…as will you…
who i play with…hmmm… not for everyone’s eyes to see… yet if you look hard enough…you MIGHT just figure it out! ;-)
(Actually I’m a session playr and play with LOTS of people…it’s how I found Atlanta… i REFUSE to call it the ATL…knowwhatimean?)….
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this
Amazon, I grew up in NY too!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this
Dreams - There are folks on here that I enjoy reading comments that they post. But there are usually aspects of their lives that they’ve shared that turn me off to any off blog connection.
By IslandGirl
April 15, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this
Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday to Demi, happy birthday to you! muah
Slim Darn….I was planning to ask you to give the welcome speech to my coming out party. lol
You will do a great job hon, I’m sure it will mean the world to your auntie.
Hey QC, Truth, Real, Stacyeye, Cee, Melo, Ared, Mo, Darrell, Raqi, Rell,
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this
6’1 - Yo son! (lol)Sorry, girly. My mistake! (your NY status is now seared into the mental rolodex)
By Page1908
April 15, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this
creeping in LOL at Cee and the sea salt n vinegar chips.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this
Mo here…you can have all the big chips in the bag & i’ll take all the little extra coated ones…ha!
not H.A.M.! I’m surprised my mop is still intact after the trip to Hot Town. I did the spring/summer tradition and got it cut a little…pixie flip is working for now.
Dave Chappelle’s Little Sister…could you come and do the Welcome, Introduction of Speaker, Speak, Poem and Closing at our FR in July?
Where is kimmie?
By SlimOne
April 15, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this
IG Coming out? Is there something you’re wanting to share with our fellow WLB?
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this
Hola Island Girl!
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this
there she is…Most Likely to Blog from Boomsquat Geneva. Hi Page!
….come join Mo and I on a Pepsi and Sea Salt and Vinager chips snack!…it’s about time now…
IslandG what’s it like today?
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this
Dave, when I arrived here (The Bronx) I couldn’t get with the word “hey”. Said I would never say it. Would always say “hello.” Well, 28 yrs. later I find myself saying “hey” not often, but I say it. If you’re here in 10 years you will be saying “the ATL” too (LOL).
By Bre'
April 15, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this
Demi Sorry I’m late on it, but happy belated B-Day. I hope all is well.
Greetings to all
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this
Dave I was not too far form you for a while on Fifth ave and 64th. Then we moved to the Inwood section of Manhattan. It’s where Law and Order films all the time and takes up all of parking!LOL Oh yeah I will always be an NY’er no matter where I live!
Slim come on girl…yo peeps are depending on you. Hey I am always the family entertainment..even when I don’t want to be. I am either forced to sing or dance…some times both! UGH..family! LOL
**Hey IG..what’s up!
6’1 ARED tried to yank your NY card! LOL
By Mo (also known as Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this
Hey Page1908! How are you chica?? Have some chips!
Cemeeli you are my girl cause I loves da big chips and hates da crumbs!! LOL!
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this
SlimOne, you have a gift at spewing/writing jokes and your delivery is on the mark. That’s why they asked a 2ndx. It’s all about delivery. Give in and do it for “the family.” You will have them laughing w/drool coming out the sides….no doubt!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this
When it comes to the female persuasion, I am very picky when it comes to the visual attraction first. When it comes to men, I am really big on the mental stimulation. Whispering What I’m saying shawty, is I can deal wit an visually challenge nicca, but I like dem pretty gurls !
By BennyB
April 15, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this
How emotionally driven are we when it comes to relationships?
I hope that we dont listen to our emotions, it’s for kids only. Listening to ones emotion is the source of bitterness, controlling behaviors and sometime (passion) crimes. Emotional people are very bad at tolerating simple discomforts such as a job change or an end to a relationship. They stay in bad relationships just because they are terrified of being alone, hurting someone else or hurting their feelings. Tolerating emotional discomfort is a major component that one must have to lead a successful adult life. Adult people learn to listen to their conscience instead of their emotions. Listening to our conscience is the only way to make our hearts tender to live disciplined and fulfilling lives.
Funny that people who put their emotions on the front line dont even have any control of their own emotions a simple fact that they dont know who they are. If you dont take control of your emotions, life will happen to you but it does not have to be that way. You can control your emotions and take control of your life and write pages of your own histories…..thats living
By Sidelines
April 15, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this
Amazon Darrell - Maybe your newsletter is full of gibberish too.
Then that should make it even easier for you to understand.….LMAO, fun-neee!!!!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this
Demi Since it is yall b’day. How bout me, you & alvin go to Strokers for a drink after work. You can drink, but I will go for the entertainment.
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 1:03 PM | Link to this
Ceme Imma have to charge you One Meeeellion Dollars, Said in my Dr. Evil voice..if i do an entire show for you fam union!
Stace If they force me to do it, I swear I’ll bring up all the dirt on the family. Be like:
“I’d like to thank everyone for coming..especially Auntie Denise for dragging our Crackhead Uncle Roscoe here..even though he stole her jar of coins, tv, box spring and one pillow case last summer. Oh, Let’s give a special thanks to Auntie Rita’s probabtion officer for allowing her a pass out from the halfway house. That was a trying time getting all 8 of her kids placed while she was locked up. Before we get started with the festivities, there is a special storage area everyone will need to put there car keys, purses, jewelry and underwear. Granny NoGood will be here shortly. Let’s say a prayer for her recovery of thievery. She is finally in counseling but it’ll be a long road. Again thanks for coming and enjoy….Oh and could whoever stole all the packs of kool-aid and swapped them out with Ramen Noodle Seasoning packets…could you please return them to the kitchen.”
