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Holidazed & Confused

I agreed to help out a guy of interest with his shopping this weekend. He was utterly perplexed about what to buy, so I figured I could find out his personal style/taste while I helped him pick out gifts. Ok, I also was nosy about who he was buying for, too.

We found some really nice things for his family, but we saw a lot of men milling around looking dazed and confused about what to buy. I turned into a little personal shopper for about three frustrated men because I felt so bad for them!

Guys, do you need ideas or tips on what to get? You have exactly seven days to find something. Send out your SOS, maybe you could get some inspiration from other readers!

Ladies, do you have an exciting or unique gift for the men in your lives? Did you plan a romantic holiday surprise for your sweetheart? Is there a new guy you want to dote on for the holidays?

Let’s swap ideas: Guys, who do you have left on your shopping list? Do you know what you will get for the new girl in your life? Have you thought of something romantic for your significant other?

What is on your ultimate wish list?

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By SlimOne

December 18, 2007 8:17 AM | Link to this

Top of this cold Azz mornin to ya

Again, I won’t have to buy a guy a gift this year since I’m doing the solo thang. I’ll peep back in once I de-ice my computer screen.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 18, 2007 8:23 AM | Link to this

Morning, everyone. :-)

Given that I don’t have an S.O. at the moment, my shopping list consists of only two people - my son and daughter - and they’re both all set. As for me, I’m hoping that by next Christmas my list will be longer by one person. If so, then I’ll know Santa got my e-mail. ;-)

By 2CPTG©

December 18, 2007 8:35 AM | Link to this

morning……only 2 gifts left to buy!!!

as for me, Wii!!!!!!

By kinderbabe

December 18, 2007 8:41 AM | Link to this

good morning all!:) brrrr, it’s cold out there. i got something for a suitor i have my eye on…lol. i hope he likes it. he better! besides that, the only shopping i did was for my mom, dad and sister.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 18, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this

Good cold morning to everybody!!!

Darrell You don’t have to wait to next year; you can add my name now.LOL

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 18, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this

MsU Okay, I left the door open for that one. LOL! :-)

By mqew

December 18, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this

Morning! Only three more days until 2wk vacation! Yeaaaaaah!.

I know WTH Pam Anderson wants, but she’s looking for it in all the wrong places. Two months??!!! WTH can go wrong in 2 months. I don’t get it.

Anyhoo - This will def be a nice Xmas since we’ll have time off and the boy (11 mo old) will be in day care. Wooohooo! We will have a chance to catch up on some grown peoples stuffesess.

Ultimate wish list? How about a money tree with a lifetime six digit supply. It’d be easier to pursue some things in the works.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 9:01 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

All my gift giving is taken care of I think? (have to check my list) But when buying for SO I always get them something they will like or use. So I buy based on interest..if he likes wine..buy wine…if he likes sports…maybe tickets to a game.etc. If you know your mate then you know what they like so get them something they will appreciate.

By SlimOne

December 18, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

I would love to get some hand weights and two of those workout balls for Christmas. Anybody have room on their TO GET LIST to add my lil ole wishes on there?

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

Oh I forgot what I want for Xmas..

UnRealstic gift..A vacation cruise to Alaska and a 30 day tour of Europe.

Realistic gift…A Sony PSP(although finding one is next to impossible)

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

Oh…poor guys. Between today’s topic and yesterday’s topic it would seem hey have it so rough during the holidays (note sarcasm). Okay, so some don’t know how to shop…big deal. It’s typically the woman that get the short end of the stick during the holidays: shopping, cooking, cleaning. A lot of work! No sympathy for the guys who can get away with picking out a few gifts (which now result in gift cards) or running some errands!

By the way, Happy Tuesday everyone! ;-)

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this

Good morning! Don’t have anyone to buy for this year. Like Darrell, I’m hoping next year it’ll be different.

If I did have him on my list, I would purchase him one of these: Wii, PS3, new cell, cologne, pair of kicks, weight set, leather jacket, cd’s, his favorite movie series, leather gloves & scarf, pair of tickets to somewhere he loves, trip to Vegas, a lap dance, a massage, etc.

By 2CPTG©

December 18, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this

wow, so early Amazon?

Kym…the PSP’s are everywhere….it’s that damn Wii, that’s so elusive…

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…perfect give for me would be a nice paint job with a couple of clear coats for my 5.0..or a 3some…i’ve been a good boy all year..wonder if santa is gonna surprise me..

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

Wow Beautiful, you’re a great gift giver! :-)

By abc

December 18, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

I don’t go out looking for specific things to buy for people. I just start shopping… things all but jump off the shelves at me. If I look for something in particular I’ll never find it, but if I just go looking with that person in mind, I’ll find the perfect thing by chance. It can get a little expensive doing it like that though. But what the hey, it’s Christmas!

I’d say a guy that has a hard time figuring out what to buy for his girl doesn’t really know her all that well. If he did, he’d know what she likes, what she’d needs, what will make her smile on Christmas morning.

By SlimOne

December 18, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

Beautiful You think you are slick, I caught that…lap dance. WOuld that happen to include you dressed as Mrs. Claus?

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

SeanJohnson3000 just for you, i’m adding that 3some to my list for my future man. LMAO. we’re all adults here!

ARed if i’m in love, money doesn’t matter. the smile on his face when he opens the present, priceless.

By Dan

December 18, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

@abc

That’s not fair. I might know my woman real well and instead of buying “something she needs, wants” I could give her the freedom to do it herself, while I take care of the kids [sic], help cook, whatever.

I mean women get away with giving “love” on just about every occasion. Why can’t the expression of romance be something as simple as “hey baby, you go to Spa Sydell, I got today”?

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Great point on your 9:19 abc. (2nd paragraph)

By mqew

December 18, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Dang girl. Those all are great gifts! I’d be happy to get most of those!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

Good morning now bunnies.

Beautiful lets start a short term relationship. Start today and it ends on Dec 31. BTW, I’ll take one of each. I already know what I’ll get you too. A nice set of furry house slippers. Woohoo

SJ LMAO

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Salutations Everyone!

The GREATEST gift of all & I dedicate this snippet of song in that regard…

Why you love me so, Lord i shall never know…The precious lamb of God.

Breakfast Today: Fresh manna…Have at it.

~ BRB

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

SlimOne no. i’ll allow him this one fantasy. after she gets him all hot, i’ll take it from there. lol.

By binford

December 18, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

AR Did you have an early mimosa or three?

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

See Beautiful, you’ve created a monster! I think your stance is wonderful, but I know the wrong type of guy could definitely take advantage of your kindness. Make sure he breaks you off just as lovely! ;-)

By abc

December 18, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

Dan, I’d give her a spa day just because it’s Tuesday. We’re talking about Christmas. Women don’t want a gift card, they want you to come through with something special — that’s the ‘thought’ that’s important to them. Not necessarily how much it costs, and it’s not about cooking or taking care of kids and being tired either, in spite of what they might (endlessly) say about that. That kind of thing, they want and need every day. On special occasions like significant holidays, that kind of thing doesn’t cut it.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 18, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

Kinderbabe How did it go yesterday?

NCGirl come out of lurkville today… SJ you are still a mess. lol on topics: I don’t have a SO to but for. So i but for the kids, my mom & myself… for xmas i would like to meet a potential SO…..

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 18, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

Morning Everyone!

I dont have an SO to buy for this year but if I did: detailing for his car, cologne, cuff link w/his initials, watch, strip tease and body massage (performed by yours truly), pay for at least a years worth of haircuts, etc. Just some things that I would do or have done in the past.

I feel that I am easy to shop for b/c I like simple things:gift cards, literature, music, concerts, perfume, spa treatments, etc. I like to receive jewelry as well but (Let me get my blog bullet-proof gear out) I prefer to get it myself (unless Daddy buys it). :-) I know it sounds crazy but that is just me. Now my wedding rings were a different story….

Anyway, I’ll pop in later, I am sure this will be an interesting blog day..

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

Morning TruthBaby. during that time, make sure you drink some extra redbull. lol.

btw, do you add eggs in your mac & cheese?

By Bre

December 18, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

Good Morning to all I hope all is well…..ahhh winter is for sure here.

I was done with most of my holiday shopping months ago. I shop all year round, if I see I get it. Puts less stress on the end of the year. However with the new guy I’m between 3 gifts for him, its been pretty hard to decide which one. We are closing on a house in a few weeks that should be gift enough. But I wanted to get something special just for him.

ABC so true on what you said. I know for a fact my guy got my gift awhile back. It sucks it was so easy for him and I’m stuck in limbo.

The ultimate gift is I’ve picked a single mother with 3 kids to help with there holiday. Just giving that is my gift to myself to be able to provide them with some type of joy.

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

Good Morning 2C Brandsmart received a shipment of Wii this morning. (last shipment for ANY store before christmas) reported on the news this morning. Forget Gamestop but I’ll try at lunchtime.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Dan that should be every day. Not just a holiday. That reminds me of a guy babysitting his own children. WTF????

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

binford - Nope. Did you?

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this

2C There is not a PSP left in GA I am telling you I have search Walmart, Target, Circuit City, and beyond for one. So it is all good..I will go with the Nintendo DS. I only wanted it cause I saw someone else with it anyway Man I can be as bad as my son at times.

By 2CPTG©

December 18, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli….good lookin’ out…..ummmm, pick up one for ya boi….I got you………..when I get my income tax!

BrandsMart, eh???

By For Real

December 18, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

I’m with you 2C on the Wii thang can’t find one under $700.

A-Red Did you wear any pants this morning?

abc That’s not always the case. As you know women have no end to wants and needs if you let them tale it.

