Misadventures in Atlanta

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 8:12 AM | Link to this

Slim dragging in barely opens her mouth to say a muffled Mornin’

By Dan

December 17, 2007 8:12 AM | Link to this

Well, I don’t have that much stress as the “Gift Card King”. I give you the card, you buy the gift, no need to shop (or return) and we’re all done.

Other than the lights, the tree, and the mandatory visits….I’m cool.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 17, 2007 8:27 AM | Link to this

Good Morning ALL.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 8:28 AM | Link to this

Morning, everyone. :-)

Off-topic: For those of you who might be interested (Peach), I’ve just posted the Janaury issue of my newsletter on my Web site at www.blackthen.com.

On-topic Given that I’m not dating anyone right now, I can’t say that I’ll have much of any value to add in the context of today’s topic. However, I will say that, generally speaking, the whole frenetic and chaotic nature of this time of year has never really bothered me. Perhaps it’s because I’m still naive enough to take the “Charlie Brown” approach to Christmas.

Call me crazy, but I actually enjoy getting out among all the people, dining out at a nice restaurant packed with friends and family enjoying good food and good company. Even the snail’s-pace traffic doesn’t bother me. I just set the radio to Sirius channel 86 and I’m good to go. :-)

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 8:32 AM | Link to this

Hello All! Hi Dan.

I haven’t had this problem with any of the guys I have dated. The last man I dated loved shopping, spending money and going to the xmas tree farm. He was so into the family stuff.

When men pull any of the above, their being selfish. They must realize that others exist in this world too.

By 2CPTG©

December 17, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this

Morning……….

Does Tampa Bay have roots on the Falcons?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville.

On topic: I never thought of myself as a scrooge until saturday. I went to a party where the hostess had really made her house up. Candles, tree, xmas objects everywhere. All I could say is Bah humbug. The sad part is I have the xmas items and just don’t put them out anymore. I defintely need to up my xmas game.

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

The Truth.

The problem is that you don’t have a reason to put the xmas items up. You don’t have any kids or a wife. Maybe next year it’ll be different. wink, wink.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this

Annalisa

Your 8:50 to Truth makes a good point. I can say that because I think that applies to me as well. I truly enjoy Christmas, but you wouldn’t know it inside my house, because have no decorations or antyhing put up. I’ve got Christmas music playing all the time, but that’s just about it.

Maybe that’ll change for me next year, too. wink, wink ;-)

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 17, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Happy Holidays Everyone!!

YES, my SO is a scrooge. He doesn’t want any decorations around the house or Stockings for us to put little gifts in. He told me what he was going to get me for Christmas which let the air out of the bag so I asked him to get me something else! One day we’ll get this whole gift giving thing down or get rid of it altogether!

Oh yeah, I asked him about going shopping for his baby boy that we’ll have the day after Christmas and he said he’ll wait until the after Christmas sale…

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

….brrrrr…..brrr…. Good Merry Christmastime

Chhhhchchchcccestnuts roasting on an open fire…Jack Frost nipping at you nose…yuletide carols being sung by….sing everyone….Merry Christmas

Breakfast Today: Fish, salmon croquettes and two pots of grits (one for cheese lovers). Cocoa, tea and coffee…luke warm water.

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

Darrell

Good morning handsome! It will happen for you. Just keep doing your thing and the next thing you know you will be bumping right into her. I wish that for all of us.

My girls and I were talking about how hard it is for a man to be monogamous. Is it really that hard for you guys?

By DreamsMaterialize

December 17, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

I guess I fall in line with the other guys so far this morning…no christmas decor in my either.

*Lady Dark with Dimples * I don’t see a problem with waiting until the after christmas sales to do some baby shopping. Actually, I think that’s the financially responsible thing to do…definitely the kind of quality you want in a man. Go with him on this one; he’ll appreciate it.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

Morning, Cemeeli.

Just curious. Are these soy grits? They sure are thick!

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

A lot of men see Christmastime as $$$ breaker…then turn scrooge.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this

Hi DA..RRELL get off of it :-). Never even heard of Soy grits…but i can make that happen for you…unless you want to be on the ‘toy assembly commitee’…

By Rell

December 17, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

yep it is annalisa..men are only as faithful as the options in front of him….lol

but seriously NO IT IS NOT HARD…seriosly where have you been

By Angel007

December 17, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Morning everyone!

I’ve never experienced this problem with a man before. All that I’ve dated have generally been very good with welcoming christmas. I think that men in general can ge great shoppers. I’ve always gotten gifts that showed they put some thought into the whole gift buying process. As for decorations…I have tons of things, but I grow tired when it’s time to place them around the house…wonder why?

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

good morning all! hey ladies thanks to the ladies who came out last night in the bitter cold to Atlantic Station. it was nice to put a name to a face.:)

Ladies, are you dating Mr. Scrooge? Have you ever dated someone who was extremely difficult during this time of year? How did you handle it? Did you give him his space? What are fun ways to hype the holiday season for the men in your lives?

Can’t say I’m dating a Scrooge. I don’t have a honey bunny on lockdown right now but maybe I will by Jan. 1st…lol. A way to make it fun though is by taking some of the pressure off. When men think that their finances are going to take a major hit to fulfill our Christmas wishes, they can act a little funky. I like to keep it simple so the mood stays right. For instance, I’m a toy buff so Elmo would be the perfect gift for me…lol. I’d skip a Prada, Gucci or Coach bag for that. Now who could be a scrooge w/that kind of request?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

Anna your right. Its just me and my sister so no big deal. That chicks house was made up so nice tho. Any dude would love to come home to a get-up like that. Plus she set it out with the food. HMMMMM and all cooked by the hostess. I brought the tighest dish if I say so myself.

The flip side of this is xmas has become so commercial. The gifts get more expensive and less thrilling each year. I feel for those whose children request a Playstation or xbox. You’ve got to sell land to buy those things.

Darrell we suffer from selfish single man syndrome. LOL

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

Annalisa

Per your 9:32, would you mind me asking how old are your girls? I ask only because it’s really cool that you seem to have a good relationship with them where you can engage them in conversations such as that.

