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DEL.ICIO.USKiss and tell
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Last week CNN published an article about bad kissers and the intent behind kissing. And with all the mistletoe and new year’s eve kissing coming up, I thought we should all brush up (that is, as much as is possible via the Internet)!
For the full article, click here.
Here are three examples of kissing styles one of my editors sent me after reading this article:
THE SAY ‘AH’ — This technique is to open wide, say “Ah” and then 1, 2, 3, 4, I declare a tongue war. See “Top Gun” scene when Kelly McGillis and Tom Cruise attacked each other to Berlin’s “Take My Breath Away.”
Repetitive JIM — This is a lip-intensive kiss with very little tongue responsibility. You’ll still want the tongue to make an appearance, lest you feel like you’re kissing your stepmom or aunt, but basically it’s a quick repetition of fish-like mini-bites. Change up the cadence of the kissing for best results.
BITER — Biting can be a decent addition to any kisser’s repertoire, but moderation is key. Small bruise, fine. But if your partner’s lip puffs up like Angelina Jolie and she’s not Angelina Jolie, then you went overboard.
What other kissing styles have you experienced or can you come up with? (Let’s keep it PG-13, OK?) Don’t forget to give a clever name to the style you mention!
Have you ever broken up with someone because he or she was a bad kisser? (And please, describe in detail the problem!) Do you think bad kissers can be reformed, or are they destined for a life of horrible makeout sessions? Is anyone out there a reformed bad-kisser?
Do you think the article’s scientific statement that women are “subconsciously evaluat[ing] mating potential from the chemicals in their partner’s saliva and breath” might hold some water? Or is it just a buncha junk?
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By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 8:49 AM | Link to this
Good Morning
Slim now giving sour buttermilk breath kisses to all MLB members
I have never broken up with someone that wasn’t savy in the lip locking department because anyone I was ever in a relationship with were all decent kissers. However, I have lost the lust factor after kissing a guy that I was hanging out with. I’ll call him Shamu. When he went in for the kiss, you woulda thought I was kissing a killer whale the way he opened his mouth so wide!!! Ewwwww! I backed up like what are you doing? It was an instant mood killer. Needless to say I never attempted to swim at that beach again.
I’ve also kissed the Saliva Slob. You know the type of kisser that seems to have your whole facing glistening with their fluids and leave you smelling like a spit cup. Arrgghhhh!
By binford
December 11, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this
The best kissers can express passion through their lips. Some folks have it, and some folks don’t, and some folks have a ceiling which they will never crash through.
More experienced kissers do know that pure tonsil-hockey is a child’s game and that a tongue, while must be present and accounted for, is just one tool in the arsenal of smoocher.
The two ships passing in the night kiss: When you feel the steam from your lover’s breath and drag your lips across oh so subtle yet purposeful. A close, yet distant kiss that is a great starter in a late night situation where the parties involved are gearing up for a passionate night.
I think the saliva theory, as it were, may hold a little water but is ultimately BUNK. We should get Mythbusters on that.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this
Hi, I’m AmazonRed and I love, love, love to kiss! I’m good at it too. I think I’m primarily a ‘repetitive JIM’ but I definitely incorporate some biting too!
I haven’t broken up with anyone JUST because they were a bad kisser. However, that has been a factor. In fact, my first french kiss was with this white guy and he was terrible. It was all hoover vacuum and wet. Ugh. May have turned me off white guys!
By Lady J
December 11, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this
Good Morning…How about those few men that don’t kiss at all????
By 900K
December 11, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this
Good morn. I thought kissing was played out. I’ve had several relationships over the last few years and we kissed very little. The females that I was involved with seemed fine with the light pecks. It started off w/ one girl who was not big on kissing at all, at first I was taken back by it like “whats your problem?” We stayed together for 2yrs. Then I guess I got used to it cause I’ve recently told a female to slow down a bit on it.
By BAD DOG
December 11, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this
Lady I know where you put your mouth so heck no I’m not kissing you
By SexyCool
December 11, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this
PUBLC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT
i have one tip for ANYBODY who kisses…um, can ya’ swallow just before you lean in and get all that EXCESS SALIVA out ya’ mouth so that your partner is not drinking spit?
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this
Lady J, you bring up a good point about guys (and girls) that don’t kiss. I’ve had this debate often on another message board I used to frequent. The question was: which is more intimate? Kissing or sex? It really pained me to hear all the responses (mainly from the younger posters) that kissing was the most intimate you could get with a person. They could have sex, and not get attached, but kissing was the end all to be all…WTF?!
By Lady J
December 11, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
@900K…you are the man I am refering to…I have encounter your type who kiss very little and become use to it over time…
By kinderbabe
December 11, 2007 9:14 AM | Link to this
kissing is an art and a lost one at that. i would be super leary of someone i was involved w/that wasn’t big on kissing me. huh? how can you not kiss someone that you may have sex with? that’s a weird concept to me but some have adopted it. i look for sensuality in a kiss, it tells me alot about how he might…well you know, lol.
By abc
December 11, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this
How junior high is this?
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
December 11, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this
Morning Errbody!! This should be an interesting topic….
ARed I like to kiss as well, but I have heard some friends talk about what Lady J mentioned: guys not kissing or wanting to. Kissing to me is great!!!
Agreeing with you SlimOne, the slobbers are the worst!
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this
Today will be a good day! I brought my Preachers Wife soundtrack and Boyz II Men Christmas Album in. Time to get festive!
pisces…I forgot again. LOL
By Jazzyone
December 11, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this
What up ya…Kissing for me is one of the most intimate, sensual things a man can do. I can appreciate a great kisser and not so much on the sloppy wets.
By seldomseen
December 11, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this
Good morning!
I am dude and I love to kiss. I don’t know where you are running into dudes who don’t kiss. There is nothing better than finding someone who’s kissing style matches yours. I think I’m a very good kisser and I think the most important element of good kissing is doing it with some intensity and passion. Nothing worse than someone who feels obligated to kiss you.
By Lady J
December 11, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this
@AmazonRed…i am seriously sitting here trying to remember truly kissing someone and it had to be my ex-husband/college sweetheart or take it back to highschool…But dating currently, it is not happening that much on my end…And I am thinking to myself if it was would I look at dude strange???? LOL
By i'm swiss
December 11, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this
You forgot to mention “The Tornado” —
When the person goes a little overboard with the tongue… As in it’s moving upwards of 100mph & wreaking havoc on anything in its path.
That’s my personal pet peeve & I’ve run across it a couple of times. I kept trying to lead by example, so to speak, but these chics just didn’t take the hint.
And yes, that was pretty much all she wrote in both cases. Bad kissing really kills the mood.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone. I love to kiss, I love to kiss, I love to kiss. Kissing is very important in any relationship I’m in. I’m definitely in the biter category, but i prefer the word nibble. I also enjoy having a peppermint in my mouth and passing it back and forth. Yummy. But, those kisses that make the panties fall off are the best. Aww, the memories (LOL).
By melo
December 11, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this
Lady I know where you put your mouth so heck no I’m not kissing you I understand.If she says “she is big on oral”” like some proclaim,yes, u have a right not to want to kiss coz god knows, she is oraling every man she meets.
By Lady J
December 11, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
@BAD DOG…You don’t know a damn thing about me so keep it moving!!!
By AnnaLisa
December 11, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
abc
What do you suggest we speak about? You and others lurk every single day and complain. Do Bella and Wise Diva a favor and send in some topic suggestions. Because the main thing is making you happy and discussing what interest you. Right?
By denise
December 11, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this
Have you ever had someone belch while kissing you? UUGGHHHH
Believe me, it’s a real turnoff and it stinks too.
By seldomseen
December 11, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this
Good morning!
I’m a guy who loves to kiss! The most important thing is to make sure you are passionate about doing it. Can’t stand a lazy kisser.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this
BTW, The Bert Show has been promoting the “kissing technique” whereby you take your partners face in your hands and tilt their head. You don’t actually kiss the lips, but you act like you’re about to. You sway her/his face from side to side ever so seductively for a few seconds building up anticipation. Then, a few lovingly pecks and BAM, you’re locking lips and lovingly kissing your partner.
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this
Good Morning y’all……
“Do you think the article’s scientific statement that women are “subconsciously evaluat[ing] mating potential from the chemicals in their partner’s saliva and breath” might hold some water? Or is it just a buncha junk?”
I think this whole topic is a buncha junk!!! Bella you ought to be ashamed of yourself for this one! Really! I mean seriously, do you even pay attention to your audience? Do you even realize whom your constituents are? Cause this ain’t hittin on shyt!
By Lady J
December 11, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this
Don’t get me wrong I love to kissing and foreplay however I just hadn’t encounter it much dating and truly have not encounter it recently…I am sure there are MANY dudes out there that love to kiss I just haven’t met yet…J
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
I guess kissing is like most things in life, you got to do it right. Kissing is the physical tone setter, if not done right, then you’ll start off in the hole, like being down by a touchdown before you even kick off.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs, right on! Those kisses that make your knees buckle are the best.
Lady J, I don’t know how you are running into guys that like to kiss. I’ll kiss on a first date. In fact, I almost always do. LOL. So if he’s not into that, I don’t think we’re going to get very far in any other aspect. Grown folks should not have hang ups about KISSING!
By binford
December 11, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this
AR You better not have all white guys labeled bad kissers - cause you’d be hella wrong! ;P
By Lady J
December 11, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this
Okay, am I missing something here???? Let me go away quietly and let the grown ups be grown ups….Didn’t know I had such an affect on a simple topic as kissing…Peace
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this
Okay…so I meant to say ‘I don’t know how you are running into guys that DON’T like to kiss.’
By 900K
December 11, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this
How about those few men that don’t kiss at all???? lady J -this is NOT me, There is plenty of smootches just not alot of wet tongue. I’m very good at it and enjoy it. But going back to a few x’s of mine the one I mentioned in early post then immediately after we broke up the next girl was not big on it either. The way I look at it is if you slip ea/ other the tongue on rare occasions it’s MUCH more memorable.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
Well, binford, I couldn’t tell ya. I haven’t kissed a white guy since that one…and that was 15 years ago!
By nay39
December 11, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
The worse kisser I’ve ever experienced? I’ll call him “The lizard king”: lips closed, with tongue darting in an out…it was awful.
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this
A Few Kissing Guidelines Feel free to add yours too
Please Please Please ensure your breath doesn’t smell like you just ate a shyt & onion sandwich.
Do a little lip maintenance, especially since we’re headed towards the cooler months. Nothing worse than kissing someone and a piece of skin from their chapped lips gets into your mouth. Ewwww
Even if you aren’t a Eyes-closed kisser, don’t be there with your eyes looking like you just popped 3 ecstacy pills, did 4 lines of coke, & had 5 shots pure caffeine. At least have them slightly open. No one wants to peek through feeling like they just kissed a zombie.
When using tongue, remember this is not a fencing competition. No need to use your tongue as a dagger to stab & jab your opponents, oops i meant partners tonsils. Use a little more senuality and finesse.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this
A great kiss is when you’re about to part lips and tongue, you take a nibble at the bottom lip then roll your tongue over the top lip then the bottom lip and go back to deep lip lock. Whew!
By Page1908
December 11, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this
Dude has to has healthy gums before I would even think about kissing him. One dude I know his gums are soooooo bad, it’s just sad. The gums are detached from the teeth and they are swollen and puffy and red. Because of this, the breath is absolutely atrocious (sp?)! The breath is so bad it smells like he has been eating shyt sammiches for breakfast! making gagging face
By Blow Me
December 11, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this
900k Wow….no kissing..Not affectionate. Not a good look. Kissing is a great thing on all parts of the body
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone waving
ARed I have to agree in part with the folks from your other blog spot.
If you can deliver a soul stirring kiss, then you can reach depths in JustMe that even the most enormous “O” can not match. There is something (IMHO) about a French Kiss, lips locked, tounges entertwined, lips being sucked, nibbled and licked that is so much more intimate than intercourse.
By Demi
December 11, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this
Lady J I have a good dental plan (no bad breath here) and full lip…Now Lets Kiss
I aint gonna front, I love kissing women with beautiful lip…most black women lips are LOL
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this
2CPTG, forget a kiss…you need a hug. Why do you have to address people like that? This blog is not required reading for anyone…no need to come at anyone sideways…
If the topic doesn’t fit your fancy for the day…do some work. LOL
By Bella
December 11, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
Mornin’, everyone!
