Misadventures in Atlanta

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this

I am back!!!. Lets see, why is this thing always broken.

Singlehood is golden, support it.

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 10:18 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Pisces08! Muah

By Binford2K8

March 5, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this

Time off? Can’t ever say I did that. What I have done is decided I wouldn’t put the effort in to finding a date (i.e. not going to bars, shutting down internet profiles, etc).

But if I came come across somebody that interests me, I would definitely pursue the opportunity.

I’ve some girl gave me the “I’m not dating” line, I’d just assume she wasn’t interested in the first place.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:22 AM | Link to this

Blog opened at 10:15. Geez. Good morning everyone!

I don’t get the concept of dating sabbaticals. If you’re single, there will be natural down periods of dating. You’re single, you can use every moment of your free time to reflect if you want, then party like a rock star on weekends. LOL

I’ve never taken a dating sabbatical. I’m always open to finding the right person. As they said in Hitch, everyday you wake up is a day you could be swept off your feet.

Congrats on the impending home purchase Bella!

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this

Bella You are triflin’ tripe…your email isn’t enabled I tried to send you an email and it was returned so here is where I will post. Normally I don’t care if the blog is open or not but today I have to tell you you are coming off as sloppy and not giving a damn about what it is that you signed on to do. You are not a good representation for the AJC plain and simple.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:24 AM | Link to this

pisces - You rascal you…HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this

Good murning everyone! Happy b’day Pisces 08’ enjoy da hell out of it. I think I am going to go on a Sabbatical myself. I will try to do at least 3 months starting the Monday, the 10th. No men or women. Wish me luck gang! Where’s Cee with breakfast? I’m hoongry!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

I’m on a dating sabbatical. I’m not spending loot for dating I may need in 6-12 months. Mine is based strictly on finances. LOL

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

@amazonred

I agree with your post. I have lurked for a minute and your post are always on point.

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

Yes I have taken time off in the dating scene as I think its a great idea to get back in touch with self. I know that I go thru changes and different chapters in my life and to stay grounded and in touch with myself I take time off in between, travel, journal, and really do a retrospect of my world and self from time to time. I think its healthy and a good way to redifine what is important to me as I grow and change thru this life.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

“I would be interested in you, but I’m taking some time off right now” speech?

Uh NO! Isn’t that just an easy way to tell somebody “I’m just not that into you?” Naw, I’ve never been fed that line.

6’1 - If you take 3 months off, what will happen to Black? I thought you guys were going strong again…

By WhatsInAName

March 5, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

Most times I notice that the blog does act up when Bella is the moderator and often wonder why is that. Interesting point Jazzyone

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

March 5, 2008 10:29 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

AJC…Yall need to get that $hit together.

Excellent Topic. I was just pondering on going on HIATUS…for a while on the whole dating. For real I feel like Jill Scott

I get sad sometimes Yes I be mad sometimes Cause I’m out here on the grind Making mine And I still can’t seem to find What I’ve been looking for

That’s Real. I am going to sit back and do me. Create my own little world. I have been trying to make it my way and snag the “ONE”..RIGHT now I am beat to sleep! I am out the game. Too many mind jedi tricks and hoops to jump through. I am DONE SON!! BLOW ME is falling back. I am playing the cut all the way. But I still be here to Talk madd $hit though! lmao!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:31 AM | Link to this

Midnight Rider - Thanks for the compliment. Too many folks walking around with too many rules and conditions, mad at the opposite sex. Whoo…just enjoy yaself!

By Dan

March 5, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this

I can understand the “self imposed” sabbatical concept, as I have imposed one on myself.

It gives you time to get to know the person you were and the person that you are capable of becoming by charting your progress. I’ve also spent the time organizing my thoughts (faults and all) on my former relationship, taking an honest look at the D.

So yeah, I think it’s quite valuable time, and like my married friends, when you shut it down, women come from everywhere. And still, few intrigue me enough to come out of it.

But it is kinda messed up about the blog problems…I know it’s not an income stream per se, but your advertisers do get exsposure to a pretty good section of consumer, on this blog at least.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

Blow - Don’t let the dating game take you down, take down the dating game! LOL

Amazon out with her pom poms today. LOL

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

Blow not much demand for trolls out there? I’m just messing but those sharp azz teeth will scare a bruh to death.

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 10:36 AM | Link to this

Good morning All. Thank you Beautiful, back at cha, and ARed. Sabbatical is always good to gain a greater understanding of yourself.

By 2CPTG©

March 5, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this

Been told y’all Bella don’t give a damn bout “us”…..just keep posting and she gets kudos by proxy;

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

@amazonred,

No problem. “Lets be friends”, what man has not heard that line before. I have experienced that myself from time to time.

I once had a break of a year. During that time i found myself as a man. It was hard but needed at the time. I mean NO SEX or anything for a year.

BTW, amazonred, what was up yesterday with RELL. He comes at you daily

By abc

March 5, 2008 10:38 AM | Link to this

“Dating Sabbatical” is code for “disappointment with dating has motivated me to not waste my time, energy and money unless the prospect is really, really good”. It’s not about “self discovery” or finding out “who you really are”. You already know that.

If people were more discerning about who they were dating, it would be tantamount to being on a so-called “Dating Sabbatical” all the time.

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

“Black” as we all know suffers from “SNS”. I am tired Red. Blow u hit the nail dead on the head and drove it all the way home. I feel the exact same way too.

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this

ARED I know right. 6’1 Be back on forth on “BLACK”. I don’t think it’s cracked up what she makes it out to be. Too many inconsistencies. One minute it strong….the next you trying to go on a dating sabbatical. SMH! 6”1 I think it’s clear to everyone on here that YOU are getting played! In a major way….Open your eyes girl!

By Rell

March 5, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

testing

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

Wow is this a Blog of Staceye’s? LOL

Just kidding…but I have been on Dating Sabbatical (funny you mention that because those are my exact words) for a long time. I love it..no drama or puting up with men’s BS..no expectations…no nothing! Just time to enjoy ME and no distractions from my ultimate goals in life…I love it. It’s hard to go cold turkey out of the blue just cause…but say you come out oa bad relationship, or just having bad luck with meeting potential mates…it’s very easy to say screw it! Of course I speak from experience! But when I tell a guy I am on a dating sabbatical…I get looked at like I have 2 heads! Why is that? Since when is it a crime or an abomination for a single woman not to have man on the brain and focus on other things? People act as if every woman has wedding gown and sneakers syndrome (the race to the alter)! I think taking time to be alone lets you know what you want and don’t want..what you will accept and won’t accept and cuts down on confusion.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

Sabbatical is always good to gain a greater understanding of yourself.

*pisces - Can you expand on this further? You’ve known yourself longer than anyone else in the world… how is closing yourself off from others really teaching your more about yourself? (BTW, check your email)

Rider - I have heard “let’s be friends” before, but that too is another code for “nope, not into you, sorry!” LOL

By kimmie

March 5, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Pisces08!!! - You share a birthday with my late, wonderful Daddy! Have a good one!

On topic- Never self-imposed a sabbatical, but hit a few dry spells. Hey, that’s life!

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

6”1 What is SNS?

ARED….I am. I can not take it. What I am doing is NOT working. At this point I am more annoyed then anything. I see tons of under qualified chicks getting in and get the GOOD ones.

2CPTG Yeah that’s what it is….She be majorly slackin when it’s her week.

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

6’1 how i see it over here is that you have it coming at you from all sides, baby daddy, Black, your girlfriend. it may be time. time to take a 6’1 break. do you gurl!

By DreamsMaterialize

March 5, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

Morning I don’t need a sabbatical to reflect on myself because self-reflection is the priority and not dating. Just to be clear, are we talking about sabbatical from dates or sabbatical from relationships? I think time between relationships is important, but I couldn’t see restricting myself from the potentially good companionship of a date.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this

6”1 What is SNS?

ARED….I am. I can not take it. What I am doing is NOT working. At this point I am more annoyed then anything. I see tons of under qualified chicks getting in and get the GOOD ones.

2CPTG Yeah that’s what it is….She be majorly slackin when it’s her week.

TRUTH..BITE ME! When are you going to take me up on that offer to KILL YO’SELF huh???

By Dan

March 5, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

@abc

I don’t know what kinda job or after work activities that you have, but for me, at the end of the day, I might have an hour for myself. So in that regard, there’s too much of the day to day to really focus on yourself the way some of us need to.

There are sects of religion that do nothing but meditate on the knowledge of self, so I can’t agree with your comment completely.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this

abc - I think your 10:38 is right on today.

By Teresa

March 5, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

In this day and age a Dating sabbatical is easy to do!

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this

abc I partially agree with you in that self imposed sabbaticals can start out to be about dating disappointment but with the newly gained time and energy to self reflect I believe it could lead to better understanding of ones self. I feel that at the core yes, we should know who we are but I also believe that with everyday that comes we are all hopefully growing and changing for the better.

By Black Girl

March 5, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this

Lunch was great yesturday 2C. Can we have another?

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

• I don’t need a sabbatical to reflect on myself because self-reflection is the priority and not dating.*

Dreams right on to this and the rest of your 10:46.

6’1 - With all you’ve got going on, maybe you should just drop that team and start all over. LOL

Blow - Okay…take yourself out the game and watch those under qualified chicks keep taking all the GOOD ones until there is nothing but scrubs. LOL

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this

“If you don’t get it U never will” Blow (SNS=Spoiled Nicca Syndrome). Quoting the Green Mile “I’s tired boss, I’s tired”

By Rell

March 5, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Why do we have bench azz lurkers coming in on the simpin….@dyckryder…..what you want to take her to lunch next ya simp…..i call her peanut cause she is a nut…problem?

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Blow I don’t do self mutilation.

Kimmie did you see Millionaire Dating last night? That cat with the Eddy Munster eye brows asked ol girl to marry him on the first date, and he was serious. At first I thought ol boy was wack but after thinking about it it’s as much a business move as anything for him. Love will come in the picture later.

ABC half cosign but sometimes people just need to jump off the train and take a break. There’s nothing like getting your bearings back.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this

Dan - If you only have an hour to yourself, maybe you should cut out some distractions. I personally have a lot of alone time, because self-preserveation is extremely important to me and my sanity.

When I’m in the car, the radio may be on, but I’m not talking on the phone and doing other things.

When I’m getting ready in the morning, I do so in silence.

I’m not a slave to my iPod when I’m on the road. The entire plane ride may just be and a good book.

Waking up during the weekend, I may just lay in bed for an hour and think.

You’re supposed to make time for the important people in your life. Why wouldn’t yourself be #1?

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 10:59 AM | Link to this

@kimmie. Thanks!

