Misadventures in Atlanta

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 8:10 AM | Link to this

Morning All

I’m not really too informed about this “NO” face you speak of. Even if a guy was about to approach me that I wasn’t attracted to, I wouldn’t be rude and make the NO face physically. Now, If you were to put my thoughts on speaker phone it’d probably sound something like:

“Oh, Hayo naw. Lawd Please please please let this dude not come over here. Ewww, he has 4 missing teeth…I hope his breathe don’t smell like how he look…a hot shiddy mess! Uh-oh, he’s smiling…”I’m invincible. I’m Invincible. He can’t see me…Aw shid, here he comes”….Hi

Either way, I think i’m pretty approachable…skallawag or not. I’ll at least have a short, meaningless, can’t-wait-till-you-walk-away conversation with a dude. (and with females on a good day….J/K!!!)

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 8:26 AM | Link to this

Bella seems your friends have mentally overstated their value. Tell them the world isn’t on hold until it gets a chance to meet them. This is defintely a lady thing, thinking the world revolves around them and anyone who doesn’t have the pleasure of meeting them is somehow less the person for not doing so.

Go out, have fun, meet people and enjoy yourself. Its not that serious.

Wow, is this 2008 or what?

By Lady Dark with Dimples

February 18, 2008 8:44 AM | Link to this

LOL…I agree with slim. There’s no reason to give the *gas face. I’m flattered by any and every guy who approaches me because i consider it a compliment. I would never be rude…but, if I’m not interested I wouldn’t prolong a conversation. However, if he could make me laugh then he gets an extended pass.

More than not, men look for a sign..an opening…I found that if you avoid eye contact with a person they are less likely to approach you. Now, if you walk past them it seems they can’t help but to touch your arm or something….

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 8:49 AM | Link to this

Or as most men refer to the black woman as “mean mugging”.

But I do agree with Truthy. Just get out and have fun. Don’t be standing in a corner like a wall flower and then get snooty because guys aren’t falling at your feet. Be open and friendly. You must be friendly in order to attract a friend.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

Good morning all. If I am out being social, I can’t see myself projecting what I call my “closed” look. My mom told me a long time ago to be open and friendly when I go out, and dance with whoever asks (at least for one dance), because you never know who’s watching. Men like to approach women who are having a good time. If he just watched you turn away the last five dudes, he’ll be less likely to approach.

On the other hand, I will put on my “closed” look if I’m out trying to handle business and I’m focused on that. When I’m not in the mood to converse, it shows clearly on my face. There’s nothing that says you have to be approachable 24/7/365 while in your daily grind. But when you’re out with the intent to have fun and mingle, that should be a little different.

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 9:31 AM | Link to this

Weekend Observation

Bad Date Idea No. 3,456: Car Shopping. It is so a man thing. My friend Doc and her husband are looking to buy a new car. So Saturday the two of them along with the man and I went car shopping. OH MY LAWD after the second dealership Doc and I had had enough. But the men…they were just getting pumped up. Test driving cars, wheeling and dealing…so a man thing. Don’t tortue your ladies like that.

Calgon take me away.

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this

Interesting phrase “no face”! I like people and I have to agree with LadyJ, …I’m flattered by any and every guy who approaches me because i consider it a compliment. I would never be rude. Life is short have fun. Hell you might see the same person you gave the “no face” to in a different environment and you’d be the one walking away scratching your head because you missed a golden opportunity of knowing someone!

By DreamsMaterialize

February 18, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this

Good Morning No two women are alike, and there’s no general rule dictating the outcome of your approach to a woman. So, no sense thinking about all that stuff. If you’re interested take a shot.

By abc

February 18, 2008 9:57 AM | Link to this

The ‘no face’? Good Lord. It sounds like a defense mechanism designed to maintain the misapprehension that there’s nobody else in the world but you. Certainly, if a man isn’t interested in you personally and exclusively, they must be shunned. If they’re not your romantic conquest or somebody else’s, they’re nobody at all, isn’t that so?

I don’t recall people being quite so vacuous when I was in my 20’s. Maybe I just don’t recall, it was a long time ago.

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this

Raqi I thought we had discussed the Truthy name calling. Your killing what I’m trying to project in here. LOL To make it up to me go to 5 car dealerships and get to the point where your about to sign a contract then leave. Now we’re even.

Nipples they’re trying to touch you because your sexy azz hell. LOL

Personally I’m 50/50. When I’m out I love meeting people and bugging out but sometimes I want to be by myself and chill in the house.

By For Real

February 18, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this

When I see a chick out with the “No Face” I will send a drink over and then loudly say “No not that one take it that young lady”. Her face changes from “No” to “OMG”.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 10:27 AM | Link to this

For Real If i was that other girl that you claim the drink was for….at the end of the night I’d be just about to give you some of the CT…but then right when you got ready to get busy, I’d say..OOps, I meant to give this to your friend. My bad

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 18, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Morning All! I sooo wish that I didnt have to work today…

Anyhoo, I dont give men the “NO” face so to speak unless their approach is crazy. I have no problem being my sweet and friendly self til somebody makes me nutt the hell up! LOL

Truth Personally I’m 50/50. When I’m out I love meeting people and bugging out but sometimes I want to be by myself and chill in the house. I am co-signing this with my gold tipped feathered pen

By For Real

February 18, 2008 10:40 AM | Link to this

Slim I’m fine with you changing your mind but why you got to do it when my wang is hard enough to cut diamonds?

For Real now looking like Will Ferrel in Anchorman while extending his hand to Foots. Hello my name is For Real.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this

For Real It would be the same as some chick’s mouth starting to salivate when she thinks she’s about to down a good nice FREE drink. LOL!

By For Real

February 18, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Slim I disagree girl missy poo. You have no idea how long it takes a wang to leave the diamond cutting phase. Oh girl can just close her mouth.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 18, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

Soooooooooooooooooo, the “no face” is a no-no. Guess we covered that topic. lol What’s next?

Oh wait, I can think of one time I actually gave a chick the “no face”. Was like 22 and in a club in Charlotte. This chick approached me, no so subtly showing her cleavage, so I started not so subtly looking. She then says, “I’m about my money; if you about yours, then we can make something happen.” I’m like, “oh yeah and what’s your hustle?” She said, “I sell crack.” I gave her a combination of the “no face” and the “are you kidding me” grin. lol

By Foots

February 18, 2008 11:01 AM | Link to this

Dreams Now that has got to be the dumbest approach I’ve ever heard of. She didn’t know who the hellz you were to be announcing her “livelihood” in that manner. Did she ride the short bus there?

By Ga. Man

February 18, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

how is everyone doing? I know i have been gone, but i stopped by today to see if all was well

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 18, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this

Dreams I go to Charlotte to hang with the girls every so often and I have come across some ‘interesting’ folk, like your girl. Strange to say the least….and I think I am being nice! :0)

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while totally understanding why women give the “no-face”.

I have seen dudes who were totally out of order when approaching a female. I probably have been totally out of order before, and I know some of my boys have. That is not the problem I have. The major problem I have is women who sit around all night with the “no face” or what I call the “Screw face”. No smile at all, seem to be unhappy, nose is twisted like she smells something stank. If it is like that stay at home.

