Misadventures in Atlanta

By lady j

December 31, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this

Morning Everyone and Happy New Year!!!

By AmazonRed - Ready for 2008!

December 31, 2007 8:39 AM | Link to this

Happy end of 2007 everyone! I hope it was all you could ever ask for.

I’m checking in for a moment, I’m still on vacay! I always look forward to the New Year.

Dating lessons I learned in 2007: * Some folks just aren’t open to love. * It’s okay to be a “bytch” in the relationship. * I learned to be more open to other ways of meeting folks and dating (like online dating websites)

I’m also blessed to have several friends/sorority sisters in their 30s and 40s who passed on that “I wish I had known this in my 20s” type dating advice. Now that I’m 26 days into being 30, I look forward to using that wisdom passed onto me as I usher in this new decade.

Everyone have a safe and happy New Year!

By lady j

December 31, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

What I continue to learn with dating that will be a life long thing or at least a longer period of time is learning “ME”!!!! It is ok to be with me and be about me and love me and it will and has allowed to be in the company of a many and many girlfriends a little easier bc I am getting comfortable in my own skin. My likes/dislikes, things I will and will not tolerate, and at the end of the day it is truly ok to go to bed alone and I have stop sitting puting bc I don’t have a date…I have my b*** days but my good days out weigh and I am truly becoming ok with LJ!!!!:)

By lady j

December 31, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this

What I continue to learn with dating that will be a life long thing or at least a longer period of time is learning “ME”!!!! It is ok to be with me and be about me and love me and it will and has allowed to be in the company of a man and many girlfriends a little easier bc I am getting comfortable in my own skin. My likes/dislikes, things I will and will not tolerate, and at the end of the day it is truly ok to go to bed alone and I have stop sitting pouting bc I don’t have a date…I have my b* days but my good days out weigh and I am truly becoming ok with LJ!!!!:)

By lady j

December 31, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

And also this learning me process is helping me be a great mother as lil lady is top priority and here latelty I am not so much concern of not having a date or a man…I am busy with her and yeah when the night winds down I think a tad bit about being single but not in a slump like I use to be…I am learning and it such a huge responsibilty that I have to set the tone for men for her and being trifiling and being depressed can’t be her teachers so just a bit more cognitive of my actions I think…J

By Baby New Year

December 31, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

HAPPY NEW YEAR LADIES…so what is going on folks. Any blog plans

By Demi, the God of War

December 31, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

It’s okay to be a “bytch” in the relationship.

Yep…feel free to be..SLAP!..Like one.

A.Red, for once in a foul mood…decides to administer the final beat down on Demi, for this year.

lady j Dayum that is a sexy a$$ screen name Anyway you are banned from using !!!!! marks in your posts in 2008..LOL

Lady J now joins A.Red, in the beat down of a Demi

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 31, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

2008 Here I come!!! I can’t wait to put ‘07 to rest, this year has been full of b/s, bad situations and low-life chics. ‘07 has reinforced many beliefs and codes that I’ve always tried to live by but were compromised in my willingness to give in to the: “open-up; try new things, Live-a-little, treat yourself…” way of thinking.
So HERE’S TO 2008! and always making the right decision FIRST. Trusting my instincts and being PREPARED for the GREAT Opportunities in Life!!!! -K

By Kut Klose

December 31, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

Kut Klose - I Like

Tender lovin, its one on one dont want to rush it, nah lets take it nice n slow, honey caress my body, and hold me tight dont let me go , baby until i get enough

bridge baby tonight (baby tonight) the lovin is right you know how i like it you know how i want it

chorus i like the way you tease me i like the way you squeeze me i like the way you touch i like the way you sex me

verse 2 turn down the lights , baby take off what you have on lets do it to the music, come bring your lovin on my body’s yearnin for you , baby for a taste of your love only you can fill this appetite, come on and satisfy my love

bridge chorus

bridge 2 baby, dont you hold back on me (cant nobody do it like you doit) give me everything you’ve got i want give you all my lovin it will be good to the last drop repeat once

chorus i like the way you tease me i like you squeeze me i like the way you touch me i like the way you sex me repeat to fade

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 31, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year All!!

Relationship lessons that I learned and am still learning:

By Baby New Year

December 31, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

@LDD….good run down, ladies take notes

By lady j

December 31, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

testing

By lady j

December 31, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

Ok my other post didn’t go through but LDD I will take notes! Great Post!!!

Happy New Year Demi!!

By jraw

December 31, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Happy New Year everyone!

It’s been a while since I posted a message. My wife and I had a good year this past year. We did alot of traveling this year(Detroit, Los Angeles, Chicago, DC, Milwaukee, and a few other places). So with that being said I would suggest that if you have an SO, you guys should try a change of scenary sometime in the new year it may lead to some exciting experiences.

By lady j

December 31, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

Happy Birhday KB & Page!!!

By jraw

December 31, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

Oh yeah, I need to give the fellas some advice and this is based on what I from observed my two sister-in-laws. Men, Please stop text messaging your women pics of your private parts. You never know who will see them. My sister-in-laws and their friends were actually comparing their private collection of pictures.

By lady j

December 31, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

lol jraw…

By lady j

December 31, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

Meant Birthday ladies…:)

By melo

January 1, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

jraw,men dont send pics of body parts,boys do. Happy New yuear folks.

