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DEL.ICIO.USLivin’ la vida local
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
My most recent date was with a man who took me to (insert chain Italian restaurant here). We had a great time, I was full when I left, and all was well.
But I couldn’t help but think afterward, he took me to chainrestaurant? Now don’t get me wrong—men, I did not subtract any points for this. We had a nice evening.
But I thought, we live in the middle of Atlanta! We have so many original restaurants, and even Atlanta-only chains! Why wouldn’t you take advantage of them? You can eat at chainrestaurant any day, in any state! And some local spots are even less expensive than the chain we went to.
I realize I’m a foodie, so I probably eat out at more restaurants than many people, but I thought, don’t you want to make a great impression, especially in the first month or so of dating someone?
When you go on dates, do you capitalize on all the city has to offer? Do you choose (or encourage your date to choose) local hangouts over chain restaurants?
What’s your favorite local spot to take a first date? Any places with great atmosphere that are bound to make your date smile? Has anyone ever taken you somewhere on a first date that you were really impressed with or had never been to before? Are there any places in Atlanta you would warn people not to go to on a first date?
Where’s the romantic restaurant you take that special someone who you’ve started seeing exclusively? Are there places that can balance ambience and food without draining your (or your date’s) wallet?
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By Lady J
January 7, 2008 8:52 AM | Link to this
Morning Good Folk!! J is glad to be back at work!!! Happy Monday!!!
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 8:52 AM | Link to this
Morning Yaawwwwwnnnn!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
January 7, 2008 8:59 AM | Link to this
Bella you said you are not taking points off the guy for taking you to the chain resturant yet here you are complaining about him not taking you to a local place. Okay something has to give for some of you not”so young” but young minded folks in 2008.
It is a date..not a marriage proposal. The point is to go out and have fun and get to know the person and see if this is some you can see yourself spending a couple of hours of your life in the company of to have said fun. It is not a invite to go out and try the latest resturant or hang spot..or a free meal. Question from me to you is did you go dutch this first meal or did he have to whip out the wallet to pay? If he paid then you eat where his wallet goes..if you paid then you can pick the local hot spot for grub. If you go dutch then you make a mutal agreement on a place that suits both of you.
Just because a guy ask you out doesnt mean he has to impress you. Impression works both ways..and I think the quicker some of us women folks get that the happier some of us will be. There is nothing wrong with thinking you are the best prize in the claw machine. The reality is you are not the only prize in the claw machine.
Now as for food places I love several local resturants-I had lunch at Six Feet Under for the first time this weekend. It was good. Nice size portions and I would recommend it for a date.
Oh yeah..Good Morning All.
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 9:16 AM | Link to this
Bella Question for you. So what would have your reaction been had he taken you to some mom & pop local place where the service/food ended up being bad??? Then you would’ve judged him on picking that spot just the same as you complaining about the Chainrestaurant. I’m not sure how the conversation went when you and him planned to meet up..but maybe if you stressed during the conversation that you like to try new places because ATL has so many to offer yadda yadda yadda…things could’ve been different.
Dr. Kym does have a point. Sounds like the guy wasn’t that interesting for you to focus on something so minor as the spot yall went to. It was just the first date. My suggestion would be to invite him to some new local spot for date #2 and flip da skrip. Try to do a lil impressing on your own. That would be the best way to set an example for him to UP his game on date #3 if it so happens to go that far.
Women We need to learn to stop picking everything apart. Lighten up, chill out, enjoy the moment, and have a darn good time.
Slim now setting up a Chill Pill Taste Test Kiosk in the StarShip parking lot
By DASv
January 7, 2008 9:18 AM | Link to this
hello good people
im with the Doc on this one, Belle. sounds like you are complaining, almost like you tryin find something to wrong with the ‘nice evening’. in the man’s defense, he may have choosen a chainrestaurant so there’s no surprises… he knew what to expect of the food, the atmosphere and had you tripped, he knew the exits (if he made a quick dash to the bathroom and jumped through a window for escape, he knew he wasnt gonna hit no brick wall)
sexyLeggs holla at me when you get in.
now sitting down to patiently wait on CEE to bring in some bkfast and hot cocoa
By Jay
January 7, 2008 9:20 AM | Link to this
Good morning all. Sounds like Kym is still p** by the Steelers game. I have to say, Your comments are on point. I agree totally. I think our mindset is off balance about what dating is.
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 9:26 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone!
WOW, sorry but you sound shallow. So what it’s a chain restaurant. That thought would never have entered in my mind. But as you say, you eat out a lot. You went on a date, he didn’t take you to McDonald’s or Burger King.
BTW, yes you are taking off points because “it stuck in your crawl” that he took you to a chain restaurant.
By Gina
January 7, 2008 9:29 AM | Link to this
she wrote she had a good time, and she also said she didn’t penalize him, now why are you guys reading into it so hard?
and Dr. Kym, just because you are happy that a dude takes you to Red Lobster, don’t expect everyone to be geeked about it. It’s not about money.
