Misadventures in Atlanta

By AAA(aka CAPS LADY)

November 20, 2007 8:13 AM | Link to this

I AM FIRST THE CAPS GIRL!!!! Giving is from the heart. Dont expect anything in return. I think you can buy someone a gift if you all are just casually dating, why not. Who cares how long you have known the person. Its what the heart says!! Someone bought me a car. The best gift I have ever given was myself.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 8:15 AM | Link to this

I stick with chapstick (a 5 pack at that) and a card.

Pretty much solves my problems.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 8:19 AM | Link to this

@AAA

Thanks for that, I thought getaway day was going to be slow.

So um…..someone gave you a car, and you gave yourself?

I mean was it something new, did you pull a few tricks out of the bag? What was so different about the “you” he had been getting for you to equate that “gift” with a Car!

By binford

November 20, 2007 8:27 AM | Link to this

Can we be done with work this week already?

Oddly enough, I’ve only had someone special to buy for a few times in my dating career. And while the gifts I’ve given weren’t anything that would knock the gal’s socks off, it was thoughtful and personal.

When I have been in a relationship during the holidays, I make sure I get a card and write something personal in there. I’ve always been big on that. Because someone can bag on me for my gift giving, but not that it wasn’t personal.

You obviously have to write something that is appropriate to where the relationship is, but it is the thought that counts. Anyone that thinks different is pretty shallow.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 8:32 AM | Link to this

Morning, everyone. :-)

By the way, interesting topic and great breakdown, Wise Diva. ;-) If I may, I’d like to approach this from a somewhat different angle. Not necessarily to counter what’s already been suggested, but more so to augment, if you will. I’m hoping this will be especially helpful to those of you who are in the early stages of a relationship.

And, oh yeah, I’m prepared to receive a blog citiation for this one, so bring it!) LOL!

Along with considering what type of gift to present, you should also take into account how the other person might respond to such a gesture. I say this in the context of the person’s “love language” (of which there are five: 1. quality time 2. words of affirmation 3. receiving gifts 4. physical touch 5. acts of service. We all have at least one love language and it could very well be that the person to whom this gift is being given does not possess the love language of ‘receiving gifts’ and if not, you could be setting yourself up for disappointment if the person doesn’t respond the way you hoped.

Don’t assume that because you went to the effort and expense to buy them a gift that it will be accepted with open arms and a smile, because that’s not always the case. In other words, remember that not “every kiss begins with Kay”. If you’re not sure, just ask them how they feel about being presented with gifts. Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love and affection, whereas, others do not.

Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, so just your presence alone can be a very powerful physical symbol of love to them. On the flip side, people who do speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate, so you’ll need to keep this at the forefront as well.

Disclaimer: I’m not a relationship expert, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. ;-)

By Dan

November 20, 2007 8:40 AM | Link to this

@Darrell

I appreciate your sensibilities, I truly do. You are a articulate writer with a clear train of thought.

Take the opportunity you have here (with educated people reading your words) to practice conciseness. Here, you know your audience (at least somewhat) so the parsing of your comments isn’t neccessarily a necessity.

Just one writer to another.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 8:44 AM | Link to this

I think that gifts should reflect how well one is familiar with another person’s character, interest, personality, lifestyle, etc. After all, if in giving a gift it is the thought that counts, then our gifts should reflect how well we think of the person to whom it is given.

For example, I like oils, incense, scented soaps and candles, books-none of which have to be high-end to purchase, but I would rather have something this simple and appropriate given to me as a gift than to receive something very expense that did not reflect me or my interest.

I also, being very crafty and creative, make a lot of gifts (including individualized hand-decorated cards and wrapping paper) for my friends and people to whom I give presents. One year I made soaps and candles for everyone, and another year I made semi-precious stone eyeglass chains-again individualized for each person receiving the gift.

The biggest joy in giving and receiving a gift should come from the memory it creates when it is given.

By AAA

November 20, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, so just your presence alone can be a very powerful physical symbol of love to them. On the flip side, people who do speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate, so you’ll need to keep this at the forefront as well

Thats true in some context, a person that gives all will receive great, even if it doenst come from the person that they are currently with. Thats why I was able to give the greatest gift of all: Myself, people appreciate good company, its well deserved.

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 8:54 AM | Link to this

Good morning Darrell, Dan, Binford!

I gave a gift last Xmas to the guy I was dating (found out later I was nothing but a booty call). I gave from my heart. I spent $45 dollars on some cologne. He was p**!!! I was so hurt ya’ll. :( He texted me a week later saying “can i see you tonight?”. He bought me some perfume that I threw in my closet, because it wasn’t from his heart, it was a I feel obligated present.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

@M’k

My thought on a gift is not “what I think of you”, “how well I know you”, or for that matter “what you think of me”.

For me giving someone a gift is statement enough. My sister argued with me last night as I didn’t get her the matching lip gloss for her birthday. I told her (like I would anyone else) that with the traveling I do, you fortunate not to get hotel stationary. I took the time to get you something so be easy.

But (and no dis to you) if someone has a gig and sends me a handmade card, while I’m appreciative of the sentiment, I worry about my relationship with that person.

But, hey, that’s just me

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this

Darell:

You have made a good point about how the person receiving the gift may or may not respond. One year I had a guy I was involved with give me an expresso maker ($70), when all I wanted was to pay my darn cellphone bill at that time- my struggle was on like a chicken bone, bro. I needed my phone, I did not need the expresso maker-I had a coffee pot!!!! And the bill was less thatn $70 to boot. lol

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 20, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

Morning Everybody!! Sorry I missed yesterday, had some technical difficulties at the j-o-b!! I’ll comment on topic later, just wanted to stop by first and speak!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this

Beautiful:

We live and we learn. Not all that glitters is gold, so to speak. It can be painful anytime a gift is given from the heart and not received as such; or when we find out the person to whom we have given the gift does not have mutual sentiments for us in return.

I believe that we need to learn to give and receive wisely-because not all people who give are truly altruistic in their intentions when they give.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

Dan:

My hade-made gifts have been marketed and sold professionally. I make top quality items. I am a craftperson. So when people receive items that I have individuallly crated for them , it says that I took the time to think about them personally. Anybody can spend money, not everyone can creat love.

By 2CPTG©

November 20, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this

morning y’all……..gifts, eh?? I always ask a person what they want for that particular occassion; And they’ll ask me as well. I’m not bashful about it either, cause if you ask me, I’mma tell you! The only person who could get away with “I bought you what I wanted you to have”, was my mama…..Also, I’m practical, that’s why I buy stuff that you can use, and, or need; not just something you gon’ look at, or place on a shelf….

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this

* Correction* So when people receive items that I have individuallly created for them

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

November 20, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this

Good Morning to all…i know this the famous get away-day, but i just wanted to say to Everyone, remember to love yourself first and Others will find it easy to Love you for you Have a Wonderful Thanksgiving…eat and be merry—always tell your Family that you love them, even if you think they know

GaMan looks up to the skies and tells his Mom that he still Loves her and that he Misses her every day…but is Thankful for all of the Wisdom and Knowledge that she gave him I love you Mom

Happy Thanksgiving to all, May God bless you and your families

By Dan

November 20, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

@ Beautiful

I have to admit to buying less than stellar gifts for ladies that “might not have meant as much to me” at the time.

But, TTTG, I would buy a smaller version of something I saw in the bedroom, just enough to know I “pay attention”, not too much bread, and still enough to get that late night “everybody’s asleep upstairs” phone call.

It’s just how the game go, but as has been said here a # of times, not everybody play it the same way.

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

November 20, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

My last work day for the week..Yah!!! But because I will be working up a sweat before I go..have to make this quick. I am a creative gift giver-I like giving things that will be memorable, that will not go to waste and gifts the person actually likes. So if you take the time to know your mate and their habits and likes it is easy to come up with some nice gift ideas. I agree with Wisey’s list and would add my top three favorite gifts I have given.
1. A overnight hotel stay complete with dinner before-mini fridge stocked with his favorite things to snack on-a warm bath drawn so he could relax and (the rest you can draw your own conclusions)

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

M’Karyl i had been dating him for a year. it wasn’t like i had just met the jerk. it was safe to give a present to someone i cared for i thought. there was no lesson learned. i just gave cologne to a selfish person who didn’t care. i will do it again in a heartbeat, trust that!

hi Truth! hope u have a great turkey day.

By 2CPTG©

November 20, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

“looks up to the skies and tells his Mom that he still Loves her and that he Misses her every day…but is Thankful for all of the Wisdom and Knowledge that she gave him I love you Mom”……

I know what you talkin bout on that one, bruh!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

WORD GA

By Jazzyone

November 20, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

DEMI please forward your email address I have something to share

By QC

November 20, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers

I hope you all have a great day!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO EVERYONE

By M.

November 20, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this

@Wise and Blog

Have any of you ever heard of John Fitzgerald Page? He is rated the worst person/dater in the world. He is right here in Atlanta and was on the early show this morning. Google him!!!

I think the key to gift giving is to not go too much over the top. If you really like the person, that is great. I think a nice, modest gift should be given in moderation. You have to leave something to be desired.

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

Rell i’ve been tryin’ to send you a message on myspace. have you fixed your page yet? smooches

By M.

November 20, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

@Wise and Blog

Have any of you ever heard of John Fitzgerald Page? He is rated the worst person/dater in the world. He is right here in Atlanta and was on the early show this morning. Google him!!!

I think the key to gift giving is to not go too much over the top. If you really like the person, that is great. I think a nice, modest gift should be given in moderation. You have to leave something to be desired.

By Staceye

November 20, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

Since I love to dress and style…I like to buy clothing for a guy I am with. I pay attention to what his personal taste is and try to stick to it. Now I have occassionally dazted the fashion misfits and I had to help him out on the low. I would say..”I got this for you because I saw it and I thought it would look great on you”. I also love a man that smells good…so I have bought cologne. I have also bought spa packages for a guy (manicure, pedicure, facial and massage)…I love a well groomed man!

I must say I have gotten some really great gifts..my ex’s mom had just met me and she knitted a halter top for me…which I still hold very dear. My parents have always hooked me up with trips, jewelry, clothes,etc. But I love gifts from the heart when it comes to guys. Show me that you put some thought and effect into picking a gift.

By M.

November 20, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this

@Wise and Blog

Have any of you ever heard of John Fitzgerald Page? He is rated the worst person/dater in the world. He is right here in Atlanta and was on the early show this morning. Google him!!!

I think the key to gift giving is to not go too much over the top. If you really like the person, that is great. I think a nice, modest gift should be given in moderation. You have to leave something to be desired.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone.

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

Good Morning People!

Gentle forehead kiss to GaMan for the LOVE. Thanks guy! Enjoy your Thanksgiving.

Miss Kym - Oooohhhhh! As i re-read your list to top. :-).

Words - Your “Love Language” comment - Are you listing to your iPod list? :-) Take that thing off and give us your list…you never now!

Cemeeli love creative/memorable gifts…i co-sign w/Kym.

