Misadventures in Atlanta

By binford

December 19, 2007 8:29 AM | Link to this

Passing out some Dunkin’ Donuts coffee and some munchkins to the blog

I’ve stopped giving compliments all together. The females I know can’t seem to handle them or don’t feel good about themselves - thus thinking I’m making fun of them. Shame about that because I give good compliment.

I do agree that some people (guys and girls alike) exude the creepy vibe when giving a compliment. These folks can’t help the creep that is inside them and should cease and desist their creepy complimentary compliments all together. Either that or find a person that is equally creepy. Then they can hold hands and compliment each other creepily all day in the land of the creeps.

Q: Why don’t women compliment men more?

By Dan

December 19, 2007 8:31 AM | Link to this

Okay so maybe this is weird.

I will tell a woman, when it’s appropriate that she looks really good. Something along the line of: “No come-on, but you’re an attractive woman.”

The reason I do it is 1) becuase it’s true, and 2) maybe hearing a good looking stranger tell you that you are attractive will make your day.

On the flip side, I like to be complimented as well (i.e. nice shirt, shoes, smile, etc), and I take it as the banal statement it was meant to be.

Personally, I will tell a woman that I find her attractive (if I do) and it’s not a come on, not trying to get at you, just said what came to mind.

So ladies, the next time a man proffers a compliment, don’t think “he just want the puddy” (And I mean you Staceye). Sometime an acknowledgement of that kind is simply an acknowledgement of facts.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this

Good Morning all,

I take compliments well..I mean I dont let it go to my head. I remain modesty and humble. No doubt I am a cutie and this is expected..but I’m more than just good youthful looks. I want to get complimented on my character then my cute looks.

I usually give compliments when I have had 2-3 shots of patron, 3 bottles of Corona….There is no tellIN what I am bond to say at that point.The most I will do is give eye contact and a soft smile. Riding a guys nuts is out of the question. Not only that it’s desperate. Damn the ratio!

Most of the time I feel as if a woman should lay back in the cut and let a man take the lead. But on the same note I think it’s okay to give compliments to guys…..DECENT ones…But being THIRSTY is never a good look!

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 8:46 AM | Link to this

Man o man am I struggling today

Binford some people (guys and girls alike) exude the creepy vibe when giving a compliment. I do agree with you here. A nice sweet simple compliment is okay but when you overdue it and keep telling me you love the way my forearm and bicep connects at the elbow, then you are in the CreepyMans RedZone.

Tip’s

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this

Binfold

Some women may see it’s a desperate attempt to snag a man. Or they may be shy and feel the man is suppose to make the move.

I feel like it’s a little of both. When I do compliment a man…it’s what I really mean. And the times I have done it (sober) the guys usually blush and give a shy smile.Don’t even get me on when I am buzzing, I will really say what’s on my mind!!! lol! But being over the top and thirsty….is a bit much. I have seen “When complimenting MEN goes to far” it looks so sleazy & a very THIRSTY!

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 8:49 AM | Link to this

good morning Binford & Dan. smooches.

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

Morning….

3 comments got me cracking up already!!!! Blow Me yous’a fool!!! You gotta be tipsy, eh, to give out compliments….and binford, since you think females run the world, I would naturally think you’d be handing out compliments left and right….

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 19, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

Morning All!!!

Dan I do give men compliments! Sometimes they think I am trying to hit on them when I am not, but I find that men are very receptive to compliments. If a man can tell me that I am attractive why cant I do the same?

As far as accepting a compliment, it does depend on the delivery. If you are sizing me up like a Porterhouse Steak, licking your lips and telling me how good I look then I wont be as receptive. A compliment should feel like…a compliment. You shouldnt feel like you’ve been violated! LOL

binford thanks for the donuts and coffee…I’ll take a blueberry donut please

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 9:00 AM | Link to this

People really overthink things nowadays. When folks compliment me, I accept it and say thank you. I have no problem complimenting men either. I prefer to compliment guys on the things they do (like picking a great restaurant) then just physical stuff. But if you are fine, you are fine and I’m going to tell you.

If I think you are giving me a backhanded compliement or a vulgar or creepy one, I’ll tell you why I have a problem with what you said. It doesn’t usually change anything, but at least I’ve said my peace.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

Maybe the question should be how well do MEN handle compliments. Sometimes when a chick compliments a guy, he takes that as Oh yeah, she wants to give me some puddy. Unless I roll up on you and say, I love the way your pants bulge in the front…

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

I have a friend who has one of the largest azzes west of the Mississippi. Because of this, she will cuss a man out if he ever tries to compliement her on her backside. She’s gotten so many vulger and inappropriate comments, that she doesn’t feel any of them are sincere (and really can their be a sincere compliment on that part of your anatomy? LOL). Even if a guy is just trying to tell her she has a nice shape, she’ll bite your head off. It’s sad, because it automatically puts her on guard everytime a man approaches her and opens her mouth. She says she’d get a butt reduction in a heartbeat if it were possible.

To some degree, I’m wary of guys who compliment me on my lips…but I try to give guys the benefit of the doubt on that one.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 19, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

MO I am cosigning your 8:50 post

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this

Morning, everyone.

“Guys, do you find that women have a hard time accepting your compliments?”

My thoughts are that difficulty accepting compliments is not so much gender-related as it is the product of a person’s background and life-experiences. Even a person’s birth order can be a contributing factor.

From the standpoint of one’s background, a person who grew up in an environment not conducive to affirmation and positive reinforcement will not feel comfortable receiving complimentary words because they’ve never received them before. From a birth-order standpoint, if you happen to be a middle-child (like me) it can be more difficult for you to receive compliments, because you’re so used to trying to please everyone and prove that you “measure up” to your younger and older siblings (who normally get all the attention simply by virture of their being first and last born.)

All this is not to say that such behavorior cannot be changed. It definitely can. I’m just putting forth a different perspective than that of simply male/female.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog..Giving females compliments these days is tricky..and depends on how u do it and how they view you..you can go from “he” is sweet to dude is a perv real quick…Because if they aint feeling you..they are offended when u compliment them ..plus being that women are very insecure about features that us men compliment on and like..you have to becareful how u word it…

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 19, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Maybe the question should be how well do MEN handle compliments. Sometimes when a chick compliments a guy, he takes that as Oh yeah, she wants to give me some puddy. Unless I roll up on you and say, I love the way your pants bulge in the front…

Slim girl you are a mess!!! I almost spilled my hot tea, laughing at you..

By chrissy

December 19, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

blindfold I give compliments to the man I am dating all the time…he loves it. I compliment him on the little things as well as the big…you should see his eyes light up…I do agree that women don’t do a good job complimenting our men. Ladies….men respond to compliments…they will go out of their way for you.

I think its hard for ladies to take compliments from strangers because we don’t know their motives.

By chrissy

December 19, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

slimone LoL

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

i’m too shy to give a guy i don’t know a compliment. to walk up to a handsome man and say whatever is hard for me. but if i’m dating that person, i give compliments all day and night.

i only like to hear compliments if they are true. if i think you’re tryin’ to get some, then i know wassup. i get compliments on my smile and hair alot.

By Rell

December 19, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this

WAY THE FLUCK OFF TOPIC…..WHITEY HAS GONE TO FAR…LOOK AT THIS ISH

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By 24 Single in Atlanta

December 19, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Reading the comments just confirms why I am very selective in dating in Atlanta or really anywhere.

As for compliments I can take them easily if they are sincere it’s the immature compliments that are the worst. Yes, I know what I look like and yes, THEY are real and YES I work out. So whats the point? You got anymore than that guys? Any substance, anymore interest than just the physical? Usually that is what is intended by most guys compliments, they want to get you into bed and think that that is the best way. For some women, desperate and with low self esteem maybe. But if a guy wants something classier then he has to be sincere and genuine.

As a professional woman in a male dominated profession I get asked out often and more often than not I am disappointed within the first hour. They either think way too much of themselves or are so self centered they don’t need anyone else. I have only met a few that are genuine and looking for a relationship rather than a ‘hook up’. I’m not talking marriage here either, just a relationship or friendship. As for the guys who base their self worth and attractiveness on muscles or their flirting and come on lines…to most women, or mature women anyway that all is shallow and immature. But I guess there is always a women who will fall for that so why not try right? This woman is looking for mature, level headed men who are confident in who they are and not cocky. I know they are out there but it is getting very tiresome going through the jerks. I guess I will keep looking though, you just never know what the next date holds.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville.

This shyt is getting scary. When you want to give a compliment just walk up and do so. As long as your not salivating or the chick doesn’t have her azz on her shoulder all should be fine. If you can’t even give/receive a compliment maybe you have a problem with the opposite sex that a therapist can help you with.

Blow Me it would be worth it to get you drunk and watch you act a fool. Something tells me you your a riot out there.

Binford take your middle finger and insert it between your legs to check for moisture. Dudes don’t bring breakfast, there’s a gang of women to do that.

By binford

December 19, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this

chrissy

blindfold?

What gives?

By pisces07

December 19, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Morning All… Today’s society dictates a soft walk through the field of compliments. A workplace “no-no”…. With that said, all of the WLB are fine.

By Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

December 19, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

Morning to ALL- The females I know can’t seem to handle them or don’t feel good about themselves - thus thinking I’m making fun of them - I get this one all the time maybe they see me as the sarcastic mean dude, not sure but I tell women nice things about them selves all the time. Then give me the OOH you tryin to be funny face tho…

what up Red- Since I pay great attention to ladies like your friend I know exactly what you mean. The crazy thing is a lot of those types will have on sum’n flattering to show it off. But knowing how they are AND what they go thru wit these cornballs. I take it easy and just say hi…

By M.

December 19, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

I usually try to compliment on something that is not obvious, but can women sometimes take this the wrong way because they have not heard it before? Something like,

“I really like you demeanor”, or You have a joking personality?

@BlowMe

Its funny you said thirsty. That’s what we call it in Chicago too

By M.

December 19, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this

I usually try to compliment on something that is not obvious, but can women sometimes take this the wrong way because they have not heard it before? Something like,

“I really like you demeanor”, or You have a joking personality?

@BlowMe

Its funny you said thirsty. That’s what we call it in Chicago too

By TRACY

December 19, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

BINFORD DON’T FEED THE TROLL. THAT WASN’T NICE. THANKS FOR BREAKFAST.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

Welcome 24 Single, nice to see some young blood on the blog.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 19, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

I was out with some female friends of mine one night at Taboo2. I was out to have a blast. This older gentleman came to the table and asked two of my girlfriends a question. Their attitude and responses were sooooo uncalled for…it was like he irritated them to no end. I felt really bad for the guy. When he left I asked them…what exactly did he do wrong? Was it the fact that he thought you guys were attractive enough to want to introduce himself to you? Or the fact that you stood out to him as someone worth approaching? I knew it was the fact that they felt he was too old and that he shouldn’t have even tried to speak to them, but after the conversation they understood that all he was really doing was playing them a compliment!

I say all that to say that I’m very gracious when ANYONE gives me a compliment. I don’t spend much time wondering whether it’s sincere or not or evaluating the source. I’ll just take that it as someone trying to be nice and bring a smile on my face.

I’ll give a guy a compliment if we engage in a conversation. I’ll tell him that he’s handsome if I think so or nice arms….it’s innocent and a nice gesture!

By Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

December 19, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

24- You got anymore than that guys? Any substance, anymore interest than just the physical? - while I fully understand where you are coming from on this I have to ask. What do expect from a man who a) has never seen you b4? b) does not know a thing about you? c) May be a gym rat himself and is GINUNELY attracted to mature professional women who take the time to stay in GREAT shape?

Again I am not knockin you on this but please enlighten me. Do you expect him to say somethin that has never been said before? Or perhaps read your mind?

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

Truth What can I say about you that hasn’t been said about afghanistan….You are bombed out and depleted! lol!

From the things you have said truth I don’t know if I want to get drunk around you. Ain’t no tellin what kind of compromising position I’ll end up in. lmao!

By Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

December 19, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

Rell- I have to admit the Cheney joint is funny tho…

By binford

December 19, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

The Truth

If I was going out to get stuff anyway - what would be the diff? Consideration is a good trait, especially when you are first through the door.

Believe me when I say that though your witty quips on a blog may proport you to be the antiquated model of “masculinity” - that when real life comes in to practical application, there’s plenty of testosterone under this manhood.