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 9:30 AM | Link to this
Hey Jay!!! Happy New Year!!!
I hated to see the Steelers lose too and Tenn!!!
But the Giants are looking well!!!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
January 7, 2008 9:32 AM | Link to this
Jay I am not still p** by the Steelers game. I am just telling it like I see it. As for my beloved Steelers.. We made it to the playoffs..with our first year coach Congrats Mike T now in the offseason we need to get some guys healthy and work on tightening up our O-line and slapping the D-line around.
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 9:34 AM | Link to this
LOL @SlimOne. You would pick the Starship parking lot!
By T-Mango
January 7, 2008 9:37 AM | Link to this
But I couldn’t help but think afterward, he took me to chainrestaurant…
(Shaking my head). I’m not understanding the problem. The point is that he took you out to a sit down dinner for a first date. You had good food, convo and company, didn’t you?
He could’ve pulled up to the local Checkers and asked you what # combo you wanted. Then, let you know you were going dutch at the window…Which scenario do you prefer??
Have a great day bloggers-
By The Truth
January 7, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this
Good morning blogsville and welcome back to the work world.
WOW, has dating gotten this fugged up.
Bella the guy was probablly just trying to break bread with you, not lock you into forever and ever. I can’t believe you’d think something like that. Says alot about your thought processs. With the right person you can drive thru McD’s and wind up having a great time. Apparently he wasn’t the right guy. I’m glad he didn’t splurge for some upscale restaurant to an ungrateful woman. I hope you get all you deserve.
Outside of Pappageaux’s (which i’ve stated I’m addicted to) there is Maggiano’ (chain italian), Chequers, Mortons, and a place that closed down called Eatsy’s or was it Itsy’s? Great for a chick that doesn’t mind something a little different. Anyone ever ate there?
I’m fortunate now in that alot of the women I know love to cook. My sister, neighbors, friends, my ex gf ( ate New Years dinner over there). I love to sit down and eat food prepared especially for me.
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 9:38 AM | Link to this
Bella for the first date, some times it pays to be safe…I really don’t know what in the hell you are allergic to as of yet..I remember taking this girl to Joe’s Crab House and watch her behind swell up..I was like: Baby, you don’t look so hot…Are you on drugs? LOL
Hey DasV‘n’Slim!!!
Kym good game.
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 9:40 AM | Link to this
Hey You!
We’ve got breakfast today yall. All that talk about picnic/grillin’ out last week got a sista out this weekend w/ the 60-70 degrees…just beautiful! Now I’m looking forward to spring!
Breakfast Spread: leftover grilled chicken wings, grilled kielbasas sausages,fresh cut fruit salad, hot pot of grits and variety flavors of oatmeal. To drink weight control smoothies, variety of juices and WATER.
Have at it folks!
Hope you all had a great weekend…
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
January 7, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this
Gina must be one of those young-minded women I was speaking of earlier..so are you the blonde or redhead on the latest girls gone wild youtube video. Give me a break airheads.
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 9:41 AM | Link to this
I’m hollering at you DasV. What’s up?
By Been Thru It All
January 7, 2008 9:42 AM | Link to this
The restaurant that makes me smile the most is……..Mickey D’s Tha double quarter pounder with cheese is off the hook, served fresh with those tasty french fries, washed down with the staple of the south (Iced Tea)……I always take my FIRST dates there….lol(just kidding)
someone sounds a little picky…:-)
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this
Hey Demi, why the foul mood?
By Jay
January 7, 2008 9:44 AM | Link to this
Morning LadyJ. Kym This will be an interesting off season for a lot of teams. Why is it that chain restaurants are looked at as second class. I think you can have a great setting in any restaurant. Customer service should be more important.
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this
Good MORNING all!
I think that’s a bit picky. If you have a better suggestion..then you should recommend it. Maybe he doesn’t know…so give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he honestly thought he may have impressed you…After reading this I am sure his firecracker fizzled (insert…handicapped kid from WATERBOY here…w/ fizzled firecracker)
But as far as a good place…the smaller joints to me are the most initimate ones to go to. It depends on the type of person you are with. What they are into? I am personally a fan of any Tapas bar. Small initmate ambience. Two Urban Licks nice joint. Hell, the HARLEM bar is my ALL time favorite.
On a higher scale, The Sundial is quite impressive, Oceanaire, Mortons… Those are really nice restaurants…
Places not to go to would be….I guess the BLUE FLAME, Golden Corral or even anywhere that offers “Would you like fries with that?” or that offers coupons that you can redeem at the end of the date! lol!
Tapas bars are a usually nice place…decently priced and a great scenery
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 9:45 AM | Link to this
Slim/Sexy Starship use to be the joint back in the day.
Hi DasV Happy 2008.