By the way, to answer your question, being monogamous has never been an issue for me. Even in situations where the relationship ultimately didn’t work out, I would simply part ways as opposed to venturing out into some sort of extracurricular thing. Of course, I can only speak for myself, but, again, I’ve never found it to be difficult.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

Truth do tell…What was your dish? …can’t just say that and not say what you brought!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this

Truth “Darrell we suffer from selfish single man syndrome.”

ROFL!!!

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

kinder I was freezing if i must say so myself. And it didn’t help that I couldn’t find my car right away. Burrrrr

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 17, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Off Topic Totally..What in the world is going on with my Steeler D?…I know Mike Tomlin opened up the can o whip azz on them and they deserve it. I swear by games end I wanted to make them all run naked in the snow.

On Topic..I am not a Bah Humbug for Xmas, but I don’t have the holiday decorations going and I didnt make any baked goodies this year.(as my son pointed out there was no Amish Friendship bread made) I mean I enjoy the holidays but frankly I am so tired from all the running around this year I really just would like to relax and do nothing. I mean I will cook but otherwise a day in my sweats just relaxing sounds wonderful.

By Foots

December 17, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

kinderbabe I’m sorry that I missed the event last night. Between being at church for 5 hours, visiting with family, and that cold air, I decided to stay home. :-( I’m glad you guys had a great time.

I haven’t dated a Scrooge before, everybody I’ve been with was cool with Christmas. They’ve probably not felt pressure because I didn’t feel pressured, and therefore put none on them. I hate a mall, so that keeps me from dragging them into one.

But I am getting a little tired of the Christmas decorations thing. I knew I’d eventually put them up, but I wasn’t looking forward to it. I had help this year, so it was a lot more fun and I love the result.

By Staceye

December 17, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

MsU where you been girl? Merry New Year! LOL

Slim wake your booty up girl…I’m tired too! LOL

Darrell what’s up?

2C the Dirty Birds are just a trainwreck! LOL Now I am saddened by my Giants yesterday after a fall to the Skins. Sniff sniff!

Annalisa Girl…you are about to open a can of worms on this blog. We have blog figths about men and their commit-a-phobia all the time. Prepare your eyes for a lot my girl.

On topic: since I live alone..I have a decoration on my door and a mistletoe hanging…not that it gets any use. I play my Christmas music….but that is it. I will do the tree when Iget home this weekend with my parents and pick up the gifts. I would love a guy who likes to shop. But most of those are gay…so go figure.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

kinderbabe good to meet you and all the ladies that came as well. Another ornament to my Christmasy spirit this year. :-)

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Staceye Morning! How’s everything? :-)

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

slim awwwhh man! that sucks…lol. i do that all the time, get lost in the parking lot. it was definitely too cold for that. and those drinks were super strong…lol.

foots there will be a next time. i plan on having something this friday. just send me a quick e-mail if you want to be included on the evite.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

similac I brought some mac and cheese to die for. Sexy would be proud, no kidding. This ain’t your standard box mac and cheese where talking about here.

I also played Nasty Santa for the 1st time. (No sex involved) Its a game dealing with gifts and someone else being able to take a gift you select. I’m like Dan I brought a gift card, works every time.

Darrell I think Anna* was talking about her girlfriends. Not her daughters. LOL ( I think)

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

On-topic My cousin put up a tree, stockings and some other minor decorations. I myself wasn’t really feeling the decor but now that its up, it’s all good. Never had an issue with past bf’s not liking xmas. Has worked out in the past. Now i’m single so no malls or anything to stress over this year.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Truth You’re probbaly right. Count that one as my “Duh?” moment of the day. LOL!

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

Annalisa I am more of a honest sleep-a-rounder…cheating is for PUNK

Yea I said it, B-ish what!! LOL

Staceye, a fight where?…I’ll grab the caramel popcorns

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

thanks cemeeli it was good to meet you too

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Darrell

Let me say that it is okay to be selfish this time of year because xmas means love, family and food. Since you are single, you have a pass this year. :)

We talk about everything here in the office. You would turn red if you caught 5 minutes of it. Just last week, I taught my young co-worker how to give a bj. LOL.

Saturday, Basin After Dark came on. He stated that men are not monogamous and it’s tough for them. I’m getting to the point of allowing it. The others aren’t trying to hear that. What I’m trying to explain to these knuckle heads is that the divorce rate would go down and there would be more two parent homes.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Truth/Slim i brought in my “Dirty” for Silly Santa gift exchange today for work. I sure hope CD towers are still in…hahaha…

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

Truth I thought the game was called Dirty Santa…sounds so much better than Nasty Santa. If Jazzyone was in here, she’d probably give u some shyt about that. LMAO! My fam will be playing that this Sunday.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 17, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

Hey Ladies.

Staceye Girly just working, kids & school… Out for xmas break. Yeah!

Slim you too; I wrote down where I parked and still was lost as to where I parked….

Ladies I really enjoyed myself; good to meet you all

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Kinder include me again, please…lol. My weekend was good…well, Saturday was awesome, but Sunday…not so much. I will be in a better mood this weekend (hopefully).

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

Hi Ladies!

I wish I knew about the meet and greet. I hope everyone had fun. Who showed up?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Annalisa “We talk about everything here in the office. You would turn red if you caught 5 minutes of it. Just last week, I taught my young co-worker how to give a bj. LOL.”

As that old lady said in the movie Titanic: “Thank you for that fine, forensic analysis.”

LOL!

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

December 17, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Er’body

A special shout out to the lovely ladies of the blog that took the time to comeout to the meet and greet! It was really nice, had a great time and some great laughs! Thanks to Kinder for organizing it! I’ll be in and out for the day lurking! Holla!

By mqew

December 17, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

Mornin’ peeps. I’m actually the scrooge of the fam. I don’t have a thing up. I did buy some stuff for the fireplace, but it’s still in the bag. I can’t stand Xmas songs. Like 4real don’t like em. AND you would not catch me anywhere near a mall around this time a year. Not going to happen.

Other Topic: I would have like to go to the get together. Did yall have fun?

Truth - What makes your mac n cheez the good? Do you do anything different/special?

