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DEL.ICIO.USBearer of bad habits
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
My friend Abby just realized this month that she’s gaining weight because of her adorable boyfriend Jake. Simply going out to eat all the time, taking extra bites of his food here and there, and consuming the cookie cakes he keeps surprising her with is not helping her stay trim!
So she’s now trying to lose weight not because Jake (who is very thin) has asked her to or made comments about it. He loves her just the way she is. She simply cares for him, and he’s inspired her to look the best she possibly can now that she’s with him.
Abby told me it’s kind of ironic that she’s trying to slim down for Jake — because he’s sort of the cause of her weight gain! Not that she’s shirking responsibility for her eating habits, but she’s realized that all she and Jake do together is eat! She recently explained to him that their relationship can’t “revolve around food.”
She’s built one “free” day into her diet when she can eat whatever she wants, and that’s one of the days she and Jake go out, so she doesn’t feel as though she has to order a salad every time. The rest of the week she’s a drill sergeant about her diet, and she’s doing great!
Have you ever started gaining weight because you picked up a boyfriend or girlfriend’s eating habits? Or because of an SO who was a fabulous cook? Have you ever had to explain to someone that your metabolism just doesn’t function like theirs?
What about the opposite? Have you ever been inspired to lose weight because of a loved one’s healthy lifestyle (NOT because he or she guilted you into it)? Can someone’s healthy eating/exercise habits rub off just as easily as the not-so-healthy? Do you think it’s easy to co-exist with someone whose lifestyle habits are drastically different than yours?
What about other bad habits you might pick up from someone you’re dating? Have you ever been with someone so long that you started to mirror an unusual habit or vice?
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By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 8:43 AM | Link to this
this is a funny topic…i used to date a chef and i did gain a couple pounds eating all the time…lol. he would make me special dishes whenever i visited him at work. i really miss that…lol.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
I am not even going to comment on this topic same would you date your mate if she got fat stuff. Additional proof that a male blogger would be refreshing. But it will allow for some comedy relief when all the lurkers come out. Speaking of comedy relief..HOW ABOUT THOSE FAKECONS? Oh I have been laughing all night and making co-workers mad early this morning…Petrino leaves the Fakecons with only 3 games left…Classic.
By Blow Me
December 12, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this
Sure love does make you gain wieght usually…..You become alot more comfortable sometimes. It has to be in you to keep yourself looking good..i.e. hair done & nails, weight control. But I’ll be checking out the TRAMP STAMP section today. lol
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this
Morning all
I think the worst habit I picked up from a guy I was dating was “left-handed cigarettes” Luckily I was able to stop when I stopped talking to him.
Bella tell your friend she can still go out to eat with her guy friend whenever she feels like it, she just needs to eat in moderation. You do not have to deprive yourself of food you love or even dining out - just make healthier choices or do not eat the whole meal. Enjoy half at the restaurant and box the rest up for later.
As far as the cookie cakes - she can eat a piece with him and take the rest to work. I’m sure her greedy co-workers would be happy to get rid of it for her!
By Dan
December 12, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this
Bella
Not to start an argument, but why is he the source of her wieght gain? I don’t see where he force fed her anything.
But on topic. Yeah, I’ve picked up a few unfortunate habits from prior SO, and they’ve picked up some of mine.
One ex called and told me she almost broke up with her future husband becuase of my habit of blurting out honest responses to statement (see above comments).
But if you spend enough time around people, you’ll pick up something: good and bad.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this
GaMan, Truth, Blat lead the Mighty, mighty MLB into the room…as the rest of the MLB enter behind them all fists are raised in the air.
Today the MLB honor a non-member…this is the first time in the history of the MLB that this has happened….
Rell…was a good man, but he was slapped, pimped slapped, kicked, punched, stabbed…he was taken to the hospital where he didn’t make it…
A moment of silence please
By Rell
December 12, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this
Petrino did not quite….he was ran out of town — it was a munity..the team clearly rebelled on monday night..hall running on the field with the vick poster….roddy with the free vick shirt….what other nfl coach would have allowed that….so i knew something was up then…
By 2CPTG©
December 12, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this
morning…….Kym….gal, ya boy Mike Tomlin is the new poster child for a how a dude’s hairline oughta look…..now, when going to the barbershop, as opposed to a Steve Harvey, dude’s gon’ be askin for a Mike Tomlin….
By Rell
December 12, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
@GA MAN…..BENCH PLEASE….you cosigning that lil tirade yesterday..that is a suckers move..but it is typical…i am not riding that old horse anymore..but i see you need to get your points up..but at the expense of another man…smh
By binford
December 12, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
I swim and play sports so I’m lucky that I don’t gain weight. But I also watch what I eat and how much. I’ll date these girls who will demolish a huge plate of food while I may eat half - and I know this isn’t the girl for me.
One of the other AJC Blogs yesterday was about diet making the point that, in reality, we ALL are on a diet ALL our lives. And it’s true - shame enough people don’t realize that.
IF anything, I would hope I helped girls I’ve dated by showing them the “eat to live” philosophy. Not to say we can’t enjoy food (because I know I do), but food should be a relative small part of life IMO. When we used to splurge, then we went on a hike or something - it balanced out.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
Kym - The falcons are a joke. However to take sum time to look at the dirty Burg steelers of yours. With the whole world watching and pullin for you guys (cause everyone hates the Pats right?) what happens??? You go for it on 4th & goal from the 1yrd and you do a end-around, wide receiver reverse!!??!??!? W-T-F!!!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this
This is really a non-issue for me, as I have to really work to gain weight. However, I have taken notice of my eating habits recently. The guy I’ve gone on several dates with recently is a gym rat and watches what he eats. I always order friend foods and he’s always asking for a substitution for the fried stuff. I have to admit that it makes me more aware.
On a side note, I clicked on the MOMania blog and her question of the day is if you have a “tramp stamp” LMAO!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this
Okay, so of course I meant “fried” foods.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this
Rell it was not Petrino’s fault. Hell Vick was a f**kup before he got here. Please…. Good luck Mr. Petrino. *Psst Fakecons fan dont even think about Cowher coming to Atlanta…if he does I may have to question his sanity. Who in the hell wants to deal with a fairweather fan based like the Fakecons have? Did you see the stands Monday night? Ghost town.
By me 2(formally purple lace)
December 12, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this
Good morning Everyone! I experience weight gain while dating my last beau because of all the wine and all the delis food he cooked for us ALL the time. Now that we’re thru I lost ALL the weight mainly him!
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this
Gaman lmao.
Newsbreak In a battle never before seen in blogsville a longtime member was lost to a hail of bullets. The riddled body was taken to Grady where it was pronounced dead upon arival. Investigators are interviewing a few members of the notorious “WLB” gang who all keep saying the same thing. “I didn’t see a thing”. LOL RIP
Petrino got ghost on those Fakecons. LMAO
On topic: You just have to incorporate exercise into the dating regimen. After dinner go for a walk or have some wild sex. That’ll keep you slim. LOL
By Rell
December 12, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this
wow..i guess you guys had a secret meeting last night to continue the fight….lol, i hope you guys are knee deep in some a* with all this…really!!!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this
900k First off I will be the first to admit that our Defense screwed us over big time that game. They got caught looking way to many times. As for that play the ball should have been in Ben’s hands for the QB sneak or in Davenports for those power pushovers he is no Bus..but he has strong legs. Either way dont hate on my Steelers because the Fakecons are a bunch of losers. 75 years and 5(count it) Superbowl Trophies(The Shiny Shiny baby) what the Fakecons got? 42 years..32 losing seasons.. no shiny shiny..—-Oh yeah Pats we will see you in the playoffs. Bring home the precious to mama
By Jazzyone
December 12, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this
What up ya! I tend to watch what I eat and lead a pretty active lifestyle so I eat what i want but anything in moderation is good. No excuses here, plus the fact I can’t deal with my horses being an over weight person or they will buck me right into a tree. I tend to stay active and want to look good for me and with the money invested in clothing for career and such I tend to want to stay in them and enjoy a great view when looking in the mirror. Being tall and carrying it well helps also. LOL
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…i wouldnt call this a bad habit…but i dated a female that loved cognac as much as i do and kept a 5th at her spot..she would even smuggle some in clubs in lotion bottles when we went out..true down azz female..
@ Rell…i am a dolphin fan and saban did the same thing to us ….dude quit because he couldnt control grown men who have as much money and some more than he does…in my opinion the shyt he was able to do in college wasnt flying in the pros..his coaching style and the way he handled players is better suited for the college game.. I dont see anything wrong with with D.Halal and Roddy White did…
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…i wouldnt call this a bad habit…but i dated a female that loved cognac as much as i do and kept a 5th at her spot..she would even smuggle some in clubs in lotion bottles when we went out..true down azz female..
@ Rell…i am a dolphin fan and saban did the same thing to us ….dude quit because he couldnt control grown men who have as much money and some more than he does…in my opinion the shyt he was able to do in college wasnt flying in the pros..his coaching style and the way he handled players is better suited for the college game.. I dont see anything wrong with with D.Halal and Roddy White did…
By me 2(formally purple lace)
December 12, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this
Hey Truth After dinner go for a walk or have some wild sex. That’ll keep you slim. LOL SPEAK!!! You aint neva lied LOL
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
Truth you said it before I could, lol. The going out to eat and gaining weight should balance out with all the crazy sex… it should be a wash, right???
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this
@GA MAN…..BENCH PLEASE….you cosigning that lil tirade yesterday..that is a suckers move..but it is typical
Jigga please …anyone that has ever…ever read me…knows i dont jump on Bandwagons
I cant help it that you had the Open Mouth insert Foot thang going on yesterday
you came off as disrespectful yesterday and you got your butt handed to you….its cool it is a way of life here…on the blog
I mean think about it…did anyone co-sign anything you said…next time…think before you type…
Smh and JMHO
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this
Rell we’re just messing with you dude. That was some hilarious shyt tho. I had a good laugh. Thanks.
Kym these folks dont kow what its like to root for a winner. Being a Raider fan and having watched great games with your Steelers I appreciate that winning tradition as much as you do your team. Right now we’re taking a break to load up for the next round. RAIDERS in 08. WOOHOO
By 900K
December 12, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this
Kym- I am not a Falcons fan… sorry. That game was BIG for you guys and you blew it! 1st round bye in the playoffs at stake and everyones trying to blame homie cause he guarantees a MUST win.
GO BILLS!!!
By abc
December 12, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this
My weight stays fairly constant unless I’m trying to gain or lose, that doesn’t happen much though. I had a fat girlfriend once that liked to blame me for her not getting into shape, such as not getting home from work early enough to take her on walks, not taking her to the gym with me — she was incapable of working out. Ex!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this
Please tell me that grown men aren’t on here bickering about old ish that happened on here yesterday… *smh *
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this
@ Kym…you need to get a grip….i think you secretly work for PETA or on the board or something…you get a hard on from Vick bashing…i won money when the Pats beat the breaks off yall…
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this
I like to cook, and I dated one woman who put on 30lbs as a result of my cooking, or so she says. lol Could have some truth to it though. I ran into her sometime after we broke up, and she had lost all the weight.
If you hit the gym hard, you can still pretty much eat what you want.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this
Good morning and Merry Christmas
Breakfast Today: (because for some reason when there is no bkfst folks wanna fight…SO eat!)
Spread: sausage and cheese breakast strudel, egg, cheese and bacon quiche, a few danish and bagels, fresh cut tropical fruit. Sexyleggs chica turn the grits off cause i see a diffrent look on Slim’s face this morning looking at that grit pot Rell i’ll bring you a plate guy just keep that compression on ya bay.
900K turn on the Greatist Christmas Hits CD for us…
Pasta Truth Can we have a bless you over the food and to the cooks that helped prepare breakfast this morning?
Have at it…before this food get cold.
LadyJ stop laughing and eat gurl…go check on Rell.
By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this
GAman not got his azz handed to him….lmao. i don’t know what happened yesterday but it sounds like it was a mess. i read one of slimone’s post towards the end and some azz handin’ definitely took place…lol let’s play nice today everyone.:)
By Blow Me
December 12, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this
3000 singin andre 3k “I think I am in love again”….Wow sounds like me..Yes you got to have a 5TH handy @ all times…Never know what can pop off. Hennessy my fav. I usually keep an additional bottle in my car to take a few shots before I go into the club as well. Mellow out a bit. But sneaking it in…..nah I’ll stop there…too much! lol…At that point I supplied us ALL the way to the door…You need to be buying the drinks from there!
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this
Slim walking in laughing & waving at errybody.
Wzuppppp!
ARed I saw that other blog topic. Somebody has been peaking in on our blog for ideas I see. Tramp Stamp LOL
Rell What up boo. Come give lil ole slim a nice big hug-n-kiss
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this
GA Man Not that I read a damn thang after 1:00 yesterday-but why in the hell would anyone(excuse me any adult) need someone to cosign a post they type? I mean who in the hell needs to seek the approval of strangers like that? What are you 4 or 40? Good grief. Just because no one cosigns a post doesnt mean it is not valid. Okay someone must have snuck some damn playdough in the airvents around this piece because yall are on some elementary bs this week. Damn.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this
What is up with this dude and those Raiders?
By Foots
December 12, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
I don’t have many comments for today’s topic. I haven’t gained weight as a result of dating. Most of my relationships have been long-distance, so we were not going out together all the time.
I would LOVE to comment on what I missed yesterday, but I’m just going to have to let it go and start fresh.
On a somber note: To the families of the injured motorcyclist, the man who lost his life, and the driver of the car in the accident on Macland Road last night, my prayers are with you. I know that your loved ones will be greatly missed.
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
SJ I totally agree with you - there was nothing wrong with what the players did on the field Monday. They are proving their loyalty… unlike the organization. I hope we see more of it
By Rell
December 12, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this
@ga….i dont look for folks to cosign my post….disrespectful..huh?..doubt..but i digress…it was a suckers move to bring the ish back up..period….plus i did not take nothing that was said yesterday to heart…i posted what i felt if i was wrong then i am wrong..i dont get tender if i am wrong or out of bounds..see that is the difference between me and you…i have balls you dont…
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this
SeanJ Motherducker please…I didnt mention Vick except to say he is a loser…kind of like your Dolphins. Going for the 0-16 I see this year. Well if you are going to be losers go big. As for a hard-on that is for menfolks.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this
Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
it is clear that you didnt read that binford arsh ish that was said yesterday…but hey since you are ms. perfect in every way…i guess you wouldnt understand…since your world is always sunny….please…..
and since your glasses arent working alot people co-sign stuff here..
here is a tip before you jump..you need to go back and read….it might be clear to you
By 900K
December 12, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli - Santa Claus comes the the ghetto…playin in backround No pork for me but I’ll have some cheese grits, fruit and bagel. Thanks!