MLB GREAT NEWS SEE BELOW

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The meeting — which marks the largest AAPS meeting to date, with more than 9,000 expected to attend — provides media the opportunity to speak with some of the world’s most prominent pharmaceutical scientists. Details regarding the 2007 key medical discoveries include:

First Reversible, Orally-Administered Male Contraceptive New research presented at the AAPS Annual Meeting indicates that a new oral option for men to prevent pregnancy may be possible. The study shows the efficacy and side-effects of an oral contraceptive for males, which is similar to birth control pills currently available for women.

To date, effective male contraception has been restricted to physical methods, namely condoms and vasectomy. However, the research conducted by scientists at GTx, Inc., the Ohio State University, and the University of Tennessee provides the first male oral contraceptive that has been found effective in preventing pregnancy.

Additionally, the option is reversible: after the medication is stopped, fertility is fully restored.

For 13 years, these researchers have been examining the reversibility of a compound that inhibits infertility by utilizing a non-steroidal hormonal therapy known as a selective androgen receptor modulator.

“Past clinical studies using testosterone for male contraception were not effective at preventing pregnancy without producing significant negative side- effects,” said James Dalton, Ph.D., AAPS Fellow and lead researcher at GTx, Inc. and the Ohio State University.

“Our recent study was doubly successful because it completely and reversibly inhibited fertility without unwanted side-effects.”

In fact, the study proved that this male pill had positive effects on muscle and bone. Clinical trials are expected to begin in one to two years.

Blog Ladies can you envision this conversation taking place:

Woman #1: ‘My [husband, boyfriend, significant other] is selfish. He’s on the pill and won’t get off. I’ve asked him to stop taking it but he always says he’s not ready. He just won’t grow up. I don’t know what to do.’

Woman #2: ‘That’s what the pill has given men—a right to be perpetual adolescents. It’s given them veto power over women who want to have children’…

By Dan

December 18, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Naw, I’m not saying just on the holiday. But that’s a gift period.

Now, for all the stress that a woman goes through during the holiday, a helping hand is not considered a good thing anymore. Wow.

At the same, with all the chaos of the holiday (look at it from that perspective) to me, “baby, take some time just for you…” is a good thing. No in-laws, no crying chillen, no phone calls, no stuffing, no turkey, ham, et al. I’m talking about getting her out of the added hecticness of the holidays.

As far as everyday, we on that too. Many a night has a woman come home to a meal in the oven, and fresh drawn bath (and pimpin, that’s without kids in the mix).

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Sir Truth it’s colder today…That beach vacation sounds even better on the 2nd coldest day huh? btw - if they are your children you are not babysitting (sorry…dang!)

Hello MO/Mrs.U. HiD.

By Bill

December 18, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

It’s typically the woman that get the short end of the stick during the holidays - typical attitude of an American woman. So self-absorbed and clueless, galf the stuff you guys work yourselves into a frenzy for is your own doing. Don’t you ever get tired of that martyr role?

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

Kym PSP used @ local Gamestops try it. Unless i was delusional lastweek.

By 2CPTG©

December 18, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

Kym, you think you’re bad - I’ve passed my “inner geek” on to my son, as well…..I got him a PSP last year for his B-day, this year he’s gettin the PS3, that’s why I want the Wii for me!

By For Real

December 18, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Oh and On topic: Well I’m old skool, I will do all of my shopping on this weekend. Either Saturday or Sunday. Now that’s a real man.

For Real failed to mentioned that he only has 4 people to buy a gift for and two of them are teenagers that love money more than eating.

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

*Top of the brick azz morning to ya all!!!

Since I am single…the only gifts will be for family and my friends..oh and myself. But I watch a guys personal style and learn what he likes and try to keep within the realms of that….unless he is a fashion victim, then I intervene. Speaking of style…

Off topic: ladies have you ever had that friend who’s style of dress has completely changed to yours since they started hanging out with you? Its too the point that she starts to buy everything you buy? Do you hate to see a Mini Me coming around the corner? I am dealing with this now. I feel each person should have their on style. I feel like Lil’ Kim, “get yo’ own shyt…why you riding mine”! I wanna smack fire out of this chick because biting my style is like spitting in my face…down right disrespectful. I have had this happen to me more than once and I hate it. Fashion has always been my thing…that is why I went to college for Fashion Design! Personal Style is MY BABY! Why is this trick being a copycat instead of making her own path? Is it that she doesn’t get noticed so now she wants to dress as I do? Oh…did I mention even her personality is starting to mirror mine? She was a introvert….a pushover and now she wants to be assertive and she has even said that I rubbed off on her. I feel like Single Black Female. Is this trick nuts are something? Now that I am done venting…back to our regualry scheduled program!

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

ARed i’ve been taken care of in the gift department. but giving is my thang. i love to make someone happy and to show it is fun to me.

regarding the dad babysitting his own kids is sad. i’m not aiming this at you, but for a father to do something without being told or just doing it everyday 50/50 is sexy as h3ll.

By $$DIBIASE$$

December 18, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

@AmazonRed….I Can be your Dirty Santa love..i am looking to sponsor a chick for the ho-liday season….lol

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

Morning Bill - The comment doesn’t apply to me, as I don’t have a husband or children. But I do think that women do work harder than men during the holidays.

By mqew

December 18, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Dan I am def guilty on the giving of “love”. I’ll try to do better next year.

Bre That is soooo nice! Do you know them or…

That reminds me, is anyone giving any charitable contributions (time, effort, money, etc..)?

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Bill that is why I wouldn’t do it. It’s always expected for the woman to amke Chrsitmas dinner…leave it to me it’s called catering and a phone. I’m not doing shyt! LOL I will decorate and that’s it!

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

4Real i love the idea. for men to finally have the choice is awesome. it would also be wonderful if men could have the baby!

By Dan

December 18, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Wow.

While I can’t get with Bill’s terminology, I can agree that a lot of the work women do (kids, house, etc.) is in part because they don’t want/know how to ask for help.

It befuddles me to no end, that a simple gesture as holding the door open for a woman, or offering to help with housework, or the kids homework is rebuffed.

I mean, kudos to the one’s getting it done on the solo! But when the offer is presented don’t readily turn it down. Maybe, just maybe, me offering to help has nothing to do with your authority or percieved dominance, maybe I just want to help becuase of how I was raised.

By abc

December 18, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

Do what you can to keep the woman from knocking herself out in the kitchen. While it’s a way they feel they show love, it’s a dead-end for men in that no amount of appreciation is enough. If you can’t avoid it altogether, help do the cooking, even if she’ll only let you do prep. Get a shopping list from her and do the shopping. Bring home specialty desserts from a gourmet restaurant. Again though, these things aren’t reliant on a significant holiday — if you don’t do that stuff all the time, you’re a dog. Takes one to know one.

I agree with Bill’s 9:58. Women who feel that way to all they can to make sure that they can make the claim, and complain about it the whole time.

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. My Christmas shopping is done. My daughter wants a shopping spree so that’s what she’s getting. There will be an envelope w/cash under the tree. I told her I would be her butler for one day. However, what she doesn’t reallize is that this is going to be a great math lesson for her. Told her to bring her calculator. She will see that money doesn’t go as far as she thinks, hopefully all the while realizing how I stretch the dollars I have.

By chrissy

December 18, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

I love to listen to a guy a few months before christmas and find out what interests him….it could be a professional game, Wii, sneakers, tech gadget, etc.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

Staceye

hmmmm you might want to have a drink of egg nog or something it is not that serious. Also, how can you call this woman and friend and a trick in the same breath? I mean I would think it would be flattering that she is wanting to dress like you(unless the style of dress doesnt fit her shape then u have a problem) but otherwise what is the big diff? Unless you are buying clothes especially designed for you…someone..somewhere..at some point in time will have on that shirt or pants or skirt..so what. I know you were venting but I swear that reminded me of some scene from Clueless or Bring it On or one of those other Bubblegum flicks.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

Bill what you said about the work being their own doing is true,however, the only thing worse than a woman complaining about to much work is a woman fugging with you because theres not enough to do.

By $$DIBIASE$$

December 18, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

only gift i am giving this year…..open below

Hey girl I got somethin’ real important to give you So just sit down and listen Girl you know we’ve been together such a long long time (such a long time) And now I’m ready to lay it on the line (Wooow) You know it’s Christmas and my heart is open wide Gonna give you something so you know what’s on my mind A gift real special, so take off the top Take a look inside — it’s my dyck in a box Not gonna get you a diamond ring That sort of gift don’t mean anything Not gonna get you a fancy car Girl ya gotta know you’re my shining star Not gonna get you a house in the hills A girl like you needs somethin’ real Wanna get you somethin’ from the heart Somethin’ special girl It’s my dyck in a box, my dyck in a box babe It’s my dyck in a box, my dyck in a box girl

See I’m wise enough to know when a gift needs givin’ (yeah) And I got just the one, somethin’ to show ya that you are second to none To all the fellas out there with ladies to impress It’s easy to do just follow these steps 1: Cut a hole in a box 2: Put your junk in that box 3: Make her open the box And that’s the way you do it It’s my dyck in a box… my dyck in a box babe It’s my dyck in a box, my dyck in a box girl Christmas; dyck in a box Hanukkah; dyck in a box Kwanzaa; a dyck in a box Every single holiday a dyck in a box Over at your parent’s house a dyck in a box Mid day at the grocery store a dyck in a box Backstage at the CMA’s a dyck in a box (yeah-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow) a dyck in a box…

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - That’s great! A gift with a lesson. Aren’t you her butler everyday though? ;-)

By the way, I emailed you last week. Never got a response!

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

Sexylegg Kudos! I love that lesson of a christmas gift you are incorporating into your daughters merry. Humm at such an impressionable age (w/money as her gift). Cool.

By chrissy

December 18, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

sexlegg that sounds like a great idea. hope you and your daughter have a good time.

