Misadventures in Atlanta

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 8:13 AM | Link to this

sexyleggs did you find out what it means? lol. sorry girl, but that was funny. good morning!

i need someone to sing to this morning. 900, where are you?!?

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 8:15 AM | Link to this

Dang I feel like I need to put toothpicks on my eyelids. I dayum near fell asleep driving to work this morning. Too bad we don’t have a nurses office here at work…cause I would fake a stomach ache just so i can catch a few zz’s on the cot.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 8:29 AM | Link to this

Goodt Mernting Everyone! I think I have broken my log in on the blog, Never got in this early. You can sing to me B I could go for a serenade. Do you know Lollipop by Lil’ Wayne. Hint, hint!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 8:31 AM | Link to this

“If you’re more of a homebody by nature, have you ever been in a relationship with someone who was a social butterfly?”

I’m definitely more the “homebody” type, so I doubt that a woman who’s more of a “social butterfly” would be very happy with me, to be honest with you. By “homebody”, I don’t mean I’d rather stay home all the time, it just means that in a relationship I like to do the simple things, that’s all. Although, it is cool just sitting back in my master bedroom watching a movie on my wall-mouted HDTV. It’s kinda like having my own little movie theater. :-)

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 8:37 AM | Link to this

lol. nope, don’t know that one. hey 6’1, how do you tell a guy nicely that you don’t want to have s3x with him and to please stop sending nekkid pics to your phone? lol. i know the answer, but wanna hear yours.

By Kym

April 4, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

I am pretty extroverted but at the same time I am a bit of a homebody. I did all my clubbing from the age of 14(Sharon’s-teen club) to 30(the last time me and my friend went to club mirage for the chippendales) You know you have outgrown the scene when you are falling asleep at the club. So now I am more of the nice movie, dinner, good conversation and a sensuality session if the mood arises. I dont mind an the occassional get together with family and friend(I will dance then)But give me a good quiet evening, or a lively football game and snacks..Done.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 8:47 AM | Link to this

B You tell him that you have a girl. I know, I know that will make him run to you, he will even suggest to be with you and the girl. But then you tell him that she is 6’1 Ha, Ha, Ha! Jk but not really. No tell him he cool. Then you give him the line that you know he has heard before because he is just that type of guy. *You cool, but I just don’t like you likeTHAT

By Sweetness

April 4, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

I am in between, depending on what season it is. Summer/Spring = Social butterfly. Winter/Fall = Homebody. I love to hang-out with my girl/guy friends and my sweet-heart. I wouldn’t mind chilling at home with my sweet-heart as long as he doesn’t become custom to it.

By Islandwish

April 4, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to give up any kind of social life. You can find other couples to socialize with. Interaction with other people is good for a relationship.

By Sweetness

April 4, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

I am in between, depending on what season it is. Summer/Spring = Social butterfly. Winter/Fall = Homebody. I love to hang-out with my girl/guy friends and my sweet-heart. I wouldn’t mind chilling at home with my sweet-heart as long as he doesn’t become accustom to it.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 8:52 AM | Link to this

Kym “So now I am more of the nice movie, dinner, good conversation and a sensuality session if the mood arises. I dont mind an the occassional get together with family and friend(I will dance then)But give me a good quiet evening, or a lively football game and snacks..Done.”

That is me exactly.

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

After 2 cups of coffee…

My preference would be to have a balance as with anything in life. I would not like to be with someone who feels like they have to be running the streets, nor do i want a partner that you have to shoot bullets at their feet to get them out the house. However, out of the two extremes, the “can’t-get-out-the-house” dude would drive me insane. I was interested in a dude once that I didn’t initially know he was Wiggety Wack!..but my attraction to him soon turned to irritation because he never wanted to do anything. He was one of those folks who would entertain the idea of going somewhere but when it came down to it, he’d always opt to stay home.

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

You tell him that you have a girl. I know, I know that will make him run to you, he will even suggest to be with you and the girl. yea, that won’t work. lol.

i’m a homebody, but don’t mind letting my hair down sometimes and painting the town. i can fall asleep in da club like kym, but if i’m having a good time i won’t be home until 4ish in the morn. also, i’ve been noticing that i want to go to unusual places like the trap. is it because i’m ready to explode? lol.

By The Truth

April 4, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this

Good morning ev1.

I’m with Darrell. I’d be more the homebody than the social butterfly. My idea of fun isn’t the club but hitting the road for a weekend or 1 day getaway. The club thing just isn’t happening for me. I do love, however, get togethers and card/game parties. If I did go tho I wouldn’t take my woman with me. You go to the club to look at women, why bring one with you?

Weekend roundup: Another quick getaway is Big Canoe up 400. Nice spot. Gated and guarded resort with condo’s where you only have to being food. There’s a lake too. I went a few years back and had a great time. If anyone goes hit the hills where the wealthy have their weekend homes. Wow.

Sexy tea bagging is where a guy sits on your face with obvious bodyparts in your mouth. A demonstration is being set up for noon. We need a volunteer.

Staceye we’ve been pretty friendly these last few days. Lets seal our friendship with a hug. (The Truth holds up his arms knowing if she walks into them he’s going to grab her azz and get the shyt slapped out of him. So what, it’s worth it)

By DJ Rell

April 4, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this

Did someone say music

Let you take me out I knew what you were all about But when I did I wasn’t trying to lead you on

Now you bring me home And tell me goodnight’s Not enough for you I’m sorry, baby I didn’t mean to turn you on

You read me wrong I wasn’t trying to lead you on Not like you think I didn’t mean to turn you on

You read me wrong I wasn’t trying to lead you on I want a friend I didn’t mean to turn you on

Oh, I didn’t mean to turn you on

I know you expected A one night stand When I refused I knew you wouldn’t understand

I told you twice I was only trying to be nice Only trying to be nice Oh, I didn’t mean to turn you on

You read me wrong I wasn’t trying to lead you on Top40db.com Top40db.net Top40db.org. Not like you think I didn’t mean to turn you on

You read me wrong I wasn’t trying to lead you on I want a friend I didn’t mean to turn you on

Oh, I didn’t mean to turn you on

Why should I Feel guilty cause I won’t give Guilty cause I won’t give in I didn’t mean to turn you on

I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on

I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on

Oh, I didn’t mean to turn you on Oh, I didn’t mean to turn you on

I didn’t, didn’t, didn’t…

I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on

No, I didn’t, baby

I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on

You think that I’m a fool Cause I didn’t play by your rules I didn’t mean to turn you on

You don’t stand a chance All I want to do is dance I didn’t mean to turn you on

I told you twice I was only trying to be nice I didn’t mean to turn you on

I loved you for a friend But I guess this is the end Of our relationship cause I didn’t mean to turn you on

I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on I didn’t mean to turn you on……

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

I got a spot you hang out at B I love the bad boyz! I think because my brothers are bad boyz.

By BennyB

April 4, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

Everyone should check this Pre-marriage checklist before his/her bachelor/ette weekend

A Pre-Marriage Checklist

By Kym

April 4, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this

Now someone mentioned the seasons. Spring and Summer are when I guess I am most active(so to speak) I go to Wednesday Winddowns on occassion and festivals around the city,concerts at Chastain (so would much rather go to Chastain than to a club any day. or Mablehouse. I top it off at the State Fair in Perry, GA. I love a good corndog at a county or state fair. (Country gal too I guess.)

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

Off-topic:

Truth How do you think Ted Turner feels now? LOL!