I believe that is why they are approached by so many undesirables. The good guys don’t like personality conflicts. They like women who are happy and exude happiness on others.

Just my take on things.

What up Slim,Das, and Mo

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this

4Real You have no idea how long it takes a wang to leave the diamond cutting phase So if you were in the midst of doing your thang and one of your elders walked in, would it not be an instant thing or would it be something you’d have to try to cover up?

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 11:22 AM | Link to this

Okay, this was the topic of discussion with me this weekend. I was of course complaining and both my sister and my best friend said that I have such a standoffish attitude when I am out and about and then I complain about no one approaching me. Well I never observed this myself, I alway thought that I was very approachoable. I dismissed that the reason certain men didn’t approach me was because shyt. I am over six feet tall. They will stare possibly all night but never say anything. So this weekend, I did things their way and low and behold I guess it worked because I relaxed a lot more and then when I noticed certain guys staring, I would opening flirt with them.

By DreamsMaterialize

February 18, 2008 11:24 AM | Link to this

Foots Dumb isn’t even the word for that approach. I don’t know if she rode the short but there, but I hope she didn’t drive home cuz she was drunk as all h*ll. lol

*Mo How are you this morning? Yeah, Charlotte is funny like that. I had fun when I lived there though.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 11:28 AM | Link to this

Que How’s it hanging?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 18, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this

Dreams I am at work and its Monday! Nuff said! Nah, I am good, just chillin. Thanx for asking.

QDT Wassup…

By BINFORD2K

February 18, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

I wouldn’t say I have a “no face”, I more have a face like this:

http://dehvipper.files.wordpress.com/2007/06/elwood-cristado-chines-chiuaua-et-yoda.jpg

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this

BINFORD2K ewwww! lol.

women who sit around all night with the “no face” or what I call the “Screw face”. No smile at all, seem to be unhappy, nose is twisted like she smells something stank. If it is like that stay at home.

this is me sometimes, because my attitude goes with the club. if the place and company is wack, well then it shows on my face. no matter how much i paid to get in, i’m usually gone within an hour.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 11:55 AM | Link to this

Binford Ewwwwww!

By Ticked

February 18, 2008 12:10 PM | Link to this

Yesterday was one you’ll never forget. In addition to receiving flowers at work, you came home to find a bath run with rose petals. After getting out of the tub, you find your boo has laid out on the bed for you a brand new outfit with matching shoes. He tells you to get dressed for a night out, destination unknown. You find yourself at the newest, hottest resturaunt in town where during dinner he presents you with a diamond earrings and necklace set. After dinner you are whisked back to the house for a night of unbelievable passion. The next morning, he leaves for work before you do and leaves his wallet. You grab for his wallet with the intention of dropping it off to him before you go to work. You knock the wallet off the nightstand and a receipt falls out. You pick it up and realize it is the receipt for your jewelry from last night. You also notice that the jewelry didn’t come as a set but was bought as separate pieces and in addition to the necklace and earrings you got, a $1500 tennis bracelet was also purchased……but you did not receive a tennis bracelet. Do you question your man about the whereabouts of the bracelet or let it go?

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 12:17 PM | Link to this

6’1 That is what I am talking about. The more relaxed having fun, girl. Now if a guy walks up to you out of order, you can change expressions. But then go back to being happy so that a true dude can approach you.

Slim Que How’s it hanging?is that literally or is that rhetorical? LOL

Beautiful If you sit all “Screwed” Then what if some one is in there who is your vibe? That person will move on, based on first impressions. But I give you props for saying you will leave. That is more credible than staying and adding to the despair.

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 12:21 PM | Link to this

Ticked maybe for his mom … … maybe. dang, i wanna know too! ask him, but ask like her blonde and blue eyed. i would hate for you to automatically thinks he is guilty. please report back.

By AmazonRed

February 18, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Morning all. I’m off today so I’m just peeking in for a moment.

Yeah, sure most folks need to lighten up. But folks also need to remember that you don’t always go out with the intention of meeting and conversing with strangers. If my objective is to just have fun with the one I’m with, I can give the “stop” sign to meeting new people. It’s my perogative if I want to miss out on missing a potential new contact.

But for the most part, if I’m at a public social gathering, I’m open to be social. That’s kind of the point. But I understand the days you don’t want to be bothered.

Have a good day everyone.

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 12:25 PM | Link to this

Que my stank attitude comes after i have walked thru the club at least twice. i can’t have fun unless i know there are some handsome, tall, well dressed men in the house. as i get older, i find out that i’m not having as much fun. why is that?

By Ticked

February 18, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

Beautiful knowing him if it was for his mother he would have asked my opinion or told me about it….this is like the first sign of anything suspect in our relationship, but I’m getting a really bad feeling.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

Que Well since you brought it up…I meant BOTH..LOL! Now what?

Ticked If it was honestly a matter of the receipt fell out on its own, then I don’t see any harm in asking…are you and this person married or just fuggin? If you’re married I’d want to know where da h3ll a $1500 bracelet went to. If not, and you are just his mistress, you have no right to question anything other than, when the next time yall will be fuggin. j/k..but not really

By Foots

February 18, 2008 12:29 PM | Link to this

Beautiful if the place and company is wack, well then it shows on my face. no matter how much i paid to get in, i’m usually gone within an hour

Girl, sometimes, you have to bring your own fun in the door with you. Believe me, if I made the effort to get up, get dressed and get beautiful, I’m going to make the most out of it. I’m going to find something up in that camp to amuse me.

One time, in the Bahamas, me and a couple of ladies I met there were talked into going to a club that was supposed to be hot. We get there and there are only four people there, and one of them was the DJ and we were the other three. I had a good time even then. Had the whole dance floor to myself.

By Calvon

February 18, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

here’s the deal ladies

I always feel like you get back what you give off. Granted it’s such a cliche, but it usually works( there are alwas exceptions). If you go somewhere with an open mind, and good attitude, you’ll probably meet someone along the same lines. Too otften you see women at afterwork spots, lounges on the weekends etc and the behavior is usually the same. Group of 3 or more enter spot. Search area for a couch/sofa cause we KNOW ya’ll hate to stand too long. Head to the bar OR order the 5 dollar afterwork happy hour apple martini/cosomo special, as well as some calamari, fries, wings etc. Then these same sistas sit and continue to sit looking around as men enter. Probably good looking, professional men, some of whom could be a*****, but some who are also stand up dudes. Sound familiar? Guess what, that’s not a way to meet us!! It’s sooo hilarious to see this because it happens everywhere and then folks wonder why no one is meeting anyone else. Try getting up, walk around, leave your “crew”, head to the dance floor. Oh and don’t forget to smile throughout and say hello. Yes it does help and men will respond. Once again there may be a jerk or two, but mingling is a weeding out process. Men like women who are approachable, easy going, fun spirited. No need to throw in the usual employed, ambitious yada yada because that goes w/o having to be said. Bottom line is there are good dudes all over. You just have to notice them. And please get up and mingle( if u already don’t). Your “crew” won’t keep you warm at nite when it’s 20 out.

