Misadventures in Atlanta

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 8:17 AM | Link to this

Happy Blogiversary!

MIA Glad to hear everything seems to be going well for you.

TGIF!!!!!!!!!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 8:22 AM | Link to this

MIA, I didn’t have the chance to blog with you but I want to thank you for paving the way for the most rocking blog in the A!!!! Glad all is well with you!!

Happy Friday Good People!!!

By QC

March 14, 2008 8:22 AM | Link to this

Morning, have a great day all!

Mia it’s good to hear from her i often thought about how things were going…keep us posted!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 8:24 AM | Link to this

MIA, I didn’t have the chance to blog with you but I want to thank you for paving the way for the most rocking blog in the A!!!! Glad all is well with you!!

Happy Friday Good People!!!

By Demi

March 14, 2008 8:25 AM | Link to this

Mia Hey and I am glad things are going well for you…Some of the thing you did in Atlanta had me rolling, but thanks for this site!!!

Goes to show, dating really isn’t all that different in other parts of the country.

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 8:26 AM | Link to this

MIA, I didn’t have the chance to blog with you but I want to thank you for paving the way for the most rocking blog in the A!!!! Glad all is well with you!!

Happy Friday Good People!!!

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 8:27 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Slim, Lady J and QC!

I would like to thank you Mia for creating something fun and at the same time a place where singles can chat and learn from one another. ^5.

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 8:31 AM | Link to this

Hey Beautiful Honey!!!:) Have a great day!

By Dan

March 14, 2008 8:32 AM | Link to this

Wow, an anniversary and me without flowers again.

I never got the chance to talk with MIA but if theis was her idea…awesome! And to WD and Bella for keeping it going, thank you both.

I’m glad that she is pursuing her professional aspirations and her personal ones as well. To Mia, as all of us, good luck in life and love.

Check out WD in All up in the convo yesterday, did we strike a nerve?

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 8:33 AM | Link to this

Hey Beautiful Honey!!!:) Have a great day!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 8:35 AM | Link to this

Hey Beautiful Honey!!!:) Have a great day!

By SexyCool

March 14, 2008 8:40 AM | Link to this

just stopped by to show ms. mia some love since i knew you were going to be here today…

i miss you more than i have room to blog about…

may check back in later…

By pisces 08

March 14, 2008 8:53 AM | Link to this

Morning All. Have a great day!

By Demi

March 14, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

Dan I think WD had alot of free time on her hand.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 8:54 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

Wow the topic is going to get change fairly quick this morning..lol

But I personally thought that NY men were alot better than the guys down south. More man…..and to me alot of them wanted to settle down a lot quicker then these southern bumpkins. I don’t know. I guess that’s just my opinion.

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

Happy Anni-Birth-sary Blog

Yes I do remember MIA. I am glad to see things are working out well professional and personal wise. I wish you all the best that life can bring.

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 9:04 AM | Link to this

Well hello there B-E-A UTIFUL. lol

What has the MIA blog meant to you? Well, it definitely helps add some laughter to my maudlin day. It also gives me a chance to express myself and at times vent about something anonymously & get feedback on it.

What have you learned about dating or relationships? WOW, what haven’t I learned.

To be continued…

By THE MELO

March 14, 2008 9:05 AM | Link to this

I saw a blog heading that said”do you go downtown” and i thoght today waz gonna be interesting! But now on checking…its about MIA…anyhoo,blog on…i will lurk till Monday. Have a great weekend.

By Dan

March 14, 2008 9:06 AM | Link to this

You know Blow,

You say a lot of stuff. But what I can’t take is somebody talking about Southern Gentlemen.

Now, granted the “wanna be thug” culture has taken hold of some of the fellas. But I guarantee you that they still have those same southern manners that we were ALL brought up with. Yes Ma’am and no Ma’am, yes sir and no sir. And I know this becuase even the hardest of “fake gangstas” still show deference and respect to older people.

Plus, the world over, everybody knows that there’s nothing like a country fed man. The times I visited cities outside the South, between my twang and good looks, the ladies loved me. So much so that the common phrase was “Damn, they grow ‘em like that in the South? I gotta go down there.”

And NY women, oh what I wouldn’t give for a fiesty girl from the Bronx somedays Boriqua!, but I still love my Southern Belles. So hold that NY stuff and enjoy what most NY’ers do when the come to the South. The weather, the scenery, and the people. lol

Did I mention my affinity for Puerto Rican women? Goodness

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 9:08 AM | Link to this

Um Blow, the topic will not be changed. Did you not comprehend that WiseD gave us a blank canvas?

And to quote her, “Everyone, consider this a reunion day, a day to share your weekend plans, vent about the dating scene, or talk about what’s on your mind. What has the MIA blog meant to you? What have you learned about dating or relationships?”

By Demi

March 14, 2008 9:10 AM | Link to this

Blow babe, unless youre dating cat from the hood, most dudes here are from elsewhere…mainly from up north.

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

learned that Cemeeli can plan my Backyard Wedding Reception with only $50.

lmao. and yes, you are a nut! lol.

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

Wow, all this reconnecting is a bit much for early in the morning.

One point. Staceye says the men in NY are better. Beautiful says the men in cali are better. Blow says the southern fellas aren’t any good. Now Mia says the men in NY have no reason to settle down. My question: Why are all the good men where these women aren’t?

Slim you can move in and I will cover all your bills but to stay aligned with the Governor of New York your going to have to become a working girl. Sorry, the free rides are over. We can leave your street name as Slim tho. Training starts tonight. I got a few buddies coming over and your on the menu. Wear a hardhat and g string.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 9:17 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Blog! I also didn’t get a chance to blog with MIA but I read some of her stuff and it was funny.

On here, I’ve learned to “take notes” and also that there are a lot of frogs out here. It’s convinced me to stick to my guns even if everyone else is telling me to do certain things just because that’s how men are.

It’s good to see other perspectives and see how other people think. Even if I don’t agree with their methods, I always appreciate the experiences.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 9:21 AM | Link to this

Dan Please …HOLD all of that mess. You southern men are bombed out and depeleted….All of the southern charm you speak..IS No more. Only thing is left is that broken down southern twang…and I can much rather do without. lol! You southern men are spoil and don’t realize how good you had it. If opportunity knocked on you’ll’s door…most would run and hide. Save the Country charm for someone who doesn’t know about ya! Miss me with that BOGUS $HIT….But here have some of the ole’ wild irish rose!! lmao!!

Raqi You are right you got me on that one. lol….Here have a shot of some of dis Mr. Boston finest…vodka. lol!

ATTENTION ALL Blow is now serving WILD Irish Rose, MD 20/20, and shots of Mr. Boston Vodka. Cheapest liquor for all…lmao! Happy friday!!

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

melo is that you???

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 9:22 AM | Link to this

Mia I never had the pleasure of blogging with you, but thanks for being a trailblazer - this is really a fun blog! Even though some of these blog men get on my nerves sometime, I always look forward to seeing what’s going on up in here! Sounds like you’re having a blast up in NY. One of my best friends from college got a job at NYU and lived over in Jersey City. I was working for Delta at the time, and I used to love going to visit. The best Chinese food, hands down! I actually have some souveniers I bought right outside the World Trade Center, keychains with the twin towers on them. I had forgotten about them, but ran across them going through some things right before the 1st anniversary of 9/11! My friend has moved to Mission Viejo, California now, so I visit her there. You know, I know people who would love to lead the life you lead, working for a magazine in a major city like NYC, but don’t have the courage or won’t step out on faith to make it happen. You did, and I wish you all the best!

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

18 months later we are still DATING…note the word dating. As with all twenty something, well educated, good career having men in NYC he is a commitment phobe. Well we don’t have a title but anyone that is important in our lives (friends, family, coworkers, etc.) knows we are together. I’m learning to accept that the title is not so important if you have someone that accepts you for who you are and loves you inspite of yourself.

Anyone else have an opinion on this? This was my last two relationships down to the letter and all I can say is that this doesn’t work, from my experiences. Especially if you are used to the title even if he isn’t. Around 18 months is usually my tipping point, where I start to let him know how this is gonna go and usually the point where I decide that we may have to go our seperate ways.

But I really hope MIA bucks this trend. Maybe it’s different in NY.

By the way, I’m not really into NY men but I’ve fallen in love at least 3 times already out here…good Lawd

By Dan

March 14, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

Along the lines of what Slim said:

Case in point, I went out with this girl that I kinda liked while still on my hustle, which for me is rare. And for whatever reason it didn’t work out.

If I was still in the fugg ‘em and forget ‘em mindstate, I’da called the ole faithful on the way home and….let’s just say released my tension. ;)

But this time I didn’t do that. Hopefully, and only time will tell, I can tolerate one of many rejections. Being on here, and having the opportunity to express some of these emotions, has helped me at the very least clarify my reaction to things.

That’s not to say ole Faithful won’t get a call, but I can say that at least this time, the rejection doesn’t feel the same way it used to, and that thanks to some of y’all, I’m able to get over it in a healthier and more constructive way.

So thank you, MIA, Diva, Bella, et al. for that.

And Slim you know your Happy Ending is always free, as long as I get one too!

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

Truth sorry babe, i’ve never said that. what i said exactly was that my ex came to me and told me what he wanted. that is what i expected when i moved here. my ex and i really never dated.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this

Truth Where are you from? If you are the spokes person for the south then …….I rest my case. You are all the proof I need. I dont’ think you know what it takes to be a good man. Oh yeah here….have a shot of Mr. Boston..calm ya nerves. It’s too early for all of you philosophies.

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this

Truth Boss, Ion know if i can start tonight. I’m feeling….a lil…pnoont Ewww, that felt sorta wet. I think those shots of MD 20/20 is…um…pnoooont..plaaaat got my stomach upset. Oh yea, I can’t find my hardhat either but i do have this full faced-ski mask. And about that G-String Pooooont!….

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this

*I learned some of yall are walking scabs that need some neosporin slapped on yo azzez. HEAL ALREADY.

I hope to neva meet some of yall dudes because you have no souls/hearts*

I had to check the author of this post to make sure it actually SlimOne and not AmazonRed. LOL

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday, ALL! The blog would not be around this long if it weren’t for the great people that visit, comment, lurk, and email us. We appreciate everyone checking in each week, so thank you.