By Chi-Town

January 1, 2008 5:03 PM | Link to this

I learned that all I have to do to create enemies is create a website that says that its a waste of money for men to wine and dine on first dates.

What else I learn? On the net, the chicks who always preach on about how good her morals are, is the one who’s flucking everybody.

I also learned that most people aren’t creative when it comes to first dates. All the free stuff there is to do on first dates and the only thing people do is go out to frickin’ eat and to the movies. Most of all, I learned that most people aren’t creative when it comes to dating, and pretty much anything.

Chi-Town http://www.StopSimpinMovement.com

By QC

January 2, 2008 8:37 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year Bloggers

Have a great day everyone!

www.blackthen.com

By Dan

January 2, 2008 8:51 AM | Link to this

A Belated Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Y’all know, the day before vacation is the roughest and when it’s time to go….

Sorry about the belated salutations.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 9:25 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year People!

Hi Dan, QC,ladyJ Good to read you and find all well…hopefully.

By AG

January 2, 2008 9:36 AM | Link to this

I definitely have to give Kudos to LDD for the post! I most certainly believe in all you said and will be taking notes. :-)

I have to say that for me, I will mostly try not to hold higher expectations on others (dates, friends) than I do myself. Because once someone disappoints you, its upsetting. But its more upsetting because you might have unnecessarily placed that person in highter position than they needed to be.

So 2008 will surely be about growth for me and not to expect more out of people than necessary. Love, live and breathe life everyone! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 9:51 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year to ALL -I rang in the ‘08 chillin at a get together with some new freinds and was back home by 1:30a to pop my own bottle. Oh yeah I broke my phone again for the 2nd yr seems to be a NYE trend for me. How about you???

2008 will be a great one for me because of my relentless pursuit of happiness!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 2, 2008 9:54 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year Blogsville!! I hope everyone enjoyed their holidays and errthang! To my birthday ladies (Dec 31st), I hope you had great birthdays!!

How is everyone and what is the topic today? :-)

By AmazonRed - Live from Miami

January 2, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Happy New Year everyone. Just checking in to wish everyone a great 2008. I was up way too early this morning. It’s time to head to bed for a little nap!

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 9:58 AM | Link to this

Hey there MO and 900K* 900K what’s up with the Mr. Know It moniker!?! LOL… I hope you all are ready to embrace this new year and a new beginnings.

MO missed you at meet n greet chica.

By BLAT!

January 2, 2008 10:00 AM | Link to this

Happy 2008 everybody!!!

Chi, I checked out your page and I can see why da wimmenz is hatin… But I feel your flow on it.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 2, 2008 10:03 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I promise to make the next mee-n-greet! Had some family issues that needed to be handled! :-) How were your holidays?

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 10:16 AM | Link to this

My holiday, I can’t say anything less than it was GREAT! I have been a blessed lil lady this season and hope to continue through this year.

How was yours?

By Dan

January 2, 2008 10:26 AM | Link to this

In 2008, I resolve:

To eat healthier, more often.

To try and take time to do nothing.

To finish paying off bills.

To rededicate time learning self-control.

To quit trying to understand women, and narrow the search.

To stop being mean.

To try and “let that that does not matter….truly slide.”

To get better at being me.

By Page1908

January 2, 2008 10:28 AM | Link to this

Thanks Mo and Lady J for the birthday wishes! My birthday, New Year’s Eve, was really nice and I had a good time! I’m sure KinderBabe had a nice birthday, too!

I’m one year older, but I still feel young…lol

By Demi, the God of War

January 2, 2008 10:41 AM | Link to this

BLAT! 2008 is going to be the year of dumb HEs…our girl..Tracy is kicking it off.*

Eddie has been a bit funny since the 80’s…Think ‘RAW’…And some women still haven’t caught on.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 10:42 AM | Link to this

Happy B-day Page1908.

I’m going to be open to dating, but I’m not going to take any crap!

By DreamsMaterialize

January 2, 2008 10:43 AM | Link to this

Happy Holidays to everyone.

I see most of us are back on the grind.

What’s up the cold weather man? I need to be in Miami like ARed.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 10:49 AM | Link to this

My earlier post didn’t post. Happy New Year Everyone! I had most of you guys on my mind over the holidays. Something occurred at a party that I’d like to share with the WLBs in a bit.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

Mr Corporate Thug can i spell something for you.

By Dan

January 2, 2008 10:54 AM | Link to this

@Leggs

Share with all of us, think of it as a “teaching moment”.

By Dan

January 2, 2008 11:02 AM | Link to this

@Cemeeli

Which Corporate Thug were you referring to?

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 11:04 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli- glad to see you had a good one. The Mr KnowitALL came about from some low-life tryin to teach me and the fact that it fits me SO well… lol

Ladies- who did you kiss at NYE midnight???

Chi- your site is a trip brah, not sure if cats are goin to take heed tho, with da make-it-rain slave mentality in full effect these days. keep pushin!

By Page1908

January 2, 2008 11:10 AM | Link to this

Thanks SexyLeggs!

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 11:14 AM | Link to this

I went to a Christmas Party at a female friend’s place. There were about 4 females in the kitchen, including myself, when a nice looking gentleman came in to get a beer. He got his beer and turned and said hi to all of us. We all spoke and I guess he sensed something and asked “what’s up?” No one spoke so I did. I told him that WR ALL had just finished saying the he was an attractive man just before he came into the kitchen. He said “you’re talking to me?” I then said all you have to say is “thank you.” He smiled, said thank you and walked away.

