Misadventures in Atlanta

By Dan

December 21, 2007 8:06 AM | Link to this

Mornting

As a former ball player, I can honestly say, your girlfriend watching you play is one of the most annoying things ever.

You run a little faster, you block harder, you go all out to get the sack, the fumble and run it back. I had a game where I broke my foot, trying to impress a girl from the opposing teams school.

Turns out it didn’t matter, as chicks really do dig scars. But it can hype you up as much, if not more, than that family cheering section.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 8:12 AM | Link to this

Morning, everyone. :-)

Interesting topic to say the least. Ironically, I was just reading a couple weeks ago about the results of a research study which concluded that exposure to blonde women can actually “dumb down” a man’s aptitude. Think I’m joking? Click here for proof. Someone may wanna run this by Romo before the playoffs arrive.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 8:14 AM | Link to this

Morning Folk…His game was off his smiling self!!! But Dallas is having a great year!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 8:25 AM | Link to this

Big good morning hug to Lady J, Dan, Darrell!

Merry Xmas err’body!

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 8:25 AM | Link to this

Morning ALL

I’s shole don’t want to be up this dreary, rainy, gloomy morning

Demi Stop hogging all the dayum covers! All you need is a beach towel to cover you up, so stop tripping.

By G

December 21, 2007 8:28 AM | Link to this

Whatever it takes to keep that dumb az smile off Romo’s face. A strong man will let nothing get in his way. Weak men will let the least thing throw him off.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this

Morning Beautiful!! We made it to Friday!!!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 8:35 AM | Link to this

Will I am no Jessica fan but I do like the idea of supporting your man from afar the commentaors did an awesome job creating that monster talking and giggling about her and flashing her and her dad the entire game…She had an impact on the men folk period…But if you got flaunt right???:)

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this

What’s up, Beautiful. ;-) LadyJ, we’ve got one more tailgate left (12/30 against Seattle). You gonna be there? ;-)

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this

all of the men in my past let nothing, i said not a damn thang get in their way of their success. it would be a turn off to me if i knew or saw him showing off doing his thing on the field.

i read the posts from yesterday that were posted after 4:30, that some funny shyt. Wii daddy cussin’ out the lurkers. lmfao!

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 8:46 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers!……Slim1 girl you are crazy….let my buddy Demi know i’ll go to Macy’s and get him a whole set of beach towels!

HAVE A GREAT DAY ALL!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 8:46 AM | Link to this

Sure am Darrell with my #28 chilling!!!!

GO FALCONS FOR LIFE*!!!:)

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 8:53 AM | Link to this

Good Morning to Everyone…

Lady J How is everything going?

Oh my, it;s raining- I wanted to wash my car today.. oh well….

I can’t recall being a bad distraction to someone I was dating…

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

NO I have never had any man say I distracted him so he could not accomplish any goal. I have had one or two say I made them want to work harder, because I had their back. But that is just crazy.

Now in Romo’s case they idea of the jinx or distraction came about because when he was dating Carrie Underwood he had a funky game as well. Alot of sports fans (myself included) believe in jinxs..hence the curse on the Boston Red Sox blah Blah. Anywhoo…I dont think ole Jessica was the cause of his lousy playing (although the punk did cost me a playoff game) I think he just didnt have his head in the game and the Cowgirls played the Eagles cheap and came up short.

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

I would definitely first ask my man if he wanted me to be at his games or whatever he is partcipating in so as to not assume he would like me there. I am a huge sports fan, espcially basketball, so I actually don’t mind. I had an ex who played in the NBA for a short time and during that time, I would attend the games. He also liked other activities and I would participate also and he partcipated in the things I like also.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this

Oh hey GO STEELERS!!!!!!!!!!!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

@MsUnderstood aka MsU…Much better chica and I am doing much better also!!! Glad it is Friday and ready to go home!!!:) Happy Holidays!

By mqew (vacation begins at noon)

December 21, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday!

Please feel free to get at the champagne and freshly squeezed OJ. Up to you if you want to add the juice.

I read that article the other day and thought it was absolutely ridiculous that anyone took what came out of TO’s (the fine specimen that he is) mouth seriously. Tongue in cheek duly noted. It’s TO. Romo isn’t that good in the first place. IMHO

Anyway, not proud, but definitely have been a distraction and disruptive. But we stayed married anyway so it’s all good….now.

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 9:01 AM | Link to this

Morning y’all……

Naw, that gal wasn’t a distraction!!!! It’s the media that tried to make her a distraction! Like T.O. said, she didn’t run any routes, throw any passes, nor catch any….so how could she have had any type of impact????

Contrary to what you said Dan, I personally like it when my girl shows up to see me play sports; I always seem to perform better….ego? probably, ‘cause I sure as hell don’t want to lose in front of her! I wrestled and boxed in college, and that’s the last thing you wanna do is get pinned, or knocked the fvck out in front of ya gal!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

From a dating/relationship standpoint, today’s topic brings up one of things I miss most as it relates to my own personal success. I’m not speaking only in the context of career success, but success in life in general (children, community, family, etc.)

I look forward to the day when there is a woman in my life whom I can count on to be there for me, not only in the high points of my life and career, but in the not-so-high points, as well. The reason the media make such a big deal out of Romo and Simpson, is because they both meet their criteria of “hot”. But I’m more inclined to admire a guy like Denzel Washington who, inspite of the power, wealth and prestige he’s garnered over the years in Hollywood, made it a priority to keep his marriage together and be a father to his children.

I consider myself a very focused, disciplined and goal-oriented person and, as such, I doubt that any woman could deter me from what I believe to by my God-ordained purpose. However, I do miss having that support in my corner when I complete a project or get a promotion or raise on my job, when one of my kids gets a good grade on an exam or is struggling in school, or when I’m returning home from a business trip.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

Morning Errbody!!! We made it to Friday!! TGIF!!

On topic: it depends on how you handle it. I dont recall being a distraction to anyone (that I know of) and vice versa but of course its possible.

SlimOne You are funny as hell for taking all Demi’s covers!! LOL

Hey Lady J is lil J ready for Christmas?

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

@mqew (vacation begins at noon)…you got joke early this am…LOL I was kind of thinking the samething silently…LOL

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

QC You might want to pick Demi up a new cape too. I think Musing might’ve used it to wipe up the yellow liquid off the floor after that last scrabble game with the misses.

On-Topic I can’t say I’ve ever been told i was a distraction to a guy attempting to reach a certain goal….well does it count if i walk in front of the tv naked with banana slices on my ipples and a pineapple ring hanging on the CT, while the SO is playing Madden?

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 21, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this

Happy Holidays!

I would be truly disappointed (but a little flattered) if my man was distracted by my presence. It would be hard for that to happen with the guys I have dated. They’re so damn focused!! So in order for me to spend time with them I have sat in the library reading their dissertation and making edits on neuroscience papers…WTH?!?

Even with my current SO…I have sat in the hospital lounge when he is called into the hospital for emergencies and helped lay hardwood flooring at his office…all in the name of spending time while not taking away from the things that he HAS to get done.

However, I do know the feeling. When I was on the dance team at Tech and my then boyfriend was in the stands I would jump higher, smile brighter, and dance harder. I wanted to impress him…make him tell his boys…look at my girl down there front and center

By kinderbabe

December 21, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this

hey QC, ladyj, msu, slimone, page whazhapnenen??…lol.

i must admit that i did have a couple of situations years ago where two men in particular were distracted to the point that they almost lost their jobs. now, that’s definitely not a good thing. in hindsight, i know that it was foolish. maybe it was all the lunch time rendezvous(s)…lol.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

Hey Mo (now known as Moeisha)!!! That lil lady is beyond amazing!!! She is ready her talking self…Her dad and I will be hitting stores this weekend and planning her a fun filled day!!!

How you lil man coming along???

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

Darrell another BIG hug 2 u. i hear what you’re sayin’.

By Dan

December 21, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

@Slim

Damn!

That thought alone will help for that long ride home tonight. Thanks!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

Hey kinderbabe!!! You get some rest chica and take care!!!!

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

Good Morning good Friday!

Is it 12:30 yet…?

Merry Merry to everyone!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

Off-topic

Were any of you aware that ESPN’s Stuart Scott is being treated for cancer? Here’s an update.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

MsU is now giving Darrell a standing ovation… Hey Darrell does that count as words-of-affrimation.

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

kinderbabe what were you wearin’ that day? was the twins saying hi? lol.

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

Darrell, kinfolk, I hope you didn’t take that stuff to heart yesterday, it was all in good fun….keep doing you, and you will find that which you seek….trust that!

(don’t mean the jokes gon’ stop, though; LOL)

And like you said, the media says they’re “hot”, so they’re going to harp on that…Jessica wasn’t no more of a distraction than any other wife or girlfriend supporting their man….

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

Hey Kinderbabe! Girl, make sure you rest up so that when you get back we can go have our Happy Birthday/New Year’s Eve drinks! Hey, do you know what time you were born??

Hey QC!

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

Moring ya….I can say I have been a distraction to one guy I dated in the past and it took its toll on the relationship. I was really very fresh and new to GA and leaned on him quite abit. I learned from it and had to move on with regret.

Recently this past year I experienced the shoe on my foot. I didn’t like it and couldn’t continue on with the relationship.My thoughts went back to what my ex of a long time ago felt walked away from it, way too much to deal with to have to be someones all for EVERYTHING.

I Murked in the dating world of Athletes in the past and non these days and always enjoyed going to the games etc. My visits never had a negative impact and I was always asked to come and sometimes bring my parents. The part I enjoyed the most was being down in the hole to meet and greet my man after a hard days work on the field or on the court and I think the feeling was always mutual Or they would have asked me to refrain.

By itsmorenamorena

December 21, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

I gotta begin with GO COWBOYS

Yes, that Simpson chick is a distraction and she need NOT show up at the Carolina or Packers game and definitely not the playoffs or SuperBowl!! The quicker she goes POOF the better!! We can’t have anymore games like we did last Sunday!!

Buen Dia to all

Am I a distraction? I don’t think so, but the last line of BS I heard from a dude was that I was getting in the way of him being a “Man of God.” Implying that I am his weakness, he couldn’t control himself. I wasn’t even trying! Had I, I suppose we’d both be going to hell in gasoline drawers!

Personally, I enjoy being driven to distraction by a guy. Keeps me grounded and gives me someone else to focus on besides myself, my work, my family, etc. I can be pretty self-centered, so distractions are welcome here. Haven’t had enough yet….:)

Naughty Santa’s Elf wishes you all a Happy Holidays!!

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

Hey Kinderbabe are you ready for your vacation get-away…. Slim Girly you are a mess.LOL

We all need support. It feels good to hear positives & encouraging words from friends & love ones….

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

KB what it is chica? For some reason I have a feeling the next WLB turnout will bring forth more participants after the holiday’s…looking forward to it whenever we all get on one page.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

Darrell thanks for that tidbit on Stuart Scott, I didnt know that but I had noticed he was MIA.

Lady J my baby is not quite up on everything that is going on! I have finished shopping for him and now I have to start on everyone else!! LOL He has been singing Christmas songs though and telling me all about baby Jesus. It seems like they start talking your head off over night!! :-)

Doe anybody know of anything going on New Year’s?? (All you New Years Eve babies…Kinderbabe)

By I'm Succint

December 21, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

Success is nothing without someone you love to share it with

By melo

December 21, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

It was a distraction for Romo either becoz, they had planned a little somthing after the game for the 1st time(so he wanted this thing(footbll) to end quick) or he was suffering from the after effects of the previuos nite’s humping. I am a little sore on my lower back myself,so iam sure u understand Romo’s predicament. Happy Friday y’aall.

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this

In these busy filled days of life I don’t mind a man being a distraction sometimes and I think its mutual for my dating life. I think its cool to be able to do things with another and helps you stay connect in some form or fashion. Anything in moderation is healthy in my opinion but i am one that requires space and the ability to get gone and do me. I offer the same to my man and when he gets ready to ride I don’t trip or question it really because I don’t want any questions when I ride but there has to be a mustual respect factor involved.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

2CPTG Dude, I was laughing in my car almost all the way home yesterday. Hell, yesterday was the most fun I’ve had on this blog. LOL!

Beautiful, MsU ‘preciate the luv, ya’ll. And yeah, you could definitely consider my earlier sentiments to fall under the ‘Words of Affirmation’ love language (which happens to be one of mine - the other being ‘Physical Touch).

It sort of goes along with a comment I made the other day in that the biggest compliment any person can give to another (I’m speaking in the context of a relationship) is to say to them “I need you” or “I’m glad we’re together” or “I missed you” or something along those lines. Not in a dependency kind of way, but in genuine love and commitment to that person.

Make sense?

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

Mo Kinderbabe and I both have the same birthdays, Dec 31 New Year’s Eve! She will be 32 and I will be 33!! Yay Capricorns! lol

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

Dan Glad I could give you a visual for the long ride home. Just don’t run anybody over. I know it can be hard to….um…how should I say….pat your head and rub your stomach at the same time. LOL!

By "Longtime Lurker"

December 21, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

Mornin folks…

Women can be a distration in many ways for many reasons!

Often,boxers don’t sleep with their wives or girlfriends prior to a fight, because it causes the boxers to not have as much endurance.

Believe it or not,getting some nuckie the night before a fight and cause a fighter to not be on top of his game!

The same can go for football players, basketball players and baseball players.

In the Tony Romo situation, I think the added pressure of your girl watching you and can cause you to not perform as well ( that particular game was Romo’s worst of the season and resulted in Dallas’ second lost).

When Dallas played Philly last year and Romo had his then GF Carrie Underwood in the stands, he played aweful and Dallas lost as well.

It has even been proven that when a man gets a new girlfriend and she is serving him up the nuckie on the regular, his performance at work, etc. often suffers and his priorities shift.

Why do you think football players are forbidden to date the cheerleaders? Reason, it interferes with the sport.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

Morning, QC! :-D

By Frank

December 21, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

Any man who blames a woman for “his,” mistakes, is either a complete idiot, or a total moron!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

MO, without her 3yr old 1st cousin she would be lost but she has to hang so hard I don’t know what I m going to do sometime…She stays 3 steps ahead to hang with her cuz!!! LOL They begging for skates so hard!!! LOL

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this

Pag1908 I knew there was someone else who had a New Year’s Eve birthday!!! New Year’s is my favorite holiday. I figured you ladies might know of something going on. I did Frankie B and MAZE last year so I didnt want to do that again.

Darrell Words of Affirmation is my love language as well. I agree with your 9:36 post.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Mo, I can forward you plenty of parties…I am not frequenting though but it looks like fun and concerts are in town also…J

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

YES women can be a distraction, only if I let them be! I have never let a woman stand in my way or distract me from personal success. However there are circumstances that take place in life that can cause minor distractions and we all know that the little things can add up. For instance I had a girlfriend who worked later in the morn/ afternoon and she liked to stay up all damn night! M-F she’s up til 4am easy and I had to be at work at 9am. I would go to sleep early while she’d be downstairs watching TV, on the phone… then @ 2:30-3am I’d get the ole elbow-n-da-rib move that meant she wanted to get it. Yes I gave it to her every time and this did cause some late days at work. It got real bad when she started cuttin me off from my good ole 8pm bang session (peak time!) just so she could wake me up late… I know what you thinkin but she HAD THAT GOOOOD!!!!