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this
Simi baby, as much as I love you if you ever say something aboutmy OAKLAND RAIDERS we’re gonna have some problems. Don’t nobody talk about my RAIDERS. LOL 08 is gonna be it. And yes I’ll bless that meal that was prepared. Please bend over for a placing of the hands. LMAO
Off topic: While walking my dogs this morning I saw a house with police tape on it. Come to find out the woman was beaten by her mate. She’s near death from what a neighbor told me. This shyt is wild.
By melo
December 12, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this
Im over there on the sports blog, in case u need me.If those faclons fans take me seriuosly, that will make my day. Oh and they are talking of tramp stamp on the other ajc blog. And someone said I blame giving women the right to vote and work for all of this tramp stamp thing. Thats some diss right there!!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this
Rell..see that is the difference between me and you…i have balls you dont…
Not after yesterday….lolol you lost them
just be respectful…that is it…
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
GA Man is Demi with him? After a comment he made at the end of the blog….most of the WLB should be opening a can of whip azz on him!
Binford I am with you..I work out so I do allow myself to have the foods I like. I just workout a little more or forego sweets for a few days to leave a little caloric room. Now I cant eat more than one plate a buffet…but I’ll be d@mned if I order the salad! LOL
Lady J Yooooo hooooo!!!!! You know you suck when the coach leaves you mid-season and goes from pros to college! OUCH! LOL
ARED I spot my TRAMP STAMP with pride. My homegirl and I got matching tats a few days before I moved here to symboloize out never ending bond sense childhood!
SJ good move betting on the Pats!
Cemeeli you are crazy! LOL Can I get some farina and turkey sausage and egg whites? “Fatback…pick it up!” Ok I could not help myself…I had an In Living Color flashback!
By Foots
December 12, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this
Rell Petrino is a quitter. Q-U-I-T-T-E-R. And a liar. He took a job, signed a contract…he has to work with what he has, even if it’s not what he expected. All day long at work, we are expected to adapt and make it happen, for a LOT less than $24M. A true leader can build his team to greatness, they do not abandon the team when times get rough, ESPECIALLY not when there is still work to be done. What makes a man think that he can quit in the middle of a job? Life is hard sometimes, but as somebody said last week, adversity introduces a man to himself, or something like that. Life is going on, the wheels are still spinning and you get off in the middle of the ride?? RIGHT AFTER you promised NOT to do so??
If you’d like to know what kinds of things make a woman (or people in general) lose respect for a man, it’s this kind of thing right here.
By Rell
December 12, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this
@Slim…and again see these moist booty types feel the need to bring it back up…if i was wrong then i stand correct…fluck it i stand corrected…and i say again sorry if i was out of line…..and again i was not tender or took anything to heart..this is an open forum where we will disagree….i dont need points or cosigners to make me feel good…i stand on my ten toes on my own…
By G
December 12, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this
I’ve always been blamed for being the source of weight gain for a SO. I’m fairly health conscious. I usually do the dinner thing on my “diet-off-days”. That way, it doesn’t affect me. During the week, my diet is pretty on-point. It is truly a life-style commitment. Most of my past SO have not had a sincere interest to pursue a change.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
900K Got cha… no pork here either…there is always alternatives with turkey sausage ….which is in the bkfst strudel… shhh don’t tell nobody.
Truth can’t be acting up early in the morning already! Here’ have some quiche dude. and Raiders…we’ll see..
Auuwww….Slim n Rell are eating brkfst at the table talking….cool!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
Staceye, I got my “tramp stamp” with a childhood friend as well. I don’t regret it. In fact, it probably should be bigger. Dude asked me the other night what it was exactly. Ouch. LOL. Also, it’s just above the small of my back, it probably should be a little lower.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
moist booty types… - man that just sounds wrong. I think I just lost my appetite.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
Staceye dont worry….when the Pats win the SuperBowl all order will be restored…
Go Pats….One game at a time…but trust me you heard it here first…
We will win by 50 this week
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
GA Man I am not perfect…never said I was. But I am an adult and the last thing I need is the Blog House Seal of Approval to say whateva I want to say in the hope that someone in cyberland agrees with it or not. The very idea that you said no one co-signed Rell’s post from yesterday what makes you look like you are freaking 4 years old seeking the approval of your peers. In my opinion.
Who the claptrap gives a merry damn if someone co-sign with them or not on a post? That is some middle school bs. And that genuis(and I use that term loosely) is what my comment was based on.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
I’ve been committed in my mind (lol) to make a lifestyle change and be more active. Now that I’m 30, I expect my metabolism to slow down a bit, though everyone told me this would happen at 25 and it didn’t. I love the fattening foods, but I do eat them in moderation. I think hanging with somoene who is into that sort of thing will keep me motivated.
However, I did sign up for the pole dancing aerobics classes! Win-win for all! LOL
By melo
December 12, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this
Rell, a man says sorry one time!why u keeping repeating that and i say again sorry if i was out of line makes u real sissy.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this
Foots can you imagine how demoralized a team would be when their coach bounces during the season. That cat couldn’t get out of there fast enough. Rumor is he didn’t even buy a ticket, he paid the pilot right there on the spot. And this guy is gonna teach someone how to be professional.
Simi check your mail when you get home today. I sent you a RAIDERS jersy, hat, and a photo of their superbowl RINGS. It’ll be in a silver and black box. DAYUUUM this quiche is good.
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
@Foots I agree with your 9:58. Unfortunately, there are some who FAIL their way to SUCCESS. Take the former CEO of Home Depot, Robert Nardelli. Home Depot saw it’s smallest net gain in 9 years under his leadership. He was consequently fired, but not without receiving his severance worth $210mil. Then a few months ago, Mercedes announced that it was selling off the Chrysler part of the company. Guess who was named CEO of the new Chrysler company…Nardelli. Straight FAILING his way to SUCCESS.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
Kym you missed the whole da&% point…his comments were disrespecful…and he got his arsh handed to him…
So before you go backing something….i suggest you go back and read it
Or maybe you just mad cause the Pats beat the breaks off the Softies you call a team…you remind of that player ya’ll got…opening your mouth and not knowing a dam& thing…
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
Mornin All
Hey I’ll take some of that breakfast, cuz a chic is hungry for sho….eggs, turkey bacon if ya have it, oh yeah and some cheese grits!Thanx.
Now back to da topic. I love to work out. Sista gotta curvacious figure to maintain, and to much weight can turn my look into something unsightly. I stay in da gym 5-6 days a week. Love to eat food, but of course in moderation. Never been da type to eat until ya just stuffed and misserable.
I don’t think that anyone else can really cause you to gain weight, unless you just stop caring about how you look, and what you eat.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this
Stac …farina and turkey coming up!
GaMan…you mind bringing in another case of water and juice from the storage room, we’re going to need alot of drinks cause it’s gonna be a long one today… huh!?! oh sorry i didn’t give you your {{{{hug}}}}. Merry Christmas!
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
@ Blow…i wasnt singing that song..but it was out at the time..lol…that was my drinking buddy..we had a lot of common interests..i have no problem buying drinks if we came together..
@ Peach04…i think the organization was loyal as expected..but to go after the signing bonus money was a bytch move by blank..but u are right….vick was D Halls boy way before money was involved and will be when football is over..
@ Staceye…i have been winning money with the Pats all year and thats not even my team…Dallas..Indy…Green Bay and PussBurg all had dudes breaking bread.
By DasV
December 12, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this
good morning good people
CEEcee thanks for the b’fast gurl. everything smells great. imma have some turkey sausage, grits and cheese.
Rell heres your nutsack… slim had me gift-wrap ‘em. good to see you bruh. wink
stacyE what dem-e-god say yesterday that was offense? i musta missed that… he must’ve been out of character.
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this
Ared mine is right above the booty…and like you mine could have been bigger. I am going to add to mine when I go back home in 2 weeks.
GA Man It is written…so it shall be done…Go Pats! LOL
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this
I think Mora should come back.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this
Dreams - Nardelli sounds like a captain of the “GOOD OLE BOYS CLUB”. Raise your cup of henny and toast to him and others like him…death to them all
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
You know, speaking of weight and dating… I plan on having weight loss surgery after the first of the year. I’d like to find a dude now b/c I’d rather date a guy who likes me as I am, not because I’m small(er). I’ve been blessed because I am very easy on the eyes, I’m funny, open minded, and a beast in the kitchen, but I’m a big girl. Some dudes may feel this cuts my attractiveness in half while some dudes love it and wouldn’t have it any other way.
Unfortunately gaining weight during a relationship, due to whatever reasons, is an issue with some folks but has any one ever been turned off due to their mate losing weight in a relationship?
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
@ 900K…i told you the strudel has the turkey sausage…here drink some water.
Truth thanks but i dont do that gear. And boi go back to the Greenbriar Flea Market and tell em you want you money back for that fake @ ring! ..and give me back my quiche!…Here you can have this last dry @ bagel!
By Rell
December 12, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this
yea i feel what you are saying foots….contact me i need to run somthing by you
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
Rell This is a new day. I didn’t take anything you said to heart yesterday because I know what the deal was. You only got an excerpt of my story and decided to speak on that. Please pass the Jelly.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli thanks for the hug…hhhmmm
By DasV
December 12, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this
Pasta T i dont watch football, and from waaaaay over here they were already demoralized….. jmho
Dreams i like that ‘failing his way to success’… mayne, aka “not personal, just business”.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
GA Man, you keep saying his comments were disrespectful and that he got his arse handed to him…SO WHY ARE YOU STILL HARPING ON IT? Seems like there was a direct reaction to his action…so why is the dead horse still being beaten? Good grief.
Let’s MOVE ON everyone. I’m sure everyone has already formed an opinion on Rell, no need to expend any more energy on it. Sheesh.
By Got that?
December 12, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this
Bella, you should tell your friend that what goes on with her body is completely her responsibility. Blaming your weight gain on someone else is retarded and has “I’m a victim…poor me” written all over it. That’s as retarded and ridiculous as people suing fast food restaurants because of their weight gain. If you’re too stupid to live, die and make room for someone else.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Omg…readin these post has a sista laughin so dayum hard. My co-workers keep askin me if I’m ok. Ya’ll need to stop bought yesterday. I could’ve sworn somebody told da dayum janitor to clean this mess up….guess he must have left a few splatters behind. LMAO
Hey I’m still in line waiting on dat breakfast. I’mma be patient I know other folks hungry tooo!
By 900K
December 12, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this
Cee -Turkey sausage, good food girl you walkin round in your robe and me peekin. This is a great morn, thanks for the water as I too thurst…LOL
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this
Dam Dream thats some good info. I didn’t hear about that one. The thing is getting that Chrysler gig is a big set-up too. He won’t be able to turn around that company in this economy.
Rell no moist booty types here dude. Having experienced a few barrages of my own I thought it was funny as hellz. I still do.
GA whoever thinks their beating the PATS is dillusional. Those boys are a machine. However, they better not play the * OAKLAND Raiders*. LOL
ARED a part of that after 25 thing is a myth. The thing is if we slow down our metabolism slows at any age. Look at all these obese kids. The hardest part is watching what we eat as we age because those foods we could get away with when we was shooting hoops stack up on us while where sitting in the lounger. LOL Also, I’d like to supervise your pole dancing class to make sure its done right.
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
Dreams I will never forget that day I read about Nardellis severance package from HD. I thought I was going to be straight sick!
SJ Yea, you reminded me that they went to VT together. Loyal as expected… couldn’t have said it better myself. They said Vick and White were working together a lot pre-season. I use to think White sucked, but I now, I think he may have had to adjust to catching that fiya that Vick was throwing. You can tell he’s did some work and it has helped. I believe Horn was working with him too.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
Morning, all. :-)
I’ll be lurking for much of the day, but wanted to quickly interject this off topic question to the ladies:
“In a relationship, what is the biggest age difference you would consider dealing with? Five years? Ten? Fifteen? Is age really “just a number” or is the level of maturity more important to you?”
Cemeeli Soy AND farina?! Huuurrrlll
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
DasV heres your nutsack… slim had me gift-wrap ‘em LMAO!
By Jazzyone
December 12, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
What up ya! I tend to watch what I eat and lead a pretty active lifestyle so I eat what i want but anything in moderation is good. No excuses here, plus the fact I can’t deal with my horses being an over weight person or they will buck me right into a tree. I tend to stay active and want to look good for me and with the money invested in clothing for career and such I tend to want to stay in them and enjoy a great view when looking in the mirror. Being tall and carrying it well helps also. LOL
By Beautiful
December 12, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
Got that? ^5
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this
@AmzonRed… i guess you are right…so i will let it go….
I just dont like to see any woman get disrespected, especially when guys are saying we are looking for a ride or die chick…i would have done the same for you
Peach404 hit me up….got something for you…. Manswellp@yahoo.com
By melo
December 12, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Nardelli, sucks, thats why Jack passed him over for the GE top job.He is already causing problems at Cerebrus coz the PR executive left this week coz of difference with him.
Foots, I disagrre with ur Petrino comments.I would’nt stay if it were me.Remember folks that an employer would not even think twice if they wanted to get rid of u.Petrino needs to take care of his own interets.They promised him MV,and the moment he was not there, the team folded.What ‘team’ is it that relies on just one palyer.Bad recruiting obviously, so why should Petrino be blamed for Rich Mackay’s poor decision making? (im not a football,but soccer fan(Cheasea Utd) instead but thats how i see it)
By Jazzyone
December 12, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Actually it isn’t a myth for a womans metabolism to slow down after 25 it slows at different rates for most women, but never the less it slows.
Its really very simple less in less on the hips…food in exercise and activity help the burn.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Peach
Per your 10:22, you should read the January issue of my newsletter as I’m going to touch on that a little bit. Not the “big vs. small” issue, per se, but the whole “internal” vs. “external” thing. I’m actually writing it as I type this and am about 80 percent done. It should be available on my Web site within the next few days. Just a heads up. :-)
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
Moment of silence please…..Soulja boy’s mom passed away in a car accident dis morning. My prayers are with his family. Dayum right before Xmas how sad.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
GAMan no you are missing the point I dont care if Rell said her mama sells coochie on Metropolitian. So? If he said it. Then he needs to take personal responsiblity for it and not wait for a Amen from the peanut gallery for his post. Why does anyone need someone to stand up and ^5 their post? Like this is the BeautyShop or some shyt. Ohhh I get it. You are ^5ing and You Go girling the post so you can to get that lonely Xmas coochie.
By Jazzyone
December 12, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this
I didn’t post that again I actually wrote something else so Im not sure whats going on here…i wrote about metabolism…Bella WTF are you doing???
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this
Truth - I see what you are saying, but I guess I’m an exception to that rule. I have definitely slowed down, but my metabolism hasn’t.
Darrell - I have a daddy and he is great so I don’t need to date any old man! 10 years is my general cut off. But I’d really prefer no more than 5.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
Darrell
For me it’s mostly about maturity not so much as it is age, simply because you got some grown azzz men & women acting like teenagers….No jail bait tho a sista to old for dat.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
Kym - Are you related to Kisha Cole?
