Misadventures in Atlanta

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

Morning ya’ll!!!

On topic she’s right. Guys are on their own call schedule. I personally don’t call, unless he calls first. I used to check the phone to make sure it works back in the day. Don’t do it anymore. If he calls, great. If he doesn’t, moving on … … . .

Off topic I have exciting news. Lol. I introduced my co-worker to online dating and she met a tall handsome 32 yr. old guy from East Point. She was not tryin’ to hear it about dating people from the internet, but after talking to her for months she finally broke down. They met last night at the mall around 6pm. I received a call shortly after that from her screaming “he’s so freakin’ cute!”. Lol. Later, around 10pm, she called me back. They were still at the mall! Lol. They walked around window shopping and ate dinner. Ahhhh. Gurl, they were literally kicked out of the mall when it closed. Lol. They sat in the car and lip locked for alittle while, then stood outside her car freezin’ to death trying to say bye. Lol. Anyways, the moral of this story is “there’s no difference between dating a guy from a club and dating a guy from an online dating service”.

By Dan

November 29, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this

For me, punctuality is important but not really. I myself am not beholdent to time.

So if I don’t get a call in a certain amount of time, it doesn’t bother me. The way I feel, catch me if you can. I personally believe that I’m in demand and I’m the catch.

By 2CPTG©

November 29, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

so, Beautiful, what about you? surely you’re trying to find your online guy, aren’t you? It worked for your girl…

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

Hi Dan. I love your attitude. :)

By DreamsMaterialize

November 29, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

Morning.

I try to call within the first few days, otherwise if you wait too long it can feel awkward having to explain where/how we met. You have to call while the impression you made is still hot! Now if you’re not really interested, then that’s something different.

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

2C since i’m moving back home, i’m tryin’ my hardest not to date. it’s been tough, trust me. lol.

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

If you’re waiting for someone to call you for a weekend date, how late in the week will you put off making other plans?

Funny… my girlfriend and I were just talking about this last night. Here is what I don’t get - well, I get why guys/people do it, but I don’t get why they do it. If I call you early in the week and say “Hey, do you have any plans for Friday?” and he says “No” then I say “Okay, let’s X,Y,Z on Friday” and he says “That sounds cool, I’ll let you know…”

…huh??? Did you just say you didn’t have any plans??? Like I said — I get it, but I don’t get it. I realize the whole reasoning behind why people do it, but I work on a first come first serve basis. If I make plans with you, I keep them no matter what else comes up later in the week. I asked a guy over for dinner once and he gave me the “I’ll let you know line”, when he called back a few days later to confirm/agree, I just made it seem like I’d already made other plans….

That ish makes my butt burn!!!!!

By 2CPTG©

November 29, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this

c’mon, gal…..live!!!!! scrap your inhibitions, and live life…..as your girl is a shining example for you, take that as a glimmer of hope, and test the waters….

By Rell

November 29, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

@Beautiful…lip locking in the car….smell my finger….lol….man that is some high high level simpin…walking around the mall window shopping…then dinner….lol…but i guess it got him a woody and some spit…overall a good night i guess…lol

on topic- if he does not call on time, that means he is busy…period…dont read too much into…he will call when he has time for you….guys that are busy or dont manage there life around calling you should be on your radar..

By Itsime

November 29, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

@ Beutiful That was a sweet story; i hope it works out for them. The very same thing happen to me when I tried the internet dating thing. Unfortunately mine took another spin. Although he said he didn’t play the number game. he was always on-line seeking to find other possibilities. Kind of remind me of meeting a guy in the club. ( you can always expect him there every weekend doing the same thing he was doing when you met him)LOL. Anyhoo I hope it works for your friend.

By SlimDiva

November 29, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

Good morning! Did everyone arrive to work late today?

On topic…I usually keep my word…I call when I say I’m going to call. I don’t sit around and wait for anyone to call me. If a man doesn’t call when he say that he will, I take it as a lack of honesty/integrity. Our words are our bond. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

I don’t accept dates that are made after 8pm, Wednesday. I have too many other things that I would like to do. Besides, I don’t want anyone to feel that I’m easily accesible to them.

Have a great day!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

Morning Good People!!!!

By DreamsMaterialize

November 29, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

If you’re waiting for someone to call you for a weekend date, how late in the week will you put off making other plans?

I don’t put off making other plans at all. Can’t let my schedule revolve around someone else’s.

By Bella

November 29, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful Stop trying to steal tomorrow’s blog topic! =D More on that later…

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 29, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

If you’re waiting for someone to call you for a weekend date, how late in the week will you put off making other plans?

This doesn’t happen…I never wait on anyone to make plans. I simply do what I want to do and if I’m available come the weekend then it’s all gravy! I did have a guy I was dating before tell me that I need to step up my game if I wanted this to go anywhere though…

But I don’t think it would sit to kindly with me if a dude tell me he doesn’t have any plans and then i offer to make some and he’s like I’ll get back to you. I would probably read that as he’s waiting for a better opportunity. I want to date the guy where I AM that better opportunity!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

I learned early on this is just a commonly used phrase and that calling is not a thing most women or men do…When folk want to hook up they do and if they don’t there is no contact…Texting to me has replaced calling…J

By Rell

November 29, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

Men the way around this problem is to instruct the women to call you at a specific time….ladies how do you feel about calling a man if you are interested in him….this way we can cut thru most of the bull-ish….like if you like me then you will call…if you dont then i know i have 3-6 months worth of impress me dates….so ladies would you call if your interested?

By Dan

November 29, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

I think a lot dating miscommunication involves a concept touched on by SlimDiva.

Fact is hubris is killing the game. You ain’t “too good” for nothing. And the minute you get into your head that you are TG for him, that, there…you just cost yourself time and possibly a really good opportunity to get to know yourself.

Now I can be arrogant about myself (capabilities, accomplishments, etc.) but I’m never as crazy as to believe that I’m TG for anyone. By that same token there is a woman born of a man alive that is TG for me.

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

I don’t accept dates that are made after 8pm, Wednesday. I have too many other things that I would like to do. Besides, I don’t want anyone to feel that I’m easily accesible to them.

That made me giggle Itsime

I struggle with the availability issue b/c right now, I just don’t have a whole lot going on so a lot of times, I am available. I really hate the “game” but at the same time you don’t want to seem easily accessible

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

I did have a guy I was dating before tell me that I need to step up my game if I wanted this to go anywhere though…

LDD what did he mean by that???

By Jay

November 29, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. When a person says they’re going to call and don’t. THings happen. If you’re in a committed relationship, I think it’s a given you will have plans for the week-end. If you’re just met someone and ask someone out on monday. They may not have plans for the week-end. So they weigh their options so see whatels will come up. Sorry but it’s the truth.