I get enough of that tough guy sh$t in the sports I play and pretty much drop them all on their azzes. And I’d be willing to wager you couldn’t even hang in that environment.

By melo

December 19, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

She says she’d get a butt reduction in a heartbeat if it were possible. AmazonR does she have a man, coz if she does and he is fine with it, no need to reduce.If the az is big,uweh! and am imgining holding it by the side..ahhh.Can i talk to her?

Now Wise and u ladies, is it vulgar to compliment a woman on her breasts if u think they sit on her chest perfectly?Just asking coz i want to come correct to u ladies.I see some nice cuped breasts all the time and dont know how to compliment. On the subject, ur eyes will always tell if ur compliment is sincere or sincere but coded with i want to jump on u.But there is nothing wrong in complimenting and getting a good feedback and wide smile and then getting ur convo on!!

By M.

December 19, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

@24 Single in Atlanta I really agree with your comments regarding the dating scene here in Atlanta. I am also 24 and single and like you said have been disappointed at times. From the lying female pastor (yes Im putting her on blast) to the excessive casual daters, Atlanta has all kind of dating types. On paper, it looks great, the ratio of women to men is quite high, but once you cut through the fat, you really are left with one or two possibilities. I am sick of meeting women that only date football players, that have various hang-ups regarding a potential mate but who do not really have much to offer. Don’t get me wrong, I really like Atlanta, but my advice would be for people to know what they are dealing with and not to stay with someone just to have someone. Don’t be afraid to cut your losses and move on.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

@ DDdimples….dont know if your friends are young…but u see that in a lot of younger females…their attitudes are the worst..sounds like a older cat approach them like a man should in a respectable manor and they didnt even feel he should even speak to them…then ..the SAME type females will let some one they like or is feeling…TOTALLY disrespect them verbally and physically….and even think its cute….women like that turn bitter towards men when they get older..

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

Binford

Obviously you are a newbie..

But the regulars know The Truth is just pulling your tail.

Not only that he’s tryin to get a blog war started. As he does day after day! lol!

By DasV

December 19, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

LOLROTF there is a man-law about bringing b’fast even on the blog that is sooo funny! Pasta T why you starting so early this morning??!

ON TOPIC

darrell you talk too dayum much. save that mess you posted at 913am for your site. on the blog, you couldve left at:ppl period have problems accepting compliments and while i am on that post, imma tell ya as a middle child that is not the reason i have a problem accepting compliments… i have a problem because i am shy… and cause i sometimes wanna give up the puddy but i dont want him to know i want to…. sometimes you just dont know how to respond to ‘i am feelin you’. sometimes the hardest thing is to shoot straight. i like ladys take: to just be gracious and ride wit it.

RELL they attacking their own too, so i aint mad. and dont you be either.

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. Binford, I compliment men all the time because I know they too like to be complimented. I will compliment on your shirt, pants, suit, etc. A compliment goes very far in a person’s day. When I am complimented, I say thank you each time. The tone of a compliment is extremely important.

By abc

December 19, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this

Don’t give a compliment to a female coworker that you wouldn’t give a male coworker.

Limit compliments to the obvious: ‘nice dress’, ‘you’re having a good hair day’, ‘you look fabulous today’. If you’re feeling platonic about the compliment, don’t give it, unless it’s to your date or SO.

A compliment given in the appropriate spirit is a lot easier to accept graciously than a veiled attempt to leer or condescend.

By Jill

December 19, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

darrell you talk too dayum much umm wtf? Isn’t that like the pot calling the kettle black? DasV, with all your long and pointless, pseudointellectual comments, you have no room to talk. Really.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

melo, my friend is engaged and her man does like her backside but so what? SHE doesn’t like it and that is the person who matters.

As for the breast compliments…I’d say it’s best to just leave that alone. Women know what they are working with in that area…it really doesn’t need complimenting. Compliments on those type of parts usually border on harrassment instead of sincerity.

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

Ared I can identify with your well endowed girl. I go off when guys compliment me. Well…not all. If you say something pertaining to my body then yeah…I will snap on you. You get tired of dudes thinking that you are some T&A tramp who only has just that and no brians or class. I too have toyed with the idea of a booty reduction. I got it down some with diet and excercise. You can’t help if God gave you extra helpings in certain departments…but you should not be made to feel like a piece of meat on a platter because of it. Now if a guy says I look nice, smell good or compliments my outfit….then I will smile and thank him. There is a fine line between complimenting and downright disrespecting. And I think a lot of men do not know how to stay on the complimenting side.

I do compliment guys..but then they think you want them. Why is that? Can’t I just tell you that you smell good or your outfit is nice, etc.? I agree with Slim…unless I come up and say I want you do do me 6 ways from Sunday…that does NOT mean I want to be cocked up in your bed!Some of them may not be my type…but if something is nice on him…I want to let him know that it is noticed.

Binford there is nothign wrogn with bringing breakfast…that men don’t bring breakfast is so old school male sexist piggish! Do you babe! I love doughnuts!

Blow me We say Thirst in NY too girl!

By melo

December 19, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

Why would a 24 year old girl,girl, have any problem in dating, really?As a man i never faced this problem at that age, let alone at 35.But to come on here at 24 at say, what? Is it that big of an issue/problem at that age to not find a man? The only think i see is being 24 and tired, because u were hyperactive between 16 and 23 and now u all but played out.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

Augh. Today is moving slow as molasses. Why am I here? I think a sharp stick in the eye would be less painful then trying to do “work” for the rest of the day.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

Exactly M…so on point!! sooo on point!

On paper, it looks great, the ratio of women to men is quite high, but once you cut through the fat, you really are left with one or two possibilities

Exactly that’s 10 to 1 is a bunch of bs FLUFF!!

Here is my take on the 10 to 1…I am gonna break it down

3 are die hard Lesbos so that leaves you with 7

3 have 3 kids and 4 baby daddies! ( Do the math) so that leaves you with 4.

1 is locked up…down to 3

2 of them are bonafide whorish…passed through to a few of your homies that leaves you 1

And that one …..you can’t see her because you too busy caught up with the other 9 to which you still haven’t figured out you are wasting your time.

So by the time you get to her you are all bitter and played out and think she is nothing more than a big waste of time and something to do. So damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Usually you end up shooting yourself in the foot.

By abc

December 19, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

edit: if you’re not feeling platonic about the compliment, don’t give it unless to your date or SO.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 19, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

hmmm I will take your compliment in the spirt it is given. If you say… “You look nice today.” I will say thank you and smile.

If you say something to the effect of… “What up shawty nice rack.” You will get the look that can cut diamonds.

I absolutely beyond any doubt hate for someone to call me shawty or refer to my breast as a rack.

Now as for complimenting guys. I compliment the ones I know. If it is a coworker, friend, SO and they are looking nice I will tell them. But I am not one to compliment random dudes on the street or in the mall.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

@ M and 24 To your respective points, the frustrations of dating in Atlanta aren’t limited to those in their 20s (not that either of you impied that.) Such frustrations are equal-opportunity and run the gamut of age ranges. I’m in my 40s and experience very similar frustrations when it comes to meeting a woman who is, as you put it, “mature” and “level-headed”. I would add to those attributes someone who is modest and humble, meaning someone who is not so confident in themselves that they think they don’t need anyone.

I believe that in the context of a committed relationship, the biggest compliment anyone can give to another person is “I need you”. As singles, we need to be willing to risk being more transparent as opposed to trying to show we don’t need anyone for anything at anytime. After all, we were created to need each other, not the other way around.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 19, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

melo for me personally…NEVER compliment me on my lovely lady curves…too suggestive. Your eyes will tell it all anyway…women can tell when your eyes are roaming. That starts to unnerve me…trying to look a man in his eyes and you can’t because he’ stuck at your boobs!

SJ you may have a point there…

By Got that?

December 19, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

If you compliment someone and they take it the wrong way, it’s not your problem, it’s their problem. So, don’t worry about it. You said what you said with the best intentions. How they listened to it indicates what they were thinking regardless of who you are and what you said. Something from the past got activated and they’re responding to that.

By Rell

December 19, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

@abc….Don’t give a compliment to a female coworker that you wouldn’t give a male coworker.

^^^true, works in dating as well…

By DasV

December 19, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

i love it when ppl hide behind fake monikers… jill bay, me and mr.d have an understanding…. but thanks for takin offense for him. and be sure anytime you think i am gettin wordy to call me out, but not wit a mask on, k??

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Merry Morning People

Truth i think binford is trying to relieve me of the brkfst duty today. It’s cool right?…blog ppl had this dicussion *(women should not be expected to do the work ALL the time.)

Slim i’m waiting on numero 3.

DasV I missed my early bird w/ Macy’s this morning…trying it at lunch today. (before 1pm right?) that will be a 3hr today, since i did not go out for lunch yesturdaylol.

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

Melo a compliment to a woman that you do NOT know about any body part below her neck can be taken as vulgar….but then let me rephrase that…do not tell a woman she has nice d#ck sucking lips and not expect to get cursed out or kicked in the gnads!!! No breast, butt,legs compliments to be on the safe side! I have had a guy compliment my ankles before…which I thought was weird…until he says some women have “cankles” calves and ankles both the same size! That explains it! Guess I will keep working out so I do not develop a “Twaist” * t!ts and waist all in one*!

abc I agree…to avoid sexual harrassment charges..keep it to a minimum!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

Das My bad. I seem to have this really bad habit of speaking in complete, coherent sentences all the time.

:-/

By Demi

December 19, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

Q: Why don’t women compliment men more?

You must be a “Bair Underwood” class dude in order for them to compliment you..at all. Maybe you are just plain ugly, but believe you’re not (I am just being a prick)

I want to get complimented on my character then my cute looks.

Ish, we’re just trying to break ice/wo being called ‘a male w*******’. So we don’t know much about your character yet…yo crazy a$$ J/K’n

2CPTG© It’s too early to be starting ish bruh…Let me wake up first

Slim said while dry humping air Give me a complement…

AmazonRed aka Ms.Lips…yes you do LOL

Darrell I am proud of you bruh!! It must be hard confining your thoughts into one or two paragraphs at times LOL

On subject (for once)

Being a half way decent looking brother (a many steps away from being called a troll), I get away with murder time to time. Blow, on the real, if I know the woman, I will compliment a woman on her character in a heart beat. For me, I love putting smiles on women faces…about 80% of the time anyway.

Beside, you never know what a person may be going through…I see nothing wrong with saying a few positive words and keep it moving!!!

Just because Lips’n’Eyes’n’Slim’n’Foots (y’all are under 33, so I am straight lumpin y’all for no reasons) gave you the gas face, doesn’t mean a JustMe, Bre, Ms.Legg, or Tazz will

CeeCee, forgot your age boo…Here are two complimentary blog lap dance coupons…Now removing business suit and placing on a jersey’n’sweat pants and eyeing CeeCee hungrily…Ready when you are.

Theme song of the day:

Bump’n’Grind

By M.

December 19, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

@BLOWME

Thanks again. Oh and dont forget about the crazy males and females…

My friend was dating a guy and she broke it off, the next week, her 37” Plasma tv was stolen from her home.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

STACEYE Yall say:

* Mad THIRSTY* LOL!!

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

Lol @ BlMe ratio breakdown. I needed that laugh this morning.

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

ARED my friend is engaged and her man does like her backside but so what? SHE doesn’t like it and that is the person who matters THANK FOR THAT!! I do not know where people get off saying if her man likes it….its not about him…its about how she feels about it. She has to look at it everyday and deal with the dirty stares and the constant sea of damns* everytime she walks by heterosexual men! Screw whather man thinks! I feel your girl’s pain. For real!

BTW…today is moving slowly…I am ready to be out!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Binford don’t come back with the old “I got testosterone flowing like the nile river”. And your chances of putting me on my azz in anything are slim to none and you know where Slim is. BTW, even in this cross gender society we live in we all have lanes that need to be adhered to. Thou thinkest you doeth to many lane changes. I’m starting to think your RandyT. You really have been brainwashed if you think “masculinity” is antiquated. Its in more demand than ever thanks to sensitive/feminine types like you. Finally, thanks for the donuts and can you bring me a cup of coffee. Thanks hun.

