Misadventures in Atlanta

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 8:15 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Is it Friday yet?

Have you ever gone to extreme measures to find a date for a particular event — holiday party, wedding, family function? Nope. If I don’t have a date for an event, I go alone or bring a friend to accompany me, No Biggie.

Women, how open are you about your dating situation? Do you advertise yourself well when you’re single? I mean, would you be willing to put yourself out there this way?

Other than telling someone “I’m single” what else is there for me to say. I don’t need to rent a billboard and post it for the world to see. It’s on a need-to-know basis.

If I need a date like i previously stated, I’ll just bring a male friend if i’m not currently dating. Matter of fact my cousin is celebrating her b-day next weekend at 300. I’m not currently dating anyone so I just asked a male friend who I know will add to the fun to go. Foots I’m hoping he doesn’t back out, you know how he is. lol

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 8:40 AM | Link to this

Seasons Greetings all

Ehhhhh, I don’t know how I feel about this - if nothing else it’s interesting. I don’t think it would be an approach I’d use, but I give her an ‘A’ for coming up with a different approach. I wonder how she’d feel if nobody made any bids???

I’m interested to see what the fellas think of this.

Sort of on-topic Does anybody know what they are doing for New Years? Any party emails out there you wouldn’t mind sharing? Anything that doesn’t cost $100+ to get in? Know of anything “different” to do? Thanks in advance

By Dan

December 13, 2007 8:41 AM | Link to this

I am the the “date” guy. That’s mostly how I get out to most events, exclusive and otherwise.

I would think that a woman being open is a wonderful thing. I’ve been in Texas for about three months, and I tell you the women here (for the most part) walk around looking angry. They hardly smile, hardly look as if they are enjoying life at all. And I’m finding that phenomenon in the A too.

Putting yourself “out there” as far as being single, is enjoying life and having it show on your face and in your actions. Trust me every guy on here know a happy single woman when we see her. The smile, the devilish grin “Hi” as we pass by, and the look back to see if we’re checking her out.

Ladies if you want back in, start from within. Cause I can’t love you, if you can’t love yourself.

This is the end of the motivational part of our posts today……

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville.

On topic: These ploys are great for the media but I don’t think they’ll find her a mate. Maybe she should wonder why after living in this world as long as she has she hasn’t accumulated at least one person she finds suitable to escort her for an evening of festivities. I bet if you met her she’s wack as hell. I’m dam near anti-social at times and I have a few women I could call to go do anything with and be guaranteed of a great time, a good laugh, and some great conversation. This shyt isn’t that deep.

Co-signing Slims post (co-signing is still allowed, isn’t it?) Grab a friend and go have some fun. This may be more of a socialization problem than a dating problem. As we rely less and less on the opposite sex we actually lose touch with them and go into our own world. MY.02 and not based on scientific fact. LOL

Who the hellz is bringing breakfast? I can hear my stomach growling.

The Truth now tips his bottle to honor Ike. (Yes I have a cap on my bottle, I’m not wasting good liquor on a dead dude)

By kinderbabe

December 13, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

good morning all!

peach the creators of playdate and paint by numbers are having a part for new year’s at the art on 5 gallery. the advance tix are $30. it sounds like it will be a nice event and different too. i would go but i’ll be out of town.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 I was discussing New Years last night. For some reason, I’m really not feeling the whole, pay $1000 to stand around in a crowded hot-n-sweaty club, feet hurting just to count down the new year. I would much rather go to a nice, crunk house party or something. So far I haven’t heard of anyone throwing one. Then I’m plagued with my best friend situation. I think she wants to come down from Charlotte. I really want to see her but I just don’t have any desire to spend it counting down the new year in a gay spot. For those of you who don’t know, she’s a lesbian

By Page1908

December 13, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

Kinder and Peach- I received that email about PlayDate and I think I am gonna go. My birthday is New Year’s Eve, so it should be fun. This is gonna be my first NYE in Atlanta, so I am looking forward to it and looking forward to giving someone a kiss at midnight…lol. Hey JuMiracle!!

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

Thanks for the information kinder I love playdate (ive yet to make it to paint) so that may actually be a really good choice. They seem to have a nice crowd at all their events and they’ve been going strong for a while now. Good option! Do you know if the information is on their website???

Yes!!! Slim and house party would be right up my alley. I cannot stand clubs. So, is your friend opposed to straight clubs? Please don’t tell me she hates men that much, lol. But seriously, I feel you on the $100 thing - as if!

Maybe i’ll slum it this year and head down to Central Station. Ghetto folks know how to have a good time!

By AmazonRed

December 13, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

Truth, I read the article yesterday and you need too as well. She’s not anti-social, in fact she started a 5 o’clock dance party around her office to loosen everyone up. Not only that, but she has several friends who have offered to accompany her and that is probably who she’ll go with. One friend even offered to fly in from Chicago to go.

She’s not really looking for a date. She won’t consider strangers, she has to know them on some level. Sounds like the chick is just having fun.

As for me, I don’t walk around with the “single” stamp on my forehead. It’s part of who I am, not all that I am. I just live life to the fullest and the rest will fall into place. The most extreme measures I’ve done for dating was joining a dating website.

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this

Maybe she should wonder why after living in this world as long as she has she hasn’t accumulated at least one person she finds suitable to escort her for an evening of festivities.

Lol @ Truth

By Foots

December 13, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this

Have you ever gone to extreme measures to find a date for a particular event — holiday party, wedding, family function?

Not at all. I have never had a problem going somewhere by myself, whether it be dinner, movies, events or vacations. For the two holiday parties I’ve attended, I invited my best friend to one and my cousin invited me to go with her and her date to the other. I had a ball both times. But I do have a friend who would bring a date to Girl’s Night Out if we’d let her.

Women, how open are you about your dating situation? Do you advertise yourself well when you’re single?

Well, my social networking pages all say I’m single, so I guess that’s advertising. And if I’m looking, I’ll ask my friends if they know someone that I might like. But as for putting myself out there specifically for the purpose of finding a date like this woman has, I can’t say I’ve done that before.

By Foots

December 13, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this

Slim Girl, yeah! I love my fam completely, but I know he crazy as hellz. Still, he is the one dude I would always choose to go to a function with. I can’t stop laughing when I’m around him.

By abc

December 13, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

Yeah, Dan, Texas is like it’s a different planet, isn’t it? Texans sure seem to like it a lot. REALLY a lot. Not being Texan, I don’t get it, but a bunch of Texans would encourage me to simply stay away from Texas on that account. Big flat desert, no problem.

Being a guy, if it wasn’t a girlfriend asking, I wouldn’t go to her company party with her. It’s a losing proposition from all angles. Usually I don’t go to my own company’s parties, but I went this year. Kinda wish I hadn’t, all the questions about my date are bothersome. It was fun, though.

By Deacon Demi

December 13, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

Yes I have a cap on my bottle, I’m not wasting good liquor on a dead dude

Yo cheap a$$, LOL

sounding like a broke pastor: Rising PIMP haaaand in the air, Lawd please welcome your sooooooon-uh!!!

Let the church say Aaaaaaman…

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

Ared maybe I read it wrong. It seems to me if she’ll only go with a friend what’s all the hoopla about? I guess she’ll enjoy her 2.2 minutes of fame.

NEWSFLASH Jodie Foster is gay. I couldn’t tell that by the way she acted.

By kinderbabe

December 13, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

peach yes, it’s on their website. check out the playdate or paint by numbers website. it should be on there. i do like the crowd at those events. very laid back. the art work is beautiful at art on 5. i look forward to making a purchase in the near future.:) gotta save up for that…lol

By kinderbabe

December 13, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this

page1908 we have the same birthday!! lol how old will you be?

By SeanJohnson3000

December 13, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog..i think times like this is when male or female can/should go to the friend zone and give someone a promotion….and that is what usally happens…i guess its different from males and females…as a man..we can go to a party..wedding or function knowing its going to be attractive single females and we dont really have the need or pressure to bring anyone…kinda like bringing sand to the beach..but females for some reason dont like to go “stag”…before they do that they will go in a small pack.

question for the females…do yall ever ask your male friends to hook you up with any of their friends?

By Foots

December 13, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

That PlayDate/Paint by Numbers party seems like a good alternative. I went out last NYE for the first time and it was okay. I would have rather had something a little more intimate.

Hmmmmmmmmmm…… I might have a get-together at my house. Let me check with my folks about the possibility…

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

Hello everyone! Perhaps it’s my mindset, but when I heard Karen’s story of going public to find a date to her company’s function I wondered WHY is it so important to have a date. I never understood why people get so bogged down w/showing up somewhere w/a date. If you want to go to the party, simply go. It says nothing about who you are if you show up alone. Goodness gracious why are so many people so concerned w/societal views.

Have you ever gone to extreme measures to find a date for a particular event — holiday party, wedding, family function? Hell No!

ImAPeach, I too am looking for something to do this New Year. I’ve never been to a New Year’s Party and that’s what I’m seeking to find this year. So, anybody who has the pulse of ATL on their radar, please let me know what’s going on as well.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Well as far as my friend goes, she doesn’t hate men but I guess it’s no different than me wanting to be in the midst of some straight ppl for New Years. I mean, she likes women so naturally she’ll want to party with others of the like. I don’t want to slob down some lesbian stranger or worse a gay-guy stranger for New Years. Matter of fact, she came down last New Years and I had recently went through a break-up so it didn’t matter where we went….UNTIL I got there. OMG!! We ended up at Atlanta Live and I had never seen so many straight looking gay guys in one place in my life. It shocked my system and I spent the night sitting there feeling down and depressed because some of the guys i saw in there were guys I’d be attracted to. I was sad for like 2 weeks after that. When she brought up coming this year, I told her I didn’t not want to have a repeat experience. She suggested we go to somewhere straight then go to a gay spot. I’m not paying $200 to do all the hopping. New Years is not a day folks need to be out driving from place to place. Find a spot and chill, feel me.

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

PFBtfkaTT, you’re joking about not knowing about Jodie Foster right???? LOL

By Dan

December 13, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

@ abc

See, me, I’m a bit silly, so I go to other holiday parties and clown, have a good time, pull the “Carlton” in the middle of the dance floor, just chillax.