A little while later he comes up and asks me to dance, which I did. He complimented me on my dancing and asked for another. Ok, here it is. After talking for a little bit he tells me he enjoys talking to me because I have something intelligent to say. Some more time goes by. He comes up to me w/a piece of paper in his hand and gives it to me. Naturally, it’s his phone number. I looked at him, I looked at the paper and I looked at him again. At this point DasV, ARed, Staceye, SlimOne, JazzyOne, MO, Cemeeli, Foots, etc were all on one shoulder. No disrespect, but on the other shoulder was my life is so wonderful ABC. I looked at this man and said “I see you’re wearing a wedding ring, are you married or are you simply wearing it to attract?” He said he was married, but it felt so good to be out and talking to me. I politely gave him back his number, and told him I wasn’t interested. Ladies, the exhibited look of incredulity when I handed it back to him was priceless. He then said “what’s wrong, I just want to get to know you a little better and take you to dinner.” WHAT, WHAT, WHAT!

I used you ABC on my other shoulder because although you’re happily married, you never know what a man does when he goes out. (No, I’m not trying to start anything.) I just found it interesting that he told he was happy at home, but wanted to take me to dinner. I saw no reason to go to dinner with another woman’s husband that I just met. I smelled nothing but trouble. Was I wrong???

Sorry for the long post.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

January 2, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli My holidays were great!! I was off so that in itself made them great!!

SexyLeggs kudos to you! If he was so happy why was he tryin so hard to push up?! DAYUM!

By Dan

January 2, 2008 11:25 AM | Link to this

Well,

Thanks for that, Leggs.

One, I don’t think you were wrong, if more women would do that instead of thinking “he’s going to leave his wife for me”, there’d be a lot less bitterness in the dating world.

Two, (and I could be wrong) but most men that I know don’t wear a wedding ring to attract anyone, actually, those that have them, wear them to repel a potential suitor(ess).

But good for you, put him up on game, gave him the ego-boost, and then showed some morality………

I love it!

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 11:26 AM | Link to this

Sis Leggs Dude = wrong…You = right. End of story. Hope you enjoyed the soriee nonetheless. Wow you had the WLB army on your shoulders at that moment Lol…that’s funny.

Oh yea…How was Lil Leggs “lesson” during the holiday?

900K I’m well. & I kissed my sofa NYE. Sad but true.

@ Dan

That’s Demi, the other Coporate Thug.

By Demi, the God of War

January 2, 2008 11:31 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs you should have pull a Demi and said,”Alright cool, I’ll call you later.” LOL

But, that’s not your style any how.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 11:40 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli- @*&k yo couch!!! LOl well it was not a lot better for me. I kissed all the ladies I barely knew on the cheek @ the lil house party when the ball dropped then I went home solo. Lady friend in town visiting did not come thru for the kid… oh well …DAMN!

Leggs -that dude was a chump, stop wasting people time in 2008 is the motto for the lame’s

By Demi, the God of War

January 2, 2008 11:45 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli hit me with it babe…I just feels she is making a huge mistake in marrying that dude, yes I know I am sounding like a hater..Tracy can do better, unless they’re both dogs.

And I am no true Corporate Thugz though…I just play one on TV.

By abc

January 2, 2008 11:46 AM | Link to this

While I’m not married, and certainly don’t live a life of euphoria, I’m amused and pleased to have been an unsuccessful symbol of temptation, SexyLeggs. Married men are best left to themselves in situations like that. Not only do they not need the opportunity, you don’t need the heartache.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 11:53 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli, yes, I actually had the WLB Army with me. Reading this blog, along with my own moral and ethic layers told me to give back the number. One thing evident on this blog is TO STOP PLAYING GAMES. When I decide to have a man in my life I want my own, not be a side chick to another woman’s man.

Lil Leggs shopping spree was quite memorable. I have her $417.67 (just to make it interesting). She was surprised and happy. Right off the bat she bought some Brooklyn Remix Sneakers ($60.00). Her best purchase was a $65.00 fleeced jacket that she got for $25.90. She got some jeans, blouses, another pair of sneakers, video games, two movies and some jewelry. I had to make her buy pajamas. However, when she got down to $53.14 she was clearly saddened. I simply smirked. I jokingly asked if she was taking me to lunch and she indignatly said “Mommy you told me I can spend my money on myself and you would pay for our foods.” Sheesh! Children are cheap w/their (our) money!

When we got back to the car, she had $9.67. Overall, she got some nice things.

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 12:00 PM | Link to this

900K sounding like an angry black man WHY DUDE GOTTA BE A CHUMP???

maybe he was just lonely

And where was wifey?

Me and the last cutie lived for house parties..HEHEHEHEHEHE HAHAHAHA..There is no telling how, when, or where we’ll..Bump’n’Grind.

So dude was just looking for trouble/something new.

