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Countering the stereotype

By Bella | Thursday, March 6, 2008, 08:00 AM

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

There is a young man in my circle of friends who just wants to get married. Badly. He’s using a tactic in which he approaches a woman and expresses interest in dating her—very seriously, as in, to see if the two of them could be married soon. No dating around: immediate exclusivity for the purpose of seeing if a long-term partnership would work.

So he’s a little serious. This, in itself, is not the worst thing I’ve ever heard. But he’s already approached multiple women I know, all of them so drastically different that it makes me realize there are some issues here! How many women in one year could you possibly want to marry?

Now, if I heard this somewhere else, I would assume this guy is looking for sex and is offering exclusivity up front in order to seal the deal. But this guy has chosen to wait until marriage to have sex, so that’s not part of the equation here!

One of my friends originally felt very flattered by his offer, as if he had singled her out among many women. But when she found out he was just going from woman to woman once the first one said no, she was no longer flattered but kind of appalled!

Sometimes we stereotype women as the ones who want to be in a committed relationship or married (and many of us do!), but in all honesty, some men want to be in a relationship just as badly as we do!

Women, do you know men who seem overeager to be in a relationship? How do you think the stereotype about what women will do to be in a relationship has been exaggerated? Have you run into men who assume that you’re dying to date them simply because you’re female and you must want to find a mate?

Men, do you know guys who will jump at the chance to be in any relationship? What has caused them to lower their standards so as to date almost any woman? Do you know men who have professed love multiple times in one year? From the male perspective, what do you think causes this “overeagerness”?

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By Dan

March 6, 2008 8:23 AM | Link to this

When wrong, I say so.

So to is there praise for the righteous.

But be real, maybe he was after them for those fie, fie tax deductions!

By QC

March 6, 2008 8:46 AM | Link to this

Morning have a great day all

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

I don’t see anything strange about this simply because when a guy is ready, he is ready. I think I’ve said on here time and time again, men DECIDE to get married. If a woman meets a man at the right time… BAM! A wedding x months down the road.

Ladies, we all know that we can say we’re not ready for a relationship, and we’re just enjoying our single life, and we just want to date and have fun right now, and we’re focusing on xyz instead of a man… but if the right man comes along, we will change our tune. Quick.

Dudes on the other hand… if they say they don’t want a relationship and aren’t looking for one. Believe.That. $hit.

It’s not that Divas friend has met the woman of his dreams and is now ready to settle down - he has DECIDED he wants to get married. Period.

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

Bella It is an obvious fact that your friend just wants to get married. His love of being married is more important to him than the love he should have for the woman he chooses to marry. Maybe he believes in growing to love her. There is nothing wrong with that if that’s the chance he is willing to take.

The down side is all of the trials he is going to face marrying a woman he has not taken the time to get to know. Not even a little bit. I was with Mason a little over 4 years before we got married and we are still learning things about each other. So although I think he is setting himself up for a treacherous journey, I wish him all the best.

As far as stereotypes, I find it hilarious when I hear men stating that no man wants to be married. I know men that truly want to be married and they are doing it. Willingly.

I mentioned just recently about my friend who has a S/O that is pressing the marriage issue instead of her. He is ready to settle down. Can’t hate him for that.

By Simp

March 6, 2008 8:55 AM | Link to this

Bella Are your circle of friends aware that you put them on blast on a regular? Dating with a purpose If you’re around a group of people for a while. You get to see them in different phase of their life. In any circle we insitute a pecking order as who we would like to date first. Although it never comes. It a guy decides he wants to chose someone out of the group, I dont see a problem with that. If he is ready to settle down, so what. We say we are tired of people playing games and playing on words. I don’t think dude just want to get married for the hell of it. Sounds like he is willing to work at it and to take the sex out. He knows what he want and I dont see it as overeargerness. Make yall minds up already. Now who can I take to lunch in the Cumberlad area……LOL

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this

ImaP I have to agree with you. I was of the mindset that I was fine the way I was. Dating Mason was working out and I didn’t necessarily have to or want to get married. He asked me and we were married 10 later. So I agree.

By Binford2K8

March 6, 2008 9:14 AM | Link to this

Sounds like Bella’s friend is the hare! The girls I’ve dated always consider me slow-as-mo-lass-ess.

I know plenty of guys who have settled because they wanted to fill a void or deficiency they have. And they pay …they always pay!

By melo

March 6, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

Now who can I take to lunch in the Cumberlad area thats better Simp..why add the lol when u serious, are u shy?!!!

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this

I agree wholeheartedly with ImApeach regarding men deciding to get married and once they do, it’s a done deal. But I still find Bella’s friend to be a bit odd in his approach. Randomly, approaching any and every woman he knows with this proposal makes him seem somewhat desperate.

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this

I agree wholeheartedly with ImApeach regarding men deciding to get married and once they do, it’s a done deal. But I still find Bella’s friend to be a bit odd in his approach. Randomly, approaching any and every woman he knows with this proposal makes him seem somewhat desperate.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

I’ll readily admit that I’m one of those men who is ready to be married. Call me ‘crazy’, but it’s the truth.

I’ve been on my own now for several years (10), and in that time I’ve dated only twice. So, although the desire to be married is definitely there - and strongly so - the desire to actually have someone to love is what is first and foremost with me. It’s the “being in love” that I miss moreso than being married, though I definitely desire both.

By kinderbabe

March 6, 2008 9:24 AM | Link to this

great post peach:) i agree totally. how have you been? haven’t read you in a while.

By Binford2K8

March 6, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

FYI for the wimmenz….

Besides the thought in his head, a man is pot-committed when he puts the ring on her finger. At the point, for all intent and purpose, he is married.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 9:28 AM | Link to this

Well good morning everyone! Sorry to hijack the blog so early this morning but I wanted to update y’all on Midnight Rider we had a lot of fun with this yesterday.

As you know, I was suspicious of this poster from jump, and I’d like to let you know my suspicions were right. Midnight Rider is Rell! That’s right. Rell made up a blog name, picked a blog fight with himself and then gave me a new email address so that he could FINALLY get an email from AmazonRed.

Did I mention this dude is like 35 and MARRIED playing such games?

He had the nerve to get mad when I called him a stalker yesterday. Now do you see why? This 35-year old MARRIED man has been trying to get my picture and contact information for MONTHS now. Do you see why I’m creeped out about that? If not, let’s review:

    • He spends too much time asking other posters that met me what I look like.
    • He repeatedly asks me to email him. Why would I do that?
    • When the above methods didn’t work, he started saying “ARed, you have mail” like we have some type of blog relationship.
    • He freaks out whenever another poster wants to contact me offline.

And now this.

So tell me blog family…what do you think? I think he’s gone WAY past the point of fun and game and has gone into dangerous territory.

At the very least his MLB card should be pulled, but I have half a mind to contact his WIFE and let her know what a CAD her man is. I’m sure she already knows and I bet they sleep in separate bedrooms. He’s the only married person on here that DOWNPLAYS the fact that he’s married. In fact, he’d rather be known as a flirt! You don’t see posters like Raqi and melo behaving that way.

So Blog family weigh in! We all had so much to say yesterday when it was all fun and games. Now what do you think? And do you see why he gives me the heebie jeebies? At the very least don’t you think he crossed the line?

Speak on it.

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this

And your friend proves my point, a man needs a woman like a woman needs to shop.

Some Saturdays I head out looking to buy a particular item. If Macys doesn’t have it I don’t just go back home, I check in Talbots. And then Nordstrom. And then Eddie Bauer. Ann Taylor, Neiman Marcus, St. John…You see what I am saying.

Oh, almost forgot. “LOL””

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 9:33 AM | Link to this

Morning I different take on Bella’s friend. ALL of the men I’ve ever met who are waiting until marriage for sex tend to have an urgency for marriage. So, although it seems commendable that they’re taking the sex out of pursuing a woman, they’re really making sex the priority by trying to marry quickly.

By Rell

March 6, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Wow, Ared…..i got you that paranoid….come on lady….now why would i do that?

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog…

QC ;)

LMAO @ Peach Dudes on the other hand… if they say they don’t want a relationship and aren’t looking for one. Believe.That. $hit.

Plenty of dudes would like to be married, but not to any woman, and anybody that is, is asking for financial and emotional catastrophe.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

Dreams - I was thinking the same thing. Dude is in a rush to get married because he’s HORNY! LOL

I mean, he probably does really want to be married, but he’s really horny at this point too. LOL

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

Binford I couldn’t agree with you more. This cat is gonna pay.

Ladies, there’s a difference between a dude deciding to get married and a guy that’s scared to be with himself. I had a buddy in germany that decided he was tired of dating and the random sex and refused to participate in the available activities until he was married. Six months later he met Ella and their still married today. He didn’t do it out of loneliness but it was a decision that’s what he wanted. That was in 1983 btw. He’s now sending me pics of his son who’s going to college. This cat here is just looking for someone to land on. I could even see if it was a “business” move but this doesn’t seem to be the case. I bet if Bella came clean she’d say ol boy has some weak tendencies.

Simp you starting early tis morning. LOL

By Binford2K8

March 6, 2008 9:39 AM | Link to this

If that is in fact true AR , it justifies a full case of the heebes and the jeebes.

It’s beyond the comprehension of most normal people to become obsessed with a person on a blog. This is VIRTU-LAND! It’s the SIMS.

By Simp

March 6, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this

morning melo THe reason I LOL, was in a reply to a comment Truth made late yesterday. I am shy. I also wear my emotions on my sleve.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this

Rell - Why would you do the other things you’ve done?

By Willie Dynamite

March 6, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

Morning All,

Rell come on bruh say it aint so, say it aint so.

Ared* do you have anything other than deductive reasoning as evidence. I see ya point but come on you can’t get on the stand with that. A rookie public defender can get ole boy off on hearsay alone.

By you're not crazy ARed

March 6, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

i peeped out some of the stuff that you mentioned also. especially about woofing down other guys’ throats that inquired about you. that’s one of the benefits of lurking…you don’t miss much…lol. yeah, he’s definitely gone too far. i hope his wife gets as much attn as he was trying to give you. now this is exactly why all this time blogging would be better spent in therapy! lmao

By call_her_onit

March 6, 2008 9:43 AM | Link to this

Seriously AMRED You are truly your biggest fan. DO you work at all?? Do we have to talk about you everyday?? Do you have to post a answer to every post Gee wiz. I am so sick of you already. Get over yourself already. Don’t hijack the post with your rants and madness you are such and immature young woman @ 30 years old. Gotdamn

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

He asked me and we were married 10 later

Raqi what were you saying? I’m ok the way I am now, but I’d love to be in a relationship. I don’t dwell on it b/c I can’t. It’s not up to me. It will happen when its supposed to. Unlike when I was younger, I am wiser now :)

Binford are you slow as far as showing interest or are you slow in regards to settling down? To me, there is a difference. I need to know soon enough if you are interested, once we have that established… im good with molasses! As a matter of fact, I NEED molasses!!!

You’re spot on Brite, his behavior is a bit odd. Even for a man :) Maybe he needs citizenship…?

Darrell nothing crazy about that.

Hey kinder!!! I’ve been good. I’ve been busy at work (my manager is off today!) plus, if I don’t have anything to contribute, I tend to stay away. You doing ok???

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 9:46 AM | Link to this

LOL Amazon. I have said it before, I have accessible sex sleeping beside me every night. No need to cyber stalk anybody.

I keep it at having fun with yall on here and that’s that.

By Dan

March 6, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

@ARed

That may be at once:

The creepiest, lamest, most uuuuhhhhh, thing I’ve ever heard of!

By Simp

March 6, 2008 9:49 AM | Link to this

ARed..That is scary. We all have fun but hell thats too much. Write a book. I want to buy you lunch too I will wait till spring.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

Willie - Very valid question, and yes I do have more evidence. It won’t be released at this time, but soon. In any case, he’s been acting out of pocket for a minute anyway, so he needed to be called out on that too.

Thanks not crazy.

callheronit - Of course I’m my biggest fan, why wouldn’t I be?

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 9:50 AM | Link to this

Ared did you talk with him or what proof do you have it’s him?

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

ARed Yeah he’s probably ready to explode. lol And his behavior probably turns women off because it makes him look desperate or obsessive (i.e. stalker). Hope he doesn’t resort to priestly alternatives… smh

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this

Dan - I woke up thinking about Six Feet Under this morning and I think you should go there for lunch!

Yes, I find it unnerving as well.

By Grace

March 6, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this

Is he obese? The only men I meet who are ready to settle down are the obese. They are ready for some home cooking.

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this

ImaP That was suppose to read 10 days later. That is how much I was “okay”, I thought, not being married to him. LOL

By Willie Dynamite

March 6, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Bella you have quite a cast of characters in your circle.

As for dude I think he’s more in line with the new school of dating and lationships. He is a man in that he decided he was ready to settle down. But he does have some issues with how he’s going about doing it. He comes across like someone said earlier with romanticizing the thought of being married or in a relationship moreso than the love part. Either way he’ll settle or end up being played seriously.

By pisces08

March 6, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Morning All. Dayum ARed!! you were right.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Peach

Thanks for the affirmation. I appreciate it. :-) I guess that was my attempt at trying to dispel the notion that there are no men out there who are serious about getting married. As for me, I couldn’t be more serious about it. I’ve been blessed to where many aspects of my life are already established (career, home, finances, children, church, etc.) with the exception of that “one thing” - which actually isn’t a “thing” at all, but a person.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 9:59 AM | Link to this

Its a blog who really cares AMRED seriously do we have to have the blog high jacked for this shyt. Deal with it how you will deal with it and move the fugg on Seriously???