The smooth house party, word. That would be fresh. But it’s have to be grown folk, some Christmas music of course, then the old school Drifters, Smokey, the Temptations, some high-school-cheek-to-cheek (back-up) slow jamming. That’s be my New Year’s set.

By 900K

December 13, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

Good Morn! - I don’t see anything wrong when a female tells the world she single and looking. It will not change the fact that she’s picky/ selective and has great taste. It shows me that she is willing to review more candidates in hopes to find her MR. BIG.

R.I.P. a true musical legand, did you know that he was the FIRST to put together an ALL Female group on stage???

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

What was up with your date abc??? 3 heads? Half an arm? Bad case of psoriasis? Looked like a man? They thought you were gay? Had a glass eye??? I’m just funnin’ with ya… seriously though, why all the questions? And can you tell us why thats a losing proposition? Men are so interesting!

Off to a meeting, I’ll be back

By 2CPTG©

December 13, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Morning…….

somebody said it already, but her actions are no different than advertising on a dating service; she’s just being more explicit in her requests…..

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

In regards to IKE THE TIKE

Did I hear it might be due to a cocaine overdose? I mean dude was almost 80 still sniffing the coca? Some bad habits are hard to break I guess. Not to speak about the dead, but can you see a old 80 addicted to heroine hooked up to an IV full of heroine…LOL Slim smacks herself and walks off stage holding her head down in shame

By Foots

December 13, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this

SJ do yall ever ask your male friends to hook you up with any of their friends?

One of my male friends wouldn’t hook me up with any of his single friends if they were the last men on earth. They are in their 30s and still on that college behavior, so he wouldn’t put me through that and I don’t want that either.

I did have a Hook-Up Gone Wrong a few months ago. My best guy friend gave my number to his barber, who he’s known for many years. He called, we went out on a “let’s grab a quick bite” date to meet each other. It was so nice that he asked me to accompany him to D&B the next day (Sunday), and I did. We had a wonderful time.

Don’t quite know what happened after that. I did call to follow up, but he never called me back. When I told my friend this, he was confused. This dude claimed to my friend a week later that I never called him at all, to which my friend suggested that he call to clear things up. He never did. That was basically the end of that.

After my guy friend’s wedding this year, he told me that all of his groomsmen asked after me. Everybody. It kinda sucked that they all had girlfriends or wives and were still asking though.

By Foots

December 13, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

abc Have you guys set a date for the wedding yet?

By DreamsMaterialize

December 13, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 Here is a link with a list of NYE events.

http://www.clubzone.com/nye/index.asp?city=11

On-topic I don’t see the big deal in bringing a date either. I’m rolling solo to my company party next week.

Shoot maybe I should start a holiday party escort business. I didn’t know it was so serious. lol

By Rell

December 13, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

I know of a couple house parties..but they are for the sexual devaint…lol…but for news year i am always down for the good house party..those are usually more fun than the club..last time i did the club for new years was 97…..

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

Sexy I was joking. She’s about as straight as Queen Latifah. LOL (BTW, the Queen pulled a cutie. I’d love to see them get down.)

NEWSFLAsH Uncle Joe from the Pee Wee Hurricanes has been tapped to coach the Atlanta Falcons. Official announcement will be made today at 4pm at Perry’s house.

Slim thats some real woman stuff there. There’s no way I’m hanging with a punk, even if he acts straight. If he accidently touched me I’d split him to the white meat. LOL

By 900K

December 13, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

It kinda sucked that they all had girlfriends or wives… -Foots -I’ll be the first to say that as a man I’m a little sick of the married aka hungriest man on the planet out @ the party. It’s like dogg, you got in-house waitin for you at home stop chasin every chick outta here w/ your BS! Not to say that was these dudes here but this is somethin I have BEEN noticing since my Vegas Nights days.

By abc

December 13, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

What wedding? whistle a tune, lalala

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this

i would have opened it up to every available male in ATL. what a waste of time! she only has 4 hits.

By Page1908

December 13, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this

KINDER LOL Ohhhhhh yeah, I remember that you and I had the same birthday from last year!! Remember?! We used to always talk about it…lol. I will be 33. Hey we should meet up together!!

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

Morning & Merry Christmas!

…Iiiii’ll be hoooome for Chriiist-mas….

Breakfast today: Homemade pecan (pronounced pee-can) waffles, bacon and kielsaba sausage, grits (w’cheese), eggs on scrambled, hashbrowns and toast. To drink water and variety of juices.

There will be NO fighting/bickering (maybe a little)…have at it!

Truth/900K/ could you help start getting the kids toys put together?

Sexyleggs you always come to breakfast dressed, hair done, smiles and ready to sing Christmas songs. What would you like to hear today?

Everyone if you have any song requests stop by and see my man Real over there by the Tree.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

Deacon we can either waste this good lquor on a corpse or flush it while looking at the hotties in the congregation. You let me know. BTW, drink wasn’t his vice. LOL

Footsy I hooked up one of my boys (from the pen) with a chick and they got married, had kids, and are now divorced. The whole time ol girl was calling me to tell me about things he was doing, I didn’t want to hear that. My job was done after the intro.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

FatherTruth My gay friend is a female. When we went out last NYE, she didn’t know it was going to be mostly gay dudes there and I sure as h3ll didn’t know. Man, I can’t believe the stuff I saw going on in that place. I’d prefer considering going to Trapeze before I do that again!

By Demi

December 13, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this

I’ll be the first to say that as a man I’m a little sick of the married aka hungriest man on the planet out @ the party.

I feel you on that one…

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Dan you do the Carlton in the middle of the floor too???? Oh my gosh…you are my brother from another mother! LOL

On topic: I prefer to go with my girls to an event..that way a date won’t p** me off….not to mention, I can dance with everyone else’s date! LOL That has been my theory since high school.

I feel you guys on the NYE club rip offs. In NY it’s like $150 minimum to get into the club..and that is just admission. One year they got us by only charging $35 for tickets..but the drinks were $14 and up. Ah ha…..ah ha…(channeling a lil’ Coming to America)! I will be home in NY but I will be attending house parties as usual and do like the rest of the country and watch the ball drop on TV and drink for free!

By 900K

December 13, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Cee - Morning to ya! Pee-Can waffles my favorite. I put the toys together last night for you don’t you remember? You seen my toothbrush?

By Foots

December 13, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this

900k Yeah, it was kinda jacked up. I’ve been very lucky to be paired with the “fine groomsmen” in the weddings I’ve been in lately, and this one was no different. I saw him and started praying that we’d be paired up. We were and we hit it off. He didn’t quite tell me that he had a girlfriend, though my boy told me later and that it wasn’t all that serious. That prospect was out, but since I didn’t lack for dance partners at the reception, I still had a ball.

By Demi

December 13, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

SlimOne you should go with your girl and take a camera with you…start an underground movement..Title: Atlanta DL’s Expose

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli, I’m cracking up over here. Nice to be recognized..LOL. I would like to hear “Do You Hear What I Hear”. However, I don’t want it song by a crackhead or a schizophrenic..Thank you ma’am!

Truth I thought you were joking, but wanted to make sure. You’re right, Queen did pull a cutie. Because of my vouyeristic tendencies, I wouldn’t mind watching that as well. Now, blog family don’t jump down my throat. I’m simply being upfront and honest.

I personally would prefer a house party on NYE!!!

By kinderbabe

December 13, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

page that’s right i remember now…lol. you’re a year older, i’ll be 32. if i were not going out of town, i would definitely want us to meet up. i’ll be back on the 1st though. e-mail me so that we can exchange info and maybe have a new year’s drink when i get back. kinderbabe75@yahoo.com

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Slim I’ll pick you up friday at 8 for Trapeze. Wear something sleezy, we want to fit in. I’ve been to Velvet Heaven and thats not my scene. To much trailer park loving going on. Stains on the fake black leather sofa and cats drooling over the chick I was with. Felt nasty. I was waiting for Jerry springer to pop up any minute.

Those punks are off the chain. They’ll bone anyone and don’t give a dam. In prison there’s 3 quick ways to get killed. 1) Drugs 2)Gambling 3)Punks Punks by far are the most dangerous because they’re always starting shyt. Little byatches.

Similac now I know why you were trying to rush me out before 9pm. You ain’t right.

By BennyB

December 13, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

This woman is very courageous and adventurous with an elevated sense of self esteem. Most women don’t like to feel cheap and desperate but mostly they are not very good at dealing with rejection……a serious self esteem problem which is the origin of many society problems. This girl is on top of her game and she is quite interesting, she does not even want use a male friend. From what I been reading, I can see that women call their guy friends when there is not another option available to them, just like trading your car when the transmission is slipping out

By abc

December 13, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Regarding NYE, I’m prefer having a gig rather than going to a party as a guest.

By Rell

December 13, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

you have to be dressy when you go to the trap…like a lil black dress and slacks and shirt for guy….and it is BYOB

By mqew

December 13, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Morning all!

Ceeme, you are trying to get a chick hungry as he11 for real, 4real! What about mimosas?

Topic - I think it is a societal issue about the date for xmas parties. My ex-coworker asked me to go to hers with her 2nite. She’s 55 y/o and haven’t had a man in a very long time, so you’d think she’d be use to doing stuff by herself. Nope. I know she wouldn’t go if I wasn’t coming. I can’t and won’t pass up free flowing champagne, wine, and beer AND great food! HE11 NAW!

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

I put the toys together last night for you don’t you remember? No my babe’s basketball goal is still out there on the deck STILL in the box! You seen my toothbrush? Yup, on the deck!

All Crackheads and Schizophrenians come mer’ let me holla at cha out here on this deck. I’on know WHO put my baby’s basketball hoop out here but all i know lastnight before everyone went to sleep it was in my bedroom closet. Something bout this ain’t right. Now go ahead and help 900K take it back in the house so he can put it together. (and how did his toothbrush get out here!?!) When you get back in you dont have to tell me no mo’ about how nice Staceye and I wrapped all the Christmas gifts! We heard you the first 3 times ya said it…thank ya!

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

mqew this kitchen doesn’t have mimosas in stock but i’ve been saving this eggnog for JustMe, you too can share it.

By melo

December 13, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

What was up with your date abc her breasts were beating the competition in the room hands down..lol. U know how u ladies wil be frowning and looking at the stranger’s shoes,dress and hairstyle and critiqueing everything!! Im always thinking that women who do like that lady are kinda of losers.Men who respond are only looking for some action becasue they think u desperate(same as having an online profile), so u can go the extra mile, they figure.(if u know what i mean).