By melo

January 2, 2008 12:08 PM | Link to this

I smelled nothing but trouble. Was I wrong??? SexxyL,are u really sure u need advice on this at 49? Because u ask, i sense u are having conflicting thoughts. Why dont u go with the flow. Go to diner and see what happens.U may like him as a friend and hopefully develop a deeper relationship with his family. AS long as he/she is not a serial killer, why should people not associate with a person simply becoz they are married?May be by u turning down his overtures at diner/lunch, he becomes a better person and learns something from u and he will be eternally grateful. SO my advice is do what u have to do as an adult woman.If u end up in bed with him,u dont have to explain to nobody.IF u think u will be sinning,heck, everybody sins ones in a while!

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 12:16 PM | Link to this

Okay, abc, That’s funny.

900K, you’re right. He was a chump, and all I could smell was “come on compliment me some more, stroke my ego.” I was hardly in the mood.

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

Children are cheap w/their (our) money!

Sooooooo, between $53.13 and $9.67…Lil momma turned into a cheapstake, huh? LOL

And Ms.Legg, your dancing is going to get you in trouble, LOL. You did the right thing. I love your boldness, so don’t lose it. Stay patience, go after what you like, have fun, and eventually you WILL strike gold.

Desperate are those who choose to settle.

Demi, the God of Love is now passing out top shelf drinks to all the Go Getta…And a turn to the side and p!ss in the coffee cup for my haters

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 12:18 PM | Link to this

Melo, I was being facetious when asking the question. Of couse I know I wasn’t wrong. Sorry, no conflicting thoughts here!

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this

Yes Demi, she turned into a cheapskate as I expected.

You say So dude was just looking for trouble/something new. That’s it right there. If one can recognize that right off the bat, NO DRAMA!

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 12:28 PM | Link to this

melo dude please!!! You know us good looking dudes get away with murder on these women, LOL

Even I had fun pretending to be married…I just couldn’t keep the story straight, LOL

By melo

January 2, 2008 12:41 PM | Link to this

Yeah demi,i was just trying to bait SexxyL there.We play that game all the time.U know, if ur mama did not tell u how to avoid the pitfalls,ladies u are on ur own on that one.AS for me, after sampling ur goodies,i am heading straight to Eddie LONG’S cofessional, with my marriage ring in its rightful place!

By Page1908

January 2, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

Ok, so Melo just for clarification, you are married and you proudly cheat on your wife, is that correct?

By melo

January 2, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

Page1908,Married,yes,proudly cheat,no.I would rather say i do * sin* though(not proudly,but sin all the same), to put it broadly and protect the innocent as well. I gather u are the visiting ANGEL,if so, Welcome to me,the sinful melo.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 1:07 PM | Link to this

@ Sexyleggs , NO Games that’s right. But Lil Leggs did great…i think! She pretty much spending like a normal teenager i guess…i’m trying to learn here it won’t be long for i give the “lesson”.

900K I gotta be real. I feel asleep on my sofa NYE. And I dream about my great mate….he’s somewhere out there.

Demi you said it already about Tracy. But i was actually talking about my Wii experience! A-w-e-s-o-m-e. It was not my own.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 1:20 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli, if you remember, do the Christmas/lesson. I too think she did pretty good. She loved pulling out her money and buying what she wanted. As is the case w/us adults, we walk differently when we have money, same for children. She strutted through that mall.

Melo, I thought you were baiting me but not really sure. Glad to know because while reading your 12:08 post all I kept saying to myself is “why don’t men see that this is not cool” until I got to the part of …hopefully develop a deeper relationship with his family. Then I said, “Melo had too much to drink over the holidays and he’s still feeling the affects…LOL

By AmazonRed - Live from Miami

January 2, 2008 1:27 PM | Link to this

Dreams - The folks in Miami are freaking out! That’s because the high right now is 56 degrees which is like blizzard weather to them. I had to remind my driver that it was much colder everywhere else! However, I’m really disappointed right now, I planned to be lounging poolside in my bikini right now. What a great way to start off 2008! I hear it might be back in the 70s tomorrow. We’ll see!

SexyLeggs - You were not wrong at all! I know dude lost a lot of luster in his eyes. One skill to sharpen in 2008…noticing that ring much sooner! Us dating gals spot those things a mile away. LOL.

900k - I like your motto. Try this one on for size courtsey of my friend: Theme for 2008: Stop spending major time with minor people!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 1:35 PM | Link to this

Demi- you know if a chick is all in my face half the night then she comes out with “Im happily married…b/s” I will be the first to tell her thanks for wasting my dam time! So thats why I called Leggs new friend a chump its a 2way street. Happens to me often, plus I never even stopped to look for the ring when I was younger and they’d be the main ones gindin all on the kid @ Kaya ..Lol

Cemeeli- I had the same dream, tho it was no talkin in mine. You are gon find exactly what you need very soon just stay Prepared! He could even be someone who knows-it-all…Hmmmm

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 1:37 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli fooling with that stupid a$$ Wii, we miss the ball drop…

I thought I really was tiger woo…I was so lame

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 1:41 PM | Link to this

ARed, you’re right. I was disappointed that I hadn’t seen it earlier…LOL

Have you guys noticed? Look around you. It’s 1:40 and not one blog fight. We’re on a roll already. 2008 is going to be different!

By melo

January 2, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

ARed,Stop spending major time with minor people! thats a real good one, i see u are starting ‘08 on a good footing. SexxyL, u will be surprised at how many desperate women fall for the not-so slick lines of married men.I have no sympathy for a grown woman who gets burnt and used.Seriously! I think i need to write a book,i see the gullible buying my common sense.Hmmmm,thats a nice thought.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Stop spending major time with minor people!- not bad ARED I will remember this one. Time is THE most valuable asset that we possess it’s a shame that many of us dont realize it however.