@ARed. Sometimes after a break-up, or just in general, it’s good to take time to yourself, be still, learn to live with you. So many of us sometimes expect someone else to provide the things we should be providing ourself. I co-sign your earlier post, but sometimes you need that alone time.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 11:00 AM | Link to this

@Blow

You’re right the underqualified men and women do snatch up the “good” ones. Ask yourself the question,though, how good is the object of your affection if she/he falls for it?

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

I know right Red!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Midnight Rider - Just ignore the negativity. It’s really not worth it. Let them implode on their own. :-)

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

Ared NO!! That would be my worst NIGHTMARE!! LOL! So right…So right. But is it just me? DO you notice that as well? The under qualified chicks have the cream of the crop?

By Dan

March 5, 2008 11:05 AM | Link to this

@ARed

Would that it was that easy for me. I’d be…bored almost.

I read, and when I do it’s on subjects that are necessary (an upcoming accounting assessment) or that interest me (Common Sense, Wealth of Nations, etc.).

I’m trying to retire at 50, so yeah, I can wear myself out with the mental and physical “training” (for lack of better phrasing), but its part of the game. It’s the hustle.

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 11:05 AM | Link to this

ARED & 6”1 a.k.a Doin it all alright I know right. 6’1 Be back on forth on “BLACK”. I don’t think it’s cracked up what she makes it out to be. Too many inconsistencies. One minute it strong….the next you trying to go on a dating sabbatical. SMH! 6”1 I think it’s clear to everyone on here that YOU are getting played! In a major way….Open your eyes girl!

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 11:07 AM | Link to this

Off topic Say you have been in two relationships in the past 17 years (10-married 7-LTR) and during that time your circle of friends were people who were married or in relationships. The relationship ends and you find yourself without a single, single friend to hang with while trying to reacclimate yourself to singledom. Any suggestion on how to get back out there?

By QC

March 5, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Pisces 08

I hope all your birthday wishes come true!

Have a great day all….

By kimmie

March 5, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

Truth - I caught the tail-end of the show & was half-sleep! I did not know this was the 1ST DATE!! Did she say yes? I saw him talking to Patty, and I just could not get past the eyebrows. Eddie Munster, that describes them perfectly! I saw the dude that got with the Bridgette Neilson-looking blond - they are living together. She seems like she’s a straight freak! Probably why they are still together!LOL!! Patty tickles me, though, talking about if she was rich she would go all over the world doing it for free, like a Mother Theresa of matchmaking! She’s cool though. I know I’ll be able to catch it, they show reruns almost 24-7!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

Blow - I can’t concern myself with what other chicks are ending up with in the dating world. A good man doesn’t not mean good for me.

So I don’t need to take myself out of the dating game for a couple of reasons: 1) I enjoy it, lol and 2) I don’t want to miss an opportunity. Sometimes, you only get one chance.

But as always, you gotta do what’s best for you. I agree with Truth when he said that sometimes you gotta get off that train before it wrecks.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this

@LOUDMOUTH

I will not stoop to your level, i am new here. But here is a thought, why not focus on home. It is clear something must be wrong or you slipping on your game pimpin, if you have to bait an internet lady.

@amazonred,

I’m cool lady, i live by the code bady boys move in silence. That will be my last post to him.

So how is the dating scene different in cali versus atlanta, from your POV

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Would that it was that easy for me. I’d be…bored almost.

Dan - I guess that’s one way to look at it. As for me, I’m never bored spending time with my favorite person…ME.

So yeah, if you’re not willing to spend time with yourself, I guess a dating sabbatical is one way to do it… but isnt’ that essentially giving yourself time to spend with yourself? LOL

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this

Dan That is true. But not so much I have seen it for myself in my relationship. But just looking at some of the good guys in my life how they sometimes get caught up with the wrong people. When they have so much to offer and its not getting watered with the ppl they choosed to be with. But You do have a valid point….How good are they if they falling for that mess? I can not even argue with that fact.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this

BriteEyez - You’ve gotta make new friends. Do you have any single coworkers, church folk or neighbors that you can hang with?

6’1 - Looks like your number got called as troll bait today. LOL

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this

Ared That’s true. I have been in situation where I seen the train could possible wreck..I just told myself..maybe its just some turbulence. It will blow over. HECK NO!! That thang ended in a 10 car pile up…..10 causalities.!!! lmao! You do have to know when is when.

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

“I don’t get it” I really am non combatant. So if u are looking for an argument, you are not going to get it from da kid. Go pick on somebody else. It is what it is. I don’t put on to make it seem as if it is rainbows and butterflies, because it is not.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

Midnight Rider - Well the last time I lived in Cali I was in college, really, so dating was a whole new animal. I was barely legal at that time, lol. But the dating scene in the bay area reminds me some of the dating scene here in Atlanta. There are some good spots in both places. It’s just very expensive in Cali.

In Atlanta there is a lot more to do in a concentrated area (Cali, especially LA is so spread out). Also, the prospects are much better here because everyone in Atlanta seems to be from other places. So if you don’t do country bumpkins, you can find you an aggrssive NYer or a smooth talking guy from DC. Options are great. LOL

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this

What up Blog

Have you ever taken a specified amount of time off from your dating life?

I don’t get this topic at all. Since when is life on a schedule? Some need to break free of their appointment book and just live.

Dem C’s ;)

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Ared I guess that’s true. I must be honest and say it does get a lil frustating.

Dan You are so right on that. How good are they really if they are falling for that? That is so true. So true.

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

Dan Don’t Get it remember at the end of the day we’re still humans. A good person could fall not because they planned on failure but saw something the next person didn’t. Nobody walks around with a sign saying “I’m going to scam someone”. Life happens. We make the best decision we can at that moment and then move forward.

kimmie I thought ol girl was a staight freak too ( not that I have a problem with freaks). She loosened ol boy up becuase he was real nervous but when she started making remarks his azz lit up. LOL

Eddie Munster was a special kind of cat. He had a few things in a woman he looked for and when he found it dam the rest. I think talking to her mom and grandma helped too. For Jewish folks family is strong and that was apparent with her. Patty cheapens alot of things with her “buy a big ring” and spend alot of loot talk. Try to catch the beginning of that one and let me know what you think. And your right, they replay that show ALLday long. LOL

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Ared I have been trying both those routes but so far it has been unsuccessfully. I just haven’t connected with anyone that is quite where I am. I’m in a very good place in my life, my career is going great, I’ve just turned 40 years old which I’m finding to be a fantastic age, my level of confidence and secure fit in my own skin is optimum. The only thing lacking is my social life. I guess it just takes time to shift after being out of the loop for so long, I’m just excited about life and I want to get out and see some things! I was listening to V-103 and this new thing that Frank Ski has started sounded like it could be something. Did anybody check it out last Friday?

By SexyCool

March 5, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this

i did a break from dating back in ‘01…was the best eight months of my life…i learned that i was cool like that and okay with being just me all by myself…

and so on…

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 11:30 AM | Link to this

6”1 Go get your confused self together….and quit spewing that mess all over the blog everyday. Get off the emotional, self esteem destroying EMOTIONAL rollcoaster you are on.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this

Blow - Girl, LIFE will be frustrating. So the difference will be how you handle the ups and downs and your attitude towards it. What ever is gonna happen is gonna happen, you might as well not put worry and/or stress on top of it. Take a deep breath, strap in and keep the attitude positive!

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 11:35 AM | Link to this

6’1 when i first started blogging, i was confused too. just ask 2C. he didn’t get where i was coming from and probably still don’t. don’t worry about it. it’ll all come together. you’ll see.

By QC

March 5, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

Hello BK

Where’s Demi??????????

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

BriteEyez - Frank was talking about M3 just this morning. Sounded like it was real cool. It also sounded like there were too many d@mn people there. LOL

I probably will check it out one day myself. If you can roll with a 30 year old, I’ll hang with ya. You gotta be flirty though and toss the hair. LOL!

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this

@QC. Thanks!

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 11:38 AM | Link to this

Hey in here!

I read there is a birthday in here. Happy Up *pisces08! Enjoy.

Topic changed or still the same? …reading…

Hey Blue. What’s poppin’? Give up some observations for us.

2C i know you sittin on ‘random thoughts’, share.

Sup…Staceye i’ll be back to mess with you and that —-> If i do let it be a girl.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

@amazonred,

Cool, thanks for the breakdown. Well i have to run, work calls. It was nice to chat with you. I would like to continue the convo off blog. I will come back later to see what you say. Peace

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

I guess I have to say taking time for self isn’t closing myself off from others but its focusing on new goals and strides to make new 5 year plans moves I want to make..not focused on being single and on the make or prowl..just enjoying my own company and if one runs up I’ll see him. I am quite confortable and love me some me to DEATH. Yes Meditation is great for me and self realization during growth and changes in my life are good to take the time to acknowledge them.

Even when in a relationship I do the same its healthy for me.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 11:41 AM | Link to this

SexyCool …was the best eight months of my life…i learned that i was cool like that and okay with being just me all by myself…

Were you in a mourning state the whole time? Was that time predetermined? Or were you just chillin’ and enjoying life and after the 8 mos, some nice guy rode in on a white horse? Just curious…

By DasV

March 5, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this

good morning good ppl

Im on a dating hiatus…… I decided to sit down because I realized I had melted into my husband so much so that I couldn’t figure out where he ended and I began….. wouldnt been no good for someone else. I scrambled the eggs hard cause that is what he liked…. Didn’t make me no neva mind… not about some eggs. But now that it is just me…. I wondered how do I like my eggs?? Kinda like a ‘runaway bride’ moment.

Centering myself is very important… I take it seriously. It took drastic measures after the divorce for me to get back to where I even could. It goes hand in hand with self-discipline , self-control…. When you married you getting it on a regular… when you single and those urges come strong you have to be able to deal. That took some re-learning on my part…. Aint shame to say. I could totally relate to TouCans need on yesterday.

Only one, the ONE could make me give up my self-imposed ‘hands off’ stance at this point…..

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Ared You’re right! It did sound like the place was packed. I have no issue with any age as long as you come out confident, attractively attired and ready to have fun (no drama or hangups) we are go to go!

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Ared You’re right! It did sound like the place was packed. I have no issue with any age as long as you come out confident, attractively attired and ready to have fun (no drama or hangups) we are good to go!

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

Off Topic

My ex bought this book for me soon after our break-up. Our marriage counselor recommended that he give this to me as a gift, After the Affair:

“We enter intimate relationships blindly, often effortlessly, swept up with passion and an idealized perception of our partner. Most of us are totally unprepared for what lies ahead and ignorant of what’s required to last the course. The affair shocks us into reality. Fortunately, it also invites us to try again.”

It’s funny how four years later I decide to pick up this book, which is covered in thick dust, to read it.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this

Midnight Rider - If you’re willing to drop an email addy on here, I’ll hit u up.