By QC

November 29, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers…have a great day

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

My issue is when they volunteer to call, and then don’t. A guy I went on a date went went out of town. He told me that he’d call when he landed. I didn’t ask him to. Well, he landed and there was no call. When we finally connected I asked him if he simply forgot or if he wasn’t a man of his word. He had the nerve to get huffy because I called him out.

In any case, I try to be respectful of other people so I expect the same. If a guy calls me, I will call him back at my first opportunity. If he plays the “Clueless” game, I’ll give him the same treatment. Eventually, the game will get old and I will stop playing in it’s entirety. High school is over.

As for when dates can be scheduled… time waits for no man. If I’m free, we can work it out, if not, call sooner next time.

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this

Jay Frankie is coming to town and Patti!!!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 29, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Peach He told me that we obviously had 2 different philosophies on dating. I was so laid back about it…it was a time in my life where i just finished my MBA program, getting over an ex, and I was just in kick-it mode. That could be with my girls or a dude…didn’t matter much to me. He wanted me to be a little more into the dating process. He actually told me that if I didn’t do something differently that in 6 months I would be wondering why he isn’t in love. This was Mr. Career….he was just intense about everything!

By Jazzyone

November 29, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

What up ya!…if im interested i don’t play games don’t have time for them Imma come atcha and ring that phone..If i don’t get you I’ll leave a message and let the chips fall where they may. it doesnt’ matter to me when a man calls if hes off witht he call a few days no worries he called and we connected if he doesn’t well it is what it is and i keep it moving if you can find me to catch me to talk then its all gravy….

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

Good mornin Peeps!! Yawining…rubbing eyes

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

Rell i like that idea much better. i would rather call the guy @ a time that is good for him. if he doesn’t answer, i would definitly leave a voicemail with my number and name. if he doesn’t call me back, i’ll take that as “he is not into me”.

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

Hey QC tell Darrell hello!!!

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. Hmm, would I sit around and wait for him to call or not, NOPE.

Beautiful, we all did this = I used to check the phone to make sure it works back in the day. Also, nice story about your friend. Hope it works out.

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

I personally believe that I’m in demand and I’m the catch.

I’m co-signin’ w/Dan…and as a woman in the “A”, I must say that while some men play these games…the one’s that want you are gonna call you….fo sho!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

Great post Jazzy!

By Jay

November 29, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

LadyJ I saw that. Are you going? One thing about dating is Game Take that out and people be up front, I think it would be better. If you’re dating, Do you talk to that person daily? Why do you have to wait to be asked out. If you allow people to but you on the back burner, you will always be there.

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

@Beautiful you are right and keep it moving…Dating 101…If I get it everyone should!!! LOL

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

@ Lady J

I learned early on this is just a commonly used phrase and that calling is not a thing most women or men do…When folk want to hook up they do and if they don’t there is no contact…Texting to me has replaced calling…J

Maybe I’m just old school, but texting has NOT replaced calling. Yeah…it’s cute to receive an unexpected text in the middle of the day..but if you like me..and you’re tryna holla at ME, you gotta CALL…

By Rell

November 29, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

waving @bootiful..whats up lady

again if she is interested she will call…no need to get her number…you will be guy number 501 that asked for the number..why not say i think you are interesting person…here is my number call me at 7pm tonight….go from there…makes things easier for all parties involved..

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 29, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Men the way around this problem is to instruct the women to call you at a specific time….ladies how do you feel about calling a man if you are interested in him

When you read some of the posts from yesterday’s blog and this question it makes me think that very soon…the roles will be so reversed that the men will be sitting at home waiting for the women to come and pick them up to go on a date.

But to answer your question, here are my thoughts. In the short time that you have to make a first impression you need to put your best foot forward. One thing that I always look for in a man is his ability to take charge and handle a situation. Most women still want to sit back and admire their man. Now, this doesn’t tell the whole story, but it gives insight to a man’s character and/mode of operation if he sets the stage and says that he’ll call as oppose to putting it off on you.

In reality, because that would be so different than what I’ve experienced, I would think something is wrong with the dude. I expect men to be able to handle rejection….they should have had practice at it through the years. I wouldn’t expect the opportunity to be rejected to make them not go for what they want. That’s a quality that I admire about men….they’re fearless!

Sorry for the long post…I’ll go sit in timeout

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

Jay Naw Lady is that that grown up to go to those concerts during the Holiday alone! LOL One day I am sure I will be there like it isn’t nothing!!! LOL

By SeanJohnson3000

November 29, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…regarding the topic….if you first meet a person..the normal waiting time is 1-3 days to call..anything before and a female will thnk u are a bugaboo and anything over its a chance another 30 other dudes have tried to holla..possibly one with the same name and yours…

as far as talking on the phone goes…its just something women like to do and most men including myself dont like doing. But if are dating someone…i think u should call them or text them atleast once a day…by noon to make sure they made it up and at work okay…and if you are not going to hang or see each other at nite..by midnite…convo can be brief too….dont have to pull a “telephone love”…just a hey babe…thinking about you…enjoy your day/nite….is enough.

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Jay, I remember those same words from you a while back…It is so true though!:)

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

@ Dimples

*He wanted me to be a little more into the dating process. He actually told me that if I didn’t do something differently that in 6 months I would be wondering why he isn’t in love. *

He sounded like an a$$…hope he’s gone now…LOL!

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

Speaking of calling and leaving voice mails… how many times is acceptable to do so before you stop. I make one call and leave leave one voice mail. If I dont hear anything back,oh well. I have a friend who will make 3 call/vm attempts before she gives up. Thats 2 too many if you ask me.

LDD they never know what they want, honey!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 29, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

Morning errbody!! Hope everyone is doing okay.

I’ll be lurking on this one, but I will say that I dont sit around and wait for a call and plans. I will go ahead and make my plans. I think I am like Slimone, you have until wednesday after that I am liable to have all kinds of stuff planned.

By Dan

November 29, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

@Lady Dark Hellz naw. I had a female friend, less than two days ago that pursued a man that she was interested in. She got rejected and was devastated. I was happy.

Rejection is not something you get used to. And if you’re looking for a man that has, I’ll show you a guy with a callous where his heart used to be. And these are the guys, ladies, that you most often refer to as dogs.

Reason being, he’s been rejected by women he truly liked and no longer cares. So if that’s what you want, know what you are really getting.

By Rell

November 29, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

@LDD, your wrong….i dont think it will get that extreme..and the fact that men want you to call is not to escape rejection..it is to see if you are interested…that is all…why waste my time talking to your voice mail..if your interested you will call…that is taking charge..i am setting the course….i want you to call me…and why should we be hard wired to expect failure, that comment gets you in timeout not the post…da hell

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

* @ SJ2000*

Now THAT’s what I’m talkin’ bout!!

convo can be brief too….dont have to pull a “telephone love”…just a hey babe…thinking about you…enjoy your day/nite….is enough.

