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DEL.ICIO.USMental Seduction
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
If any of you plan on trying the sexless dating, you will need to sharpen your skills at seduction! I know plenty of guys with swagger and confidence, but when it comes to engaging a woman intellectually they stumble a little. I also have seen ladies who are beautiful and smart, but act very silly when they are around men.
Seducing people isn’t as easy as it sounds. Once you get past the physical attraction, mentally connecting with a person is a little challenging. Some people don’t even know what it is. I always think of it as a form of foreplay only you are stimulating someone..with your clothes on.
What do you think about mentally seducing your date? How do you engage them to the point that they are so intrigued to know more about you?
Have you ever dated someone who captured your brain before your body? Why is it hard for some of us to intellectually entice people?
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By analytical1
March 27, 2008 8:20 AM | Link to this
Good Morning, Y’all
@UNSURE I read your message from yesterday. You’re welcome. Nope, you’re not crazy.
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 8:21 AM | Link to this
Capture her Mind first…and the rest will come
It doesn’t hurt if you can make her laugh, it makes every mood better
Stale left over cake from Kroger, grits, bacon, turkey bacon, Muffins, Water, OJ, Apple Juice…and brownies with Ex-Lax
By samjam
March 27, 2008 8:26 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone,
I’m havin’ curdled eggs and pig ears over oatmeal. Men’s is so crazy. Time to go get my toe nails beveled.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
March 27, 2008 8:30 AM | Link to this
Morning err’body!
GAMan you are getting better with this breakfast thing. I’ll just have a muffin & some OJ. And I agree with the first part of your post….capture the mind first
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 8:31 AM | Link to this
What do you think about mentally seducing your date?
I’m all for it!
How do you engage them to the point that they are so intrigued to know more about you?
I lurked yesterday and Tazzee broke it down about chemistry. To want to get to know more about a person, there has to be something pulling you towards them.
Have you ever dated someone who captured your brain before your body?
No. It’s always the body first. That’s the first thing you see. Their men!
By Curious male
March 27, 2008 8:36 AM | Link to this
After these, can’t wait to hear the rest of the responses. :-)
By SlimOne
March 27, 2008 8:38 AM | Link to this
Mownin’ Blogsville
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 8:39 AM | Link to this
Morning, all.
With all due respect, I’ve got to disagree with you, LucyLue. As a man I’m over here thinking, “What good is a woman with a fine azz body, but nothing upstairs?” Sorry, but she’s gotta have a few brain cells to compliment her butt cheeks. No sense in her looking hot in a pair of Daisy Dukes if above the neck she’s a Daisy Dunce.
By TouchMyBody
March 27, 2008 8:40 AM | Link to this
Where’s meloman!
By Blousketeer
March 27, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this
Mind over body? How about hands up blouse?
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 8:45 AM | Link to this
LucyLue i have to say i could not disagree with you more…a Woman that is fine is only that…fine. Find a Woman with brains and beauty boy you just hit the **Jackpot
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 8:50 AM | Link to this
Darrell, GaMan
This topic is regarding the first date! So back off.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
What do you think about mentally seducing your date? Yes you can mentally seduce someone..but it is all dependant on what you say. For example, in talking with a gentleman, I always ask..so tell me a secret about yourself something that to look at you know one would know about you? If he says something related to the things he has bought or the stuff he has..then I am done. But if he tells me something heartfelt then we have something to go with.
How do you engage them to the point that they are so intrigued to know more about you? I ask questions about them. I know that sounds strange but we are human and self absorbed so the best way to intrigue a guy about me is to let him talk about himself. The way he talks about himself-if it is in that I am the best thing since they invented the wheel type speech then I will be bored silly. But if he tells me stuff then I can ask questions and eventually he will say so what about you. I know it sounds strange but it works.
Have you ever dated someone who captured your brain before your body? Yep. We debated until no end and then when the opportunity came to rock and roll it was great.
Why is it hard for some of us to intellectually entice people? Honey know one meets someone and says wow he has a big brain.. it starts with the outside and then works it way inside.
By pisces 08
March 27, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this
Good morning All. Isn’t that what we kinda do here. Jot down our thoughts, read before we see, put together a complete sentence. Sort of a mind tease.
By Dee - Rell
March 27, 2008 8:57 AM | Link to this
I am all for seduction…and for those of you that need some reading material here it goes - but be warned this book is full of useful practical info. So if you are afraid to learn something or expand beyond your present point of view then dont click below..but if you ready to sharpen your third eye..enjoy…
http://www.scribd.com/doc/30500/Robert-Greene-Joost-Elffers-The-Art-Of-Seduction
I have used these concepts and have gotten great results….so fellas this is something for your utility belts - ladies there is plenty in there for you….all the stories are centered around women and the men who persue them…so take notes when you read…again POWERFUL STUFF!!!
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 8:58 AM | Link to this
Honey know one meets someone and says wow he has a big brain.. it starts with the outside and then works it way inside.
See, I know what I’m talking about.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this
LucyLue Regardless if it’s the first date or the 20th, I stand by my comment. As far as I’m concerned, there ain’t enough azz that can overcome a woman not being able to connect with me mentally. I’d much rather have someone who’s azzless and flat-chested, but can speak in complete sentences, than a woman who looks at a restaurant menu and asks the server, “Um, what dis is?”
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this
Okay…Darrell is it just me or did you miss the part of it being a First Date
hhmmmmm GaMan now looking at his College Credits to see if Reading was covered….lol
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 9:02 AM | Link to this
Three of The Most Intellectual Men That I Know. (FYI – Spewing Futile Facts don’t mean crap to me. A rambling cluster of words does not a conversation make.)
Whitebread. He studied me. He studied my mannerism. He dissected my conversation. He got into my head. He said all the right things. He got me.
Randy. The guy was very intellectually stimulating. Captured my mind from day one. However, some one came along and beat him out.
The Man. Our first ballet of attraction was mere conversation. That’s all we did was talk. Two good friends having stimulating conversation standing in the garage, sitting at the island in my kitchen, standing in my door. We talked. A lot. I started looking forward to him dropping by. (Some days I wish I would have closed the garage door and he kept right on driving. LOL) Eventually there began to be an exchange of flirty pleasantries. That escalated into the exchange of compliments.
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 9:03 AM | Link to this
Morning Good People!!!
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this
Morning everyone! It’s already a beautiful day. WiseDiva, I don’t think yesterday’s topic moved anyone to join the “sexless dating” movement that hasn’t already. LOL
Mental stimulation is one benefit if you meet someone online like in blogsville. They get to know where your head is, and that can be a real turn on if you like what they have to say.
A majority of my relationships before I moved to ATL were long distance, so mental stimulation was extremely important. The panties drop much faster when you finally see that person in the flesh. I’m just saying! LOL
By mamalongleggs
March 27, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this
Good morning All
What do you think about mentally seducing your date? I think it sets the tone for getting what you want from a person. Once you’ve got the mind, it’s pretty much smooth sailing.
Have you ever dated someone who captured your brain before your body? Yes, when I’m online dating. I was seduced mentally by the hours of communication on the phone or email before I met him. It’s all about the words you choose to use.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 9:07 AM | Link to this
great topic kudos oWiseone
please, please capture my mind. i had a into the wee morning hours convo wit a bruth last night, and i have to admit i was intrigued. and i once fell ‘in love’ with a guy reading his blog….he had that swagger on paper. whoa
my mind has to be tapped first, before anything else. fo’sho…… but if we going wit yesterdays precedent in thought… im only saying this cause im a fat,overweight ugly, no class hefer and my mind is all i have to work wit. LOL
pisces i have to disagree. i wish we did explore more the art of seduction on this blog. flirtation with words requires skill and intelligence…. more so tho effort and no one takes this forum that seriously. most on this blog just shooting shyt and passin time.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 9:12 AM | Link to this
DasV “i wish we did explore more the art of seduction on this blog. flirtation with words requires skill and intelligence….”
^5! I completely agree. ;-)
By QC
March 27, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this
Morning Did anyone take the time to “welcome the new bloggers/lurkers” if not let me do that now:
QC WELCOMES ALL THE NEW BLOGGERS/LURKERS TO THE BLOG
Have great day all!
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 9:13 AM | Link to this
TouchMyBody im here lurking,but if yu romance my brain,we can tango. have a good day all!!
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this
DasV Perfect example, online dating. That’s where you capture the mind first. In person, it’s all about the visual baby.
By Wise Diva
March 27, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this
I will never forget dating the poet/film maker, he was very artsy type, so creative and uhh sensual. Anyway, he had an entire date night planned around us connecting mentally…whew, when I tell you that man had me going bananas? We talked, great conversation, he me read poetry to me, fed me sexy foods, did a strip tease routine, and then straight LEFT me high and dry, literally, just said, thanks for a wonderful evening, I am going home, now LOL. I was looking at him like he lost his mind! That was one of the hottest dates, ever, and we stayed fully clothed.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this
GAMan and Darrell Look you can sit there on your I love a woman who stimulates my mind. That works for you ok. But I know men older than you and younger than you and unless you two are missing something genetic in your makeup. Men are visual creatures you can not help it. You try..but bless your hearts you can’t. You look first and ask questions later. Yes you may very well meet a woman but there has to be something that your eyes see first and then you will talk. If the convo is not enough for you fine you will walk away going she is adorable but what a airhead..or some of you will take her number and say well she can use that head for something.
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this
Morning…..
I’mma see if I can mentally seduce one of these bloggers today…..see if I “got it”….
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this
Darrell - LOL @ Daisy Dunce
Kym - That secret question is a good one. I bet you get a lot of interesting answers with that one!
By Kym
March 27, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this
Unless I am mistaken most people have their pictures posted on their blogs (at least I do) and that is visual. Which means you look and go oh let me see what cutie pie has to say..then you comment on their post and the tango begins.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 9:23 AM | Link to this
Having that mental connection thru conversation is very important. It is part of the glue that you will need later on in the relationship that holds it all together.
Some nights Mase and I will lie in bed and talk for hours. Sometimes the room is pitch black and we just talk. Not looking at each other. Not touching each other. (Some one said that yesterday, LOL) Sometimes it is intimate conversation. Sometimes there’s a lot of laughter. Sometimes feelings of concerns are laid on the table. Just that connection of conversation bonding us together.
It is de rigueur.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 9:27 AM | Link to this
LOL WiseDiva. The good ones know how to leave you wanting for more.
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this
Dang gomeit i have to agree with Kym we all know guys are Visual and you are right i would walk away…beauty is wonderful, but twenty years down the road…we all will fade (unless you get Plastic hook-up) but then the inner part of the Lady comes in to play…
Kym I was going off of LucyLue saying that the body was captured first…Oooh hellzzzs no!! lol
Get the mind..find out what you are getting in a person. I can look at some booty..but no brains..no Game
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this
Kym
Your 9:16 misses the entire point. For me it’s about what matters in the big picture, not simply at any particular moment in time. Even if my attention is initially triggered by your physical appearance, how long do think you can ride that horse before I start digging for what’s deeper about you? Trust me. When it comes to mental stimulation, I’m like a Ginsu knife and will slice you up quick to see what’s underneath the surface.