2C The only person who could get away with “I bought you what I wanted you to have”, was my mama….. My momma was good for this one.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this

Hey SexyLeggs:

Thanks for your closing comments yesterday. Truly appreciate the understanding. Ironically, the comments I received to my statements about my personal choices only reflect and substiated what I said about the attitudes I encountered in the ATL, nothing new. But hey…now on to another day.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

@Sexyleggs

I just wanted to say that in conversations that I have with some of my female homegirls (Before and After’s) I often mention your openess and liberated attitude toward sex.

Matter of fact one of my exact quotes was “Sex is not an obligation, or in fact a gift to be dispensed to the worthy, it is a biological need that is tied, in some minds, to social imperative. I want a woman who can free herself from that dynamic in a productive way. Not to be with me simply sexually, but understand that the act is just that, a process not a conclusion.”

So I wanted to thank you for being honest (as much as I hope you are being) becuase truthfully, I’ve only met a handful of SLF’s.

Glad to know more!

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

Darrell, sorry i meant; Are you listening to your iPod list?

By Rell

November 20, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

@beautiful..hit me at dwilliams2022@hotmail.com

By Jazzyone

November 20, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

^5 M * think the key to gift giving is to not go too much over the top. If you really like the person, that is great. I think a nice, modest gift should be given in moderation. You have to leave something to be desired*

By DreamsMaterialize

November 20, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

I believe in gifts based on need or sentiment. If a person doesn’t wear a watch but always asks the time, then buy them a watch since they clearly need it. If your girl has some family pictures that she keeps around, then have some enlarged and framed, or have them restored; it’ll add to the sentimental value.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

@Cemeeli Hey, you! ;-) Nah, don’t have my iPod on, but hey, I’m always in that frame of mind. LOL!

@Dan Thanks for the tip, man; ‘preciate it. ;-)

@GAman Thanks for the well-wishes, man, and same to you and yours (and the rest of ya’ll, too.) ;-)

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Staceye:

It sounds like you give thoughtful gifts that reflect what a person is about to you or how you may want to express how you feel about him, so way cool.

I have never been very good at buying cologne or scents for men because I have one set of sensory preferences and the guys I know always seem to have another. It is easier if I know a particular brand the he prefers, but otherwise I try to avoid it.

By The Truth

November 20, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

Happy Thanksgiving blogsville.

Beautiful that was the best $45 you could have ever spent. Thats a small price to pay to find out someone isn’t right for you. Alot of people spend thousands over time and find out the same thing. Consider yourself lucky.

Also, me and sis are cooking din din for the day. When I work with her I’m the understudy because she can “THROW DOWN”. I’ll do my part and learn. LOL

Question: Is AAA mentally retarded or just a fuggin idiot?

I wish they would bring back flogging.

On topic: As a wise woman told me once, give a woman what you want her to have and don’t expect anything in return.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

@M’Karyl “It is easier if I know a particular brand the he prefers, but otherwise I try to avoid it.”

Just so you know, my favorite cologne is Hei by Alfred Sung. ;-)

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

M John Fitzgeral Page was on the cover of creative loafing last month and I also wrote about him on my site Straight From the “A”

He is a real character!!

Still catching up on the reading…but Good Morning Everyone!

By Alvin

November 20, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

Jazzyone demigod33@yahoo.com

By M.

November 20, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

@Jazzyone

What does the ^5 mean?

By Foots

November 20, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Truth I wish they would bring back flogging.

OMG!!! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Darell:

And where may I send this to you ;) and do not think that this is a joke. I bet you deserve a random act of kindness and affection1!

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Darrell the best men’s cologne is lagerfeld. yummy

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

M I’ll answer for Jazzyone….^5 = “High Five”

By Jazzyone

November 20, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

High 5 it means im with you on that…cosign….

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

…it’s slow…so is everyone at Hartsfield and on 75?…wow!

Guess i’ll unplug my earbuds and just turn up my speakers.

Hey QC.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

@M’Karyl You got a brutha blushin’ over here. ;-)

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Foots:

Would that be to add it to a S&M repertoire or would it just be more fun than a can of whuparse? lol

By me 2(formally purple lace)

November 20, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

When you give from the heart it’s just that, from the heart without any expectations regardless the outcome. There shouldn’t be a time table on what and how much you give if it’s sincere. Certianly everybody is not a giver. If I dated a non giver then I would have to keep an opened mind knowing that I won’t get any gifts but that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t give any.

@The Truth Is AAA mentally retarded or just a fuggin idiot? Now you know you’re wrong for asking that? BE NICE !Or you’ll be sent to time out!

Hey Everybody

By Dan

November 20, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

@ Jazzy

I never got that. Did you send it?

By Tazzee

November 20, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Morning Folks!

The most thoughtful gift I received was a keyboard. Not an expensive one - but I remember sharing with this person my desire to have a music room when I get my dream house. Well the first birthday I had after buying my ‘starter’ house, he bought me a keyboard.

My ‘you shouldn’t have!’ gift: There was this guy I met at a gas station when I was back in college. We must have talked 5 minutes in person. I gave him my number and he started stalking me on the phone - so I told him off. He then sent me a dozen roses with a big ‘I’m Sorry’ balloon to my job that included a poem proclaiming his love for me. It took me a few months to get rid of that dude for good.

For the most part I’m like the guys were the other day, I enjoy giving gifts but if you are expecting one - you probably won’t get one, outside of birthdays and the regular holiday givings.

This guy I met recently surprised me by giving me flowers on our first date.

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Do you think that some gifts can be relationship/romance killers?

I give good gifts often…lol! but one of the best (and thoughtful) gifts I’ve given was to a guy I used to date. We went out often and I noticed that everytime he paid, he would pull out this ratty looking leather wallet…

I’m somewhat of a Gucci fanatic, so I figured..hell, if I’m carrying Gucci so should he. So I bought him a Gucci wallet. Needless to say…after that purchase, I never saw him pull out ANY wallet again. He was CHEAP as hell after that…LOL!

ATLien Straight from the “A”

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

@Beautiful Hey, I don’t doubt you, but Hei hasn’t failed me yet. :-)

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

@ M’Karyl/Darrell

Yall need to take that on over to IM…LOL!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

Darrell:

XOXOOXOXXO!!! There is something so wonderful about sharing a good feeling!!! And since I am not in the ATL with my friend or in IL with my family and I really do not know anyone here, may as shoot for something to give and share ;).

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

M

^5 = High Five.

Darrell does that (Hei) come in a blue btl? That scent has a fennel clean smell…Yea, going up to the men’s counter to check a frag. vs checking out the womens fragrances is a hobby of mine…don’t laugh.

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

As a wise woman told me once, give a woman what you want her to have and don’t expect anything in return.

true that…

M’Karyl sup…took a while and it’s a lot easier to see your point of view now…you posted your life story from point 10, 9, 8…five hours later…point 1, by that time we were getting p!ss’n’frustrated with you LOL

Cemeeli’n’QC HEY!!

By Tazzee

November 20, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

I’m sitting here listening to Alicia Keys new CD - I’m liking this one.

The Truth My sister (not bio) is cooking and she can throw down too. I do the cakes and I’m her apprentice on everything else. I can’t wait to break bread Thursday!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

As a biased KC fan

Kenneth Cole: Black for those sporty nights and: Signature for the everyday.

Both give off that “cartoon-like” wafting smell. I’ve gotten a couple “excuse me, but what did you say your name was?” from women I never spoke to.

By kinderbabe

November 20, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

good morning all.:) actually, i can’t think of many holiday gifts i’ve received from guys i’ve dated. that’s around the time when they start actin’ funny. i guess since my b-day is right after christmas, they don’t want to get caught having to buy two gifts…lol. cheap azzes…lol.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

ATlien:

having fun!!!!

Demigod:

what you talkin’ about?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

@Cemeeli Yeah, it’s in a blue bottle shaped somewhat like a ‘tear drop’. It’s kinda difficult to find in the stores, but I think Dillard’s carries it.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

ATlien:

having fun!!!!

Demigod:

what you talkin’ about?

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

ATlien:

just having fun!!!!

Demigod:

what you talkin’ about Willis????

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

Hey Tazzee i wanna get my lil guy a keyboard it is so funny i was reading you post as i was just telling a co-worker about where can i find pretty good deal on one.

Hi Demi before COB check your mail. I’ll send later.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

@Dan I recenlty tried some ‘Black’ and that didn’t happen to me. What am I doing wrong, man? LOL!

By M.

November 20, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

@Jazzyone

What does the ^5 mean?

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this

@ Dan

You smell good….from wayyy ova herr! LOL!

ATLien Straight from the “A”

By M.

November 20, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

@ATLien, Cemeeli

Thanks for clearing that up.

ATLien,

He was a real character…He kept saying if you want to date someone of my calibur….

By M.

November 20, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

@ATLien, Cemeeli

Thanks for clearing that up.

ATLien,

He was a real character…He kept saying if you want to date someone of my calibur….

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

Yup…Dillard’s i thought Parisian’s but must have been. The Bvlgari is found in those spots, not so much easy to find that one (my fav) either.

Lol…kinderbabe are you a New Year’s Eve baby or before that? lol…oh my.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

@ Kinderbabe

Think about the topic. I could give you a nice Christmas present (functional or pretty or prescient) and then turn around and give you the exact opposite type of gift for your birthday (one more relationship oriented).

Then I’d be sending mixed messages. That’s why Kleenex in a pretty bag never goes wrong. ;)

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

M’Karyl your posts from yesterday…I read the blog from the bottom to the top, it’s was easier to follow the point you were trying to make.

Cemeeli will do.

By melo

November 20, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

I neither like to give nor to receive gifts. A lot of times i find it so pretensious,occassioned by the calendar! I like to show love and affection all the time and then when the calendar says its Thankgiving or Xmas, we break bread(chicken on Thankgving, can’t stand turkey!) together with those i truly luv.

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

@ M he’s a royal “A”zzzzz! He went on the creative loafing website and attempted to defend himself on their blog….He was one of their 11 least influential people in Atlanta…

Hillarious stuff!

ATLien Straight from the “A”

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

M’K Demi is referring to yesterday… you told us your lifestory but backwards. i can appreciate some of your earlier comments from yesterday because i understand more where you been, which wasnt shared until the end of the day. we aint madatcha tho

on topic

the best gift is when someone steps outside of who they are and voluntarily into who they nknow me to be. doesnt matter what it is or what it costs…. out of all thats in that genre did they pick what reflects the best, what truly mirrors my spirit, who i am in my soul.

if it doesnt change me to fit more what they would like me to be (dress, grooming, scent) than i come away feeling appricaiative that this person cares for who i truly am… and that is the best gift of all!

i strive for the same whenever i am moved to give a gift.

By Jazzyone

November 20, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

Ulta 3 carries every fragrance you need even the hard to find ones and you get a heluva door gift…

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

Darrell u’ve got mail!

respond to bbq_sunflwr@yahoo.com please sir.