By Beautiful
December 12, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this
Darrell i’m 39 and will not consider dating a man over maybe 42. if he is over 42, he better not look his age. my son’s vice principal is very handsome and i think he is over 42. if he wasn’t married, i would approach, flip my hair and bat the eyez.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this
Hi Darrell Merry Christmas to you!
OFF Topic Answer: Age is a number AND the maturity level has a lot to do with.
Come on out of lurks for a minute and eat…here have some quiche and fresh cut tropic fruit…I know you like grits. Slim please put down the grit pot and share with Darrell.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this
Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
I dont what the hellz happened to you this morning…but as a woman…i think your head is tottaly screwed on half-arsh backwards…
the only Lonely X-mas coochie i see here is your…dont know if you want a single man or married asrh…hellz if you could open your eyes..you might find somebody to put up with your crazy self….
are you mad cause your man(or someone’s) dumped you or maybe you just didnt get any this morning….
maybe the wifey showed up to whip your butt and the only relief you have is to vent on the blog
either way i dont care…
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this
DasV there was the reply to someone’s offense to a woman forgoing motherhood by choice….I stated thatis a guy does not want to be a father he should keep his joint his his pants…and the reply was for a woman to get an abortion because it’s only $300. Its funny how guys only see the cost of the procedure….and not the psychological effects of it. If it were there bodies have to have that done and their conscience of taking a human life they would speak a different tune. Its easy to say have an abortion because you are not ready in any sense. Maybe she is not either…but would rather deal with the consequences of her actions and not treat abortion like it is a wart removal…simple and non-scathing!
getting off my soapbox now
Peach Goo dluck with your surgery. I saw the effects of the surgery last week on Oprah….it was scary. God bless you to be ok afterwards.
Darrell I do not do old men…now that GYN I dated was 38..over 10 years older than I…but he looked young. So I gave him the chance. 39 is my limit…just can’t bring myself to date the 40 year old man…
By DasV
December 12, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
Darrell the older i get the smaller the age difference i am able to stomach… feel meh?
maturity is the most important thing… maturity is what you normal get with dealin with someone older, but then its that whole flabby skin thing and the spontaneous belching and the teeth in the cup by the bed… etc etc. LOL
By Rell
December 12, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
@angel..the solja boy thing was false..his mom is cool..they had a call in on the radio this morning
@melo..chelsea huh, how you feel about the drogba injury and his call up for the african nation cup…i love soccer as well….i just caught on to the game last couple of years..the teams i like in the p-ship are fulham and everton….fulham for the american players and everton i like A Johnson..likes the way he plays upfront and strike the ball…i also like man u…but who doesnt..lol
By Page1908
December 12, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
LOL OMG LOL at everyone trying to promote their book, website, etc. hilarious.
Jazzy…lol @ Bella wtf are you doing?! I saw a few people mentioned yesterday that some posts had gotten deleted, so maybe instead of moderating she just skims through to delete certain posts and perhaps that is causing some posts to double post…not sure.
On topic: If Bella’s friend feels she is packing on the pounds, she should consider increasing her diet and exercise, especially if she knows they like to eat out a lot. There are a lot of alternatives to eating out, so she can do something.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
Who is Kisha Cole?
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
900k You know how those “Good Ol Boys” do. Raising my cup of Richard Henny. If we were failing to success like Nardelli, then we could have some Henny Ellipse in our cup. lol
DasV Business all day. He’s just jumping from place to place, collecting big checks.
Truth No doubt ol boy is getting set up for failure with the Chrysler move, but he’s just there to get paid. His base salary will be $1mil a year, and his stock options and “performance” bonuses will put him over $50mil a year.
Ok now back to pole dancing and tramp stamps. lol
AmazonRed From meteor showers to pole dancing…you got the gamut covered. Gotta love the versatility!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
Das “…maturity is what you normal get with dealin with someone older, but then its that whole flabby skin thing and the spontaneous belching and the teeth in the cup by the bed… etc etc. LOL”
ROFLLMAO!!!!
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
900K stop it and go over there to the table and review your stratagies for the boys game Sat. Imma need for you to stop telling me my robe is soooo baby soft…LOL. and NO we can not make pecan waffles when everyone leave. What are you talking about!?!
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
Darrell from a dudes side my last 3 ladyfriends were in their late 20’s and I’m in my 40’s. Som of these older chicks can’t keep up. J?K ladies. However, the chick I’m hanging with now is 36 and she’s the oldest woman I’ve dated.
DasV you always make an entrance like ol boy in The Transporter. Run and kick the door in with both feet. I hope your having a good one.
Simi if you want to front for blogsville its cool. You know your wallpaper is silver and black and this stuff your saying is inconsistent with what we talked about last night. Remember, yeah Raiders…its cool tho. I know your undies are silver and black. Smooches
Ared I’m going to jack you for your metabolism. I have to work to keep mine going now. I get at it everyday. I take my dogs out for an hour everyday and hit the gym too.
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
What ‘team’ is it that relies on just one palyer.
Melo, id go so far as to say the Falcons didn’t rely on Vick. We had no idea just how much he covered up until he was gone! He made a lot of people look better by taking some of the heat off of them and causing the defense to focus more on him. As we can see now, when there is no #7 to worry about, you can focus on your coverage.
Darrell please let me know when you post it. I’d love to take a gander :)
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
sigh* * First **GA Man says he doesn’t like to see women disrespective, then fires off a tirade on Kym… I guess the “don’t disrespect” point is mute if a woman challenges him first. Not only that, I didn’t see a whole lot of men riding for Bella when 2CPTG disrespected her.
*sigh * This blog is full of losers.
By Foots
December 12, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this
Preacher Truth Rumor is he didn’t even buy a ticket, he paid the pilot right there on the spot.
LOL!! I can just see that visual. We need For Real to come with a Petrino Skit…
Dreams You are right about Nardelli. You have to admit that they are smart to get their golden parachutes lined up and ready before Day 1 of the new job.
Darrell To me, age is more than a number. I have dated 8 years my senior before, I was much younger though. Now, I’d prefer someone 6 years older or less. If love strikes me with a man 15 years older than me, then fine. But it would take me a while to get used to the idea.
melo Disagreement is fine. To me, a man is known by his word. Breaking your word as a REAL man is a no-no. My thing is, we all go through hard times. Not ONCE did I quit. I didn’t even have time to slow down a little if life through me a curve ball. You never know how strong you are until you have to go through something and come out better on the other side. He had a chance to rebuild the team next year. He gave up.
If you are the leader you said you were in our discussions a few weeks ago, I know that you are not the type to do what he did.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this
DasV ROTFL…you are a mess. flabby skin thing and the spontaneous belching and the teeth in the cup by the bed that’s something of a visual.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
So I just read Jessica Alba is knocked up. Interesting.
Dreams - I think that was a compliment. LOL. Yeah, I was telling my friend last night I need to do some things to indulge my “bad side.” Getting my tramp stamp and pole dancing are pretty much as risque as I’m going to get. LOL. Well, I will probably dance on the bar or in a cage this weekend in Vegas. At least I try.
Life is too short, have fun. That’s why the bickering on this blog is so annoying.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Page “LOL OMG LOL at everyone trying to promote their book, website, etc. hilarious.”
If you check my by-line, I guess you could say that I “promote” my Web site with every single post I make on this blog. So, my earlier “heads up” to Peaches is really nothing out of the ordinary.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
@Rell…thanx for that information. I just found out that was a rumor. Wow what a cruel thing to do. People need to get a life.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
GAMan Ohhh whats the matter little boo-boo. You upset because I blew up your spot? Okay we can all pretend like you are not sniffing around for coochie and only protecting the honor of the female form. Motherducker please you are so transparent. As for me I am not angry at all, as a matter of fact I am in a chill mode but I get it wink wink you need someone to be your Huckleberry today. You know you could just put up a sign that says Lonely coochies apply here
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
Minor blog jack: Ladies, I visited a lady friend this weekend and during the visit her daughter (14) comes out with some less than concealing clothes on. This is after she told her to stay in her room. I had already told the woman I didn’t want to be around her daughter, or any 14 yo girl for that matter because nothing good would come out of it. Seems her daughter was just trying to get something started. I told my friend she’s probably competing with her. Whats your take on her daughters actions?
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
ARED I am trying to find time to join Foots at the pole dancing class myself.
By Foots
December 12, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Amazon Good luck in the classes! What studio are you attending?
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Truth - No lie, I’ve been on a weight gain kick for all of 2007. I have gained 5 pounds. I drink those 350 calorie Ensure shakes each night before bed too. Not that I’m complaining, I’m just not a slave to food, so I have to keep at it.
Uh..can you send me some Raiders gear too? :-)
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
WAIT A MINUTE Cemeeli packing vacation bag and going to Jazzy and Elvis’s for the after Christmas sleep out. You have HORSES chica!?!
By Jazzyone
December 12, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this
AR wow you a trip….and you are parusing (sp) amongst losers eh?? WTF???
By 2CPTG©
December 12, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
Amazon, why you gotta bring me into this……
By CoCo
December 12, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
Hey Ared & Kinderbabe: On topic,I get my workout on to keep the scale from moving (no excuses). It gets rough during the holidays tho with such a busy schedule. Darrell 10 years is the most, but even then it has to be a good balance of maturity and an active lifestyle.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
Cee How you know I like pecan waffles? You in my head girl… I got a good visual too, if that robe pop open one more time!
Kym- nevermind I was jus messin. calm down tho girl! You a fly lady who knows her football don’t go ruinin that by arguin over nuthin.
RED WTH? Losers?? You always have some smart azz comments that I never take seriously but man this one right HERE!!??!
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this
To answer Darrells question about age… I’ve never been the type to not talk to a guy because he is too young, but I just stopped talking to someone who was 25. Listen to me when I say I will never do it again. Talk about confused! Didn’t know what he wanted - was back and forth each week… for 3 days he couldn’t get enough of me, the next 3 days he needed some time. He still wanted to “do his thing” but 2 days later he’s saying he’s ready for us to be in a relationship. Totally not ready for a mature relationship. Confused! Confused!! Confused!!!
Never again…
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli “DasV ROTFL…you are a mess. flabby skin thing and the spontaneous belching and the teeth in the cup by the bed that’s something of a visual.”
Notice I didn’t bother to ask Das for a PowerPoint of this. LOL!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this
@ Amazon
Ok..ok yes i said what i said…i came off on Kym because she had no clue what the hellz we were talking about…it is called the Open mouth insert foot phase….
But just for the record it takes a loser to know a loser lolol
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
Staceye - You’d better act fast. The new sessions just opened for registration and they are already selling out. You can do the casual classes, I suppose, but they will sell out too.
I took an intro class last weekend and my muscles were burning! But it was in all the right places. I was the only girl in class that could put my leg around my head tho. So I’m still limber, just out of shape!
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
Dang, I got a lot to read.
First, Dan, I agree with your last post of yesterday on the value of a woman.
Truth, since your post is the last one I see here, my take is the daughter wants some attention from you herself. Also, she’s trying her best to get her mother mad for whatever reason.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this
Lololol wow Kym you are sooooooo good
clap, clap, clap
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this
Good morning, Staceye. :-)
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this
Truth
Her daughter clearly was dressed inappropiate. If I was her mother I’d have to pimp slap dat azzz all da way to her room. Kids these days are so fresh, especially young girls. What thoughts were goin through your head when you seen her? Just curious!
By Beautiful
December 12, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
The Truth kids these dayz need a BIG MOMMA. that would take care of all these issues quick! and my boys included.
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
Staceye Thanks so much for the blessing and kind words! I didn’t get to see the show but I did read about it on her website. I know I do not have an addictive personality so I’m not concerned with the issues those women were facing. (I don’t drink b/c I cannot stand the taste of liquor - yuck! And, I hate the feeling of being drunk. I do like a beer every now and then) I think the only thing I’m super worried about is my bank account… I already have a shopping problem… I only see it getting worse. Lol. Thanks again!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
Hey Foots - The one in Atlanta.
For those who took offense to the “losers” comment, if I wasn’t talking to you, why do you care? Ever heard the expression ‘the hit dog hollers?’ Clearly I don’t think everyone on here is a loser. And why would you care what I think anyway?
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
404Peach…please mami stay a Peach! Review the comments from bloggers and it’s YOU as you that should be loved. What’s the family saying?
Hey Page sneaking in here smelling like peanuts by the mouth. We made breakfast today lady!
2C don’t come in here without getting you something to eat bay? You don’t eat pork do you?
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
AmazonRed Definitely a compliment on your breadth of interests and willingness to expose yourself to new things. I agree, live it up. I think risque is the only behavior acceptable in Vegas…actually risque=normal in Vegas. lol Also do yourself a favor and hit the brunch at the Paris hotel…huge selection of food, topped off with unlimited champagne and mimosas.
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this
Truth you gonna be that dirty old man like Hef with the young chicks? LOL I just can’t get past the pubes looking like silver Christmas tinsel. I know..tis the season…but D@MN!!!
Your friend’s daughter needs her azz whipped!
Peach you need to leave Mr. Bi-polar alone girl….lol
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this
GA Man, I guess it does take one to know one! ;-)
By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this
darrell i have dated older guys before. the largest difference was 14 years. i was in my twenties at the time. in hindsight, i think there were some major differences that would not lead me to make that choice again. once it gets over a 5/6 year age difference there can be some fundamental issues at hand. i’m not a big fan of younger men…lol. i tried dating someone 5 years younger once and like peach said, he was confused. nowadays, i try to stay right around my age 33-37 is perfect.
By For Real
December 12, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this
You are responsible for what you put in your mouth but on that note I have never seen a chick get fat from putting Black Cake in her mouth.
Kym - Are you related to Kisha Cole? Now that was funny!
Who erased my post yesterday?
You can’t believe anyone in sports include the people that report on sports. Sports is the mirror of our society. SELFISH
Truth 08 Raiders - That’s funny too! Oh and when will it be my turn to get under center. Hey Cemeeli
Melo Everyone keeps saying Nardeli was a bad CEO but if you look at the numbers he was str8 balling for Home Depot for 6 yrs. He made Billions for Home Depot and as far as GE is concerned Ole Jackie didn’t want him as CEO bc he was going to do away with the Jack Welch method and Jackie Boy ego wouldn’t go for it.
Arthur Blank I have been a fan since I was able to walk but this is the worst season ever. I suggest you become very, very active in trading this off-season.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this
Peach
I think that he wasn’t confused at all he liked you, but he just wanted you plus them extra goodies on da side. Men have so many options to choose from when it comes to women. Or like someone stated yesterday, they just date many until they get one that’s 80% then they settle for her.
Glad ur moving on though, sounds like you another good sista…waiting on a good brother to love u just the way u r. Be patient he’ll show up when u least expecting it.
By melo
December 12, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
mAPeach404, maybe thats what i meant to say but u said it better.