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this
Darrell, why would we explore the art of seduction on a public forum? Is that the intent here?
By QC
March 27, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this
2cptg you know you got it Man…gone do your thang!!!!!
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this
GaMan Dude, please read your post before you click. Your 9:29 is back and forth. Do you agree with Kym or not man!
By Dee - Rell
March 27, 2008 9:35 AM | Link to this
But I know men older than you and younger than you and unless you two are missing something genetic in your makeup. Men are visual creatures you can not help it.
umm yeah they are of the camp “this is what they want to hear” as to keep it it real on there feelings…most women see thru that simpin…i mean like someone posted earlier all that idle chatter is just that idle chatter…men are visual we like what we see…and those two cannot tell me they dont go dayummmmmmmmmmm at least once a day when something nice walks by….i wish men in 08 would stand up to p** and stop with the dayum squats!!!!
By QC
March 27, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this
Hey Ga.Man
Where’s Demi/Alvin
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this
Now let’s rock to the other side of the boat.
Some times it is the right word or small set of words spoken at the right time, in the right situation that can have you fighting that urge to pounce and rip his shirt off. Or have you thinking to yourself “Please take me now!!”
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this
2C “why would we explore the art of seduction on a public forum? Is that the intent here?”
I don’t think the intent here is to actually explore the art of mental seduction (would be ridiculous to do so in public forum), but to discuss the merits of it. At least, that’s how I’m approaching this.
By Honey
March 27, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this
Some of you are taking these comments too serious; people are just “speaking what’s on their mind” dang - loosen up bloggers!
Honey now dropping some “home fries” in the deep fryer, with chicken wings
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this
Alrighty, I’m already sensing bass in folks key strokes today. Let’s focus people and make it a good, productive day.
New Blog Motto: If you must attack, attack the argument and not the person making it! ;-)
Now party on folks. LOL
By mamalongleggs
March 27, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this
Some people do post thier pics online which is the visual Kym and also sometimes it could be their profile (the ones w/o a pic) that makes you curious about them too.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this
Love the topic…I’m doing this now!
By DasV
March 27, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this
Kym most do…and i have to admit when i receive a friends request on myspace i know 99% of the time whether i gonna accept or deny based on the pic. LOL but i explore their page and based on whats written there, i make the call.
ive been disappointed when ive been intrigued visually only to open his page and he has money falling and ‘get dem funds’ playin. LOL
incidentally, the blog i read where i fell ‘in love’ had no pic of author. after what i read and how it ‘touched’ me…. that level where it resonated wit my center…. i really didnt care what he looked like.
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this
You always want to mentally grab a chick before yo touch her physically. It’s like wrestling, control the head and the body will follow. Mentally seducing someone is alot easier if you’re about something in life. It’s hard to do that if you’re a space cadet. Because most bruh’s have slipped so bad having great convo and being worldly makes you appear that much better. It always helps when you can talk about anything. Except marriage, lets not talk about that. LOL
Off topic: I must admit I have a hero. I’m reading this book on Reginald Lewis (Why should White guys have all the fun) and that bruh was simply amazing. He did what no brother had done before and I don’t believe since in buying companies and making them more rofitable than they had ever been. The middle to almost end of the book concentrates on his business ventures and will be less appealing to some but his personality shines thoughout. That is a bruh I would of loved to have met. This guy had nuts of steel and it ultimately landed him on the Forbes 400 list. What caught me was his many set backs and how he turned them into victories. He was a bulldog in an italian suit. To bad we lost him at 50 because he was on pace to re-establish the parameters of being a black man in america. This book, along with Think and Grow Rich and 48 Laws of Power, is now tied for numero uno in my eyes.If you get a chance please pick this book up from the library.
Now back to your blog.
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this
ok……explore the merits of it; yet, hi-fiving a complete quote of nonsense….
at any rate, have a good day…
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this
Hey Truth, your words came to mind last night on my date. We were talking about some nuances of his divorce and he said “after the kids came, she had no need for me anymore. I was just a financial institution.”
And I had to laugh under my breath because I swore I had just heard that before! LOL
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this
did a strip tease routine…and we stayed fully clothed. LOL..ok, what did he strip. He just mimed the act??
Hooray, I’m in a playful mood today!
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this
Honey I want a hot order for lunch honey!:)
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this
Darrell What you are saying is like buying a car. (I recently experienced that.) The look of the car grabs your attention. But what’s under the hood? How beautiful is the interior? What are the must-have features? The performance? The amenities?.
Appearance. Technology. Performance. Mileage. Comfort.
And you know the luxury vehicle cost more, are manufactured in smaller numbers but is worth every penny. Now and in the days to come.
That how you choose a mate worth having. It may cost you a little more time, a little more effort, but it will be well worth it.
By mamalongleggs
March 27, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this
Darrell you are the only brotha I know who think outside the box, I thought I’d never hear a brotha say I’d much rather have someone who’s azzless and flat-chested, but can speak in complete sentences, than a woman who looks at a restaurant menu and asks the server, “Um, what dis is?” WOW LOL
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this
Reginald Lewis was the first black man to build a billion dollar company. What a brilliant mind.
And he died of brain cancer at 50. Ain’t that a bytch?!
By Bre'
March 27, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this
WD I’ve had a similar experience. He is the only guy that I could have caught a case against. I made it clear if he ever did that crap again, he would for sure be pressing charges. Talking about I told her, “no, and stop” but she just wouldn’t listen. But he taught me alot in regards to the real things behind well locked closed doors. LOL.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this
Darrell You are talking about the big picture..okay. But we are talking dating here. So when dating or deciding to date you look first then you talk. Come one if you have the knife sharpen then within the first meet and greet you know if this is someone you want to continue to see or not.
By BigWords
March 27, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this
We haven’t met and I know 2 you definitely got it!
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this
Red They started it. LOL.
By Wise Diva
March 27, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this
sorry, I meant that I stayed fully clothed.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this
sometimes the seduction comes wit what he does, not just what he says. i loves me a man who knows how to be kind…. and not see it as a humiliating act, thats beneath him to be sincerely nice. Nice ppl Rock!! LOL
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this
DasV
“i really didnt care what he looked like.”
See? Now that’s what I’m talking about! It’s where the mental connection is so deep that it supersedes any image or vision you may have had of the person physically to where it doesn’t change the way you feel about them when you do meet face-to-face. That’s when you know you there’s some substance there and that it’s not just superficial.
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 10:08 AM | Link to this
they sure do DasV and nice men are still out there and that is a good thing…
By DasV
March 27, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this
for all yall throwing out cool points for 2CPTG… he thinks exploring mental seduction on a public forum is complete nonsense. he didnt really mean his 917 post.
theTruth (AND ared… see i can be nice) - - thanks for the black history moment… never knew that name or the story. interesting along wit the brillant mind, ared, he could articulate and successfully produced a book… that TRUTH has obviously enjoyed. now thats what i call swagger LOL
By Simp
March 27, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this
As we read the blog. we like the replies that comes from a group of people. WE are attracted to the names and want to meet for lunch etc. with that being said. we are attracted to the mental side when thats what we have. we all want someone that we can hold a conversation with thats not bad on the eyes.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this
Now see, I actually grasped the fully clothed “mental” strip tease. Now I have to retract. LOL
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
Big Words…lemme flirt with you for awhile til my Thick 6 shows up!!! Reading somma these posts gon’ get me in trouble, so I’mma shut up bout it………..so what’s happ’n lil mama, can I engage your mind in a round of mental tango?
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
Alot of the WLB are on dating sites. Dayuum. A bruh could save that subsciption money and just come here and try to scoop you up. LOL
Any dudes on here using a dating service? (The Truth is now looking around)
GAMAN you’re officially fired from breakfast duty. This is 2 days in row I got the bubble guts eating your food.
Ared that book should be mandatory reading for every aa kid in this country. Bump that, every kid period. The cat just wouldn’t stop coming. I am so impressed. Kinda makes me re-think my accomplishments. I thought I had vision but…
Lucy welcome to blogsville. I like the way you came in slapping the ish out of people. I’m negotiating a trade with the WLB to get you on the MLB team. I’ve offered Randy and a blogger to be named later. I think, because these are women I’m negotiating with, that they want straight cash.
By Willie Dynamite
March 27, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
Morning All,
Great topic today lets try not to fugg it up.
Besides the obvious of physical attraction what gets you open. For some it could be something as simple as a long walk in the park just talking. For some it could be simple as NOT Trying to get the puddy the first night. The simple art of conversation is lost. Nowadays for a lot of chicks they have their guard up so much that if you just have a few non-sexual converstions with them they are thrown off.
—brb
By Darlene
March 27, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this
Your comments pulled me out of lurksville. Let’s keep it real, shall we! When we meet for the first time, I don’t care if a convo went well or not, the visual will keep a person or lose a person.
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this
DasV, please don’t start with me today, cause I’m not in the mood for it…..go swang from a nice, nikkas nutz….cause mine are mean right about now!
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this
Kym “So when dating or deciding to date you look first then you talk.”
You can’t simply espouse that “look first, then talk” mindset without considering the intent of why I’m even looking at you in the first place. Case in point, if we’re meeting for the first time, I have to look at you for purposes of recognition alone, so not every “look” is an effort to size you up and assess whether or not I want to go to the next step. You can be the “most beautifullest thing in this world” for all I care, but if I hear the sound of ping-pong balls rattling together every time you open your mouth, well…nuff said.
By Simp
March 27, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this
mamalongleggs Sadly enough that happens. went to dinner, ladyfriend order the same thing i did. the food came she said i didnt order that. we order prime rib, she was looking for bbq ribs. smh…..dayum dayum dayum!!!
By SexyCool
March 27, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this
make me laugh or say something that implies some intellect and i might upgrade you from ugly to interesting looking…
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this
The Truth Thanks but no thanks bruh. I like dyck too much to switch. WLB for life.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this
Unless I am mistaken most people have their pictures posted on their blogs (at least I do Kym,wld u be so kind to let me see ur pic? If you must attack, attack the argument and not the person making it! hopefully u wont be the 1st one to break that coz smetimes u talk fatser than u process.
By Staceye
March 27, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this
Raqi Some nights Mase and I will lie in bed and talk for hours. Sometimes the room is pitch black and we just talk. Not looking at each other. Not touching each other. I love that! I think that turns me on more to a man than him touching me! Just talking to me..listening to me and me to him. I stimulate from the inside out. Granted physical attarction is first..but if he opens his mouth and he’s a blubbering wanker. The attraction is gone and my ADD kicks in!
DasV * i know 99% of the time whether i gonna accept or deny based on the pic. LOL but i explore their page and based on whats written there, i make the call* I too do the same thing. I also mention things on my page that lets me know if the my actually read my page or just looked at my pictures. If he did, he would know I do accept friends with a private page, nor would he ask me what do I like to do or what do I look for in a man…because it is all on the page! I do not respond to any of those guys because it’s obvious they do not care to know what I am about…they go soley based on looks! Meaning they are probably looking to “hook up”!