New year’s Eve, i prefer to chill at home because thats the time most folks dont make it to the new year and others are looking for prey on that nite, just to spoil the fun.So i like to be at home and chill and sip on wimne, cheese and some midnite goodies. And when its cold, its even better.Me and my woman are always simulating baby making when the clock strikes midnite.

By Page1908

December 13, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

Ok Kinder I will email you now with my contact info!!

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

pssss hey Slim watch Pap and Dreisha for me…fix them a plate cause they will eat up everything. I’m not sure why they were the first one’s up this morning…?

By DreamsMaterialize

December 13, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

House party sounds tight. Foots just tell me where to show up with my bottle of Sysco. lol

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli you are truly stupid (LOL)!!!

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

Demi For some reason if i did do an Atlanta DL’s Expose, i picture myself undercover in fatigue gear talking with an Australian accent.

Gud Daye folks, I’m hir to uncovah the Dawn Lew Lives of the Blek community.

By abc

December 13, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Hey, nothing was wrong with my date. She looked hot in the dress I got her from Bloomies. It’s just that introducing her to coworkers and having to hear about it after that is kind of a pain — they’re not used to thinking about me in other than work terms, and I kind of like it like that.

By 900K

December 13, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Foots - The worst for me is the going solo only to find there is nothin for me. last 2 weddings that I’ve been apart of the Brides both had families full of women (5-6 sisters) so I just knew that it would be nuttin but fly single ladies there. WRONG! I was like how you got all these sisters and none of yall got female friends?? (sisters were all coupled up and not attractive). Both were out of town so me goin solo was my best option.

Morn to ya Staceye- have fun up-top. NYE for me was alot better back home, here I don’t plan anything just grab a bottle or 2 of ros`e and chill to see what happens.

Cee- on the deck? thats cold girl. The hoop will be dun in 5min.

By DasV

December 13, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

good morning good people

i am not mad at Karen for doing what she feel she gotta do to get a date. but i cannot agree that ‘going stag’ is ‘falling into a trap’… i am with most that have posted today: its not that serious. really. i am curious about how things turn out, though, cause she not making a decision until noon tomorrow, a day before the party… and if he picks the guy in chicago, and he is able to fly in on time…. well, cha-ching … that will be very interesting indeed. LOL

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli You might want to check their fingers for tape residue. I think someone (slim secretly pointing to Pap & Dreisha) has been peaking in on the wrapped gifts but I’m not saying no names.

By Foots

December 13, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

abc What wedding?? Aren’t you engaged?

By Foots

December 13, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

Dreams I’m working on it, kind of a combo housewarming/NYE party, since I haven’t had my friends over for anything yet. I’m keeping it small and intimate, cause I don’t want folks tracking up my carpet. Just enough to spread the cost of food and liquor and play a good game of Taboo. LOL!!

And the best thing: I can get right, go upstairs, and just go to dayum sleep.

By Check

December 13, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

Dreams

What you know about Cisco ..brings back some memories that was some strong stuff…..

We used to call it liquid crack.

By Willie Dynamite

December 13, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Morning All: On Topic- Ion think ol girl expected alot of attention. She seems to be a fun loving person who put out a blog as something to do. Creative (maybe, fun definitely. On a side note- Can you imagine how many jump-offs and myspace freaks have blogs or something advertising their status. Not a big deal, same as dating sites so to speak.

On New Topic Mayne you can’t beat a good house party. No drama(hopefully) good music and good people. House parties take all the pretense of the club away. Fellas you remember the ones you had hemmed up in the with the slow song on. Memories Dayum!!!

O yeah, Happy B-day to all my fellow Sags

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

On topic: I went to my company’s Christmas party last Saturday night solo and i had a great time! For some reason a lot of the men (my own directors, managers and Eteam) were in my face very much “covered” (i don’t now what’s that was about/we keep the prfessonal acctng face at work) but a couple of check kisses/hugs later it was a bit uncomfortable. So i just started talking/taking pictures (so glad that was in my purse) of their wives! And telling the oops and funnies from work. Nonetheless the night was fantastic. GREAT FOOD TOO! that’s me.

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

Since I was an a$$ yesterday…I make it up to y’all…the first love song that move my heart at age 23…a few hours before being shot, LOL…Just to keep the day light:

Hello, my love I heard a kiss from you Red magic satin playing near, too

All through the morning rain I gaze – the sun doesn’t shine – Rainbow and waterfalls run through my mind

In the garden – I see west Purple shower, Bell and tea Orange birds and river cousin dressed in green

Pretty music I hear – so happy And loud – blue flower echo From a cherry cloud

Feel sunshine sparkle pink and blue Playgrounds will laugh If you try to ask Is it cool?, is it cool?

If you arrive and don’t see me I’m going to be with my baby I am free – flying in her arms, over the sea

Stained window, yellow candy screen See speakers of kite – with velvet roses diggin’ freedom flight

A present from you – Strawberry letter 22 The music plays, I sit in for a few

Ooh…Ooh…Ooh…Ooh…Ooh…

A present from you – Strawberry letter 22 The music plays, I sit in for a few

Ooh…Ooh…Ooh…Ooh…Ooh…

END

when the cutie from this summer ask me how I felt about her…this was the song I played

I type all this beep in!!!

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

I know im late…sorry

Lol @ Slim sorry sweetie, I had to laugh at your story b/c I went through the exact same thing after a breakup earlier this year. I went Bulldogs with my guy friend and I saw more men in that club that I wanted to get with than I’d seen in 3 years. When I was younger Atlanta use to be FILLED with fine men… I often wondered what happened to them…now, I know :(

Slim, I think your girl should be open to a straight club b/c you indulged her last year…no?

SJ I don’t normally ask my guy friends to hook me up b/c 9 times out of 10 i’ve already heard some horrible story about them and I wouldn’t want to date them anyway.

Hmmmmmmmmmm…… I might have a get-together at my house. Let me check with my folks about the possibility…

Foots is that an open blog invitation?

Also, your guy friend hook up story made me realize that its actually not a bad idea b/c when/if things go wrong, you have someone besides the dude to go back to and find out what happens - a middleman!

Thanks for the link, Dreams

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

New York (tiffany) is prego! lmao.

By Rell

December 13, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

FOOTS…grab the game loaded questions..the adult version…WOW

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli gir you are crazy! LOL

Slim I am picturing you doing that and I cracking up.

900 hold a bottle for me.

By binford

December 13, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

@Dan Great post @ 8:41

I’ve mostly have gone to company parties by myself because I couldn’t dedicate time to my date at the party. The rare times I have brought a date …well frankly. I’ve regretted it.

Karen looks like a cute girl that shouldn’t have any problems meeting a guy, so what she is doing seems like a publicity stunt.

I will tell you as a guy, I stay away from situations where girls invite numbers to their front door. It’s like buying a lottery ticket to a prize you are not even sure you want and it over-inflates the value of the “prize” to begin with …kind of like those stupid shows on VH1 (Flavor Flav, New York, Rock of Love).

By DreamsMaterialize

December 13, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

Foots Sounds like a nice way to bring in the new year. Keeping it small cuts down on the clean-up too.

Check Yeah that liquid crack was strong as h3ll. Guess I should stop drinking Cisco at work so I won’t spell it “sysco” lol (kidding)

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

ImAPeach404 I think that’s why I was so down after that night because there were so many, I guess they call them homo-thugs or straight looking gay guys in there. I knew ATL was a place they found homage in but I just never saw it all in one place like that. I actually told her maybe we should just hangout earlier that day for lunch or dinner then do our own things later on that night. So I guess we’ll see what comes up. I’m stil waiting to see if Foots is opening up her carpet for us blogsfolks to come shake a tail feather on.

We should all where big ole cowboy boots and stomp in some good au-natur-ale Georgia red clay then make our way to her crib, stomping and couting down LMAO

By mqew

December 13, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

Actually CeeMee, thas it right there. Eggnog with a lil somthin somthin in it, the fireplace, and the SO for New Years. Thas all I need.

I haven’t went out for New Years in forever. In Chi-Town, it was safer to stay at the crib, cause shyt was always jumping off. ALWAYS! When we came down in after college 9 yrs ago. We just never ventured out. Nothing ever sounds like fun. New Orleans is the best for NYE!

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

True liquid crack is Mad Dog 20 20* (LOL).

Alvin, every time that song comes on I say to myself after all these damn years I still don’t know all the words to the song. Thanks a bunch!

By Foots

December 13, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Peach is that an open blog invitation? Um, how shall I put this… Hellz to the NAW!! LOL! j/k (not really) I love all y’all but I can’t feed all y’all.

When my guy friend asked me about that weekend, I told him. But I begged him not to ask dude what happened, because I knew he’d try to ask. As it turned out, my boy didn’t have to ask him anything, the barber guy spilled his guts the second my boy sat down in the chair, talking about how I didn’t do this or that.

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

She’s 55 y/o and haven’t had a man in a very long time, so you’d think she’d be use to doing stuff by herself.

Why does that sound so… wrong!!! That scares me :(

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

Beautiful I read that about NY..but I do not beleieve it. I can’t believe she let Punk go….he was fine…intelligent and a lawyer!

By Foots

December 13, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Slim For some reason, I’m having flashbacks of Dave Chappelle as Rick James stomping dirt into Eddie Murphy’s couch….

Rell I might have to check that out. Thanks.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Prego by whom?

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

Good Morning everyone!

How’s every b00ty today?

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

Nope…Mr.Boston: The offical Hood of the Hood Gin

Ms.Leggs please, I can’t even hear most of the lyrics, LOL…But you are welcome.

By Rell

December 13, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

mayne PUNK is gay…..period…no way in hell i am going down in TV History has the man named PUNK….oooooooo hell naw.

By For Real

December 13, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

Foots: Heyyyy For Real I am sooo glad you were able to make it.

For Real: Me too. Here I brought this a Big Azz Pitcher of Red Kool Aid and here is some really, really grease fried food. Oh and you don’t mind if I smoke do you thanks with yo fine self.

Foots: Umm, Umm

For Real: Foots where is the bathroom and you got toilet paper right.