Is the link working OK for everyone? One of our Web people informed me it wasn’t working, but it is when I click on it.
Thanks!
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this
while y’all talkin bout kissin’ (why am I thinking of the ‘ol school High Five song, The Kissing Game)……a landmark Supreme Court decision was handed down yesterday that will, in effect, give judeges the discretion to level the playing field for crack vs. powder cocaine sentences……meantime, y’all keep kissin’
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this
I’ll call him “The lizard king”: too funny - LOL
SlimOne Good Points and to those I would like to add…
A little tounge sucking goes a lonnnnng way!
By 900K
December 11, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this
Blow- Im gonna have to ask you to read along here and focus b4 you post. The Body is not a subject here, mouth to mouth is the topic. Here are a few reasons why I wupport my statements:
She smokes- no tongue from me almost never!
We just met- BIG one in ATL lot of dating goin on, not much settling down. No need to tongue it up yet and you’ve never seen her bathroom or toothbrush.
Early in morn- Yeah ok we just had a great night… now its time for the ol 6am in-out-in-out. Tongue is not an option.
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this
Slim EWWWWW! I too have had a dude I called, “Slob Base”! I do not want to smell spit on my upper lip…I thought I had already washed my face.
Now I do love a gentle bite on the lips…ummmm….it’s sexy!
Binford are you white? LOL I have dated White guys and some of them have been great kissers.
By 900K
December 11, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this
Please respect Lady J!- come back baby girl!
By Tiff
December 11, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this
The best kisses are the ones that travel to the ears, neck, shoulder, back, etc.
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
Amazon, I’m good, Lil mama!!! shoot, somebody needs to let her know; being in journalism, if she can’t take the criticsm, she need not be in the profession……what, are you her blog bodyguard?
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this
My post didn’t go through. Here it is again.
A great kiss is when you think you’re finished with the kiss and you part lips, then you nibble the bottom lip, pull away and let your tongue sensually roll over the top and bottom lip of your partner, you nibble the bottom lip again and start kissing all over again. Whew!
By SeanJohnson3000
December 11, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…me personally..i have a thing for nice full lips..better for kissing and gently sucking on..but like others said…these days..kissing is more intimate than sx…so most folks only peck these days…you can get head before you tongue kiss these days…
By binford
December 11, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
My name is binford, and I am caucasian (waves at the blog).
By Bonnie
December 11, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
2CPTG©
Why don’t you pick the topics you like and post on those days only. You are such a hater today.
By SexyCool
December 11, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
2…speaking of kissing game…didya’ know that the lead singer from Hi-5…tony thompson…died from a drug overdose???
By DasV
December 11, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this
did someone say that 2CPTG needed a hug??
By Foots
December 11, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this
I agree that the topic is a little middle school, but I just had a GREAT kiss this weekend, so I’ll bite and make my response not so PG-13. sorry Bella
I haven’t run into guys that don’t like to kiss. Maybe it’s the just-right fullness of my lips. :-) I love the body kisses, with just a little bite, especially on my side. Drives me up the wall. E1 liked to leave marks everywhere, and that’s not cute at 30. I told him I bruise easily and I think he had to test that out. He was also the type that if you so much as brush his neck with your lips, it’s on and poppin. It turned saying good night at the door into a Virtual Slamfest. He was an LDM, so I guess he had to be skilled in the kissing department.
I like kissing while performing horizontal gymnastics. That kind of kissing can get a little violent though. I’ve ended up with busted, bleeding lips and he’s ended up with severe bite marks on his shoulder if things were getting a little too good.
My current flame kisses my whole face, my eyelashes, cheekbones, the base of my chin, and even the little spot on my forehead where my skull is indented from an Aruban pool flip gone wrong. Long story.
Just a PSA… That tongue in the ear thing does NOT work for most women unless you are REALLY in the moment. There are some men who can do that right and it’s great, but yeah, please swallow first. I don’t want to leave our tryst with Swimmer’s Ear. That is a complete turn-off.
By 900K
December 11, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
…a landmark Supreme Court decision was handed down yesterday - what you know bout the Rockefeller laws? huh that’s my neck of the woods.
2CPTG© - AKA Angry man: “Man sit yo AZZ down!”
By SeanJohnson3000
December 11, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
@ SxyCool…yea…they say dude was sniffing air condition hoses and died outside of an apt complex near an.. air condition unit…
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
Naw 2C, I’m not her blog bodyguard. You can be constructive in criticism. I mean, she should be “ashamed” of herself? Come on guy… is that the kind of criticism you’d respond to?
I’m interested to know what kind of topics you expect based on the “constituents” of this board…
By Cinderella
December 11, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
Morning! I love kissing so it’s pretty important to me how well it’s done. I’ve had some pretty bad kissers in my past. There was the one that drank too much beer and smoked too many wacky cigs so smell and taste was a serious mood killer, there was the one that seemed to have my head in death grip vise and so I couldn’t move or turn, and of course there were some slobbers. I like my kisses to be soft, with gentle pressure, dry, and a little facial caressing.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
Sexy
“A great kiss is when you think you’re finished with the kiss and you part lips, then you nibble the bottom lip, pull away and let your tongue sensually roll over the top and bottom lip of your partner, you nibble the bottom lip again and start kissing all over again.”
Um, would you happen to have this in a PowerPoint? ;-)
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
To the person who said this, “Why don’t you pick the topics you like and post on those days only. You are such a hater today.”
How about you contribute more often, then that comment would at least, on the surface, have some validity…..
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
Hey Binford How ya doin’? I would have never known…..see, all preconceived notions are out the door! LOL My dad’s side of the family is White (only his dad was Jamaican) so color has never been a thing to me.
By melo
December 11, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
Kissing is just a waste of time….its an expression of a horizontal desire. Why front and waste each other’s time and acting like u all dont wanna go there, just get on with it.Better yet, kiss that part of the anatomy.LOL (Its not the real melo speaking,just the amorous cousin who borrowed his name)
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
SexyCool, it wasn’t your normal drug overdose. Dude was addicted to freon…that stuff that makes your AC cold! He died next to an air conditioner!
In any case…Kissing Game is one of my favorite songs. It takes me back to such a whimsical summer. That song always puts me in a good mood.
By Foots
December 11, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this
SexyCool You know… I just found that out last month. I was so in love with him when I was a teenager. I read that he died from “huffing”. Not even real drugs. That was sad, he was talented.
LMAO @ SlimOne for the “Rules” and at Staceye for calling dude “Slob Base”!!
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this
Off Topic
Create Date Alert.
Tired of the same ol’ movies and dinner? Well there’s a big meteor shower happening this thursday night. The warm weather and clear skies that night should make it real nice to watch, especially with some good companionship. Imagine the perfect kiss under the meteor shower. That’s fireworks for that a*. lol
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this
Hi binford waving
I dated a guy years ago who was a shade shorter than me, he had this thing he did to the back of my neck with his tounge. I swear on all that I am he would have my spine tingling and my knees weak as water. I mentioned this to a taller guys aome years later, and I have never ever had anyone relpicate that spine tingling effect.
By Foots
December 11, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this
I did date a very bad kisser once who proceeded to try to stuff his tongue down my throat every time he got near my lips. A little skill and finesse goes a long way, but he had VERY little. He almost choked me and I don’t choke easily.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
“it wasn’t your normal drug overdose. Dude was addicted to freon…that stuff that makes your AC cold! He died next to an air conditioner!”
Man, that’s cold!
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
Good morning peeps!
yea…they say dude was sniffing air condition hoses and died outside of an apt complex near an.. air condition unit… huh!?!
Wow!
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
angry man???? c’mon 900k, because I don’t like her seemingly juvenile topics, how do you deduce angry from that? Since The Rockefeller laws are your neck of the woods, I assume you’re educated, so tell me where do you see anger in my post?
said while getting comfy, cause I know the antagonists are coming in droves!
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this
Thanks for the tip Dreams! Sounds like a great idea, top if off with some nibblers and a bottle of wine.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this
…landmark Supreme Court decision was handed down yesterday that will, in effect, give judeges the discretion to level the playing field for crack vs. powder cocaine sentences……meantime, y’all keep kissin’
2C if this was posted as a blog question pretty sure we would respond to it, but it wasn’t. Hell, there are a lot more important ills going on in the world more important that the crack vs. powder dilemna. Hey, not all blog questions are for everyone. Moving right along!
By Dan
December 11, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
Morning,
As I read some of the comments I have to be honest. I enjoy kissing. I’m good at it. And here’s why:
Kissing, at it’s core is an interplay of not only saliva and tongues, but also the movement of two disparate bodies. A kiss can be simply put, the most erotic experience next to sex.
I think I’m good becuase I don’t really have a “technique” so much as I dance with my partner during the exchange. Her subtle requests for more pressure by prusing her lips, or more intimacy through the exploration of her tongue, all play a part in kissing for me.
To that degree it can be more intimate than sex, becuase of the subtleness, intensity, and sensitivity involved in a good kiss.
It’s my favorite subject.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this
Darrell, you are a nut. LMAO!
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this
BTW…On Topic:
Iiiiii saw mommy kissing Saaaannnnnta Claus! ….sing everyone!
By Kara
December 11, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
Yes! It sounded angry and rude. You can not be that daft. You basically cussed at her - about a topic… about kissing. You really don’t see how narcissistic you and abc are when you insist on complaining about topics that don’t fit YOU all the time?
By Bonnie
December 11, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
go back to looking at the stock market and whatever else you do over there. geeesh. hater.
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this
No, Sexy, it wasn’t a question….it was a statement; And sure, there are more societal ills going on, however, that decision has long ranging ramifications, explicity, and expressly!…..
By Blow Me
December 11, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this
900k What I might think you need to do is watch ya tone. And stop gettin out of pocket. Again sounds like Jumpoff material. No kissing. I have heard of guys not kissing their jumpoffs which I can understand. You should want to kiss her. Don’t get me started 900k And Ms. Blow ME will do as well
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this
Hi Darrell….Did you go to Saint/ Falcons shame….i meant game lastnight?
2C there IS something to all that. i didn’t detect anger.
By binford
December 11, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
JustMe So if that guy could do that ….what ended the relationship?
And lastly, was he part lizard or something?
Dan I co-sign the early part of your post. I can’t and won’t vouch for the latter part of it ;p
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
Darrell, no PowerPoint needed. Live demonstration given at 11:38. Please be on time (LOL).
By Jazzyone
December 11, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Dan Boi~ you better stop that Im telling ya.. ;-)
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
AmazonRed A good wine would definitely enhance the mood. A nice port or a german auslese would do the trick.
By Blow Me
December 11, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
Hi Darrell
“waves w/ a sly smirk”
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
Mornin!
OOooh Bella I think that you struck a nerve (in a good way)!
Let’s just say I’d call this man Sensual Sam. I’ve never been much of a kisser. A few love pecks and I’m good. Kinda had a phobia about personal hygiene. This Sensual Sam that I met about 7 years ago, really changed my mind about kissing.
Let’s just say lip-locking that makes your, spine tingle, gives you goose bumps, and make ya knees shake. This brother was like some Campbell’s Chicken Noodle Soup…..can I say ummm…ummm…good!
@Slim… I agree with your 9:43 post. lol
Kissing is great when you find a good match!
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
Underneath the Christmas tree last night….
By Daily Lurker
December 11, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
Bloggers!!! If yo azz don’t like the topic for today, keep it a movin’. Like someone said earlier, e-mail them some ideas since you think you can do a better job.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this
Hey, Cemeeli. No, I didn’t go to the game. I actually predicted before the game that the Falcons would lose by 20 and guess what…:-/
Sexy I’m the most punctual guy I know, so count on me being there at 11:37. ;-) Being the geek that I am, I couldn’t help envisioning a PowerPoint or Visio diagram to go along with your 10:05 post, so… LOL!
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this
**Foots * feel you on the tonugue in ear. I HATE that! I like my ears to be getly bitten…but that swimmers ear is nasty! And it hurts! LOL
*Darrell I know Sexyleggs had me over here visualizing that one! LOL
Oh and..that is codl for real. A straight up intended pun.
Cemeeli is it me…or did that song make mommy out to be a big ole ho? LOL I mean mommy was making out with Santa! Well did she at least get some free stuff? LOL
**Sexyleggs is flirting with Darrell! LOL He’s about to see whay she is called sexyleggs!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this
What up, Blow! Was wondering where you were. How’s it going? :-)
By BK1
December 11, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
Can we all just kiss and get along
By BLAT
December 11, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
I’m a kissaholic. Totally fine with the occasional kiss-only session that leaves them just as fired up as me. I’m also a major body kisser… head to toe and everything in between with little nibbles to spice it up. My specialty is starting at the base of ur back and working my way up………….. I love to do it, my girl loves to get it…. Good times all around.