Gotta love you Darrell…you always take it to the next level!
Wise Diva I have dance for a guy without taking off my clothes. He was so intrigued by the dance he said he also imagined what I’d look like doing that same dance without clothes. So when we finally did get to the deed he was very intuitive. He wanted wit with the lights on..which I happily obliged! LOL
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this
Simp
LOL! at your 10:24!!!! :-)
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this
Lucy think about it. You’ll be around more swinging dycks then ever before. Btw, we only have one shower in the MLB hq’s.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this
I’ve offered Randy and a blogger to be named later. Truth,MLB is trading Patrick, i confirmed with the transfers/status committee.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
WillieD, you now that’s exactly what will happen later in the day. Prove me wrong bloggers!
You have to agree that mental seduction is extremely stimulating. There’s something about a person that has you pondering (mental lust) over something they said weeks ago that makes you want to see him/her again and again in the hopes of getting to know more and more about them. Give me mental any day of the week.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this
Raqi I’m really feelin’ your 9:55 post. That was deep and on point. ^5! :-)
By SexyCool
March 27, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this
truth…that 1032 post did not paint a very masculine mental picture…lol…
By SlimOne
March 27, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this
FYI Katt Williams tickets go on sale tomorrow at 10:00. Show is May 17th @ Phillips Arena.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 10:44 AM | Link to this
Melo I havent attacked anyone(today anyway).
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this
SexyCool Yep. Who knows what’s going on over there! LOL.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this
theTruth (AND ared… see i can be nice) - -
hehehe..u killing me Das
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this
“i really didnt care what he looked like.”
As good as that sounds, I don’t buy it! I go for who you are over what you look like but I had to admit to myself a couple of years ago that the most brillant mind can’t roll up looking like Flavor Flav!
I’m just saying, how many of you have TRULY dated an UGLY looking person? (even if you saw past it, other people didnt, lol)
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this
Kym from u, i was just requesting the pic..my email add..takpat78@gmail.com(4 u too tchmybuddy) the attack comment was for ared
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs “You have to agree that mental seduction is extremely stimulating. There’s something about a person that has you pondering (mental lust) over something they said weeks ago that makes you want to see him/her again and again in the hopes of getting to know more and more about them. Give me mental any day of the week.”
^5! Well-said. :-)
By Simp
March 27, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this
Anyone know of a fitness bootcamp?
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this
Sexycool the thought was she’d always have a guy to shower with. LMAO
Melo lets trade both of them, Patrick and Randy plus a blogger to be named later. Who knows when we’ll need to dump, I mean trade, another MLB’er. I think after this trade our baby powder problem will be history.
*Lucy nobody asked you to switch sexaul preferences. We just need some muscle over here. Alot of the new guys are a little softer than we’d like.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this
Melo My blog is on multiply.com and I would be looney to post my blog ID on this public site. I get enough junk mail as it is.
By BigWords
March 27, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this
Got some poetry for ya girl 2? I’ve never had an O over the internet before.
By TouchMyBooty
March 27, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this
Red I don’t buy it either!
Meloman I felt that. You so badd. ;)
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this
Simp try www.getinshapebootcamp.com. They have camps to cover all parts of metro ATL. Stone Mountain park, Chastain Park, Welcome All park and piedmont park.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 11:05 AM | Link to this
Amazon “how many of you have TRULY dated an UGLY looking person? (even if you saw past it, other people didnt, lol)”
I see what you’re saying, but that’s just it, though - “ugly” as compared to who? We’re all “ugly” in one sense or another, are we not? I know I am. It’s like that old cliche’: “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” Hell, I’m sure there are certain aspects of my own physical makeup that some women might not necessarily find “attractive”, but for those who want to go beyond the surface-level, I’m more than willing to engage in a round or two of mental jousting to see where things might lead.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this
LOL Bigwords. I have been tempted for the last 30 minutes to ask who has been taken “there” by words alone.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this
Darrell - Stop being so PC. We know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but that also there are folks who are considered “ugly” by the masses. Flavor Flav is one of them, though he finds no shortage of women who are willing to kiss his beetle looking arse!
So, have you dated an ugmo?
By Wise Diva
March 27, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this
Bre! I am so glad you checked in today, could you shoot me an email? I am planning a trip to NY this summer, I would love some info for fun stuff. Thank you! wise.diva@gmail.com
By mytwocents
March 27, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this
Topic – Luv it!
If a guy sees a girl and thinks to himself, she’s got a phat @zz – cool. Points it out to his friends – alright. Goes up to her and shares his observation – ridiculous! Gets a giggle and a toot of said phat @zz – OUTRAGEOUS! (Same thing when they lead w/ wallets, cars, etc.) One should bring conversation which proves some of the beauty has seeped inside… Likewise, when approached I hope we’re looking to see something beyond the obvious; which, at that point – one’s physical make up already is.
Why is it hard for some of us to intellectually entice people? Because some folks don’t believe they have value beyond their physical. Sad, but true – they unwittingly buy into whatever validation of their looks they’ve received from others and feel the need to CONSTANTLY reference what others have said about their appearance. Anyone who campaigns for themselves on a platform solely based on the outer shell would not be a good candidate for the mental seduction. Because they wouldn’t trust their pursuer to see beyond what so many others got stuck on. And they won’t trust themselves to rely on their mental agility to keep that person engaged.
Someone who is mentally tight doesn’t have to keep mentioning it. That person is a recipient ofself validation ~ a one way conversation on the inside. Their confidence and intelligence will be evident in their carriage, thought processes, and commentary.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this
Melo Ohhh then my apologies. Let me think about it..not trying to have my headshot windup on Pinky (or other famous porn star) body.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this
TouCan ok.
sexyLeggs mental lust… im lovin it! thanks for that.
ared ROTFLOL@ your 1049post. i swear today we gonna be friends…. ooh-glee?? fortunately he wasnt. but you got me thinking… what if he had been…. would i have engaged?? i mentioned a couple of weeks ago seeing Shallow Hal… i was intrigued at him going out in public with and sexing what society would have us believe is ugly.
i’on know. i aint neva been attracted to ‘ooh-glee’… guess the jury still out on me being shallow.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
Nah Kym, im classier than the ex- NY Governor!!
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
Morning Everybody
GaMan thanks for the breakfast, but you can throw out the stale cake and Ex-Lax- ok.
It is so refreshing to meet someone that can connect with you on a mental level especially if that person is in tuned with what is going in the world. I attended the M3 event on last Friday after I asked you guys about it. I participated in the speed dating event and was so surprised by the clichés and pick-up lines the brothers were using. I met a lot of guys on that evening, which is the problem with going to those types of events. Most of the guys spoke about the many woes of dating, their job (most were business owners…..??), asked where I lived, why am I single, do I have any kids…..might was well ask me for my social security # while you’re at it. What I would like most is for a person to first ask how my day was? I will ask the same questions, then lets go from there.
Truth thanks for sharing. I will have to add his book to my reading list, which I must say is getting longer. Hopefully I will get some reading done over spring break.
Anyone doing something exciting for Spring Break?
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this
Big Words, lemme get permission first……
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this
Amazon
If you only knew. :-) I’m one of the most politically incorrect people you’ll ever know, so it’s not about that at all. Believe it or not, it’s all about treating others the way you want to be treated. Sorry if you don’t buy it, but that’s it. Plain and simple.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this
DasV - I easily forgive and forget, so I don’t have beef if you don’t.
I guess at the end of the day, hoping someone is aesthethic is a little shallow, but as long as you don’t make it the main focus, I don’t see anything really wrong with it.
If you want someone to offer what you can mentally, why is it wrong to hope for the same thing physically?
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this
Amazon “If you want someone to offer what you can mentally, why is it wrong to hope for the same thing physically?”
Because, unlike your lips and azz, your mind won’t need Botox® someday.
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this
LucyLue So are you telling me i cant agree in part with Kym
I agreed with the part that guys are physical…in the long run…even if just dating, **Who in the hellz want a dumb azz to hang around with all the time.
here is an ex. for you
LucyLue meets a nice looking 6 ft man…he has everything she wants from looking on the outside…nice body, million dollar smile
when you open his azzz up you find out that he dislikes his mother, doesnt show you any respect, wont vote (even though he can), and he always feels the man has got it in for him…thats why he cant get ahead, plus he has a very bad temper
Yeah i thought so
we all may be visual…but the inner part of a woman will keep me around alot longer than a fugged up chick with no brain power
By DasV
March 27, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this
If you want someone to offer what you can mentally, why is it wrong to hope for the same thing physically? OK! in the end, we won’t what we won’t! (and for the lurkers that love to correct diction i meant won’t) LOL
02 i gotta cosign your respond to why we dont get off more mentally. i see womens ‘workin it’ wit they back out, so low summa the crack showing, stop at the knees and in stilletos and im like wha??! if i gotta dress like that to entice you then you aint the ONE.
By Deadpool
March 27, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this
Afternoon People Mental seduction good topic. I’ve recently been in contact with a woman with everything going for her physically and after having a few conversations with her I am as intrigued by her mind, and that too me makes the physical package even better. Mental Seduction is all about paying attention. imo
By Bre'
March 27, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this
WD Mail sent.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this
darrell uh… there is botox for the brain called resperial, or something and its cause dementia is a bytch! LOL just pokin fun, dude
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this
Das “just pokin fun, dude”
I know. It’s all good. :-) The thing to keep in mind though, is that people use Botox® because they want to, not because they have to.
By Bravo
March 27, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this
Wow, bravo to everyone for being so PC today. While I agree that it is of the utmost importance for someone to be “mentally attractive”, I believe it is equally as important that you find that person physically attractive. I am a strong believer that you should date with the end in mind, and if your end is to eventualy have a marriage and children, then please consider the genes you’re passing on to them!!! We already have enough ugly children in this world! (I know, that was very UN-PC:)*
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this
GaMan Man, you can do whatever you want. But again, this is the first date and to find out all that stuff you mentioned will take a little time. Now back off the booty and go get me a sammich!!!
By Tazzee
March 27, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this
Morning Folks!
Mental seduction has always come before any type of physical seduction. IMO, mental seduction is a huge part of the chemistry I mentioned yesterday. For me, the ‘chemistry’ of the chemistry would be 1 part physical, 3 parts mental.
What do you think about mentally seducing your date? How do you engage them to the point that they are so intrigued to know more about you? I think mentally seduction is paramount in a relationship. Like Kym, my most effective rule of engagement is interest in the other person. If I’m interested in a guy, he is the only person on the earth at that time. I’m sure to tune out all other distractions, maintain intense eye contact (with a glance down to the lips every now and then) and I ask him key questions about his interests.