We don’t have to be on the phone for HOURS but a phone call just to say “hello or ” is so much better (and more personal) than a TEXT!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

@ATLien (of straightfromthea.com) yeah you know I am just 28 and truly learning how to date and yall gots more experience than me…I do understand you can just cal me and calls have taken place in my dating world but I am a heavy text person and the people I encounter text as well so that is why I say in my world we text…I will meet a real man one day!!! LOLOLOL

By Poppa Grande

November 29, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

Good Morning, all

I came out of lurking (and studying for final exams) to say that texting does not replace calling.

I am a Big Brother in the BBBS program. I tell my little brother this all of the time.

Texting is void of emotion. Something as simple as the work “OK” can means different things just by the way in which they are said. Texting leaves it up to interpretation in the way that the reader wants to believe it is.

That can lead to a lot of miscommunication, and problems. Plus, men and women need to know who to talk to each other anyways.

By melo

November 29, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this

Beautiful, i think u and ur friend are easy!! Ur friend meets somebody from the internet for the 1st time and they are lip locked already. And its going down this weekend, so tell us about it on monday. Next Tuesday, she is history!! And then u say men dont know what they want.Who can blame them, when they get grown women smitten in no time like that.No due diligence on the woman’s part whatsoever. I want a divorce, its sexciting out there!!

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Rell what’s the reasoning behind the “specific time” call? Just cruious.

Maybe I’m old school, but I feel like the man should be the pUrsuer

if you first meet a person..the normal waiting time is 1-3 days to call..anything before and a female will thnk u are a bugaboo…

I totally disagree SJ… it makes me think you’re interested!!! Imagine that :)

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

@ImaPeach

I’m with you. Once is enough. If he doesn’t call back he’s not interested. I think of it this way, if I’m interested in someone and they call (and leave a message)…I’m definately calling back…especially if I’m feelin’ them The one’s who don’t get called back are right away are either work related or not important…LOL!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 29, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Lady J I went to Frankie B and MAZE last year for New Years! Great concert. As for going alone…it takes time. I can do pretty much anything alone now with no problems and it doesnt bother me! :-) I know that sounds crazy but its cool for me sometimes.

By Dan

November 29, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Right on Rell Dead right!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Lien (of straightfromthea.com Tx has helped me not want to talk on the phone or let it control me to think I need to call all the time and talk…I don’t text 24/7 but it replaces a lot of calls for me and I don’t stress over the phone like I did in my early twenties…J didn’t even have a cell in college…and I moved to the A and st8 overdose on a cell then in the last 3 yrs let it go!!! Text me anytime and I am not offended but calls do have to happen too!

By Jay

November 29, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

LadyJ What happen to the new guy? That was short lived.I want to go. Hopefully santa will be me a ticket or two. I will decide by monday morning.

By DreamsMaterialize

November 29, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

When you read some of the posts from yesterday’s blog and this question it makes me think that very soon…the roles will be so reversed that the men will be sitting at home waiting for the women to come and pick them up to go on a date.

The roles won’t be reversed. It’s just that we’re all grown and responsible for our own lives and what we bring into our lives. If you want something in life you go get it. If you sit around at your job waiting for someone to recognize you for a promotion, it might happen, it might not. The promotion/advancement is more likely if you’re assertive and proactive about pursuing it. It’s true professionally, and it’s true romantically.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 29, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

Dan I’m not talking about a man who has a callous heart, I’m talking about a man that doesn’t let rejection stop him. I didn’t say that he had to like, just that he can handle it.

Rell but that’s why we want the guys to call…to let us know that they are interested. And, I didn’t say that you guys should expect failure…you misread me. Again, I expect men to be able to handle rejection. For some it’s a motivator…

There’s no bigger punk than a man who gets rejected by a girl and then goes on to call a woman out of her name….

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Texting should be used as a flirty tool only. my .02 on that.

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Beautiful Good hook up girl. If they get married..she had better make you her Maid of Honor.

Peach that means he’ll let you know basically if he hasn’t gotten himself a booty call set up or a girl he’s feeling more. They you would be the back up plan!

Oh I will leave 2 voicemails max….just in case you did not get the first one. After that….screw you! NEXT!

SJ calling the next day does not make you a buggaboo..it shows our interest. Now if you call just to hear me breathe or dial my back to back to try to make me answer or to listen to my voice on the voicemail…you are a friggin’ psycho and need help. If I tell a guy I am going to call him the next day. I try to remember to do so…or at least text him to let him know I am really busy and I can’t speak now and will call tomorrow.

Lady Dark GA Man will be here shortly with your citation!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

OK fine the **MLB does not text!!!! They will call a chic up and handle their business!!! Great!!!

Next Subject!!!

MO, I know with time….Just really started going to movies alone…J is growing!!! Hope I don’t get kicked out this grown up club here!!! LOL

By For Real

November 29, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

What up blog Fam!

This topic is purely a chick topic. Read how silly these comments are.. I had a life before I just met you and I will have one after you are gone. Grow up and stop playing the “he’s going to call me first” game or the I don’t want him to think I’m available even tho I ain’t got a life game. Yall always talking about honesty and integrity where is the honesty and integrity in saying you are not available when you know your lonely azz is. If you like him call him. It’s just that simple. Like I have said before.

YOU DON’T GET TO CHOOSE HOW VALUABLE YOU ARE TO ANOTHER PERSON NO MATTER HOW VALUABLE YOU MAY THINK YOU ARE. IT’S THEIR CHOICE!!

By Rell

November 29, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

reason lets see….ummm it could mean let me see if she can follow intructions….let me see if i am a priority….will give me some insight to how she operates at that time of day….meaning kids,SO,drinker..etc..etc….ummm i maybe p pumping someone until 6:45, so that gives me 15 minutes to get the jumpoff out the house me in the shower and dinner in the microwave…lol…dayum all this because i said hey could you give me a call at a specific time….ya making it harder than it has to be…i am still have to pursue you, but i would like you to meet me halfway…just call me…i can handle the rest….smh

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

melo they’ve been talkin’ on the phone since september. it’s all good, trust me. ;)

By AAA

November 29, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

This will be my last post on ajcblogs.com. Its the same conversations about single people unhappy that they are single(Get a life) The editor is single all her friends are single and whine about their unhappy single life. Please realize she gets paid based on how many comments she recieves from these blogs. Real single people are not even on this crap. They are enjoying life and outside mingling. Peace

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

I told him we were not good matches…I meet him online…W did the game and talk a few and he did ask me out again and I canceled…I erased all my online profiles…Dating online is not for me!!!

J is single Jay! LOL

By Rell

November 29, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

@ldd…ok we can go round and round all day on this…again i may have a very busy lifestyle and my way to fit you in is to have you call me to take me off the beaten path for a much needed break…you never know but if you continue being closed minded then you already know…have fun, shake things up..try something different..what is the pralum

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

LOL For Real!!!!