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 6, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

Hi everyone good morning, just peeping in!

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 6, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

Hi everyone good morning, just peeping in!

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

Good Morning to no,… beautiful Morning to ya!

Blue that spin on the chair added a lil more to the end of the day. Thx

Dreams - Could a single mamma that treated 3 (count ‘em) 3 hungry, boister-rug-rats and giddy lil guys out for dinner last night Blog Theater rapartee today? I’ve got my snacks and turning off the cell phone.

Oh goodness…melo already had his oatmeal!

Hey Peach…you’ve been missing.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

Grace lmao. That’s a good one.

Dan is it on for today? Represent.

By Rell

March 6, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this

OK, what is really going on…lol. Mayne yall can turn on folks quick in here

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

If you were so worried about being stalked you would not have emailed him..you did, you see what it could possibly be or not and chalk it up to that and move the heyal on seriously

By melo

March 6, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

ared* i had similar feeling it was him.Truth* observed on the fact too that he seems to freak out when another bloger wants to talk to u.As for me, when i read Rider s last entry where he said something like* its on yu ared**, i kinda thoght that waz way too much pursuing effort there to make smebody freak out. How did u find out tho? Too funnny but dangerous too when u think about the possibilitites and consquences!!

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

Truth - Either it’s him or someone setting him up. But as I told Willie, I’ll have more later.

I figured most of the blog would not want to touch this one. I know very well how crazy this reads. LOL.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

Jazzyone - Fine with me if we move on. I’ve stated my peace.

By Rell

March 6, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this

@melo……dang bruh you too….smh

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

I am stunned! Rell, can you prove you’re not Midnight Rider? I’m curiuos. Come on now, this is ridiculous. I know you’re obsessed w/meeting her, but doing it this way has me SMH!

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this

ALL of the men I’ve ever met who are waiting until marriage for sex tend to have an urgency for marriage.

You might be on to something Dreams. I forgot about this caveat to the story. Bella how old is this guy???

Plenty of dudes would like to be married, but not to any woman, and anybody that is,

Blue I wouldn’t argue with you on that statement, but would like to be married is much different than ready to be married. You can ask a 21 year old would he like to be married and he’d probably say “Yea, one day”.

I had a buddy in germany that decided he was tired of dating and the random sex and refused to participate in the available activities until he was married. Six months later he met Ella and their still married today.

Truth, keyword in your post… decided. If he would have met Ella six months before he decided - we might be reading a different story, with a different womans name.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 10:08 AM | Link to this

ROTFLOL @ Grace…Is he obese? The only men I meet who are ready to settle down are the obese. They are ready for some home cooking. Dang!

Hi Darrell!

WillieD it’s gonna be a good one. Get cho’ grab bag…

By Dan

March 6, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

@Truth

She tried to back out on me. But we got a tentative plan.

@Jazzy

As a former stalkee, that kind of stuff is creepy. I don’t doubt ARed’s sincerity on the issue (why lie?), so I can only assess it from that angle.

But that’s the thing about obessession, it starts out as cute, even flattering, then it turns into ….something else.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this

Darrell there’s nothing wrong with you being ready to marry. If you ask every chick you encounter to marry you there is something wrong with you.

Rell deny it and we’ll call it a wrap. Otherwise come clean and at least say you were messin with her. Either way this is starting to get a little weird

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

Truth - I did not get to respond to you yesterday again about the Millionaire show. I agree that Patty takes it too far with the pushing the dudes to “spend a lot of money or buy a big ring”. That’s where she cheapens the whole thing. She deals with millionaires, but she obviously knows very little about true class and wealth. Truly wealthy & classy people don’t flaunt the bling-bling or brand-name drop all the time, they don’t have to. Their class speaks for itself. And the last thing they really want is someone hanging on to them because they have money. Thats why a lot of extremely wealthy people marry other extremely wealthy people, or royalty marries royalty. I know people who are really wealthy, and while the wife may have a nice ring, it’s not over the top huge. They put their money in stock or real estate or private school for the kids. Have you ever seen that documentary on, I think MSNBC about Warren Buffet, who Forbes just listed as the richest man in the world now, beating out Bill Gates? He is a smart, humble man. He drives something like a Lincoln Towncar and gives a lot of money to charity and education. He said he provided his own kids with the best educations in the world so they could make it on their own and they are doing well. He said he is leaving all his money to charity when he dies, no spoiled-rotten kids waiting on him to die for a handout. These dudes Patty deals with are millionaires, but a lot might be one stock market crash away from being religated back to a “thousandaire” like the rest of us! She can try to make them spend all that money if she wants to, but they did not get rich blowing all their money on flashy cars & bling. That’s my lesson for today!

On Topic - Bella’s friend creeps me out. I’ve seen dudes like that, it’s not attractive, just like it’s not attractive when a woman acts desperate. I’ve known a few dudes like that and they are straight psycho. I’ve also know guys that were really ready to settle down, but they calmly dated and when they found what they wanted, just didn’t waste time. Those marriages seem to work out. On the other hand, I’ve seen dudes that took 10 years to decide to marry someone, and when they did, in another few years, divorced. Or they string along with someone for 10 years saying he’s not ready, the woman gets tired of waiting around & they break up. He meets someone new & 6 months later they are married. When a guy is ready, he’s ready, and it ain’t gonna happen anytime sooner, unless he’s crazy enough to allow someone to pressure him. Pressure or “shotgun” marriages don’t seem to do well!JMHO

By you're not crazy ARed

March 6, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this

peach glad to hear you are well. i’ve been m.i.a. too for similar reasons…just following momma’s good home training of “if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” lol. did you get to check out jill scott last week? i heard it was a great show.

By Binford2K8

March 6, 2008 10:14 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Well, I don’t think I show my interest as good as I could. Before I get romantic, I really want to know if this is someone I can log some serious time with so I’m keying on traits and behavior (sounds strange I know). And to me, I can’t be bringing flowers or being overly romantic if I don’t know HOW I feel. That, to me, is phony and trying to lure a woman with a false front.

When I open up, I open up. But I figure if a woman is interested she’ll keep communication and know that I’ll keep communicating and we’ll get to that point. And scary enough, I’m not wanting intimate contact until I know I like her at this point in my life.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 10:15 AM | Link to this

Hi, Cemeeli.

Truth “If you ask every chick you encounter to marry you there is something wrong with you.”

I totally agree with you, man. There’s definitely something serious underlying any person - man or woman - who uses that sort of “revolving door” approach to marriage.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

I didn’t say she lied DAN I said deal with it how you will and lets move on period. She responded to him and it is what it is so she took part in this those are the chances you take when you do things blindly so it will be and is what the fugg it is. This is a Blog man a BLOG. If you use it for dating purposes then those are the chances you take in the shyt.

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

JazzyOne, I think it’s only appropriate for her to “out” him here on the blog. In this blog community we still look out for each other if we know something isn’t right. We educate and lift up each other wherever the need is. Only fitting to let the family know not only the “ups” of things going on, but the “downs” as well. This blog is used so often as our own “alert” station, why shouldn’t she update us on how it went w/Midnight Rider? We all gave kudos for a blogger asking her out.

By melo

March 6, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

On topic:there are men ready to settle but at the rate dude is proposing, it looks suspect.I think he is ready to be admitted to one of the area psychiatric hospitals.A man will focus on getting married and will try to court the right girl, not every two legged silhouttee with a vagina!! That is damn desperate and suspicious…really bordering on the stalkerish tendencies of our own rell When a guy is deperate and annoying..almost, trust me, there are some other mental disorders at play and u are better of running for cover.That simple rule of thumb always works ladies:if its too good to be true or too perfect to be plausible, sniff and withdraw…otherwise we will pick up ur body parts from the dumbster!! Its dangerous out there and i really dread for my 2 daughters!!

By abc

March 6, 2008 10:19 AM | Link to this

Bella, your friend sounds a little crazy. Women should run from him like their hair is on fire. Talk about a divorce statistic waiting to happen.

By Willie Dynamite

March 6, 2008 10:19 AM | Link to this

Similac no need for the grab bag yet. This just some morning frogginess. No need to draw lines in the sand. Either way we the peanut gallery and we too grown for this she say he say shyt.

This is a decent topic today and hopefully we can get some more good thoughts about it before we get off topic as always.

Morning Leggs

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

Hey Cee, Whassup.

Hmmm… this Rell-N-Red saga is gettin’ thick. LOL

Red I’m with Dreams on this one. You can’t be accusing dude of no serious stalk ish w/o some real evidence. Otherwise you just doin’ a softshoe at The Appollo.

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

ALL of the men I’ve ever met who are waiting until marriage for sex tend to have an urgency for marriage.

You might be on to something Dreams. I forgot about this caveat to the story. Bella how old is this guy???

Plenty of dudes would like to be married, but not to any woman, and anybody that is,

Blue I wouldn’t argue with you on that statement, but would like to be married is much different than ready to be married. You can ask a 21 year old would he like to be married and he’d probably say “Yea, one day”.

I had a buddy in germany that decided he was tired of dating and the random sex and refused to participate in the available activities until he was married. Six months later he met Ella and their still married today.

Truth, keyword in your post… decided. If he would have met Ella six months before he decided - we might be reading a different story, with a different womans name.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Jazzyone - I don’t date married men. And like SexyLeggs said, if it originated on the blog, we can talk about it on the blog.

But really, a lot of bloggers have been commenting on his behavior towards me for a while now. It’s simply NOT appropriate and we’ve been chalking it up to “fun and games” some folks can go too far.

Back on-topic

  • had a buddy in germany that decided he was tired of dating and the random sex and refused to participate in the available activities until he was married. Six months later he met Ella and their still married today. He didn’t do it out of loneliness but it was a decision that’s what he wanted.*

Truth - This story is so inspiring. I really feel that too, because that’s the way God wants it to be as well.

By Rell

March 6, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

@melo….so are we going to talk about this all day?

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

Ok Raqi, I got’cha! That is so special. I love to hear stories like that.

kinder another reason i stay away at times is because of the type of dumb s** Ared pulled earlier. It’s quite silly if you ask me and totally unnecessary. Someone said she is 30… I don’t believe.

Darrell if it seemed like I don’t think men take marriage seriously, that wasn’t the case. I was simply saying that guys decide to get married. I do believe ( or, I hope) that they take it seriously once they make that decision.

Cemeeli hey! Whats up? I haven’t been missing - I peek in on you guys everyday to see what the topics about :-) I’ve been a little busy at work and I mostly post only when I have something to contribute!

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

kimmie if this works our for Paul I’m coming in here next week with a 4 carat cubic zirconia ring and asking for your hand in marraige. LMAO (This may not be a good time for jokes like this)

Grace can you cook?

peach for him it was like a switch went off. He just looked at us and said that’s it. It was a wrap. And I’d put money that dude hasn’t cheated one time since they’ve been together. Btw, he was about 6’4 and a hell of a basketball player so he wasn’t a fat dude Grace. LOL I do think at some point a cat can see so much of what he doesn’t like and just get sick of it. Also, she was out slinging azz when they met but they needed each other. It was obvious from the moment they met.

By Simp

March 6, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

what is the purpose of dating?

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

You can’t be accusing dude of no serious stalk ish w/o some real evidence.

Kolla - You’re right, but with the exception of what happened on here yesterday, the evidence of all his past weirdo behavior can be read right here on the blog.

By WhatsInAName

March 6, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

@AmazonRed If you have information to confirm your allegations agains Rell why are you waiting to reveal it? If He has done as you say, it sounds serious enough to put him on blast. Otherwise, you come across as playing games for the drama and the attention.

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

You date to marry. If you don’t believe me ask my dad. LOL

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 10:30 AM | Link to this

Ok Raqi, I got’cha! That is so special. I love to hear stories like that.

kinder another reason i stay away at times is because of the type of dumb s** Ared pulled earlier. It’s quite silly if you ask me and totally unnecessary. Someone said she is 30… I don’t believe.

Darrell if it seemed like I don’t think men take marriage seriously, that wasn’t the case. I was simply saying that guys decide to get married. I do believe ( or, I hope) that they take it seriously once they make that decision.

Cemeeli hey! Whats up? I haven’t been missing - I peek in on you guys everyday to see what the topics about :-) I’ve been a little busy at work and I mostly post only when I have something to contribute!

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

WillieD we the peanut gallery and we too grown for this she say he say shyt.

…a select few…

I’m with Darrell and Peach on this; Bella’s friend decided he is ready to marry…ergo he “dates to marry”! Is he overeager? *probably, that all depends on his “motive”.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this

** I met a dude like this and after talking to him a times I started to notice his psycho tendencies. Besides calling me al the time and wanting me tochange my life around to spend time with him and that got mad and picked and argument with me would not bend to him. he figured because he was attractive and had money that I would go totally in enema mode (wanting to be up his azz)! WRONG! So I cut him off and funny to say I still get occassional text, VMials and emails from this dude! I’m like we never even dated…you never even sniffed it and you talking all this, “I want to get married” crap. he had the nerve to call me a trophy wife! What the heck kind of crap is that? He is the one that flew over the cuckoo’s nest..and that dude should have landed and stayed!