Have you ever dated someone who captured your brain before your body? Why is it hard for some of us to intellectually entice people? Always brain before the body with me. I really don’t think it’s difficult to intellectually entice people - we make it hard by trying put up a front. Being yourself and speaking on matters familiar to you is enough. If you don’t know about a topic, don’t try to fake it - ask about it. My sweetie is a history buff - that is not my forte. But I don’t try to fake like I know, when we talk I’ll ask him about stuff and he gladly shares his knowledge. Which adds to the mental seduction because he realizes that I’m interested in the things that interest him. And because we have a LDR, 90% of our seduction has to be mental.
Kym email me the link to your blog if you don’t mind.
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this
LOLOLOL LucyLue
Even on the first date you should be digging to find out more…but i digress…
One tuna/marshmellow/peanut butter/mustard sammich coming right up….lol
By SexyCanI
March 27, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this
then please consider the genes you’re passing on to them!!! We already have enough ugly children in this world!
LMAO.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this
Darrell - What does treating others the way you want to be treated have do with with dating an ugmo?
Have you dated an ugly person? Yes or no?
By lovelyliz
March 27, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this
Most men, and yes I mean most, never think much beyond what they see. Either she’s a beautiful woman and they are agog so they can’t help themselves or, if she’s not so beautiful, they don’t care as long as they think she’ll put out in desperation so they don’t bother putting in any effort.
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this
Thanks hun. Where’s my milk Man!!! LOL.
By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.
March 27, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this
Truth You always want to mentally grab a chick before yo touch her physically. It’s like wrestling, control the head and the body will follow. Mentally seducing someone is alot easier if you’re about something in life
This is so on point truth. If you can get me mentally the rest will follow. At this age that is top priority. I have to be intrigued mentally before all else. If you are diverse and can talk about anything and relaxed. It’s a go! It makes it that much sweeter when you truly have a friendship with someone as well.
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this
it’s in the room…with the blackcake
GaMan has to give credit for use of the blackcake to the OD himself (Original Dolphin) For Real
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this
Don’t eat that sammich. I saw him crush something up and sprinkle over your sammich. Bet it’s that ex-lax. Hell, the sammich alone will do the trick.
By Wise Diva
March 27, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this
mytwocents - you put it DOWN on your 11:09 am..your post has good credit, you don’t NEED a co-signer, LOL but I am giving you a snap snap
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this
IslandGirl - Yay for you going to M3! Did you have a good time, considering?
I guess you were right about men bringing up negative stuff, but why don’t you flip it on them? I had to keep the situation light, so I asked the guys the questions that made them get over the woes of the world. There was only one guy who was intent on being a sour puss. He was really short so I can see why he may be mad at the world. LOL
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this
Amazon “Darrell - What does treating others the way you want to be treated have do with with dating an ugmo?”
Simple. There are no “ugmos”. As it relates to dating, the person either has what you’re looking for or they don’t, regardless if it’s physical, mental or otherwise. But, there are no “ugly” people. At least, I don’t see them that way.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this
DarrellD LOL. ok. touche. thats a good point.
DeadOne mind if i ask what she was wearing?? you noticed her body first and then was pleasantly surprised that she had mind too, right? but would you have intestigated further if she were in her ‘fruppy’ wear??
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs Thanks for havin’ a sista back. And they want me to join the MLB. WTF. Ga I got yo sammich nik!
By QC
March 27, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this
Darrell, have you dated an ugly person? yes or no….D, try thinking back to high school
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 12:14 PM | Link to this
IG I can’t wait til spring break…6 more days…this time of year is tough and rough for students and teachers…I am beyond tired but I plan to play in the city and rip and run and be free and can’t wait…I want to start @ Spa Sydell…I am so tired…:) Hope you enjoy your spring break…J
By SexyCool
March 27, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this
*There are no “ugly” people”” is usually something only *interesting looking people say to excuse their own shortcomings. (i am REALLY laughing out loud here.)
And I’m not being mean, I’m just calling it the way I see it. Benevolent broadstroking of the truth serves no purpose. If there were no ugly people, there would be no standards of beauty by which people are judged.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this
“…he is the only person on the earth at that time…”
Therefore,
Mental Seduction = Captivate
Captivate = To Bind
Bind = To Enslave
Their thoughts soon become your thoughts (e.g. Per SexyL “…pondering over something they said weeks ago…”)
By QC
March 27, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this
I think we all can say we’ve all dated someone we were not “physically attracted” to.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this
Darrell - So clearly your answer is “no.” Thanks for playing.
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this
good 12:19 post D…what works for you works for you and what doesn’t keep it moving honey…
By Tazzee
March 27, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this
Darrell have you ever dated someone you weren’t physically attracted to?
How’s that ARed? LOL
By DasV
March 27, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this
ROTFLOL @ ALL of the following:
He was really short so I can see why he may be mad at the world. thats just wrong. heeheheheeee
there are no “ugly” people i’on know ‘bout you but i see ooh-glee ppl.
and LOL at QC callin out DarrellD bout his high school flings…. btw, hey QC
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this
Amazon I ask you AGAIN: “Ugly” as compared to who? You?
By Maddy
March 27, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this
ARed I dated a guy who wore a police officer uniform to work. Because he wore that uniform, I thought he was very sexy and handsome. I used to get asked by my sisters and friends all the time, what do you see in him?
So I kinda get what D is saying.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this
Tazzee and Melo I sent you the blog links.
By For Real
March 27, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this
first date………
Chick: Hi how are you?
For Real: I’m…
Chick: I fine too. I can’t wait until the weather changes.
For Real: Me….
Chick: So you like Spring too huh?
For Real: Well…
Chick: Yeah me too. You are a very handsome man.
For Real: Thank you. I think…
Chick: Thank you. I usually get a lot of compliments on my appearance.
For Real: I can see…
Chick: Thank you again. You are so sweet.
For Real: Do you like
Chick: Yes I do but I think I will order a fish sandwich instead.
For Real now comtemplating throwing his buttered roll down her throat.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this
LOL Tazzee - It is better, but he won’t answer. LOL
Darrell - It’s cool, you got your blinders on today. Because you’ve never found anyone unattractive in life. Yeah, we’ll buy that…lol
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 12:31 PM | Link to this
Das
QC oughta know that in high school I was all about the books. :-)
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this
Maddy - I established long ago that I understand what Darrell is saying. I also agree! As long as he does it for me, damn everybody else.
I ALSO believe that there are folks that society on a large scale deems unattractive. Flavor Flav is one. From the guys I’ve heard Whoopi Goldberg doesn’t really do it for them. However, I know for a fact there are folks out there that will find them attractive, even if you won’t find them on the “Most Beautiful” list.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this
Amazon “Yeah, we’ll buy that…lol”
No problem. I’ll just put that one in my “I Don’t Give a Damn” file.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this
Too damn funny..For Real now comtemplating throwing his buttered roll down her throat. That did it for me!
By Maddy
March 27, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this
Good! Cause I thought you were slow for a minute.
By Bit-O-Honey
March 27, 2008 12:40 PM | Link to this
Wow…sensual seduction..isn’t there a song about this? Anywho, wouldn’t it be a perfect world to have both intellectual and physical stimulation? Yeah, well I’ve encountered that about…..once since moving here to Atlanta 8 years ago. I wasn’t aware there were package deals going on..ha! My most recent encounter was via an online dating site. He sent me a message and we went back and forth like that for a while, then decided to finally put face to name and meet. We met and were both attracted to one another. However, the minute he opened his mouth I knew that he could only be a “buddy”. The body is banging like 808, but the conversation, or lack thereof, is much to be desired. I’m perfectly ok with looking upon his body and having him touch mine. I’m a lady who knows what she wants and also practices the old adage, “waste note, want not”.
The one man who did stimulate my mind and my body turned out to be all wrong. He held some beliefs that Bit-O-Honey just could not roll with. However, I must admit, we would have some conversations that would lead to the most amazing and orgasmic sex you’d never believe. I could literally sit and listen to him talk for hours. We had a number of debates, usually because I wanted to be antagonistic and try and get under his skin. I did learn a lot from him and I’m sure I left a lasting impression on him as well. Life is all about experiences people, lets have more of them.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this
darrell-D you ‘member when you used to sign your posts “Darrell” till someone tole you to cut it out?? that was funny!…. doggonit im in a good mood today!!
so D remember whoppee’s standup where she was the young woman who had a stroke at an early age that left her mouth crooked and hanging and her body so twisted she walked with a severe limp?? and she tole the story with sweetness and laughter about finding real love?? why you think she had an audience for that sort of thing if there are no ‘ugly’ ppl in the world?
By Tazzee
March 27, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this
I’ll be the first to say that there has never been an instance where a person that I found to be unattractive later won me over with mental seduction. There have been guys that I wouldn’t give a second look - meaning they didn’t do anything spectacular for me physically - but their personality made them more attractive. And I’ve dated quite a few guys that others might not find attractive but they were attractive to me.
I guess what we’re trying to get at Darrell is while we know the mental is very important to you - have you ever had an instance where the mental overcame what you deemed to be a major physical shortcoming?
By Bit-O-Honey
March 27, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this
Wow…sensual seduction..isn’t there a song about this? Anywho, wouldn’t it be a perfect world to have both intellectual and physical stimulation? Yeah, well I’ve encountered that about…..once since moving here to Atlanta 8 years ago. I wasn’t aware there were package deals going on..ha! My most recent encounter was via an online dating site. He sent me a message and we went back and forth like that for a while, then decided to finally put face to name and meet. We met and were both attracted to one another. However, the minute he opened his mouth I knew that he could only be a “buddy”. The body is banging like 808, but the conversation, or lack thereof, is much to be desired. I’m perfectly ok with looking upon his body and having him touch mine. I’m a lady who knows what she wants and also practices the old adage, “waste note, want not”.
The one man who did stimulate my mind and my body turned out to be all wrong. He held some beliefs that Bit-O-Honey just could not roll with. However, I must admit, we would have some conversations that would lead to the most amazing and orgasmic sex you’d never believe. I could literally sit and listen to him talk for hours. We had a number of debates, usually because I wanted to be antagonistic and try and get under his skin. I did learn a lot from him and I’m sure I left a lasting impression on him as well. Life is all about experiences people, lets have more of them.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this
Maddy - Clearly you were the slow one since I stated I understood over an hour ago. ;-)
No harm, no foul.
By Staceye
March 27, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this
I have dated someone who was so NOT cute..but he was so nice. I thought I could get passed the physical because of his personality…but i realize I culd never be anything more than friends because kissing him almost made me puke because I was not attracted to him…I know to sleep with him I would have surely heaved it all up! So whether people want to admit it..physical is important.
By Bit-O-Honey
March 27, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this
Wow…sensual seduction..isn’t there a song about this? Anywho, wouldn’t it be a perfect world to have both intellectual and physical stimulation? Yeah, well I’ve encountered that about…..once since moving here to Atlanta 8 years ago. I wasn’t aware there were package deals going on..ha! My most recent encounter was via an online dating site. He sent me a message and we went back and forth like that for a while, then decided to finally put face to name and meet. We met and were both attracted to one another. However, the minute he opened his mouth I knew that he could only be a “buddy”. The body is banging like 808, but the conversation, or lack thereof, is much to be desired. I’m perfectly ok with looking upon his body and having him touch mine. I’m a lady who knows what she wants and also practices the old adage, “waste note, want not”.