Foots - If you’re lurking today, please check in. I’m all bruised and sore. LOL

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 11:52 AM | Link to this

And one ran up and I saw him and things are great thus far…

By Dan

March 5, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

I had to jump in real quick and say this (becuase DasV alluded to an earlier comment).

Qualifying: it may just be a guy thing, or it may just be me, but even during the sabbaticals; there is no cut off of sexual congress. Please believe that the urges are answered as I don’t believe in self rape.

There is a difference in my mind about the “One” & the “one you’re with”. As a grown man, as long as both parties are agreed, I see no reason whatsonever to fulfill those needs in the interim.

But again, just me, no moral high ground attacks….NBF

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli why ya gotta mess with a sista’? LOL

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

NBA fans - What’s the deal with so much Kobe vs LeBron attention? Kobe good and so is Lebron. But media like riding the who’s better horse? I hate that. Kobe is doing an exceptional…

By DasV

March 5, 2008 11:57 AM | Link to this

BOOTIFUL i like that passage out the book… its very true… too often ppl allow their emotions to run amuck instead of making a logical, calculated, stragetic decision to be intimate with someone.

CEEcee hey! waving had to cosign your post from yesterday when you mentioned that you would sit back when the fam talks about taking lil man for a ride. LOL

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 11:58 AM | Link to this

Staceye i’m going to gym but when i get back…un-huh…i’m proud of my sis.

By Demi

March 5, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this

BriteEyez lower your age limit to 29-36 act like you’re enjoy life..even if you are not.

Fish dude Happy Birthday!!

QC I am picking a sexy Doctor’s mini for you to try out and hey.

My dating life is sucking right now, I am readjusting to date younger women again…Pray for me, I may have to kill a h0e.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

@amazonred,

savonlove@gmail.com. Until later!

By SexyCool

March 5, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

blue…it was not a pre-determined time…it was just a time after a breakup that led me to do some looking on the inside of myself…and i realized that i had been in a pattern of serial relationships (relationships just for the sake of being in a relationship and just to NOT be by myself…)so…i made a conscious decision not to date and specifically, not fall into a relationship without making a deliberate decision to be in one…

i also realized that i had not been putting myself first in my past relationships…and that i really didn’t know who i was or what i wanted in life much less in a partner…

after about eight months…i began dating a guy that i had become friends with…he had tried wooing me the entire time i was not interested in dating…but…i was in my zone and was cool with being just friends…

after i decided to date him (read: sleep with him)…it became clear to me that my refusal to be anything other than friends was a challenge for him because soon after…he started acKin’ a fool…and i exited stage left…

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 12:04 PM | Link to this

DasV thanks chica. i like it to becomes it described my situation perfectly. when i met him, it was puppy love and the sex was off the MF chain!

i wish there was a how 2 manuel for life, kids, etc.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 12:05 PM | Link to this

I am readjusting to date younger women again…Pray for me, I may have to kill a h0e.

DemiCorrect me if I am wrong…I thought you were young. You only dated OLDER women. What is “young” women in your eyes?

By DasV

March 5, 2008 12:06 PM | Link to this

Dan i wouldnt expect a man to give up intimacy. Ever! except i think you would if it were painful. LOL

you all dont view it or look on it like how we do. We arent comparmentalized like you men. our emotion, heart, soul, womb, punany, mind, spirit are all inter-related. We cant operate one separate of the others.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 12:07 PM | Link to this

BriteEyez - Sounds like a plan. SexyLeggs you need to roll too lady!

By Demi

March 5, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

Qualifying: it may just be a guy thing, or it may just be me, but even during the sabbaticals; there is no cut off of sexual congress.

That’s call F/K’n around without any commitment…Dan, you dress it up so soo nicely!!

By 6'1 & luvinit (aka Don' it All)

March 5, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this

I am checking out today! C everyone 2 morrow! Hopefully it will be a better day for the azzholes that appear and like to destroy the good atmosphere that we have going on here. As for self- esteem. I have plenty. Enough to pass on to your a* because right now I am thinking that is one of the things that you might didn’t get!

By mqew

March 5, 2008 12:13 PM | Link to this

Good Morrnn, oh uuhh Good Afternoon peeps!

I remember I was ready to take a sabbatical from dating in college. I was ALL to willing NEVER to date again actually. And then I met HIM…

Ceemee Gurl, I wish I could go workout at lunch… that gym is all the way down the street LOL Do the damn thing!

Demi I may have to kill a ho3 LOL I had to come out of lurksville for that one. That is high larr ree us! And fish boy? you killin me

BTW Happy B day pices. I luvs me some piceses menzes

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 12:15 PM | Link to this

Dan during the Sabbatical I cut sex off as well….

By Rell

March 5, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

Happy B Day FISHMAN!!!

By melo

March 5, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

Beautiful is it not a pain for u to read and contribute to this blog everday.U increasingly come across to me as still in pain due to ur breakup.Do u feel healed coz i sense u want a lot of luving and aint getting none right now.I hope u be happy sweetie as iam kinda concerned, reading ur posts.

By DasV

March 5, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

Beauty you have one. burn some incense, sit on the floor, close your eyes, pace your breathe and zone…. you’ll find it.

if you have problems, see Mr.TouCan for some green help. Toucan you didnt know you was a herbalist now didcha?? LOL

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 12:19 PM | Link to this

LMAOOOOOOOOOOO @ Demi That is exactly what that is!!

That’s call F/K’n around without any commitment…Dan, you dress it up so soo nicely!!

So true!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

iam kinda concerned, reading ur posts.

melo - You kill me when you say stuff like this. Such a bleeding heart for the blog ladies. Are you really concerned? LOL

By Tazzee

March 5, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Morning Folks!!!

I’ve never gone on a ‘dating sabbatical’ per se, but after each relationship I am reflective of what was good, what was bad and my part in it all.

I’ve also gone through periods where I just didn’t feel like being bothered with going through all the stuff we go through when we meet a new romantic interest so if a guy acted like he was into me, I might deflect a bit. But it was never because I said I was going to take xx months off or anything like that.

What’s funny is, I was in one of those moods last Fall right before I met my current sweetie. I saw my girls getting coupled up and I said to myself ‘I guess I better start acting like I like somebody’ and lo and behold - I’m the one that’s coupled up, LOL.

Happy Birthday Pisces08 - celebration at Frenchy’s tomorrow night, my treat.

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

6’1 Don’t leave. I do apology and I was a bit mean. I am just a emotionless basket case. No I will leave. Again…sorry I apology for hurting your feelings. I didn’t realize we actually had sensitive ppl on here. sorry. Put it on my mind and not my heart. We are all sisters and should not pull you down. We have enough to fight for on a daily basis…sorry again

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

Demi, Blow - I think we all read between the lines with that one. I hope one day someone does pull that “dating sabbatical” line on me. If he’s still having sex though, I’m going to laugh in his face.

smh at taking a break from dating (getting to know someone) being a stronger contributor of inner fortitude than taking a break from the intimate act of sex. LOL

By melo

March 5, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

I’m just excited about life and I want to get out and see some things!.. BriteEyes as long as u trvel solo, men wl find u.

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

Demi I have not necessarily imposed an age limit but I have not had any guys younger than 35 approach me. And as far as having fun, I have never been in a better place I just want to get out and spread my wings. Its been far too long since I’ve been in a psoition to just FLY!!

Ared/ Sexyleggs I say we get the plans in motion!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 12:27 PM | Link to this

Ared you know Melo’s next post is going to be “let me help ease the pain, meet me at motel 6”. LOL I will say this, it’s some folks in pain in this spot.

By Demi

March 5, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

Blow anything below 32…MOST of y’all women (white, black, asian, or question mark for race status), not all, tend to think alike when it comes to dating. 34/35 is the age most women start coming into themselves and knows what they want in their mate…Meaning they date like a dude.

By mqew

March 5, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

Meant fish dude and pisces

By 2CPTG©

March 5, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this

“Toucan you didnt know you was a herbalist now didcha??”

why not…it worked for the Indians!

By Star1

March 5, 2008 12:34 PM | Link to this

@STACEYE—I was reading mondays topic about “Blueprint of the future” & u said u didnt want to be pregnant because you may never get your figure back & u would die if u had to spend the rest of your fat…well girl all I have to say is…I AGREE 100%…..lol….I usually dont read the comments till the next day so i dont get a chance to respond….but Im with you on not getting married or having kids thing….people dont believe that not every female wants that…So glad to read there is someone else out there that will admit it…..

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

Melo i’m chillin’ over here. didn’t i tell you? i stopped dating/no sex back in July and won’t again until i get home. yes i’m lonely and i have a lot of time to think about things that really don’t need thinking about. don’t be concerned. that’s nice that you are though.

ARed sometimes i feel like i can’t say anything right on here or satisfy these bloggers. smh.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

Demi Wow…interesting. Aren’t you young yourself? I thought you were like 28…But at any rate. You are about to get something started. You mean to tell me women do not know what they want? Is that what you are saying?

By 2CPTG©

March 5, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

Beautiful…..I too am concerned about your mental well being….As DasV suggested, maybe you should schedule an appointment to meet me for lunch……

By Sybil

March 5, 2008 12:46 PM | Link to this

ARED - smh at taking a break from dating (getting to know someone) being a stronger contributor of inner fortitude than taking a break from the intimate act of sex. LOL

I don’t understand why you would shake your head or find that amusing. From reading some of the posts, it sounds like people needed some time to focus on themselves to make themselves better people.

And just maybe, this is not taking a break from getting to another person but making it a point, once a person has experienced certain things and grown in areas of their lives,to get to know themselves.

I find nothing to be pitied or laughed at in that premise. Just because an individual does not subscribe to your method of doing things or because you cannot relate does not require sympathy nor does it invite ridicule.

By DasV

March 5, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

TouCan i’on… not too sure it did work for the Indians. i mean, they was run up on, ova-taken, put out and set down on reservations…. they pretty much were that cat sittin on the front stoop, doin nothing watchin life happen that you see in the ‘dont do weed’ commercials.

when i wanted my 1st child to come it was black cohosh… when im feelin ill echinecea… takes my cranberry pills on a regular and ginseng when my man gettin at me but i hadnt had no nap…. it all has its place…. but doin at the Indian level is liable to get you homeless, penniless fo real. LOL

AND dasVENUS aint suggested shyt!!

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

Melo another thing. it’s funny to me that y’all think that i’m the only one going thru a break-up where life itself has taken a major turn. well i’m not. you don’t know us personally and some of us on here is not going to tell you all their business like i do. plus the lurkers … … … they might like what i have to say and relate.

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this

Nice to know I’m not alone Star1! People try to make you feel as if something is wrong with you if you are a woman and you are not dying to have a mini-me! To some of us the only thing the biological clocks symbolizes is the time to start using age-defying beauty products and working out a little harder to maintain your looks.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

Sybil You have a valid point. That is so correct on one hand. But I see you missed her point. lol!