Dan, why do you think someone struck a nerve? I thought my comments yesterday were fairly tame compared to how I usually go off on that kind of topic. LOL

By THE FILTHY VILLIANOUS DK

March 14, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this

I think its time for a name change to many THE’s out here now..

At any rate.. MIA finally got a man good for you.. Congrats.. Gone ahead and swing from the chandeliers and lock him in..

The Blog has taught me ummmm NOTHING.. I have given so much free game out here its a shame..

Seriously it has taught me that no one is perfect and that everyone has their own issues.. The key is to live one day at a time and that special person will come when its time for them to get there.. Not exactly when you want them too.. There is also the point of finding a person that can deal with your issues and you can deal with theirs cause no one is obligated to change..

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

You southern men are bombed out and depeleted….All of the southern charm you speak..IS No more. Only thing is left is that broken down southern twang…and I can much rather do without. lol! You southern men are spoil and don’t realize how good you had it.

Damn Blow! You have me rolling over here tho. LOL

I love the men in Atlanta, mainly because there is something for everyone. If I want me a laid back Cali guy, I can find him here. If I want an edgy New Yorker, he’s here too. If I want a southern gent, I can find that as well. Love it.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

SlimOne that’s not true; we dudes have a lot of hearts. After getting burned a few times you wising up and stop wearing your heart on your sleeve.

Most of y’all women really need to stop walking around with blinders on.

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

Glad to read you Mia. Also glad that you are doing what you like in your profession. I too would like to say THANK YOU for building this blog community. Here we can laugh, fight, get cussed out, get our egos bruised, and kiss and make up. A lot of lessons are learned by reading what other bloggers have experienced. I’m pretty sure you didn’t think this blog would become so addictive, but it has. WiseDiva/Bella, thank you two for continuing where Mia left off! KUDOS!

Oh yeah, SlimOne, you are truly funny and crazy!

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this

I can say that at least this time, the rejection doesn’t feel the same way it used to, and that thanks to some of y’all, I’m able to get over it in a healthier and more constructive way.

That’s great, Dan! You’ve become a project for me. I think you have great potential if you can channel that energy in a positive way. I’m gonna continue to ride you like Seabiscut (and not in that way, lol) because you are not a lost cause like some of these guys on here. LOL

By abc

March 14, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

You know, that whole ‘Southern Gentleman’ thing originates in Antebellum society. It centers around the aristocracy being primarily a leisure class that participates in government, is schooled primarily in oratory, and places women on pedestals. It’s kind of funny that such a notion would be endorsed on this blog.

Good manners know no neighborhood or region.

By Kym

March 14, 2008 9:48 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Congrats AJC on 4 years with your Misadventures Blog. What have I learned? Hmmmmm I learned alot from some of the blog guys on how important it is to listen..could have figured it out on my own but its Friday so I have to be nice

By Demi

March 14, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

Wise Diva you’ve toned down a lot since ‘05…I do apologize for calling you a Witch.

…Calling on the powers of darkness, Wise cast Demi into the depths of Hades…

By The Original MIA

March 14, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone!

It’s the original MIA. I just wanted to stop in and say hello to the oldies but goodies that were with me from the beginning and the newbies who have come along for the ride.

This blog really started to reach an audience that wasn’t being reached before and because I would have some funny stories about my dating life that I would share with co-workers on Mondays. Those funny stories became this blog.

I remember when the editor of the paper asked me is this really your life or are you making this up. My response: sadly it is. Some stuff you just can’t make up.

Thanks Wise Diva (my play cousin) for keeping the blog going and remembering this minor milestone. :-P

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

Let’s see weekend plans. Still in NYC so I’m going to head out and get a Jamba Juice then finally hit up Macy’s and H&M. I’ll be checking out Debbie Allen’s “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” on Broadway. Spend a little more time with my sis. We had a slumber party last night and one of her friends is here too cuz she has some guy drama that I only see in Tyler Perry movies.

Heading back to Atlanta, I’m going to try to squeeze in a date with “Pilot” before I’m on a plane again.

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

abc - You know, I’ve been kinda feeling your posts lately. I liked the one you sent late yesterday and I appreciate the one today - good manners indeed know no neighborhood or region! Those are some notes we all could take!

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

A.Red Yeah that’s my new love …Those Cali Men..Are something else. Laid back sexy…The ones I have met….omgosh. Magnetic..major sex appeal. I like the west coast slang too….What’s crackin….OH boy that drives me insane!! lol! So far…all the ones I have met are so cute. Except for Griff on 107.9…lmao!

By Demi

March 14, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this

Hey Kym, I miss the days of you slicing folk with verbal blades.

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

I thought so Demi! Oh, and I have long ago forgiven you for that, btw. I heart you to pieces, now muah

I have to say it is quite nice to read how this forum has taught us all something. We do see it all here - the good the bad, and the ugly.

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

Hey MIA!! Thanks again!

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

Demi I’m not saying NONE of yall have hearts…some of the menfolk that come thru blogsville are just as scarred as the women. I’m sure you’ve heard Omarion’s “I got an Icebox where my heart use to be”….As far as wearing my heart on my sleeve…I really don’t do that for folks I don’t care about. And i don’t keep it hidden for those I do. As far as folks on the outside, it’s just entertainment purposes only.(whether it be for a shallow, heartless, heartpounding Grown folks session…or just to watch Flavor of Love with) it’s sort of how a cat might play with a cricket…killing it slowly a piece at a time. One leg…two legs..the head…then GULP GONE!. In the words of Snoop…We don’t love dem Ho3’s.

Dan And Slim you know your Happy Ending is always free, as long as I get one too! No worries, I always goes both ways…wait that didn’t come out right. lol

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

morning….

Carolina Blue….what it do, lil mama….glad to see you finally got it right with dating…..Glad to read ya, and see/hear you’re doing ok for yourself….

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 10:04 AM | Link to this

Blow I’m from cali woman. Oaktown’s one and only. You know you want me and as soon as all my viable options expire I’ll consider dating a troll. Smooches.

Slim I’ve rescheduled our get together tonight. Take the year off. I’ll smell ya later.

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

More Catching Up with Mia: What do you miss about Atlanta? I miss my friends but we talk on email and IM all the time and I see them several times a year. I miss my house. I had only lived in it for 9 months when I moved to NYC. I miss Fridays after work going to 1/2 price happy hour at D&B. But I’ve heard it’s no longer the spot to go to after work anymore. I miss going to all the movie screenings. They have them here but a lot more people are vying to get in to the theater so I don’t see as many movies as I used too.

What dating advice do you have for us now? I’ve always been a seeker of advice versus giving it. In some ways I think I’m still a natural dating disaster. I would think most people wouldn’t be okay with dating a person for as long as I have with no title. But that’s just a peculiarity of me. As one of my friends put it I always have weird relationships/friendships.

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone Slim, bootiful & Ared. I guess this is no cook friday for Cee She could have at least got me some dayuum reese puffs and tang. Anyway I would like to say thanks to Mia for getting this thing started. I think that I am the baby on here and I helps me tremendously. Not only the advice that I get from everyone but it helps keep me from slapping a muthaslucka up in the hd hq. You guys have me laughing, crying, you keep me full and drunk. I have no complaints. By the way I seen Black last night by accident. It was so hard. I think I am the only person in the world who has cried listening to Lil Wayne

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

BriteEyez, where are you??

Off-topic, I need to buy a garage door opener. What should I look for?

ARed, when you go out today should out loud that I said Hello NY!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

March 14, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

WHEW!! TGIF Happy friday all!!

To Mia thanks for creating this blog! I have met some wonderful folks here and gotten some great advice! The dialogues here have been really thought provoking most times and its great to read other opinions, whether I agree with them or not, food for thought. I have also been allowed to vent and I swear Blogsville helped me through my divorce! LOL! Anyhoo thanks again for your hard work and thanks to WD and Bella for holding Blogsville down!

By Blue_Kolla

March 14, 2008 10:10 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog…

Mia As I recall, I rolled in just in time to see you doin’ the OJ thru the airport. Dayum, that’s been a minute…

Anyway, from reading your “update”, it appears that you’ve come a long way in the maturation process. Congratulations!

Blow Unchip your shoulder slim. Have fun doin’ you, and soon, more of the types of Brothers that you desire will arrive on the scene.

By Bre

March 14, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Mia Keep moving and grooving.

I want to blog so bad today, but with Bush messing up my commute to work up and down 54th Street. Then as soon as I thought it would be a good rally day on wall street Bear Stearns messed it all up. The Fed needs to stop…. Ok that’s my vent for the day.

I will try to stop back in later today….have a good one guys.

Demi Keep your head up over there….

By Demi

March 14, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I can help you with that, hit me up later

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I can go out and shout on the street like you asked and no one will even look at me sideways. LOL

By the way, I hope you and BriteEyez have accepted the mission. DO NOT let me down! I gave you all the proper intel. LOL!

By For Real

March 14, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Hello MIA. I didn’t get a chance to blog with you while you were here but based on the comments about you thus far, you seem to be a cool person. Thank you for the blog.

Oh, I don’t know if you keep up with the blog now (probably not since you have a guy in your life) but the blog has started a new tradition of giving Black Cake to the new female bloggers. I know you are not new but allow me the honor of giving you some ceremonial Black Cake for old and new time sake.

P.S if you are on a diet, the blog has adopted a pet to serve as the blog mascot. It’s an African American Dolphin. You can pet it if you want to.

By And The Award Goes to ????

March 14, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

The Most Bi-Polar Blogger

Best Blog Slanguish

Best One Liner

Best Blog-tender =equvalent to bartender

Most Missed Blogger

The Funniest

Most “Love to see name ‘in light’”

Blogger w/most Inside Scoop

MVP - Most V Pursued Blogger

Please everyone, cast your votes now!

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Good People!

Hi Mia glad your life/dating has been leaps and bounds vs. the old A-Town days. I was only a shot gun lurker back when you were the “topic mom”. Thanks for giving us this out! It really is fun, crasi, somdays it had even gone gansta in her also bittersweet and just second roundtable for us in here somedays.

~ Sisterly shimmy to you, WiseDiva and Bella thanks gurls.

Breakfast today: special ordered celebration edible arrangement…w/honey melon, watermelon, berries,pineapple, grapes, chocolate bananas and strawberries, croissants and fixings, water, variety of juices and a big cookie cake.

Have at it folks!

What i have learn from blogging?…hmmm in a nutshell is this;

Learn to accept personality differences in your friends!