By Katie
December 11, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
I think I’m going to vomit.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
Thanks Dreams, where in the city are there nice open spaces to watch something like this? I still don’t know my way around Atlanta like I should… but I definitely want to get cozy and do something like that on Thursday. It’s a cheap date too, maybe I can treat. LOL
By 900K
December 11, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
2Cp - Im callin you angry for attacking blog style man you just came out goin nutz. In terms of the law its about time. However they just sentenced a man to 15yrs when they could have gave him 22yrs BIG F’n Deal. They’ve been lockin up 17yrs old kids from around my way since Nancy Regan so what about them? Send a little brat to Attica w/ grown killers for the next 22yrs you think he commin back? I have Cocaine Cowboys and I recommend that DVD to everyone in here and everyone they know. Cause it shows the reality of the drug problem. Redneck pale men bringin it in BY THE TON into Miami. They get caught w/ 400+ kilos and do 7yrs!!! in mid 1980’s WTF! Naturally since it has an overwhelming presence and can be found in abundance people start frying it up. Typical Rep. Gov’t says well since its here in abundance lets hand out 22yrs to anyone selling it cooked up in small quantities and oh yeah we’ll take 17 n up. Never mind the fact that they did not, could not or didn’t want to stop it from gettin here!!!
Sorry guys back to the kiss and tell…
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
Dan You never said what it was that I left out….?
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this
are we still talkin’ about kissing? lol. 2C it’s your turn 2day. lol.
i love kissing and the snuggling. to me it shows caring and it bring on the passion. my favorite kiss is with the brotha with the big lips!
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this
Okay Foots, I tried but I can’t figure out what LDM means. LOL
Staceye, I think binford is just the type of guy to make you trust guys again!
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this
Sexyleggs What was underneath the Christmas tree last night?
Someone please grab some Mistletoe!
Q: Are we really going tic for tac about 2C statement about the topic today?
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this
Kara, and Bonnie (though some of us know who YOU really are)……how about commenting on the topic as opposed to me, if you feel that way!!
thanks, Cemeeli, no anger was intended….
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
2C, I realize it wasn’t a question. I was only stating that if it was posted for the blog as an issue, pretty sure we would have commented on. The purpose of this blog varies from day to day. Sometimes it’s very imformative, sometimes it’s merely an escape and sometimes it’s silly. It’s all good.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
Blat - Those full body kissers are the best. It takes a lot of restraint to not explode! Fortunately for me, all the guys I’ve met since college have all been into the full body kissing thing. That’s why I never believe men aren’t into doing those “things” below the belt! LOL
By Jazzyone
December 11, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
AR you may want to look it up on the internet to see what it actually is… you are supposed to go as far away from the city as possible and make sure you have a dark view and start your view of the horizon..if you can see the big dipper above you your eyes have adjusted to the dark just right you should have a pretty good view…
By G
December 11, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this
A lot of women complain that men aren’t into kissing or just plain not good kissers. My POV…….If a woman is a good kisser, I will initiate the kissing and want more of it. If she’s not a good kisser, I will not initiate it as much, and kissing will be limited.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
Morning, Staceye. Glad to see I wasn’t the only one “visualizing” Sexy’s word picture. LOL!
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
Miss Stace…i like it when Micheal sings it he makes it come across so innocent when we know darn well this aint right!!!
I Saw Mommy kissing Santa Claus, under neath that mistletoe last night didn’t see me creep, down stairs to have a peek! She thought that i was tucked up in my bedroom fast asleep.
Then I saw Mommy tickle Santa Claus, underneath his beard so snowy white! Oh, what a laugh it would have been, If Daddy had only seen, Mommy kissing Santa Claus last night!
Mommy is on that binford…messing it up for everybody’s Christmas!
By Foots
December 11, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Amazon LDM = Lil Dizzle Mutha%^&$#r. They are usually the absolute BEST kissers because they have to be.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Great post 900k.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
Amazon
“Staceye, I think binford is just the type of guy to make you trust guys again!”
What the…?! :-0 Binford??!! (NO offense, bruh.) I’ve been making entreaties to Staceye for days now, but she refuses to e-mail me. LOL!
By Kara
December 11, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
You first.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
I am cracking up over here Cemeeli. I thought I put the next line to the song only to realize no one was under the Christmas tree. It was under the Mistletoe*..Too funny!
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
900K, now that’s the dialogue I’m talkin about; Not angry at all, kinfolk, cause trust me when I tell ya, all is good; But pay attention to the weekly posts - Now, I’m all for inclusion, however, when you see who your patrons are, you cater to them, right? But I digress…..do y’all thing…..pay me no mind…..
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 11, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
No comment on the kissing thing. But I do wish to comment on the lack of male perspectives in blog topics. I think it would provide a great “balance” if there was a blog moderator-who was a male- dating in Atlanta. I am aware that Wisey and Bella try to convey conversations they have had with men on the subject of dating but it is 2nd hand and colored with the female opinion so it doesnt always come over well. I know they had a male contributor at one time for awhile there but he lacked-what is the word?-manly like qualities in his subject choices. Anywhoo that is my 2.00 opinion.
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Dreams Materialize I know that meteor shower is cool right? Here is a link if anyone wants to know more about it. I LOVE THIS STUFF!
http://news.yahoo.com/s/space/20071207/sc_space/bestmeteorshowerof2007peaksdec13
Oh…I am more of a Pinot Grigio or Riesling girl myself. have you ever had a muscadine wine?
By Blow Me
December 11, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
900 Check out 10:37…..also Yeah I might check that’ Cocaine Cowboys out too…. that’s sounds interesting..It’s about time you start droppin something that’s eye opener…lol!
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
I recall once an ex of mine kissed my ankles…Yea it sounds weird but I guess because it was new to me, it had me turned on like a pot of boiling water. Whew!
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
Foots “LDM = Lil Dizzle Mutha%^&$#r. They are usually the absolute BEST kissers because they have to be.”
LMAOROFL!!!!
By Bella
December 11, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
I actually brought up this topic with my roommate the other night, who told me she was in a relationship with a guy for almost a year who was a horrible kisser! She actually tried to avoid him sometimes so as not to kiss him! She feels like, in hindsight, that it should have been a clear indicator that they were not meant to be together!
By melo
December 11, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this
I like my ears to be getly bitten… Staceye should’nt u be speaking in the past tense?
Why should we all be fighting about kissing. @SeanJ, i agree with u, kising these days is more reserved for the real intimate, head has taken over. And becoz of that, guys would ratehr kiss the one they think is the one coz hygiene comes into play. Our society is now geared towards instant gratification thats why kissing is not as popular in my view.
By kiki
December 11, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
to Just me - I think I know what that little dude did. I dated a guy that use to do that only he’d lick my back (just the spine) then lightly blow on it…. the first time he did it I was standing and I literally hit the floor. haha
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
Binford He was a cheater. I had to 86 dat azz!
By kinderbabe
December 11, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this
foots girl, you need to quit your mess…lol…LDM…lol. that’s too funny.:)
hey ladies, don’t forget this sunday is the meet and greet. e-mail me if you’d like to be sent the evite as a reminder. kinderbabe75@yahoo.com.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this
Off-topic, have you guys heard about this one yet?
John White, 48, of Manchester is released from state prison nearly 30 years after being sentenced to life for a 1979 rape that recent DNA testing shows he did not commit.*
Can we say institutionalize! DAMN!
By 900K
December 11, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs -Thank you for reading!
2CPTG- Cool wit me homie, see Angry Man is from Martin. One of my all time fav shows, too bad no one got it though.
Darrell- I feel your pain man!!! I seen you get at that for a minute now and then Red goin just recommend Billy Ho like that?!?!?
blow -please lets agree to disagree today.
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this
ARED I think binford is just the type of guy to make you trust guys again what makes you think that?
Cemeeli that was the start of Micheal’s secret life…cause I think he wanted to kiss Santa! LOL
I Saw Mommy kissing Santa Claus, underneath that mistletoe last night. I wanted to smack her face…then go and take her place. She wasnt kissin’ Santa right! LOL
Thank you…thank you! Staceye now taking a bow and exiting the stage!
By Dreka
December 11, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this
You are acting like this is the only blog ajc has. I’m pretty sure you can find one that fits you better. This is a dating blog. What else do we suppose to talk about? Really.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
Lol…Sexyleggs omgoodness…Not kissing Santa under the Christmas Tree!?! ha!
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
Bella
Did your roommate try to discuss with this guy that he was a horrible kisser? Could’ve been much more fun to teach him instead of avoiding him, if the chemistry was present…just a thought!
By melo
December 11, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
She feels like, in hindsight, that it should have been a clear indicator that they were not meant to be together! U kidding me young girl!!! How was the sex?
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this
Kym “I know they had a male contributor at one time for awhile there but he lacked-what is the word?-manly like qualities in his subject choices.”
Since I wasn’t around back then, I can’t speak to this person’s lack of “manly” subject choices. However, I will butt in and say that there is more to the term “manly” than a guy’s testosterone level or how many women he knows whose first names end with ‘qua’.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this
I want one of the kisses Alicia Keyes is singing about. Kiss me like it’s the last time. Can hardly wait until 11:38!
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 11, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this
Oh good grief..2C if you are going to say it then why not go ahead and say it all the way. Bella,Wisey, Metro Atlanta lukers and beyond..I know this may come as a shock to you both but brace yourself a majority of the blogger posters are…(wait for it..wait for it) Black That’s right African American I know take deep breaths because it gets better a majority of them (wait for it…wait for it..) are over the age of 30 some maybe at 30’s door or even coming around the bend to knock on 40.(the horror) either way..I thought you should know that pretty much most of your regulars are Black hope this revelation was not too stressful for you folks. Now back to your regularly scheduled blog already in progress
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this
“You are acting like this is the only blog ajc has. I’m pretty sure you can find one that fits you better. This is a dating blog. What else do we suppose to talk about? Really.”
you don’t talk about anything, since this appears to be your first time posting! Even having said that, you still didn’t say anything!
By Jill
December 11, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this
Dr. Kym do you have a male writer in mind? Do you think that he would be willing to write and facilitate the blog discussions?
By Jay
December 11, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
My People…..LAWD! Associated Press Writer
TOLEDO, Ohio — A pregnant attorney who vanished for four days last week now says her tale of being kidnapped at gunpoint and taken to Georgia was fabricated, police said Tuesday. Her husband said she had “a meltdown.”
Karyn McConnell Hancock, a former Toledo city councilwoman, had disappeared Wednesday and was found Saturday near Atlanta. Her husband said Monday that his 35-year-old wife, six months pregnant with her second child, claimed she was kidnapped by two men and a woman.
Police would not discuss a motive, but Hancock’s husband Lawrence Hancock said his wife has been having psychological problems for several years.
“She experienced a meltdown and attempted to handle those matters without the assistance of professional help or others. Karyn elected to leave everything because she felt that she was unable to continue,” he said.
Police said at a news conference Tuesday that she recanted Monday after eight hours of questioning. Hancock will likely be charged with making a false police report, said Police Chief Mike Navarre.
Hancock’s father, C. Allen McConnell, is a Toledo Municipal Court judge, and her husband is bishop of Final Harvest Church in Toledo. The husband had said earlier that he believed the purported kidnapping had something to do with a case McConnell handled before he was a judge.
He had said his wife called him from a restaurant pay phone Thursday afternoon, saying “they have me.” She said she thought she was going to die and “told me don’t let her son forget her and that she loved me,” he said.
Hancock was found after she flagged down a motorist near at Six Flags in Austell, Ga., and the motorist called police, authorities had said. Her car was found nearby.
One of the attorney’s former clients recently filed a lawsuit against her, accusing her of taking money from him that he was owed from an accident settlement.
Lawrence Hancock said he wasn’t sure if the lawsuit triggered her actions.
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
Kiki …..Lol @ you literately hitting da floor. Sounds like he must have had some vooddo worked on you girl.
Kinderbabe.. about Sunday. I was telling one of my girlfriends about it, just wondering if she could tag along for the fun? If so the more the merrier!