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 1:50 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed Girl…last week was in the 80’s dayum near..Believe it or not, we do like wearing our expensive coats more than 3 times a year, LOL

By melo

January 2, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this

you know if a chick is all in my face half the night then she comes out with “Im happily married…b/s” I will be the first to tell her thanks for wasting my dam time! U just too uptight dude!Gladly accept her company as a compliment to ur goodness and move on.

By SlimOne

January 2, 2008 1:53 PM | Link to this

HAPPY HIPPETY NEW YEARS FOLKS

I spent my NYE on my couch like Cemeeli. I wasn’t feeling like paying a gazillion dollars for a club that’ll be back down to $10 by Friday. No one I knew was having a house party either. So i bought me a bottle and watched the peach drop on tv. I was sleep by 2am

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

mr.know-it-all…Prepared as i am going to be. I just need for Mr. Cemeeli to get his @ here! Lol…

Demi I was long gone before ball drop, peach drop, 12 o’clock NYE…& all that LOL! I’m so young AND old :-). I danced ALONE at home and had fun too…

By AmazonRed

January 2, 2008 1:55 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I hadn’t noticed we haven’t had a blog fight yet. But I now notice many of our male prima donnas aren’t on here yet! :-P

Error in my post earlier, I meant to say that I bet the guy lost major luster in YOUR eyes because of his “I’m good but bad” behavior!

By Whaddaya think

January 2, 2008 1:56 PM | Link to this

AMAZING!!!! I cannot believe SexyLeggs posted the post that she did and she’s almost getting kudos for being “tempted” but then doing the right thing. Amazing! Had that been a lurker posing a “whaddaya think” question, blog bullets would have been flying everywhere and that person blasted to eternal damnation. Amazing that she’s even told to “think” about cause we all sin!!! THIS BLOG IS VERY BIASED AND PARTIAL TO THE REGULAR POSTERS. By now, she should have been placed in the sinner’s block, with no forgiveness, a slut (for even thinking about taking the time to eat with a married man) and condenmned to have any future husband constantly cheat as payback. Where is Beautiful in all this? She can state all she wants, that there’s no way she even thought about it….it would have been a passing conversation/thought and never resurfaced, if she didn’t seriuosly consider it for a hot minute. Now, tell me I’m wrong! She layed it out to the blog because in her heart of hearts, she seriously was tempted for a moment. Oh, so as long as it’s a blog regular, hey we all sin sometimes but if it’s a question posed by the not so “in” crowd, you damned!!! AMAZING!!!

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 2:00 PM | Link to this

Hey Slim Happy Nippey to you LOL…I KNOW you wore muffins, scarf, thermals, leg warmers, 4 sweaters & all that to work today. Dag, it’s cold!!!

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 2:02 PM | Link to this

Melo, I know exactly what you’re talking about. Why would anyone venture into a relationship knowing (yes, you know) that you will be burnt at the end. Your gut, your intuition, your hell, common sense, tells you this is so fleeting. Why continue to do those dumb a$$ things you did in your mid/late 20s, early 30s for the satisfaction of another. Not this lady! Melo, I definitely feel you on the lines a man gives to women. A female friend’s brother is in town and is trying to blow up my phone. I had a crush on him when I was 17. He had no time for me then Now 32 years later he insists he’s “smitten” w/me and if I would go out with him just once this “might” lead to something. He insists I’m afraid and I’m running. There isn’t anything this “old school thug” can offer me at this stage in my life. So, yeah, some women get what they deserve by settling for what they KNOW they shouldn’t!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

January 2, 2008 2:03 PM | Link to this

Happy New Year Everyone!!

Someone asked earlier: Who did you kiss at midnight on NYE…my fiance, his son, my best male bud and his wife. We went over to my bud’s house and played karaoke, taboo, and comic view (everybody got up and tried to tell a joke!)

What I left in 2007:

I left behind the FEAR!! The fear of marriage, the fear of starting my own business, the fear of not measuring up- mainly to my own standards, the fear of what tomorrow may bring…just leaving behind the FEAR and insecurities!

What I resolve to do in 2008:

By AmazonRed

January 2, 2008 2:08 PM | Link to this

Boo hoo Whaddaya think, I guess membership has its priviledges. ;-)

PS - Don’t lump all us “regulars” into one group. Sounds like your beef is really with folks like Beautiful and not the regulars. :-)

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 2:12 PM | Link to this

Happy New Year LadyD Your resolves are on point. I will adopt those as well if you don’t mind…Thank you.

My 2007 was a great builder for me I do not regret a single thing that happened. This year will be even better.

By SlimOne

January 2, 2008 2:21 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I KNOW you wore muffins, scarf, thermals, leg warmers, 4 sweaters & all that to work today. Dag, it’s cold!!!

Gurrrl how did you know? I’m still walking around the office with my scarf on but i guess it woulda helped if i put some undies on today.

CT: burrrrrr

Slim: huh? did you say something?

CT: C-c-cccccc ooooo llllll dddddd burrrr

Slim: CT cold?

CT: yyyyeeeeasssssss burrrrr

Slim: aw, my bad honey. I failed to put your grannies coat on today.