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

You’re right, ARed. No one will look at you sideways. That’s funny.

I left msg. for BriteEyez last night. Haven’t heard anything yet. I’ve accepted your mission, ma’am but need her to help carry it through (lol).

ForReal, you are truly BAD!!!!!

By Kym

March 14, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

Demi The blades are always sharpen depending on my mood. I never mind drawing first blood. if necessary

By Alvin

March 14, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

SlimOne when I first came to this site, I was going thru an ugly breakup and was preparing for one of my famous runs…This blog honestly stop me. I will admit, at the time I was hurting and I was going to MAKE sure the women folks feel the heat, LOL..I was gonna F/K some live up!!!

By Demi

March 14, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

Slim From posting with you ladies, I realize that was a very childish way of thinking…

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

This blog has taught me that on those day when I want to ring that chumps neck laying beside me to thank God that at least I did not end up with him (Insert name). LOL

It has taught me that there are a lot of wounded souls and spirits out there, just like I was, and they don’t even realize or they just refuse to admit it.

It has taught me that every one’s opinion matters. You know sometimes you lose sight on things just being caught up in your immediate circle of friends. But to interact with an anonymous unbiased sect makes you stand back and say “Oh!”.

This blog has taught me that I am not the only crank in America. LOL

By Bre

March 14, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Ared I saw the play(coahtr) on Tuesday, I really enjoyed it, one of the best on Broadway by far. Please share your comments on the play. Its not what many people expect they are too caught up on the Tyler Perry shucking and jiving plays they can’t open there mind to a true drama play. It hurt my heart to see such talent poured out on stage to only have many complaining there was no singing, dancing or a man in drag up there.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

The Most Bi-Polar Blogger -=TRUTH He gets this award hands down….And Dan Runs a close second! lmao!

Best Blog Slanguish=SJ3000 & Rell

Best One Liner= SISSY STAC

Best Blog-tender =equvalent to bartender* BLOW* …Who else can serve the cheapest liquor with a smile??

Most Missed Blogger =I don’t know……

The Funniest = Truth I always good a good laugh off this CHUMP.. Um…*Slim One * is pretty funny.

Most “Love to see name ‘in light’”- Ared

Blogger w/most Inside Scoop_ I don’t’ know?

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 10:34 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I know dem edible rangements be spensive and all but dayum! how u spect us to all to eat out of the 1 el cheapo coffee mug rangement??? lol

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Blow - Cali men have their ups and downs, just like all men. They bring a whole different set of issues then southern or northern men. I guess it just depends on which set you want to deal with! But I do think Cali men look good!

abc - I agree with Kimmie and I’ve enjoyed your posts lately.

SexyLeggs - I will be LOOKING for BriteEyez on Monday if the plan does not go down. I’m actually looking forward to being back in ATL to experience it again.

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Raqi…I totally forgot that you started out as Scorned on here. Wow, it’s so interesting to look back and see how we have all changed. Amazing.

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

Slim

I know dem edible rangements be spensive and all but dayum! how u spect us to all to eat out of the 1 el cheapo coffee mug rangement???

‘dem have the corporate edible arrangement to sis!

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

Most missed blogger - I miss Randy and Foots has been missing in action too.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

Bre - Will do. I think you left your email address yesterday, so I’ll email you. I’m saddened that folks are complaining that the play is not a musical. I thought y’all NYers were a bit more enlightened

It was funny, my sis and I were at dinner with the finest server on earth. He was a wannabe actor. I told him I had come up to see the Color Purple as well and he said he hadn’t because he’s not into all that singing and dancing. That was a first.

By Alvin

March 14, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

It’s not easy keeping myself and attitude in check Slim. I am not the smartest cat, but in terms of judge men characters before his looks’n’wealths…MOST of y’all are horrible, LOL.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

Kym too bad I fail your height requirements, lol.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

The Most Bi-Polar Blogger -= TRUTH He gets this award hands down….And Dan Runs a close second! lmao!

Best Blog Slanguish=SJ3000 & Rell

Best One Liner= SISSY STAC

Best Blog-tender =equvalent to bartender BLOW ME …Who else can serve the cheapest liquor with a smile??

Most Missed Blogger =I don’t know……

The Funniest = Truth I always get a good laugh off this CHUMP.. Um…Slim One is pretty funny too.

Most “Love to see name ‘in light’”- Ared

Blogger w/most Inside Scoop_ I don’t’ know?

By The Original MIA

March 14, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

@For Real - ROTFLMAO at Black Cake and African American Dolphin.

I’m very good at being critical of myself. Maybe because I’m a Pisces. But a large part of my dating problems is ME. I’m so career driven that I don’t leave time for much else. It’s work or hanging with my girlfriends…and I don’t leave much room for meeting guys.

I did a blog on my personal blog about how I communicate. Audacity and I work so well together because we communicate similarly. We are not phone people…we are IM, email, text…that is and has always been our primary forms of communication. He also is accepting of my crazy work schedule so it’s okay to come over at 11pm on a Thursday night to watch the episode of Lipstick Jungle that I missed that he DVR’d for me. He gets brownie points for watching it with me. And then we go to sleep…no nookie necessary.

By Dan

March 14, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

We do not like being called Bi-Polar. We/I am offended. Wraith will be paid.

In truth, if I am bipolar (or sound like it), it’s becuase of the 3 different lives I lead in this one. I’ve been blessed enough to see life from a couple of sides of the track and while that can inform your opinion on a great many things, it can also take something from you.

So, yes I realize that I present divergent viewpoints on here and times. No, I’m not crazy. But I am relearning me and y’all like everyone else in my life kinda get to see the process unfold.

So be happy to be able to say like Raqi, I remember when that cat used to…..

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

Alvin Looks like you are running for The Most Bi-Polar Blogger I remember when you would have conversations with youself. Now THAT use to be funny.

Oh, and you taught me not to judge a dude having to use an electronic step ladder to get outta your F150 equipped with smoke machine and strobe light.

Truth I think it was you who made, still having a bra on your 1987 Nissan Maxima cool.

Most Missed Blogger = I’d have to say Musing.

By Willie Dynamite

March 14, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Morning All,

What I’ve learned is that I can get a good laugh at any point in the day if needed. I’ve also learned that some of ya’ll need a serious psychiatric evaluation. I learned that a few of you are good people with your hearts in the right place.

The Most Bi-Polar Blogger: Tie between Staceye and Truth

Best Blog Slanguish: Rell aka Lester Hayes

Most Missed Blogger: Dushawn and Musing

The Funniest: Tie between For Real and Slim1

Most “Love to see name ‘in light’”:ARed

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 10:57 AM | Link to this

Yeah Demi/Alvin what is up with the whole Demi/Alvin thing? Why two blog names?

By Demi

March 14, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

Oh yeah,

Demi is now pouring Mr.Boston in memories of Gov. Eliot Spitzer.

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

Funniest bloggers: Alvin, For Real and Slim! Classic.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

SlimOne it was a blog F350…I spent dang near the whole day falling from the b-ish, LOL

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

The Most Bi-Polar Blogger Drum Roll Staceye

Best Blog Slanguish Slim

Best One Liner-under 50 posts Simp

Most Missed Blogger Biff and Foots

The Funniest For Real and Slim

Most “Love to see name ‘in light’” Blow she doesn’t post, she explodes on the scene

MVP - Most V Pursued Blogger Ared

What I have learned is there are some hurting people out here.

Also, I never new my internet connection could hook me up with so many wild folks. Y’all have me rolling sometimes, and thats the truth.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

Alvin is an A*******Hole…

By Alvin

March 14, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

Demi is a fool…

By db

March 14, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

You know what I’ve noticed? People don’t just f*ck anymore.

They fck, but they don’t just fck. There is a difference. Nowadays it seems like there always has to be “something” behind two people simply enjoying each other in bed.

In relationships, people have to have something in common. They have to have the same interests. The same goals. The same foreign policies. Whatever. When it comes to sex, none of that matters.

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

ARed, this is what I gathered. When he’s trying to be funny, he uses Demi, and when he’s being serious he uses Alvin.

I miss Dushawn, Foots, MusingLee, LongtimeLurker!

By QC

March 14, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Hey Beautiful

Hey Demi

By Demi

March 14, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

Heeeeeeeeeey QC!!!

It’s warm today, I am thinking of flying over and singing for you

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

For Real Looks like you and me made Blogsville Homecoming Court…King & Queen of Comedy. Don’t forget my corsage. I think I’m going to wear Lime Green Biking Short Skirt with a Florescent pink Tank top. So you’ll have to match my flower to my outfit.

Demi it was a blog F350…I spent dang near the whole day falling from the b-ish LMAO!!! You know I always visualize what you say….Can you say Hilarious lol

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

Demi/Alvin, I literally spit on my keyboard reading 11:04 and 11:06. You are a fool!

I haven’t learned a darn thing by reading this blog…JK (LOL)!

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

All jokes aside. One important thing I needed to know was said by Dan and a few others as to why my ex handed me my 10-page letter back w/out comment. Thanks!

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

Then how I get accused of being Bi Polar if this cat is using 2 daggum names?

Wait that’s why you wait before you post never mind, it was by Blow consider the source j/k bnr

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

Wait a minute….

Leggs, a 10 page letter…what’s the backstory on that one?

By abc

March 14, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

Thanks for the kind words, y’all.

So, you don’t think I’m the funniest? Yo mama so old I told her to act her age, and she died.

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

Dont forget these….

Most Opinionated; Dan

Most Likely Bloggin’ from Prison; BLAT

Most Likely to be on Oprah’s Show “The World of Underground Bloggers”:

Biggest Blog Flirt: Beautiful,

Most Likely to say: You want fries with that?

Best Dating Misadventure: Wise

Most Likely to Start a Cult: Preacher/Father/Bishop

Most Likely to run a generator if Blog ceased: Sexyleggs

Most Likely to “come out”: 6’1 & Luvin It (Done it all)

Most Dramatic: Slim and Staceye

Most Likely Blogger to fall in love with melo: melo

Most Clueless Bogger: Single Sexy Black Male

Blogger likely to abuse “Lol”: poll still out

Best “Lurkers Perch” comments: abc & Dushawn

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

Hi MIA I am from Manhattan and I now live in ATL and I must say it’s an adjustment. So you had to do the reverse of what I did…were you shell-shocked? The thing you said about NY men hold try about ATL men as well. But I found that I never had a problem with dudes not wanting to commit in NY…here is a different story. Hence the reason I am living and loving he single life!