By Jazzyone

November 20, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

IT WILL NOT APPEAR TO BE WHAT IT APPEARS TO BE

By kinderbabe

November 20, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

cemeeli yes, i am a new year’s eve baby. it has its perks but it definitely has its drawbacks…lol. people always try to short you on a christmas/b-day gift. nothing like the b-day/christmas combo. i’ve gotten used to it over the years. the good thing is, there are always parties going on every year on my b-day that i don’t have to plan.:)

By melo

November 20, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Demi dont start..lets have some calmness as we approach the holdys.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

Morning, Das. ;-) Got your last e-mail, but me and Excel are engaged in mortal combat right about now, so I’ll have to respond to you later. LOL!

By The Truth

November 20, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

Me2 The Truth goes to a self imposed time out. LOL

Tazz last year I did the ham and the mac and cheese. It looked so good I didn’t want to cut it. I’d like to do more of that mac and cheese but my sisters version has way to many ingredients. I have to work under the the teacher on that one.

Sexy what are you cooking? I know your throwing down. Make my mouth water thru the internet. LOL

Colognes: Vera Wang for Men and anything by Zino Davidoff. Also Dolce and Gabbana for a “fruitier” lmao scent.

Blogsville, everyone hold hands and lets say a prayer for one of our own whose suffered a loss. Unfortunately Tazz lost a football team this weekend when they were exposed as a practice squad for NFL Europe ( and we all know they closed the doors). May those Facons rest in peace. On the bright side Tazz, you can get in line with my RAIDERS and hope for a top draft choice. LOL

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this

^5 (now that we all know what that means) melo i find it so pretensious,occassioned by the calendar

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

Hey, I made a comment about me doing me in my life and then it seemed that I had to continually post responses to an inane comment I made for the h3ll of it-didn’t really matter cuz that decision was made and done years ago, and it saved me a lot of aggravation and let live my life on my terms-in peace with me!

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

Okay - off topic

Had old friend use to kick it with a while ago. Stopped talking. Recently was contacted by this person. Went out..dinner & movie. Nothing happened, however did sleep over there due to distance from his place to mine. No kissing, no horizontal tango, none of that. That was about a week and a half ago. Get a missed call from him while i was in the gym. Returned the call, chick answers. Hear rustling with the phone. (I thought maybe a call came in while i was dialing out since it caught me off guard) I call back, she asks if i want to speak to TD. Sure. Rutling again with phone. Female says, well I guess he doesn’t have anything to say now. If we all just friends, what’s the problem. Slim still confused. I ask whats going on. She says, something to the fact of she’s his fiance, been engaged since August. WTF??? I started laughing my azz off. (Yes I did apologize since I didn’t want to offend her)

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

@M - oh yes, AJC ran article after Gawker.com first reamed him on their site. I saw the creative loafing article last weekend. Wow, just unbelievable!

I didn’t know he was going to appear on GMA, though, goodness.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

Uh, Slim That’s how the game go. Prolly was his fiance, he most likely wanted to “make sure” he was doing the right thing.

If y’all slept in the same bed and he didn’t try you, it was goodbye (and him convincing himself that his feeling had changed). If he tried you, even simpler, he wanted that last shot of freedom.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 20, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

Alright since Massah gave a girl a break…..whew

One of the best gifts I ever gave someone was a message in a bottle and I personalized the message and has it delivered to the person. It was sentimental and very personal and I put a lot into the message.

One of the best gifts I ever received was a charm bracelet. I had been going on and on about wanting a charm bracelet and lo and behold he was listening and got it for me. Totally unexpected, moreso since I had been looking at getting it myself. The charms consisted of three different colored sapphires!!

So now who has extended Mo an invite to eat for Turkey Day?? Crickets…….and more crickets I know somebody is cooking on Thursday! LOL

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

The best gift is when someone steps outside of who they are and voluntarily into whom they know me to be. Doesn’t matter what it is or what it costs…out of all that’s in that genre did they pick what reflects the best, what truly mirrors my spirit, who I am in my soul.

DasV Amen to that…*we need some Rum cake (not For Real), to loosen these ladies up.

I have a bad habit of buying the girl I am with her favorite pairs of shoes, perfumes, scented candles, and easy accessable clothing around the holidays…Now singing: God is not through with me yet!! LOL

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

My boss insists that I work today! I have a lot to read. But wanted to respond to MKaryl and Dan

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By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

I neither like to give nor to receive gifts. A lot of times i find it so pretensious,occassioned by the calendar!

Makes good sense. Holidays are culturally relative constructs anyway. Different cultures do diffent things to recognize and celebrate holidays. Do what feels good to you!

One Thanksgiving I made a mean Moroccan Lamb and Fruit Stew, Sweet Potato Biscuits and Spicy Asian Spinach-not the traditional dinner, but still good eats. And on one Xmas I spent it in an Ethipian Rest. in VA-HI with a Jewish sister from NY. And those are holiday memories that will last me a liftetime.

By M.

November 20, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

@ Wise and ATLlien

I just could not believe how conceited he was. He was like Ive been in 14 movies, live in Buckhead, etc. The funny thing was, the interviewer asked him if he was nervous for his life…He says, well I live in a secure building!!!!LOLOL

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

I neither like to give nor to receive gifts. A lot of times i find it so pretensious,occassioned by the calendar!

Makes good sense. Holidays are culturally relative constructs anyway. Different cultures do different things to recognize and celebrate holidays. Do what feels good to you!

One Thanksgiving I made a mean Moroccan Lamb and Fruit Stew, Sweet Potato Biscuits and Spicy Asian Spinach-not the traditional dinner, but still good eats. And on one Xmas I spent it in an Ethipian Rest. in VA-HI with a Jewish sister from NY. And those are holiday memories that will last me a liftetime.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

Dan, thank you. I am a liberated woman who sees nothing wrong in talking about sex, exploring different things, and acknowledging that I’m feeling crappy because I’m horny (LOL). Although I am outspoken I have developed a little tact over the years. However, I say and do what most women think about but are afraid to say. Not Me!

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

@WD…Interesting isn’t it! I’m assuming GMA is just the first of many. From his “resume” he’s an extra that just wants to get his face time on the air…

ATLien is Straight from the “A”

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Feel you sister sexyleggs, but right now I am being paid a very nice hourly wage to sit, wait and do almost nothing until some transitions and job descripts are done. So I blog…

By Staceye

November 20, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

EVERYBODY GO TO SEXYLEGGS’ CRIB FOR TURKEY DAY! She is always making us hungry on the blog! LOL

As far as a cologne that keeps me sniffing up on a guys neck is Gautier! Oh my gosh…I can’t get enough.

Try [www.fragrance.net] for the best prices! I know websites for the low on most things! I am such the bargin shopper. I have taught my mom…so proud of her now! Other sites to find coupons and discounts are:

www.couponcabin.com

www.wow-coupons.com

www.keycode.com this is for online

Good luck shopping guys!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

@ Diva and M

What’s wrong? I checked out the story and no matter how you slant it, he was well within his rights to say what he said (they are after all his “feelings” and isn’t he allowed to “express)Darrell back me up!.

Now, the chick was out of pocket for putting him on blast like that. But other than that, I don’t see the problem. Could somebody explain it to me like a 5th grader?

By Puppet Master

November 20, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

SliM

YOU BEEN HAD, HOODWINKED, BAMBOZZLED, RUN AMULK.!!!! LMAO

By Staceye

November 20, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs is the undercover Dominatrix! LOL Mistress Leggs will whip you into shape!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

@ Sexxy

I’m saying, teach a class. Show ‘em from the roota to the toota how you got there.

H3ll show me, send it to Danbynight@netzero.net/com.

I’m trying to start a movement! Me and you baby!

By skull n bones Decoder

November 20, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

D and D sent.

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

Dan Well I now know it was his fiance. I wasn’t feeling dude, just hung out one day after not talking for a looooonnng time. He didn’t try me that night but you know how yall get in the morning. Um…nope, not gonna happen. Few days later he talking all this jazz about seeing where this could go. Said he’d like to give it at least a 6 month period. I was like yeah, yadda yadda, whatever, blah blah blah. I can’t be with someone who has no Umph! in the bedroom. Buddy struck out back in the day so he got cut. I’m not mad about it at all. I just couldn’t stop laughing. lmao!

By melo

November 20, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

SlimO,he needs a back up, maybe. And since u have kicked it in the past, there is usually not much trouble in tagging u along.Wheere u crappy and horny thru out the night tho?What a miss! The other woman may not necessarily be the fiancee..just his other territorial bytch! If u want him too, check out her credentials. And u still feeling that other moody dude? Thats some nice,juicy drama there ‘bout to jumpoff for u 4some. But i liked drama be4 i was tagged. I admire it more when its a female doing it right!! I know u can handle it.

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 12:18 PM | Link to this

Puppet Master Nah, not hoodwinked or run amuk….His fiance was. Ha ha ha. I wasn’t checking for dude. Slim is single as it gets, just chilling like a villain, cooler than a polar bears toenails…yall get the point.

By skull n bones Decoder

November 20, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

Foots please forward email address as I have something to share.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

Dan:

Read about ole’ boy a few weeks ago. So he made a list as a “cad”, which at best may be subjectively valued and vindictively assigned. It seems that he was just doing himself, and in the process the people who got caught up in his thang didn’t dig the way he played himself or them. I ain’t saying that he was right, but he wasn’t totally wrong either. Could these people have not walked away of their own free will and moved on. Sometimes others do unto us what we allow to be done. Who’s fault is that???? Now he has is 15 minutes of fame-oh well.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

Demigod i’uno. there would have to ALOT of rum in that dere cake. i am really beginning to believe that you fellas got the short-end of the stick…. you are EXPECTED to buy a drink, cause we have chatted for thirty minutes, you have to take what i give you cause i like to accessorize and being my man you have to too, or better yet imma make something for you, but because its been commercialized and sold in stores, you’re gonna like it, and when you’re ready to buy me something just think ….what have i been talkin about for the last 3wks non-stop

i did not know that gift-giving had to have an agenda…. but i guess we need to discuss this sometime next year… but not in january cause everyone is still gonna be mad about xmas, and not in february cause the valentines propaganda wouldve already begun. pencil this topic in for March, and pray for clear heads.

By melo

November 20, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

I can’t be with someone who has no Umph! in the bedroom. Buddy struck out back in the day so he got cut. I’m not mad about it at all. U wrong for giving him mixed messages tho. Why be in his bed all-nite, after dinner and movie? Most guy folks would consider u deciding to sleeping over, the icing on the cake….would not even blink if u tucked into bed in mother nature pjs.Am i wrong MLBs?

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Now that I’ve read everything here, you guys are cracking me up. First up is my menu:

Appetizer = pecan cheese ball w/crackers. Truth, I’ll gladly give you this receipe to impress yur lady friends. Menu = Collards, cabbage, beef roast, turkey, black-eyed peas, yams, mac&cheese (scrumptious..LOL), white rice. Dessert = walnut apple pie w/van. ice cream, or peach cobbler (made from scratch).

Dan, I’ve observed a lot in life and the things that people get hung up on has always amazed me. True, everyone doesn’t need to know what goes on behind closed doors, but don’t act like a prude outside those doors turning your nose down to what people are doing behind them. I have a few friends like that. It is what it is and we all have various ways of taking care of that which is natural. Shoot, what’s wrong with talking about masturbation, oral sex, 3somes, girl on girl, whatever the given topic is. As we have all said here Life is Too Short!