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this
*I hate for someone to always ask where you get your hair done knowing they are not about to go. *
Mo you have a point…when i give a person my stylist card they more than likely didn’t not go. My stylist and i have the same name spelled different. I can remember 2-3 ppl that truly used the card and still is a client. And that’s out of 30 or so i’ve shared the info. with….lol…
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this
Anybody convinced by Darrell yet? He is such a nice person tho… Gay pple(apart from true practising christians) are the closet to Utopia we have.i knw the pope is coming but thats not what im talking about.I am yet to see any other ordinary person(guy not gay) who sees a woman and saysoh, i got to find out what she is like inside,if ahe is warm, nice stc, even tho she is so ugly
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this
Little Sis Chappelle
Can you sang a song for the old folks! They get to rockin’ and stuff.
Lol @ Auntie Denise…cussing cuz out in the car aaaallll the way to the family reunion.
Slim there is a pill for that…hahaha…
By DasV
April 15, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this
demi LOL@ ‘running from Henry Co’. what were we doing up that way anyway??
Binford quantify that with ‘emotional immature’ ppl… etc etc. adults deal wit their emotions. they have to. its what sets us apart from animals … even the mentally-challenged experience emotion. only the demented and deranged individuals carry the gene that allows for no emotion.
one can harden themselves against demonstrative emotion, which in and of itself is not necessarily a bad thing. but to voluntarily become devoid of emotion and not have it play a reasonable part in choices we make is flawed thinking at its best.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this
Slimgoody you are funny as hell. I think I would like to pay you with Chuckee Cheese tokens to perform at the annual sexual addiction anonymous picnic the Saturday before Mother’s Day.
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this
Darrell says ,oh, i got to find out what she is like inside,if she is warm, nice, etc, even tho she is so ugly correction. Which man surely thinks this way, unless ofcourse ….?
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this
SexyL I appreciate the encouragement…maybe my sinus cold has me feeling uninspired & irritable. My mom was originally supposed to do it, so i think offering me up as a suggestion was to save herself. Way to go mom!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this
Melo Leave Darrell aloooone, he is only human
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this
…these spread sheets make a sista get gansta…
Frankie a.k.a DasV What’s the procedure when you have a gun to your head?
…not speaking to nobody?…
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this
I am convinced that Darrell is truly a nice man. And not gay.
By DasV
April 15, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this
ROTFLOL@ SLIMONE aka NOT ms chappelle you AND yo fam is c r a z y funny!!
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this
See SlimOne, you’re touched w/both hands…go for it. You are crazy!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Raqi. I agree with your 1:25 as well.
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 1:31 PM | Link to this
6’1 Chuckee Cheese tokens are no good. Get a D & B token-filled card or All Access Pass to Malibu Grand Prix and maybe we can talk. And I’ll be wearing a Resopecia (from Norbit) Fat Suit, a Predator Mask, a female condom, 2 Dental Dam’s, a diaphram, 4 IUD’s to the S.A.A Picnic…afterall safety first.
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this
I’m w/you Raqi. Of course, Darrell isn’t gay. He’s a warm hearted, concientious, looking/wanting a good woman to grow old with man all the while enjoying life and all it has to offer.
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this
I am convinced that Darrell is truly a nice man. And not gay cosign.Nice guys come last when u talking girls.
By DASv (call me Frankie)
April 15, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this
CEEcee Whats the procedure when you have a gun to your head? * LAUGH. dont *nothin trump crazy.
girl. i feel ya tho. Excel and Access aint no friend of mines!
and wassup?? you crossed my mind on sunday…. service touched on ‘gleaning’. :)
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this
What is your problem Melo? Why you always riding Darrell. Aren’t you one of the unfaithful married dudes on this blog??? Just asking. You come across as not being faithful to your wife, though I don’t know and probably never will know. I understand this is a blog and anynomity may make people say things other than what they would say in person. Just asking!
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this
Melo…stop!
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this
Who Are You?
Mr. Instant Coffee Many brands to choose from. Hes looking for instant gratification.
Renaissance Man Hes self-assured, focused disciplined and responsible, yet knows how to let loose and have fun.
The Fisherman With patience he delivers the latest lines, lures and tackles. Never happy or thankful with what hes got. Hes constantly seeking a bigger catch.
Mr. Crusader Hes nurturing, empathetic and bighearted. Making a difference is more important than making money.
The Chameleon His personality is constantly changing to adapt to new situations. He blends into the crowd and shies away from the limelight.
The Boy Scout Always solving everyone elses problems.
Bond, James Bond This man likes his martini and his life shaken not stirred. He makes his own Path. Truth is this you man!!! LOL.
The Whine Steward Focused on accumulating and obsessing over his own misfortunes.
Mr. Wonderbread Solid, basic, dependable, sensible, practical, mainstream, he has good values and a stable family.
The Klingon This man learned at a young age that by being and staying a victim he could find others to be financially and emotionally responsible for him.
The Ferrari Quick, flashy, ambitious, and successful. Theres no stopping him!!!
The Energizer Bunny Marching forth fearlessly toward his goals.
The Rooster Cocky muthaflucka!!!
The Bellhop The wary and cautious carries a lot of baggage.
The Free Spirit Drifting, flexible, uninhibited, and happy.
Top Gun Strong, outspoken, opinionated, intense, and impulsive. Has a superiority complex.
The French Poodle His identity revolves around his pedigree. Hes stubborn, self-righteous, inflexible, aloof and unlikely to see anothers pov.
The Chess Player Always scheming and planning. He will achieve his goals at any cost.
Mr. Hollywood Attention hog!!!
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this
the melo that is not true. What good does it do for anybody to change how they are and what they like because someone on the outside looking thru is telling them they are not doing it right? To change is to compromise therefore not getting what it is you want.
Despite popular belief not every black woman wants a thug.