As I read this morning topic..Bella why do I hear the theme from Psycho playing? LOL It’s like your boy is saying if you are a woman with a pulse with no diseases…let’s get hitched! he should be careful of that. There can be a woman who just wants to get married just cause..and she does a complete 180 oh ole dude! I have an uncle whom Ilike to call serial groom! Dude has been married 4 times since he was 19. It’s like everytime he gets divorced, a full page ad is placed in the paper for any chick desiring to be married. And my God the woman he has married…UGH!!!! he should heave stayed with his 2nd wife…but I concur that marriage is his addiction as crack is to Pookie! LOL

Dreams I co-sign your 9:33 bruh!

Cemeeli I am laughing at Grace’s post too girl! LOL It brings Homer Simpson to mind saying, “mmmmm…burger”! LOL

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

Truth, keyword in your post… decided. If he would have met Ella six months before he decided - we might be reading a different story, with a different womans name

Hmmm…that’s a good point too.

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Good morning WillieD. Open the NaVan last night and took a gulp (LOL) for you! That is some damn good cognac.

Ok, Darrell you come across as a very intelligent, acutely aware of your self and your surroundings. Hope the woman of your dreams and one who is evenly yoked w/you come into your lift soon. You sound like a gem that shouldn’t be sitting in the sun all by yourself.

Bella, although your friend has decided he wants to get married, he shouldn’t be going down the train station ramp randomly picking women in the hopes that one will say yes. I too am curious. How old is he?

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

Truth - Alright, Truth, I said it didn’t have to be over-the-top, but it should at least be a real diamond!LOL Not tacky, didn’t say be CHEAP!!LOL!! But hey, you did go 4 carat, so I guess your heart is in the right place:)!

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this

No Sexyleggs You commented on it allot of us didn’t and just moved on past it like we do with many of her ALL day posts. AMRED I don’t give a mufugg who you date.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

If He has done as you say, it sounds serious enough to put him on blast.

So tell me this, Name, if he’s only done say 80% of it, would it be serious enough?

If I “look” a certain way by the approach I’ve used, so be it.

By Dan

March 6, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

@Simp

What is the purpose of dating?

No offense, but is a bullet dangerous?

The purpose of any activity that one would engage in is defined solely by that person. As we’ve seen here, different people assess situations from varying viewpoints one man’s meat, is another man’s vegetables.

So you define the purpose. As you define yourself, and your goals

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

Peach

My bad if my earlier response made it seem as if you were making the point that men don’t take marriage seriously because, actually, you and I are on the same page. I just think that guys sometimes get caught up in this pseudo-machismo mindset where we think it makes us more of a man to not reveal that we have needs and feelings, too (as if that’s just a “female thang”.)

I’ve always believed that a man who is truly secure in himself is one who is willingly transparent about those things and who doesn’t give a damn who knows it or what others might think about it. Which is excatly why I have no qualms at all about acknowledging my own desire to get married. Hell, I don’t have anything to prove to anyone, so why not be real about it, right?

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

Red You’re right, but with the exception of what happened on here yesterday, the evidence of all his past weirdo behavior can be read right here on the blog.

That’s trash.

What’s @AmazonRed If you have information to confirm your allegations agains Rell why are you waiting to reveal it? If He has done as you say, it sounds serious enough to put him on blast. Otherwise, you come across as playing games for the drama and the attention.

That’s Word. ‘Cause if you were still investigatin’, you should’ve kept all that extra up under your hat until you knew for sure.

I cain’t stand a minutha finucka that tries to make somebody look bad… and then talkin’ ‘bout I’m gon’ show you later. So now you got peeps lookin’ at dude sideways, and if it ain’t him then all you can do is say, “I’m sorry.” Nikkas and nikkettes need to keep they mouth shut sometime.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

AMRED I don’t give a mufugg who you date.

Then feel free to keep it moving as well, Jazzyone. Every reply to this situation keeps it going.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

No Sexyleggs You commented on it allot of us didn’t and just moved on past it like we do with many of her ALL day posts. AMRED I don’t give a mufugg who you date.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

No Sexyleggs You commented on it allot of us didn’t and just moved on past it like we do with many of her ALL day posts. AMRED I don’t give a mufugg who you date.

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 10:45 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Are you participating in the repartee? I see you often in the audience.

Peach Yeah you gotta be careful with those “I’m waiting until marriage” dudes. When he does get married, I don’t give it more than two years.

ARed Come on over here by me. I won’t let the blalkers (blog stalkers) get you. ;-)

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs “Hope the woman of your dreams and one who is evenly yoked w/you come into your lift soon.”

So do I. :-) (And thanks for the kind words. I appreciate it.)

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

Kolla - That’s trash huh? LOL. Okay.

You can cry me a river on the rest. I don’t care what you can and can not stand.

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

and who doesn’t give a damn who knows it or what others might think about it.

Darrell IMO A true man doesn’t care. He is living his life for himself and only himself. Very good statement.

By SlimOne

March 6, 2008 10:47 AM | Link to this

Hi All, long time no blog…getting over a migraine…take a peak in and folks are becoming Virtual Stalkers…In the voice of Flavor Flav Wooooow!

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

Darrell I’ve always believed that a man who is truly secure in himself is one who is willingly transparent about those things and who doesn’t give a damn who knows it or what others might think about it. Which is excatly why I have no qualms at all about acknowledging my own desire to get married.

Hey I think that the editor over at “Women’s Weekly” would like to meet with you on a story for their upcoming “There’s Still Hope” edition.

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

You’re not crazy, did you forget to change your screen name back? Lol! No, I didn’t see Jilly from Philly. I do love her though. I’m sure it was great - I wouldn’t expect anything else from her!

If you ask every chick you encounter to marry you there is something wrong with you.

Well said Truth

Binford ok, I gotcha. I’m one of those people that needs interest shown before I feel comfortable showing interest - which I’m sure causes a lot of problems! I agree, no being overly romantic before you are sure. Very wise.

Sexy I know you weren’t talking to me and I wasn’t here yesterday, but just coming up on the situation today… the problem with the post was it came off as childish.

I should tell his wife… guess what he did… what do yall think… pretending like an email from her is some type of prize… pulling his “MLB” card…

It was Silly. Period.

My apologies for the double posts

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Hey Lady! Good to read you and glad you’re doing fine. Please don’t let the silly stuff keep you off-blog, just ignore it and bless us with your insight.

On-topic Yes, I’ve met men that are eager beavers in the marriage department. Met one last fall. I felt like he held me up to a checklist when he met me. I told him first date that I didn’t want to have kids but I think my beauty and winning personality had him hang around for a little while longer, LOL. At the end of our first date, when he said he wanted to see me again I told him I was surprised at that fact since he was, as he stated, ‘purposefully dating’ - but we hung out a few more times. There never was a spark there for me but I was hoping we could be friends. He wasn’t looking for a friend, he was looking for a wife and since I wasn’t interested in birthin’ no babies he ended communication.

Today is my Friday!!! I’m headed to 4 days of debauchery in Vegas. ….well, debauchery-lite

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this

Simp dating is an obsolete term. It puts unnecessary pressure on the two participants. Try just breaking bread or conversating with someone or just getting to know them. If at some time you would like to be exclusive with someone let them know that and wait for their response. If they say yes cool. If they say no STALK THEM. LMAO No need for all the hubbub. just enjoy the person for what they are and decide what you want to do longterm later.

Blogsville I’m kind of confused here. We have seen this thing unfold in front of our eyes yet when it’s brought out you all shoot Ared down. Is it because you don’t like her personally (blogwise) or you do like Rell? To me this incident is as valid as any other nonsense we talk about on here daily. Someone please enlighten me.

Kimmie you’re right and I apologize. If I go with real rocks I’m gonna have to downsize to maybe a quarter carat and a marraige ceremony by Elvis in vegas where I’ll be gambling trying to win back the loot I put into the stone. Sorry hun but the economy is killing me. LOL did you get to see Paul yet?

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

ARed, just speak on your evidence and this will surely move along!

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Darrell- I’m feeling your posts. Your positive spirit will attract a like-minded woman(yeah, I’ve watched The Secret!).

Staceye - I swear I think you & I know the same psycho dude! Also, there was this guy that goes to my church I call a “serial groom”. Before he could get out of one marriage, he was in another. I know of 3 marriages for sure, but my mother used to say she bet it’s been more. He’s cooled down though, after this last one did not work out. It’s been about 10 years now, but that last divorce seemed to really rock him & he has not remarried, just helping raise his daughter. He was getting a little creepy there for awhile, though.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Blue

Nikkas and nikkettes need to keep they mouth shut sometime.

…you know i’m not trippin for real. But i ain’t never been called a nikkette.

Blue: Cee nikkette shut yo’ @ up.

Peach you came off the ‘Lurkers Perch’ with the right word and on a good day. Hay now!

Staceye…you are wrong for puttin Homer Simpson in it….Lol.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

Slim yeahhhhh booooooyyyyyy! (matching your Flavor Flav voice) LOL Where you been?

By SeanJohnson3000

March 6, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…regarding the topic..dude bella described….has an agenda…and its the same agenda a lot of females 28-40 have…which is to get married..nothing wrong with it if you make your ententions known….the thing is….when you dont make them known yet you do put on an oscar winnning performance fooling the other party going through the motions of being the ideal mate only to NOT be that person once u get married..then it comes out that it wasnt really bout loving and being with that person til death do you part and more about wanting to be married..selfish.

By Simp

March 6, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Dan truedat. if a person is telling you they want to date you with the PURPOSE of marriage..knowing that going in you you are in agreement.

By Rell

March 6, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Yea well i say lets drop it and move on…i already said what i had to on the matter….i mean really

By Willie Dynamite

March 6, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Leggs Open the NaVan last night and took a gulp (LOL) for you! Now I know you at least took one for yaself too!lol and yeah It was very nice meeting you also, I enjoyed the convo.

By kinderbabe

March 6, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

peach yeah, that’s one of the drawbacks of cybersocializing…it can get blown out of proportion in many cases. i’m not picking sides but i will say that poor social skills can only magnify the situation. i hope that this most recent event will bring to light that you really don’t know who you’re talking to over a computer…. anywho, it’s back to the grind for me. have a good one.:)

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

ARed Wow, that is some real mess right there! Just like someone said the other day that she met a blog dude who looked like a crackhead or crack dealer. I think it would be safe to say that some are not who they say they are, which is fine, but when they want to make the blog a reality and talk/meet in person, the truth will come out. I wonder if doing all of those things is being a Simp?

Rell Why did you do that? It is obvious that ARed knows it was you, and ummmmm you are MARRIED, correct?

SexyLeggs LOL because the other day you were co-signing saying I have met Rell, he is a very nice person or something like that….ctfu

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Blue “Hey I think that the editor over at “Women’s Weekly” would like to meet with you on a story for their upcoming “There’s Still Hope” edition.”

LOL!!! Classic! :-)

Kimmie

Thanks much for that 10:53. ;-)

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Darrell You sound like an intelligent man who has his act together. your mindset appears to be that you have decided that you want to get married so it sounds like the stars should be aligned. What do you think is stopping you from achieving a relationship that warrants marriage?

By kinderbabe

March 6, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

peach you got me!! lol. i knew you would catch it.:)

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this

Dreams yea i’d participate but you gotta cast me.

Tazzee hey! waving…oooohhh Today is my Friday!!! I’m headed to 4 days of debauchery in Vegas. ….well, debauchery-lite. Have fun chica.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 11:06 AM | Link to this

Tazee Enjoy tour trip mami!

*Kimmie8 ATL is so big yet so small. It’s possible we know that same loco dude!

Cemeeli do you prefer Peter from Family Guy? LOL That’s my show too. I love all Non-PC cartoons such as Boondocks, The Simpsons, South Park & Family Guy…I love Adult Swim’s line up!

Willie I swear I will get a NaVan and Coke the next time i go out….to try it just for you!

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

Truth We have seen this thing unfold in front of our eyes yet when it’s brought out you all shoot Ared down. Is it because you don’t like her personally (blogwise) or you do like Rell? To me this incident is as valid as any other nonsense we talk about on here daily. Someone please enlighten me.

Look here champ, ain’t nothing wrong with talking about it or calling somebody out, but if you gon’ throw ‘em in the typewriter on that type of charge, have some evidence. That’s like me saying , “Truth is gay b/c walks around eating honey and raisins in his oatmeal and calling dudes Tiger on the blog.” See? That’s BS. Now let me ask you this, are you being partial to Red?

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

the desire to actually have someone to love is what is first and foremost with me. It’s the “being in love” that I miss moreso than being married, though I definitely desire both.

wow. i’m speechless over here because i’ve been trying to type these exact words for a long time now. didn’t know how to put them together. definitely co-signing.

how’s every1? good morning BK!

off topic i had a dream last night that we were all on oprah. she found out about our blog and invited us on the show. her and the producers lurked for like a month to see if what they heard was true. lol. she asked what MLB and WLB means (Men Law Board, Women Law Board, i could be wrong). she asked me about my crush, and i told her. we had so much fun because it was a big meet and greet party and EVERYONE showed up. lol.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

Sup Ms. Page i’ve got chic-o-sticks. Want some? rotfl how ‘bout i was in Charlotte too. I tried to send you an email last w/e while i was there and it kept kicking back (not ur addy my cuz laptop ws jack) so i gave up.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

BK “Hey I think that the editor over at “Women’s Weekly” would like to meet with you on a story for their upcoming “There’s Still Hope” edition.”” Someone asked if we’re really laughing when we say LMAO and I must say I am. This stuff has me rolling sometimes.