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
KiKi, I hollered reading your post.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
DARRELL are you on funnies today? there is more to the term “manly” than a guy’s testosterone level or how many women he knows whose first names end with ‘qua’. Lol
Staceye…Micheal and Santa…THAT visual! Whoa…
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 11, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
Darrell Since you were not around during that time and have no knowledge of the topics the gentleman suggested then..why would you even begin to comment at all about it? I said the topics lacked a manly point of view because it was clear that the topics were a poorly constructed by a woman trying to pass as a man. But then you would know that had you actually researched that time period as oppose to leapfrogging to make a comment.
By BLAT
December 11, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
SHIZ,,,, AmazonRed!! I live my life below the belt. Da ex said i should write a book….. I think the title will be “Tails from my Life Down Under”. Pun intended.
By Foots
December 11, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
Question for the men What specific topics would you like to discuss?
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this
Kiki It was a lick/suck allin one slowly moving fashion. He started at the nape of my hairline and moved slowly downward.
After describing this in detail to a few other guys and never being able to replicate the feeling. I just decided that it was, not necessarily the “kiss”, but the “Kisser” that aroused me like no other.
Staceye Stay a way from the windows……. ya gonna burn in he!! for that one - ROFLMAO
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this
Kym,2C,Jill I have a male writer in mind and he blogs often.
I wonder how the AJC go about signing a writer?
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this
Umm, nice lips *Darrell (saying ever so softly while rolling my tongue over them). smooch, smooch (little pecks), our tongues are in air circling each others before going inside each others mouth. Umm…
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this
Kym
“Since you were not around during that time and have no knowledge of the topics the gentleman suggested then..why would you even begin to comment at all about it?”
First of all, lighten up, alright? Second, the comment I made was not a “commentary”. There is a difference, ya know. I was simply making a point that maybe the guy - whomever he was - wasn’t given the benefit of the doubt because his topics didn’t meet the “criteria” of a lot of other guys because, in their minds, his topics didn’t meet their definition of “manly enough”, that’s all.
Sheesh! :-/
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this
Thanks Foots, I don’t worry about LDM because I’ll cop a feel! LOL If you don’t pass inspection, I won’t end up seeing you naked anyway. LOL
Darrell - I recommended binford cuz I feel that’s a better match. Last week, you complained about women not trusting men from the gate, then proceeded to try and get with Staceye who has that exact affliction. Train wreck waiting to happen.
Staceye - I recommended binford cuz he’s not into the johnson measuring contest like some other cats on this blog…and because you expressed a little bit of interest. :-)
By Foots
December 11, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
Kym I don’t really know what that has to do with what 2C was saying, unless I misunderstood him. Age-appropriate blogs, maybe. But the thing is, although life is a bit more complicated now that I’m grown in regards to how I spend my time, the dating is the same as it was when I was younger, except that the men expect sex sooner. You meet, you interact, you see if you’re compatible. If so, you ride it until the wheels fall off. If not, break up and try again. There’s only so much you can talk about when speaking of dating, because when it moves from dating to LTR to marriage, it’s a different blog.
So what would some of the more mature dating topics be? Other than dating with kids, dating after divorce, dating while still married, dating at Hedonism… Hey, that could be one! Difficulty in traveling with your partner or the static that occurs when your partner wants to speand a vacation with friends and not you…”When Vacations End in Breakups” or something like that… or is that a summer topic?
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 11, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
Jill are you an editor with the ajc? It was merely a suggestion but since I am feeling froggy. Why not ask a few of the regular blog guys to contribute twice a month..call it Testosterone Tuesdays or something. Maybe even have them work with Bella or Wisey. Wisey did a kind of His/Hers thing awhile back and that seem to go over well. Those were free suggestions anymore and one of the Cox Sisters is going to have to open her purse.
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this
Melo everyone knows it is the past tense….so I should not have to mention it again.
Just Me he was putting that move on every girl huh? Figures!
Kinderbabe I’d love to attend…but Sundays are my studio days.
By Demi
December 11, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this
I know they had a male contributor at one time for awhile there but he lacked-what is the word?-manly like qualities in his subject choices.
Who was that dude?….LOL
SlimOne yeah…the soft hard to reach spots are the best…a few drops of honey..a few inches apart..down the spine..stopping at the hollow of the lower back…yeah some good kissing and tasting there, LOL
JustMe, you have a long spine, care to see what it feels like…don’t mind the special oils
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this
Good question Foots, that one should yield some interesting responses
By kinderbabe
December 11, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
brownsugar that’s cool.:) as long as she’s not crazy…lol. but seriously, yes, bring your friend. i’m excited! i think it’s going to be fun.
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
Sexyleggs are you Zane? LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
Kinderbabe, I just sent you an email.
By DasV
December 11, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
ooohhwwwweeeee. i see the blog from back in the day is in full effect! kym and 2cptg aint takin no prisoners!
imma be my old self and jump right in, insteada my new self that chooses to lurk when the topic kills brain cells…. the male moderator from back in the day was not only NOT black, he was young. the blog ate him up and spit him out.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
Sexy “Umm, nice lips *Darrell (saying ever so softly while rolling my tongue over them). smooch, smooch (little pecks), our tongues are in air circling each others before going inside each others mouth. Umm…”
::: Darrell sitting at his desk slowly loosening, but not totally undoing, his necktie :::
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this
Kym, that’s why I asked 2CPTG directly what he thinks the “patrons” of this blog want to talk about. Why wouldn’t we want to talk about kissing? For those who are complaining about chick topics..seems to me there are more chicks on here too. So to the ones who have complaints… enlighten me on what topics we’re really missing out on?
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this
Good morning blogsville.
On topic: If you can’t kiss get ta steppin. My boys tell me they don’t kiss the chicks they knock off but I don’t see how thats possible.
Binford I guessed as much.
900k the feds will give an 18 yo double life for holding a handful of crack and not blink. They offer you a deal and if you take it you get 20 and if not say goodbye. They were charging these guys like they were major kingpins. I’ve seen it way to many times. If I was a drug dealer I’d definetly sell cocaine. In jail they call crack sentences N-gg-r time. People actually call it that in discussions. “That dude got * time”
blow Me your funny.
DasVwhere are you woman? I hope your having a good day.
By Jill
December 11, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
ummm… that was a genuine question, and so is this. What is your problem?
I figured you had someone in mind since you brought up the valid point. Why are you so defensive?
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
Foots, to answer your question, and trust I can’t, and am not attempting to speak for all the male regulars (that’s who matters, anyway…others, are akin to leeches) men like real life examples….not something you’ve read in Cosmo; If it pertains to dating, I’m sure we’d like to hear weekend examples, or something!!! Mia made this thing pop because she intertwined her own mishaps into the columns……every other week we gotta hear about some study, or something her friend did….and I’m like, do YOU go out????
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
Amazon Red Far away from the city (to minimize light pollution) and high elevation make for the best viewing, but the Gemenid meteor shower is supposed to be one of the brightest. So, you could stay near the city and still see a really nice show. The rooftop of a highrise would work. Stone Mountain would be another good place.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this
Amazon “I recommended binford cuz I feel that’s a better match. Last week, you complained about women not trusting men from the gate, then proceeded to try and get with Staceye who has that exact affliction. Train wreck waiting to happen.”
Glad you said this, because it affords me an opportunity to clarify something. I wasn’t trying to “get at” Staceye in the sense that you and others might think. I reached out to her because of a specific comment she made last Wednesday (I think) and I honestly wanted to know what in the world could possibly be behind her feeling such animosity toward men to the levels she expressed in that particular post. So, when I’m nudging Staceye about e-mailing me, it’s in that context alone.
Again, just wanted to clarify. ;-) By the way, I was only being facetious in calling out bindford like that. :-) (Again, no offense, man.)
By Jazzyone
December 11, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this
Kym regarding your 11:26 post my guess is they are probably trying to change this ratio with the other types of topics to attqct more than just black folks…
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this
Preparing your five senses for….Kissing.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this
Foots - Great post and good blog topics. Seeing as I can talk about most anything (lol), the choice of topics really isn’t a big deal to me.
Dating at Hedonism is something I’d just read. LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
I am on the floor over here….
Staceye, thank you for such a compliment.
Darrell, man that is priceless. Thanks babe!!
By Foots
December 11, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
What about a topic about Living Together and Combining Finances. I’d like to know people’s experiences with that, how it was determined to live together, whether the finances were combined, what are the difficulties involved with splitting assets with people you are not married to… I haven’t experienced it personally, but I’ve heard of folks buying houses with boyfriends and girlfriends, so I know there may be some folks on the blog that might want to talk about it. Have we talked about that yet?
By Eyez
December 11, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this
As a guy, I think I am one of the few who require good kissing. The worst is what I call “The Militant”, when the girls tongue is rigid and forceful like a DI. Coming in a close second is “The Blob”, where her mouth envelopes yours and come out of it all sticky like you just got attacked by The Blob. I have had both types and “The Militant” chick had to be reformed b/c she was wayyyyy too cute to kiss that bad, so I gently nudged her in the right direction. But “The Blob” had to be told to get the hell out of my house before I lost consciousness from lack of oxygen. I thought I was a goner for sure once she attached herself.
I was once a horrible kisser but my first older woman remedied that problem. She was bound and determined to not let me kiss my way out of her sights….it worked too. She spent a lot of time making sure I knew what I was supposed to be doing…hehehe =) I have never had a complaint since, I didn’t before but I also didn’t get many repeat dates either.
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this
Kinderbabe….she’s cool, no crazies on this side of town. I’m really excited. LOL
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this
Demi Do ya think you can make my spine tingle and my knees weak?
DasV I remebered him the same way too. I think he lasted 2-3 days, I’m pretty sure he had quit by Thursday afternoon - ROFLMAO
Blog Question
If you are dating a non-kisser, but you like to kiss, would it be cheating to kiss (and only kiss) a great kisser?
By Lurker
December 11, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this
Yet another boring topic. Don’t you people have anything better to do? Day in, day out, here you are on this stupid blog. This is beyond boring…….
Snoozefest!!!!
By Dreka
December 11, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
Dear Mr. 2CPTG, what topic would you like to discuss tomorrow that has to do with dating?
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this
Darrell - do you really think I’m slow, buddy? (joke). You really didn’t need to clarify anything. I knew that already. I know you aren’t actually trying to get at anyone on here. And even if you were, I know my opinion holds no weight in your decisions. Or, at least, it shouldnt. ;-)
I’ll save you some time. Staceye’s pops is a deadbeat and the issues stem from there. Subsequent men in her life have followed suit and disappointed her. You don’t need her to email you and rehash all that stuff. She’s good. Leave her be. She knows exactly who she is, where she’s going and what she needs to do once she’s “ready.”
Sorry to speak for you Staceye. I just never really see why they make it such a big issue. You aren’t from Jupiter. Sheesh.
By Selah
December 11, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this
Are you serious? If we have a male writer, I don’t think he has to be black. Maybe we can get writers from all races, ages, and backgrounds.
Besides, a black writer won’t even have much to write about except making babies and smoking weed. They don’t date, they procreate.
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this
Foots excellent topic!!!
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this
Staceye Had a friend whose pops used to make muscadine wine in NC. We used to tear that up. The Ethiopian Tej (honey wine) is on point too. Of course you have to throw in the Eiswein too.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this
JustMe, IMHO that would be considered cheating!
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
Pasta T im here. glad you are to cause about 4 today, i have a company coming to install metal detectors… we cant let what happened in colorado happen to us. i gotta mortgage payment to make……
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this
JustMe, don’t date non-kissers. That’s not part of the game. Folks with kissing hang ups probably have some deeper/intimacy issues. No thanks.
By melo
December 11, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this
Let me just say what u wont say”“Bela’s topics are more juvenile than Wise’s”” We always have this discussion/arguments when its Bella’s turn not Wise. How old is Bella?That may be the problem coz a majority of bloggers here are tween 30-100 yrs. Its a dating blog alright but sometimes the topics arent that serious and helpful esp. for folks really looking for a mate.(melo is not speaking for self)
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this
Eyez…..LMAO….“The Blob” had to be told to get the hell out of my house before I lost consciousness from lack of oxygen.
I’ve had that happen to me once. It’s like WTF were you doing tryin to kill a sista!
JustMe.. to answer your question. Yes kissing someone other than who you’re dating is considered cheating by all means. Imagine how p** you’d be if you found out some ish like that. Come on now!