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

Mocha The guy that was outside Strip who stopped my before i came inside…could of been one of the so called “Mission tactics” from the blog men. You think?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this

Slim it started off dirty but it got nasty. That was some fun stuff. I had a ball. Our version was nasty santa.

Has anyone heard of a egg nog type of drink called Coquito? I gotta get that recipe. I know it has coconut rum in it.

Anna blog fights before 11am are banned. However, since you brought it up. Faithfulness is something most guys have to work at. Most guys get to a point, after having made the rounds, where the magic is gone and thats when most choose to chill out. If you need a test dummy for your next class I’m available. LMAO

The Truth now feeling sorry for the co-worker thats gonna get Simi’s cd tower. LOL

By SeanJohnson3000

December 17, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…i was considered a big scrooged since i dont really celebrate xmas like that..although i do enjoy the week off for it..that kinda changed when i had my son…made me realize the joy u get from giving….females make it hard though…what do you get yall when yall have justt about everything yall want except for the very large ticket items…i did poll a few females though and the majority would want an ipod…

By Dan

December 17, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

I think I can speak for the fellas on this one.

We need pictures (with name labels) to see who attended this get together.

Fellas: Our meet and greet will probably be at one the city’s fine Adult Entertainment establishments. We don’t do brunch (speaking only for me, myself, and I).

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

MQEW here’s the recipe. Don’t go giving this out all willy nilly like.

Ingredients Elbow macaroni 1.5 cups shredded Monterey jack 2 cups sharp cheddar .5 cups sour cream 1 stick butter (soft) 1.5 heavy whipping cream

Boil mac and rinse Add butter and sour cream-stir until both are melted Salt/pepper to taste Add cheese, mix until evenly mixed Add whipping cream-should be creamy ( add more if needed) Spray glass baking dish Bake @ 350 degrees until bubbly & golden brown

I got 3 words for this plate. De Lic Ious

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Truth oh okay, I gotcha now. That is a very fun game especially if you have some gag gifts in the bunch along with some fiya azz gifts. I’d hate to be the one stuck with a fruit cake. This year my gift is two dvd’s and a package of popcorn.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 17, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

@ Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream email me at swshmk@gmail.com

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Truth sis Staceye has a recipe for that Coquito.

CD tower wrapped looks and feels like a nice big hearty gift…until it’s opened…lol. So what did you get out of the dirty exchange?

By Beautiful

December 17, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

TruthBaby can i borrow your recipe? it will go good with my ham on xmas day.

Lurkin’ 2day … … . .

By mqew

December 17, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Truth - Sour cream? I like.

SJ3000 Gift card to Borders would be nice.

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Question who else beside me worn a wedding ring…but ain’t got no wife/husband

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli To make that CD tower gift seem more meaningful, you can always insert Jenga blocks in the spaces where CDs go. At least it’ll feel a lot heavier. LOL!

By Beautiful

December 17, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

Li’s demi i do.

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli we, brothers of the blog would never scoop that low…who am I kidding

Hey…Ms.U

Dan I haven’t been to the shoe show in a minute…count me in, LOL

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Demi who else beside me worn a wedding ring…but ain’t got no wife/husband?

What?

By Staceye

December 17, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

Annalisa you have now becme a favorite to the guys of this blog….BJ lessons…wow! LOL Kudos! LOL

Truth where you been boo? I gave that recipe like 2-3 weeks ago. I will poust it again. Its a PR drink..very good. I had some a week and a half ago when I was there. HMMMM! can’t wait to have some at home.

Li’s Demi I wear one all the time…..so I can say I’m married adn be left alone! LOL

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

Darrell good idea but i want my Jenga game. I have the updated version…so un-uh!

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

December 17, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

Naw Cemeeli I don’t think even the bravest of blog men would come out in the cold to scope us out. Just another lost soul out there looking for a mate or a stallker looking for a victim!! LOL

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

December 17, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

Miss U, you’ve got mail girl!

By Staceye

December 17, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

Coquito

INGREDIENTS 2 egg yolks, beaten 1 (12 fluid ounce) can evaporated milk 1 (14 ounce) can cream of coconut 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk 1 cup white rum 1/2 cup water 1/4 teaspoon ground cloves 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

DIRECTIONS In the top of a double boiler, combine egg yolks and evaporated milk. Stirring constantly, cook over lightly simmering water until mixture reaches a temperature of 160 degrees F (71 degrees C). The mixture should be thick enough to coat the back of a spoon. Transfer mixture to a blender, and add cream of coconut, sweetened condensed milk, rum, water, cloves, cinnamon, and vanilla. Blend for about 30 seconds. Pour into glass bottles, and chill overnight.

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

hey cemeeli, msU, mochalatte, slim have you guys defrosted yet?? lol

msU/mochalatte i’m gonna check out that eye candy today at the gym (wink, wink). merrry christmas! lol

By lookin4theheadcheerleader

December 17, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

@annalisa….web spring productions are holding auditions for casting couch bj’s….i can give you the information on the auditions process.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Well…Mocha…As i was riding home i thought about it…just seemed timed to me. The reason i said. I do hope the brother found someone to accompany him.

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

lookin4theheadcheerleader

Stop acting like I’m the only one who gives head. LMAO!!! If you with the one you love, it’s natural.

Thanks for the recipes.

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli for a lot of guys, the ring has no meaning…unless I am wrong, most single women wear rings to keep dudes off them…I my case, to increase my marketability with single women…sad part it works too

B is the reason you’re wearing a ring the same as ms.eyes?

Note I was 23 at the time.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

@ kinderbabe - For some reason i wasn’t as cold lastnight as i am today.

Page i was looking for you chica. Hope all is well…but don’t let it be in Phoenix when i get my chico-stick. Lol.