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

omg. did y’all see that!!! 2C made a pass at me. that’s a 1st.

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 12:55 PM | Link to this

@ Rell. Thanks for the B-Day greetings dude…..

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 12:56 PM | Link to this

Demi I have never been one to go out alone. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t need to have my girls attached to my hip when we get to wherever we are going but I like having someone in the place that’s with me. Does it give some sort of a message to guys if you are solo?

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

Blow She understood her quite well and better than you could even gather trust that!

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee. Thanks!! i was there Sat, and had a blast.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this

Sexycool after i decided to date him (read: sleep with him)…

Funny that you would clear that up b/c that word means a lot of different things to different people.

Demi That’s call F/K’n around without any commitment…Dan, you dress it up so soo nicely!!

Your boy Dan got that tact thing down to a science. Leggs is this the same tactic used to get them panteez to ankle level. j/k LOL

Beautiful sometimes i feel like i can’t say anything right on here or satisfy these bloggers.

Why would you even try. Be you. Be nice. And fugg da rest.

Cee I took a nice long walk at lunch today and I was thinking about Raqi when I saw this one…

Lunchtime Observations:

(1) How you gon’ put make-up on the cleavage? Dayum…

(2) I think that little midget dude runs that piece of block right there by Five Points in front of CVS. LOL

(3) When you lotion your feet, please hit in between them toes… or at least put on a shoes that cover the whole toe. Slim looked like she had chalk lines on her feet. LOL

By melo

March 5, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

I just want to get out and spread my leggs u heard right demi ared i knw i have multiple personalities on the blog, but i am caring person indeed!! Beautiful i dnt think u are the only one in ur situation,but u’re the most sincere hurting-female on the blog and u express it,no holds barred.

By Star1

March 5, 2008 1:08 PM | Link to this

@Staceye—-I agree…I dont let people worry me about that…..some of them wish they didnt have the ones they have…lol…

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

@mqew, and all my Blog fam, thanks for the luv. Maybe “they” can gift wrap opening the blog ontime, and call it a present!

By mqew

March 5, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

BK Slim looked like she had chalk lines on her feet. LOL Reminds me of that Independent rap song by Webbie (googled it, had no clue who made that) where dude says “..So dusty feet please don’t bother me..”

Why men put so much on feet is very puzzling LOL

By mytwocents

March 5, 2008 1:16 PM | Link to this

sometimes i feel like i can’t say anything right on here or satisfy these bloggers. smh.

^^^ Beauty Which is why you should continue to just speak (write) from the heart or not at all. Clearly you’re not like some who get a thrill from the thought of their words flash on 50 whole computer screens across Metro Atlanta. Maybe that’s all the fame they’ll ever have lol. So even if like everyone else in the world, you have issues, at least you actively reflect on where you are, how the he# you got here and how you’re gonna build a bridge to the next pit stop. Some don’t seem to recognize the value in that, but then if you pay attention, you probably already picked up on that – d@mn them. Don’t let the differing opinions/hatin/jabs diminish your confidence or desire to share. YOU AIN’T no PUNK! But since 2C has already offered his services for medicinal purposes, maybe you can take a day off.

Plus when I see your tag I think of Snoop’s song. Gives me a dance in my pants =)

~~Woman’s Empowerment Speech ova~~

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 1:19 PM | Link to this

Beautiful - You know better than to worry at all about “satisfying these bloggers.” Just be yourself. Folks are gonna think what they want regardless. F*ck em and feed em fish!

Sybil - You misunderstood my post. I think it’s silly to say you are on a dating sabbatical, yet engage in casual sex. That sexual relationship you have with someone is still a RELATIONSHIP. And it can lead to problems of the heart as well. But I guess for some as long as their own feelings are intact, let’s not worry about the folks we’re sexing. So yeah, it’s my right to shake my head at whatever I want, just like it’s yours to call me out on it.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

jazzyone You are so smart you are stupid.

The whole comment she is basing that on was saying how can you take a sabbactial and you are still partaking in sex…That was what the whole SMH about. RE READ and follow..Stop trying to think you got it and don’t!

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

Staceye what would you name baby girl?

DasV I am cool with lil dude going for walk. preciate moms better.

Blue yea. like me you on some other stuff. Cee took a 3mile walk and i’m still cold.

Lol @ observing ash between the toes. ROTFL

By 2CPTG©

March 5, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

Venus….what did you expect? Bow n Arrows vs. guns??? But when the tribal chiefs sat dwon, and looked to the stars of their ancetors for guidance, they pulled out that pipe and passed it around…….bet it wuddn’t no Newport!

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

@ARed. …..feed em fish?? I understand the F’ck em part.

By melo

March 5, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this

but I like having someone in the place that’s with me but are u open to the possibility of meeting smebody new there without ur friend getting in the way? Does it give some sort of a message to guys if you are solo? that induces the hormones in hunting males to relaese saliva in their mouths…their hormones start acting up..and sme may send patron or s3ex on da beach in ur direction.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 1:25 PM | Link to this

@Beauty and 6’1

Being relatively new on here myself, you can’t be, say, or feel any way other than your natural reaction.

A lot of people get on here and use it as a tool to get through some stuff, others to rant and rave (Staceye and Blow, NBF), and through it all, we seem to have some enlightening discussions.

I remember getting on here to do research for a book that I’m writing and found myself in this community, where every opinion is express congently and with passion.

So, while you go through what you go through, remember some of us will be here to help, yell, critize, and do it all with concern for your well being. Kinda like real life friends, huh?

Now…if we could work on getting the blog open on time….

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

Dating sabbaticals should be used as a time for self-reflection and not as a time to wallow in self-pity. A lot of people get this time period confused. It’s a mental and physical cleansing process that perhaps more should try.

Happy B-day Pisces08

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

Cause you know a woman takes care of herself when she has nice feet …she isn’t wearing them too small and its an indication she is possibly taking care of herself pretty good if her feet are guhd..

Men like great hair, great hands, great feet and nice teeth..add a nice azz and nice rack and issa wrap…

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

DasV not too sure it did work for the Indians. i mean, they was run up on, ova-taken, put out and set down on reservations…. they pretty much were that cat sittin on the front stoop, doin nothing watchin life happen that you see in the ‘dont do weed’ commercials.

I know you probably bullshinitin’ as usual, but it’s a little hard to combat a foe that has the abililty to desimate your population with the simple act of breathing. Most didn’t die from bullets like in the movies, but from European germs. The the reservation could therefor be viewed as a safe zone which probably enabled the Native to continue to exist.

Blow You have a valid point. That is so correct on one hand. But I see you missed her point. lol!

Quit hangin’ on bra straps.

Mqew Why men put so much on feet is very puzzling LOL

The same reason why yoll women are checkin’ a dudes fingernails… it says some things. Ha?

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this

Demi - If you want a chick that dates like a dude, why don’t you start dating dudes? Just a thought. LOL

Blow - Sybild did miss my point, but I’m happy to clarify.

BriteEyez - I’m with melo…you should try going out alone. It’s empowering and it’s a true display of confidence. You also don’t have to worry about catering to someone else’s mood or schedule. And it does intrigue a lot of guys and I think they are more prone to approach because they don’t have to navigate thru a sea of your girls.

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this

Then you add a great smile, can bring a convo from the dome give good dome and she can cook, got some hustle bout hrself can make that bank..oh you better know he will kill yo a* about his woman trust it…

By Dan

March 5, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

@ARed

While I don’t know which post will come first, I had to answer your charge.

Yes, I have sex while not being in a relationship. Yes, I can have sex with a woman a number of times and not want a relationship with her. And yes, there are women that can seperate the act from emotion (I know).

But then, I can understand the entire concept of body-mind-soul-sex comes in for you ladies, overall. But just becuase some women, can in fact, compartmentilize relations from relationships, it makes them no less whole or no less prepared (moreso in some cases I know tricks) for the man/ woman of their dreams.

By melo

March 5, 2008 1:32 PM | Link to this

hw do u’all knw its pisces birthday today?.He didnt say it here so he must have told smone last night!!!!

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 1:32 PM | Link to this

Blow Far from stupid love and far beyond your reach on or off the blog..

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 1:32 PM | Link to this

@BLUE

I agree nice feet are key for me as well. I see that i have missed alot. Catching up!!

@amazonred,

In case you missed it earlier

savonlove@gmail.com

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

pisces - F*ck em and feed em fish is something one of my girls from VA says. I’m not exactly sure what it means either, but I laugh everytime she says it.

So, fish man, I don’t want you to get eaten. Unless it’s some other type of eating. LOL

By Dan

March 5, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

@Jazzy

Sheeeeet!

If any on those qualities:

Then you add a great smile, can bring a convo from the dome give good dome and she can cook, got some hustle bout hrself can make that bank..

apply to you directly, please give me a call at 404-3**

By melo

March 5, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

more prone to approach because they don’t have to navigate thru a sea of your girls. see, sme girls clearly get it!!! For that, u have a date with me there ared in few weeks. U go in 1st, solo and i walk in there 30 minutes later.I want all of mr ski’s friends to really go eco- green with envy!!

By DreamsMaterialize

March 5, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

DasV I hope you’re not insinuating that herbalism was the downfall of the natives. The downfall of the natives wasn’t even their weaponry. Their “downfall” was that they culturally had a NON-imperialistic world-view, whereas the European world-view was truly imperialistic. That difference in viewpoints is actually the downfall of almost every non-white (and some white) civilization in history.

By Willie Dynamite

March 5, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Leggs How you doing today. Did you bust it open yet?

If the Blog Bar is open I’ll take a Killians Red.

Who got popcone, This just may get good. I’m taking side bets ova in da corner.

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 1:38 PM | Link to this

Melo Everytime I venture out it is with the hope of meeting people. If I were to meet a man of interest I would expect that my friends would be happy for me and allow me to separate and have some private time to see if there are any real possibilites there. That’s why I need to find some drama free, confident ladies like Ared and SexyLeggs to hang with.

Question: Is it often that you see ladies out solo? Like I said, I have never been one for that and I don’t remember seeing to many women out alone but it’s been a long time since I was out like that.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 1:40 PM | Link to this

Dan - My response:

Yes, I have sex while not being in a relationship. Yes, I can have sex with a woman a number of times and not want a relationship with her. And yes, there are women that can seperate the act from emotion (I know).

That’s not where I took issue. Having sex outside of a relationship could be called dating. My point is how you gonna put yourself on dating sabbatical, but still have sexual relationships? Like I said, I find it counterproductive.