Staceye you got my title right, once again…ROFLMAO

Dan, again, you are FUNNY!

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

@Dan

It wasn’t*”what he said” I think it was the context of which he said it.

The woman on match.com said that she merely winked at him and got his initial long winded response. When she read it, she felt that they were not a good match and proceeded to send a “pre-written response” that said basically “no thanks - our personalities are not a match”.

After receiving the “no thank you”, Mr. Fitzgerald went bizerk and wrote another long winded letter….read the entire gawker article from beginning to end HERE.

What was invested?? The two had never had a conversation, never exchanged emails, and he chooses to write a 2 page dossier about his lifestyle…WTF??

He’s a jerk…point blank…PERIOD.

ATLien is Straight from the “A”

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

melo I could careless if she is the actual fiance or not. I’m happy and sad for her all at the same time.

Wheere u crappy and horny thru out the night tho? Um, nope not at all. And even if i was, why send a lil boy to do a mans job…I can get it done myself. No need to dig up an dead body trying to make it dance again. The umpires in baseball don’t let a hitter that’s already struck out 3 times bat again just for the sake of seeing them strike out again. Knowutimean?

As far as moody dude, not sure with him yet….saw him last Sunday. I’ll probably know more once the holidays have past. Cuz we all know you don’t incorporate new potential puddy in with the fam on the holidays. lol

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

I was “wow’ing” at the entire situation, her putting him on blast, his pretentiousness, the media coverage, his responses, the entire thing, was, well, a dating misadventure.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

MKaryl, something went wrong with my post. I attempted to say that I’m glad you were able to read my last post to you. I also like the way DemiGod read your postings backwards. Only then did we really feel and understand you.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

M’K cosign that comment on the confirmed ‘cad’.

By The Truth

November 20, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Slim don’t get your feathers ruffled, thats ol boys problem. Just kepp it moving.

Off topic: Does anyone in Atlanta get more puddytat than those Paulks? They’ve been involved in sex scandals for 20 years. Dam this, I’m going into the clergy. LOL

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

Ladies and gents,please be extra careful who you agree to date at work. Good thing is that you know two things about this person. 1. They have a job 2. You find them attractive. While the sound of an office fling seems ok. I say stay the h3ll away. I’m one of the lucky ones, who met her sweetie at the office and we were so discrete about it for at least a year. Finaly a co-worker put the pieces to the puzzle together and corners both he and I in a locked conference room. We’ve been married for three years now. But I’ve seen the best and the worst flings end with some serious drama. Baby mama’s showing up. Women dukin it out and chickens being carted off to the slammer. Be wise about the person you trust with you heart for they may be a humpin dog in disguise or even superhead immulators. Peace!

By Puppet Master

November 20, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

THE WHOLE LOT OF YOU BENCHES ARE DEPESRATE, BROKEN, BROKE, DYSFUNCTIONAL, HO-ISH, TALKING SMACK, ANGRY, IRRATIONAL, PETTY, FAKE WANNA-B’S, COULDN’T FIND A MAN WITH A MAGINFYING GLASS, GARDEN TOOLS.

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

melo How did i know you would get on the whole, sleep in he bed = I’m going to give you some….That is so childish. I had a blanket and everything ready for my night on the couch; however, he insisted that he could compose himself in a restrained manner especially since I told him I wasn’t giving anyone my goodies.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this

@ M and ATL

That’s just it. That’s how he handle business, does anybody but me see that the chick is playing the victim by putting my man on front street.

Granted, he could’ve handled it better from the git. But what’s done is done. She couldv’e left it there.

That’s my issue, he getting the grief/shame and she was wrong!

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this

Puppet Master You sound like a bitter women who’s fiance cheated on her a left her and the mistress pregnant. Need some therapy? LOL

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this

Truth My feathers aren’t ruffled at all. Just giving yall something to laugh at.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs:

Give thanks, but had I known I was going to have to respond as such, then I would have started at top and gone to bottom and been done in one expeditious statement-I was like duh!!!! Anyhoo…And I can groove on your comments about honest sexuality. I remember the sisters who used to apply their prudish views to my uninhibited sexual ambitions-“oh no, I would never do that”…yeah, right. But,lo and behold by their late 20’s and early 30’s them skanks was reading chapters from my book written years early and with no regrets…BTW check out BODY_ORGASM @ BlackPlanet.com-chirl- make you wanna shoop!!

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven wow! ok. thanks for letting us know. lol.

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

LOL @ The Puppet Master

take it easy, honey. Don’t get your BP up over virtual strangers. It’s not that serious.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

LOLROTF@the truth goin into the clergy. mayne, you didnt know?? spit-game seasoned with some scriptures and talk about your feelings every-now-n-then, more than what would be acceptable amongst men and dont argue, ‘reason’… using lots of thinking questions. thats what works if all you after is the puddy. and from what i hear, the pay aint bad either.

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

Dan, you have a point, I am shocked that someone hasn’t outed her publicly, and I am not sure if she sent it to media directly, but I think she forwarded it around to friends or something. At any rate, it becomes a cautionary tale for online dating, I think - pn many different levels,

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Dan:

Here be my logic- a arse crap and it stank. Period. It do what it do. We know this. If you stick your nose in it, then expect to deal with the smell or move your nose away. Be like that with peeps, they do who and what they are, don’t like-move on!!! And only taek appropriate recourse if it won’t leave you be.

By melo

November 20, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

SlimO, u are a pro, take my hat off at ur craft ya. But i think its a testament to the guy’s lameness.Dinner,movie and sleeping in my bed, in that order would have been rewarded handsomely if it were me. Just marvelling at my charm and sleuthness!(melo assumes a different romantic and charming identity when puddy is in the equation)

By Honey Dew

November 20, 2007 12:58 PM | Link to this

Brownsugarvixen you are sooo right about the office romance there’s a guy whom i’m interested and we’ve been “kickin it” for about 1 month and nobody knows and i doubt very seriously if they ever find out. We’re just taking it slow

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

MKaryl I love it BODY_ORGASM @ BlackPlanet.com-chirl- make you wanna shoop!! That’s what I’m talking about!

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Puppet Master the problem isn’t finding a man. any female can find a man. it’s finding one we are attracted to, and one we respect and love. someone we want to be with until our dying day. ya feel me?

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

@ Dan

You’re probably right…but you have to admit that the situation is VERY Entertaining! He’s going to profit from it in the end and she is just an anonymous person he never met and probably never will….except when Maury or somebody does a show about it…LOL

@Puppetmaster Ummm….who got your panties in a bunch this afternoon…?!?!?

ATLien is Straight from the “A”

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva. There’s not a chance on earth that someone like that would get me steamed up. He must not have had his cup of coffee yet.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

Chirl:

Check the FYT (Fine Young Thang) and his site out-and we will talk. Cuz if young brother delivers half of what he talks about…Have mercy!!!

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this

Ds its on now. I’m gonna need some help collecting this loot and hiding the hotel receipts. You wanna work with me? I’ll cut you in on 10% of the 1st mil and 5% of each mil thereafter. If your in slit your finger and put it on the monitor. LOL Tax breaks, unhappy housewives wanting to “talk” at me, no government interferences, and a horde of hotties calling me Father. This is hot, this is real hot. LOL

Puppettmaster it seems like you’ve been wanting to get that off your chest for awhile. You have anything else you’d like to pass to the group? LMAO

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

Honey Dew. If all is well between you and your companion by all means I wish you the best of luck! Take it slow and feel him out. I say just don’t do somethin that you will live to regret, or that will leave you not feeling comfortable in your own skin. You only get one life to live. So live a little, love a little, and laugh a lot!

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

melo So you’re telling me that every dinner-n-movie should lead to bumpin-n-grinding if chica comes to the crib afterwards?

Only reason I even went to his place after was because he wanted to shom me his new crib not to break all the rooms in. If me and you ever grab a bite, remind me to bring a tent so i can sleep out on the front lawn….alone hehehehehe

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this

ATLien: It’s not that his panties is in an a bunch. It’s just that he not getting what’s in the pants. Ok

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

when you’re ready to buy me something just think ….what have i been talkin about for the last 3wks non-stop

…ummmmmmmmm..er…okay..a gym membership??

DasV I am all for pleasing my mate, but dont hand me a shopping list and say…I want 10 out of 10 items on this list, because YOU are..MY man.

I’ll make like Frank and hit her a$$ with a…MY MAN and a smile.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

@SLIMONE. I know that you didn’t think this brother invited you back to his crib, to have milk & cookies or share ghost stories. No! He wanted some nookie, and he made sure he told you with out ever askin for it. To funny about pitchin a tent. LOL

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

TT you gonna have to cut me in on more than that, bruh (ahem, Father)… at least 20%. you forget what all i do: i handle hotel conceirge and keep mess out the tabloids… i am the information key; everyone knows just what they told, not what they see. im the behind the scenes, ear-to-the-ground, smooth-operating liasion…. LOLROTF

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven, Honey Dew ok guys. i’m tryin’ to understand y a person gotta be all secretive about their man at work. y? if it were me, i would let all these ho’s know. this is my man, what!

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

demiGod yous crazee! LOL

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

Beautiful: I understand it to be that someone women have to be like a watch dogs when they snag a good fresh meat, and that’s cool if it is your thang. But then the minute ya dirty laundry is sitting on the break room table, and you’re the hot gossip at everyone’s cubicle, then you’ll be the one with ya a$$ 4 ayou face. It’s cool to reveal your relationship if that’s what u wanna do. I just say it ain’t nobody’s biz unless I tell them. Who’s to say that my telling them, means that they wanna know?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Das 20%, dayuum. I’ll go 15% on the first mil and 7 on the second. Thats as high as I can go. You know I have Bentley’s and jets to pay for too. However, I will provide generous “offering bonuses” and tithing gifts if we exceed our goals. And none of my dirt better hit the news. And believe me I’m going to have alot dirt. LMAO If you agree to this send me your families names and addresses. You may be able to run but they can’t. I need insurance. (Thats an old gangster technique a guy in prison told me about) LOL

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Beautiful:

I have contracted for 10 plus years around different co’s in the ATL. I learned that some co’s actual discourage or prohibit relationships between co-workers (dating, etc). Not to say that peeps follow is mandate. But I have seen some issues get pretty ugly and create much mayhem and distraction, etc. You know they say that “discretion is the better part of valor”. And also it can be said that “familiarity breeds contempt”. Sometimes, it is just best to keep those type of issues outside of the work place-job protection, less office gossip, etc. It just bodes well for the couple in the relationship to not have nosy co-workers involved in personal business.

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Kinderbabe were you off for the week? Or is today your last day? My son went to school this morning on cloud 9 talking about watching the Transformers movie about 6 times tonight…Lol….

DasV/Truth gotta tell you about the two co-workers that go at it about that Paulk story: One is a diehard Cath and the other is Lutherean. Wow…those two really go to blows with the scandal story.