By 900K

December 17, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

Good day all…

Due to recent events I have been forced to take a look at my life and prioritize the things that are truly important to me, the path I am on and how I can be truly successul. Therefore Christmas is no longer a thought to me. Do I consider myself a Scrooge? NO - I do not think that Christmas as we know it is important to me at all. The tree, lights and candles, the fat guy in the suit hold no meaning and never really did. Its all for the children of which I am not and do not have any of my own. Christmas to me has become completely irrelevant. It’s just an excuse for me to do everyone else a favor. I’m all out of favors

By Foots

December 17, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

kinder :-( I probably won’t be able to make anything else so close to Christmas. I have to squeeze in a Tutor Appreciation dinner and two birthday celebrations this coming weekend. If you plan anything farther out, let me know. Things will die down very soon after the holidays.

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli Thanks girl. I was in a funky mood yesterday evening, but I am hoping to see everyone at the next one. I will bring the Chico Sticks…lol

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

foots it’s cool, girl. i’ll plan something else for ‘08. some time in january after things settle down for everyone. the holidays are very busy time for most.

By Dan

December 17, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

@900 cents

You will be visited by 3 ghosts this evening…

Dude lighten up. Nobody’s asking you to give a kidney, just a card, a kind word, encouragement. In that respect, the Spirit of Christmas should be celebrated all year round.

It’s not about money, and I didn’t realize that till I was dead broke. Then, I learned that for some people, just me being around was enough of a present. Be easy…..and Merry Christmas.

@Beautiful…

It was made quite clear that the gathering was for you ladies, unless that was some ill reverse psychology tactic, we respected y’all right to meet in relative comfort.

And for that, we are not brave? Strange one of us would’ve been bold and aggresive to show.

PS I have nooooo problem showing my face anywhere, it’s the reason the Creator made me cute, to show off His work! LOL

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Demi wear the “ring” to increase your market and it works…now that’s a bit much don’t you think…glad you was a youngin’ tryin stuff. Older and wiser now right?

To Answer: I have not and don’t intend to. If i’m not interested i just tell the person…(not interested) plain and simple.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 17, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

Hey Demi Kinder I am trying to stay warm… girly get your flirt on.. He was definetly some eye-candy…. okay mocha. stay by for mail call

By BLAT

December 17, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

Surprise Announcement. Blat’s a scrooge. Never celebrated it growing up, never missed it, don’t believe it’s Christ’s B-Day, and don’t see the point of starting now. I enjoy the time off and the time with the family and that’s about it.

Any questions regarding men and fidelity should be forwarded to the Poobah’s agent, Drew Rosenhaus…. “Next Question!”

This post was actually written by Blat’s assistant, who is RSVP’ing to the MLB Social, Shoe Modeling establishment TBD at a later date. “I got 5,000 $1’s looking for da baddest Itch in the Club!!!!”

By That doesn't sound right

December 17, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

a guy calling himself cute?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

Beautiful feel free to enjoy that recipe. Cook it with the lid off. It cooks faster. (Learned the hard way) Tell me how it turns out.

Staceye The Truth is kissin your hand. Thanks for that recipe. Smooches. Do you think the coconut rum would do vs rum and then coconut?

simi I got some glass coasters that hold pictures. I went first and had to get real nasty to get my gift back. LOL

For those that have been in the office since this morning we’re in a virtual heat wave compared to this morning. Its in the 40’s.

Anna some folks in here are pure as the driven snow. They’d never do that. LMAO

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

@ Dan

If you don’t mind me asking…Are you of dark complextion? Tall?

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Demi I am curious, but do you still wear the wedding ring now? I know you mentioned you were younger when you did it. You always talk about how you have this girl and that girl and how you pull ‘em left and right, so with all that you have and continue to say, I would think that you wouldn’t have to pull such a stunt. I would think you would be beating them down with a stick, right?

What is the topic? I am so jacked up today……ugggggggh

Blog question? How many of the bloggers are married and how many of you have kids and never been married?

By Staceye

December 17, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Coquito

INGREDIENTS 2 egg yolks, beaten 1 (12 fluid ounce) can evaporated milk 1 (14 ounce) can cream of coconut 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk 1 cup white rum 1/2 cup water 1/4 teaspoon ground cloves 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

DIRECTIONS In the top of a double boiler, combine egg yolks and evaporated milk. Stirring constantly, cook over lightly simmering water until mixture reaches a temperature of 160 degrees F (71 degrees C). The mixture should be thick enough to coat the back of a spoon. Transfer mixture to a blender, and add cream of coconut, sweetened condensed milk, rum, water, cloves, cinnamon, and vanilla. Blend for about 30 seconds. Pour into glass bottles, and chill overnight.

By QueDogTeaching

December 17, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

What up blog Said while speed bloging, and now slowing to a complete halt. Annalisa Giving lessons in the fine art of Brain works??? Que now getting a visual of what that could have looked like.

AnnaLisa What exactly did you teach? Just asking?? And you are correct, if a woman is not a giver, I am looking at her like what is wrong with you?

On Topic Never had a problem with Christmas, love it in fact. Is the perfect time for family and friends.

By Dan

December 17, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

@thatdoesntsoundright

“I don’t have a self-confidence problem—I mean, have you seen me?” —Family Motto

@Ceemee

6’4” 260 (10 pds of winter weight), dark (if it matters) and handsome.

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

Then, I learned that for some people, just me being around was enough of a present. Be easy…..and Merry Christmas.

Dan here is a simple of Jay-Z’s $22k bottle of wine for that post.

Cemeeli bay, I wouldn’t do 90% of the mess I did back then…like riding a motorcycle with no helmet up to 140mph…I only did it for 3 or 4 month…one girl I was hitting had the nerve to ask about my wife, WTF..LOL

I couldn’t lie worth ish, so I give it up…a very nice wedding band though

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

kinder I made sure I’d be warm today. I bust out the down feather coat, my furry wannabe uug boots, and a turtleneck sweater. Can you say, too dayum cozy now i wanna take a nap.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

I now pronounce Cemeeli and Dan man and wife. ;-)

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Slim can you imagine a dirty santa with folks from blogsville. It would be off the chain. Riot gear would be mandatory.

900 while I feel you on xmas being commercial I think its a great opportunity to reconnect and get out of our normal, selfish routines. Sometimes just breaking bread and enjoying folks is a gift in itself. I spend all year being selfish so xmas is a vacation. LOL

BTW, I already got my gift this year. I got another dog(I have presa canarios, google it), a female. She’s gonna be a bad girl. Still don’t let that stop you all from chipping in to get me the SL500 Merc you’ve been talking about getting me. I promise to act surprised. (Yes, i like expensive gifts)

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

Page1908 NO kids, NEVER been married, NO man.