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 9:47 AM | Link to this
Atlanta Seafood off of Northpoint Parkway is a great getaway for a first date…
By Bill
January 7, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this
Chain restaurants are not second class, but they are dull if you are a foodie.
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 9:52 AM | Link to this
@ Demi b.k.a. Not a real Corporate Thug Just Play One on T.V.
There will not be any foul moods starting this ‘08 WTH!…You need to come holla at ya gurl in the dance cubicle. I’ve got a whole lot of bam left over bruh..:)
By SeanJohnson3000
January 7, 2008 9:53 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…regarding the topic B…i cosign Kym’s post…you sound a little ungrateful..besides most females really like and enjoy going to chain spots..everybody has their favorite..and if dude was anything like me…i have to have a real interest in the female beyond sex to go in my “play book” and spend time and money to take her to unique and trendy spots..I am all for enjoying the city of Atl with a female…but a brother gotta hit you off with 21 questions first..
By Observer
January 7, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this
A man calls and takes you out for dinner, pays for your meal, and you complain about the restaurant.
And you wonder why you are still single?
By binford
January 7, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this
I co-sign ya Truth
Sometimes it would behoove women to just be thankful that a man makes the effort to take them anywhere!
Lady J I’d be more than happy to go to Atlanta Seafood with you if you are buying.
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 9:55 AM | Link to this
The Truth You sexist PIG you!! You want to sit down like a king for a meal that is prepared for you….I’ll prepare a meal you alright…I suppose she suppose to be walking around bare foot w/ knee pads on..To scrub the beloved ground you walk on….Damn Ridiculous…The question was WHERE an actually place you would recommend or take a date too….WOW..this early….
By Gina
January 7, 2008 9:56 AM | Link to this
Oh, I’m a young silly airhead because I happen to disagree with you? I can see your maturity equals an 4th grader.
If you are happy with eating regular food, good for you. Some people happen to have a palate that prefers something unique, different. It doesn’t make you a snob or picky. It just means you are into things that are different than the norm. AGain, most people are reading way too much into the entry, and writing responses (as usual) off topic, and unrelated to the discussion.
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs Can you believe these fools got me back at work 9 o’clock this morning…I am tired as Hellz..Now helping myself to Cemeeli’s leftovers.
By SeanJohnson3000
January 7, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this
on a side note…the Wire was off the chain last nite…
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 10:01 AM | Link to this
Slim/Sexy opening with a joke/funny eases the tention for both parties to suggest the smaller, quaint, chainrestaurant lol places is my thoughts on it. If she would have said let’s go to Starship (if he know what that was) it pretty much could have broke the ice. Maybe ppl are not that comfortable with being facecious on a first meet/date like Cee.
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 10:02 AM | Link to this
I’ve only been to Pappadeaux’s once, and absolutely loved it. I don’t eat out much. However, I might take myself and my child to Oceanaire’s soon.
A first date that involves dinner should not be McDonalds’s. If that’s all you can afford, then give me the $$ and I’ll cook us dinner.
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 10:05 AM | Link to this
Good Morning, all & Happy New Year…
No offense, but it sounds like you did take off points. I mean, if you had a good time, shouldn’t that matter more than whether it was a chain restaurant.
A chain restaurant is a little bit of a safe pick because it is familiar. Maybe this is why he chose it. Did you have any input or did he make all of the plans?
As for local restaurants my wife love for dinners are as follows: Repast, 2 urban licks (gotta try Lamb lollipops…2 urban licks was also featured on Rachel Ray’s show $20 a day for Atlanta, GA. We’e actually tried both locations of Six feet Under and both a pretty good (the original is better, though).
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 10:06 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs You would pick the Starship parking lot! Yeah, you must didn’t read the fine print on my sign. “All proceeds go to Slim’s New & Improved DVD Collection of 2008” lmao
Demi You sound like Garfield with your foul mood on just the first Monday of the new year. Demi the God of I hate Mondays
Cee I was on Old Nat’l yesterday and that Starship over there needs a makeover. Anyone have Ty Pennington’s number? I can see it now, “Extreme Store Makeover….Adult Novelty Store Edition”
By DASv
January 7, 2008 10:07 AM | Link to this
sexyLeggs girl. i wanted to tell you about my story along the lines of what you shared a couple weeks back… you know, the brother who was married but was sweatin you… and had no shame, but needed a good butt-kickin… well i had the misfortunate to meet an older man, nice to look at, cool, suave, etc… he gave me his business card with an website addy. i peruse the site and read an article in a recent article of the business chronicles about his company where he states that ‘family, friends, and faith’ have gotten him this far. this man is married 23 years with two children. in none of our numerous convos has he every said as much to me. anyway, i asked out right if he is married (the article was written 2 yrs ago) and he says ‘yea, 23 yrs’ with pride no-less. sista-girl, i hung the phone up. (thats it… i just needed to vent)
Demi of Foul Moods whats happenin’??