The one man who did stimulate my mind and my body turned out to be all wrong. He held some beliefs that Bit-O-Honey just could not roll with. However, I must admit, we would have some conversations that would lead to the most amazing and orgasmic sex you’d never believe. I could literally sit and listen to him talk for hours. We had a number of debates, usually because I wanted to be antagonistic and try and get under his skin. I did learn a lot from him and I’m sure I left a lasting impression on him as well. Life is all about experiences people, lets have more of them.
By Q
March 27, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this
HEy..QUESTION: Do u think its a good idea to share a phone plan with a SO…or Not a good idea..Thanks
By mytwocents
March 27, 2008 12:47 PM | Link to this
Gracias, WD! Snaps back atcha 8)
Lady J If you go, try the hot stones! Also, rumor is that Too Groovy is cool too. Plus there was a coupon on the V-103 site the other day…
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this
Ared yes, I had a great time at M3. The Jazz band was awesome and the crowd was classy and mature. The speed dating was fun, but I was not prepared. After 15 speed dates, I received numbers from 12 of the guys, but did not write down notes that would help me remember any particular individual. There was one gentleman that stood out from the rest because of the conversation we had, but I felt bad about going back to ask him for his name and number.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this
but i realize I culd never be anything more than friends because kissing him almost made me puke because I was not attracted to him…I know to sleep with him I would have surely heaved it all up!
Staceye, you are a NUT!!! LMAO!
By Bit-O-Honey
March 27, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this
Wow…sensual seduction..isn’t there a song about this? Anywho, wouldn’t it be a perfect world to have both intellectual and physical stimulation? Yeah, well I’ve encountered that about…..once since moving here to Atlanta 8 years ago. I wasn’t aware there were package deals going on..ha! My most recent encounter was via an online dating site. He sent me a message and we went back and forth like that for a while, then decided to finally put face to name and meet. We met and were both attracted to one another. However, the minute he opened his mouth I knew that he could only be a “buddy”. The body is banging like 808, but the conversation, or lack thereof, is much to be desired. I’m perfectly ok with looking upon his body and having him touch mine. I’m a lady who knows what she wants and also practices the old adage, “waste note, want not”.
The one man who did stimulate my mind and my body turned out to be all wrong. He held some beliefs that Bit-O-Honey just could not roll with. However, I must admit, we would have some conversations that would lead to the most amazing and orgasmic sex you’d never believe. I could literally sit and listen to him talk for hours. We had a number of debates, usually because I wanted to be antagonistic and try and get under his skin. I did learn a lot from him and I’m sure I left a lasting impression on him as well. Life is all about experiences people, lets have more of them.
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this
Q hell to da no!
@mytwocents…Thanks will do and follow up on coupon…
By SexyCanI
March 27, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this
Q Go ahead. I’ll set my calendar to watch for you on Judge Mathis.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this
After 15 speed dates, I received numbers from 12 of the guys, but did not write down notes that would help me remember any particular individual.
Island Girl Aye…this was my exact problem too. On top of it, there were a few I remembered details about but can’t remember their faces. One guy just sent me an email about a week ago. I remember him being the 2nd guy and some parts of his conversation, but I can’t remember his face!
I’ll do better next time. LOL
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this
Lady J I’m well over due on a spa treatment. I wanted to late until later this summer to visit home (STT), but my son wants to go to the beach for sping break, so I have to make a decision soon.
By Bre'
March 27, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this
Writers FYI I think there are a few writers on this blog. The 9th National Black Writers Conference, is being held in Brooklyn this weekend. I might be attending, however there are some things you can get via email or mail regarding the conference and some materials being presented. You can google it to find out more.
By RW
March 27, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this
Robin Williams and his wife are getting divorced after 19 years of marriage.
Is marriage really dying?
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this
Blow you scare the shyt out of me. If your mood swings are anything like your blog posts your life must be a roller coaster. Can you recommnend your doctor increase your drug dose? Other than that you are the softest chick in this spot, and that includes beautiful. LOL Come over here and lay your head on my lap, face down.
Lucy your contract has been traded and you are now the property of the MLB. Now get yo self over here and prepare some butter biscuits. And all that flip stuff can stay at the door.
Melo I told you I’d get hq’s a live in maid. You owe me $5.
Darrell wtf are you talking about dude? Physical is very important. It’s the package that completes the deal. Physical, mental, and great head, I mean spiritual.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this
So Kimora Lee has finally decided to serve divorce papers to Russell Simmons. She’s knocked up by that dude from Amistad. Of course, Russell has a new girlfriend too. But I’m thinking someone needs an azz whoopin, I’m just not sure of who. LOL
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this
Truth “Physical, mental, and great head, I mean spiritual.”
LOL!
Ya’ll are misreading me, man. I never said the physical isn’t important. Heck, look at Popey and Olive Oyl. LOL!
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this
The Truth You gotta catch my fine azz first. Y’all can’t even be trusted with makin a damn sammich. H3ll to the naw!
And another thing, y’all some marriage haters!
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this
…And all that flip stuff can stay at the door. I thought that was why you wanted her to join the MLBs because she was a figther (this includes being flippant)! See Lucy, what attracted him to you he’s now trying to muzzle (LOL). Girl, you know where you belong. Right here w/all the rest of us fiesty women!!!!
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this
This is funny. The married folks want to be single and the single folks want to be married, until they get married. The nthey want to be single again.
Blow did i tell you you’re a nutcase?
Rw robin probably found a guy he liked more. That dude was always suspect anyway. I voted him most likely to take it up the —-.
By GaMan
March 27, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this
LucyLue here is your Milkshake you wanted to go with that sammich
MuuaAAAHHHHhhhhhhahhhh
By QC
March 27, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this
Hey DasV
Yep D it was all about da books…
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this
That’s usually how it works Truth. You got that one right (about marriage that is).
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs I ain’t going no where. I speak the Truth damnit! God did not make a female and male so they can stay single and get puddy from any ol body. Fvck that! I’m not joining a group of grumpy old men that think that when they propose to women they have a gun to their temple. Just ignant! Take that contract somewhere else bruh!!!
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this
Truth how you doing handsome? You have me cracking up at work. I need to concentrate on these contracts I’m working on…before masa fires me for paying someone six figures instead of $45k.
Ared I would call it even (Kamora and Russell). They both moved on and started screwing someone else.
LucyLue you better check the consistency of that milkshake GaMan is trying to give you. You might find some stuff swimming around in there. lol
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this
Ga Man, did I ask for a Milkshake! I swear. Now come over here and give me a foot rub. Dang!
By Simp
March 27, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this
RW Marriages has been on the decline sinr viagra has been on the market.
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this
Simp lol So, viagra is to blame. I thought it had something to do with free puddy being much more available. At least back in the day, men had to pay up at the brothels, etc. Now there’s free puddy on every corner, even on the internet.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this
Seduction…voluntary or involuntary?
In order for one to be seduced one must be receptive??
Although not open to seduction however merely inquisitive???
While having lunch with my brother I asked him can just any woman seduce him? He said only if he allows her to. hmmm?? He is correct. Maybe??? I asked, “So you telling me you have never found yourself entangled with a woman that you never thought you would? He said only because he became receptive to her seduction. When? After she piqued his interest. hmmm??? Was not the initial attempt to pique the interest part of the seduction??? Yeah, but one could shun just as well as receive.
Now,
Do you have to be consciously receptive to seduction for it to actually be counted as being seduced? hmmm??? The seducer or seducee (so not a word)…who gets the acknowledgment??
Seducer: Gets the credit for snagging the prey?
Seduced: Gets the credit for choosing to be snagged?
Now I can make my point in other ways. But not right now. My head is trying to hurt.
By DuShawn
March 27, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this
At this point in life, I’m much more attracted to a female that can converse intelligently than one with only physical beauty. It’s all in the vibe. I’m a chameleon. I could dumb down for the sake of the azz if need be, but that’s short lived. God blessed me with a helluva gift of gab. However, I prefer to listen. There have been several times when I laid up with a female all night just talking. Never was it by choice. Surprisingly, I still had good time
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this
Lucy don’t make me chase you. Come on over here and do your chores woman. If I have to chase you it’s gonna be bad.
Nobodies hating on marriage. It’s a great institution, if you want to be institutionalized. Someone said we’re in a I, me, my generation and that’s not good for a marriage. You’ve got to be more open to sharing and caring. I think the longer you stay single the worse the success rate in marriage.
Ladies, y’all are funny. You’re speed dating, on-line dating, sexless dating, to much sex dating, friendship dating, hopefully dating, and you still don’t have a date. WTF???? LOL
Ig I have sad news. I just finished Reginald Lewis’s book. I wish there was 100 more pages. Move that up to your next book for me. I want you to see what being a real pioneer is all about.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this
You are touched Raqi (LOL)!
By Simp
March 27, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this
IS Being helps. See before you had men that didnt want to embarass them selves with with a limd manhood. And women that had not felt a hard one in a while. So viagra woke up their organs….LOL
By SexyCanI
March 27, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this
Raqi I agree, it’s a choice to be seduced.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this
At least back in the day, men had to pay up at the brothels, etc. Now there’s free puddy on every corner, even on the internet. which makes Elliot, for all his Ivy league education,a real dumb azz hole indeed!! Im ashamed for all the men.
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this
The Un-Truth It’s called being open to what’s out there and having fun. We’re taking advantage of all the options that are thrown our way. We’re making things happen!!! What are you doing? Hiding out like a lil biatch! Now what?!?
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 2:05 PM | Link to this
truth you are crazy for real…that was funny…
By Deadpool
March 27, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this
das frumpy :) In all honesty there has to be something that attracts me to her initially it could’ve been her eyes, her lips, her nose whatever. As far as frumpy goes as long as she is intelligible that wont stop my from befriending a woman and getting to know her. Its just that normally online thats all you have to go off until the first real conversation.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this
You summed that up rather well Truth. Seeing it on paper like that makes it so dang funny.
Ok, somebody come over here and tickle me right behind my right ear (no fingers please)…yeah!!
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this
Rapper Remy Ma convicted! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
By askmen.com
March 27, 2008 2:07 PM | Link to this
“Foreplay” literally means “the play that comes first,” the play that you engage in before you go the distance together. We generally think of this in physical terms: foreplay builds intrigue, excitement and desire — creating readiness — before sex.
Foreplay is time well spent because it makes the whole experience more satisfying. It offers a variation on this idea: it is the stimulation and interest that is created between two people when they communicate effectively.
Intellectual Foreplay means taking the time to discuss important questions with a prospective partner and discover compatibility before you “go the distance,” and commit to a relationship. Just like its physical counterpart, this type of pre-game show can build excitement and desire, or quickly reveal a lack of compatibility, saving you months, or even years, of putting energy into a relationship that isn’t going to work.