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

QueDogTeaching

She is young (20). Since we were on the topic of oral sex and what we like and don’t like, she blurted out has a guy ever came in your mouth?, how do you make him do that.

I told her that both hands must be busy. If all three are moving at once, it’s all a go. LMAO.

Who else has office talk? What do you and your co-workers talk about?

By Staceye

December 17, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

Truth I actually use pineapple rum and coconut rum to give a tastier kick!

Slim go ahed girl….climb under your desk and catch a nap!

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

PrechaTruth I think for every person that got their gift taken away, a shot of tequila should follow before opening up the next one. whaddyasay to that for excitement? lol Riot gear and matching underwear would be required. Just kidding

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

@ Dan

Just curious that’s all…no ill intentions.

Demi I hope all that foolishness is over!

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

Truth If you manage to get someone to flip for that SL500, let me know, will ya? I drive an ‘07 C230 Sport, but had to pay for it myself. LOL!

By Dan

December 17, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Daggum, Slim

You say NO as in never, why so hostile in the inflection of your type? ;)

By mqew

December 17, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Page Married 11yrs in Jan. One child an almost 11 month old. Pourquoi?

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

Darrell…what/where is that from?

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

December 17, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Mocha Mail Call

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

mqew Congrats to you on keepin’ it together for 11 years (and counting.) :-D

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

Dan There was no hostility to my post. I thought it was rather short, sweet and to the point. No need to read in between the lines in this case.

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

Just wanted to pop in and say hello.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Just a play on your 12:03 to Dan and his 12:08 reply to you, that’s all. :-)

By Beautiful

December 17, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

mqew congrats! i can’t wait to wake up next to my hubby after 11 yrs. can’t wait!

By mqew

December 17, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

Thanks Darrell!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

Slim shots would be crazy. Wish I had thought of it.

MQEW cook that mac and cheese and your guarunteed another 11 years. LOL

Page divorced, no kids. Close friends. LOL

Darrell I’ve heard rumors about the gift you guys wanna get me. I’m acking like I don’t know, make it a surprise.

Staceye that sounds good too. You got some pr in ya? How’d you get hooked up with that drink?

Anna I’m eagerly awaiting the video.

Blat Lmao. Now we gotta talk to you threw your agent?

Anyone go see I legend? I’m thinking about catching a matinee. Was it good?

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

hey slim could you forward me your e-mail address? kinderbabe75@yahoo.com

By SeanJohnson3000

December 17, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

@ Page1980…i may be reading too much into it..but did you have an encounter with a married man this weekend?

By chrissy

December 17, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

All of my guys through the years have been great during christma…if they hated it they kept it to themselves.

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

Truth I heard Perfect Holiday was garbage. Haven’t heard about I Am Legend yet. I wouldn’t mind seeing that at the IMAX theater.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

mqew cool. Is your 11month walking or trying?

Truth you picked up my gift yet? First lemme ask, do you re-gift?

Hi Sexyleggs.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

December 17, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

Hi guys, droppin in for a moment to take my mind off some things. I see is lively as usual.

For those that made yesterday’s gathering I hope you enjoyed it, a family emergency has me away and I missed it.

Page Divorced, one beautiful child and LOTS of family!

QDT, Truth, BLAT, Darrell, SJ3000, Dan, Demi and all other MLB’s hugs and kisses to you all.

WLB hugs to you all

I plan to try and drop in as time permits. And what is the topic today anyway?? :-)

By SlimOne

December 17, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

kb mail call

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

Page1908 girl please, I had just started sexing a year before that…I was playing catch up like a mugggggggg…you also forget, I kept clothes in my car…from heavy metal to mr.corporate faking, LOL

Anyway, I read some were that married men are more attractive than single men and decided to give it a try. It was met with more positive than negative, but I couldn’t keep my lies straight…at m/f’n all…so after 3 or 4 month, I call it a quit.

Cemeeli I am still wild and a fool…just not FOOLISH!!!

Li’Demi takes up most of my time now, so i must choose who I date very carefully.

Note: I pawned the Dayum ring.

By kinderbabe

December 17, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

hey mo we missed you yesterday.:) hope you can make it next time.

slim got it, thanks.:) you have mail.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

Simi lmao. My official position is I don’t regift. However, do you have a need for some glass coasters that hold pictures? If not ups will deliver your gift on xmas eve. I hope you have a large door.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

What’s up, Sexy. ‘preciate the luv. :-)

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

SJ huh? Of course not. I asked that question because I think last week there was some discussion about single parents and baby mama/daddy drama.

By mqew

December 17, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

Ceeme he’s cruizin around the furniture, and crawling really fast goin after the cat. I could talk all day about him… but I’ll spare yall.

Truth I got few tricks in the food dept. In fact, my mac n chz is made with a bechamel chz sauce that includes chedd, gruyere, and jack.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

Truth I do not need any picture frame coasters. But please, will you make sure that big box also has a pair of tickets to a beach vacation inside?

It is just too cold today.

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

LOL ok Demi:)

SJ of course not. My weekend was good.

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

Whew, I had my Holiday Appreciation Dinner this past weekend for my daughter’s track coaches. Although everyone was late (which I don’t get - it was a dinner not a party). The food was plentiful. The house was decorated nicely and although there were a few Be-Be kids in attendance everyone had fun and enjoyed the food. Woke up Sunday and had to cook some more for my company’s Christmas luncheon and then get read to take my child to Chris Brown last night. I am so glad this weekend is over.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Demi - just not foolish…hence your phone call with Demi’s mom about meeting you at Kids Footlocker so yeah i pretty much observed your marketing stratagies. LOL!

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo

And Sexy email me a plate, feed the hungry!!

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs Is Chris Brown just as much a dancer/performer as he is on video? I’m sure Lil Leggs enjoyed that!

….someone sound like they a lil wo-out…Are singing I’ll be glad when Christmas is over songs?