Darrell it’s nothing wrong with standing by your feelings. We as men are taught to hide them behind that veil of toughness but some of the tighest fellas I can remember were dudes that had a thought or feeling and rode with it. This cat Bella is referring to is a nut job tho. He’s using the shotgun blast approach to wife finding and usually that blows up in your face. on another note. I’m trying to figure out why you can’t find a wife either. If you let it be known you’re interested in a serious relationship you should have some decent prospects. What’s up?

Page did you just come in kicking doors down or what? What does ctfu mean and how are you doing? LOL

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

Sexy I too asked how old he is - she hasn’t answered yet. He’s also a virgin. I’d say dude is between 23 and 25…yes?

kind of OT - some folks on here are talking about engagement rings. I have a friend who’s boyfriend surprised her with the ring and she doesn’t like it. Guys, would you pick out an engagement ring on your own or would you seek the help of her close friend/relative? Or, maybe let her pick it out herself?

Simp the purpose of dating is to collect information.

I’ve always believed that a man who is truly secure in himself is one who is willingly transparent about those things and who doesn’t give a damn who knows it or what others might think about it.

Totally agree Darrell

HEEEEEY Tazzee!!! Good to read’ya. What happened to those Birds this season??? It’s going to be 5 years before our team is right again :-(

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

I think it would be safe to say that some are not who they say they are, which is fine, but when they want to make the blog a reality and talk/meet in person, the truth will come out. I wonder if doing all of those things is being a Simp?

Page - You were at Dugan’s right?

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Beautiful lay off the big meals before bed! They give you crazy dreams! LMAO

You’ve teased us so much…so who’s your blog crush? Is it Dan? I won’t tell! LOL Ok..tell me on My Space!

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

Truth - Yeah, I saw Eddie Munster, I mean Paul, the other night when I woke up on the end of the show. I’m waiting on the repeat so I can watch it in its entirety.LOL Yeah, this economy is a bugger! I’ve been trying to bring my lunch everyday and only drive when neccesary & make coffee at home instead of Starbucks from the cafeteria at work. I’m really seeing this recession too, I was looking at frozen vegetables the other day and freaked out. Stuff I know used to cost a dollar at Kroger was going for 2.99! It’s rough, man. But, I’d be cool with Vegas, I LOVE Vegas! Maybe we can play the slots first and win some more money so I can get you a diamond too!LOL Or maybe I’ll run into a dude that will buy me a dress & make us an offer like Robert Redford in Indecent Proposal!LOL

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

You’re right Page, I did say that. Remember when I brought him over to us, I told him the aura he excuded then was nothing like what he spews on the blog.

WilliD, took a gulp for you and a glass for myself!

Rell, just come out and say you are 2 different bloggers. It really is that simple.

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

Cee Hey girl. Yes, CIAA In Charlotte was off the chain! That’s too bad the email you sent wouldn’t go through because I am sure we were in the same area around downtown, lol. There were soooooooooo many people there! You should go to the Cancun Jumpoff that is coming up in May, and also the Palm Springs events coming up in July! I can’t wait::)) I’ll send you the info via email chica:)

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 11:17 AM | Link to this

Staceye Peter smokes somthin…i’m convinced. But dude is crasi thupid. my co-worker keeps me abreast (as if) on lil dude.

kindebabe Lol. Cee saw that. Your writing style is ur thumbprint. How’s that date?

By melo

March 6, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

What do you think is stopping you from achieving a relationship that warrants marriage? good qs,BriteEyez esp. since dude been on it for 10 long years when sme of us are ready to divorce and marry again, just to do justice to all the eligible,savvy,educated and wify women in the A,ready to cook me dinner!!! (hey, why do they even put warren jeffords(sp)in jail when dude is doing his part eliminating unmarried, elible girls by marrying them)

By Simp

March 6, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli…I was in Atl on yesterday. I tried to email you for oatmeal but the network was busy.

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

Cee/Parents Today is my Friday!!!

Which reminds me… It’s the weekend and it’s getting warm and the sports programs are kickin’ off and all but check this… If you ain’t no fireman, carrying a boot… don’t come tappin’ on my window wit’cho bucket, makin’ me turn down my stereo, talkin’ bout …fo do football team. If yoll trying to make some bread, come around and rake up my leaves, cut my grass, wash up the ride, etc. But I ain’t givin’ no handouts to no youngin’ outfitted in the latest hunnid-fiddy dolla airmaxes/jordan’s. Settin’ a bad precedence for these little kids.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Your dream is so cute. If the Harpo Productions team is lurking on us daily. Could i go ahead and sign my contract now? I’m game. Dreams you see that? Better sign Cee up quick b4 I replace Gail.

Staceye glad you asked. Cee looking at screen like a kid at a cartoon episode. hmph.

By SlimOne

March 6, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Stace LOL @ your Flav verbage. Well I’ve been off the last two days. Celebrated a friends Dirty 30 on Tuesday…had a migraine yesterday…and back to work today.

Ared Please go ahead and show your hand so we can either see if you were bluffing or really have a reason to egg Rell’s 1972 Gremlin complete with dingy azz bra flapping on the front end. lol

SJ3K on bended knee holding up a Green Ring Pop Will you marry me..I mean, I know i hardly know you, I know I’m not IN love with you, I know I begrudgingly clipped yo krusty arse toe-nails, I know I despised washing yo spiderman boxers, but…(now busting out in a Jagged Edge Sone) We aint gettin no younga, so we minus well do it…

I think I missed yall while i was gone even though I just now thought about it. LOL!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

BriteEyez “What do you think is stopping you from achieving a relationship that warrants marriage?”

That’s a good, but difficult, question to answer because there’s really no simple way to respond. The inhibitors I’ve run into most often have had to do not with me necessarily, but with the other person. Meaning, there’s usually been a self-avowed issue about themselves or something about me that, for whatever reason, didn’t exactly line up with their expectations or image of who their “ideal” man is.

Now, as much as I understand the concept of “to each his own”, I’m continually amazed at how people believe they can just waltz into a serious relationship and continue to be the same person they were before entering into that partnership. When it comes to change, nobody wants to give an inch for fear they’ll be seen as weak and be taken advantage of. The fact is that loving someone involves taking educated risks. Love doesn’t always wait until you have your ish together. I’d just really like to meet someone who truly understands that.

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

ARed Girl, yes I was there and several other folks were there as well.

Truth ctfu= cracking the fugg up! LOLOL, I am doing awesome!!

By kinderbabe

March 6, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

cemeeli lololol yeah, i know.:) technology does have it’s drawbacks…lol. what date do you mean??

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

Staceye don’t make me regret this!!! you got myspace mail. lol.

By Simp

March 6, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

404 with that info you process that info. if it’s favorable you move forward.

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 11:27 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ Kinder. I won’t say nothing girl! Maybe everybody else was sleep, hee hee.

Thanks Cemeeli!

Yall have a nice day… off to do some work :-)

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

Staceye, you can drink NaVan over ice, no need for a coke. It’s a sweet vanilla, rich cognac. Also, it’s great w/pineapple juice!

By mqew

March 6, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Mornin’ good peeps!

I see it has began already, the entertainment that is.

Tazzee Have a ball! I luv Vegas!

On topic: I know a guy who was searching high and low for the “one”. He definitely came off as a little weak. Women ran all the way over him, backed up, and did it again. Then he became a ho3. He found that that wasn’t working for him either, so he decided to leave the ho3’n alone. Then he met me….

Just sharing…

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

Beautiful we had so much fun because it was a big meet and greet party and EVERYONE showed up.

If we’re goin’ to Chicago to hang out with Oprah, it betta be warm! ;)

Melo hey, why do they even put warren jeffords(sp)in jail when dude is doing his part eliminating unmarried, elible girls by marrying them)

I can’t believe dude was even willing to marry more than one chick. Hell he gets a nod from me on courage alone.

By melo

March 6, 2008 11:34 AM | Link to this

Staceye don’t make me regret this!!! you got myspace mail. u know me Staceye but u dnt knw her so i wonder where ur loyalty is girl…spit out her secret!! Sme dude needs to be blessed right now!!

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli thanks. i thought it was cute too. when i woke up, i was p** because waking up ends a dream. it’s like watching a good movie and when it gets to the best part … . . too bad. i believe i had Truth on one side of me and my crush on the other. my crush kept touching my hand trying to hold it. lol.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Please go ahead and show your hand so we can either see if you were bluffing or really have a reason to egg Rell’s 1972 Gremlin complete with dingy azz bra flapping on the front end. lol

Well SlimOne - I don’t think I need to show my hand. Rell has suggested we drop this. He’s been so calm today when usually any perceived affront on my part will have him ranting and raving at me all day.

He doesn’t seem to care about any proof, he doesn’t deny any of this either. He just wants it dropped. Interesting.

I guess I’m willing to do that. But no, I’m not bluffing. I’d never intentionally slander someone’s good blog name just for shyts and giggles.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli you mean Stewie? I Love him! How is he the only one that si British? LOL

Slim Celebrated a friends Dirty 30 on Tuesday…had a migraine yesterday nah boo…that’s called a Hangover! LOL

I love your proposal to SJ3! LOL

Beautiful I can’t acces My Space at work. Mass got me limited! But I will check it tonight. I won’t tell anyone!

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Damn, I see I have some competition. Ok come back to my auditioning room and show me what you got. 1, 2, 3,…go.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

BK I’m trying to figure out why everyone jumped her but yes I’m partial to her in this case. First, ol boy has reacted everytime a cat posts to her wich is in line with his reactionary stance on dating or simping. Rememeber he was hurt at one point and this simp defence is the mechanism he devised to prevent that from happening again. He also flames up at dam near everything thats posted but he hasn’t addressed this at all and wants it to go away. For a reactonary cat that’s out of line. Also, the fact that his whole blog persona is that of a single dude is a concern. Most of the married people on here reflect that status in all their posts. Finally he hasn’t come out and said it’s not true so if I had to place a bet I’d say it’s true. No matter what goes down tho leave my oatmeal out of this. You don’t know me like that Tiger.

Kimmie if we do the indecent proposal thing I’m going to need 70% off the top. I’m going to need the loot to medicate my ego after ol Rico Suave has his way with you. Also, I charge a $5000 “entry fee”. Dam, seems like you might have a side job in the future.

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this

melo you better not, stop! Staceye if you tell him, make him pay big gurl! lmao.

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Mqew I know a guy who was searching high and low for the “one”. He definitely came off as a little weak. Women ran all the way over him, backed up, and did it again. Then he became a ho3. He found that that wasn’t working for him either, so he decided to leave the ho3’n alone. Then he met me…

Now if you happen to possess the right qualities from both of those extremes, dude just might have himself something. :)

Have a ball! I luv Vegas!

I wish The Luxor was in the middle of the strip. Daggg.

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

Truth I usually don’t get into such affairs on this blog, but here is my take on it. Rell and AmRed have been going at it for a while. If it REALLY bothered her I would think she would ignore him. But because of all the back and forth, personally I thought she enjoyed it somewhat. So if Rell is MidnightRider to me it comes off as a “GOTCHA!”

Furthermore, this is somewhat of an anonymous forum. If I decide to communicate offline with someone, then, to me, that should stay offline. With that said - I can understand her frustration with getting got - but I think you charge that to the game and keep it moving.

I will say this - that whole ‘I should tell his wife’ mess did seem a little silly.

By ImAPeach404

March 6, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ Kinder. I won’t say nothing girl! Maybe everybody else was sleep, hee hee.

Thanks Cemeeli!

Yall have a nice day… off to do some work :-)

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 11:42 AM | Link to this

Beautiful - What did Truth look like in your dream? LOL

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

ARed LOL @ interesting

Truth LOL @ calling dude Tiger lolol now ordering bulk supply of oatmean and raisins from Sam’s Club ctfu

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Truth - Make it 50% & you gotta a deal! I’m going to need medication too and a full body condom to complete the deed!

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Blue If you ain’t said a mouthful. I’m so giving you the mic right now.

If yoll trying to make some bread, come around and rake up my leaves, cut my grass, wash up the ride, etc. But I ain’t givin’ no handouts to no youngin’ outfitted in the latest hunnid-fiddy dolla airmaxes/jordan’s. Settin’ a bad precedence for these little kids.

Then my lil one is in the backseat like mom are they serious? Me = nah darlin’ they’re can’t be…

kinderbabe…what date do you mean?? retracting that…think it was someone else.

Mqew thanks for the tranparent story. It takes a real…

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

WOW mqew, that was interesting! So, some who take that route succeeds in finding their woman. Great post!

…He’s been so calm today when usually any perceived affront on my part will have him ranting and raving at me all day. Have to admit, you have a point here!!!

There’s a few wounded soliders in the camp this morning. Let’s wipe up the ketchup (blood), bandage the gaping holes and keep on moving!

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

ARed i couldn’t see. we all were facing oprah in the same direction, so he was behind me kinda. and you know how dreams are, they block out the faces of people you don’t really know in real life.

on topic marriage is not important to me as having a SO. and yes, the man determines if there will be a wedding or not. i miss being in love too.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Tazzee - It’s not at all about “getting got.” That’s not what happened. It’s about folks taking a “joke” or whatever the motive is way too far. I’m all for laughs and fun, but when you reach the point where you’re doing as much as he’s done, you need to let folks know that it really isn’t funny anymore.

In addition, this goes beyond what you see online. I’ve made friends on this blog and I’ve found some offline comments about me (when I was nowhere in sight) that are disturbing.