By 2CPTG©

December 18, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs, that’s what up with giving cash for gifts…young’uns quickly realize that dollar ain’t as long in their hands as it is in mommy or daddy’s hands!

By For Real

December 18, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Bill I think 2E’s jsut proved your point. And get this if 2E’s had a SO she would sit there and expect him to listen to this. Hey Foots!

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Kym I hate imitators! That is why I try to order a lot of my stuff from website that do not have stores. Each time I go out,,,I see a sea of woman wearing the same tired crap from the malls here. So of course when I go home to NY I rack up! I gets ladies asking where I got certaing things from and it’ great to be able to tell them a place where that can’t. I never reveal my websites. No..i do nto find it flattering when it turns into a bickering match because she went and bought the same things I have and now we are going out to the same place and I do not do the Bopsy twin thing! She them throws a crying fit about her having nothing else to wear. If she would not copy me in the first place…no problem would be present. Come on…you know you hate to see another women with your outfit on at a party or something. But it’s worst when the chick is with you. You look like you tried to do the Jr. High school thing and dress alike. I just feel she needs to be be her…and NOT me!

Now I have to go back to having my shoes custom made. I used to make my own stuff..but now I no longer have the time! I am an indivualist and hate mirror images! GET YOUR OWN STYLE!!! LOL

By the way…I LOVE Clueless!

By chrissy

December 18, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

dibiase disgusting.

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

DIBIASE that was my gift suggestion the other day! LOL

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

@ Staceye…whats the problem? thats the highest form of flattery…i have a female friend that is like you…goes out of her way to form her “own” style….Just keep in mine..you make the clothes..its about your own swag and persona…so even if you have on the some outfit…its gonna fit you different…..question for you…are you one of those females that hang around/ go out with females that may not be viewed as equally attractive as u so you can stand out?

By abc

December 18, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Huh. Shallow much?

By Dan

December 18, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

@Chrissy

Blame Justing Timberlake and Saturday Night Live. That’s where he got it from.

FUNNY!!!!!

By mqew

December 18, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

Dibiase That skit was hilarious! Sorry Chris.

Staceye Why don’t you work it in conversation one day…. Ooooh that chic got on my _ I can’t stand wearing the same outfit as someone else. Or you could just stop hanging around her.

Sexyleggs My mother use to give us $400 every Xmas. It was pointless for her to try to hide items, and I think it was just easier on her. You are right, needless to say, it went very quick.

By pisces07

December 18, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

Good morning All… ARed, just making sure you keep your Bill’s separate. Hey Beautiful.

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this

SJ no …all my girls are attractive! I do not find that flattery…I find it beyond annoying! Granted you are right…she could never swagga jack me! But still I am ticked. You have to grow into your personal style…so when you put lots of effort into it…the last thing you want is to be copied!

By BJ Ellis-sucks

December 18, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this

Fashion has always been my thing…that is why I went to college for Fashion Design! Personal Style is MY I feel each person should have their on style

Why so shallow, early in the morning?

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Morning pisces, you lurker you. :-)

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

ARed, sorry, haven’t checked my personal email in about a week. I check in a few mins. You got that right, I’m already her butler. What’s funny IS she asked if she had final say on all that she bought. I looked at her like she had 3 heads and said NOPE!

2C, young’uns quickly realize that dollar ain’t as long in their hands as it is in mommy or daddy’s hands! EXACTLY!!!

By melo

December 18, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Fashion has always been my thing…that is why I went to college for Fashion Design! Personal Style is MY BABY! Why is this trick being a copycat instead of making her own path? the more u post on here and visualize who u are and what u represent, i see myself knocking ur head and hearing a loud echo.

By AmazonRed

December 18, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Staceye - Looks like you’re on your own with this one.

By Demi

December 18, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

For Real issssh…Telling a woman you can’t have or don’t want any kids, will get you put on her shyt list…I am a honest dude…We can either adopt or she can f/k another dude for a child and we’ll rise it together…But I ain’t paying child support, that was her decision to have a child LOL

SexyLeggs watch her spent the money wisely.

Cemeeli pass some happy juice my way…Li’Demi isn’t feeling well.

But I do think that women do work harder than men during the holidays.

That’s soooo true…but it’s only bad when the hard work is not appreciated.

Now placing bet for how their feelings will change once the right man comes into A.red/eyes’s life

Y’all under 33 years old ladies are a trip!!

Hey Bre glad things are looking up for ya…now handing Bre my blog AK for deer hunting

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 18, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli What did you guys go see at the movie? My son & his dad went to see Alvin & the chipmunks, I heard it was good.

staceye I may have seen someone with a shirt I own or a pair of shoes but not the same outfit from head-to-toe.. Sunday most of us wore black tops & jeans but we all had our own little twist to our outfits; we all looked great… No doublemint twins. It sounds like your friend really admire your taste of style…….

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

pisces07 hi handsome. come ova here and sit on ms. claus lap and tell me what you want for xmas. wink, wink.

By Blow Me

December 18, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

Good Morning all!

The Truth and SJ3000You guys are funny $luts…

Alot of ppl today are THRISTY I see!

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

Mqew, my daughter wants $250. I am giving her $400. She’ll be surprised at that. However, you’re right, it’s going to go fast. I will show her how to bargain hunt and not buy the first thing she sees. She shops w/me a lot so hopefully she has been taking notes (just maybe). She knows how to watch prices in the grocery store and hopefully that will show thru on her shopping spree. It’s going to be interesting to say the least.

Staceye, I have a friend like you who absoulutely abhors anyone jocking her style. However, I see nothing wrong if someone complimented a particular blouse or shoe or jacket and then went and purchased the same item on a couple of occasions. BUT, to copy someone’s entire style can be a bit annoying after a while. How is that done anyway?

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

@ Staceye…lil advise…u might wanna work on your personality…if its anything like it is in person as it is on the blog..u might not have a problem getting a dude to fck you because of your looks….but not be fcked up with you in the long run…that bratz mentality/attitude is a big turn off…its cute when u are 11 or 12…but not when u are 27…leave that to those chicks on mtv…

By Gimme A Break

December 18, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Dibiase I’m curious, where are you from?

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 18, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

Staceye Don’t waste too much thought or energy on trying to be different from the next. Just do you and express yourself for who your are. If someone is trying to imitate you…just smile and accept the compliment. When my girlfriends and I go shopping together it’s only natural that if I see something cool they’ll gravitate towards it as well. Does that bother me…not in the least. I’m only trying to be me and if I walk in the party and someone had the same outfit on as me then I’ll tell them nice outfit. It doesn’t diminish the fact that I’m looking good! Remember..it’s not the clothes that make the lady, but the lady that makes the clothes.

By pisces07

December 18, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Beautiful(ms. claus)…. I want da wink, wink :-)!

By Tazzee

December 18, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

First of all, I think it’s admirable that guys are out there looking dazed and confused buying gifts for the women in their lives. I’m not much of a shopper myself - so I know personally the stress and anxiety that comes with trying to buy the perfect gift for the one you love…when you really don’t know what to get.

I don’t have an SO this holiday season and haven’t had one for Christmas in a while. The last time I did, I bought him something I wanted him to have.

As far as my shopping, I usually only buy for the kids and the adults’ gift was that I got their kids something. Well this year, with my travels - it turns out that I have gifts for the adults already and now I’m trying to shop for the kids. I do most of my shopping online and the gifts I go out and buy are gift cards. I can’t stand the shopping crowds - even for the one’s I love.

I can’t wait to open the educational toys with my niece and nephews on Christmas day so we can play with them. I got toys that I think will be fun - so if they don’t like them I can take them back with me ;-)

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

WAY OFF TOPIC, I have 2 tickets to Georgia Tech v. Kansas this evening. Anybody want them?

By $$DIBIASE$$

December 18, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

@gimmie a break…this rell you dolt, i am just trying to keep the ish light and funny..that was an SNL skit..why you so uptight…

@sj3000…man staceye going to be staceye….feel me..if that is her way then her live mayne…i am sure with the right man that lil tude can be handled….it is all for show anyway..part of her persona….i dont mind it…

By $$DIBIASE$$

December 18, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

@gimmie a break…this rell you dolt, i am just trying to keep the ish light and funny..that was an SNL skit..why you so uptight…

@sj3000…man staceye going to be staceye….feel me..if that is her way then her live mayne…i am sure with the right man that lil tude can be handled….it is all for show anyway..part of her persona….i dont mind it…

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

Staceye…can i say…Woooo-sah for you girlie!?!

My college roomate did something of the sort to me “Snatch my style” . Even though i don’t take it so personally as SJ said it is very flattering! (i took the other extreme with this)I embraced it! She even took it upon herself to make my closet her personal Vera Wang chamber so actually she “snatch my clothes”. When i say my sister would walk up in a step show, party or game with my exact same ‘put together outfit’ *(not at shame as i wore of course) But exactly how i wore it and smile and come right over to me. But see what i did was took her this approach. I would take with me shopping and take her to store that i thought complimented HER personality and made it come across as if i REALLY like the stuff that was in these stores. Wallah she took to it. She was more of a ‘simple casual, “Brittish look” as far as her personality. (with the long blk hair to match) but she did not know how to get creative with style. I just thought it was a cool project to help her find that little portion of herself that makes Mia, Mia.

By melo

December 18, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

u might not have a problem getting a dude to fck you because of your looks….but not be fcked up with you in the long run SJ300,cosign.She is the type to take with u to the strip.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

SJ LMAO I swear I was thinking the same thing. Bratz and Meangirls. Staceye honey from one woman to another you may want to lose that stuff real quick because I know you think everyone is “hating on you” but take SJ advice on this one..no dude is going to put up with that shyt.

Why do I have the image of this chick with a dog in her purse saying “As If”.

By Blow Me

December 18, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

Can we get back on topic?