By mqew

December 17, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs Did you see any grown azz ole women ackin a fool over Mr. Brown?

By SeanJohnson3000

December 17, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

@ Page1980…just was asking..to answer your question…one son who will be King…never been married…allergic to drama of any kind..

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

ROTFL @ mqew You asked what i was thinking. Thank you!

By mqew

December 17, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

If I get another chocolate Xmas gift ima throw up

By mqew

December 17, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

If I get another chocolate Xmas gift ima throw up WTH

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

Sexy How many kids do you have and what are their ages?

By Staceye

December 17, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

Truth Me…DR not PR. I grew up sneaking sips of my mami’s when she wasn’t looking! LOL

Sexyleggs how was Chris B.? Was your daughter going nuts over him?

Mqew I would have been that grown azz woman acting a fool over Chris! LOL Hey…he be legal now! HMMM!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

MQEW do share. That sounds good as hell. I’m always up to try a new plate. Plus my side dish repertoire is still severly lacking.

Simi actually I asked about the large door because one of the overweight Brown men is doing tabletops to make xmas money. I thought you’d enjoy that. If you need a little water and sand will Turks and Caicos do? Let me see what my travel agent can come up with. Wink Wink

Hey Sexy glad you could catch your breath. We missed you in this camp.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

Staceye - mqew said grown azz ole women. Lol. There’s a difference. Exp when your 15yo daughter is like …mamma!?!

By mqew

December 17, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

Stacey Me 2! I wish I had a little one to take. Coulda been my excuse, cause ain’t no way in he11 SO would have “let” me go.

By abc

December 17, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

It’s easier to be Christmassy if there are kids around. They tend to pull up the slack when a grinch or two start sucking the holiday joy out of everything. Unless you’re by yourself, it’s a little difficult to carry the cheer alone. I have a tree, lights and decorations up for the first time in years. Being with a person that tends to suck the joy out of everything doesn’t help much, but we’ll see how it goes this year.

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

Truth I hope that’s not the same agent as BLAT!

Actually sand AND water in Caicos Island sounds great. As far as overweight brown man and tabletop Just go ahead and bring some of your ‘to die for’ mac’ n cheese. I can’t pay you but i’ll enjoy your dish.

By lookin4theheadcheerleader

December 17, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

@TRUTH…my nieghbor has a presa….scary dayum dog…dog is only 10months and 4times bigger than my boxer…..he only walks the dog at night…dog loses it when he sees another dog or people…

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

Li’s Demi, here’s your plate = Collards, roast, mac/cheese, yams, black-eyed peas w/rice. Dessert you will have caramel walnut apple pie w/vanilla ice cream.

Cemeeli, Chris Brown is the male version of Beyonce. The young man is creative, dynamic and an EXCELLENT dancer/performer. He even went old school for us old heads to Planet Rock to Jam on It. The boy was so damn good you could only shake your head at his awesome talent.

Truth, nice to be missed. I thought about guys while I was doing all that damn cooking for 25 ppl.

By QC

December 17, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

Good afternoon everyone, i know i’m late but i just wanted to pop in to say hello….my coworker’s and i have the falcons blue syndrome lawdy what iz we gone do! :-( anyway, i hope you all are having a good day…hey Darrell aight i’ll holla tomorrow; have “warm evening”

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

lookin4theheadcheerleader = RELL.

It’s only obvious … . . LMAO.

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

mqew, you know what I found amazing was the fact that so many parents dropped their kids off. There are predators just waiting to pounce in a venue like that. These young girls were dressed extremely provocative, cleavage or hanging out tight jeans and lots of dang lip gloss. One thing I gave them, just about all had on flats. For those Mamas in attendance you had to shake your head at some of their outfits. Much like, I think Dan who said why do women wear tight jeans and boots to the movies. That was the uniform last night. OMG, the hoochiness was off da chain. Me, I had on a turtle neck, jeans and SNEAKERS. My daughter no doubt would have had a better time with another 13 year old, but she had to get her groove on with Mama sitting beside her for the time being…LOL. Once Chris Brown came on, she was all the way live. Bottom line is she had a blast!

By mqew

December 17, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Truth I got plenty side dishes to share. The best are the fresh greens. Go to your local farmer’s market for variety. Try broccolini, french green beans, asparagus (try white, but remember to peel it). All of those can be parboiled in salted water, submerged in ice water, paper toweled, then sauteed in butter and olive oil (or bacon drippens if you partake in the swine) with maybe some fresh chopped garlic and red peper flakes. Or maybe some roasted winter veggies with garlic olive oil and salt and cracked black pepper in the oven on like 450. (The grn beans are good with crisped bacon sprinkled on them not fake bacon. I can go on if you like.

By QueDogTeaching

December 17, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

AnnaLisa I think you should have instructed her to view the Karrine “Superhead” Steffans Video. As a matter of fact that should be the how to video. But from what I hear you have a great technique your self. Quick Question. What was your answer to her question.

What up Page, Mo

By QC

December 17, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

How do you tell someone in your office who’s “not a good cook” that keeps bringing the same ole recipe every year…and when they come around to get their food they ask did everything in my dish get ate up already? wow, i’ll just have to make more next year and you wanna say oh please don’t! but what they don’t know is someone is putting there food in another dish and hiding in the file cabinet!

By Li's demi

December 17, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs thank for the dish and please tell me there were no grown a$$ dudes pop’n’lock’n’rolling at the show..

Dayum, we have a lot of undercover cougars in this dump, huh?

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

Afrika Bambaataa…that song was the bomb house party jam. Did he really throw down like that!?! I’m sure it was very entertaining! IMO he’s a mix of Micheal and Usher…

got my son his DVD/CD combo-pack as a stocking stuffer. Hum…you think i can open it and view the video and put it back in the stocking? I should be ashame.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 17, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

QC If everyone would bypass the dish she’ll get the message and it won’t be just one person who would have to tell her. You guys are doing her a disservice by hiding the dish…she’s thinking it’s a smash hit!

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

Darrell, one daughter, age 13. She enjoyed Soulja Boy, Lil Mama, Lil Scrappy, but when Chris Brown took the stage, she started screaming. I had to laugh.