…remind me to only have Shane’s for dinner….zzzzzz

By Dan

November 20, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

Um..Beautiful

Working with someone you are sleeping with is a difficult enough equation. You never wanna be the topic of convo at the gig unless it’s positive.

Now, assume the guy you dealing with is strung out, and he walking round the office with the big chest speaking on his conquest (you) and claiming his territory….

kinda get how that would feel…

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 1:46 PM | Link to this

So Demi your Frank now? Lol…

Who’s going to see “This Christmas” tomorrow or sometime over the weekend?

By Puppet Master

November 20, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

So Called Beautiful

YOU WOULD NOT KNOW A MAN OF QUALITY IF YOU BUMDED INTO HIM.

TO ALL YOU BIBLE THUMBERS…JUST KNOW THAT THE THE CHURCH IN THE NOW IS PART OF THE PAULK LEGACY. SWILLEY IS HIS NEPHEW…TOO OR POSSIBLY HIS SON, TOO.

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

BrownSug Nope, I didn’t think he invited me over for milk-n-cookies. He invited me over to see his crib. LOL! I saw, I slept, I took my azz home…He invited me, he slept, It woke up, He woke up, he tried, He didn’t conquer.

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Dan i’m not talkin’ about a booty relationship. i was referring to an exclusive one. in an exclusive relationship, i would trust that all the drama wouldn’t pop off like that. jealousy, now that’s somethin’ different. i wouldn’t say jealousy and drama is the same.

By Tazzee

November 20, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

The Truth My contribution to the dinner this year will be red velvet and pound cakes. Last year I had my hands in everything.

Oh and you do know that the Raiders’ record is worse than the Falcons, right? I’m just checking.

By melo

November 20, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

I know that you didn’t think this brother invited you back to his crib, to have milk & cookies or share ghost stories, I know thats right. I thoght i was the only one with a pervase mind.

Truth,them church bishops have way perfected the art of getting slick sexual benefits.Its usually on the innocent but ‘blind’,weak and faithful.If its the most high church, thay go after alter boys and fellow deacons, the other regular church bishops go for the weak women battered and traumatised by domestic violence etc. Its a shame.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this

See Beautiful, you’ll be the one that none of the “ho’s” is mad at because ya’ll will all be sharing stories about how he played everyone. Sounds like a “Waiting to Exhale” sequel in the making (Revenge of the office ho’s). HAHA

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

Working with someone you are sleeping with is a difficult enough equation. You never wanna be the topic of convo at the gig unless it’s positive.

True dat, bro. Haters abound. People love to talk trash aobut other peeps 411-real or imagined. Been there, seen that. Best to play with a poker face and keep your game hand close to your chest.

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

Puppet Master sweetie, describe to me the perfect man. what do you look for in one? i’m assuming you’re a female

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

TT alright. im in. and heres the fam names and addresses… but they aint no church-going crew…so you might wanna think it long and hard before makin that move. plus, imma have all i need along the way… collecting a little insurance myself… feel meh?? business bruh business. LOLROTFMUTPR

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

SLIMONE, I know that you’re an intelligent one, but never go to a man’s crib after dinner and a movie then sleep over. Go home, then share with everyone like nothing ever happened. I believe you really I do!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven:

What was that movie where those chicks plotted revenge on that dude? John something gotta die, or whatever? Except this would be “Bro Fo gotta go, Made Too Many Chix Look Like Hos”-lol. That would give Monica something to talk about…ha!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

Oh M’K

I was raised on the Billy Clint model of at work affairs, “deny, deny, deny.” But in the seminar he added “leave no proof”.

That’s pre gettin-it conversation, “if anyone finds out about this, or if I hear any rumors, to your face I will deny you. And I expect you to do the same.”

It adds an us-against-the-world mentality and the sense of mystery and secrecy that y’all women love.

And it free’s me up to have that conversation more than once…should I so choose.

By melo

November 20, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Are we still tyalking about gifts or the topic has expired. Well, my wife hasd promised me a palm treo for xmas. I was jealous and tired of my brothers cum-budding bussiness people flaunting blackberries etc in my face. I have not settled on getting her anything..well maybe some winter shoes. Is a palm treo good for overseas travel and calling?

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven nope, not me. i’m too old for all that. i just see jealousy everywhere, haters. now if he was my booty call, there would be drama. you may see me with my shirt inside out, hair alittle messy, skirt not on right, a run in da stockings … … … jk. lol.

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

DasV WTH is MUTPR? in your LOLROTFMUTPR!…that is way to many darn acronyms and i’m usually good at decoding them.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Yes hatters do exist in the work place. While some may be there to do the job that they were actually hired for. Slackers, & brown nosin co-workers live for anything that the cat drags into their cubicle, offices for those that have them.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

SlimOne: What you say is valid. Some people just do not believe that it can be that way, but it can and is done like that by some. People are different. It all depends on how each individual values self and others.

I spent 4 weeks traveling with man friend and we had to share the same hotel room. We had our own beds and we were not into any intimacy. He covered the expenses and I helped with the business development. I was not his cup of tea nor was he mine. Period.

Not everything has to be about sex with men and women. And some people can share a space (or even a bed)with the member of the opposite gender and sex is not an issue. Believe that!

By Rell

November 20, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

I SEE THE SIMPIN IS STILL IN FULL EFFECT…if i feed you, i am flucking you period…you coming back to the terrordome to sleep..hell no….it is going to be dizzle to jaw..and me splitting that sweet yam….dudes are on some HIGH LEVEL SIMPING WITH ALL THIS DAYUM CUPCAKIN….smdh

By melo

November 20, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

I actually emailed her to ask if the promise is still on, she says she thinking of upgrading me to iphone. Is that an unpgrade really? Who is the geek on those things on the blog? I think i be looking fly come new year, with that gadget on my hip,talking and flirting with the gals at the networking event.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

Dan:

Sho’ ya’ right-LOL!

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

That’s a good one M’Karyl & Dan. This why women are thought to be better liers than men. Because we stick to our story no matter how ridiculous it sounds. Then after time people just buy into it. You have my vote in favor of this believable tall tale!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

I’ma have to go with Rell on this one, somewhat.

Now I don’t take what isn’t offered, but if we out to eat dinner and coming back to spizzot, please believe you not helping me pick out curtains. There a bottle on ice (in the fridge), Luther on repeat in the CD player, and soft red lighting everywhere.

If you walk into that and say “Naw I can’t do this….” no matter how long the drive…

“Call me when you get home, so I know you made it okay.”

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

BrownSug In this case, it really wasn’t that serious. I could see if it was someone I had just met but i get ya point tho hun. WLB 4 Life!

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

messin up the pretty rug

aint that corny…LOL… bored at work. im missing the blog-fam that are good for hi-jackin a topic

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

I must be really cranky today, because despite me being somewhat of a hostess to this blog forum, I really just want to tell Puppet master to just hush, that would be wrong though, right?

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

Rell at least you’re an honest dog oppossed to the old desparate ones who try to fly under the radar.

Beautiful I never said that it was impossible to share a bed with a man w/out intimacy. I just said that it doesn’t sound believable when repeated others whom go home with men and quote on quote do nothing!

By SlimOne

November 20, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl You and I know that, but some folks on this blog can’t seem to grasp the concept. I use to have a spooning buddy. We were cool great friends and use to love spooning each other. Now watch the MLB say how dude must’ve been a simp or of the gay persuasion. To this day he’ll send me a message or say he’s in need of a good spooning. LOL!

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

PuppetMaster, I missed something here. What are you saying about Church In The Now and Paulk? What’s going on w/Paulk and who is he? I can’t read all of these right now. Please fill me in. Thank you.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

SlimOne-It’s cool i get your point too. But ya gotta admit it sure has sparked for a good conversation amongst the best & worst of us.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven:

True dat. Been there and been snapped by it. I was working a contract for a state agency in d’town ATL. One of the sisters that I worked with was having some marital issues and was trying to find a way to kill some time after work. So I let her go with me and hang out in some of my haunts along the strip of P’Tree and Decatur. Well, as per usual, my dudes (familiar and stranger) encountered my presence, enjoyed the conversations and bought the drinks. She had never seen such a response before, I guess. Short of it the next day at work she made it a point to tell all of our co-workers about me and all of my “men”-like I was ho-downing away. The gossip had me sleeping my way around the bars for a simple cocktail and conversation (yeah, right!). And teh women who won’t getting no attention really had a hatin’ field day with that topic. Best to keep boundaires in place-protect your best interest and live in peace. Ain’t no body’s business what I do…

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

DasV…me too. I remember when. I just walked the hall here in the building and there’s a person in every other 3 offices…DANG…but i got’em for Christmas and New Year…a always let em have Thanksgiving.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

rell = rape charges pending.

dan = aggressive, + mean-muggin behind yo back

melo depends on what you need. what do you do to justify… if its just to flex, the dollar store carries something more your speed. but if you need something to organize your busy life, a pda is what you want. if you need to email on the go, an blackberry will work. if you need to blog, check email and listen to tunes, then an iphone is what you want shop for.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this

Aaaawwww WD

Be easy, you’re human too. BTW before I head home, I’m listening to your favorite station, and grooving.

By 2CPTG©

November 20, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

Slim….a dude gon’ call you tom’bout he needs a good spooning? bwoi, stop!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Melo:

get online an look up the product info. plenty available out there, and then maybe you could take your questions to a tech center that sells the product-get demos first hand, more in-depth info, etc. I do it all the time and I have learned a lot more about products that way. Plus yu can see what it si that you are interested in and compare upclose.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

M’K mommi you have had quite the dealins down here in the dirty south… i am sorry for that. ppl can be so two-faced here in the south. i find northerners much more upfront even if a bit crass.

lemme ask you… do you have trust issues as a result of the back-stabbing you’ve had to endeavor… or how do you bridge the natural tendency to become cynical??

By Puppet Master

November 20, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

Diva

CAUSE I RESPECT YOU AND YOURS, I WILL SIT MY AZZ IN THE CORNER AND STFU….TODAY!!!

I WISH YOU WOULD LET ME UNLEASH ON DES FOOLS, BUT 4 T’DAY, I’LL STFU. JUST KNOW THERE IS MO 2 COME!!!

By Dan

November 20, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Naw, now DasV

The “D” don’t do/say nothing behind a man’s back that he wouldn’t say to a man’s face. The same holds true for women.

So, uh, I think you got ya boy crossed up.

I’m out front with mine.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Melo if your gonna use it for business get the palm. They just came out with the centro thats pretty inexpensive and loaded for the buck. If you want the whole 9 get the 750p. If you want to travel pay more and get an unlocked (can be used anywhere on any system) phone. Palm has software programs for WHATEVER your into which is nice. The Iphone has had a few problems already, one is the phone dies after a certain amount of hours. The second is the programs to get online and whatnot are expensive. Take a look at that.

Das done deal. Lets skip your “folks” info and just go with the pinky shake, a promise to keep all secrets in house, and I’ll hold your high school ring. And I don’t want to see flash bulbs going off in hotel rooms while I’m offering divine guidance. LOL Insurance can also be used for blackmail. Nuff said.