The central idea behind this concept it to practice FOURplay and get to know each other: intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, and physically.
This must be done before making a serious commitment. Granted, if you think too much about your relationship, you may never get married. However, if you think too little, you’ll surely get divorced.
By For Real
March 27, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this
Darrell So let me get this right, lets say we merge whoopi and flav’s faces together and the winner of the biggest azz contest body into one seriously mental chick. Are you saying that saying you will look at this chick and say to yourself, “Dayumm she look like she has the mind of a god.”
For Real now slipping Lucy a pipe to the base of her skull. A deal is a deal.
Platonic Friend I remember you tell me about how ugly ole boy was when we were playing nekked duck, duck, goose.
For Real now reviving Lucky at HQ with some Black Cake.
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this
Hello People!
mytwocents - 11:09a, what chu’ think you were at the Apache Cafe’ chica? ….it’s the blog….DANG!
…did you make it to the game last night? got a lil hot in our section…some flk think Phillips is a club.
On Topic:
Mental seduction is important. There is nothing like it…and if you don’t have it i’m shutting the door with the “empty talk”… sorry to be so blunt, but why waste time if we know we’re not connecting or vibing. If you can intrigue me byway of your intellect, mental swag verses your sexiassness swagger, THEN is when i’m digging you Fo’real! All that other stuff…huhn…i’m cool.
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this
Truth can I borrow your copy of the book (save IG some money)? I promise to take care of it.
By DuShawn
March 27, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this
One of my favorite questions to ask a female is “what’s the last book you’ve read?” The answer to that question provides a lot of insight. I have found that books are great gifts to give women, regardless of their educational achievements. Years ago, I was dating a hood chick with a GED and a lot of ambition. I bought her “The Coldest Winter Ever” by Sister Soulja. She’s been a voracious reader ever since.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this
No you didn’t go way back to Elliott Ness! (lololol)
By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.
March 27, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this
Truth Kiss my A$$…You have the nerve to dare call some one crazy? As crazy and off balance as you were yesterday. You are biggest beligerent, barbaric, stinky, bi polar loser I have ever met. You can never respect the TRUTH and I don’t even know why that is your name. You are a big kid who can not handle the truth. Only the way you see it! You be hatin on me because I can see through you silly little post.
Where here it is Truth a.k.a Oscar You are just a hurt lil puppy….who doesn’t know how to heal his heart and you are dying for someone to love you and who you can give love too. You cover has been so blown…..SICK little Mutt…Barking all loud but never no BITE!
And further more I am a woman..I’m suppose to be soft…but what’s your excuse. lmao!
By Kara
March 27, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this
The Truth, it seems as if your opinion of people is presented without an ounce of self-awareness.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
About Robin Williams. Yes, 19 years of marriage is a feat. What about the circumstances tho? He married the nanny. Some of these h0es ain’t got no manners. LOL
Dushawn - Sister Soulja can’t put it down. I love all her books. Coldest Winter Ever is the business.
By Willie Dynamite
March 27, 2008 2:15 PM | Link to this
Raqi I think you bring up some very valid questions. However I would also say that sometimes its not even that deep. When you talk about seduction in that sense it seems as though someone is making it a point to seduce you. I’m under the impression that lots of times it just happens to where you are steadily drawn in. Based on an earlier post it sounds like that was how THE MAN got you. Didn’t sound like you were being consciously seduced per se’ but you were further drawn to him by the mental stimulation. Folks that are well rounded and good listeners that can have a great conversation will tend to mentally seduce you in a way without it even being conscious. Next thing you know several conveations later pants around ya ankles.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this
So when we say we have been…are being seduced, whether mentally, physically, emotionally, intimately or whatever ly, we are really saying that “I have granted…am granting you permission to lure, bind and engulf me.
By For Real
March 27, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this
IG Now there’s free puddy on every corner, even on the internet.
That’s bc you have all these divorced chick now who thought being single would solve their problem.
Raqi This is how is works:
Men: Conscious
Women: That thang I just took over my mind and body because i can control how I feel nor my emotions.
For Real now looking intently at SexCans Cans.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this
Rapper Remy Ma convicted i thoght u were better than that Darrell
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 2:19 PM | Link to this
A deal is a deal. NOT if only one is in agreement w/the terms. Where didcha get that pipe from. The mere thickness of it makes it a felony!
Ok, somebody come and tickle me behind my right ear (no fingers)…yeah!!!
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this
Hey…Mo…are we taking any notes today? lol…ummmm where you been?
Hi Sexyleggs, Stac, DasV, IslandG, GaMan, Raqi, 2C, BigWords, QC, Darrell …that dude ForReal…all the bloggers.
Wise…i’m luvin’ the topic…
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this
Melo
What’d I do?
By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.
March 27, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this
Ok Melo I was thinking the same thing Darell…I thought you were better than that. She needs to learn her lesson..
By Simp
March 27, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this
Coldest winter ever was a good read. Hell I thought I was Midnight. I had this visual.
By For Real
March 27, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this
For Real now licking Sexyleggs right eye like a St. Banard. Sexyleggs now signing Lucky over to the MLB for a wet-nap and some hand sanitizer.
By DasV
March 27, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this
oDEADone good to know you pay attention to details. but that online dating thing can be tricky. its takes time even in person to be sure you dealing with ‘real’… wit online you not sure what you getting yourself into…. for a long time you basically in the dark.
and dont let’em live some distance away… then its just stupid, cause long distance aint cool at all! ppl on this blog complain if they have to go outside they 10 mile radius (a radius that keeps dropping as gas prices keep rising)
By For Real
March 27, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this
Meeli That dude sounds like that dude your mamma told you to stay away from:
Meeli’s Mom: I want you to stay away from that dude.
Meeli: What dude?
MM: That Dude!
Meeli: Ohhhhhhhh!
MM: And stop staring at his booty
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this
Ladies, y’all are funny. You’re speed dating, on-line dating, sexless dating, to much sex dating, friendship dating, hopefully dating, and you still don’t have a date. WTF???? LOL
I thought we’d have a 3peat from 2CPTG but the moronic male statement of the day award goes to Truth. Take a bow. LOL
Kara - Were are you when this happens? LOL
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
March 27, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli I am over here posted up girl! Drinking a pepsi, eating some kettle corn and observing the conversation. Waiting on basketball to get underway tonight.
But since you called me out…..Mental stimulation is great and to have someone that appeals to your visual senses as well just adds to that. Lets be real about it.
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this
Not For Real It’s LucyLue. Man! Who’s headin’ this MLB? Patrick!
By mytwocents
March 27, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this
I know, Cee, I know. I’m disappointed in me for disregarding my own mandate to limit blog interactions to foolishness. Please forgive me, I swear I’ll do better. hahahaaaaa
Oh yes, the game… hmmm free tix, yet wanted a refund…LOL! By “hot” do you mean the young R. Kelly protege - dressed as only a hood star would be, gyrating on cue to the crowd’s delight? Prolly had a Sambo tattoo.
Du I like that you met her where she was. Escape fiction or fine literature, at least you made the effort to open her mind. Makes me rethink my handling of the guy who told me he actually tries NOT to read. I was like not even the sports page? The Source? KING? Sumthin!?! He casually said ‘nope’ and I just as casually made that our last convo.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this
Blow/Melo Um, I was being facetious with that post. I’m actually pleased with the conviction and think she should do some serious time in jail for it.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)
March 27, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this
Hey everyone, I misseded U guys. Great Topic Wise! People use to always asked what made me attracted to Black I would always say that he mind phlucked me via my ear canal.
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this
DasV ….ooohhhh oh…don’t say nothing about gas right now please! Actually it’s a 5mile radius if you family, and a 10 minutes ‘cross the yard if you’re a GOOD friend.That’s all i got for my folks. a lot of ppl i haven’t seen in a minute… it’s sa shame…especially if you in East Africa = (Conyers, Convington, Suwanee, Lilburn…way,way OTP) it’s just to far!
By DuShawn
March 27, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this
Rapper Remy Ma convicted No offense to anyone. You could write about whatever you please. However, it reminds me of a familiar scenario. There have been moments in my boss player career when I’ve said to myself,“This girl is an idiot…, but she’s fine azz f@k.”* I’m not pompous or arrogant and often make a conscious effort not to flex my intellect. However, it always amuses me when I want to discuss relevant, conscious topics, like the genocide in Darfur or the empowerment of our folks and the female will interject with “You heard Remy Ma got locked up?” Instinctively, I’ll down shift to her level.
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this
Hey Mo!
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this
Hi, Cemeeli. :-)
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this
IT’S SUCH A BEAUTIFUL DAY OUTSIDE!!! My co-workers were laughing at me because I was twirling around in the parking lot like Julie Andrews in “The Sound of Music.” LOL
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this
du you wrong for that lol…good laugs this afternoon…
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this
wondering to myself……should I fuel this fire:“I thought we’d have a 3peat from 2CPTG but the moronic male statement of the day award goes to Truth.”
nahhhh, leave it alone 2……
By Blue_Kolla
March 27, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this
What uo Blog…
QC Your blog manners are impeccable ;)
Lunchtime Observations:
(1) Warm weather makes life a helluva lot easier on the homeless
(2) Now that the coats are off, I can see that there’s been a helluva lot of working out this winter. Good job ladies.
(3) Warm weather gets brothers out of their offices to take in the sights.
(4) 40 year old broads are way friendlier than 30 year old broads.
(5) Ladies, when you stop by Wang Lee’s for your ponytail, make sure they match it to your hair. …exhales
On Topic: Mental Seduction… Mind Stimulation… Yeah that’s my music. I works that like the Pied Piper.
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this
whew meant laughs…I concur Ared and about to go soak it up…Will green on the screen occur this year…
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)
March 27, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
Hey everyone, I misseded U guys. Great Topic Wise! People use to always asked what made me attracted to Black I would always say that he mind phlucked me via my ear canal.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this
WillieD Exactly. While I concede to having been seduced, I still now say that one must be receptive, if not to the “act of seduction”, to the approach.
First there must be a pique of interest (Good Looks, Pick-up Line, Swagger). Upon that pique one chooses to become open to “Okay. I’m feeling him/her. Let’s see what else they got?”.
Mase and I had been friends for over 15 years before we got together. He may have said things in the past at me that didn’t stick. I don’t recall. I was not receptive to “him” then. I know this is possible because I have given compliments and/or pleasantries to men of my interest that didn’t stick. Amounted to absolutely nothing. Not every man wants a “Raqi”. And I have done the same to other men. Didn’t take their bait.
Mason says I was the doer of evil that lured him. But I say, nay, he got me. He wore me down, (Not in a bad way), but I allowed it. I let him “have me”. But I will say that while it may not have been the initial intention of either of us…somebody make the first move. And that was him. He made reference to something I was wearing one day. And as time has shown, I bit.
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this
The Truth and For Real waiting in line to mind phluck 6’1 next.
IG I got mine from the library but I may go buy it. It was that good. If I do you can borrow it. They want 18 bucks for a paperback copy. Ebay time.