That being said, my purpose was not to embarrass him. But it is most certainly a very public BACK OFF. I can stand down from here on in. If this is where it ends, there are no hard feelings. Some folks don’t know where to draw the line sometimes.

Yes, the wife part, heck, the whole thing is silly. But I bet you’re glad you don’t have a husband that behaves in such a manner.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

Staceye u thupid. lol @ That’s called a hangover! Dang! And oh yea Stewie w/ the British accent…smoker.

Dreams why is it so dim in the auditioning room?

By QC

March 6, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

Hey BK smooches Boo

Hey Page, Cemeemee, Beautiful

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla Man! Can I just tell you that I hate those beggin-azz-kids!!! Apologies to anyone who’s child has been begging on the corner - I don’t hate your child personally, I hate the entire concept. When I was coming up, we WORKED for stuff. I was a car-washing, candybar-pimping hustler back in the day. Honestly, it taught me the value of hardwork and I think this corner begging is just lending to the youth’s entitlement mentality.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

March 6, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Dang I had to come out of lurkville on this one.Smh and laughing at the same time. Too dang funny. hello *Jake & Musing * if you guys are lurking….

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 12:01 PM | Link to this

Truth I’m trying to figure out why everyone jumped her.

Come on now dawg. You, me, her, and everybody else whose been against the grain on this blog is gon’ get some jumped. It is what it is. In my book, she was cool w/ e’rything she said right up until she said THIS ===> Very valid question, and yes I do have more evidence. It won’t be released at this time, but soon.

FTR: I ain’t knocking your oatmeal program, I love it too, just ain’t putting in all the extra. LOL

Tazzee If it REALLY bothered her I would think she would ignore him.

I said this same thing yesterday. I think both of dem bammaz like each other. LOL But puttin’ dude on the Stalk List is akin to calling him a future rapist.

LMAO @ Leggs There’s a few wounded soliders in the camp this morning. Let’s wipe up the ketchup (blood), bandage the gaping holes and keep on moving!

Yous a foo. :D

By melo

March 6, 2008 12:03 PM | Link to this

I’ve made friends on this blog and I’ve found some offline comments about me (when I was nowhere in sight) that are disturbing girl, u pushing the tolerance envelope with that silly stuff. We all got it, rell did and there is no need for back and forth.If u all do mature stuff outside the blog, who got f***, who is friends with who etc and what drama may be unfolding..keep it there!! Its now bordering on attention overfill disorder..dont u think??!!

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

LOL Tazzee Girl, I’m with you re: those begging kids! Why was I at CVS here in The A (lol wink), was this dude standing outside talking about “excuse me can you give me a little change, I am trying to get money to pay for this hotel room for me and my daughter”. It’s like STFU with that BS!!!! I mean, seriously!

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Tazz first off do you have luggage big enough to sneak me in to vegas with you? I promise to leave the room if things get steamy. I personally thought the back and forth was cool as so many people have little flirt sessions online. Nothing serious. However, if things get to that level there’s a problem. I wouldn’t go with the telling the wife thing either but it’s not me.

Kimmie sorry baby but 65% is the lowest I can go. That’s it. I have to sit around and count my $650,000 dollars while my wittle Kimme Wimmee is being violated in all types of ways. Yeah, I’m gonna need my 650k. I’m broken up just thinking about it. Darrell can I get a deposit slip please. LOL

Ared, in Beautiful’s dream The Truth was a bald headed light skinned cat with a stache and goatee. 5’11 with a medium build, college educated, veteran, homeowner, business owner, world traveller and all around good person with a mean streak in him. LOL And Beautiful thought it was her crush it was really me holding her hand, while trying to slip it up her thigh.

Similac “Dreams why is it so dim in the auditioning room?” LMAO

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 12:09 PM | Link to this

Melo ^5…but she can’t stop.

By SlimOne

March 6, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Stace that’s called a Hangover I set myself up for that one….but really i hardly drank so i know what wasn’t it. I probably waited too late to eat, then what I ate had to have had some bearing on my pain…but it was SOOO good. The Red Fish at Two Urban Licks And don’t let me find out you done stole my proposal to ask some unsuspecting dude. LOL!

Ared I was really just messing with ya. I could care less. I’ll do like Keyshia Cole and Let It Go

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 12:11 PM | Link to this

keep it there!! Its now bordering on attention overfill disorder..dont u think??!!

melo - Of course I don’t think that but I see your point. I’m not trying to hide behind anything, so I felt it prudent to not just drop a blog bomb then not respond to people who were curious.

But yeah, I’ll keep it there.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 12:14 PM | Link to this

Melo I can not reveal any info told to me in secrecy….I’m like a Catholic preist..only I am a woman, I don’t like little boys,and and I do not like to be covered up!

Tazee I think best hotels in Vegas are the Venician, The Wynn, and Bellagio. Those are the ones I have stayed at.

Cemeeli D@mn you vile woman…that is a great one-liner from Stewie! LOL

V103 is jamming with the old school R&B…Mary Jane Girls, Vanity, Cherelle, etc…

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 12:14 PM | Link to this

Cee/Tazz Man! Can I just tell you that I hate those beggin-azz-kids!!!

Plus… my light is green flashing yellow and I’m checkin’ dude in front of me to see if it’s gon’ be cool for me to make it… and out pops bucket dude. SMH

By Jay

March 6, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

Hello Beautiful. How are you?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

Truth “Darrell can I get a deposit slip please.”

Sorry. Can’t help ya, bruh. I don’t work in a branch. But if you give Kimmee your account number she can just transfer it to you online. LOL!

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this

The Truth was a bald headed light skinned cat with a stache and goatee. 5’11 with a medium build, college educated, veteran, homeowner, business owner, world traveller and all around good person with a mean streak in him.

Truth - I didn’t ask you all of that! But hmm…LOL!

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this

Staceye V103 is jamming with the old school R&B…Mary Jane Girls, Vanity, Cherelle, etc…

How you gon’ come with the PSA after the fact? …exhales

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

I train my dogs off of Gresham and every sat and sun those kids are out on Boulevard and 285 selling old azz Kripsy Kreem donuts. I’m like wtf? There’ s no KK in the hood. LOL

Y’all can sleep on the oatmeal if you like but when your 65 and have clogged pipes you’ll be wishing you had sampled my recipe.

By mqew

March 6, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs Before he met me, he didn’t approach it like Bella’s friend, but he def had a mission, and EVERYone was a potential. After, the treatin women like THEY the ho3s, he re-evaluated his approach on life, love, and the pursuit of happiness and decided that he was goin to leave the game alone….

Ceemee I’ma keep it real, if I’on do shyt else!

BK Dude def has somethin and of course know he has somethin’! with all those qualities

thinking of Vegas… the Bare pool at the Mirage My fav

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

Slim you are a true nut! LOL

Blue you know I gotta do my PSAs bruh! LOL

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Ared sorry, that was my self plug. LOL

Darrell you know dam well if I give her my account number that loots not gonna make it to my account. I don’t trust her, she’s sleeping with some rich cat. LOL

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

Darrell Sorry. Can’t help ya, bruh. I don’t work in a branch. But if you give Kimmee your account number she can just transfer it to you online. LOL!

Dude I was gon’ crack a joke, but the way Bush is trying to get all these anti-terrorist homeland security agendas passed, I’m worried that 4 6’3 dudes in black suits and shades will be kickin’ in the door. Dang…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

Truth “Darrell you know dam well if I give her my account number that loots not gonna make it to my account.”

True. LOL! But if she withdraws the money in cash or you deposit it in cash, ya’ll are gonna have all kinds of government agencies breathing down your neck thinking it’s laundered drug money. You and her are just gonna have to work something out, man. Will a cashier’s check or money order work? LOL!

By jraw

March 6, 2008 12:35 PM | Link to this

It’s been a while since I posted a comment and things are off the chain in here today. Bella’s friend is acting like a psycho. If I knew anyone that acted like that I would run the other way. When I married my wife almost 12 yrs ago, I wasn’t in a hurry at all. There was no pressure we just let nature take its course.

By mqew

March 6, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

Dang My co-worker just came in here cryin like somethin happened to her kids or somethin. Turns out, she’s p** as he11 at her husband. Hubby said that because when we were fighting yesterday you called me_ I’m leavin! WTF Dude just wanna go. I’d be like, deuces with both middle fingers!

Back to your regularly scheduled blog events

Staceye I forgot about the Venetian, luv it!

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

hey QC! yo brother is melting me like butter ova here. lol.

Jay happy to read you sweetie!

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

Truth do you breed dogs and if so what kind??

By mytwotatas

March 6, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

Bella Does he understand why this is NOT a compliment? Has your circle provided him with any feedback on strictly targeting females who’d be receptive to this kind of arrangement? Cuz I’m sure there are some. Somewhere.

Re: Beggin’ Azz Kids – They ain’t on nobody’s team! Or else their school colors change each week.

Hmmm, since everybody agreed to let it go, why isn’t it already GONE???

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

spit out her secret!! Sme dude needs to be blessed right now!! see that’s why i can’t hate yo a$$. lol. hug

By IslandGirl

March 6, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

Hello Blog Fam…just stopping in to say what it do…I see some folks are fighting in the spot.

It’s almost Friday folks, keep things happy. Whats up Truth, Slim, Tazzee, BK, Cemeeli, Melo, Raqi and Kimmie…if I missed yah…be easy.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 12:45 PM | Link to this

I have presa canarios (google it) and i have a nice pair I’m thinking about breeding. I do protection training and sport work with them. Shoot me and email and I’ll send you a pic if you like. This weekend is a nice competition right here in atlanta. i’m hoping to pick up a few more titles for my male.

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

mqew he was lookin’ for an excuse/reason to leave ol gurl. :(

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Mqew I’d be like, deuces with both middle fingers!

Yeah right. If you was into this dude and your marriage you’d be just like your girl, mad as hayo. You ain’t doin’ the FU until at least the second weekend. Either your girl is a real beyotch or dude already has a sidepiece… or both.

How many on here know peeps that’ve been married for over 15 years and now getting the Big D? WTF is up with that?

By melo

March 6, 2008 12:53 PM | Link to this

see that’s why i can’t hate yo a$$. lol. hug thanx..trust me tween u,stac and another nameless blog chic,i’m having a hard time choosing my real flame myself! Im just gonna go with whoever hits on me 1st…coz i like bold girls!!

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

there’s nothing better than an old school cotto salami sandwich and lays chips for lunch, with a cup of red koolaid on the side. yum! lol.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

Hi IG where have you been woman? I been looking for you. LOL

Darrell they only look if it’s over 10000 right?

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

Oh baybeh I know what they are Truth I mentioned some time ago here that I wanted one or two..Love them…but I know they would eat Elvis…sigh

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 12:59 PM | Link to this

melo - I say you choose Beautiful because she’ll give you less lip and make sure you’re fed and the feets are rubbed! LOL

By jraw

March 6, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

@BK How many on here know peeps that’ve been married for over 15 years and now getting the Big D? WTF is up with that?

My neighbors were married for 18 years and this just got a divorce this year. That was a crazy situation. They both had new lovers almost instantly after they split. On the outside looking in I thought they were happy. Fool the sh**t out me.

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 1:00 PM | Link to this

Staceye I’ve stayed at the Bellagio and the Luxor (didn’t care for the Luxor). I was pushing for the Venetian, but it’s not my birthday that’s being celebrated - so we’ll be staying elsewhere. I’ve been to the spa at the Venetian though and it was nice.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 1:01 PM | Link to this

Truth Whats your emial I have to see Im such a dog enthusiast but I don’t know how I ended up with a cat….actually Rell is the one who talked me out of getting one sometime ago said I prolly couldn’t handle them….I really really want one tho I can taste it I want one so bad….

By cali crush

March 6, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this

Aren’t you a little late with dinner, bootiful?

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this

Speaking about begging on the corner, there’s a hunched back guy that is always on the exit ramp of 285 hunching w/a cane over to cars. I had given him money in the past. One day last year, I actually saw him standing upright w/out the cane. Never again! I’ve also been told that some of those begging have more $$ than you and me!

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S

March 6, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this

I agree Jazzyone

ARED Stop being such a

ATTENTION WHOR3

Get a real life. NO ONE on this blog wasn’t to hear about you boring. lame life!

YOu engulf everyone into you own little world…every day. As if its’ all about ARED! Grow up…..it’s not always about you!

CAN YOU PLEASE STOP HI JACKING THE BLOG EVERYDAY?? You havea an issue everyday!! You just like attention…you and 6’1

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

Truth “Darrell they only look if it’s over $10,000 right?”

Lookin’ for loopholes, huh? LOL! You’re right, though. The general rule of thumb is if it’s in excess of $10K, BUT, there’s something called ‘structuring’ which is also illegal. Meaning, you can’t break up the cash into incremental transactions so as to make it “appear” that you’re trying to evade the reporting requirements. So, even if you got Kimmee to give you your $650K as 100 money orders at $6,500 each, you’d still be on the hook - if they were purchased with cash.

By mqew

March 6, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

Beaut he always picks fights wit her. true bytchazzness IMO

actually I think it’s because she’s the bread winner AND the one with a master plan

They’ve been married for like 4ys, but have been together since h.s…

BK Okay… I guess I would be so mad I couldn’t see straight. but I’ve been there so…. But neither one of us uttered the Big D word cause we know we gonna work it out. yea, forgot, he said he’s leaving and will file

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

ARed have i said too much on here? lol. y’all starting to read me like a book. ladies, i know you wanna put the babies first, but i’m sorry to tell ya that he does. please don’t find out the hard way. kay.