I will take a nice guy with a 8 in of hard lumber!!!

To put in my fireplace!! lmao!!!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 18, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

On topic I have no idea what I’m getting SO for Christmas. If money wasn’t a factor I’d know exactly what to get him…wii, entire home entertainment system (speakers,flat screen tvs on the walls,etc), theatre room lazyboys, etc….But considering I can’t afford any of those items I’m stuck. He’s a great cook…so would it be wrong for me to get him a food processor? Along with a nice outfit?

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

*Mqew8 I have told her to stop and how much I do not appreciate it. But continues. So I have cut her off as of this week. I’m done with that crap!

ARED I am so used to being on my own. Nevere bothered me before…doesn’t bother me now!

Sexyleggs it’s to the point if we are at a store and I pick something up to buy it..she does too…I have put stuff back because of this. That is disrespect..get your own shyt! Even if I like something..and see her pick it up first…I will forego purchasing it out of respect and to avoid wearing the same outfit at the same time and looking stupid. All I want is the same respect. I’m just annoyed that’s all! I do not care if it sounds shallow or whatever to other..it bothers me…so screw what others think. I have spent my life worried about what others thought of me…now I am in F’ it mood! And I am happier for it!

SJ does it look like I am looking for a man? I do not want one….how many times do I have to say that? I do not feel it’s bratty to want someone to NOT be your carbon copy. If that person is your “friend” they should not do stuff to purposly annoy you!

By Picky Nikki

December 18, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

I need some new panties

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Sexyleggs I have two to Thrashers tonight…u wanna exchange?…Naw wait i might go. If it’s turns out, it may be warmer inside the Arena tonight. LOL

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 18, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Staceye But why do you think if you go shopping with her that she shouldn’t buy it just because you saw it first? If you weren’t there she probably would’ve picked the same outfit. Me and a girlfriend went shopping for the same trip to cabo and bought the same pants…without even planning it we were it the same day in cabo…I could’ve cared less…

By Blow Me

December 18, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Staceye Why do you continue to go shopping with her…if this annoys you so much? You are setting your own self up for the kill?!?! You should have been cut ties with her…if it’s so much like THAT…

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Staceye,

Me thinks thou doth protest wayyyyy to much With that whole I dont want a man. I mean we get it. But do you even know why you dont want a man? Life lesson number 3004. If you say it long enough and loud enough to yourself and others.. in time maybe..just maybe.. you will convince yourself and them that it is true.

By Chink

December 18, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

SJ

Nice Comment (11:01 am)

By Suck em'

December 18, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Blow pops would be nice!

Anything suckable and blowable..I am game!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

Now this is some funny shyt. You can’t pay for entrtainment like this. LMAO

Nipples if you get him a food processor he’d be within his legal rights to leave your azz on xmas day. LOL Don’t do that. What does he like to do? Clothes? Sports? Some ho cards are always good. Technology nut? They have some great remotes out nowadays. An ugraded cell phone with a nude pic of you under your contact info. Please don’t do the food processor.

Melo and SJ y’all got me laughing my azz off over here.

By Demi

December 18, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Staceye how old is your friend? 25-29…Something tells me she’s trying to find her own style.

I will admit, when I first learn to dress corp…I bit a few dudes style for a minute…I was 22 at the time…One old cat pulled me aside and told me nice suit, but that’s not you. Now I dress per my height, build, skin complexion, and personality.

Pull her aside…nice as “YOU” can…And let her now, while you appreciate her for liking your taste in clothes, why not developed your own unique way of dressing. Would you mind if I can help you do that? I can’t believe I just type that. LOL

Now stop being mean and put your so call fashion senses to work!! God has given you a gift…Go apply the Dayum thang…somewhere LOL

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Hi Demi!!! Here you go bay…Cemeeli giving Demi a sweet subtle forehead kiss Muah!

Hey i did get your addy last evening keep lurking. Mailman is going to ring for you soon.

…speaking of mailman where is BlueKolla?

By melo

December 18, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli i will do anything for the two Thrashers tickets in case u change ur mind.Thanx.I am well protected from this fakke cold!! Picky Nikki i can get u panties for a slice.Make sure u rinse prperly! I think i’m getting my blackberry or palm treo, im not sure what she decided to buy coz they went out with my daughers, spend 3 hrs out there and then hid the other parcels when they got back home.She boght me a thick coat for winter, so far(it was on sale she is cheap too!!!) What should i buy her, something not more than $100.00. Im cheap.And when i the best time to go out there to buy. I hate the crowds.Any deals that u ladies can shed some light on. I am tight with $$$ and this frenzy is not worth it but then again, to have that harmony, u just have to do something.Otherwize no azz, and u know we cant breathe without that.

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli I had to cut her off…she was ticking me off so bad I was 2 seconds from snatching out her glued in hair weave! LOL

Kym I’ll admit..I can be a bit of a Mean Girl….LOL I do have a thing for cold hard retaliation if I feel my personal space has been invaded. Maybe its because my friends back home…we each had own own style, own choice in guys (so no backstabbing/cockblocking) ever went on and there were no problems. When I used to date…we’d go out and she had a totally different taste in men. Now her style changed as well as her type of guy. There had been times she would try to cockblock and the dude would be like what’s wrong with your desperate azz friend? I did not see it at first…she is really fake! I mean claiming a sority when she doesn’t even know jack about them except the name and colors, claiming to come from a rich family…when I found out that shyt and true…tis the total opposite. The kind of chick that would buy new hair weave and clothes and not worry about her bills or her child….lying to men making them think she has got her stuff together (don’t even have her own crib or car)….shopping like she got it like that..then cries broke and tries to get funds from me! I fell for it for a while until I paid attention and found out that she had been talking shyt behind my back. Tried to get my ex man to pay her rent, etc…I guess we are what you call frienemies. I can’t deal with that drama so I cut her off. I guess the style jacking was just th icing on the cake so it is coming off like that is all she has ever done to me.

By 900K

December 18, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

What up people

Holidazed- sums it up well for me. You can catch me @ your local holiday party sippin on Henny not carin w/ the mistletoe on my belt buckle.

Staceye- GET YOUR OWN STYLE!!! This man right here can put up w/ that jus fine. The A is full of copies jus look at J Dupri! The worst is when a nice young lady comes up to me like: Oh I like your _(jeans, shirt, jacket, cologne…)where did you get it from??? -I’m like dont come over here trying to dress your punk azz dude up like me! Either you get w/ the real thing or BEAT IT!!!

Or how bout you go out one night and the corny fake lame azz cat in everybody face middle-of-the-dance-flo clown got on your shirt!!! LOL This happen to one of my mans last time we went out. He stayed for 10min and left cuz homie tried to slap him up! HA!

By BLOW ME

December 18, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

The Truth You’re a damn freak TRUTH…..And what the hell is HO cards? So what’s your idea of a great XMAS present a G-bang orgy?

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

@ Staceye….either you want a man…or you want a woman..which is it??..you gotta be dressing to stand out for one or the other.. i am messing with you…but on the real…you are transparent…let some of that go…learn to breath again..you cant go on hating men when you love us so much…why look different and stand out if hate us so much? you know damn well you love men..admit it..

By Teresa

December 18, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

merry xmas

By Teresa

December 18, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

@$$DIBIASE$$ What a gift

By abc

December 18, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

I doubt a ‘great cook’ would want a food processor. It’d be kind of like giving a box of wine to a connoiseur. If on a budget, a decent knife for a chef can be had for under $100. If in doubt, simply ask him what he’d like — most guys will be able to rattle off a list of things they’d know were appropriate for your relationship and budget.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 18, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

Beautiful “If I did have him on my list, I would purchase him one of these: Wii, PS3, new cell, cologne, pair of kicks, weight set, leather jacket, cd’s, his favorite movie series, leather gloves & scarf, pair of tickets to somewhere he loves, trip to Vegas, a lap dance, a massage, etc.”

Will you marry me? ;-)

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

Staceye, *…put your so call fashion senses to work!! God has given you a gift…Go apply the Dayum thang…EXACTLY! Use your talent and give her some pointers.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

@ BlowMe…do you have another blog name?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

Blow Me ho cards can be redeemed for favorable acts. That, along with a Treo Centro and a xbox and ol boy is in heaven. LOL BTW, the Truth don’t do orgies.

Staceye we all know you don’t mean it about not wanting a man. Your just having problems coming to terms with past events. Jan 1 is coming and its a great time to turn over a new leaf. Don’t go into the 08 with that same crazy thought. Kym is right, if you say it enough its true. Now ,repeat after me “I want a great mate in the 08, I want a great mate in the 08” say that 10 times a day until it sinks in.

By $$DIBIASE$$

December 18, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

@sj3k…Of course staceye likes men..hell she just came from hedo and PR….an ya know dexter saint jaque was swinging the dyck on the beach waiting on her…why ya cryin gurl

like kym asked her..who is she trying to convice us or herself…but get this sj3k she is in play..but it is going to cost you to play…feel me…not money, maybe part of your sanity…but she is in play…..so i say tell her what you want and go from there…anything else is just idle chatter

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Demi you feeling better already! …calling folks…ooohh!

Hi Teresa with your quiet; Merry xmas. Merry Christmas to you too!

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

900 you feel me son? LOL Wow…I didn’t even think that a chick would try to dress her dude like you! I understand! There’s only one 900K right? LOL

SJ I stand out for me. I love fashion..and I do it for me! As for men…it’s cool to look and be friends..but to date…no way!

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

@ Stacye…imma leave you alone chocolate cake….this is my last comment about you and ole girl…but one way to get her TO NOT dress like you..dont tell her what web site u are buying your special tailored made clothes from….and dont take her to NYC when you buy your gear……on a side not…i know u said u u are handy with the cam…u wanna tape my Xmas present? read my 9:17 comment :)

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

@ melo

Fake Cold!?!…No i think i saw ICE this morning on the dew, cars, buildings this morning! As close to a white Christmas as we are gonna get i’m sure.