By Ticked

February 18, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

Slim I’m no mistress we’ve been together for about 2 years.

By Dan

February 18, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

Countless times I have heard ladies talk about too many women at events in ATL which is completely ridiculous. The notion that there arent enough men is even spreading to the thoughts of men….Ladies, all you need to do is look like your having a good time. That positive energy will bring more guys to you. Guys are ALWAYS on the lookout so you should be showing your “peacock feather”, ready for attraction. That means PERSONALITY and CONVERSATION not just T&A. Believe it or not, every woman has T&A so it wont get you very far with the “right” guy.

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

I do not drink any alcohol, but I remembered from when i did consume alcohol while in clubs or wherever, I sure did have a whole lotta dayum fun. I had the happy to be out of the house face. lol

By Foots

February 18, 2008 12:38 PM | Link to this

Ticked I guess my question is: Do you want a tennis bracelet? If so, tell him exactly what happened, that you knocked his wallet over and the receipt fell out. You looked at it and saw that tennis bracelet on there. Apologize for ruining the surprise, because he probably was going to surprise you with it later, and tell him how sweet he was to do all of that for you. Check his reaction.

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

Beautiful, you don’t need tall, handsome men in a club for you to have a good time. Have a good time because you’re “beautiful people” and out to have a good time…Period!

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 12:42 PM | Link to this

I like that foots, i like that a lot. Did that last year and got me a set of rims on my car. Trust me ticked, it will work.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 12:43 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Honestly it is time to change venues. Stop putting on your Friday’s best going out to a club to find what you can’t see, because of loud music, low lights, and cigar smoke. Dress down and hang out at different places. You will be surprised at what you find. You will also be surprised at the fact that most guys who dress well (shirt and tie) all week to work don’t want to wear that type of attire on the weekends. Also you will find someone more to your taste at spots like this. You will also find out the type of guy does not like you.

I heard or read this somewhere before but it says “I went out looking for friends and found none, I went out being a friend and found them everywhere!”

Just my take

WOWTicked the infamous receipt. Where is Awwwwwwwww Dayummmmmm when you need him?

By Willie Dynamite

February 18, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

If I’m out and witness the No Face I’ll usually approach the woman in question. My thought is not to try and get at her but only to see if I can bring a smile to her face. In my experiences the no face is usually only a front and will disappear when engaegd in a non-hostile conversation. For most women the No face is just the game face. When approached in a respectable manner they will find themselves in the middle of a good conversation in no time. However if the No face is just that then I keep it moving and have no problem with them wallowing in whatever mood they are in.

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Tick Remember to only ask questions you reeeaally want the answers to. And who cares if it’s not a set so long as it’s purty.

Beauty I share the mindset that I AM the party, so you and your crew should bring it thru the door. Plus ya never know who’ll stroll in a bit later. Also- maybe you’ve just outgrown clubs in the traditional sense. Have you tried more loungey/ grown & sexy type chill spots? It’s thrilling to be around folks who know Biggie nem sampled Juicy.

By SeanJohnson3000

February 18, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

@ Ticked..your man hit a lick or got in income taxed back and he wanted to show his main and his mistress a good time…just bs’ing..on the real…be concerned with the good time he showed YOU…that bracelet could be yours and he is just waiting to give it to you..or it could be for his mom…who knows..its his money he can buy what for who he wants to…right? unless u catch some one in the ACT meaning clothes off..u wont win in court.

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

ticked be a big girl and ask him. But be prepared to explain how that receipt just happen to fall out of his wallet.

(When you go snooping you just may find what you are not looking for)

By Foots

February 18, 2008 12:50 PM | Link to this

mytwocents It’s thrilling to be around folks who know Biggie nem sampled Juicy.

LOL!! It would drive me into a fit of ecstacy if I happened to be around folks who knew that both Tupac and BlackStreet sampled “A Dream” by DeBarge.

By Fortitude13

February 18, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Ticked If there is a PINK elephant in the room, acknowledge it. That being said, you have to examine your relationship with him. Are there other things, your not mentioning here? What does your mind NOT your heart tell you it is?

A. If this is the first thing that has not added up, I wouldnt mention it at all. I would do my BEST to not allow it to effect my attitude. I WOULD open my eyes a little wider while being careful not to assume anything.

B. If this is just the Biggest/Most recent thing in the relationship that has made you wonder, I would 1st be honest with myself about my relataionship, & then I would make him aware that things arent adding up. By the time I would have that conversation with him, I would have already made up in my mind to pull back somewhat.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 12:52 PM | Link to this

Slim To the left and thinking about your CT in some tight jeans, boots, a fitting shirt with some lip gloss on, I might not be hanging for long. What Now?

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 12:54 PM | Link to this

*Ticked come clean, you didn’t happen to knock over his wallet and the receipt fell out. You went looking for something and found it. You probably had other suspicions something wasn’t right and now you’ve got proof. Confront him and blow your spot up and we’ll be here to listen to the endless complaining about how the next guy is a dog and a cheat.

More important than mean mugging is where is this chicks head at that she isn’t enjoying herself enough to at least smile? Its deeper than that mug, if she’s not happy out being social whats she going to be like when she gets home?

By Rick

February 18, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

Ticked My question is what did you do for him for him besides lay on the bed and get plowed?

I say don’t be ungrateful, the next negroe you date will probably cheat on you and not buy you s**. lol.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

Just thinking about it, I’d like to be around anybody who knows that Atlantic Starr and Midnight Star were two separate groups, and that they actually had about 20 members between them. How they pay all them people?? LOL!

By Amina

February 18, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this

ticked I believe you are asking because you already know the answer.

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

Lmao @ Rick So true.

Foots they didn’t get paid thats why their no longer together. Large groups are a thing of the piece.

By Taylor

February 18, 2008 1:11 PM | Link to this

Is it the “thing” now to grind up on men’s groins when dancing in the clubs??? Every time I turn around a man tries to jump behind me and start dry humping my booty. Women are bent over, azz tooted in the air. I thought that type of stuff was for the young 25 and under crowd. This past weekend a dude told me to hold on and he proceeded to lay his tool on the back of my jeans. Disgusting!!! I had the no face/gasface on then.

By apple1

February 18, 2008 1:14 PM | Link to this

Hello…Speaking of vibes..Did anyone catch the Michael Baisden show last week when the woman called in saying she ask her boyfriend to marry her & he said NO….I mean first of all…WHY & second of all shouldnt she of had some kind of idea of what his intentions would be concerning that issue…..would any of you ladies ask a guy to marry you???…has it gotten that bad out there…..Somethings need to stay the same IMO

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 1:21 PM | Link to this

apple1 it’s leap year and she probably thought it was cute to plan such a thing. i wouldn’t do it. it’s hard to read guys when it comes to stuff like this.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 1:26 PM | Link to this

Que I wonder why you always envision the CT in tight jeans,boots & lip gloss, what gives? Plus not sure if you’ve ever dealt with a large CT before but they come with a warning from the Surgeon General: Wearing tight clothes may be hazardous to the healty environment of a CT. Now what huh? Slim now wondering what all Que can teach her hmmm?