By Rell

November 29, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

@beautiful…since september..so he has been loitering around the chick for that long..dayummm, the game as changed!!!

By SeanJohnson3000

November 29, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

@ 404 and Staceye…yall are looking at it wrong… between 1-3 days is when you call…what comes before 1? lol…if i exchange numbers with a feamle after us first meeting and tell i her am going to call her to make plans to see her so we can vibe…and she calls me as soon as she hits 285 north the same day…thats a red flag…

By melo

November 29, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

AAA, its not that serious or is it? Do u have company these holidays baby?

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

AAA That is where you are wrong! The single that are on here share there experiences, good and bad to hopefully shed light on something. It’s cool to get other opinions from unbiased unknown parties. Getting a guys’ P.O.V on something is a good thing, whether we agree with it or not. Just because someone is single or married does not mean all in life is perfect.

On topic: If a guy does not call me…his lost!

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

YOU DON’T GET TO CHOOSE HOW VALUABLE YOU ARE TO ANOTHER PERSON NO MATTER HOW VALUABLE YOU MAY THINK YOU ARE. IT’S THEIR CHOICE!!

@For Real If you aren’t valuable to YOURSELF it shows! Why get involved with someone who ~off the rip~ thinks that you’re just sitting at home chillin everyday or that you don’t have any other prospects? It’s not their choice!! I’m the ish and if you don’t recognize that right off the bat…we are NOT compatible! LOL!

By For Real

November 29, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

Lw/2D’s I expect men to be able to handle rejection Why do you have this expectation? Rejection hurts a man just like it hurts a women. The number of times one has been rejected doesn’t take the pain away. So, men can expect women to be able to handle rejection as well. Right? When you say “stop them” do you mean stop them from pursuing you or stop them from moving on?

LadyJ I’m not down with the texting thing. To me it’s just one more way for people to keep tabs on you. I got a friend that text me allllll the fugging time and I her to stop but she keeps doing it so I don’t respond anymore. I mean if I don’t have time to call what makes you think I have time to text.

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

SJ my bad..all I saw was the 3 days. LOL It’s morning dude. I’m not awake. I’ve got b-day plans on the brain!

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

Ur friend meets somebody from the internet for the 1st time and they are lip locked already.

Melo whats wrong with that???? If you called her easy for that… hell… I guess im easy too. You act like they got a room or something.

ATLien ^5 your 10:47 post :)

Again, I expect men to be able to handle rejection.

You know, the first time I went to a strip club with my guy friends, I truly understood why they love it so much… there is absolutely no rejection involved whatsoever

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

Real single people are not even on this crap. They are enjoying life and outside mingling. Peace

@AAA

“Real single people” work…and some are at a computer all day…

Where are all the “Real single people” outside mingling at 11:19am in ATLANTA?? Can you clue me in??

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

I got you For Real!!! MLB’s Poppa Grande summed it it…It is an emootional thing I am going through and like everything else it will pass with time!!

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 29, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Melo whats wrong with that???? If you called her easy for that… hell… I guess im easy too. You act like they got a room or something.

I can’t see…I think my head just exploded…

By Rell

November 29, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

@peach404…thats not why we go..we go because there are naked women there that can bring beer to you without lip….lol..another reason we may go is because we are sexually undispline so it is an outlet for those types….another reason…fat guys cant spend all there money at the rib shack..he got to drop some on poo see…lol…i can do this all day…lol

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

Melo, AAA is married to one of the most wonderful men in the world. Her life is basically beautiful and apparently she has what most women want. Of couse, this is HER opinion.

ATLien, you just touched on one of For Real’s mottos. In essence, don’t judge yourself, let others give you the proper assessment of who you are and your self-worth.

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

SJ the last guy I was dealing with… we met around 11am and he called around 4:30 the same day. I was excited that he actually showed interest without trying to wait X amount of days. No flags for me. But thats just me I guess

By SeanJohnson3000

November 29, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

@ 4Real….i am feeling your comment..i have long said that females like liars and bullshyt dudes…they only say they like totally honest men…thats why you have to spoon feed them the truth…too much at one time on how real men think and act and they will short circuit.

By Jazzyone

November 29, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

seriously do we give a f* that that dayum lying @ss AAA won’t be here they need to go to AA..get on with your fake self gee wiz you don’t contribute anything anyway and when you do its a fricking lie so keep it moving…as if…

By For Real

November 29, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

ATLien

He is not thinking that you are just sitting around chillin at home that’s why you lie to him and say you are not. Don’t tell me you are one of those ladies that will sit close to the radio while it’s playing SetOff and then call ole boy and tell him you are at a club but the song is almost over a dude hears Live at the Sannnnnnn Susy.

That is your opinion plain and simple. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you thank not, then go work at a strip club. It’s sad but it is funny as hellz tho.

By Jay

November 29, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

LOL @ SJ. Staceye I’m still waiting on my first voicemail….LOL. LAdyJ That’s a blessing sometimes.

By Bella

November 29, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Wow, I didn’t know I get paid for comments! Thanks for clueing me in, AAA! By my count, ajc.com owes me a kajillion dollars of backpay that I haven’t been collecting this year!

UPDATE he called! =D

By "Longtime Lurker"

November 29, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

@La “Bella” Mafia

It ain’t really that serious on the calling situation!

Dudes have problems sometime multi-taskin,so he may forget to call,so sometime,you gotta just pick up the phone and call ole boy ya damn self!

Is this really 2007 and folks are still sitting around waiting for each other to call each other???

I am the worlds worst,with calling chicks I am kicking it with.

It is not that I think less of them or I am not interested, when I don’t call,I just got ish to do and as I said earlier, sometimes I forget to multitask!!

I feel as adults, you have to find a neutral ground in communications.

It should not be a situation of who calls who,it should be a situation of how well do we communicate when we do speak to each other.

If a dude does not call you for days on end or you are doing most of the calling,then you may have an issue with his interest level in you.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 29, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

4Real I’m not talking about how one feels about rejection. Just that one can keep it moving. Don’t let the fact that you’ve been turned down by 1 or 100 women stop you from approaching 101. I do expect women to be able to handle rejection. That means don’t stalk, pull out your hair, etc…Rejection is apart of life….everyone has to learn how to handle it…Many can do it in a constructive ways where it benefits them…then there are those who have to have safety landing mats for everything they attempt in life…

i may have a very busy lifestyle and my way to fit you in is to have you call me to take me off the beaten path for a much needed break

I read make it easier for you…Neway, I’ve dated very busy men…engaged to one now…trust me, he finds the time to call…always have!

By 2CPTG©

November 29, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

“In essence, don’t judge yourself, let others give you the proper assessment of who you are and your self-worth.”

hunh????? let somebody else tell me who I am???? wtf?