By Jay

December 21, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

Happy Holidays to all. Being a former ball player. That’s aded pressure. We want to be a show off and our performance stinks. It’s best we dont know you’re there until afterwards. A beautiful woman can distract a man in any setting. LadyJ how have you been? email me.

By Dan

December 21, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

While I agree success and life is better to share with someone, I have to say that I’m learning to be happy for/with myself.

Yeah, “a good job, honey” with the resulting good time would be nice, but in respect to being SO-less, I have to give myself that encouragement.

In this holiday season, while you may not have another person to celebrate with, you still have someone with you, yourself. Be happy for you, celebrate you, and go into the New Year congratulating yourself.

No one can love a person that doesn’t love themselves. Get good with you, and the rest will take care of itself.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

And gang check out the Great Debators…I had the chance to see a viewing at the Art Center Tuesday night and it made feel proud to be and African American Female and person!!!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Hey Jay!!! I will sir!:)

By Demi

December 21, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Slim my baad bay…tossing a roll of toilet paper to slim…Be sure to mummy wrap your skinny behind tonight..whispering into Slim’s ear: There is a Cold War coming!!

Hey QC, Lady J, and KB

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Per your 9:44, I’m glad to know you can relate to the WOA love language and the importance of that.

By the way, I’m considering doing a class next year on Gary Chapman’s new book The Five Languages of Apology: Experiencing Healing in All Your Relationships. I’ve recommended that book to several people I know and I think you’ll enjoy it as well, especially seeing as how you connect so well to the love languages.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

Jay*…missj8@gmail.com…it has been a while sir…hit me up!:)

By melo

December 21, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Darrell,it can be inferred from that story, that men gravitate to blondes(or stripper-model type for coloreds)just for sesxcual gratification and nothing else.That has to be tiring and distracting to say the least coz ur nervous system and and ur heart hyperventilates in anticipation. Relationships with women(or men) who care more about their bodies than themesleves as deeper human beings, has to be tough really. Its probably exciting when you are younger, but flames out when u get older.

By mqew (vacation begins at noon)

December 21, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Darrell That was nice, your 9:45! Very nice, and I felt ya, but, I think DasV said it was long

Frank no one said anything about blaming for mistakes. A distraction is not a mistake.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Darrell I like that book… I think my two are quality time & words of affirmation

A few other favorite authors: Les Carter, Michelle Mckinney-Hammond, Jerry Jenkins, Andria Hall and etc….

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

Off-topic

DasV if you’re out there, I thought you’d find this interesting:

My horoscope for today…

Pisces for Dec 21, 2007 Your way with words is quite strong, though it’s probably easier for you to express yourself poetically than to explain things mechanically. If people don’t understand, just smile at them.

(I especially liked that last part.) LOL!

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

what’s diference between Jessica Simpson attending the game, and Mrs. Lineman, or Mrs. Wide Receiver attending the game? nuttin! He played like garbage and ain’t no excuses….

and LL, the reason atletes abstain from sex the night prior to a contest is because an O saps you of your energy…same with a massage, those two are taboo prior to an athletic competition…it relaxes the muscles almost to a point of atrophy!

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Hey kinderB, Page, Demi

2cptg…we did have a ball yesterday...i told Darrell you are one of the Original Bloggers and a good person :-)

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Darrell me and my girls, not to long ago, found this article in a magazine that listed what a man needs to hear to feel wanted. those that you mentioned were on the list “I need you” or “I’m glad we’re together” or “I missed you”. i have used alot of them (and mean it) and it works!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

Hey Demi!!! don’t work too hard over the Holidays but do plan those vacations and enjoy!!!:)

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

Mo, yes it was me and Kinderbabe who have the same birthday. I am not sure what I am gonna do yet, I always know at the last minute. I was gonna go back home to San Diego, but, I decided not to since I will be there next month, then in Phoenix in Feb for Superbowl. So, I guess I will see what Atlanta has to offer for this New Year’s Eve baby! I do need a date to kiss at midnight, so I am gonna have to work on that starting today…lol

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Darrell 9:04…post

Would you marry me?!?

lmaooooooooooooo!

By Staceye

December 21, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

Slim you are a true nut girl! LOL

Darrell I did not know about Stuart Scott. That is so sad. Cancer is taking people out!

I never found my guys to be distractions when I ran track, cheered or did gynastics..but performing on stage was different story. I was nervous that I might mess up. Now shouldn’t I have worried that I might break my leg doing the beam or trip over a hurdle more so than singing, dancing or acting? I swear.I am azz backwards. I did once fall while dancing a solo..but lucky for me I was dancing contemporary and I made the fall look like a deliberate part of the dance.

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

I’m thinking the rule for cheerleaders and football players to be a no no is to keep the drama off the field and the purposed baby daddy and mama drama to a null…LOL

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Morn to All -by the way.

On the T.O. subject I just think he’s a F’n jerk in this situation. Not his statements which I knew were a joke the moment he said them. But the fact that he took an already over publicied story and made it BIGGER. Every guy has had that homie that makes a big deal about your new fly azz chic: “Tony’s got a girlfriend, Tony’s got a…” and that shyt is just corny man especially when he knows you’re tryin to keep it on the lo for now. I would not speak to him much after that.

BTW - Sorry to see Parker go down like that Kym good luck in the ‘offs Rep the AFC!!!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

LOL @ blog proposal. Awwwwww hot sweet! Darrell say “yes”!

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

Demi tossing a roll of toilet paper to slim Babes, you could’ve at least given me 2-ply. This no name brand recycled TP you gave me still has shyt stains on it. Ewwwww!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

mqew DasV’s exact quote was: “Darrell you talk too damn much.”

So, that horoscope post is just for her. LOL! *(She knows she’s cool with me.)

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

Darrell you’re a Pisces!!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

Lady J thanks for all the haps going on in ATL for the holidays!! ‘Preciate ya Chica!

Page1908 co-signing on the need someone to kiss for New Years!! LOL

Darrell I have heard about the Five Languages for Apologies and I am sure its something I need to read! :-)

By Demi

December 21, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Lady J LOL, its straight hustle time from here on…my pass port should be ready within a few weeks. In 2009, I maybe dragging Li’Demi across the world with me, LOL

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

Morning Darrell

By kinderbabe

December 21, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

beautiful lol…you are too funny girl. and yes, the twins were in doing their thing…lol. lunch just isn’t what it used to be.:)

page yes, girl..lady caps rock!!! especially the new year’s eve ladies…we are that ish!:)

msU/slim ladies, after the new year we are definitely going to get together. i think you’re right slim, we’ll have more of a turn out after the holidays. i’ll be well rested after this break and my trip next week. i’m looking forward to getting pampered for my b-day.:) you know i’ll give y’all the update at our next gathering.

mo hey, girlie. i’ll be out of town for new year’s but i have heard of a playdate party and something downtown at the westin (i think). i can forward you the info via e-mail or you can check w/ms. entertainment ladyj for further details…lol

hey demi :)

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

‘Preshate ya, QC….cause ‘round here, you know we will see what you’re made of….he seems to be holding his own, though……

HOWEVER, I do wish one of these ladies would give him some sympathy cat…cause from a dude’s standpoint, his posts are borderline, poetic beggin’, if ya ask me….

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

Good morning!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Ok, since QC is lagging on the funny emails lately, can some add me to their email list and forward me some emails, please LOL? Today is going to go by soooooooooo slow. I’m at pageantgirl_1908 at yahoo dot com.

Oh yeah, GA MAN I read some reviews on your book and I may pick it up at Target this weekend. I would, however, like to know more about you as an author.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Good slow azz rainy friday morning blogsville.

On topic a good woman is never a distraction. I still remember my wife talking to me about goint to college when I was in the army. She was so convinced I could do it, and I did. I doubt I would have without her input.

Darrell I agree yesterday was all in good fun and I’m glad you had a laugh. I did. However, if you don’t leave those Five Languages alone Imma go postal in this camp. Repeat after me ” No Five Languages”.

Anyone seen Legend yet? Its rainy and dreary and I may try to catch it.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Anytime Mo!!! Now you enjoy and we should hook up MLK Weekend hun!!! LOL

I am looking forward to playing Santa, that is all J will be doing!!! LOL

But whomever is going to see Frankie B and Chaka and John and Pati ENJOY FOR ME!!! WOW!!!! I have to wait for the summer for Frankie B!!! LOL

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Blow

As flattered as I am by your 10:09 post, I can’t quite imagine this scenario playing out:

Darrell and Blow standing at the altar gazing dreamily into each other’s eyes…

(Fade out to the church…)

Preacher:…*”Darrell, do you take…um…Blow Me…to be your…um…lawfully wedded wife?”

Darrell:……now looking angrily at Blow as if to say “You PROMISED me you were going to use your REAL name!”…

Blow:……smiling back at Darrell in a sinister, yet sexy, kinda way…

Darrell:……now visibly upset matter-of-factly says “I do.”…

Preacher: …a’hem…uhhh…do you…umm…Blow Me…take Darrell to be your lawfully wedded husband?…”

Blow: “ABSOLUTELY!!!!”

LOL!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

kinderbabe yeah cappy’s got the bomb ish lol

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

900k That injury to Willie P hurt us but Davenport stepped up and ran for 123 yrds last night. Now dare I say it…I have to root for the Bungals this weekend to beat the Browns.(I hate them both-except those players on my fantasy team..-lord fantasy football can test your loyalty.) My son poor baby is in a family divided.. His father was a Bengals fan-I am a Steeler fan and all of his aunts/uncles/cousins are Fakecons fan.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Yeah, I’m a Pisces. February 26.

Mo All I can say is…GET THAT BOOK. :-)

Truth Then you might as well lock ‘n load, bruh, because the love languages is in the blood. It’s real, man, I’m tellin’ you. You might wanna try it before you knock it. :-)

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Truth I heard Legend was a great movie and will did his thang in it its a must see..

I have to ^5 you on that post directed at Darrell…gee wiz dude let it go with that 5 languages…

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

LOL KB & Demi!!! It is much to get into in the A!!!:)

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Sorry Page

2can you are sooooo right!

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Truth you are funny. Have you read the book?

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

Truth, I did Tuesday and it scared the daylights out of me…I regret being ignorant to the fact of what I was going to see…I did no research and did not listen much to the reviews…I was just caught up in Will and I thought I was going to see a flick like Ali I am a Ledgend…Silly me! Didn’t realize it was a remake of two other movies and the meaning til afterwards!!! I felt silly as hell in the movies with the dead boies all over the place! But Kudos to Will!!!

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Hey Demi

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

Jazzy You might wanna peep my 10:32 to Truth. It’s really funny how people promote this forum as a free-flowing blog and yet certain people want to “filter” what people can and cannot say.

I make no apologies, man, so unless you read any of the books, holla.

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

LOL it’s cool QC! I know ya’ll are not working down there today…lol

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

But The Great Debators was a powerful movie!!! Washington and Whitaker and the four debators did a AWESOME PERFORMANCE!!!!

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this

Lol Darrell…..fun knee!!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Page mail call!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

MSU I read a little a few tears ago and it wasn’t for me. Really all I can do is me.

Beautiful I like that 1006. In these times sometimes a nice word is cool. I have a friend now and she tells me at least once a week how much she “appreciates” me. I’m still trying to figure that one out but it sounds good. LOL

Page you’ve got mail. I hope it makes you laugh. I thought that cat was funny as hell.

KYM I became a fan of the Steelers coach last night. I like his mindset. He’s a hard charger. His interview after the game was tight. BTW, sorry about Fast Willie. Thats gonna sting.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

I am with Truth on the book thing I think people spend way to much time looking to label themselves this or that regarding how they love…or should love. I love how I want to be loved period. Done.

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

btw, QC, what’s up with Fulton County constantly messin wit folks…..y’all held a dude in jail for 7 months after the judge released him???

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

Blow You and I might still be able to do somethin’, but you gotta promise me when we’re at that altar you’ll make the preacher use your REAL name. Can you promise me that?

Blow?…Where you at, Blow?….Earth-to-Blow…come in, Blow…

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

Truth you are right about Tomlin’s interview I am stuck on the fact he ended with don’t have to watch the game bc we won! I am glad he is a head Coach!!!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO Beautiful! That was hilarious!

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

Derrell You aren’t supposed to apologize see thats the problem..dayum say something sometimes and stand on it without apologizing..gee wiz…this is free flowing forum but don’t get surprised when you get the responses you get..stop acting like a fricking girl..gee wiz….

By Demi

December 21, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Darrel you’re starting to read like a Austin Powers: The love Guru…Speaking with a fake British accent:

Have you seen my Mojo?! I’ve loss it some where.

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Page lol, girl you know we be bizy down here….i thought i sent you the email about the “ghetto christmas carol” i’ll re-send it!

By Dan

December 21, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

I have read the book, and while it was an interesting read, it only does what most books published these days do…illuminate the obvious with a catchy title.

Who doesn’t know that some people prefer hearing “I love you” and opposed to displays of emotion (as in PDA).

Truth be told, there not much that one can’t figure out with self discovery (the kind buddist/shoalin monks spend a lifetime doing). Taking stock and understanding one’s emotional tendencies is the mark of the enlightened.

While I have bills and can’t spend the whole day chanting for enlightenment, each of us have the opportunity to learn more about ourselves if we take the time to do so. In this hectic day and time, we find more excuses for not committing to self-improvement rather than initiating the process independently.

So, learn how to quiet your mind for even 5 minutes a day, you’d be surprised at what you’d find in there.

The answers to life mysteries lie within each of us, we simply need to access them. —-Buddist Proverb

Uh, GA MAN is an author? Book name please….

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

*Lady what’s impressive is that cat can carry a movie solo. He doesn’t need other actors, no background, and no script. Just start rolling film and watch him do his thing. He really is talented. I bet he wishes Jada had never made Woo tho. LOL

Darrell did you just say Holla? Man you got me laughing over here before 11am. I bet you have on an A shirt too. LMAO Is it true you and Blow Me are gonna take that walk? Man, you spend some time with her and you’ll be wearing wife beaters and tims within 30 days. That woman is a riot.

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Beautiful have you seen that Breakdancing Baby email? Now THAT was funny. Oh, I am gonna send you a list of “urban” baby names…wait till you see that mess! ctfu

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Kinderbabe Have fun Lady J Have fun with lil J; my kids are leaving for xmas. Darrell my sis b-day is the 26th also me and her are night & day… GA Man What is the name of your book

By Poppa Grande

December 21, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Good Morning & Happy Holidays to all.