Foots, im not quitter and i see ur point in that adversity makes a person better.Im proof of that.I just think there was ill feeling in this Faclons camp, Petrino came with ill conceived college ideas and could not hanlde prof. players and then if he wantd to quit, he should have been upfront with Arthur.He asked him twice if he was in it next year and still said yeah. The exit was dramatic, like he had the feds on him. But Blank needs to correct this and hire a credible coach, prepaid to establish roots(home) in Atl, and commit for 7 to 10 years. Thats how u build a frnachise.
By Page1908
December 12, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
Darrell, I’m just saying that because I am surprised that they have not deleted the posts where people advertise their own products or whatever because I remember last year someone had done the same thing and their posts always got deleted.
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
@ Truth…man that is a scary/awkward situation…thats why when i date a female with kids..i normally dont like to come over until kid(s) are asleep…these young girls are built like women and advanced sxually more then u think. from bi experience to 3 somes..and u wouldnt want to be accused of something even though you turned down her advances..its definately some issues/competition between moms and daughter
@ Blog females..truth/darrell questions made me think of a one…i know you have a age/look limit for men you date…but whats the deal with all these females 18/38 wanting a sugar daddys is this the new form of prositution? or is just using what u got to get what u want?
By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this
hey coco how are you?
By CoCo
December 12, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this
Truth You are right about staying away from the 14yo. As a mother of a 13yo girl, she is looking for some type of attention. I guess my next question is what was the mothers response?
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
dont what the hellz happened to you this morning…
GA.Man Nothing happened to Kym this morning… she’s always like that.
Whats your take on her daughters actions?
Truth… she’s probably already effing and your lady friend needs to take her to the gyno for some BC
By Chink
December 12, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
Mornin
Darrell
I have dated younger (really this happened once or twice) and older …my preference is older but sometimes that doesn’t even make a difference when we are talking about “Maturity”.
I remember in my early twenties I dated a 40 year old and he was the best… I typically like to date older men because it sort of correlates with the need for a manly man presence in my life.
I do look young so I do get hit on on by those youngins…to no avail
Have a good Day all …
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
GA Man There you go again thinking people need approval..heres a tip in my best afterschool special voice
At some point in your life you have to be okay with who you really are…and not long for the admiration and approval of others. If you are happy with you others will be happy too. Punkazz.
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this
Truth I feel bad for the daughter. Her behavior is probably somehow being promoted/endorsed by her mother or someone else close to her. Maybe getting your attention is really her way of saying that her mom doesn’t pay her enough attention. Maybe her mom seeks attention from men, prompting the same behavior from her. We sometimes have a tendency to blame kids’ generation for their behavior, but bottom line is that when our kids continually get out of line, it’s because we dropped the ball somewhere. Stay away from the daughter and tell the mom to handle her biz.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this
SJ3000 Can’t comment on your blog question…sorry! I always turn down sugar daddys. You can’t get something for nothing.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this
Kym we all go thru those times in our lives…
it will just be good for all of us who have had to put with your crazy azz ish for the last months…(which feel like years)
its ok…maybe the Dr. needs to go see the Dr. and you will get some closure.
We are here for you…
Go Pats
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this
Actually she slapped the mess out of her daughter last night. Thats when I heard about it. Truthfully, I went in the house for a few minutes then went back outside where its safe.
Angel I’m a freak but I don’t do children. I really feel sorry for kids like that. She’s about to walk into something thats going to set her back for years. I have no reason whatsoever being in a house with a 14 yo girl UNLESS I have a horde of people around and we’re never alone. These little chicks will claim some stuff just to get attention.
BTW, her mom tor dat azzz up.
Staceye I don’t have “pubes like xmas tinsel”. LOL I just like that fire a young woman kicks out. However, I’ve got a few more mature friends that are starting to sway me that way.
One of my thoughts was that since she hadn’t been raised around her dad she would actively be looking for male attention any way she could get it. Am I off base here? Tell me straight ladies.
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this
My metabolism hasn’t slowed down at all at the ripe ole age of 49. I watch what I eat and I NEVER, EVER venture to the vending machine. I might consume 3 cookies in an entire year. I just don’t do junk. I doubt very much I would gain weight due to who I dated. Mama would always tell me wait until you turn 25, wait until you have a baby, wait until you turn 40. Well, this is one thing I;ve been told to wait on that still hasn’t happened.
Kinderbabe, I won’t be able to join you guys at the meet & greet. I just secured 2 tickets to the Chris Brown concert. Just texted my child and she is so STOKED!
By melo
December 12, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this
Staceye, I just can’t get past the pubes looking like silver Christmas tinsel* girl u wrong for that!! Mine dont look that way coz i dye it!!
Truth, these kids need a Dad in the house! Mines are 13 and 9 and i can see how crazy it was going to be if it were just mama alone.I overule a lot of things at home because i happen to be there.So u right, stay away from her coz that may even cause drama down the road. She may even be getting that from her mama(who knows)U doing the right thing. My friend had to fend off a 15 year old foster kid, after he put up at a friend’s house. She came down to the guest bedroom, ready for action, without invitation.These kids are on the prowl and they really need a strong hand at home.
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli lol! My mom is really cool - a million questions - but i’ve been able to answer them all to her satisfaction so she’s happy for me. She also knows that whenever I do anything, I do a lot of research so she’s confident i’ve picked a great doctor and I’ve weighed all the risks. Thanks for the kind words :)
Staceye lol!!! Did I mention he was a Gemini… maybe that was the issue. True to his sign!?!?!
A few ladies on here have mentioned a guy looking his age. I think thats my issue with older guys…i don’t want him to look old.
Angel your 100% right. I believe he truly did like me but just wanted to still “do him”. I was really interested and I knew what I wanted, but relationships don’t work when they are one sided. Thanks sweetie :)
By BLAT
December 12, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
…. The Poobah sippin coffee after he was woken up on the MLB Bat Phone by GA Man lookin for a Co-sign….
O………….K WTF is goin in here???
Warning: a whole lotta WLB’s about to feel real DISRESPECTED(A-Red, note the spelling)
I’m jumpin in and fallin on the grenade for my boy GA Man, who obviously twisted some panties in a bunch this morning…..
A-Red, u talkin outta both sides of your big mouth today!!! So you gonna get mad when one of us actually comes out and a defends a woman when we legitimately feel she is in the right, as every MLB has done on here at some point, THEN turn around n get mad when we DON’T???? Figure out your position, little girl, and stick with it. You’re the only loser on this blog….
And KYM….. My my my. The hell anybody in the MLB give a dayum what u think about us co-signing. We do it cuz we know shrews like you are gonna come guns ablazin squawkin like a wet hen anytime we say some truth that ruffles your feathers!
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
SJ3000
Women wanting sugar daddies has always been a form of prostitution in my book. Anytime you gotta use ur coochie to get material things that you’d not get otherwise yo azzzz is a prostitute. Truth be told that pimpin shyt be goin on right here in da A’Town. I’ve been approached on dat level before, not da type of games I’m willing to play for some diamonds or anything else for that matter. Hey if it works for some. then ho..ho..ho..ho…on!
By CoCo
December 12, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
Kinder..I am good girl. How are you?
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
Truth, I can keep up with you and then some (LOL). So, 36 is the oldest you’ve dated. I remember you saying you date young ladies in their late 20’s. Good for you, you’ve moving on up.
ARed, I too have had to drink Ensure to maintain weight. I am not a lover of food. I eat merely to survive (LOL). Here’s a tip. Wal-Mart’s brand is “Equate” and it tastes so much better than Ensure’s brand (IMHO).
By BLAT
December 12, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
and KYM, speaking of Lonely Coochie Applications, I’m processing them for GA Man and just found yours at the top of the stack…………………….
By Foots
December 12, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
melo Agreed. He should have been upfront. Blank needs to make some good decisions and certainly find a truly committed individual who is in search of true glory. It’s like how we view somebody who is already rich staying rich, versus somebody who was poor and got rich through hard work and dedication. We really celebrate the true glory, which is turning nothing into something.
Peach Before you have the surgery… I have two close friends who have lost a LOT of weight by following a program that requires injections, diet change, and exercise. I can’t endorse it myself, but I see the non-surgical results of that and they are very happy. If you’d like, I can see if they can pass along some information.
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
For Real I have never seen a chick get fat from putting Black Cake in her mouth. Boy, I’m not even going to touch that one. LOL! Afterall, this blog is PG-13 enough as it is.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
Blat - Sorry, buddy. You read it all wrong. But I hope you feel better after getting that off of your chest. :-)
By For Real
December 12, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
Truth Man don’t go over there again. This same ish happened to one of my boys. He lost his job and had to fight like hell from being put on the sexual predator list. He moved to Texas just to get as far away as possible. Trust me this isn’t the first time she has done this. Her parents are too busy trying to live the single life.
Foots I agree with you on the Quiting thing. I can’t stand a lier nor a Quiter.
By That's Tired
December 12, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this
blatino dude that wlb and mlb stuff is SO TIRED! u ever notice no one ever even responds to that childish mess? you r the only one still tryin to keep it alive. i think there was some clique names for the men and women last year and it was dumb then too. gtfoh!
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
Ared I was thinking of the casual ones. I know about muscles aching..i thought as a dancer and a avid pilates buff, there would be no muscle I did not use! WRONG! I did the virtual reality boxing and my back felt like somebody kicked me. Like you and still limber…but clearly I need some more core training.
*Darrell top of the morning to ya!
Peach girl I LOVE to shop. I always go ape shyt when I go back home and end of shipping my stuff back to GA to avoid having to carry on the plane.
As for your surgery….I hope you are doing it for health purposes and for yourself because it will make you feel good..not because of what society says you should look like. Trust me..I struggle with that since age 15. No I am not over weight…but I was one of the silent over looked girls…the women of color who did suffer from an eating disorder. I actually made it my platform as a queen to promote healty self image to young Black and Latino girls. It’s hard to reach them when they do not see girls like them on tv and magazines…and they are told they are not attractive because of that. So please tell me that you have thought of everything mama.
SJ I get approached by possible sugar daddies all the time..but I can not do it.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
Thanks SexyLeggs. I’m glad that metabolism is still kicking at 49! Gives me hope. :-)
I do like Equate and Ensure. They both are good to me. Target has a version too, but I don’t like thiers.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
Blat your azz just as late and wrong drinking the wrong dame kool-aid and everythang. Your boy is the one worried about people co-signing post. As for lonely coochies you must have put my name on the app because this one here is already has a owner.
By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
sexyleggs wow! that’s great that you got tix for the concert. have fun…we’ll see you next time.:)
coco i’m fine. just trying to make it through these next 6 days before vacation.
By Foots
December 12, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this
Dreams Good answer at 11:34. I also think that it’s a cry for attention. Especially from a male figure. Girls learn early that their sexuality has an effect on men, and so they use that to get attention, even if it’s the wrong kind of attention.
Truth Dang, where did she get those clothes at 14?
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this
My metabolism hasn’t slowed down at all at the ripe ole age of 49.
SexyLeggs are you bragging?!?!?! Don’t mind me, I’m just hating on your metabolism
By BLAT
December 12, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this
A-Red I think I read it right. U have no response.
That’s Tired….. I’m assuming you’re a guy… Listen, Truth told me he just found your ballz in the back of the MLB storehouse, along with your REAL blogname. PU$$Y.
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this
SJK It’s funny you asked this question because me and BBS was talking about that this weekend. I could never see myself trying to find a sugardaddy because sooner or later Grandpa is going to want you to put his icy hot on a spot that hasn’t gotten much attention lately…if u catch my drift and that’s makes my skin crawl. Just like dudes don’t want some chick wit saggy bags and saggy azz, Slim dont want no dude with..well u know where I’m going with it. I wasn’t blessed with the gift of gab to sucker some old man into paying for anything. I just wouldn’t even know how to go about it. The biggest age gap was when I was 21 and i briefly dated this 36yo. He was nice, looked young but everytime we were in public i could read Dirty Old Man on folks faces. If a dude want to do something for me, that’s one thing but using my Slim Goody to get it just isn’t my style.
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this
Peach Gemini men are the devil….RUN..Run fast! LOL I got some holy water for ya!
Ok..I am hating ARED & Sexyleggs now…..LOL. I want a fast metatolism. Sniff sniff! I have to workout like a bat out of hellz..what can say..i love chocolate. Not to mention I have used junkfood as a comfort blanket before.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
Kym we started the morning off joking on rell…but making a point to him about something and
Here come crazy azz Kym….starting her little ish again
An owner…you have an owner..the only thing that i know that has an owner is a dog!!
By BLAT
December 12, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this
Hey, Kym, tell the owner of your Coochie he can find it at the pound, cuz it was picked up by Animal Control for runnin the streets without a license….
By Beautiful
December 12, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this
Foots Dang, where did she get those clothes at 14? exactly!!! her momma bought them. this is why single mothers should not bring men around their kids unless there is a damn committment, etc. it’s her mother fault for this situation. Truth she should have met you for coffee or somethin’.
By binford
December 12, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
Indulge me while I veer this topic down another avenue
As most of you know, Jennifer Love Hewitt was in the center of a (be it a media created) controversy. She says she is a size 2, but after seeing her pics, only her top half is …her jeans are no size two!
What is disturbing to me about those pics is the cellulite and the lack of tone. I have met many a woman who were more pear shaped BUT THEY WERE TONED. That’s a huge difference and one that never gets discussed. If one wants to be lazy and let you body look all flabby and out of shape (this happens with skinny ppl as well) - it is your perogative to do so. But then as a celebrity, don’t complain about it because it is YOUR choice.
Same with everyday, non-famous folks.
The thing is is that it IS unhealthy.
And I always appreciate anyone that is willing to make a reasonable effort to sculpt their body the best they can - even with imperfect results. I don’t have much respect for those who are lazy and sloth.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
Blat, I simply don’t argue with fools. I know what I said, I certainly am not “mad” nor was I ever faulting GA Man for standing up for what he wanted.
You clearly read what you want to read. That’s on you. I’m not going to waste my time on you, your simple insults or your incorrect conclusions. Take care.
By melo
December 12, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this
AmazonRed, that Blat response was classic.I wanted to intercede for Kym and my man G-Man to let it go, but u acted like a real lady!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this
Staceye, Unlike SexyLeggs you know I am a junk food junkie! I won’t stop snacking, but I do plan to start working out more. I keep telling you I’ve found some revelations on the back of my thighs! LOL
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this
Chink I feel you on the looking young and getting hit on by the youngins. I’d love to date an older guy but they never hit on me - and if they do… they are real old. Like 50/60, lol.
Foots I’d love to read over some information regarding that. I’m open to different options. Is there a website?
He lost his job and had to fight like hell from being put on the sexual predator list.
Wow! That is really serious ForReal. These kids have no idea the trouble that they can cause.
Staceye health yes, clothes yes. It’s 1/2 and 1/2 to be honest! (I sure hope nobody from my insurance company is reading this!) But on the real, I’m not bad looking and I’ve never had a problem dating or with guys being attracted to me. I just want to be healthier and have more choices for shopping. I even mentioned to my doc that I don’t want to lose too much weight. I’m about 5’9 and I informed him i’d like to be about 160. He said that was doable but I’d probably go down to 150. I think im going to cry when I buy my first pair of jeans at a “regular” store!