By Dan

November 29, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

Here’s my logic, if I can’t remember your face. I’ll call to spark the memory.

After a couple of hours, I can still smell you. A couple days, I may have forgotten your name. But I remember that girl I talked to in some way that makes me want to call her.

And to the departing AAA. PEACE!

By For Real

November 29, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Sexyleggs You are missing my point. Self worth is determined by an individual and no one should allow anybody to determine that. My point is I get to choose who is valuable to me. I never said that a person isn’t valuable. I said another person can’t tell me that they are valuable to me.

Example: You drive by a wreck and someone has died. You may experience some brief remorse but do it stop your day? No, because that person life was of no value to you but that person life may have been the world to someone else.

By melo

November 29, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Melo, AAA is married to one of the most wonderful men in the world Where does she get all these men?

ImAPeach404, how old are u and whats ur situation.Maybe iam being too hard, but i thought meeting a guy for the 1st time(even if u have been 4ne talking) and then getting all over him/her(lip locking as she said) in one day is too too much.As a guy, i like a bit of challenge.If u’re just there to be plucked,(even if true give me some bit of challenge to get u).Make it more interesting.But then again, a girl has to be clued on how to do it without making the guy disinterested. Whats ur opinion?

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

I know Jay it is bad at all!!! Let’s see if I can woman up and go see that great Frankie B! He is an awesome performer!

By Jazzyone

November 29, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

2 im withyou on that thats why half this world is f*up now..no one can tell me who I am and when people get a healthy sense of self and knowledge of self they won’t be sitting around waiting for someone to call do you and all else with fall in to place..it really isn’t that hard or difficult but i guess we all are in different places in out lives so it is what it is…..

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

2C, I’m not saying this is correct, that’s what comes across to me from ForReal’s posts on a person assessing their own self-worth and they are this or they are that. ForReal always jumps in with *naw dude, your true value is only seen and assessed by another…whatever!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

meantt isn’t bad at all…

By BennyB

November 29, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

Some women are very suspicious, very analyzing, they want to know why, they never take what a man said literary; to them it got to have a meaning, it got to have something to do with their feelings. Women don’t like to feel easy, cheap and that’s the main problem. It does not change a damn thing in a man’s mind that you accepted a date after 8pm on Wednesday. It’s all in your twisted reasoning. If a woman is into you or she is secure and confident, she will not care about what you think or when you call, she will wait or go and get what she wants when she is ready. Contrary to men, women understand anticipation. Remember that women will complain all day that men don’t call them but, inside their minds, women (mostly young ones) hate predictable men.

Lady Dark with Dimples, are you the legislator who proposed that men should keep paying for child support for 18 years even if the child was dead? Trust me, men can handle that to.

By SeanJohnson3000

November 29, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

@404..just curious….how has the majority of your relationships came to an end?..

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

dag j was about to tx some1 jus a sec ago and quickly stopped…J is now trying to detox from texting…I am now going to rethink the concept of texting…LOL

What is for lunch…lol

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

AAA if you’re married, i can see why this blog doesn’t interest you. this blog to me is for the single living in the A sharing experiences. just entertainment. it helps me get through the day.

By For Real

November 29, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

Jesus: AAA my child, I have come to take you to the Kingdom where you can have all the promises of our Father.

AAA: WTF!!! Are you out of your mind? I have it all right here on earth. You need to take that somewhere else. I bet you are single aren’t you?

Jesus: But AAA it is I the Son….

AAA: I don’t care about all that you single people get on my nerve always whinning about how unhappy you are get a life!

AAA:

By 2CPTG©

November 29, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

ok, I gotcha, SexyLeggs; though I don’t that’s what he meant…..

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Me too Beautiful…my daily soap opera!!! And I love it!!! LOL

Happy people always express their hapiness through their expressions!!! That chic is sad!

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

For Real OMG….I am cracking up over hear at that AAA skit!

By For Real

November 29, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Sexleggs You are not reading my post. Slow down read it without biased interpetion. I wrote what I meant, it’s in black and white. Don’t go looking for another meaning to what I wrote.

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

My other post didn’t come through.

ForReal, I stand corrected. I will now admit that I read you wrong. Better yet, I shouldn’t have used the word “self-worth.” I think I’m on the same page now.

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

Lady J hey gurl! i just refuse to take things like this serious. i have other things to stress over: my bad azz boys (13yrs and 8yrs), school, moving, etc.

she’ll be back under a different name asking us for advice. lol. maybe

By Teresa

November 29, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

Bella-

Can you reopen the Red Flags in Dating Blog?

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

and you know it!!!!

By Blow Me

November 29, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

ATL Where are all the “Real single people” outside mingling at 11:19am in ATLANTA?? Can you clue me in??

Okay for real ATL! Where are they? Most single folks SHOULD be @ work doing something constructive.

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

morning folks!!!

SeanJ3000 “its just something women like to do and most men including myself dont like doing” NOT - I can’t stand chatting on the phone! Just call me to let me know where we’re meeting up so we can talk face to face, LOL.

On topic - I don’t wait for anyone to call. If I give my number to a guy and he doesn’t call I just assume he changed his mind…If a guy gives me his number, I try to call him within the next 24 hours if I’m feeling him. Anything longer than that and I might forget.

As far as making plans - if we’re not exclusive I will more than likely have plans. I don’t play the ‘accessible’ game either - if I don’t have plans on a Friday night and he calls Friday afternoon, we’re good to go. But 90% of the time, I have plans already.

The guy that’s courting me now is not a phone talker, calls in advance to schedule dates - a real gentleman. I like that.

Oh and I don’t do texts - most folks that meet me now get my Houston cell number and I’ve turned off text messaging. One guy was like, ‘you didn’t return my text!’ - how is that the way you communicate with someone the first time around? I can’t stand text messaging.

And what I really hate is folks that send Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas texts to everyone in their phone! That ish irks the heck out of me! Thank God my friends all know it this year, I only got 2 texts at Thanksgiving compared to the 15 I got last year.

Sorry for my rant, but I hate a text msg like AggWitt hates a kid!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

we are that is why we gets pd today and tomorrow and at work and blogging??? Why do you care??? Any money lost??? Any reports we owe you????

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

Hey Tazzee!!! I can’t text you Go Falcons???!!! LOLOL Each time they score I text my football crew…They dudes too I am ready for one to snap on me but that have not yet!!! LOL

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this

Lady J you must not text a lot…cause those duded and scoring shyt! LOL Go Giants! Go Patriots!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

GOOD ONE Staceye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOLOLOL LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GO FALCONS AND DAMN DA PATRIOTS ALL DAY EVERYDAY!!!! LOLOL

Go Miami too!!