Dan And NY women, oh what I wouldn’t give for a fiesty girl from the Bronx somedays WHATEVER…I’m in this piece everyday! LOL But why only Boriqua…Dominicanas are hotter! Wink wink!

Truth Why are all the good men where these women aren’t because my choice of cities to reside in do not depend where the good men are! Mine are strictly professional!

My sista Blow Me I am cracking up over here as usual! You are nuts girl…I swear I think we are related. Oh..I accept my nomination!

By SeanJohnson3000

March 14, 2008 11:21 AM | Link to this

@Blown..what’s with you disrespecting southern men? Not knockin your preference but no need to down us in the process.I have potnahs from all regions and they all say us down south cats are the reason females are on the dance floor droppin it like its hot. The females from other states want southern dude because of the charm and swag. Don’t hate because we get love from all coast. Step ya game up lil zone 4. i’m from Fla you already know how we are with females.

By QC

March 14, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this

Most missed blogger - Musing Most “keeps it real bloggers” - The Truth,2CPTG, Kym & Tazzee Most Blogger to google - Darrell

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Mama Jokes

Ole School

Yo mama so old, she thought a quarterback was a refund.

Yo mama so fat she sat on a rainbow and skittles popped out.

Yo mama so dumb, she overcooked minute rice.

African booty scratcher not really a mama joke, but the darker of us usually got p** behind it.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

So, you don’t think I’m the funniest? Yo mama so old I told her to act her age, and she died.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!! abc, I see you in a whole nother light

By For Real

March 14, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

For Real now pouring out some Remy in a cup for Musing Scrabble Lee the most missed. Now playing Dear Musing

I thought to be Bi-polar you had to go in two directions. 2E’s ain’t got but one gear. Crazy Now Blow on the other hand is a different story but I have to give her props for finding a way to log onto the internet using her cash register.

Best Tender is Mo with her short skirts and short legs reaching for the top shelf liquor.

The funniest has to go to Slim. Slim cannot accept her award due to a serve case of bubble guts. So I will drive by Slim’s house this evening and slang her award thru her kitchen window.

By Lena

March 14, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

@mb - your 11:07 post sounds really familiar. Did you get that from your personal blog or did you borrow it?

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

I have potnahs from all regions and they all say us down south cats are the reason females are on the dance floor droppin it like its hot. The females from other states want southern dude because of the charm and swag.

Blah, blah, blah. Some folks give the south cats love, some favor the west or the north or the midwest.

What I can say is you south cats sure are sensitive.

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Aw, Staceye, you know we down like a car wif four flat tired and some fat ladies in it….

And Dominican are kinda hot, right about that….

But boo-boo, you crazy…

I got enough issues that to worry about p** you off and having you a) not talk to me anymore; b) strap semtex to the passenger side of my door so when I’m on a date it blows.

No, no. Cute you may be but I’m beyond the pyshco-fun babe stage….

woosah….

By Demi

March 14, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Dan I don’t count, I am special.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Staceye - You’re dominican? Can you or one of your homies blow out these roots?

Dan - I’m getting my gong for your “mama” jokes.

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Most Missed Blogger; MusingLee & Runnin’It, NCGirl

Funniest: ForReal & Slim

Best Blog Slanguish: 2CPTG

By Demi

March 14, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Meaning, women don’t see me as a threat to their power.

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

I apologize, I thought it was you Dan, but now I think it was WillieD who schooled me. Scratching my head thinking of Maury Povich and “Who’s the Daddy”.

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

For Real Blow on the other hand is a different story but I have to give her props for finding a way to log onto the internet using her cash register. I’m rolling over here.

Sexy did he even read it?

By Blue_Kolla

March 14, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

The Most Bi-Polar Blogger Demi/Staceye

Best Blog Slanguish 2/Jazzy

Best One Liner (Scratched):

Best Story For Your Azz (Substitution): DuShawn/Older And Wiser

Most Missed Blogger: LL/LahLah The Anti-Civic Chick

The Funniest Musing/Slim

Most “Love to see name ‘in light’”: Dan/ARed

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

what i learned the hard way is not realizing at the time you break-up with someone that there’s a next. it’s hard to look past the person you just left behind. if the damaged hearts out there knew what was coming, if they were given the opportunity to actually see what God had in store for them … … …

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

Me running the generator…that was funny. I’m backstage at this award show telling ET (Entertainment Tonight) “I’m just honored to be nominated for anything! Hollywood kisses!

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

Thanks, QC…..

so I specialize in “slanguish”, eh Cee???

By THE MELO

March 14, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

yeah Raqi,thats me,like diddy,im re-invetning myself. back to lurksblog avenue.

By Lena

March 14, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

they are sensitive because they responded? Don’t you respond to EVERY single comment that you don’t agree with?

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

Demi - We don’t see Dan as a threat to our power.

By The Original MIA

March 14, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

@Staceye - In ATL I felt like there were less men of quality…and because there were…the ones that did have their stuff together KNEW they were the -ish and thus utilized the opportunity to be playas.

In ATL I felt like there were more men showcasing, driving nice cars while living with their momma’s. UNACCEPTABLE when I have a career and I live on my own in the house I pay for.

In NYC there are so many options of quality women that the men don’t want to settle because they don’t want to feel like they are missing out on something. But I personally think there are more quality men in NYC. You can’t get away with showcasing for too long in one of the most expensive cities on the planet. It becomes clear very quickly if a man has what he says he has or if he is just styling and profiling.

ATL to NYC/NYC to ATL…I didn’t go through an adjustment phase because I went to school in the south.

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

Yes, he read it and said NADA. Some of you explained to me that his silence spoke volumes. I think Staceye said that. Then others told me that a man didn’t want to read his shortcomings and decided simply to ignore what I said. Some said I wounded his “manhood”. All in all I had to reiterate that in that 10 page letter weren’t just his mistakes/problems. Mine were listed as well. In any event, I got some clarity on that from this blog.

Also, when I’m having a bad day, I can come on here and laugh, laugh, and laugh some more sometimes to point of almost choking. It’s all good!

By SeanJohnson3000

March 14, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

Your mama so dumb, she tripped over a cordless telephone cord.

Dan In my highschool work study class, we gave each other nicknames. They use to call me Klingon from Star Trek…that African Booty Scratcher brought back that memory..yea the thing with the butt on his forehead

For Real I have to give her props for finding a way to log onto the internet using her cash register OMG, i think i’m crying laughing. Need..water..please ROTFLMAO! And you ain’t gonna do no drive-by to my house. You picking me up for the crowning ceremony. and I brought lotsa lube for the AFTER party. pnoooont But i feel a lil betta now. I just need to bleach this G-strings real quick.

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this

2C eh!

Sexyleggs you my girl i look for you in this joint daily.

Award winners: we start playing music if you take to long with the mic.

speaking of…

Blog Mic Masters: Female: Foots, Male: Longtime Lurker

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

Yes WiseD that is(was) me. My brothers gave me that name during my angry days. At first it was “Hell’s Fury” then they shortened it to Scorned.

I was going to write a comment about the life of this blog being credited to two individuals and how it is evident. But I don’t want to offend anyone because their input matters also. But here’s a shout out to Mia and WiseDiva. Thank you.

There are too many comments to try to catch up. I have been online all morning trying to find the most expensive home coffee maker that I can. My doctor told me to stop drinking coffee. But I didn’t. The only person I told was my friend Design. Last night we were after dinner I asked the waiter to bring me a cup of coffee and she blurted out “I thought you doctor told you not to drink coffee.” Dang, I’m busted. I get up this morning, make a pot, pour me a cup in my thermal for on the road, go upstairs to grab my jacket, come back down and my coffee is gone. So was the entire coffee maker.

I was like what the hell happened to my coffee…and where is the coffee maker? I asked my son “boy what happened to my coffee?” He didn’t move his head but motioned with his eyes over to The Man. He hid my coffee maker. Talking about blah, blah, blah (that’s all I heard). I want my coffee maker back. I told him we all have to die from something. LOL He said, “You wont be dying on my watch. Not over some coffee.” I told him if he don’t give it back somebody will be dying tah-day. (My black tea for breakfast, my coffee for commuting.)

That little knucklehead would not say where it is because the man was sitting there. It don’t matter though. Imma buy a new one when I go to lunch.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this

the ones that did have their stuff together KNEW they were the -ish and thus utilized the opportunity to be playas.

And there is something wrong with that?

Lena you layed the smack, huh?

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:50 AM | Link to this

@Mia

Now I was with you till that last post. From what I hear from the homie/ homegirls from the NY, for the most part cats up there front more than we do.

I don’t disagree that there is a lot, lot, lot of flaugging being done down here. But you know like I know, cats ride that train in from the one room studio in Jersey to work in NY. Don’t act.

Plus, down here, you gotta have a hustle to make it. Case in point, Russell Simmons runs NY ‘cause he got hustle. If he was from the South, same thing. But to get anywhere near the kind of money cats in the NY be clockin’, down here you got to have 3,4 side hustles. So my thing is, NY or Atl, I’d get mine, and put that on somma my folks to. Some cats from NY get down here and get shook…..

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

@Mia

Now I was with you till that last post. From what I hear from the homie/ homegirls from the NY, for the most part cats up there front more than we do.

I don’t disagree that there is a lot, lot, lot of flaugging being done down here. But you know like I know, cats ride that train in from the one room studio in Jersey to work in NY. Don’t act.

Plus, down here, you gotta have a hustle to make it. Case in point, Russell Simmons runs NY ‘cause he got hustle. If he was from the South, same thing. But to get anywhere near the kind of money cats in the NY be clockin’, down here you got to have 3,4 side hustles. So my thing is, NY or Atl, I’d get mine, and put that on somma my folks to. Some cats from NY get down here and get shook…..

By Dan

March 14, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this

@Mia

Now I was with you till that last post. From what I hear from the homie/ homegirls from the NY, for the most part cats up there front more than we do.

I don’t disagree that there is a lot, lot, lot of flaugging being done down here. But you know like I know, cats ride that train in from the one room studio in Jersey to work in NY. Don’t act.

Plus, down here, you gotta have a hustle to make it. Case in point, Russell Simmons runs NY ‘cause he got hustle. If he was from the South, same thing. But to get anywhere near the kind of money cats in the NY be clockin’, down here you got to have 3,4 side hustles. So my thing is, NY or Atl, I’d get mine, and put that on somma my folks to. Some cats from NY get down here and get shook…..