Global temperatures expected to DECREASE

and this from the United Nations - an organization to which Turner has contributed MILLIONS of dollars - own meteorologists!

By Sweetness

April 4, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

thanks Truth

Adding that one to my list of things to do..

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 9:11 AM | Link to this

Kym Speaking of ‘Wednesday Wind Down”, if you like smooth jazz, Bob Baldwin (jazz pianiast) is on the schedule this year. I’m a big fan of his and have two autographed CDs by him. If you’re not familiar with him, he’s definitely worth checking out.

By Kym

April 4, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this

How about this one Rell..

Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss goodnight baby, Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss goodnight baby, Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss goodnight baby, Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss, goodnight baby,

Lately, I’ve been thinking somethins goin’ wrong Cause u got an attitude and you’re not in the mood like you used to Girl I can feel it when I hold you in my arms The feeling is not the same Can I be the one to blame

I dont wanna lose ur luv (uummm) I dont wanna say bye-bye (oh no no) Tru luv is so hard 2 find And it’s right between your legs and mine..and mine before i let go……

before i let u go away Can I get a kiss goodnite b4 I let u go away Can I get a kiss goodnite b4 I let u go away Can I get a kiss goodnite

Turn the lights down low Lets take it nice n slow My mission is to keep u mine Don’t want this to be the last time We make sweet luv baby i kno u feel it too It’s bigger than the both of us There’s one thing I’m so certain of

i dont wanna loose ur love(dont wanna loose ya) i dont wanna say bye bye(dont wanna loose ya) its alwayz the little things i remember and i cant jus let it slip away … slip away! before!!!!

before i let u go away can i get a kiss goodnite before i let u go away can i get a kiss goodnite

Teddy, won’t you play the music for me Teddy, won’t you play Backstreet say?(dont wanna loose ya) Baby I get so lonely Sometimes, I…(dont wanna loose ya) Baby my heart is broken sometimes I need you right now, I don’t…(dont wanna loose ya) I can’t let you slip away, slip away b4 i let go…..

before I let u go away Can i get a kiss good nite(I don’t see it being a problem If I just get one little bitty kiss baby…) before I let u go awayI just can’t let you get away,( oh yeah…) can i get a kiss goodnite before I let u go Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss,(Lord, have mercy…) goodnight, baby (see i wanna no) Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss goodnight, baby (i gotta have to get 1 kiss goodnight) Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss goodnight, baby (dont say bye bye) Before I let you go, before I let you go Can I get a kiss goodnight, baby

I don’t want lose your sweet love So don’t say good-bye, say good-night

By AmazonRed

April 4, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Everybody!!!

I’m usually the more adaptable one in relationships, so that means I’m usually down to do what he’s more into. If he’s a homebody, we’re at home. If he’s a social butterfly, we’re out. I’m actually cool with either.

My mom was a social butterfly and my dad a homebody so when they got married her dancing days were over (my dad doesn’t dance, I have proof on my debutante ball photos, lol). She could have probably gone out with her girls more, but what fun is that when you want to go out with your fella? But she figured giving up late nights at the club was worth it for what she had at home, especially since she had all 3 of us within the first 5 years of their marriage. They were busy. LOL

By abc

April 4, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

It might be more a function of the things I/we enjoy doing than a difference of social butterfly vs. homebody. The things we go out for tend to be activities with each other the same as staying home with Haagen-Dazs and a movie: galleries and shows, museums and exhibitions, dancing and concerts, hiking and getting out into nature, antiquing, travel, restaurants. I don’t see our habits of staying in or going out changing that much as far as one beginning to outweigh the other.

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this

Truth I’m with you on the travelling thing…when money & time permits. I haven’t been to a club in months & I’m not bothered by that at all. I’d rather do other things like hit up a comedy show, go to a restaurant i’ve never been, bowling..etc. But sometimes I feel like doing nothing but lounging around in my sweats & wife beater, blanket on the couch eating a bowl a fruit, drinking a glass of wine, watching a good movie while I have my legs laying across your lap, while you rub my feet…and 3/4 way thru the movie i start to doze off. ha ha ha

By Sweetness

April 4, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this

Kym Oh girl SS was the spot.

By Mo (also known as Moeisha)

April 4, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this

Morning All! TGIF!!

Rell you’se a fool for that flashback! LOL

SlimOne I agree with you, I need a perfect balance. I dont always have to be out but I dont want to always be home either.

By Miss

April 4, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

I enjoy going out sometimes to plays and and other social events that Atlanta has to offer. I don’t really care about going out to eat…a nice home cooked meal is nice and maybe go out for dessert. So staying home with good company is good for me.

By QC

April 4, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this

Morning bloggers, lurkers, Santa Clause, Easter Bunny, etc

I hope you all have a great day!

By The Truth

April 4, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

Darrell they’re not actually calling off the higher temps theory. They’re really just saying this year the temp isn’t going up. On avg it is. Personally, I hope he’s wrong. He did say tho that he’s put his foot in his mouth many times.

Slim really it doesn’t cost that much for a quick weekend. Two or three hundred bucks and you can really have a mini vacation. Plus if it’s an hour or four away you get to spend time talking and reconnecting. The best part for me was watching chicks get all excited. They’d make sandwiches and bring food and drinks. Let’s you see a woman in a whole different light.

BTW, when you said rub your feet I threw up in my mouth. Have you shaved your toes yet?

I guess I’m 50/50. Meaning i’m usually out and about but I’m real cool in the house too. I just don’t do clubs. Whst’s the latest dance anyway? (The Truth doesn’t want to be seen in a club doing the robot)

By mqew

April 4, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this

Happy Motha Freakin Friday!!!

What is up?!! I see we’re singing already….that Maze, that is the shyt!

I have def given up the Champagne bottle in VIP (at the old 112)! Those were the days! Me and mine used to do the damn thang for real 4 real. From Atlanta to the NO. In our twenties… I’m not any longer so ummm yeah just did some spring cleanin and got rid of the tight shirts with phrases on em.

You could not pay me to go to a club nowadays. If I’m out it’s a live jazz band or somethin. Not a locale that will play Li John/Wayne/T-Pain…

By mqew

April 4, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Oooops Kym All I saw was Before I let go… thought it was Frankie Bev and Maze…. Okay I need more coffee brb

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

did someone say the wanted to hear that number one club banger…here goes….