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

Lady J - you can, LOL. To me that’s what text messaging is for. Send me a quick note when you know I’m in a venue where I can’t talk on the phone. but if I’m close to my plan limit, I might not respond, LOL. But since we aren’t scoring a lot, I don’t have to worry about going over the limit.

By Blow Me

November 29, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

Tazee You must be old!! lol! Since you don’t do text messages!

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

LOL…Ok I am getting it!!! LOL

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

where do these nuts come from that hate his blog and post everrrrrrrrrrry day????

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

where do these nuts come from that hate this blog and post everrrrrrrrrrry day????

By Tabbygirl

November 29, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

Men the way around this problem is to instruct the women to call you at a specific time….ladies how do you feel about calling a man if you are interested in him

Lady Dark with Dimples I COMPLETELY AGREE!!!!

By SlimOne

November 29, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

Mo That was actually SlimDiva not me you referred to in your 10:37 post.

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

dont have to pull a “telephone love”…just a hey babe…thinking about you…enjoy your day/nite….is enough.

That cat Musin said the same thing…Then I guess dude fell hard and started on them 3 to 5 hours phone convos….ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzz

the ‘accessible’ game WTF, Demi you see that ish!!

Unless there is an event I want to attend coming up…I am known for my last minute date planning:

one late lonely saturday nite around…330am

ringtone: We trick dem white gurls…

Staceye: sounding like Darth Vader’s sister Hello??!!

Alvin: sounding all cheerful’n’ish Hey bay, its Alvin, are you down for City Cafe tonite?

CLICK!!

Alvin Hello??!!

alvin now jumps on flaming coochie bound straight for hellz

By Lady J

November 29, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

Ok good people til in the morning be easy! J is out the building…Peace!

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

2C i live a stressfree life. what if i met a guy and we fall deep in love? then what? will he leave with me, probably not. will i stay here in the A and beg my momma to send me some water, probably not. i’m on the fence

besides, i made a bet with Truth and i want my $3. lol.

By Tabbygirl

November 29, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

Men the way around this problem is to instruct the women to call you at a specific time….ladies how do you feel about calling a man if you are interested in him

Lady Dark with Dimples I COMPLETELY AGREE!!!!

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Blow Me naw, I’m not old, I just can’t stand them and I sure as hell ain’t paying extra for them.

well, I guess some might think I’m old - I got my 20 year high school reunion coming up next year…

By SlimOne

November 29, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

Alvin I must say I hate those 3 a.m calls talking about what are you doing…I fugging sleep unless I’m out and about already. But if I am, more than likely I already have some “after waffle house plans”.

By Teresa

November 29, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

PATRIOTS ROCK!!!!!

By ImAPeach404

November 29, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

(I’ve missed a lot)

But, to answer a few direct questions…

Melo I’m 31 - and my situation??? I’m single if thats what you mean? Maybe you are being too hard… I don’t see the harm in a little kissing. I happen to really like it. I cannot even get into “rabbit dancing” without kissing. But anyway, I enjoy it and if we are really feeling each other and the date is going well and we’re each attracted to one another - what’s the harm? I love the excitement of waiting for a lot of things, but kissing isn’t one of them. I want a smooch by like the second outing, definitely by the third. Thoughts?

SJ ehhh… different reasons.

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Y’all been rollin’ today-lol!!!

If they call, whenever they call, and I am still interested-then fine. If it’s been too long or I have lost interest-then the h3ll with iy and I keep rollin’ to the next moment.

I think that it just shows good respect for peoples time if you can plan enough in advance for an upcoming outting and set the time/date for it. I have found that this is how most people who have busy schedules and common decdency behave-men and women.

One too many “no follow ups” and I just don’t care to be bothered anymore. I do not need someone to do what I want, but rather just to do as they say will be done.

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

On texting…hell that often the only way to reach me…

Tazzee you’re called old now? Nah, just a bit too ole’skool.

By For Real

November 29, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

3 in da morning….

For Real: Hey Slim what are you up to?

Slim: Sleep!

For Real: Oh did I wake you?

Slim: Hellz yeah you woke me

For Real: I’m sorry Honey Cat but since you up now, I was wondering if we can rub stomachs

Slim: Since I’m up!!! Mitty Fickie you woke me up and hellz naw you ain’t rub my stomach tonight.

For Real: I got some fresh salmon.

Slim: Ummm, well come on over. I can’t stand you!

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

SlimOne * more than likely I already have some “after waffle house plans”.* cosign-like hello!!

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

SlimOne it’s different for me, unless I have little man with me that weekend…ladies are free to call me up ‘til 5 am…I just may not answer depending on the woman who calling…

I’ll just look at the phone and be like, The F/K this Bish doing calling me this late!!??

But if you’re cool, it’s whatever.

By brownsugarvixen

November 29, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon All! Busy day, actually had to do some work today.

On topic-If I’m out and about I met a guy, we exchange numbers cool. If he calls me fine, if not fine. I look at things a little bit differntly, than let’s play the wait game. If this brother is busy, I can certainly understand. When he does give me a call later on in the week…good to know that I he was thinking of me. If he never calls me I always assume one of two things it wasn’t meant, or to he lost my number. While I’m sure that we are all hopeful of people we come in contact with, hell I expect nothing to flourish, unless both of us wants it to. Too much game playin goin on. That’s why so men hate rejection, and women long for SO’s. Be honest be real. Anything built on lies and games, is sure to be a dud from the start. If he or she don’t call, move on I’m sure you’ll encounter many more. Too many single folks in da A, to play the waiting game.

By Dan

November 29, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

I’m with 404,

I love kissing,(and I’m good at it), where I disagree is that the priviledge of my kiss is something that is (to a degree) is earned.

I might like you, I might even want to spend my precious free time with you, but until I feel like I have to kiss you, not happening.

By Rell

November 29, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

flavor of love show as ruined random kissing for me….i kept thinking maybe a flavor flava type as touch her lips…lol

By Rell

November 29, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

flavor of love show as ruined random kissing for me….i kept thinking maybe a flavor flava type as touch her lips…lol

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

See, this is what I can’t seem to get with I’ll just look at the phone and be like, The F/K this Bish doing calling me this late!!?? But, you gave her your number and now she’s turned into a Bish. Ok!

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Off Topic -

Breaking News

Atlanta, Ga. (AP) -A nine-year old boy was at the center of a Douglas County courtroom drama yesterday when he challenged a court ruling over who should have custody of him. Initially awarded custody to his aunt, in keeping with child custody law and regulation requiring that family unity be maintained to the highest degree possible. The boy surprised the court when he proclaimed that his aunt beat him more than his parents and he adamantly refused to live with her.

When the judge then suggested that he live with his grandparents, the Boy cried and s aid that they also beat him. After considering the remainder of the immediate family and learning that domestic violence was apparently a way of life among them, the judge took the unprecedented step of allowing the boy to propose who should have custody of him.