Blow I wouldn’t take advantage of you while you was drunk. I’d wait till you fell asleep. LOL

By melo

December 19, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Amazon, good that ur friend has a man.Trust me, that is the anatomy that struck him 1st before he realized she had more than what met his eye.He may not say it(i think she knows but wont tell others), but i know from a man’s perspective thas what ususally happens when u get attratced to somebody.Good that she cannot downsize, coz she may lose that man. Uhh, i like big azz!!

By M.

December 19, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

@Darrell (of blackthen.com)

Excellent point!

By DasV

December 19, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

mr.D there you go again wit that 1015 post… but you up’d your game wit that 1019. do yo thang, bruh. i just think some of the rhetoric could be let go of…. jmho.

CEE awww gurl… but no worries. the presale yesterday was until 1pm. today the sale is through 10 tonight. you good. dont take a 3 hour lunch … LOL missing lunch yesterday cant count toward your time anywhoo… but nice try. LOLROTF

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

I’m sorry…I don’t really believe it’s that hard to find a quality date here in Atlanta. Doesn’t matter if you are 20 or 50. I just don’t buy it.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Darrell

*I believe that in the context of a committed relationship, the biggest compliment anyone can give to another person is “I need you”. As singles, we need to be willing to risk being more transparent as opposed to trying to show we don’t need anyone for anything at anytime. After all, we were created to need each other, not the other way around. *

You hit the nail on the head with this one! You are so right. Some of us women have been taught to be independent……(I love that song too!) Which is not a bad thing. It only becomes bad when you feel like you do not need a man or a woman. We are created to be together….so once you become TOO INDEPENDENT…You might one to stay that way because you truly aren’t and can’t have a good relationship. A relationship is a team effort. Being too independent and selfish will DESTORY that.

By Page1908

December 19, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

Good Morning. I can certainly understand why some men feel women don’t give them compliments. I guess my approach is that I enjoy getting compliments from others, so I try to keep that in mind when it comes to complimenting men too. It’s good practice to not go too overboard, but then again, sometimes going overboard is what some may really like…who knows. Hey Ju’Miracle!!

LOL @ DasV

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

DAsV I get to use this one on jill and D…

I know pronounce Darrell and jill zzzzzzz snore zzzzzz. Lol.

WE are already LIVE this morning ladies and gentleman. 3-2-0- Yea-ya!

Enter now: JustMe & ForReal.

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

Demi why you gotta diss the under 33 crew? That’s alright…we are still fly with the similac around our mouths! LOL

Blow me you are absolutely right! LOL

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Blow me I am one of those independent women and I LOVE IT! LOL

DasV here is your early morning shot of Henny! I’ll drink with ya girl! LOL

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

* @ M* Yeah girl How can I forget about them! I am trippin…so he took the 37” inch…broke a$$ Kneegrow! Boy I tell you!

Cemeeli It’s so on point and you know it!! I am tired of men using that to their advantage….They see the QUANITY and not the *QUALITY

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Demi “It must be hard confining your thoughts into one or two paragraphs at times…” Not hard at all. What seems difficult is certain people dealing with thoughts that don’t first have to be decoded from “blogspeak”.

By Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

December 19, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

I do compliment guys..but then they think you want them. Why is that? - Staceye, Slim This all depends on the environment w/ me. If we are at work, church or some formal type engagement then fine. But when I’m out and socializing and you come to me with that and I think you’re attractive then I may perceive this as a mixed message. No I will not start rambling off nasty lines to you, that is just wrong no matter what! However this comes off as you may have an interest in me so I would like to talk more to see where it goes. I don’t see anything wrong with that. Ladies for future reference when a man is out on the hunt do not interrupt to complement him and expect not to become the target. No offense but in a social club/ happy hour/ sports bar setting your “not-interested-sexually” compliment can be a complete waist of time.

Again I aint knockin you jus answering the Q:

By melo

December 19, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

LadyD and Staceye, thank u ladies, nice to know. Cemeli how was the game.U know Binford must not be the 1st one to come swinging his hips and talking about his breakfast basket.Man will always be man and will raise eyebrows when u do that.We cant let the woman do all the work but a man who is a pushover, who relents without a nudge is suspicious. That was Truth’s point.Why even proclaim that u have a penis when we see u’re wearing pants and have a beard?Who asked u and who is not convinced except urself?

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

DasV

missing lunch yesterday cant count toward your time anywhoo… but nice try

DANG!

What about after we finish our departmental Christmas lunch @ Maggiano’s, I sneek off to the mall. You tink they’ll miss me for 45-1hr?

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I have no problem giving or receiving compliments. Even if I know dude might have the wrong motive for the compliment, I’ll just say thank you and move on. For instance if a guy says ‘you have nice lips’ with a perv look on his face, I say ‘thank you’ and keep it moving. But if a man speaks to me in a disrespectful manner, I will either ignore him and give him a piece of my mind - it depends on my mood.

Darrell - “From a birth-order standpoint, if you happen to be a middle-child (like me) it can be more difficult for you to receive compliments, because you’re so used to trying to please everyone and prove that you “measure up” to your younger and older siblings (who normally get all the attention simply by virture of their being first and last born.)”

I’m a middle child and I don’t have that problem….anymore But you are right, I went through that when I was younger and busted my behind to get attention. Now I have NO problem receiving compliments, or complimenting myself which I do quite often, LOL

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Hi Darrell no offence. I had Soy for brkfst this morning with my hashbrowns.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

ARED You are acting as if it’s raining good men and women in Atlanta!

It’s so not! I want QUALITY over QUANITY. Getting dates are not a problem getting some QUALITY is!

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

Ceemeli Are U psychic? How did yyou know I would be arriving now?? hmmmmmm

I compliment men (not boys) when I feel it is deserved. IF I like your clothes, your hair, your cologne, your car, your shades……… whatever if I feel like I like it and you are in ear shot, I’ma make ya day JustMe style.

As far as accepting compliments, I’ve heard the wanna climb dem leggs a milliuon times and a millions ways, and I always smiles and say thanks, thinking in the back of my mind, I wouldn’t let you touch me with somebody elses (expletive)!

Now if the compliment is on my shoes, clothers, hair, eyes, I still say thanks, but then I have an airy feeling about JustMe that makes me wonder what I did different today. I smile with my lips and my eyes and keep on keepin’ on.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Tazz “I’m a middle child and I don’t have that problem….anymore But you are right, I went through that when I was younger and busted my behind to get attention.” I appreciate your saying that. :-) And jus think, Das would have had me leave that part out altogether. :-/

Cemeeli Morning and no offense taken. (As long as I don’t have to eat it.) :-)

By Foots

December 19, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

To some degree, I’m wary of guys who compliment me on my lips…

Amazon Girl, yeah! I was out with my friend and her boyfriend. He brought his friend, and dude was a pure perv. He drunkenly said “You have some purrrrty, sekshy (sexy) lips”. Big turn off.

Now, my mom told me I had beautiful lips when I was about 14. From that day on, I was like “My mama say I got pretty lips!!” They were the only thing I really liked about my body until I was about 23. LOL!

I’ll all for sincere compliments. Sexual comments don’t get far with me, but I’ll take a “you look nice” anyday. I get compliments on my eyes and smile a lot and always have (before braces and contacts), but comments about both of those I had to get used to. I hated my smile and the shape of my eyes through my early 20s, so I had to get used to the idea that they were the first things folks noticed about me and that those people thought they were pretty.

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Staceye My son tole me Mom Your song is on I was think WTH??? then he starting singing she got her own house , her own car……. all I could do was smile. I took it as a compliment

By mqew (2 days to vacation)

December 19, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Morning Good Peeps!

I love compliments and take all of them in stride. From the sleaze just wanting to “get at it”, to the “sincere/nice” looking brother. I mean, I’m fine…. with a nice body. (Perfect tah tahs, I don’t have an onion booty, but its somethin back there, runner legs) soooo… it’s only natural to receive compliments. But, it took awhile for me to get here. When I was younger I def under the impression that all compliments were to “get at it”. AND, I’m sure it had something to do with my garden tool brother who made sure I knew the “game”.

As far as giving, I’m guilty of not giving as good as I get. I do recall goin a lil to far once at Dugans. This dude was p****** fine as hell. And I made sure he knew it. He was hitting on me, but I wouldnt let him get far cause I was telling him how fine he was… (Ladies, tall, dark perfect complexion, cheekbones, basketball physique, and nice…) Anyhoo I think I scared him off. (Not that night, but the next. We were suppose to meet for drinks and he called and cancelled, then I did the next….) Uuuummmmmm… what were we talking about?

By Foots

December 19, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

melo Now Wise and u ladies, is it vulgar to compliment a woman on her breasts if u think they sit on her chest perfectly?Just asking coz i want to come correct to u ladies

Yes, it is vulgar to compliment a woman who is not YOUR woman on her breasts. She will not say “thank you” and smile, unless you’re getting ready to pay her for a dance or a lay.

By Rell

December 19, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

@amazon..we finally agree on something..it is not hard to find a date…its not the date or finding someone of quality it is the person seeking…some of you folks need to get off and over yourself fast..thats the biggest problem that i see

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

BlwMe you are not on some mo stuff (like me & LDark) Lol…you’re on the right stuff @ 10:43 Part B.

Slim and licking you lips…ugh. Just nasty.

Demi okay coupons that i get never expire.

Melo I was SCREAMING to the top of my lung capacity (not really). It and they were on FIRE. I took my Thrashers blanket/banner and acted up!

By melo

December 19, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

THANK FOR THAT!! I Staceye i do not think u really understand the psyche of woman who like man and who want to be with man.If i were Ared i would take ur cosign with a pinch of salt.Most women would luv validation from somebody who loves them(their man) and would not give a hoot about the whistles or boos of the rest of the world.Ur stance is the ultra feminist one that we see sometimes on other women foreheads.I cant miss it.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Blow Me We can agree to disagree. There is tons of quality in Atlanta.

The rub is…just because they are quality does NOT mean they are the one that’s meant for you. People need to understand the difference.

By DasV

December 19, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

CEEmee gurl, you got me hollerin ova here… i needed that laugh@ you holdin marriage ceremonies…. and no do not sneak off to go shoppin. you know what our blog-bruhs was sayin yesterday about the market and jobs… stay yo butt at work. thats why i am in a stank mood as it is… cause im at work and actually havin to work.. gotta thank Eye for this henny… hoping it will mellow me out… but not as far as blow likes to take things LOL

By Dan

December 19, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

While I have to cop to not reading every entry, a couple must be commented on.

Dig this, while I will innocently compliment a woman, I want blatently tell you that the jeans you are wearing look good on you. And the bra, oh, the ladies look nice and snug, good job.

Don’t come out the house with no form fitting clothes on and expect me not to comment. When you sqouze your azz in them jeans and that (oh,so delicious) 2 size to small shirt/bra, don’t get mad at the D for complimenting. Hell, you wore it, I’ma think it was on my behalf, so I will say thank you….in no uncertain terms.

Now that isn’t to say I want you to feel slutty, but on occasion (and fellas you know what I’m talking about) when that one girl, with that body, in those jeans walk by……

I’ve been know to visually molest her. Not say a mumbling word, not even get caught doing it, but yeah, that chill down your spine…..that’s me.

finger licking good

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

Melo cosigning your 1012 100%. At 24 its nothing but a party.

On the serious: Alot of times I’m amazed at all the problems we experience in the dating scene. I know times have changed but there’s always some quality people out there to lay your head on. Maybe its just venting on here but it seems folks have some major issues with the opposite sex. For the guys I really don’t understand because its always some nice women out their to enjoy time with. As much as I give y’all a hard time I appreciate those things that make you “woman”. Where did the mass disconnect happen?

Staceye next time I try to incite a blog war and you smooth it over we’re gonna have words. LOL (Binford comment)

Is it just me or are folks in here feeling froggy these last few days? The holidays are kicking in on some ppl. LMAO

Binford I apologize for my earlier comments. Can you put some cream and sugar in that coffee? Thanks.

DAsV if you need some backup give me a shout. Some of these folks like going underground to make wack posts.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Demi

My, my, my, MY. You sure do have the biggest….big toe I’ve ever seen.

Demi: Um (looking confused)..I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad thing. How can you tell if i have on steel-toe boots?

Slim: Easy. Your zipper is undone.