Oww.. Uh huhh.. No homo � She say he so sweet make her wanna lick the wrapper So I let her lick the rapper � She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) She she lick me like a lollipop (yeah) She she lick me like a lollipop � � CHORUS: Shawty wanna thug Bottles in the club Shawty wanna hump Ya know I like to touch ya lovely lady lumps ( Repeat 2x ) � � [Verse 1: Lil’ Wayne] Okay, lil’ mama had a swag like mine She even wear her hurr down her back like mine I make her feel right when its wrong like lyin’ But Man, she ain’t never had a love like mine But man I ain’t never seen an a* like hers And that p*** in my mouth had me at a loss for words Told her to back it up like berp berp And make that a* jump like jerp jerp And that’s when she, � � She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) She she lick me like a lollipop (yeah) She she lick me like a lollipop lollipop � � CHORUS: Shawty wanna thug Bottles in the club Shawty wanna hump Ya know I like to touch ya lovely lady lumps ( Repeat 2x ) � � [Verse 2: Static Major] Okay after you back it up the stop drop it down Drop that s** Dra-drop it like its hot Oooh Drop it like its hot Do do do it shawty Don’t stop � � [Lil’ Wayne] Shawty said the n**** that she with ain’t s**, Shawty said the n**** that she with ain’t this, Shawty said the n**** that she with can’t hit. Well shawty I’mma hit it, hit it, like i cant miss And you can’t do this [Lollipop lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com] � And you don’t do that Shawty need a refund, needa bring that n**** back Just like a refund, I make her bring that a* back And she bring that a* back, because I like that � � CHORUS: Shawty wanna thug (Yeah I like that) Bottles in the club (Yeah I like that) Shawty wanna hump Ya know I like to touch ya lovely lady lumps � � Shawty wanna lic-lic-lic-lick like a lollipop Shawty lick lick lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) Shawty wanna lick me, lick me like a lollipop So I let her lick the rapper � � CHORUS: Shawty wanna thug Bottles in the club Shawty wanna hump Ya know I like to touch ya lovely lady lumps � � Shawty, Call me so I can make it juicy for ya Call me so I can get it juicy for ya Call me so I can make it juicy for ya Call me so I can get it juicy for ya Call me so I can make it juicy for ya Call me so I can get it juicy for ya Call me so I can make it juicy for ya Call me so I can get it juicy for ya � CHORUS: Shawty wanna thug Bottles in the club Shawty wanna hump Ya know I like to touch ya lovely lady lumps (Repeat 2x) � I get her on top, she drop it like it’s hot And when I’m at the bottom, she Hilary Rodham The middle of the bed, give and gettin head, give and gettin head, give and gettin head � I said hmmmmm… I like that said a hmmm… yeah i like that I said a hmmmm I like that hmm..mhmm… � Call me so I can come and do it for ya Call me so I can come and prove it for ya Call me so I can make it juicy for ya Call me so I can get it juicy for ya � Shawty wanna lic-lic-lic-lick like a lollipop She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) She she lick me like a lollipop (lollipop) She she lick me like a lollipop (yeah) So i let her lick the wrapper

By AmazonRed

April 4, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Truth - The robot is out? I was just doing that last week when I was out. I mean, they were playing old skool. LOL

Dang.

By Bit-O-Honey

April 4, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

I like to have fun and that doesn’t necessarily mean having it out on the town. I enjoy entertaining in my home, watching movies, going out to hear poetry and live music among other things. I wouldn’t consider myself a “partier” per se, but I certainly don’t have an aversion to it. Whenever friends come into town they want to enjoy the Atlanta nightlife and the older we get the more and more that looks like a nice dinner, good conversation, a movie, or more conversation over coffee and dessert. 30 is the new 50…ha!

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

Truth I actually like a trip that’s only a few hours drive with friends or an SO. I recall a group of friends drove up to Gatlinburg and got a 16 person cabin. We were all excited. We did simple stuff like play jenga…of course taking shots for whoever lost…we played twister…of course taking shots for whoever lost…we chilled in the hot tub…of course sipping while we were dipping. LOL! We went white water rafting for the first time..but aside from being in those freezing azz waters, i had a good time when we all played laser tag. LOL

BTW, I did shave the hair on my toes but i didn’t get a chance to shave the hair on the bottom of my feet though.

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this

Morning everybody

I’m laid back when it comes to the social scene. I enjoy traveling, and just about anything that allows me to enjoy nature (going to the beach, camping, hiking, etc). The ironic thing is I can’t swim (I was born and raised on a beautiful island, but did not learn to swim- what a shame).

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By Kym

April 4, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Sweetness Yes it was Sharon’s Showcase..and Sharon’s teenclub..how about this little ditty right here..take you wayyyy back to the 80’s

How did you know ‘Cause I never told You found out I got a crush on you No more charades My heart’s been displayed You found out I got a crush on you

You must have heard it from my best friend She’s always talkin’ when she should be listenin’ Can’t keep a secret to save her life But still I trusted her with all I felt inside I never knew a rumor could spread so fast ‘Cause now the word is out all over town That I’m longing for you

How did you know ‘Cause I never told You found out I got a crush on you No more charades My heart’s been displayed You found out I got a crush on you

Maybe I was the one who left the trace Was there a message written on my face? Were mt emotions so easily read That you would know my thoughts before a word was said Was it my eyes That let you know you had control Because the way you move was so self-assured You knew I would surrender

How did you know ‘Cause I never told You found out I got a crush on you No more charades My heart’s been displayed You found out I got a crush on you

How did you know ‘Cause I never told You found out I got a crush on you No more charades My heart’s been displayed You found out I got a crush on you

AWWW to be 14 again.

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

I have learned that if my SO is not social it will not work…i am not a homebody..i enjoying being out..but i can chill with the blockbuster night, card party, etc….but i prefer to greet my public and my fan club…..lol…i think every man should have a fan club…..A PR women…a wingwomen…..a finance women….and assorted groupies….what do you think fella

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 9:48 AM | Link to this

Thanks for explaining “tea bagging.” I now understand the concept. Guess my age showed on that question.

I enjoy socializing whether it’s at home or out, i.e., dinner, movies walking in the park. I like people around me. To sit and cuddle and watch a movie w/my SO may just make me sweat down below (LOL). Small things like that are breathtaking to me.

By Binford2K8

April 4, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

My preference is to go out a few nights a week and do something. Stuff like bowling, card nights, friend get-togethers are the stuff I enjoy and usually “couple friendly”. But I don’t mind occasionally sitting in.

I just ever want to be a TV/Movie addict - that’s when a couple jumps the shark!

NKOTB RULE!!!!!!

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

“Extraterrestrial”

[Big Boi:]

Peep what I say Everyday—the sun sets just like clockwork Put the glock to work And puttin the body to standstlls Man it kills me Taking that life is like taking a s** Hit or miss—n**** are playing God Trying to rob and steal That’s why ya gotta guard ya grill Like a barbecue—cause them harming you Are just like honeybees swarming you Vocally arming you was my responsibility It’s killing me—thinking that all these n**** See they fly s**—thinking they steven segall an Balling—falling to the wayside when ya try to call I’ve fallen—when we was little nappy headed n**** in the projects But now they carjacks, wait on income tax and unsafe sex They get the tecs to flex—like solo for tha lo-lo Smoke same thing no-no—not this time N**** around my way can rhyme So f*** that country s**—we done a bunch of s** And yes ya heard of this—out of this world like E.T. Coming across ya T.V. Extraterrestrial—straight from ATL.

(Know what I’m saying—Like that—Yeah)

[Chorus:]

Out of this world Are you alien? [repeat 3x]

Out of this world…….