Foots: Ummmm, Ummmm

For Real: Nevermind I think I can hold it (poot, sweek, poot) Whoa I almost lost but I got it now. Heyyyy is that you Slim? I recognize that CT anywhere.

Foots: Ummmm, Ummmm

For Real: What up Blog Fam! It’s a Mitty-Ficky Celebration up in here. BINFORD!!! Who the in the hell left the gate open?

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

Dressed to go to the Trapeze - YFR hell they give you towels if you don’t bring your own Vicky’s (not that most people wear anything anyway)

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

Karen looks like a cute girl that shouldn’t have any problems meeting a guy, so what she is doing seems like a publicity stunt.

Binford I was thinking the same thing… I think she’s looking for a promotion (she’s in advertising) and she wants them to see how creative she is. Watch, next article ajc writes about her will be about how her “creative idea” helped her land a job as the new VP of whatever.

And while im talking about the AJC… has anybody else notice how they didn’t put up a blog so Atlanta could blast Petrino??? Over the last 8 months, every time Vick breathed wrong, there was a blog up so the city could give their opinion

Slim, you are right, it was depressing. At first you’re like “D@mn!”, then you’re like “…d@mn” But you know what else, it’s actually very scary b/c I wonder how many of them are gay and how many are on the DL? Because as you know, those brothas were looking good and you probably would have given your number to a few if you would have met them in a different setting…

Lol @ Foots, aiight girl. I guess Slim and I will hold off on the cowboy boots shopping excursion. No love loss :)

By DreamsMaterialize

December 13, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs that mad dog used to get you right…maybe right isn’t the best word. think cisco was the mad dog of the 80’s. how did we even drink that sh*t?

By For Real

December 13, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

On topic: I think see wants some fame and that’s all.

This is the time of year that I feel like a man w*******. I get paraded around to so many parties that my head spins.

Christmas party scene…..

Chick: Hey girl I would like for you to me my “Friend” For Real.

For Real: Hello (while extending my hand for a shake)

Other Chick: Oh naw we don’t shake hand around here. (Chick proceed to pat me down like the po-po and suck on my ear)

By Dan

December 13, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

All this talk about the Trapeze….

Y’all are throwing me, next time I go, I’ma be looking real suspicious. Might walk in calling out names…..LOL

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

JustMe I’ve actually never been to Trapeze, only heard about it. So is it sort of gross and sleezy or what?

By mqew

December 13, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

FYI, New York is supposedly prego by Budda, but she picked Taylor Made. This is from my cuz who’s bummin at my crib. She watches that stuff religiously.

ImaPeach - don’t be scurred! Why would u be? Are you approaching that age? U don’t have to answer if you don’t want to, but she had one a couple of years ago (husband), but had to get rid of him cause he was an azzhole. So, better to be alone then wit that mess!

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, we were almost in the door of Foot’s home. I kinda think you blew it with stomping in w/Georgia red clay….LOL

By Rick James (not demi)

December 13, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

walking into Foot’s crib wearing a tight leather getup and muddy platform shoes

I am Rick James (Chick) and don’t you forget!!

now jumping up and down peewee herman style on Foot’s new white couch

Foot’s is now beating demi down Charlie Murphy style

Co-cain, is a Helluva drug!!

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Staceye punk, hands down! sweet, nice, educated and a real gentleman.

Slim1 don’t know yet. will find out and let ya know when the reunion airs.

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

See ForReal, with a skit like that resting more toward the truth, is why we are in blogsville. People don’t want to take the chance that someone actually might act like that. However, it was cute!

Dreams right crooked is the word. We might has well drank turpentine back in the day. Sheesh!

By mqew

December 13, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

ImaPeach - The Petrino blog was up yesterday (or Tues?) morning. I was on it, and they blasted the mess out of him.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

NEWSFLASH: Roger Clemens and Pettite were named in the MLB drug scandal. I bet nothing happens to them and nobody puts an asterick next to their names. Bonds is another brother lynched by the mob. This is what happens when you refuse to “fight” for your people.

Back to the regular blog.

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

Slim just in!!!

Tailor-Made IS the winner. He also proposed to her on the finale and once more on the reunion, and she says YES. They confirmed that they had been living together this whole time.

from yahoo questions

By Dan

December 13, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

As a purveyor of 20/20 and Cisco (a while back when my liver could handle it) They weren’t that back. As far as liquid crack, I never liked the taste (as a little throwup arises in my throat), it was quick, dirty and easy to get TO it.

@Slim,

I hit the “trap” once or twice with a female friend, it’s interesting dynamics up in that camp. I was going to travel back with her and take some notes for a book. Just to see the difference with the curtain and illusions were dropped as opposed to the outside world…

But the atomspere is what you make it. You could walk in and be, justifiably disgusted or just watch, of participate if the mood hits. No one stresses you about anything or judges you for what you do or don’t do.

That actually might be the best part about it…..

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

Whoever said Karen (the lady looking publicly looking for a date) did this to show her exes how savvy she is may have an excellent point.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

For Real Ms CT is dateless this year. You got any friends you can hook her up with? And you wrong for ole girl sucking on your ear. lmao

Sexyleggs My bad; I didn’t mean to mess up the Blogsville party at Foots house. There is just something about new carpet that just makes me wanna run through a pile of dog shyt and do the remix Electric Slide

Right foot STOMP!

Then left foot STOMP!

You cha cha with your right, you cha cha with your left. Move to the right and move to the left….Then JUMP and stomp!

Foots: Wtf is that smell

Slim: I don’t smell anything. I know you not talking about my new Usher perfume are you?

Slim again walks out with her head hanging low in shame

By Rell

December 13, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Well good for her….tiffany that is..but i digress

@slim…trapeze is cool..you have to dress business casual to get in..no jeans..etc. that is the front part..you bring what you want to drink they give you a number so when you order your drink give your number..they serve a buffet style dinner and a chef on order…they have a room upfront for relations where you dont have to fully disrobe..when you go to the back you get a locker and towel..and when you go the back that is where the magic happens…they have jacuzzi and a pool with cabans..and they have private and group rooms for relations or you can have relations in the open once you go to the back…breakfast is served around 1am…overall a real good experience with everything under one roof…oo they have showers as well…

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

Dan If I ever did build up the courage to go, it would simply be to view the festivities. Now that does not mean I wouldn’t steal away to the bathroom to…um…freshen up my makeup…yeah..makeup, that’s it.

By binford

December 13, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

@Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

Everyone I know wants the same punishment for the same crime.

For example, if “squeaky clean” Tom Brady got busted for dog-fighting and then lied to the feds and couldn’t stop smoking dope when he knew eyes were on him - then he should get 23 months as well.

Clemens and Petite deserve the same smear Bonds has gotten. Clemens in particular, because he is in the same stratosphere of player as is Bonds (Petite is an average player - not a great).

The way I see it, it takes two sides to make a divide. And it takes two to bridge it and move forward.

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

For real mqew??? Do you think you could find the link and post it here?

Oh… that was me Slim

pops my collar

By ImAPeach404

December 13, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

Opps, I popped my collar to the wrong lady… sorry SexyLeggs

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

Rell you maybe right, his mannerism comes off as a Bulldog’s fan…But, I am sure most women will over look that…cause: he’s so nice, sweet’n’handsome…LOL

before y’all jump on poor li’demi, I have a neighbor who looks and act just like Punk in alot of ways…Sometime I think of telling the ladies he’s dating,”You know that his boyfriend/best friend…RIGHT??..??”

By SeanJohnson3000

December 13, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

@ Truth…the baseball thing is big…every one had to know Clemens was on the “clear”…on a side note..wonder if Blank will go after PeQuitos signing bonus.

By HornyLurker

December 13, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

CAN YOU JUST GO TO WATCH???

By BennyB

December 13, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this

It is sad that a male from this era think that a female who post her profile online or go after what she wants is a desperate being. Women have needs but most of them are not aware of some of them, they pursue them unconsciously. This woman knows who she is, she knows her needs but she pursues them consciously. About the outcome of her date why should she worry about something that she does not control?

Someone mentioned that because of Karen’s good look, she should not have a problem finding a date……this town is full of shallow people who are old in age and size but never matured up. I call them mental orphan. I cannot believe that people don’t give her a benefit of doubt, some think that she is desperate, wants to show off, wants a promotion or wants to get even with an ex boyfriend……Some of you guys have twisted minds.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon All,

For the lady with the blog looking for a date to the holiday party If you like it I love whateva works for you. Seriously though cant be that bad to go alone.

Rell Not to be funny but I cant see eating in a place where a bunch of folks are walking around booties out and smelling funky. But different strokes for different folks.

Peach There was a blog for the Petrino backlash on Tuesday when the story broke all day yesterday and today. In addition there are blogs about it on ever major news sports page. But all the venting in the world is not going to save this sorry season..* How soon will it be before Blank decides to pack up and move his wagon train somewhere else.* I mean hell the fanbase here in Atlanta is shot to hell.

By mqew

December 13, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

(http://www.ajc.com/blogs/content/share-blogs/ajc/sportscolumns/entries/2007/12/11/petrinowasnev.html#comments)

Hope I did it right.

By Blow Me

December 13, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

*FELLA WHAT’S GOOD WITH THE SPORTS TALK EVERYDAY>!>! I am sure there is another BLOG for that!! *

But Good Afternoon all!!

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, girl I heard Usher’s perfume stunk, but you didn’t have to go there. That was funny.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

Benny we admitted long ago we have twisted minds. This kind of stuff really gets old fast, kinda like reality tv. In the end she should look at herself and find out why she can’t get a date w/o running a hoax. Is she tht fugged up?

Binford, its perception. Bonds is perceived to be such a bad guy while Brady is a media darling. Fry Bonds and overlook Brady’s illigetimate child. Not much mention of that. All those guys are juicing sowhy just indict Bonds? They all lied to the feds. I have a pro bodybuilder friend and he says that stuff is so prevalent that most guys couldn’tcompete without the juice. I’m going to get myself a subscription and try out for the falcons as quarteback. Lord knows they need the help.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

SlimOne to answer your 12:00 PM question…….

Depends on what you call sleazy. - LOL

Here’s my take in two trips to da Trap!

The buffet is pretty good…. only place I’ve eaten that has a pole in the dining area.

The Co-ed locker room was no big deal, everybody is grown.