Surpise visits were PDiddy, Big Boi, and Omarion. .

By Foots

December 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli IMO he’s a mix of Micheal and Usher…

Just like Michael was “the new James Brown”, Usher was “the new Michael”, and Chris is “the new Usher”. In the same vein, Ciara is “the new Janet”, and Beyonce is “the new Tina”. LOL!!

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

Lol QC Hi missy.

OMG not The Day And Tee Life of; ‘The Co-worker that puts ketchup in Potato Salad’… Now if your co-worker’s dish is worse than that we can talk.

By SeanJohnson3000

December 17, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

@ SxxyLeggs..your last post made me think about something on the blog last week…when a few of the blog females said that Chris Brown could ” get it”…i know the young dude just turned 18….but i was thinking if the blog dudes said that about a 17 performer…would they be consider potential stars to be on “to catch a predator”…

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Simi yes, me and Blat share the same agent. LOL If I make you that mac and cheese with a steak prepared on the green egg and one of my salads your gonna force me to marry you at gunpoint.

Lookin that dog is gonna get your neighbor a lawsuit. You should ask him to come out and train with us. He’d see how to handle his dog. A dog should only attack when told to do so. Let him know that there are people out there that can train that animal to be social, respectful, and still tear a fellas azz outta the frame when need be. LOL Alot of guys think its macho to have a dog that barks and attacks anything moving, until it gets ahold of a little child.

My guy is 135 lbs at 4.5 years and my female (5 months) is 65 lbs. They are very well behaved tho. My male is protection trained and my female will be after she hits 1 yr. She’s to young now. What part of town do you live in?

Sexy did you see my post about my mac and cheese up top? You’d of been proud of me.

By Annalisa

December 17, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

QueDogTeaching

ooooh, You so nasty. LOL. I said yes, but I don’t swallow. Why do I feel like the blog ho today? LOL.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 17, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

QC LOL at “putting there food in another dish and hiding in the file cabinet!” I’ll tell you how to put an end to that. At the next potluck, make the EXACT same dish the way it’s supposed to be made and then don’t hide hers. She’ll see that your dish gets devoured, while hers remains untouched. Sometimes you have to muscle the next man out of business.

By Alvin

December 17, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

On the real, I am proud of the way Chris B. is handling his biz and family…let us all pray his mom turn away from her addictions..

QC just write them a cute lil note.

SexyLeggs you reminded me…I thought the middle - high school girls at this bus stop a few month back were waiting for their pimp to arrive…I was like:

No way in Hell their mommas allowed them to step out like that!!!

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Miss Foots you’re holiday hectic too i see. Yes i derive those same obby for Chris, Beyonce and Ciara…

Sexyleggs Surpise visits were PDiddy, Big Boi, and Omarion. Did they all perform???

By Dan

December 17, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

@Anna

Tell her to google Alexxys Tyler (I think that’s it).

But that babe, be ALL THE WAY LIVE with her commentary. I mean, she be on it telling women about the male physche. If you parse the flower-babble, she’s actually pretty interesting. “Everything you ever wanted to know about sex, in THE most explicit terms.

@Li Demi

SexyLeggs in not undercover with hers, she out in the open, which is why I’m a fan!

By Dan

December 17, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

@Alvin

Bruh, were do you think they get the clothes from? Momma be shopping right along with them, looking for the exact outfit in a different size. Trust.

And that’s the foolishness I be talking about…Grown women trying to dress like a young girl. I mean, to a degree I don’t mind it, but remember what Dave Chappelle said about the uniforms…..

By lookin4theheadcheerleader

December 17, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

@ANNALISA..ok…it is I…and i am still looking for the HEAD CHEERLEADER

By QC

December 17, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

Dream M, good idea!

Alvin, lol

good nite peeps!

By Tazzee

December 17, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Afternoon folks!

Never dated a Scrooge. Like Dan I am the gift card queen. I love to give them and love to receive them. I told everyone to get me a BestBuy gift card this year because I need to get a bigger ipod - that way if my nephew gives me a $5 gift card, it will be more valuable to me than the $7 bubble bath kit he got me last year (that I re-gifted because I didn’t like the scent).

When I lived in ATL, my nephew and I would put up my decorations together. Now that I’m in TX and I’m gone over the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays I don’t put up decorations. Which is funny because it’s a big deal in my neighborhood - my street looks like an airport landing strip and my house is the lone black house on the the street.

By lookin4theheadcheerleader

December 17, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

@ANNALISA…you swallow….all women swallow…bee lee dat….and if you talking in detail about…then you my dear are the one i am seeking….THE HEAD CHEERLEADER….feel me…lol

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

Truth, I’m pretty sure I would have been wonderfully surprised. From what you have told me, you’ve come a long way baby and continuing to improve.

Cemeeli, they all performed. PDiddy did one stansa of his hit song that I can’t seem to remember and got off the stage. My daughter knew everyone’s name, but couldn’t remember Big Boi’s name. Omarion had a very long performance w/Bow Wow. Don’t want to bog you guys down, but Chris Brown’s entrance via animation was OFF DA CHAIN!!!!!!!! Yes, he certainly has knocked Usher out of the box for now. Yes, Bey is the new Tina.

What’s funny there was a mother sitting in front of me who didn’t rock not ONE TIME to anything. I may be old school, but you best believe I’m rocking to old school and not sitting at a concert as though I’m 99 years old.

By Foots

December 17, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Annalisa Why do I feel like the blog h- today? LOL.

Girl, lookahere, I don’t know for sure…but it could be because you brought up bj’s early this morning with no prior warning or coercion. j/k (not really) LOL!

SJ when a few of the blog females said that Chris Brown could ” get it”…

Just about the only thing Chris could “get” for me would be his uncle, cause his daddy might be too old. He’s a doll, but he’s a baby doll…

Truth I’m going to try your Mac and Cheese recipe. I’ll let you know how it turns out.

By mqew

December 17, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

Dan What dave say?

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

…Alvin…Simone…Theodore!!!…Club School Bus Stop is open for service!