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this
The Energizer Bunny is of the female gender.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this
clutches pearls SexyLeggs, what got into you? LOL.
Isn’t melo a swinger? Doesn’t that make it “legal” cheating? LOL
By DasV
April 15, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this
DEMIGOD you are sooo right!! and that kinda shyt needs to be posted out here on the blog…. cause other sistas have that same issah wit de bruthas. and i dont know ‘bout dem, but i would love to vent about it. trynna get you in all kinds of trouble wit the moderator LOL
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this
*Arent you one of the unfaithful married dudes on this blog??? * u must knw some i dnt…but u asking in relation to what…the discussion? scroll back!!
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this
DasV I forgot to include my disclaimer. “The names of the people involved have been changed to protect their identity”
By 2CPTG
April 15, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this
Hey, Black Girl, and Thick 6
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this
*Unknown I’m a combination of Renaissance Man and Bond. My azz is getting to old for all that adventure now. I’m cool with cooking dinner and enjoying life, with a few thrills thrown in here and there. LOL
Darrell we know you’re not gay. You’re a solid dude, especially now that you know what a wife beater is. Melo just needed to release some of the stress from the new job. However, next time you’re looking at her beautiful insides take a look at that azz. It’ll make your hair stand up. LOL
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this
What good does it do for anybody to change how they are and what they like because someone on the outside looking thru is telling them they are not doing it right?
Raqi - I want to give you a standing ovation for your entire 1:48 but especially the quoted above. I found the men on this blog are particularly guilty of this.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this
DasV aka Frankie I am really about to set it off in this office if one more person ask me for a s-sheet from January 07. Dang!
…i need to hear a audio-book w/someone teaching on ‘gleaning’ right about now.
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this
Mo yeah I know that work can be. looking forward to the day when I don’t HAVE to do it. Sneak a break and have a shot with me.
Cemeeli Naw, I wasn’t asking about blog attractions. I just saw lots of comments that the physical was always first. So, I was just making the point that the blog would be one example where something else formed the basis for the initial attraction.
Unknown So, you’re saying you would like 2CPTG, Truth, Darrell, and Rell all rolled up in one man. They prety much cover the whole spectrum of personalities and perspectives. lol I can see you don’t short yourself…you want it ALL. ;-)
ARed I feel you. Funny though…wouldn’t it be nice if you had that same type of info about someone you met in person. Like if someone approached you at a social gathering, the dating “rule” would require them to give you their dating CV. That way you could decide on the spot if you wanted to continue the convo. lol
By BennyB
April 15, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this
DasV what set us apart from animals is conscience not emotions. All animals (including humans) have emotions used to control our instincts. Emotional immature people dont deal with their emotions, they respond to them, they act like animals by following their emotional instincts. Emotional mature people deal with their emotion by trying to find a place of peace amid a storm, by tolerating the discomfort caused by their feelings and stay calm.
If you are a Jesus follower, read Mark 4 37-41 where Jesus command his disciples to stay calm, to have faith and not to succumb into their emotions of fear. No matter how you feel, you should find a place of peace in your heart because once you do; the battle is not yours anymore, God fight for you.
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this
Raqi Why you say that? Please explain.
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this
Despite popular belief not every black woman wants a thug. althogh they like them with just a lil roughness. nt melo a swinger? LOL aint LOL..u shld see this look i have…
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this
Dreams - That would be great if it worked like that. You’d be in the running for a blog crush if you weren’t already promised to Mo or somebody. LOL
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this
Oh, I didn’t know he was a swinger? Guess unfaithfulness wouldn’t apply. Melo, I’m not basing this thought on much. You’re creative on how you ask for “blog treats” just thought you just might be unfaithful in real life. As usual, don’t mean to disrespect anyone and that’s why I asked.
ARed, don’t know what got in me…oh my!
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this
Oh, I didn’t know he was a swinger? Guess unfaithfulness wouldn’t apply. Melo, I’m not basing this thought on much. You’re creative on how you ask for “blog treats” just thought you just might be unfaithful in real life. As usual, don’t mean to disrespect anyone and that’s why I asked.
ARed, don’t know what got in me…oh my!
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli I can deal with folks not calling my stylist but this woman asks me all the time! She is one of those who wants a great hair do but doesnt want to maintain it. And she cant do her own hair to save her life! She always looks like she has just come from the 5 points Marta station (wind-blown).
DreamsMaterialize I am convinced its a conspiracy to make me nut up in here today. I have a problem with people shortening my name, at work anyway. Ya’ll are co-workers, not my friends so call me by my full name. Anyhoo I had a manager come thru here talking bout Mo-resey can you help me with this!…..Ummmm you bout to get jap-slapped for that nonsense. I politely advised her to not call me that again, I answers to Mo. So I will now take that drink and plese make it something strong. I have 4 hrs to go!
By Kara
April 15, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
just because you don’t bed TONS of women does NOT you mean you come out last, please STFU with that dumb concept - grow up.
By 2CPTG
April 15, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
jumpin’ in head first…..
I concur with The Melo…..btw, slick moniker! I ain’t convinced on ya boi, either! Shiiid!
By IslandGirl
April 15, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this
I have no idea what you guys are talking about. I had two meetings and a crap load of work to catch up with.
Slim don’t pay me any mind. I was just kidding.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this
Dreams
I was just making the point that the blog would be one example where something else formed the basis for the initial attraction.
Well as BUSY as i am today & right on schedule..That made me come off ‘The Lurkers Perch’ when i read it.
…interesting…
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this
melo - This new job is not bringing out the best in your blog personality. LOL.
What kind of look do you have?