[Andre:]

Right now I’m smiling Taking advantage of this moment Cause there might not be another soon Holding on to memories like roller coaster handle bars tightly cause I’m slightly off my rocker—But to you I may appear to be your average joe But little do you know that even joe got problems that he gots to joust with Floating in this game of life Despite how out of place you may feel In this race oh you just can’t quit Ain’t that a b***—that being heat I’m on the beat like cops Only cultivate the stable dirt when I skeet my drops No concentrating knocking other n**** out the box Why?—Cause in a sense See we all be kind of fly Just can’t be scared to spread your wings Head to better things Maybe the mockingbird and nightengale they want to sing—keeping this thing alive To the table’s what we bring We like hailstorms and blizzards in the middle of the spring Extraterrestrial

(Out of this world—Things like that—Yo)

[Chorus]

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

SpottieOttieDopalicious” (feat. Patrick Brown)

[Hook] Damn damn damn James

[Pat Brown] Dickie shorts & Lincoln’s clean leanin’ checking out the scene Gangsta boys Bigga’s lit ridin’ out talkin’ s** N**** where you wanna go? You know the club don’t close ‘til four let’s party ‘til we can’t no more Watch out here come the folks

[Dre] As the plot thickens it gives me the dickens Reminiscent of Charles a li’l disco-tech nestled in the ghettoes of N****, USA via Atlanta, Georgia a li’l spot where young men & young women go to experience they first li’l taste of the nightlife Me? Well I’ve never been there, well perhaps once But I was so engulfed in the Old “E” I never made it to the door you speak of hard core while the DJ sweatin’ out all the problems and the troubles of the day While this fine bow-legged girl fine as all outdoors lulls lukewarm lullabies in your left ear competing with “Set it Off,” in the right But it all blends perfectly let the liquor tell it “Hey hey look baby they playin’ our song” And the crowd goes wild as if Holyfield has just won the fight But in actuality it’s only about 3 A.M. and three n**** just don’ got hauled off in the ambulance [sliced up] two n**** don’ start bustin’ [wham wham] and one n**** don’ took his shirt off talkin’ ‘bout “Now who else wanna f*** with Hollywood Court?” It’s just my interpretation of the situation

[Hook]

[Big Boi] When I first met my SpottieOttieDopalicious Angel I can remember that damn thing like yesterday The way she moved reminded me of a Brown Stallion horse with skates on smooth like a hot comb on nappy a* hair I walked up on her & was almost paralyzed her neck was smelling sweeter than a plate of yams with extra syrup eyes beaming like four karats apiece just blindin’ a n**** felt like I chiefed a whole O of that Presidential My heart was beating so damn fast never knowing this moment would bring another life into this world Funny how s** come together sometimes [ya dig] One moment you frequent the booty clubs & the next four years you & somebody’s daughter raisin’ y’all own young’n now that’s a beautiful thang that’s if you’re on top of your game and man enough to handle real life situations [that is] Can’t gamble feeding baby on that dope money might not always be sufficient but the United Parcel Service & the people at the Post Office didn’t call you back because you had cloudy p** So now you back in the trap just that, trapped Go on and marinate on that for a minute

By lfc

April 4, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

Having a relationship with someone is a balancing act. You give a little and, hopefully, get a little. When hubby asked me out for he first time, it was to go to a late-nite breakfast after a nite of working at a bar. We have been going out to eat for special occasions ever since. Most of our time is spent at home for budget reasons. Because of this, we are always sure to compliment each other for small things done well. It makes you appreciate each other more and keeps the “home fires” burning. I love to do little things to surprise him - a special meal, weed the garden, take out the trash, bake a fresh loaf of bread, etc. They don’t have to cost a lot to mean a lot. They just have to come from the heart. This has worked for over 40 years, and, God willing, will work for over 40 more.

By mqew

April 4, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

What’s ish is coupling up at friends home, having a bbq, playin cards, drinkin, (smokin if thas what u do), and jus chill. To far to drive home toxicated, no prolem, stay over, wake up, and go to bkfast.

That was before our lil one and after their boys were out their house.

By Blow Me a.k.a ROOKIE COOKIE

April 4, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

Old cold Popeye’s chicken and Church’s chicken to coat everyone’s stomach for M/D 2020 and a 40 OZ of HOT COLT 4-5……Oh yeah 8ball for the ladies!!

I am back from my unfortunate vacation…..But I am feeling very amp’ed today.

Yes…I would want someone who is mix of both. Someone who can entertain at home and enjoys the social scene as well. He needs to be diversed and more importantly himself. Keeping you life together after you are in a relationship is a very important thing. I think it’s annoying and irritating to become dependent on you r SO…It shows a lack of character and self confidence. Stand on who you are no matter who you are with, respectfully. I think I can respect a Man better if he continued to make time for the things he enjoyed doing outside of being with me. Create some balance.

Truth Keep my name out cha mouth! I know you love the way it taste…lol But I’m going to need for you to stop saying my name. I see I’m on your mind even when I am not here. But you going to have to get over that. Oh yeah did you get a chance to check out the dentist? Get help for that! lmao!

Staceye Hey GIRL!

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

folks..i am in that southern funk mood today…and this right here is what i am kicking right now

http://www.amazon.com/Vinyl-Room-Sleepys-Theme/dp/B000009OEY/ref=pdbbs3?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1207317440&sr=8-3

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

Thank you D.J. Rell I needed it that. Yesterday I got home early. I was watching BET. Something that I never do. I seen the video for that song and dayumit people, I almost went back to Black. (He reminds me so much of Lil’ Wayne) I had a moment. I had the phone in my hand. Then Ashanti came on and I cried. It was too dayum cloudy to get on the bike, so I called my stylist and went and had my hair done, eyes done and just relaxed. I needed a dayum drink after that.

By Mo (also known as Moeisha)

April 4, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this

Kym I used to love Crush on You..Mo over here singing along and snapping her fingers at work!! Ya’ll keep’em comin cause ya’ll are helpin a sistah wake up!

By Cemeeli

April 4, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

Hay,hay,hay! & Happy Spring Break!

Look at Rell giving up old school tracks early this morning..

Mo,QC,mqew,Slim,Red,Kym & the fellas what it be?

headed to a meeting

BRB

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

BennyB

The last paragraph from the article on Premarriage checklist stuck with me:

“No one can be a perfect mate and no one can choose a perfect mate. God created marriage to help us mature and grow and He knows every couple will have their share of struggles. But it is tremendously important that we are aware of as many of our areas of compatibility and incompatibility before marriage. And when the potential problems are clearly too great to enable a couple to build a fulfilling, enjoyable, long life together, we need to wait until God leads us to a compatible mate.”

How many us are willing to wait on God to lead us to a compatible mate

By QC

April 4, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee-me-me

By mqew

April 4, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

Hey Ceemee

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

to all my 80’s babies….lookie here

http://www.nme.com/video/id/G_M1U8HibqI/search/r&b

ENJOY!!!!!!

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

Sign up to listen…real easy and fast

http://profile.imeem.com/Icj2MT/playlist/ZbiBg8Qa/80srbmusic_playlist/

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

The Day the Penis asked for a Raise

I, the Penis, hereby request a raise in salary for the following reasons:

Sincerely,

P. Niss

The Response:

Dear P. Niss:

After assessing your request, and considering the arguments you have raised, the administration rejects your request for the following reasons:

Sincerely,

V. Gina

By Kym

April 4, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

How about this one…

Lay down and tell me what’s on your mind What exactly did he do to make you cry this time Well I will be your comforter

I will make it right

He cast a shadow on your heart and I will bring back your light

Come in I see he’s hurt you again When you are in pain I’m in pain That’s part of bring a friend But this is a special case I held my feelings back because of him And now I can see it more than ever I made a big mistake

I don’t mean to disregard your feelings But I think he’s a fool He don’t know how sensitive you are And baby that just ain’t cool I’m just glad I can be there for you When you need a helping hand Deep inside my heart from the start I know I should’ve been your man

Lay down and tell me what’s on your mind What exactly did he do to make you cry this time Well I will be your comforter I will make it right He cast a shadow on your heart and I will bring back your light

I will comfort-Comfort for you I will comfort you-Comfort you I will comfort. Lay down and tell me what’s on your mind What exactly did he do to make you cry this time Well I will be your comforter I will make it right He cast a shadow on your heart and I will bring back your light

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Rell I love that Sleepy Brown album, Omigod. That really brings back so many good memories. I wonder if I can find that album.