Slim walks away leaving Demi blushing trying to hurriedly zip up his pants

Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

Ladies for future reference when a man is out on the hunt do not interrupt to complement him and expect not to become the target. This is exactly why some chicks choose NOT to compliment a dude. Just because you see a nice, juicy, tender, hot steak on someone else’s plate doesn’t necessarily mean you want to take a bite of it.

Slim now taking a small intermission to find a baby wipe to clean the salivation off her mouth

By Whaddaya think

December 19, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Whaddaya think?

Meet a guy, engage in a special friendship, close friends, things happen. Intimacy rears it’s (ugly) head. Go at it a couple of times. Things get complicated. She can’t handle it and walks. He continues to come back to avoid total disconnection. He won’t let go but makes it clear he doesn’t want the intimacy. She makes it clear she can’t continue because of the intimacy. He continues to call and keeps coming back to keep the friendship alive. He tells her truly cares for her and refuses to walk away. Appears to be no hidden agenda but makes it apparently clear no more intimacy nor attempts to make any moves on her. He constant apologizes for all that’s happened and tells her how special she is and he don’t want to lose her, that he cares but again, it clear he can’t go back down that road. She can’t step back into the friendship because her emotions are too overwhelming. She’s very hurt, will not initiate any contact. He continues to do so because she won’t. She really understands he wants to keep his marriage but feels like she has the right to move on and doing what’s best for her. He’s not very understanding of that and continues to make attempts to keep the friendship alive. She becomes emtional and takes it out on him. He keeps coming back and says any other woman, he would have walked a good while ago. He says he wants to stay because he knows how beautiful of a person she is and only lashing out because of emotions, so he endures her times of being upset. HE’S MARRIED. WADDAYA THINK? Is he sincere? Should she be open to a friendship?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

mqew *DasV told me to tell you that your 10:52 post was too damn long.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

Q: Why don’t women compliment men more?

I have no problem complimenting guys on their clothing, cologne, smile and eyelashes. If it’s a random stranger and I am just saying it to be nice, then I say it and keep it moving. That way, he knows I was just being nice and not trying to push up on him.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

LOL @ melo and your 10:26. Did you really think you were dropping some knowledge? I think it can be said for almost ANY couple that physical attraction was what attracted them to each other initially. Doesn’t matter if you have a big booty or a nice smile.

So DUH on all that! ;-)

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Just me your son is a smart lil’ man! You go girl!

Melo its not just about the man…that’s like a woman wanting to lose weight and her man says he loves her as is…but its about how she feels about herself, nother man, her mom, her brother, etc. That is all I am saying.

By melo

December 19, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Thanks Foots, ofcourse ur smile is da bomb, ur flowing hair, cheek bones..uh..uh..uh, u got it all together.And u working that pole with ur fine runners.If only…….anyway never mind! Tazzee, u pretty girl. Ladies i’ll pray for u to find in time, some decent, educated and good looking brothers who know God and u take them as ur own.

By DasV

December 19, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

mr.D OK i gotchu… what you post may not hit on nothing for me, but will resonate wit someone… i got it. LOL and for the record its d a y u m and yea, mQew that post was a bit long. LOLROTF you gotta laugh at de-me-god makin the comment that wit your mind, he is proud that your posts are as short as they are… that is classic. you gonna earn that WordSmith moniker yet!!

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I mean I wonder what a guy would do if a chick walked up to them with her hand in her…kangaroo pocket talking about how he look like Morris Chestnut then proceed to try to shake his hand.

Knowing some of the pervs in here, buddy would shake her hand, then let his homeboys get a wiff

Slim walks away in shame with her head hanging down

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

its not the date or finding someone of quality it is the person seeking…

i don’t think any of us want to waste our valuable time. i know i don’t. going out on a date thinkin’ that we’ll hit it off and we don’t will upset me. i could be hanging out with my boys at home or doing laundry.

By Demi

December 19, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

BLOW ME I agree, for a long time it was all about the Quanity for me was well. Now I am too old to deal with the B.S. (I help create by the way). These days I date few and far in between, but I meet a lot of Quality down to earth women.

Demi is now playing a game of poker. Cards reads: 4 Queen and an Ace of Spade

What do US do!!!??

LOL

By Rell

December 19, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

@Waddathink…you cant be serious..or you must like your lil melodrama….its all game lady..move on….no friendship, he is only using that angle to lay you on your back…

By Foots

December 19, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Whaddaya think That’s a LOT of drama you’re going through for somebody else’s man. (Or if you’re the guy, that’s a LOT of drama to be going through if you are somebody else’s man.) LET THAT ISH GO and worry about the stock market and the mortgage crisis.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I forgot you were going to the Thrashers game. I was up in that peace too drinking a large cup of hot chocolate, scarf around my neck, gloves & down coat on. I almost caught a t-shirt too. I shoulda just tripped ole girl up and took the shirt but I didn’t want to spill my $4.00 cup of coco.

By Lena

December 19, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

I am so tired of all the “what do I do” scenarios with messing around with so-called married people. Do what you want to do, stop struggling for meaning. It’s not complicated, deep, or profound. Stop trying to justify your behavior. You know it’s wrong!

By DasV

December 19, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

pasta T might need ya to lace up my gloves …. and a backrub after the mixup would be good ….winking

By binford

December 19, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Truth I said antiquated MODEL of masculinity. Subtlety in the verbage chief - check in to it. Another random word that might help: evolution. Those who don’t evolve get left behind. Maybe yours and Melo’s red-robin, chest out “I AM MAN” rhetoric reverberates in your neanderthal bones, but to me it explains a lot of problems in a lot of places.

I’ve been to Bible study and the preacher bought us all donuts and coffee - but hey, I guess he’s a pansy too, eh? Not a real man such as yourself, right? Maybe he wasn’t as well versed in “roles” as you.

And I would take my “slim” chances in Vegas any day.

By melo

December 19, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

Did you really think you were dropping some knowledge? not to u ofcourse, seeing u are smart as u are, maybe to some 24 years old on here, since we got company.

By mqew

December 19, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

Daryl Hey! Aren’t you suppose to be getting someone coffee, cream, and sugar? Ummmm who had the henny? I think Daryl need some.

For the record. I def agree that there are people out here to date. Quality people.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

melo That’s sweet. I’m down to getting mad at you only twice a day now. Our relationship is steadily improving. LOL!!

That’s another thing I didn’t like then, but I love now: these dayum cheekbones!! Shoot, I can’t wait to lose all the “baby” from my face in the next 10 years. Our women seem to look better and better as the years go by and we “grow” into our faces.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

WHADDYA THINK

She is doing the right thing. She is stepping! He already has a commitment he needs to worry about anyway.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

Lena I’m with you on your 11:19 post. :-D

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

Whaddaya think - I think that she’s a dumb lil bia B-I-A!

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

DasV What do you mean how I like to take things?? That went over my head.

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

Whatddaya I think the married man should go home to his wife and leave her alone per her request. No reason to continue the frinedship, cause eventually he willwant to become intimate again and so will she.

By DasV

December 19, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

lena snappin fingers in the air

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

Truth - right on with your 11:01. Quality is all around you. But I am afraid that with many of these posters, if God DID send them “the one” they wouldn’t even know what to do with him or her. Sheesh.

By Whaddaya think?

December 19, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Rell, Foots,Blow me - thanks

Lena - Blow me

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

Rell harsh…but so true! He is playing games and she should not catch herself up into a tangle married man’s mess!

By DasV

December 19, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

LOL@Slim thinkin ‘bout trippin up someone for a t-shirt.

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Ceemeli & Slim I’m working the Trhashers Games Thursday and Saturday this week. Next time you all come, the CoCo’s on me and maybe even a beer or two…..

What sections were y’all in?

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

Whaddaya think just stay and be miserable. keep letting him do the back and forth thing. keep pushing away the men who want to have you and only you. keep being a homewrecker. keep being the female i would love to run over then back up and run yo azz over again. keep trying to take a father from his kids. keep trying to destroy the whole family (sisters, brothers, grandmother, grandfather, aunts, uncles, etc.).

keep on doing what you’re doing. how you get them is how you lose them. karma is a biatch!

By melo

December 19, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

and the preacher bought us all donuts and coffee why is that surprising, when u and the preacher are of the same inclination? Woman up, he’s trying to get a hook up!!

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

JustMe I was in section 113 row V

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Off-topic, I’m listening to an old CD New Birth. For the old heads on here, it’s the album w/the cracked egg on the cover. I have been trying to get my hands on this CD for a very long time.

ARed, I sent you an email.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Ared They will. When it’s your time to be with the One on God’s timing. He will prepare you for your true mate. Some of the posters are not ready to be with the One. Maybe they have some more growing to do. Thus the challenges they are facing dating. So don’t be so quick to write anyone off just because you feel you are COMPLETELY yolked.

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Slim Thrashers had their game on! ..:)… Did you see the fight? OMGoodness i had a really good seat.

Cocoa!?! Gurl, after i put on my layers of shirts,boots and bear coat i was warm AND looking for an ice cold drink. Only my nose got chill.

By Whaddaya think?

December 19, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

She’s blocked and cut off all communications. She knows she was wrong, for all the righteous ones that’s going to jump, so save your judgements. If she was standing before before God for this and you (judgemental ones) for premarital sex, we’d get the same condemnation.

By DasV

December 19, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

blowME i was referencing what you said earlier: Don’t even get me on when I am buzzing, I will really say what’s on my mind!!!

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

JustMe i was in section 120.

Slim t-shirt trippin’ folks. Lol.

By Demi

December 19, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

JustMe normally to chime in a little after I post…now I have to come up with a new line

While try to look past the twin mountains

Good Morning sis, how are you doing today?

Slim Funny…Alvin: best to believe this big toe will leaving you grinning from ear to ear

Ms.Eyes y’all don’t turn into the shyt until you hit 34 or 35…most women around that age minds and spirits calm down…I am not speaking out of the side of my neck…you will find out soon enough.

And dem sitting on 24s, aint my fault y’all started dating at age 14 or 15…LOL.

For real though, live a bit longer.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Yeah I saw the fight. I was mad they kept breaking up the ones before that one. Thrashers were on point last night tho! I’m also mad they had the Thrasher cheerleaders wearing next to nothing as cold as it is on that ice. At least let em wear a scarf even tho their legs & midrifts are out.

By Whaddaya think

December 19, 2007 11:49 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful - She’s never professed to not being at fault but how amazing is it that when a woman cheats with a marriad man, she’s going to get all the karma and she’s the homewrecker she’s the BIA? Ummm, where is he in all this? Should he not be blamed as well, if not moreso?

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Blow Me - If these folks were truly prepared, many of them wouldn’t be divorced. You can have the one and not know what do to with them. But I wish everyone the best. I do think that some of them need a real attitude adjustment and maybe need to work out some trust issues…but I’m an optimist and will hope for the best for us all.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

She knows she was wrong, for all the righteous ones that’s going to jump, so save your judgements - Okay then I now think that she need to CHANGE HER NAME… she asked erybody what they thought then told them not to judge. WOW… please learn to shoot straight or you will hurt an innocent bystander.

By QC-can't stop singing Jingle Bells

December 19, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

What’s up Bloggers

I hope you all are having a great day, yep i’m singing Jingle Bells along with any other Christmas Carols i can think of…..oh, how i do love this time of year…..i’ll holla back later….!

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

Demi best to believe this big toe will leaving you grinning from ear to ear Well, to be honest I’d prefer you leaving me grinning from the rootie to the…well almost to the tootie.

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli see my post to Slim ;-)

Whadd the man is more to blame than the woman IMHO!

He is the one breaking his vows to his wife, he is the infadel, he is the one putting his home/family life at risk. She on the other hand has nothing to lose other than her pride. As far as pre marital sex, I’ll be in line in front of her if that makes her feel any better.

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

Dan its ok to look..but don’t come out with a loud DAYYYYYYUM! That is so disrespectful. Girls with curves can’t wear baggy clothes without it making them looki fat so that is why the form fitting clothes look better.

Truth Smooches back at cha! LOL You had better hope that Binford doesn’t pull a Celie (The Color Purple when she spat in Mister’s pops drink)! LOL

Whaddaya think She needs to let that go! She has to look out for herself. That is a trainwreck waiting to happen.