By For Real

March 14, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs You actually expected him to read a ten page letter from you while the two of you were breaking up?

Name in Lights: Dan/Ared

Best two piece dinnet set: Wise

Did anyone get the keys to the Urang from Musing?

By D Dub of the ATL

March 14, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

what’s up Bloggers… long time no lurk… been caught up in work and some ex-drama…

returns to his corner to lurk

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

In ATL I felt like there were less men of quality…and because there were…the ones that did have their stuff together KNEW they were the -ish and thus utilized the opportunity to be playas.

I agree with this.

And the showcasing thing is also very much a Cali men problem.

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Stace Dominicians are hotter! I must agree. Better curves too. My brother calls me a domatian=Dominican & Haitian. Cee come out of where? Girl everything I do is already on front street. Might be with girlfriend on monday, boyfriend on tuesday. Hey both on wednesday.

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this

Thank you Cemeeli. Now hit me up at sharmynk@bellsouth.net. I even turned my computer on last night to see if you contacted me (something I never do). Isa waiting!!!

Truth it’s time for me to say this. I LOVE YOU AND YOUR POSTS. You are crazy, you shoot straight from the hip, and you speak the Truth (most of the time, but not always)!

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

The Original MIA I love Lipstick Jungle!

Willie I am not Bi-polar…I am the same nut everyday! I am the mist consistent..no mood swings…just straight needs to be medicated! Now if you said the one most likely to have ADHD…then I’d be your girl…complete with my own Adderall! LOL

Truth The Most Bi-Polar Blogger Drum Roll Staceye hello pot..this is Kettle. How ya doin’?

Most Likely to be diagnosed with IDD Demi/Alvin/Deni God and all the other folks living in your head! LOL

Sexxyleggs if you handed me a 10 page letter I would hand it back to…while thinking WTF! LOL

Cemeeli Most Opinionated; Dan I would think that would be me. I got something to say at everything! LOL

Most Dramatic: Slim and Staceye I accept! LOL

Blogger likely to abuse TRUTH LOL

For Real I thought to be Bi-polar you had to go in two directions. 2E’s ain’t got but one gear. Crazy ROTFLAMO!

**WHATEVER DAN!!! LOL

oh they are playing the old school reggae on V103…I’m dancing in the chair again!

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs LOL @ 10 page letter!

Most Missed Blogger: Runnin

By Dan

March 14, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this

As far as liking my name in lights “I do, I really do”….

But that’s becuase I’ve said something that either interested or p/o’d somebody. But no doubt I like to debate different topics. If only to get someone to see outside of the bubble or their own existence. And conversely, the discussions help inform my viewpoints on life by hearing from different perspectives as well.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

The Urang was taking by the repo man…Musing was too focus on getting married.

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs mail call.

6’1, But you “came out”…on the Blog, i think at first noone knew.

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

Blue, ummm kinfolk, you could very well win the “Slanguish” award as well……”know what I’m tombout”

By Demi

March 14, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Hey Page what we doing tonite?

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

LOL @ RAQI!! ohh, man…you are one stubborn broad! That man is looking out for your health! Don’t you dare order a new one! What if he had a vice that his doctor encouraged him to get rid of, wouldn’t you do the same thing?

(I know I am wasting my keystrokes here, LOL)

Hey D Dub!

By Demigod

March 14, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Staceye you miss spelt my name, that wasn’t cool.

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Your mama so dumb, she tripped over a cordless telephone cord.

Dan In my highschool work study class, we gave each other nicknames. They use to call me Klingon from Star Trek…that African Booty Scratcher brought back that memory..yea the thing with the butt on his forehead

For Real I have to give her props for finding a way to log onto the internet using her cash register OMG, i think i’m crying laughing. Need..water..please ROTFLMAO! And you ain’t gonna do no drive-by to my house. You picking me up for the crowning ceremony. and I brought lotsa lube for the AFTER party. pnoooont But i feel a lil betta now. I just need to bleach this G-strings real quick.

By Demi

March 14, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Where is…JustMe? *She always have some crazy drama going.

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this

Ared Yes, I can do blow outs! LOL if you want a good Dominican salon here in ATL go to Juanita’s in Norcross off of Buford Highway on Langford Rd. If you are trying to get yours done while in NY go to Rosario’s on Broadway and Isham St. (Take the A train to the last stop 207 st.)

**Fine since I received the most Bi-polar nods..I will except! I never turn down awards..besides being Bi-polar with a side of IDD helps me get into character for shows!LOL I’d like my name in lights..thank you!

MIA I co-sign your 10:41

Dan Some cats from NY get down here and get shook….. ook that was a great laugh…shook at what?

6’1 LMAO..gotta love ya…you are funny as hell!

**

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this

Hey Demi. Check with Mo on the details for tonight.

Hi D Dub

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this

Stace what do you call a dominician mixed with cuban?

By Demi

March 14, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Page will do…

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

Demigod My bad boo! LOL

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

Raqi, just give up the coffee. The main reason why I never started drinking coffee, was comments from peopld saying “don’t talk to me until I had my first cup.” “I can’t cope until I have my cup of coffee.” I a beyotch w/out my morning coffee.” Growing up I decided I never wanted to say things like that so I opted for tea. Loves me a hot cup of any type of tea!

ForReal, the letter was written 4 years before I asked for a divorce. You guys have me cracking up over here. Guess there most have been another group of bloggers that supported me. I didn’t mean for it be 10 pages, but I was sitting in a hotel room (had a meeting the next day) and I put ALL my concerns to paper. It turned out to be 10 pages. That’s how much crap was going on in my marriage. Everything in there I had voiced many, many times. This time I put it in writing. I was fed up. Now to present, I’m happily divorced.!

By Skegee

March 14, 2008 12:22 PM | Link to this

Wow MIA showed up! Happy Anniversary y’all.

By Dan

March 14, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye

Let’s go with the Mo Money, Mo problems explanation first.

In NY you can work a moderate job and make about 60K, with no car your expenses are the clothes and the apartment that you likely share (if in the city). After moving to the A, you’ve got problems. That salary is nowhere near the same, and now you need a car (the train goes no where you want to be). The car, the insurance, gas, and bills for a home that you can but cheaper here. But you still may have debt at the 50K a year range, so at the end of the month you in the hole.

I’ve seen it, and heard it as a debt management counseler (side hustle 2), so I’m not theorizing, I have actual cases to draw on.

Plus, in NY “shawty” is cute. Come down here with the “yo, son, God, B and all that” we got a problem. lol

By QC

March 14, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

Come on down Demi

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

6’1 a Domiban? (Staceye looking confused like Chrissy from 3’s Company)

By THE MELO

March 14, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

Where is…JustMe? *She always have some crazy drama going. fulltime working at Trappezze/swinging atlanta at nite,so she sleeps during the day and cant blog.

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

Cemelli, you got mail.

Raqi, don’t you dare let WiseDiva’s strokes become wasted letters floating in cyberspace. Anyway, your story was funny!

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

6’1 a Dominiban? (Staceye looking confused like Chrissy from 3’s Company)

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Most Romantic: BigD

Most Bi-polar: Truth (nice one day, mean the next)

Most Friendliest: Staceye, Page, Lady J, QC

Most Likely to SUCCEED: Me, lol.

Most Sisterlike: SexyLeggs

Most Outgoing: ARed

Most Impolite: 2C, sorry

Most Loving: melo, 900

Most Interesting Stories: Du

Most at keeping it real: Rell

Most Insightfull: Kym

By QC

March 14, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

Hey Mia it’s good to read you and i’m glad everything is working out for you….GOOD LUCK

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

Thanks Beautiful!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 12:37 PM | Link to this

Thanks Beautiful!

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Dan Plus, in NY “shawty” is cute uh who told you that lie? Shawty is so NOT cute! Its country! LOL Not all people from NY have no cars. I brought both of my cars down. I have since then got rid of one. But I make the same thing I made in NY but my car insurance is cheaper and my condo payment is cheaper than my rent for my apartment in NY. The only adjustmenst I had to make was having to drive everywhere not having the option to hop the quick train ride and the people.

Thanks Beautiful

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 12:39 PM | Link to this

Thanks Beautiful!

By QC

March 14, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

Thanks Beautiful

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

SJ3STACKS Please..Ok. Cut the nonsense. It’s OV for those southern charmers….as much cash money $hit you talk. You give me more than enough reasons to feel that way. Oh yeah when am I gonna get yo half on da baby! lmao! And it’s not BLOWN it’s BLOW…

For Real Wow…is that suppose to be funny. I see you are in need of some attention too.

And Truth How could I ever forget about you…Keep my name out you $hit pot mouth of yours. That way we will all be good.

SISSY STAC Is it me or what…But I do think NYC have a better selection of men. I love NYC men. The swag, talk, the walk. It’s night and day. I mean it’s a few southern men with a mean swag. But usually they are lacking somewhere down the line. Southern men aren’t what they use to be.

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

I love me some men from NY. I grew up in Harlem. But I like the girls from down south. :))

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

STACEYE & TRUTH *Truth The Most Bi-Polar Blogger Drum Roll Staceye hello pot..this is Kettle. How ya doin’? * Exactly…He is back and forth. The number one fence rider! He know he needs to stop it!

You do blow outs!! Okay that’s what’s up. JUANITA’S..I got to check them out. I go to Lilly’s…they do a bang up job Doris or Audrey. Once I get my micros out I am headed back. Getting your hair done is so relaxing…

By Dan

March 14, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

Well, I’ll tell you what..

With the rise of the internet, hop on and find y’all some of these NY men you are so inerred with, and leave these Southern Cats be.

Na….besides, most women not from the South, don’t carry assets well. Shout out to the juicy GA peaches!

By Blue_Kolla

March 14, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

2 Blue, ummm kinfolk, you could very well win the “Slanguish” award as well……”know what I’m tombout”

Aight bruh, I’ll take that, but since I ain’t no whinin’ azz Kanye talkin’ ‘bout “Where my award?”, I chose to put another worthy brova’s name in the hat. dapps

Lunchtime Observations: None. Couldn’t hang out today. It’s rainin’ and my dumb azz left the $30 windproof in the car.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

So is anyone gonna share what they are doing this weekend? As much as I love the blog, many of the posters are all talk no action. A lot of the experiences seemed to be about something that happened back then instead of what’s happening now.