I didn’t read all of these, but I decided to look today.

Wise, they are making a bid deal about it because it isn’t the first time that he had a bad outing with a girlfriend there. Carrie Underwood is an ex-girlfriend of his and he had a bad game when she was there too.

It seems to be a thing with him. Also, what is not mention is that he has a thumb injury which is important to a QB for gripping and throwing the ball.

The girlfriend talk is just some good natured ribbing.

I played football, and it didn’t bother me. I made it to the NFL (be it only practice squads of MIA, WAS, CLE), but I got paid for it. Most players at the level are married and their wives attend games.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Truth Mike T is just awesome..I am so happy he is the Steeler head coach…He is a keeper. He regulates the players when they need it and he knows the game. I love watching him do post game interviews he doesn’t mince words or make apologies for screw ups…and heaven knows we have had some screw ups recently on Defense. Go Steelers

By Nina

December 21, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Lady J, sweetheart, it’s debaters, Great Debaters. Not to pick at you, I don’t want you going around spelling it incorrectly - repeatedly.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

Jazz Tell you what, man. You do you and I’ll do me and we’ll leave it at that, alright?

You’re really funny, man. My way of communication doesn’t align with yours and you wanna “label” me? Worse yet, you don’t even know me or the background from where I come. Besides, the fact of the matter is - and you can re-read the posts if you like - I didn’t even bring up the whole love languages topic - I was only responding to someone else who brought it up.

If it doens’t apply to you then fine, man, but dayum…this is a freakin’ BLOG, not life or death.

:-/

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

TruthBaby i’m so happy that you are in my blog life and i appreciate you and your blogness. smooches

By pisces07

December 21, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Morning All… Darrell, thanks for “Todays Horoscope”. A brotha must remember to smile today at the mall.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Truth *”…Is it true you and Blow Me are gonna take that walk?…”

I don’t know, man. I’m still waiting for her to answer my question on whether or not she’d use her real name at the altar. LOL!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Dan email me and I will forward the info on the book. pageantgirl_1908 at yahoo dot com.

Yes, I guess he is and the book is at Target, so I may read it really quick, but if it is bunk, then I am gonna take it back for a full refund…lol hoping GA Man is not lurking

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Get yourself a healthy sence of self, knowledge of self, self worth and love and you won’t need someone elses view of thier picture of life to determine the travel in your own life.

Im all for reading great books and read allot myself and inspirational types books as well but Gee sometimes its overkill…SPED at its finest!

By Staceye

December 21, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

Darrell & 900 I won’t stand in the way of your succcess..but I will stand in front of your TV and blocked game in stilettos and boy shorts….trying my best to imitate Slim’s Camel toe! LOL

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

@Nina…Thanks Hun!:)

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

Darrell Okay unless I am guessing wrong Jazzyone is a woman.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

The Truth he did a fantastic job!!! Will rocks!!!

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Derrell im not labelling you and Im not a man…Im telling you how you read to me..Look at your post @ 9:05 dude and you give everyone a picture of you so thats what people respond to…I understand this is a blog but you spill your guts on it like allot of people as if its life or death. No one is labelling you im calling it how I see it like many do.

DID you not post this?? and you say you do no self promoting but get upset when people respond to you??

By the way, I’m considering doing a class next year on Gary Chapman’s new book The Five Languages of Apology: Experiencing Healing in All Your Relationships. I’ve recommended that book to several people I know and I think you’ll enjoy it as well, especially seeing as how you connect so well to the love languages.?????????????????

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

LOL OMG ctfu @ Slim’s Camel Toe! Slim, I think Demi enjoys looking at it!

By Demi

December 21, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

MsU hey and the title is Am I a Priority in your life or an Option

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

Kym Then I stand corrected. But my comments to HER still apply nonetheless.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

Darrell my whole take on the communication is me being anything other than me AINT GONNA LAST. Maybe a woman needs me to be more sympathetic, and I can be to a point, but I’m only going so far. I go with natural selection. I could meet a woman TODAY nd we’d be able to communicate so well that the things we don’t agree on would be of no consequence. Now that I can do forever. MY .02 I hope you collect royalties on 5 languages because you do more promos than the author. Good luck with that.

Kym where did he come from? If someone wants to see a real pro coach catch ESPN before noon. You know they replay shyt till the tape breaks. Ol boy needs to run for president. Dam Obama and Hillary.

Did anyone hear the good news about the Raiders last night? No. Me either. This year they stunk up the league. Thank goodness the Dolphins were around.

We have alot of former ball players in this camp. We’d wup azz in an AJC blog flag football league.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

*Staceye “…but I will stand in front of your TV and blocked game in stilettos and boy shorts…”

What TV? I don’t see no TV?

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

2CAN Man i don’t know what’s going on down here…although i do know the young lady who put the wrong info in the system on him and yesterday somebody called in yesterday and said a sheriff had got jumped on at underground they had us on “lock down” and all the officers went running over to help….but the call was a prank

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

Staceye - What game??!? ALL I want for christmas is that TOE!

well its cold and rainy today…

By Demi

December 21, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

Did ‘D’ just go off on Jazzy

Def Jamz: Corporate Bad Chick v.s. Corporate vol.1

Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding…!!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Demi dang. I hope he doesn’t get mad that you put it out there on the blog.

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

Truth You know my style…Timbs and beaters! All day! But during the week he’s got to get right..slacks and button ups! lmao!

Darrell I’ll use my real name..Promise…Just for you!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

Jazz Perhaps I should spell it out for you…

Y-O-U D-O Y-O-U A-N-D I-‘-L-L D-O M-E A-N-D W-E W-I-L-L L-E-A-V-E I-T A-T T-H-A-T, O-K-A-Y-?

D-A-Y-U-M-!

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

Naw Demi nothing here just pointing out what I see to him and he can do the same open forum…

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Staceye - (PS) I do like competition and I can handle it well. However I think you may want to leave lil bro Darrell out of the equation unless you like a man that cries afterward.

just come to Papa baygurl…

By Dan

December 21, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Page…u’ve got mail.

@Truth

I can’t speak for anyone else, but my ball playing days were over not due to lack of talent or desire, but injury.

My knees know when it’s going to rain before I do.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

I read Chapman’s book to see what the hype was all about, and it didn’t do anything for me. His marketing strategy is working though. Create a buzz phrase, “Love Languages”, and convince people that knowing these like the commandments will change their lives. Straight brand recognition…Marketing 101. If it helped you, then go for what you know, but I’ll look within.

By Staceye

December 21, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

Ok ladies…we now know how to get a man’s attention from the Playstation.

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

You man up to a woman but fail at it with the men..but good to see you do it none the less..LOL I was thinking someone needed to be de-sacked cause they weren’t using the jewels GOD gave em…

Sorry QC but I had to do it..

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

Truth per Blow’s 11:27, I guess it’s on then.

LOL!

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

…patiently waiting for 12:30… even though I know it may be 2:00 b/c i’m waiting on someone else to complete this last project before my 2week vac. Man!

What’s going on in here? anyone have an extra Wii on their persons? :-)

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

Staceye you gave wood with that visual. Lets keep this thing bloggy and not get freaky. DAyuum.

I say again. Are folks a little more froggy because of the holidays or what? LOL

Beautiful you got me all misty eyed over here. Smooches LOL

Demi we can’t, in good conscience, have Darrell fight 2 blog wars back to back. I must throw in the towel and halt this one. Remember, he’s a relative newby. Wait till he gets his blog legs under him.We don’t want to destroy good talent. LOL

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Def Jamz: Corporate Bad Chick v.s. Corporate vol.1

Um…Demi you call? :-)

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

Jazz “You man up to a woman but fail at it with the men..but good to see you do it none the less..LOL I was thinking someone needed to be de-sacked cause they weren’t using the jewels GOD gave em…*

What the hell is there to “man up” about? All ya’ll Intenet bad-asses crack me up. You talk much ish in a blog and to what end? To gain a rep - and from people who either don’t know you or don’t even care about you? Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. I think I’ll just drop everthing - career and all - and make bad-a* blogging my life pursuit from now on.

By the way, no need to apologize to my sis. She knows me and that’s all that matters.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

@ Dan, I saw that? ….what’s up with the knees dude? You still young!

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

wow…Darrell you cry afterwards….900k 11:30am..What’s good with that?!??!

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Jazzy1 it’s all good!

Hey Cemeeli where you been hiding?

Demi I’m having your brand new bling bling RED Santa Cape* delivered to your house…it might be cold on Christmas Eve, i don’t want you to get sick while you’re flying around delivering presents!

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Staceye trying my best to imitate Slim’s Camel toe Often imitated, never duplicated.

Page1908 I think Demi enjoys looking at it! (see below lmao)

Demi Uh-oh, some of this pineapple juice is starting to drip. We have a Code Red! Code Red! Don’t forget what we practiced in the drills…Code Red! Go Go GO!

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

Demi thanks, and stop starting stuff before I pinch you. LOL

By Demi

December 21, 2007 11:49 AM | Link to this

Page He’s cool…his book has been floating in my office for a month almost…its a good read.

A few dudes will be getting kick out of their houses this winter.

JazzY girl!! I payed $200.00 for these tickets…hit him with a shoe or something

D you can do it…spell blind her with your 5 Ls attack!!

The only time I will be able to see Slim’s CT is while she’s ground stompin my A$$!!

By Staceye

December 21, 2007 11:49 AM | Link to this

Dan you getting old baby? LOL

Truth* Meet me at the mistletoe! Wink!

900 I got the pink Mrs. Claus outfit from Vicky’s….is that better? LOL

Awww leave Darrell alone! LOL

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Dan poor baby! My ex was in the same position. He tore his ACL and had to have surgery and was never the same since. I am so glad my boy *Amare Stoudemire was able to come back better than ever after his knew surgery, although I don’t think it was his ACL.

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

“I think I’ll just drop everthing - career and all - and make bad-a blogging my life pursuit from now on.”*

not joining in ya fight, but you must not know…..blogging can be quite lucrative these days….trust that! hunh, ajc!!!!

By Dan

December 21, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

Right knee: Strained MCL, rushed rehab, hurts.

Left knee: busted bursa sack, fluid, hurts.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

@ Sis Staceye - ok ladies…we now know how to get a man’s attention from the Playstation That’d be what exactly:

Let me tell you what i did lastnight. Plan B (shopping) = Not having any luck finding Wii. First I bought the Playstation system, then i decided to buy the ‘drivers wheel’ for all racing/nascar games,i got the eye toy camera for my kinetic workout game and antigravity snowboarding, of course wireless remotes along with 4 virtual games. You think i’ve created/built my version of Wii-playstation for lack of not having the actual Wii? Lol

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

Darrell what about after the wedding? You 2 go to a xmas party and you intoduce her as MRS Blow Me to your upline. Thats not gonna fly, but their gonna be smiling their azzes off at her.

Dan thats the big question mark. Injuries. When you see some of these great athletes getting carted off never to return as they left, its a shame. look at Alonzo mourning. Its over. Football is the worst tho because no guaranteed contracts. One wrong twist and your thru.

(Said with a Michael Jackson voice) I’d like one day of blog peace. (Now ducking as blogsville showers me with rolls of recycled toilet paper, tomatoes and eggs. Yuck)

Dreams what they don’t tell us is the answer to all of this is inside. Its just not a profitable message to get out. 100% co-sign

Its hrd as hll to typ wit dat visual of Staceye in my hed.

By Poppa Grande

December 21, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Darrell…Don’t do it.

Nothing personal against Blow me. However, I don’t know many marriages that went well when the female proposed.

If you want to see an example of how it can end it up, take a look on the ajc…Juanita Bynum proposed to Weeks. We all know how that ended up….with him catching a case.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Hi QC I haven’t been hiding. Just trying to wrap up my projects b4 vacation. So i wont come back to a mess!

How are you?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Darrell I agree with your 11:44 post. I have to hold my tongue sometime and remeber this is just a blog..LOL

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

Demi oh ok cool. I didn’t want him to think you were putting him on blast. I am definitely going to read it and let him know what I think.

Slim lmao @ your camel toe. Dang, this girl I used to know used to have one and it showed even when she was wearing sweats! I was like ughhhhhh gross! I think dudes like camel toes, though…ctfu

By Staceye

December 21, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

Happy Holidays guys…I’m out to NY!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

900 I got the pink Mrs. Claus outfit from Vicky’s….is that better? -yeah thats it, now come sit on St Nic’s lap and tell me you’ve been a bad girl.

I have now in hand all Potter movies along w/ L.O.R. trilogy and a bottle of Ros`e and Grey Goose, just tell me when and where…

By Xbox live - RadiomanUsmc(Rell)

December 21, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

Any madden 360 players hit me over the holidays…i am providing a* whoopins……or on Halo 3

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

Whats funny is that you are here all day everyday and more than I. I am orig old head and have always been me on this blog so it is what it is…Im working and currently just cleaned my plate off all projects and testing so what are you doing?? Drop your career Gee I hope not but you are doing pretty well at keeping the numbers up with the blog hits..

I apologized to your sister because I knew her way before you even popped on this scene so all respect to her…

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

@MsUnderstood aka MsU…you sure it is just a blog??? LOLOL

By QC

December 21, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

I’m good Cemeeli i’m doing the same trying to see the bottom of my desk….after today i won’t be back until next thursday….

Ok, let’s all join in and sing christmas songs…

who know all the words to:

Santa Clause go straight to the Ghetto? eh

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

Jazz “Whats funny is that you are here all day everyday and more than I.”

That’s because my job doesn’t require me to clock in and out.

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Truth I won’t be Ms. Blow Me anymore..I’ll be Mrs. Darrell then. You asking for BLOG peace….we know that’s some BS…

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

………HOLD UP!……..

Is there a fight in here the last day we will ‘blog’ before Christmas!?! WTH?

NO, no, no!!! Now i had a great time meet n greet w/some of the blog ladies this past Sunday night and this week has been LIVE and FUNNY in here. So b4 the day ends there is are gifts available and if you need to get a drink of eggnog, a spring of mistletoe and make up!!!

Staceye is upfront in the conference room for those of you who don’t want to kiss or hug and make up! She has a “story” for you if you wanna hear it…Lol.

900K Play that Greatist Hits for us…

Rev. James…”Santa Claus goes Sraight to the Ghetto”.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

Truth

Here is Mike Tomlin’s bio(the abridge version) Tomlin was the Minnesota Vikings defensive coordinator in 2006 after spending the previous five seasons (2001-05) as defensive backs coach for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. Prior to joining Tampa Bay’s staff, Tomlin served two seasons as the defensive backs coach at the University of Cincinnati (1999-00). Goodness knows I love a defensive coach

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

If you want to see an example of how it can end it up, take a look on the ajc…Juanita Bynum proposed to Weeks. We all know how that ended up….with him catching a case.