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this
JustMe LOLROTF that was the one week when everybody actually got along…. we were all too busy tearin into him, or liming by the pool with QC.
whateva happened to the rec center?? i loved me some: sashying in with a smile for the sistas and wink fo the bruthas, before sittin down in the crook of 2CPTGs arm
heehehheeeee
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this
Dear Ms. Dreka,
In response to your above inquiry, and since you asked, tommorrow I’d like to speak about Dating in the New Age, as I like to call it. Folks often like to say they’re looking for a Boaz, to their proverbial Ruth; but do they really know what all that entails? Are they prepared to date? Are they dating material? Can you handle, that which you seek?
just a lil’ some’n - some’n….
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
Darrell ohhhh. ok, i understand. you’re nosy
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
Amazon Thanks for your 12:10. I appreciate that. :-) I think I’ll heed your advice regarding Staceye, because far be it from me to beat a dead horse or reopen old wounds. I just wasn’t aware of her background with her dad (not that it’s any of my business), but I did wonder if that had anything to do with the mindset she currently holds (which is within her rights).
Stacey As you can see, I’m all filled in now (thanks to ARed), so, you can hit me back if you like. If not, we’re still good. ;-)
::: Now, who else can I “get at”? :::
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this
I really think Foot’s has a great topic here:
What about a topic about Living Together and Combining Finances. I’d like to know people’s experiences with that, how it was determined to live together, whether the finances were combined, what are the difficulties involved…
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this
selah you know not the origin of your name. po thang
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this
Selah “Besides, a black writer won’t even have much to write about except making babies and smoking weed. They don’t date, they procreate.”
What the…?! Are you SERIOUS with this?!
By selah
December 11, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this
Please hush. It’s my last name spelled backwards. You have no idea what I know because you don’t know me.
By melo
December 11, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this
Selah,what race are u? Maybe u can come on hear and advise us black men how we can date ur women and then bang them.
By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994
December 11, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
I’m sorry did you read anything about a black male writer…I said male..keyword male…key appendage..a penis…I said it would provide a balance..in a city of 5 million plus I am sure there is atleast one man who can speak on dating without sounding like he is that kid McLoving from Superbad. Sure mix it up get a white guy, a black guy, hell get one with a wooden leg and a eye patch.
By 900K
December 11, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
Whats up Cemeeli; just wondering how was the B-Ball practice last night. The team looks good?
Preach - man its just about the saddest thing in the world to me. I recall sittin in my dorm room skipping class all day to watch the Mill Man March (too broke to go…) and Rev Jess Jackson touched on this and I boo hoo’d like a little girl. It’s WRONG!
Question for the men What specific topics would you like to discuss?- I’m not going to knock the efforts of Bella & others. More real life events mixed in there would help. I see how hard it can be to come up w/ sum’n new every day even with a male writer mixed in. There will always be days like this, but from what see we are making the most out of it.
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
Selah
Who’s point of view are you speaking from. While there are those brothers who tend to leave bad marks on aa reputation, that does not apply to all. I personally know lots of successful, respectful, married and single, takin care of their seed, and well rounded brothers.
Are you a women scorned?
Can we say…..in need of a shrink :(
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
2CPTG you got the why? i got the because. i can wait till tomorrow.but you lemme know if you ready today.
By Jazzyone
December 11, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this
*Dasv and thats real! I was thinking the same thing…
By melo
December 11, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
I’m all filled in now (thanks to ARed), so, you can hit me back if you like whats wrong with u stalker? The woman is not interested,not interested..okay.2 weeks and u still on it.
By Got that?
December 11, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
Here’s a thought, if you’re dealing with what you consider a bad kisser, why don’t you tell them what doesn’t work for you or how you’d prefer to be kissed? People act like people should innately know how to do things which are learned behaviors. Kissing is like sex, if you don’t speak up and say how you like it, you get what you get. If you want a good kisser, it’s up to you to create it. Otherwise, you’re playing victim to kissing Russian roulette.
By I'll Go First
December 11, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
I have an idea for a topic… we all change our names and spit off the last 5 people we dated in Atlanta. Then we can see if any of us dated the same people and we can trade stories, see if we were messing around at the same time, call them on 3way and mess with them or find out if you were the homewrecker!
Big Fun!
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
you are true testament to ignorance being bliss. AGAIN po thang
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
Darrell - No problem. Staceye is very candid about her experiences. I’ve learned a lot from her posting.
We have to rehash this issue every couple months for the newbies that aren’t aware. I might push for a “who is Staceye” bio under Bella’s and WiseDiva’s to cut down on diversions. LOL!
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
2C What time is that session? Guy that’s what’s up!
Gots my vote.
To be honest i have heard/said the Boaz cliche to many a times. I figured Ruth was much of a glean and Boaz just happened! hum…
Can you handle, that which you seek?
Cemeeli working on self to be found gleaning and loyal to the work…
By 900K
December 11, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this
selah -Besides, a black writer won’t even have much to write about except making babies and smoking weed. They don’t date, they procreate.
Girl SIT yo AZZ down!!! -not one person on here since I’ve been reading has attacked black women or ANY women like this. You prob have an STD you got from datin that dude you met while visiting your brother in jail. Don’t blame us cause you’re a failure!
By Proverbial Ruth
December 11, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
BOAZ you asked why? and i am ready with your because. i can wait until tomorrow, but you let me know if you ready today.
By Foots
December 11, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
Staceye Chateau Elan makes great muscadine wine, I found it at Harry’s and a few other places around here so I wouldn’t have to drive out there.
Just Me If you are dating a non-kisser, but you like to kiss, would it be cheating to kiss (and only kiss) a great kisser?
Anything you do with another man that you’d get in trouble if your other man knew is probably cheating. Kissing included. That said… If he’s a non-kissing LDM, knock yourself out. LOL!
Selah I was with you until your second paragraph. We don’t need that on here.
2C But when Bella started talking about her personal dating experiences, if I remember correctly, she was blasted by a few folks. And if I also remember correctly, Mia got bashed a few times for her misadventures in dating too. I think that’s why it’s gone to studies and other people’s issues. Maybe if people could feel free to share their experiences without a.) Judging, b.) Over-analysis, c.) Judging, d.) Being made out to be the bad guy/girl, the topics would return to being more personal. I’ve done all of those things too, most of us have, so I’m not exempt. But I realize that in order to get people to open up more, it has to be in a less critical environment, since we all make mistakes, use poor judgement sometimes and get a little carried away with our dating habits. It would help to have a more human blog where we can laugh more at ourselves and our misadventures instead of being raked over the coals for our choices.
By Proverbial Ruth
December 11, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
sexyLeggs i agree. that foots topic should be placed in the rotation.
By Demi
December 11, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this
Besides, a black writer won’t even have much to write about except making babies and smoking weed. They don’t date, they procreate.
That is too funny.
JustMe its really not all that difficult…when you think of how wicked my mind is at times LOL
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this
Good grief, some of y’all are SO easily baited. DON’T FEED THE TROLLS! Sheesh.
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this
yesterday driving home, on the radio they discussed how single friends can screw up a marriage or relationship & how it’s not a good idea to have friends that your SO don’t know about.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this
Hi 900K all is well in the Jr. NBA neck of the woods. My lil guy practiced for 1 1/2 hour and after the drills and suicides (i think that’s what they are called) his turn came up to practice shooting he did not miss a single practice jump or free throw. We’ll see….
Thanks for asking.
MMM was a tearjerker for me too.
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
ok. i dont know how ya’ll do it…. how ya’ll be changing monikers back-n-forth. i did it one time and now I confused…. LOL
DemiGod where you at?? you not back at the doctors let ‘em play, is you??! heeheeeheee
now joining CEE in the gleaning fields*
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
In defence of Ajc and their staff: In a way it doesn’t matter what type of blog this is, its just an excuse to get together and talk and laugh with friends about different topics. After bloggin for awhile you almost feel like you “KNOW” some of these folks, and thats the addiction and the attraction. 90% of the time the topic has changed by 11am anyway. So, I would recommend we indulge our hosts and then open it up to whatever the new topic or blog fight of the day will be. Also, take a moment and think about coming up with a new topic, day in and day out. Not easy. Its way easier for me to come on here and start a blog fight than trying to engage all of you in a beneficial conversation. My .02
DASV let me know where your putting those things because you know I pack heat. Thats all I need is gun carrying charges. Yu gonna hav me sharing a cell with TI and Mike.
Foots your a grown woman with a job and you shouldn’t have to ask a man for funds. 3 accts. Yours, mines and the house acct. We know what bills we have so lets take care of those and you can enjoy the rest. And please keep a little cash on hand in case I need to “borrow” some. LOL Once again my .02
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this
Melo
In response to your 12:32, is it that you simply can’t read or that you struggle to comprehend? Which is it?
By Demi
December 11, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
Selah,what race are u? Maybe u can come on here and advise us black men how we can date ur women and then bang them
melo…DAYUM dude DAYUM….
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this
I’ll Go First u a mess! lol.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this
Oh yeah. I just had a convo with a friend thats a dental hygenist in midtown. She tells me about the people that come in with herpetic lesions and who knows what in the mouths. She says its much more common than one would believe. Kissers beware LOL
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this
Selah here’s good man to read…DAVID! Has a great message.
By Demi
December 11, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this
Proverbial Ruth <=========== DasV is that you..or..Ce’mee
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
Foots…….unfortuantely, such is life when you’re in the spotlight! True, Mia got bashed day inand day out for her adventures with Hurricane, and many other dudes, but it was real, nonetheless; Not saying Bella’s adventures aren’t, but tell the truth, how many times have you logged on, read the topic, and said to yourself, are you serious?
By DasV
December 11, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
my bad Pasta T i need to check witcha on these things. i was remiss. i am having the detectors installed on all of the front doorways with an additional one for the main sanctuary. none of the back doors will be equipped though it will appear there is a system installed, and of course the underground tunnel wont be touched, except for the trip wires to alarm us of intruders. hope this meets with your approval. if so, imma leave the paperwork for your signature on your desk. can you tell i am having fun wit this
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
Foots that is a good topic…that Shacking up and buying a house is simply playing house. I feel thatif 2 people can combine finances and purchase something as major as a house..then they should be married or engaged with a wedding day planned and set. Otherwise…it’s just half azzing it!
ARED you’ve got jokes! LOL Oh Jupiter is mine and yours and Sexyleggs’ planet for Sags! LOL So maybe I am from there!
Foots I have that muscadine wine from Chateau Elan…I love their Summer Peach as well.
DreamsMaterialize never had honey wine.
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this
I’m out, ya’ll. Got meetings the rest of the afternoon starting at 1:00. Ya’ll be good. :-)
By 900K
December 11, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli -thats whats up! I recently started coaching a youth BBall team myself. I have a lot of work to do but the kids a real cool. I can’t lose!
Beautiful - that would be GREAT one, for whatever reason I have been a victim of “her girlfiends hate me!” all my adult life. I get past it though its just buggs me when they do it right from jump while Im gettin her number, Damn!
By DasV
December 11, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this
sshhhhh DEmiGOD its me. i was trynna jumpstart something wit 2 but iunno if its gonna snowball now. thinkin about just jumpin in the pool
By Demi
December 11, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this
DasV minus the prostate check Ms.Doctor can check anything she wants..her fine a$$
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
DasV way to much fun. LOL You seem to be the kinda chick thats down like four flat ones. In it till it falls apart. I like that.
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this
Staceye thatif 2 people can combine finances and purchase something as major as a house..then they should be married or engaged with a wedding day planned and set. Otherwise…it’s just half azzing it!
co-sign. girl, i did that for 8 yrs.
By binford
December 11, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this
Don’t bag on me Darrell! Its all good. Your comment made me chuckle and I needed that today (long day at the office).
AR Thanks for the vote of confidence.
Doing my best Joey impression to Staceye: how YOU doin!
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this
900K
It’s not that her girlfriends hate you. They really want you in secret, wish you would’ve chose them instead. You ever think of it like that?
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this
Demi stop calling folks out!…Lol
Cemeeli understands that to emulate Ruth and recieve Boaz that will invoke divine sanction. So imma glean my self foolish. :-)
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this
Foots Me and exman lived in a house his mom bought for him so we wouldn’t have to pay rent in an apt. Now that I think about it, she might have just been trying to speed up the marrying process. lol Anyway, we kept our accounts separate and split the bills 50/50 except when he lost his job and I was stretching myself thin to pay everything.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this
Super Truth Is that relation to the kissing disease mono?
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 1:15 PM | Link to this
brownsugarvixen u are so right! those jealous biatches are a trip.