I remember several posters remarking to Bella and WiseDiva that they never share their experiences it’s always about someone they know. Apparently Mia was out there in the trenches a lot more. We should be too.

So what’s going on with you bloggers this weekend?

crickets LOL

By Teddy

March 14, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

from the long lost corners of Blogville

Whats up Mia? I got word that you would be making a surprise appearance today. Hard to believe that it has actually been 4 years. I’m glad to hear that you are holding things down up in NYC.

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this

Dan whatdahelleva!

By DoobieQueen

March 14, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

Blow I agree NYC has a better selection of men, there is a certain air of confidence. The swag drops the panties, lol! NO dis the southern man but there is just something missing with them. The networking circles are so much better, too.

By The Original MIA

March 14, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

@Dan - bad example. I think that’s smart for someone to live in NJ in a studio or what have you and commute in to NYC to work than try to live in a studio in Manhattan and work in the city. That sounds to me like the person is living within their means.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

See DAN this is why you run a close second for the BI-polar award. lmao! Comments like those…12:57

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

In all seriousness WiseD, in the nearly 7 years that we have been together we have had some doozies of lovers and not so loving quarrels. In all the time together we broke up 3 maybe 4 times, but as you read we have managed to find each other again. But one thing I am absolutely sure of, if I walk in that house today with a coffee maker, he will walk out the door and never come back. And that’s the God’s honest truth. It’s not the “coffee maker” but it would be the seeming to not caring that he cares about me.

Now every time my ulcer acts up I will hear “are you still drinking coffee?” LOL

Truthy I got something to tell you. I am typing it right now. And you too melo.

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

ARed y’all already know that i’ve put dating off until i get home. BUT if a brother steps to me and i get that feelin’ … … … have i mentioned it’s been awhile. lol.

By Dan

March 14, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

@ARed

Believe it or not, not everybody shares every truth about every relationship on here, be it in the beginning, middle, or ended stages.

In an effort to answer your question….nunya. lol

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 1:13 PM | Link to this

Staceye You are intense in most posts is why i said ‘dramatic’…here’s the mic chica!

Most Observing Blogger: Blue_Kolla…that dude don’t miss nothing.

By Teddy

March 14, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

Man, Where are my “southern” manners? Shout out to all the old blog heads from back in the day. Wise keep doing your thang. =)

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

Dan i do and will always. i have nothing to hide. this blog will always be like therapy, and the shyt is FREE!!! thanks DK. lol

By Dan

March 14, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

Now MIA,

We both know that in Atlanta as well as New York, it’s not the cost of living that gets you, it’s the type of lifestyle you lead.

The clothes, the food and partying in the NYC is out of control. Cats in debt up there, like they are down here. The only difference is, like you said, down here one is more apt to live with family members, than in Jersey where (even there) you have a roommate.

But either way, the flaugg will git you.

Oh, and ladies calling the ATL brothers country, I invite aun one of you to go to Memphis or anywhere else in the South for a few days and see if (however unrefined) the ATL doesn’t have a pretty cogent crop of dudes.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

Believe it or not, not everybody shares every truth about every relationship on here, be it in the beginning, middle, or ended stages.

Dan…DUH. I don’t even share that.

But asking folks what they plan to do for the weekend, as it relates to the dating world should not be a stretch if you’re actually dating, going out or meeting people.

But yeah, thanks for answering.

By Dan

March 14, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

An interesting tidbit from the world of law:

Of particular concern to the fellas. Remember to get it in writing!

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22488113/

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 14, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Dan….There is always some one out there that is worse. Duh! Not a good analogy. I like the old school southern men. But they dont exist. They all went out with the COLD WAVE.

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this

2 Can’s Superlaitves

Blogger most likely to tell you to kick rocks: Jazzy

Blogger most likely to have a flea market booth in Decatur somewhere: Slim

Blogger most likely to be smart as hell in the business world, but cain’t function in the streets: Darrell

Blogger most likely to remind you of your cool azz Auntie: SexyLeggs

Blogger most likely to download a lot of porn: Melo & Rell

Blogger most likely to pray for y’all loons: Tazz

Blogger most likely to say some good shyt and dip: SexyCool

Blogger most likely to vote for Hillary Clinton: abc (j/k folk, got mad respect for ya!)

Blogger most likely to post first, only to say good morning: QC

Blogger most likely to have a gang of naked broads runnin around the house: Truth

Blogger most likely to hear “Bless yo heart”: Staceye

Blogger most likely to “thoat” chop you if you met them i person: Wise Diva

Blogger most likely to say some good shyt, but leave you scratchin ya head at the same time: DasV

Blogger most likely confused, and still don’t get it: Beautiful (I got yo impolite!)

Blogger most likely to shake sum’in behind closed doors: A Red

Blogger most likely to buy out the bar and send a bottle to ya table: Blue Kolla

Blogger most likely to have that fiyah: Raqi

Blogger most likely to say some shyt, but ya may have to read it a few times to see where he comin from: Dan

Blogger most likely to work in Slim’s flea market booth: Demi & For Real

By SeanJohnson3000

March 14, 2008 1:40 PM | Link to this

@Blown..when you watch the movie She Hate Me and feel you are ready for that type of relationship we can go half on something.Until then lemme get 2 grilled chicken wraps and a Mac Shammrock Shake.

By BlackIce

March 14, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

Wow, what a blast from the past!

I like to think that I am among the original bloggers and I am happy that it has lasted this long and that my girl, the Wisest One, has been holding it down since MIA progressed to NY.

So glad to read that all is going well with you MIA! Girl, you know how to get your hustle on! So glad to have participated in the beginnings of something that has spawned some great friendships for me and some different perspectives on various situations.

Continued success MIA!

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

Is this southern dude, northern dude stuff the lamest shyt you’ve ever heard or what? Whatever you’re looking for is right here in the atl, or ny, or guatemala. It’s all around you. I’ve always said that dudes can literally find a special chick right here in the atl amidst all the bs. Its true for women too. The thing is that lame azz game your runnin has got be modified. Or, to put it in different terms, you gotta repackage your product because nobodies buying what your selling. Is this 2008 or 1992?

Beautiful thats the magic of dealing with the Truth. You want to keep it civil and we can do that. You want to start cutting off limbs and we can do that too. I’m game either way. And dam good at both. Bi-polar no. Flexible like a muffugga, yes lol.

I don’t mind asking for azz award goes to Melo I’ve never seen a cat ask for so much azz. One minute he’s helping em with a problem and the next he’s giving em the key to a hotel room. That’s one funny fella.

Dan a cat I worked with was asked by a d** to get her pregnant. She agreed that it was just the baby and whatnot and no child support would be asked for. He did and she did too, ask for child support. Nut on their azz and you don’t have to worry about that stuff.

By Tazzee

March 14, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

Afternoon folks!

I’m in training all day today and as I was drifting off in thought I remembered that MIA was making an appearance today.

Hey babysis! Thanks for dropping by today. I’ll see you when I make it up there to see ‘Cat’ - Love you and keep doing what you’re doing. Oh and Happy Belated B-day!

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

2C i proved myself right!!!! if i was such a confused blogger coming up in here, why not help me instead of looking for ways to bash until the white meat show?

By Rell

March 14, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this

@2…..YOU CRAZY….the porn thing was suppose to stay in house…LMAO

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

Beautiful, they’re jokes, sugar, calm down…….but ummm, holla at my secretary to schedule a lunch appt, and we’ll see what we can do to help you out……

By Rell

March 14, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

@beautiful..thank you..i try to keep it real and for those that know me off blog…know what it is

@truth…mayne i dont even buy into that north south bs…..that is some b******….period

By Dan

March 14, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

We have a culture that values celebrity over compassion; that values notoriety over caring. What can we learn from all of this? The entire advertising industry is based on the idea that if only you buy more, get more, do more—then you’ll be happy.

Well, it’s never enough because it will never fill the emptiness that only a sense of meaning can satisfy. At the end of life, when people look back to see what mattered for them and brought meaning, it’s not about what they bought and what they owned. It’s about what they did to help other people to live and how they related to other people and grew in wisdom. It’s all about the love they gave and received, not anything else. One heart at a time.

—-Coldest line ever^

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I’m wit 2e’s on this one. Now how is Slim Dramatic? Hmmm…

Ared I don’t have any dating plans for the weekend. I’ll be in ‘Bama tomorrow celebrating my granny’s 70th birthday with the fam. I’m still trying to figure out if i should do my Michael Jackson Impersonation my mom keep beggin me to do. Decision’s Decision’s.

Slim working on her welcome speech…clearing her throat…”Do my Old Folks run this berfday party…H3ll yeah….Assisted livin ain’t hittin on…Shyt…ain’t hittin on Shyt….” j/k my granny ain’t in no A.L. lol

Slim now thinking if granny was in a wheelchair i could do my welcome speech with Ludacris’ Roll Out playing in the background

By "Longtime Lurker"

March 14, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

What it do folks…

Glad to see M.I.A. holding it down in the NY!

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

I don’t have any dating plans for the weekend. I’ll be in ‘Bama tomorrow celebrating my granny’s 70th birthday with the fam. I’m still trying to figure out if i should do my Michael Jackson Impersonation my mom keep beggin me to do.

Well, thanks SlimOne. 70 years is quite a cause for celebration. You never know some 5th cousin might show up at the party and be kind of cute. LOL

It’s just nice to see what some folks got going off the blog. Since those are the experiences that shape us.

By DasKrait2

March 14, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this

I don’t hang here anymore but just dropping by to say:

HI MIA. (chuckling)

By Kym

March 14, 2008 2:04 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the shout outs QC and Beautiful. An here I thought I would get itchy’s Blogger

By Simp

March 14, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

Wow yall are letting it fly today. Truth Thanks for the love, I guess. Blogger that let home with their Prozac: Beautiful Blogger that has google on their speed dial: Darrell Blogger that wish all the men would leave: 6’1 Blogger that needs to be on SNL: Slim Blogger that need to trash their PC: * LadyJ* Blogger that is sexy to a T: SexyLeggs Blogger that is having a how to date me class: ARed Blogger you may find in a buffet line: Ceemeeli Blogger that will fight you in an alley: *ImP404

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

Thanks QC

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 2:13 PM | Link to this

Thank you Beautiful and 2C. Those were cute!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:20 PM | Link to this

simp you funny as hell three times over brotha!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

simp you funny as hell three times over brotha!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

simp you funny as hell three times over brotha!