*Poppa Grande * you are too funny. Ha! I really don’t believe he started the fight. I believed he was trying to keep her off him..That’s was nothing more than A thin line between love & hate ( the movie) of course she wanted to whoop his butt… especially after she have spent 1 million dollars on a wedding. Come on she would have been walking around with a steak on her eye if he so call beat her up..LOL

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

Derrell Me either never have had a job to clock in and out because I don’t have a job but a career.

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

Poppa Grande From where…I am from…we call that

Fall back homie!! Let me do this….You wearing that hatin cape very well! I am sure that’s a man law violation somewhere about “CB”-ing

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Demi, you little devil. Stop trying to get this blog all bruised and bandaged.

JazzyOne/Darrell, it’s not all that important. Give each other a blog hug and float back to your respective cyber corners.

By Demi

December 21, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

QC Girl, you ain’t heard…I fly out in all weather, I am like UPS of the dating world. LOL

Cemeeli you’re all late’n’ish…Come, lets redeem those coupons in the Darken Cubicle

some of this pineapple juice is starting to drip

Slim Dayum bay, your plumbing system is leaking…Now applying Duck Tape…See, the leaking has stop!!

By Demi

December 21, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

CeeCee you give in and purchase a PS3, huh?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

Lady J I know right…

Staceye Have fun girly.

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

Thanks Kym!!!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Jazz Fine. “Job”/”Career”. I deem the terms to be interchangeable, but whatever floats your boat. The point I was trying to make is, what difference does it make who spends how much time on this blog? What the hell does that prove? Please enlighten me, because I’m at a total loss as to what relevance that has to the discourse you and I have been engaged in.

Perhaps if I disappeared for a month or so that would make me more esteemed in your eyes? Or, is “occasionally” popping in and out of here a virtue to be pursued so that I’m not seen as someone who is on here “all the time” and, thus, have no “career” to keep me occupied during the day?

Speak, o’ wise one. :-/

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Cee - Actually I got the Death Row Christmas CD playin Santa Claus comes to the Ghetto -Sing it Nate Dogg

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

You know what I am just as hot-headed as the rest of ya’ll (hell more so) but I don’t know if it is the extra blood flow or the weather change or what but damn… If you dont want someone to comment on what you say then dont say shyt. I mean hell none of your opinions are the end all or begin all in the making of me so why would I or anyone else give a rats tushy what you think? The emotional rollercoaster in this piece is unbelievable.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

Demi I am late!!!…maybe some brkfst and Christmas music would have started this day off better.

…and you trying to dance with me again? …i’m so sick of you tryin to TRY me! let do this…Remember I am not liable for self inflicted injuries.

By Dan

December 21, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

All due respect…

Whether I clock in or out, don an apron, mask, vest, or gloves, my job and the work I do is to be respected.

Showing any signs of disrespect to the millions of people doing whatever it takes to feed their families, keep a roof over their heads or simply eat, is where I draw the line.

Contrary to popluar belief and the fallacy of the American Dream, intellect is not respected in this country, connections are. Whether you grew up on one side of town, konw someone of import, or joined the right organization has no relevance to the person you are.

Not a year ago, I was pushing a broom, clocking in and out, and while it bothered me to do so, it was a humbling experience from this perspective: it showed me that no one is beneath doing anything to survive.

I knew people that were going to school for advanced degrees, a lady that has a CPA, and they were all doing the same things as I was. I was fortunate enough to know some of the right people through, well, just being me, and they spoke on my behalf regarding my intellect and work ethic. And regardless of my job or title, I am still the same man.

So to anyone, and I mean anyone that would show that lack of humility to assume that your job defines anything else but your option of lifestyle is where I draw the line.

Now you can speak to a lot of the good/great things you do in life for others, but that statement Darrell tells me more about your motivation than anything you’ve said since you’ve been on here.

That was classless, egregious, and hositle. Is it any wonder Black folk can’t move forward in this world, when those of that make it, forget about those that don’t have the access and opportunity to change their stations in life?

I am personally offended. (open forum or not)

By Demi

December 21, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I am just glad Jazzy didn’t decide to have a cyber talk with me…Y’all know mature women who got it going on, are my weakness. LOL

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Poppa Grande i have a feelin’ that i’ll be the one to pop the question and with me being a internet dater, he’ll probably come from a dating website. sorry, NO divorce here. i don’t believe in divorce.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

Demi…what’s a girl to do? I’m a tiiiied chic…Lol. I can’t shop another futher!

All those accessories better be worth it!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

Dan Thank you for your 12:28. And please spare me the “black folk can’t make it” stuff, alright?

Next…

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

WOW Dan, insightful to say the least!!! GREAT POST!!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

Okay can we all play nice today?!?! Come on ya’ll, its the friday before Christmas and ya’ll know we all wont be back in rotation til after New Year’s so can we keep it light? I am with Cemeeli on this one.

Truth I would like to see Will’s new movie as well, can I tag along with you (as I bat my eyes)?

By Poppa Grande

December 21, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Blow me…lol..I said that it wasn’t personal. I am just giving him something to think about. They are just jokes..ha, ha, joke, joke, ha.

Seriously, though, (not about you personally), sometimes your friends can see something in a potential mate that you cannot because you are blinded by the bliss that is love. I have told all my friends to have at least 18 months between the meeting and marriage of someone.

There are real phyisological reasons behind it. Your body produces endorphines and other hormones that gives you that happy, high feeling that we call “being in love.” It takes about 12-18 months to get off that high and get back to “normal”. Then you can see the nit-picky things that annoy you. If they bother you before you get married, they will bother you afterwards as well.

I’ve been married for 8 years, so I speak from experience.

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Afternoon folks. Ahhh…now we’re back to the norm of blogging, women and men fighting each other…those male catfights were getting on my nerves, LOL.

on-topic TO has a sexy mouth.

off-topic 4 more hours and I’m out of this place.

If Kym wasn’t a Steeler fan, I’d root for them, LOL.

My Falcons will make the playoffs next year…that’s how we do in the NFC South.

Gift-giving

I love giving gifts to my staff at Christmas.

Not looking forward to giving my niece and nephew their gifts - those two are quite ungrateful.

Can’t wait to take my other nephew shopping, yes-he’s my favorite.

I got my sister’s gifts that I can keep for myself should I change my mind at the last minute.

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

Dan blog hug 2 u.

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

Okay Derrell By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Jazz Fine. “Job”/”Career”. I deem the terms to be interchangeable, but whatever floats your boat. The point I was trying to make is, what difference does it make who spends how much time on this blog? What the hell does that prove? Please enlighten me, because I’m at a total loss as to what relevance that has to the discourse you and I have been engaged in.

Perhaps if I disappeared for a month or so that would make me more esteemed in your eyes? Or, is “occasionally” popping in and out of here a virtue to be pursued so that I’m not seen as someone who is on here “all the time” and, thus, have no “career” to keep me occupied during the day?

Speak, o’ wise one. :-/

Oh heyal what did you say?…okay yeah…shyt im exhausted just reading or trying to read your post okay I give…gee wiz…

Demi you cracking me up I tell ya ;-)

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

Dan Oh how your long azz post was moving, I have to admit I’m now a little confused by it. Please forgive me if i am confusing you with another blogger…BUT…weren’t you the one saying how a person w/o a degree would hardly have a chance in dating you because it showed lack of completing something yadda yadda yadda???

Anyone help me out here if i am confused.

Demi Now applying Duck Tape…See, the leaking has stop!! NOOOOO, you are doing what you saw in the “What NOT to do Video.” That’s one of the top rule violations. Never ever, ever, ever use tape, wax, or any other adhesive substance on the CT. unless of course it comes in a warming gel, strawberry-kiwi flavored, soothing liquid

rrrriiiippppppp! Here is your citation.

(Demi looks down at citation and passes the fyck out when he reads: Must purchase 2,008 copies of GAMAN’s book and donate to the I Love New York Recovery Center)

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

That’s because my job doesn’t require me to clock in and out.

I have a pretty good J O B myself, top fortune 25 co. and they have switched to a new system that requires my to clock in online intranet and it really does BUG the shyt out of me. Lunch time log in-out is the worst for me. With that said I think what lil bro Darrell wrote was pretty damn funny, he got me on that one too. Dan!!!! calm down homie he’s just trying to be clever on this one. no I’m not takin up for him, that shyt was funny tho cuz even YOU ticked off

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

standing ovation to Dan and Kym

now, no more fighting today in the spirit of Christmas…remember love is the greatest gift you can give.

that’s why I won’t feel bad if I keep the gifts I got for my sisters because I love them - a lot!!!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

Well I’ll be… I didnt know ole GA man had a book(s) ..and here I thought he was humping for coochie on the blog and it appears he was humping for material for his books. Well the coochie could have been the backup plan

By Demi

December 21, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Bout time your guard has came down…I am picking up some drinks’n’wings…what would you like LOL

On bloggin at work…Thanks god for my lap top and 3G cell phone!!!

By Dan

December 21, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this

Care to elaborate….

Spare me the Black folk stuff…? From the propeitor of Blackthen…?

And not trying to start no fight, just I need to know for me to even acknowledging your presence from now on, just what you mean by that.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this

Tazzee

I see you are suffering from some kind delusions if you think the Fakecons are going to make a playoff next year or for that matter 2 years after that.

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this

Dan WOW nice post

Kym okay!

By Dan

December 21, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

@Slim

Naw, that was me, but I also said in that same post that if she trying, I’m all in.

Being down here in South GA is depressing….

I love my people but dizzam, when did it become cool not to know stuff or even care?

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 21, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

Truth one of your MLB members is PMSing…Please bring him a tampon!

Jeez, y’all out of control today

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

If Tazz says it then so be it period end of story….Happy Holidays everyone..LOL

Slim I think you are referring to Binford more his style and tone of writing…I think.

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

Staceye, have a blast. If you make it to The Bronx just shout out “HELLO MAMA.” Thank you (LOL).

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

Dan Not that I owe you or anyone else an explanation for what I said earlierto Jazzy, but dude, she was the one who made an issue of how much time I spend on this blog and if she’s woman enough to dish it she should be woman enough to take it.

Even 900 seemed to accept the CONTEXT in which I made the comment, which was me being completely FACETIOUS, but you took it in an entirely different interpretation. You can take that for what it’s worth, man, but I wasn’t being demeaning, degrading or derogatory toward anyone. I was simply firing back at Jazzy, but now the peace-pipe has been offered and I’m done with it.

Sorry you took it the wrong way, man, but you need to relax on that one.

By P

December 21, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Women ARE evil. I can prove it.

We know that women like two things, mens’ time and your money, therefore…

women = time x money

Now time equals money, so

women = money x money

Money is the root of all evil, so

money = square root of evil

By squaring both sides of the equation,

money squared = evil

Now go back to the equation

women = money x money women = money squared = evil

By Demi

December 21, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli girl, I ain’t try to blow a grand on a game system. I wait two years before purchasing any system…I gotta give the bootlegger time to catch up!!

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

Kym we would break tradition if we didn’t, we’re last in the NFC South this year so we gotta win the division next year!

GO FALCONS!!!

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

Slim You are so silly! NY Recovery Center…ha!

By ???

December 21, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this

WISE

WILL THE BLOG BE OPEN ON MONDAY?

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

Dan Oke doke, I OBJECT!….oops I meant I digress. hehehehehE I always wanted to say that.

By chrissy

December 21, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

dan i agree 100%

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

LadyD what is it with that? It’s Christmastime! …I do not understand blog fights…

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

BLOG TIMEOUT DAMMIT.

Tazz you really have slipped and bumped your cute little head if you think the Falcons are going anywhere in the next 10 years. Sorry hun. We have some room for a few good women on the RAIDERS sideline if you need a warm place to land. LOL

Santa’s going to be flying over alot of your homes and refusing to leave gifts if this shyt keeps up. Darrell your aright with me dude. AS a matter of fact blog hugs or handshakes to anyone I’ve beefed with over the last year. HO fluggin Ho Merry xmas. LOL

Mo of course you can come along. Plus, and you gotta keep this on the lolo, i dont watch scary movies. I’ll need you to hold on to, real tight. LOl

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

Slim I think I recall that….

What is so offensive about somene saying * My job doesn’t require me to clock-in out /clock-out*

Some of yall need some professional Help.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

Demi shhh…i found a used one for a GREAT deal And i say my 250/bundle was worth it.

Where did you get the impression that i would spend a grand on THAT anyway. Heck no that is not me either! We are on the same page.

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

I like your post Dan. I was actually feeling you feel the way you do. Does that make sense?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

P I am laughing at your post.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

What is up with this dude and the Raiders?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

Dan

“Care to elaborate….”

Yeah, I care to.

“Is it any wonder Black folk can’t move forward in this world, when those of that make it, forget about those that don’t have the access and opportunity to change their stations in life?”

“Black folk” or not, neither your nor anyone else’s ability to “move forward” ought to be predicated on what words I or anyone else says to them, and in a BLOG no less.

Your elaborate, yet misguided post makes one helluva presumption in that you infer that I have absolutely NO sensitivity, let alone affinity, for those “black folk” who are struggling to realize their own success. How the heck did you derive such a mischaracterization of me based on a facetious comment I made and it wasn’t even directed at you.

How can you presume to tell me who I’ve “forgotten” about? Or do I now have to defend myself by enumerating the various charities and social organizations I support with my time and resources, just to prove that I “really do care about black folk”? Come on, man. You took this one way the hell outta context.

But, I can’t help but wonder. As upset as you are at my little “time clock” remark, do you get just as upset when you see people referring to each other “n*a” in this very blog? Maybe I missed it, but I can’t recall you waxing eloquently about that.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

Tazzee

I dont know the Bucs and the Aints are hanging tough. I full expected the aints to come back strong this year after they got so close but now Reggie B is out for the season. I know who is to be fear in the playoffs right now and that is Jacksonville. David G has the pimp hat on at the press conference and he is tossing them up there wit the best of them. Drew and Taylor are playing well. Hell they got my boys in the cold. Taylor is going to get the playoff nod since Parker is out.*

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

p…..your proof stinks!

so said the mathematician!

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

The Truth black and silver doesn’t look as good on me as black and red - plus those Raider fans are scary looking. You say you don’t watch scary movies, well you must cover your eyes when the pan the crowd at a Raiders game. Finally - HELL TO THE NAW!!! No way I’m betraying my Falcons.

By Demi

December 21, 2007 1:15 PM | Link to this

Slim my baad…I knew I should have use the ‘D’ plug LOL

Truth your post to Mo, reminded me of that old pop who says,”Bang Bang Bang!!!”, all the time, while dry dumpin the air. LOL

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 21, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I don’t know…I’m mad that I’m at work today too…but dayummm!

Let’s all hold hands and sing….

On the first day of Christmas my true love gave to me….

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

u tellem Wii daddy.

P u suck!