By DasV
December 12, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
Pasta T
you know how when at the age of four or five a lil’ bit will defy you and after you dont tole him no more cookies, go into the kitchen, climb the counter and come back in with it in his hands, lookinatchu like ‘what?’….
then you can relate to what that lil’ bit was doing…. testin her boundaries and feelin her oats…. it happens. she wanted to know if big boy from down the way would like it if he could see her in her skimp-ees. but big boy wasnt around, you were…. she’s still not sure of your reaction but it obviously messed her mama up real bad, and i guarantee she proly thinkin that slap was worth the knowledge…..
if you go back over there, take her the book ‘nisa’ about an african tribes-woman who hunts, kills, cooks, cleans, births, etc etc all in the nude. its not what she dont have on that made her a real woman.
By BLAT
December 12, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
AmazonRed, clearly, my simple insults were enough to shut yo azz up and make u backtrack…. You should read your own s#!t.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
Thank you for the feedback folks. Its just what i thought. For Real I’ve heard stories just like that. One cat lost his job. Where is this shyt going?
By Dreka
December 12, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this
AmazonRed ^5, co-sign and all that s**!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this
Thanks melo. What the heck is he even huffing over anyway. Ga Man and I came to an understanding long ago. Folks are a trip, so I let them trip over their own issues. ;-)
By Foots
December 12, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this
Amazon You are sure to pick up a few pounds of muscle from the pole program. You should see my upper arms, they are just about bigger than my head. I owe at least 7 lbs to the pole and the strength I’ve gained over the past 15 months.
Oh, and Boost the the best! That chocolate flavor is SO dayum good!! I used to drink them for breakfast, but I ran out of funds quick doing that cause that ish is expensive. LOL!
SJ No sugar daddies here. I’ve been approached by older men, but they look too much like my dad to even take them seriously. I have told a couple of them “My mama and daddy would cuss you out for trying to talk to me”.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this
GA Man your azz was not joking you were trying to get cool points with the ladies so you could sniff some panties. For the record I will respond anytime I want to. To anything I want to and today I responded to your simple simon pie man azz comments about co-signing posts. Yes I said owner. But borrow an idea from one of my favorite authors..”He makes it sing baby.” So there is no need for me to stand in the lonely coochie line but keep up your efforts I am sure you can catch a snapper the longer you sniff..just make sure it doesnt bite your tired azz back.
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this
You know what, more than likely the mama bought her daughter those clothes. I dress my daughter appropriately for her 13 year old now smelling herself body. She’s small framed like me, but she’s a teenager. These girls bodies are maturing too rapidly and it is up to the parent to stay talking to them, nurturing them and respecting them before them choose to come out of there room trying to test the waters and my fist!!!!
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
Gemini men are the devil….RUN..Run fast! LOL I got some holy water for ya!
Staceye honey! I know… now I know! As Alicia Keys would say “lesson learned”!
binford I’ve seen plenty of small/skinny women with cellulite and stretch marks. Somethings cannot be avoided no matter how much you work out. If anyone here is a size 2, no offense, but I do not find that attractive nor do I desire to be so small. I haven’t been kept up with the story about her, but I do know she’s on the cover of some magazine this week with a huge headline saying “Stop calling me fat”… it just sends a bad message to me.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
GA Man your azz was not joking you were trying to get cool points with the ladies so you could sniff some panties. For the record I will respond anytime I want to. To anything I want to and today I responded to your simple simon pie man azz comments about co-signing posts. Yes I said owner. But to borrow an idea from one of my favorite authors..”He makes it sing baby.” So there is no need for me to stand in the lonely coochie line but keep up your efforts I am sure you can catch a snapper the longer you sniff..just make sure it doesnt bite your tired azz back.
By Tazzee
December 12, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
It is off the chain in here today!!!
On-topic I haven’t picked up any bad-habits dating. I just might slack off on some of my good habits.
Darrell’s topic I judge each man based on his actions, so age really doesn’t matter. However, I must admit that if a younger guy does something immature, I might think to myself “that’s what I get for dating his young azz” and if an older guy acts a little more controlling, my first instinct is to think “that’s why I don’t like dating older men”. In the end, I’ve come across some mature guys younger than me and some REAL immature older guys.
Not taking sides on the arguments, but I must say that I had to laugh when Dr. Kym put ‘punkazz’ at the end of her post, LOL. FYI ‘punkazz’ is one of my favorite words…
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this
My metabolism hasn’t slowed down at all at the ripe ole age of 49.
SexyLeggs are you bragging?!?!?! Don’t mind me, I’m just hating on your metabolism
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
DAsV I’m not going over there anymore unless the little one is gone. I wonder how single parents with duaghters this age handle this in respect to dating.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this
Thanks for the endorsement Foots, I’m really excited too. I don’t think I’ll ever be a gym rat, but I can take classes that are fun. Getting back into ballet won’t help me much with my arms and upper body. So this is perfect.
Thanks for the shout out Dreka! ;-)
By melo
December 12, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this
He lost his job and had to fight like hell from being put on the sexual predator list. For Real, what happenned for things to go to that level?
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
Binford she is a size 2 by some designer’s standard. But noetheless..she is not fat. Cellulite can happen to the skinniest women. It’s just a plain fact. I have seen overweight women with NO cellulite. Crazy huh? I just think that it was blown way out of proportion. If you are not walking around looking like a crack ho..you are fat in Hollywood. Its funny because Marilyn Monroe was one of the biggest sex symbols and she was size 14. It just goes to show..some designer and media can wake up tomorrw and decide that 0 is fat…and the world will follow suit and try to get down to the 000 to be be what the media considers beautiful. Since when do we let the media dictate how we should feel about ourselves? I admit..I too fall into this trap. But I’ll be d@mned if I kill myself to be a 2 (looking like a crackhead on my body type)! Some people naturally have very small frames….but there is no way a medium framed woman should be a 2.
ARED your Dirty 30 revelations have crept up huh? LOL
Peach in that case girl….call me..I will cry and dance with ya when put those jeans on!
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
Good Afternoon All For a minute I thought the tramp stamp blog was our topic of the day - Whew!!!!!
By DasV
December 12, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
Peach i love that CD…. i have ‘tell you something’ on repeat!
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
Blat, I’m curious, why you always seem to be angry on this blog. Demigod told me you were cool. You speak truths much like ForReal/Truth/Poppa Grande/Dan/Darrell, etc., however, you always sound ANGRY!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this
Peach - I’m a size 2 and big girls are always quick to say what they do and don’t think is attractive. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but what is your point really? Kudos to you for taking charge of your weight issues tho.
By binford
December 12, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
ImAPeach404 A woman has a kid, most likely she’ll have stretch marks and that’s something I’m not going to be critical about.
The bottom line is you can tell 99 out of 100 times tell when someone is dedicated to their fitness. If they are reasonably dedicated (read: not obsessive, but makes the effort most of the time) then any man or woman should respect that and not criticize the little flaws we ALL have.
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
This is a sad but true article…check it out!
http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/12/11/roland.martin/index.html
By melo
December 12, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
nisa, about an african tribes-woman who hunts, kills, cooks, cleans, births, etc etc all in the nude. its not what she dont have on that made her a real woman DasV what is the message in the book, do u mind sharing?
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
kym i no longer will ever put caps on your name….
you have been the same….and will always be the same…
Old azz trying to hang around
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
Foots & ARED I swear in the new year I will make time in my schedule to take that class. I am so bored with my regular workouts…pole dancing should be fun.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
Now to Truth’s issue. I fault the mama. One you dont date with your kid around. If you asked her momma to keep you away from the kid then the Momma should have respected that and arranged a sleepover for Little Sha-Sha somewhere else. Second point..Momma bought her whateva it was she was wearing which is not a good look either. So it goes back to momma. She needs to spend more time with her daughter and dealing with this attention seeking she is searching for because it is not going anywhere positive. Believe me I know of a woman who is a 37 year old grandmother of 2.
By Foots
December 12, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
Staceye I read the article and it speaks to a lot of what we’ve talked about on here before: Families are the backbone of our community. This statement got me, because I have thought it many times myself with three nieces…“And the black men who have done their job are scared to death about what the tendency for black men to leave relationships means for their daughters.”
Question for Blog Men with Daughters Are you concerned about the quality of men that will be available for your daughter to date and marry in the future?
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this
GA Man Ask me if I give a flying f*k if you do or dont? Old? I am 35 what are u like 50.. Dude wasnt Moses your brother?
By Demi
December 12, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs you didn’t have to bag about it, LOL
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this
Staceye I have what one of my male friends called “Skinny Fat”. Yeah it happens to the best of us…but do i give a dayum, NAH not at all. I don’t know what size I would wear in women’s but i’m like a 5 in juniors. It kind of sucks at times because I’m 29 and i don’t want to look like a teeny bopper
By melo
December 12, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this
Believe me I know of a woman who is a 37 year old grandmother of 2.
My wife was telling me of this girl at her job who goes on sleep overs at boyfriend(s) homes and takes her teenaga daughter with her.The young girl goes to middle school and sometimes has to leave from a boyfriend’s home to school.Sad!!! Staceye I saw that Martin article too and he speaks the truth. .
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this
melo anything could have happened. You know thats partly why Genarlow was in the clink… wouldn’t admit guilt to his “crime” because he would have had to be a registered sex offender. He wanted to go to trial b/c he was certain he wouldn’t be convicted therefor not a sex offender.
He was smart enough to know that would have ruined his life - po’ thang didn’t know it would be ruined anyway.
DasV love it too. Depends on my mood but right now I have “I Need You” on repeat. Tomorrow it might be “Wreckless Love”! I think this is my fav CD of hers to date.
Red my point is that I would never want to be that small and a size 2 is not what I call attractive. I’m not a dude, but if I was, I’d find myself attracted to females who were in the size range of 10/12/14 - but different people carry their weight/size differently. I, as a woman, find that attractive and thats my size goal because thats what I like. Thanks for the kudos.
Binford what if she didn’t have a kid and still had stretch marks. Maybe on her thighs, butt, or arms. Nothing near her stomach… would you be critical about that?
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this
ImAPeach404, just heard Lesson Learned for the first time last night. I played it 4x back to back. Also, track #8 is off da chain as well!!!!
binford, no stretch marks here… NOT A ONE! Not all women who give birth battle the stretch mark monster.
By Beautiful
December 12, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
Kym u go girl! that’s what i’m talkin’ about. but, you 4got to add the azz whoopin’. lol.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
Truth
I don’t know much about the woman you’re dating, but based on this blog it’s her fault. Let’s back up a minute. Who’s to say that this women is not a well rounded person, who decided to step back into the dating game once her youngin was old enough. Not all parents control the ill mannered actions of their young. If you’re raising your child to be the best they can. Which includes speaking with them about sex and much more. Then they turn around and pull a stunt like lil fresh did…how on god’s green earth is her mother at fault?
I’ve know there are a lot of single parents out there, and they can’t always predict what their kids will do. But who’s to say that a) her mom bought her those clothes. b)that the mom even knew she had them.
How do we know she didn’t steal dem or better yet get them from one of her friends. Let’s not put this mother on blast when we know nothing of her.
On another note….Truth it’s a good thing that the situation happened the way that it did. Now you can see what you’re getting into before this thing jumps off to a whole new level. My take after reading further comments. Glad to know that her mom slap fiya to dat azzzz. LOL
By Who Dat
December 12, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this
Is Kym Really Rell and taking out his frustrations…
By DasV
December 12, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
melo the book was a year in the life of an african woman in a isolated tribe…. basically a ‘reading’ of what you would see on a PBS documentary. that whole ‘… and she did it with nothing on’ was something i came away with… not really the point of the book. i enjoyed it, if you check it out lemme know your thoughts
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this
LOlolol ok kym…no Moses wasnt my brother…i am 35 also
hahahahah
By pisces07
December 12, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
ARed. My hero….
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December 12, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
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By Angel007
December 12, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
Menlo that story your wife was telling you about is some real sick shyt. Somebody needs to tell here that it’s not cool to expose her kids to that type of behavior.
I have a good friend of mine who’s younger sister was a mom at 15yo. She changes men like she changes panties. Sad to see that little girl grow up thinkin that everyman her mommie meets is her daddy. I talked to my friend about it but apparently her mother thinks that it’s cute. She allows her daugther to enntertain these guys at her house. SAD SITUATIONNo role model for the baby girl, mommies a ho, grannies a ho. anf the cycle continues. …Breaks my heart.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
Well Peach, it goes without saying that everyone is going to find different things attractive or not. Casting a broad net for all “size 2s” is not even comparing apples to apples. Some folks will look great as a size 2, others look better as a 10, 20 or even 26. I just find statements like yours contribute to tearing other women down. I’m sure many on here would say your size is not attractive, but adding the “no offense” tag doesn’t make it any more correct. Of course you’d have a preferece for a larger size of woman, being a big woman yourself. I guess I just wonder why it even matters.
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
Question for Blog Men with Daughters Are you concerned about the quality of men that will be available for your daughter to date and marry in the future?
…if you don’t mind… I’m worried about the quality of me that are currently available so I can just imagine what it will be like for the young women today. I’m not taking a jab at men, but I’m being totally sincere. I’m a woman so I can only speak from this side of dating. My girlfriends and I have a difficult time finding suitable partners and if the ones we have to choose from are the ones raising and advising young men, I only see it getting worse.
Imagine if a young man was reading these blogs and getting his ideas about dating, women, and relationships… lol. Po thang!
By melo
December 12, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this
Are you concerned about the quality of men that will be available for your daughter to date and marry in the future? I am a doting Dad, and hell yeah iam concerned.I would kick out anybody i considered inappropriate.But the key is to imbue in them, values that they will pick up which will help them when they make dating decisions.
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this
@ Staceye…good article…its mostly accurate..i will say this..daughters/females need the father around as much as sons/boys do..One thing i can say about the article and situation that isnt addressed…is the mortality rate of black men….you cant be a father if you are dead..and i see so many cases where young cats die or are killed..with small children.and they loved their kids and woman…and was an active father/spouse/SO…so we DONT always abandon our kids and women…i think females under 27 and their kids and their generation that have gone through that ordeal will have to deal with psychological and emotional hurdles from having the fathers pass way before their time and not due to leaving.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this
JustMe you a dayum fool….LMAO
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this
Sexy if you do not have her CD please go get it - from a store!
By binford
December 12, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this
You don’t criticize for the things someone cannot control (i.e. stretch marks, moles, anything like that).
I for one, could give a rat’s a$$ if a woman is a size 8 if she practices reasonable eating/workout habits (pushing relatively hard) and is a size 8. Nor would a dump a girl if she got bigger while doing those things. I would NOT get together with a woman who did have the same general attitude.
It’s the lack of discipline in eating and lack of effort in fitness I find disturbing in this culture. Too many folks are falling in to this trap.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this
Foots “Question for Blog Men with Daughters Are you concerned about the quality of men that will be available for your daughter to date and marry in the future?”