Taylor Grinding in the club isn’t the thing now. It’s always been that way. At least the back of your pants weren’t wet when you got finished. Slim now throwing up in her mouth at that all too nasty memory However, maybe you should try dancing face to face instead of offering the guys the backside and see if things change.

Slim now envisioning Taylor attempting the new move, only to have the guy now try to put his manhood on her forehead

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 1:30 PM | Link to this

Slim you are a dayuum fool!

By Shauna

February 18, 2008 1:33 PM | Link to this

Surely someone must have noticed and become as disgusted as I am with the phenomenon of men in ATL not only aiming for women out of their league but actually having the nerve to feel entitled to these women.

Let’s keep it real and not try to pretend there’s not a difference in social stock/standing/marketability of certain folks based on looks and personality.

Simply put: if you look like a troll, you can’t afford to have the personality to match; this is a fundamental fact of like that such men fail to grasp. I won’t even go into the double standard of how a “plain-looking” woman is never really permitted to pursue a good-looking man, while a buttcrackalackin oogly man feels that he’s able to talk to any woman that strikes his fancy. I have stories but I don’t feel like going into them because it’s too late and I’m tired. Suffice it to say that it’s frustrating and anger-inducing but nowadays I just pay them no mind

By MissU

February 18, 2008 1:39 PM | Link to this

Shauna Ummm yeah!! If Atlanta has some gorgeous women then it has some of the most unappealing/unattractive men this side of the Mississippi. I actually see cute/handsome guys ever so often and most of the time it probably be for special events. And even some of the ones that move here are not cute either..

By DreamsMaterialize

February 18, 2008 1:42 PM | Link to this

apple1 yeah that sucks. seems like you would have had some conversation about marriage before proposing it.

Did you all see that You Tube video where the guy got on one knee to propose to his girlfriend center court at halftime at a professional bball game, and she ran off the court? Rejected on national TV.

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

Shauna, you are so right and I am always ever so polite when they approach, but sometimes the mean mug that I have in my mind leaks to the outside. Even when I am being polite to them I am thinking, this mutha flucker got too much dayuum nerve.

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

Foots Have you ever been in the spot when they played the old & the new back to back ~ Looks of confusion are priceless!

Slim I’m relieved to hear it is/was an epidemic…I used to blame myself for going out on Reggae nite. I’ve learned to head to the bar @ the first sounds of Shabba.

By SeanJohnson3000

February 18, 2008 1:58 PM | Link to this

@ Shauna..its so many factors dealing with your bs gripe…from the the insecurties and low self esteem of nice looking bread making women…to attracting females using the ‘barter” system to use what they go to get what they want.plus u gotta throw in decendants from game spitting second/third generation pimps.but don’t get upset because some dude that you didnt find attractive ran up on you….if anything biggie smalls led the way ..so smile and thank him but tell him no thanks ..who is to say you wont get dissed or played..because no matter how you look or how good you think you look…to some dudes you are still just jump off…

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

Wait - And how come (no pun intended) they wouldn’t ease up or disappear into the crowd when they realized they were about to bu…It’s concerning me all over again. Maybe this is one of the reasons they shut Jaguar’s down.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 2:06 PM | Link to this

Slim that is not my only mental picture that I have. That is just the more immediate, around the way girl outfit. I have other ones. Like the one that involve the workout sweats that stop at the knees, I have one that includes a two piece bathing suit, and I don’t even want to think about boy shorts. But I will admit that in all of them you have on Lip Gloss. What???

I am always willing to give lectures on the fine art of proper usage of the CT to entice a Que. For you I will even extend my after class office hours.

Taylor You must be from above the Mason Dixon Line, or West of the Mississippi. Ask someone you work with to explain Sharons Showcase or Club XS. I don’t think I ever saw a females face on the dance floor back then.

Shuana Smile more and up the game. Then the type of man you are looking for will approach. You may also need to change your venue. Or maybe you have a troll magnet. I know I have a young girl (19-22) and an older woman (47-55) magnet. Oh yeah and I have an un-happily marred woman magnet also.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

2cents You are definitely right about raggae clubs. Those islander’s are some of the most aggressive men I’ve ever encountered. Vibes or some spot like that, is definitely not a place you need to go to if you’re not trying to get hit on, rubbed on, or grinded on.

Shauna Some chicks prefer Aesthetically challenged men because in general, they tend to be more humble than those model types. There is definitely somebody for everybody. Ask Heidi Klum and Seal lol

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 2:09 PM | Link to this

LOL

By Willie Dynamite

February 18, 2008 2:16 PM | Link to this

3000 Co-sign that 1:58

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 2:22 PM | Link to this

I am one of those that use to like the aethetically challenged until I found out that ugly = low self esteem = STALKERS!!!!!!!!!!!

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

QUE Just a lil FYI..I have on boy shorts AND lip gloss…however, no boots, just a pair of air max.

Hmmm after class hours…

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 2:28 PM | Link to this

SJ thanks for explaining that to her. While I by no means endorse taking just anybody you still have to be open to everybody. Sometimes I try to sympathize with women but when you read some of this shyt its no wonder their by themselves, and will be for their adult lives. Nice wrappers, tore down insides. Some of these chicks are outright ugly, and thats without even seeing them.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

February 18, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

QDT you just bought back some memories with the Sharon Showcase and Club XS! Wow….

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

I was at my friend’s house last night, while we were working on a project she was watching One Tree Hill. There were two guys on there that had dated the same girl and one asked how is it the other managed to remain friends with her while it was impossible for him. The guyed stated that because they were never in love it is easy for them to be friends. My friend agreed with that. She says she has never been able to be friends with the ones she was in love with. She says it is too hard. But she is friends with a couple that she never became attached to. Interesting, however true.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 2:40 PM | Link to this

I agree The Truth..Just like these TOE back a$$ men too. Baybee….Believe it goes both was…If a ugly, big girl chick tried to holla @ you. You would do the same thing too. Eventhough she maybe able to offer you everthing you need…besides the physically. So please dont’ even go there. Men are very SUPERFICIAL as well. So dont’ even trip!

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 2:45 PM | Link to this

Truth & SJ Now that’s real head bowed with raised fist in the air

Slim Do you need to be called into my office? For improper use of sparking my imagination. You are all up in my thought process right now.

Mo me and the boys were tripping about Sharon and her sister last week.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 2:47 PM | Link to this

Anybody watched that episode of Millionaire Matchmaker, with the best friends that refuse to date separately..always have to double date?

By Foots

February 18, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

Slim First off, I must concur that you most definitely are a dayum fool!

Secondly, Seal looks dayum good from the neck down.

By Willie Dynamite

February 18, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

3000/Truth I think we discussed this a little last week. It’s unbelievable that the ugly on the inside will shine through quick. These types usually get mutted out fast and then wonder why. As I’m sure it goes both ways BUT you’ll sooner see a pretty boy with a ugly chick then you will a Beautiful chick with an ugly dude.