By P

December 21, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this

2CPTG©… Another scientist denying the truth. You must be on the Bush payroll.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

Kym that is the fastest rise thru the coaching ranks I’ve ever seen. Someone recognizes talent when they see it. As I said, i’m a fan of his now. I still reserve the right to make negative remarks if and when I need to. And you feel free to do the same with my OAKLAND RAIDERS. LOL

P your a real math wizard there buddy. If women are so evil does that mean you date dudes? Just wondering. LOL

Nipples which of the many here today are dealing with Auntie Flow? I’m trying to figure this one out today and you know I have no problems with a good blog fight. I think alot of people are dealing with holiday stress and loneliness. Have a coquito and enjoy the season. LOL

By Demi

December 21, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

Darrell that post was more toward Jazz than you…Here, have some of the moonshine I made last night. It’ll cool you off.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

playoff should read probowl but hell u know what I mean.

Truth Is Warren Sapp still skipping on the field?

By abc

December 21, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

I’ve messed up on stage while trying to show off for a female before, I can relate to that.

I saw ‘I Am Legend’ last night, it’s a pretty good movie, I’d recommend it. It may be a little scarier than you think, not advised for kids.

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

Beautiful……his variables are wrong! When formulating a proof, in addition to showing what you intend to prove, you must also show why it can’t be something other than what you intend to prove….a null hypothesis…..but you knew that, right, p?

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

Kym that pimp hat took me by surprise! I have to admit, I hated to see Willie go down like that, but I’m glad Freddie T will be going to Hawaii…he deserves it.

But as far as the NFC South next year: the Falcons will rule!!! Mark my words…write it down…then congratulate me in 12 months…HOLLA!!!

By Kara

December 21, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

Well unless you were hatched from some alien shell, an evil person gave birth to you “P”. Ergo you are evil too.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

Thanks, Demi. I don’t drink, but even I need one today. LOL!

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

“Another scientist denying the truth. You must be on the Bush payroll.”

maybe!!!!….still didn’t vote for his azz, though!

By P

December 21, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

Truth… Just because they’re evil doesn’t mean I don’t want ‘em.

Liquor is bad for you, too. Obviously, we don’t all stay away from that either.

If there were a workable alternative, I might consider it. But so far, I just have to cope with the “evil” to enjoy the benefits.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

Truth

Your comment to P is what i was thinking that why I couldn’t do nothing but laugh at his post.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

Darrell that 111 post was to long and used to many words I’m not familiar with. Yellow flag. This is a caution. Next time you go to the showers. LOl

Tazz lets have a private negotiation. Lord knows we need some dedicated fans in our camp.

Interesting thing is it looks like picking bush second was the smart thing to do. Who’d of thunk it?

By QueDogTeaching

December 21, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while not being able to speed blog, there is too much going on. All I can imagine is Darrell bouncing around in circles throwing jabs. Saying “This ain’t what you want playa, this ain’t what you want.” Did you take Preacher / Truths advice and go buy a three pack of XL Wife beaters?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Dan per Demi’s 1:24 to me, if indeed I did take your earlier post out of context, then I apologize, man. It’s nothing personal.

By Demi

December 21, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Kara sup…making your 1.2 posts per day quota, I see. LOL

By Kara

December 21, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

Truth you have been smack dab in the middle of 98% of the blog beef this week. You must have perpetual PMS every day, or are you just a prick?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 21, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

Darrell I can tell you got your armor on today.. bullets flying from everywhere at you and you still manage. Whew! I’m proud of you!!!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

Question: What does Punchin the time clock have to do with black Pride?

Answer: Nothin, I just think Dan is doing his best impression of James from Good Times

Hey! now wait a minute here jack…Dan then grabs a chair and breaks it into pieces

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

Truth The Rooneys were just blown away by what Tomlin could do. He knows the game…Man I am telling you he could get it-wooah Go Defense

Tazzee yall first have to find a GM and a coach. I am telling you Blank is sleeping on Mike Singletary. (that is my final push for him this year)

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Que Actually, I went by the Macy’s at Perimeter yesterday and asked about some “wife beaters”, but they told me to go to the one at Greenbriar.

By Demi

December 21, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I forgot who I was speaking to…I was like, no way in the world CeeCee is getting hoodwink over a Dayum system…os she? LOL

By Dan

December 21, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

My fault then, homie.

Like I said, I was trying to start anything either, I was just wondering, esp. after yesterday…..

WAYMAN TINSDALE III

No haps, here

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Truth The Rooneys were just blown away by what Tomlin could do. He knows the game…Man I am telling you he could get it-wooah Go Defense

Tazzee yall first have to find a GM and a coach. I am telling you Blank is sleeping on Mike Singletary. (that is my final push for him this year)

By P

December 21, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

2CPTG©… Do you realize how much blog space it would take to provide the second half of the proof?

It’s women! The variables are mind boggling. It would make pi cri!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

QueDogTeaching blog hug 2 u.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

2CPTG© At best P’s proof was 1/3 correct. Not only did he not include the null hypothesis, he did not prove equivalence of women and evil. He just showed (kind of) that women => evil. He must still show that evil => women in order for the biconditional to hold. P, no QED for you youngster. You are commanded to retake basic set theory (for the 7th time). I’ll be available in the math lab if you need help as usual, but 2CPTG© said he’s not helping you anymore. LOL

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

Demi lmao @ “Kara sup…making your 1.2 posts per day quota, I see.” LOL

P there not that bad. Just don’t waste time trying to figure them out. Thats where they trip you up. Some could misconstrue that kind of talk as the beginning of the long walk to man booty. Dude don’t go to the brown side. LOL

QDT because of the emergency intervention on darrells behalf I skipped tims and beaters andgot him some Lugz and a doo rag. I normally don’t use such drastic measures but this is a rare case.

Kym did you just make a funny about Sappy? Please don’t test our truce so early on. TY

By Xbox live - RadiomanUsmc(Rell)

December 21, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

Have I told you Lately that I love you Well, if I didn’t Darling, I’m sorry

Did I reach out and Hold you in my loving arm Oh, when you needed me

Now I realize That you need love too And I’ll spend my life Top40db: The most accurate lyrics site on the net. Making love to you

Oh, I forgot to be your lover And I’m sorry, so sorry

Have I taken the Time to share with you All the burdens, a love affair

And have I done the Little simple things to show you Just how much I care

Oh, I been working for you Doing all I can but Work all the time Didn’t make me a man

Oh, I forgot to be your lover And I’m sorry, I’ll make it Up to you somehow, baby

I forgot to be your lover Gonna make it up to you somehow Oh, I’m sorry, I’m sorry, baby I forgot to be your lover

If you’ll forgive me I’ll make it up to you Im only a man and I forgot……

By Xbox live - RadiomanUsmc(Rell)

December 21, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

Have I told you Lately that I love you Well, if I didn’t Darling, I’m sorry

Did I reach out and Hold you in my loving arm Oh, when you needed me

Now I realize That you need love too And I’ll spend my life Top40db: The most accurate lyrics site on the net. Making love to you

Oh, I forgot to be your lover And I’m sorry, so sorry

Have I taken the Time to share with you All the burdens, a love affair

And have I done the Little simple things to show you Just how much I care

Oh, I been working for you Doing all I can but Work all the time Didn’t make me a man

Oh, I forgot to be your lover And I’m sorry, I’ll make it Up to you somehow, baby

I forgot to be your lover Gonna make it up to you somehow Oh, I’m sorry, I’m sorry, baby I forgot to be your lover

If you’ll forgive me I’ll make it up to you Im only a man and I forgot……

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Whatcha gon get her for xmas:

12 hundred dollars 11 pair of shoes 10 fingernails 9 packs of weave 8 male stripers 7 bus passes 6 pocket books 5 months free reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeent 4 baby daddies 3 earrings 2 cadillacs and a man with a lot of moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

lmfao

Quad City DJs in full effect!

By Dan

December 21, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

@ Dreams

If I recall Set Theory correctly, he doesn’t have to prove the inverse of the relationship. Nor any component thereof. The biconditional that you speak of is for an either/or relationship.

In any case, I think the point was well made.

By P

December 21, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

DreamsMaterialize Why would I come to the meth lab for help? Especially for remedial set theory?

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Demi let me get this vent off. Please tell me why folks don’t get with IT and understand when someone wants to leave the office EARLY they & are dragging their knuckles! 2 ppl that came in after me this morning have left already!

Yes Darling…i’m a miser. With a capitol M. A “good deal” i will research and make sure i’m not getting bamboozled.

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Damn Kara, you didn’t mince any words…that was funny!

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

LOL @ whoever called someone a prick…ctfu

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

Truth “QDT because of the emergency intervention on darrells behalf I skipped tims and beaters andgot him some Lugz and a doo rag. I normally don’t use such drastic measures but this is a rare case.”

Funny thing is you wouldn’t believe me if I told you that I DO use a doo-rag. (It’s true. I do.)

By Dan

December 21, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

@Darrell

No argument starting (NAS)

But I don’t have the disaffinity for the use of the word n*a. I feel like 1) it’s a colloquialism (from a language/syntax POV) and that 2) it’s an ingroup association that delineates it’s users from the larger societal constraints, and in that it can be empowering (from a sociological perspective).

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

Kara I think the proper term is big prick. Wink Wink Oh yeah, you just went over your quota so we’ll see you next week. Bye Bye

Kym that was way tmi. And the Fakecons don’t need a black unproven coach now. They need a cat to take these next few losing seasons on his resume and then gt ghost.

Peace is restored in this camp between Bad Knees Dan and Bad Boy Banker Darrell. Everyone can take off their blog vests and relax. LOL

By kinderbabe

December 21, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

have a great holiday everyone.:)

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

Why is everyone fighting

You guys need to get laid…to releive some of this stress.

2 shots of Patron on me !!

900 & Darrell and Truth

Are giving out for BLOWS to the ladies!!

Oow!!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

Dan Then, if I understand your 1:59 correctly, you’d have no problem with me telling a n**a to go clock out? LOL!

By John in Tampa, FLA

December 21, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

***NOTICE****

Jessica Simpson will be flogged at high noon tomorrow at the public square in McDonough.

Refreshments will be served afterwards.

***NOTICE****

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

Why is everyone fighting

You guys need to get laid…to relieve some of this stress.

2 shots of Patron on me !!

900 & Darrell and Truth

Are giving out for BLOWS to the ladies!!

Oow!!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

Whatchu gonna get her for Christmas Girl whatchu gonna get that boy I wanna lil bit a dis And I wanna lil bit a dat I wanna lil bit a dis And I wanna lil bit a dat I wanna year supply a disAnd I wanna years supply a dat

Christmas Day the birth a christ No doubt that’s wut it’s all about Lemme stop the beat for a sec Show sum respect

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

Beautiful I am LMBAO at the Quad City DJ’s!!! You are too much!!

Truth you have to promise to give real hugs, not your infamous squeeze-the-charmin hugs or try-to-get-a-good-look-at-the-twins hugs! LOL :-)

Hey QDT

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

BLOW ME and my hair pulled too! lol.

By Cemeeli

December 21, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

Out of Office Asst. is NOW on! I’m out.

Blog Family you all have a safe, blessed and wonderful Christmas & Neew Year! Remember to tell your family and friends how much you love them.

And as always…

It has been my pleasure to share company with you in this blog.

~ Muah

By P

December 21, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

See! This is what I’m talking about.

This was a day to blog about women being distracting and what happens? The men are fighting each other!

Brothers! Correct your aim.

By Russell the Love Muscle

December 21, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

@blow me….word….folks need to find that V with the females…

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 21, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Blow - What the h3ll you talkin bout?

Kym - even tho Im late the: Bengals are the most disappointing team in the league this year.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

BLOW

When are we going to look at rings?

By Dan

December 21, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

From that context, yeah.

I’m talking about between members of an ingroup on equal footing. However, any person in a position of authority that would dane to use that term when speaking to a subordinate, I got a whole nother problem with that.

@Truth LOL on the Bad Knees But they have never stopped the show, I could still get me 4.5 40. I’d just be in an ice bath for an hour after

By Russell the Love Muscle

December 21, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

Remember the moments So precsious and rare The thought Of you kissing me there You know my secrets You know the curve and the line One touch And I know you are mine

Rain falls down on me I can hardly see For the water in my eyes Love comes down on me I can hardly breathe For the trembling in my thighs You move me

Remember the moments So prescious and rare The thought Of you kissing me there You know my secrets You know the curve and the line One touch and I know you are mine

Rain falls down on me I can hardly see For the water in my eyes Love comes down on me I can hardly breathe For the trembling in my thighs You move me

By Kara

December 21, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

BP it is, then. The Truth, somehow just does not fit you.

By Jazzyone

December 21, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

Okay ya! Merry Christmas Im out for the day. Darrell it was nice to spar with you today and kinda sexy..mufugga got me hot..LOL…

Anyways ya be safe and careful in your travels and eating the great food for the holidays!…Peace…

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

Truth Whateva..Skippy Sappy is what he is and shall be called…as for the Fakecons..they need a few miracles and a few of Rev Ike’s prayer rags so they can get right

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Dan Actually, the biconditional is not an either/or (disjunction) relationship. Biconditional occurs when a conditional AND its converse (not inverse) are true at the same time.

P <=> Q (biconditional) is defined as P => Q AND Q => P

He MUST show that both are true for equality to hold.

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this

Russell the Love Muscle what time you get off?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

Jazzy “Darrell it was nice to spar with you today and kinda sexy..mufugga got me hot…

It was the time clock remark that did it for ya, wasn’t it? LOL! Seriously, Merry Christmas to you, too, and be safe out there. :-)

By Hannah

December 21, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

I smell a woman hater. Yuk

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 21, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

Kara when the fellas get together another $25 we’ll call you for another “party”. Until then keep your lips closed.

Dan really my right knee hurts like hell most of th time too. I grew up playing basketball on concrete, soccer and karate. All of them hell on a knee. LOL

By 2CPTG©

December 21, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

Dreams, and Dan…that’s what I’m talkin bout!!!

By Russell the Love Muscle

December 21, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

@beautiful..4:45

By Kara

December 21, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this

I don’t take orders from douchebags, and I will leave those parties to you and your sisters.

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

Darrell When are you going to look at my ring….Jared’s is a great start. Something with a princess cuts and solitarie…that would be nice. 4-10 carat of diamond would be great.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

For everyone leaving early, have a safe and enjoyable holidays. Make sure you put those mistletoes to good use.

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

e=mc2 that 2 is supposed to be superscript…y’all are killing me with all this mathematical technical stuff on a Friday afternoon. At first it was a little sexy, now it’s making my head hurt.

But umm, I might need one of y’all to tutor me when I start my PhD courses - I gotta take some advanced math. Shoot, all I need to know for my job is that debits = credits and A+L=OE…I purged the rest from my brain years ago.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this

“4-10 carat of diamond would be great.”

Blow, you just BLEW it. LOL!

By BLAT

December 21, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

DAYUM!!! all these blog beefs and Blat ain’t even jumped in to fan the flames yet!!!