In a word, YES.
As I see it - and this is just me - there seems to be more of a focus on developing good character in young girls as opposed to young boys. This is especially true in African-American families and this lack of focus on character development is, I believe, a significant factor in the waywardness of young black males today.
Just look around you. There is less and less evidence that today’s young men genuinely respect and revere young women. It’s as if teaching young men about manners and general couresy will somehow lead to them growing up ‘soft’ and instead of a raising a generation boys who aspire to be gentlemen, we find ourselves dealing with a bunch of “young bucks” who aspire to be “duffle bag boys” and wear their pants down to their knees.
Unless something changes, all this will translate into how these young men treat their women as they grow older.
Just my two cents.
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this
Off-topic, what the hell is wrong with folk. This is why I stay on freaking High Alert!!!!
*PANAMA CITY, Fla. — A Bay County, Florida, man’s attempt to burn his wife’s home ended in his arrest. Authorities say Gregory Lee Pippin Senior told them he tried to get his wife’s attention by first knocking on her window. When she didn’t answer, he poured gasoline around the home — sure she would come out to speak to him. But the fire burned itself out, causing only minor damage to the area around the home. And Pippin fled the scene. The woman later told police she was going through a divorce. And Pippin was arrest on arson charges.
By Dreka
December 12, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this
But who’s to say that a) her mom bought her those clothes. b)that the mom even knew she had them.
WTH!!! girl, go tie your tubes now. lmao.
By Demi
December 12, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this
Blat is a cool…but like most of us men…a jerk time to time, LOL
GA Man its 1:15pm now…please no more, LOL
Ms.Eye abortion is cheap…and save lives..
By Foots
December 12, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this
Angel007 You raise valid points. It’s clear that the child doesn’t respect or fear the mother. I don’t know what she teaches her child, but in the house I grew up in, I didn’t have a choice to act that way. I knew that my mama would tear my hide up and I didn’t even try things like that. Her mother needs to put the fear of God into her and command respect.
binford/Peach what if she didn’t have a kid and still had stretch marks.
I’m in that category. They are not too visible, but they are there on my backside. I’m 5’6” and it seems like I always have been, but when I “ballooned” from 99 lbs to 114 lbs during my first two quarters of college, I came out of it with stretch marks. And I’ve always had a bit of cellulite, even when I was 99 lbs. Just be a little easy on people’s bodies, because it doesn’t mean that they are fat and lazy if they have imperfections.
And I never looked at JLH and thought “she’s fat”. I was just surprised that she had it going on like that!! I was thinking that Sir Mix A Lot needs to cast her for his next video. She probably is a 2. I can still get into some 4’s, and I have 38” hips. It’s probably the cultural difference that caused folks to react like they did. That picture probably made JLo jealous!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 1:15 PM | Link to this
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By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this
ImAPeach, I have the CD. Thank you. I just don’t understand why they keep playing the same song. Track #5 just got into radio rotation.
By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this
hey foots how are you?:) girl, please do me a favor…never use the word “ballooned” when describing going from under 100 pounds to 114…lmao. chile, that was too funny…lol. do i even remember being 100 pounds??? o.k. i do now, in the 5th or 6th grade…lol
By Demi
December 12, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this
oh topic…I like them thick/w a tummy flatter than mines.
By Foots
December 12, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this
melo But the key is to imbue in them, values that they will pick up which will help them when they make dating decisions.
This is true. What values do you plan to instill in them regarding sex and their bodies?
For the men on the blog who presently think that a woman laying down with them has no meaning other than pleasure, will you take the same stance with your daughters? Or will you teach your young women that their minds and bodies are special and valuable, and not to be given lightly?
Does thinking about how men will treat your daughters in the future have any effect on the way you treat women today and the “casual emotionless sex/no strings attached” behaviors that are held in such high regard by some blog men?
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
Hi piscses!. Though I forgot again, I haven’t forgotten!
By ImAPeach404
December 12, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this
Red I was commenting on the topic that binford brought up about Jennifer Love Hewitt and how she, or whomever, is making a big deal out of her size. I said that I do not find that attractive and I do not desire to be so small, I wasn’t tearing anyone down. Everybody has preferences and I was stating mine. We do it every day on here so I don’t see the difference here.
Back in the blog day, size/weight has been a hot topic and it has been expressed many times in many ways that plus size is not considered attractive by many men on here. So.
Maybe it only matters to you.
…have to deal with psychological and emotional hurdles from having the fathers pass way before their time and not due to leaving.
SJ My father died when I was 5, truly before his time. I wonder what my life would have been like if he were around. I know it would be totally and completely different. I know how I deal with men and my relationships with men wouldn’t even compare to what it is now. From what my mom and family tell me, my dad was so in love with me and spoiled me rotten! I envy females who have a great relationship with their dad b/c I know thats how ours would have been
By mqew
December 12, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this
Morning!
Oooooh. Justme. I’ll take a Cuervo Black-eyed Margaritas. That shyt sounds good!
On topic: I’ve found that if you let it, food will be an emotion instead of sustanance. That is if you are a person that loves to eat. Me? I love food! Everything about it!!! So getting with my SO had/has nothing to do with it. I’ve had to manage my weight ever since I could remember. I’ve been this size (6/8) since HS, but I’ve also been an active person as well.
My SO is not so lucky. Since my cooking is the bomb, it’s hard for him to back away from the table. But it’s not all my fault. He’ll come back from the store with a BAG of Blue Bell ice cream cups and an apple pie. I’m like WTH?!! Dude, u need to stop and desist! AND, he is an athlete. But I’ve changed my cooking habits so that helps.
Darrell - as far as the age thing. I’ve dated a 45 y/o. That was a nice change! Had his shyt together! Except he was married soooo.. uhhh Anyhoo I’d go as low as Chris Brown (but only Chris and only for one thing. Yep. I said it. I’d do him! (I think, he’d have to have some type of game. I couldn’t be w/ a lame azz, and I think he might fall in that category… maybe if he didn’t say anything….)
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this
GA MAn Hateraid is only sold 1.5 oz shots due to the fact that too much Hateraid causes folks to start breaking glasses, flippin tables and tossin chairs. It’s all down hill from their. Here ya go care for a wedge of lime with that?
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this
Dreka …Lol at you. Yeah i don’t have any kids, judging by the looks of things a sista won’t ever be having any. I love them some much just not enough to have my own.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this
Overall my people whe’re in a bad place. Young black males killing folks and young ladies out there all willy nilly. I’m glad I don’t have adaughter that age because I’d break my foot off in her azz and then drive, with one foot, to the police station. I wish those that do have kids in that age range much luck. The worst part is the laws protect the kids more than the parents.
Sexy I know you could keep up with me but your rare. LOL
Melo thats some sick shyt. I wonder how moms would feel if her daughter got caught up with ol boy. WEW
Roll call, who has a “tramp stamp”?
LMAO at Just ME.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this
Daughters by John Mayer
I know a girl She puts the color inside of my world but she’s just like a maze Where all of the walls all continually change
And I’ve done all I can To stand on her steps with my heart in my hand Now I’m starting to see Maybe it’s got nothing to do with me
Fathers, be good to your daughters Daughters will love like you do Girls become lovers who turn into mothers So mothers, be good to your daughters too
Ooh, you see that skin? It’s the same she’s been standing in Since the day she saw him walking away Now she’s left cleaning up the mess he made
So fathers, be good to your daughters Daughters will love like you do Girls become lovers who turn into mothers So mothers, be good to your daughters too
Boys, you can break You find out how much they can take Boys will be strong And boys soldier on But boys would be gone without warmth from A woman’s good, good heart
On behalf of every man looking out for every girl You are the god and the weight of her world
So fathers, be good to your daughters Daughters will love like you do Girls become lovers who turn into mothers
So mothers be good to your daughters, too So mothers be good to your daughters, too So mothers be good to your daughters, too.
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this
JustMe, that was very creative.
Thank you ImAPeach becuase I was thinking the same thing. I to am concerned!
By Foots
December 12, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
kinderbabe Hey girl, I was just saying that to say that even REALLY skinny folk get stretch marks. I was still skinny at 114, but I felt like I was FINE!! That was shortlived, as when I came home to work, I lost it all. It took three years to gain it back. I was one of those who always tried to gain weight and couldn’t. Until I turned 25. Now I’m like, okay, you can stop now!! LOL!
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this
Angel007…now waving at Demi…showing off her curves, and extra flat tummy. LOL
By DasV
December 12, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this
dem-e- its NOT cheap, the psychological price is more any woMAN can afford to pay
sexyLegg thats because ‘commercialism’ has to be dribbled, not drank
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this
Melo, I absolutely love this…But the key is to imbue in them… EXACTLY!!!!
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this
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By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this
Peach - It doesn’t “matter” to me. I was expressing my opinion on your comment just as you are free to express yours. Agree to disagree.
By DasV
December 12, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
Darrell step away from the keyboard seriously.
Pasta T i am feelin you on your concern over what is going on in society, down the street, in our homes and bedrooms…. but like it say: ‘when you see things start to occur raise yourself erect……’ bowing head in prayer
By kinderbabe
December 12, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this
foots i got you girl…i was just teasin’ LOL. you’re so right, at all sizes women can get stretch marks. it just depends on the elasticity of the person’s skin. sometimes it runs in folks’s family too. well, thank goodness for shea and cocoa butter.:)
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
Footsy (thats her play name for me only) interesting questions. I don’t think the way you treat a woman today has an impact on how you’d treat/raise your daughter. We are grown adults and make up our own mind. Sometimes not the best decisions but we do our best. If I have a daughter and she doesn’t carry herself right (after her legss heal) then she will fall prey to guys just like the next woman. Personally, I treat women the way they come off. A ho gets treated like a ho. If a child of mine acts like one she gets the same treatment.
If i go outside today acting like a byatch people will treat me like one. Noone is exempt.
Justme you just made me hella hungry. Someone tell me a greasy azz burger with those good fries from checkers isn’t good for me. HURRY!!!!!
By Dan
December 12, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
Sorry to join in sooo late but after reading the posts:
@Sexyleggs
While I don’t have a daughter, based on my past behavior with women and the trending of kids having sex waaaaayyy before even I did…..
I’ll be reinstituting the chastity belt. Modernized with tamper proof alarm and a rotating code that changes after my daughter showers.
It shall be worn until 18, at which point she can do what she wants.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
Das
What’d I do now?!
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
Thanks Truth! I truly appreciate that. Demigod found out the hard, yet fun way!!!
I definitely understand DasV.
By mqew
December 12, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
Darryl - I love that song! About to find it on Yahoo, but only after the Gabriela Anders goes off.
Justme - Maybe I need another one cause I’m a little to chill to get hyped like some will tend to do on here.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
Angel because your new to blogsville we’ll/ I will need visual proof of these body features. Please forward any scantily clad pictures to… Thank you in advance. LOL Also, if you want kids we can go thru a few practice runs to keep you in practice.
Is everyone feeling a little froggy in here today? Must be the heat. I’m as cool as the other side of the pillow in this joint. Shoot me a double shot of that hateraide please.
By melo
December 12, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this
Foots,A certain pilot advised me to buy this book titled they call me daddy which contains manly advice on raising daughters.I got it in my collection. I am going to tell them everything they need to know about sex,disease,Aids,etc u name it.I am as liberla as they come as far as putting that stuff on the table for them to be informed and make informed decisons.When u are a parent and observant of ur kids, its easy to notice how they pick up the little stuff that u do in the home.I was fixing the garbage disposal the other day..my 21/2 year old goes under the sink now to crank it up.Every day when i take him to day care, he shuts off all the lights in the hall way and kitchen. So to answer *Foots question, i have to talk to them, but more importantly, i have to practice and show by example what i preach and intend them to pick up when they grow up. I cannot be arguing with my wife in public, in their full view and pretend to want to model them to be good wives to their husbands. They will learn what they see more than what i tell them.
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this
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Dan I’ll be reinstituting the chastity belt. Modernized with tamper proof alarm and a rotating code that changes after my daughter showers. I choke on my chewing gum! Madd Stoopid Man!!!
mqew Whyain’tchasayso? I got something just for you!
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By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this
I’ll be reinstituting the chastity belt. Modernized with tamper proof alarm and a rotating code that changes after my daughter showers*
Dan, that was funny. I’ve already invested in two steel bats. However, I have been imbuing knowledge to my daughter from day one. There are no guarantees, but I sure hope things have sunk in if she should decide to ever “flip the script.”
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this
JustMe I jsut came from lunch you tryin to start Bad Habit lol..
I’ve caught up and DasV ^5 on the African Queen book and revelation.
Super Truth you are well into seeing where this New Generation is going with “trends” per se’. As you observe from the sidelines i’m sure it looks a mess. We parents have alot of work to do with “our” village. YOU TOO!
Darrell I believe there are alot of good young men being raised by great families. Daughters will have good men to marry…don’t let statistics overwhelm you.
Sexyleggs obviously you have NO metabolism…WTH? …Maybe your body runs on “keep it movin’ biochemicals”…:-). That’s great. I’m not jealous either…^5!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this
As the mother of a son..I worry about the women he will eventually date(if I dont put him in a Shaolin temple first) but seriously I worry that my son is going to date one of these Sha-Sha’s who sees mommy doing what the f-ever so she will to. My son is a blend of me and his father. His dad’s charm, my mouth and creativity and both of our sneaky ways. All that mixed in with his own personality. So either he will get hurt by some hefer because he was being too nice or he is going to charm someone and make me a granny before I am ready(preferable never-I will kill him.) His father passed away when my son was 7 so as he progresses into the teen years I miss his dad more because the boy is going to need a mixture of my fire and his father’s ice(cool no matter what)personality in order to be a good person. But he is a good kid with a old soul. And if he is screwing up as I type this heaven help him.
By Rell
December 12, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this
There is less and less evidence that today’s young men genuinely respect and revere young women. It’s as if teaching young men about manners and general couresy will somehow lead to them growing up ‘soft’ and instead of a raising a generation boys who aspire to be gentlemen, we find ourselves dealing with a bunch of “young bucks” who aspire to be “duffle bag boys” and wear their pants down to their knees.
BULL ISH!!!!!
Most little boys now-a-days are raised by single mothers…who teach them that women are to be treasured…i was raised by a single mother
By mqew
December 12, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
Darrell Sorry about the name change.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
Truth give me your email. Just be sure not to be licking the monitor. I’m much sweeter than the dust that’s built up on your screen…LOL
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this
PFBfkaTT Double shot of Hateraid are only served with the Backside Blitz Combo (BBC). But since today is the grand opening on my new blog bar and grill, I’ma hook ya up summin proppa like. Ya dig? Chug this ish do not sip like a simp!
By Foots
December 12, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
Truth I don’t think the way you treat a woman today has an impact on how you’d treat/raise your daughter.
I think that it would cause some men to wake up and realize that they don’t want men to misuse and mistreat their own daughters, so they should be more careful with how they treat other people’s daughters.