Either way you look at it its wrong to not even want someone to talk to you or approach you. You can’t buy class.

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

QDT, You had to go there didn’t you? Let’s not forget Screaming Wheels and 559!

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

Yes, Slim. Maybe seeing the show will illuminate those clowns. So immature! And what about the older dude picking the ditzy blonde. It’s like her advice is just too practical for them to believe…

By Foots

February 18, 2008 2:59 PM | Link to this

WillieD So you would date (and be serious about) a woman who you didn’t even find attractive if she had a good heart? What about her would initially attract you to the point where you were able to find out what she was like on the inside?

By DreamsMaterialize

February 18, 2008 3:00 PM | Link to this

Ahhhhhhh 559…the memories. Then everyone would congregate in the A&P parking lot afterwards.

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

Slim i would bet a years paycheck that they tried each other. their so close, you can’t help but wonder.

By SeanJohnson3000

February 18, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

@ Truth..bruh u said a mouth full…you would think as these females get a lil older they would get wiser…but they have no clue on understanding men…as we get older we are not looking for ms black atlanta…more so ms compatible and nice looking that can hook a steak up…

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 3:05 PM | Link to this

Foots co-sign. weren’t we just talkin’ about what attracts a guy last week. appearance first!!!

By Willie Dynamite

February 18, 2008 3:06 PM | Link to this

Being real I wouldn’t date someone that I didn’t find atractive. With that being said I also wouldn’t be thinking in my head what made her approach me. I’m all for dating and socializing with someone who you find attractive. My point was she came across like dude shouldn’t even think about talking to her. Thats classless. like others have said if you don’t find them attractive simply smile and keep it moving. No need to be snotty and mean.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 3:09 PM | Link to this

SJ Actually, “nice-looking” wasn’t the term in question. No one really has a problem with “nice-looking” people. They were talking about “ugly”.

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

WillieD You’s a LIE! Not in Atlanta, unless the pretty boy just needs a beard for his pretty activities. Tho the ‘trolls’ & super shorties will hit cuz they had nothin to lose anyway & either luck up w/ a lady whose not shallow or fcuk up & find a pretty package lookin for a sponsor.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 3:11 PM | Link to this

SeanJohnson….Kick rocks! Yall looking for the quick big booty judy jumpoff. You guys could not tell a good woman if your own life dependent on it. Most guys don’t know what qualities to look for in a woman to even know she is worthy. You looking at things that don’t make the relationship last or remain strong though the test of times. So AGAIN coast…..Almost but not quite!

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

who would try a real live matchmaker at least once? i would. i think it would be fun. and i want to be the one to choose. for a professional to go out and find me ten men that she thought would fit my life, wonderful!!! walking around the room while they try their hardest to impress Beautiful, my cheeks would hurt so bad from smiling so much. lol. i would have a blast. and what would make it better is if all the guys were from MIA!

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 3:15 PM | Link to this

Blow I was approached by a heavy chick yesterday. No need to get ugly, have a nice convo and then do what you do. That comes from being happy inside, which is something alot of you chicks are lacking.

Now the same chick that says she doesn’t want an unattractive dude to approach her will overlook the physical if dude has money. Not only is she stank but by all definitions a true ho. We don’t have to debate this on the blog. The rest of your life will prove my point.

One more thing. If your near 30 and still banking on your looks to land you a man you better start eating puddy. Your stunning good looks and to tight azz have gotten you everything its going to give you in life. From here on out you gotta back it up with action. And we all know most of you are some empty vessels in distress. Better sart sending out an SOS

WillieD I’ve NEVER seen a dude act all shytty when a chick approacehed him, like he’s offended. These busted azz chicks talking about some dude isn’t worthy of their air space. Most are broke as hell and looking for a happyy meal themselves.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

Foots LOL, from the neck down. LOL! Chica, you know me—always got something crazy to say.

2cents Yeah, I hope when the folks get to watch the show, they can get a better picture of how stupid they look. I think some folks on this here blog need to have a camera follow them for a week or two, JUST so they can see how much of an arse they are.

Beautiful I never thought about them messing around, but I’d bet if they had an orgy and one of the guys mistakenly touched the other, they probably wouldn’t care at all. I’ve learned from this show that millionaire don’t equal class or common sense. LOL

By Foots

February 18, 2008 3:19 PM | Link to this

WillieD It’s good that you’re honest. I don’t care what the world finds attractive, they could think my man looked like a wilderbeest (or Seal) and if I found him attractive, that’s all I’d need. But I just hate when people make it sound shallow to want to be with someone you can look at and not gag. Or that it sounds impossible to have someone who is both wonderful on the outside AND on the inside. Why do some folks not automatically think that it’s not within reach, for someone to be both?

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 3:20 PM | Link to this

I can see why Heidi Klum is attracted to Seal. Aside from the craters in his face his look is very inviting. He just has a calm about him. I bet he is hella good company. I could see myself getting caught with him.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

6’1 You did not say 559, I would hit that on a regular, when I would come home from school. If you could stand the smoke, it was off the chain. Still haven’t seen a woman’s face on the dance floor in that club either.

Slim Honestly and I am not just saying this. That show is kind of my guilty pleasure. I know I don’t want to watch it but I can’t stop. Yeah those two guys are like she always says. Guys that made money and now think they can buy their way into the cool club. What about the guy that sold adult toys on the internet, and had a stripper pole in the living room. Which is actually cool, but the problem was that he was the one dancing. You can tell he has paid for a lot of loving in his life. He probably has a high monthly P-dussy bill.

Oh yeah when can we begin classes.

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

Willie, I agree with you totally. Thats is why I try to be as pleasant as possible because I hate it when you get called a biaatch as soon as you turn your back and they definitely do it down here.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Heidi Klum said what attracted her to him first was the bulge in his pants. And that bulge gave her three lovely children.

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

Truth Are these your thoughts based on what you get from women in general, women in ATL or women on this blog? And we all know most of you are some empty vessels in distress.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 3:31 PM | Link to this

Truth Wow..what can I say about your big PILE of $hit you just posted. For starters it’s untrue. If anyone can deal you’re your POTTY& DISRESPECTFUL mouth..H3LL, anyone has hope and a damn good fighting chance! I don’t’ expect my looks to get me no where. That can only get you in the door. But it wont’ keep you there. Me personally, I have alot more to offer than just a cute face. The behavior you are talking in reference too….MEN do the very same thing. If that thick chick you were talkin to yesterday….had her money right. I am sure you would consider. I don’t’ give a damn about a niccas money. I get up everyday faithfully and make my own money. What a look like being controlled by a Man’s money?!??! Getting hand fed money is not the business! I get my own baby….I don’t sit and wait and twindle my thumbs to see what sucker I can come up on. Apparently you have fallen quite often for those class less sluts….please refer to my post @ 3:11pm. Back up buddy you don’t’ want none of this!!