CEE thanks for bkfast… these wangs are good… and i needed my water, cause the last two weeks it aint been nothing but alcohol.
Blow my favorite is ChowBaby. thats a fun date restaurant.
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:08 AM | Link to this
Ok binford…Let me know when bc I love their crab claws…lol I am a sucker for good fresh seafood!!!:)
By Fax Me
January 7, 2008 10:09 AM | Link to this
Good Morning
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 10:11 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli Girl, lee’me’long…I am about to let a few Jeezy tracks ride out in this mugg.
And, did you say,”Dance Cubicle”?
Now grabbing a few ones and throwing Pastor Troy’s Make them get that Money, into the DJ Slim’s booth.
Play that for us bay.
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 10:12 AM | Link to this
Truth Yeah I can’t front..I love seafood and Pappadueax is definitely the truth! 2lbs of KING crablegs for me please… and a SWAMP THING! LOL!
By AmazonRed - back on the grind
January 7, 2008 10:13 AM | Link to this
Good morning and happy Monday all.
I try to not over think things on dates, like Bella seems to be doing in this instance. I’d rather focus on having a good time.
That being said, if he’s chosing the restaurant, if I care about it being a chain (which I don’t) I’d speak up before meeting up. But usually the guy will ask me for my feedback and we’ll go from there. I love Mexican food and one of the last dates I went on, he researched Mexican restaurants and came up with a winner I had never had before. Now I want to eat there once a week. He scored major points for that one!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
January 7, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this
No Gina you are a silly airhead because you made a jacked off comment about me so I returned the favor. If your taste are to unique for the regular chain resturants then that should be stated to your date on day one and a suggestion should be made. If he asked her out and he is paying then she needs to bring novocain or order a salad so she can suffer through the meal with her unique tastebuds. Otherwise she needs to pull out her wallet and say how about I take you to one of my favorite spots. Just because you are a foodie doesnt mean everyone is. Suggestion if this is that important to you then might I suggest you date someone who is like minded in tastebuds that way you are on the same page. Unique tastebuds my a*..it is all coming out the exact same way.
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:17 AM | Link to this
yes it was SJ3K!!! Love that show…
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 10:19 AM | Link to this
Speaking of crab (Lady J). I was so disappointed Saturday. I was supposed to meet up with my best friend at Spondivits on Pharr Road only to get there and realize it’s no longer there. Didn’t they just open that place up not too long ago? I had my mouth all watering for a bucket of crab legs, shrimp and a long island or two. We bustas ended up going to Friday’s instead. Arrgggghhh!
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 10:21 AM | Link to this
DASv these jokers got me pulling a 12m-8a, 4p-2am, and 7a-7p…to complete someone elses project…I told them not to hire any more black people, LOL
But for real, that dude is lazy!!!
By Tazzee
January 7, 2008 10:23 AM | Link to this
Morning Folks!!!
I have to agree with the others on the way this topic was presented. Bella you do sound a little shallow, but I’m sure you were just looking for an interesting lead-in to the real topic at hand. So I won’t subtract any points for this LOL.
For me, the company not the locale makes the date. The actual planned date can be a disaster, but if the guy and I had fun getting through that disaster - that would be a great date for me.
Dr. Kym - Six Feet Under is one of my favorite places, I make sure to go there every time I make it to the A. I also make sure I get in breakfast at Thumb’s Up (usually the one in East Point). I had dinner at Harlem Bar on NYE and that’s another of my faves in Atlanta. Casa Grande is my favorite Mexican restaurant. I could go on and on because I love to eat.
I did go on one first date here in Houston where the food was GREAT!!! I later determined that it was the food that hooked me, not the man. The second time I went to that restaurant (with some friends) I left with the same ‘I think I’m falling in love’ feeling that I did the first time…
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:25 AM | Link to this
Now Slim you know Va. Ave is the orignal spot…I went there too when it first open…whew I miss livving of f Peachtree…but anyway I didn’t care for it either…I caould not even enjoy watching a football game…
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this
@Slim…Spondivits killed someone through food poisoning. It was the restaurant near the airport but its the same owners.
I imagine killing your customers are bad for business overall.
By 900K aka Mr 2008
January 7, 2008 10:32 AM | Link to this
If he paid then you eat where his wallet goes..if you paid then you can pick the local hot spot for grub. If you go dutch then you make a mutal agreement on a place that suits both of you…. Just because a guy ask you out doesnt mean he has to impress you. Impression works both ways..and I think the quicker some of us women folks get that the happier some of us will be. - Kym- will you marry me? Ok, maybe just meet me @ Applebees for lunch! See the hard thing about being a guy is most of the things listed above. Then add to the fact that you do your research and brainstorm for hours to come up with an original new& trendy spot and SHE DOES NOT LIKE IT!. This happens quite often you ask her : What are you in the mood for? What kind of foods? she says: I can eat just about anything, I’m open You then take her to Chopstix decent lil spot then she frowns at the table an says: I DONT LIKE CHINESE FOOD!!! ;-(
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 10:33 AM | Link to this
A first date that involves dinner should not be McDonalds’s. If that’s all you can afford, then give me the $$ and I’ll cook us dinner.