By Demi

December 18, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

Dibiase

Rell, is that you messing with folk’s heads..again, LOL

Cemeeli thanks for the love…But are you sure you want Blu K aka Visa card pulla back already?

Heck are Runnin’n’Musing??

By 900K

December 18, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

Cee - good day to ya! My lil team is starting to look like sumthin. They at least are throwin the ball at the rim! I gotta few w/ bad attitudes tho, one lil boy told me he didn’t want to go in the game when I called his #! Long road to go; I know your young A.I. is doing his ting. Keep it up…

By BLOW ME

December 18, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

SJ3000 No…I don’t what made you ask that? You think I am someone else? I am her…and her is me….BLOW ME is the name.

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Darrell there’s nothing more fun than getting the one you love a toy he will enjoy. y’all know you love the big expensive stuff. it may take me awhile to save for it, but you best believe i will do whateva to get it for you.

By Dan

December 18, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

@Staceye

If you do help her…..charge that a$$!

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Reverend Truth lol I want a great mate in the 08. Is that a catchy lil axiom or what?

By BLOW ME

December 18, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

The Truth So Truth, I think I might do a lil “ho” cards. What can I put on them to really blow( no pun intended) his mind…?? Treo, sidekicks…Nah, too much..

By BLOW ME

December 18, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

Beautiful I hope he is saving his ducketts up for you as well. I sure hope this is a one sided giving…

Sounds mighty THRISTY!!!

By Demi

December 18, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

Staceye Wow, my baad…That’s no friend…but a witch.

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

900K All the work that you and the boys are putting into the TEAM will pay off! Promise. It comes to a point where all of the work evently comes together productivly on the court. you are not alone we have some sillies on our team too.

Last evening was our last practice until after the holidays. The team is doing great. I’m not sure about my sons ego…not that he boasted(last year 7yo no prob) but I did notice during the practice scrimmage the guys were looking for my son most of the time. For shoots, rebounds to block the biggest kid…and of course Mr. serious took it with stride. Hum…i got to find a tactic to make sure that mess does not go to his head. Any suggestions??? I mean if he’s a leader I need for him to be a leader buy servanthood first!

Guys help a sista out.

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

BLOW ME for Valentine’s Day he bought me a house. i think he deserves a damn Wii for that!

By DasV

December 18, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

StaceyE if you truly had your own style, it couldnt be copied or mimicked… cause even if someone bought what you bought, they not gonna be able to put it together like how you do. and thats the definition of ‘style’, owning the basics.. the basic ensemble/pieces but putting it all together in your own way…with unique accessories. i dont know about you, but i will shop all day wit my girls, but come time to ‘accessorize’ im riding solo.

de-me-god my baad. (i posted yesterday, but not sure what happened.)

newsalert i called first thing this morning and brandsmart (all 3 locations) were out of the Wii. none of the stores would confirm/deny another shipment later this week.

newsalert macy preview one day sale today is until 1pm today and the actual sale tomorrow. great buy on griddles and bakeware/corningware. and for men: nautica and polo sweaters/pull-overs.

off5th running another 8to10am 50% sale this saturday… but diffrent stuff from last saturday.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Blow Me Baby Face, servant, have a drink, watch a movie, blowfest, what ever gets you off. My last ex made some really cool ones that were personalized for what we like to do. Dayummm, your making me miss her again. LOL A Treo Centro is 99 bux. Thats not bad.

Simi catchy enough to say everyday.

Beautiful are you still moving back home next year?

By BLOW ME

December 18, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

BEAUTIFUL Gotcha….you might want to add sucky sucky long time to the list too!!

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

BLOW ME and another thing … … step the pluck off!!!

By Dan

December 18, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

Old quote:

“Some people are born leader, some people have leadership thrust upon them.”

You learn to deal with it in time, and nothing short of his own journey will get him there. You can read all the “Leadership/Management” books you want, each person’s style of leadership is largely defined by their personality.

Accept it, let him accept it, he’ll deal with it in his own way (by either rising to or shirking from-) the responsibilities. But it’s got to be his choice

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 18, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

Staceye you causing a riot up in here Chica?!?! LOL! :-)

BLOW ME the ho cards can be found online or made. I made my own and had them delivered. They really are a lot of fun. >;0)

Hey Cemeeli!! What’s up Chica?

Kisses to the MLB and hugs to the WLB. You guys are off da chain as usual in here.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

Simi if he’s a young cat let him feel his oats and develope his own personality sports wise. He should have to adhere to good sportsmanship tho. You have time to reign him in later and start developing a better mindset. If you start to young you’ll stunt his sports developement. Just keep dropping seeds that will be fertilized later. You know the “I can” stuff. My .02

By Staceye

December 18, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

DasV I don’t any of the same things…period! LOL It’s cool because I am headed home on Saturday…time to restock!

By Demi

December 18, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

DasV that cool…Dayum, Wiis were available just 2 weeks ago, LOL

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

My sis DasV that’s what i’m talking about! Just caught me before my late lunch. And i did not think to call first (jut ready to get out) so BrandsMart is in playing with my Wii huh?

I might see Macy’s tomorrow. I need more sweaters (2).

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

TruthBaby yes i am. i’m so excited sometimes i have to pee. lol. everyone misses me. awwwww. i can’t wait to lay my eyes on my moms house. been there since the 5th grade. can’t wait to date cause a girl need lil lovin’. lol.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 18, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

ok this is funny..Feeling up Santa go figure Woman Accused Of Groping Santa Danbury woman is facing charges that she groped Santa Claus at the Danbury Fair mall.

Sandrama Lamy has been charged with fourth-degree sexual assault and breach of peace.

Danbury police were called to the mall over the weekend. The mall Santa told police that Lamy had touched him inappropriately while sitting on his lap.

Capt. Bob Myles said police were able to quickly find and identify Lamy because she was on crutches.

Lamy has been released on a promise to appear in court on Jan. 3.

By BLOW ME

December 18, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

Truth Blowfest….wow..I got to use that one. So who is going to do most of the BLOWING? 50/50 OR 60/40

Beautiful I’m not into chicks…However the way you tricking off…I just might consider..wink..wink!

lmao! Just kidding!

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this

These posts on Macy’s reminded me that I need to go over there on my lunch hour. Bought a leather coat as a b-day present to myself. Put in on this past Sunday to wear to the concert only to realize that the white buzzer thingy (I always tell my daughter not to say this word) was still attached. DAMN, DAMN, DAMN!!!! Thought about wearing it anyway (just kidding) but thought the cops downtown would tackle me thinking I stole the damn thing and walking around or ghetto style as if nothing was wrong….ROFLMAO!

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

Dan I appreciate that…i do. You learn to deal with it in time. that’s my point. In a years time i’ve seen this sport bring out the best and worst (=silly serious) in him. So i stated “servanthood first” b/c If he it turns out that he will take this and fly with it. Just lets keep it in perspective and egos at bay. Which Idon’t see him boastin’ (now) but i could happen. I just feel if you serve in your gift/talent first then you will appreciate and not so much look at it as “that’s easy for me” I guess…Feel me?

Right now it’s a transition (leadership and he’s 8) and i know the coach is grooming him to take this because he’s good at it. i’m just momma and I want him to appreciate this. I don’t know.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 18, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

Blow if you are giving the cards everything is for the recipient. It could also be a shower, meal, and massage. Whatever you know he likes. Mo where did you find them online? Ol girl wrote hers on paper like a coupon, then filled every one of them. If he likes porn send him to blackpayperview.com. Its like a buffett of porn movies and you can watch them on your computer, from what I hear. LMAO

DasV how ya doing woman? You get ghost on a dude. Hope all is well.

Beautiful I hope it works out back home. After I got divorced I thought about going home but I’m so glad I didn’t. I’d probably be dead by now. BTW, I have a girl needs love club that offers introductory memberships at no cost. I have a menu of services you can choose from. I’m here to please. LOL

OK, Im off to Costco to see if they havea Wii, A friend needs an asist. BBL

By mqew

December 18, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

HO cards? HMMMMM Need to investigate! Nikka wasn’t gettin shyt. I might do that.

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs that happened to me at Macy’s when i bought some bras. i was scared shytless. i held my receipt in the air like please don’t arrest a biatch! lmao.

By DasV

December 18, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

StaceyE thats what im talkin bout im right behind ya… going to chi-town dec 29. heeeheeee

CeeMee yeah, gurl, b-marts trippin. you know i gotta spoil my two…. (boys that is) i hit macys before comin in to work today…it was worth it. called my sis this morning to give her a heads up… so you know i had to let blog-fam know. and off5th hooked me up wit some fly caplets… i aint mad :)

de-me-god where at??!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 18, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

Truth Okay, I won’t get the food processor…LOL. But he already has those smart remotes that you have to program on the computer…I think he did that so that I can’t touch the remote!!

I may have to look into making an Entertainment Booklet…sounds interesting

By SeanJohnson3000

December 18, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this

@ Ted Dibiase…just read your post bruh…and you are 100 correct…but it wont cause me any part of my sanity…when i am bored…i crack safes like that blind folded…

By Dan

December 18, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

CeeMee

That’s my point, some people never get it. But let him look back and see it for himself. Like Truth said, teach him sportsmanship (gracious winning/losing) and everything else is up to his experience.

I’ve had coaches groom me for this/ or that (sport), but no one can appreciate it in the moment, least of all an 8 year old.

So just relax, don’t let him get too out of hand, but give him the leeway to learn, grow, stumble and fall (all ego).

By Demi

December 18, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

DasV that was around thanksgiving. The Wii was available then…Funny Xbox and PS3 are pretty much still on shelves.