Foots you have high cheekbones too? Embrace them.. I love mine…never have to wear blush on any occasion. Big eyes are beautiful…I had to adapt to that too. I always got called Deer Caught in Headlights growing up. But now I appreciate them…I can get like 5 different eyeshadow colors on my lids. Make up artists love that! Girl we are too much alike…are you my sister from another mister? LOL

cemeeli I watch hockey just for the fights!

By Dan

December 19, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

Okay so this year:

I met a Black Man from Wisconsin.

A white girl that loves rap from Iowa.

And now….Black people that watch and actually go to hockey games….

Midget lesbian sex is all that’s left..

By melo

December 19, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

WADDAYA THINK? Is he sincere? Should she be open to a friendship? Why not??!! If she had cut all communication and was sure of herself, u would not be asking.She craves for his attention and the frolicking. I say they fit each other.She can be the small house,she is already anyway.Go for it.

By Demi

December 19, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

I’ve been to Bible study and the preacher bought us all donuts and coffee

Nah, he is looking for a mistress…be it male or female..The A is wild.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 19, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya

Here take some advice from the resident homewreaker here..I am not sure if you are asking for info on the part of the lady or the man but Rell is right. The guy is saying it just about being friends and while that maybe true he is still keeping his option open for the hump and bump all in the name of friendship and caring. From her point of view(one I know all too well) she is cutting it off because it is going no where and when you care for someone that is no easy task. But cutting off all communication is the right thing to do especially if she knows it is going nowhere and is aware of how she feels about him and that she cant in all honest just be his friend without wanting the intimacy.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think the solution to your scenario is so simple, it scary that you really think you need advice on this situation. Good grief. Take emotion out of it and ask yourself what you’d say to a friend who was in this situation.

Stop getting caught up and walk away. It really isn’t that complicated.

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think at the moment she found out that the nicca was married, she should have kicked his azz to the curb then. period!

you came at us! she is wrong. if women would do the right thing and get their own man there would be less single family homes / mothers raising kids by themselves.

you lost, i won this one. plus, all the wife has to do is sit back in the cut and watch what happens. trust me on that one.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Dan Midget lesbian sex is all that’s left..

Um, I think Demi fulfilled that one so you actually can strike that one from your list too.

@Demi Sorry bruh, I couldn’t resist. LMAO! You know I luvvvs you

By Demi

December 19, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

Slim LOL, you get nothing but love from me sis.

Thrasher have cheerleaders??

By melo

December 19, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

if women would do the right thing and get their own man there would be less single family homes / mothers raising kids by themselves. so true, the downside/upside, more lesbians.Look at the ratio. Personaly, i like the diversity of options and multiplicity of preferences among women.Some like married dudes because they like to compete with the married wives,others like to go with single guys etc.Married men need benefits too and a chance to prove they still got it!!! Its nice when u can have it and just walk away coz u place more value elsewhere, but just like nibling, once in a while. I cant put value in u, u value urself!! This is what makes America great.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

For all you hockey lovers with HDTV, DirecTV channel 215 (NHLHD) is the place. They carry lots of live NHL games, plus they have this thing called “Vintage Games” where they replay games from waaaay back. I’m talkin’ ’50s and ’60s hockey games. It’s good stuff.

By Dan

December 19, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

@Staceye

If you rocking the Little House on the Prarie Skirt, then I’m wrong for saying something, I get that.

What I’m talking about is the painted on clothes, or cloth, that some of these babes sport these days (I mean, tube tops in the winter? Really?). For me, then she DTM, and I have a right to comment because she knew she was out of pocket when she left the house.

By mqew

December 19, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Dan the hockey games are cool as he11, specially in the box. I didn’t realize that it’s cold in the seats. I don’t think i would go in the cold. Hate the cold.

Whaddaya I actually have a friend in a similar situation, but he has asked his wife for a divorce. At first, she was feeling awfully foolish… now… not so much. How long has he been married?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 19, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

Slim & Demi Bring out your jokes; I’m so bored. I am really missing Musing right now; he could make you laugh so hard to you dang near got fired…..

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 19, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Dan You are funny (women clothes post)

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

melo sometimes I just have to laugh at your posts. Thanks for your 11:09 comment ;-) it’s going to happen in due time.

By RealityShows

December 19, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

Who watched Tila last night? Dani should have been the last one standing.

By binford

December 19, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

Not involved, not really religious either - just had that as a true life example.

And I’m not here just for a “hook up”; the inclination isn’t there like it was when I was in my 20’s. Besides, these are scary times when it comes to sleeping around. One has to be careful and picky.

And Dan I’m thinkng twin midget porn ;P

By Lena

December 19, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

I have a right to comment, does this mean that ladies have a right to punch a dude in the throat for making comments, I mean, since he is out of pocket?

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Britney Spears Sister Is Pregnant at 16 - I gotta admit I love this family. Everytime some conserv type talks about welfare, highschool dropouts, teen preg… I can jus point to them!

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

dan I do not do baggy jeans. I should not have to wear a circus tent for the fear of some dumb azz dude making a snide remark. A man should have some self control over his actions and of what comes out of his mouth!

MsU you are right…where is Musing? For Real….Jake…dang, where is everybody?

By melo

December 19, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, u welcome babes.Laugh is good, esp. when at work. My motto on the blog:take my words at ur own risk! Now for these 24 year olds trying to get their feet back on, they might have to check with DEFACS and see if they can be re-enrolled.

By Dan

December 19, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

@Lena

Like the man said “it’s the beauty of America.”

Sure you could hit him, face assault charges or an arse whopping.

Better choice, dress like you (and not you specifically) have some sense and over 15!

By Dan

December 19, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this

Why did just get a chain email from sexeeleggs@aol.com….

SexyLeggs, is that you?

By Dan

December 19, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

@Staceye

Let me ask you this: given your “vaunted” sense of style, you realize that the jeans are exposing the curvature of your buttocks to the world correct?

I mean why else wear them (I hear they’re uncomfortable)?

That being the case, you know the jeans that shows off the poot just right and you wear them outdoors. Now if you notice, and wore them and I notice and comment….whose more at fault?

Plus which, I’m cute enough to get away with the comment anyway, just hit you with the devilish smile, all the while being ded serous.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 19, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

Stacey girl you got me laughing..a circus tent

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

do y’all know that in some states there is a law against cheating on your spouse? that should be in every state. then husband/wives would think twice.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this

“Britney Spears Sister Is Pregnant at 16…”

Hmmm…I wonder what took her so long. :-/

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

LOL. No, Dan it isn’t me.

By melo

December 19, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

I should not have to wear a circus tent for the fear of some dumb azz dude making a snide remark When u wearing one of those loud outfits, men dont even have to say anything.We just get the cue from ur fellow married and single females , rolling their eyes and blinking their eyelashes whilst turning their heads away and speaking on the low low to other females.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this

Staceye I don’t have big eyes, they are slanty. I wished that they were bigger for a long time, then I got used to the “Asian” comments.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

Ouch! @ Darrell and his 12:56. Too funny.

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

Who says jeans are uncomfortable? I beg to differ. Heck, I have a pair on right now.

So Dan, are you saying you don’t wear jeans? I know you’re referring to those women who wear painted on jeans, but I’m curious.

By melo

December 19, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

Hmmm…I wonder what took her so long. :-/ im feeling u on that.

By Demi

December 19, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

MsU I miss his busted civics’s joke…*we had a smooth talking pimp named Runnin, Musing aka Black Flash the Trickster, and the Cape Crusader already to fly anywhere, no matter the weather…LorDemi:

Blog Squad: Instigators

By Foots

December 19, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

Dan I know some dudes whose arms are so big, they couldn’t hide them regardless of what they wore. They could borrow the Michelin man’s suit and I could still see the outline of that body. Is it my right to make sexual comments about that? It’s not like I’ve never seen a nice body before, so I don’t have to go out of my way to mention that and make him feel like an object. He already knows he’s fine, why would I choose the obvious to be the first thing out of my mouth?

I don’t know of one man on here who will admit that seeing a nice womanly body is something altogether new to him, and therefore deserves commenting on whenever something walks by. Just act like it’s something you see all the time, even if you don’t, to avoid objectifying that stranger.

Now…. If you’ve never seen azz before, by all means, walk up to that stranger and say (with a Sir Mix-A-Lot track playing in the background) “OH MY GOD!! BECKY, LOOK AT YOUR BUTT!! IT’S JUST SO ROUND, IT’S JUST LIKE, OUT THERE!!” and slap it one time for good measure.

By melo

December 19, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

Beautiful,some states there is a law against cheating on your spouse?,like Texas, but swinging is BIG TIME, so u see, there is always balance in these laws. When Beyonce sang the catering to ur man song, thats what she was talking about!!!!Man are always catered for one way or the other.

By Rell

December 19, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this

@wadda…listen hon, the whole i cut all communication is just another attention ploy…we chase what we cant have…you not taking calls or emails is not going to stop him…what will stop him is exposing what he does to the one he loves…it will also help in your development from a lil girl to a women..because what you are doing now is little girl behavior..own up to your part in this drama…she is to blame just like him…so if you not getting sympathy..well thats because sympathy is for the weak..and there are not alot of weak ones on this board…you were cool until you started in with the whoa is me s**…..ummmm there is no whoa is me when you getting your Fluck on..so own up to your part…..tell buddy that if he is not going to leave wifey then leave you alone for you expose this whole sorrid affair….but please end the drama and find you something new…or if married men is your thing..join the lifestyle(swingin)…and you can have it all without the guilt…feel me

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Can someone please explain why Keisha Cole’s family in on TV? - I saw it yesterday and actually watched it all the way thru for the 1st time. I think I lost a few braincells and dropped down a social class.

Ladies I have a ques? for ya in relation to the above. In dating I know you have to compromise on things but I stay meeting the girls that are HOOKED on all things reality TV. As you can see I am totally against shows like these. If your guy friend will not sit thru your line up of Luv NY, Cole’s Fam, Charm School, College Hill (excluding Virg Ilse tho that was my joint!) Survivor & Tila… is he really being a jerk in your eyes? Is that grounds to start looking elsewhere?

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

off-topic I just can’t seem to get into MJB’s new CD. I love Just Fine and Work That but the rest of the songs…not so much. And while I’ve had this CD for a while, I am currently hooked on Ledisi - Lost and Found I’ve been a fan of hers for years now…

By QC

December 19, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

Hey Tazzee HAPPY HOLIDAYS

By Foots

December 19, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think Of course, the man is to blame also. There is enough blame to go around. But since you can’t control the actions of another, only yourself, you have control over what YOU do. If you ask the question while being a full participant, the answers will come back directed at you and what you should do to remedy the situation. Not that you’re the only one to blame, but you’re the only one asking what to do.

All sin may be viewed the same in God’s eyes, but not Man’s. That’s why there are different sentencing guidelines for different crimes. You compare pre-marital sex between two adults in a committed relationship (or just two unattached adults going at it) to adultery, where there are vows and families involved, along with the very real possibility of everyone involved getting hurt from lies and deception, bringing home diseases, unplanned pregnancies, etc. God may see the same sin, Man does not. You shouldn’t use that example to justify your adultery to us.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

@ Foots..i will admit..i see so many fine females in ATl you would think that some one “drew” them they have so many curves…i play it cool though..because somewhere there is a dude that is tired of hitting her…

By Demi

December 19, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Rell com’on dude, not everyone is bless with common sense…

Like me.

wadda are you supa fine and willing to go both ways? If you are, our boy Du can introduce you to his wife and she’ll take it from there.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think I’m sorry, I said “you”, but I meant “her”.

mqew Yeah, it’s cold in the stands. I went to my first (and only) game several years ago. For some reason, I thought that they would blow warm air upwards into the seats. I realized the folly of my thoughts when I found out that it was like 33 degrees up in that camp. I was drinking cocoa like a mugg… Next time, I will be more prepared with my clothing choices. A turtleneck and some jeans didn’t cut it. I need a ski suit.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Tazz Per your 1:34, I just finished reading the AJC’s review on her new CD and it was fairly positive. Never been a fan of MJB myself because, at least in her earlier days, she tried too hard to live up to the hype that she was the next “Aretha” or “Anita B.” Nowadays, I’m just fed up with her talking about how she “ain’t go’n cry no mo’” and stuff like that.

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

900K aka Mr KnowitALL are you asking if we will leave a guy over not watching reality tv with us? no, that’s silly!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 19, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

SJ because somewhere there is a dude that is tired of hitting her Really?