Hellz to the no Sexy!!! Just give buddy a pat on the head and tell him to come back when he grows up…If you can’t afford to date, then don’t
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
If you like southwestern food, I recommend Agave on Boulevard. It is very good.
By Gina
January 7, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
Oh goodness, Dr. Kym, Sweetheart, you just stick to what you prefer, I’m sure the food is good in your hood too.
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
Damn! See, that’s what I’m talking about. If you’re happily married and proud to be married, why try to cozy up to someone else. It’s plain RUDE. You’re disrespecting yourself in my eyes and your wife! To not even mention it is pure deceit. DasV, that conversation certainly warranted a CLICK!
Demi, after your weekend, I know you’re tired. Hang in there!
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:35 AM | Link to this
binford meant to add and don’t mind paying extra for it, it is expensive but very nice…lol
By kinderbabe
January 7, 2008 10:37 AM | Link to this
good morning all hope your new year is off to a great start.:)
no complaints here about “chain” restaurants. i was treated to a very nice “chain” restaurant (the oceanaire) over the break. the last thing on my mind while sitting at the table was “wait, isn’t this restaurant in more than one city?” lol. i was too busy loving the company and table side wine service.;)
By Mysterious
January 7, 2008 10:39 AM | Link to this
Truth
That first date including a home cook meal by me or you sounds like a great idea!!! And very romantic.
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this
Poppa Yeah the one off Virginia Ave was the one where the death occurred as a result of undercooked oysters or something. That one is actually still open. I’d actually still go there because I don’t eat oysters. LOL! What better way to die with buttery fingers, a crab claw in hand, and a smile on my face. :-D
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this
Correction
I imagine killing your customers is bad for business overall.
Here is the link http://www.rssl.com/OurServices/FoodENews/Newsletter.aspx?ENewsletterID=227
By AmazonRed
January 7, 2008 10:46 AM | Link to this
Blow Me - If you love the Harlem Bar AND tapas, then you must try their sister restaurant Rare. Rare is ONLY tapas and drinks so if you go there looking to get full, stick to the Harlem Bar that also has dinner. But I really enjoyed both restaurants. You wont be disappointed!
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 10:48 AM | Link to this
Truth Don’t let Mysterious fool you. That sounds like a cheap date….It’s too early in the game to be showing ALL your cards. He needs to get to know you instead of being CAKED up in your crib with you Grandma recipes tryin to hook and sinker him….BREAK BREAD…
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:50 AM | Link to this
Slim the drinks are great at that spot…better than Buckhead…I bam like you don’t do oysters…lol
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this
900K for real!!!!! One of the worst feelings in the world is to treat a woman to a new unknown, but well talked about restaurant. Only to have ole girl get all stone faced on you!!
She didn’t like any of the choices on the menu, but was unwilling to try out one item. Soooooo, I ask her ‘what did she have a taste for?’…her reply ‘I don’t know.’
I took her a* to McDeezy…I sure did!!…I wanted to slap her with my fries, LOL
By Staceye
January 7, 2008 10:51 AM | Link to this
Bella girl just be glad he actually took you out. These days guys are trying to be cheap and slick at the same time by trying to make the first date a “chill” date. You know..the one where he comes to your crib or you go to his and he orders food and then tries to get int he panties all in one foul swoop! I’m sorry…no in home dates until we have gone out at least 3 times. A….he could be crazy. I do not let a guy know where I live until we have been seeing each other for a while. Even then…I am cautious! I will not got o his crib either..that is his territory and he thinks he gets home court advantage. Little does he know I will cut him in my crib or his if he trys some shyt! LOL
T-Mango LMAO! He could have said girl you owe me the puddy fo’ sho since you putting cheese on that combo!
Demi you are so foul! LOL That poor girl.
Sexyleggs you can cook that man a meal and he won’t want to leave your crib girl! No…hold off unless you want a squatter! LOL heck..I may come move in! Keep playing!
Slim LMAO..I am dying over here….Extreme Makeover fro Adult Stores??? What would they do…make a rotating d!ldo display rack?
DasV you have just met one more of ATL’s Most Triflin’!
Blow Me I love the Swamp Thing too girl.
* I am scared of any place called 6 ft under….just the name alone makes me think of Spondivits.*
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 10:52 AM | Link to this
Demi time out for playing the Corporate Thug on T.V.! You probably gonna have to get 500 Gansta on them! Dang sweetie that’s alot!!!