The Church of the Divine Injection is now open for business. Please hand all tax forms to my assistant DAsV.

Dress code is as follows: Men: Who gives a fug.

Women: Garter belts with thigh highs and a thong, matching bra and a short dress with no more than 1 long zipper.

All ladies on your knees for “prayer”.

Tazz we’re going for another number 1 draft pick. Building for the future. LOL Watch us next year, we’re New England west baby. On cooking: I’m wasting my talents here. I got skills but there not being developed at the right pace. I need to be cooking daily to get this thing to the next level. For a single guy most nights cereal with preferably fresh milk will do. I’m about to move Sexy in this camp. 6 months with her and I’d be lights out. LMAO

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

SlimOne:

People are different. I have met so many types of beings. When you engage in discourse, always consider the source- a horse is a horse is a horse, and sometimes it just the arse.

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Puppet Master! Alright, then thanks, I think?

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

DasV You’ve got mail. (Had to respond from my BlackBerry.) Sorry for the delay, but I’ve been in meetings all day and have another one comin’ up at 3. ;-)

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon Everyone!!

On topic (if we’re still talking about gifts): Someone stated it earlier and I wish my man would truly get this concept…give a gift that that is meaningful to the person. I already know that I’ll get jewelry this Christmas. How? Because ever since we’ve met he’s bought me jewelry. The problem is….I don’t wear jewelry. He’ll buy me earrings, necklaces, and bracelets. Then comment on how I need to stop buying you this stuff since you don’t wear it! Exactly!

I’m appreciative of him and the fact that he’s in my life…but dammit I don’t want any more jewelry!

By Rell

November 20, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

@browsugar..i see you later..i am going to keep it real

@dasv..rape charge…there you go..that is nothing to joke about…but i am not cupcakin with a broad..you going to know what it is from day one..no mask here sweety..that is the problem and i keep dayum repeating myself..cats are not strong enough to hear the word no or no thank…me i could care less..my time is valuable to me…i am not going to chase a women for months under a guise to find out she just regular ole saltines…i m not going to sike myself out like that…specially when i have alot women friend that do the dine and dash then go over ex house to serve him the leftovers from your meal and give him the yams….feel me, and it is not just young chicks running this game..seeing that most of my female friends are in my age range 35-40…

By eventplanner

November 20, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

DivaWise

have you ever wanted to put together a meet and greet?

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

hmmmm…what did i miss while at lunch….?

Puppet Master still cuttin the fool…

Oh..okay.

By AAA

November 20, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

**@TRUTH, i am sure you are a ugly, brok azz, mouthfka who couldnt get a date if he tried. Suck my ovaries, bytch!! Thats why I have no respect for Black Men!

By melo

November 20, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

DasV (yea, its me, thanks..i need it more for communication,phone(incl international) and email and text.Dont care much for the juke bx stuff.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl See gossipers be the reason everytime a client call in they get placed on hold and forgot about. If everybody minded their own damn biz, wonder what type of work place that would be like. Oh well guess that $hit inevitable. As for what happened to you that is just wrong.

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

@ Lady with Dark Dimples

Most women would die for that…!

Just take the gifts and wear the earrings every now and then…LOL!

ATLien is Straight from the “A”

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

No you wouldn’t Wise.

Nevermind Sexyleggs read some other post.

Sorry i had BBQ for lunch…Lol.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth, as usual, you are a hot mess!

By melo

November 20, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl, i hear u and thanks! But u know the promo pple always have a slant to up their product.An endorsement from a current owner is always valuable to me coz if there are glitch issues, they can always forewarn u, which the market rep wont. But thanks tho.

By aaa

November 20, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

@WiseDiva, tell your Bloggers to stay on the topic, since you like to but into peoples conversation!!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

By DasV (yea, its me:

My life has been an interested journey of two sides of the coin. For every thing that I have encountered on the heads side, I have also lived the tails side. A life of paradox. I am a Socio-Anthroplogist, been that all of my life and when I returned to school in Agnes Scott’s Return to College program, that was the major I created.

I hope to soon put some of this down to text. But it is cool, what did not kill me, cripple me or crush me-made me better, stronger, more compassionate and more clearly focused. And it doesn’t hurt that I continue to party on chile-cocktail in hand-lol

Motion Universally Sanctioned In Creation

Divining And Navigating Celestial Entities

People Always Reaching Out To Yewah

Turn on the music, let’s dance and party on!! I am GPS’d-God Put Me Somewhere-I and live to p** the Devil off. He may throw it at me, but I can catch it better than he can throw! OXOXOOXO

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

LadyDark Have you actually said to him that you don’t want anymore jewelry? I know that seems like a simple enough question, but I don’t want to assume anything because it may very well be that you just don’t want to hurt the guy’s feelings.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

LDwD, I love jewelry (if it’s real) and will gladly take yours off your hand.

Truth, I’ll move in w/you for those 6 months and teach you how to cook, but I’m not paying rent. Is this acceptable to you?

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

November 20, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

I just keep thinking last year this time I was on a Carnival cruise to Grand Turks…sigh. Thats alright next year…I want Puerto Rico.

By SeanJohnson3000

November 20, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

@ Melo…i have the palm treo 750 and its a real pocket pc.. you can handle your professional biz and well as your personal biz…thought about getting the Iphone to have a all in one phone but if its lost stolen or damaged you lose too much at one time. plus the plans for the iphones need to come down some. One thing i dont like about the treo and i heard the iphone is the same way…if you get a text…the senders number and a partial view of the text appears on the screen. plus it you cant delete the last 10 numbers u dialed.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

@AAA

Be easy.

It’s one thing to speak to someone woman to man about something y’all may have going but don’t lump in ALL Black Men. That statement reeks of statistical ignorance. You haven’t met every Black Man. Even enough to make an informed concensus outside the sphere of people that you run in.

Dig it, I admit to generalizing on her sometimes, but sweeping indictments are uncessary for adults.

So make your points and arguements specific. K?

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

@ event planner, sure, that sounds like it would be fun. I think a few have already met in person, but a MIA blog party or meet up could be a blast. Would people “out” themselves and tell what their “screen names” are? Could be tricky, no?

@Dan, that is what I need, music!

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

head hung in silence, outfitted in flowing white chiffon number with slits up the side to the navel, back out with a wide belt and hidden razors following 4 paces behind honorary bishop T-truth collecting tax forms of new parishoners and silently directing ones to kneel in circle, legs and feet in, facing out

darrell no worries. will respond in a bit.

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

aaa, don’t tell me what to do! You are NOT the boss of me! LOL!

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

Rell if you made it worth while for your prey, I mean date. Then maybe she wouldn’t dine with you then dash elsewhere to give away her yams. Sounds like women are using you to kill time till they get to the next best thing date.I’m sure that trip to the ladies room was to let the next man know to be ready when she gets there. You must he the date from hell! Maybe if you treated a lady like a the lady she is. You clearly wouldn’t be gettin dissed.

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November 20, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

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By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven :

Um huh!!! Girl, one of the wildest experiences with them co-worker haters was how could I afford to be the best dressed cupcake in the camp-especially if I wasn’t making the long money. I carried mice elf too well to be so “pour”-lol. I do not wear the same thing the same way twice in one season to the same place. I wwar the same things, I just wear them differently each time-bless my creative eye. But yeah girl, I stopped a lot of work from getting done-lol!

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Dan my bad. you are a straight shooter. i am sure in some way you would let a chick know that comin over under false pretense is not becoming of a lady….. LOL

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Ok, whats happened to the kids? First the 11 yo rape last week. Now an 11 yo stabs his brother with a knife. Spare the rod and send your kids to prison. LOL Shyts fugged up out there. LOL

By melo

November 20, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

eventplanner, hey,have you ever wanted to put together a meet and greet we meet and greet on the blog, this is a virtual community..a community still so what meet and greet u talking about. Truth, thanks, that was insightful too. I think i like the 750 u mentioned, will check the digits to see if her budget is good.Im sure she has an employee discount or something.

By Dan

November 20, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

@WD

If I’m in town, not doubt I’m in. But no pictures, as I charge for use of my likeness.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Darrell I haven’t told him that I don’t want jewelry because I don’t want to seem unappreciative or ungrateful. I have given him suggestions as to what I would like, but he believes that you should give a person what YOU want them to have. I don’t know how to break him from that train of thought.

PS..put that on the list of things to talk about in counseling

ATLien…see, your response, I’m sure is exactly how he feels…which makes me just keep my mouth shut.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

LadyDark you may wind up hurting more than his feelings if he keeps on spending money in his pockets on useless gifts. Make some suggestions, or leave some notes laying around with hints of things that you like. If he’s smart he’ll buy things that you’ll actually enjoy.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

Dang AAA, what’s wrong with you? You’ve posted nice only once. You are barking up the wrong tree w/Truth. He’ll chew you up and spit you out in tiny little pieces. I doubt that brother would be deemed ugly by any woman on this blog. His personality shines in his posts.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

melO;

That’s cool and I can feel you on that one, it be true. That is one reason why I attempt to familiarize myself with product info, and I talk to peeps in the know too. I just try to get as mxuh accessible info as possible to make a well-informed decision Peace!

Lady Dark with Dimples:

I ask the same question as Darrell. That is a hard one to sometimes get across. But would seem to me that by now he has some clue as to your accessory wearing habit or lack of it???? No??

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

SeanJ Sounds like the reason you don’t like the iphone and treo is that it may mess up your creep move? Any validity to that?

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

@SeanJohnson3000

Sorry to interject on your iphone discussion….but I have an iPhone and my plan is exactly the same as the one I had on my Treo. You won’t lose anything if you lose your iphone cause all of your info is on your computer (via itunes/outlook…etc.)

By Rell

November 20, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

lmao..at this chick brownsugarvixen…you must not know me very well with that week attempt….LMAO..why dont you come find out what the fuss is about…or you can keep throwing rock at the throne…LMAO….just come find out then report back your findings

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

For Real: LOL I’m truly cracked to pieces. Nicely done, and the audience applauds you.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark with Dimples:

Well, chile I guess that is one of those it’s the thought that counts type of situations-and fine jewelry ain’t a bad thought-besides at least it has pawn shop value-lol! Smile sugar, it ain’t sooooo bad. Could be worse-he could be stuck on giving you appliances if you didn’t want or need that. Heads up chica!

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli, what did I miss w/your 2:57 post?

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

@ Lady with Dark Dimples

I was really just joking. It seems a bit selfish for him not to take into account your wishes (especially since you have verbalized them). It would appear that he is giving you gifts for selfish reasons…i.e. having his friends see you in expensive jewelry he bought…

Whatever the case, if YOU are not happy then there should be a discussion…

ATLien is Straight from the “A”

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

AAA because your a mud duck and no dude will fug with your ashy azz I’ll overlook your statements. BTW, those aren’t ovaries anymore. They dried up a long time ago ya sterile troll. Also, its not black men you don’t respect. Its yourself. fug ya later.

Sexy thats a deal. When we get thru I’ll be The Truth for real. I’m like a diamond covered with dirt, alot of dirt. One day I’m gonna shine. LOL

Das I know this is day one but your on point. I couldn’t have set it up better myself. You’ll be blessed with half of todays take. BTW, what are you wearing underneath? Just wondering.