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

cali that was my lunch hun. sometimes i get tired of going out to eat. wanted to brown bag it today.

Jay u didn’t comment on 2days topic. spill it!

By melo

March 6, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

ignore that tramp!! ared i wont choose her,she got to choose me if she feeling me(whoevr it is)..B haz a crush on smbody already so let her die softly inside,unless she lets hm knw!!!

By I HATE ATTENTION WHOR3S

March 6, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

I agree Jazzyone

ARED Stop being such a

ATTENTION WHOR3

Get a real life. NO ONE on this blog wasn’t to hear about you’re boring. lame life!

YOu engulf everyone into you’re own little world…every day. As if its’ all about ARED! Grow up…..it’s not always about you!

CAN YOU PLEASE STOP HI JACKING THE BLOG EVERYDAY?? Give someone else a chance. You have an issue everyday!! You just like attention…you and 6’1

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

Jazzy atlred01@yahoo.com As long as you raise them together they’ll be ok

By mqew

March 6, 2008 1:13 PM | Link to this

BK I think that >15 year thing is because the kids are older most of the childrearing is over… Oh and don’t let the child be 16, driving age, need I say more…

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

  • Meaning, you can’t break up the cash into incremental transactions so as to make it “appear” that you’re trying to evade the reporting requirements.*

Darrell - I think that’s how they got Mayor Franklin’s daughter. LOL

Beautiful - Yup, the more you post, the more we get to know you. That’s how I know who you’re crushing on. LOL

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

Okay we are off that Attention…

Sexyleggs how about this lady at the gas station asked me for money as i fill up my house note and i told her no..then go into the store to get coffee and get in line to pay..how about she walks up behind me and cashes in two jumbo bucks tickets for 500 dollars…now this is at 6:30 am in the morning…

So a few days later down the street im going into the beauty supply and shes out there begging and says you have.I stopped her and said listen you lame take your a* to a job you cashed in 500 tickets behind me the other day GTFOH..and she replies well im just asking I said trick you need to loan me a 20 heyal..p** me off..

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Melo ”..B haz a crush on smbody already so let her die softly inside,unless she lets hm knw!!!”

Which reminds me. We still don’t know who it is Beautiful has a blog crush on. (Overt hint to Beautiful to come on ‘n ‘fess up.) ;-)

By Rell

March 6, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

@truth…I mention before my nieghbor has one…i am tempted to get one..but the investment he was telling me about is dayum near like adding another child…i already have a boxer how are they with other dogs….his dog loses it when he sees another dog..i mean if i am outside with mine he walks the other way

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

IslandGirl where have you been? Thanks for the drive-by.

Jazzy I did not know you loved dogs. I’m a dog lover but I can’t sit my behind still enough to care for one. Never thought about getting a cat until recently - but I can’t deal with any PMS but mine in my household so it’s just me. I did get a little attached to a lizard that was camped on my window sill for a while. He and I were cool until he showed up near my feet one day…

By Dan

March 6, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

Careful Darrell….

I do BSA for a living and coming dangerously close to accomplicing….

lol

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 1:22 PM | Link to this

ARed spill it gurl! i bet u $100 u don’t know. lmao.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

So truth if Elvis (Elvie) is 3 1/2 its to late for him and a puppy??

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

Beautiful - If I spill it and I’m right are you gonna fess up? I don’t want you frontin like I didn’t guess it if I did. LOL

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

Amazon

On the real - that’s exactly how they nabbed Mayor Franklin’s daughter - a trail of money orders for small dollar amounts ($2,500 or less). All that falls under what’s called the “Bank Secrecy Act” and it applies to a myriad of cash transactions from bank deposits/withdrawals and any “big ticket” purchases with cash, like cars, yachts, homes, etc. that meet the threshhold of that law. Yep, that’s how she got pinched.

By star1

March 6, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon all….The past few serious relationships I was in the guy wanted to settle down & tie the knot….I DIDNT…I eben let one guy go when he started talking about looking for rings because I knew he deserved way better than I could offer…..

Question for the married or used to be married women…do/did u ever get tired of your wifey duties????My boyfriend stays with me when he’s in town…usually no more then 3-4 days at most……& I admit I play the wifey role & do things for him mainly because he helps me out ALOT…but that can be tiresome….& to think if I had a child….Big Props to u married women with kids that includes the hubby…lol…

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

ARed you’re right, i would deny it.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

LMAOFF at Tazz……you are crazy girl Im cracking the heyal up…Not the lizard he was trying to get in atcha since you were making eyes at him..

yes Ive always wanted a dog but was in and out of the country working so much i couldn’t get one..since Ive purchased my last home I wanted to get an Egyptian Great Dane or a Bouviare or Rotty my top was Presa..but I ended up getting Elvie I rescued him he was so sweet and beautiful and a polydactly and black he made eyes at me so I took him home…I do not want any kind of female nothing up in my house I’m the only p*y that will be up in that camp period.

But once I get done with this property stuff I want to get a dog and will board when I travel…

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Hey der now Ms. QC

Oh - Beautiful’s other crush is Darrell. I know i wasn’t the only one to peep that.

Lol…Staceye yea that is a great one liner.

Blue you gotta school these kids on that bucket trip. They get hold to the right mamma when they come too Cee car. I just go head and school ‘em sweetheart this should not be your hustle. Please stop.

Mqew is it wing night or what?

I can’t help but Lol @ I HATE…

By 2CPTG

March 6, 2008 1:36 PM | Link to this

y’all some’n else….this shyt bett’n T.V.!!!!

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Tazzee!!! you said azz. LOL

Lunchtime Discoveries:

Although I despise Oreos I will eat them when I am hungry.

I ate alligator for the first time today. I like it pretty good.

Lunchtime Travel Observations:

We were sitting at the light and there was what was clearly two young boys and a girl at the bus stop. They looked to be no older than 13 or 14. The boys were sitting on a flower bed wall and the girl was standing in front of them shaking her behind in their faces. Mason said, “Look at that. That is trouble waiting to happen.”” Suppose to be in school…sigh. Do some of these parents not check the attendance when their kids bring home report cards? Conduct and attendance is the very first thing I look at. Conduct for the obvious reasons and attendance to make sure there is no cutting class and/or skipping school. The good thing about my youngest son’s school, the day that he misses (sickness or whatever) I get a call that evening.

Lunchtime Observation:

Our waiter was one of the prettiest women I have laid eyes on. And he smelled good too. (A damn shame)

Returning to Work Lunchtime Observation:

If you make out in the parking deck with some one in your car the 73 yr old security guy will give you a blushing grin when you walk pass his booth.

Don’t return to work with a hickie in plain view when you didn’t leave with it. (Dang who getz hickies at 40.)

Some one sent me flowers while I was out.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Beautiful - At least you’re honest! LOL. Keep it a guessing game. It’s cute and I’m sure every blog dude thinks you’re talking about them, so give em a little shine in their lives. LOL

But damn, I sho need a $100. Scana has got me with no vaseline. LOL

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Truth/Darrell - Okay, yall discussing all kindza transactions for the money I had to use MY precious body to get while I was gone, I see. Truth, I’ve told you about discussing our business with er body! But I guess it’s okay to use Darrell as our financial advisor, like dude in the movie! See, if you had checked with me 1st, I’d told you that, unlike the movie, I would have asked for WAY more than a million! Accounting for the recession we’re in and everything, I would want enough so that after taxes(this is all on the up-and-up, I don’t do jail!)I want us EACH to be able to clear a cool million! Considering I had to wear a full body condom and get high & liquored up to do this thing! I’m gonna need the extra money for therapy too, dealing with your insecurity about what happened with me and ole dude on that ship, even though we agreed never to speak of it! I guess we’ll have to give Darrell a cut too, for his financial advice and his vow of silence.LOL!!!

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

Tazzee and the most sickening thing about those kids carrying buckets begging…some trifling azz grown up put them up to it. It’s simply disgusting.

By WTF???

March 6, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

MY FEET SMELL LIKE CORN CHIPS!!!!

By melo

March 6, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

Beautiful,(im gonna tell this to my daughters too coz they talk marriage in their youth): this dating,luv thang, like Truth said once, is a contact spot.If u think u wanna protect ur heart from hurt, u gonna be on ur own 4 a long time.If u feel smebody strongly, u let them knw, if they dont receiprocate,u keep it moving and hpefully another will appreciate u.So this bizz of bottling stuff coz u too proud to be brazen and wanna protect ur tender heart and wont let dude knw u feel him, is for losers. U wil end last all the time.Coz good,brazen chics with luv plans get their mans….. all the time!!And some arent even all that or were w*******, but they’ve figured this thang already.Nw u knw….

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

Hi Island Girl, where you been?!

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

Raqi - LOL!!!

But you know youze a freak girl! Get it!

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

I will sleep butt naked in the cold before I do business with Scana Energy. Yeah I hope yall are looking ‘cause I said and I mean it.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

Kimmie “Darrell a cut too, for his financial advice and his vow of silence.”

LOL! Good one. :-)

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

Darrell I stepped away for lunch but I just read your response to my question and I understand exactly what you are saying because I feel the exact same way. That was the main reason why after 7 years in a relationship and engagement I ended the relationship before marriage. I will say though, I had a very wise person to tell me that if relationships with multiple people end for basically the same reasons and you are the only common denominator, that might be something to really looked at.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

IslanGirl you feeling any better?

2C On Demand and TIVO? what you think?

By mqew

March 6, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

Kimmie Considering I had to wear a full body condom and get high & liquored up to do this thing High & liquored up. I’d recommend Dro nutn TO harsh, just enuf and a top shelf Long Beach made by Dugan’s Ceemee not da wings but the drink, will be there 2moro

co-worker getting her locks changed

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

Raqi - I wish I had known that when I picked Scana. They lured me with their SkyMiles. LOL!

Tazzee - I just read that lizard comment and ROTFLMAO!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

Kimmie “Darrell a cut too, for his financial advice and his vow of silence.”

LOL! Good one. :-)

By Teresa

March 6, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

**@WTF yours too!!!!!

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, that was funny…attached to a lizard once! I have a cat and although they pretty much ignore you, they’re interesting to watch. Once you get past the kitten stage, they’re pretty much on their own!

By melo

March 6, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this

scana works pretty good for us..our bills used to be up and dwn until we arranged a different rating methodology with them…its nw 8 yrs.But then again, do we have a choice of providers in lithonia

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

I hate all pets. Indoors and Out. I can’t stand that little bytch that sleeps in my laundry now. If my son’s father had not given it to him when our first dog was stolen, I would get rid of her.

By Dan

March 6, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

Wait,

I just ‘membered!

I’m in the A this week, what’s up with the Dugans meet and greet on tomorrow?

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this

Yeah, Darrell/Truth, cause see it would be just my luck to have some dude that looked like Flavor Flav and not Denzel, to make me that kind of offer. Somebody that’s got to offer millions for 1 night. LOL!! And condoms, liquor, illegal drugs, a paper bag over his head & some millions is what it would take for me to go there!LOL!!!

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

I’m in the A this week, what’s up with the Dugans meet and greet on tomorrow?

Well, you know I won’t be there. I’ll probably get stabbed. LOL

melo - I’ve really had no problems with Scana. There rates are higher than the others, I didn’t know that the time. The only think keeping me from switching is sheer laziness… but winter is coming to a close so I should be able to cut a better deal on the rate soon.

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

melo after the deregulation of the gas system I went with Scana. Not only did they have the highest rates of all the companies but they had a mess of crap fee embedded in their bill. Those “miscellaneous” charges was almost a third of the bill.

Maybe they have changed, but I will never find out.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 2:17 PM | Link to this

Jazzy you have mail.

Kimmie I’m getting moist eyes over here knowing I’m in it for 1 mill, sorry, hand me a napkin. I have a newfound love and respect for you. Darrell where can I put this much cash and not fall under the watchful eyes of the govt? Dam Kimmie move yo azz outta the way, you see I’m talking to Darrel Btw, Darrell’s cut come from your end.

Rell/Rider lmao Really if his dog is doing all that then the dog is running the show. I tell my dogs when and who to bark at, unless we’re in the house or car where they can bark at anyone getting near. Ol boy needs to get that under wraps because that dog doesn’t see ol boy as alpha leader. Ask the dude if he lets the dog sleep with him. Another big no no and a good way to get bit. These dogs aren’t for everyone.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Kimmie you crazee! LOL!

By Willie Dynamite

March 6, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

Raqi Tell us how you really feel. You been waiting a minute to get that offa ya chest huh!!LMAO

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

Raqui - I am rolling over your 2:08, but I totally feel you! It’s GOT to be love for me, because my guy has 2 cats for his kids. They really are kinda sweet, but I am so not an animal lover! Well, relationships require compromise!

By mqew

March 6, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

ARED You had me straight LAUGHING OUT LOUD!!!! YOU’S A FOOOOL! FUN E!!

By mqew

March 6, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

DAN I will be there with my girl not that you asked, but she’s single. My co-worker was gonna come to, but uuuhhm I think she’ll be busy

Raqi I feel you. I have cat. Actually, she’s my SOs cat. But I have to stop calling her bytch so my son won’t start calling her that!

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

Well, you know I won’t be there. I’ll probably get stabbed. LOL Sad, but funny!