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

QUE Don’t feel ashamed of watching it. I’m just interested to see what type of problems they aka millionaires have in dating. Seems to me they are set in their ways and hard to compromise on since they probably have a crew of Yes men & women that don’t tell them otherwise. Yea, old dude with the pole kind of grossed me out at how good he was. I don’t see anything wrong with a guy having a pole, but to have it in the main area would be a definite red flag for me. What about the dude still living with his college buddies in that shacklike house? LAME-O to the 10th power.

I need to see some certification & papers on you…fax me your resume. lol

By Foots

February 18, 2008 3:34 PM | Link to this

Ding! Popcorn’s ready…I think I have enough to last until 4:27…

By SeanJohnson3000

February 18, 2008 3:40 PM | Link to this

@ foots…i try not to call folks ugly…i am big on NOT hurting folks feelings…especially if its a chance that they have been having that done since child hood…back in HS i use to take up for folks like that..and roasted the folks who picked on folks..yall called in jone’n…we called it ranking…

@ Blow…see you dont know me personally nor do you understand how grown men date and choose our long term mates..sure i have an achillies heel for big btts…but to choose a mate based on looks alone is childish….your skills as being a wife, mother, cook and bedroom w()re factors into the equation…looks wise..i can fix a chick up into what i want her to be.. like i can fix up a 72 impala..as long as she got a good motor (heart) in her

By Blow & Truth Sitting in a Tree

February 18, 2008 3:43 PM | Link to this

Do y’all feel the sexual tension between them two! Have sex and get it over with. lol.

By Blue_Kolla

February 18, 2008 3:44 PM | Link to this

What up Blog…

All I can do is laugh and give a ^5 to the brovas for puttin’ it down and tryin’ to educate the women. Just told a chick this weekend, there are good dudes everywhere - but they don’t all look like Denzel, drive Benz’s, or make 6 figures.

Funny thing is that when these broads get tired of being sidepieces for these few prototype dudes, they expect for regular guy to trip over himself to welcome her in; but at that point dude is wise and will make her play that same we just fuggin’ jump-off role, while he waits on his real prize.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

BLOW & Truth Sitting in A Tree

KILL YOURSELF!!!

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

Ok Blow You posted a page full, but here is the truth is at certain venues in Atlanta, such as clubs.

The problem is that most people who enter them believe the hype. We as men believe that if I meet this fine chick, and say the right thing she will go home with me tonight let me hit. Not only that but I have so much game that she is actually a quality chick who has some subsistence about her and I will actually like her for her mind. That is just not going to happen.

And most women think that they will meet the tall, handsome, baller who is nice to them and hasn’t hit ever other girl in the club, and will take care of them and their kids and their momma. And makes them all weak inside, while giving them everything they want, even put up with all their shyt. And stand beside her while she is going through her changes. Guess what, That’s not going to happen.

So whatever you want to happen, will, but not at the current speed of satisfaction that people expect. Just slow down, be a true friend (through the good and bad), and see where it goes.

Just my thoughts.

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

Foots, make room for me!

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

Foots Are you serious about the bluge in Seal’s pants. Arf arf arf…said while clapping hands together very seal-like lol

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

Blow 1st off, I don’t expect to fall in love with every woman I meet so I don’t have that unreal expectation. The chick was cool for what we talked about and thats it. There was nothing else for me to do. The point is I don’t harbor ill will towards the chick just because she spoke to me. Its not that serious. Then again I wouldn’t get all goo goo eyed if she was someone I wanted to speak with. Either way we’ll talk and see where it goes. Also, because i have MY money right that doesn’t come into play for me. You’ve been reading the press clippings about all bruhs being broke or in jail but the fact is its just not true. They’re just not trying to get with YOU.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 3:52 PM | Link to this

SlimWhere do I send it.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 3:54 PM | Link to this

how grown men date and choose our long term mates

That sounds like a blog topic right there. I get confused myself about that. I know one dude who married a chick but was still in love with another, one dude who married a woman who picked a fight with him on their FIRST date because she was beautiful then divorced her six months later, the same dude married another woman 10 years his senior, with a son 10 years younger than him (he’s right in the middle) and is unhappy because he knows that he should have gone in a different direction, but doesn’t want to be divorced twice.

I know some dudes who were with incredible women for years, then left them and were engaged to other women within six months. (They say that when they finally got ready to marry, they chose the next person available). And still, I know some that have found the right women, beautiful inside and out, but can’t stay faithful and continuously risk their families for some azz.

So yeah, it would be very informative to know how grown men make their decisions about who they choose to spend the rest of their lives with. The sooner the better.

By Blue_Kolla

February 18, 2008 3:56 PM | Link to this

SeanJ looks wise..i can fix a chick up into what i want her to be.. like i can fix up a 72 impala..as long as she got a good motor (heart) in her

Was having a convo with two other cats, one was a straight youngin’. So this youngin’ is talkin’ bout how he goes straight for the dimepieces. At that point ol’ skool was like - “mayne, I’d rather have a fat ugly chick that treated me right over any fine azz broad that’s trying to fugg me.” All I could do was co-sign. I hope youngin put that jewel in his pocket. Either way, he probably won’t pull out for at least 5 years, or until he takes a few lumps.

I keep tellin’ folks that life has a way of playing some dirty tricks on you. Keep it humble. You dimepieces are only one housefire, car accident, club misunderstanding, etc. away from having a fugged up mugg.

By For Real

February 18, 2008 3:57 PM | Link to this

Let me take this quote and break it down.

Yes when a dude is in their 20’s that is exactly what they look for and more power to them. What else are they suppose to look for if they are not ready for marriage minded mandy?

Awww the old “Good Woman” claim. According woman there are 1000’s of “Good Woman” on each and every corner,mn just can’t see them. In case you haven’t heard this before. YOU DON’T GET TO DECIDE YOUR VALUE TO ME!!! I CHOSE WHAT IS GOOD OR VALUABLE IN MY LIFE!

Well since all men have or had a mother, it would be irrational to believe that man don’t have a baseline by which they judge women. Just because you don’t fit the qualities a dude is looking for in a lady doesn’t means he doesn’t know what he wants. It just means he doesn’t want you. That’s all. Again, your worth to someone else is determined by that person. You don’t get to tell me that you are worth 100 billion if if all I see is $4.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 3:58 PM | Link to this

Slim That’s what she said! I’ve been trying to catch a glimpse ever since.

SexyLeggs I got the Kettle Corn, is that cool?

Que Thanks for putting BOTH sides of the delusion out there.

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

Ding, Ding, Ding and in this corner we have…….. LOL.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

QUE 555-MYCT

By Foots

February 18, 2008 4:03 PM | Link to this

For Real What are the qualities that you look for in a woman?

By Willie Dynamite

February 18, 2008 4:07 PM | Link to this

Bomb 1st As for the fellas on this blog for the most part we are stand up guys. On a daily basis I don’t see where any of us even talk like we chasing big booty Judy. We tend to be a lil bit deeper than that. We’ve all admitted to that in past or in our young wild n out days but weve grown and come to appreciate a good woman and not just a big azz.