The jacuzzi’s scare me……. to many nekid folks in the same water (some $exing it up)

The 0rgy rooms were filled to capacity (I looked at everything and everybody).

I saw some of the biggest ding-a-lings in there!

<<<<@>>>> <<<<@>>>> OMG!!!

On my second visit, I did see a group of 5 Lesbo chicks and 1 guy get mad stoopid busy right across the couch from me.

To be honest, I was too shell shocked the first time to even talk to anybody. I spent my night at the bar once I found it sipping Sprite - it BYOB.

The second time, I had to endure a few lude comments about taking my ortho boot off and kissing, licking etc.. the pain away. I did manage to find one dude who was just looking for some convo, so we sat and watched the Lesbo show across from us.

It was a sight to see, but I don’t think I’d want to participate 1. with a stranger and

Also, being that it is a swingers spot, I guess I should not have been suprised when a guy with a female in tow tried to strike up a convo right in front of her (wtf was JustMe thinking - Duh!)

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

Where is this place located? Just kidding, I’m not going there…no really where is this place????

By Rell

December 13, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

@justme…yea the water…i was like no thank you on that part….not enough clorin to wash away whats swimming in there…lol

@kym…..did not see any asses in the front kym, everyone is dressed..again once you round the corner all bets are off…and once you open the door…be prepared…its cool…i was not shocked or amazed..hell i was comfortable…a lil too much..but not shocked at all….lol..hell i did some shocking…i am a libertine

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

HornyLurker That’s exactly what I did!

SexyLeggs SlimOne, girl I heard Usher’s perfume stunk It does! JustHim and I went X-mas shopping for clues and we sampled it. I still have the sample and it still stinks!

By mqew

December 13, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Sorry ImaPeach. [http://www.ajc.com/blogs/content/share-blogs/ajc/sportscolumns/entries/2007/12/11/petrinowasnev.html]

If it doesn’t work this time, Ima feel real ‘special’.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs I-20 To the Fulton Industrial Exit. Head South on FIB and turn left at the first or second light. Hang a right at a corner and it’s down the street. - LOL I don’t know the street names.

By mqew

December 13, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Sorry ImaPeach. [http://www.ajc.com/blogs/content/share-blogs/ajc/sportscolumns/entries/2007/12/11/petrinowasnev.html]

If it doesn’t work this time, Ima feel real ‘special’. Just in case, Jeff Schultz wrote it on Tues.

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs gurl, i was thinkin’ the same thang. lol. ain’t nothing wrong with watchin’.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

Forgive me but I have “Monk” like tendencies so help me follow this.. you are going to a place to have sex with a stranger who can have any kind of funk known to God and Man..(dont say they have to bring heath reports cause welcome to the internet age that can be forged-but I digress) and then you are going to stick your apendage or face or whateva the case maybe where someone else just left.. there by sharing your juices with their juices with whoever got there before you juices. hmmm sounds like a funky monkey cocktail to me but ohhhh k.

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

The thing is the same people that you being nasty with get in the water so whats the difference…hit before during or after..yuck ya nasteh….

By BennyB

December 13, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

The Truth, Most people will not work that hard to find a date, they will tell you that all they want is have fun and enjoy themselves. Just like wanting to be adult and refusing to grow up. This woman knows that she cannot control guys or the fact that they ask her out or not. What she is doing is what I call being in control of your destiny. Again, this girl is an educated marketing executive……….a lot of guys can measure up to her physically but mentally…..I bet that she probably feels alone

By 900K

December 13, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

WOW I go to lunch and everybody has turned into SuperFreak! Maybe I’m a lil plain but seeing 10 people tied in a human knot does not seem appealing. ok I’ll stop frontin no prob w/ the chicks but I don’t like the presence of foreign man meat

Staceye I’ll have a bottle w/ your name on it.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Rell I must admit that for the most part, there were no hounds. There was this one lil african guy though, he offered to serve me six ways from Sunday - LOL

I think the thing that suprised me the most (other than the big old biggies) was the fact that everyone (even the big girls) were very comfortable and relaxed in the atmoshpere.

The funniest sight - naked pool shooters - LMAO at that all night!

By binford

December 13, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Could sometimes it not be the personality or the attitude of the people involved?

Just from what I’ve seen in the media and have read, Bonds has always been aloof and a little adversarial and rubs people the wrong way (media, teammates have said this -all of different races). Could it be that?

He was VERY adamant about not doing steroids (just like Palmero was) and now he’s going to get busted and have egg on his face. His stature as one of the greatest(if not THE greatest) contributed to the scope and magnitude of the story (which Clemens should also get because he was always touted as one of the greatest pitchers).

Keep in mind, a lot of the media (in sports and general news) are the same color as Bonds and Vick and they are bashing them too. Unless Stuart Scott, Stephen A Smith and a host of others are all just Uncle Toms - which I doubt.

Brady’s illegitimate child doesn’t affect his play on the field. BUT, Pete Rose’s betting did! And don’t tell me he wasn’t vilified and he was a wonder-bread media DARLING! Everyone loved charlie hustle.

Also, the media in ATL was good to Vick and had kept incidents relatively low key until they kept piling up.

BACK ON TOPIC I bet when the creeps hunt down Karen, she’ll really regret this stunt!

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

And Truth…you said you don’t use condoms?? are you married and if you hanging out at swinger spots how are you exaclty protecting yourself because by your own admission you have had every dyck drip there is..Im jsut asking im not judging but ya need to see this if you frequenting the freak clubs..you will end up with his own..so called to each his own..heyal naw…

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

JustMe So if you rated your experience there, what rating would you give it out of 1 to 10 (10 being da bomb diggedy)

Sexyleggs & JustMe I did smell Mariah’s perfume and it wasn’t bad. It had a light sort of clean smell to it. I actually hate looking for a new fragrance. By the time you smell the first 4 everything starts to smell the same, then the headache rolls in.

By DreamsMaterialize

December 13, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

For everyone that gets turned away at the door by the bouncer at Foots’ party, I set up shop across the street from her house, windows down, trunk open, bumping “This Christmas” by Donnie Hathaway. Got some Cisco, 20/20 (just for you SexyLeggs), and a bottle ($3) of the finest Cook’s champagne (pronounced sham-pag-nee). Otherwise, BYOB Trapeze-style.

By Foots

December 13, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

For Real Yeah, you stoopid. LOL!!

All of the Trapeze talk is interesting, but I already know I wouldn’t be able to hang. I went to a strip club for an outing with my studio a few weeks ago and I’m just now able to get that look off my face.

Slim Yeah, you stoopid too. LOL!

By Rell

December 13, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

@kym, i dont do sex with strangers….who’s to say that i am not meeting “friends” up there for freaky fun….and note there are alot of trapeze households in atlanta..there are alot of houseparties, where this behaviour goes on…check your hood…look for houses with colored outside lights….lol

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

KYM Im with you on that but then they say they wont get in the water but will fyk someone anonmously…WTF???…seriously…just rank….tell that shyt to someone else if you think I believe that then i got some horse shyt to sell you but its really gold…..unh unh…

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

Kym I feel ya pain, but everyone in the place is grown and if you don’t think you can go and observe only, then it may not be a good idea to go.

I went because when a friend of my sister described the place to me, I could not did not believe a word she was saying. Esp the part about all the TV’s having P0rn on, and the pole in the dining room. So I wanted to see for my self.

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

Heyal naw if i want to be a voiyer..Ill make a tape with me and man and play it back if I want to watch some sex…

By Foots

December 13, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Dreams You don’t want to go to the house across the street, trust me. That lady will try to rope you into hosting a jewelry party for her without even knowing your name because she made the choice to quit her job. Long story. Dayum neighbors!!!!!

Usher Does your perfume really stink? I thought it was okay, but maybe I was still smelling residual from the other samples I took.

By Rell

December 13, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Hit me All the chronic in the world couldn’t even mess with you You are the ultimate high You know what i’m saying baby? Now check this out Take my money My house and my cars For one hit of you You can have it all, baby Cause makin love Everytime we do Girl it’s worse than drugs Cause i’m an addict over you And you know that i

[Chorus:]

I can’t leave you alone You got me feenin Feenin you got me feenin Got me goin crazy I can’t leave you alone You got me feenin Girl i’m feenin for you

Said i’m feenin for you I don’t have a mind It’s all blown on you, baby Girl i’m so strung out All i do is wish for you So tomorrow if you’re not here Then girl i’m down So i need you near I just wanna make it through the night So hold me tight Then girl i’m alright

I can’t leave you alone You got me feenin Girl you got everything that i need, got everything that i need I can’t leave you alone You got me feenin Girl i’m feenin for you

Lady i’m hooked on you There’s nothing else i’d rather do Spend my last dime For a drop of your time Cause you’re the girl without a doubt You know you got me strung out And i need you more And more Cause you are my joy

You got me feenin You got me feenin You got me feenin yes you do I can’t leave you alone

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Kym, I thought people came w/their own person they want to hit the “honey pot.” If I should venture in a place like that believe you me, it’s not to participate. Not on any level….simply vouyerism going on!!

Thanks Dreams, know my innards could not handle 20/20 anymore..lol. But, you’re bumping the right kind of music to start the night off.

Truth is married to me on this blog. However, he’s on a long lease and is free to do his thang…I trust him (LOL).

SlimOne I smelled her fragrance from a magazine and liked it.

By T-Mango

December 13, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Rell-Different strokes for different folks…

Forgive me, but I’m shocked given all of the activities that occur there that they’d have an open buffet. Must be alot of protein in those dishes. And on the serving spoons… Geez.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

SlimOne I’d have to give it a 6. I did not fully particiapte in the activities. I was a mere spectator on my visits. I did take my Petras the second time around though. The towel is too much to hold on to when you are starry eyed.

SlimOne JustHim** liked Thalluim, I still have that sample and it still smells pretty good after nearly two weeks, so I think that’ll be one of his stocking stuffer gifts.

DreamsMat My best friend and I shared a bottle of fruity cisco back in the day. We were punch drunk by the time we walked 3 blocks back to her house. That is some wicked liquid - Whew!