Rell and Blog tell buddy that if he is not going to leave wifey then leave you alone for you expose this whole sorrid affair I’m pondering this statement and have a question…is it fair to bring wifey into this situation and destroy her? I understand as wifey you may WANT to know, but is it fair for the guilty parties to tell wifey out of spite or revenge?

By Foots

December 19, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

900K That’s not a dealbreaker to me. Folks have their own taste in TV watching. I don’t think I’ve ever spent that much time with somebody to where their TV habits got on my nerves like that though. Three solutions I can think of: 1.) Have two TVs, or 2.) Get out of the house more, or 3.) Get Tivo so somebody can watch it when they are by themselves later.

I think I lost a few braincells and dropped down a social class.

I have a friend who watched this show religiously cause he loves some Keisha, so I watched the finale episode. I agree with your above statement.

But on the other hand, I’ve never missed an episode of America’s Next Top Model or Dancing With The Stars. Thank God for Tivo!

By MATCHMAKER

December 19, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

LET’S PLAY A (REAL) GAME. TRYING TO WAKE EVERYONE UP.

ALL DAILY/LURKER BLOGGERS DESCRIBE IN DETAIL WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR IN A MATE (EVERYTHING FROM EYES TO PENIS SIZE TO WHAT KIND OF JOB THEY HOLD).

IF ANY OF US KNOW SOMEONE WHO FITS THAT DESCRIPTION, HOOK A SISTA OR BRUH UP! LMAO.

WHO’S IN?

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Hey QC!!! Merry Christmas to you too lady.

900K any man or woman that looks elsewhere because their mate won’t watch a certain TV show with them isn’t ready for a grown-up relationship IMO. My man doesn’t have to watch football with me, but he better not try to stop me from watching it. All other shows I like can be recorded to view later.

Speaking of reality shows, the only one I watch faithfully is The Biggest Loser I love that show…but my mate doesn’t have to watch it with me. As for the minstrel shows like I love NY and Flava of Love, I throw up a little in my mouth whenever I think of them. And while I haven’t watched Keyshia Cole’s show, I’m not mad at her for sharing her story and getting paid for it.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

SJ It’s good that you’re mature enough to play it cool. Just imagine how many times she’s heard all the comments before. If you came at her like all the others, you’d be put in the same category with all the others. But if you come at her like her body ain’t the reason you like her, all kind of doors magically open.

By Angel007

December 19, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Hey all

Foots you trying to give some of these youngins a reason to have their nuts touchin they tonsils. If a dude ever walk over to me; rather he seen some azz or not & pull that ish oooh it’s on & poppin.

Back to da topic. I take all compliments for what they are worth & keep it movin. I’m a nicely shaped woman who gets much attention but I take it and stride. Actin a damn fool is a waste of time and energy. Ya feel me.

Do I give men compliments of course. Hopefully they recieve them well. No biggie.

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

Darrell Yeah, I read the review after I listened to it to see what they said. I didn’t notice an overall ‘grade’. Personally, I like Mary - she bares her soul in her music and it’s real - I can’t knock anyone willing to be real with it. Not sure if you’ve listened to the lyrics of her latest CDs but the songs I like are all about loving self. But I have to admit, I’m not familiar with her pre-No Mo Drama CD. Other than the songs they play on the radio now.

By Dan

December 19, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

@Foots

I hear you. I didn’t say that everybooty was derserving of that attention or got it for that matter. My comment was about a body like Buffy’s walking down the ‘Cade somewhere. But why wouldn’t I say something…..the 1 in 100,000 bodies that I’m talking about casue traffic accidents….rain clouds to form over head….the sun to shine, then eclipse…at the mere sight of that nice round, well proportioned…..

Let me stop.

@Sexxy,

Yeah I wear jeans. But see above comment as to exactly who I was referring to.

PS. Foots, guys that go to the gym and wear tight clothes (like Punk on I love New York 2) deserve an azz whopping. Real men work out and show off the end result in the slow undress right before…..

Let me stop.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

900k, I love reality TV but hate all the shows you mention (except for Keyshia Coles). You don’t have to watch them with me. That is what the 2nd TV is for.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

Beautiful; Foots; Tazz - cool thx for insight. I jus always get called a jerk when they come over to my crib and I’m like “these shows gets no airtime in my crib. The other TV is downstairs”

Attention: Parcells ‘probably’ will accept Falcons job - Ok is this town ready for REAl football? No more flash just substance… time will tell. I will be the first to say to all bird fans you guys are DAMN lucky trust me MV7 will not be a thought for you by the time he gets out and wants to play. CONGRATS

By Rell

December 19, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

@LADY, she will find out at some point…it always happen or she might already know and just playing dumb to keep the family together..feel me

@tazzee…yep modern day minstrel…and i cant stand the I love new york nut cutting show….those men sign up to get there balls cut of my that chick and her moms…and she is not even a 5 more like a 4 with legs…she is horrible and all that mouth love is nasty..how you going to give a chick tongue luv with a newport in her soup coolers…yuck

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

First, just because a guy doesn’t watch any reality tv is not a reason not to date him. Hell, I don’t know squat about football. Would you let that stop you from dating me. I hope not (LOL).

Tazzee, I so love The Biggest Loser. I basically watched the finale last night with mouth wide open!

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

Match how will we know his penis size? lol. you stupid!

By Demi

December 19, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

900K that show needs a label, which reads:

Must be stoned or highly intoxicated during viewing

By mqew

December 19, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

Angel Nuts touchin tounsils is funnnn ey

SJ Thas how u do it, bruh. Plain and simple.

Foots and anywhere you need a snowsuit count me out! Inclusive of those all black group/club ski trips. No thanks!

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

900K aka Mr KnowitALL baby that is yo house. when i was with John he liked to watch the history channel. i loved to be snuggled up under him and discuss/learn with him.

By QueDogTeaching

December 19, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while speed blogging.

Staceye Here is a Cyber standing ovation for your 10:11 post. It was direct, honest, and was very attractive.

On-Topic When giving complements timing is everything, you can’t just walk up on a woman looking crazy and throw out anything.

I accept compliments with a smile.

I have also found that there are rules to complimenting women.

Although these may not work for everyone, they have worked for me.

M Where does this female pastor attend church. I met one who said she preached and also was a prophetess (whatever that is) The one I met was not from GA, but lives here now.

By Whaddaya think

December 19, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

@ Mqew, they’ve been married 10 years.

Actually, she decided to sit back and read and digest all the advice, comments, slanders and whatnots. She’s just sorry that Beautiful took this so personal. She’s sorry the same thing obviously occured and took her scenario to lash out some of her frustrations.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

@ DD dimples…really…now you have some dudes in ATL that dont wanna see there ex with nobody else and cuts up…but i dont care how fine a female is…dimes…quarter pieces..what ever…somewhere there is a dude that has hit it seven ways to sunday is tired of the puddy..

By Dan

December 19, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

Whatever…

Y’all Keisha haters can miss me. She cute (expect for the neck tattoo), she can sing, and she’s about her family. If I ever see her cook on the show……

Might go through the effort to meet her.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

@ Foots…dudes need to realize..fine females have heard it all…and what works for me..is to in a way..ignore her..while the rest of the dudes run up and tell her how fine she is..in the end she is gonna be the one that chooses…and more times than not its gonna be the one that paid her the less attention…

By Foots

December 19, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

Dan Foots, guys that go to the gym and wear tight clothes..

I’m not talking about the Eddie Long’s of the world. I’m talking about men with bodies so nicely proportioned, (wide shoulders, small waist, nice height, great butt) that you can feel them before you can see them. Their clothes hang just right on their frame. And you have a VERY good idea of what they look like undressed and so it’s not a surprise if you get a chance to see it. That’s not you, is it?

Shoot, even I notice the Buffies of the world! You can notice and you can look, but why would you remark on something that obvious like doesn’t know? You’d do better acting like you don’t see it and talk to her like she’s a person first and not just a booty. You might actually get to see it live and up close with that approach.

By Rell

December 19, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

@SJ3…..WORD…on 2:14post..so true so true..after awhile what was new is old now…and there are times when the old becomes new….but that will never happen to the fabo blog women we have here….s** i am still wondering if amazonred has a sister, i mean if her mom birth one perfect daughter..there has to be another…lol

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 19, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

The only reality show I like is the Amazing Race cause you can see other places and cultures. But I Love New York-minstral show is putting it lightly that is some straight hot fooliness. Speaking of fooliness I will watch Clean House on Style TV with Niecy Nash now how those people can live with their homes in that condition is beyond me.

900K Make it plain Bill P is coming on in the capacity to help select the next head coach..not to coach. Frankly the Fakecons could have solved all of this and went with Mike Singletary in the first damn place. But noooooo so whateva. I am just grateful Bill Cowher turned you down…no need for a former Steeler coach to come here and babysit those knuckleheads(I said it-What?) Besides Singletary has that air o whip azz that some players need to get right.

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

Y’all Keisha haters can miss me. She cute (expect for the neck tattoo), she can sing, and she’s about her family. If I ever see her cook on the show…… Dan- I have to admit she is FINE, man that new vid she got out layin in bed singin to me is like whoa! She is truly a thing of beauty and is a sight to behold and then then camera pans over to her sister… and I suddenly realize that I have IBS.

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

What up people?…i’m back from a crasi Italian feast lunch (they eat alot of food…whoa) AND i am to stuffed to even try and catch up with you all. So imma go ahead and jump in the car with the other highjackers (b.k.a. topic changing flk)…Lol!

So where are we?

And Dan I love me some hockey. But a sista did get cold in that joint.

Hey MO i’m telling you. MusingLee is tied up with his new gig.

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I work out to The Biggest Loser on Tuesday nights. Last night I wanted to cut my elliptical time 15 minutes but I kept telling myself - if they can do it, I can too! But yes, I was screaming watching it last night. And I’m so glad they are starting a new one so soon, my Tuesday night workout schedule can resume as normal when I get back from the holidays.

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think sweetie, it’s not frustration it’s fuggin’ reality. all i got to say is that when the wife finds out (i have this feeling the wife is black) the homewrecker better leave the state, because you don’t know how this will affect her and how she will act. a black woman is nothing to pluck with. if you don’t believe me, watch!

By Foots

December 19, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

SJ I’m with you on your 2:20. If you ignore her, she might not know you’re interested, but even that’s better approach than falling all over her like every other dude.

By mqew

December 19, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

Don’t believe it SJ3K. Thas what you wanna think which is cool. When you’re try’n to approach her. Whateva helps you out. But, pleeeze believe if you get a chance to hit it, more likely than not, she’s tired of him.

I must say some of the dudes on here don’t give women credit where/when credit is due.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

Binford you haven’t evolved. Actually you’ve lost a chromosome that would have made you a man. I bet you smoke virginia slims don’t you? Truthfully. I’m glad your here becuase while women love talking to guys like you they refuse to date em. And as far as sticking your chest its you talking about your sports victories, not me. Hey, you may have a reason to hold out your breasts after all. Are you doing MMA or do you play rugby? Whats the rub on the great Binford? If you want your argumnets to have more credibility leaveout the pastors. Those are the lowest sobs on the totem pole.

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

“I’m not talking about the Eddie Long’s of the world.”….hahahahahahaha quit tombout da Bishop! it’s one thing to wear tight shirts to the gym, but in the pulpit?………he must be like Stace; got his own style (just messin with ya E’s)

By Dan

December 19, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this

Ok SJ….. Just stop it. Stop it I say. Cut it out. Quit. Silence.

Fine women have heard it all…

Of course they have, and the difference between my roster and yours is that while we both know this fact, I still approach her with the confidence that she hasn’t heard it from me.

Now I know why the ladies in the town be running crazy, y’all boys done went wild. Cats been playing the game like that since 3rd grade…..

Ladies, I can now emphathize with a lot of your complaints…that proves that these cats don’t know how to carry themselves….

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

2C guy what’s up with the Wii man? Can i just gone and be Queen and “Set It Off”?