CT: nnneeeeddd hhheeeatttt

Slim: I’m sorry boo. I’ll fix you right up in no time

Slim dips away on her lunch break to the bathroom with her pocket rocket in hand…..

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think, not anywhere in my post was I “tempted” to do anything. Now you call me a slut for thinking about dining w/a married man. You read me wrong. I never thought about it that’s why I gave the number right back. I didn’t need this blog to tell me what to do. I did what I felt was right. I merely posted as another example of dating mishaps in Atlanta. Believe you me, I am not receiving kudos because I’m a regular. In the true sense of “the regulars”, I’m not really there yet! I’ve been beaten up a few times on here myself.

BTW, I’ll gladly tell you are wrong! In “my hearts of hearts” I couldn’t lead anyone on like that and PRETEND TO MYSELF that this married man was interested in me, my life, my mishaps down the road. Give me a freaking break.

Also, guess I was wrong in that there hasn’t been a blog fight. Whaddaya think, you’re dead wrong in your analysis.

By DreamsMaterialize

January 2, 2008 2:26 PM | Link to this

ARed I know it’s all relative, but I’ll gladly take 50 degree weather right about now. Hope you get a chance to break out your bikini. Bring back the warm weather with you.

By 2CPTG©

January 2, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

hey folks…….

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 2:31 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli/Slim Y’all spend NYE alone, y’all too fine for that!!! Next year plan a cool house party with some friends and spread cost around..The last day of the year is best spend with a lot of laughter and bad joke..You never know who you may lose..REAL.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…you are crasi…Lol pocket rocket! oh my!

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, that was funny.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 2:35 PM | Link to this

Hi 2C I heard your new name is Wii Daddy…Lol! When i got a chance to exp the game myself i thought about you.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

Demi…i like to dance…and laugh so yea your right. Will do.

By Page1908

January 2, 2008 2:49 PM | Link to this

Melo, ok so you do cheat on your wife. Wow. So, how do you know she is not cheating on you? How would you feel if she was? I think it’s funny when people who are in marriages think they are really getting away with cheating, when you never know what the other person could be doing behind your back. Why not just leave if you are not happy?

Demi you are wild! Let you tell it, you pull abour 2-3 different girls per week, right? lol

Dimples those are great resolutions.

SexyLeggs lol exactly. Are the regulars the same as the old heads like Tazzee, 2 Can, Demi, and others? I’m not really sure what the point was re: that.

By Beautiful

January 2, 2008 2:51 PM | Link to this

lurkin’ 2day. hi all!

Whaddaya think what’s on your mind homie? you seem irritated. just let it go. happy new year 2 u.

By 2CPTG©

January 2, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

yeah, Cemeeli, Beautiful coined that one; If I could just get my movements in sync with the boxing game, I’ll be ready to challenge for a title fight!

Does any of y’all believe those superstitions that ya old heads used to tell you about concerning New Years Day? Like eating Black eyed peas? Or not washing clothes? Or, that whatever consumes you on that day will consume you for the remainder of the year? If it rings true……..this year gon be niiiiiice!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 2:57 PM | Link to this

U just too uptight dude!Gladly accept her company as a compliment to ur goodness and move on -Once again I will state the obvious for you Melo I do not DO married chicks!!! There are way too many fly single coco brown princess’ out here for me to waste my Very valuable time w/ some other mans in-house poupou. A convo @ starbucks is not what my post was about. Rubbin & teasin the boy out in public/ house party/ bar/club is simply a wasted experience for me. Besides my “GTD” close ratio is very important to me and it needs to remain high! LoL

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 3:03 PM | Link to this

2C about 7:30 lastnight i was about ready to go out find me a plate cause i did not have any food at home. And thought about when my grandma made sure we had B/E peas, collards and all that jazz every year. So no, i did not do laundry NOR did a male walk through my home before i walked in. Yea, I don’t know what’s that about!!!

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 3:04 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think I don’t know…even Wise and Bella get cut down on this Bish time to time…How about a name change and join in on the fun?

A.Red while you’re in Mia, throw an ‘0’ sign for my old home, Overtown for me.

Cemeeli Heck, me and Li’Demi alone would have kept you and you son up all night up all night..LOL

I will not use Li’Demi’s cuteness to gain access free food in ‘08

HAHAHAHA HAHAHAHA

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 3:10 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli -hey my personal services have been extended. Meet & greet perhaps?

2C-Yes I did have my blackeyepeas & greens yesterday. I do think a pocket full of green when the ball drops is cool. I was mad @ myself for having $60 on me… but I didn’t have to spend a dime.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 3:12 PM | Link to this

2C, I purposely didn’t make black-eyed peas nor collards to have on New Years Day. They say a man should be the first to walk over your threshold. I’m going to reverse those superstitions. I was the first over my threshold on NY day. I could have gone and gotten my neighbor (which I did last year), but my point is not to pay attention to any of those superstitions this year. I was surrounded by friends on NY day and when I got home I was fine w/it being just me.

By Rell in 08

January 2, 2008 3:21 PM | Link to this

What up love ones…Happy new year to all

@sexyleggs..cute story….