But a man already has an image of women in his head as objects of pleasure only, how can he teach his daughter to view herself as something more?
By Foots
December 12, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this
Rell So what kind of behavior do you call simpin and cupcakin, if it’s not the gentlemanly and courteous behavior of men towards women that Darrell noted? Do you use those terms only when referring to getting sex from women, where you advise them to just come out with it and ask for it?
By Beautiful
December 12, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this
i’ve heard from many women in my family that after you get married you gain weight. because you live with a mate you cook more and of course eat more. my ex gained about 50 lbs. living with me because i cooked every single night. but, my sister and her husband walked after dinner every evening. people MUST take responsiblity. instead of 10 bites of cake, take 3. my 02.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this
Angel atlred01@hotmail.com send it woman. LOL I’m cleaning my screen off as we speak.
Justme* why I gotta be simp? What if it burns going down? Whats up, a tough dude can’t feel pain? LOL
No disrespect ladies but alot of these chicks aren’t cut like our mothers. Moms would cut off her arm to take care of us. Alot of these women only care about their hair and nails.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this
Hold up! Foots no you say you’re 5’6” and have 38” waist. Yeah you need to holla @ your boy!
Kym -now thats whats up, you doin ya ting with young’n. Its good to hear a point of view that is not constantly against men-boys-grandpa’s or all males in the universe that I read from females on here.
Im worried about the quality of Men…blah blah blah- So tired of reading this crap.
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli JustMe would never do that! wink
Rell I agree with you a a single mother raising a young man. At the ripe old age of 12 LilJustMe is starting to smell himself, so being the mother that I am, I jack dat azz up for getting out of line, then I make sure I hug him while he is good and PO’d at me and remind him that I brought him here and I’ll be the first to take him out all while I hugging him and kissing him all over his face. As for girls, he is OD’d on them at home (mother, aunt, cousin + all of her g-friends).
Angel007 I’m much sweeter than the dust that’s built up on your screen…LOL You been sippin from my keg of Fool Punch? - LMAO
By Blow Me
December 12, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
3000 I was singing it to you..
“You are the PROTYPE!” LOL!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this
Rell “Bullish”, huh? Well, props to your mom for the job she did with you, but you can’t take your personal situation and impart that onto ever young black man out there.
I teach a single-parents class at my church which is comprised of about 90 percent single-mothers, most of whom have sons that are at least 4th and 5th grade and older. Many (not all) of these single-mothers are having disciplinary issues with these boys and, as such, don’t even have the oppotunity, not to mention the time, to teach them about respecting girls/women because they’re too damn busy trying to get their boys to respect THEM. I’m with these mothers EVERY WEEK, so I know what they’re dealing with.
So, don’t label as “bull ish” what you don’t know about, man. You need to get outside of your experience with your own mother and see what’s going on in the broader sense. And I’m not singling out single-mothers. You brought it up, so I’m responding in that context.
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this
I would be concerned about the quality of men available to my daughter, no matter generation she was in. I am the first man that my daughter knows and interacts with, so my behavior sets the bar for her expectations of men.
Now, I am a proponent of physical discipline, but I think sometimes we get carried away with whoopin’ our kids. Not everything can be beat out of them. If a young girl is competing with her mom for the attention of a very grown man, then her issues deserve alot more attention than a 15 minute whoopin’. Chances are she’s already getting the sh*t beat out of her, obviously with less than positive results. So, what’s one more meaningless whoopin’?
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this
PFBTfkaTT Man-Up Dude “F” the burn, take it like a soldier, no pain = no gain! Are you Man Enough? Drink!, Drink!, Drink!, Drink!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
mqew No problem at all on the typo. I get that all the time, so no biggie. :-)
By mqew
December 12, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this
Justme Guurrll you aiight wit me. Nicca need a back up drank sometimes.
By Rell
December 12, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this
Rell So what kind of behavior do you call simpin and cupcakin, if it’s not the gentlemanly and courteous behavior of men towards women that Darrell noted?
I use those terms for men that expect something in return for doing what they suppose to do anyway….a gentleman does not have to buy your affection or attention..a gentleman will over the single mother to load her car with grocery when she is clearly struggling with the kids in grocery…he will help her say have a good night and go home to his SO/WIFE or alone….a simp would offer to pay for the grocery, help her pack the car….follow her home to help her unpack the car and ask can he paint the house…etc etc
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this
Hi ForReal …yes darling your post yesturday was hijacked.
By Rell
December 12, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this
@darrell….mayne my mother work..loooong hours but when she MADE time to raise me, i responded..she did not pawn off the parenting to TV, COACHS, MENTORS, THE HOOD..so forgive me if my violin strings dont work on this one…PLUS we have all the single mothers on this board and have been on this board before you that have held it down…so i dont get with the whole woo is me thing with parenting..sorry my dude i see too many women doing the dayum things with 2 or more….
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this
LOL. Why does anyone even pay attention to anything Rell says anymore?
By 900K
December 12, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this
I teach a single-parents class…blah, blah , blah darrell - the reason why the come to your class is because they NEED help. You see if they were doing a good job AND their sons were acting right AND they took the time to raise them properly they would not be seeking advise from you. The broader pic is there are many great single parent homes AND great sons out there. I was product in many ways, so is most of my fam. My mother worked hard and went to school part time, but she would never need advise from well… some sudo republican cat like you.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
*single parenting is not easy by a long shot but there are alternatives for those boys AND girls that get out of hand. You’ve got to start early. Then it’s all about prayer <——-there it is, communicating, observation, love whuppings and the famous ‘Look’.
Darrell i would love to peek in that class to hear what these mothers of sons are really dealing with. And i could learn from their LEARNED situations. …interesting…
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
Truth your email was kicked back to me. Wassup with dat?
By Demi
December 12, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
DasV I know…it’s a good start…If more black women start having abortion, I doubt they would be quick to get pregnant again.
On black men…give them full custody of the child…let them make the decision to kill the child or take care of the child…women make it too easy for the men to walk away and not worry about a DAYUM thing.
No, I am not placing all the blame on you ladies, but let more and more women turn the kids over to their fathers…make the men worry about child care and all that.
But, that’s not possible…MOST women view kids as a quick come up, SOME don’t…Hell, the thought of women paying child support, will cut down on birth rates.
Some of y’all will be like, no way I am paying this dude child support!!! I carried this child for 9 months by myself!!!
And if I was a woman, soon as his a* leave, the kids goes with him LOL
Angel007 keep doing your thang bay!!!!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
Naww 900k I am not a man hater. I love my mini me so I am doing my part to teach him responsiblity but I have to break him off a piece of the funk ever now and then. Right now he is on the Xmas bubble…because he is having a moment at school. Education first…present last.
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
mqew ^5
By melo
December 12, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this
i’ve heard from many women in my family that after you get married you gain weightBeautiful, they are right.
Having sex with no condoms is one of the reasons why.The is so much good protein and other good stuff in those sperms but biologists and nutitionist dont dwell on it for political correctness reasons!!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this
Rell “so i dont get with the whole woo is me thing with parenting”
It’s not and never has been about “woe is me”. It’s about struggling to do the best they can.
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this
@ Blow…we are gonna have to soften up your name…
By Rell
December 12, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this
@AR…i am just posting my thoughts..you dont have to like them….i am cool with that lady…we do live in a REAL world where this happens…right?
By 2CPTG©
December 12, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
hmmmmmm, outta all these posts, on topic, I’ve yet to see a dude respond about a bad habit he picked up from a female……or any habit for that matter…..
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 12, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this
900K “… some sudo republican cat like you.” What the f*k do my politics have to do with anything? You don’t even know me, man!
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this
900K my son is actually better behaved than some of his fortunate friends. Single momma issues my…apple. He knows…and will get the full revelation in a few years. Cause he is the product of a momma that will make sure ‘ya don’t go left boi’!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this
Rell - Your panties are showing. ;-)
By BennyB
December 12, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
Back in time, our mother used to consider long term outlook prior to engage themselves in sexual adventure with a man. When they got pregnant, it was all good for them and the society. Three decades ago, women decided that sexual predictability is not fun for them, perhaps not in their interest. They prefer to listen to their lust while deciding to whom or when they should open up their legs. The only thing that changed is that what used to be called lust then is called attraction now. In French, every word has a gender, if we import this concept in English, lust should be only used on male and attraction on female. For those who are concerned about the quality of men, stop lying to yourself and us. Women care about the quality of men only when it’s too late, after all lust is not an enough to sustain a long term relationship or to pinpoint a good husband or father. Ladies, what you want is just what you get.
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
Melo …. stuff in those sperms but biologists and nutitionist dont dwell on it for political correctness reasons!! Now listen here buddy, You can not use that long azz straw to be sippin the Egg-not-too-much-Nog!
**Errrrybody gather round da Crismus Tree and let’s sing a few songs together. All donations will be given to Charities that help the Mentally Ill HEre is our song selection:
1.Schizophrenia —- Do You Hear What I Hear?
Multiple Personality Disorder —- We Three Queens Disoriented Are
Amnesia —- I Don’t Know if I’ll be Home for Christmas
Narcissistic —- Hark the Herald Angels Sing About Me
Manic —- Deck the Halls and Walls and House and Lawn and Streets and Stores and Office and Town and Cars and Buses and Trucks and Trees and Fire Hydrants
Paranoid —- Santa Claus is Coming to Get Me
By 900K
December 12, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
Darrell- your comments today have been a lil studio homie. Now I am not sayin thats you 24/7/365 but today I see smoke signals. as far as the Politic question… its my point exactly you mentioned it b4 I never understood why myself.
By Demi
December 12, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this
stepping up on blog crate
JustMe how are you doing sis?
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this
@ 2C Note: Cemeeli (a female) has not commented about picking up a bad habit from dating either. Hence i’m not about to. I gain…he gains too…another 150 like i use to be WTH!?! Self image is for me first.
By 900K
December 12, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this
Cee I agree w/ you 100%, y’know I am referring to you and Kym and many others when I said: The broader pic is there are many great single parent homes AND great sons out there
By For Real
December 12, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this
Be very careful of any study bc someone paid to have it done for a reason.
Darrel You just did the exact same thing you accused Rell of doing. How many women do you see every week? What ever number that is, it still doesn’t speak for the majority. All you can factually say is that for the number of women you see weekly x% are raising sorry azz boys to be sorry azz men. Also, do you see these women with their sons or is this just single mom whine.. I mean support group?
Foots I agree with Truth one doesn’t have anything to do with other. I treat people based on the way they act. I do not give away respect. You have to earn my respect and I will earn yours. If parents would teach their children to respect their brains then the body will follow. That’s why I asked the question about the “gold between the legs” and sure enough the blog ladies increased it’s value above their mind. Which is the most valuable and the most powerful thing we posses not your puddy.
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this
Hey Cemeeli. Girl, it’s all about the genes and how you work with whatcha got! You know exactly what I’m talking about. I have people here at work asking where the heck does my food go because it’s not showing on the body (all the while asking while they’re shoving coffe cake down their throats). Breakfast is very important to me and I usually eat abig one. I eat about every 2 hours.
Now here’s a compliment = when your own mother compliments you on your parenting skills and tools. My mother knows I am a hands-on parent who doesn’t believe in others raising my child. There are many young women having babies but don’t want to stop partying so they send the baby to grandma’s house for a few years. Then try to retrieve said child around the age of say 10-12. Problems, problems, butting of heads, a$$ whoopings all because now the parent wants to bestowe its parental authority on someone raised by another. That’s bull shyt in my book!
By Rell
December 12, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this
lol, i am not even going to respond to you lady…you a lil to sensitive for the back in forth..but just know all your free passes are up with me
By OneSista
December 12, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this
I GUESS I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO AGREES WITH RELL’S POSTS. SMOOCHES
By Demi
December 12, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this
2CPTG© Dayum…I am thinking of some bad habits I’ve pick up from a female…all I can think of is my love for lesbian women’n’flicks, LOL
By For Real
December 12, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this
Demi I feel you on that bruh… Which is why I asked on yesterday why hasn’t a birth control been developed for men?
Blog ladies how would you feel if had a birth control and could decide when to have children?
By 2CPTG©
December 12, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this
I Hear ya, Cemeeli btw, thanks for the warm greeting this mornin….
‘nother thing I noticed….why do lurkers only come out during controversy?
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this
Good grief are there any dudes on here that can lighten up and take a joke? Maybe some of y’all are so serious cuz you are at work, but many of y’all are no fun at all! Whew.
Where are the men who aren’t Ralph Tresvant (men with sensitivity!) LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
*JustMe, whew, my favorite Christmas song is “Do You Hear What I Hear.” You have blazed your way into my mind now every time I hear that song. Schizophrenia = priceless!
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
Foots Its sad but so true!
Slim I’d take the juniors size 5… I am misses 7/8…so I guess a 9 in juniors! The booty won’t let me get into that 5. But I am trying though….lol
Sexyleggs I love Lesosn Learned too. I love John Mayer so…
SJ a lot of those dead fathers are living the wrong lifestyle to begin with…live by the sword…you die by it.They do not change when the child is born!
Binford I understand that your problem is not with the overweight issue….it’s laziness. I feel you.
Demi abortion is cheap in price only..the fallout is usually higher in damage.
mqew girl chris Brown’s young azz can get it! LOL
Truth I LOVE my TRAMP STAMP!
900 Foots says she has 38” hips not waist…LOL!
By melo
December 12, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this
I think a lot of single mothers work long shifts or two jobs just to balance their books. That leaves their kids with noone at home to parent them, but the tv.This is where i see things going wrong because a lot of what they see on tv is not good for them. Darrell Some of these single parents want their kids to behave good, but they themselves dont know how.They mouths are foul and they curse all the time. And their lives are full of drama which is lived in full view of their kids(bad boyfriends,girlfriends and bad relations with own parents/relations). Thats is what makes the kids rebellious. Dont ask that your kids behave a certain way when u urself cannot lead by example!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this
If you guys want a good laugh today, call this number: 813-273-8160. Hilarious! (trust me okay)
By Rell
December 12, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
@ar..funny thing…i find you amusing..again i dont take this thing to heart..helps me get things off my chest and past the day at work..if you wanna keep up with the comments cool…no problem over here…and since i am not fishing for internet sex….we can go at it babe….trust that..
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
Demi Did you wipe your mouth before picking up the mic today?
By For Real
December 12, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
lilJustMe: I saidddd I don’t feel like cleaning my room. Dang! (lilJustMe now sniffing himself)
JustMe: WTF you say to me! bat, kiss, bat, kiss, bat, kiss, bat, kiss… Now go get me some water! And put it in glass!
lilJustMe: Sucking snot back up Ye, Ye, Yes maam.
JustMe: Hey boi!
lilJustMe: Maam?
JustMe: I love you!
lilJustMe: (said way, way under his breath, downstairs and around the corner) Then why you beat me like that and why can’t you get yo own water?