I’m getting tiiiieed of this waist deep…Lol.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

Hey, Kym, speaking of “fake” NFL Network is replaying (again) your cold-weather Steelers’ LOSS to the warm-weather Jags from last week.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

2CPTG I’m trying to figure out how he keeps his nips from showing. Does he wear a padded bra or something? It’s hard to hear The Word when you looking at chest and arms. Men aren’t the only ones to get distracted. But I can just look back up to the face and I’m back on The Word again… Slim, please deliver a blog vest in extra medium ASAP…

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

I saw that game Jags vs Steelers to…wow.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

Dan But when she hears it from you, she has no idea of who YOU are. She just sees another dude riding her about the same thing other dudes ride her about. If you want to be seen for you in all your glory, think of something less obvious to compliment her on to get her attention. And that’s coming from a woman, okay?

By melo

December 19, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

She cute (expect for the neck tattoo), she aint cute,just thugged out and made fine for tv(in ur eyez).U wouldnt want to meet her in person, trust me.Dont u aslo notice that pouch on her tummy..yak.Why yall watching these ghetto mess reality shows that pepetuate the stereotypes(well at least in this case its no stereotype, its real).I dont blame 900k for refusing to debase himself. I give her credit tho for getting some change to expose her thugged out ghetto lyfe.At least she aint stripping, so thats a plus.(as if i have to find some redeeming)

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

Okay…does anyone else have a fascination with this dessert called Kringle? They keep delivering them to the job and everyone is going crazy over it. I’d never heard of it.

Add that to the list of things I hadn’t heard of til I moved to the south. Last year it was King cake and Hoppin Johns!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 19, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

Darrell That is only because it is so pathetic to show the Fakecons lost to Tampa on Sunday..I mean hell they could have stayed on the plane for that mess. 3 hours of watching that on Fox when I could have watched the snow bowl in Cleveland.

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

Lady D D Rell and Blog tell buddy that if he is not going to leave wifey then leave you alone for you expose this whole sorrid affair

Not to answer a question with a question, but I have another question for Whadd and the blog.

If he were to leave his wife to be with you, would you have faith and trust in him?

By 900K aka Mr KnowitALL

December 19, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

My girl Kym - you do know your football! and I do like that about you! However you are missing the BIG pic here Parcells is a genius at finding/ scouting young talent. I do believe he is the man responsible for drafting Tom Brady, Tony Romo not to mention he pretty much built the entire New England dynasty and groomed Belichick in the process.

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Cee….cain’t even tell ya how serious I’m bout to get!!! them stores straight trippn’……let me not have one by Sa’dy night…..as you can see, I’m loosin’ all couth, and bout to akk a fool!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Jags proved you can RUN on the Steelers, especially if you have a two-headed monster like they have in Maurice Jones-Drew and Fred Taylor. They beat the Steelers at their own game - smashmouth football.

Yeah, my Falcons suck, but the Steelers are about to lose the division to the Cleveland Browns who were 6-10 last season. The Browns play the hapless 49ers on Sunday, while the Steelers have to go to Baltimore to face the Ravens, who almost beat the Patriots a few weeks ago.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

CORRECTION The Browns were even worse than I thought last season: 4-12

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 19, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

SJ So is it inevitable that a dude will get tired of the same ole, hmmmm, lovin? If so, what do they do? Besides cheating!

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

Foots….try smokin’ and watching Eddie Long….you tombout funny!

…..“watch this now……watch this…..sssshhhh….watch this…..”

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

Foots I’m sorry honey, all we have left are SMEDIUMS.

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

2C awwww. poor babyyyyyy. i wish i can give you mine.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

melo - I am cracking up at your assessment of Keyshia Cole. I agree. You see plenty of chicks like her walking around Oakland everyday. While I would never call her ugly, she’s definitely not exceptional and those thugged out tattoos and ghettoness just brings down her beauty.

Besides, I don’t get the fascination our pop icons have with being blond. Yuck.

By Dan

December 19, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

Thanks Foots.

I’ll take that into advisement. My old thing (when I was a youngster) was to say something like:

“Your left eyelashes are banging, the right ones are cute too, but I had come talk to you about the left eyelashes. They drew me over here, so what’s up with you pretty eyes?”

Just comment on the most off the wall thing like her shoelaces…

Then, it became, wait a minute, I’m Dan….why am I going through all that? She need to be at me, or keep rolling with them [SJ] lame cats….

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Kym Here’s the difference between the Falcons getting beat down and the Steelers getting beat down: the Falcons were EXPECTED to lose, unlike the Steelers who, going into the Jags game had EVERYBODY healthy, their starting QB had a QB rating of over 101 and they were at HOME in the COLD and SNOW, which was “supposed” to be an advantage for them over a warm weather team like Jacksonville.

So, what’s your excuse again? LOL!

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

@ Dan…Dude….the difference between your roster and mine is…i have NO roster.. yet i attract all types of females from all walks of life…and not to sound arrogant..but its because i am cool as shyt and they see how i interact and treat people. so while u running up in chics face..with your chest stuck out..all confident looking like “new” money….i am in the cut being me….so when they politely shoot you down….its dudes like me they come speak to…to see why folks gravitate towards me..

By Demi

December 19, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

If you want your argumnets to have more credibility leaveout the pastors. Those are the lowest sobs on the totem pole.

And this is coming from Pastor Truth…Who knew? LOL

By Foots

December 19, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

Slim Girl, that will work in a pinch. Thanks!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 19, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

JustMe A good question…if he cheated on his wife then he’ll do it to you Is that really true?

Surely there are examples out there where that wasn’t the case??!!?

By Dan

December 19, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

Awww. my bad SJ

I didn’t mean to forget the over 60 crew of ladies you be after.

The grandma circuit got you feeling yourself huh?

In the cut being me…

Sounds like a stalker….

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 19, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Darrell We won’t lose the division to the Browns because we beat them twice this year. So you were saying??? Anyway we have the Rams this week in St Louis which should be a cake walk.. Right now not even a grandma with a walker would fear the Ravens they actually lost to the Dolphins. Yes I know my Steeler D is slacking off. But the Fakecons are dead in the water.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Oh WOW! Chris Rock is coming to the ATL on March 21st. That one is a must see. Bill Cosby is coming in March too. Sinbad is coming in January at our new center in Cobb. I’m going to start 2008 off broke, but LMAO!

By Demi

December 19, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

If you want to be seen for you in all your glory, think of something less obvious to compliment her on to get her attention.

Hell, a simple hi or hello works 80-90% of the time…unless you’re a troll class cat.

Dan speaking of classless dudes…I thought you grew up a little after turning 26 or 27.

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

2C and Foots I had a stooooopid skit about Bishop Tight Might but I did not have the guts to post it. (i get reeeeaaaal twisted when i’ve ate to much) I was gonna got to he!! for that one (not really) Lol. Man!

ForReal you in here…i need for you conjuer up on with these stores and 2C & I setting it off bout playing games with the Nintendo Wii! 2 you feel like going straight gansta bout our Mario, Naruto and Tennis?…we taking extra remotes, memory cards, nun chucks and all…say something!?! Lol

By Demi

December 19, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

Melo what is your take of Ms.Keys? Her hitting them keys in the rain…left me like, Awwwwwwwwwwwww…Dayum

By Foots

December 19, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

Dan Now THAT comment would have had my interest, much more than “Dayum, shawty, you have a big azz!!” which would have gotten the gas face. Isn’t the point of the approach to grab her interest, put her at ease and make her want to know more about you?

She need to be at me See? That’s the problem. She don’t KNOW you from Adam, why would she want to be at you? Just because of how you look, because that’s all she knows?? Don’t you want women to be more interested in just your look?

By Foots

December 19, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

Don’t you want women to be more interested in just your look?

I meant, Don’t you want women to be interested in more than just your look?

By Dan

December 19, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Dizzam Demi

What you taking notes or something?

Let’s break it down: Youngest: just liking girls (8) to (12) Younger: knowing the wonder of women (12) to (16) Puppy love: (16) to (19) Angry: (19) to (25)

Comfortable enough with myself that I am neither ashamed of what I’ve done, yet realize that I could’ve done things in life differently: (27)

Just being me (right now)

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

Breaking News Parcells is NOT coming to the Falcons. I repeat - NOT - coming to the Falcons. (Check altantafalcons.com for details.)

Now back to my regularly scheduled debate with Kym…

So you beat the Browns twice, you can still lose the division if the Steelers lose out and the Browns win out. That would be their 11-5 vs. your 9-7, so you can still lose. And don’t sleep on the Rams, either. They have Steven Jackson at RB PLUS two Hall-of-Fame WRs in Holt and Bruce. As I recall, the Jags threw the ball pretty well against your secondary, so you can think it’s a cakewalk if you want…

By Demi

December 19, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

DEF JAM: CORPORATE BATTLES vol.6

JustMe pass the popcorns please!!!

By Foots

December 19, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Please share the skit. Here, you can borrow the SMEDIUM blog vest that Slim got for me. It’s not fire-proof, though…

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

@ Beautiful….stop…is that a Wii you have?

2C

bout to get me some corn rows, khaki dickies, a wig and be at Beautiful’s house!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 19, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli hey chica!! What’s up?

I see ya’ll got this thing going in here! Hey MLB and WLB. Glad to see everyone is in and in full effect!

By Dan

December 19, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

@Foots

Yeah, but not really.

Getting to know me is simple on the surface. Hellz, y’all on the blog ‘bout know me…

But getting to what makes me tick (hobbies, interests, loves, ambitions, goals, talents) is a process that takes time. And to be willing to give that time to someone is significant for me.

Likewise, someone taking the time to get to know me like that is an offer that I treasure, and return in kind.

But for some, that I deem not worth it, or those that don’t want to put in the effort, they get the pretty smile, eyes, etc. Just the superficial.

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Beautiful…..you playin’, I’ll be in them bushes when you get home!

Cee….let’s hear yo skit, gal…..surely folks from New Birth have a sense of humor…

By mqew

December 19, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

Can I trip the person walking around our floor with fluckin bells on his shoes ?

By melo

December 19, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

AmazonR and there are some ladies and men on here who are going to watch that stuff with their kids and then expect them to act differently or be something else better when they’re grown.The seeds are being planted right now, they dont realize!And black pple continue to be played by the white boy, whilst he/she goes to the bank to deposit the loot, laughing at us in the process. I dont see white trailer park trash being played on reality tv,at least not as often we play flavor flav,i luv new yk,kyeish coles etc, am i missing some? And this chic at work asked me..did u slike delicious..i did nit answer, but looked her with mean eyes!! Sorry, i digressed…whats the topic?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Demi your a funny cat. “Dan speaking of classless dudes…I thought you grew up a little after turning 26 or 27.”

Atlanta can’t catch a break. This is osme funny chit. Parcells says no.

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

Demi i want some popcorn and redeem my coupon now!

By Demi

December 19, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

Dan hold up dude, I know some foxy 60 & up…LOL.

Don’t you want women to be more interested in just your look?

It depend on my frame of mind…now standing in front of Foots’s desk/w shirt off and hittin the male chest bounce

Foots on the real, nope. My true character shows after 5mins anyway.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

Truth The word from AF.com is that Parcells is considering a similar offer from the Dolphins, so that might explain things a bit.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

@ Dan…Then, it became, wait a minute, I’m Dan….why am I going through all that? She need to be at me, or keep rolling with them [SJ] lame cats….…dude by coming at me you are showing how immature and hoestyle you are…..i wont respond to any more of your post…dog pettle back to 3ft nephew…

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

Official statement from Atlanta Falcons Owner and CEO Arthur Blank:

Statement from Arthur Blank Regarding Discussions with Bill Parcells

Late last night it was revealed to the media by a source outside the Falcons that we were close to reaching an agreement with Bill Parcells to lead the club’s football operations.

Prior to the information becoming public, we had reached an agreement in principle with Parcells, and we met with him this morning to complete the contract. At that time, we were made aware by Parcells that he was considering a revised offer from the Miami Dolphins. He later informed us that he would not be signing a contract with us.

We remain committed to looking at every option for building a championship-caliber team for our fans. I have stated we will leave no stone unturned in doing so, and this effort is one example of that. We gave it our best shot, and it didn’t work out.

We will continue down the same overall path, proceeding with plans to hire a general manager and a head coach. We will identify and consider every strongly viable candidate for these positions, with the goal of hiring the best. Rich McKay remains President of the club and will retain general manager responsibilities until a new GM is hired.

We will be making no further comment on the Parcells matter.”

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

OK, I just read the ajc article on that Tila Tequila show and my mouth is still wide open. WTH??? WHAT.THE.HECK.IS.THIS.WORLD.COMING.TO???????