@ar..how is my favorite blogger…happy new year to you…and stick 40 on a horse down at the track for me…spend a day a the track it is cool

@melo…what are you saying dude…you sending out mixed signals…i say be honest, there are women out there checking for only married dudes

@900k, dude please stash your halo..you like any other man..you just wanna fluck…and here is something to chew on..how do you know they are not married..women are sneaky fam..so trust you might have already done one and not know it

this is 2008 time for NEW GAME for a NEW YEAR..feel me

By 2CPTG©

January 2, 2008 3:24 PM | Link to this

900 - that’s one I live by as well, having loot on New Years Day! Whether it’s on hand, or accessible, just have some…….

what about other shyt tho??? Anybody do something wild and out of the ordinary? I’m either gon’ have a good year, or going to hell!

By Dan

January 2, 2008 3:25 PM | Link to this

At midnight I was surrounded by close family. As intoxicated as we were, we knew enough to stop, say a prayer of thanks, and pray for God’s will to be done in ‘08, as it was in ‘07.

Then 3 bottles of Mo, were downed in a 5 minute span….

And I wouldn’t have traded it for the world

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 3:29 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think ? -I think that being tempted for a MOMENT in time means nothing. otherwise I should be in prison for bank robbery, murder, arson, assault w/ a pineapple, high speed chase w/ po-po… Just cuz sumthin flashes thru your brain does not mean you are guilty of wanting to do it or are even capable to do such things. This is what seperates someone like myself from Crazy Phsyco types.

By Daddy Long Stroke

January 2, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Peace to you. Brother 2CPTG. I did something wild!. I made babies with my love ONESSSSS. lol

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 3:32 PM | Link to this

Page wild and very ignorance…more like 5 totals, during that time frame…never the numbers you posted, but I did gain some cool lady friends…so i had fun.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 3:38 PM | Link to this

Rell -true if they lie there’s nothin I can do. But its not so much about them as it is the Man law stating “leave his wife be!”= it was way to hard for homie to finally walk down that scary azz isle, so don’t get caught up in that mess. Halo -me? h3ll na y’all should know from my typin that I can be a nasty jerk w/ da best of them, I just prefer her to be without hubby ya dig?

BTW re: “GTD” close ratio. GTD= got the draws… sorry ladies I still keep track after all these years LoL

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 3:46 PM | Link to this

@900K

…GTD= got the draws… sorry ladies I still keep track after all these years LoL. Glad to read you typed “ladies” and not “broads”…LOL

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

900K you just starting your year off right huh? Coco browns name Cemeeli @ meet-n-greet, couple bill$$$ in your pocket. I am feeling that vibe. woooo.

By melo

January 2, 2008 3:50 PM | Link to this

Page,i knew u were angling for that conclusion,I Sin means I cheat on wify. Are u a pastor, i may need to come to ur church when all is said and done? Rell,no mixed signals but u right tho,saying one is married does not deter the groupies,not necesarily.It maybe an attraction. 900K,u exactly right, having a thought does not mean u necesarily act on it.Thats what seperates man/women from boys/girls.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

900K…Cemeeli is sadden see: my earlier post.

So you just want the draws???

GTD…there it is.

By Whaddaya think

January 2, 2008 3:59 PM | Link to this

@900K…umm, sumthin flashing through your brain IS wrong….read your scriptures. My point in popping off of SexyLeggs’ post was that in whose eyes is wrong wrong? According to some folks here, if you’re “in” hey it’s cool cause you’re “in.” Or the defined lines of adultery vs. fornication. Check out the good book, you’ll see “if a man looks to lust” he’s already guilty. Know this before you so quickly drop your opinion of what’s right and wrong. None of us have the patent on that.

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 4:00 PM | Link to this

“GTD” close ratio

the 9’n’all them zeros man I haven’t heard that term in a minute, LOL

Rell I am rocking an Imitation Halo (dolla store brought) now…hence the name change.

Now playing Kanya’s Glory

By 2CPTG©

January 2, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Top Ten New Years Resolutions that I know I ain’t gon keep:

10) Do not spend money on frivolous things. shyttin me, not after yesterday!

9) Go to church more. shiiid, after a 4 hour watch night service, I’m good for the year!

8) Settle Down. shiiiid, not after yesrterday!

7) Leave them ghetto girls alone. shiiiid, not after yesterday!

6) Lend no money to family members. “cuz, lemme hold bout $20 til Friday…damn, nikka, Christmas came to my house, just like yours!”

5) Cut back on the cognac. shiiid, not after yesterday!

4) Go to work as scheduled. no comment!

3) Become a more law abiding citizen. shiiiid, being bad pays better!

2) Stop cursing so much. shyttin me!

1) Stop smoking weed. an emphatic Hell Naw…not after yesterday!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 4:04 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli- please now bay don’t be like that. what had happened was… I’m being honest on that one, NO it aint the 1 and only thing on my mind. Its just a guy thing we do. See when a young lady comes into my life there’s a world of possiblities ahead of us so if we blossom into a beautiful relationship and beyond thats all good. But as a man there’s always the question: BUT; did you get those draws??!!!!?

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 4:12 PM | Link to this

…i have committed that eye candy fornication. Because i have looked at a man and had thoughts of “in bed” with him. but w/someone that has thought to be as close to me as i him in that way. I find myself to repent/change action and let conviction help me correct self…

January 2, 2008 my first confession this year. We should do this more often….:-)

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 4:19 PM | Link to this

900K okay darling…i guess i can see your point. I’ll give your what had happened another chance :-).