Kara thanks for the monthly visit. See you when the flow comes back.
For Real “For Real now slipping Lucy a pipe to the base of her skull. A deal is a deal.” ROFLMAO You are retarded.
Ared if a dude did that much to get a date you’d call him crazy. Its not that serious. I guess living with yourself is the worse torture in the world.
Blow more meds. Your on a crusade to make everyone as soft as you. IF I had feelings they’d be hurt.
Lucy Slow down tiger. You don’t want to empty your gun on day one. This is a war not a skirmish.
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this
Mo it is what it is. And the avg guy knows if you loooking at him sideways…bruh…i’m shutting the do.
mytwoscents
I’m disappointed in me for disregarding my own mandate to limit blog interactions to foolishness. if you don’t stop! please, we know at the end of the day!!! what?
By “hot” do you mean the young R. Kelly protege - dressed as only a hood star would be, gyrating on cue to the crowd’s delight? Okay you were there and i’m sure your head was sideways…hmm…what us gon’ do?
My section was the club…my son resorted & pulled out his PSP at the half…the chics beside and 2 rows behind us were taking them “tall ones” to the head. Every hip-hop clip that was played…guess….3 nice young black men were directly behind us and overheard them saying…i wish they would sit they @’s down….mind you these young men were no more then 16-18 years old…alone but behaved…they ended up watching my lil guy play NBA on the PSP…after tall ones were done the chics were up and “walking” i guess it takes 3 trips for each drank… Now, you tell me if my section (109:) was a ‘hot wet mess’….?
By DasV
March 27, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this
CEEcee LOLROTF @ it’s a 5mile radius if you family, and a 10 minutes ‘cross the yard if you’re a GOOD friend. you are funny gurl! aight. im not gonna mention gas prices no mo’….. though we all know they kickin our butts. LOL
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
Kara - My bad. You were all over Truth’s post a long time ago!
Right on time, as usual. :-)
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this
* Hi Cemeeli and Mo*
6’1’ Girl you’re a mess -say that he mind phlucked me via my ear canal
BK LOL…Ladies, when you stop by Wang Lee’s for your ponytail, make sure they match it to your hair. I can’t stand that look.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this
DuShawn “However, it always amuses me when I want to discuss relevant, conscious topics, like the genocide in Darfur or the empowerment of our folks and the female will interject with “You heard Remy Ma got locked up?” Instinctively, I’ll down shift to her level.”
I know exactly where you’re comin’ from. ^5!
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)
March 27, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this
Well, I am one that must say I literally go for aesthetically challenged male. Why you might ask? Well because I am not aestically challenged. They like literally dotes on me. You might think this is a little bit shallow. But at first this was just my intention, But now I really like these type of man, It always has been the Swag factor for me anywho. Uptown baby
By Staceye
March 27, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this
Dang Lucylue busted up in here taking no prisoners and making dudes give her a footrub! I ain;t mad at ya ma!
Shut up For Real LOL
By Lady J
March 27, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this
good evening folks…what a long one…feel like time stopped today…peace
By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.
March 27, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this
Truth Again…all bark and no bite. I told ya. Oh you got feelings…you just try to guard them with all of your might. Tuck ya tail and run.
By QC
March 27, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this
Hey BK
Hey Cee-Me-Me
^5 BK about dem ponytails matching & do rememer #1B is for off black hair..#1 is for all black hair…
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this
The Un-Truth You just mad cause I took a bite out yo azz! See ya when I see ya.
Thanks GaMan. muah
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this
Sup Blue!…you right isn’t QC always so ‘smily cute’ with her posts.
You my boi but, wth….naw i can’t go there with you.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this
Mo - Who are you going for in basketball tonight? Are you following anyone in particular?
Das/Ceemeeli - This weekend will kick my arse gas wise. I got to roll to Lithonia, then up to Cobb county. The next day I have to drive up to Gwinnett. le sigh And I live in SW Atlanta.
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 3:07 PM | Link to this
Off topic, anybody know who sings the song “I’ve Decided”. Just heard it Tuesday on Michael Baisden’s show. A female artist is all I have to go on. Song is along the lines of a Chrisette Michelle, Jill Scott.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this
Anybody else shocked that Amazon is so darn happy today? We might wanna bottle all that giddyness for later. LOL!
By Willie Dynamite
March 27, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this
Du lemme ask you this, when you find yaself in that situation do you automatically relegate her to the jump-off pile? For me that meant either I put up with it to get what I wanted or I bounced. What I’ve learned is some dudes dont have the capacity to stimulate the female mind on whatever level.
BK So true on 3(spectator sport) and 4 (called grown and sexy for a reason).
Raqi so what was it you were wearing that got him to jump after 15 yrs.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this
Truth - No woman on here is doing all of that at one time, so save it. You’ve been trippin lately. Is no one giving you your “medicine” in the bedroom or something? Come on dude.
Not only that, these women are dating. So again…what is the problem?
By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.
March 27, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this
Sexy Leggs I think that is Ledisi maybe?
By For Real
March 27, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this
For Real is now checking out an Atlas in his preparation to mind f/k Six-One.
LuckyLu Calm down sugga butt. I hear petting dolphins has a calming effect on women.
Zippppppppppppppp!
Platonic Friend You sooooo silly. I am going to drop by tonight to watch you play toppless hop scotch okay.
Truth I heard there is less bruising at the base of the skull.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this
Darrell - I’m always happy. It’s my life’s passion. But things are going better than usual for me today. It doesn’t take much to send me off into orbit. I’m high on life.
(But a question, does anyone feel when things are going REALLY well that something is gonna come along and f*ck it all up? I guess that’s what keeps you humble. lol)
By LucyLue
March 27, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this
Hey Staceye! They brought a lady out of lurksville with all this nonsense.
Y’all have a good one. GaMan breakfast is at 8 sharp. ;)
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this
Amazon “Darrell - I’m always happy.”
Could’a fooled me. *(Just kiddin’.) LOL!
By BigWords
March 27, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this
But a question, does anyone feel when things are going REALLY well that something is gonna come along and fck it all up? I guess that’s what keeps you humble. lol)*
I thought I was the only one who felt that.
2 :(
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this
T.I. got off like a bandit. He will only spend one year in jail. Dayum
By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.
March 27, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this
Ared/Truth Ared can’t you see when you are talking to a mentally unstable person? lmao! Yeah I have been thinking that too. You need some A$$ truth…Get some of that bark out of you. You have been mighty aggressive lately….you need a really good lay.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
March 27, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this
ARed I am in ‘like’ with a few teams: Tenneessee, UNC, Xavier & Memphis. I am so glad Duke is outta there!! But I am looking for great games, greater upsets though. What about you?
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this
Oooh! I sure hope so. A friend bought me the CD yesterday saying they think I would like it, but threw it on the couch w/out even reading the titles when I got home.
BTW, she’s going to be peforming in Little 5 Points I think May ???. I can get the date if you want. I believe tickets went on sale this afternoon.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this
Darrell - I’m also happy when I’m verbally putting my foot up your arse. LOL
;-)
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 3:30 PM | Link to this
Dushawn long time no blog… How’s life and living outside? ….gas prices gotta a sis on lock!!!
DasV i’m at the dang gas station more than i want to be…TOO MUCH!!!so naw, im not going there…on that gas today, maybe later.
By The Melo
March 27, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this
Touchmybody why u keep me on hold?
By Blue_Kolla
March 27, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
Red does anyone feel when things are going REALLY well that something is gonna come along and fck it all up? I guess that’s what keeps you humble.*
Nope. Don’t even think that at all, and that’s probably b/c being raised less than privileged, kinda makes being humble a natural part of self.
Whatever happiness comes your way, enjoy it to the max, as long as it doesn’t knock down others.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
Mo!!! - I’m not with you on any of those teams. The Big East is my league so let’s go Louisville, West Virginia and Villanova!!!
The Louisville/Tennessee game tonight is gonna be bananas.
By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)
March 27, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this
Amazon “I’m also happy when I’m verbally putting my foot up your arse.”
And in honor of such an “achievement”, here’s your cookie.
By Blue_Kolla
March 27, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this
Cee My bad. I forgot my *”Except Cee” disclaimer.
Willie D. For me that meant either I put up with it to get what I wanted or I bounced. What I’ve learned is some dudes dont have the capacity to stimulate the female mind on whatever level.
And that’s partially me. I don’t have the patience to deal with a mini-minded ghetto broad for more than two days; so recognizing that, I’m usually gone soon after the opening, courtesy ceremonies.
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this
WillieD Nothing really. I mean it was something but nothing that grand. He would drop my son off for me on occasions and would mostly always see me in run errand gear. Khaki pants, or jeans with whatever shirt. On that particular day he drove up right when I was getting in from work and when he got out the car he said, Mm!! she’s got legs. Then try to laugh it off saying that he rarely sees me in a skirt “these days”. All of that was after a year of good conversation exchange. Shortly after that I started thinking about him inappropiately, LOL, when I was alone…like while those long hot bubble baths. But shh, don’t tell nobody.
I agree that “some dont have the capacity to stimulate the opposite’s mind on whatever level. Just like some don’t possess the mental nerve endings to be stimulated.
By BeautifulBlogVestFastened
March 27, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this
but when it comes to engaging a woman intellectually they stumble a little
i’ve been blessed to never have had this problem. i find it more enjoyable actually.
Lucy you my hero today girl! sic em.
By SexyCool
March 27, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this
along the lines that you all have been going…my theory is that some of the he/she done me wrong stories that so many have to tell come from the reality that oftentimes…once the new-new wears off and you get past the shiny packaging outside…many find that there is little there to hold interest…
but before the lack of substance is discovered…people have already caught feelings or gone half on a baby and that leads to nothing good…
and i could soapbox on…but y’all feel me…
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this
Have you ever been on a date sitting there talking to somebody and they are glaring at you like daaaahhhh. huh?? I was asking Where? Do? You? See? Your? Self? In? Ten? Years?
I keep hoping everytime I refresh my screen 30 minutes will drop off the clock, but it ain’t working.
By Blue_Kolla
March 27, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
Mo I am so glad Duke is outta there!!
Me and you see eye to eye on that right there! ^^^
Wordsmith And in honor of such an “achievement”, here’s your cookie
Man, I’m changin’ your nick to Linksmith.
By 6'1 & Luvin it (Don Dada)
March 27, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this
Hey bootiful U ain’t speaking?
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this
Blue same reason why I got to keep pushing when someone try and size me up b/c of the age….later the day…he/she realize…Oh, i didn’t know that was you!
By SlimOne
March 27, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this
I’m currently reading Deliver Me From Evil by Mary Monroe…good so far but always looking for that next one to pick up…I read pretty fast if it’s intriguing.
For Real I know you can’t read but your book on tape of Sam I Am came in this morning.