FYI - Walton EMC has the lowest rate per therm…

Another FYI - been meaning to tell you guys about this for months. To watch the latest movies on your computer for FREE go to www.watch-movies.net. I just watched Vantage Point this past Sunday.

By Simp

March 6, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

Beaut With all these crushes, what is 6’1 and I going to do. I like red kool aid too.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 2:27 PM | Link to this

Truth “Darrell where can I put this much cash and not fall under the watchful eyes of the govt?’

Keep this on the low-low cuz’ Dan might be spyin’, but there’s a little pizza joint called Kimmie’s Pizza on the corner of Boulevard and Auburn Avenue that just might be able to help a brutha out. Just ask her if you can slip a lil’ extra in their night drop deposit. LOL!

By Dan

March 6, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

@ARed

I don’t know about you but I was planning to use “Truths” moniker for the first meet, esp. if’n I see someone with the crazy eyes.

I’m sure he wouldn’t mind.

By Jazzyone

March 6, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

Truth dayum…dayum dayum…a magazine photo opt if I ever saw one dude!

By Dan

March 6, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

@Mqew

Not to sexualize your comment, but “your girl”.

What’s that mean?

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Is there a meet and greet tomorrow at Dugan’s? The same one on Flat Shoals Parkway?

By Rell

March 6, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

@Truth…funny,

naw i think his time with the dog is limited….he had good control over the dog..but like i said the dog just loses it…and yea the dog is not for everyone…but it sure does look impressive

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I heard about Walton too. I said when I switched they’d the be the ones I’d try.

Dan - ROTFLMAO!!! at using Truth’s name. Unless you’re 5’11” light skinned and bald, you can’t pass as him anymore. ;-)

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 2:32 PM | Link to this

Dan

LOL @ your 2:28!! Good one!!! :-D

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

Dan “Not to sexualize your comment, but…”

Anyone else get visions of Eddie Murphy’s “Sexual Chocolate” when they read that word “sexualize” in Dan’s post? LOL!!!

By Simp

March 6, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

Sexy. Are you coming out again. You know i’m stalking dem leggs.

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this

Y’all laughing at my pet lizard - but he was in a place where I couldn’t get to him. I can’t stand bugs and a friend told me they eat bugs so I just let him hang out. As I would walk up the stairs and see him perched on the window sill I would say ‘Hi Lizard’ - one day he was gone and I figured he got out the same way he got in. Until I was taking out my stack of recyclables (?) and there he was, right by my feet. I almost passed out and he almost died. But because I had become attached to him - I tried my best to shoo him out the door.

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 2:44 PM | Link to this

Truth/Darrell - Yall do whatever you want to do with Truth’s money, just keep me out of it. Like I said, I ain’t going to jail and be some Big Shirley’s girlfriend! Okay, I agree to give Darrell his cut out of my money, I’ll pay to keep out of trouble. Truth, just don’t come hollering to me, talking about “stand by your man” when you go on trial, cause I ain’t no Mrs. Marion Barry! You shouldn’t have agreed to it if your ego couldn’t handle it! I told you it meant nothing to me! I just wanted us to be able to live comfortably, that’s why I even considered it. I don’t why I let you talk me into these things!LOL

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

Mqew are you serious? Your co-worker’s husband was looking for an excuse to bounce! What a punk! Tell her good riddings and take him for everything he has in the divorce! Don’t get mad..get even! LOL

Oh I just read tha she is teh bread winner…she can pack his shyt in walmart bag and change the locks! LOL

Melo stop staring at my cleavage! LOL

Beautiful with a cup of red koolaid on the side RED is not a flavor ..its a color! LMAO I feel ya girl I loves me so Cherry & tropical punch Kool-Aid!

Tazee while you are there and looking for nice club to party…check out Tao. It’s in the Venetian. Jett was fun too! OPM is ok.

Oh I can’t stand those begging azz kids either. I am coming to the grocery store and they are all over the place. I have ven been on my phone and they will come up and bother me. I have to put on my NY F’ off grill and walk 70 mph for them to know to leave me alone! LOL

Jazzyone your begger sounds like some of the ones on the NYC trains! You can see the same person in 2000 and then see them again in 2008 and she will still be telling you that her husbnad died 3 months ago and she has a 10 year old to feed. I am like, “you lying trick…your 10 year should be 18 now and grown so get your azz outta here with that crap”! People like that makes it bad for those who are really in need because you can’t differentiate between the two.

ARED Scana has got me with no vaseline your new name is Bend Over because gas bills are NO joke! They will get you good! LOL

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

Once a meet and greet has been confirmed and the location, I’ll be there. Would like to meet as many of you fine folk as possible. ARed will be w/me, but you won’t see her. I’m placing her in the witness protection program and will be feeding her information through a wire! I’ll also have a small camera so she can feel she’s in the place with everyone.

By mqew

March 6, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

Dan She’s my friend, not girlfriend. I have a SO (male). I am fe. Shyt may as well spell it all out. And I understand, you have to ask to find out what you’re working wit.

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 2:50 PM | Link to this

Tazzee “As I would walk up the stairs and see him perched on the window sill I would say ‘Hi Lizard’…”

Awwww…ain’t dat cute. LOL!!!!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs “ARed will be w/me, but you won’t see her. I’m placing her in the witness protection program and will be feeding her information through a wire!”

ROFL!!! Amazon’s got to go deep cover now. LOL!!!

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

mqew I freely call her a bytch in front of my son. “Take the b*** out before you leave”. I explained to him the first time he looked at me funny when I called her that, a b*** is a female dog. Which is what she is. Now when a woman annoys me for some reason and I call her a bytch, my son just kind of looks at me. I try not to do that too often but it just slips out sometimes.

By Dan

March 6, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

@Mqew

I remember you saying yesterday that you are a woman.

…you have to ask to find out what you’re working wit.

I was wondering what you were working with, and could I work with y’all.

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

Truth This weekend is a nice competition right here in atlanta. i’m hoping to pick up a few more titles for my male. Where at?

J My neighbors were married for 18 years and this just got a divorce this year. That was a crazy situation. They both had new lovers almost instantly after they split. On the outside looking in I thought they were happy. Fool the sht out me.

Dude, you live on my block?

Attention Dayum. But I gotta ask, why can’t peeps say what they gotta say with all these dayum masks? SMH

Mqew But neither one of us uttered the Big D word cause we know we gonna work it out.

Now that’s what’s up.

LMAO @ Truth Callin’ dude Rell/Rider

Kimmie my guy has 2 cats for his kids.

Now that’s funny and a new one. Two cats?! Dudes I know got dogs.

Lunchtime Observations:

(1) Dudes wearing pink ball caps - No Go. Give that to your sister.

(2) Chicks wearing fake azz eyelashes - No Go. Throw them out with the chit’lin’ cleaning bucket.

(3) Chicks wearing sun dresses - Hayo Yeah! Keep that up.

(4) Chicks with big azz breasticups wearing t-shirts with words all over the front - You just gave e’ry dude on the street another reason to have his eyes pasted on them, but yeah, keep that up too. LOL

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

Darrell Around the house, I talk to myself and other inanimate objects quite a bit so it was cool to talk to something that actually lived - LOL.

By mytwotatas

March 6, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

Dan Not to sexualize your comment, but “your girl”. What’s that mean? LOLOLOL Not all chicks chase the cat!

By Woooowww

March 6, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

…Darrell Around the house, I talk to myself and other inanimate objects quite a bit ….

Can you say counseling?….

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

ARed will be w/me, but you won’t see her. I’m placing her in the witness protection program and will be feeding her information through a wire!”

Somebody please get me some oxygen. SexyLeggs* you killed it with that one! HAAAA!

By melo

March 6, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

1) Dudes wearing pink ball caps - No Go. Give that to your sister. those aint dudes,they’re Sophias

By mytwotatas

March 6, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Oh and did Dan & Brite make it to lunch? Was it tasty?

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

BK - Yeah, a boy & a girl! He got them for his kids after their mother died. He wanted an indoor pet cause their yard is not that big. Cats are actually very easy to train & as long as he keeps their claws cut, are pretty easy to care for. There’s no pet odor in the house either. They are really sweet with the kids.

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Kimmie the thought of you and big shirley stirred my loins for a minute. I wouldn’t let this come between us. Shyt, really nobody knows about it but me, you, and Darrell. LOL P.S. I love that you let me talk you into things .LOL

Dan “Not to sexualize your comment, but…” Wtf???? LOL

Ared I’m with you. I wouldn’t feel safe in the spot. Folks standing around and plotting my demise. I need to be in Sexy’s witsec program too. Sexy do your witsec folks get any good cooking and booty?

Bk over on Stonewell tell in south atlanta. The cane corso folks are putting it on but their testing all breeds.

By mqew

March 6, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Dan I’ain’t mad, like I said. You gotta ask. just neva know

Staceye U must’ve missed it when I said she was changing the locks.

SexyL After them drinks, I shall be there… looking for Danielle. I’m not one to pick a time though for the masses. Not sure how much there will be for mommy to do : ) but I’ll be there prolly round 8

Raqi I’ve heard of people not liking there cats, but I guess I thought ev1 wld like their dogs. Again, I do know how you feel tho.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs I do not think ARED can hide very well at 5’11! LOL But I still luv ya ARED! You want me to pass you a chicken wing and a sip of ale? LOL

By Dan

March 6, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

Yes, we made it lunch.

I had a lovely time, with a lovely woman.

The moniker is completely justified.

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 3:13 PM | Link to this

MyTwo We actually did go to lunch. It was nice meeting Dan, he’s a cool guy.

By melo

March 6, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

Now when a woman annoys me for some reason and I call her a bytch guys, do u find fowl lingo by ladies as sexxy? I kinda do and i think there is a freakiness about wmen like that.U think i’m onto smething???

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Around the house, I talk to myself and other inanimate objects quite a bit…

Now I can understand talking to yourself, but objects?

…Tazzee sitting next to dude on the couch and all of a sudden starts chattin’ it up with the remote and the candle.

Dude: Ohhh dayum. You know what slim? I just forgot, I have to go and wash some clothes…

Tazzee: You don’t have to rush off.

Dude: Naah, I’m just trying to work on keeping up with my schedule.

…Tazzee watches out the window as dude pops that clutch and tears away from the curb.

Truth over on Stonewell tell in south atlanta.

You got a iLink for that, or addy & time?

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Truth “Dan “Not to sexualize your comment, but…” Wtf???? LOL”

We need to dig more into this whole “sexualization” theory Dan has. LOL!

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Kimmie I love kitties! I don’t have to walk them or bath them. Very independent…hmmif woman are cats and men are dogs…that explains a lot. I mean cats are easy pets. Dogs have to be bathed and walked..just an over all pain in the azz!LMAO! I wish I could have a cat but my asthma prevents it:-(

Mqew Oops..another blond moments! LOL

Dan & Brite Eyes sitting in the tree… LOL

By mqew

March 6, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

SexyL Let me know if you need help wit the covert opp. I gotcha back! LOL

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

Truth - To be real, I’m not really worried about the regulars, you don’t even know who on here is lurking from day to day, stalking y’all from the corners of the room. LOL! Yeah, I’m paranoid. But at least I still have my liver. LOL

Staceye - You’re right about me hiding very well! I told y’all how pisces picked me out of a crowd of people! You’re probably the name I’d use but you’ve posted your MySpace page on here.

Dan - I’m making kissing noises at you and Brite. LOL

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Dan That is so sweet and nice and cute! I think Rell might call you a simp, though! CTFU!

By Tazzee

March 6, 2008 3:22 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla LOL - it’s more like ‘don’t be mad at me baby, I’m going to get you cleaned up’ to my car when I go out to the garage and see it’s dirty…something like that - or threatening my one TV that I’ll replace him if he acts up again, LOL.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Blue

I miss Five Points sometimes…but you’re silly…

Chicks wearing fake azz eyelashes - No Go. Throw them out with the chit’lin’ cleaning bucket.

Chit’lin bucket dude?

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

Staceye - Yeah, I must say, for one that does not care for animals, these 2 have grown on me! They are really cute too.!

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

Kimmie hell to the nizzle you didn’t. “because my guy has 2 cats for his kids” you’re already seeing someone else? Dayumm

Ared we should get a big azz hat and trenchcoat and go to the meet up sit right next to them, see what their talking about.

*Bk 5315 stonewall tell. It’s an all weekend thing. Actually it begins tomorrow night with a 12 mile run.

By Miss Va-JayJay

March 6, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

It sure would be nice if i knew what the topic was

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

melo when I was going thru that angry period of my life I kind of adopted the language as my daily speak. I was angry with the world. I hated everyone and everything. Bytch, Dumb azz, Flick you, Heifer, arsehole were all part of my world. It became a habit. I have calmed down a whole lot and am a lot happier but the words still slip out. Make me mad and you will see.

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 3:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye if woman are cats and men are dogs…that explains a lot. I mean cats are easy pets. Dogs have to be bathed and walked..just an over all pain in the azz!LMAO!

Hahaha You wrong for that. But let me one-up you. A dog is the most loyal animal on earth, to include women… AND… ain’t gon’ turn and bite you unless you constantly treat him like shinit. Now a cat gon’ come by rub on ya leg and then when you go to pet it, it’ll run off… AND… jump up and pee on your bed when you ain’t home.

By Rell

March 6, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

@page….i am still here….

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

Ared you could pretend to be me…only Sexyleggs, Melo and Demi could rat you out! LOL Oh yu are right I have a few others that are my My Space friends. Oh well….I will sneak and bring you some bar nuts and a shot of Henney!