You normally them before a major holiday or after.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 18, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

Hey, Cemeeli. :-)

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 18, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this

What’s up Staceye. You too, *Sexy. :-)

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

Thanks Dan/Truth. Removing the “hands on my hips” stance now. I’ll relax. It is Christmas…:-).

I vow i’ll make a man of him yet or i’ll __ trying.

By $$DIBIASE$$

December 18, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

@sj3k, oooo my man..did not say it would be hard….you just have to put up with the high melodrama….she talking about copy cats..everytime i read the chick i get the vision of “New York” chain smoking newport a**e….but she is an easy one..

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

Now why when I walk into Macy’s the announcer comes saying “please report back to register. We left sensor tag on.” Why the hell didn’t it say that when walking out the door. This lady came up to me asking if I had a receipt, and I told her I didn’t. Her eyebrow raised (wonder if people know they’re doing this involuntarily or is it always done voluntarily), and I said “don’t even start w/me.” Told her it was a b-day gift and she then walked over to register and took the sensor device off. I said thank you and scurried away…LOL.

By Cemeeli

December 18, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

Hi Darrell…i did speak to you earlier. I thought you were playin ‘scrooge’. j/k

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 18, 2007 1:46 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli

Sorry for the delay, but I had a 3-hour meeting from 9-12, so I had just enough time to pop in and out real quick. No “Scrooge” here. :-)

By 900K

December 18, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

Cee - I don’t think you should worry about that at all. Cuz there will always be obstacles that will come up for him and his rep or ego will not be the answer for them. You should actually encourage him to lead and carry himself as a leader, y’know “…great responsibility” the sooner he learns this the better he will handle pressure in the future. Let those around him talk BBall, however you’ll keep his focus on the BIG picture in life.

By melo

December 18, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

All Ladies, ive just been looking at these OSS pics and some of y’all like to dance with ur booty hitting against the man crotch.In doing so, are u trying to feel hw big it is,u just trying to get high on the cheap or u trying to make him get high and stiff on ur booty or just innocent fun? Which is it? I dont like it when u make me walk away with my hand in my left pocket, trying to put that thang back in line after stiffening up on me like that.Its so outa control. If thats ur motivation for accepting my dance and then walking out on me,U need to be ashamed of urself!!

By SexyLeggs

December 18, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

Hi Darrell. Guess no one’s interested in GT’s game tonight.

By DasV

December 18, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

Pasta T doing good, bruh. thanks. i am almost always lurkin…. if the topic aint on something decent or worth discussin, i stay in lurkesville. feel meh anytime you wanna, just holla! (you know i always game to jump in a good fray or add my .02) LOL been laughin the last week at the mess passing through this blog :)

By mqew

December 18, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Melo What’s OSS

By Beautiful

December 18, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

melo u funny. how you doin’ 2day? ;)

By Tazzee

December 18, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

melo it has been my experience that if I turn around a dude is quick to put his crotch on my booty. If I know him, I’ll let him hang out back there for a little while but if not - I have to do the bump and turn move to get him off. well, I might let him hang out back there if he’s fine…

By QueDogTeaching

December 18, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while wondering what is going on.

At first it was cute when Staceye was mad at her Quote – Unquote “Frienemy”. But then 900k Said that he hates it when a woman asks him where he bought his clothes, and let me get this straight then one of his boys slapped a dude for wearing the same shirt as him. What gay bar was he at? Where I hang men don’t even notice other dudes. We are looking at the females. Try it, Heres how it works:

1.Go to any public place.

  • Don’t pay attention to any other Males

  • Smile at all females as they walk by

  • Enjoy all the positive responses that you get in return.

  • That’s it. Or go to jail for fighting another man because he has on the same shirt as you.

    Just goes to show you, Ice Cube Said it best All Bytches aint women

    Melo Man I don’t care what part of the country you are from, it is cold in Ga.

    Truth Where do you find the old school 70’s, 80’s black porn. The ones with the bad acting, and women with Jeri Curls. Feels funny to say old school and 80’s in the same sentence The ones you would sneak from your uncles collection, and he would not know it was gone because he had so many. My brother and I had the old porn discussion this weekend.

    Cee There is only one real question that you should ask an 8 year old when he comes out of a sporting event. “Did you have Fun” If he says no, then ask more questions. If he says yes, then just smile and listen he will tell you everything.

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

    Melo, you are plum crazy. But, I believe you’ve covered all bases with those questions. Although I’m limber and can still drop it, I don’t believe in backing my booty into some man’s crotch and rocking it. I don’t even slow dance with strangers because of the same thing.

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

    mqew, old school saturday, here go the link,http://www.vipphotos.net/gallery

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

    melo Dude…I thought youre married?

    SJ/Rell why are the hardest acting ones, the easiest to crack? I don’t mess with those type much anymore, so I’ve forgotten the why.

    By SeanJohnson3000

    December 18, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

    @ Melo…i am looking at the pics too…not too many places can hang with ATL when it comes to beautiful black females..

    By 900K

    December 18, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

    q and let me get this straight then one of his boys slapped a dude for wearing the same shirt as him = WOOOOAAAH!!!

    I said homeboy tried to slap him up= shake his hand in your suburbian talk. How bout you ask what someone means b4 you type a 2 page BS document. The story w/ me goes I noticed shorty walk by in the mall w/ her man, she did a double take when she passed. He goes into some store and here SHE comes over to me and asked where I got my coat. I told her “don’t try to dress him up like me” She laughed as if to say “yep I’m busted” then walked off.

    See when you leave out the house dressed like shyt I’m sure this never happends to you; but me all the time.

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    December 18, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

    Sexy I’m a HUGE Tech fan (even got Tech license plates on the car) and on any other night I would have snatched up those tickets, but I can’t make it tonight. ‘preciate the offer, though. :-)

    By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

    December 18, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

    Nipples good for you hun. They have some nice lap tops on sale at best buy for $599. They have a web cam and all he’d need. Then he could blog with us and find out what jewel he has after he reads these posts. LOL

    simi sports itself is a great learning situation for a child. He’ll learn to win and to lose with grace. My recommendation is get him to the best coach you have access to. It makes a world of difference what he watches and practices. There’s alot of great athletes that never make it to the next level because of bad coaching. Now bend over so I can slap that BE Hind. You’ve been coached. LOL

    Das yep, it gets thick in here sometime. I’m going to start a blog riot at least once a week to keep the blood flowing. Just say some ol inflammatory stuff. LOL

    Demi your right, every store has the ps3(sonys giving away 5 blu ray movies with each purchase, they’re hurting bad, lmao) and xbox but I missed the WII by1 hour. Best Buy got 20 in this morning and there gone.

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    December 18, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

    Truth there used to be a website, something about Love Coupons or soemthing, where you could download some for free. Also there was a card shop in perimeter mall that used to sell some of the less explicitly detailed ones, next to the MAC store and whatever kids shoe store was next to it (by Bloomingdales). I downloaded mine, made a cute little book and gave them to old boy. Whew that was some fun ;-)

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

    QueDogTeaching there is a place off cascade…near the old 112 off i85…come to think about it…most of the P-stores in that area has a pretty good collections of the 70’s and 80’s flicks

    Them ladies walked around with their bush proudly back then, LOL

    As I know up ‘til 2004 or 2005.

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

    Hey Beautiful, im good hpe u too.U leaving GA for Cali for real? Tazzee what hapenned to the guy u were talking to last week or so.Have u lost interest in him or what.My sis is too demanding, aint she? QueDogTeaching yeah man it is cold, i know. I said that to mean,coz of the winter coat my wife got me past weekend, its like i aint feeling the cold at all.So Cemeeli give up those tickects girl.

    On a different note, guys the markets have been wild(stock) and the possibility of a recession is real.A lot of companies have been laying off pple and some more layoffs, i believe, are coming. So, spend that money wisely and save some, coz come Jan 1, some wont be regular blogers, just regular job seekers. Feel me.

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

    Show you how naive I can be (not often), I thought those w/GT license plates actually graduated from the school…DUH!!!

    By Gina

    December 18, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

    I LOVE it when the men on the blog are PMSing.

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

    Demi, dude yeah im married but it dont mean i dont stray sometimes.(wink,wink). I aint Jesus, u know.Sometime when i look at these pics with all these nice looking sumptous ladies, i feel like, mayne this marriage thing was a mistake!!!I culdve been the lone shark, circulating these heavily stocked waters and just having fun.But they talk of overcoming the temptation tin the bible, aint that right Tazzee?!!! And the bad part about it is, when i take my wife out, thats when i meet some of the flylest ladies in da club/event and im DAM!!

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

    “On a different note, guys the markets have been wild(stock) and the possibility of a recession is real.”

    OK!!!! I’m over here trippin. Even traditional performers this time of year “akkin” funny.

    By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

    December 18, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

    QDT they have some of that too. Remember Vanessa Del Rio? That was the first sister I saw that was off da chain. I was hooked from that moment on. LOL Try that site and hit categories and then 70’s or 80’s, they have both, from what I hear. LMAO

    Simi one more thing. Expose him to as many sports as possible and let him pick the one thats suits him best. If he’s good at a particualr sport he’ll learn to win vs learning to just play. Karate should be on the list too because every boy should know how to fight and when not to. My .02 No more posts on this subject. LOL

    By BLOW ME

    December 18, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

    QUEDOG

    and let me get this straight then one of his boys slapped a dude for wearing the same shirt as him. What gay bar was he at? Where I hang men don’t even notice other dudes

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

    Lady Dark Me and a girlfriend went shopping for the same trip to cabo and bought the same pants…without even planning it we were it the same day in cabo…

    And y’all have the same name too! I think that added detail would have made Staceye have a conniption!! LOL!