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

JustMe The funniest sight - naked pool shooters Um…I really have to know…um….were they using actual pool sticks or….oh slim slaps herself again and walks out holding her head down in shame

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs…hey you can have that nikka…and all the past and present dyk drip he might have….gee wiz..you nasty as heyal too…

By Dan

December 13, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

While I’ll neither confirm or deny my “involvement” in the activities at the Trap, I have no problem admitting to going.

If displays of sex is not your thing, fine. But again, my predominant memory of my experiences there are of the socially relaxed, non-contstrictive manner with which the people behaved.

I mean, for those of us that are on this blog, we have had conversation about the opposite sex(es), conversations about sexuality and the expression of it, etc….

But to be in an environment where the walls of societal constraint and the Victorian principles are gone, is in no small way, exhilirating. Now, I get the “I only get freaky with my SO” thing, but don’t knock what for many people is there natural state of being. You’d be surprised at how many people are into “alternative” lifestyles. They don’t get piercings, tatoos, s**t faced drunk, or powdered up….they have protective sex in an open community.

I think it’s a natural form of expression, like my writing or photography, or whatever. It’s just that they are expressing themselves through their sexuality and exploring who they are in a safe environment. (Does anyone else remember the guards and police?)

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

Jazzy I went, I didn’t participate. I clearly stated thats not my cup of tea. I went with a female that wanted to check the spot out. With that being said I like puddy and fully understand puddy comes with risks. I try to minimize the risks but i’m never giving up on puddy. Puddy been berry berry good to me. LOL

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

Can’t leave you all for a minute. Come back and the Christmas gather has turned into a freak for all drank all.

Slim/Staceye/mqew/Sexyleggs - what happened?

The Tree is bent all side way’s how did that happen? Real left Pap to dj the music selections….900K that dude is MIA and left all the parts out for the kids gifts…hadn’t put anything together.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

Rell You ain’t neva lied. This guy still invites me to house parties (I’ve never gone), but when he told me about a party in my part of town I was like GTFOH!

Also, I found out through conversation with people there that a lot of the swingers are indeed married couples spicing up their $ex life. I didn’t get the feeling that this was an establishment that offered free prossy’s; it was much more upscale than that - Really!

Jazzy You can shine that Shyt right up when it comes to JustMe. I know who I am and if I had wanted to sample the fare, please believe, I had time and more opportunity and offers than I expected by far. It’s truly a pressure free environment! HEck the folks there are enjoying themselves too much too be stuck chasing one tail all night - IMHO

Sexy I think they do have a singles night (don’t quote me). I do know that dudes have to pay about $75 to get in solo so they usually are coupled up coming in, but again, I’ve only been twice and I did not spend a $ so I can’t be 100% sure.

T-Mango They have a buffet staff that serves the food for you (in uniform) - LOL

I understand all of the ills you all describe not being able to stomach, but you have to go to see for your self. I did!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

Justme I wasnt planning on going I am just reading the reenactment and unless the word orgy has changed since the romans and greek that means free for all. So that is why I asked for clarification but hell whateva makes someone world go around.

Rell I thought the purpose was to switch up so are there washcloth stands or does someone ring a bell after each round? I mean some how this is not sounding sanitary at all.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

Jazzy why you so hot under the collar? People do what people do. If you don’t like shyt sit yo azz down and stfu. Nobodies making you go. To hear you tell it you’ve never sucked some cats dyck outta wedlock and you went from the nunnery to your hubbies home. You and I both know you’ve been on some cats nuts and rode hard. Now you come in here wearing a halo. Thats some b******. Also, Sexy was just joking with you about he marriage thing so why you get all riled up aboutthat is beyond me. In my experience its the reformed ho’s that squeal the loudest when you jerk their collar.

By Rell

December 13, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

@dan…well said…and i agree…i was surprised at some of the same dyme women i see turning brothers down are up in the spot…doing the dayum thing….and trust me i was shocked at the selection of womenz up in the joint…

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

Dan I took a friend with me the 2nd time; actually I was with a group of people both times, anyway, you are right, I may have been the most uptight person in the spot my first trip. The second trip my friend had me beat by a mile. Since I took my Petras with me, I advised her that she would want to take her own towel to cover her DD’s. She took a beach towel - ROFLMAO she got more convo about that “big azz” towel than anything else.

By melo

December 13, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

JustMe, how old are u?

By SeanJohnson3000

December 13, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

@ JustMe..i am over here laughing ..picturing you butt booty naked with a broke foot ankle boot on…hopping around watching folks go at it….lol…

By Rell

December 13, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this

@justme..well said..and again i say you would be surprised at who you will see walking around and enjoying themselves..trust when i tell you folks are not all up in your face like that…they have there party and it is rolling right along….and the funny thing i have been out at the club with some lifestyle friends and no one knew the wiser..so you never know

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Truth, I finally get to use this on JazzyOne. Honey, this is a blog and there’s nothing nasty about me……zzzzzzzzzz snore zzzzzzzz!!!!!!!

By melo

December 13, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

Dan&JustMe, when they are flucking, do some of the women and men make the usual spanish moans and groans of pleasure?

I think this world is going to be destroyed by GOD in one raging ball of fire when the time comes. There is so much SIN out there going on.And to think that one can eat food with p*** looking at u like that, and all the smelly juices and fish smells. And i always considered myself a sinner, i have not gone that far. Agrrrhhgrrrrh gross!!

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

Truth Hot under the collar..about ya’lls shyt WTF for?? thats ya posting on the ajc about ya bidness not me..Im just commenting on it thats all…Honey you don’t know me and Im not cut like you or some of the other people around here..just commenting..

…And whatever Ive done in the privacy of my own home naw i ain’t coming up in here talking about it cause thats the cloth im cut from and the didderence between you and I..nor have I had every desease known to man so I know you aren’t addressing me..LOL surely you jest….LMAOFF…

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

its the reformed ho’s that squeal the loudest when you jerk their collar

Truth in my world the phrase is “a hit dog will holla.”

By Sweetie

December 13, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

I want to go to the trapeze, where is it located?

By Rell

December 13, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

@kym, it is no pressure lady…there is nothing written that says you have to join or switch up…lmao….we fear what we do not understand or know…..did justme just post she went twice to watch..and again in the front it is like any other night spot..dancefloor, bar, dj, food, wait staff, bartenders..it is not until you cut the corner does the freaky stuff go on…and you dont have to do anything if you dont want..feel me…

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

JazzyOne, I don’t even know Truth. I was only joking with you. If you think there isn’t any “embellishment” going on in this blog, please change your thought pattern. Hell, what I say that for. I’m surely not trying to tell you what to do…LOL

By melo

December 13, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

In my experience its the reformed ho�s that squeal the loudest when you jerk their collar. Pastor Pimp Truth, preach on my man, preach!!!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

Dan Rell JustMe

No washcloth stands huh? Not even hand sanitzer? Nawww whateva floats your boat. I am not uptight but I do know that you can catch Herpes from anything and I dont feel the need to increase my chances looking for a natural high. But hey if the toga fits.. swing on.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

Kym I wasn’t (in fact deleted) my comment to you response to me. Your comment to Rell shows just how narrow minded you can be. You imagine it to be a “smutty” place so tht must be what it is….. WTF Go see for yourself or try absorbing the truth from other folks experiences.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

Melo Maybe they have one of those big ole room purifiers.

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this

seems to me ya the ones defensive about yas activities when someone posts their opinion it..Ive never had a sexually transmitted desease so thats the difference between you and I or the need to drop it like its hot at my age..so both of ya can go and kick rocks with the freaks baybeh..cause im lauging atcha and so are allot of other folks..to each his own but i know you aren’t calling me a dog trick….far from it and if class kicked you int he head you would know it sexy so fyk off trick…

hey you do what you do just naking a comment…LOL

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this

seems to me ya the ones defensive about yas activities when someone posts their opinion it..Ive never had a sexually transmitted desease so thats the difference between you and I or the need to drop it like its hot at my age..so both of ya can go and kick rocks with the freaks baybeh..cause im lauging atcha and so are allot of other folks..to each his own but i know you aren’t calling me a dog trick….far from it and if class kicked you int he head you wouldn’t know it sexy so fyk off trick…

hey you do what you do just naking a comment…LOL

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

Jazzy jest my azz. If you’ve ever slung azz at some cat out of wedlock your as wrong as anyone posting in here. I personally call that being a human. The incidents I refeered to happened in the early 80’s and I’m glad they did. Had they not I’d be out here right now when the stakes are much higher. As I’ve said before, when I want puddy I go get it. When I want money I go get it. Everything you do comes with consequences. If you’ve never felt them its because your not pushing hard enough. Oh yeah, one of those cats who’s nuts you blew probably had something before you gave him some azz or just got off another piece of azz so watch where you throw rocks. Whether you come in here and say or just do it just the same. I’ve NEVER done anything I’m ashamed of so I have no problem talking about my experiences. Actually i’m glad I had them cause life is for the living. And it s not bidness, its just some shyt that happened. Grow the fugg up.

By sweetie

December 13, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

@Rell..Jodeci got me feanin!!!!!!!!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

Jazzy jest my azz. If you’ve ever slung azz at some cat out of wedlock your as wrong as anyone posting in here. I personally call that being a human. The incidents I refeered to happened in the early 80’s and I’m glad they did. Had they not I’d be out here right now when the stakes are much higher. As I’ve said before, when I want puddy I go get it. When I want money I go get it. Everything you do comes with consequences. If you’ve never felt them its because your not pushing hard enough. Oh yeah, one of those cats who’s nuts you blew probably had something before you gave him some azz or just got off another piece of azz so watch where you throw rocks. Whether you come in here and say it or just do it its just the same. What, if you give the fellas some head but its in your house it doesn’t count?

I’ve NEVER done anything I’m ashamed of so I have no problem talking about my experiences. Actually i’m glad I had them cause life is for the living. And it s not bidness, its just some shyt that happened. Grow the fugg up.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

Truth Didn’t you mention earlier some other place Heaven something? That must not be as popular as the Trap.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this

Melo 38 and counting!

SJ3K That’s exactly what I did on crutches no less.

I went back the second time a week before my surgery cuz I knew my azz was gonna be bedridden for a few weeks - LOL

Rell I’d put good $$ on a bet that some of these folks work with swingers and have no F’ing clue what they do after dark!

Melo I did hear a chic getting her moan on coming from the “O” room. And the Lesbo session LOL this was funny as he!!, the lead Lesbo was making some sort of squealing sound it was a call that her “girls” recognized and they came to her when she called.