As for you, based on what you’ve stated before I’m sure you are a nice self respecting woman. I don’t think anyone intended to draw out that ‘I am woman, I make my own $$’ speech that you felt inclined to give. As I am sure that is your blog personality but for some reason you felt compelled to swing on the guys. When they were just saying that women who do that will lose in the end. Same as Men.

By Blue_Kolla

February 18, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Slim All I can think about when you talk about the CT, is the White girls back in the day that would walk around with the levi’s pulled up in the cat, with no draws on. Please say it ain’t like that.

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 4:09 PM | Link to this

Truthy I think she is missing what you are saying. Just because a woman is not appealing to you, you don’t get disgusted at her approaching you.

I chuckle every time I read those types of statements on here or even hear them in person. People thinking they are above and beyond the average. LOL

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this

…You don’t get to tell me that you are worth 100 billion if all I see is $4. Please commit that girl in the hospital if she sees $100 billion and all you see is $4 (OUCH). Somebody needs to be committed.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

LOL Oh my Gosh you are off the chain.

But on a serious note, You need to fill out this application that I have on hand, sign and date both pages. I will also need a copy of your employment history. Also A head shot And a snapshot of the CT will be helpful for employment with my agency. Holla Back.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

Dear Blue_Kolla So I take good MEN are TOOTHLESS, bald, broke and MAD ugly. No there are not! I refuse to believe good guys are UGLY & Broke. If you are working with those ODDS yo a$$ should be as sweet as pie and be able to sweep a honey off her feet. You have to compensate for the ugliness some kind of way. LMAO!

Seanjohnson Whatever! Yeah okay…well go off of that then. But when you first met her you ONLY are going off of how she looks. You can’t tell if she is wifey material. So yeah again…you are going off of what you like PHYSICALLY!

By 6'1 & Luvinit

February 18, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

Dayuum, this is getting too good! Am I the only one that gets off at 5. People we need to start this at 9 a.m. from now on and that is a order dayuumit!

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

Yummy, kettle corn!

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 4:17 PM | Link to this

Footsy first off we’re all guilty of selling properties we dont really possess. Most of the dudes aren’t as fearless as they’d like you to believe, or as well endowed mentally or physically. Most womens chests don’t sit up quite the same way with out that push up bra and when she gets home she cries alot more than you’d care to believe. With that being the case, its no wonder people make the decisions based on false information and when that information comes forward adjustments are made, aka divorce. A grown adult will make a desision not based on your current waistline, which statistics say will expand after you get maried but by what you bring on a daily basis. Thats why a pleasant woman has way more value than some double d’s. Ok, not way more but a little more. LOL

Really its simple. Sit down and write out what you want in life and what you can offer for what you want. Be realistic and it should be pretty evident why some people are exactly where they are. Be truthful. Kids, family, home, peace money, whatever it is. Then align your thoughts and actions with what you want and you’ll be amazed at how fast things will come to you. Because as totally fugged up as dating is there is no better time in the history of the world to pull off a successful relationship, if you’ve got you’re nuts screwed on tight.

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

Grown folks need to stop and really consider that there is a strong possibility that you are not the “type” that the type you are targeting is looking for. A strong possibility.

So while you out cutting others down just know that you are on the down scale of some one else.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 4:24 PM | Link to this

Blue I can proudly stand up and say HAYO NAW it ain’t like that. You must read the Surgeon General’s Warning i told QueDawg about: tight clothes may be hazardous to the CT. All jokes aside, if i were a dude and saw a chick dayum near dying from tight jeans…(just imagine how her cootie feels) I wouldn’t want to hit it…all she could do is slob my knob while I flick the nips for added extra effect. That shyt needs to breathe and spraying Vickie Secretions down there is not going to cover up that smell once you get to monkeying around up in it…hence the cold case file of Baby Powder Bandit..Who is still at large. Beware, she’s armed with smelly phat cootie.

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 4:25 PM | Link to this

All parties have some damn good points (at least from where I’m sitting). May I have some more butter on my poppy corn? Thanks!

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 4:27 PM | Link to this

6’1 i dont get why this thing closes. why? all the other blogs stay open. doesn’t make any damn sense to me. what would it hurt to keep it open all evening.

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

Blow Job your missing the whole point of this discussion. Unattractive or not it shouldn’t offend you if someone has the decency to say hi or speak to you. If so your riding way to high on that horse. Don’t worry tho youngin, over the next few years your going to learn a few things about life because it sure is a humbling experience. LOL

QDT As SOON as you get those photos please forward them to me for quality control reasons. Kepp the head shot but i’ll take the camel toe.

By Blue_Kolla

February 18, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Slim I can proudly stand up and say HAYO NAW it ain’t like that.

Whewww… now wiping anxiety sweat from head. I’m glad you said that. I was ‘bout to call the PuPo.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Whoa BK I am not talking about Coochie cutters. I like women in nice jeans. I am just waiting on slim and her CT to hit me on the shoulder.

By mytwocents

February 18, 2008 4:31 PM | Link to this

See Truth, I asked that question to give you the benefit of the doubt. It’s ok you haven’t gotten around to answering but here’s my observation. This blog is so insular and tho there are a variety of female ‘voices,’ the focus of response & reply is often only on a FEW - and usually they’re type salty. Since they’re seen as negative/male bashing/ or just deemed ignorant by several male posters become the comments are first negated & then become the focus and basis of many blanket, stereotypical statements about women. Now Atlanta as a whole has a certain vibe when it comes to how females comport themselves ~ and believe it or not, lots of other females raise their brow @ some of the shenanigans. Again, these are the actions of some, and not representative of all or even the majority, but it’s easier to see how you’ve come to that theory. Now if this is the sum of your experience as a whole—in all your life’s travels, then it’s sad that true well rounded womanhood hasn’t really been displayed enough in your presence. But just run a check to ensure that it’s not your refusal to see the whole spectrum cuz you’re insisting on zeroing in on token few.

Seems like sometimes when the females make comments that either align w/ what some of the guys say/think, it’s glossed over or looked at skeptically like it’s just being said to ‘get points.’ Almost like the possibility won’t even be entertained that 90% of the women aren’t just the most foolish creatures.

So don’t forget about the times when positivity was in the air but instead of seeking that out, a spark of negativity was fanned and allowed to color your view.

Sorry, y’all. I don’t have a project to work on today.

By Raqi

February 18, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

Beautiful are you seriously saying that you would spend your entire day and evening on a blog? Don’t you have kids? A life? Better things to do once you leave work?

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 4:32 PM | Link to this

Que All I can do is say check out my portfolio

By Foots

February 18, 2008 4:33 PM | Link to this

Truth Really its simple. Sit down and write out what you want in life and what you can offer for what you want. Be realistic and it should be pretty evident why some people are exactly where they are.

I’d like to see all of us do this one day. There are plenty of people who know exactly what they want, and it’s quite reasonable, and it still eludes them. I don’t think it’s that simple, especially when you throw God’s timing into the picture, and who can pin that down?

Still, it’s a good exercise if we all could put pen to paper about what we wanted and what we were willing to offer to the other person AND not judge each other about the outcome.