By The Truth

April 4, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Binford NKOTB RULE!!!!!! You’ve made so much progress. Don’t regress.

IG I’m dissapointed in you. Giving up on the little hellion is n’t good. I gave you the bible on dog training but you wouldn’t listen. Now come here and take your licks. LOL

Blow I thought I smelled something foul in the air and here you are. How’s that new job going Mayor McCheesy?

6’1 maybe you shouldn’t have told us Black reminds you of Lil Wayne. That’s not a good visual.

Ared I would have paid money to see you robotting.

By AmazonRed

April 4, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

Truth - Boy…don’t sleep. I will break out the kid-n-play, the snake, the whop and the cabbage patch.

And my signiture move…the Hammer dance.

And I will do it for free. LOL

Morning Cemeeli!

By kinderbabe

April 4, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

good morning all.:)

IG is that passage you posted from a book? i am interested in reading more about it. the info given was very insightful.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Hi, Cemeeli. :-)

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

Truthy, not in looks. Even though I tend to like the aesthetically challenged. The swag. Lil’ Wayne has a mean swag about him even though he is from the south. Girls from up top know what I am talking about.

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

@6’1…this is what i am pumping on repeat

Choked Out Satuday Night Still Smokin’ Simply Beautiful Curse On You Private Party Black Cherry Menage A Trois

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

Rell Where can get the c.d. from

By BLAT aka "Reports of My Demise have been Grossly Exaggerated"

April 4, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

WHAT……. IS………. UP BLOG?????

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

Rell Where can get the c.d. from. I am online looking right now!

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Rell Where can get the c.d. from. I am online looking right now!

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

GET YOUR BOGGLE ON

http://neeshboogie.imeem.com/playlist/9YclMWJ/90sreggaemusicplaylist/

By DreamsMaterialize

April 4, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

Morning Ya’ll not sure what to say about the topic, but just popped in to give everyone in blogsville the nod. Looks like everyone is in a good mood this Friday.

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

@6’1….amazon or me…lol…i have to find the cd because most of my music is currently on my ZUNE….

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Rell Just ordered it from Amazon. Thanks Playa

By Cemeeli

April 4, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

wow how i like meetings where you go in and show em what you have then ask one question that has everyone looking for why they did not bring their info. to the meeting and end up having to schedule a teleconference b/c everyone was not ready the icing =>…i will be on vac next Tuesday when they have the next meeting…

By For Real

April 4, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam! Since we going back how many of yall remember this one. Eric B & Rakim mixed in one of their songs.

Little ditty bout Jack and Diane Two American kids Growing up in the heartland

Jacky gonna be a football star Dianes debutante backseat Of Jackys car

Sucking on chili dog Outside the Tastee Freeze Dianes sitting on Jackys lap He`s got his hand Between her knees

Jacky say, hey, Diane Let`s run off behind a shady tree Dribble off those Bobby Brooks Let me do what I please

Say, uh Oh, yeah, life goes on Long after the thrill Of living is gone

Say, uh Oh, yeah, life goes on Long after the thrill Of living is gone They walk on

Jacky sits back Collects his thoughts For the moment Scratches his head and Does his best James Dean

Well, you know Diane, we oughta Run off to the city Diane says, baby You ain`t missing nothing

Jacky say, uh Lyrics courtesy Top40db. Oh, yeah, life goes on Long after the thrill Of living is gone

Oh, yeah They say life goes on Long after the thrill Of living is gone

Gonna let it rock, let it roll Let the Bible Belt Come and save my soul Hold on to sixteen As long as you can Changes come around real soon Make us women and men

Oh, yeah, life goes on Long after the thrill Of living is gone

Oh, yeah They say life goes on Long after the thrill Of living is gone

Little ditty about Jack and Diane Two American kids doing Best they can

By M.

April 4, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

We just don’t go out that much anymore,”

I think that is probably my biggest fear. I am an extrovert, outgoing, and social person. I do like to stay home, read, and relax, but the key is to have balance. I am enjoying the bachelor life and am sure I will grow out of it. I do like to go out and definately be in the know. I would hate to have guest come in town and I am so out dated that I dont know where to take them, for example lets go to Buckhead or Vision or something that’s long gone. I want to be relevant.

@Singles

I don’t think someone is going to come knock on your door and say, “I heard you were single” so you have to go out at some point.

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

Kinder

BennyB posted the following website to the article: http://www.ncfliving.org/bk105pre-marriage1.php

It is an interesting read.

Truth I know and I’ve tried with this dog. I don’t know what to do.

By QC

April 4, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this

I love it when the blog is off da chain like this…

QC now going to get a 20oz coke which take her until 5pm to drink

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

ForReal, I definitely remember that song!

M, you’re exactly right. Taking myself to Hairston’s tonight!

By For Real

April 4, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

For Real now pouring 151 into QC’s coke.

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

BLAT How are thing bruh??

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

Kinder

Let me try posting the link again. If this one does not work, check out BennyB’s 8:59 post.

http://www.ncfliving.org/bk105pre-marriage1.php

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

See ladies, ForReal just showed why you should never leave your drink unattended!

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

sexyleggs what do y’all do when you’re in a club and just spent $12 on a drink 2 sec ago and someone ask you to dance? do you say no i just bougth this drink or lose 12 bucks?

2c have a good weekend!

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Hey KB, IG, QC, MO, CeeMe, and Sexy

Hey Blow

By For Real

April 4, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

After 3 gulps of “coke” QC is now doing the centipede down the hallway.

By kinderbabe

April 4, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

hey demi. how are you?

thanks IG for reposting the link.:)

By Kym

April 4, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

How about this hit…

Do you wanna ride ? Baby let me tell you I’ve been watching you

see you dancing in my dreams feel you heartbeat inside of me. So if you feel it coming on catch me getting in the mood

boy I’ll give you anything cruising’s all you have to do.

Do you wanna ride in my mercedes boy ? Tell me what you’re gonna do with me. ‘Cause if you wanna ride in my mercedes boy

there are so many things that I’m gonna do to you.

Baby let me tell you I’ve been wanting you

always on the scene good looks and more posessing all of me. So when it starts to coming on catch me getting in the mood

boy I’ll give you anything cruising’s all you have to do.

Do you wanna ride in my mercedes boy ? Tell me what you’re gonna do with me. ‘Cause if you wanna ride in my mercedes boy

there are so many things that I’m gonna do to you.

Do you wanna ride in my mercedes boy ? Tell me what you’re gonna do with me. ‘Cause if you wanna ride in my mercedes boy

there are so many things that I’m gonna do to you.

Do you wanna ride ?

Do you wanna ride in my mercedes boy ? Tell me what you’re gonna do with me. ‘Cause if you wanna ride in my mercedes boy

there are so many things that I’m gonna do to you.

Do you wanna ride in my mercedes boy ? Tell me what you’re gonna do with me. ‘Cause if you wanna ride in my mercedes boy

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

Angie how well do you know the person, a real dude would wait. Some of the best convos happen while a woman is finishing her drink. And if she is feeling you, she will leave her drink with her girls and drag yo a$$ to the dance floor.

M Do, I am a young single dude myself and I can’t even tell you was the hottest clubs or hot spots are.

One of my home girls called me a loser…I was like Dayum, I was a h0e when I knew all of the hot spot two years back, LOL

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

First of all I wouldn’t spend $12 on a drink. Secondly, when I did club I took my drink w/me..yes, I did! Now, I’ll give my drink to one of my friends who can’t dance until I’ve finished my dance (LOL). Bell Bottoms is the only club I’ve been to in years. I prefer house parties. It’s just cheaper and safer to drink at home.

BTW, I don’t mind you guys laughing at me after I left for the day (lol). Darrell, your comparision of not knowing what a “wife beater” was was on the mark.

Hey Demi

By For Real

April 4, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

And don’t front yall know yall were jamming to this one:

“So what are you doing back?” “Well, I set back and thought about the days we used to do. It really mean a lot to me, you mean a lot to me.” “I really mean that much to you?”

“Girl, you know it’s true.”

I’m in love with you girl ‘cause you’re on my mind, you’re the one I think about most every time. And when you crack a smile and ev’rything you do don’t you understand girl this love is true.

You’re so sickin’ hand, lone sweetin’ thing, that ? like poison up on your skin. It lightens up my day and that’s also true, together we are one, ? we are two.

To make it all mine, all mine is my desire, cause you contain a quality, you that I admire. To put it playin’ simple, you rule my world, so try to understand:

I’m in love girl, I’m so in love girl, I’m just in love girl, and this is true. Girl you know it’s true, uh uh uh, I love you. Yes you know it’s true, uh uh uh, I love you. Girl you know it’s true, my love - is for you. Girl you know it’s true, my love - is for you.

This sizzling thing girl, I can’t explain, my emotions starts up when I hear your name. Maybe a sweet, sweet voice would ring in my ear, it stimulate my senses, girl when you are near. And with your positive emotion love making enjoy, there’s no need to bust, it’s like a girl and a boy. These feelings I keep, I often wondering why, so I thought I might discuss this ? is you and I. Now what you wear, I don’t care, how ? before, the reason that I like a girl is for what you are. If I ? think about it, you rule my world, so try to understand:

I’m in love girl, I’m so in love girl, I’m just in love girl, and this is true. Girl you know it’s true, uh uh uh, I love you. Yes you know it’s true, uh uh uh, I love you. Girl you know it’s true, my love - is for you. I’m in love with you girl, I’m in love with you girl [last word repeats] I’m in love with you, I’m in love with you, I’m in love with you. Girl you know it’s true, my love - is for you. Girl you know it’s true, uh uh uh, I love you. Yes you know it’s true, uh uh uh, I love you.

By Cemeeli

April 4, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

Hey there Demi

com’ on let’s talk over here in this Dance Cubicle…you know it’s Friday!

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

KB I am doing very well, are you on spring break?

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

I just received this email:

A Soulful Relationship

If you’re not married yet, share this with a friend. If you are married, share it with your spouse or other married couples and reflect on it. An African proverb states, “Before you get married, keep both eyes open and after you marry, close one eye.”

Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don’t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don’t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults is not really important. Once you decide to commit to someone, over time their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you’ve got to learn to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you. You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths. You are two unique individuals who have decided to share a life together.

Neither of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best of each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?

You can’t take someone to the altar to alter him or her. You can’t make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and a life, you won’t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Manipulation, control, jealousy, deceitfulness, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Seeking status, sex, wealth, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

Question: What keeps a relationship strong?

Answer: Communication, intimacy (not sex), trust, a sense of humor, sharing household tasks, some getaway time without business or children and daily exchanges (a meal, a shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note), sharing common goals and interests. Leave a nice message on their voice mail or send a nice email.

Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You can’t always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don’t try to control one another. Learn each other’s family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don’t put pressure on each other for material goods. Remember for richer or for poorer. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain will replace the passion.

Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think. The grass withers, the flowers fade, but the word of God stands forever (Isaiah 40:8). Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight? You should always to try to be a little more kind to each other than necessary.

The difference between “United” and “Untied” is where you put the “I”. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

By Staceye

April 4, 2008 11:44 AM | Link to this

Angie You opened yourself for 6’1 to come out wiht something crazy….now that I read her response I was right! LOL

Truth LOL..first I get bit on the azz by 2 strangers in Savannah…now as we hug you grab it..I’m starting to think you don’t luv me..you luv my azz only! (And yes it’s real)

Rell I love that song..I blast it on my IPOD in the gym when I run.

Ok now how did you go from the 80’s jam to a Lil’ Wayne song? LOL

IG He is cute, but is a demon from hell girl that sounds like a few dudes I dated! LOL

On Topic I am a social butterfly and a homebody as well. When its cold I stay home…when it’s hot I am out and about.

By Mo (also known as Moeisha)

April 4, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

Kym I sang Mercedes Boy at Karaoke one night….those were the days.

Kinderbabe Hey Chica!! Longtime no read! I know you are counting down til Spring Break officially starts!! :0)

Hey Demigod how are you?

For Real you’se a fool!!

By BennyB

April 4, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

IslandGirl How many us are willing to wait on God to lead us to a compatible mate? The way I see it, we don’t need to wait on God : when we are in relationship with someone where we see potential problems and great incompatibilities; God is waiting on us to get out of it and not the other way around. When we are single, we need to find a place of peace within (maybe that’s waiting on God to lead us).

What stuck me with the article was this:” “How long after you married did you realize that you were going to have serious problems?” To my surprise many say, “On our wedding day!””

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I am in no dancing mood today. How about we hire some stripper, sit back and watch, while enjoy lunch and our favorite drinks.

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Hey Demi

Sexy How is Hairston’s on Fridays?

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Mo I am in a snap on some co-workers mode right about now. Can you sent the bowlin pin looking lady over, I need a laugh.

By kinderbabe

April 4, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

demi unfortunately, not yet. it starts next monday. however, my brain has been on spring break since this past monday…lol. these kids are totally crazy today. come on 2:30!!

mo hey, lady.:) i am outsourcing for sanity today. since the blog isn’t too crazy today, i figured i may be able to find some balance here. let me not speak to soon, it’s not noon yet…lol

By QC

April 4, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

QC has shared her spiked coke per 4Real with her coworker..now he keeps singing “Oh Happy Day”

By Mo (also known as Moeisha)

April 4, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

Demigod Bowling Pin/Hazel Hairwig/Pastor Troy aint here today homie! So you will have to get your its-n-giggles another way! :0)

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Never been there. I heard it’s a lot of fun on Fridays. Just don’t know about the weather. Isn’t it amazing how single older folk like myself can find any excuse to not go somewhere (LOL). I remember a time when rain wouldn’t stop me from doing squat!

By Staceye

April 4, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Binford NKOTB Rules? LOL Ok..I loved them too! Although I know you were joking!

My Sista Blow I’m gonna have to pass on the breakfast! LOL

Blat Son where you been? I was about to put out an Amber Alert for you!

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

IslandGirl looking to go out tonight?

KB time to break out the belt and whip some a*******es, LOl

Mo LOL

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Demigod33 Some of the best convos happen while a woman is finishing her drink. excellent! i’ll just ask him to keep me company while i finish my 7up.

Sexy take your drink with you? do they let you do that?

Staceye you would think i was prepared for that, but i wasn’t. but my girl is right though. he would get that much more excited. lol.

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Yes, AngieB, they did when I clubbed. No jokes ForReal (LOL). Don’t know what they do now. I too have talked with the person until I finished my drink and then danced.

By kinderbabe

April 4, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

demi they sure do need it…lol. lord knows they are getting ZERO discipline at home. pure foolishness! at least i have next week to regroup.:)

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Sexy thats because we realize what is more important to us.

Demi Yes, I’ve been working hard for the past to weeks. I’m looking forward to

By SlimOne (aka Telegram singer)

April 4, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

Knocking on unsuspecting man’s door…now clearing throat

Me, me, me,me…..

“Hey mister your s3x ain’t hitting on s* I was sent here to say (insert name here) don’t like your d. The problem maybe your moves or the size of your wang. But either way, your s3x don’t do a dayum thang. You don’t make her holla, you don’t make her c*. If you ain’t know she was faking then you must be really dumb. So get it together and get some better moves. Or she’ll let someone else get up in her groove.”

By Demigod33

April 4, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

IslandGirl I will give you a few spots…off to lunch.

By QC

April 4, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Happy Friday KinderB & IslandG

Hey Demi If you fly downtown today wear you “face mask” cause all this pollen ain’t no joke Boo..

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

BennyB lol. That is so sad- regarding some couples knowing in their heart the relationship is not right, but still enter into marriage.

Many years ago, I made the decision to not marry my son’s father ( I was young and not ready for marriage- much less motherhood). We were engaged for a while, until the relationship ended. When my son was younger I felt bad about my decision- felt selfish. Now I’m happy I did not marry that fool!

By mytwocents is back to normal

April 4, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

What a lovely day =)

I’m a social butterfly. So can’t deal w/ an oppressive tryna clip my wings type. But I can flutter in any environment- unless ppl throwin LOTSA shade. So we can play Spades, concert in the park, (pretend to) shoot pool, hit the Hwy…I’m happy. But I wanna be doin sumthin! Preferably somewhere outside of the living space.

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Now I’m happy I did not marry that fool! ^5 girlie.

By M.

April 4, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

@SexyLeggs

You got the right idea! So what do you do if your crew of girls is married or dont like to go out? Do you just go and do your own thing?

@Demi

It’s all good. How long you been in Atlanta? I guess I have to put you in the game then. Me and my friends put together this spreedsheet of all the various places, what nights they are good, and drink/entertainment specials. If you want to know about club/lounge, bar spots, restaurants I can hook you up with a few places if you want. Just lookin out.

By mytwocents is back to normal

April 4, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

What a lovely day =)

I’m a social butterfly. So can’t deal w/ an oppressive tryna clip my wings type. But I can flutter in any environment- unless ppl throwin LOTSA shade. So we can play Spades, concert in the park, (pretend to) shoot pool, hit the Hwy…I’m happy. But I wanna be doin sumthin! Preferably somewhere outside of the living space.

By M.

April 4, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

@SexyLeggs

You got the right idea! So what do you do if your crew of girls is married or dont like to go out? Do you just go and do your own thing?

@Demi

It’s all good. How long you been in Atlanta? I guess I have to put you in the game then. Me and my friends put together this spreedsheet of all the various places, what nights they are good, and drink/entertainment specials. If you want to know about club/lounge, bar spots, restaurants I can hook you up with a few places if you want. Just lookin out.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

When I first came to visit Atlanta from Harlem, Screaming Wheels on Stewart Ave. was the shyt!

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

M, I’ve been solo for a while now and don’t hang out w/many females. I’m forcing myself to get back on the dating scene..it’s been a minute. I will be doing quite a bit of things by myself. I definitely don’t want a pack of man eating women w/me!

By IslandGirl

April 4, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

Hey QC you aren’t lying about the pollen.

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs i feel at our age, one close girlfriend is enough. the reason why i say that is because of the caddiness i deal with every single freakin’ day. everyday. going out with a car load of females is not anywhere in my future. im so done with the back stabbing, etc. i am the nicest person i know. will do anything for you … … . . im so done.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 1:17 PM | Link to this

Hey B what you got planned this weekend girl (hintstace)

By The Melo

April 4, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

Doing M3 tonite with the Queen.

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this

6’1 i would like to get broke off, but can’t do that. lmao. i’m getting ready for monday. wisdom teeth are coming out. going grocery shopping and doing some praying. the surgeon told me to keep in mind that i could possibly die. dang!

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

^5 AngieB. ^5^5^5!!!

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this

I got you B I got you girl! Try it you might like it! lmao

By Binford2K8

April 4, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Truth

My NKOTB statement was made with my tongue firmly planted in cheek.

Sometimes, I have to throw Staceye and Darrell a bone :P

Though my true musical tastes further the thinking that I am an enigma.

By pisces 08

April 4, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this

Hey Blog fam. Have a great weekend!!

By Single Man

April 4, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

Are you still a party animal once you become serious with someone?

I’ve given up my partying days. I went non-stop from 18-35 with occasional relationships in between to slow me down. My preference today is the movies, playing poker, skating, traveling, strip clubs, concerts, and making money.

Does it depend on the person you’re seeing?

Yes, I had a girlfriend that was non-stop partying. She would close the club down and count the money with the managers. I had to leave her serveral times because I was ready to go and she was not.

Has anyone ever questioned your desire to go out and have a good time while seeing them?

No, I generally invite whoever I’m with to hang out with me. I’m a social butterfly and I need to be around people.

NEED A DATE IN ATLANTA,we can help

By The Melo

April 4, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

You leave the workplace rather messy at the end of your shift Slimone will turn the blog into brothel if uall dont pay attention.

By Cemeeli

April 4, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

auuww Demi sorry your not feeling well…that pollen is no one’s business.

What can a sis get for ya?

By QC

April 4, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

Have a great weekend everyone ;)

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this

Tell me you did not get your groove on to this dude

i mean he was the one Nino really hated - pretty mofo…lol

http://youtube.com/watch?v=v0SZBFcuil4

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

when you’re having a bad day, embrace unpredictability. just say “oh, another bump, i’ve been expecting you”. solve the problem and keep it movin’. ;)

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this

all the 90 dances fo dat a ss

LMAO

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Nksph5Ep_rs&feature=related

By Mo (also known as Moeisha)

April 4, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Rell Couldnt access that youtube of Christopher Williams but I was a fan of Nino’s nemesis!! LOL

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this

Binford You’re late, bruh. Me and Staceye already went there yesterday. LOL!

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 2:29 PM | Link to this

Yea MO that is CW…..and the other link is groove me by guy…with all the 90’s dances…lol….for some reason the new jack stuff just hit me..so has i type this Lets Chill is kill em right now….yea…then its going to be tease me tonight….back by some honey love…..recalling those hot sticky summer nights with some stink on my stick and finger….ya wanna smell…lol

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

April 4, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Off-topic

If anyone’s interested, there’s a really cool article about Ryan Cameron on ACJ.com.

In the article, he talks about an eye problem he’s had to deal with since he was young, the stigma that came along with it and how he’s now mentoring young kids with similar issues. I can relate to this as I suffered an injury to my left eye at birth which left my right eye perfectly normal, my left eye is “off” a bit. Really good read if you have the time.

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this

worrying has never solved a problem. it’s like losing your keys at home and freakin’ out. they always show up, and all you accomplished was to make yourself crazy. instead of wasting time blaming others or complaining, use your skills and energy to find a solution! solve the problem. otherwise you’re letting the circumstances of life rule you.

i gotta stop this. i’m sounding like abc now. which might be a good thing.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

Me and my son (big foot) were joking this past weekend about light skin verse dark skin and I was telling him that the light skin went out when the nineties came in. He told me that it is coming back in 2010. I laughed at him and told him that he might be true because I love me some Common & Jim Jones. I was telling him about Al. B. Sure and Christopher Williams, and the DeBarges. He woke me up last night asking me was the Al B. Sure on T.V. the same one that I told him I had a crush on back the day.