But then, I can understand the entire concept of body-mind-soul-sex comes in for you ladies, overall. But just becuase some women, can in fact, compartmentilize relations from relationships, it makes them no less whole or no less prepared (moreso in some cases I know tricks) for the man/ woman of their dreams

To be honest, a lot of those women are lying to themselves and there is no shortage of men like you who will take advantage of that fact. But I guess it’s not really your problem is it if they want to lie and say they can have sex w/o feelings.

But, I can’t say I’m surprised that you’ve attracted stalkers. Not that you deserve too, but this is exactly when crazy comes in.

By mqew

March 5, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

I do like nice hands… Gotcha!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

Red And it does intrigue a lot of guys and I think they are more prone to approach because they don’t have to navigate thru a sea of your girls.

And we also like a chick that’s strong enough to stand on her own two and not need the security blanket of a gang of bytchazz friends… that really ain’t her friends.

But according to my Leader/Led Theory, ain’t but 15% of yoll got that kind’a mettle. (And don’t take it personal, b/c about 85% of the dudes out here ain’t fittin’ that bill either.)

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Dan!

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

BriteEyez you are thinkin’ too hard. it’s simple. i go out by myself all the time. just look cute and keep a smile on ya face. ;) movies, shopping, dinner, errands, club, etc.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

@ARed

I don’t think people are lying to themselves, it’s quite possible to have sex without love for women too.

I feel that you don’t believe in doind it do you but why knock someone else. As far as taking advantage, I don’t take what’s not offered, ask for anything that’s not freely given, or chase something/someone that doesn’t want to be caught.

But the stalkers were mentally unstable before I met them, and I can admit to maybe exascerbating the problems.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

BLUE KOLLA I do not do that. Too strong of a character and person to hang on bra straps. Don’t even start…You need attention from BLOW I see.

ARED Yes she did..and so did slow a$s jazzyone. COMPREHENSIVE reading is world JAZZY! LMAO!

DAN/Staceye Just because you do not agree it is not a rant. That is my opinion. If you don’t like it…DO as the name says and BLOW ME. Why when men don’t agree you either crazy, on ya cycle and ranting and raving. As if there is no validity in anything a woman says that upset the masses of men!?!??!

KISS MY A$$ DAN!! Oh yeah NBF (Like you usually do when you say something that is offensive!!lol)

By Dan

March 5, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

@BK

Why did right that theory out in 2005?

@Jazzy

I was dead serus!

By melo

March 5, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this

Is it often that you see ladies out solo? all the time, and sme not as good looking as yur dem self…(smile) U knw 2 is company, 3 is a crwd!! Ur fat grwon friends can take care of themselves afterall.To extricate u from ur crowd, a man wld need another man to team up with, but its easier plucking u without having to go thru rounds of diplomatic talks with u lonely,mean mugging, f*** fat friends!!!

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 1:52 PM | Link to this

WillieD thought you didn’t care for snacks and such…com ‘on over to the blog’s pantry, Cee just restocked.

What chu’ want? we got that good popcorn, couple packs of Now&Later, Hot Tamales, Milk Dudes…we good with snacks.

By DasV

March 5, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

oBLUEone yea. i was playin a little i was blown out the water tho by copywrited’s bow n arrows against guns comment. *that was fun-NY.

and Europeans only having to blow on an Indian is on point and classic as well. neva before looked at they reservations as a safe zone…. gonna look at the whole sit-chu-yea-shun differently from now on. givn u some dap

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

Melo/Ared I get it… just not my thing. I’m not saying I travel in packs. When I find some like minded friends to start going out with we will go to the place together but I will be venturing out solo once there to see what interest I can spark and she who sparks mine. Again, I just like to have a friend in the place. I understand what you both are saying though… who knows, I just might give it a shot!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

Jazzy* Men like great hair, great hands, great feet and nice teeth..add a nice azz and nice rack and issa wrap…

Then you add a great smile, can bring a convo from the dome give good dome and she can cook, got some hustle bout hrself can make that bank..oh you better know he will kill yo a about his woman trust it…*

Now add in great to be around, and can work dem monkey hands (very soon after child-birth too (just in case)), and I’m lookin’ for dat stone.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 1:54 PM | Link to this

@Blow

If you read the post, you’d know I wasn’t being offensive (and if you took it that way or if it came off that way, I apologize).

Whatever it is that you and others are going through, no matter the manner in which you express yourself (and call it my nievate) but I do believe that you have good intentions at the heart of it.

Again, I apologize if I offended you or anyone else.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

@amazon red

So, fish man, I don’t want you to get eaten. Unless it’s some other type of eating. LOL

LMAO. Bold!

By melo

March 5, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

hey Das

By abc

March 5, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

While I can accept that philosophically (Descartes) and regarding meditation in most religions (in a Western context, drawn from Hinduism and Buddhism), reflection on the nature of the self has merit, I think that has little to do with taking a break from dating to somehow re-discover yourself. You’ll not understand any more about what your soul is vs. your physical presence in the world if you aren’t getting cozy with cutie. Everyone has to spend some alone time, whether dating or not; go sit on a mountaintop and meditate on the meaning of life, sure.

I think everyone knows what they like, has talents and abilities that have to do with how they plan their activities, etc. Many lack self-awareness as regards ethics and morals, and many lack wisdom due to lack of experience, but going dateless isn’t going to necessarily provide enough solitude to impose those kinds of things upon you. No matter what you think you’re into or not into, when that certain most interesting someone shows up, let’s presume that you’ll notice and not claim ‘dating sabbatical’. That’s all I’m sayin’ — the sabbatical is about lack of qualified candidates that you’ve had so far, that’s all. Application requirements have become more stringent, thus less applicants.

By Jazzyone

March 5, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this

Blow Sweetie you are light weight its evident every day around here, too bad you don’t know whats really going on…I’ll Tos it up to a younging spittin’ up on herself. LMAOFF…

By mqew

March 5, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Somebody say bar I’ll have a Dugans inspired top shelf long beach made by Danielle Props to Danielle! the best damn drink maker EVER

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

BriteEyes go solo and feast. Say hi to a few people and interact with them just for the fun of it. You seem to be pretty cool and some cat would probably enjoy sharing some time with you. He just doesn’t want to pick you out of a pack. LOL Also, this is a great time to find something you love to do.

Dreams nice post.

Jazzy well put even if you do put your own spin on it. Also, give the head piece a little props. Its alot of chicks out here with nice bodies and brains that have been banged out.

By Willie Dynamite

March 5, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Similac I got the munchies like a muafugga. Preciate it, I might have to get a grab bag.

BK I’ll co-sign that 85/15 rule on both sides.

By DasV

March 5, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

Dreams selfishness and greed are at the root of all evils…. But I believe there are contributing factors. As other blog bruthas have noted…. Bows-n-arrows was neva gonna compete against guns on any real level…. And the influx of disease played a major role in the demise of the Natives. And my point was simply that their herbal consultations numb them to what was really going on…… there just maybe was too much introspection going on. The Indians didn’t live to make a decision and act rashly……. Europeans took advantage of their laid-back, trusting nature. see we all on the same page

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

Dreams Their “downfall” was that they culturally had a NON-imperialistic world-view, whereas the European world-view was truly imperialistic.

True dat.

Dan Why did right that theory out in 2005?

O5? I’m gon’ have to cite you for plagiarism.

Brite Again, I just like to have a friend in the place.

…read, security blanket. Thanks for the co-sign.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 2:10 PM | Link to this

@Truth,

I agree, most men dread approaching a table full of women alone or with someone. Most men would prefer to meet the young women solo. I would!. I have tried the approach of multiply women some good some bad. The key i have found is to speak with everyone except the one you want. LOL

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Shopping, errands, the gym, even the occasional movie are things I love to do solo but thus far I have not had any interest in dinner or going to a nightspot/bar by myself… it’s food for thought though.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 2:11 PM | Link to this

melo - So are you saying I have a date with your married arse? LOL.

Kolla - I didn’t take it personal. I roll solo all the time, which is why I can speak on it. I told y’all I love hanging with my favorite person ME! I don’t give advice I can’t follow myself.

Blow - Jazzy’s interpretation is exactly why folks like Beautiful can’t worry about what other folks think. Folks are going to draw their own conclusions whether they are correct, or not! No use fighting it, but thanks for understanding.

Dan - I didn’t see myself as knocking it, rather stating the other side of the coin. But either way, it’s my opinion and I wanted to share. You’re gonna do you regardless. It just sounds like counterproductive behavior to me. There is no right or wrong answer here.

By Hello

March 5, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

Hello!!!

hw do u’all knw its pisces birthday today?.He didnt say it here so he must have told smone last night!!!!

By melo

March 5, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

You seem to be pretty cool..so Truth what u say..u roll with Brite and me with Beautiful or whoever on da blog(u knw a bro has options) and as a quad-team and we shw these horny girls what they missing in town?

By melo

March 5, 2008 2:18 PM | Link to this

I have a date with your married arse? competition wl bring out the best in u ared

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 2:23 PM | Link to this

melo baby, you funny and at the same time speaking the truth. desiring sexual gratification is half of it! lol.

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

mqew has fell in love with Dugan’s and giving props to the barmaid. naw!

Blue u observed; How you gon’ put make-up on the cleavage? Dayum I’m thinking what’s on the cleave to conseal? Are there spots and circles there too? I’ve had glitter lotion on the bust area b/f only to add a lil sheen w/evening gown, not to ‘cover up’.

By mqew

March 5, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

BriteEyez Really, all you’ll need is exactly that… vibrant and bright eyes and they will freakin flock. No blankie necessary.

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

Pisces happy birthday. I hope you have a great one.

Melo I knew it was coming. LOL If I take a chick out while she’s eating I’d be thinking “there goes Feb 09’s mortgage down her throat”. Plus I know the ladies are in good hands with you here. I have enough cash to make it thru the next next year then I gotta move in with Ared. (Dam I wish she would of got that basement)

Dreams/Das nomadic people (indians) don’t understand the concept of property, thus have no need to protect it. Sedentary people (europeans) have grasped the concept of property and kill for it. The indians didn’t know they were in a fight till it was almost over.

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Just peeping in!

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Hello

Cee brought salutations to pisces08 b/c i read other, but you’re right i don’t know. I’m glad to hear some folks talkin’/hookin up off the blog.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

Willie, I was tempted when I got home last night, but had a glass of wine instead. I’m opening the NaVan this evening. BTW, it was very nice meeting you.

BriteEyez, we can accompany each other (sharmynk@bellsouth.net) and believe you me WE WILL HAVE A BLAST.

By I DON'T GET IT

March 5, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this

Hey 6’1 Did you get my apology? If not here it is again:

6’1 Don’t leave. I do apology and I was a bit mean. I am just a emotionless basket case. No I will leave. Again…sorry I apology for hurting your feelings. I didn’t realize we actually had sensitive ppl on here. sorry. Put it on my mind and not my heart. We are all sisters and should not pull you down. We have enough to fight for on a daily basis…sorry again

I just wanted you to see before I left. Sorry!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

Midnight Rider - I have not forgotten about you. Clarify something for me, did you say you were a bad boy earlier?