Dan and SeanJ - different strokes for different folks guys. If your approach works for you, then why worry about what some other man is doing? It takes all types of people to make the world go round. Shoot, depending on my mood I could be drawn to either approach.

The Truth now come on, you know Da Raiders have had their fair share of folks turning them down. But I’m sure it makes you feel better to see another team going through it…sorry azz black and silver

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 19, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Darrell

An the the hits just keep on coming…damn Fakecons someone put roots on you or something.

Yes I know about Steven Jackson and Holt and Bruce(I had him in my fantasy lineup) but offense can score all day but it is defense that wins the game and my biggest issues with my Steelers is our D breaking down….acting like they forgot which way is up. Troy P is back though so that hair will be flying. My other issue is Ben holding the damn ball so long. I swear he makes my heart stop(and not in the “good gravy he is 6’5 250 solid way”) But I am not worried about my Steelers your Fakecons though need a Football team extreme makeover.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

melo, I tend to agree. I didn’t watch Keyshia’s first season. I only picked up this season because folks were telling me how the Cole family really puts it out there. I gives me insight to a side of life I’ve never experienced. I feel nothing but pain for her family.

I cringe during the opening credits when Keyshia is like “I’m just like you” — NO HEFFA YOU ARE NOT. I wouldnt trade my life for hers for all the money in fame in the world.

I love how baby girl is trying to keep her head up and break that cycle in her family. Cuz that is a losing battle!

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

2CPTG© Boy, I must admit you had me cracking up with the watch this…sshh..but watch this When I first started going to NB, I couldn’t concentrate for wanting him to stop saying that. I guess all precha’s have their own lil thing.

Cemeeli Bring it on, I have tissue handy to wipe my Hi-C orange of the comp screen

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

Lady D D Not an experience that I have ever had, but I would think yes, he’d be apt to do it again.

Demi It’s right here on my lap……. dig in! ROFLMSAO sorry, it’s been a rough week

By Demi

December 19, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

Dan I worded it wrong…trust, 22-26..I was a very classless and tasteless dude…Most ladies on here are old as dirt and the dudes appoaching them must be dirt’s cousin or brother of the before generation…in other words, the dude is 40 still hittin mature women with the same lines from his twenties..are the ones I was speaking on.

By SlimOne

December 19, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

Demi My true character shows after 5mins anyway.* I thought I told you to zip those pants up hours ago.

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

It boggles my mind that we can’t go one day on this blog without the dudes on here getting salty or straight beefing with one another. It’s ridiculous and incredibly unattractive.

By Dan

December 19, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

Aww SJ…

Don’t be like that, how is me characterizing you as a lame “immature” or “hoestyle”?

I made a statement, if it wasn’t true why you getting personal. I may at one time been a bit of a w*******, but no more, so I don’t regard your comments with intimity (dictionary.com).

Besides, why you worried about what I say….. you in the cut anyway right?

Do you, I was making a point about how I acted in the day.

Be easy…sensitive guy. Dan shoots the Budwieser thumbs up and cheesy smile to SJ, as a token of apology

Feel better?

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

2C you wanna be my Wii daddy? lmao. i’ll give you joint custody. lol.

By Cemeeli

December 19, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

2C/Foots naw i’ll catch it the next time. And plus when i get finish getting my hair braided in c-rows and meet 2 outside Beautiful’s crib there is gonna be an even better skit.

Beautiful: 911 i’m reporting a robbery…i have this lady that i know/well i talk to her in a blog room…well she …her name is Cemeeli…

911 Operator: Maam, what’s the perpritrators names please?

B: Cemeeli and 2C…yea they are people i know from the AJC blog room.

911 Op: Maam, excuse me?

B: They took my kids new Nintendo Wii i bought them for Christmas!

911 op: Lemme get this straight, you have 2 ppl that you blog with that in the AJC and their names; Cemelian and Two See? They came to your HOME and robbed you of your Nintendo Wii system?

B: Yes maam.

991 op: Maam you say you attend church where?

B: I DIDN’T and what does that have to do with ANYTHING?

911 op: Well we’ve been getting a call from some members of a church in East Atlanta and most complaints are from woman. But what is interesting with these reports is

By Whaddaya think

December 19, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

@ JustMe 2:54 post. Was that rhetorical? You know the answer, it’s obvious. Nope.

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Most ladies on here are old as dirt and the dudes appoaching them must be dirt’s cousin or brother of the before generation…

I will glady speak on behalf of the cougars on this blog. Those coming after me and probably others here are in their late 20’s early 30’s my good friend. I don’t attract old or elderly men. So, whatca got now!

By india

December 19, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

i love getting compliments from men, i dont know about other women, but it makes me feel pretty darn good, especially if i get a compliment after having a terrible day. hope everyone has a merry christmas.

By BLOW ME

December 19, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

SEANJOHNSON You come off really doggish and cocky…what’s really good?

By Demi

December 19, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

JustMe my first thought was…Ewwwwww, nasty…Now I am like, I’ve never thought about sucking popcorns out of a vagina before…Hmmmmmmmmm…I am adding that to my list of things to with my SO

Negative thoughts

If her period comes on…Big Red with have nothing on those

Now cleaning lunch off keyboard

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

“2C you wanna be my Wii daddy? lmao. i’ll give you joint custody. lol.”

why am I thinking of that scene from Friday……..“it can be like both of ours….”

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I know you don’t date right now either…but when you are ready to settle down are you going to go for a younger man? Or someone your age?

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

ARed “It’s ridiculous and incredibly unattractive.” - I must agree. Flaws have genders too - catfights and whining are reserved for the females. Loud belching and smelling musty is reserved for the males. Anything else is uncivilized.

By Beautiful

December 19, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think If he were to leave his wife to be with you, would you have faith and trust in him?

nope? what do you mean nope? y is your girl wasting his time then? nope! wth. did she do this for fun? what is the real reason for being a homewrecker? for dyck? she could get dyck anywhere! tell shawty to grow the pluck up!

By 5fromfifty

December 19, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Whaddaya think I was she some time ago. I moved from NJ to GA to get away and move on. Mind you I did not know he was married until a year later. He followed me here!! I still continue to move on. There has been no divorce. Perpetually getting one. I move around that block and received my true blessings. One year in a new relationship (after 2 yrs of abstinence) and still going strong. He is gaming she.

By Foots

December 19, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

JustMe If he were to leave his wife to be with you, would you have faith and trust in him?

That man would have to go through some serious soul-searching and admit that he was wrong in order to restore trust. The ones that are like “I did it for love and I wasn’t happy anyway”, I think that those are the kind you can’t trust. The ones who are genuinely sorry (and apologize to everyone involved), take personal responsibility for the cheating (not that old “she made me look elsewhere”), and realize that they should have done things differently, I think they are salvagable.

In any situation, lack of trust would always be a factor, especially if he was actively cheating with his mistress the whole time, vs. “I have feelings for you, but let me handle my business over here first with my wife and I’ll come back for you, to keep you from being drawn into drama”.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 19, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

@ Blow…not doggish or cocky…just the opposite…just come on the blog…spit the real..because i actually live it…whats cocky about that?

By M.

December 19, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

*@QueDogTeaching *

Sorry about the delay..but you can spot her anywhere around Atlanta and you wont be able to miss her….

By 2CPTG©

December 19, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

Beautiful……me and some folks from my church are going Christmas Caroling this weekend, we’d love to grace your neighborhood with our presence….what was yo address again?

By Demi

December 19, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs you’re hitting the correct bandwidth of cool dudes…once most dudes hit 35 & up, it’s like they’re 20 again..far as their appoaches…Here is a nice, but firm hug from behind, followed by a light peck on the cheek…dont mind ‘that’ LOL

By Foots

December 19, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Amazon we can’t go one day on this blog without the dudes on here getting salty or straight beefing with one another. It’s ridiculous and incredibly unattractive.

At first, it was funny, but now, I agree with you. Emotions are getting the best of them, I guess.

Tazzee LOL!!

Dan You’re 27, that’s right… I remember you saying that you don’t care too much about the first impression you make anyway. I figure that some women eat that kind of stuff up.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Hell no my wittle Tazze didn’t just bad mouth the Oakland Raiders. I told you we’re rebuilding, why would you say something that mean? Watch next year, or possibly the year after that, we’re gonna leave a mark. LOL Tazz, I heard you wear a raiders sports bra to the gym. Confess it woman, your a fan.

By JustMe

December 19, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Demi I said dig in, not dive in, but ok, do yo dang thang! Just be careful where you nibble.

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

ARed, interesting question. As of today, my age range is 35-45. However, if a 55 year young acting person came to me and caught my attention, I’d consider him. It’s not so much about the age as it is much more to do with his activity level. I’m active and need a man that’s active (in and out of bed). I don’t want to grow old watching tv and suddenly there’s a knock at the door. I answer it only to see “old age” coming to cart my wrinkled behind away. Hell no! I’m not saying I have to go clubbing but I have to go somewhere more than quaterly. You grow old by doing nothing, and that’s not my intention!

By Darrell B Harrison

December 19, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

Truth The Falcons play the Raiders (at Oakland) in ‘08. I may try and make that game depending on when it’s scheduled. The ‘08 schedule should be released around the time of the NFL Draft in mid-April.

By Demi

December 19, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

SlimOne LOL

Cemeeli what coupons?

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I’ve fallen and can not get up after the “old age” part coming to get you! Haaaaaaaaa!!!

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

The Truth the only thing I like about the Raiders is Justin Griffith - if he’d quit playing hard to get and propose, I might become a fan.

note to all y’all Dunn lovers - he’s still my first love so back off!

By melo

December 19, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

she could get dyck anywhere!, u know u cant get good dyck everywhere Beautiful plz get off that advice.Women kill each other for dyck so dont talk like its not an important consideration.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 19, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

Darrell you from Oaktown?

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

Hey guys I am back from a Dr.s appointment….I had a scare….I found a lump and had to have my first mammogram..OUCH! You know a man invented that contraption! Squeeze my twins senseless. They will be swollen now…luckily I have no man trying to touch on them now because he would get the back hand! But I am happy to report…I am all good. I was fooled into believing I would not need one until I was at least 40..but know I find that Breast Cancer is hitting the 20 somethings as well…there goes my “I’m too young” theory! take care of your twins ladies!

By Darrell B Harrison

December 19, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

Tazz I happen to own a red authentic Justin Griffith jersey which I bought during the Falcons ‘06 season. I was hoping to get it autographed, but he left for Oakland in the off-season. I really admired the guy’s work ethic and that he came to play week after week. Needless to say, I wasn’t “Mr. Happy” when the Falcons let him go after I’d dropped almost $300 on that jersey. :-/

By Tazzee

December 19, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Have a great evening all! Countdown to vacation - 2 more days!!!!

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Glad that you are fine Staceye. You said it correctly contraption.

By Demi

December 19, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

JustMe Like I told the cutie for this summer, don’t be placing edible items on or near your lap, LOL

SexyLeggs you think you can sneak a 28 years old brother back on your list, lol

By AmazonRed

December 19, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the reminder, Staceye. Glad you are okay.

By Staceye

December 19, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Thanks ARed & Sexyleggs

By SexyLeggs

December 19, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening!

By A Twin Lover (not demi)

December 19, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

Staceye Guuuuurl, don’t be scaring me like that!!! I need to take care of the twins…thats were us get milk from.

now digging my own grave LOL

Night All

By Whaddaya think

December 19, 2007 5:07 PM | Link to this

@ Beautiful. I’m so sorry love for your mishaps. You seem really bitter. Actually Foots, the 2nd paragraph of you 4:16 post is more like what happened:

“but let me handle my business over here first with my wife and I’ll come back for you, to keep you from being drawn into drama”.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 19, 2007 5:09 PM | Link to this

Truth Nah, I’m from the A, but I usually make 2-3 road trips with the Falcons every season. Been a season ticket holder since 2002, so I follow ‘em at home and on the road. Hit me up next season if you need tickets for that one.

By 5fromfifty

December 19, 2007 5:09 PM | Link to this

@ Beautiful Why is it she that is the homewrecker? What about him? Typical female blaming the female that has been lied to. Honey Chile the home was wrecked when he stepped out. !!! Slow it up g-friend you beginning to show that Beautiful is indeed in the eye of the beholder. Got that Snow White mirror?