By My foot stinks

December 13, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

I want to go to the sexual house parties

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

Kym If you got curious enough, maybe you could just BYOCW (bring your own clorox wipes)

By Blow Me

December 13, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

Truth Don’t let this ppl get you mad. You are the funny one around here!! I am always laughinga at you

NEXT MEET N GREET @ TRAPEZE, Who’s down

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

JazzyOne believe you me, there’s no “need” to drop it like it’s hot. No, I’m not callling you a dog, I was referring to the phrase. It is actually amazing to me how much cussing and fighting goes on with cyber folk…it’s not that important. Yes, I will do what I do! Why would I cyber fight w/you or anyone else on. I don’t know any of you. I’m not going to throw insult after insult. If you guys take this stuff so damn personal why are you blogging?

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

Thats the thing truth you don’t know anything about my sexual activities but I know what you have done cause you post it HERE….hey reading it is playful fodder for me while working so it is what it is…me grow up..are you kidding?? amazing..me grow up but you posting ya s** all over the ajc..me grow up okay I’ll do that baybeh…

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

JustMe WTF are u talking about? I didnt say it was smutty or nasty. Jazzy said that..reading is fundf*ingmental. I said whateva floats yall damn boat. Hell I said and I quote…I have Monk like tendencies so booty juice in my food or short and curlies in my drink is not my thing. Hell if yall get off screwing strangers or friends with strangers or family or whateva is the flavor word of the month then go for broke hell I care. I was thinking of the health damn code. and the smell. Rell answer my question so push the hell on.

Folks act like body fluids dont smell funky after making the beast with two back…like they all sweating the nectar of the gods…please.

By Blow Me

December 13, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Just meFUNNY !!!!

And the Lesbo session LOL this was funny as he!!, the lead Lesbo was making some sort of squealing sound it was a call that her “girls” recognized and they came to her when she called.

Why is this so funny to me!

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

JustMe The school system if full of swingers…so i’ve heard. It’s so funny this topic came up because the old re-run of Martin was about swinging. I’m thinking dayum, back when it was on, I had no clue what swinging was.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

Jazzy have you only slept with one cat, the one your currently married to? I’m pretty sure that wore out puddy has seen a few dycks too so stfu. And how you claim to be classy is beyond me. Just because you’ve never had a disease doesn’t make you classy, as your a perfect example. If you don’t want to participate in the festivities thats cool but let those that want to do so. And the only trick you know is the one that paid for that wrinkled, dry azz puzzy.

Its one thing to be old . Its another to be old and stupid.

By Blow Me

December 13, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

* Sexxy Leggs* Let her be..Let’s get back to the JACKED topic….which is now TRAPEZE Anymore stories anyone….Me and T are thinking about going!

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

Kym Did you miss the part about the SHOWERS!?!?!?! for those who need/want them. But I digress you see/read what you want the way you want. U GO GURL!!!!

Jazzy I have no need to defend myself against words on a monitor. I shared my experiences. If for no other reason than to enlighten someone to the fact that this place is nothing like I imagined it would be, (not even close). I too thought it would be filthy or something worse, but that just was not the case. I have never had an STD either, nor did I have one when I returned home those nights. To me it was just like going to a hockey, football, baseball or basket ball game….. I watched, but did not play.

By abc

December 13, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Now, if that sort of swinging is what my coworkers are doing after hours, I neither need nor want to know about it. Yuck.

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Blow Me me and my homies! one of them don’t know what the trap is. lmao. we’ll explain it to her on the way. lol.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

Slim Velvet heaven was a spot in midtown. Catered more to doves but there was alot of folks in there. This was about 5 years ago I went.

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

What the hellz is going on in here? LOL

By Rell

December 13, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

@kym…come on lady of course they have all that and more..hell in the bathrooms they have bottles of scope….the place is clean and they change sheets upon request….you have no clue..you just want to talk greasy about..so i am nasty yes i am..folks get your laugh on..but again i say you would be surprised at the folks you see in there….but again color me nasty…next subject…lol….i had to hit up my martin luther for this convo..for all my itunes head…download “LUST” and “Truth or Dare”…you will not sorry….i cannot find the lyrics to post

By melo

December 13, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

JustMe, I wanna go see for myself, give me some info plz. How much it cost to get in there if not a member?Yu can take me if its okay with u so i go on ya membership tab. Just wanna check 4 myself. Plz hit me up takpat78@gmail.com

By Teresa

December 13, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

Count me in!!!!

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

SlimOne You are stooopid as he!!, BYOCW - Wow!!!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Slim the chick I went with was aPRINCIPLE at an elementary school. I’m laughing my azz off.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

Staceye Oh nothing much. We were just discussing your Hedo trip. lol So since you’ve experienced that, have you ever dropped by the Trapeze? BTW, did you happen to bring the slideshow of your Hedo trip with ya?

Slim now pulling up a chair, a margarita, chips-n-salsa

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Truth Hey you are the one that keeps talking about the issue…you don’t know my bidness so hey its all good..conjure up all you want but you’ll never know baybeh…what you say about a hit dog??? why you mad at me about yo shyt dude…your making me laugh its all gravy….I ain’t mad atcha and sweety you are older than I..so chill my family ages quite well thank you…sounds like you are the one heated to me…LOL…

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

melo So should I assume that today you aren’t married? Or is that on the weekends that you are single…I get so confused on the schedule. LMAO!!!

By Kara

December 13, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

I am sending a big TMI to the entire BLOG. YUCK.

By Teresa

December 13, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

I wonder why swingers choose to swing? Freazks? selfishness? Low Self Esteem? Control? Any comments?

By Teresa

December 13, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

I wonder why swingers choose to swing? Freaks? selfishness? Low Self Esteem? Control? Any comments?

By Rell

December 13, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

@melo..you buy a membershitp when you go..men that is…it is 110 for a membership…and 50 bucks when you go back…trust me you will get turned away at the door as well if you not dressed right!

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

SlimOne That’s not the first time I have heard that said. could be true.

By Boom

December 13, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

Dear AJC Blog editors. Please clean up the trash on your forums. Sincerely, Boom

By SeanJohnson3000

December 13, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

@ Staceye….not the pg13 pics u already have up on your ms page either…show the good ones.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

Truth I didn’t realize how much drama and stuff goes on with folks that work at schools…all the way from the principle to the teacher aides. I would love to see a reality show about that but I know that’ll never happen cuz there would be no one left to teach the kids after the swat raid. Heard stories from married folk getting it on with other teachers getting pregnant, swinging, etc

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Melo I never had to pay to get in. I think it cheaper as a couple, but when I went I was with my sister, one of her female friends and a couple that swings together. The guy knew the right folks, so he paid a few $$ for us all to get in and got me a temp Mem Card (it’s expired already). I have no plans to go back, I’ve satisfied my curiosity about the Trap.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

Jazzy since your the only one wearing a halo in here just plug your ears and cover your eyes for this part. That way it won’t offend your obviously delicate senses.

Slim move over and pass the chips. I want to see those slide myself. LOL

By melo

December 13, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

So should I assume that today you aren’t married? Or is that on the weekends that you are single Whats prompting the qs, if u dont mind me asking Slim? If u talking about the JustMe request i made above and its connotations, well, why dont u wait untill she tells u i hit her, assuming that happens.Dont cut block either, coz others may want a married dude who practices his craft on the regular.

By Jazzyone

December 13, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

shut up you drippy dyk mufugga..don’t hate cause you don’t know my stello to hit with them there stones..LOL…you are the one heated bout to blow a gasket about yo s** being all out in the open patnah…you just showed how delicate you are…

Holla ya….

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

How much different is “Hedo” from swinging? Seriously

By Rell

December 13, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

Any Nip/Tuck fans…..if so is this season not OVER the top…my jaw was on the floor on tuesday night….i thought the ufo angle was funny…dude was like..he did say she was fat….lmao.

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

where’s Du?

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Melo JustMe is spoken for, there will be no hittin’ - ROFLMAO

By BLAT

December 13, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Blat now steps out of the MLB meditation chamber….

I’m cosigning whatever fugged up ish Truth is talkin today!!!

Blat now decides to actually read Truth’s posts……. HOT DAYUM!!! putting on blog vest…

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

There was this one lil african guy though, he offered to serve me six ways from Sunday

JustMe that might had been me…and my home girl just text me saying it’s $175 for a single dude…DAYUM!!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

December 13, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Jazzy you don’t have any bidness bytch. The only people that care about that tired puddy is you and the sorry dudes you gave it to. Actually only you. Nobody cares about what you do or don’t do. Go back in that closet with those bones your trying to hide.Your a tired ho.

By mqew

December 13, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

WTH happened in here?

sweating the nectar of the gods

Thas funny!

By BennyB

December 13, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

It’s funny how people talk about how black males should step up to be role model to their children at the same time consider the ‘O’ houses as place for the open minded and those who question them are considered uptight.

Voyeurism is a character disorder as far as I’m concerned. Characters-disordered individual are ineffective and destructive. Those same characters traits often extend to their marriages, their friendships and their business dealings. 70% of black kids are born from unmarried parents, maybe because their parents are ineffective, destructive and undisciplined.

If people don’t have any discipline, how in heaven their offspring will have some? All we are good at is blaming the system but some of us have evil and don’t even wanna hear about it. Why? Because “Evil people hate the light because it reveals themselves to themselves. They hate goodness because it reveal their badness; they hate love because it reveals their laziness” a wise writer once wrote.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 13, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

GaMan….walks in and stands in front of Truth with all of his blog gear on….

Stopping bullets from hitting his partner in crime….

dang i still am recovering from my bullets holes from yesterday….

dang ya’ll got me wanting to get me some…..lololol

By Rell

December 13, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

@alvin…the single guy night is the worst….i heard there is some moist booty behavior on friday nights…i know someone that works there….the best night to go is saturday and sunday…sunday is black folks day and it is cheaper…and i hear it is off the chain…i only go on saturdays when i go…i like the variety…lol..but yea on sundays it is a lil cheaper for the single bruhs..but stay away from friday..i

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

December 13, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

People all across the city are doing this kind of stuff, look at the ones that are being quite

Just protect yourself…..