JustMe: Do you need me to come down and love yo lil azz some mo?
lilJustMe: NOOOOOOOOO!!! Dang how did she hear me. God please get her….
JustMe: Where my water at?
By 900K
December 12, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
Staceye - You got me on that one, no wonder she didn’t respond!
2C - The only bad habbit I picked up from a female was the one I mentioned yesterday that got me beat up a lil, oh and expressing my feelings out loud…lol
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
I would like to know if there are any single dads when these “studies are done” Because I know quite a few single dads that went through some rough years with their daughters and sons. There seems to be a focus on moms because well we are the majority but there quite a few dads out there too. Single Parenting is not a negative word or limited to just women. Again I would love to have the balance but that doesnt mean I am going to throw out the stats and say here son fish or cut bait. Society says you are doom bump that. We are building a foundation so that when he starts to build his own house(life) it has something solid to stand on.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this
I eat about every 2 hours = Me too. My family thinks i have a high metab but it’s all about the choices…I DO eat. I came from a THICK maternal family so me being 150 is little/small frame to them. My paternal family is more average (the men). The women are smaller. Anyway…i gained with my 10lbs son..that’s another story.
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
Melo, you’re right. I need to get a second job because I need more income. However, I won’t because I’m not leaving her alone. Heck the internet, phone, texting is bad enough to monitor. I’ve chosen to revamp my finances and by the grace of God, I’m maintaining just fine. Lead by example…yes indeedy!
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
AmazonRed
Will I get in trouble for calling that number from work, or do I need to go downstairs and use the cell? lol
By Demi
December 12, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
abortion is cheap in price only..the fallout is usually higher in damage
To who?….To the men who enjoy poppin babies into the oven and not worry about the price…I say give them a ‘V’ job and call it a day.
Staceye I think just some women don’t learn their lession after the first child and have more…If you know the father is no good, you must abort, LOL
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this
Angel a t l r e d 01@yahoo.com Thats zero 1 no O1. Try again honey.
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this
For Real There is a birth control for men…Vasectomy snip snip snippety snip
JustMe I’m loving the songs for every ocassion. LOL!
Staceye I need a size 3 fit around my waist but a 5 to get the dayum jeans over my whittle hips. I can get in a 3 but the CT gotta have an air pocket. ROTFLMAO TMI I know
Truthy I almost forgot about the T-Stamp Roll Call. Slim is present
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this
demi if women left these babies on the doodrstep of these men..there would be a lot more dead and/or neglected babies.
JustMe I am cracking up over the Christmas songs! LMAO I told you my view on I saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus! LOL
For Real I agree there should be a pill for men.
By Dan
December 12, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
On one drunken night:
The Homie: F*&k Santa and Rudolph is a sellout!
Me: What?
The Homie: Think about it, he got abused and misused until they needed him. Just like the White Man to do some ish like that. I’da told Santa to lick the crack of my azz.
Me: What?
The Homie: And White Christmas, is about slaying a virgin.
Me: What?
The Homie: Why is Frosty and pedophile?
Me: You trippin now. How is Frosty a pedophile?
The Homie: When else would you see a big white man walking around butt-nekked with a bunch of kids following him?
Revelations actually, had to share them
By SeanJohnson3000
December 12, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
@ Melo…co-signing your last post…not to female bash…but thats real..one thing i truly dont understand about women…if they have ONE kid and child happens to be a female..it really doesnt slow what ever life style the mother has..and that daughter becomes one of the “girls”…quickly becomes a lil “rat” in training and the mother and friends carrying on adult convos about adult situations and men around the child.and the kid picks up on all of it..dress in ways she shouldnt and even do dances around the daughter…and they get a kick out of the lil girls having a flip mouth and acting like a mininature of the mom..instead of allowing the girl to go through the stages of becoming a full fledged hood rat on her own…..
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this
now removing stilettos and stockings Hey Demi kissing on the top of the head
For Real It has been invented i.e. vasectomies and condoms - LOL they are bout = to female BC 99% effective is used properly - LOL
SexyLeggs Maybe we can do a duet in the VIP Section like the Rockettes only we’ll be the Leggettes. We can select a few of the well behaved men on the blog to watch us kick rocks!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this
Dreams - The number is safe for work. The only way you’d get in trouble is if you aren’t allowed to call long distance! LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this
ARed, that call is hysterical.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this
ForReal Was the skit for me? And How you know what goes on with love whuppings?
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this
I guess another way to look at this whole thing is what can we as group do to combat that and turn it around. We are, for the most part, a bright group. Lets put our heads together and see what we come up with.
Footsy I think a great start in raising a daughter is marrying a woman you respect and would enjoy seeing raising your children. Moms is gonna be one of the biggest influences in her life and is going to teach her so much. If she’s walking around with her thong showing watch out for little Footsy.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this
4Real and Staceye, there actually is a pill for men that is almost completed. The pill is designed to stop the mobility of sperm. Of course, men are reluctant to take it, cuz they don’t want any hormone messing with “their seeds.” *eyeroll *
By For Real
December 12, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this
Slim I am having mize on my birthday but that ain’t control that’s prevention.
Whew your are little but you better take care of CT it most survive.
Save the CT, save the world
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this
DMaterialize, you won’t get in trouble.
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this
tomorrow we can sing these
Borderline Personality Disorder —- Thoughts of Roasting on an Open Fire
Full Personality Disorder —- You Better Watch Out, I’m Gonna Cry, I’m Gonna Pout, Maybe I’ll tell You Why
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder —-
Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells .
Agoraphobia —- I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day But Wouldn’t leave My House
Senile Dementia —- Walking in a Winter Wonderland Miles From My House in My Slippers and Robe
Oppositional Defiant Disorder — I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus So I Burned Down the House
By Demi
December 12, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this
SlimOne I am not talking shyt bay, I am being honest…women make it too easy for these dudes to stay sorry.
Too many women are claiming they don’t know where most of the kids fathers are…and that is some BS.
I knew a dude who had like 10 or 12 kids floating out there…you would have thought one of them ladies would have left the child with him…he makes good street bread, so he’s breaking them off
By DreamsMaterialize
December 12, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this
Staceye, SlimOne I’m jealous of your jeans. ;-)
By Foots
December 12, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this
900k Oh sorry, I took a late lunch. LOL! Yeah, that’s hips.
For Real I requested a “Petrino getting the hellz out of the A” skit this morning. Can you help a sister out??
By the way, say we are just meeting and I haven’t had time yet to earn your respect. How would you decide how to come up to me (with respect or disrespect)?
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
Dan I got one for you (not you per se)
Real text from a real text message I got last night - All BS aside
Why when black people wear their pants low white people call it saggin? Spell Saggin backwards….. Sneaky B@$tard$
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this
Justme ROTF about….
Amnesia —- I Don’t Know if I’ll be Home for Christmas.
Satceye/Slim/Sexyleggs I bet you all could just put on any of the juniors attire AND even some of the girls larger sizes…sa shame…Here EAT!!! …have some of JustMe’s Knock’em-Out Baby Back Ribs!
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this
PFBTfkaTT I must be in rare form today, I took this totally the wrong way…….smh Lets put our heads together and see what we come up with. Yikes!!
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this
Sexyleggs your 3:19 is so on point!
Demi I agree about the vasectomy! But abortion is not the answer. Practicing safer sex is since no one will use their common sens to leave these no good men alone before baby #1 is born.
ARED go figure! they don’t want kids..but they don’t want to effect the swimmers! The pill has effects but we risk it…so why can;t men risk it if they do not want to be fathers!
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this
Stacye and Slim are offically my 2 favorite t-stamped girls.
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this
Slim now passing out Saving the World One CT at a time T-shirts, halter tops, and wife beaters
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this
Dan you might be onto somethin with dat JackFrost. I wondered if I was the only one to think he was a pedophile…LOL
By 900K
December 12, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this
say we are just meeting and I haven’t had time yet to earn your respect. How would you decide how to come up to me (with respect or disrespect)? -Foots respectfully of course, due unto others… If I come to someone w/ disrespect its cause I have a problem w/ them other wise I don’t speak.
By mqew
December 12, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this
Staceye - Yeah, his young azz is nice.
Cemeeli - My maternal fam is the same. They all think I’m small, but I’m 140-145lbs. That’s not small to me. But it’s cause of their food choices. They are the type that would eat the (every) Sunday dinner with all the fixings. I mean all the fixings!!! Fried Chicken, greens (with hamhocks), mac n cheese, green beans (with potatoes and pork), sweet potatoes or sweet potatoe pie, potato salad, peacha cobbla, etc…
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Cemeeli trying to plump up Staceye, Slim & SexyLeggs
I must say I have had a ball in this blog today. Y’all have a good night and please no more blog brawling til tomorrow. I don’t want to miss a minute of the action.
ROFLMMAO - I cracked myself up today.
ps note to self - no more pineapple soaked in vodka before lunch! That should do it!
By Demi
December 12, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
A.Red I’ve been reading up on it…the drug Adjudin is going through it’s phase 2 trials now…Hopefully they iron out most of it’s nasty side effects.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this
@ JustMe what is PFBTfkaTT?…cause we can only take in ONE Greek speaking blog family member waving @ Demi…Stop with the subliminal in Truth’s post or we’re all gonna gather around YOU and sing: Do You Hear What I Hear?
By melo
December 12, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this
Single Parenting is not a negative word or limited to just women Kym, single parenting is not an ideal(sure negative) but it dont mean it cant be done.It just makes parenting harder.There is more of it, i believe among women than men. In America and within the black community, that is one of our biggest problems.The men need to step up(either get married or be actively involved in ur kids)That way, we wont have all these gangs,black on black crime and shootings,drugs,illiteracy,aids+disease,pimping,prostituion and teen prgnancies that feed the vicious cycle.
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this
Truth did you get dem yet. If not here’s my email. Then we’ll try this thang one mo gin. angeeel007@yahoo.com
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this
Foots always give a person respect until they prove they don’t deserve it.
Justme back away from the drink bowl, very slowly. LOL
Angel you’ve got mail.
By For Real
December 12, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this
Demi That’s real talk.. Say it again, and again, and again… Oh dayumm you John Legend I said it again.. oops dayum not again.. dayume John Legend
A-Red Come now, can you image dudes running around town jacked up on hormone like women? Now that’s some scary ish there.
Foots I’m just too broken up about the Falcons right now. As far as meeting you, it depends on how you are “ackin” and what your ankle to calf ratio is.
“Ankle/Calf ratio” Don’t ask it’s just a thing of mines. Well actually theory that has always been a good indicator for me.
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli As ARE always says don’t feed the trolls….I am not trying to feed my booty. It has had too much already! I look like I swalled a basketball and turned it around..hence the nickname “Bubble Booty” from my former trainer! LOL
Truth Prechate ya! LOL
By JustMe
December 12, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli That his name in the form of an acronymn….
<<<<@>>>> <<<<@>>>>
Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth = PFBTfksTT
I did mention I had vodka soaked pineapples right - LOL
Please Do Not sing!! I hear Ya Loud and Clear, I think. Was that you? What did you say? THat was you right?
By 900K
December 12, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this
Cee; mq 140-150lbs now thats my zone!
Thanks for the memories, I’m off to BBall practice 2nite get my Pat Riley on…
By For Real
December 12, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this
JustMe You left out one song
Crack Head - Do You Hear What I Hear
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
Did Anyone hear about Ike Turner dying?
By Foots
December 12, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
Preacher Truth always give a person respect until they prove they don’t deserve it.
That’s what I believe. But I was asking because I’ve heard people say “respect is earned” and I wonder how do you earn respect without even knowing the person.
Trust to me is the same way. I trust you and respect you until you give me a reason not to. Trust and respect can be built back up if either are broken, maybe back to starting levels, but it is always present in the beginning from me.
By melo
December 12, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this
he makes good street bread, so he’s breaking them off Demi the women are scared of being blown up to cover the evidence……so they hushshshshs.
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this
140? 140?! Heck, even I weigh 140. LOL.
Just got a measuring tape, the hips are now 39-inches. I’m officially pear shaped. *cry *
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this
Have fun Pat…um i meant 900K! Tell the boyz to bring it!
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli I’ll take some ribs and some peach cobbla please
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
ARED You’re pear shaped? So is J.Lo (pre-babies), Beyonce and a lot of women. I’ve been told pear and hour-glass…so I am confused. At least you know.
For Real…what am I? You’ve met me!
900 that is my weight!
Slim Ike is dead?
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this
Crack Head - Do You Hear What I Hear. My forehead is touching my keyboard from hearty laughter…thank you so much!
By For Real
December 12, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this
Slim Say it ain’t so… Ohhhh LAWD Ike’s dead yall he gone.
Back in college we threw a party and we had the flyer say the party was by Ike Turner, Rick James (right after he burned ole girl) and Prince (that’s was before we knew Mike was the Freaky Jason)
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 12, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this
WELL MENFOLKS IT HAS HAPPEN
IKE TURNER IS DEAD-PIMPS EVERYWHERE ARE IN SHOCK.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 12, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this
Footsy that lesson was reinforced daily at my former job. Disrespect a cat and payment came swiftly. However, if a dude came wrong punish him to no end. I wish it was like that on the streets. Alot of people don’t respect themselves and they sure won’t respect you.
By Cemeeli
December 12, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this
Staceye… Hence, is why i said have some of the Knock ‘em Out Ribs…get it?
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
December 12, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this
Yeah Slim…Ike is gone home
R.I.P
he blues album was good…so i have heard from others…i might have to check it out
By Staceye
December 12, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this
OMG it’s true??? Ike is dead! Now he is in Hell getting the fire smacked out of him because he tried to make somebody eat the cake!
By For Real
December 12, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this
A date at Fat Mac’s…
Fat Mac’s: Can I take your order?
Slim: (all of sudden sounding like Chris Rock in I’m gonna get you sucker) Yeah, yea I’d like a slab of ribs, 2 orders of bake beans, a cup of slaw, 2 slices of pee-can pie and 5 slices of white bread. Oh and a diet coke.
Dude: I should have took your high metabolic azz to Golden Corral!
By AmazonRed
December 12, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this
Staceye - I’d have to be pear because my top ain’t nowhere near 39 inches. To have that coke bottle shape I need more up top!
Thanks for the examples. I think Beyonce has some thunder thighs. It’s all over after she drops some babies. LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this
Ike died from meaness and stupidity…
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
Kym-girl you a dayum fool. I can picture pimps all over da city…paying tribute to Ike.
They gone put on them skittle colored suits and gators.. then show up deep at da funeral…LMAO
By For Real
December 12, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this
2E’s Nice booty with some 70’s breastest’s.
By SlimOne
December 12, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this
Slim: Oohhh, (talking while licking bbq sauce off all her fangaz) did you say golden corral? Can we go there for dessert baby. Puleeezzze?
Dude: Aw hayo naw! I shoulda took this chick to Ci Ci’s Pizza
By SexyLeggs
December 12, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening!!! Ya were off da chain today!!!!
By Angel007
December 12, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Nite all…be safe til da next time. Peace