By Beautiful

March 14, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

i’m going to go ahead and retire my name today. i believe i have received the information i need on dating to make my next relationship successful. i appreciate you guys soooooooooo much for the .02 you’ve kicked my way. Mia it was nice to read you and congrats on your career and SO. the time i spend blogging will be more for studying. take care y’all!!! bye

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

Simp Speaking of SNL, I use to be in a drama class…went to Avondale School of Performing Arts …so in my drama class we had to do a video with your own spin on it. Me and my partner dressed up in fat suits..had our clothes on backwards and danced to Kris Kross’s song Warm It Up Kris We had plates of food & fire acting like we were 2 fat Kris Kross heating up food and eating ourselves to oblivion. LMAO! I shole wish I could get my hand on that tape. If i ever decided to run for president, i’m sure the tape would surface talkin bout i’m making fun of the overweight folks…Dayum, there goes their vote.

By AmazonRed

March 14, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Did Beautiful just pull a Truth like Hollywood exit?

There are no “good-byes” on here, woman! Only “see you laters.” :-)

But good luck out there. Just remember you can have all the practical advice in the world, but your next relationship won’t work out if it’s not meant to.

Besides, no leaving w/out finally revealing that crush!

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

Ared - Weekend plans - My guy and I will be going to a birthday party given by a good friend and former carpool buddy. She is hiring a chef and a killer dj. Should be a lot of fun! Otherwise, just chillin’.

Truth - You are my blog husband and I’m feeling neglected. Have you dumped me already? I’m not feeling your love lately. Talking about paying other blog-women’s bills with the money I made for us! Please make me feel appreciated. I ain’t too proud to beg.LOL!!!

By Simp

March 14, 2008 2:34 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Brink yo azzzzz back here. You know you are Addicted Awwww thank you LadyJ

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

Bloggers most likely to provide historical proof with their post: ABC and Darrell alot of us just come in here spitting shyt but those 2 provide proof and most of the time links to the info. LOL

Blogger that flipped the script on that azz: Binford New year and new cat. I’m proud of ya dude.

*Raqi are you still typing that info for me and Melo from an hour ago? I hope typing isn’t in your job description.

SJ once again y’all got me rolling over here. Until then lemme get 2 grilled chicken wraps and a Mac Shammrock Shake.

Beautiful who upset you baby? Where you going?

By Simp

March 14, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

My plans for the weekend, just in case someone wants to know. I will be at the M Bar buying all ladies their fist four drinks. Dont miss it be there!!!!!!!!

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

Aww Simp, you made me blush!

This is so true Blogger that need to trash their PC: * LadyJ LOL.

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this

what day simp….I may meet you on peters street hun….lol

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

what day simp….I may meet you on peters street hun….lol

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

what day simp….I may meet you on peters street hun….lol

By Simp

March 14, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

LadyJ Tonight baby. Come on.

Blooger most likely to go on a date on crutches: LadyJ

By DasV

March 14, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

DasKrait wassup, homes?? remember that time when for the longest you thought i was male, cause of the ‘Das’ thing we both carry?? that was funny when you found out different. heehheeheee

SHOUT OUTs to PPG: lahlah, storm, QC, ravi, storm, musingLee, and *runnin.

i miss the Blog poolside BBQs too.

2CPTG you too funny wit those awards bruh…. thanks for mines. and you aint lyin! LOL

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

Kimmie I gotta admit that i believed you when you told me that mens cologne on you was from walking thru the fragrance dept at Macy’s. I’m starting to think it comes from another dude. This is the last time tho. Next time I catch you in bed with another man I’m leaving, the room. What’s up wify poo. I should have never trusted a red bone anyway. LOL

Don’t worry about Beautiful. She’ll be back. This stuff is worse than crack. I’ve tried to go cold turkey twice and just wound up shaking and sweating in my bed waiting for the blog to open up the next morning.

Simp here you go again. LOL

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

ok good people have a great weekend! Nice meetting you MIA!:)

Peace

Sexy you know it takes more than triple post to get rid of J…LOL…Take Care!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

ok good people have a great weekend! Nice meetting you MIA!:)

Peace

Sexy you know it takes more than triple post to get rid of J…LOL…Take Care!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:53 PM | Link to this

simp STOP IT MAN!!!! LMAO!!!! J rocking heels today with the curls so I am back jack!!!!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

ok good people have a great weekend! Nice meetting you MIA!:)

Peace

Sexy you know it takes more than triple post to get rid of J…LOL…Take Care!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

simp STOP IT MAN!!!! LMAO!!!! J rocking heels today with the curls so I am back jack!!!!

By Rell

March 14, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

my weekend plans….OLD SCHOOL…best party in the A…

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

Slim I am laughing loud as a muthaflucka in here at your 1:57. Ain’t nothing like those granny’s girl. Kiss her and give her a hug for all of us that no longer have ours.

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

simp STOP IT MAN!!!! LMAO!!!! J rocking heels today with the curls so I am back jack!!!!

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

DasV Girl, those were the days…lol Remember the little clique gyrl power or something like that? Kym used to go off on those girls 24/7! LOL Hey Kym!

LadyJ Girl, you and those triple posts! Didn’t Jazzy and Diva try to help you with that? lol lawd

Truth lol mean muggin

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

Truth - Well, with you AWOL, what was I supposed to do?!! Anyway, that’s why I love you, us redbones understand each other!LOL

Now I understand - blog withdrawal - why didn’t you just tell me, instead of saying it was a nightmare! Always wanting me to “hold” you!LOL

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

dag simp maybe aother sunny Friday…I have plans @ the Dugans in Stn Mtn tonight with my girls although you are welcome to join us hommie! the m bar is not moving and I have to check out Pearl too…heard the crab legs were great!

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 14, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

Awwwww!!!! Simp (Sounding like Jim Carrey on the Mask) “They like me, They reeeally like me”

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

dag simp maybe aother sunny Friday…I have plans @ the Dugans in Stn Mtn tonight with my girls although you are welcome to join us hommie! the m bar is not moving and I have to check out Pearl too…heard the crab legs were great!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

dag simp maybe aother sunny Friday…I have plans @ the Dugans in Stn Mtn tonight with my girls although you are welcome to join us hommie! the m bar is not moving and I have to check out Pearl too…heard the crab legs were great!

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Page why is your memeory so VIVID…I would have never thought you cared hell I don’t know why this work PC is off the meters…See you later and I will get you back!!! LMAO

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

March 14, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Rell save me a dance at old school homie! :0)

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Page why is your memeory so VIVID…I would have never thought you cared hell I don’t know why this work PC is off the meters…See you later and I will get you back!!! LMAO

By Simp

March 14, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

LadyJ, What time?????????? I dont eat crab leggs in public. Your hands smell like bad puddy.

By Lady J

March 14, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

Page why is your memeory so VIVID…I would have never thought you cared hell I don’t know why this work PC is off the meters…See you later and I will get you back!!! LMAO

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

LOLOL LadyJ Girl, puhhhhhhhhleeeze not the crab legs! Girl, I thought you were NEVER gonna finish crackin’ those crab legs at Barnacles that one night! LOL, girl, you were crackin’ crab legs from 7:15 pm to 10:20 pm. lmaoooo

Simp Beware! Please don’t take LadyJ to eat crab legs! you will never leave lolol

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 14, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Sounding like Ike Turner Bootiful get yo azz back here, I said get yo azz back here, Woman don’t play wit me!

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Blow Me * Is it me or what…But I do think NYC have a better selection of men* no mami its not you…I agree! I am used to my papis back home. It’s cool when I meet a papi here that is not from here though.

Dan * most women not from the South, don’t carry assets well* that is a myth. Not all NY girls are skinny. I for one am not skinny! I have lots of assets! LOL

Doobiequeen The swag drops the panties now that’s funny as hell!

MIA I co-sign your 1:06.

Cemeeli You are intense in most posts is why i said ‘dramatic’ Ok..agreed! LOL

**2C I am ROTFLMAO at your nominations!

Slim I would LOVE to see that tape!

By Royal Chic

March 14, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Mia, Congrats on all the success you’re having in NY and wishing you the best with Audacity…..

The single most important thing I’ve learned from the blog is that…..we all have the same problems….

By Simp

March 14, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

LadyJ is such a sweetheart. She can spend the night if she likes. I’ll be back in the morning to start all over.

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Here are my blog movie matches:

By QC

March 14, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

Hey DasV good to read you!

your welcome 2cptg & thank you!

By Simp

March 14, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

Where is Old Skool being held?

By Dan

March 14, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Y’all be easy

Ms. MIA, good to meet chou, and keep it pushin.

To everyone else, have a fun and safe weekend.

The D has left the building, literally…

By The Truth

March 14, 2008 3:17 PM | Link to this

Kimmie I never told you because when it happened you always popped that bra and put one of those thangs in my mouth. You know the Truth loves some nipple. LOL

By Rell

March 14, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

@Mo…..ONLY if you let me pick your short arse up to dance….lol….but yeah we can do that…no problems..and any other bloggers that show up…dances for all….i get in my zone there…totally different dude..and when the go-go comes on….i lose it…fa real…

By QueDogTeaching

March 14, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while speed blogging. I am glad to know the origins of this blog.

Some of the people on this blog I would love to kick it with in person, others I would be scared to meet in person. But I think what keeps us all going is that there are varying opinions on the same subjects.

This blog is at times very funny, and at times very much true. Sooner or later the real truth comes out of every blogger. This blog has helped me to understand, and to see the good and the bad about dating in the A (And that people trip on Atlanta being called THE A). I travel a lot and there is no place like Atlanta. Even when I have been up north people talk of coming down here. So when I read people that say that this is not the place to be, I figure something must be going right from where they are standing.

On-Topic (I think) My plans for this weekend is to hang out. If there is a party I am trying to hit it big. I do have a b-day party to attend on Saturday night, but it will be an uppity affair, and I don’t do those well. Regular people, acting rich while getting drunk is just not my thing.

This is the greatest, most beautiful, gorgeous, ugliest, nastiest, filthiest city in the country. Where you can find the woman of your dreams dancing in the club, or you can loose your life sitting at the stop light …………..Katt Williams circa 2006

By Staceye

March 14, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Raqi I did a scene from Girl Interrupted and got great reviews! LOL I love that movie!