In the spirit of the holidays, Blat now sending out a blanket “I love Ya’ll” to the entire blogfam….

As far as us needing to get laid, I say we all need to get laid all the dammm time. Rabbit Dancin makes the world go round!

Staceye I’m waiting for you at the crib with two TV’s on… You know can’t no one love a Blatino Girl like a Blatino Man… in the words of PitBull “si tu quiere que te coma toda…”

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Oh Christmas tree…oh Christmas treeeeeee…how lovely are thy branches…Santa Clause, doop doop…go skrait to the ghetto..doop, doop…leave a toy for Mary…leave a truck for Johnny..Silent nite…holy nite..all is calm all is bright…jingle bells, jingle bells…jingle all da wayyyyyyyyyy

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

Beautiful You must be Scorpio liking you hair pull!! Yeah that’s how to get me there….Girl dont’ start nothing! lol!

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

4-10 carat of diamond would be great. State your desire, state your desire!

By Lady J

December 21, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

Happy Holidays Blog Folk*!!! Continue to be happy!!!:)

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Sorry about that. I’ll keep the math talk for the job. lol Don’t get me started on e=mc^2 though. Actually, give me a few shots of Don Julio, and you won’t hear anymore math talk from me for the rest of the day.

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

Darrell if you’re going to pick out any type of ring….i need to go with you to be sure that ring passes the 3 C’s rule

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

Sexy LOL at your 2:46. Funny. :-)

By Russell the Love Muscle

December 21, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Yeah, look at you) Look at you You look fine How do you do Been a while since alone in your room (room) Been around, but haven’t found No one like you (no one like you) Don’t you know girl There’s no one like you

And you hear me Hear my emotions creep slowly Hear with your heart, baby Don’t speak Now with your soul tell me Silently

Tell me (you) know each thought without a word You see me through (you see me through) Sorry now (sorry now) that I ever doubted you I don’t know what I can do To make you come true Think that you should know There’s no one like you and how you are

Your mind and heart Mind times the soul (ooh) Mind times the soul There’s no one like you

Can you hear me (hear me baby) (emotions) Scream slowly Hear with your heart, baby Don’t speak Now with your soul tell me Silently

Tell me Silently

Ahh baby

(me)

Love the way you (are) With your mind and(heart) Mind/body/soul (ho) If you aint told You got to know I’m willin’ to show you if you want to know

(know me) Hear my emotions scream slowly Hear with your heart, baby Don’t speak Hear intertwine scremin’ Silently

Screamin’ silently (don’t you scream) You’re my divine (don’t you scream) Slowly (touch you, hear what you want baby) Don’t speak Say with your heart (say it to me) Silently

Tell me Silently (woo-woo-woo-wooo) Silently

(me)

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Darrell Divorce Court here we come!! Bump that…I’m taking you ungrateful behind to Judge Mathis..Don’t make no damn sense!

And I loved you! Took care of you when you were sick! Walked around in my 4 inch heels during half time..with a plate of hot wings and sammich…

And I can’t get a 4 to 10 carat platinum princess cut diamond?!??! But you can have the biggest Plasma money can buy! But I BLEW IT?!??

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Darrell Divorce Court here we come!! Bump that…I’m taking you ungrateful behind to Judge Mathis..Don’t make no damn sense!

And I loved you! Took care of you when you were sick! Walked around in my 4 inch heels during half time..with a plate of hot wings and sammiches…

And I can’t get a 4 to 10 carat platinum princess cut diamond?!??! But you can have the biggest Plasma money can buy! But I BLEW IT?!??

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

Ok * QC*

Clarity, Cut, Color…

He knows what I like. The BIGGEST one will do!

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Sorry about that. I’ll keep the math talk for the job. lol Don’t get me started on e=mc^2 though. Actually, give me a few shots of Don Julio, and you won’t hear anymore math talk from me for the rest of the day.

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

I am off all of next week. I am going to miss you guys. However, w/my boss being out of town as well, I may come to work and use corporate America’s electricity and heat and have vacation at my desk all the while saving my days for when I really need them. Who knows!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Russell the Love Muscle who r u? where did you come from? wait, i forgot i’m leaving the A. nrr’mind.

i’m a cancer Blow. a cancer who wasn’t had sex in a long long long long time. lol. whoever my next boo is, he in trouble! lmao.

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs have a wonderful Christmas!

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

Is Dry humping dead?

Why come (yea i said why come) heavy petting always have to lead to putting you know what you know where?

All in favor of bringing dry humping back say AYE!

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

BeautifulGirl I feel ya!! You are gonna break his back out for real! You got me wondering now! I am ready!

By 5fromfifty

December 21, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

Just been lurking here all day and @ the J.O.B. You all going on about P’s statement, there is no validity in any of it because it is The LOVE of money that is the root of all evil not just money. Ha, now stop with the Scientifics.

Darrell - surprised you did not pick up on this you being a bible man and all must be all that mal-influence from the Preacher Truth. You saying in one breath the blog ain’t that serious but you getting your fight on today.

Preacher Truth or Truth Preacher? You just need to stop. Bro’ you like to keep it going. LOL

By pisces07

December 21, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Beautiful. My Cancer in waiting, don’t leave.

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, I am hollering over here. I remember as a teenager I use to really like dry humping. YOU ARE STUPID!

My boss didn’t get me anything again this year. Oh well, can’t make a scrooge like him give anything. All he knows how to give is a damn hard time at work.

Thanks Beautiful. I’ll let you guys know how my math lesson/Christmas present w/my daughter turns out.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 21, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

Now I dont go in for all that other love mumbo jumbo but I do know about astrology. So here this is taken from my favorite astrological book Black Love Signs:

Earth signs: Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn. You’re down to earth, practical, and cautious. Basically, you’re always the same — predictable, reliable, grounded, (Ground-ed, ground, earth — get it?)

Fire signs: Leo, Sagittarius, Aries. Like the element of fire, you’re unpredictable, feisty, aggressive, impulsive, and hard to control. (To put it more bluntly, it’s going to be your way or no way at all!)

Water signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces. In reality, people generally love to be close to lakes, river, oceans, and ponds. If you’re a water sign, people love to be close to you because you’re reassuring, emotional, intuitive, soothing, and nonthreatening.

Air Signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius. If you’re an air sign, you’re independent, aloof, analytical, intriguing and very hard to keep up with. You must have freedom. Like air itself, you cannot be contained, harnessed, or backed into a corner. If this happens, you’ll simply disappear.

From a practical standpoint, earth and water signs make beautiful mud together. And fire and air make a bonfire that’s hard to put out.

Compatible mates:

Aries works best with Sagittarius, Leo, Gemini, and Aquarius.

Taurus is compatible with Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, and Pisces.

Gemini is more suited to Leo, Aries, Aquarius, and Libra.

Cancer is better with Pisces, Scorpio, Virgo, and Taurus.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

SlimOne LOL at Dry Humping. Honestly, I do think it’s dead, so I’ll have to say NEIGH. I don’t think Beautiful could handle dry humping right now, from her 3:10 post. lol

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

Yeah Sexy Let us know how you life/christmas presents goes. I’d like to hear that

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 21, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Blow Meet me over at Jared’s at Stonecrest in an hour. I just got ‘em to increase my credit line.

What I won’t do for love

By Russell the Love Muscle

December 21, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

The rain - rain - (rain) - on my face In the rain - rain - to hide my pain - on my.. Hey I like to go out in the rain - rain - (rain) On my face - in the rain - rain - to hide my pain - on my.. Hey I like to go out in the..

[Verse 1] See I’m a single black male, dark hair, dark eyes Long walks through a park and a lot of them lives I’m a little bit shaded by a lot of what I see So if you’re still interested you should come get at me Cause I’m tired of getting shot down, put down and dissed I wanna be picked up, held tight and kissed But things like these don’t happen to dudes like me Because I’m more Coldplay than I am Ice-T They say that good girls love bad guys and that might be But a bad girl with a good guy, that’s unlikely So what’s a man to do to get to hold hands with you? Do I talk s** and stand and look hard with my crew? I don’t know what to do, so I drown in my drink It helps to numb the pain, cause when I sit and think about it Eyes get clouded, thoughts get crowded (thoughts get clouded) So I’ma sit right here, wait for you to talk about it In the.. c’mon

[Verse 2] Said she had a boyfriend, just trying to be nice But I’ve heard the same lines from different women all night Too easy let down, but don’t let it get you down S**, that’s what my boys told me, but end of the night I was still sitting lonely, if only I could find ‘em Without all the drama, without the one-liners Excuse me miss, hey mam, you got a man, what’s ya name? I’m in my mid-twenties so enough with the games Simply put I think you’re stunning, and what about some kids? A couple dogs, a couple cars, a four bedroom crib? Look, I’m not trying to jib, I’m just speaking from the heart But we can start with a drink if you wanna play it smart She looking at my boy who got two kids at home and I know how it goes, here’s his number telephone and He does the girl’s turf, and I know you’re smelling on him But every b*** needs a dog, so I guess that’s why you want him

[Verse 3] I try to be settle, but even flirting got me shooked I would never get a smile, all I got was dirty looks And my self-esteem is low enough, I got teased growing up And what I do, I beat ‘em up, but that only made me tough It didn’t get me girls, or notes in class Same girls who used to tell, when I would pinch their a* But if another boy did it, then they would get gritty So I pretended the handball was their face when I hit it And I admit it’s part the reason why I’m do em like I do And women in my life, there has only been two My mother being one, and the other one is done So my philosophy on dating is; ain’t no fun Cause they come and they go, and even if they don’t cum They still have to go, girl I give the best head But you just wouldn’t know, cause you stuck up in some diddy But even if you dissed me, I ain’t mad

Go on do that yo with yo pretty as.. You looked better coming.. No wait, you looked better going than you did coming Her a* is amazing. High five for Jesus Keep making ‘em like that Just make ‘em with half a brain so maybe they’ll talk to

By Tazzee

December 21, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

AYE!

Have a Merry Christmas folks. Remember to give love on Christmas day.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

5fromfifty We all know that the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. We all learned it at home and in sunday school too. lol We were all just joking around because it was fun to see a couple other people who know and appreciate math the way we do. The Women are Evil “proof” is just a JOKE, and we all responded to with that in mind. I don’t think any of us actually took it seriously, except you I suppose. Lighten up man, it’s Christmas. Oh wait, technically, it’s Saturnalia. Can you tell us what the Bible says about that?

By SexyLeggs

December 21, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

I’m Out! MERRY CHRISTMAS TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU!

By Happy Holidays - from QC

December 21, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE

WELCOME TO THE FAMILY MS. BLOW

QC has left the %$#@! building

HOLLA

www.blackthen.com

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 21, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

Kym thanks for the post on astrology. I am interested in that myself and find some thing to be true about certain signs.

For everyone leaving that wont be here Monday: Have a safe and blessed holiday! (I am off next week after monday so I may not post again til after New Years)

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

*Darrell * Jareds in an hour??wow..I might need to hi-jack a plane to make from Buckhead with this Atlanta Traffic…I am gettin anxiety attacks with that damn traffic. Tell me how many CARATS so I will know how fast I need to drive? lol!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

Saturnalia is the feast at which the Romans commemorated the dedication of the temple of the god Saturn, which took place on 17 December. Over the years, it expanded to a whole week, up to 23 December.

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs Back in the day it seems as if most of those intense hunch sessions were more exciting than the actual act.

I might need to setup a HUNCH DAY Meet-n-Greet for blogsville.

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

pisces07 hug and kisses 2 u. lol.

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

pisces07 w/o the lol.

By pisces07

December 21, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Beautiful. Back at cha… Maybe we’ll meet one day.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Yes. In it’s most basic form, Saturnalia is a celebration of the winter solstice, which designates the day with the least amount of sunlight. This day usually occurs on the 23 of December. When Emperor Constantine converted to Christianity, he made it is objective to convert the rest of the Roman empire. He knew that if you forced religion on people, then they would reject it, so he chose the celebration of christ’s birth to be at a time when a pagan holiday already existed. This allowed people to accept christianity while retaining their pagan traditions.

Beautiful you’re so smart. Give me a holiday hug. Got some mistletoe over here too. ;-)

By Page1908

December 21, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

LOL at having a Hunch Day blog meet-n-greet. Slim do we get to chose who we get to hunch on? LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

SlimOne I’m down for HUNCH DAY, but I’ll have to have something lined up afterwards just in case the activities stop at hunching. ;-)

By Demi

December 21, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

Beautiful….Dayum you Ms.Google LOL

SlimOne when youre with the right person…the foreplay hunching is a must!!

By Wise Diva

December 21, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

Sorry for being quiet this week, it’s been a crazy busy week!

I have been reading along silently, though, I didn’t have a whole lot to add to the lively umm, what can I call it..debates/discussions/fights/face-offs/whose is bigger contests. yeahhh, what a week huh?

You guys have a wonderful, happy, love-filled holiday weekend

I will see you in 08’ hopefully

Hugs all around!

By Beautiful

December 21, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

Dreamy i hope u and yours have a happy holiday. muah.

Wii daddy, TruthBaby, Rell, melo, Du, love ya!

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this

Slimone Yeah some HUNCHING….and some BLOWING…I’m down!! lol!

By melo

December 21, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

luv u too sugar,Beautiful..

By 5fromfifty

December 21, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

*@ By DreamsMaterialize * - not the bible but the dictionary Saturnalia- an orgiastic festival in ancient Rome in honor of Saturn, a wild gathering involving excessive drinking and promiscuity.

Dang!!! sumbodi dun peeped my hole card.

I am a true Cappy and we are ruled by the Planet Saturn.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

SlimOne I’m down for HUNCH DAY, but I’ll have to have something lined up afterwards just in case the activities stop at hunching. ;-)

By SlimOne

December 21, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

Page Nah, you don’t get a choice. You’ll just anonymously write your moniker down on a piece of paper and draw a name. LOL!

hint hint…binfords will be in red paper, so be sure not to grab his

By DreamsMaterialize

December 21, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

Beautiful happy holidays to you too. bet we’ll have some good stories when we all get back. lol

By Willie Dynamite

December 21, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Everyone have a safe and Happy Holiday Season!!!

By BLOW ME

December 21, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Everyone have a safe and blessed Christmas! See you peepz in the new year or maybe Monday…who knows.

By Demi

December 21, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Good Night and I’ll see Y’all in 2008

By SlimOne

December 24, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

Christmas Eve Bootleg Blogging

Anyone out there this mownin??

By Demi

December 24, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

SlimOne LOL…I am just passing thru…I thought Wise shut this B-ish down on friday, LOL…You have a great Day!!!

By SlimOne

December 24, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

Demi I see you passing through. I can’t believe I’m at work right now. Arrggghhhh!!! Well, either way, hope you have a great holiday.