Dreams - You so smart. bats eyelashes

Truth - Now you know Amazon “got her own house, got her own car, one job work hard, she a bad broad. LOL

But you can move into the room where the pole is gonna go. LOL

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this

With Blow’s 1:47 post, I just got what NBF meant. Yes, sometimes I’d just gotten off the short bus (but not often).

BriteEyez, do what I do, always walk with your head held high, a smile for everyone you see and a thank you. Get your party on because you want to party and don’t mind the lurkers!

By DasV

March 5, 2008 2:42 PM | Link to this

MELO huggs how u bah-bey??

ABC

Meditation on any level takes time and any amount of reflection after a breakup will narrow “application requirements”.

But even w/having the time and reasonable preferences for a mate in mind… as well as a solid moral code, i am choosing to not be in a relationship.

w/o putting all my business in the streets…. basically i have a personal goal and part of the plan to attain it is no dating.

it frees up time, resources and concentration….. helps me attain something that for me right now is more important than cuddling wit a cutie. like badu said, i made a wrong turn back there somewhere…. im just trynna map a new route.

i am not against meeting the right person…. and its natural for me to explore the possibility in my head. as i stated before, i have the ONE in my sights…and i swear he is the only one to have me come down off my horse against my better judgment…. but its funny… when you put it out there, laid down like how i did… the universe answers. (he aint interested in me) … always believed it was the ma’at side of me moving to act on my behalf.

truth ….and all i am saying is the ‘peace pipe’ didnt help things. LOL but you right. they didnt have no fields of the guud stuff. they found it where it growed naturally. and like copyWRITE said it was no newport…. or clove (my used to be preference)

By MrHughes

March 5, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

@SexyLeggs

I agree a lot with what you are saying. About 9 months ago I started a dating sabatical that I thought would go about six months. I had just gotten out of a relationship of aproximately 5 years and needed to take time to reflect. I spent a lot of time thinking about my partner and my part in the demise of our relationhsip. Moreover, I used the time to realize what was important to me and start down the road of improving my life physically, spiritually, and emotionally. 9 months later, I’ve bought a new car, taken off 70+ lbs, and am in the process of a career change. And, the girl… we are working things out and I think that the new me is better for both of us. I won’t say there wasn’t a little wallowing or self pity at times, but I’m a better person now than I was. And, I served myself better by “staring at the man in mirror” rather than jumping into bed with someone else. Does it count if lots of self reflection was done in yoga class?

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs That sounds like a plan. I will be in touch.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

@amazonred,

Now if i answering that will disprove what i stated earlier!.LOL

Here is something i would like, i think that i exposed myself somewhat by throwing interest your way for off blog contact. I just want to meet in the middle and you can learn all you need to know

By mqew

March 5, 2008 2:48 PM | Link to this

Ceemee I know, it’s a lil sad hunh LOL??!!! Just recently started getting out… And I’ve never heard of the cleavage thing BK mentioned. BUT, this chick back in h.s. had hair there uggghh! Prime electrolysis candidate!

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli what would you name baby girl Shalom (my other name) it means peace in Hebrew!

Mqew Why men put so much on feet is very puzzling none of them thought of feet until Boomerang came out and now they all want to be like “Marrrrrrrrcus”! LOL

Blow Me DAN/Staceye Just because you do not agree it is not a rant. That is my opinion. If you don’t like it…DO as the name says and BLOW ME I’m confused…i did not say anything! I was out to lunch.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this

Rider - I feel you. Just think of it this way. Today is like your first day posting yet you’ve been following some of my posts? Anyone can set up email account.

I’m just saying…I smell a prank. LOL

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

Cee I’m thinking what’s on the cleave to conseal?

I couldn’t even tell you. The funny thing about it was that the skin looked very thin and sort of detached from the meat underneath, b/c when the joints jiggled, it looked kinda like when you skip a rock off a lake when it ain’t windy. It was so odd that it took my mind straight off the fact that slim was thick wit’it.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

MrHughes, congrats on the 70+lb loss. Don’t get me wrong, wallowing/self-pity is ok on a small dosage (at least in my book), then it’s time to be productive in looking at the [wo]man in the mirror. Glad that both of you are attempting to work things out.

LOL - it doesn’t matter where the self-reflection occurs. It only matters that it’s front and center! What I think is important is when a relationship is over and the reason for its demise doesn’t rest solely on one person. Somewhere along the lines, both parties are at fault in different ways. One person may carry more weight for the demise, but both are usually at fault.

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

Sexy and Brite y’all break that stuff up. LOL

MrHughes congrats on the upgrades. Sometimes looking at yourself is the hardest thing to do but always makes you a better person.

Ared I’ll pass on the pole room. All I need is some cat to come in thinking you’re in there and trying to take advantage of me in the dark. I’ll find a cozy park bench somewhere. LOL Next time get the basement.

By mytwocents

March 5, 2008 2:58 PM | Link to this

Make-up —> Will give contours & the appearance of more tatas than what’s really there. She must’ve done a bootleg job.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

@amazonred,

PRANK?. Well i will not defend myself against that. If you think that i cannot change your mind. I just wanted you to contact me.

I cant afford to play whatever game you think is going on.

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

Staceye…i’m so proud of Shalom’s mama…i thought you was gonna what baby? :-) Just hope the blk community keep face b/c we’re good to shorten that to Shay.

mqew this chick back in h.s. had hair there uggghh! Hairy bust…now that justify to use make up coverage. un-huh she should keep compact strapped.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 3:02 PM | Link to this

Open invitation:

Anyone working in downton Atlanta (near 10th street) want to hook up for lunch…?

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Kolla You were looking at that cleavage pretty hard with all those details. LOL

Mr. Hughes - Great story.

Truth - The pole ain’t there yet. But the basement will be there for the next crib. LOL

SexyLeggs - I suggested you hang with me and Brite. No you aren’t leaving me off the plans! LOL

By Hello

March 5, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

hw do u’all knw its pisces birthday today?.He didnt say it here so he must have told smone last night!!!!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Rider - No need to get defensive. These are different times we’re in man, gotta stay alert. Sit tight.

Dan - You’re eating lunch at 3?

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

.02 Make-up —> Will give contours & the appearance of more tatas than what’s really there. She must’ve done a bootleg job.

Hmmm… neva heard that before, but I will dayum sho be on the look-out from here on in. But that wasn’t the case with these today; them joints were BIG! LOL

She ain’t need to fake ‘em out at all. But my thing is, if you need the make-up for the cover-up, you’d probably do better with another blouse.

Hold up! Was that you?!

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 3:08 PM | Link to this

STACEYE No silly…lmao..He was pointing us out in particular…I just added your name because I wanted you to read too. You know it’s all love sissy!

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

ared, either a prank or the man is too horny for a 1st commune.Let him put ice on his dizznick and then take it from there.he sounds like he’s a regular on craiglist and stumbled on here by mistake!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

Good grief Hello - Direct that question to the first person that posted birthday wishes to pisces. The rest of us just followed suit. Folks have formed friendships off of here. Sheesh.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

@Ared

I meant tomorrow.

Plus I go to lunch early in the game, (12pm).

By Rell

March 5, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

@dyckryder

This is why simpin is illegal….you thought stroking her ego would work…NOPE..now you have egg on your face….SIMP…dude peanut not that smart to see when a dude wants to get at here…she thinks you playing a game with here…..this is why i say qualify before you show interests…..come player….and i knew she would not contact you…i just wanted to see how it played out…LMAO

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli you are funny! LOL She will never leave babyland….I do not want to be a mother! LOL

Mr. Hughes she may want you back because of your upgrades! LOL Why didn’t she want you b4? Huh? I’m just messing with ya! Good luck!

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

Sorry ARed, of course I wouldn’t leave you off (LOL). Staceye, you need to come along as well. Mo, you need to come along as well. Oh, DasV, you need to come along as well. Almost forgot Blow you need to come as well. OMG, can’t forget Cemeeli, you need to come along as well. We will all sit at separate tables because as Blow so eloquently stated, we don’t need to hang around bra strappers! (ROFL at myself).

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this

and besides,Horny Rider our MLB union rules demand that u stand straight, in line for ur chance…rell,pisces etc are well ahead of u!!!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 3:15 PM | Link to this

Dan I am just basing this on your blog personality but you come off as one of the coolest cats in this joiunt. That offer was on point and if I dated dudes I’d take you up on it. Sometimes it’s cool to just break bread and share convo. My hats off to you.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 3:15 PM | Link to this

Hey Alvin, how are things going for you?

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 3:16 PM | Link to this

Red You were looking at that cleavage pretty hard with all those details. LOL

Nope. Your boy Blue has been trained, and can pick out that unmatching thread in that 3rd button on your suit jacket in a 1-second once-over.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

Damn SexyLeggs, invite the whole darn blog while you’re at it. LOL

By mqew

March 5, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this

neva heard that before, but I will dayum sho be on the look-out from here on in LOL!!! on the visual of BK goin around looking at tatas ever so closely now lookin sideways at tatas TOO FUN E!

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

Sexy Leggs I will be on my best behavior too. I promise I will be angelic around you. Oh yeah overlook my bad posts..sexyleggs. BLOW is not fixing her tilted halo lmaooo!!!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Melo you got me rolling with this “and besides,Horny Rider our MLB union rules demand that u stand straight, in line for ur chance…rell,pisces etc are well ahead of u!!!” thats some funny shyt.

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Blue…wow…i’m at my screen like blink and read that again?

Now see, this right here could got either way.

the skin looked very thin and sort of detached from the meat underneath, b/c when the joints jiggled, it looked kinda like when you skip a rock off a lake when it ain’t windy.

..too much coverage w/make up, or there is a skin problem???…sumthin.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

melo - Be nice! You know bytchassness is married and stalkerish so please take him off the list.

And y’all don’t need to worry about what me and pisces is doing. Okay! LOL

Truth - I’m glad Dan’s not worried bout being called a simp! LOL

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Direct that question to the first person that posted birthday wishes to pisces u really sound like u frustrated ared and ready to spill the bins on B!!! lol

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Direct that question to the first person that posted birthday wishes to pisces u really sound like u frustrated ared and ready to spill the beans on B!!! lol

By mqew

March 5, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

Dan Noon is not early, TRUST. My girl and I sometimes leave at 11am especially if we want to go somewhere special or far.

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 3:23 PM | Link to this

Blow Me Pardon me..I had a Blonde moment! LOL

Sexyleggs where we going?

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Rider it’s funny how you came at the toughest blog chick on here. good luck! lmao.