Hi Kinderbabe/ladyj…i hear the Oceanaire is a cool spot. I’ve never been but seem i should check it out.
Grill Master 900 Can i tell you about Saturday’s game?!?…okay we lost 26 - 0. Our team went for 12 shouts and all but 2 were taken buy one lil guy. AND the “testosterone” showed vividly after the game. WOW!
By Bella
January 7, 2008 10:53 AM | Link to this
Ha ha! Good morning, all! I’ve missed you!
Let me reassure everyone that I did indeed have a fun time with a really great guy. (And I would never bash a guy for planning a date. If we stay together, I can inform him later that I’m really into some other restaurants!)
All I’m saying is that I noticed the difference in what we thought might be ideal for a date.
It’d be the same as if he took me to do something I wasn’t interested in. Say…field hockey or something. I’m just not into it. That doesn’t mean that we can’t have chemistry.
Demi, I loved your point about “playing it safe” for the first few dates, because you may not know about peoples’ food allergens. Has anyone ever had a bad experience with this?
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this
ARed Rare is cool…The crowd is great too!
Hey KB!!
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 10:55 AM | Link to this
AMAZONRED Yeah I have heard RARE is a really nice spot. I have to stop in one day to see what it’s about. Putting this on things to do list.
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this
Dang it Slim!
*What better way to die with buttery fingers, a crab claw in hand, and a smile on my face!?! Lol!
By Lady J
January 7, 2008 10:58 AM | Link to this
Hey Cemeeli!!! Yeah it is same quality!!! Love it!
By binford
January 7, 2008 11:03 AM | Link to this
Staceye do you need a hug? Just rest assured I would never do that kind of thing on the first date.
…I just can’t promise I wouldn’t try it on the second ;P KIDDING.
Just don’t cut me Staceye the Butcher!
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 11:08 AM | Link to this
Bella - I have dealt with a date with allergens. I dated a female (when I was single, of course) that was allergic to corn!!! That ruled out a lot of mexican since corn is a major staple for that food. She did mention that prior to our first date (which I thought may have been important). Luckily, I chose a chain spot that had a lot of variety.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
January 7, 2008 11:11 AM | Link to this
What’s up Party People!!
Side notes:I need LSU to win tonight, hated to see the Steelers lose, glad the Giants won and The Wire was OFF DA CHAIN
On topic: I am still learning about a lot of Atlanta’s hidden treasures. I dont think I would have read so much into the place and whether it was a chain or not as I would have if we enjoyed each other’s company.
I am trying to speed read and catch up, computers were a lil slow this am
By kinderbabe
January 7, 2008 11:12 AM | Link to this
hey cemeeli/ladyj:) yes, it was very nice. totally classy place. i went to the one in washington d.c. i’m sure the one here is just as nice. i plan to visit there soon.
so ladies, how was your holiday season?
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this
Lady J You are right about the drinks at the V. Ave location. There has NEVER been a time i left that place sober. LOL! Patron, long island ice teas…delicioso!
Staceye You know I was sitting over here wondering what the madeover Starship would be like. It would definitely have to have a ‘special video camera system’. You know how you walk in and see yourself on the Security Video? Well it would automatically show your face imposed into the latest adult movie. LOL! There would also be a tray of new warm doohickeys (sort of like a bottle warmer) to try out in the ergonomically correct dressing room for your testing pleasure. I think there would also be an arts-n-crafts area where you can have your own member or area made into a toy…for a slight additional fee of course. Cuz I know for sho i’m not the only chick that’s ever wondered how her CT would look made into a top notch silicone/latex toy!
I can see it now, selling bootleg fake puddy’s at Underground
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this
BINFORD & STACEYE Binford she does not need a HUG…she needs a damn HI-5. Okay girl I am feeling you all the way….These fools will try to take you to the crib and watch BOOTLEGG movies with a 22oz Corona and a box of Churchs chicken. So yeah if he taking you to a CHAIN restuarant that’s a good look. Cause nowadays this dudes like to do CHILL dates…I can’t even get down with that. Dont’ have time for those SUCKERS!
By Beautiful
January 7, 2008 11:13 AM | Link to this
i just read something recently that dinner and a movie is dead and i totally agree. wink, wink imma switch it up with pool, bowling, zoo, aquarium, etc. i like to be busy, moving around on a date. grabbing something like a hotdog is cool with me.
By 900K aka Mr 2008
January 7, 2008 11:15 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli- @ least he’s not shy about puttin the ball up! “Testosterone” is a GOOD thing at all ages do not worry. Well my game was a losing effort but I was dam proud of my boys we only lost by four points, the game was tied until last min of game. Okay the score was 8-4 But we got D!! They just were not taking shots, so I got to drill it home 2nite in practice.
Staceye- calm down with all the “home turf” talk you’re givin away sacred information!
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 11:16 AM | Link to this
Staceye I know…That’s why I only date mature women…Most of them are very open to try new things…So if they turn a restaurant down, most likely the food or service is bad.