By the way, the “roughness” needs to be very minimal. You can have a little caveman but I better not see it on any kind of consistant basis. LOL
SexyLeggs - I see a tall glass of wine in your future tonight! LOL
By Demi
April 15, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli & IG Thanks!!
SexyLeggs there is nothing wrong with partying with gay or semi-gay folks….
Watch This
6’1 that sounds like a plan. Now can you put in a few good words and help me pull Fire & Ice LOL
I will admit, I do find a few ladies on here cool as hell offline.
Mo I will pray for Ms. BowlinPins and Ms. H.A.M, LOL….hopefully it’s not too late
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this
I say we have a Blogsville Homecoming Court. Who should we vote for King & Queen?? (Nominees will be required to give a short speech on why they should be elected as king/queen) LOL!
By Kym
April 15, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this
Okay what are you folks talking about now?
Some one mention Michael Baisden earlier..and I was thinking about the man who said he only has sex with his wife 10 times a year. She has to be cheating on him because there is no way a person can go for just 10times a year. He should be cheating on her.
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this
Truth to be honest i wasnt suggesting dude is gay, all im saying is his views on this topic wld be so utopian like(perfect) to a point of being insincere to faulty pple like me, who are so vane…more a less like hw true christians(not ur average catholic or baptist) view other pple.If he is like that in real lyfe, he is the closest to perfection i have read, and wld luv to meet. Sexxy and Ared dnt even knw what u 2 are talking about..have fun at my expense tho!!
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this
Demi, I too see nothing wrong with partying with gay or semi-gay (WTF is that) folk (LOL). Just wondering why you said the dude I went with was gay and I had to really have been bored.
Heck the way it’s going now, give me that tall glass of wine RIGHT NOW!
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this
unknown first of all the color gives it away. And then the fact that she can keep going, and going, and going without requiring a 20 minute re-energizing nap in between backs it up. LOL
You got it???
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this
Kym Girl, I have to give yo azz a citation for that comment. SMH.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this
Mo before i go pull Page out of the tourist shopping, so we can watch you and Dreams kiss. Can we jack-slap er’body in the office together?…i just need someone to have my back. & trust, the team members will “try you”…and they don’t leave you alone UNTIL you ‘nut up’ & *(you can always say it corporate cordial to make ‘em sit down;-).
By I nominate . . . . . . . . .
April 15, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this
I nominate for King abc’s serious behind. lol.
I nominate for Queen Blow with her yappin’ at the mouth self. lol.
By Page1908
April 15, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this
Hey Mo!
LOL @ Kara and “please STFU”…lmao
By Psych 101
April 15, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this
It should be completely clear to you what Darrell’s problem is. He’s not gay he just continues to reiterate his point because he knows that the only way he will find the someone his heart truly desires is if they have the same philosophy as his.
It’s extremely clear that he has serious self-image issues. He has absolutely no confidence in his physical appearance. He has clearly been shot down alot based on his looks. To him, he believes his conversation and wordsmithing is where his gold lies! And he is determined to make others see it.
Now , if he could just get one of these fine-a* women that he doesn’t care about to fall for his mind he will be the MAN!!!
By Kym
April 15, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this
10 times a year? Unknown there are 12 months in the year. Something…Something..Something just aint right. Sorry but that is unreal. There is atleast one week in the month where unless you have hormone issues where a woman is at the peak of “freshness” so to speak. So again something is not right.
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this
Melo, I was just asking. Don’t recall you posting anything about swinging. I have no intention of having fun at your expense. I wouldn’t do that.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this
Cee I got your back. I walk around this mug like a dayuum dominatrix. They talk behind my back but won’t say it in my face. Girl you already over six feet, why you always have on stilettos all the time So I will be able to see the top of your head when I donkey kong you soon as you step out of pocket biaaatch!!!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this
melo - You’ve lost me now. My post to you was pretty self explanatory, but so be it. I’m not in “cohorts” with SexyLeggs today.
By For Real
April 15, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this
Lets see what’s the happs today:
emotions - Zipppppppppp!
Beautiful ran to CA to get a temp job?
Darrell is either Shallow Hal or gay.
Cemee is doing alot of spreadsheets by hand and all her lines are str8 too.
DasV was doing the nasty last night and didn’t get any sleep
Mo is short but doesn’t like short names.
Slim’s family is the Clappets
The Melo thinks Darrell is gay and the WLB thinks he not but soft.
For Real now slapping the ish out Truth’s dogs to see if that will snap him out of his funk. Come bruh you ain’t ran nobody off the blog in a while.
Alvin tell Demi happy bday for me when you see him. Oh and Demi you having any trouble with back tire spinning on your busa?
Sexyleggs partying like a rock star in a cocktail dress with member of Rick James family that don’t realize he is dead.
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this
Wow only ten times a year??
By Mo (also known as Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this
Hey Page1908, how you doing chica?
Cemeeli they got the wrong one today. They are gonna be fooled by my demeanor and get their feelings hurt round here. I gotcha back chica, you just say the word! LOL And I’m gon need you to leave me & Dreams alone!
By jraw
April 15, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this
@KYM You are so right. There is no way in hell that I could handle 10 times a year from my wife or vice versa. Somebody is cheating or both of them have some serious libdo issues. lol!
By For Real
April 15, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this
For Real now helping Kym take off her clothes to give her a years worth.
By Demi
April 15, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this
DasV I didn’t realize how difficult it was for women to find a man, who’s actions lines up with his words. And by time you do find a brother, who is a real man. Y’all wall is 90ft high, 80ft wide and 40ft deep.
On henry co:
We gotta take I-75 south to I-10 and then to I-95…
Between I-75s and I-10, the cops are bitter/rural class folks who believe in the ‘white bible’ and have guns out da ying yang.
You being a straight up sista and me with touch craziness are a bad mix.
We’ll be two educated blacks starting shyt for the next 786 miles.
For Real play the remix of me and my girlfriend, LOL
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this
Mo (resy) ok ok, don’t “jap-slap” me, but I couldn’t help it. lol Sounds like a scene from Office Space or something. How ‘bout some Everclear? Is that strong enough?
Cemeeli yeah that’s just me trying to look at things from all angles.
ARed Youd be in the running for a blog crush if you werent already promised to Mo or somebody. Ohhhhhh, is that why you denied my marriage “ultimatum” the other day? So, who are you “promised” to on the blog?
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this
I nominate:
King—>^6’1” Queen->SexyL
Hey Ryan Cameron posed a decent question with regards to the difficulties of dating here in ATL. He said, “Do you think it’s better to do Referral Dating (dating folks recommended or referred to you by friends or family) or do you find it better to just go out and do it on your own.”
By IslandGirl
April 15, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this
Real lol!!!!!
Demi you’re welcome
Truth how are you doing?
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this
6’1’ I swung by Panera Bread this morning….which is my route to work. For some reason i think i’ll see you in there one morning but then, not know it’s you. Home of of HD employees pit stop in the AM.
That dude For Real - Manual spreedsheets, you know State taught me better than that.
By Kym
April 15, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this
Raqi and Jraw Another gentleman called and said that guy was lucky he was getting 10. He wasnt getting half that. Michael B and his co-host(George?) were like dude you need a group hug. The co-host said if he is not getting any I am not hugging him. Ha. I actually felt sorry for him..well both of them. 5-10 times a year. Passing out at the thought.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
Dreams - Stop saying I turned down your proposal. All I wanted was to see the ring. LOL
I’m not promised to anyone. Anytime I get a “how you doin” on the blog, I proceed to beat down dude to a pulp, just for shyts and giggles. LOL
You up for that? LOL
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this
Cee I have eaten so much of that, I must say that is one of the prime reasons for the spread that I have going on!
By For Real
April 15, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this
My nominatition for King and Queen are:
Six-One Now the first dance to Me, Myself, I.
By Mo (aka Moeisha)
April 15, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this
For Real I gotta correct you boo, I dont like co-workers acting like we are cooler than we are, therefore they cannot shorten the name. Stay in ya lane! :0)
Dreams I’ll let you have that laugh man! Im having to laugh to keep from cussin! Everclear will work.
SlimOne I am listening to Ryan and I cannot wait to hear some responses. I initially said I would only date through the referral dating
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this
Great summation ForReal
SlimOne, I gotcha on that one (LOL)!
By Demi
April 15, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
For Real LOL, I’ve heard of a few ‘08 ‘Busas having that trouble. It’s occuring when you are down shifting right?…I am thinking the slipper clutch.
I am just getting my license back…So I am not allowed to purchase a ‘busa yet. LOL
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
10 times a year is a shame.
By For Real
April 15, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
Cemee at work……
Co-worker: Ummm Cemee, I need 12 columns and 10 rows.
Cemee: WTF!!!! Bytch you told me 15 and 12!
Cemee now erasing and bytching.
Cemee & Six We need to meet up at Panera Bread one morning.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this
The absolute MINIMUM should be 40 times a year. That’s once a week, minus the 12 times a year the wife is on her cycle.
(Pregnancy or serious illness being the exception to the minimum).
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this
Psych101 You killing me! I’m wondering who you are. Did Darrell turn you down? Why you so hateful.
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this
OMG Slim remind me to never ask you to speak at my birthday or anything! LOL Girl I would need to do that for my crazy family…let’s see…my Italian aunt who went to Amsterdam and got a tattoo of what she thought was the Italian flag and since the tattoo artist did it backwards it is now that of Ivory Coast and now we call her our African Queen! She had her one and only bio child at 43 (never too late huh) oh did I mention she is gay…(guess she felt a lil different that night)! Yes I was the one who could not grasp the concept of her being pregnant! LOL Her brother, my dad has 2 sisters and he is the middle child and the only half Black one! Oh I could go on…you know the drunk relatives, the man ho relatives, etc…
Das V but to voluntarily become devoid of emotion and not have it play a reasonable part in choices we make is flawed thinking at its best I have had to kill my emotions..they kept getting me hurt! So now they no longer put me in harm’s way.
Unknown The Energizer Bunny Marching forth fearlessly toward his goals that’s my kind of man!
Truth stop telling Darrell to look at my azz! LOL
6’1 So I will be able to see the top of your head when I donkey kong you soon as you step out of pocket biaaatch you are one crazy azz girl…but I love it! LOL
By Tazzee
April 15, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this
Afternoon folks!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEMI/ALVIN!
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this
Cemee & Six We need to meet up at Panera Bread one morning.
I’ll prolly be the one in there trying to bootleg my car stereo to play Lil Wayne on thier PA system…watching you and 6’ dance.
For Real u silly as hayo!
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this
* This new job is not bringing out the best in your blog personality.* i knw, im stealing time to blog and i have to do it in short hand, thats why i dnt cme correct…lol u slick!!
By IslandGirl
April 15, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this
Slim Referral dating aka being hooked up by a friend.
I actually did not have a good experience with being hooked up by a close friend of mine, so I prefer meeting a person and taking it from there. The bad part about hooking up a friend (being a matchmaker) is the potential guilt factor you may feel if the things turn into a nightmare between your friend and the person you tried to set them up with. I dont want the responsibility of dealing with the let down or breakup. I use to always warn my girlfriends about getting involved with my brothers. I did not want to deal with blood on my hands.
By Kym
April 15, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this
Amazon Once a week? hmmm that wont cut it for me. Unless that is one 8 hour non-stop day. The doctor(a woman) he had on there recommended 3 times a week for married couples. She said the wife should sleep naked( I would assume that time of the month as an exception) I am not with sleeping naked-Anything could happen. But I can see 3 times a week. Her other recommendation(I think she was hocking some kind of book) was to learn one techinque that would knock your man to his knees..(again that sounds great…but I see some flaws in her logic) I just think the key is to keep it interesting. One of the old school guys on here said his wife comes up with games. Thats the kind of stuff I think works. Naked wrestling matches,strip uno,etc.
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this
For Real According to each of your 50 pumps per 3 minute sessions…a years worth would be 10 times a year at 50 pumps per sesson, equalling out to a mere 500 pumps per year. I’ll need your PPY2(pumps per year) form for 2001 & 2006. I don’t show you filed for those years.
Dayum, Slim now passing the f/k out trying to add up how many pumps she has Year-to-Date
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this
Sounding like Jim Carrey on “The Mask” They like me, They reaaaaaaally like me! Forreal I would much rather be dancing to me and my girlfriend!
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this
While no one can say what is the “norm” for someone else less than once a month is pretty sad if the two involved are not in agreement.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this
IG The same with me, all my girlfriends always fall for my trifling brothers and we end up falling out of friends because my loyalty lies with the blood you feel me kid!
By For Real
April 15, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this
For Real now seductively tying Slim to a chair and then For Real position the tv directly in fromt of of Slim’s face and then turns on Deion Sanders new reality tv show that’s on repeat.
By IslandGirl
April 15, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this
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By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this
Demi
Between I-75s and I-10, the cops are bitter/rural class folks who believe in the white bible and have guns out da ying yang!
This ^ is the TRUTH! Try this…I got a $600+ ticket trailing an asian guy to Savannah for my friends wedding once. Going 92 in a 70mph in Bryan County (20min outside of Savannah) we both got pulled over. His was higher. NEVER in life will i do that again!
By Satoria Lynn
April 15, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this
Kym - I’m with you on that. A way to keep it interesting is anytime of the day. Sleeping naked is a must and first thing in the morning is a law. He’s the happiest and horniest then.
I nominate ME as Queen! LOL.
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this
ARed LOL Ok won’t mention the proposal anymore. I think that’s just me equating my inability to provide the Blingage with you turning me down. Doesn’t make sense I know.
Now, I’ve never been known to be on the victim’s end of a verbal beat-down, so gimme what you got. ;-)
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this
Kym - I was saying absolute minimum. Once a week wouldn’t do it for me either, personally, but I wouldn’t tell a friend to get divorced over once a week.
Sleeping naked is great tho, but I don’t have kiddies.
In terms of keeping things interesting, I hope my hubby would be happy with having the pole in the house. Cuz that’s what I propose to keep things spicy and judging for the bruises on my legs and knees right now, it better be worth it. LOL
By For Real
April 15, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this
For Real breaking out his powerpoint presentation to Pumps Preparer Slim……
Slim Technically 50 pumps per 3 mins = 150 pumps. Thus, my year to date PPY = 1,500 pumps.
For Real now pulling up his pants to put away his powerpoint.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
Dreams - You can’t hook me up with a carat? That’s all I need. Come one man. They got financing. LOL
As for the verbal beatdown, you have to say something asinine first. I only attack if provoked. LOL! (or maybe I just like your post too much to run you away. LOL)
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
Slim I often wonder about the hook up from a firend..if the guy is so great..why the heck isn’t she with him? Or has she been with him? LOL I have also been set up with my boy’s boy and I was so disappointed. Dude looked like Mr. Potato head…except he was White! I think my boy got me because he was mad that I would not be with him…but he had an “Ex girl” who still lived with him until she could find a place. Which of course I will not fall for that crap! Months later he tell me they got back together and she is pregnant! I’m no fool. My BS meter went off when he told me they were not at least still screwing!
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
On the sex, ol boy needs to either dump her or take that azz. If she calls the popo and he goes to court the judge would understand if he was only getting it 10 times a year.
Now, the question is how many times a year is good? I start with Areds math X3. I say 120. Does a bj during that time of the month count?
Staceye I have a cure for Darrell’s ailment. Just let him bite your azz one time. That’s it. He’ll be sprung like hell. Just get down on all fours.
IG I’ve been missing you all week and all I get is “how are you”? WTf, who is he? I’m kickin someones azz. Who you been seeing woman? WB
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this
But you know when you only hear one side of the story it is hard to say what is what. Is he doing what he needs to be doing? For her. Around the house. With the kids. On the job.
For me its like this. My husband makes me happy. And I keep him happy. raising left eyebrow
By Satoria Lynn
April 15, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this
Having a pole in the house? Hmmmm.
Why did Beautiful move to CA?
Happy Birthday Demi or Alvin. Which one?
By IslandGirl
April 15, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this
Truth It was spring break, so I spent some time having fun with the little man.
You know I can’t cheat on you. It’s all or nothing when it comes to you.
By Demi
April 15, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this
Tazzee thanks sis.
Sexyleggs will you have time for a drink this afternoon?
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this
But you know when you only hear one side of the story it is hard to say what is what. Is he doing what he needs to be doing? For her. Around the house. With the kids.
Raqi - I think we all feel you on that. I find it to be suspicious too.
Satoria Lynn - I like your attitude. I’m with you.
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this
I’m visualizing a power point presentation until I get to the last line…too funny! good one!
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this
SexyL You know I had to go there. I’m drugged up on Tylenol Sinus & Cold. lol
Stace 43?!! Dayum, she really waited it out. So did the child come out healthy? And you know if you take anybodies family and start going down the line to the part of the fam you hardly associate with…you’ll get all the druggies, alkies, baby mama’s, baby daddy’s, abusers etc…Sometimes you get lucky that they are not in your IMMEDIATE fam. But for real tho. I do have a crackhead uncle that can fix anything, build anything and does a good job. Just ensure he’s supplied with some Icehouse, cigarettes, a lil loot and take him by a ‘friends’ house every now and then. He’s our family contractor. Tombout puttin down a hardwood flo…Brutha is top notch! lol
IG I don’t have any brothers nor had friends with brothers that i wanted to date. So I didn’t have to deal with that. Referral dating can definitely wreck havic on a friendship if it turns sour.
Slim gets out of the weak azz tied rope For Real put her in. She catches him by surprise, ties HIM down and makes him listen to Khia’s freestyle on that new “Miss Rap Supreme Show” on VH1
P.S If you’re not able to provide proof of humps for 2001 & 2006 we’ll be forced to seize an estimated amount from you…well Crackhead ShirleyPearl will. And let me just tell you..she thoroughly enjoys her job and you’ll only be allowed to bring a 2oz bottle of gatorade.
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 3:45 PM | Link to this
Raqi ^5. He’s not doing his job right! I bet if he kiss that cat he would get it more!!! And don’t come up for air, bey bey.
By Kym
April 15, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this
Raqi I dont care if he is not taking out the garbage or helping with the kids. I have needs too. An 10 times a year is not going to cut it with me period. Someone is going to get hurt.Sexual probation is just foolishness. The oppressor and the opressed are both suffering. If there is a hard chest laying next to me the toy chest is closed and it is game on. Besides next to morning wood..angry sex is a close 2nd.
10 times a year..that’s madness…madness I tell you.
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this
Satoria Alvin the the B-day boy…Demi is his twin Alter Ego!
Truth Why must I always get bit on the butt…I’m still healing from Savannah’s dual booty bite from 2 drunken friends, whom I did not know.
Ared a pole in my house is a given..that entertains me. I will be in that basement for hours getting my workout on. I did win the ppole dancing contest at Hedo last year…as well as the Booty Shack contest and the cage dancing contest. I came back with loads of rum and gifts that were part of my winning. What they should have given me was the free trip to return.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this
Satoria Lynn Sit your butt down chica, You need to check my resume. I earned my title as King & Queen Dey know, Dey know
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this
Sorry, Demi, but I already have plans for this evening. Perhaps tomorrow.
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this
Satoria Lynn How about I went to this home made strippa party, that just a port-a-pole and a few chairs…I found out later, the folks who owned the place, threw those parties dang near everday to pay rent and buy dope to sell, LOL
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
demi/alvin sORRY DUDE for not noticing its ur birthday. Friday, whatever u want..hedonism on montreal circle or Strokkers,Magic city take ur pick..drinks,girls and $$$ bills 4 the girlzzs on me!! Happy Birth my bro!!!!!!
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this
Madness is not getting ANY in a year!
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this
Staceye - You’re already a pole vixen. Girl, you can give me some lessons. LOL
I’m pretty sure that I’m going to have my pole in my bedroom. The kind I have is removable, so I think it makes the most sense to keep it there. I wish I had a basement or at least a sitting room. LOL
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs cool, that oil base paint has my house stinking…don’t want to go home.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this
Stac no your 3:32 about the friends referal has me laughing out loud.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this
Melo I wanna go, I wanna go!!!!!!!!
By Sidelines
April 15, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this
Happy Birthday..Demi/Alvin!!!!
Smooches…:)
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
For Real For Real now pulling up his pants to put away his powerpoint. HA HA HA HA…you got me with that one. Hi-e Fiv-e…Said in my Borat voice
Slim hand Demi his birthday card. He opens it and it reads: I just saved a helluva lot on my car insurance by using Geico…I’m rich Biaattch!
Sorry Alvin I didn’t realize you and Demi’s birthday was on the same day. You can have this melted Sneaker Bar that got put in the wash only once. Hungry? Why wait?
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
Ig so you’re cheating on me with a midget? WTH is this world coming to? You know how jealous I get. Welcome back gorgeous.
Unknown over the course of a lifetime you have to be better than just licking that cat. Take her somewhere and love her under the stars, on the beach, in a park, backseat, airplane, bus, train, grocery store (nevermind, no hairs on my food please) you get the drift. I’m gettin rusty, you want to help a bruh out? If so take a day off and pack a lunch. Take 2 cause you’re gonna need some time off. LOL
By Satoria Lynn
April 15, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this
Alvin - Huh?
6’1 & Luvin it - I hope I’m reading you right. You can be my King.
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this
Kym I agree. I have needs too. But when my kids were younger and all the responsibilities and work fell on me that was a “mood” killer if nothing else was. Being tired and aggravated…somethings you just can’t push pass.
And sleeping naked??? I sleep half naked every night. It gets common after while. You must be creative to keep on top of things.
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this
Melo my birthday just past…4/13, I partied all weekend. Didn’t drink much though, but met and hung out with interesting peeps.
Madness is not getting ANY in a year!
SexyLeggs gurl, let your boy come and rescue you!!
Demi is now flying over to sexy’s job wearing a male strippa suit/with Mr. Marcus timbs’n’baseball cap
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
And my comment was not implying withholding sex as a form of punishment or anything. I am truly talking about not having the energy or motivation to be or want to be intimate.
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
Slim glad to say almost 8 years later…my lil cousin is beautiful and healthy and thriving in London. I’ve got an Uncle similar to yours but mine is the functioning alkie! LOL He is better AFTER drinking! Go figure!
ARED I try to make it do what it do! LOL I still want to take the classes so I can learn more. Even though I have been belly dancing fro years I still like to take classe to learn more moves.