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

i just wanted to see how it played out see hw our union members do..they wait on u to flout the rules and then pounce!!!

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

ARed, not that I have to explain this, but I was making fun of the men saying they don’t want to approach a table draped with a bunch of fat a$$ woman, mean mugging women just to get to one. How they don’t understand why there are so many cockblockers at a table. The visual in my head was a bunch of friends going out but the man didn’t notice that the girl he’s talking to is in face up in the joint w/8 other g/fs.

Don’t mind me, I’m in a silly mood today.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

@melo,

Brother i mean no disrespect to the others. I am a private dude and i dont want to as you guys say “hijack” the blog with my post to amazon. That was the only reason. I have lurked for awhile and today i decided to join in. She reads like a cool chick.

My apologies to the gentleman ahead of me. LOL

By 6'1 & Luvinit (AKA don' it all)

March 5, 2008 3:27 PM | Link to this

OMG, I just read I Don’t Get it post and that was a woman. Dayuum! I didn’t think women dogged each other out like that. Shyt, that might be Kat mad because I put her business in the street. What u think Bootiful?

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Dan I’m in the area… I’d love to grab some lunch. Let’s set that up!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

melo - What in the world would I have to be frustrated about? I was just tired of that same question popping up.

Beautiful - I’m not tough. I just take extra care to make sure I don’t end up chopped up in somebody’s freezer. I’ve meet bloggers on here and they’ve been very nice.

By mytwocents

March 5, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Hahahaaa! No, BK You pay too much d@mn attention for the half steppers. I barely wear make up and my jiggling hips are much more likely to cause a stir ~ in fact, they got me in trouble last time I went thru the lil square @ 5 points!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Cee ..too much coverage w/make up, or there is a skin problem???…sumthin.

I don’t even know, but Mq says it’s for size amplification. I thought it was a skin thing. Maybe they get hot and that’s why she didn’t just put on a different blouse. ???

By mqew

March 5, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Truth You are so right with Dan’s offer. Loved it! Shows alot!

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Midnight Rider - The fellas are hazing you up right now. Don’t trip. There is a method to my madness.

But yeah, go ahead and tell me to buzz off or something on here. Clearly folks want a show. LOL!

By Rell

March 5, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

melo - Be nice! You know bytchassness is married and stalkerish so please take him off the list.

By a show of hands(post)….from the ladies that have meet me or talk with me off blog….do i behave in that manner

Try again peanut

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

Beautiful it’s funny how you came at the toughest blog chick on here. good luck! lmao.

Sorry slim, but Red ain’t been on this here blog to be worthy of that distinction. Nope.

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 3:33 PM | Link to this

6’1 acknowledge the apology and move on. some times after we say something, we really didn’t mean to say it like that or just regret it all together.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

Beautiful it’s funny how you came at the toughest blog chick on here. good luck! lmao.

Sorry slim, but Red ain’t been on this here blog long enough to be worthy of that distinction. Nope.

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

Mid put your thang down dude. You came in here like Rico Suave and got the contact. Finish up on your good work bruh. Personally I think she’s one of the toughest and tightest chicks in here. My .02 Btw, if you make it to the homestead and find me in the room with the pole don’t take it persoanlly. I’m just scrubbing. LOL

Ared a gesture like that could never be looked at as simpin. It was just a quality move. Maybe a blogsville lady will take him up on it and find out there are some cool dudes out there. (Note to Dan Let me know if you cop a piece a azz off that move. LOL)

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this

ARed i meant tough as in can take care of you and yours. gurl, on some days you my hero. lol.

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

Rell is my My Space buddy and he’s cool…..

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

Blow, don’t need no angelic women around me so take that halo off. I like being bad!

Cemeeli, we need to start working on the plans for the BBQ.

…I just take extra care to make sure I don’t end up chopped up in somebody’s freezer. This is ARed’s mission statement, and I see nothing wrong w/it.

By Dan

March 5, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

Never worried about being called a simp, by anyone. I’m a lil more confident than that.

@Truth, preciate the compliment.

@mqew: you know “we” go to lunch about an hour before it’s time to go home.

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

say “hijack” the blog with my post to amazon. do ur thang mayne,im just clwning.

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

I’m like Shay’s Mama i’m having a blonde moment <—- why do we say that? anyway Sexyleggs where are we going?

Blue Your boy Blue has been trained, and can pick out that unmatching thread in that 3rd button on your suit jacket in a 1-second once-over.

Bruh you observing ashy toe cracks, midgets w/CVS traps, latches, buttons, bad thread…breath <—me too…Lol…all that?

By Dan

March 5, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

@Briteeyes:

danbynight@netzero.com

Hit me up and we can hit one of these spots around here.

By CALM DOWN RELL

March 5, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

ev1 no the p in peanut stands for paronoid

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Truth - You know you and I can do Pappadeax at anytime. We can go dutch and do the early bird special due to our budgetary constraints! LOL

By the way, I agree that Dan is a cool dude. Even if he wants his ladies to come to him. LOL

Beautiful - You’re a sweetheart!

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

I’ve met you Rell and your persona is warm and cuddly and approachable. You were nice to me.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

Thanks Staceye - Bytchazzness should know that I don’t give a damn of what y’all think of him. It only matters what I think of him. Of course folks are gonna be nice offline! They don’t spit the nonsense they spit on here offline either.

SexyLeggs - LOL @ my mission statement. I remember talking to one blogger and I was like “you aren’t going to chop me up and put me in a freezer, right” and he was like “well, if I was, did you think I was gonna tell you?” and I was like “No, but I wanted it to be on record!” LOL!!!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

Mqew ~ in fact, they got me in trouble last time I went thru the lil square @ 5 points!

You’d think that it’d be a lot of ish happenin’ right there. But one time I was coming through and I heard this cop dude givin’ some youngin’ the briefin’ about how that was his beat and to be cool, ‘cause if ish got out of hand at the spot, he’d have no problem bustin’ his azz up.

Beautiful gurl, on some days you my hero. lol.

????? -SMH

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 3:48 PM | Link to this

@Beautiful,

Most Men Love a challenge, anything worth having needs to have value on it.

@Truth,

Thanks brother.

By BriteEyez

March 5, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

* Dan* I’ll hit you up this evening when I get home. I’m looking forward to meeting you!

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

Dan lol @ you know “we” go to lunch about an hour before it’s time to go home. not you too!

By White

March 5, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

BriteEyez

You ain’t white are you? You might want to send Dan a picture.

By mqew

March 5, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

BK I didn’t say that .02 did. I’ve personally never heard of that. still smiling about a dude looking at the tahtahs sidewayz

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

That offer was on point and if I dated dudes I’d take you up on it. coz 10th is midtown..i get it Truth

By Rell

March 5, 2008 3:53 PM | Link to this

@Staceye/Sexxyleggs…thank you for ladies

@peanut….come on lady, you depise a screen name…how SPED are you….lol….

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

Rell while your cool with me its not appealing what you’re doing. It was nice when you was pursuing and the 2 of you were going back and forth but that ship never blasted off. Now everytime a cat steps to her you go off on her. Thats not right. My .02

Ared “budgetary restraints” and “budget ballin” you sure have me pegged. LOL BTW, a chick should always come to you.

Dan show Eyes a nice time dude. She needs to get the new EYES kicked into gear. LOL

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

Blow Me when Sexyleggs says Blow, don’t need no angelic women around me so take that halo off. I like being bad she is NOT lying! LOL

Cemeeli because the always are like…duh…example A, Jessica Simpson, (is it chicken or tuna) LOL

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

BK what? you been tryin’ to say something to me all day. what’s on your mind boo boo.

BigD where u @?

By Dan

March 5, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Aaawwww Heeelll naaaww

I just got that one too Truth. But, real talk, I leave Waaayyyy before sundown (I am Legend reference).

@ARed

Thanks for the compliment. Why would he tell you if he was a killer?

Sound logical to me!

By melo

March 5, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

today waz productive for sme…but i see other females holding their chins and peeking thru the window, green with envy ..like the elderly lady in227

By mqew

March 5, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

BK man… whas the prolem? That again was .02 me no have hips

White You ain’t white are you? You might want to send Dan a picture. LOL thas not right!

Yall funny entertainment as always!

I’m out B E Z

By melo

March 5, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

anything worth having needs to have value on it. listen Rider, u arent calling ared anything are u, unless ofcourse u mean that() part of her anatomy.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

Cee …all that?

Yeap, ALL THAT. It ain’t the train falling off the track that’ll kill you, it’s the dude sittin’ in the corner that can’t stop fidgeting… meaning it’s the small details that’ll save you or set you free.

By Rell

March 5, 2008 4:06 PM | Link to this

@TRUTH!…….my dude i never pursued that broad…this is just my brain junk food homie…that is it…when i log off i am off

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Truth - He makes himself look dumber with every post. Now why would I want to ever speak offline to someone like that? We don’t have to hate each other, and I don’t dislike anyone on here, but I ain’t gotta kick it with you either! Geesh!

But I don’t have to pegged, you just said you were watching those dollas! I watch them too. I had a fit yesterday at the gas pump. LOL

Dan - Yeah, I know you aren’t simpin and also don’t be hating on my quizzing potential KILLERS! LOL

By Demi

March 5, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Blow anything below 32…MOST of y’all women (white, black, asian, or question mark for race status), not all, tend to think alike when it comes to dating. (ages) 34/35 is the age most women start coming into themselves and knows what they want in their mate…Meaning they date like a dude. 21-27 is the age most women experience some the worst relationships of their lives. By 27-31, MOST are too jack up in their heart and spent 32-35 in healing mode and after something click in their head, 36-40+…you see a real grown women walk…Not a little girl in some heels playing grownup!! Yes I do know quite a few young sisters doing the dayum thing…Too bad most of their dudes are lame cats I wouldn’t date if I was hit with the gay spirit!! Does it give some sort of a message to guys if you are solo? Brite How bout your girl Sexyleggs when to a strip club..by herself. Would you marry yourself? If so, go out and enjoy yourself…Alone in the field..LOL, life is too short, not to be living. * Demi - If you want a chick that dates like a dude, why don’t you start dating dudes? Just a thought. LOL* @A.Red, meaning when sees what she want, she either go get or goes with the flow. If dude is not what she is looking for, she will bounce. Without being all negative’n’shyt.