After two recesses to check legal references and confer with the child welfare officials, the judge granted temporary custody of the minor child to the Atlanta Falcons, whom the boy firmly believes are not capable of beating anyone.

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

For Real

shhhhhh….don’t be puttin all my bidzness in the street LOL!

By SlimOne

November 29, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

For Real Who da hell wakes up at 3 in the morning and wants some fresh salmon unless…of course…you’ll be the one eating it LMAO!

Alvin Well, folks can call but like you said, I may or may not answer the phone depending on who it is. But since my social life been really slack lately, the only calls i get at that hour are customer service agents returning my call from QVC earlier that night. lol just kidding

By brownsugarvixen

November 29, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

Beautiful

I hope that things between your girl and the guy she met works out. As for the whole kissing things He must have something special that warranted a kiss atfer the first date.

To all who are taking it so serious it was only a kiss. Not like she gave it to him in da back seat. Lighten up! If things don’t work out Beautiful will keep us posted!LOL!

By For Real

November 29, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

Rell I’m with you on that one 100%. That’s the whole reason I could never watch the show. That is one of my opening questions to a new chick. Have ever kissed Flavor-Flav or anything 500 miles close to him?

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixen That’s why so men hate rejection, and women long for SO’s.-true dat

If no major time and effort has been invested, then nothing was lost or gained. It just didn’t happen-that’s all there is to it.

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

ATLien, I was so into this story. ROFLMAO…Good one!!!

By Foots

November 29, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

Alvin On texting…hell that often the only way to reach me…

So…um, how is that the only way to reach you? You can both receive texts and voice calls on the same phone, right? Or do you just ignore the phone when it rings and just respond to texts?

M’Karyl Thought this deserved to be reiterated: I do not need someone to do what I want, but rather just to do as they say will be done.

That sums it up. We all have important things to do. But it’s just as important to keep your word, hence the saying “Word Is Bond”. If I say I’m going to do something, that is what I do. You’d expect other adults to behave the same way, without all of the excuses and the “well, I know I said I’d call, but why can’t she call me?” b!+ching.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 29, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

ATLien That was funny…and true! Don’t tell Tazzee that I said that!

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

Off-topic, according to the urbandictory, here is today’s word

Manther = A male [cougar]. Single, usually divorced, and at a minimum 10 years older than a [cougar]. He did not care if the youth laughed at his ragtop corvette that even at this age he could not afford, for he was manther.

By Foots

November 29, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

ATLien LMAO!!

Dan Hey, could you send me a picture? footswalker77@yahoo.com

Beautiful I think that melo thought that they had just met that day and was already tonguing each other down. It’s the end of November and you said they’ve been talking since September, but that this was their first face to face meeting? I’m sure they felt close enough to kiss after two months.

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

Obviously, since a kiss is something both people must have mutual feelings about to equally enjoy…then they both must have been feeling it. Hey, it happens or it don’t.

ATL the judge granted temporary custody of the minor child to the Atlanta Falcons, whom the boy firmly believes are not capable of beating anyone.LMAO

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this

Foots

Ya’ know. Don’t let your mouth write a check that your body can’t cash.

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Foots yeah, you’re probably right. and yes, they are feelin’ each other. she is glowing.

By brownsugarvixen

November 29, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

@ATL …LOL

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

ATLien that joke is so OLD and lame. And all y’all that laughed at it - I’m not speaking to none of y’all!!!! yeah I saw you laughing LadyDark

Dan you like to kiss?…send me a picture too. Make sure you’re smiling with your mouth open so I can see your teef…

Demi sweetie, you would get a pass on texting. I would get a larger plan just for you.

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

they sneak phone calls to each other at work all day. lol. ahhhhh

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

I just may not answer depending on the woman who calling…

SexyLeggs means she has done something to get herself demoted from a woman to a “chick” (for the sensitive folks)…

A woman can call me up ‘til 5am…A “chick” can’t.

I am sure you’ve look at the phone and thought to yourself, “The F/K this (insert degrading term here) isn’t still calling me after I told his mini me’n a$$ not too!!

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

We all have important things to do. But it’s just as important to keep your word, hence the saying “Word Is Bond”. If I say I’m going to do something, that is what I do. You’d expect other adults to behave the same way, without all of the excuses and the “well, I know I said I’d call, but why can’t she call me?” b!+ching.

Now that’s some real talk right there Foots (you didn’t laugh at that lame joke did you?)

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

Alvin your skit is off the chain! You need help! LOL

Tabbygirl I would call a guy if I really was feeling him..but 2X is max if he does not answer….again…SCREW HIM! And I do not mean that literally!

Rell most women are NOT that desperate to kiss Flav! He looks like a walking turd with a gold griil and horns!

*ATLienOUCH! LOL That was lo ma! But oh so true!

Foots I can feel Alvin on that. Sometimes I just do not want to speak. But I will return your text!!

Oh you flirting with my ma Dan? LOL

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

Tazzee, it may be old, but it was really funny. Bet most read it with bated breath to see what the outcome would be. I wasn’t expecting it to be a joke and that’s what makes it even funnier.

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Dan u got me in the mood 2, angeliquegeorgia@yahoo.com. lol.

By For Real

November 29, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

For Real now putting vasoline on ATL’s steering wheel for that insensitive comment about the Falcons.

I saw that Lw/2D’s imma tell.

Slim Don’t act, you know cats like fish.

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

Taz that chick rolling on the floor while clutching her inhaler is me laughing at the Falcons joke! LOL

By DreamsMaterialize

November 29, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

If both of you are feeling the kiss, go for it. If you want to talk to someone, then call them. If you want a date with someone, then ask them. If you get asked on a date friday night and in your heart would like to go, then go. Don’t deprive yourself of the wonderful things in life because of socialization and norms. Be true to yourself and act on that truth. Too many rules for such a short life.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

November 29, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

Rell Mail call

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

Wow…Dan has quite a fan club. How is the pic looking ladies?

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

@ Tazzee I bet I love the Falcons even more than you….but I couldn’t stop laughing when I got that in email….was not expecting the ending…and couldn’t get mad…LOL!

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Staceye that chick that just ran over and kicked your inhaler out of your hand is me, LOLOLOL!

That’s ok, I don’t expect y’all to be sensitive to my Falcons…I’ll be speaking to the offenders by tomorrow.

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

Staceye Pass the inhaler, cuz I musta been sleepin’ wid Rip Van Wrinkle(lol) when dat joke comes out…

@Tazzee pluh-leeze cuts us sum slack, we all ain’t a hip an’ a top of thangs laks you iz-tee-hee-hee!

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

Just got a text from my backup dude….

HIM: wassup beautiful! How’s ur day going?

ME: great

HIM: Did you have fun at [removed to protect the innocent] last night? I didn’t hear from u

ME: yup!