By Single Man

April 4, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

Since we’re going down memory lane, I thought you guys would appreciate this “LOVE SONG”. You can’t deny the passion that’s exhibited. This man was in LOVE. Please, tell me if you feel it like I do.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=QbzkwLWK-Ps

NEED A DATE IN ATLANTA,we can help

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

6’1 light skinned guys are like poison to me. cause they know they can get what they want from ya gurl!

By Alvin

April 4, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

IG Flambeux is a good spot to check out with some friends…the food is mostly NawOrlins seafood and the crowd is nice on friday night…its over by stonecrest mall..behind applebee’s.

A cousin has been using my granny’s social…now the collections are call…I need a quick plan of action…my granny lives in Miami and the cousin is 3 miles from my house…I am already in a foul mood…Help save A life.

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

Most light skin guys that I know love dark skin girls and most light girls I know love dark guys. I love chocolate. I guess I just have strong genes because my kids are light and the dad is blurple(blue/black+purple).

By DJ Rell da social man

April 4, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

and boy did we have that simpin in our blood back in the day…but this is still my jam….i could remember doing the up and down on stroke on this..

http://youtube.com/watch?v=S4F17ly1aeY&feature=related

By Alvin

April 4, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

I know i am sounding like a Bish Igga…But there are some thing you just don’t do…like F/K over your great-aunt

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

when i think of dark skinned, i think of maxi. mmmmm he was blautiful.

By Staceye

April 4, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

Angie the surgeon told me to keep in mind that i could possibly die WTF…I gotta get my teeth removed too. That is why I choose to be awake!

Binford you got jokes!

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

lmao. staceye i looked at him like that too. so what i’m gonna do is tell my sister what’s up, because i don’t have a will. hey, you just reminded me to put that on my to-do-list. thanks!

By Demi

April 4, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

M. I move into the A in ‘99. I was straight wild, partyed 7 days a week AND when straight to church from the strip club or early morning clubs (spots that open at 4am). I have a little kid now so, I just love spenting time with him. I am 28 going on 29, I have my fun.

*By the show of hands, how many ladise would like to see how boring I am…..Dont mind the toys, wine, dinner and candles.

QC and Cee This pollon is no joke, my eyes are burning like a mugg!!!

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

B What about light skin girls? What are they like to you?

By Staceye

April 4, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

6’1 so not only are you 6’1 and thick wit it as I hear the southern guys say…but you are light too? LOL Girl you stick out for real don’t you?

Al B Sure was fine with his unibrow wasn’t he? LOL

I have always had a thing for tall dark skin guys. I get both light and dark…guess cause I’m brown skinned and smack in the middle. Now I I will date a guy of any race..but as afr as my Black guys I like chocolate..but I will not discriminate on the light brights either! I think I always like the opposite of others/mainstream like. I pick on my lil’ nephew because he went straight to Latino/wgite sides of our family. He and I look like night and day! LOL

By Staceye

April 4, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

Have a great weekend you guys!

By Blue_Kolla

April 4, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Staceye/6’1 so not only are you 6’1 and thick wit it as I hear the southern guys say…but you are light too? LOL Girl you stick out for real don’t you?

Whenever I put the ghost back into service, I’m dayum sho gon’ be on the lookout for slim with the red giddup on the red rocket.

By Demi

April 4, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this

I love dark skin women, but I rarely get any play from them…which sucks

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Stace I ain’t light, bright and dayuum near white, but I am light. My mother is Dominician and father Haitian. I am like Ashanti’s color. They use to call me big bird when I was a kid because I was like 5’11 when I was in the 6th and 7th grade.

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

I ain’t light, bright and dayuum near white

lol. you silly.

demi i think i’m dark. what game you wanna play?

By SlimOne (aka Telegram singer)

April 4, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

Demi Put yo shoes back on…your feet stank!

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

slim i know you going to the step shows. have fun for me!

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

From AJC Newsletter:

The National Weather Service has issued a tornado watch for all metro Atlanta counties and the northern part of the state. Rain and thunderstorms are forecast for this afternoon and evening.

I’m not taking any chances, I’ll get my dance and drink on at home this evening!

By Blue_Kolla

April 4, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

Demi I love dark skin women, but I rarely get any play from them…which sucks

Mayne, be happy about that. While dark-skinned broads can be extra wild in the sack, many are also extremely sneaky. LOL

By Angie aka B

April 4, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

bk so whatcha sayin’? demi only listen to half of what he said. lol.

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

Angie Actually I’m not going to any step shows….Due to all this rain, looks like i’m going to become part of the couch this weekend. I’m supposed to play softball tomorrow but there is a good chance the game will get called off, just like it did last Saturday. If not, then it’s going to be one nasty, muddy, red game.

By Demi

April 4, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

Angie well the first game involves use you as a human dinner plate loaded with a few of my favorite desserts…Call the teasing game.

Dayum I miss my sweetie LOL

BK say it ain’t so!!!

SlimOne Nope, you’re the one with hairy feet sweetie, LOL

By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)

April 4, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

Demi That is what I had planned too! Can you say “Great Minds think alike my Brother”

By For Real

April 4, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

To pick up on Demi’s comment, why dark skin women don’t like dark skin men?

For Real now applying magic shave to Slim’s feet.

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

Demi OH!

Real Not magic cream shave!…that shyt smell worse than my feet already smell. Ewwwwww

By For Real

April 4, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

For Real now giving Slim a cup full of castor oil to take her mind off of the magic shave.

By SexyLeggs

April 4, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

I’m bored, think I’ll leave early!

This is going to be baby making weather this weekend so this bears repeating for the second time:

Don’t let your erection cloud your direction!

Good night. Stay aware of your surroundings.

By Demi

April 4, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

6’1 yeah, I am more of a lover than a F/Ker…I just love foreplay

By Demi

April 4, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

6’1 But get on my nerves and I will leave puddy sore and then go to sleep…no I am not bragging

By SlimOne

April 4, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Slim digs in her nose and wipes it on Freal’s FOOBU t-shirt

By Staceye

April 7, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Have a great weekend you guys!

By Bertille

January 18, 2009 6:46 AM | Link to this

Good morning. Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan ‘Press On’ has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race. I am from France and too bad know English, please tell me whether I wrote the following sentence: “While it is more common to lose weight while undergoing cancer treatment, some patients do gain weight.”

Thank :D Bertille.

By Vince

January 18, 2009 6:47 AM | Link to this

Good afternoon. It is never too late to give up our prejudices. I am from Iran and now study English, give true I wrote the following sentence: “This vitamin along with folic acid are necessary to keep homocysteine in the blood down to healthy levels.”

Thanks :p. Vince.

By Vince

January 18, 2009 6:48 AM | Link to this

Good afternoon. It is never too late to give up our prejudices. I am from Iran and now study English, give true I wrote the following sentence: “This vitamin along with folic acid are necessary to keep homocysteine in the blood down to healthy levels.”

Thanks :p. Vince.

By Lewana

January 18, 2009 6:49 AM | Link to this

Very informative and enlightening website. I am from China and too bad know English, give true I wrote the following sentence: “A recent study tested the theory that eating sugar substitutes instead of the real thing.”

Thank 8) Lewana.

By Lewana

January 18, 2009 6:50 AM | Link to this

Very informative and enlightening website. I am from China and too bad know English, give true I wrote the following sentence: “A recent study tested the theory that eating sugar substitutes instead of the real thing.”

Thank 8) Lewana.