By 2CPTG©
December 11, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this
DasV…….ok, the shyt is gettin old now…..I’m not trynna blast you, but please stop! really!
By DasV
December 11, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this
T yep i am your do-or-die chick….and even when it goes bad, imma stick lock-n-load.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this
Alright Coach Nine (as in 900K) it will be you i’ll contact when i need to get my lil guy to bring it! It was fun. They recieved uniforms last night and FINALLY after these years my son got #21 - Tim Duncan whom he admires.
My son has his own “mantra” for basketball of course or any team sport he always say to hisself and team mates: ‘Don’t ever be in a hurry to win’. I think that is so cool to be 8 years old and have that pace!
Proud mamma smiling.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this
Herpetic legions. Doesnt’ sound like fun. Cold sores - also very common, which are herpes. As with anything you need to exercise caution to those you engage in any activity with, but it doesn’t mean it’s prohibitive.
2CPTG - I never read the blog topic and ask “are you serious”..that comment is reserved for some of y’alls responses. LOL
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
Alright Coach Nine (as in 900K) it will be you i’ll contact when i need to get my lil guy to bring it! It was fun. They recieved uniforms last night and FINALLY after these years my son got #21 - Tim Duncan whom he admires.
My son has his own “mantra” for basketball of course or any team sport he always say to hisself and team mates: ‘Don’t ever be in a hurry to win’. I think that is so cool to be 8 years old and have that pace!
Proud mamma smiling.
By DasV
December 11, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
2CPTG LOL. but im bored! just trynna have some fun but alright. cause you say so, imma stop.
By Foots
December 11, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this
I never read the blog topic and ask “are you serious”..that comment is reserved for some of y’alls responses.
I do the same thing. When there is something that I prefer to not comment on, whether it’s a blogger or the topic, I just keep it moving. All of this stuff happens in somebody’s world or is a question in somebody’s head. The way I see it, I don’t have the right to belittle it just because I’m not having that issue or question.
By SeanJohnson3000
December 11, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
@ Foots…gotta a question…i know u asked about mixing money and living together…from reading you on the blog..i know u are independent and own your own home…if things with you and a guy that lived in an apt got serious…would u want him to move in with you? if so..how would bills be divided since everything is in your name already. has that happened before?
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
Beautiful… had to learn that lesson early on. Had a girlfriend whos man couldn’t stand me. Never ever did anything to him, always pleasant when we met. She’d share their arguments with me, and mysteriously my F’N name always came out of his mouth. Long story short, we all agreed to double date, she went to the ladies room, he pinned me in da corner, and tried to lock lips with me. I made every attempt to tell her she didn’t beleive me. Two kids later she left his dogin azz!
By Demi
December 11, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
2CPTG© can’t you and DavS hug and make up…from what I see..she is really trying, LOL
By 900K
December 11, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this
Don’t ever be in a hurry to win’. -Man that kid needs to be on my team! Way to go Cemeeli he’s a winner. This team sounds like they may play on the east side, do they wear purple?
BrownSugar - yeah I’ve thought of that, but it only makes me more aggi! It’s like they’re ruining a good ting just for kicks.
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this
I don’t have an issue with a girl’s REAL friends; it’s the ones who pose as friends who are the problem. See, her REAL friends have her best interest at heart and tell her the truth, even when it’s not what she wants to hear. Now the posers have no loyalty and won’t think twice about ruining your relationship, especially if it’s in their favor. And guys always knows the hater in the bunch. If there’s that one “friend” your man just can’t stand, then she’s probably the poser.
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this
Similac no, thats herpes lesions in the mouth. She says she see’s it all the time. One girl didn’t even know it was there.
Beautiful did you decide what your gonna do with the little pooch?
By DasV
December 11, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this
DemiG thanks, bruh… but i got this.
By Foots
December 11, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this
Preacher Truth I agree with the three account theory for marriage, but my question was more geared towards people who blend their lives, livelihood and living situation without the commitment of marriage. That seems to be a big thing these days.
Slim How did the 50/50 thing work out? Was there any resentment if the salaries were not near comparable, because the person with the lower salary had to pay the same thing?
By Page1908
December 11, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli your son is so cute for saying that! I will give him a Chico Stick next time…lol.
Maybe this was already mentioned, but who is having the meet and greet? I am so down with going, so someone let me know who I need to contact. I remember seeing pics of a few bloggers last year when we did the pic swap, so a meet and greet would be good, too.
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
Truth
Lesions in da mouth sounds rather gross right about now… a sista can feel her lunch turning in da stomach. Poor girl for not even knowing that it was there. I couldn’t be a dental hygenist, or doctor, cause when I see ish like that my patients would get the gas face. LMAO
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this
brownsugarvixen girl, u flipped it on me. lmao. you should of kneed him right in the ballz. ouch! lol. as for your friend, that’s to bad.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this
900K Lil Cemeeli has copy rights to that now I don’t want to hear you comming over the the West side of thangs talking bout “Don’t be in a hurry y’all” ….Lol…kidding.
He takes basketball the upmost seriious right now. I am amazed. He was not even trying hard to make shot and i was sitting way to the back wall of the bleachers and all i heard was NET for his shoots.
…of course i’m still (forget all that bb jazz) we going to Ikea and pick up the rest of your study desk so you will have a “space” to focus on your work! Now let’s JUST DO IT!
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
Foots
Just to chime in on da whole living 2gether and splitting the bills. Before I married, my hubbie and I would split everything 50/50. Worked well for us. When I changed work fields I took a pay cut. He picked up the rent and I caught all of the other bills and groceries. it’s been that way ever since. Works fine for us!
By Foots
December 11, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
SJ I haven’t had that particular situation before. I did have an ex that lived in my house for three months until his own house was finished. Because it wasn’t permanent, we decided on a set amount that he would pay me each month for living expenses. It wasn’t half, but it was fair.
I would only live with someone if we are engaged and in the months leading up to the wedding. If he’s in an apartment, he can live with me for the space. But once we are married and things are settled financially, I would want us to look for a place that we can call “ours”. I don’t want to move into a man’s house either to live permanently, because that’s his house. The houses I have are mine. They will all become our rental property if we keep them, but we will need to find a house that is “ours”.
Now here’s a question that I can’t answer yet, but maybe you can: If you have a house and are marrying someone who doesn’t and you move into new house after the marriage and sell the other house, how will the profit from the sale of the house be divided? Will it all go into the couple’s savings so they both receive the benefit? Or if you have separate accounts, will it go into the account of the person who owned that house as the reward for their years of investment and foresight?
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
Truth no. i really want him with me. for one, he doesn’t deserve the easier way out and two, don’t want to put the responsibility on someone in CA to take care of him for 5 days. he’s a handful. very very hyper.
By DasV
December 11, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this
CEE you’s raisin a ‘man’ there lady!
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this
Beautiful
My bad girl, that was a flashback that I thought was suppressed…LMAO. But for real I experienced this situation in HS with my sweetheart. A girl friend of mine would always be hatin on da side line. I had to cut her loose. Every other day it was some ish about what she done, seen or heard. Then her finishin line was girl he so cute..WTF
Thirsty Azz headhunters
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this
Foots I stand corrected. Personally I would never mix finances with a woman that didn’t share my last name. Relationships these days are just to temporary to have to unwind money matters along with hurt feelings.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
Thanks Page a.k.a. Chico Stick lady :-). Sometimes he amazes me to tears and i’m like …Thank you Jesus b/c w/his help to do this parent/momma thing. Planting good seed in children = a feeling to see how God feels about us. waving @ Demi
By Demi
December 11, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this
Foots I feel you on that livin together, payin bill, got 5 or 9 kid, but we ain’t married thingy.
Naw, boo…this my house and you have you own…feel free to f/k the ish outta meh, pay a few of a brother’s bills and go home, LOL
foots you know your little blog bro aint right, so please over look my comment
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this
Ok so kissing is cheating…..
Gotta get back to work. I’ll catch up
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this
Das “you’s raisin a ‘man’ there lady!” Is that a line from the Color Purple?
By 900K
December 11, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this
Cee -I’m no thief, my 9-10yr olds are just happy to be out there. That was cool until we scrimmaged a team who’s motto was “Kill em breathin!” or somethin like that. We got dogged, like I said we have work to do. But I know we’ll get there.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this
@ DasV…sounding like a cast memeber of the “Color Purple”…but Thanks lady.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this
Splitting finances before marriage? No no no. Living together before marriage? No no no.
When it’s time for me to start saving for a wedding/lifetime together, I’m getting roommates to rent out my two extra rooms and he will do the same.
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this
Foots The only time resentment came into play was when i was the only one working for like 3 months. But when we were both working it just worked out for us. He made more than me at the time so if i was running low without question he took care of it. Most of the entertainment we engaged in was footed by him. As far as like household crap, I mainly took care of the inside, he tended more to the yard and stuff.
I’ll never forget the day he cleaned the house from top to bottom by the time I got home from work AND cooked dinner. memories ahhhhh
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this
@ Demi…. Naw, boo…this my house and you have you own…feel free to f/k the ish outta meh, pay a few of a brother’s bills and go home,
LMAO
By Foots
December 11, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this
Preacher Yeah, one of my co-workers told me that his boss bought his girlfriend a car as a surprise. That’s nice and everything, but if the note is in his name, is it really her car? If they break things off, does he get the car back? Or is it really a gift, and he’ll keep paying the note after they are no longer together as a risk of the major purchase? There are so many questions that are the “we’ll cross that bridge when we get to it” type for a lot of folks, but things get hairy when you’re in the middle of a bad breakup and have to make decisions like these. I say, don’t do it, until there’s a legal bond there, and therefore, a legal dissolution.
Demi You’re excused. I know you crazy.
By DasV
December 11, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
darrell and CEE i dont remember that being a line out of the color purple…. what part?? its after lunch
2CPTG you ready for me yet?
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this
Ex this is JustMe. JM this is my ex. lmao.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this
**Another off-topic (3rd one today): Who said it?
Catch phrases from movies, commercials and television shows
“Nothing but death can keep me from her” “It takes a lickin and keeps on tickin” “Say hello to my little friend” “Up your nose with a rubber hose” “King Kong, ain’t got nothin’ on me” “I’ve fallen, and I can’t get up” “You had me at hello” “They call me Mister Tibbs” “You gotta make it do what it do, baby” “Plop, plop, Fizz, fizz, oh what a relief it is” “Waaaakkkeee UUUPPPP (Wake Up)!!!!!” “Can you hear me now” “Once you pop, you can’t stop” “How YOU during (doing)?” “Strong enough for a man, but made for a woman” “Kiss my grits” “Elizabeth, I’m coming to join you honey” “Never touch a black man’s radio” “You can’t handle the truth” “I outta punrch chu in the face?”
By Foots
December 11, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this
I have to get out of here for an appointment. Hate to miss the rest of the convo, but I’ll see what I missed later… Y’all have a good night.
By SeanJohnson3000
December 11, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this
@ Foots…if we were married…if we didnt have to..i wouldnt want to sell anything unless it was a big profit to be made…in the case of it being my property…Half of half would go to my wife to spend/invest how ever she wants and hopely i will marry a submissive female that will inturn give the money back to me and let me handle it for her. The rest of the money is mine and wouldnt be seen again by her…….
By Rell
December 11, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this
@slim…dayum you could not ride for three months or more…i mean when he had it you where all good..most of the entertainment footed by him…but i guess when the money is gone the honey is too….dayum…..that is deep right there..he did not resent when your lil money arse was on the come up….fellas this is what you get when you lead with your wallet and not your mouthpiece….smh
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this
900K you’re right because the boys just loose it or something when the basketballs are realeased in the gym for free play. As i was telling another parent last night. My son grew up in sports (since 4years old)..All the learning pains from the last 4-5 years are folding together. But basketball come naturally to him he has no basketball hoops anywhere at home. Now that’s funny.
*…might get a Nerf one for a stoking stuffer…
By Demi
December 11, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this
Planting good seed in children = a feeling to see how God feels about us
Cemeeli after that stunt Li’Demi pull with his mom sunday night..thinking:justbecausehecangotothepottywithoutbeingtoldhecanplayinhisshyt…His mom turn into an angel of immawhipthislittleboya$$…Mayne, li’Demi jump into the tub and turned that water on so fast, it wasn’t funny, LMAOROTFLMAO
His mom got him good though and made him clean up
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
DasV
I’on know but Darrell better not start trying to get in my head agian! That’s cwasi!