    I did the “Entertainment Booklet” once for T on Valentines Day. Maybe I still have that file somewhere….

    I think I’ve covered everyone on my list. Because I don’t have one dude to specifically buy for, I bought an Emergency Dude Gift just in case somebody gets me something. If I don’t have to use it for emergency gift purposes, it will double as a gift for my brother-in-law’s birthday in February.

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    December 18, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

    Sexy I’m actually an alum of Jacksonville State University (Alabama), but have been a Tech fan since I can remember. I’ve always viewed Tech as the school where all the “smart” people went, so it only made sense that a geek like me would follow Tech (as opposed to UGA.) No offense to you UGA grads/fans. :-)

    By SeanJohnson3000

    December 18, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

    @ Truth…boy you are crazy…when i was kid..11/12 i thought venessa del rio was the badest chick on earth…with the mole on the side of mouth…lol…..she was superhead before superhead was superhead..lol

    By BLOW ME

    December 18, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

    I’ll take

    Big 8in log of lumber

    For my hot fireplace!

    lmao!

    By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

    December 18, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

    Melo I sell real estate so i’ve been in a recession for the last year. The next step for me is a depression. I do have some friends that just got layed off of jobs. Suntrust and Wachovia, manangement jobs too. And right before xmas.

    Clinton gets a bj and they want to impeach him but Bush fuggs the nation and nobody cares. This is the sorriest display of leadership this country has ever seen.

    Demi those were the days, you could tell a woman by the bush. Now they all look like their 11 years old.

    By Staceye

    December 18, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

    Truth you know starting blog shyt is my job…even though I try to! LOL

    Hey Mo!

    I am so not New York…although I am kind over the top like her. But I do not chain smoke and drink!

    As for Ho cards or coochie coupons…Spencer’s or NC-17 has them.

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

    melo I was just picking on ya bruh…I dont even see nothing wrong with undressing that fly chick, standing next to your wife, LOL

    when i take my wife out, thats when i meet some of the flylest ladies in da club/event and im DAM!!

    It isn’t limited just to married couple…For some reason you get more ‘play’ from the opposite sex, when they see you with someone.

    No one wants something no one else wants…Is what I call it.

    By Staceye

    December 18, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

    Foots you are damned right..I would have blown a gasket! LOL

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

    melo I can’t stand strange wang all up against me. I need room to dance anyway. I might knock him the f/k out with the motion in this ocean.

    You’re right about the state of the economy. Wise words. My pastor spoke briefly about overspending last Sunday. Some of those folks with the new suits and big hats needed to hear that before they spend all year trying to pay down Christmas debt.

    By Teresa

    December 18, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

    Whateva happened to the meet and greet at trapeze

    By JustMe

    December 18, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

    Good Afternoon Everyone

    Teresa I came in just in time to see your ?? about the Trap? Did anyone meet you there?

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

    JSU….cool…..

    just outta curiosity, what other schools y’all reppin’ on here?

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

    Darrell No offense taken. You should see my big……….SAT score.

    Question Why do some women think that getting their man another woman as a gift is a good idea for a holiday that celebrates the birth of Jesus??

    By abc

    December 18, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

    No offense but Vanessa Del Rio?! Not only does she look like a sex change operation, she’s a dayum porn star. C’mon.

    By Beautiful

    December 18, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

    Teresa u wanna go with me and my homies? we goin’ 2 watch. ain’t nothing wrong with watchin’. lol. we all grown.

    By DreamsMaterialize

    December 18, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

    Blogsville Hey everyone. Hope everyone is doing well. Recession/depression is definitely real. I figure if someone in blogsville gets hit by the economy in 08 and loses a job, they can pass their resumes to the rest of us who do have jobs. When I was out of a job after 9/11, some people helped me, and just asked that I do the same for someone else when I got the chance. So, if the recession hits anyone here, feel free to pass your resume…if I can help I will.

    Now who said something about a meet and greet at trapeze? lol

    By Angel007

    December 18, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

    Hey all

    Truth funny you should bring that up, i was just in a deep conversation with someone about that. How Bush is fuggin America in tha azz with no lube. Yet they keep on supporting him. We could have him removed from office, but too many folks walkin around not knowin how politics really work, and their powers/role as citizens.

    Foots - I’m with you on that grinding up close. Personally that is such a turn off..unless it’s my SO and he’s getting a lap dance or sumthin. A sista got 2 much too offer, and besides he need to save that hard on for a rainy day…lol

    As for the topic past, and present SO’s never had problems looking for gifts for me. I make it very clear what i like!

    By Staceye

    December 18, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

    8Foots* girl I feel you…you are on the dance floor working it out,,and some dude come rubbing his dirty joint up on you. I have left dudes on the floor for that. You don’t know me like that…at least have the decency to approach me frontally first…stop trying to be a booty bandit! LOL

    Correction…I meant to say I do NOT try to stop shyt on the blog!! I’m tired and coming down with a cold. Do you think the gym could be making a person get sick a lot?

    By Tazzee

    December 18, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

    melo - the dude I mentioned two weeks ago is old news and now a new guy is working me over. Got a sista breaking all kinds of rules like talking on the phone for 2 hours at a time and whatnot! And you’re right - to paraphrase the scripture: any temptation you’ve encountered isn’t new and remember for each temptation, God has provided a way to escape it. It’s up to you to choose that way. And you know in your heart that you made the right decision when you got married so quit tripping!

    on the markets - now is the time to buy and let that stuff sit. I’ve given up on updating my net worth on a monthly basis because that junk is depressing!

    By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

    December 18, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

    ABC we’re talking about in the 70-80 when she was young. That chick was THE truth. Now she’s been altered and she does look like a dude.

    By SeanJohnson3000

    December 18, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

    @ Foots……Xmas like most of the other holidays that are celebrated are pagan holidays…has nothing to do with the birth of Jesus….read up on it or google it if you dont believe me…

    @ abc..she does look like a dude now..but 20 yrs ago..she was tight work…

    By Rell

    December 18, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

    @Feets

    Question Why do some women think that getting their man another woman as a gift is a good idea for a holiday that celebrates the birth of Jesus??

    well like will ferrell i pray to the baby jesus…lol

    ummmm is that a trick question….i want two women for christmas…hopefully they will be under the tree christmas morning….lol….unwrapped even!!!!

    By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

    December 18, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

    Foots You a UGA alum?

    By Staceye

    December 18, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

    Dreams such a nice gesture…followed by a Trapeze call! Classic! That’s like a super sized fries…big mac and diet soda! LOL

    Foots I agree…hence the name CHRIST-mas! But of course man has tired into a pagan day.

    Now I must admit my favorite holiday is Halloween. I love costumes.

    By Beautiful

    December 18, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

    Got a sista breaking all kinds of rules like talking on the phone for 2 hours at a time and whatnot

    lol

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

    Beautiful, I’ll go (no one is surprised my hand is up) (LOL).

    Staceye, hell yeah the gym can make a person sick.

    By mqew

    December 18, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

    Foots My pastor was advising the same. Do you go to a church on the east side?

    By SeanJohnson3000

    December 18, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

    @ DreamsMaterialize…i think QCis the female that use to always post job openings on the blog..thats one thing about her like…thats real

    @ JustMe..sounds like u need to set a field trip to the trap for some folks…see if u can get a group rate.

    By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

    December 18, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

    Georgia Southern University in this camp. 88

    Angel ol Bushy is doing us Rahway style, no grease. Spending money on a war that never should have been while allowing the economy to tank. The democrats are going to inherit a mess.

    SJ go check out the site blackpayperview.com. They have some cuties doing porn, from what I hear, but the eye opening thing is there are thouands of them doing it now. In the day it was like 3 sisters max. Now every dancer that wants a raise does flicks. LOL BTW, I met Ebony Eyes here in atlanta. She may still live here.

    By QueDogTeaching

    December 18, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

    900 Sometimes I come on to the blog real late, and I am speed blogging. And a lot of times I can misinterpret what is said. So I did go back up to your 11:39 post and re-read it. And after looking more closely at your words, I now know that You really did sound feminine as Massengale.

    You did not say coat in your earlier post you made it sound like she was asking about you entire wardrobe. Which is fine, it became a wax job when you told her to Quote – Unquote Either get with the “real” or beat it.

    Then your club scenario was straight out of a gay movie. A guy in the middle of the dance floor has on the same shirt. No my bad you said “your Shirt” like it was the only one made ever in life. Then you go on to say your boy actually left the club because buddy tried to shake his hand. So am I saying you are gay? No. But there are some serious gay tendencies in that statement.

    Again for the slow and Metro /gay / soft as baby ish poster:

  • Go out

  • Ignore other males

  • Pay attention only to females

  • 3a. Only females

  • Have fun
  • By Angel007

    December 18, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

    LOL at Rell

    Staceye you can surely get sick anywhere and surely that gym is one of those places. Just think about all the bodily fluids and germs that hang out there each day….That thought just made my stomach turn.

    Vitamin B and soup should do ya good.

    By Beautiful

    December 18, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

    ok y’all. i’ll be the coordinator for the trap. it will be next month on Jan 26th. i know, i know, it’s so far away, but connie turns 21 on Jan 23rd. shhhhhh. she don’t know what the trap is. lmao. i’ll send out blog reminders. lol.

    By Cemeeli

    December 18, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

    Thanks to Dan/QDT/Dan&900 that offered their suggestions to me about the lil guy and team sports. I will absolutley take your advice and use it.

    Melo i just got back from lunch and after thinking i am definitely going to take my guy to the Thrashers game tonight. It’s my inside way of treating him. Since being so hard on him. It turn out that will be a gift.

    …now if i can only find those thermals…it is gonna be bitter

    By AmazonRed

    December 18, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

    2CPTG - I’m repping Cal.