P.S My Tina Turner karaoke impersonation went over rather well last night. LOL! However, too bad I had to turn into the Apollo Theaters SandMan on a group that went on after me, and tap danced their azzez off the mic’s. LMAO

By Demi

December 24, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

SlimOne Ooohh gurl, Ike is going to haunt you from the grave…LOL

By Demi

December 24, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Useless info:

Blogs Celebrate 10th Anniversary

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=17562078

By DreamsMaterialize

December 24, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

Hey just passing through too. SlimOne don’t stay at work too long. Want me to come up there and have a talk with ya boss? “I’ll make him an offer he can’t refuse” ;-)

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 8:25 AM | Link to this

hi every1. is it Friday yet? lol.

By SlimOne

December 26, 2007 8:42 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Morning. I see we’re the only ones up this early. How was your Christmas? For the most part I spent mine at home taking a nap and watching tv. Santa only stopped by my crib to use my restroom before finishing up his nightly duties. LOL!

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 8:51 AM | Link to this

it was ok. i wanted to be @ home in CA. i had to send my son to his dad’s in CA on xmas eve. we celebrated on Sunday. i hope some bloggers come out and play 2day. lol.

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

Slim girl, i can’t believe you worked on xmas eve. wth. who u work for so i can stay the h3ll away? lol.

By SlimOne

December 26, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

Beau Well this is peak season for my job….DHL. So it is what it is…I didn’t leave her until after 6 on Monday. I don’t have any kids so it really wasn’t too big of a deal for me.

By 2CPTG©

December 26, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

Hey Ladies……..da hell y’all doing ‘round here???

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this

Beautiful, SlimOne Good morning. Looks like it’s still xmas for all the other bloggers. lol Back on the grind for us though huh. How were your holidays?

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 26, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

Morning to all… or just Beautiful that is. It is not easy being here today, but somebodies got to do it.

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

Hi Fellas. I missed y’all. Xmas was ok, but would of been better to share it with someone.

What did Santa bring you?

By 2CPTG©

December 26, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Beautiful, were you feeling the blues being alone on christmas?

and ‘fo you ask, Naw, I didn’t find a Wii…..but I did Debo my lil cousins for theirs!!!!

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 26, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Well I got the ole’ faithful house-shoes and a house-coat. Yeah I got both last year too but its all good… GA got some rain I cant complain

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Beautiful I feel you. You still got new years though. ;-) I spent xmas with my son and daughter, so that was all the gift I needed. I won’t have them for new years though, so I gotta see where and with whom I’ll be sipping champagne for the countdown.

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

Wii daddy you should have been there. the boys were so excited. when kel ripped the paper his eyes said it all. it was h3lla funny. you actually crossed my mind at that moment.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 26, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Hello…hello…..wait..wait…iam here….ya’ll come back

By 2CPTG©

December 26, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

awwww, you thought of me……well, I knew my lil cousins would be gettig one, so I gave ‘em a chance to get the feel of it, then I was like ok, move!!!!

But I got some nice stuff…..my brother and his wife bought me some Unforgivable by Sean John, got some electronic gadgets, and a few bottles to add to the bar collection….

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

GA.Man i heard thru the grapevine that you wrote a book!

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 26, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Lolololol…yeah i got two out there….now that the cats outta the bag…hit me up at manswellp@yahoo.com

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Wii daddy i wanna smell. lean over here … … . lil more.

By Jazzyone

December 26, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

SO GA MAn I also heard that you used allot of posts from the blog and that it was a woman hater book..or condescending type of book to women..IS that true????

That cats been out the bag….so what is the book about???

By Demi

December 26, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

Jazzyone don’t be so negative bay, GA’s books are good reads though.

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

GA.Man just hooked a sistah up! imma get them soon and throw in my .02.

hey Demi!

By Jazzyone

December 26, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this

I was asking Demi not being negative thats the feedback I received thats why im asking what they are about thats all!

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Question First I want to say that I hope everyone is enjoying their holidays.

My question has to do with the blog. I’ve only been reading/commenting on the blog for a little while, but the blog has lots of personalities and lots of opinions, philosophies, etc. With all that is said here, have any of you ever taken the information here and applied it. Just curious about how useful the discussions on here have been to anyone. Any blog success/failure stories out there? lol

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

Dream i have, but i don’t want to comment on what i used. ;)

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this

Beautiful You can tell me…I guarantee confidentiality. Just whisper it in my ear. lol Ok, so was whatever you used successful? ;-)

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 26, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

Jazzyone no i didnt use anything from this blog….this is my material

i dont know who you got your info from but its wrong

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 26, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

Jazzy i will also say this…never assume or listen to bullish either.

i know who told you that and that person needs to woman up and say it….when/if you read my book you will see for yourself..it is no way like she said it

this is why i never put it out there like this…always got some haters out there trying to trash something you work hard for….

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

Dream haven’t got to that point yet in my life. i’ve come to the stage where that action coming from him is a cry for attention, that’s all. if there is a next time, no biggee. i’m learning to love a stronger way (if that makes any sense).

By Demi

December 26, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Jazzyone I was just teasing Big Sis…but hit GA up for the info

DreamsMaterialize Dude…Great Question…Bad as Hellz timing…Can you reask that question next week?..Been partying’n’working a bit too much, LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Well, as long as you’re the primary recipient of that “stronger” love, then it makes perfect sense to me. Hope the next guy appreciates that “stonger” love too. His loss if he doesn’t though right. ;-)

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

Demi LOL Yeah I know the timing wasn’t great. Today’s kinda slow at work and in the blog, so I was just throwing something out there.

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Dream yep. some1 told me not to long ago that marriage has nothing to do with love. i kinda believe them to a point. don’t get me wrong, i will be in love with my husband, but it won’t be number one on my must have list.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 26, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Dayuum, Inspector Truth caught you guys bootleg blogging. WTH!!! I hope everyone had a great xmas. Smooches for the ladies and masculine handshakes for the guys.

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

TruthBaby bootleg bloggin’ lmao!

i made the mac & cheese and want to give you a big kiss right now. it was very tasty.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

Beautiful I’ve been in a relationship where I wasn’t “in love”, and I had to get out. I couldn’t imagine being in a marriage for the rest of my life and not be in love. Don’t short yourself on love. The both of you deserve it.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 26, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Im glad it worked out for you. I hope you had a great day. Did you ever make it to cali?

By DreamsMaterialize

December 26, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this

Throwin up dueces to Truth and his Go Go Gadget Bootleg Blog Buster. lol

By Beautiful

December 26, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

no. my son did on monday, lucky dog. see y’all n da morning!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 26, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

Dreams not trying to get into a long love convo but insert respect in there somewhere. I think thats whats lacking in most relationships nowadays. Respect. I’ve said all I’m going to say and now back to the holiday festivities. LOL I’ll talk with you good people later. CYA

By Poppa Grande

December 26, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

Good afternoon to all,

I hope that all had or is having a wonderful holiday.

I’ve been married for 8 years and I can honestly say that I haven’t been “in love” every single day of those eight years. However, I have loved her everyone of those days.

Love is definitely a part of marriage, but not the only thing.

Its virtually impossible to be “in love” forever. The human body would be unable to sustain itself.

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 8:26 AM | Link to this

Happy Kwanzaa!

Topic for today:

What is the ingredients to a great marriage? Not a two year marriage, but a 50 year marriage. Inquiring minds wanna know. lol. Besides love, what else is there.

By 2CPTG©

December 27, 2007 9:00 AM | Link to this

what it do, Beautiful? are we alone, if so, you can come smell my cologne….

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Good Morning, all..

As I said, I have only been married 8 years. That would be a long time if we lived in Hollywood, CA.

My dad gave a speech during our reception and mentioned the following things: Love, Respect, and Trust.

He said : Love may have brought you together, but trust and respect will help you stay together. He went on to say that life will but into the love aspect of the relationship. For example, bills, kids, job etc has a way of interfering with your plans. Trust and respect in each other must be there to keep working towards a common goal.”

My wife and I remember those words and they came into play as soon as we got back from the honeymoon. As soon as we returned from Barbados (beautiful beaches, btw) she was called to go to Pittsburgh to assist in a trial. We returned from Barbados on Sunday and Monday afternoon she was in Pittsburgh.

Life happens.

BTW, My parents have been married for 46 years so, his words may have been one of the best gifts that we got on our wedding day. He knows from experience.

By Deacon Demi

December 27, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

Beautiful I think most couples are happy just hitting the five year mark…Personally, I really don’t feel marriages are even worth respecting anymore.

Demi is now thinking of dating a few married women from New Birth.

I’ve never ever done that before..naw!!

By Tazzee

December 27, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I see folks are bootleg blogging over here.

First of all before I get to the pleasantries, let me clear this up:

GA Man “i know who told you that and that person needs to woman up and say it….when/if you read my book you will see for yourself..it is no way like she said it” I SAID IT but I also said that I peeped a draft and I was going to check out the final version to see if you took my well intended advice. I said that some of the quotes I read were condescending to women and if you still have some of the same stuff that I recommended you change in the book, then I will say it again.

However, if you did take what I said to heart without an attitude like the first time I said it then you may have a good book on your hands. But when my friends ask me something, I’m not going to lie…just like when you asked me to check out your draft, I did not lie to you.

now that we got that out the way…

My Christmas was very nice, saw The Great Debaters last night and LOVED IT! Saw I am Legend Christmas Eve and I screamed all through the movie. Went on a WONDERFUL date last night and now I’m going to work out so I can have a nice lunch with some friends.

By pisces07

December 27, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

Beautiful. Compassion and acceptance, among other things.

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

Poppa i wish relationships weren’t so damn hard. why does it feel like a second job? and i agree about NOT being in love everyday, but still loving the person you’re with. and why does your partner get upset when you want a break, time alone or a week away? i feel like i’m being selfish sometimes, but i’m only human. besided what you mentioned, married couples needs to be more patient, listen more and hold hands more often.

Demi you silly, but your right. marriages aren’t lasting past the five year mark. newly weds don’t know it, but the first five is always the toughest. if you can get through that, then it’s worth working for.

Wii daddy i’m sorry about leavin’ that hickey on your neck. use a cold spoon to rub my lovin’ away. lol.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 27, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

Beautiful In addition to the things already mentioned, I think a good marriage takes team work. Both people have to determine what makes the marriage work and agree to do those things.

By Rell

December 27, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

ummmm bootyful…relationships are not hard….folks with there selfish azz’s makes them hard…there is no I in team..folks need to realize that

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

Rell hi babe. i’m workin’ on it. it’s not extreme with me, but sometimes i need a breather. WE ALL DO.

my homies want to add their .02:

By Rell

December 27, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

I agree with the list bootful..but folks too much on the tradition..dating changes with the times….i mean the first date was a club to the head until the white meat show..imagine that now..folks need to learn out of the box thinking when it comes to this dating thing..have fun

Marriage..same thing…the ideal marriage or model for marriage changes with the time as well…now i love the leave it to beaver model..but those times are gone….let me find something to post

By DreamsMaterialize

December 27, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

Beautiful In addition to the things already mentioned, I think a good marriage takes team work. Both people have to determine what makes the marriage work and commit to doing those things.

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Beautiful…

I think that life’s challenges makes it harder. However, in my case, it has never felt like a second job. However, we have no kids. I’ve just us.

I think that many guys (or maybe its just me) need that time away from the lady. I had a life before we met and I want to keep some aspects of it. My wife never gets upset when I want time with the fellas. She schedules time with her girls. After all, we both had friends before we met. We understand that.

I think that you have to know who you are marrying. Some couples are not big on PDA (Public Displays of Affection). Different kinds of people make for different kinds of relationships (hence the love language books). What works for one couple may not work for another. Holding hands works only if its in their personalties.

Personally, we don’t do alot of the PDA. We both understand that we that we are giving of our time to each other is precious. Wasted time is the one thing that no one can ever replace. Especially, given our situation, she is an attorney and I am currently in law school. Time is precious.

Now, when we are behind closed doors, its definitely something else.

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

Rell…I cosign yoru post.

Things change. Just think about how things were for you growing up. Our parents didn’t have to deal with internet predators, myspace, text messaging, etc. Parenting had to evolve to protect your children.

Why shouldn’t relationships and marriage? There are things that are different now than before. The core stays the same, but everything else changes with the times. There was a time that men didn’t want their wives to work. Now, its almost a necessity. The times changed. Women go out and get degrees, and enter the workfore now. June Cleavers is just about extinct.

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

i think June Cleaver still exist. the one problem i see with that is the number of years you guys want her to be JC. my moms next door neighbor, Vicky, is JC. But once her three kids graduated from high school, she was lost. i feel sorry for her. she has picked up some activities over the years and a little job, but she feels incomplete.

what would you do, as her husband, different in this case in the beginning and after the kids are gone?

By Deacon Demi

December 27, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

Beautiful is she married or single?? She sounds like one of those all about the lawd type, but left out this part…Jesus also laugh, LOL

By Deacon Demi

December 27, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

Like when are my mom and grandmother are going to catch on to the fact…I ain’t giving them no natural born kids??!!

Imma belike…These are your adoptive grandbabies, love them or hate them…LOL

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this

all about the lawd type lol.

they’ve been married for about 30 years. also, what would be perfect is to have your wife be JC until the kids are about 5 or 6ish. my .02.

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

Beautiful…

Since she has kids that have graduated HS, she more mature and comes from a time in which that was expected.

Its not expected anymore. Times are different. There a few Buckhead Bettys out there (Atlanta’s version of Desperate Housewives). However, the economy its tougher and tougher for a middle class family to have a housewife. Two incomes are pretty much needed these days. That’s why I say June Cleaver is extinct.

Also, I think the younger that you look the fewer JCs. Your mom’s neighbor has grown kids. The younger generation want some other purpose than just her kids. No woman that I know wants to sing the lyrics to Mary J. Blige’s “I ain’t gon cry no mo” From Waiting to Exhale.

As far as knowing the number of years, it goes back to knowing who you marry. If you marrry someone that want a woman to stay home and JC, you have to make it known that you have goals and aspirations of your own.

By SlimOne

December 27, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

Hey all Bootleggers

Did anyone here, hear Frank Ski this morning talking about us raising a generation of Punk lil boys? Your thoughts?

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

wassup Slim?

i’m guilty. doing my best, though. but we’re natural born nurturers. we can’t help that.

the topic should have been, “men, y’all need to man up and take responsibility”. stick around for awhile.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 27, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

Every one is entitled to thier own thoughts about anything in life…and yes Tazz…you have yours as well

My problem is when people make accusations about something they know nothing about…Yesterday your girl said i Used Quotes from this blog

That is not true and if she used you as her source then you both are wrong…

It is amazing how some people are…I guess i shouldnt be shocked

By Rell

December 27, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

@Slim….i agree with frank….there are alot of bench made lil crump snatchers out there…i seen a teenage boy hanging on the block with his boys…with a flucking hello kitty book bag….W.T.F

By DreamsMaterialize

December 27, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

Every generation says how the younger generation is so much worse than theirs was, but I do agree that their are some questionable tendencies in the generations coming up. You can even hear it in some of the songs. Cats talking about buying chains, cars, houses, shoes, gucci, dolce and gabbana…SHOPPING! “Hard” cats basically talking about shopping. lol

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

I agree 100%..which I why I’ve volunteered as a Big Brother. Its a shame that kids today want to shoot up a school because they were taunted. High School has always had bullies and those being bullied. Kids shooting up school and malls (as was done a couple a weeks ago) is a relatively new phenomenon.