By melo

November 20, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

SeanJohnson3000, see thats what i’m talking about. Thanks, u and Truth have endorsed the same stuff and that means a lot to me. I was trending that way myself. Nice to hear u chime in.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl: Hatters that spend more time worrying about the glits and glams of you, are really just envious. Instead of hating they really wanna say. Oh I like your hair, and that outfit is nice, and I know you think you all that, but can I trade places and can we be friends. Hatters ya gotta love them, cuz they just motivate you to keep doin you. Ain’t that the truth

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl I think he WANTS me to wear more jewelry. That’s got to be it because he knows I’d buy it if I wanted to wear it.

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

melo try the 8525…a step above the treo in a few areas…

By Dan

November 20, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

To the Blog Fam (even the drunk cousins):

Peace to you all on this holiday. May you be blessed with friends and family. May you know what it is to truly be Thankful. Remember the soliders and those that have gone on.

Peace

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

I haven’t told him that I don’t want jewelry because I don’t want to seem unappreciative or ungrateful.

Don’t you think by not wearing the items he purchased for you are showing him just that? Just curious.

ForReal love the commercial.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

LadyDark Not sure if you were serious or not with that “counseling” footnote, but I suggest both of you read the book The Five Love Languages: How to Communicate Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Dr. Gary Chapman. If counseling is indeed in order, the two of you reading that book together might just save you some time and anguish. With an open mind, he’ll learn to give gifts to you based on YOUR desires, not his.

(You can link to the book from the ‘Resources’ page on my Web site.) shameless plug ;-)

By Tazzee

November 20, 2007 3:29 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark - perhaps you could wear some of that jewelry every now and then. Maybe he’s telling you he would like to see you in it. I’m not sure if you do, but he might like that.

I’m listening to Kenny Anderson on the Stews right now - I saw him last night and racked my brain trying to figure out who he was…

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs i was respondind to your question if you missed something?

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Rell: What throne? You are the one who are experiencing problems with the ladies not giving you any “yams”. Take advice from a real lady. Like they say you only get what you put out. If talk is cheap, I just call it like I see it. You on some grimey $hit, and the snatch is givin you a run for your money. If you’re and old dog, then it’s obvious that you need to learn some new tricks!

By melo

November 20, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark with Dimples he is ur man, tell him straight so he know excatly.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

ATL since you’ve had both tell me which one you like best and why. Nothing like getting it from the horses (not calling you a horse of course) mouth.

My neighbor just called me to let me know she baked me a cake for Tgiving. I know we fellas give the women folks a hard time now and then but you got to love em. You got to love em. Except for that troll AAA. LMAO

SJ3000 and Nipples, good to see you all in here. I hope all is well in your camps. Nipples tell ol boy you don’t like jewelry. He’ll feel better about telling you something he doesn’t like about you. LOL J/k hun.

Sexy I forgot to tell you that all cooking is done in the nude in my home. House rules, sorry.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this

Darrell I am going to read that book. Another friend recommended that book as well. He said it really helped him in his relationship.

No, I was not kidding about the counseling!

By Mich

November 20, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Darrell What time are you coming over for dinner Thursday???

By SeanJohnson3000

November 20, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

@ DarkDimples….nah thats not it..but i tend to lay my phone around and your phone is like your computer has a lot of valuable info in it…doesnt take much info on you to be a victim of idenity theft…speaking of creeping…u getting married on me?

@ATL…our plans are/maybe different…i have had the same plan for years…and its not offered anymore…so what u prolly paying for 100-120…i am getting for 80-90…what i meant by losing a lot is…with the iphone if you lose it you are out of your phone plus your ipod if you lose it..and i am not the type to have insurance on a cell phone.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Sexy Your 3:28 to LadyDark raises a good question, but you can’t presume that her not wearing the jewelry is even noticed by him, because it depends on his motive for giving it to her. The more sincere his motives for buying the jewelry, the more important it will be to him that she wear them. Ideally, he would let her know that. That is, if the lines of communication are healthy. If they aren’t, then neither person would say anything to the other.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

I think he WANTS me to wear more jewelry. That’s got to be it because he knows I’d buy it if I wanted to wear it.

Yeah, there truly is some subjectively rooted motivation behind his continued behavior. Let me ask you this, is this one of those relationship compromises that you can live with and accept? I do not know, which is why I ask.

brownsugarvixven:

And chirl, I give the chillun’ sumthin’ to hate on. And they don’t want to be friend, they just don’t want to see you show them out everyday-lol. They lips curl and they eyes bulge, chile it jes’ awful for them-lol. I tell them they need to quit worrying about what I douche wit, and make they own mix-lol

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Ok, I got it Cemeeli.

Dan, I truly hope you and everyone here have a Happy Thanksgiving. We have so much to be thankful. On a lighter note, I’m so thankful for my divorce attorney!

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

November 20, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this

Okay here is a goodie…

Wife Sues Husband for Share of Lotto Winnings Kept Secret

After discovering her husband hid his lottery winnings from her, a Florida woman demanded he fork over her share of the lottery jackpot.

Donna Campbell became suspicious of her husband, Arnim Ramdass, when he started to keep the television turned off and disconnected the phone line. Her suspicions rose when she found a postcard about a new home purchase.

But Campbell was unaware that her husband was hiding a $10.2 million secret from her until she Googled her husband’s name and lottery number. She found a Florida lottery press release that named 17 airline mechanics who won the jackpot, her husband was one of them.

”Here’s a guy who for years has spent marital money on the lottery and at casinos, and he’s always lost,” said Bruce Baldwin, Campbell’s attorney. “And now he finally wins, and he’s trying to keep it from his wife. That’s pretty low.”

According to Campbell, when she confronted her husband, he said he bought the ticket for his daughter from another marriage. Ramdass and his co-workers pooled money for twice-weekly Lotto drawings every Wednesday and Friday. On June 20, they collected $220 and hit the jackpot.

The group of mechanics opted for the lump-sum payment of $10.2 million, meaning each of the 17 winners would receive about $600,000 before taxes.

Since the winning, Ramdass took a leave of absence from work, according to his co-workers. He hasn’t shown up at the couple’s home and servers can’t find him to hand him the lawsuit papers.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

melo sounds like you should go with the blackberry.

M’K your third eye is powerful, sistah. do you!

Rell come’on mayne. its not that we cant take the truth… its that with all the spitting you do when you have something to say makes us doggone sick to the stomach. you got something to say… that aint new! we ALL got something to say…. if you want to be heard, say it with some respect for the other persons position. otherwise the consequence for spewing your ignorance are ill… the same level at which you choose to operate.

By yoll a mess

November 20, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

SexxyLeggs, why don’t you just pull his dyck out and jump on it, jeesh! Everyday, you’re on here cyber sucking away.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

Truth, any burns on my body you will have the doctor’s bill. It would be best to leave something to the imagination. I insist on wearing stockings and a sexy apron along with my CFMPs…LOL. Is this acceptable to you.

Darrell, believe you me, he’s noticed she’s not wearing them.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

fatherT i know that father-god would not be pleased with anything other than a crocheted lace thong, trimmed with iridescent beading along the crotch-line and no top

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

@ Truth

Can’t lie…I miss my Treo…BUT my iPhone is GREAT. I must admit that it originally was more of novelty than functionality.

The touch keyboard can be a pain but the longer you use it the more it adjust to your normal mistakes (i.e. Palm’s Grafitti).

You cannot sent pictures via text mail only through your email…

The camera is GREAT but there is no video function…

I love the fact that it syncs your contacts with Outlook so you already have all of your emails on your phone….

I love the fact that the screen is large enough to comfortably surf and manipulate the web…

I love the fact that I can peruse youtube at my leisure…

I think choosing one or the other, I would choose the iPhone for it’s all around functionality…but really it’s a close tie…

By For Real

November 20, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Lw/2D’s Look just take the gift Annie May. You don’t know how difficult it is for men to shop for women. If he is anything like me he hates malls and shopping. So, it’s just easier for him to hand you some jewelry instead of wasting his time and energy at the mall when he can be watching the game. Now, don’t go home and tell him that but that is the truth tho.

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Truth See, I duck out from the blog for a few weeks and we have to start from scratch all over again. DIMPLES, DIMPLES, DIMPLES!!

Tazz I know, and I will try to remember to actually put on some earrings other than my $19.99 14k walmart hoops

Darrell lines of communication health?? not where they need to be…that’s why we’re learning so much in premarital counseling…about how to communicate. Maybe I’ll use this holiday as a practice test???? Now, if the engagement is called off…damn the blog!! LOL

SeanJ u getting married on me? yes, sweetie…you wouldn’t make a move!

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

Wow, now if that isn’t the slickest move I’ve ever heard of then what it is? I’m sure Mrs. Campbell will be happy if she ever collects any money.

By Tazzee

November 20, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

Kym that’s some jacked up mess, LOL. Oh well, she picked him…

By Rell

November 20, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

@BROWNSUG…lol, so i see you sidestep the offline meet up…lol…ladie i dont have any problems with poo cee….lol, again you dont know me..so if you need to get your blog points up keep throwing rocks like i said..but when you ready for the real give me a holla..other than that…you just bumping your dyck suckers on this matter…and when did honesty become something grimy…smh

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs there’s a hater in da house. lol.

By Darrell (of blackthen.com)

November 20, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Sexy Okay, but unless he let’s her know that he’s noticed, LadyDark is under no obligation to try and “figure out” what he’s thinking and feeling about the fact that she’s not wearing them. If her not wearing them is an issue for him, then the onus is on him to bring that up to her and perhaps then a two-way dialogue can ensue.

For him to continue spending money on jewelry she’s not wearing and not say anything about it is wimpish, if not downright stupid.

By ATLien (of StraightFromtheA.com)

November 20, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

@ SJohnson

I already had an iPod so the iPod feature on my phone is simply an added feature for me.

I never purchase insurance either and my plan has always been $85. Free nights/weekends starting at 7:00pm, my data plan is unltd and with my rollover mins I never go over…

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

yoll a mess, if that’s your opinion then it’s your opinion. Believe this, if I could pull it out I WOULD! I don’t know you so what you say definitely means nada to me. LOL @cybersucking…

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 20, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

Is it 5pm yet?!* They are working me today!! WHEW!!

SJ3000 What’s up man? Long time no blog! Good to see ya!

Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth You sure looking mighty sexy with your new name! LOL You are right about the Paulks though, they are a mess!! When will they stop!

Hey WLB Lady Dark, Staceye, Cemeeli, ARed, QC, SexyLeggs and errbody else! I see we are all in and accounted for today!

Kisses to the MLB

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

yoll a mess, also, honey you don’t know a game when you see one being played. We all go at it w/each other from time to time. It’s all in fun, but you wouldn’t know anything about that.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

DasV: I agree with u. I’m intitled to my opinion.

Rell, I don’t know anything about you other than what you’ve informed me of. Which allowed me to sum you up in a few words . “Tired A$$ DOG”. Maybe you should learn to keep a poker face in person, and in cyber world.