Cemeeli/Sexy/Tazz (hey you) see above post.
By i agree
January 7, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this
I actually agree with Bella’s line of thinking. The money part of it really isn’t an issue - obviously, he took her somewhere and paid for the date. That was gracious of him.
However, to some folks going to a chain restaurant may look a little uncreative on a first date. Doesn’t mean either person is right or wrong, it just shows what their interest and likes are. I’m now married and it doesn’t really matter. However, if someone took me to Carraba’s or Macaroni Grill for a first date then it would definitely come off like we have somewhat different interests.
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 11:18 AM | Link to this
…and as far as budget friendly dates, keeping it simple, breaking bread is concerned. Let me be the next to say…the impression should not be the atmoshpere but how compatible you are with your date. Go dutch, pick a place you’d both be comfortable with & you’re comfortable. It should not be my place or yours not on first meet/date. IMO
By binford
January 7, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this
Blow ME I must live on a different planet, because people I know don’t do that and the girls would never allow it.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
January 7, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this
Tazzee I really enjoyed it. I will be going back and the price was right. It’s a seafood place.. Staceye Does anyone know where Loca Luna moved to? I like that place as well. My favorite local place is American Roadhouse.. I love that place…
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this
Demi, I kinda figure you would say something like that. I thought after posting that one of you would wonder why I would even consider cooking let alone willing to see a person that couldn’t afford McDonald’s. Hell, perhaps it was a bad month for him. I’m over here cracking myself up. Anyway, Staceye, you’re right, don’t want anyone exercising squatter’s rights!
… rotating d!ldo display rack* oh the visual…LOL
By DreamsMaterialize
January 7, 2008 11:20 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone
I always try to get some feedback when going on a first date. If I know you’re a “foodie”, then I’ll prepare accordingly. Without that knowledge, I’d pick the safe spot too.
Atlanta does have lots of good food though. Capital Grille on Paces Ferry has lots of ambiance, and the food is not bad. There are a couple of good Brazilian churrascarias that I like. I’ve also found a some good Thai, Ethiopian, and Indian spots. Island Cafe on memorial is always good for Carribean. I have to admit that, after living in Cali and Texas, it’s been really hard to find good mexican. Any suggestions?
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 11:23 AM | Link to this
Beautiful I recall going on a date to the Center of Puppetry Arts once. Yeah its a little elementary but we had soooo much fun in there. It was nice to just not take life so seriously for a change with all that, Why did your last relationship end? How many kids n shyt do you want? blah blah blah mumbo jumbo.
Go rollerskating, iceskating, bike riding….maybe the problem is everyone wanting to ball out of control. I think it’s time to get back to the basics. Keep it simple every now and then. I challenge you all. Just imagine how freeing it can be to take a step back into the light heartedness of being a kid again.
IF a dude take you to Mickey D’s, dare him to jump in the balls at the play area or something. HOWEVER, you might want to make that the last thing you do before dipping out into a running vehicle, screetching the tires out the parking lot before the Po Po shows up. lmao!!!!!
For Real If you’re out there I have one bottle of luke warm water, a jump rope, and a candy necklace. How bout it? lol
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this
Blow…Churches…ugh & lol…greasy…GREASY!!!
kinderbabe I was traveling most of my holiday. It was great 2weeks. I am blessed to have such a great family. I enjoyed them, as always. Sounds like D.C. was kosher for ya!?
By Staceye
January 7, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this
Binford you are a hot mess! LOL
By Blow ME Beautifully a.k.a BLOW ME
January 7, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this
Binford What planet do you live on? Cause I sure as hell would like to go. I don’t allow it…HOME dates out of the question. Damn near 30…can’t afford to play those games!
By Dan
January 7, 2008 11:29 AM | Link to this
Morning,
Question:
Is it the spot, or the company?
Generally, I’m finding a lot of the boughie babes care more about the spot (is it trendy? does anybody [of import] know about it?). I mean if I’m planning a nice date (in the midst of all the other thing I’m doing in life, does the effort or the destination matter?
Almost make me long for the days when the ‘Bees was impressive…..
By DASv
January 7, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this
Demi lemme know if you need some pointers on how to prop yourself up and look like you workin. LOL
LOLROTF@blows These fools will try to take you to the crib and watch BOOTLEGG movies with a 22oz Corona and a box of Churchs chicken
PoppaG corn are you serious?! LOL that strikes so many things… that reminds me of a scene in HITCH, where will was allergic to seafood or something and his face blew up with extreme hives… what can you do in a situation like that?? i am still chuckling at that scene
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 11:32 AM | Link to this
@kym…Loca Luna is in midtown. It is in between Peachtree and Juniper(near a restauarant called Mulan and Spice.