By Beautiful

December 13, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

melo that’s mean. maybe we’re waitin’ for that special 1 … …

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Alvin - LOL I know dayum well you wouldn’t let these leggs get past you ;-)

$175 Wow that’s steep… Dayum!

Melo LOL - I can’t even respond (it might be a lie)

By 900K

December 13, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

Staceye ; Cemeeli - cover your ears/ eyes there is some strange ish going down and I don’t want my good girls gone bad!

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

Some of u’all ladies on this blog havent been sliced in months and i dont want to be ensnared by the cobwobs,mildew and grass growing on ur closed,flat and dry puddyies

That is so dang funny!

Truth walk away….

By Belinda

December 13, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Whatever, it’s not about being uptight. People have different morals, and it really shouldn’t anyone when they see/read about others who have a different set of morals as they do. It doesn’t make you better/worse - just different.

Maybe your moral compass leads you to the swinging lifestyle while another person leads them to church. The funny thing is, everyone is seeking something that is missing from their lives.

By melo

December 13, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

My other comment hit a nurve with some horny byatch at the cja and they deleted it.No biggie.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

melo LMAO!!!!!!!

By Dan

December 13, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

I mean….

Why the judgement? Other than a few, no one has requested anyone join in. So what is it that requires the hate?

To those that sit in judgement: Do you, no one has requested your presence or opinion.

To those that feel judged: Do you, no one has the power to judge your soul, But The One.

By Chink

December 13, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

BennyB

The Voice of Reason. Thank You

By melo

December 13, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Voyeurism is a character disorder as far as I’m concerned. Characters-disordered individual are ineffective and destructive. Those same characters traits often extend to their marriages, their friendships and their business dealings BennyB Not that i disagree entirely with u, but i think u forgot to qoute the source of ur authoritative research findings. Oh my bad, u said “as far as I’m concerned”” Just ur uneducated opinion.For a momment i thought that was Clarence Thomas speaking. Are u male or female.Biased tendencies cause mental stimulation in other people..have u thought about that at all.The kkk luvs to hear hate stuff about nigkas all the time.It pumps them . If it makes u feel good to feel the way u do about this Trapezze stuff and pple who do it, suit urself.

By Cemeeli

December 13, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

@ 900K Okay…

By Teresa

December 13, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

Sooooo is the meet and greet at the TRAPEZE?

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

Rell thanks for the warning…I am going with a home girl and her wife..WTF

JustMe I agree…cast in all I would have haul you up outta there for…OUR time, LOL

By melo

December 13, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

melo that’s meanBeutiful,Im just kidding baby.That was said in the spirit of responding to comedic Slim But u know what, growing up there was this thin girl i used to hit once in a blue moon. She was so mad in luv with me, but i never regarded her more than just a hit.(I know what u saying..those were my wild days) Each time i would hit after that long layoff, it was a struggle, like i was hitting a virgin again..and she would holler!She was so loyal to me. But i never receiprocated the favor. Those are the injustices of life eperiences.

By Dan

December 13, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

900k

Homie take that back to Blackplanet dateline. Errr’body here grown.

Matter of fact, 900k is no longer your name. Captian Save ‘em

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Slim ooh nope…can’t say that I have been to Trapeze. At Hedo they don’t allow pictures on the nude side…I go because I like the feeling of being naked in the sun..without being arrested! LOL All that other stuff…is too much for my blood. I am too scared of diseases or letting strangers all up in my goodies! So I post up and drink and let others do what they do.

You know…I got propositioned by a few couples. I dont don’t get down like that either.

**

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

Teresa I don’t think the moral majority would approve of that location. Waffle House might be a better locale.

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

BennyB, isn’t porn a form of vouyerism? Have you ever sat down alone or w/someone and watched a movie. Just curious!

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

Hey Chink How are you bay and what voice of reason..you mean up tight folk, j/k LOL

By Foots

December 13, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

I don’t even know what to say. It’s Blog Gone Wild up in this camp, complete with the daily blog fight.

By Gina

December 13, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

Why are the men on here so catty? You guys are worse than women! Retract the claws ladies, you don’t have to agree with your homies all the time, right?

By AmazonRed

December 13, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

Cool, I didn’t miss anything good today.

By BennyB

December 13, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

Read this

By Angel007

December 13, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this

Hey all

WTH did I miss. Sista been working all day long.

By JustMe

December 13, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

Good Night everybody!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

You know for all those who think everyone is so freaking sexually uptight I would love to know how much any of you really know about sex. The History channel ran a great series Saturday night called the History of Sex and it was interesting to see..how sex differs from culture to culture and exactly how our(world) as a whole evolved to where we are now regarding our sexually thoughts and activities.

By Foots

December 13, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

Is there actually a real problem today with people having certain standards of morality? Why does it often seem like that when people are not participating in a specific type of behavior discussed on here, they are labeled as uptight?

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this

BennyB thank you for the education. However, you didn’t answer my question. Now, don’t get me wrong. I don’t see anything wrong w/watching if I should go down that path. I watched one couple one time many moons ago. So, my vouyerism card is old and tattered. My point is, I see nothing wrong w/it. But, I did enjoy the article. A little knowledge in any area is welcomed by me.

Don’t forget to answer my question.

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

Back to the Blog Topic - I’d say genius move on her part.

By Dan

December 13, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

BennyB:

As the article clearly states: voyerism is the watching of unsuspecting people. At the spot, everybody wants you to watch.

And two, physcotherapy has long been a subversive tool to handle what society considers inappropriate behavior. Curious can’t sit still, it’s a disorder….treat it.

A healthy appetite for sex, it’s a disorder….treat it.

You’re gay, it’s a disorder….treat it.

Dig it, cuz, physcotherapy is nothing more than one person telling another person what wrong with them. Even in that, you could talk to the wall and figure it for yourself.

“The money is in the treatment not the cure.” Which is why you’re sick to begin with.

By Chink

December 13, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

Demi

Just MY opinion everyone got em! :) I think everyone wants to be so open that we forget that we will have to answer for our actions one day or another…but hey.

ANYWAY I am doing good did you try that haitian restaurant ..I ventured to le rendevous around Panola area the other day for some grub… not too bad.

By Rell

December 13, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

peace and love folks…..and remember turn to the one you love and slap the hell out of them…..in memory of ike turner…i am out…lol

By Dan

December 13, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

@Foots

To answer your question, it’s the same reason that when people on here open up and tell their experiences, they are labeled as NASTY, FREAKY, GOING TO HELL.

They are the same thing, piety and conceit, surrounded by religious epithets or moral judgement.

By SlimOne

December 13, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

melo growing up there was this thin girl i used to hit once in a blue moon. She was so mad in luv with me, but i never regarded her more than just a hit I hope you aren’t implying that was me. LOL! Your use of the word thin for some reason makes me feel like a Wheat thin cracker.

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

Kym I watched the History channel this past Saturday night. It was verey good….from the Tantra of India to Sex through the centuries.

By melo

December 13, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

SexxyL&BennyB i read that article. Its just a case of little knowledge being dangerously applied.Nobody on here has said they are an addict of this thing. I wonder where the ‘holier than thou’ attitude is coming from.

By Staceye

December 13, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

Foots & ARED You guys going to the Slumber party for the pole dancing class in January? I get their emails. Hopefully I can start taking the classes with you. But Ms. Foots is in the advanced class. LOL

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Why does it often seem like that when people are not participating in a specific type of behavior discussed on here, they are labeled as uptight?

Foots by their comments of course!!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

December 13, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Hmmm why do I get the feeling Dan is one of those liberal guys that would defend a pedophile because hey that is just how he is?

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

I hear you loud and clearly Melo!

By AmazonRed

December 13, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Staceye - I didn’t get word of the slumber party. Thanks for the info. I’ll look into it.

By Alvin

December 13, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Chink Yes I did, the food was pretty good…Yea, but I am not going to preach about why it’s wrong…

By Julia

December 13, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

if you call people uptight because they don’t enjoy the same things as you do, that’s - well, that is holier than thou too. Why would you expect everyone to be the same as you are? I think you are defensive and take it as if people think they are morally higher because you secretly believe you are engaging in deviant behavior. Just do your thing and stop worrying if others accepts or agrees with it. At the end of the day, nobody really cares what you do with your wang or what you call your wife in the bedroom. Nobody’s business.

By BennyB

December 13, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Dan, open up your mind and stop acting like a poor examiner, stop refusing to learn about something unless you have experienced it. Thanks to explain to me what physcotherapy is about, that was new to me.

SexyLeggs I answered your question

By SexyLeggs

December 13, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening. I’m taking PTO tomorrow to prepare for my thank-you dinner this Saturday.

Peace to all!

By Dan

December 13, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

“Dr.” Kym

A pedophile is an adult that targets and harms the innocence of children. Children have no wherewithall, no knowledge of self defense, and a true innocence of the world around them.

So, no I would not defend a pedophile becuase of his actions.

But what does has to do with anything I’ve ever said on here? WTF did that statement come from?

By For Real

December 13, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this

Night out at Trapeze…

For Real: Whew weeee!! Hey ladies holla at me we get inside.

Chick1: Ohhh I show will cutie?

For Real: Cool baby and tell her and her to get at me too.

Chick1: One at a time or together?

For Real: Together baby!

Chick1: Awwww ish I can’t wait.

Trapeze: Okay ladies come on in. Yall have a good time now. How you doing Bruh?

For Real: I’m good bout to have the time of my life.

Trapeze: Yeah it’s thick up in there tonight. That will be $175.

For Real: WTF!?!?! Okay, 4 quarter that’s a dollar, $1.05, $1.35, plus .65, that’s $2

Trapeze: Get yo broke azz out here!!!

For Real: Hey Mannnnnn! Awwww Dayumm you made me drop my change.

By For Real

December 13, 2007 5:06 PM | Link to this

Trapeze Night out continued…. For Real now picking up his change

For Real: Crazy azzz mitty-ficky!!! Making me drop my change now I got pick all this ish up. Yo man can you at least give me a light?

Trapeze: F/k you!!!

For Real: F/k you mitty-ficky.. ole Tevin Campbell lookin mitty-ficky… Oh excuse me Ms. Lady you steppin on one of my quarters.

Chick: I’m sorry I didn’t see it there.

For Real: No problem, thank you. Jazzy?!?! Is that you?