How’s that team coming along?

By Rell in 08

January 2, 2008 4:21 PM | Link to this

@2…dude you are funne….lol

@melo…my dude, you read like you trying to step out on wifey..trust me your signals are mixed…you fishing right now..trust me, if i am gettin it then the ladies are too..just be honest..you might get what you ask for..but at what price..if you feeling a certain kinda of way, tell your wife..honesty works brah..because where you at - is not the move…trust me I KNOW…you may try to say i am wrong but that is not what you sticking out there…so be honest with yourself and others…

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 4:26 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think -sumthin flashing through your brain IS wrong….read your scriptures -Ok this one is tricky cuz I don’t want to taken the wrong way but every thing in the good book aint all good. A book written by men trying to condem you for simply having thoughts and not taking action is just a control tactic to me. Sure if you’re fantasizing about another persons mate or wiping them off the planet is completely different. But a flash image flies thru your mind and you dont even take the time to re-think it over is nothin. What I got from Leggs is she is thinkin about how she stepped up and left homie hangin to pick his face off the floor, I believe that’s the image she keeps replayin in her mind not them frolicin on the beach 2gether.

Know this before you so quickly drop your opinion of what’s right and wrong- I try not to deal so much in right and wrong only the truth. Truth is I aint goin to h3ll for bangin out b4 I get married.

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 4:29 PM | Link to this

assault w/ a pineapple

the 9’n’all them zeros man

What hula girl made you that mad Bruh? I thought a few of them were cute last night.

By Beautiful

January 2, 2008 4:30 PM | Link to this

Rell co-sign.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

Demi did Lil Demi get a big Christmas this year?

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

eye candy fornication

Cemeeli Funny,LOL!!!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 4:39 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli- Thanks for understandin me girl. We have practice 2nite been on break since the holidays, got 1 new player join and he’s already the best on the team. 2 others stopped commin tho, one of them was a starter so its still shaky. We will be competitive on Sat 1st game even if it kills me! I have been thinkin bout takin a 2nd job, just want some money to blow. That would really hurt the BBall thing tho, I’ll find a way.

2C- Cut back on the cognac thats like asking a fish to stop swimmin!

Demi- just in the store one day picked up a pineapple and thought about goin upside a fools head! LoL

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

Can I just walk around with a electric blanket all day!?! I mean really…even WITH the heaters on i’m cold. Honestly….since we are on the subj I wish i did have a SO if not any other night, TONIGHT would be of upmost heated…for sho’.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 4:41 PM | Link to this

900K, thanks. I find that amazing, because what I replay over and over in mind is the look on his face when I handed the number back to him after first glance. There wasn’t any temptation. A flashing thought is just that, a flashing thought. Dang, how many of us would be under the jail with all the hideous flashing thoughts we’ve had over the years, including you Whaddaya think. Why, because we are HUMAN!

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 4:44 PM | Link to this

Truth is I aint goin to h3ll for bangin out b4 I get married.

900k you’re practicing celibacy?

Go head bruh!!…Phew, more for me..LOL

By Foots

January 2, 2008 4:45 PM | Link to this

Slim GIRL!! You are crazy with the cold CT!! LOLOLOLOL!!!

Demi I didn’t kiss anyone on NYE, but I did have a get-together with my closest friends (and some of their SOs). We definitely had fun. Hopefully, it will be a NYE tradition, with even more friends next year.

By melo

January 2, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

Rell,wify knows me more than the blog does,trust me on that.And i tell her about these discussions and she has a laugh all the time!I get the feeling that some of u are too eager to tell others whats right and wrong at the slightest hint.Check urself.I am happily married.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 4:50 PM | Link to this

900K 2nd job for more money? You’re coaching this team so that 2nd gig will be a stretch i’m sure. That is like having a 2nd job. You’ll be ready Saturday…our season starts Sat morning too. Lil dude is ready…playing on his nerf and all ..Lol.

By Cemeeli

January 2, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs My point in my confessional post earlier. We all have been there. What’s wrong with that?…NOTHING.

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this

…too eager to tell others whats right and wrong at the slightest hint

^5Melo.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

January 2, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

Leggs- I got your back ma!

Cemeeli- I’m very much a warm blooded type known to keep it hot… ok I’ll calm down.

Demi -WHOOOOAAAAAA! Celebesy?(notice the mispelling) h3ll na cuz!!! I dont see anything wrong with bangin out as long as she’s down w/ me for right now I’m good and I think I can STILL be righteous when it’s time. you read that way wrong man.

By Rell in 08

January 2, 2008 4:56 PM | Link to this

@melo….you know what is funny…you have been bull shlitn yourself for so long you starting to believe you own ish…..and that my brother is sad..i know who i am and i want i do..trust me those who know me know how i get down…so again my advice still applies PIMPIN…be honest..

By Demi, the God of...Love (WTF)

January 2, 2008 4:57 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli nope, I am alway buying him things throughout the year…All he got was 2 toys and 6 outfits…Oh yeah, some talking book thingy.

I did taking him to see the light:

Look dadie, light…I see the light dadie…Then once we got home: Why don’t we have any lights dadie??!!

(All loud’n’ish)

By SexyLeggs

January 2, 2008 5:00 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone…Be safe and tell someone you love them!