HIM: Are we still on for Friday?

ME: no response

HIM (30 mins later): Are we still on for Friday?

ME: no response

you think he got my point?? LOL!

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

Aww man…you have me cracking up over here Alvin. After I posted that, I thought the exact thing about being downgraded for whatever reason and then I thought of my “diehard” admirers that I wish would stop calling. So once again, I retract my statement, I mean post.

By Foots

November 29, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

Tazzee Laugh?!? Girl, I just woke up from passing da f/k out! LOL!! just kidding… (not really)

I know you love da Dirty Birds, so I apologize for passing out. Do they still call them that??

Staceye Any dude that can say this: The way I feel, catch me if you can. I personally believe that I’m in demand and I’m the catch. And this: the priviledge of my kiss is something that is (to a degree) is earned…my curiousity is piqued, I need to see what he working with…

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

ATL you think he got my point??

What’s the odds in Vegas?? I betting with the nopes

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

BELLA!

Delete my joke!! It seems to be offending my fellow natives!!!

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

For Real

vasoline on ATL’s steering wheel for that insensitive comment about the Falcons.

I thought you were my boy….dang!

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Tazzee that’s just mean! I cccaaantttt brrrreathe!

M’Karyl* LOL puff puff give!

By Beautiful

November 29, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

ATLien lmfao. been there.

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

November 29, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Rell hit me up….

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Foots true dat! Yeah Dan…hows about a picture? Wink wink!

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

ATLien trust me, I laugh myself - in the privacy of my own home and only amongst other fans. Its like your drunk azz uncle - you and the fam can talk about him but not the outsiders.

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this

Staceye

Thanks sugah, the ole’ g’ wheezin’ little less bit now :D

By Tazzee

November 29, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

AggWitt if you’re lurking…mail call.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 29, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

Ya’ll are comedy in here today!!! LOL

ATLien that joke was wrong as hell but it was also funny as hell! I am with Tazzee, stop doggin my Birds!! GO FALCONS

For Real I havent been serenaded in a while so you are on my —it list!! >;-(

By Dan

November 29, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Sorry, ladies

One at a time, get off me and my sexy silk draws. They be hollin “Shame, Shame, don’t love me like you do”

And I made that comment for a reason, and she knows why.

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

@ Tazzee

You right, I’m sorry! but it ain’t a secret…everyone still knows his a$$ is a drunk though….LOL!

By brownsugarvixen

November 29, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

@ATLien- If he still askin 30 later if you’re on for Friday. He completely missed your point. LOL RED FLAG THAT A$$.

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

Dan I love that movie….Low Down Dirty Shame! LOL

You cheating on me now? Now I gotta call you at 5AM and say,”Daaaan….oh Danny Boy! Whatcha’ doin’? You miss me? I’m laying here in your t-shirt that you left at my crib…MMM it smells like you. Sike, I’m not at home…but I am wearing your t-shirt. Now open the door..it’s cold out here with no knickers on and these heels are kicking my azz!” LOL

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 29, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

I gotta get outta here…

Since For Real let the secret out…y’all come visit me tonite at my other job ova at the Black Opal..wink

ATLien Straight from the “A” www.straightfromthea.com

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Dan and his silk draws. Why u denying the ladies? You tease…

By Dan

November 29, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

I’ma a hard sleeper Staceye. If you outside freezing, that’s on you. You better “call before you come”.

But not cheatin’ and I love the idea of you in nothing but my T-shirt..

Send me a picture of that

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

Y’all is it wrong for me getting a chuckle out of the headline declaring that “Rodney King got shot?” Poor guy can’t catch a break. LOL

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Dan

*the way you squeeze and tease, knocks me to my knees-and I smoking baby..awwwh sucks, I schucks…lol

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Dan

*the way you squeeze and tease, knocks me to my knees-and I smoking baby..awwwh sucks, I mean schucks…lol

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Foots like this here, just text: Call Me and I will hit you up…Some days I don’t feel like talking on the phone…

Tazz Word..here’s a playful not-so brotherly like hug LOL

SexyLeggs these days I have a lot cool as hellz lady friends…so the use of that word is rare, NOW. but back in the days I was like, “LAWD, why in the world is Satan’s sister still calling me!! LOL

Slim I will admit, 1030pm is my cut off time for calling a woman…It’s not that serious, I’ll call her the next day.

By M'Karyl

November 29, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this

Dan

*the way you squeeze and tease, knocks me to my knees-and I smoking baby..awwwh sucks, I mean schucks…lol

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

ATLien you did right..had you text back no..he will ask why..there is no need to waste your hands on dead end texting

Fuggg y’all

GO DOLPHINS!!!!

LOL

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

Alvin, that 10:30 cut off time is a good look. If you call me later than that, when you had ALLL day to call me let’s me know that something else may be on your mind…even if it isn’t. Cuz if you’re calling me at midnight on a weeknight, you’re inconsiderate that I may have to work the next day. And if it’s on the weekend…then that’s straight up booty call hours.

Now, once I’m established with someone, he’ll know when it’s okay to call me after 11.

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

ARed, yes it is very wrong for you to laugh at the headline…LOL Just goes to show how many sick pups are on this blog…and this is a good thing!

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs, I’m so ashamed. Thank goodness he’s okay. But I’m still laughing on the inside.

By DreamsMaterialize

November 29, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

I don’t answer the phone when I don’t feel like talking either. And chances are if I’m sleeping, I don’t feel like talking. There are a few people who can call at anytime, but anyone else better have a damn good reason for interrupting my valuable sleep time. Better have something REAL good to say to me. lol

By Staceye

November 29, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

Dan give me your t-shirt and I’ll send you that picture! Wink wink!

Alvin the Falcons & Dolphins are on the boat…up shyt’s creek with no paddles! LOL

By Poppa Grande

November 29, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Staceye- take a look at the Jets record that aren’t tearing it up & the Giants aren’t really the good either. The whole NFC just stinks and the Giants stink a little bit less than everybody else. Its pretty much the Cowboys and Packers with the rest of the NFC stinkin’ it up. Even the Tampa Bay can’t sem to pull away from the pathetic NFC south.

By SexyLeggs

November 29, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. Have a safe and restful evening!

By Alvin

November 29, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

A.Red yeah, it does depend on how well and how long i’ve known you…a met, I’ll call in the even…soooo whats your number again LOL

By Poppa Grande

November 29, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

Staceye- take a look at the Jets record that aren’t tearing it up & the Giants aren’t really the good either. The whole NFC just stinks and the Giants stink a little bit less than everybody else. Its pretty much the Cowboys and Packers with the rest of the NFC stinkin’ it up. Even the Tampa Bay can’t sem to pull away from the pathetic NFC south.

By AmazonRed

November 29, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. I hope your evening commute is better than the one this morning! (For us westsiders).