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 11:33 AM | Link to this
@kym…Loca Luna is in midtown. It is in between Peachtree and Juniper(near some restauarants called Mulan and Spice.
By Bella
January 7, 2008 11:36 AM | Link to this
Dan I think it’s the company. But it definitely increases your chances of having a good time if you have good food and good service!
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 11:37 AM | Link to this
SlimOne that’s not funny…I love your ideas…Atlanta could use an upscale novelty store.
Those fake p-dussies look good, but were painful as hellz…cutie from this summer had to cut one off me…They don’t mold to your manhood as the real thing…Tight is not always good.
By DreamsMaterialize
January 7, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
Damn the CHILL is a no-go these days? I must not have gotten that memo. I think some wack dudes are giving the CHILL date a bad rep. Here’s how a real CHILL date I had:
1) I cooked baked cornish hen with apple/marsala wine sauce, baked sweet potato sprinkled with brown sugar and cinnamon, and grilled zucchini, served with a german Trochen Beren Auslese wine. Topped it off with good conversation.
2) Rented a movie we both hadn’t seen but wanted to.
3) Kicked it.
She said she liked it more than any restaurant we could’ve gone to.
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
900 so you had a Sump Saturday game too…:). I was just glad that season finally started. I did have to have a heart to heart after all that “testy” calm down. It was the first time i’d seen that much passion in it. Prac tonight should be building character..but i’m not the coach, i ust don’t want another door/chair kicked.
Demi attracting like minded individuals is awesome!
still waiting to dance
By Poppa Grande
January 7, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
Dreams Materailize…Have you tried Nuevo Laredo? I think that is the one near the Pepsi Plant. It is pretty good. They stay pretty busy. Although, the service sometimes reminds me of the “soup nazi” from Seinfeld.
By SexyLeggs
January 7, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this
Seems to be the spot!
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 11:43 AM | Link to this
I grabbing something like a hotdog is cool with me.
B not trying to look down help yourself bay.
Demi is now kneeling on the ground holding damage manhood and praying to God to end the pain.
By AmazonRed
January 7, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this
Dreams - There is a definitely a lack of good mexican food in Atlanta. I like Uncle Julio’s on Peachtree. They served me the best enchilladas this side of the rocky mountains. (I did have to tell them to make it my way, but once they did it was on).
By Got that?
January 7, 2008 11:47 AM | Link to this
Hey Lady J.
It’s little wonder why dating in Atlanta is so difficult with all the shallow and self-centered singles that live here.
Bella, your lead-in is so prototypical of Atlanta women. It’s like you have to find something wrong with the date, despite all the good. And then make some comment that discredits everything you just said.
By SlimOne
January 7, 2008 11:48 AM | Link to this
Demi…I Hate Monday’s I’m just curious. If a cutie from summer was around, what was the need for the plastic puddy?
By AmazonRed
January 7, 2008 11:49 AM | Link to this
By the way, Dreams, Uncle Julio’s has great drinks (magaritas) too. They are two doors down from El Azteca. I don’t really remember the food at El Azteca, but I know their margaritas will knock me on my azz. Good times!
By The Truth
January 7, 2008 11:54 AM | Link to this
Blow Me these wild mood swings are scaring the shyt out of me. I’m not a sexist pig. I’ve eaten at most of the good restaurants out there but prefer going to my sisters house to eat. Better food and great company. Excuse me for being over the hype.
I’m going to find you a good therapist to deal with those emotional swings. That cant be good for you. LOL
Mysterious a great home cooked meal is a far better date and you can learn more from that date than you ever could going out to eat, although that can be fun too.
I remember me and my ex wife were on Buford highway and hungry and she had like $2 and I had $3. We drove thru McD’s and bought food and shared it while sitting in the car and laughing our azzes off. Thats when it was ok to just be together, before the restaurant you chose decided how much you were willing to pay for some puddy.
By Cemeeli
January 7, 2008 11:56 AM | Link to this
DasV HITCH is one of my favorite movies…Lol @ when Albert tried to dance and Hitch slapped the taste out his mouth b/c he was embarrassing hisself.:)
@ Dan -
I agree. Company kept during a date is more important. If you take me to The SunDail/Flambeaux, ect…but you can’t hold a convo. what’s the point! …Good night!
By Demi, the God of...Foul Moods
January 7, 2008 11:59 AM | Link to this
Blow ME so you’re 29/28…I am now lumping you with Slim, Ms.Eye, Bella, and A.red. Y’all are some young girls, LOL
These Jail baits are taking over, LOL
By Dan
January 7, 2008 12:02 PM | Link to this
I agree, the A’s got some nice spots.
But that’s why I have cable (Food Network specifically), becuase I love cooking. My diet is limited by what I can’t eat, and just plain won’t, so I love coming up with new and inventive ways to eat foods that I like.
I’m not out on the town like that going out for dinners and the such.
So I’ma take notes, and add that to the list (frugality). I’m tr