By mqew

March 6, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

melo If thas the case, then i’m the sexiest fe you blogknow ;-)

BK I don’t get the fake eyelash thing, BUT I will say, when you’re noticing them, more likely than not, they are not done right. Especially, the chic a Mcky Ds with like eight layers.

By ThirdWheel

March 6, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

What’s up Everyone?? I see this blog is still mad funny!!

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this

Staceye “Dan & Brite Eyes sitting in the tree…”

Dan and Brite on the phone later tonight…

Dan: Okay, I guess I better go now.

Brite: Alright, if you have to, Dan.

Dan: So, which one of us should hang up first?

Brite: Why don’t you hang up first?

Dan: No, you hang up.

Brite: Uh-uh. You hang up.

LOL!!!

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Truth, those in my program will have to find their own booty. I can direct YOU to the right place. ARed, I’ll have to give some thought to where I’d direct you. Must take stock of the men in the program. Just can’t be hooking you up all willy nilly with just anyone!

Mquew, you’re Special Agent Pleasure (you’re in charge of all battery operated devices) (LOL).

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Truth - I’m going to be their server. LOL

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

March 6, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Well hello all! Just dropping in since i have a moment to breathe. No time to really try and see what the topic is, but I know ya’ll are holding it down.

DreamsMaterialize if you are in a sistah could use a good drank!

Hey Lady J, Page1908, Cemeeli, SexyLeggs, Alvin, Rell and the rest of Blogsville

Is it 5 o’clock yet???

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Truth -Now you know we had a business deal, don’t go getting jealous on me! You knew the deal going in. But see, you got all the rights cause you & I are LEGAL. How else were my needs going to be met while you worked out your ISSUES?:)

By ThirdWheel

March 6, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

What’s up Everyone?? Nice to see this blog is still mad funny!!

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 3:37 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo Good to see you are still breathing.

Rell why are you so quiet today? that’s interesting don’t you think?

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

You all are too funny and silly!! When did it become such a big deal for people to have lunch together. If I’m not mistaken it happens pretty often, with quite a few people on the blog. It’s always nice to have the opportunity to meet new people, don’t you think?

By mqew

March 6, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this

SexyL I can do. I work near all the spots on Cheshire Bridge. No all the peeps…. TMI?

I’m out yall b e z!

By melo

March 6, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

Ared you could pretend to be me…only Sexyleggs, Melo and Demi could rat you out! only way to keep ma mouth shut is if u let me sample sme of the stuff that had night rider in darrel strawberry-like hypnotic delerium, Ared

By Rell

March 6, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

@Page…..not really, i just let folks do them today…..whats interesting about tha????

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo…waving…

It’s been Live today. Would you like a milk dud or some now n’later?

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Ared cool, I’ll be the gay bartender. Can one of you ladies arch my eyebrows? Also, I want to get my bellybutton pierced.

Kimmie you know i’m light skinned and you how we turn red. I’m red as hellz now. This ain’t right. And to a dude with 2 cats? Wtf is going on? Tell me the dude played football or something. 2 cats?

LMAO at Darrell. leave them alone. They just broke bread.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 3:45 PM | Link to this

Blue I am ROTFLMO! You are a mess!

Darrell you are wrong for that one! LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

Mo you’re alive! lol yeah we’ll have to celebrate you re-appearance with a drink. you know it’s always tequilla if you leave it up to me. double shot?

By melo

March 6, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

Make me mad and you will see do u say sme of that nice stuff when mason is giving u exclusive pleasures?..which i think is a trait feisty and arrogant,cant be beaten-down chics/women have, by the way(and its a good thang if u ask me-ared and stac cme to mind…).

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

BriteEyez - It became a big deal when pisces and were schedling lunch on the blog. Because SexyLeggs and Demi did the same and no one gave a damn. So you’re special. LOL

Page1908 - I’m cracking up! You little instigator you. LOL

Truth - I was gonna put you as the bathroom attendent or maybe the valet, but I guess the gay bartender works too! LOL

By kimmie

March 6, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

Truth - I’m a Light Brite too, and I’m red with laughter! Yeah, the kids had lost their mom and the cats made them happy - he’s a fine, tall, cut dude that’s sensitive to his kids’ needs too:)! Naw, he didn’t play ball, but he could have. He don’t take no shyt, tho! If he knew me and yous was together, he might get violent! You just need to lay back in the cut till you get yours and we’ll fly down to the Bahamas for our quickie divorce(among other things, wink, wink)LOL!!

By mytwotatas

March 6, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

BE & D (hahaha, I made a funny.) LOVELY! Nuthin wrong w/ having someone to play hooky with…

I’m upset that you don’t have your own reality show, Melo. You’re somehow able to maintain a level of foolishness here that simply MUST carry over into real life. I’d be forced to DVR you!

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

Rell, what’s interesting is that you have NEVER been this quiet. I thoroughly understand both your feelings are hurt, but you’ll a tad bit too quiet.

Excellent mqew, need to restock my inventory and you’re working in the right area!

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 6, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Hope everyone had a wonderful lunch, just lurking today!!

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Dreams gettin toasted.

ARed I’m just asking. I had asked him a question ealrier in the day and he never responded. Sometimes a person’s lack of response can tell you everything you need to know….lol smh..I’m still busting up about it because it’s just funny and obvious, you know.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 6, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

I guess BK was right about you earlier *TRUTH!! I knew there was something funny about you. I think you would look dazzling in pink.

Freak of nature you are TRUTH!!

What man in his right mind would sign up for being the GAY bartender??!lmao!!!!!!!

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Kimmie like i’m scared. Tell him to come here and ask for me. My name is M E L O. Kick my azz.

Ared cancel that bathroom attendant thing. That’s a shytty job. I’d rather be the gay bartender. LOL

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Ared* Ohhhh, that’s what it is! Well, that will work because special suits me.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

March 6, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize Yes, a double shot please! Its been that kinda week

Cemeeli I’ll take a Now-n-Later pelase!

By melo

March 6, 2008 4:08 PM | Link to this

mytwotatas,level of foolishness here that simply MUST carry over into real life* im quiet, in real lyfe..not real crazy…but am grateful to the blog coz the day i discovered it,i never stress at wrk..i take it out on u’all,then apologize cme end of day…And i’m very blessed to knw sme on here(a little), who are really good and beautiful God’s creatures!!

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Mo where r u? Dreams is holding a glass for you, over here leaning on the corner of the wall like Billie D.

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

Did SexyLeggs just say “I understand how BOTH your feelings are hurt?” ROTFLMAO. Dang, we are some real azzholes on here. LOL!!!

Page1908 - I’m tickled now, especially since y’all are teasing and you’ve actually met him. You might have lost a drinking buddy. LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

Mo Oh, well a double shot might not be enough. Let’s just finish the bottle. I got you. ;-)

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

Mo/Dreams I’m with Page you too just seem right.

Look’it: MoBettaDreams. come on now don’t get any better than that.

PageThis time I’ll bring the Fondue set. K!

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

but am grateful to the blog coz the day i discovered it,i never stress at wrk..i take it out on u’all,then apologize cme end of day

My co-workers wonder why I smile all day. It’s usually because I’m still laughing at something that was said on here.

But clearly, take it out on here too. I guess I should at least apologize at the end of the day. LOL

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this

Truth - We need someone in the bathroom though in case a random (or not so random) hook up happens in there. Recruit someone then!

By Raqi

March 6, 2008 4:18 PM | Link to this

melo do you mean when he is trying to catch that interception replay on the screen before he turns it off, all the while trying to keep me interested and not turn me off and make me lose that loving feeling and I tell him “You know what Mase just flick it.” And he answers sarcastically “I will in a minute just hold on.” Then I say “Ha, Ha fun-nee. Roll the flick up off me”. Is that what you mean? LOL

That’s it for today melo. Only one every six months from now on.

By Cemeeli

March 6, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

Melo

nd i’m very blessed to knw sme on here(a little), who are really good and beautiful God’s creatures!!

Here guy {{{{{blog hug}}}}}} for you. That’s sort of my same opinion about the blog.

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

ARed, I know you’re feelings aren’t hurt but couldn’t interchange the word “disappointed” while typing that sentence.

By Page1908

March 6, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

ARed and Truth LOL @ going incog-negro at the Blog meet and greet. No one is gonna show up anyway, especially after today. I think you and Truth would be cute, lol. blog hook up lol.

Madam SexxyLeggs How was your party?

By Dan

March 6, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

See ARed there you go again,

Trying to stop the inevitable…..

By The Truth

March 6, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

blow you have toilet duty. Your used to the smell. LOL

By mytwotatas

March 6, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

im quiet, in real lyfe..not real crazy… Like all things, silliness is good in moderation. Plus you don’t have to be loud to be entertaining or to entertain. This, I know…

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I thought you were saying Rell had two different personalities so BOTH his feelings were hurt. Dang, that would have been a funny joke!

Dan - I’m not trying to stop any hook ups that may happen. I just want to get it on tape. sly grin

Page - I told Truth that there would be ice skating in hell before I’d ever find common ground with him. But he’s completely changed my mind. Glad he’s able to not stew about stuff like that. He’s cool with me!

By melo

March 6, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

hug to u too Cemeli u been giving me a lot of luv lately and i apreciate.Not ignoring u, just still trying to understand ur literal style and delivery so i code those messages correct..smeone reported to me that ur dynamite cmes in small packages is that right??(sme of u’all dnt need to read this, coz u mther fcgging evesdropping too much in here,so skip this page sckers..lol)

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

It was good Page, I had a good time. I’d like to believe Staceye had a good time. I was even dancing on my own coffee table. Staceye and I danced corners around Alvin’s cousin. Had a lot of food leftover.

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Dang *ARed, that would have been a funny joke.

Melo, how did you like the concept of Bid Whist (cards)?

By melo

March 6, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

Plus you don’t have to be loud to be entertaining or to entertain. This, I know… in other wrds, i must live by ur model inorder 4 u not to look at me sideways, right?!!(am i loud by the way…FUGG IT..thats loud and i dnt do that..i cme in velvet style)mess wth me tho and u dnt knw what bit u!! Du have nice & attrctive tattas, by the way?

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Truth blow you have toilet duty. Your used to the smell. LOL

Dude? Talk about Rell & Red. Mayne you ride Blow like dude was ridin’ Genuine Risk in The Derby years ago… beatin’ da shyt outta dat mug. I don’t know if to laugh or frown. I hope you playin’ so that I can go’ead and laugh.

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

Staceye i took red koolaid from comic view. lol.

Cali i’m waiting.

By Staceye

March 6, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs $5 for a table top girl! Shake it! LOL

By Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Red I thought you were saying Rell had two different personalities so BOTH his feelings were hurt. Dang, that would have been a funny joke!

Ahh hahahahaha But’chu made it a joke anyway. you stoopid! You gon’ make the back of my head hurt. LMAO

By melo

March 6, 2008 4:47 PM | Link to this

Melo, how did you like the concept of Bid Whist… SexyLeggs u shldnt have clarified by putting (cards) at the end and making it easy for sme to figure it out.Heck, if anybody wants to think i had u upside dwn, with me shoving it while standing on ur coffee table, let them salivate…next time we say we meeting, they’ll come in droves!! On topic tho: i had a mtherfcggking blast with all the sexxxy ladies on my lap!! say hie to Venus wnk..

By Beautiful

March 6, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

Dan will there be another lunch date?

By Coach Blue_Kolla

March 6, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Rell You took a beatin’ today dawg. Shake that off and come on back strong tomorrow.

Cee ;)

chair spin…

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Beautiful “Dan will there be another lunch date?”

He and Brite are gonna talk tonight. Didn’t you see my post from earlier? LOL!

By BriteEyez

March 6, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

* Darrell* Would you like to meet me for lunch?

By DreamsMaterialize

March 6, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli LOL @ MoBettaDreams. I see the repartee is on…think you need to audition again.

By SexyLeggs

March 6, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

The rollercoaster ride started early this morning and tapered off by day’s end.

Good night everyone!

Remember - it takes 3 seconds to say I Love You, 3 hours to explain it, and a lifetime to prove it.

Be safe and stay ALERT!

ARed, I want you to shuck and dive all the way home! (LOL)

By AmazonRed

March 6, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Uh oh…go head BriteEyez. I think you and Darrell would be a good match. Is cupid fluttering around up in here?

LOL @ “Coach Kolla”

By Darrell (www.blackthen.com)

March 6, 2008 5:01 PM | Link to this

Brite “Darrell Would you like to meet me for lunch?”

You cheatin’ on Dan already?! LOL!

By mytwotatas

March 6, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

in other wrds, i must live by ur model inorder Not at all ~ don’t conform for folks. I was just sayin what I’m sayin. Some like to put on a big show for attention and some have the side jokes that’ll still crack you the *@#& up - You do have mini outbursts, but it’s all comical. Do your own thang! Re my… they work for me. I only switched up for Truth so he gets a few more days to imprint my symbols of womanhood in his mind, then I’m trading em back in for mytwocents. Nite Nite All :)

By Willie Dynamite

March 6, 2008 5:12 PM | Link to this

Rell Like Coach BK said. Hit the showers and treat it like playin conerback. You bit on the slant and go and got burned. Happens to the best of em.

Nite all, Be safe.

By Beautiful

March 7, 2008 8:08 AM | Link to this

hi y’all! Bella get this thing going. you know i can’t function right w/o my blog!

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