As far as men needing to stick around, I agree.

However, Men going for the pack of cigarettes and disappearing is not a new phenomenon at all. It not right, but people act like its something new. It isn’t though.

By Deacon Demi

December 27, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

Beautiful I really have no dreams or goals to marry a woman as weak as Run’s wife…Li’Demi, will run a weak H0e to the ground…LOL

By 2CPTG©

December 27, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

shiiiid, Frank Ski ought not talk….his youngest is softer than hospital cotton! And such a mama’s boy….so his azz needs to take his own medicine….

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Dreamsmaterialize…

I agree, but I’ve also noticed that alot of songs are just commericial. Like you stated, name brands are mentioned alot. How many bottles of Crystal and Moet have been sold because of hip hop? Air Force Ones? Even Busta Rhymes was pumping a commerical with “Pass the C….”

Commericial radio = commericial songs.

You can go back a few years and take a look at the legendary Run-DMC and “Their Addidas” to see commercial music.

By 2CPTG©

December 27, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

shyt went downhill after the “Boomer” generation……..and since we’re speaking “real” here……a lot of old heads have also said integration also contributed to this mess!

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

I think integration has had a part.

However, there is a sissyfication of America in general. It not related just to our race. Boston had a bill to outlaw dodge ball. Monopoly now has a version with only debit cards and no cash!! (How will kids learn to deal with cash?) As I stated before, kids shooting up the joint because they got picked on.

When I was coming up, Sweet 16 parties were for girls. Now, MTV has this show that feeds the beast when it comes to creating a nation of spoiled little kids and males have these parties as well. Why give a 15 year old a Mercedes?

Sidenote:

There are plenty of good kids, but the bad ones get the press. But that is life…

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

i’m so tired of seeing american gangsta on bet. why do they glorify this stuff? the kids see this and think its so cool. that and rap together = doomed! poor babies. i’m glad my boys still watch disney channel.

By abc

December 27, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

Education statistics are among the most ominous. 50% of African American children won’t graduate with their class, quite a bit more than that for males only. Other statistics such as crime are side effects of that. Upon entering kindergarten, the average AA child will be developmentally 1 year behind peers of other ethnicity, with the gap widening to 4 years by high school. Is pop culture a contributor to such as this by providing such a poor role model? Perhaps.

Rell, what does ‘club to the head until the white meat show’ mean?

By Deacon Demi

December 27, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

2CPTG© kept it real…that little boy has been hunging around Ms.So….

Poppa Grande Flag football is going to be NFL next level of play. I don’t know much about football, but the amount of penalties these refs are calling, is getting bit ridiculous.

Soon looking at the oppositing team with an air of malice with get you fined….$25,000.00

Slim It’s not all the women fault though…and Hey to you!!!

Beautiful I am training Li’Demi mom not to fall for his angelic face…that boy is a monster!! LOL

She use to cuss me out for being harsh with him (only when it was called for), now that li’boy is driving her crazy, LOL

From a text just now: How come you handle him so well??

My reply:* You gotta learn to helm him up and love his a$$ in the same breathe!!

Meaning: I love him with my whole heart, but I am not afraid to discipline and tell him why he’s being punished…like how he sat up and ate all 12 of my big fat cookies and didn’t think to leave daddy one!! And then have the nerve to say(with a big grin),”I wuv U daddie!’”…

Oh Hell to the NAW!!!

That ISH aint flying this time!!

By SlimOne

December 27, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

Demi You make me laugh every time you tell one of your Lil Demi stories. LMAO! I sure did need that. I guess Prince knew what he was talking about in that song:

I hate U (I hate U)

Because I love U (Because I love U)

But I can’t love U (I can’t love U)

Because I hate U (I hate U)

By Poppa Grande

December 27, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

Demi..

The penalties are protection. I think that the owners want to protect the guy that they have decided to pay $100 million dollars like Peyton.

I don’t agree with it all, but I do think that some protection is needed. All you have to do is talk to some of the older players and most players don’t want to end up like many of them.

Players are bigger, faster, and stronger than they ever have been.

By Beautiful

December 27, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Demi i feel ya. my 13 yr old a little while ago balded his fists and stepped to me. i told him to bring it! he wanted to do something so bad, that his face turned red. he thinks i take his little brothers side all the time. i told him if he every hit me, his grandma, grandad, aunties, uncles, big daryl, err’body was going to fly in just to whoop yo azz! oh, and that’s after mom whoops yo azz!!!

By Deacon Demi

December 27, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

Players are bigger, faster, and stronger than they ever have been.

And are just as heartless…I understand.

Beautiful Heck, I was 12 and decided to take a swing at my mom…I never knew a flying pan can come at you so fast!!

I was the most laugh at cat in Scott’s project (Miami)that day…Even dem dope boyz respected my mom’s gangsta.

They be like: Mayne, Miss Nita doesn’t play!!

Slim For real, I by my mom gifts for no reasons throughout the year…for putting up with my baad behind…I love that Immabouttogetintosomeshytrightquick son of mine…He reminds me of..ME!!! LOL

Night All

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 8:17 AM | Link to this

Happy Rainy Morning to All!!!

Possible topics for 12/28/07:

**What are your dating resolutions for 2008?

Name some bad habits that would end a relationship with an SO?

Is appearance/how someone looks really that important? It’s been stated that if a date can’t hold a stimulating conversation, their out.

Please share with all the bootlegg bloggers your New Years Eve plans. Where’s the parties? Who will be bottle poppin’ Monday night?**

By SlimOne

December 28, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Seems you’re getting pretty good at the topic suggestion thing. Why do I get the feeling you’ve probably taken some of Wise’s or Bella’s topics. LOL!

What are your dating resolutions for 2008?

Um, I can’t say I really have any other than just try to always have a good time. I do think I probably need to tweek my Dating-Give-Up meter….meaning, knowing when all the “benefits of a doubt” have run out. I’m guilty of always assuming there’s some good in all of us. Frankly, we all aren’t as sweet as I can be…we all don’t have the best intentions.

Is appearance/how someone looks really that important? Appearance is important but I don’t expect a person to look like they just finished up a professional photo shoot. Just like, I believe it was Chris Rock or Dave Chappelle, but if you aren’t a bum don’t wear the bum uniform. Vice versa Clean nails & brushed hair on a dude is definitely a big thing for me.

New Years Eve Plans So far I have none. Seems like everyone is saying the same thing….They don’t know what they are going to do. I’d actually be cool just having some champagne at the crib with a few friends tripping out.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 28, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this

I am having a birthday day party..my day is actual bday is Jan 1st the party in New Years Eve….

By JustMe

December 28, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Y’all

What are your dating resolutions for 2008?

I have no new resolutions; just keep it real at all times and if I ain’t happy, there will be no peace in his life j/k

Name some bad habits that would end a relationship with an SO?

no call/no show I don’t give a reats azz how many hours you worked, pick up the friggin phone and say look boo, I can’t make it.

Is appearance/how someone looks really that important? It’s been stated that if a date can’t hold a stimulating conversation, their out.

Yes to a certain degree, if I can manage to get cleaned up and put on clean clothes, I expect that you should do the same, and be well groomed and smelling good. Looks …….. well beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and to me looks are not everything

Please share with all the bootlegg bloggers your New Years Eve plans. Where’s the parties? Who will be bottle poppin’ Monday night?

**I will be at work with a bunch of rock and roll concert goers. Can you say “Wide Spread Panic”? The name is an accurate description of this event. There motto is “Rules? what rules? Dude, did you know they had rules?”

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

Happy B-Day GA!

My dating resolution is to be out there more. I’m a homegirl and love to stay inside. I’ll be doing more clubbin’, events, etc.

How someone looks isn’t important to me. If he portrays himself as a protector and the vibe is right, it’s a go.

I let a guy go because of the things he wanted to do in the bedroom. I just couldn’t do it. Plus, the brotha snored too loud! It was really bad.

No plans for me on Monday. But I’m a last minute person. At 6pm I wouldn’t be surprised if i jumped up and headed out the door.

Cheers!

By Rell

December 28, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this

I am going to sex party bootiful on new years…going to get my FREAK ON…lol..period…

dayum the dating resolution…and yes appereance matters, ladies men are visual creatures..so keep your sexy….ummm other than that in 08 black people VOTE VOTE VOTE VOTE VOTE…lets get passionate about our youth and community..stop all the dayum finger pointing…the fault is your own..there is happiness to be found..

Law 10

Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky

You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as disease. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead.

READ A BOOK — try something different..dont be afraid of change….feel me

By pisces07

December 28, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Morning. 2008 Resolutions… to be more receptive to dating/relationship. Looks can be important, but not as much as chemistry.

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

pisces07 sex chemistry is a must!!! sitting at work, thinkin’ about yo sexy azz and wanting some. now that’s what’s up!

By Demi, the God of War

December 28, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

climbing up step-ladder for the last time this year

Heeey JustMe!!!

GA.man I just know you were neglected as a child…Cause there is no way in Hellz Imma buy you any more gifts right after Xmas LOL

Happy B-day weekend Bruh!!!

I’ll be doing more clubbing’, events, etc

Beautiful I hope to run into you in 2008, LOL hehehe hehehe

SlimOne just set a goal of being a better judger of men characters in 2008…trust me, even the most slickest cat slip up time to time…just give them enough rope to hung themshelves!!

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 28, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Rell i agree with the second part of your post….very well said

Please go Vote…if you dont you cant COMPLAIN about nothing….

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

y’all gotta read that story about tatiana (tiger). im furious! how dare they blame this on the 3 boys. the wall was not tall enough. period! it should have been 16 feet high NOT 12!!!

ok, i’m done venting … … .

By abc

December 28, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

While the zoo’s construction was inadequate to completely contain the tigers, I find the story a poetic object lesson in that the boys taunting the animal considered themselves completely safe to commit such harassment. It’s sad that both the boys and the tiger had to suffer, but the cause wasn’t inadequate containment, it was harassment by the boys. The lesson to learn is: hassle the beast, pay the price.

By Cemeeli

December 28, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

Hi freinds! waving

I don’t believe you all are up in here!!!! …Me; just scanning a couple sites (comparing $$$ Christmas vs. After Christmas $$$)decided to check AJC and wallah…i see some of us have hijacked the blog…just some sraight up SOULJA’s in here! Lol :-)

By pisces07

December 28, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

Beautiful. What’s your e-mail address?

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli i’m a blog addict. i had to break in somehow. lmao.

abc tatiana has been harrassed by thousands, i’m sure, every single day and so have other animals. it is their responsibility to protect us from them. your response shocks me to death. why is it that all the other zoos in the U.S. have walls 16 foot high or higher. ???

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

pisces07 do you have myspace? add me. i should start a myspace page for AJC bloggers. what y’all think?

angeliquegeorgia@yahoo.com

By abc

December 28, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

The enclosure in question was built in 1940 and never before has such an attack took place. There was human blood and a shoe found inside the enclosure, indicating that at least one of the boys went over the fence of their own volition. In legal terms, that would constitute negligent or intentionally tortious on behalf of the boys.

The animals are harassed by thousands?! Tell me, have you ever seen anyone harassing the animals at Zoo Atlanta? If they did, I’d hope they’d be removed from the grounds immediately, if not beat up by other zoo patrons.

By pisces07

December 28, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this

Beautiful. Good idea on the Myspace…

By Demi, the God of War

December 28, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

Beautiful that big cat leap 33ft across and 14 feet up…that was one hell of a leap!!!

I have a feeling a 16 feet wall wouldn’t stop that cat.

Them boys did something stupid!! Had they been black (while most blacks don’t fear bullets, we do fear them big cats)…ISHhhhhh, animal rights would have come down on them like the force of God, LOL

So in closing (ha ha), the zoo needs to sue them and their family for raising such foolish sons!!!

By Demi, the God of War

December 28, 2007 11:49 AM | Link to this

And B, I know as a mother, your heart goes out to them poor little boy/faking twenty-something…As a man and a father, I can’t excuse their folly..no one bit.

By SlimOne

December 28, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

Demi I’m mad they shot and killed the tiger for doing what it naturally does. Reminds of that video of the Circus Elephant rampage a few years back. Everyone and everything has it’s breaking point.

Slim now pouncing, stomping, and slapping her way to her bosses desk….”I’m fed up!”

By Rell

December 28, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

I feel sorry for the trainer being a man but being jumped by flucking cowards..to me is more important than some dayum cats that should be in the wild anyway..dude fighting for his life over defending his friends - o yea they were the mayors daughters!!!!!….bench made homo-thug types are messing up the game….real men need to stand up

By Demi, the God of War

December 28, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this

SlimOne nice kitty nice kitty…Now you got me thinking of you wearing a cat woman costume…MEOW

RELL for them dude to be taking pictures…the Hell them girls had on??

By Tazzee

December 28, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

Afternoon Folks!

Beautiful - now I can comment on this topic, couldn’t comment on the marriage thing.

What are your dating resolutions for 2008? I’m in the process of developing a relationship with a very interesting man. My current resolution is to give this relationship a good try.

Name some bad habits that would end a relationship with an SO? I have to agree with JustMe on the no call/no show. Also repeated tardiness.

Is appearance/how someone looks really that important? Appearance is important because there must be something to draw me in…

It’s been stated that if a date can’t hold a stimulating conversation, their out. For me, that is definitely true. If a man can’t stimulate my mind, we can’t get much further.

Please share with all the bootlegg bloggers your New Years Eve plans. Where’s the parties? Who will be bottle poppin’ Monday night? Still unsure on that one. May just have a quiet night in watching movies or something.

By SexyCool

December 28, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

i resolve the same resolution every year…i resolve not to resolve a dayum thing…lol…

Ha-PEEEE Neeeew YEEEEAAAAARRRR!!!!

By JustMe

December 28, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

Hey Demi

By Beautiful

December 28, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

Hey SexyCool! Where you been? Hope Santa brought you what you wanted. :)

Tazzee good luck with your new boo. i’m always excited when someone finds new love. have fun! don’t forget about the mistletoe.

By Tazzee

December 28, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Beautiful Thanks, I think I’m going to get a mistletoe tat on my forehead ;-)

Have a great weekend folks!

By Demi, the God of War

December 28, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

The WTH!!?? post of the day

i’m always excited when someone finds new love…I feel the same way…that’s the sad part

Ridding myself of loving feelings…Demi is now growing horns and welding a spear…

Tazz Have fun…now taking bet for how long dude can kept Tazz entertained, before she dump ole boy, LOL

JustMe May you have a bless new year!!