I was just saying it b/c you sound like Miss Sophia…not that i actually heard it in the movie.
By DasV
December 11, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this
sexyLeggs i got most of them. LOL@ your list of ‘sayins’
By Tazzee
December 11, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
afternoon all!
I know you guys have changed the topic but I have to say that if a guy’s mouth isn’t appealing to me then he has to have a great personality for me to continue dealing with him. The mouth is my shallow point because I love to kiss. On the flip side, a sexy mouth has gotten a guy with personality flaws further than he would if he had an ordinary mouth.
When I was 15, I dated this guy that told my best friend (we were all on 3-way) I couldn’t kiss. I was devastated at first, but I remember him giving me lessons after that. I’m not one to really toot my own horn on the blog - no problems in person but I am a very good kisser. Guys that I’ve dated that didn’t like to kiss, loved to kiss after I put it on them.
The only problem is…since I’m not trying to seal the deal, I really don’t get to kiss like I like often. I don’t want to be a tease, so I pretty much keep the kisses light.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this
Ruuuunnn lil Demi, run!
:-) my goodness the things that children do & say…right !?!
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this
sexyleggs “You gotta make it do what it do, baby” I can see Jamie everytime i hear this.
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this
Rell WOW! You took that little post of mine and ran with it…The resentment did not come from him being out of work. The resentment came from him not actively looking for another job! The resentment came from him asking me for gas money to drive over to his friends house to smoke trees all day! The resentment came from me working all fuggin day and having to come home to shyt everywhere and a whole bunch of kneegrows at the crib playing madden! Those my unknowledgeable friend are the reasons I was resentful. Next time, why not ASK me the details before you go trying to make me your next Oh I’m SO bored and need to spice it up on the blog scapegoat.
Oh, you mind taking your foot out of your mouth, I can’t seem to understand what you’re saying.
By mqew
December 11, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
Morning…
I know yall have changed topics, but I would like to weigh in while I’m trying not to fall asleep at my desk.
I was never big on kissing. Never. Until I met the one. I had did him a favor and was turning to leave his room and he grabbed my arm… It started off slow, and I was a little tense, but BOI! A second later my shoulders dropped because I melted.
Looking back, I guess it wasn’t so much the kiss as it was the realization that this was it. Anyhoo that’s all I got.
Off topic: SJ3 - WTH! What does her being submissive have to do with her giving you the money back. Actually, why give it to her in the first place if all you really want is to do with it as you like?
By Rell
December 11, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this
@slime….i am not bored…and what did i run with…you were cool with all that behavior when he keep feeding you 50 dollar bills…but when he is unemployeed did you think he would change…hell now, and dont say you never say or experience non of the above before he lost his job..so you need to own that one..you decide to hitch your star on that production..but he is to blame for being himself..that is your POOR JUDGEMENT….ya dig….you were the one that was on rental for a short period of time…that all it was an exchange of goods…if you need help in managing clients next time i can help you…ya dig..and i would be resentful too if all i was getting was a swoll jellyroll and my pockets sucked try….whos the smart one and whos the fool…you tell me
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
I got most myself, but can’t think of #1. I keep seeing Marlin Brando in my mind screaming S T E L L A!. I know that’s not it so the block is up.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this
Ah Slim, and dudes worry about letting their lady stay at home, thinking she was going to watch soaps and eat bon bons. The guy you had ended up being much worse. Yikes. LOL
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this
Binford Joey was my fav of the friends! LOL Of course I loved Phoebe…”Smelly cat..Smelly cat. What are they feeding you?”!
Cemeeli are you one of those mamas that embarass your baby at his game screaming to the top of your lungs, “That’s MY baby”! LOL My mami did that at all my pageants, talents shows, dance receitals and plays. I finally started acting like I did not know who that crazy lady claiming me was. But that did not work….I am told am am her splitting image. Darn…there goes that switched at birth theory! LOL
ARED I co-sign your 2:05.
Sexyleggs you are making me think! LOL
SJ shall this “wife” of your tap dance for you and say yessir massa? What in the %$#@ kind of crap is that?
By 900K
December 11, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
CEE - I’m over here planning tmrw’s practice as we speak. Back to the basics! the prob is I’m taking over for a dead beat coach who just left them hanging so they were not shown anything 1st game Sat. Nerf huh? You might want to invest in sum’n a lil more authentic. Don’t worry I’d be glad to help you set it up.
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this
Rell Homie…buddy….Where are you getting your stance…you were cool with all that behavior when he keep feeding you 50 dollar bills When did i ever say he was balling like that or that he was lining my pockets. Paying admission to the movies every once in a while hardly constitues throwing $50 my way.
Yea he did some of those things prior to losing his job. I had no issue with him playing madden or even smoking trees because I was the one having them rolled up ready to fiya up when he got home.
you were the one that was on rental for a short period of time On what calendar is 8yrs a short period of time??? You are SOOOOOOOOO in left field but since you like to read your own post you are totally free to do so. And as far as who the smart one is…in this case it sure as hayo isn’t you.
Yall trip me out. One minute you’re talking about you need a chick that can experience some things with you, go through the trenches with you. The next minute you calling the chicks that stand behind your stupid azzes, dumb for hanging in there with you in the trenches. The ole, talk outta both sides of your mouth deal rears its ugly head. As I heard somewhere earlier this morning…The truth need only be stated once.
Slim drops the mic and walks away from the podium. When she passes by Rell she whispers in his ear You can get the finger….the middle.
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this
I really want to pummel For Real for his blog topics. ROTFLMAO!!!
Some of those are sure fire starters too…”women can opt out of motherhood but men cant?” What crack are YOU smoking?!
By SeanJohnson3000
December 11, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
@ mgnew..never mind me…at times i like to get my Ike Turner on…to late in the day to take me serious..
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
*standing ovation for Slim’s 3:24. * The paragraph about hanging in there with em is the absolute truth!
By SeanJohnson3000
December 11, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
@ Staceye…i prefer belly dancing or strip tease…u have any experience in either?
By DasV
December 11, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
HOLLERI@for REALs post. some of those actually need to be discussed….
By 900K
December 11, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this
The resentment came from me working all fuggin day and having to come home to shyt everywhere and a whole bunch of kneegrows at the crib playing madden! -Hold up Slim What you got against Madden??? Are you an anti Maddenite or sum’n huh? Here this brah is trying to earn YALL some $$$ by winning the next big Madden tournament and all you see is the bad… LOL!
Sorry I had to mess w/ you on that one
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
If Jayz didn’t have money would the blog women date him? yes. unattractive men are the best ones to date.
By Demi
December 11, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this
Slim drops the mic and walks away from the podium. When she passes by Rell she whispers in his ear You can get the finger….the middle.
Wow..demi is speechless as he past the mic to Rell..Get her dawg!!
By DasV
December 11, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this
slimONE snappin fingers in the air
By Dan
December 11, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
Uh, on the For Real list:
Do all women believe that they have gold between their legs?
Uh, could that be a topic one day?
By For Real
December 11, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this
A-Red each and every state has that law on the books. It ain’t crack.
By brownsugarvixen
December 11, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this
Wow…can we say spoon fed, in ya deep throat.
Rell you should have left that one alone buddy. LMAO
By Rell
December 11, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
@SLIM….i am not impressed..why you tender…again if you rolling them up for him…that means you cosigning the behavior..so why are you mad…again, you were down for the cause but i guess when you say it is time to change then he is suppose to…naw lady…but if you want to give me the finger go ahead…lol, i am still laughing at the madness of it all…..you rolling them up, prolly smoking with him..but when you decide to grow up and he does not…..so he wrong or a bum for being himself..i am done..i accept your middle finger lady..thanks
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this
Clolr me green, but WTH does this mean? Why don’t women toss off more, especially when it’s so easy? ANybody???
Beautiful You know an Ex or two of mines??
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this
Color me green, but WTH does this mean? Why don’t women toss off more, especially when it’s so easy? ANybody???
Beautiful You know an Ex or two of mines??
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this
Color me green, but WTH does this mean? Why don’t women toss off more, especially when it’s so easy? ANybody???
Beautiful You know an Ex or two of mines??
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
Yet, men make the choice to forgo fatherhood everyday of the year. Go figure, For Real.
By mqew
December 11, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this
Please, please scuse the grammar, …had did?? Thas not right! A nyhoo, 4Real are those rhetorical? I’m going to answer the ones I feel.
JayZ he11 to the naw!! Not wit the loot! Me and my friends actually call him Grape Ape!
Actually, most don’t care that you think sports is sooo important.
Most women think it’s more than just gold, I’ll have you know. And, I submit to you that more women need to believe that it’s gold!
Since when is it easy to “toss off”?
Nothing is really wrong with you scratching, I just hope that you stank azz is on the way to the shower, cause that’s what that means to me. (WASH YO AZZ!)
Although I love a cold beer, I’d have to say a cocktail is better. A good one! Maybe a Manhatten at the Ritz. Or even a Martini with umm Belvedere Hmmmmm mmmm!
By For Real
December 11, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this
Slim I think that first time I have ever read you mad. I can see that big ole vain in your pants trobbing. Should I feel bad for feeling aroused?
For Real now wipping off the mic and handing it to Rell
Beautiful Please explain.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this
Staceye Yes’ that’s me and i gets mine!!!…;-0 of course after all the lil guys go to the looker room or somewhere. Otherwise in eyes sight of everyone i get the T-Pain shoulder and a ^5.
900K Well kids are disappointed when a grown up does not show em support. Good for you. & to late already purchased the Nerfy from Target. I may get the authentic for b-day. See we wants that Wii for Christmas so another big ticket is not going to happen. Thanks for offering to help put the goal up!
ForReal I understand the sports thing and men…but you ain’t scratching nothing around me! uhn..un.
By Rell
December 11, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this
and dasV you snappin your fingers…typical head rolling finger snapping hood rat sh**t….ya chicks crack me up cosigning bad judgement….but its cool get your head rolling finger snapping on..i will sit in amazement….lol….first you rolling em tight and prolly smoking yourself…aaaaaaaaaaaaa neba mind….yea keep it coming…lol….
dan, and hell yes they think the poo see is gold and break down any man….lol…that would be a good topic to discuss
By melo
December 11, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this
What percentage of the blog ladies do you believe is hittable? I think Darrell has lowered his estimate based on ARed’s response to his Staceye pursuit.
Do all women really believe they have gold between their legs its the man fault for pushing the price up. Who’s the finest women? SexxyL and Foots
By Darrell (of blackthen.com)
December 11, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this
Melo
“What percentage of the blog ladies do you believe is hittable? I think Darrell has lowered his estimate based on ARed’s response to his Staceye pursuit.”
Dayum! Dayum! Dayum! LOL!
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
900k You’re funny. I have nothing against Madden. You’re right I guess I should’ve cheered him on on the sidelines in hopes he’d win the championship. LOL
Demi stop instigating…LMAO
Rell I’m not here to impress you. I’m not here to impress anybody. When I rolled them up, we were both smoking…true. When I rolled them up he was also coming home from a job. So my issue was not with him smoking. As I previously stated, the issue was with him not actively looking for a job leaving me out there to fend for both of us. The first month I was understanding & supportive. The second month I’m like, look here maybe you should try X, Y Z…trying to offer assistance…but dayum by month 3 I was really struggling to keep us on top. I’m not going to go into all that because frankly I just don’t feel like it. You’re trying to make it seem like I was trying to change him. I just wanted him to TRY and he wasn’t doing it at that time. If you ask him today about it, he isn’t proud of that but he most definitely appreciates me sticking by him. I’m not going to apologize for holding it down while he was going through his short bout of hysteria. It wasn’t a matter of me wanting to grow up and making him grow up with me. When we met he had a job so what the h3ll are you talking about? He was wrong for being so lazy and nonchalant about looking for a job then. We live and learn. If i was with someone now in a long term relationship and it came a point that i needed to step up for my dude then I would. I’m not a fly by night chick. I love hard or not at all. And I don’t apologize for that. Seems like you have something you want to get off your chest.
You accept my middle finger, thats good. You’re welcome to the other one if you like.
By 900K
December 11, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
Is there a specific tone that men somehow reach with their voice that causes women to hear the exact opposite of what you said? - This one right HERE!!! I could hear the sparks fly…brrraaatttt! Not sure about it though cause it happens on here some times from writing. It’s all perception. I say “I love this world Im in” she says “What you cant love beyond this world… thats what I be talkin bout wit yo stupid azz!”