Cemeeli yeah…old dude did me dirty!
By Unknown
April 15, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
Truth Honey, I’m going to let you pass on this citation today, cause obviously you are NOT a female. If he is kissing it right, I don’t care about doing it in the car, beach, airplane blah blah blah. Oral has got to be the best thing is this damn world. OKAY!
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
6’1 & Luvin it (Don Dada i aint saying a word or else i wil be accused of treating blog females…alvin wl have to extend the invite.But wl have females outside of blog in our company, that way nothing cmes back here next week.Once beaten, twice shy!! Whatever happens on montreal circle stays on montreal circle!!
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this
SlimOne I am laughing too hard to even mount a comeback
Satoria Lynn you had me think about one of those port-a-poles that all.
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this
Sidelines Hey babe, hope things are going well!!!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this
What do you think that you are reading chica? I am a female that looks like a female, dress like a female, act like a female, but I like females!
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this
Melo LOL, you know have to party bruh!!!
Whatever happens on montreal circle stays on montreal circle!!
Sign me up!!!
By Satoria Lynn
April 15, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this
6’1 & Luvin it - Yea, I got it right!
Have a wonderful night.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this
Alvin Holla at cha girl
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this
Oral has got to be the best thing in this damn world. OKAY until u wake up one day, with ur mouf circled wit red oozing pimples that ared is so afraid of,then wel all know what u were up to…
By The Truth
April 15, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this
Unknown let me introduce you to my friend 6’1. LOL I’m just saying variety is good. Let me show you my tongue of steel video.
Alvin happy birthday to you.
Ladies, I’m hosting a pole tryout session to form a pole dancing team. Me and For Real are looking for some real flexible women who love working on that pole. To make this as lifelike as possible we’ll be shooting liquids at you and rubbing you down with baby oil. Also, if you’re alergic to exstacy please dont drink the beverages. TY in advance.
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this
6’1 & Luvin it I am not to hard to find, hit me up at demigod33@yahoo.com
By Staceye
April 15, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this
Hey Sidelines..what’s up girl!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this
Satoria why you leaving so soon?
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this
ARed Ohhhhhhhhh, you said the “F” word! (financing) lol I’m trying to keep my income to debt ratio as high as possible. Guess I’ll have to catch you down the line when I’m closer to complete financial freedom…I KNOW you’ll wait. ;-)
Guess I just try not to have asanine things to say to people. lol Probably part of my Libra qualities to try and see all sides of things, without judging.
Not one to run away, but glad you haven’t made it your mission to try. ;-)
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this
yea, Stac that wasn’t right. Dude thought to put the set up… and he got “set UP”.
By Raqi
April 15, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this
One thing to be considered when I can’t “move” you for a day because you are mentally preoccupied who knows whether or not I might be emotionally under the weather for two days following that and you cant seem to “lift” me. That knocks at least three days out right there. So on those it is me not you (on both parties) hiatus take into consideration the time elapsing in between.
IMO the only thing worse than no sex at all is detached frigid sex.
Me not being in the mood doesn’t prevent me from “loving” my spouse. I know how to adjust. But being upset, made to feel ousted or irritated will have him banging an iceberg.
By Sidelines...
April 15, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this
Alvin…everything’s good sweetie, thanks for asking.
Enjoy…everyone have a good evening, you all kept me laughing today!
By Kym
April 15, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this
Raqi I never thought of it as a mood killer..more like stress release. Besides you sleep better.
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this
Dreams - Get your broke azz can’t afford my one carat diamond ring away from me.
How’s that. LOL
Uh melo - Shouldn’t we ALL be afraid of waking up one day with a mouth of red oozing pimples? LOL Yikes!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this
Call me so I can come and do it for ya Call me so I can come and prove it for ya Call me so I can make it juicy for ya Call me so I can get it juicy for ya
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this
6’1 I can see you working into strokers slapping dancers into shape…what side of town are you on any how?
But being upset, made to feel ousted or irritated will have him banging an iceberg.
Which is no fun at all.
By DreamsMaterialize
April 15, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this
ARed LOL Darrell ASSURED me that you would like me for me, not my carats. How about a one carat limestone?
By AmazonRed
April 15, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this
Dreams - I do like you for you. But I also want you to get me my damn diamond. LOL Then I’d like you MORE.
By SexyLeggs
April 15, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone!
By Sidelines...
April 15, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this
Staceye…hey woman!
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this
Whatever happen to ‘White Chocolate’?
That sista could work a pole.
By SlimOne(Not Mrs. Chappelle)
April 15, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this
Stace My uncle calls his pipe his wife. LOLOL! He is definitely a functional crackhead.
Slim now buying cases of Icehouse from Sam’s while C.H.U(crackhead unc) try to recreate the pyramids
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this
61, I can see you walking into strokers and slapping dancers into shape
I am getting sleepy now.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)=Playin both sides
April 15, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this
I frequent pin ups more, But I go to Blue flame the most because I have been going there for so long it is like walking into Cheers
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
But I also want you to get me my damn diamond. LOL Then Id like you MORE.
You see, money IS the quickest way to a woman’s heart, LOL
By The Melo
April 15, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this
My uncle calls his pipe his wife if his dyck aint rising anymore even with viagra, thats understandable!!
By Alvin
April 15, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this
6’1 I have not been to blue in years, LOl hit me up tonite…I am out.
By Cemeeli
April 15, 2008 6:09 PM | Link to this
Is this still up? hahahahaha…
By Angie (formally known as Beautiful)
April 15, 2008 6:18 PM | Link to this
hey Cemeeli!
By пyпo
March 28, 2009 1:44 PM | Link to this
Хм… Это финиш… По-видимому пора расслабиться и отдохнуть :)