@SexyLeggs had one of Blue K.’s long a$$ lunches with a cutie and then came back to work, only to find myself in the 2hour meeting with my sexy a$$ 3rd level…I was dayum near falling asleep!!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

Melo quit trying to start something. LMAO

Rell cool enough.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 4:13 PM | Link to this

@Melo,

Dude i think amazon shows her value everyday as a ride or die chick. Thats the value i speak of. I am going to stow away the megaphone and pom pom for now.LOL. I have made myself clear on my direction and who i would like to speak with off-blog. This is a relationship blog. So if this is my vechile to use, then so be it

By mytwocents

March 5, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

Maybe he just wants to chat w/u Mquew lol But by trouble, I meant the vagabond who didn’t like me tryna keep my skirt from blowin in the wind. That fool was like, “Let it go! You knew what you wanted when you came thru here!” It took A LOT not to go against him & his homeless crew. Didn’t see no officers of the got-dang law around then…

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

Rell, be a man! Why you have to call her a broad? You know her name. Guess it’s just me, but I despise that word!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:16 PM | Link to this

Mqew My bad

Truth It was nice when you was pursuing and the 2 of you were going back and forth but that ship never blasted off.

LMAO at that card-pull.

Beautiful what? you been tryin’ to say something to me all day. what’s on your mind boo boo.

Now like that slick. And not even saying anything on that once - just looking in amazement.

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

BK I had to read this post 3 times for some reason. It ain’t the train falling off the track that’ll kill you, it’s the dude sittin’ in the corner that can’t stop fidgeting… meaning it’s the small details that’ll save you or set you free. That’s tight.

Ared I was smiling and laughing until you said gas pump. $65 dollars a tank and I get 13 mpg. SHYTTTTT

Dan I know your not sweet and had good intentions with the offer. I was just messin. LOL

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 4:20 PM | Link to this

Midnight Rider, you using the blog as your vehicle to dating and you’re doing it correctly. There’s a lot of men here that want to ask, but won’t. You two have a good time. BTW, you’re absolutely right about ARed, she’s a ride or die chick!!!!!

By Rell

March 5, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

@leggs…yea you right…..i dont have to call her a broad..point taken…yea i think i need to ditch peanut..i played that out already

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:22 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - Of course he knows my name. It’s just the bytchazzness in his character to keep calling me anything but after I asked him to address me appropriately.

But like I said, it speaks volumes about his character…so be it.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

.02 It took A LOT not to go against him & his homeless crew.

No it didn’t. LOL But seriously, it ain’t even worth it, long as nobody is getting in your 3 to 4 ft radius. You ain’t trying to bust up one of them dudes, get blood on ya knuckles, and possibly contract aids. Hayo naah.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

Boy, I do think my head is about to explode.

By melo

March 5, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

Dude i think amazon shows her value everyday as a ride or die chick. Thats the value i speak of i dont knw dude..i dnt know. I dont think she buying that u so cool pick up line.U say u be observing her for hw long now? What size shoe u wear bro and u got cuff-links on u right now? let me know.

By Beautiful

March 5, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

BK it’s just a comment. good nite handsome.

By Demi

March 5, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

The Midnight Rider like why each time you post, I am hearing the night rider theme? LOL

Sup Bruh!!

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 4:28 PM | Link to this

@sexleggs,

Well me asking was one step. The second step is on her. Let me see if i was right in my choice. Thank you for the encouragment.

I have lurked for awhile and wonder why more posters dont ask one another about off blog contact?

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

Rell Did you say you was a Sag?

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

I have lurked for awhile and wonder why more posters dont ask one another about off blog contact?

Midnight Rider - Because I think that offline we have a fear that some of us look like Wanda from In Living Color! LOL

By mytwocents

March 5, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

OH NO, Blue. It’s not lady like to fight. But I have allowed myself to curse a muthakcuffa out :) Just took 2 secs to remind myself that ain’t so classy either.

By Rell

March 5, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

@kolla…..LIBRA MAYNE

@ared..my character from a blog…boy are you funny…and judgemental…but thats you…lol

By melo

March 5, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Boy, I do think my head is about to explode now u understand im sure, hw those girlz that get proposed in front of thousands, incl exes, in a stdium, really feel!! all eyez are on u sis..nw do u accept this ring that *horny rider is about to slip on ur finger?*!!!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Take it easy Beautiful.

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 4:37 PM | Link to this

@Amazonred,

Well, your play now love.

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

Ummm helloooo….Ms. Eyes is my other name. I forgot who gave it to me. By anyways….ITS MINE!!!!! LOL

Now that Staceye’s “only child…it’s mine” rant is over….we now return to our regularly schedule program!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

I table the motion to officially bury the term simpin because I don’t really see it as applying to anyone in blogsville. 3 ayes and its done. Even Simp ain’t simpin. LOL

My02 and MQEW y’all need to modify your names to signify that your women. Sometimes I can’t figure it out and get you mixed up. Sorry, sometimes I’m slow.

Mid I need cliffnotes on how you did it dude. You snuck in this camp, took one shot and scored a bullseye. LMAO

Ared you can’t turn around after getting props and make remarks like this * It’s just the bytchazzness in his character. I’m going to overlook it because your 30 ish but next time lay a little bit lower. BTW, when I find some change we’re gonna do Pappa’s and its gonna be on me. ( I’m upping my game since *Dan has raised the bar. LOL) And you can relax becuase if I take you out, pay, and then ask for azz I’m simpin. Can’t do that.

By Cemeeli

March 5, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Blue never sleep on details, I already know.

Demi im not in that bracket but i like 36-40+…you see a real grown women walk…i must be a “fast @ grown @” i’ve got a good minute b4 36-40 & a baton of knowledge from some cool chics. Enjoyin’ it.

melo you silly and off the chain…but then, there is no chain.

Enjoyed messin’ with yall today.

chair spin

By Demi

March 5, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Midnight Rider some do, but you don’t want folks all in your business. I speak with a few peeps off line…that stays off line…unless there is a meet.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

Rell - I can only judge you on your behavior on here…and you must admit that it ain’t serious enough for you to act that way. If you’re so cool offline, you should do a better job of acting like it online. Calling me names for days now. Why in the world was that even necessarily.

Easy answer…it wasn’t. But if that’s what gets you thru the day, so be it. Doesn’t mean it makes you look like a person anyone wants to respond to.

Be easy man. It doesn’t always have to be a battle. In fact, on my end it never is.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 4:42 PM | Link to this

Good one ARed. I was told last night that I am consistent with my posts which is a damn good compliment. I represent myself on this blog as I am in real life. Lying catches up to you!

By pisces08

March 5, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

@Hello. I told you last night. You don’t remember? Obviously, there are some people on this Blog worth having a conversation with offline…. then, there are the rest of you.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Rell/Red ..LIBRA MAYNE

Just wondering what it was with you and ol’ girl. Sounds like a respect thing… and that yoll gotta be sure the other is worthy before givin’ it. Can’t be dislike, ‘cause when you cain’t stand a muhfugga, you don’t say ish to ‘em. Yoll go’ead and work that out. Prob-bly end up good friends. LOL

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st.

March 5, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

question all

You guys keep the convo going back and forth. What do you guys do? Yall keep up very well with the convo. Some days I can’t do it!

Don’t answer Truth….you get the 730 check. lmao! crazy a$$

By Demi

March 5, 2008 4:46 PM | Link to this

Because I think that offline we have a fear that some of us look like Wanda from In Living Color! LOL

Shidddddddd……………………………………………………………………………………………………………Not from what I see!!!!!!!

Now buy a new set of glasses

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

Truth - I thought I just asked you out to Pappadeaux. So all you have to do is sit there and look pretty and maybe let me pet you a little bit.

We can definitely retire simp because the only one on that plane was Rell.

melo - You’re married so you don’t know that the singles got a whole underground railroad going on on here. ;-)

By The Midnight Rider

March 5, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

@ALL,

It has been real for my first day. All have a good night.

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

Truth I need cliffnotes on how you did it dude. You snuck in this camp, took one shot and scored a bullseye. LMAO

That’s called snipin’.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

I don’t work much. I just sit here getting paid for sitting here. It’s very slow.

Demi, you know darn well you don’t need no new glasses. You’re seeing the beauty in all of us!

By Blue_Kolla

March 5, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Red Be easy man. It doesn’t always have to be a battle. In fact, on my end it never is.

That’s pretty big of you to offer dude the Peace Pipe.

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

I told you last night. You don’t remember? Obviously, there are some people on this Blog worth having a conversation with offline…. then, there are the rest of you.

Pisces08 - that was funny as hayle! I hope you have a great birthday man.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone!

Your self-worth is far more important than your net worth.

Please, stay ALERT! It’s hell out in those streets!

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Blow I’m sure its hard keepin those fries nice and golden while blogging. We’ll give you a pass because we know when Micky D’s get packed we go on the backburner.

By Staceye

March 5, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Demi The Midnight Rider like why each time you post, I am hearing the night rider theme* me too Demi! LOL

By mytwotatas

March 5, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Hi there, Truth I’m a WOMAN! Now it’s not often (okay almost NEVER) that I rush to do a man’s bidding but since you asked so nicely, I will modify for you. How’s that?

My suspicion is you may have a tad bit of trouble identifying me as a female b/c I don’t get involved in the male-bashing that’s occured since I moved into blogsville. I believe I mentioned it to you once paying less attn to the neg, more to the pos but I don’t think you caught it. Which kinda confirmed what I was thinkin. So now you have a new platonic gal pal.

By Demi

March 5, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli LOL, most blog ladies don’t count, LOL

By melo

March 5, 2008 4:59 PM | Link to this

good nite a’ll..so much fun with the old,regular and the newbies!! i apologise if i offended anybody but dnt think i did tho.. hey Demi

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Kolla - Why would I get upset at text on a screen. Is someone gonna ‘space bar’ me to death? LOL

I like to talk, I like to debate, it often doesn’t “read” nice on here, doesn’t mean I’m typing with my face all scrunched up!

Fun day today folks. Let’s do it tomorrow!

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

I’m hearing Midnight Joker!

By Demi

March 5, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

Staceye night Ms.Eyez….like how in the hellz you forget where you got that name from, now carry me home, LOL

By AmazonRed

March 5, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this

I am officially DONE with mytwotatas ROTFLMAO!

By DreamsMaterialize

March 5, 2008 5:06 PM | Link to this

Ya’ll have me in here snickering like a kid that’s supposed to be in bed but is sneaking to watch Eddie Murphy Delirious. lol

ARed Dreams - You so smart. bats eyelashes Thanks sweetie. Better stop battin those lashes at me like that or I’ll have to mentally expose myself to you…like a mental exhibitionist. ;-)

By The Truth

March 5, 2008 5:06 PM | Link to this

Tatas big smooches to you. That’s gonna help me so much. The brain cells are slowing down in my 40’s so it’s hard to keep e1 staight. Thanks my new friend. LOL

Have a safe one people.

Horny Rider thats the funniest shyt I’ve seen melo. Thanks for the laughs.

By SexyLeggs

March 5, 2008 5:10 PM | Link to this

THE BLOG IS OPEN GIVEN US BACK THE TIME WASTED THIS MORNING.