I have a gf that want so to address that issue with these young ladies but she is just “intimidated”.

She tells me b/c some of them are so rebelious and defiant that she only talk to the ones that are approachable. Those same young ladies (in her neighborhood) that know her & know that she has nieces that come over and they all go shopping. Are always calling to ask her if this or that is appropriate AND mamma is right there in the house with them.

By Foots

December 17, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

SJ Though I will admit, I was a little crazy about Omarion a few years back. His dancing just blew me away, though he can’t really sing. Chris Brown came out of nowhere and stole the hellz out of Omarion’s, Mario’s, and Marques Houston’s audience.

What is Usher going to have to do next to top him??

Usher What are you going to do next to top Chris Brown?? If all of your kids perform with you, you could be “The Raymond 4”…

By Tazzee

December 17, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

foots are you as busy after Christmas? We need to hook up sometime between 12/26 and 1/1…

By Foots

December 17, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Are always calling to ask her if this or that is appropriate AND mamma is right there in the house with them.

Now that’s sad! Since I’m just on the east side of 30, I’m getting to the point now where I feel confident in addressing teens about their dress. I did tell one young man in church that I could see his draws and to pull his pants up. Kids I don’t know, I might be more reluctant to approach like your friend. But they do need adults to guide them while they’re still impressionable, especially if their parents aren’t doing it.

By Foots

December 17, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

Tazzee I’ll be off all that week, so that would be fine with me. Send me an email, so I can forward you my home email address…

By Dan

December 17, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

For those not in the know:

Dave Chappelle has a routine that begins:

“Women confuse men by dressing one way and then expect a different kind of treatment. Like clear heels, clear heels is the [ho] uniform, but when you treat them like that, they get offended.”

He continues: “That’s like me dressing as a police officer, badge and all, and then when someone comes and says ‘officer we need help, someone has been shot’, then I have right to be offended”. He scoffs: “Just because I’m dressed this way doesn’t mean that I am a police officer, I just chose this outfit for today. It makes me feel good about myself.”

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

December 17, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Whassup, sis (QC)!

Sorry, I’m late, but I just drove home to take my 4:00 meeting. You did read my newsletter, didn’t you? :-)

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

Foots, I will tell someone to pull their pants up or adjust the amount of cleavage that is showing. Truly, some of them just don’t know it’s not right. Just because it’s the norm doesn’t make it right!

Li’s Demi, you ready for dessert?

Truth what type of cheese do you use?

By Alvin

December 17, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

Dan I guess that can be blamed on lack of father figure too!!

Cemeeli you read like one strong muth..er..mother, go a head and open that gift up.

If son complaints about getting a use gift, hit him with your meanest sista girl look…legs apart…one hand on hip…and the other hand searching for a missile

Alvin is now having flashbacks

NO MOMMY NO!!! IT WASN’T ME!!!

now hiding under Slim’s desk

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

Hey Ju’Miracle

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this

Foots thank you for “helping” that young man.

When she tell me that their moms ARE around i’m like, are you serious? My gf is one of those chics that can EASILY speak the young folks lingo and next 5-10min will engage them in business minded conversations/mentality. One paticular young lady had NO intentions of going to college but didn’t know what she wanted to do…(you’ve seen the type). My f asked the young lady if she brought her back 3-5 college response letters she would make it here buz to help her fill the apps out & take her shopping. Results as of right now = this young lady is the SGA president at her school. Just lil stuff to show these young folk they have a voice & their decisions ARE important.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 17, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this

Sexy check my 1047 post.

Foots good luck with that.

By QC

December 17, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

Of course i read your newsletter, and it’s excellent as usual

Hey Page

HOLLA!

By mqew

December 17, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

yall be eazy

By Li’s Demi

December 17, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this

Ms.Legg, Yes I am…I think I am suppose to be on a diet

Dan LOL, you are so wrong for that!

Annalisa, Foot is right. A lady won’t talk like that, but a WOMAN will…do you bay

By Page1908

December 17, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this

Hey QC ok who else do i need to say hey to…lol

By Foots

December 17, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli What your girlfriend did is truly making a difference with pushing that young lady to determine her future. I, on the other hand, just succeeded in not allowing the folks in pews 6-15 to get mooned. :-)

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

I’m going to leave it in the stocking b/c lil guy petitoned me lastnight. * his lil gift wrapped in notebook paper* That if i would not look, touch, or pick up the package from him to me. Plus i think it’s an letter of aplogy in there also. Exp after 2 day punishement.

Reason for the “I’m sorry mamma leter”: Friday my son told another student in the school that the aftercare teacher sucks! And the teacher’s friend overheard them. Couldn’t wait to share that with me.

By SexyLeggs

December 17, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

Truth, that sounds really good. I don’t use sour cream nor monterey jack, but it sounds scrumptious. I have a friend that uses sour cream. I still use the old fashioned evaporated milk.

By Li’s Demi

December 17, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli wow…do these parents even care about their kids future?

By islandgirl

December 17, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

It has been a minute since I’ve posted…. Hope everyone is doing well. Just stopping in to wish everyone a blessed holiday season and nothing but great things for the New Year. IG

By Foots

December 17, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

Demi Actually, her concern wasn’t that she was feeling like a lady or a woman…

By Li’s Demi

December 17, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli that’s some old school child rearing right there, LOL

By Li’s Demi

December 17, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

islandgirl sup girl!!

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

Demi you’d be surprised this community and others are full of the likeminded AND the VERY successful. But because ‘we” are soo busy with IMAGE the kids are falling by the wayside. Thats usually my sentiment when i hear of what is going on i’m like :-0 (mouth open). insert WTH here.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

December 17, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

Page ME!

By Cemeeli

December 17, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

Demi..my lil guy was shaking…i had to rub him to get a sound out he jsut told the teacher….I’m sorry for acting up. Then he had the you DID NOT have to tell my MOMMA face…LOL.

By Li’s Demi

December 17, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this

Foots you can be dry as concrete at times..said with brotherly love

Yep, she’s going to kill us one day

By Li’s Demi

December 17, 2007 5:06 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli email me demigod33@yahoo.com if you can