For the love of God…Lady J, please only hit post once! It takes about 2 minutes but it will go through. You are hitting post 3 and 4 times! LMAO That ought to cure your blog tourettes!

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

“Whoop that trick!”

By Rell

March 14, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

@raqi

HITCH - RELL!!!!!!

and for those that talk to me off blog again can attest to the ish i spit…..but yeah whatever you say

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Staceye LOL girl, there is no help for LadyJ!

QDT LOL @ uppity affair

By DasV

March 14, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

PAGE LOL. yea, i ‘member! you got me smilin at the ole days up in this camp we were either laughin all day long or at each other’s throat.

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

Truth - Okay, I guess I can’t help it if you’s a boob man. We cool again. Just watch how you spend our money!LOL

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 3:35 PM | Link to this

Rell See that’s what I am talking about. That attitude right there. I remember the days when your most common saying was “Where’s the love?” Now look…LOL

By QC

March 14, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

2cptg you have the best list…

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 3:41 PM | Link to this

DasV Girl, you know it! It was like one extreme to the other! LahLah used to be like if a dude wants to get with me, he needs to make me dinner and make creme brulee (sp) and I don’t date dudes who drive Honda Civics! I would be like omg stfu lol. Then Kym would come in and set it off…lol

By Rell

March 14, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

@raqi…lady i dont know you to keep an attitude with you….

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

what a day! i’ve got to come in and re-set…wheewwww!

Lady & Page/Tazzee if yall aint the most hanging/traveling blog chics…at least the ones that share it…cool. Page you do more cross country traveling so you get the award for; Most Likely to be Bloggin’ from Novia Scotia or Bomsquat Geneva

Staceye girlie NY mean are nice too. But don’t sleep on a cool sounthern charm. please

Slim…you Comedy Drama…Chappelle’s lil sis.

Raqi…hmmmm wondering who i would be in First Wives…

Lol @ Simp yea i am hungry…i need a snack…any CookieCake left?

Hey Mo = Best Blogtender…

By Rell

March 14, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

@page….dayum you took me back with i dont date dudes that drive honda civics…what was that posters name again….i think that was the funniest ish i ever read

By Raqi

March 14, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

Dude why you so serious??? Like I said the way you post now and the way you posted then is totally different. That’s. All.

But like you said…whatever.

By mytwocents

March 14, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

Hola~ Most of y’all are pure comedy. That’s how I got sucked in a few months ago. This laughing out loud is gonna be my downfall, tho. All the jokes help me thru the day, but SlimO has Got to be smokin Craxxx!

Now it’d jump start my weekend if one of the gentlemen said sumthin extra crazy so Kara would come out to play.

By Rell

March 14, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

@raqi…i posted different before…hmmm let me think on that….and again i am not for serious over here….actually….well like i said i am not serious…just responding to your comment that is all…have a very nice weekend love….k

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

Cee LOL I know! I am actually in town this weekend…going to the Atlanta premier of Meet the Browns, that should be good! I’m hitting up my ex-city Phoenix next month…lol. Shaq is gonna take us all the way babyyyyy lol yeah!

Rell That was LahLah, I think. BK mentioned it earlier too. I wonder what ever happened to that little clique? That was also when Demi/Alvin used to fly all around Atlanta with a red cape on and some blue tights with his package bulging out while going to deliver lunch to QC and his other blog girls…lol

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

mytwoscents @ Now it’d jump start my weekend if one of the gentlemen said sumthin extra crazy so Kara would come out to play.

it’s the truth…she be having me crakin’ up.

Help us out, who gets the award for abusing “Lol”?…

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

ahh!! Waiting to Exhale!! Alright, that’s hilarious! panching Raqi

ohh did I ever share my poem about that? let me go dig that up, I tried to get my Sexycool poem writing on, and it’s the only one in my repertoire I will share LOL

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 4:05 PM | Link to this

Page gurl Shaq was pssd @ the officials the other night. i was like uh-oh…big man gone snap!

By 2CPTG©

March 14, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

Soror….if you think Shaq gon take y’all to the promised land, you’re sadly mistaken…..not with them Lakers and Rockets ballin like they are right now…..

By DasV

March 14, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

PAGE shhhhhhhyt. Lah was the first real diva i ever met! and i am still in contact with her and Storm…. they doing GREAT! and remember FyreStarrter??! she bout it, bout it too!

im the only one that aint growed up enough to leave this blog alone for good. LOL

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

I’m not waiting to exhale, I actually breathe daily

In and out Deeply and richly

Each moment My heart beating

Strong and steady Like me Courageous and consistent

I am not waiting to exhale Not holding my breath Till it hurts Expecting the worst

But..I am waiting to inhale, though

I am anticipating

Smelling you Taking in your natural scent Fresh out of the shower Your body glistening wet

I am waiting to inhale you

I am waiting to inhale the smell of the lily that you will leave next to my head

I am waiting to smell the Tantalizing scent From our breakfast in bed

I am not waiting to exhale for love I am waiting to inhale our love

I will dedicate this post to Raqi (Coffee-free) and her man.

Alright, who else have some poems to share? It’s already love jones weather kind of day, let’s keep it going!!

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 4:18 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli you Comedy Drama…Chappelle’s lil sis I’M BROKE BEEEEITTCH! In the voice of my big brother Dave

2Cent Ion mess wit no craaxxx, but i might sniff a magic marker erry now and den.

By Blue_Kolla

March 14, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

DasV we were either laughin all day long or at each other’s throat.

You ain’t bullsh!ttin! Remember that time when Agg googled LL on his published work that he said that he wrote for his doctorate?! And then there was this big blog battle about what it took to get a PHD! Mann this joint was stupid. Yeah yoll mofos have grown up a whole lot. LMAO

By QC

March 14, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

Good night Bloggers…have a great weekend…HOLLA

By mytwocents

March 14, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

who gets the award for abusing “Lol”?… Actually, my vote goes to every hot head who ever made somebody re-explain their post as a freakin joke. Lawd, does it really need 5 LOLs or more for us not to get tight? It’s entertainment, people…

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

LOL @ magic marker, Slimone, will you please at least consider doing standup comedy as a side hustle? I don’t know how many times I have almost choked reading your posts! maybe you can Put a warning on your comments. LOL

By Page1908

March 14, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

BK LOL I remember that! That was classic. I think that was the same day that LL was bragging saying he only pays cash for all of his cars and houses. lmao

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

2C/Page Don’t sleep on the Rockets! dem boys gotta sista up all late at night tryin to hang w/the west coast pc time zone. Some good games. And what’s up with M. Davis beard? New look? somebody gonna get their fanger stuck up in that forest. 1970?

Slim big bruh got chu.

By QC

March 14, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

Night night BK…Smooches

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

Lawd, does it really need 5 LOLs or more for us not to get tight? It’s entertainment, people… AMEN!! applauding (giving mytwocents a fist pound)

By DuShawn

March 14, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

Wuzzup blog,

I see some of you remember the stories i’ve shared. lol….truth is stranger than fiction.

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

Wise between you and Sexycool…yall chics put down a poem. Topic idea?

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

YOU GOT ME

You penetrated my world with a smile. Caught me with no defenses around. I felt you feeling me, I let you feel me feeling you. The chemistry so amazing, Could’ve thought it was voodoo. Spellbound….fences down…lustful mounds

Anxiously longing to be near you. Anticipating your next move. So entranced by your stare, Too timid to return your glare. Your touch so paralyzing, I think I’m running out of air. It’s too much….feel my clutch….about to erupt!

Wanting to explode with you. Shattering everything I thought I knew. Desiring you to let me inside your mind, Just to get closer to your soul. So passionate and blazing, To steal my heart is not your goal. Falling deeper….falling hard….back on guard!

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

YOU GOT ME

You penetrated my world with a smile. Caught me with no defenses around. I felt you feeling me, I let you feel me feeling you. The chemistry so amazing, Could’ve thought it was voodoo. Spellbound….fences down…lustful mounds

Anxiously longing to be near you. Anticipating your next move. So entranced by your stare, Too timid to return your glare. Your touch so paralyzing, I think I’m running out of air. It’s too much….feel my clutch….about to erupt!

Wanting to explode with you. Shattering everything I thought I knew. Desiring you to let me inside your mind, Just to get closer to your soul. So passionate and blazing, To steal my heart is not your goal. Falling deeper….falling hard….back on guard!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

March 14, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli!! Thanks for the vote for Best Blog-tendar, :0)

Rell I’on know about picking me up but I can give you a helluva workout on the dance floor! I do Go-Go too! ;0)

WiseDiva I am snapping my fingers for that poem chica!

By Blue_Kolla

March 14, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

Queen Have a great weekend, and be safe out here. These youngin’s are stupid for real, and I don’t mean funny.

By Rell

March 14, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

@mo….well we will see wont we..lol

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

March 14, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

Rell gotcha boo! ;0)

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone.

Everyone gets kisses on the forehead this evening.

Get some rest and stay ALERT!!!!

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

aww snap, Slimone! Loves it!!

By SexyLeggs

March 14, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Before I go, nice poem SlimOne

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 14, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

Good nite everyone have a great weekend. I have to stay to 6 but dont mind because it is not sunny outside and I have no place to go until tomorrow. C U monday Mernin!!!!!!!

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

…watch this…

Wait minute how did Page get the Most Friendliest? shoooot my gurl don’t snapped on a couple folks in here LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!! <- that’s for you mytwocents …your Most Likely Blogger to be on the Oprah show “The Undergrond World of Bloggin’. Dang!

By kimmie

March 14, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Slim - I gotta let my man read that poem! HOTT!!!!

By SlimOne

March 14, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

Wise LOL @ Aw Snap…you took it back to 92-93 didn’t ya…preciate cha tho. See I do have a lil brain in this air head of mine. LOL

SexyL tanks chica :-D

They like me, they really like me!

By Blue_Kolla

March 14, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

E’rybody Be safe and have a great weekend.

By Wise Diva

March 14, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

Have a great weekend everyone!

Thanks for four years of fun!

CHEERS!

By Cemeeli

March 14, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Hey kimmie.

Ya’ll be easy.

By mytwocents

March 14, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

Tee hee hee =) Have a fab one!

By Black Girl

March 14, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

2CPTG Black Girl put on SpirFire polish for you last night.

…look it up baby… Muah!

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March 25, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

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