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this
Blog Topic Did Juanita Jordan deserve $250 mil?
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this
I don’t know how to do the head rolling finger snapping thing. I look like a spastic doo doo bird.
ForReal, Do all women really believe they have gold between their legs?* Yes, most do. Those walking the streets don’t and that’s why they’re there. Just another form of confidence for those who think it. Mine is platninum…JK. Really, I’m kidding.
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this
For Real i’m gonna speak for myself only cause i don’t want my azz kicked two days in a row. lol. anyhoo, ugly or unattractive men are better lovers. pretty men are too much work for me personally. there’s too many women wanting them and they know it, so they act on it. my ex is not attractive and people used to ask me all the time, why? well, for one he can throw down and two those lips, plus he’s a professional (i love men in uniform). kinda silly but so true.
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this
Paging Sister SlimOne, Paging Sister SlimOne Can you repeat that 3:24er one mo gin for the fellas!!
Beautiful The flip side of dating an unattrictive brother is that they turn to stalkers. I still have one 3 years and counting. I admit to a bit of encouragement during my time of hadicappedness (looking shameful)
By Daily Lurker
December 11, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this
UGHHHHHHHHH Staceye why do u always feel the need to constantly bring up your modeling, acting, and pageants! get over yoself already! we heard u the first hundred times.
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this
900K - said “I love this world Im in” she says “What you cant love beyond this world… thats what I be talkin bout wit yo stupid azz!” That’s some real left field mess.
Do not entertain HOT MESS thinking.
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this
For Real you are gonna leave my name alone! LOL
SJ I am an expert at both! I belly danced ata Morrocan resturant back home for fun and extra cash.
By Rell
December 11, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this
there was no malice toward you lady, but now that you have explain to a degree then i can see both sides..but often the women paint themselves the victim and not willing co-stars…ya dig…..so i will apologize if i was out of bounds but i felt like there was more and i was right..and him not trying came from him no longer be able to provide…feel me…but again no malice..and i can take the other one as well….lol..again why so tender….i guess tough love or open discussion is out of the question on the blog…
By Demi
December 11, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
women can opt out of motherhood but men cant
like, if you know buddy is not ready to be a father…
Why have his child…why are so upset he’s not paying child support…
why are you upset with him not being involve in the child’s life…when you know he’s no good…
why don’t more women just turn the kids over to their fathers and pay child support…
why is it easier for a brother who I wouldn’t trust with a penny to gain your trust, than a brother who stood by you in the fires of HADES
why are women so hateful towards one another
why do women want you to eat them forever and only blow you for five…Let me stop, i’ve had some all nite pros…I am just saying.
Beautiful Awwwwwwww…Dayum, Imma good dude now’n’then, God is not through with me yet, LOL
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this
JustMe The stupid azzes part? lmao lmao lmao
By 900K
December 11, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this
Cee -I got your back…
Staceye- What up! I do recall you mentioned sum’n bout brah’s & the other side…Hmmm never mind tho.
Do all women really believe they have gold between their legs? -Well as a man if you have to question the value of this you may want to speak to a priest! To me its priceless, of course not all of em have what Im looking for but who the h3ll is thinkin about them. If you mean money for sex than thats totally different, “there ain’t a day I ever bought it you could audit my life!”.
By For Real
December 11, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this
To all gold or platinum are only as valuable as someone is willing to pay for it. Also, with so much gold and platinum walking around, how does that impact supply and demand?
By Rell
December 11, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this
MAN she not spitting no game…we already now what we want but to be honest…MEN SETTLE JUST FOR SEX..specially when we young or in our second child hood…truth be told most women dont even measure up to our ideal women..so either we settle on the easy hit or we will date mulitple women with all the qualities we want..we never meet one with all of them…trust that….hell if we get one with 80 percent we happy…but most men are unhappy with there mate….check the strip club…i could go on…but the truth is not served here..just the fluff so i will break out my smoothie machine again..ya dig
By RELL MUST THINK HE'S CUTE
December 11, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this
Ladies ….He’s NOT!
By Kara
December 11, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this
most women dont even measure up to our up to our ideal women <
By DasV
December 11, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this
RELL its obvious you have never been to a poetry session….snappin fingers is respect, acknowlegement that someone just spoke on what they know….
no head or eye-rolling here. thats juvenile. but i know you spoke from what you know. i have to admit nikkas like you make it hard not to head and eye roll… cause you just so triflin….you always on here counseling, trynna school but you dont speak on what you know. you need to go sit down somewhere and be still, but mostly quiet… center yourself mayne. before you explode from stupid overload
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this
Men get tripped up thinking that we’re focused on the gold “between our legs.” No. It’s gold between my legs, ears, eyes. The whole thing is gold! Or as SexyLeggs said…PLATINUM!
By Page1908
December 11, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this
LOL Rell, most men don’t measure up to a woman’s ideal man, so what is your point?
By Cemeeli
December 11, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this
For Real pass that mic boi!
Um Slim n Rell see ForReal’s bullet: gone
Anybody else notice that ForReals post/bullets have been removed?
By Rell
December 11, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this
By Beautiful
December 11, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
If Jayz didn’t have money would the blog women date him? yes. unattractive men are the best ones to date.
I guess that’s why up my a**
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this
NOW THIS IS SOME FUNNY SHYT LOL
By Page1908
December 11, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this
LOL @ DasV!
By Kara
December 11, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
most women dont even measure up to our up to our ideal women
HILARIOUS - pure comedic gold. You mean the video chick that doesn’t speak at all, right?
I doubt that you are evolved enough to have an ideal woman, and you sure couldn’t keep her happy if you met one. please STFU
By Dan
December 11, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this
Be real…Asking a genuine question ladies.
If all women are anatomically the same, what makes your sex more valuable than the next one?
Take the example of a car. A Lexus will get you to the same place a Pacer will, it costs more to purchase and more for the upkeep than does the Pacer. But they perform the same function.
Take a house. With all of the mortgage troubles now, I have to ask, who’s doing the appraising. Considering the odd that every woman has cheated or been cheated on, right there you have a drop in market price. Also, without independent verification, you may be overvaluing the property and undervaluing the area (and to those that didn’t get that, over valuing the vagina, and undervaluing the whole of the woman).
So, take your pick…Enron stock, A Lexus, or a California shore home…when you place that much value on anything the forces of supply and demand eventually drive down the price.
From you friendly financial adviser
By Rell
December 11, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this
LOL..cute, keep it coming….lol…but this is what i expected..no problem….lol
By Demi
December 11, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this
Did Juanita Jordan deserve $250 mil
Yeah, my boy mike was poppin off on different h0es left and right doing their marriage and they where both dead broke when they met.
If you mean money for sex than thats totally different, “there ain’t a day I ever bought it you could audit my life!”.
Ish, if you gotta put gas in the tank, pick up some food’n’drinks, on the way to her house…you’re buying some a$$ LOL
You’re buying it in one form or another.
If you’re looking for a meanful relationship, that’s a bit different…
By Angel007
December 11, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this
Rell other than the sex with women. You don’t seem to be a very positive brother. Anytime a woman make a post you try to flip the script. What chip do you have super glued to ya shoulder.
Sounds like a you have issues, r u single? If so, I see why
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli Is there anyway we can put Rell in bullet format to make him disappear too. Let’s try shall we
Rell
Rell
Rell
Rell
Is he still here? Lmao!!!!!!!
By Page1908
December 11, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO @ Kara. wow
By DreamsMaterialize
December 11, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this
@Amazon Red
Unfortunately, Platinum is rare, one of the reasons for it’s high price compared to other precious metals. I’ve definitely know some whose “whole thing” was NOT platinum, but they still thought they had diamonds between their legs. Maybe you could educate some of the women folk on the difference between diamonds and coal. lol
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this
Guess the operative word there is IF. Ok, here goes. We may be built the same but we won’t work it the same. OKAY!!!!
By Staceye
December 11, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this
Daily Lurker Obviously YOU’RE not over me if it bothers you so! WHATEVER! There are new folks on the blg as ARED mentioned before…and I think its ok to be proud of your activities, sororities, frats, etc. Just because you have have no life doesn’t mean a d@mn thing to me!
900 huh? What are you talking about?
Demi like, if you know buddy is not ready to be a father if he ain’t ready..he should keep it in his pants. he is a grown azz man and he knows tha consequences of his actions.
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
Good Night Blog!
Last one to leave turn off the lights
ps - and wipe up all the blood too!
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
Also Dan, I may be wrong, but if It is worked right the overall value of a woman is deepened in the eyes of a man.
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
Good Night Blog!
Last one to leave turn off the lights
ps - and wipe up all the blood too!
By JustMe
December 11, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this
Good Night Blog!
Last one to leave turn off the lights
ps - and wipe up all the blood too!
By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth
December 11, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this
Actually the fellas think the diznik is golden too. We all think that what we have is the greatest thing going. The magic is finding someone that agrees with us. LOL
Y’all keep posting becasue this is hilarious.
Don’t close the blog tonight Bella. LOL
By Gina
December 11, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this
what’s the alternative to not thinking you and all that you offer isn’t gold? You don’t think you have anything to offer a mate? I mean really, just find those low self-esteem chicks and be happy with them. Let the people that are about something do their thing.
By 900K
December 11, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Demi -valid point as usual, but I don’t leave any cash on the night stand.
Dan - Are you hearing yourself? do you even like cooch??
Everyone knows I get knocked around by ladies all day in here. But I can’t just let you dudes talk about one of my fav tings in the world man! 100% pure; gentlemen… disco shyt
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Lawd, y’all folks are a trip…too funny. LOL
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening!
By Angel007
December 11, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this
Slim girl you a dayum fool. LMAO
He likes the attention he gets in blogville…cuz if he was talking that same ish in person. I’d leave dat azz on point in da middle of a date. Nikkas wonderin why females view them da way we do. Like I’ve said before..step ya game up. He know good & dayum well, he spends money to get da puddytat, cuz that attitude is a straight turn off. No kiss, no hugs, no azzzzzzzzzzzz nikka
By Angel007
December 11, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this
Slim girl you a dayum fool. LMAO
He likes the attention he gets in blogville…cuz if he was talking that same ish in person. I’d leave dat azz on point in da middle of a date. Nikkas wonderin why females view them da way we do. Like I’ve said before..step ya game up. He know good & dayum well, he spends money to get da puddytat, cuz that attitude is a straight turn off. No kiss, no hugs, no azzzzzzzzzzzz nikka
By Got that?
December 11, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this
Wow…bloodied, disemboweled carcasses scattered all through this blog.
By Dan
December 11, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this
Let end on a good note.
In all honesty, sex is a transistive property. It’s an act that lasts…as long as it lasts.
What increases a woman’s value to a man is everything outside the bedroom, few things in it.
So if we can’t get right outside that bedroom door, there’s no hope for us in there (and I should be with your sister, in that case).
Really, you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all. They all perform the same service….only the sounds are any different.
good night
By DasV
December 11, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this
yea, we know you laughin to keep from cryin…. but you be gone soon cause slim done put the bullett voodoo on ya!
now turning off lights and leavin a note for the janitor to mop up the blood
By Demi
December 11, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this
Staceye nope it’s call abortion…Thats the problem I have with women…it only cost $300.00 these days.
Maybe you could educate some of the women folk on the difference between diamonds and coal
LOL
By Angel007
December 11, 2007 5:05 PM | Link to this
Nite All… Rell don’t be ridin home p** at da ladies of da blog. We don’t accept your apology neither is your hositility welcome. When you calmn down and have somethin positive to say we’ll have you back. HOLLA.
By SexyLeggs
December 11, 2007 5:07 PM | Link to this
Hello, is it still open @ Truth’s request? Hello, Hello, Hello!!!….LOL
By AmazonRed
December 11, 2007 5:10 PM | Link to this
Exactly @ Dreams, many women are walking around not thinking they are platinum or any other precious metal. Trust, there are many chicks that behave in the mindset that they are as valuable as aluminum foil.
I must profess that we all have our moments of insecurity…I’m platinum most days, but can admit that there are times I’ve acted like copper. LOL
By SlimOne
December 11, 2007 5:10 PM | Link to this
Angel007 Girl you said it. I’d just drop the mic after that. No follow-up needed. He made cuz ole chicken head azz girl of his didn’t have change for a $5 to get no azz, so he all uptight.
Rell I heard Okra slime will work just as good as vaseline. Try it and let me know how it everything turned out