By melo

November 20, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Demigod33, thnx.Are u sure that thing wont break my bank coz u sound expensive lol.

Dareell ur point to LadyDark about not wearing somebody’s gift, thats another reason i am not so into gift giving..people bugging me about the gifts they gave me. One time my wife’s half sister& her boyfriend gave me a wrist watch(it was a collabo,thats how they presented it) I am not so into watches, so i took it and put it in a drawer in my bathroom. And by the way, our relationship was never good,so frosty, thats why i even thought there was an alterior motive. But anyway, because i dont wear that kind of jewelery on me, i did not wear it. And she bugged me about not wearing her watch an would say’Pat, u never wear that watch we gave u, dont u like it’, like each time she would see me. I am classier than that, and if it were me, i would never ask that to the person i gave something from the heart!! Its theirs and they do what evr they want to do with it(except giving it away to somebody)and i would not care. Is there no etiquette in gift giving stuff? JSTFU.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

Yes, there is Beautiful. As Jill Scott so eloquently states “HATE ON HATE ON.”

By For Real

November 20, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

For Real now paying $20 for parking, $40 enterance fee, and $200 tithe to hear the good word from Rev/pastor/bishop/decon Truth. Aman!!!! Truth church is the ish!!! Ooops!! I forgot I was in chuch. Hey look you get a whole glass of wine and a slice of garlic toast every 1st Sunday

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

DasV (yea, its me):

Give thanks lady! I am who God made me to be of His creation and my volition (i.e I’m just a funky pigment of mu imgination-lol).

LadyDark:

I think that Darrell is right on with is suggestion about the read. Obviously yu are not very happy with this pattern of behavior and it should be addressed. Approaching it with objective communication is the best way to make a positive change.

And will somebody hit Vickery’s at 14th and Crescent in Midtown and have a cocktail in my name. Tell M’ sent ya’, now some may laugh, others may cry, some make leave on the fly. Pour a bit out in honor of my name. I mikss some of my old haunts. I rolled the bar scene in the ATL for more than 20 years. Good Old Days, Clarence Foster’s, Mike & Angelo’s, Steamhouse, V’s, James Joyce, Brickstore, Twain’s, Rigteous Room, Trackside, just to name a few-lol!

By yoll a mess

November 20, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

No, I just know cyber w h ores when I see them! Plus, aren’t you like 50 years old?

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl Let me ask you this, is this one of those relationship compromises that you can live with and accept? What specifically? Him purchasing gifts that I don’t really desire?

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

Hey MO waving I am so ready to leave this office have eaten to many snacks (emotional eating) if i eat one more pretzel!

Anyway so i see massa got you going…huh?

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

Lets See I think that you went grimey right about here. Ring a bell. In the mean time all these therapy sessions for free, has come to an abrupt end. If you wanna book a session look me up. Paying clients only. Ok Rell

that is nothing to joke about…but i am not cupcakin with a broad..you going to know what it is from day one..no mask here sweety..that is the problem and i keep dayum repeating myself..cats are not strong enough to hear the word no or no thank…me i could care less..my time is valuable to me…i am not going to chase a women for months under a guise to find out she just regular ole saltines…i m not going to sike myself out like that…specially when i have alot women friend that do the dine and dash then go over ex house to serve him the leftovers from your meal and give him the yams….feel me, and it is not just young chicks running this game..seeing that most of my female friends are in my age range 35-40…

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

Who that man who won the lottery be dirty and lowdown. But he better watch out, sometimne karma come with breakfast-lol!

By Rell

November 20, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

sugar vixen……tired a* dog…lol, again you need to come find out…nothing tired about me hon….but i see you getting your blog points up with your attack….all i can do is sit back and LMAO…this is pure comedy for me….and get this i dont have any witty comments left for the big gurl crew, i just want to enjoy your hate…feels good lady

By Kym-Proud Steeler Nation Member since 1994

November 20, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Okay what the hell kind of turkey and dressing are some of these people on.

Someone needs to open a damn blog rehab clinc. Every other day there is someone here typing like they are on that stuff…aaa with the split personality. other people with extra personalities…good grief. If you dont get help at Blog rehab please get help somewhere.

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

yoll a mess, not quite there yet. Hopefully you’ll make it to such a milestone.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark with Dimples:

Yes, and specifically about the jewelry. Does he often give you other gifts that do not suit your preferences or is it just this one item?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

Atlien thanks for the summary. Never got to talk to someone that had experience with both. In the end all these phones are worlds ahead of past generations. They’re nice to have. BTW, I dropped my treo the second week i had it. It went out, shut down, would not come on. I was glad I had insurance. Truth is tho you could order it (insurance) and make a claim the next day. My treo syncs with outlook also. Thanks for the info.

Nipple, I mean Dimples I’m so sorry woman. I’m a creature of habit. Dimples, Dimples, Dimples.

Kym I think Florida is a joint property state so she gets half. Ol boy is wrong.

DasV why do I have the urge to take a nap? LMAO Ok, w’re keeping this purely professional my beautiful and sexy azzed child. Bishop bows his head and says a prayer for the terrible thoughts that went threw his head.

Sexy this is vey acceptable, zzzzzzzzzz snore zzzzzzzzz. Dam I need a nap.

Y’all know I’m not as young as I used to be.

Hey Mo. Ain’t that something. Your uncle is your daddy. Thats some cold shyt. LMAO

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

M’Karly, now that’s some wedding vows that came with a slap in the face, oppossed to that sweet kiss u suppossed to get. I know he gonna get his just desserts. Money make folks do some real shady thangs.

By Rell

November 20, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

@brown..so what is your point..i am stating a POV…what is your point or are you wett for some attention….lol

By Beautiful

November 20, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs keep doin’ u cheeka. have a good nite ya’ll.

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

melo the phone is waaaaaay cheaper than the iphone…it’s price with the black, treo, and jack…a 3G phone is a must for an on the go person as yourself.

rell damn…you’re in a good mood i see…but I agree with the ladies…it’s them slow dudes fault for allowing themshelves to be use…you can’t be defending cats.

a lame will be a lame, until lame wakes up

By Cemeeli

November 20, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

ForReal Boi you made may day i needed that laf. - Hey look you get a whole glass of wine and a slice of garlic toast every 1st Sunday ROTFLOL…whew i almost choked on this last pretzel. Boi stop it!

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

Kym-Proud I don’t know what go slipped in the gravy mix, but it must have been good. Speaking of can’t wait till Turkey Day. Another chance to be with family.

By Mich

November 20, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli it’s me QC my brother calls me Mich…

Hey kinderB

What’s up Sir Truth

Have a great evening all!

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

M’Karyl Girl, I will take all those less desired gifts and put them on the top shelf in the closet and be happily married to him. The biggest gift he gave me was his love! That was priceless!

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixven:

Chile, I would not bind my immortal soul to h3ll for a dollar bill at someone else’s expense. It ain’t right. Jes’ ain’t right. He may fool around and loose it all or die fore he gets it. Would serve him right. Done seen it happen.

By melo

November 20, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

Thanx u all 4 ur opinions on my situation. If we dont bumb in the virtul corridors, again, everyone: HAPPY THANKGIVING! See some of yall at the strip in Clarkston!!

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

Rell-There are no more points to be made. Therapy sessions are limited to one hour. Unfortunately we’re out of time. It a wrap. Make a note of that next to your monitor.

By lady j

November 20, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

Hey Cemeeli and MO!!!! Diva and all Have A Great Holiday!!!!!

Kym blog rehab…That is priceless!!! LOL

Peace

By Demigod33

November 20, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

Can I get on the Deacon board…I know I will be a great addition to this ministries. I am a reform H0e, I am sure I will be great at finding H0es that needs to be reformed as well…

First stop…Magic City..then Blazes

By Lady Dark with Dimples

November 20, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

Oh, and by the way, For Real…you need help! I’m still laughing over your commercial..

By Rell

November 20, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

when did i defend simpin….lol, ya know how i feel about simpin…of course if he sticks his wallet out first, then he deserves what he gets…if he does not value his seed..then he deserves what he gets….etc etc….i pop my collar to the true to the game gold diggers…not the low level hustle most women practice…thats all i am sayin….if you really want to get money we can talk…i have some projects in the works that could you an influx of sexy fems…feel me…

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

Truth, definitely will remember zzzzzz snore zzzzzz. I like that one.

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark with Dimples:

Bravo chica, now you are talking. Sometimes, it really just does not matter the smaller view can get in the way of the bigger picture. It is fine jewelry sugar for his fine lady ;D. There will always be some type of trade off and sometimes it’s all ok at the end of the day. Have a grateful and blessed holiday.

By SeanJohnson3000

November 20, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

@ Moeiesha…sup chic…good to see u too..

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

brownsugarvixen, I like your screen name, it rocks.

Is anyone working in the office tomorrow?

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

QC please don’t call me by my worldly name. There has been a name and occupation change, see above. Here’s your wine and piece of garlic toast. Thank you in advance and please hand DasV your tax forms.

By Thus Said Me

November 20, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

Suga

Let Rell be Rell. Cause you gon end up with midget and they hose coming to his pitiful defense. You know the crew!!!

By Alvin

November 20, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

He may fool around and loose it all or die fore he gets it..

Yes, I was lucky to get a chance to p!ss on his grave and hit his wife…God is good.

I was young and dumb

By M'Karyl

November 20, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this

WD: I am here until one, but you see what I have to do all day, and still get paid-oh well. I will cry tomorrow-lol.

Blog Peeps:

HAve a great holiday. Enjoy those moments of your life as you so move through. Smile as often as you can. Cry when you need to release the tears. Never allow yourself to be conquered by your fears. Have love, laughter and joy as mcuh as yu will allow. Peace!! ATL crew!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

November 20, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Can ya’ll fix a girl a drink!! They got me today, really!!

Hey Lady J Mo waving!!

Truth one of my english teachers in high school slept with the Paulk! I heard about it while away in college on Inside Edition!! They are truly something else!

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

Unfortunately, I’m working tomorrow.

By Preacher/Father/Bishop Truth Formally known as The Truth

November 20, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

By official order you are now Deacon Demi. Your job is to point out the hotties and get them into my quarters for services. Dam, business is booming.

Have a great day all and have a great evening.

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Wise Diva- Thanx

Thug Said Me: Oh he’s free to be. I appreciate the support! Like I said the therapy session is over. If he wants more he needs to make an appointment.

By DasV (yea, its me)

November 20, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

takin QC tax forms, lookin over before beckoning for one of the ushers to seat her… also handin fatherT the print out of Demigod background search and his attached references and printing label entitled ‘first deacon’ to keep a record of business brought in

By Wise Diva

November 20, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this

Have a wonderful evening everyone.

I will be here tomorrow!

By ATLien (of straightfromthea.com)

November 20, 2007 5:00 PM | Link to this

me too….working that is

By brown_sugar_vixven

November 20, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

It’s been real. Hope that everyone has a good turkey day. Brown sugar vixen at play until monday. Holla

By Deacon Demi

November 20, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

night all

By SexyLeggs

November 20, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone! Be safe