I read some interesting tips from a guy on dating on this site by Finess Mitchel
Check it out if you’re bored enough. lol
By Staceye
March 27, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this
ARED Were you singing the Sound of Music? LOL If you were..I won’t hold it again you…I do it to. I LOVE THAT MOVE! It came on this past Sunday! I have the DVD though!
Blue Ladies, when you stop by Wang Lee’s for your ponytail, make sure they match it to your hair ROTFLMAO you are a mess! That sounds like somethign Slim or my sista’ Blow Me would say!
For Reall just got back from my dr.’s appointment…I am now on new asthma meds and I am jittery as hellz…so I may be stepping on the line a lot while playing topless hop scotch! LOL
By BeautifulBlogVestFastened
March 27, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this
6’1 what’s up? the quarter just ended so i can waste time with y’all in a good way. now i plan on catching up on some reading. it’s funny how Du mentioned that today.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
March 27, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this
ARed Now I was cheering for WVA when they beat Duke!! LAWD was I cheering!! But I have always been a Tenneessee (men & women) fan as well as UNC.
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this
Staceye - A girl after my own heart. I didn’t sing, but I did do a leap and kick my feet in the air. LOL.
Sound of Music was my favorite movie as a youngster. LOL
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this
Slim Finess Mitchel writes for Essence. Sometimes his advice is dead on point. I wonder about him tho with a name like Finess.
By BeautifulBlogVestFastened
March 27, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this
Cool it now…you got to slow it down! The number-one mistake women make when they’re dating is being too anxious. Women have too many rules: he has to call within a certain time frame, he has to ask you out within a certain time frame; once they find someone they like, they want everything to be perfect right then and there. You gotta relax and just go with the flow. If you just slow down, the relationship has a much better chance of actually working out to your advantage. A man will never like someone unless he’s ready to do it, and he will run if you go from cute to crazy really fast.
^5.
By Kym
March 27, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this
Raqi That is one question I will not answer. Some how that sounds to me like a interview question..wayyy to formal for a date I dont care if it is first or 51st. Where do I see myself in 10 years? Alive I hope. Asking me what my goals in life are will also get that reaction or some drone answer. If you want to know me actually talk to me. Don’t interview me.
By Tazzee
March 27, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this
SlimOne I’m like you - I read pretty fast when it’s good. I read Valerie Wesley Wilson’s latest over this past weekend. When I was finished I was like ‘dang! I need another book’ only to discover Pearl Cleage’s latest had just arrived in the mail. I’m saving that one though - currently working on another J. California Cooper book. I love her short stories.
The Truth I put Lewis’ book on my list at the library. With the exception of a few authors (like Cleage) I get all my books from the library and if I really like them, then buy them.
Normally I’ll read a fiction and non-fiction at the same time. I’m almost done with Tony Dungy’s book
And then there’s my GMAT study guide that I spend some time with during the week.
By BeautifulBlogVestFastened
March 27, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this
If your man is in a club holding your lip gloss, he is in love.
If you don’t want your man to cheat, keep him sexually satisfied. It’s that simple.
have a good weekend! smooches
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this
Mo - I was in the arena when Belmont almost beat them. 75% of the crowd was pulling for Belmont once they realized those kids could play.
After that West Virginia game, there were a LOT of mad Duke folks in the street. LOL
You being a Tennessee and UNC fan, you’d be loved in my office. Everyone here went to those schools and UGA of course. LOL
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this
A Page from My Life:
I was standing in the bathroom getting dressed this morning and The Man said that they are having a memorial for his mother next Thursday. I’m standing there thinking to myself Next Thursday? My next Thursday? The day of my BIRTH next Thursday? I will be spending my grand 40 b-day at a witch’s memorial next Thursday? But instead of saying all of that I asked Why next Thursday? He said they wanted to do it on the 1st but Pops has a doc appt. So they are doing it on the 2nd. Whew I was so glad to let him know that the 2nd is Wednesday and not Thursday. He was like damn what is today’s date?
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
March 27, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this
ARed For Duke to live up to their hype, there was no way that Belmont game should have been so close! Belmont could have taken that game!!! They PLAYED Duke! And after that WVA game I was happier than….well to remain PC, I was REALLY happy!! :0)
By SlimOne
March 27, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this
IG Yeah, I noticed his advise seems to make a lot of sense. He has a book out that I heard about a while ago. It seems like it would be interesting to read…but yeah FINESS…ha ha ha ha. He’s still cute to me tho.
Tazz I’m not really into the short stories, which is probably why I didn’t finish Zhane’s books. lol I’m all for some Hot, stimulating, sexy read’s but I read so fast that I’m left wanting to know more about the folks in the short reads.
By Tazzee
March 27, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this
Raqi LOL, I am so glad you didn’t pass out at the thought of the memorial on your b-day. I’m even gladder that it’s not on your b-day.
By DuShawn
March 27, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this
Wuzzup Cemelli I haven’t had a lot of time to post lately. I occasionally lurk. WillieD & BK I don’t necessarily put a hood chick in the jump off category. Well,… maybe I do. If she’s complacent with her situation and has no ambition to better herself, I accept it for what it is and treat her accordingly. We could ball out, trick and be friends. People have different strengths. I’ve learned to walk with Kings, but never lose the common touch. In actuality, I have way more fun with a no home training, broken English speaking, foot dragger, than a pretentious, elitist, spoiled debutante. Fortunately, I’m capable of relating to both.
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this
Raqi….is this your Mother-in-law???? I take it you didn’t like her very much….
By For Real
March 27, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this
Slim Thanks for letting me know. Will you read it to me tonight?
Platonic Friend I actually like you better when you jacked up on your meds. You seem to jump a little faster. If you fall I will be there to catch you while pressing my face up against your chest while we laugh like platonic friends do.
By QC
March 27, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this
Have a great evening Bloggers!
By Thick 6
March 27, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this
I just want that 2CPTG to read to me. That melody that rolls off from you is something else! My word!
Mr. Two Play, where are you? Did you leave?
By IslandGirl
March 27, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this
Raqi lol, ok- let me say on your behalf, rest in peace mom
Du lol- I have way more fun with a no home training, broken English speaking, foot dragger, than a pretentious, elitist, spoiled debutante. That’s what I say about uppity dudes- lol
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this
Tazz tell me what you think of it. It was the most powerful book I’ve EVER read. I just got finished typing up the discussion questions since I’m leading the discussion on this book. I want to see how the other bookclub members feel about it. They may be upset because he marries a philipino woman. Btw, I try to get mine from the library too. Saves money. Slim I need you to get this one too.
Basketball fans. I have four words for you. U C L A LOL
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this
But Kym that question was appropriate to me when the person wasn’t really doing “anything” by my standards at the time. I am all for a Man having a plan and following his dream. But I need to know if we should end up together in the future is solely using my funds to sponsor his dreams part of his plans. Not gonna happen.
This applies to those that have that “plan” in his back pocket written on that same Krystal napkin he wrote it on the day the store manager 5 times removed hired him.
By Blue_Kolla
March 27, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this
LMAO @ Slim For Real I know you can’t read but your book on tape of Sam I Am came in this morning.
You are so stoopid! :-D
Raqi I’m standing there thinking to myself Next Thursday? My next Thursday? The day of my BIRTH next Thursday? I will be spending my grand 40 b-day at a witch’s memorial next Thursday? But instead of saying all of that I asked Why next Thursday?
Isn’t it beautiful that we CAN’T read minds?!
By AmazonRed
March 27, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this
Mo - It’s always good to see a sports savvy lady. I always chuckle as the amount of Duke haters they are (and I used to date a Duke LOVER). I’m excited about the game tonight, though if Louisville loses, I’m going to not speak to you tomorrow. LOL
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
Raqi, glad you thought all of that and didn’t start the neck rolling screaming at him (which I know is not your style). With age, sometimes comes wisdom!
By 2CPTG©
March 27, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this
Thick 6……shhhhhh, don’t tell nobody I have a soft side…..
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this
Tazzee Giiirrrl I would have died. Literally.
No 2CPTG. But she didn’t like me first. And made my life hell. She asked Mason once while I was standing right there if he had to bring me when he came to see her. He told her No. But I guess I wont be coming back to visit you if that’s the case.
By SlimOne
March 27, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this
Truth Which one do you want me to get?
Slim now wondering how da hayo do you read a book on tape? Slim now slapping For Real on the forehead with a Color Purple Book Mark
By Raqi
March 27, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this
SexyL I would have been pyssed, but would not have faulted him. He didn’t plan it.
However, if it had been on my b-day I would hope he would have spoken up and said “No can do. I am taking ‘Raqi’ (fill in the blank) for her birthday”.
What are we doing that day?? I better get my Mental Seduction game on starting today.
Yall have a good one.
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this
Current reads: “The Color of Family” & “The Darkest Child”…
Mo ask me how i have time to read when i have a lil one and he plays almost every sport? he reading too Got smart on him and started buying him series’s. Think mamma reading a novel and you gone be finish b4 me. Naw baby bruh i got you!
Dushawn such as you describe in 4:15 i find myself balanced when i visit. But when i get around my non-debutante girls they wanna do debutante stuff…lol gthoh.
By The Truth
March 27, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this
Slim Why should white guys have all the fun by reginald lewis. If you want to listen to books on your phone or computer try audible.com.
By For Real
March 27, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this
Slim OUCH!!!! You fostabe the smart one. You figure it out. I’ll be there at 7:30. Oh and my stomach kinda hurting today too.
By Thick 6
March 27, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this
Know this.
2CPTG hi. Having a sexy meldolic mind is not being a soft one. Okay handsome!
By THE FILTHY VILLIANOUS DK
March 27, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this
Sexless dating.. Thats an OXYMORON if I ever heard one..
Mental Stimulation comes from paying attention to your subject.. The subject must remain relaxed in order to make the mental connection.. The walls of the subjects memory banks must be coersed into coming down with a subtle and subconscious hints.. Once the subject is completely relaxed and feels comfortable.. Shut your mouth and listen.. Make your next moves off the conversation thats being had.. Dont be to forceful just listen and pay attention to the subject because most women enjoy talking about themselves..
By SexyLeggs
March 27, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone!
Let’s get back to the simpler things in life. It’s a nice day, go for a walk w/your SO.
STAY ALERT! There’s some crazy folk oout there!
By Willie Dynamite
March 27, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this
Du/BK I can understand that. It has to be degrees to it tho. I can deal wit a hood chick thats real and talking bout real shyt. I just cant deal with the gum popping alley chick that cant talk about nothing. At least talk to me bout the Game if thats what you know, but ion wanna hear bout T-pain and nem.
I see ya Raqi, got him with the Busniess Woman/Secretary look huh.
Nite all
By mytwocents
March 27, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this
Ceemeeli You are a lunatic. I like a (lil) man with a back up plan. Does he like older women? If he plays his cards right he can take my niece to the prom in 5 yrs : )
Also wondering why dudes don’t think we won’t have no d—n sense till we 40!
By Cemeeli
March 27, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this
Dang! i hate when i’m late, bloggin’….i feel shorted. We were good today! Wise
Goodnight…yall be easy!
Blue chair spin.