    By DreamsMaterialize

    December 18, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

    Staceye I didn’t make the trapeze call…Teresa did. lol But on the real, if I can help someone, hit me up.

    SJ yeah that’s real. might as well help if we can…never know when we might need the favor.

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

    I was knocked out of the blog for about 20 mins.

    ARed, just check email, and I don’t have any message from you. Try again!

    By Staceye

    December 18, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

    Angel & Sexyleggs I keep catching colds and when I used to take my wipes to the gym and wipe the machines down before using..I did not get sick often..I even had to wipe the weights down…even though I wear gloves! UGH!! I am afraid of the germs! LOL

    By mqew

    December 18, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

    NIU c/o 98

    By AmazonRed

    December 18, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs, I just sent it again. It was sent on December 13th.

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

    SJ Some people do know how to keep the Christ in Christmas. Whatever it means to the world, it should have some religious significance left to you. Does it?

    mqew Nope, I’m northwest, but I think that everybody should be reminded about that every once in a while. It’s good that they are giving advice like that from the pulpit, though it should be common sense.

    Darrell Class of 1999.

    By JustMe

    December 18, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

    SJ3K Group Rate my azz, the tradition has always been for a guy to pay…….. so wassup you wanna take the blog ladies to da Trap? You should be able to talk up on a group rate

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

    Cemeeli,thanx tho, my loss!I really enjoy going to Thrashers games.Hpe u and ur man enjoy urselves. If the rates come down on this Trap thing, i might go see whats popping. Beautiful, Just Me and Teresa keep us posted.I may come back with new skills to add to my repeteoir!!

    By Angel007

    December 18, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

    Staceye

    I like to work out serveral days a week myself and even I have had some ill feelings after leaving the gym. It’s just one of those things were you wear ya gloves and wipe equipment down. Never know what is left behind. As for changing or showering there that shyt is a negative. I change at work or in the car. To many companies slack off in the sanitary department when it comes to these facilities.

    By mqew

    December 18, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

    Foots Common sense isn’t really that….

    By SeanJohnson3000

    December 18, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

    @ Foots…nah..not really..i have always question things and when i became an adult i did research about certain things…i have a understanding of some of them..so basically i am buying toys for my sons..even wanted him to be able to open and play with them when i bought em but his moms didnt want him to…but on the real..do some research about things…mainly TRADITION..and u will find that most if not all have a very evil and satanic beginning…yet tings like the passover or not really acknowledged…u feel me?

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

    Darrell, class of ‘84 (GSU/Criminal Law)

    By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

    December 18, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

    2CPTG© Hampton Univ c/o ‘97

    Staceye what’s up chica!! How’s it going?

    QDT kisses to you, what’s up.

    By Dan

    December 18, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

    Uh, sign me up for the Trap if y’all going.

    The Morehouse College 2001 Since we repping schools

    By JustMe

    December 18, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

    Y’all B E Z 2 Nite

    I’m headed to PA too!

    GO THRASHERS GO!!!!

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

    y’all some smart negroes in here….

    The Citadel for me…..

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

    I keep catching colds talk to ur doc. Ur immune system may be jacked up!! Even if u sliced w/o a condom a longtime ago like 15 yrs(u dont like man..i know) it may come back to haunt u still.U got insurance baby?

    By Mr knowitALL aka 900K

    December 18, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

    Ok people here I am thinkin that I am being the better man by not cyber thuggin today and ruinin the spirits of the blog. I simply started the morn by not doggin out homegirls Staceye’s post. Hey similar things happen to dudes sumtime and what man doesn’t like a female that gets dressed diff for every occassion? High fashion ladies are the best to undress!

    But here we go QUE… not once but twice I get called out by this played out azz grown boy still trapped in his college dayz chump. 1st you fake duke; you joined that frat cuz you had no friends and couldn’t stand on your own 2 and hold yourself down. My manhood you question? PLEDGING= several young men shirtless in thier underwear hoping & begging for the acceptance of other young shirtless men in a secret location in a ceremony where females are forbidden to witness. They are then beaten and forced to wrestle ea other to prove themselves. Once they are proven worthy they celebrate this by gettin drunk and runnin trains on young women, 5-10 guys at a time in the same room.

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs wow…I was bearly out of diapers…Now sucking thumb/w head down LOL

    Good Afternoon to ya JustMe

    By Lady Dark with Dimples

    December 18, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

    Georgia Tech is in the House!

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

    Off-topic, here’s an interesting concept on making money.

    http://leaseyourbody.com/main.php

    By Beautiful

    December 18, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

    Dan i gotchu!

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

    all jokes aside…..this is what’s up!!! smart brothers and sisters breaking bread on a daily…..damn the haterz….I have a newfound respect for this blog!

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

    SJ You can choose to celebrate by giving gifts like the Magi did. You can use the day to appreciate the priceless gift that God gave the world by symbolically giving gifts to your loved ones. Why let society determine what the day means to you? Find out what it means in your own heart, give your kids some frankincense with a side of myrrh and call it a day.

    By SeanJohnson3000

    December 18, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

    @ JustMe…u are right…and u know more about the trap and the lifestyle than you lead on..lol..why go just to watch?

    By Mr knowitALL aka 900K

    December 18, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

    Can’t teach me shyt boy!!!

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

    Bad Intel

    Homeowner shoots at two police officers who stormed house based on faulty tip:

    http://www.courttv.com/news/2007/1218/tip_ap.html

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

    mqew Ain’t that the truth!

    2CTPG What about you? Did you already rep your school?

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

    Jail inmates who escaped hid holes in cell walls with posters of bikini-clad women:

    http://www.courttv.com/news/2007/1218/escape_ap.html

    By AmazonRed

    December 18, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

    2C, who did you think was on this blog…Boomquisha and dem? LOL

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this

    9 hunnid…..kinfolk, I pledged (no intake process), and it wasn’t nuttin like that!!!!!

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

    Unv of da Streets and MBWA was my major!! (in case u ask,management by wondering around)

    By 900K

    December 18, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

    Albany S.U.N.Y

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

    yeah, Foots….4:15 post.

    By Staceye

    December 18, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

    Melo Oh believe me I have been tested…I am all good! LOL I have always been sickly. I am anemic. But I noticed that when I started working out at the gym I started getting sick more often!

    By Angel007

    December 18, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

    LOL @ Ared

    Boomquisha and dem. Girl that just took a sista way back.

    By kimmie

    December 18, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

    Foots - Another DAWG in the house! 1991 Accounting/MGMT

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

    Demi, you funny. The years go real fast, especially w/children. She keeps my spirit young. My mama gave me good genes, my high metabolism keeps me hopping all equaling to an person young at heart….LOL

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

    Demi That was rough, but I just read the story about the 7-year old girl that got shot trying to cover her mother. What is with all of this domestic violence? Y’all think this is a by-product of men not knowing how to control their emotions?

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

    why let society determine what the day means to you?

    Good point…

    Now putting on kool aid red cape’n’tights with black Timb

    Now watch me slap the ISH outta soulja boy and then Joc’ it out on them Haters man

    Uuuuuuuuuuuuom

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this

    Of course not, Amazon; just cool to know with whom you sup with….

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

    Demi, that’s straight from Sawshank Redemption or was that Birdman from Alcatraz???

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

    Speaking of the devil…:

    Police: Teenager threatened in e-mail to kill grandparents in Satan’s name:

    http://www.courttv.com/news/2007/1217/satan_ap.html

    By DreamsMaterialize

    December 18, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

    *2C

    Morehouse ‘98, U of Michigan grad

    By For Real

    December 18, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this

    AIU 1920

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

    melo Stop that! You know you got your Master’s dawg!! LOL!! (shhhhh….I won’t tell nobody…)

    2CPTG Oh, cool.

    By Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

    December 18, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

    I pledged (no intake process), and it wasn’t nuttin like that!!!!! -2C -Of course not BUT please do not take up for that dude. Words like the ones he got for me will stop him from breathin trust me and whoevers standin next to his punk azz.

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

    On the real tip,London school of economics ‘85& 2000.

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

    kimmie Yes Ma’am!! Bulldog Nation Forever!!

    Did anyone else happen to go to Kennesaw State for their MBA program? I’m class of 2006, any more Owls up in this camp?? LOL!

    By Tazzee

    December 18, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

    I’m late but:

    North Carolina Agricultural & Technical State University, 1994 - AGGIE PRIDE!!!!

    By Cemeeli

    December 18, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

    Demi you’re sick.

    2C You see they still playing with the Wii. I been thinking about just going “Set It Off” with these folk. Lol… Oh - I’m a HBCU baby SSU.

    By 2CPTG©

    December 18, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

    9, naw, cain’t speak for another grown man……but I was trynna diffuse the tension a bit……but trust, I’m not in it!

    By Demi

    December 18, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

    SexyLeggs mostly from Sawshank Redemption, with a little birdman twist…

    I agree with your 436pm…yeah, you’re bless, LOL

    Foots nah, that dude is mentally shot…there is no hope for him.

    By Foots

    December 18, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

    What is with all of this domestic violence? Y’all think this is a by-product of men not knowing how to control their emotions?

    For reference, see 900’s 4:43. Do we need to be passing out blog vests this late in the day?? Keep it light, man, it’s almost Friday….in about three days…

    By Mr KnowitALL AKA 900K

    December 18, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this

    Good Nite ALL - I will be positive from now on…

    que -die slow

    By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

    December 18, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

    Foots don’t blame this on mens emotions. Women are acting out alot more too. Folks are just off the chain. We all have choices now and alot of people don’t make good ones.

    By For Real

    December 18, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

    Come there has to be more Beige Knights out there somewhere!

    By melo

    December 18, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

    High fashion ladies are the best to undress! Quote for the day for me!!

    By SexyLeggs

    December 18, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this

    Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening!

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