By Blue_Kolla

February 18, 2008 4:34 PM | Link to this

Truth Don’t worry tho youngin, over the next few years your going to learn a few things about life because it sure is a humbling experience. LOL

You gets the Gold Seal on that one homie.

By Page1908

February 18, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

Wow. This is interesting to say the least.

By i'm swiss

February 18, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

Dang, Slim — I’m trying to read this blog discreetly, without letting the whole office know I’m goofing off on the internet. I darn near blow out my hernia on that last post. LOL

By Foots

February 18, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

Blue Kolla What type of women have you been attracting once you put out there what you want? Any winners in the bunch? If so, what qualities does she have that put her above the others?

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 4:40 PM | Link to this

The Truth…I am starting to feel you are BI POLAR…Who said anything about men being locked up and Broke….what the h3ll are you talking about? You are going off on a dumb a$$ tangent that don’t have nothing to do with ish!

SeanJohnson You are going to make a fine man one day…I see your inner struggle with your ego and keepin it real to the fellas. But if you get pass that you might be able to be a wonderful mate. Dance to your own drummer….Dont’ play in Truth f******* up shanninagans!! lol!

Raqi Sweetheart…I talk to everyone nicely that approaches me. I am not a bourgeious beeyatch. I am sure you can tell from my numerous of post. Oh yeah make it a great day!

Willie D So they are stand up guys on this blog. I mean some of yall are decent. I guess. I only know from what you guys tell us. But who knows what other flaws and imperfections you have that may not be tolerable? But YOU in particular seem like a level headed cool guy.

For Real Wow …long drawn out post. You actually…I hope you are not telling women that. YOU DON’T GET TO DECIDE YOUR VALUE TO ME!!! I CHOSE WHAT IS GOOD OR VALUABLE IN MY LIFE! Another man’s trash is another man’s treasure!!

I can not determine your value….You CAN only do that.

By Beautiful

February 18, 2008 4:43 PM | Link to this

Raqi yea, from 5:30a to about 10p. and no i don’t have a life, only school, home and work (my choice). i turn on my computer as soon as i get home to check email from my instructors and yahoo, so why not go over to ajc for a laugh.

By QueDogTeaching

February 18, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Slim I just hit you at your myspace.

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

.02 the women i’m exposed to on a regular are stand up women. My sister, my neighbor (who bakes for me all the time) my ex gf, female friends. My friendship isn’t based on the fact their a dimepiece or could suck start a leaf blower. First and foremost their just good people and women secondly. If one was fine as hell but a terrible person I wouldn’t want to have anything to do with her.

Foots most people will focus on what they want and overlook what they have to offer for it. Its like a chick saying I want a family but I act like a bytch everyday. Who wants to be around that? Its not consistent. If you want a husband or wife or kids prepare yourself for those duties and watch someone step into the role. When everything aligns the person will magically appear. Also, the way you act today is due to the conversation you have with yourself. Change the conversation and you change the end results.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 4:49 PM | Link to this

i’m swiss My bad dog. I just keeps it real. But what I don’t get is, why dudes that constantly mess wit chick’s that wear everything tight, wanna then go around talking about chicka has the sardine drawer’s. Now true, some chicks have chemical imbalances that cause their scent to be a little unsettling…but a women has a natural cleaning system down below. SO all that perfume soaps, lotions, sprays are not made to go under the belt. It messes with the natural flow of things. Just an FYI fellas…Also, even you dudes body chemistry can throw a chicks hole off.

Let’s say you and your girl raw dog it up…then you go and sleep with some other chick. Now her chemistry is not in your skin…then you go back and raw dog your girl again…next thing you know you wondering why she smelling like old fish grease. It was YOUR fault.

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

As is evident here, dating is a hard egg to crack with all these defense mechanisms clouding people’s judgment. Take the person you’re interested in and just talk. A person’s true “heart” will reveal itself pretty quickly if you can get the scent of puddy from under your nose!

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 4:51 PM | Link to this

Meant to type scent of puddy/dyck…

By Blue_Kolla

February 18, 2008 4:52 PM | Link to this

Foots What type of women have you been attracting once you put out there what you want?

You’d be surprised. Lately I’m coming into contact with the super-freaky, got-my-own-money, tired-of-bein-good-to-brovas, kind-hearted type chicks. But I’m lookin’ at ‘em sideways ‘cause I’m having problems with some of their moral values. Now I’ve pulled some capers, but some of these broads got me way beat. LOL I guess I’m easy to talk to is why chicks tell me the things they tell me.

By Blow Me a.k.a Bomb 1st

February 18, 2008 4:53 PM | Link to this

Truth Blow JOB…fun knee. I knew with you the cut downs were on it’s way. That’s what usually happens when you don’t like or agree with opinions. You turn into a child and start name calling. How old are you again? You are missing the whole discussions…I am not mean to anyone who speaks to me. If he is blind deaf and retard…I WILL still offer him a my southern bell charm. I never said I would put a mean mug on when a dude I am not attracted to.

mytwocents I am not being SALTY…Not today at least. But Truth appreciates the teachings from Blow…lol!

By The Truth

February 18, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Blow your young and stupid. Thats ok now tho because hopefully you look decent and your t** sit up. However, your gonna want to learn a thing a 2 before your azz starts heading south. Good luck with that.

By SlimOne

February 18, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Que Will have to check it out when I get home, can’t get on MS at the job.

By Foots

February 18, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Truth So let’s do that, let’s put it all out there one day. I’ll bet we can make matches on this blog with that. Put out there what you want and what you’re willing to offer. Shoot, send each other pictures if need be, but girls, don’t take a picture in a bikini or looking over your shoulder so your azz is in the picture and guys, don’t take a picture standing in front of your house or car. We’ll see if the issues are truly internal or if it’s just as simple as “the right one hasn’t come along yet”.

By i'm swiss

February 18, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

@Slim —

“But what I don’t get is, why dudes that constantly mess wit chick’s that wear everything tight…”

That’s why I always go for the chicks in skirts, going commando. ;-)

By Foots

February 18, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

Blue What are you looking for morally in a woman?

By SexyLeggs

February 18, 2008 4:58 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone!

Be careful and remain WATCHFUL!

By Parsley

February 18, 2008 5:05 PM | Link to this

next thing you know you wondering why she smelling like old fish grease. It was YOUR fault.

AFTER HE LEFT MY HOUSE THE NEXT MORNING, I WENT INTO THE BATHROOM AND REMOVED MY UNDIES TO TAKE A SHOWER AND WAS KNOCKED THE FVCK OUT BY THE SMELL. B*******! IT TOOK TWO WEEKS TO GO AWAY.

By For Real

February 18, 2008 5:05 PM | Link to this

Blow Another man’s trash is another man’s treasure

Exactly! I decided it was a worthless piece of trash and thru it out. Some dude dug thru my trash and tho it was gold. In the end we are both happy. My trash got picked up and he found some gold.

By I mean really

February 18, 2008 5:12 PM | Link to this

It’s 5:10 shut this ish doowwnnnnnnnn.

By For Real

February 18, 2008 5:19 PM | Link to this

Foots

Here you go in no particular order. I hope you see before the blow shuts down: